YOU ARE DEALING WITH A HOBO SEXUAL by RC Blakes
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He tried to take my voice after the first few conversations by saying i talk too much when in reality he was grooming me to get used to silencing my truth and not calling him out on his bs
Mine ex as well.
MINE TOLD ME ONCE NOT TO TALK TO HIM - AFTER THE 3RD DAY - THAT MORNING - AND - EVERYDAY AFTER FOR TWENTY-ONE (21) DAY'S - I WAS MOURNING EVERY MORNING... - THE ABUSE WAS EXPLOSIVE - AND - ALWAY'S UNPROVOKED - AND - LASTED FOR HOURS... - THEN THEY TOLD ME TO JUST TO SHUT THE FU*K UP - AND - THERE WON'T BE ANY ARGUMENT(S) - I'D TRY TO TALK TO HIM - HE'S LOOK AT ME AS IF TO SAY "I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I'M HEARING YOUR VOICE RIGHT NOW - AND - DIDN'T I JUST TELL YOU TO STFU - ? - YOU'RE JUST TRYING ME RIGHT NOW - AREN'T YOU - ? - " - SO I CALLED THE NAT'L DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE - AND - SAFE HORIZON - AND - GOT THEIR HAPPYA** OUT OF MY HOUSE AFTER TWENTY SIX (26) DAYS OF ABUSE - HE STOPPED AFTER TWENTY-ONE DAYS (21) HE FIGURED HE'D COAST INTO THE THIRTYITH (30) DAY - WHICH THEY HAVE SQUATTERS RIGHTS - HOWEVER - NOT IN THE CASE OF ABUSIVE SITUATIONS - ALL THAT'S NEEDED IS TO PROVE THE ABUSE - THE JUDGE ISSUED AN TEMPORARY ORDER OF PROTECTION IMMEDIATELY - AND -SENT FOUR (4) SHERIFF'S TO ESCORT SAID #HOBO/NARC - OUT OF MY HOUSE... - AGAIN I SHARE TO EMPOWER - UPLIFT - AND - ENCOURAGE - ALL TO MOVE FORWARD TO FREEDOM.. - EVEN IF IT MEANS YOU GUYS HAVE TO LEAVE WITH THE SHIRT ON YOUR BACK - WITH KIDS IN TOW... - REMEMBER MATERIAL THINGS (GUILTY OF SINNING - VIA - #IDOLWORHSIPPING - IN THIS CASE - COLOSSIANS 3:5 - & - 20)CAN BE REPLACED - LIVES CAN'T - AND - MENTAL STABILITY - #PRICELESS - ALLEGEDLY - IJN WE PRAY AMEN AMEN AMEN
YES - THAT'S THE BEGINNING OF THE 1. CONTROLLING 2. DOMINATING 3. SUPERIORITY #ISOLATION PROCESS - BREAK OFF THE RELATIONSHIP IMMEDIATELY - LET SOMEONE ELSE HAVE THEIR #HOBO-NARC A** - ALLEGEDLY
@@sarsbrooks4813 I totally agree. Itmakes sense why would someone would try to do that early on
Felt this girl
My mother was on her death bed and was mentally challenged, but she had mind enough to tell me, about the man I was dating, don't let that man take your house🤣🤣🤣
Oh Deborah, your Mother cared so much for you.
R.I.P. to your beautiful mama 🕊
I THANK GOD FOR YOU MR. R.C BLAKES YOU DESCRIBED DIS DUDE TO A T! MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME ANYTHING ABOUT LIFE OR MEN SO THUSFAR IVE MADE A LOT OF BAD CHOICES, BUT WIT UR WORD & Gods Mercy & Grace I shall overcome! thank u soooo very much sir! I LOVE YOU MR. Blakes
The Lord was speaking through her to you.
@@jenniferhaynes8625 Yes he was
Saw this meme" Nobody falls in love faster than a dude needing a place to stay... hobosexuals walking around with liarbetes" 🤦 I've learnt my lesson the hard way I can tell you , no more.
GIRRRRRRRRRL BYE! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 U have just wonderfully added another word to AAVE!!!! LUV U YOUNG QUEEN!😂😂😂💕💕💕💕 PLEASE CAN I USE IT??????!!!!!! GREAT 👍 ONE GIRL. THIS OG 63 APPRECIATES U BABY GIRL!!! 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Not the liarbetes LMAO 🤣
Same here. Never again!
The worst kind are those who have family members who help them to be this "hobosexual"... they help him lie, help him to "look" the part. Those are the most dangerous narcissists there are. I fell for one... never again will I allow being lonely blind me into collecting red flags.
I wasted 20+ years of my life with an extremely sharp narcissist. 10 years later I am still recovering from the damage. I wish I had this wisdom 30 years ago however I am so grateful for having it now.
Same here. Wasted 24 years and although it's been 18 months since his brutal discard, the pain is still as raw as the day he left.
Lakia's Weight Loss Journey I agree. Had I had this type of teaching back in the day 40 years ago I wouldn’t be in the circumstances that I’m currently in.
You DID have the knowledge. You was just so thirsty for love, sex, and attention.
