Siblings with Childhood Alzheimer's (Roman and Stella)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  Месяц назад +337

    You can learn more about Roman and Stella and donate to fund research towards treatment for ASMD at www.saveromanandstella.com/

    • @katherineknapp4370
      @katherineknapp4370 Месяц назад +16

      😊😊

    • @enaceccyy
      @enaceccyy Месяц назад +16

      So heartbreaking 💔💔💔 The parents are so amazing, the way they fight on and keep going. Prayers for the whole family 🙏🙏🙏

    • @stargazer-x2x
      @stargazer-x2x Месяц назад +7

      My heart goes out to U both what a mum and dad U both r, best parents to the best two kids ever, my son had terminal cancer but they tried a clinical trial and he has been cured he was diagnosed at 8 weeks old and got the all clear just past in September there and he is going to be 9 in Dec, I no there is no cure for Ur kids but I do hold hope for them both just with U two also, u no ur own kids and I am so blessed to have came across ur story, it shows that in this video that U cover pretty much all of what we need to no, keep some of ur life private as much as U can, but at the same time share awareness about their story I will keep up to date with all the up dates of where U r today and stuff I bless U and ur family all the best that U can live ur life happy with the way things r I will have U in my prayers also god bless U both xx

    • @Lyly-ym8pz
      @Lyly-ym8pz Месяц назад +6

      Ricerca di cosa?? Quella non è vita

    • @mariarestrepo5942
      @mariarestrepo5942 Месяц назад +6

      So,sad

  • @analuciamedeiros4828
    @analuciamedeiros4828 Месяц назад +1914

    it's just so sad. they are mourning their kids while they are still alive, while remembering them when they were still healthy... sending much love to this beautiful family❤

    • @JenniferLloyd-h9g
      @JenniferLloyd-h9g Месяц назад +44

      That's exactly how it is if you have a loved one with a terminal illness like cancer. When my dad was being taken by cancer, I distinctly remember mourning him while he was still alive.

    • @RockinStacy
      @RockinStacy Месяц назад +32

      Yes, we mourn our loved ones with a terminal illness, parents, siblings, etc. However mourning your child/children, is at completely different level of mourning.

    • @lisao7600
      @lisao7600 Месяц назад +10

      It must be so horrible to be stuck inside your mind like those poor children. It doesn't look like any kind of fulfilling life. It seems like it would be like being just a head with only sight and hearing and breathing/smelling. It's so sad they have to live that way. Hopefully this video will bring awareness and maybe there will be more research on it.

    • @veroniquedelais4867
      @veroniquedelais4867 Месяц назад +6

      Ne peut on pas prévenir avt conception ce genre de handicap profond??????

    • @donnarowlands6426
      @donnarowlands6426 Месяц назад +9

      1,000,000% unfair. This is not fair to this family. Not one but 2. 😢

  • @ceatonbusch
    @ceatonbusch Месяц назад +1067

    You can see the heart break in Dad's eyes.

    • @emiliaroma5543
      @emiliaroma5543 Месяц назад +20

      My Goodness how can he not be sad.

    • @ceatonbusch
      @ceatonbusch Месяц назад +29

      @@emiliaroma5543 unfortunately, I know their pain. My youngest has a rare incurable disease as well. The average life expectancy is 10 and he just turned 9 last month

    • @deemariedubois4916
      @deemariedubois4916 Месяц назад +20

      @@ceatonbuschoh no. I’m so very sorry. Heart breaking.

    • @PandoraBear357
      @PandoraBear357 Месяц назад +17

      There's a couple of times when you can hear a change in mom's voice where the sadness slips out. I think she's just hiding it better.

    • @meldawilliams1829
      @meldawilliams1829 Месяц назад +4

      Oh dear yes you can blessings 🙌 🙏 ❤

  • @erin5109
    @erin5109 Месяц назад +515

    Roman saying “I love you” with all his might 🥹😭 my hearts goes out to this beautiful family

    • @aliciasandoval6466
      @aliciasandoval6466 Месяц назад +7

      Es muy triste lo que está viviendo esta familia y nos están demostrando que tienen una fortaleza tan grande, que aman a sus hijos por sobre todas las cosas, que son guerreros que no se dejan vencer y que siguen adelante porque tienen que estar bien para cuidar de ellos. Muchas bendiciones y un abrazo de corazón para toda la familia. Estoy muy conmovida.

    • @MeghanMarkleParodyXQueenofMeme
      @MeghanMarkleParodyXQueenofMeme Месяц назад +5

      My heart goes out to this family. 🙏❤️

  • @CaraRamzi
    @CaraRamzi Месяц назад +131

    Roman saying “I love you” back to his mother was one of the most beautiful and precious moments I’ve ever seen. Sending you all so much love I pray for a miracle for you sweet angels. 🙏🏼👼🏼🙇🏻‍♂️🪽

    • @tamracommissaris8960
      @tamracommissaris8960 25 дней назад +2

      I was gonna say the same thing ❤

    • @CaraRamzi
      @CaraRamzi 25 дней назад

      @@tamracommissaris8960 🤍🤍🤍

    • @CaraRamzi
      @CaraRamzi 16 дней назад

      @@tamracommissaris8960 💞💞💞

  • @BZaks
    @BZaks Месяц назад +510

    I’m a doctor and in my country we have a lot of marriages the same family trees so I saw a lot of children with lysosomal storage diseases in the hospital and it always broke my heart. But so many families left their children in the hospital when they got this diagnosis so this family is very special and strong to have the children with them and taking care of them at home. I think that’s what’s making the biggest difference in their longevity

    • @BZaks
      @BZaks Месяц назад +61

      If the family reads my comment I want them to know that their children were meant to have this life for a reason and it’s not less of a life than that of any other child, they bring joy to their family and they also live a happy life as you can clearly see. Also, your reward for taking care of them is coming. I can’t tell you if it’s gonna be in this life but you will certainly be rewarded. “So whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it.”

