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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2019
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    Join supermodel, style icon and barrier-breaking body activist Ashley Graham as she sits down with some of her brilliant, inspiring and honest friends about what makes them a Pretty Big Deal. Absolutely nothing is off limits, so get ready.
    Ashley Graham sits down with Paloma Elsesser. Paloma ia a model and style icon that got her big break when she was discovered by renowned makeup artist Pat McGrath on Instagram. After being chosen as Pat’s muse, things never slowed down. She’s covered magazines all over the world - including Vogue Arabia with yours truly. You can catch her on runways and working with brands like Glossier, Nike and Fenty Beauty. On top of it all, she’s a steadfast advocate for diversity and inclusion, body positivity, and human rights.
    In this episode, we talk fashion, mental health, confidence, and so much more.
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    HOST
    Ashley Graham
    GUEST
    Paloma Elsesser
    EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS
    Ashley Graham
    Penni Thow
    Scooter Braun
    EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS
    Michael D. Ratner
    Scott Ratner
    Miranda Sherman
    CO-EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS
    Kelsey McWilliams
    Ava Coleman
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    Kaliya Warren
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    Ava Coleman
    LINE PRODUCER
    Jess Vogel
    ASSOCIATE PRODUCER
    Ilyssa Walker
    RESEARCHER
    Shahnaz Mahmud
    SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGER
    Natasha Janardan
    DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY
    Katherine Castro
    PRODUCTION DESIGNER
    Lauren Nester
    EDITORS
    Crystal Arnette
    Lucy Tatiana Morales
    MAIN TITLE THEME BY
    Johannes Raassina
    Lefteris Ioannou
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    Jess Vogel
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    Marika Litz
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    James Sparber
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    Johannes Raassina
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    Autumn Moran
    Megan Mansur
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    Charlie Gillette
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    Crystal Arnette
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    Babette Johnson
    Mary Evangelista
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    Moe LaRena
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    Jade Smith
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    Barbie Leung
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    Julissa Ramirez
    WARDROBE
    Jordan Foster
    MAKEUP
    Katie Jane Hughes
    HAIR STYLIST
    David Lopez
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    Kit Jirles
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    Deanne Williams
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    Laura Miller
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    Catrina Kokkoris
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    Melissa Bueno-Werner
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    Masha Zhak
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    Raquel Dominguez
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    Mina White
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Комментарии • 188

  • @amandi6425
    @amandi6425 4 года назад +234

    Paloma is a really great girl irl. A couple of years ago I was very drunk one night in the LES and fell on the sidewalk and she literally picked me up off the street and asked if I was okay and if I needed help. I won’t ever forgot that moment of kindness she extended to a stranger. I’m so happy to see her thriving! What a great soul and beautiful woman ❤️

  • @MEmneina
    @MEmneina 4 года назад +329

    I am blown away by her intelligence. What an articulate, eloquent beauty! I am now a fan of Paloma.

    • @yowzayammm
      @yowzayammm 4 года назад +3

      Mariam S she went to the new school and studied literature and psychology!! She’s a smart cookie

  • @naomigarza9723
    @naomigarza9723 4 года назад +297

    I’m so happy Paloma is finally getting recognized!

  • @Misspretty75
    @Misspretty75 4 года назад +174

    "What I didn't get wasn't for me", great words to live by.

  • @jennasabourin8179
    @jennasabourin8179 4 года назад +158

    her speaking about not being comfortable in her body when she was young bc she already had the curves of a grown woman...god that was so relatable.

    • @MsMeGUka
      @MsMeGUka 4 года назад +2

      Ohh yes i've never been plus size however i was 5'9 when i was 12 studying in a christian school. What a horrible 12 years in so many ways. I'm still trying to fight all the insecurities that i've got at that time. Being too sexy without doing anything. Without dressing a certain way it was always just too sexy. Still trying to be confindent and comfortable just the way i am. Sometimes i own how easly i can grab attention and sometimes i'm a regular person with general interests who doesn't care about being attractive or not. I mean i don't have to represent my body all the time my soul is free.
      I get u and i was also liks wow this got to me so much wheb she said those words i emidiatly thought of teenage years 😕❤

    • @FNFNFN99KKK
      @FNFNFN99KKK Год назад

      I can relate too, I hit puberty very early and always had big breasts which made me very uncomfortable. I always wear baggy clothes to hide the side of by breasts.