Me too
Amen 17 years bankrupt and broken heartbroken
The term hobosexual was coined by writer Nakita Nicci, and she describes a hobosexual as a person "who dates you with the sole interest of having a place to stay - not a genuine romantic interest.” These people are serial daters and jump from home to home, just as quickly as they jump from relationship to relationship
She may have made it popular, but this word and concept have been around for a while.
A hobo is a term the older generations used to refer to a homeless person or someone who was broke and just wandering from place to place. You add sexual to it, and you have the modern-day men and even women who just date for a place to stay, so maybe that's what Nikita was thinking.
But it is a definite reality and older "worms" are doing it. You need to beware. Thankful I dodged a train wreck. He age (74):was so deceitful that during our engagement he married another woman. She married him and really only knows whatever lies he told her. Thanking God for keeping me.
They mastered this nowadays. Now, they do marry you, but jump from marriage to marriage !!!!!
I’m happier being single. These males are not worth my time. Periodtttt!
Thank you for this video. I dated a guy who would say insulting things & then play it off saying I'm too serious.
One day he overheard me phoning my Dad on speaker. My father always greets me with "Helloooo my beautiful daughter! I'm blessed to hear your voice today."
This guy heard that and said "no wonder you don't need a man, your dad talk to you like he's your man." He was actually jealous of my father, absolutely crazy.
🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️
Jealous, and tried to make you feel bad about it. This happened to me in my twenties. He said he was jealous of me and my family.
You are so blessed to have such a loving and caring dad 🥰
@@theycallmeshug yes! So sweet and precious ❤❤❤
Yes run , they’ll be jealous of your children too, I will always end my conversations with my children by saying I love you! 😤
Quit setting up house to give these men a place to stay!
Guilty!! Was sooo close to inviting him to move in because I felt sorry for him. Thank you God for showing me the truth!!
@@natthebratster thank you Lord!!!
He better have his own HOUSE
What house👀, keep your buisnesss to yourself
@@tifflove2351
Or apartment at the very least
I HATE flattery! It's SO DECEPTIVE. When I hear them begin to lay it on, it's a huge red flag and a turn off.
FACTS!!!
Yessss! When I was much younger I would be grinning like a Cheshire Cat BUT honey.....when I began to awaken...it sounded silly, fake and became a HUGE turn off. I would say to myself, "girl....you used to believe that?"
Huge huge turn off, so disingenuous.
Flattery is love bombing in order to entagle you into deception and a deeper manipulation
That’s for sure- flattery is a net for your feet and take you captive
My spirit just jumped!
“When you are so caught up in a soul tie, you even move away from the law of Self Preservation.” - RC Blakes
God **QUICKLY** snatched me out and saved me from something like this. I cried like a baby, not knowing the Good Lord was trying to do me a favor. Thank you Jesus. I had to testify because He really loves me.
Same here! God truly saved me from a man like this
Very same here.
You are not alone. Just happen to me. So grateful to God for his protection. He married another woman, while engaged to me. But God. Hallelujah and to God be the Glory. 😊
Same!!!
Damn he's on point!! I say, REmove the emotions when dealing with men and you'll start seeing them 4 who they are.
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Thats what I ALWAYS DO. Think how will your life be 1 year, 5 years , 10 years with this man. The answer is in front of your face.
Thats it, that's all.
Yes this is very true. Date with no emotions..its easier to walk away when a man can't serve you
Right
Also known as a "dusty". Which is why following God's plan and waiting for sex after marriage is so important.
You could marry a dusty...I was
@@taghazoutmoon5031 lol 😆 😂 🤣. I did and learned the hard way... Honestly, i never learned anything from these mistakes. I learned more from watching youtube videos wishing some one had pre warned me of things i never would have known otherwise. My eyes have been opened.
I've been celibate over 3 years
Michelle McDonald It's definetly worth it
@@shennarice5749 yes ma'am! Advantages outweigh the risks 100x's over. I m still rebuilding a life that took me 8 years to build that got crushed because of entertaining this kind of relationship in my life almost 2 years ago. I lost almost everything I had...
This the kind of stuff that needs to be taught in school 😭😭 Thank you GOD for this understanding at 23 😩 My whole family seems to be under this curse/Chained to a devil. I’m breaking that... I’m waiting for God. I’m not trusting my own feelings when it comes to men. I’ve dated 2 men who have been jealous of me. & it’s so weird !!! I never even knew that was a thing. Turned me off so much..... The one thing they despise about me is my emotional intelligence. My ex would say.. “you think you’re some kind of psychologist” & I sound stupid. He hated my emotional intelligence. I’ll rather be alone at this point. Me and God. Adding to the kingdom. 💕💕💕
Wow so true
AMEN SISTER all the way!!! But they absolutely need to teach this in school to young women!!!
That’s because he couldn’t manipulate you because of your emotional intelligence.
You let two emotionally dumb asses block your gift that can come since you've dropped them? Girl what's wrong with you? Heal from that ish, fix your crown and get right cause God will send you your spouse. I've been there and done it and I'm here too team you there's good men out there. I have a really good husband after dealing with dumbasses. I mean I don't give men anything but they were still dumb so I fixed myself loved myself and got better and moved on. Don't let them steal your future. Please don't you deserve happiness
SPEAK ON IT. Growing up all our mother's taught us is to get married and if you don't do another woman will. So ladies don't beat yourself up if you're dealing with or have entertained a HOBO. All we know is a broken system that's been taught by ppl caught in cycles themselves. Plus we're taught your worth is based on if you have a man. Be comfortable in your singlehood. You will look decades younger, have peace of mind, and happiness. While the mother's are teaching their sons NOTHING.