    • @patriciarose6371
      @patriciarose6371 Месяц назад +41

      Sorry , but I cant and see a brighter side to this! Nor can I accept there is a reseon good enough be it nonsense it is Gods will. Surely God would not do this !

    • @corriehordyk3342
      @corriehordyk3342 Месяц назад

      Please read your Bible for the truth. ​@patriciarose6371

    • @OrangeySky11
      @OrangeySky11 Месяц назад +10

      So, I’m confused. Are the parents related? Cousins maybe? Is that what the doctor said?

    • @hees0009
      @hees0009 Месяц назад +41

      ​@@OrangeySky11no, he didn't say they were related, just that consanguinity increases the risk.

  • @lexiohdancer4199
    @lexiohdancer4199 Месяц назад +1148

    That little boy worked so hard to express his love for his mother.

    • @jessicapreston9808
      @jessicapreston9808 Месяц назад +67

      He was doing such a good job, sweet boy. When she went down to kiss him you could see him try to purse his lips, he wanted to kiss his mama so bad! I am in tears. What a sad thing, but they are doing amazing and persevering. They are so strong for their kids.

    • @KS-om6fm
      @KS-om6fm Месяц назад +20

      This is a beautiful story. These parents are the best. We can see how much they love their babies. They were chosen to be these special children’s parents. My mother has dementia and I can assure you they understand everything they are doing. Most importantly they can feel the love!

    • @FunnyClock-su1pk
      @FunnyClock-su1pk Месяц назад

      That was the girl

    • @masayadiaz9030
      @masayadiaz9030 Месяц назад +4

      I saw this comment before the video and I thought it’d be up for interpretation but that baby very clearly said I love you 🥺🥺🥺 omg

  • @Angelicax8
    @Angelicax8 Месяц назад +1280

    This interview has to go on my top 3 or 5 of the hardest interviews to watch.

    • @bbkirbee
      @bbkirbee Месяц назад +62

      Right?? I was sobbing when she said the life expectancy was three years old

    • @AmandaB1111
      @AmandaB1111 Месяц назад +12

      I agree.

    • @Jesus_Saves_Believers
      @Jesus_Saves_Believers Месяц назад +80

      Yes, and Dad appears to be fighting tears the entire video.

    • @ebert8756
      @ebert8756 Месяц назад +20

      Yeah, you just never know what you're gonna get 😰

    • @billiemack64
      @billiemack64 Месяц назад +47

      Knowing that the next update about these kids could be they’ve passed is really hard to sit with for me. When Roman tried to say “I love you” I lost it. I feel the tone of some of these comments are just like “oh man that’s terrible, oh well!” This is devastating to me. I can’t imagine trying to cope with this as a parent.

  • @joellewhite912
    @joellewhite912 Месяц назад +1455

    That dad is in permanent grief - my heart breaks for him

    • @kerstinnilsson9968
      @kerstinnilsson9968 Месяц назад +190

      I think both parents are, mom just hides it better. Such a heartbreaking video to see 😢

    • @elliegoldie6140
      @elliegoldie6140 Месяц назад +51

      Yes I thought so mum seems stronger but we always are.Beautiful parents and children it breaks our hearts.xxxx

    • @sarenthar86
      @sarenthar86 Месяц назад +56

      My heart breaks for both parents.

    • @harlottesgma7306
      @harlottesgma7306 Месяц назад +39

      I felt the same. I noticed he didn't give the momma a lot of eye contact. But the love is there you can see. This is a beautiful strong lil family. When Roman said I love you I got the biggest chills and I'm Not crying, You're crying 😢 ❤

    • @Crowned921
      @Crowned921 Месяц назад +21

      I noticed it about 5 seconds into the video. I notice how red his face was. 🥹💔

  • @boochy115
    @boochy115 Месяц назад +208

    That video of Roman saying "I love you" broke me... What a beautiful family. God bless them.

  • @kathyquinn5504
    @kathyquinn5504 Месяц назад +59

    These children are so blessed to have the parents they have. May God bless you all.

  • @alijane6675
    @alijane6675 Месяц назад +1312

    What a profoundly painful journey these parents are on. Childhood regressive dementia type illnesses are so uniquely harrowing. I think all parents can empathize with this family. Sometimes life is beyond understanding. I hope one day money won’t be a hindrance to science, and all these rare disorders can be researched properly.

    • @Andreabay90
      @Andreabay90 Месяц назад +38

      money isn't the only thing stopping new discoveries, a lot of it is down to luck, and the right scientist(s)

    • @virginiaconnor8350
      @virginiaconnor8350 Месяц назад +7

      Is this condition related to ALD, RETT, and Batten? So sad! Could other siblings' children develop this genetic symptom too?

    • @conlon4332
      @conlon4332 Месяц назад +7

      @@virginiaconnor8350 As they explained, there's a 50% chance a child would carry it, a 25% chance they wouldn't have it at all, and a 25% chance they're affected by the condition. If they were to have another child and that child was a carrier, that child would have a 50% chance of passing the gene on to their children, but as it's recessive they would only be carriers like their parent, unless the other parent also carried it when it would be the same chances as those explained in the video and at the start of my comment, but it's a very rare condition so it's very unlikely the other parent would be a carrier.

    • @malanamarie5206
      @malanamarie5206 Месяц назад +1

      @@virginiaconnor8350 Yes if they have another child that is a carrier and that child’s future partner also carried the disease then their children would have the same chance of developing the disease which would be 25%

    • @jassgachogu5873
      @jassgachogu5873 Месяц назад +6

      There is God in heaven we pray for healing in Jesus name

  • @jennyn5692
    @jennyn5692 Месяц назад +403

    Seeing baby Roman playing with his dad, seeing his smiles, and hearing his giggles broke my heart. I realize life isn't fair, but...this is way beyond not fair.