The thumbs down are the "Hobosexuals!" Preach Pastor, Preach!!!!
Exactly Lmao
Yep!!!!
Word!
Lol 🤣
I was thinking the same 😭🤣😭🤣🤣😭
“The hobo-sexual is a sexual predator...” eye opening in so many ways. Thank you pastor! 🙏🏽
And/Or a $$$ predator.
Yeah
I literally wanted to know what that means and seen your response so Thank You 🙏🏾😂
KILLERS!
Seek and Destroy.
Yessssss
"Any person who can purposely use another person is immoral"...yessss
You are not supposed to lend your ear to a man who condescends...humiliates..and demeans you"...yessss
This video full of truth, see this im my daily work with women💔
Once he starts talking about not having a car or a place to stay I’m out!
Lol
Yep. Especially when you just met him 🏃♀️ run
Yes ma’am!
I become 👻 Casper real quick
@@ondreiat6674i wouldn't care if I knew him for years. I'm out😂
It's time for me to stop being a silly woman and walk in my purpose and crown.
YES BE THE QUEEN THAT YOU ARE - MY SISTER IN CHRIST - IJN WE PRAY AMEN AMEN AMEN
Walk sis!
Me too
Good girl! 👏👏👏👏
Me too sister..
No degree, no car, no bank account, no home of his own. What he does have: the ability to manipulate many women. Yup, hobosexual. This term for this kind is just perfect. He does not want his own. He wants to be with anyone who has enough for him...abundantly.
Yo, it's happening to us Men too, don't get it twisted! Neither of us are perfect. We Men have made unwise & immature decisions. I need Bishop to be fair & talk about both sides of The Hobosexual Coin🤨
@@jamanlock4689 I AGREE - #HOBOISM EXISTS AMONGST THE SEXES - SMH - ALLEGEDLY
@@jamanlock4689 :) :) :) get off my phone thank you let me find a true man. He never fulfilled me in any way.
@@jamanlock4689 it is mostly a male trait. Anyways most of his audience is female.
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Never knew how innocent I was. Have had extreme education since July 26th of this year. I've been learning about narcissisim and hobosexuals. Our "relationship" went from from friends to sexual in warp speed. By the time I realized he was the devil in disguise it was waaaay too late. One thing he didn't realize is I am the type of person who will search for an answer to the reason for whatever happens. Also got on my knees and prayed for deliverence from his spell. God and me have always had a good bond. I know he is one person I can count on. He is the one that has been educating me and has reminded to always count on my intuition (his gift to me). In this instance I ignored my intuition and have regretted doing that. I do not have any plans on getting even because that would only let him back in. Btw I am not a young woman I am 69, drive a truck (23 years) otr so you would think I'd have known better. I guess I've gone through this to share with others and maybe save them I'm not sure but I testify every chance I get. Some people listen others laugh at me and others just think I'm a "holy roller". It doesn't bother me because if I can help even one person from going thru what I did I know I will have served God's purpose for me.
Thank you for sharing your story. Not many people want to admit this but we all mess up! These people nowadays just want to front for the internet like it was never them or it can never be them. I'm glad that you were able to be so transparent enough to share. I hope you're successful and happy. ❤️
God bless your humility 🙏🏿
Ditto maybe it was the same narc
Sometimes the abuse is so covert, it is almost subliminal. But the effect on you will be undeniable. Excellent video!
I met one of those many years ago. It was weird that he had a career and a degree and even a military disability check, but couldn't figure out how to live on his own... dude was basically living out of his truck and using silly women, of which I was one, to have a place to live. I think he even pretended to have cancer at one point... still stalks me to this day and checks in every year or so to see if I somehow reverted back to silly. Thank God for growth.
What a crazy guy! Thank god you left him.
My cousin once faked cancer with his ex to stay. He also used the "I have a lawsuit coming" gag on another ex.
Kept a free roof over his head for over a year, he had fake paperwork and all 'til she finally caught on.
@@ruebee313 WoW! He is crazy!
@@eupiaeupia2647 the bad part is my aunt told her he didn't have a lawsuit and she said," oh yes he does I've seen the paperwork" 🙄
The fact that you have not blocked, deleted, and otherwise cut off all contact with this fool leads me to believe you like his attention. If you were really serious, there is NO WAY he would be able to contact you.
The freeloading bums are Withdrawing and not depositing. C'mon ladies we are better than this and most definitely deserve better. Fix your crowns Ladies!!❤
Love you Pastor Blakes...keep socking us in the face with a bag of ice. You are saving lives..I'm certain of it. God bless you continuously!!
My whole life could have been changed, had i heard this message 10 years ago. God bless you and everything you put your hands on Pastor Blakes🙏🏾🙏🏾
Same
I haven’t been in a ‘relationship’ for more than 10 years …back then I encountered several hobosexuals…they were hard to get rid of, with the one exception, who I didn’t want to leave…I think it’s all good and well to examine why men do this but we shouldn’t forget to explore the reasons why we put ourselves in this position…I think my shadow had a lot to do with this…in hindsight I see myself taking in strays, almost treating these men like they were my pets…there’s something to be said about the ‘control’ and ‘position of power’ I thought I had in having a ‘kept man’…I have a feeling it all boils down to abandonment wounds ie they won’t leave me if they are dependent on me for survival (food, shelter, money) …
Yes, I agree...
Wow that hit me like a ton of bricks!
Great insight 🙌
I would lose all respect if I had to take care of him in that way. The only way I'd take care of a man is if he was my husband and only then if he had been faithful and good to me during our marriage together.
I'm so scared for this younger generation! We need to pray for our boys and girls 🙏🏾🙏🏾
A generation of narcissist. 2 Timothy 3:1-5
New International Version
3 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents,ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited,lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
God let ur will be done in Jesus mighty name🙏🏼
Daily and frequently
Why are you scared for them? Don't be scared for them at all. I don't feel sorry for them neither. They are blessed with life coaches on RUclips and Instagram. I didn't have someone to talk to me like this. I was taught to be a self-respecting woman, with virtue. Where did that get me? Right here on this video.
They were raised by who? 🤔
Women wanting love and giving help to someone (hobo) who doesn’t deserve the time of day . He has nothing to offer you , you’re doing it all he’s no leader you ARE , run fast put him out .
THEY COME IN - AND - TAKE OVER YOUR HOUSE #IMMEDIATELY - THEN CONTINUE TO TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE...- AND - THEY HAVE THEIR FRIENDS OVER - AND - THEY'RE CONSTANTLY DRINKING HENNESSEY/SMOKING WEED - WHILE PLAYING VIDEO GAMES... - WAITING FOR YOUR TO COOK BC - THEY GOT THE MUNCHIES... - THEN YOU'VE GOT TWO (2) FREELOADING A**ES - BREAKING DOWN YOUR COUCH - BC - HIS FRIEND IS SLEEPING ON IT... - THEN THERE'S BREAKFAST - OH THEY ATE THAT UP WHILE YOU WERE SLEEPING... - YOU WAKE UP TO NO EGGS JUICE ETC. - YOU GET THE PICTURE... - ALLEGEDLY
You are so right.
@@sarsbrooks4813 Wow what a description. I pray that if you have experienced any of this that you find God's peace, divine healing and fulfillment. Thank you for sharing.
@@tinarichardson2678 #HOBOISM = ONE STEP UP FROM BEING HOMELESS - AND - TWO (2) STEPS AWAY FROM BEING A PIMP - C A HOBO DRIFTS FROM PLACE 2 PLACE - A PIMP HAS A STABLE OF WOMEN THAT LIVE UNDER ONE ROOF - AND - WORKS FOR HIM... - THE ONLY COMMONALITIES - IS 1. THAT THEY CONSTANTLY SEEK NEW SOURCES... - 2. THEY USE WOMEN - 3. THEY TEAR THEM DOWN - 4. THEY'LL TAKE EVERYTHING THAT YOU OWN - 5. A HOBO'S WOMAN - ONLY HAS/SLEEP'S WITH ONE (1) MAN - AND - IS NOT A WHORE - ALTHOUGH SHE (MAY FEEL LIKE IT...) - 6 . THE WOMEN IN THEIR LIFE IS THE BREADWINNER... - 7. THEY HAVE THEIR MAIN WOMAN - A PIMPS' WOMAN - 1. SLEEPS WITH ALL MEN - 2. GIVES THE MONEY TO HER PIMP - AND - 3. SHE OFTEN GOES TO JAIL - THANK YOU DEAR ONE - I AM STILL HEALING - IJN WE PRAY AMEN AMEN AMEN
@@sarsbrooks4813 Sister you are preaching the truth 100% all over this platform! Thank you for making it plain and clear for those who may be either in that situation, know someone in that situation, or needs a refresher course on what it would look like if they let these bums in.
I would rather be HOMELESS than be labeled as THAT GUY. 🙅🏾♂️
Us women have to stop looking and glorifying the shell of a man it’s mostly a Facade anyway. We attract the frequency we’re on so vibrate high
Wow this is unbelievable! I went through this in a so called relationship for a year and I finally WOKE up and let him completely go! I received prayer and Strength and I met my wonderful husband a year after that. RC Blake’s you are so on point with this sermon until it’s sheer perfection! This was Me in 2019, and it was a horrible experience. Thank you for your knowledge bc most pastors don’t even preach this Route. Bless you, your Wife, and family!
God blessed you ..😊
Exactly 💯
“ They Creep in your homes 🏡, because Their Creeps !! “ I Love ❤️ this conversation Pastor Blakes !!
Some of these relationships some of us have been in were demonic....no other way to put it.....
I LOVE YOU BISHOP...
NO OTHER WAY TO PUT IT
Lord knows
this is why breaking soul ties, repentance, and Spiritual baths are needed. Denying the flesh and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide, lead, and protect us. 👑
@@collectiveconsciousness. ain't no such thing. If you really wanted out, you wouldn't even "try"... you'll just do it. You're staying and tolerating because that's what you want, or simply allow. Just like RC Blake's stated... don't nobody wanna hear that madness 🙅🏾♀️.