    • @fairyhaven12
      @fairyhaven12 Месяц назад +3

      He will probably have other lives and has had other lives before. Life is fair, we all have many lives and many different situations or circumstances in these lives. Hope only the best for them, and for all

    • @catherinerainville4232
      @catherinerainville4232 Месяц назад +4

      I agree.. weeping. ❤

    •  Месяц назад +3

      He will spend eternity with Jesus, whole and strong, when he leaves this sad, sinfilled world 😒

  • @Rachel-wp1yz
    @Rachel-wp1yz Месяц назад +544

    I genuinely don't know what to say. Humbling doesn't cut it. Hit me hard when the mum said 'God wouldn't do this to us a second time' . I understand that feeling of not understanding' why? ' I too am currently trying to learn how to pack grief away and let it sit alongside me. A tricky thing to master. Sending this little family love and best wishes.

    • @eszemaszeszed
      @eszemaszeszed Месяц назад

      because god doesn't exist, but their carrier genes do.

    • @SN-of5tu
      @SN-of5tu Месяц назад +18

      what a beautiful way to put it. to pack away grief and learn to live alongside it. both of them are incredibly. everyone in this family is incredible. genuine strength from the parents, beautiful souls from the kids.

    • @fairyhaven12
      @fairyhaven12 Месяц назад +6

      I don't believe God does these things to us. God is love and only love. What human parent would make a child ill? Saying that God does it is making God less good than a loving human parent. I believe we incarnate knowing this physical life is far from perfect, and we create our own reality, knowingly or not. People have their own soul or mind that is carried over from one incarnation to the next. I also believe that we incarnate many times until we have perfected ourselves to the point where we will "fit in" in Heaven. Love, love, only love these children ❤❤

    • @peacemama4957
      @peacemama4957 Месяц назад +6

      Rachel I recommend a book called Dark Clouds Deep Mercy by Mark Vroegop. It unpacks God's biblical way of dealing with grief as seen in the psalms - lament. I wasn't aware of lament until my pastor taught me about all of David's psalms filled with his lament. Hope this helps. God bless you in Jesus' name.

    • @LoverofSunflowernBees
      @LoverofSunflowernBees Месяц назад

      @@fairyhaven12so do you believe in reincarnation too?

  • @dk237
    @dk237 Месяц назад +99

    Roman has so much awareness… he was obviously taking in and enjoying the story when Chris was reading to him. It was amazing watching him tell his mother he loves her. Stella and Roman are absolutely beautiful. ❤

  • @Moonbunny55
    @Moonbunny55 Месяц назад +142

    ‘The hardest part was getting to know your son and daughter and who they really are only to watch that slip away’
    How heartbreaking 💔

  • @spulwasser
    @spulwasser Месяц назад +203

    As unfortunate as these kids are, I am so glad they have these phenomenal parents. They know they're loved❤

    • @DaniBadger777
      @DaniBadger777 Месяц назад +2

      These children are not unfortunate, their conditions are.

  • @BlahBlah-em2ed
    @BlahBlah-em2ed Месяц назад +1014

    What a cruel diagnosis. What a strong family.

    • @reptoidfancy666
      @reptoidfancy666 Месяц назад +6

      It also sounds like they were made aware of the risk and decided to have children anyway.

    • @SavortheMomentblog
      @SavortheMomentblog Месяц назад +35

      @@reptoidfancy666if you were paying attention the terminal diagnosis came when their first was already born and she was already pregnant with their 2nd. As you can see the 25% in not what their are will to risk since then only have 2 children

    • @TheBradfords
      @TheBradfords Месяц назад +10

      ​@@SavortheMomentblog right they did stop once they found this all out.

    • @junefoster924
      @junefoster924 Месяц назад

      They didn't know until she was pregnant with her 2nd child ​@@reptoidfancy666

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 Месяц назад +8

      ​@reptoidfancy666 not the right comment section. Respectfully. Delete this.

  • @beyounow7204
    @beyounow7204 Месяц назад +389

    When Roman said I Love You…❤ We you too, Roman. All of you. 🙏🏾

    • @kantnergirl08
      @kantnergirl08 Месяц назад +13

      That was my favorite part too!!

  • @sa-eq1li
    @sa-eq1li Месяц назад +34

    I love how mom describes her babies personalities with pure adoration as she looks at them. So much love in this family🥰

  • @dania_mb0714
    @dania_mb0714 Месяц назад +88

    This video broke my heart I can relate. My husband said the same thing” is a 25% chance there’s no way it will happen again”. It did happen again. The first time we lost our baby boy on October 4,2012 he was just 3 days away from turning 11 months. I had my baby daughter on Dec.10,2022 she passed away on Dec. 9,2023 one day from turning one. Genetic diseases related to the brain need new research but unfortunately we forget about the little ones our babies. Mom and dad both of you are doing an amazing job carrying and loving your beautiful babies.

  • @kellyburnett1833
    @kellyburnett1833 Месяц назад +583

    No one could possibly understand what these parents have to go through. I am in awe of this family. Love is the strongest and best thing in this world and it is displayed so perfectly with them. Thank you for sharing, it helps me see the world in a more positive way.

    • @ercieberwick1513
      @ercieberwick1513 Месяц назад +9

      When she was expecting their second child, she said "God wouldn't do this to us a second time." GOD HAD NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH THIS!

    • @batacumba
      @batacumba Месяц назад +7

      @@ercieberwick1513 i don’t know why anyone would think that anyway given how genetic conditions are often passed down like this. Like yes if you’re a carrier for something like this it absolutely will strike more than once if you keep having kids. Genetic testing before having kids is the answer to preventing these kinds of ailments. Yes it’s a harsh reality but right now it’s the only way to prevent this kind of devastating outcome.

    • @Doro260
      @Doro260 Месяц назад +4

      Life is worthy, above our immagination

    • @user-gd1tp2tc1d
      @user-gd1tp2tc1d Месяц назад +7

      @@ercieberwick1513 some people connect their gift of having children with God blessing them so it makes sense why they would say that

    • @eggbun1856
      @eggbun1856 Месяц назад +7

      ​@@ercieberwick1513 so thank God when a baby is born healthy, but when a baby is born sick God had nothing to do with it? 😏🥴

  • @kantnergirl08
    @kantnergirl08 Месяц назад +281

    These parents are truly GOLD!!!!

  • @blackfox1320
    @blackfox1320 Месяц назад +257

    These are two of the strongest people in the world. Unbelievable what they're enduring and pushing through for their kids.

    • @NeeNee_B.
      @NeeNee_B. 25 дней назад

      But they're the ones who put their 2nd child thru this in the first place. They knew she would be ill but had her anyway. Why would they get praise for knowingly sentencing their child to a life of pain?

    • @aurorallamosas2899
      @aurorallamosas2899 17 дней назад

      Son un matrimonio muy fuerte y sólido,y eso les da fuerza y amar a sus hijos,es duro verles bien y después retroceder pero creo que son seres de luz y harán el tiempo que estén con sus hijos su estancia en esta vida sean
      niños felices ,tomo mi cariño y admiración para ellos.☘️☘️☘️💚💚🍾🌈🌈🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🙏

  • @1tommyday
    @1tommyday Месяц назад +74

    This is soul crushing. These parents are super heroes

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva Месяц назад +15

    I've said this many times, but when Chris makes the interview, every Parent is crazy about how AMAZING THEIR VERY DISABLED CHILD IS. No neglectful and not into their child will ever be interviewed. They are NOT a burden to the parents at all. You interview only incredible parents. My mother would have me institutionalized. Seeing this kind of love makes me sad. I never felt loved. Especially this type of love. Blessed kids. Have you ever turned down an interview, Chris, due to the parents not giving loving attention??

    • @spazie123
      @spazie123 Месяц назад +4

      Chris definitely has a special gift.

  • @healsapphire2842
    @healsapphire2842 Месяц назад +482

    I think we all share the same sentiment that this has been one of the hardest SBSK videos ever to watch 💔

    • @emiliaroma5543
      @emiliaroma5543 Месяц назад +4

      TEARY EYES.. I wish I had a magic wand ..

    • @Dutch_morrocain
      @Dutch_morrocain Месяц назад +3

      😢yes. Brokes my heart

    • @life_withl
      @life_withl Месяц назад +5

      I cannot have children, but this reality of these parents & children is absolutely 💔

    • @catherinerainville4232
      @catherinerainville4232 Месяц назад +4

      Absolutely.. I couldn’t finish watching. I was weeping.

  • @tracy9397
    @tracy9397 Месяц назад +145

    This has to be one of the top hardest interviews I have ever watched. The little boy seemed like he was so full of love and laughter.

  • @lulucakelove
    @lulucakelove Месяц назад +225

    I love the little home videos in between, it really adds a personal touch ❤

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 Месяц назад +1

      Yes, I am so grateful to them for letting SBSK share them. What a blessing to have recordings of these precious memories with the children.

  • @CW-rt4sr
    @CW-rt4sr 28 дней назад +10

    Jill, your explanation of the diagnosis was incredible. Thought out, accessible, loving. Thank you for taking time to share with us.

  • @teresarichmond5679
    @teresarichmond5679 Месяц назад +3

    These parents are remarkable. The love, caring and devotion they have for their babies is so wonderful. I broke down when Roman told his mommy "I love you" and when Dad started tearing up near the end. Many prayers for this beautiful family. Thank you Chris for bringing them into our lives. You are a true gift from God to the many families you have interviewed.

  • @gennifergirardello8417
    @gennifergirardello8417 Месяц назад +165

    Roman saying I love you just shattered my heart. I had to take a break from watching this and just cried while hugging my kids. These parents are just incredible

    • @BigAphmauFan
      @BigAphmauFan Месяц назад +7

      Made me cry too..,..so heartbreaking. Reminds us to never take even the smallest things for granted

  • @dizzzawn
    @dizzzawn Месяц назад +62

    I love how the Dad was so happy and smiling as you read the book to Roman. That made me smile. He and the mom deserve all the little moments of happiness and joy possible.

    • @francesluther9518
      @francesluther9518 Месяц назад

      You can see da

    • @francesluther9518
      @francesluther9518 Месяц назад

      Dad has soul eyes. You can see all the love, but you caalso see his fear and heartache. Praying for yalln

  • @kantnergirl08
    @kantnergirl08 Месяц назад +485

    GREAT Family! LOVE LOVE LOVE this family! I’m their nurse when they need me and they are truly beautiful people inside and out! Please support them anyway you can! They never give up! They are so resilient even when they’ve dealt with soooo much!!! The kids are adorable and beautiful too I love them so much!

    • @wowzatrishiebunz
      @wowzatrishiebunz Месяц назад +13

      Bless you

    • @vaf
      @vaf Месяц назад +18

      No you're notbecause this comment would be a hippa violation

    • @marialopez1622
      @marialopez1622 Месяц назад +3

      I have fallen in love with this family🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 what amazing beautiful people! There should be more human beings like these soles in the world!❤❤❤

    • @blingqueen2235
      @blingqueen2235 Месяц назад +22

      @@vafI don’t think they are giving away any PHI

    • @Bethany0420
      @Bethany0420 Месяц назад +25

      ​@@vaf How is it a hippa violation? They haven't released any personal medical information..

  • @marinettegerber5601
    @marinettegerber5601 Месяц назад +8

    These kids are blessed with amazing parents. Their strength and resilience is astounding and I truly hope and pray they have many happy years together ❤

  • @sandyfeet8175
    @sandyfeet8175 Месяц назад +15

    “I love you” and you can tell there is so much love in this family.

  • @BakuraLOLZ54
    @BakuraLOLZ54 Месяц назад +807

    This is one of the most devastating genetic diseases 💔 I wish there was more research for treatments into this.

    • @zoeyrochellezhombie829
      @zoeyrochellezhombie829 Месяц назад

      There can't be research if nobody knows about it. Genetic diseases aren't always treatable.

    • @jackson2009ify
      @jackson2009ify Месяц назад +9

      Yes but money is needed.

    • @lucianaromulus1408
      @lucianaromulus1408 Месяц назад +33

      Anything brain related, this and prion diseases I feel should take precedent above all else, especially for kids.