@@justRemeberTheDAY you don’t know no one situation so you can’t judge only God can.
Thank you for the father daughter talks that I was not able to have with my father when I was a little girl.
I've seen the best of women fall to this and get stuck in the cycle of an abuser after being broken down. Scary stuff. Educate yourself listening to this and put emotions in check. These guys are tremendously charismatic with empty promises to change. Move and run if have to.
I divorced mine without an attorney. Represented myself. He told the judge he did not want a divorce but I found out he was a narsisistic bum.
Glad you left! As I did! That’s all that matters good for you queen 👑
Like a BOSS!!
Whew huni I know your life has improved 10 fold. These individuals are energy vampires. I was with one for 6 years. I’m finally happy and at peace again!!!
Please, help me do the same...for I cannot afford an attorney right now.
😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️strong Queen
A true HOBO is someone who has nothing, a derelict, is down-and-out, a vagabond, BUT in modern society, is and can be versed enough to get exactly what they want or need. This info is sooo valuable!
Yes they lie to get what they want. They are online. Telling us they love us .yes. i will share this
Vagabond is the correct terminology for these individuals..
"A vagabond" 😂😂
#HOBOISM
WOW! A vagabond, I haven't heard that word since the 90's.
You have describe both of my exhusbands. That's why I am now Single and Happy 6 years! No more drama. These men became a serious distraction for me as a small business owner, I needed to keep my head together. Wisdom is the best defense when running a business. 💎💎💎
My heart continues to hurt when I watch these (Bishop) videos. I retrospect on my life & choices I made over the years in men & realize that I've been broken all my life😭. I am however grateful for these videos because I can now make better choices which begins with me choosing me first. THANK YOU DAD🙏🏾
This was my last relationship.... Everybody tried to tell me.... He played victim all the time.... He stayed negative....
Yes how covert trick you knew this ex years ago was nothing like monster over 20 years nothing remember was into God but hobo sexual who thinking sex not pleasing God
What’s happened to men?? Back in the 80s, men wore suits, had jobs, cars and their own place. I was independent too but men took you out on real dates, paid for and drove to pick me up and drive me home.
My, how times have changed. Now men don’t even work and expect the woman to foot the bill and still expect a sexual relationship. Sad!!
Bcuz women aren't requiring much from them thats why they're making zero effort we fall for the potential we envision within them sadly instead of seeing them for who they really are and avoiding the disappointment that will follow
Video games - legalized pot - medical maryjane
Section 8.
No dads
Truth has been spoken..
We often fall for these men who only have birth certificates.
Lol..
But they won't even have a copy of it!
rlsloan80 or health insurance smh 🤦🏾♀️
Hahahahaha
He AND his mother were love bombing me the whole time. 31 and living at home; creeping into my place. I'm so glad I only gave 1.5 year of my time, but that's still too much. Thank God for his mercy on me!
I really wish they played all of your videos in high school to all the girls. Thank you so much,you are 100 💯 percent on point every word of this is so true .
Definitely need to be taught...in College as well.
You’re right. This is essential education. Ironically, it’s was religion itself that left me vulnerable to abuse-all that sexist sh** shoved down my throat from the time I was little-in my house and at church. Even though I’m not Christian anymore, I believe connection to Creator is NATURAL and that we don’t need the toxic filters of man-made religion. In religion, there isn’t much connection to ACTUAL Creator ~ listening in your HEART👉👉the essence of morality is literally “BECAUSE IT SAYS (some sexist sh**) RIGHT HERE. I don’t need or want that low-level sh**. Creator is in our HEARTS. I still love this man because he’s not choosing the evil verses in the Bible (of which there are MANY) ... he’s choosing the wise and loving words and speaking the rest from SPIRIT in a DIRECT CONNECT. The blood spilled by men of women because of the “God” endorsed vile lies of the Bible could fill an OCEAN.
Father's duty really, parents in general. I'm grateful to learn about my worth very young. By my father and the women and men in our community. As a Muslim woman we are taught very young that our bodies belong to us and God. And that only by marriage could a man touch us. Yes not even a TOUCH before marriage. Unrelated men are not even allowed to see our hair and body beyond hands and face. This is to preserve and protect us. We are told by God that the man is responsible for our food, clothes and shelter once married. So we know our rights and worth very young.
I pray all girls are cherished young and taught young their rights, value and worth before God.
@@Amatullah.574 i have witnessed people be taught what you say about the body and yet do things behind closed doors that are worst that one can imagine. so islam does not have the answers you might think it does.
Absolutely!! I hope there are some brave teachers who will from now on into the future!! Wonderful idea!!
Pastor Blakes, this is your next book, titled Silly Women: and the Cheaters, Creepers, Liars, Sliders, Hobo-Sexuals, and Broke Clowns in a Crown they Love. The title is a work in progress.
YES! YES! YES!
I would leave out the 'Crowns they Love.' No offense, but they really don't love anything. There is a total lack of love. All they feel is a tingly feeling in their genitalia. Oh and palpitations in their heart when they think someone is going to give them something they want. These feelings are not love.
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@@sospita_ je meant: the silly women who love the clowns in a crown.