    • @FRAME5RS
      @FRAME5RS Месяц назад

      ​@@lucianaromulus1408Sadly, if it's rare, it doesn't get any money. 😢

    • @TinyStar-oz3bo
      @TinyStar-oz3bo Месяц назад +11

      ​@@lucianaromulus1408Instead of progress, seems like we're just seeing stuff like this more and more. Something in our environment may be causing genetic damage. Hope these parents stop having bio kids now. Poor family

  • @JayJay32186
    @JayJay32186 Месяц назад +125

    I relate to the mixed feelings of watching a cousin meet a milestone while your child is not. ❤ My daughter is autistic and her cousin is 4 months older. When he started talking, I knew in my heart she was not going to hit that milestone at that time. I didn’t know if she ever would.
    It was excruciating and I felt like it was something I just couldn’t say out loud. I’m so glad this family is close enough to be able to talk about it. What a blessing.

    • @muslimah42
      @muslimah42 Месяц назад +2

      I get it. My son is four and autistic and I relate to this so much . Bless you and your beautiful daughter

  • @jmk1962
    @jmk1962 Месяц назад +185

    Fantastic parents. Those children are surrounded by love and attention for their entire lives. I've been there with my son who was diagnosed with a life limiting genetic condition when he was 5 months old knowing we were going to lose him at any time and we lived everyday as if it could be his last. He lived until he was 15 months old and we have very happy memories of his short life where he knew nothing but love.

  • @ShellieSager
    @ShellieSager Месяц назад +6

    This is heartbreaking. They look like an amazing couple doing an amazing job with what they were dealt. They obviously have a very strong commitment to each other, and I hope they have lot of love and support from their family for the duration of their children’s lives.

  • @Jennifer-rh2yt
    @Jennifer-rh2yt Месяц назад +5

    The love this father has for his children is powerful. You can see it in his face and in his physical contact with them. It’s beautiful.

  • @Bryn_G_Mama_of_3
    @Bryn_G_Mama_of_3 Месяц назад +85

    Mom & Dad: I just want to say how incredible you both are. I cannot fathom how you are feeling, how hard this is for you, and my heart is going out to you both. I just want to hug y’all! Your babies are so incredibly lucky to have you as their amazing parents who truly love, care and cherish them. Thank you for sharing your sweet, adorable littles with us. I pray a cure is found asap and that you all live a long, healthy and happy life together 💝

  • @christinablair1978
    @christinablair1978 Месяц назад +79

    Dad seemed so happy to see someone reading to and interacting with his little guy. They are strong parents and I pray that they hold their relationship close if/when the kids start to lose their battle. I can't imagine having to go through that loss twice and I hope that they fight to stay together.

  • @lauranorwar
    @lauranorwar Месяц назад +63

    Roman was totally listening to the book…and heck yeah! He did say I love you!! Stella was absolutely using her eyes to connect with Chris. It was beautiful!

  • @lisaac4898
    @lisaac4898 Месяц назад +102

    This couple is so strong....Lord do a miracle for them please....😢

    • @elzelinakriek-breet3092
      @elzelinakriek-breet3092 Месяц назад

      Why didn't he do a miracle when they were in the womb? Because he doesn't exist!

    • @pseudomonasaeruginosa4104
      @pseudomonasaeruginosa4104 24 дня назад +3

      "Lord" did this to them in the first place.

    • @elzelinakriek-breet3092
      @elzelinakriek-breet3092 24 дня назад +2

      Your lord was not there to avoid it, was he now?! So useless!

    • @AnnMary-b2e
      @AnnMary-b2e 24 дня назад

      Es que tienen que sufrir tan niños así como su familia, no creo que sean personas malas y que se merecen tanto dolor, donde está ese ser supremo😢fuerza padres, es cierto que al padre se le nota más el dolor pero uno de ellos tenía que ser el más fuerte y no demuestra su dolor interno, son sus niños y darían su vida por verlos cada día mejor.
      No pierdan la fuerza y sigan dándoles ese AMOR TAN GRANDE que eso se siente y RECONFORTA❤

    • @lindakynokephalos7827
      @lindakynokephalos7827 22 дня назад

      Mitacles do not happen unfortunately.God did not prevent these kids have such a horrible disease. God only helps to special, chosen people, not to normal ones.

  • @МаринаГайдарь-г5д
    @МаринаГайдарь-г5д 22 дня назад +50

    Какой папа порядочный, остался со своей семьёй. Обычно папы сливаются при появлении в семье особенного ребёнка, а тут сразу два особенных ребёнка. И папа рядом ❤❤❤

    • @guadalupegarciadura1010
      @guadalupegarciadura1010 20 дней назад +4

      No entiendo porqué realza tanto al papá, esos dos niños tienen padre y madre, los dos padecen una enfermedad y tanto la madre como el padre cuidan de ellos, porqué le dá más mérito al padre que a la madre ? Porqué debería eludir sus obligaciones como padre y que solo se responsabilizara su madre del cuidado de sus hijos ?

    • @Наталья-н4ы5н
      @Наталья-н4ы5н 20 дней назад +19

      Вас не поняли иностранные граждане)
      У них не принято "сливаться" из семьи)

    • @Userwer850
      @Userwer850 18 дней назад +3

      А это проблема с генами у папы, они так сказали

    • @svetlanakhismatullina2720
      @svetlanakhismatullina2720 18 дней назад +1

      ​@@Userwer850оба носители, мама сказала

    • @NatalochkaValerievna
      @NatalochkaValerievna 16 дней назад +2

      ​@@Userwer850 оба родителя - носители. И это не при чём.
      Проблема, в "совке", который в ваших головах

  • @kandacekirsch
    @kandacekirsch Месяц назад +665

    I cried when Roman said “I love you” back😭😭😭😭

  • @ameliab324
    @ameliab324 Месяц назад +2263

    When they showed Roman at like 6 months old, I felt heartbroken. This little happy baby didn't deserve such pain and suffering.

    • @karinkerna4625
      @karinkerna4625 Месяц назад +17

      real

    • @brittnyann
      @brittnyann Месяц назад +129

      Same I started tearing up 😥 it must be so heartbreaking to see your child slowly slip away.