@@mameh4243 oh! got it! 😂
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Thank you so much. You just told my story, after he pulled back I convinced him to marry me, after that if I complained about how he was treating me he reminded me that I chased him down and insisted we be married. That was fifteen years ago. I lost my voice, dignity, and career. I have two beautiful children and I'm finally able to walk in the truth of what I knew and I'm shutting it down. I'm getting back my life, dignity and career. My daughter never have to go through the humility of being a female slave. Getting out of captivity hasn't been easy but att least I made it out. PS. The sex only lasted during the first three phases. Once we were married he soon wanted Nothing to do with me physically and said that was my fault as well. I believe that there is a demonic force behind all of this and once he had control of me, then he did nothing but use me,emotionally torture me and keep me from the true purpose of my life which is yet to be determined because I now have a journey to find what that path was meant to be. Its time for a season to be my kids Mom and to build my relationship with my. God. I think finding this video is a warning to me not to allow the same thing to happen to me again. God Bless You!
In 2020 I ran into a man like this. I wish I would have heard this back then. God guided me out of this because he caught me at a low point in my life. Thank you for posting this. May God allow the people who need it, to hear it. 🙏
If you’d been “safer at home” during that time, you wouldn’t have been running into anyone. I bet he needed a place to stay, and all doors were firmly closed.
They are also bi-sexual. Hobo sexual means he will be straight or gay for a place to stay.
Hobosexual means they take up a relationship with you in order to not have to work. I made up this word about 15 years ago.
@@donnalangley117 why was the sexual in the word hobo sexual come in to play. Well I gave it more meaning when I met someone that could switch just for a place to live.
@@ytnoni01 because they use sex as a weapon. It has zero to do with what gender they are, it is about the behavior. It is spot on every time you can see them coming.
But they will call women hoes, thots, and every other profane slang they come up with.
@@donnalangley117 ok I get it now. Ty
I was a silly woman but God and the teaching of Bishop RC Blake’s.
I was a fool too 🤦🏻♀️
I’ve been delivert too! 🙌🏾
Same! Grateful for Pastor Blakes!
Same here but not any more
I was one also never ever again ⚘
I’m sure there are thousands of females out there who are impaired every day by you but I have to say personally you’ve said things that have changed my entire psyche which I’ve been battling for almost over a decade, losing my soul, my dignity, myself, my life, everything I’ve lost. But I’ve also gained it all back, and lost it again and gained it again. You’ve opened my eyes. You’ve saved me from getting wrapped in the spiral of never ending abuse and shame as you slowly lose everything you’ve ever had in life. I want to thank you, God wants to thank you, you are changing lives. Also inspiring me to continue on my life journey and teach others as you are. You’re channel is a true miracle. Thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear...starting my healing process. I wish I had a father to teach me these life lessons. Making my young daughter listen to these so she doesn't make the tragic mistakes I have made...Thank you so very much
This is truth!!!! Guard your heart and don't expose yourself completely. Those calculating men are just studying how they can conquer. They ,"Create a soul tie intentionally".
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YEP!
They definitely try to snatch ur heart quickly.
Preach my sister!
Wickedness
Wow! I must admit, I have been one of them silly women at some point until I decided to walk away into a closet. In this closet I met me, learnt to deal with me and started to build me the way I see me on the inside and that hasn't stopped because it a daily intentional process. It's amazing how I get calls from men telling me how I changed n is full of pride. It hit me then how lots of men out here enjoy a broken woman! Run my sister. You are beautiful, intelligent and Made for greatness.
RC reminds me of the late Myles Munroe. Call a thing a thing and am honoured to have such great men speak into my life even if we don't personally know one another the internet has made the world such a global village that we can find each other. Bless you dear.
Being attached is not the same thing as being connected!💯
I am currently going through a divorce with a man exactly like this! Here’s the thing, he has more degrees than my one bachelors. He is very demeaning. He has a higher job, and he is an ordained minister who pastored two churches. He moved into my house, destroyed my credit, broke down my self esteem, and broke my children’s hearts. He was so abusive. He has stolen my identity and purchased all sorts of things in my name. AND THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A PASTOR AND LEADER IN THE PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEM! Bad energy!
Filthy
Wow run run run run go no contact wow so sorry my God strengthen you
I have changed so much since I've been watching his channel.
#EMPOWERING ISN'T HE
Yes he is
Teach R.C. Blakes!!! Neediness will make people sell their souls for a bowl of lust.
A girlfriend of mine calls it “ dickmatized” crass but it should be because that’s what it is.
That's exactly what it is!
Yes that's it
That's real
Peefect!! Dickmatized. Exactly.
A-dick-red🤣
He was mad cause he couldn’t take my voice as hard as he tried , omg your hitting it on the head
Amen to this. So sad, so many women weren’t taught this and it’s sad they prey on women with low self esteems. ❤️ may god heal us, restore us, and bless us ❤️
I work in nursing homes for a long time , lady one time told me they called man like that no count..... don't add up to nothing....
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I love it... 🤣🤣🤣
And God said "Let there be light!"
Thank you for being that light for all our sisters out there!!!!! Hope this gets millions of views !!!! ❤❤❤
Omg! I just refused to carry on talking to someone, because I closely observed the face expressions and felt the energy. What a timing I find this video...
I thought it was just me I see facial everything I second guess myself a lot I never done that
Good for u
My hobo days are long ovahh. Can't wait for this one 😂🙏 what a blessing you are in our lives 🕊️❤️
Yep can see them coming mile a way!
I’m so glad you’re speaking about this! Bec this particular male RUclipsr has started an uproar. It’s quite sad to see all the lost men who really don’t have any respect for their women and the women seeking validation from these types of men giving coaching advice .. #hobosexual
Your name “Rochelle” is lovely. 💕
I know exactly the male you are referring to and he is absolutely appalling.
Kevin is the worst
Kevin Samuels wants to wear panties. He's living a whole entire lie. Always judging and berating women with his little mouse turd self...
Exactly! It's ridiculous!🤦🏾♀️😔
You just described my ex husband I was fighting cancer and he was absusing me then due to thestress I suffered a huge stroke and landed up in a wheelchair then he got worse god got me out and I haven’t been so happy thank god this exsperience has strengthed my faith
Google it, is a person who gets into relationships to avoid being homeless. Male or Female.
We have to reach a point where we value ourselves and not assist others in devaluing us. We have to protect both our mind, body, and spirit from people who mean us no good.
Amen
.."You've been satisfied with an Ooh and an Aah, You dont even require a paycheck just a Ooh and an aah" RC Blakes, Jr.
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Thank you Pastor Blake. My husband past away a year ago. I've just got intimate with a Hobo sexual. God had warn me but thank God, he loves me, it only started 3 months ago and God was truly covering me. We had sex, I was looking for a mate, a husband and companion but God reached out and broke that relationship, restored and cleaned me mentally, thank God for his strength of Judah. I thought hey, here after my husband's death, I'm gonna have a companion. Both my husband and myself built our home and I'm still constructing this, my children was his stepchildren, who's grown and has their home, studying or opening a small business but they are my babies and I could not let them see this disaster, they'll get angry. I'm a young grandma. God, provided me with a spirit of achievement, I'm a student at University in Trinidad and Tobago the Caribbean, I'm a christian and employed at a government agency, a mentor and a woman who loves God because he's my strength and provided for me all through my life Yes, it truly was creepy, everything your saying happened, it's so true. Ladies, people this is true, hallielujah for deliverence.
THANK YOU for posting this. I knew there was a reason for listening to this. I recently was allowing a hobosexual man to manipulate me because of my loneliness. He lied a LOT. My dad was admitted to the hospital and is near death with stage 4 cancer/dementia and I contacted this man, asking if he could come by. He said, "I'm sorry, I have plans". I got upset because of his short response and also that he never makes plans with me and said, "I wish we could make plans but I guess I'm just a bootie call" he then proceeded to tell me to never contact him again and that I have issues....
WOW!!! CREEP!!! So sorry! We don't deserve this garbage!
Girl that's a win for u before it got any worse! Love yourself! U dodged a bullet ! Trust me!
Yes! Been there so I know. I lost so much being his slave: money, time, sanity (I got deeply depressed) and confidence. By the end of the first month, I didn't realize how much of his stuff was at my place. He lost his job and ended up moving with me. When we went to empty his rented apartment, all his stuff there was able to hold in one duffle bag. I left the relationship when I was migrating and we did have a fight regarding MY furniture. He was not pleased with the fact that I moved the things home to my Mom (who was very much in need of them). When I finally went to see his home, his mattress was on the floor and he didn't even have a closet or chest to store clothes. Because of him, I made the solid decision never to live with a man unless I am married to him.
I met one I think recently. He messaged me asking to watch his suit case for like 5 days for $30. I think he was slowly trying to move in.
Wise choice! I’m right there with you!
@@geneajenkins5450 The games they play.
Don't live with them NOT even when you're married. It's so easy moving them in, but it's hell trying to get them out. The definition of INSANITY is to KEEP DOING THINGS that don't work. All these married couples LIVING together is not working which is why the DIVORCE and SEPRATION rate is so HIGH. Let them have their own place and you have yours. Try something DIFFERENT.
What a great Live Chat tonight. I pray everyone is set free from bondage and have a prosperous new year. Thank you 🙏🏾
Amen in Jesus name Amen
You as well
@@jchris4090 thank you!
And never continue with a man that shames you.
Ooooo, they reject you intentionally to draw your attention to him so you can let your guard down to get his approval. My God!
Teach these women pastors. You are their stop signs, yield sign, and caution sign. What you are saying is 100% truth. I hope they listen.
I really like your teaching and appreciate the help and counsel that you offer women. Alot of us weren't taught by our parents what you offer us. Thank you.
i was a silly woman last month after 2 yrs no contact , in that time i decorated my home and laid wall to wall carpet myself (never had carpet like that before) !!-
He with no home of his own & i bumped into him - i let him sneek/slither back in to my home.....he kept dropping cigarettes trying to burn my carpet, he turned back up later for a meal id cooked but he was off his face !! I thought he was going to die in front of me at one point, after 3 hours of tripping he came too & threw up !!
Luckily there was a blanket under him so saved my carpet!
That was it..i got him out..
i then went back into the room to find out....he'd tried setting fire to some clothes on a chair, near to some Christmas presents just before he left.
The only good thing is after these 2 yrs no contact, i now REALLY no longer look through rose tinted glasses. He's no narcissist he's a psychopath & so evil.