    • @doberspirit
      @doberspirit Месяц назад +109

      And when he tried to say I love you to his mum. He did not let that to be taken away by the illness ... I broke into pieces

    • @WendyLopezGazquez
      @WendyLopezGazquez Месяц назад +83

      Do they ever deserve this? No child deserve this.

    • @Rachel-wp1yz
      @Rachel-wp1yz Месяц назад +9

      ​@@doberspiritme too. Heartbreaking

  • @juliastreet4539
    @juliastreet4539 Месяц назад +393

    My son has a lysosomal storage disorder too, and just like your children it is life limiting. He is a year old now and we know he won't see his second birthday. I never knew what LSD's were before he was born and it has been so hard seeing other people's kids reach milestones he never will, even early ones like lifting his head. We find joy where we can (he gives the best snuggles with his whole body), but i fully agree with needing to let yourself feel the grief but then find a way to move on and not get sucked in. Best of luck to your family, I am in it with you.

    • @1pootle
      @1pootle Месяц назад +25

      Blessings to you. I ask that you be held in divine love at this time. 💚🙏

    • @chixbleau7321
      @chixbleau7321 Месяц назад +19

      May you cherish every moment with your son..feel the love ❤️..it’s the best feeling a mother and child..can feel..

    • @tulipgirl3k
      @tulipgirl3k Месяц назад +6

      ❤️‍🩹

    • @9AcreBaker
      @9AcreBaker Месяц назад +6

      💝❤️‍🩹🧡💛💚💙🩵💜

    • @hollyhock3945
      @hollyhock3945 Месяц назад +6

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @vanessaneira1113
    @vanessaneira1113 14 дней назад +2

    Wow I am amazed how the parents follow each child cues and take time to enjoy. There is so much graze in this family. ❤

  • @axeki9361
    @axeki9361 Месяц назад +10

    I’m not normally the type of person to comment on things but I honestly just have to say that this channel and now this story in particular is so so amazing. It really puts everything in life into perspective, and shows you some of the most amazing people who we would likely never see or hear about otherwise. Mom and dad here are doing such an amazing job and I send them all the prayers in the world ❤

  • @gardengal87
    @gardengal87 Месяц назад +1623

    The dad looks hauntingly sad.

    • @asmodeuso27
      @asmodeuso27 Месяц назад +121

      Who wouldn’t?

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 Месяц назад +55

      He really did.

    • @briarrose5208
      @briarrose5208 Месяц назад +128

      Oh my God, to watch your child develop and then deteriorate, to lose a little piece of them every day.

    • @SherryAnnOfTheWest
      @SherryAnnOfTheWest Месяц назад +112

      I just don't think he has the same way of dealing with it as the mom does ... her way is to learn and talk about it a lot. That doesn't seem to be how he can deal with it.

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi Месяц назад +48

      ​@@SherryAnnOfTheWestI'm like the mum too. I talk to cope. Talking therapy is very useful.

  • @0tterMom
    @0tterMom Месяц назад +93

    These parents are so strong. They are amazing. I can't imagine being in their shoes, the emotions just overwhelm me. I wish we had a cure from this awful disease for these kids.

  • @juliej5917
    @juliej5917 Месяц назад +333

    My sister and I were pregnant together, and her baby Gregory had many health problems. Gregory passed away at 6 mos, and my sister at 39. And they’re together. Tough journey. Love to this family.💙💜🩵

    • @irenebetros2691
      @irenebetros2691 Месяц назад +48

      My condolences to you Julie and your family. I am so sorry for what you all have gone through. God bless to you and your family as well as this other beautiful wonderful family xo

    • @juliej5917
      @juliej5917 Месяц назад +10

      @@irenebetros2691 That’s very kind of you, Irene. 🌼

    • @roxieearly9484
      @roxieearly9484 Месяц назад +17

      Sorry for your loss my dear life is hard

    • @DefiantAngel87
      @DefiantAngel87 Месяц назад +12

      I'm so deeply sorry

    • @lorettaj6995
      @lorettaj6995 Месяц назад +12

      So sorry for your loss of your Sister and her baby. Prayers for you and your family. 🙏

  • @mandylove6404
    @mandylove6404 Месяц назад +4

    They've already beat the odds. Your endless love and support shows mom and dad ❤ wishing you all the best.

  • @Fanilla2010
    @Fanilla2010 Месяц назад +3

    I really admire this family!!! So wonderful seeing those parents holding hands and fighting this fight together... I hope they stay strong together!
    Greets from Germany ❤

  • @balaam_7087
    @balaam_7087 Месяц назад +139

    That S tier parenting makes all the difference in the world to these two little champs.

  • @tobydandelion
    @tobydandelion Месяц назад +43

    Thank you for making a point to mention that they still feel joy. A profoundly disabled life can still be a wonderful, beautiful life, as long as there's love. These kids are luckier than a lot of abled kids, honestly. I've never seen parents more devoted to their kids' happiness than this. Beautiful. ❤

  • @annafrancessmith
    @annafrancessmith Месяц назад +26

    Honestly. These parents are absolute diamonds. The love is oozing out of them and it’s so lovely to see 🧡

  • @nicoles1667
    @nicoles1667 Месяц назад +19

    These parents are amazing. Wow.❤

  • @aileentrew3526
    @aileentrew3526 Месяц назад +2

    What absolutely amazing parents, so very loving. Their beautiful children are a credit to them both. Heartbreaking and uplifting to see such love and acceptance. Hugs and love to you all x

  • @lindalloyd8296
    @lindalloyd8296 Месяц назад +105

    Roman saying I love you just did me in. What precious children and wonderful loving parents, in the face of this devastating disease. Praying for treatments and a cure ❤

    • @alyssam8550
      @alyssam8550 Месяц назад +1

      Me too, that part is incredibly sweet and incredibly sad... I hope for the best for this beautiful family... However that looks for them. 💜

    • @bryanmiller476
      @bryanmiller476 Месяц назад +1

      If praying actually worked then god would actually be real but also kids wouldnt be born like this in the first place

    • @avroe1
      @avroe1 Месяц назад +1

      The cure is: don’t have more kids when you are both carriers of a mutation

    • @alyssam8550
      @alyssam8550 Месяц назад +9

      @@avroe1 watch the video before being a jerk. They didn't know yet. That's incredibly insensitive.