My personal dignity is slowly coming back to me with thanks to the healing words of you pastor , thank you so much. you explain this that it lifts us , it goes in, it helps us change, AMEN
On this day November 17th, 2023 I received and agree and will grow from your word through Jesus Christ... Amen😇
Scary,but so true,I knew it had a name but,Hobo sexual sounds right a bum of a man going from place to place not taking responsibility for his own life while running game on you.......
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buy a case huh? get those books out there.
Yes... :( I am the PhD woman and the story fits like a glove. Thank you. I needed to hear that and, I am so glad that I stumbled upon your channel. You are doing a very important work here. Many blessings, love and peace to you and your loved ones from Australia.
Same.
@@sweetvalleyfarmstead 🙏❤️
I used to be this woman, thank GOD for sending you with the words of healing, im healing and feeling much better and waiting on the most high GOD, the best way to go🙏🏾
Great topic... don’t hold back pastor and keep it 💯💯 for us women that are ready to learn.
You right
Your Teachings have helped me Transform my Entire Life. I now know my Worth and I have Claimed My Throne.
I have dealt with an individual like this. The first time he came over he said oh yea i could live here and i said oh no you couldn't. He laughed it off but i meant that mess. This individual was in a 10 year live in relationship who cheated on the young lady throughout the relationship. They have a daughter together. He claims he left her about a year ago and is now living with guess who - his mama the heffer who created that monster. He has been married 2x, has 6 kids, and has never had anything. Now he claims he has cancer! He has numerous women and im sure hes using that claim to get whatever. I wish i could put his name up here to warn women.
OMG! Wow! It feels like you're talking directly to me! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. I'm 56 yrs old and I can't believe this hobosexual thing happened to me.
Omg! You described the guy I just left a few months ago.
Good for you!!!
Me too!
I’m glad you left!!
My dad still leaving....but I consider pastor RC to be my complete father not just dad....23years but I've learnt what most woman didn't learn from their fathers. Thanks for saving my life, where could have found the ideas of narsists and all those toxic people😚
Wow! I’m honored that you esteem me so highly. Thank you.😊🙏🏽♥️
We are favored to be blessed with your ministry Pastor. In my culture, these things are simply not taught, never mind spoken about via scripture based teaching - thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Blessings to you and the first Lady
What a beautiful and generous-hearted man to share this wisdom with women 🙌💜🙌 I wish for a world where men love and respect women as much as women love and respect men💞
These kinda Men-boys, are also on the “DL” DEEP!! You’re truly blessed by The Divine Most High in Jesus’s name amen. 💯💯💯 Thank you,
Pastor is LITERALLY describing my last relationship....LITERALLY 😔
Same but thankfully it's in the past for a reason sis. I hope you heal and grow. Blessings to you
@@VentureOut___ thank you so much...❤ Happy Holidays
Same.
Me too
Me too
Lord heal everything that’s not right in me and I’ll stay single for however long to avoid another relationship like this. This spoke to me THANK YOU BROTHER, a lot of us didn’t have the fathers who spoke to us how you did so it’s time to learn on our own and we’re grateful for you R.C. ❤️
The good Lord keeps His women safe. I don't want to step out of that peace again. I've learned the hard way. I liked your prayer.
Amen!
@@thepro4436 Me too Sis!
This is for me like an awakening message. Literally the best information I ever received. Thank you so much. I wished my father would have taught me this- thanks RC Blakes.
Thank you especially for the prayers. This was so life changing and healing for me. I don't think anyone has prayed for me in years. God bless you always.
Sadly , even the sex was underrate. Just a complete fraud. Actions speak. And honestly I hugged the snake to keep him warm and he bit me and I was surprised but God warned me! So my broken heart was my lesson, because I took the dance with the Devil and cried because I got burned. You speak truth 🙏 thank you .
He warned me too, but because I thought I knew her, I now realize that I disregarded His warning and He warned me months before I would eventually come back into her life. Now, I desperately want out because everything Bishop said some of these Men are doing to Women, some of these same Women are doing to us Men! Please, pray for us men who are being "Preyed upon" by these kinds of Women.
Do you write poems? Nicely put
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@@jamanlock4689 Nope. Men have been getting away with physically and emotionally harming women for far too long. Just look at the stats dude. Women are in FAR MORE danger from men than vice versa. We are fighting for our very lives. You get no sympathy here.
Truthfully... My Story
Jesus, thank You for breaking us free from all demonic enslavement from the devil. All glory to you Father God, amen.
Thank you mr. Blake I'm a emotionally stable woman and no man cannot fool me I know when a man's intentions are pure but I hope to still learned from you mr. Blake and thank you for sharing and caring about us
"They condescend"
Once.. We were talking about things and I was explaining myself, and my perspective. In the middle of talking and being vulnerable, expressing myself... He cut me off cold and goes
"YOU TALK TOO MUCH" To which I replied, "I only talk too much for the one who doesn't want to listen". He also used to remark when I used lesser used words, "there you go with them SAT words"... I am well spoken. I am a childhood spelling bee champion. I am proud of those things but he sees that and tries to stomp that light down. I stayed so long in that feeling like ai could convince him to see all that I am... BUT HE DID...he did see me but he was kicking his chops... Not intending to love and respect me.