    • @batacumba
      @batacumba Месяц назад

      @@alyssam8550 they can literally test for this with genetic testing of the parents. That’s why you’re supposed to do that before you have kids with someone. But many people think you should treat procreation like throwing caution to the wind and hoping for the best. Which is a cute sentiment but not one rooted in reality.

  • @pripri3404
    @pripri3404 Месяц назад +47

    I can almost physically feel the love in this family.

  • @eggbun1856
    @eggbun1856 Месяц назад +61

    the home video of little baby Roman laughing while his dad tickles/plays with him contrasted with present day Roman is sobering. these two parents are incredible, I can't imagine how much strength and grit it takes to manage just regular daily life, parenting/any medical stuff the kids need, PLUS the grief that they probably experience every day. surely it's overwhelming sometimes. I hope they have every possible resource they could ever need, and tons of support. I'm kind of left without many words on this one... I'm just glad Roman and Stella have such fantastic parents who are wholly devoted to them and their care and happiness, and I hope the parents prioritize themselves, their mental health, and their marriage too. I think it's probably difficult to keep balance. I wish this whole family so much love and peace. 🤍

  • @svetis3712
    @svetis3712 19 дней назад +12

    Можно пожелать только сил и душевной стойкости. Очень печально всё это😢 Дети должны радоваться жизни, бегать, скакать, играть....

  • @babyicedog
    @babyicedog Месяц назад +4

    These parents take the very best care of their children. You can tell how much they love and care for them♥️

  • @sharonowen
    @sharonowen Месяц назад +69

    My Dad had early onset dementia and it broke my heart it started when he was around 60 years old and he died at 72 . These parents are the strongest people ever so devastating for them to have such beautiful babies to slowly lose them to this horrible disease. God bless them all. You are both amazing parents.

  • @AndMar87
    @AndMar87 Месяц назад +42

    So sweet. These children are so precious. They are very fortunate to have the parents that they do 🙏🏿💜

  • @Limagoat71
    @Limagoat71 Месяц назад +82

    Roman was really checking you out when you were reading to him! You could see him refocus his gaze to you repeatedly.

  • @Mommaslew
    @Mommaslew Месяц назад +3

    Chris….what a bright spot you are in these families lives. Bless you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AngieRocha-c7f
    @AngieRocha-c7f Месяц назад +2

    This so heartbreaking, but I admired those parents who are so positive in taking care of of them, as they don’t know how long they will be around , they are just loving them, and are very proud of them, with so much love. May Our Blessed them with His care. ❤❤❤

  • @btsm.4668
    @btsm.4668 Месяц назад +41

    For the first time in a year of watching your channel I can not bare to watch this one to the end. I really can not see between my tears. This is by far the most heart wrenching video I have watched on your channel. I wish I could hug this family. I wish I had the strength to watch past the midway point but I can’t, my heart hurts…Chris your stories are so touching. You do amazing things with amazing families ❤❤❤

  • @LyingInAGreenBed
    @LyingInAGreenBed Месяц назад +22

    Dear Jill and Donald, Stella and Roman, you are a beautiful family. Your emotional intelligence, intuition and love shines through every word and every glance. I enjoyed seeing Stella and Roman communicate with their eyes. They clearly still have a lot to say and know you parents are listening.
    I wish you as many beautiful moments together as possible.
    I might be overstepping here, but I feel like Roman and Stella are grateful for the way you fill their lives with life and love. I know I would be if I were them. So thank you. Sending love from across the pond to your entire family xx

  • @Peggy-Sue
    @Peggy-Sue Месяц назад +47

    Beautiful children, beautiful parents. You can tell there is so much love in the family, despite the challenges.

  • @Kimcreation
    @Kimcreation Месяц назад +3

    These are very special children, they will teach love and kindness and strength. Parents will learn to connect on a Deeper level. Unconditional love ❤️ you are guardians for these soles that came in together to live this experience.
    Love and courage to you all.

  • @janootie184life8
    @janootie184life8 Месяц назад +2

    What beautiful children and the best parental support a child could have. God bless this family.

  • @shannonkilner3191
    @shannonkilner3191 Месяц назад +21

    This video shook me to my core….I have 2 boys under 4 and can’t even imagine. You are AMAZING parents and your children are so lucky to have you ❤

  • @RobJDoran
    @RobJDoran Месяц назад +94

    I don’t think I’ve ever been so upset watching a video. My heart is with this family. My parents both died from Alzheimer’s in their 80’s, but seeing children with this type of disease literally breaks my heart. NO child should ever have to go through this. God Bless you all. I shall pray there will be a cure for this horrible condition and that their love will endure. ❤ 🙏

    • @NeeNee_B.
      @NeeNee_B. 25 дней назад

      The 2nd child DIDNT have to go thru it, they CHOSE to have her even knowing what they would be putting her thru

    • @RobJDoran
      @RobJDoran 25 дней назад

      @@NeeNee_B. and you judge them because?

    • @NeeNee_B.
      @NeeNee_B. 25 дней назад

      @@RobJDoran I just told you why. Because they sentenced their 2nd child to a life of pain and early demise. Since when DONT we judge ppl that knowingly and willingly hurt kids?

    • @RobJDoran
      @RobJDoran 25 дней назад

      @ Wow, you’re really something to judge people by just watching a story about them. I don’t judge people… I let God do that. No wonder our world is in the shape it is.

    • @NeeNee_B.
      @NeeNee_B. 24 дня назад

      @RobJDoran what are you talking about, we judge all the time. As Christians, we judge people who we deem to not be living by the Lords word. Even the Bible says to be not unevenly yoked. Judgement is not always a bad thing, sometimes it's a discernment about what's right and wrong. Who doesn't agree that hurting children is terrible? We judge people for that all the time and send them to jail. We literally have people in power called JUDGES. Why are they the exception to the rule? They said out their own mouths it's a painful and terminal disease. Well if you felt that way, why'd you doom a second innocent life to that fate? I'm looking sideways at people that ARENT judging them at this point!

  • @bettyfreeman9253
    @bettyfreeman9253 Месяц назад +56

    Those are wonderful parents who love their children! . That was informative

  • @sarahdixon1943
    @sarahdixon1943 Месяц назад +2

    I've never seen two more committed parents. ❤❤ The devotion and love you both have for your babies is clearly evident. I pray for healing for all of you.

  • @Crowned921
    @Crowned921 Месяц назад +3

    Wow! Their story has left me heartbroken. These beautiful children. 💔💔🥹🥹

  • @mamamia-vh5zf
    @mamamia-vh5zf Месяц назад +35

    These videos are so important Chris! You are showing the beauty and the pain of real life.

  • @sahraJ215
    @sahraJ215 Месяц назад +36

    Love hearing how proud they are of their children. Hearing that they both stay strong at the doctor's really is something. I can only imagine the hospital sucks for everyone no matter their cognitive ability, no matter the result, it's not a fun place to go.

  • @OllyVish
    @OllyVish Месяц назад +32

    I just can feel the pain radiating through their dad he can barely hold himself, it is totally destroying him, it makes me feel so sad as a parent myself, it’s so heartbreaking 💔

  • @JillDeboest
    @JillDeboest Месяц назад +6

    I've worked or volunteered with children with disabilities since I was 14 (now 70). The juxtaposition of loss and love that is expressed is profound. The parents are blessed to have been able to get to know their children and the children are blessed to have parents who wholly love them through this difficult journey. Thanks to the interviewer for his genuine interactions with Roman.

  • @heidimispagel9877
    @heidimispagel9877 Месяц назад +1

    What beautiful parents - Stella and Roman are so loved. This video is very touching. Wishing you all the best.

  • @Meli55a77
    @Meli55a77 Месяц назад +22

    Mom and Dad are doing an incredibly great job. I see the heart ache and I just want so badly for these children to have a cure. My heart goes out to this wonderful family.

  • @PhilemonBarlow
    @PhilemonBarlow Месяц назад +63

    This breaks my heart. Praying for this beautiful family 🙏🙏😥

  • @saltcitysunshine
    @saltcitysunshine Месяц назад +42

    Roman is loving that book and Stella was 100% responding to Chris’ conversation with her mouth. 💗
    Thanks for giving us the opportunity to see them engaging.
    You have definitely given them that life surrounded by love. What a blessing to be a child who always knows love, security, and care every day of your life.
    I can never know how hard those moments of grief are, but man, if there’s any purpose on this earth, it’s to love the way you two love your children.

  • @LoriBlessed4Christ
    @LoriBlessed4Christ Месяц назад +1

    Mom and Dad, I am so impressed. You both are amazing! I feel the love your family has for each other. God Bless you!

  • @peggyschoener7397
    @peggyschoener7397 Месяц назад +1

    These 2 are just so precious and their parents are amazingly loving. May God bless & atrengthen them as they parent through so much unknown.

  • @ellie_5276
    @ellie_5276 Месяц назад +10

    The love from these parents is boundless. What incredibly strong and beautiful people. Wishing them continued strength and healing ❤

  • @deniselancaster6888
    @deniselancaster6888 Месяц назад +59

    Could you please follow thse beautiful children Chris. Very brave of the parents to enable their children to be involved in research, knowing there aren't any cures yet, but postively hopeful in lenghtening their days and at the same time help others living with this disease. What a couple, what a fsmily! Thank you Chris.

    • @AiméeGoodman-u4x
      @AiméeGoodman-u4x Месяц назад +1

      They literally have nothing to lose. It's better to try anything than to just sit there and nothing

  • @nomecognome1968
    @nomecognome1968 Месяц назад +32

    They talk so much with their eyes ❤ You can see Roman trying to see the book and Stella looking at Chris.. You can still see their personality the way they look at Chris too 😂❤ It's true you can see that they understand in their eyes, like when they were talking about Roman liking being told "I love you" and he was vocalizing and trying to move his head. Roman saying I love you back was such a strong moment. And you can see Stella is so fierce too and was looking at Nora ❤️. Such amazing kids ❤

  • @FreeSpiritinLightandLove
    @FreeSpiritinLightandLove Месяц назад +1

    Your love for each other and your children is beautiful. Thank you for sharing your family with us. ❤

  • @heatherpizzo2628
    @heatherpizzo2628 Месяц назад +1

    I have to say you two are warriors please stay strong the love you have for these children is amazing and your patience is Unbreakable keep fighting for them you are some of the greatest parents

  • @carvalhobela
    @carvalhobela Месяц назад +28

    It is so clear they are understanding and enjoying the reading and the conversation! Such lovely kids and such a terrible disease! My grandma had alzheimer and I know that is far from easy, I can't imagine with kids! Bless the family! Thank you the channel and the family for sharing their story! Love from Brazil!

    • @kathybrem880
      @kathybrem880 Месяц назад

      I don’t think they do. But it’s to be expected. I don’t know why they can’t do something about this disease

    • @carvalhobela
      @carvalhobela Месяц назад

      @@kathybrem880 I understand your point, but based on my own experience I say that they are not always 100% off. Alzheimer patients have some kind of awareness and I believe in the video, they were feeling the good energy from the people in the room and the reading.

  • @EvesterBee
    @EvesterBee Месяц назад +32

    Thank you for letting us meet Roman and Stella ❤

  • @CW-rt4sr
    @CW-rt4sr 28 дней назад

    Chris, I think you simply showing yourself sitting with the children and speaking directly to them is so powerful. Thank you. It brought me to tears.

  • @tatianamayle2020
    @tatianamayle2020 Месяц назад +2

    They've got such a beautiful family. Sending them all hugs 🤗 and prayers 🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️.