  • @briannawhite2799
    @briannawhite2799 3 года назад +26

    I think Ashley is a phenomenal interviewer. She is very engaged and actually allows her guests to talk. Maybe because this is set up as a podcast versus an actual talk show, but she exudes excellent communication skills. I hope to see much more content from Ashley!! Amazing job girl

  • @melaniejones6698
    @melaniejones6698 4 года назад +125

    Probably the best interview I have ever watched, I've been following Paloma for years, so refreshing!

  • @Chic-ana
    @Chic-ana 4 года назад +16

    whenever I feel down, I come back to this exact video. I've followed Paloma since 2013/2014 because I too was heavily into skate culture. I am not even joking, Paloma changed the course of my life, I am currently 19 years old and I honestly think I've have come so far in my self love journey because of her! Today, my peers alway tell me that I inspire them to try new things, dress how they want, and be unapologetic because thats how I carry myself and I couldn't thank Paloma more for being one of the people to guide me this way! A true blueprint!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @alinaingunza7067
    @alinaingunza7067 3 года назад +11

    This is the fourth time im watching this interview. Every time i feel society’s norms of the perfect body gets to me, i just watch this and feel okay again. This is why these conversations are so important. Thank you❤️

  • @jeanniemilne819
    @jeanniemilne819 4 года назад +59

    Ashley & Paloma, this is the most incredible interview I have seen. I’m 35 and looked 21 when I was 13. The eyes from grown men, especially in sports environments pushed me back into a defensive space that I’ve only recently unraveled. Being “pretty” in a way your standard size friends couldn’t understand and empathize with. Standing up for yourselves in the moment when you receive micro-aggressions, building awareness and being such an amazing role models 🤩🙌🌟🌟 This content is so powerful

    • @shintaaspari7760
      @shintaaspari7760 4 года назад

      Ashley love

    • @sangeethav7631
      @sangeethav7631 4 года назад

      I relate. I remember getting glances from men because of curves. It's important that we have people that tell us it's happened to them too and asking us to fight back.

  • @MissCartersWorld
    @MissCartersWorld 4 года назад +22

    Love how Ashley said on her Kim Kardashian interview that she wasn't even thinking about having kids and now she's pregnant! Life is crazy God bless you and your budding family!

  • @missjohnnyhayes
    @missjohnnyhayes 4 года назад +45

    Ugh! They both have such perfect skin!!

  • @NVRK279
    @NVRK279 Год назад +2

    THIS NEEDED TO BE LONGER! so thankful for this ❤️

  • @karlaquinonez7986
    @karlaquinonez7986 4 года назад +20

    This was so eye-opening for many reasons...a convo I didn't knew I needed in my life.
    Thank You for this

  • @lianet777
    @lianet777 4 года назад +11

    These two women are so gorgeous♥️ come through with the beauty and the brains. They have more to offer than just their beauty, which I love, cuz a lot of models -especially skinnier models tend to be shallow and have no depth to them. These two have an essence of enduring struggles and overcoming them and are here today talking about things that matter. I’m all for it

    • @lianet777
      @lianet777 4 года назад +1

      Sara Kristy I’m a naturally skinny girl.... I’m not trying to bash girls that look like me, but the fact is, plus sized models tend to have a lot more depth because of the extra level of rejection that they have faced. It’s humbled them and given them a wider outlook on things

  • @Hahaha30000
    @Hahaha30000 4 года назад +31

    she has the sexiest voice, holy shit.. i’m in love

  • @everettlopez9127
    @everettlopez9127 4 года назад +4

    Every time I have a bad feeling about myself or my body I just watch Paloma talk and it feels like the empathy and insight switch in my brain turns on again

  • @pericaperez4624
    @pericaperez4624 4 года назад +9

    just discovered this channel. Ashley, thanks so much for these podcasts - i'm devouring every episode. I'm really enjoying the real people and getting to know more about them and their struggles.

  • @deesong6722
    @deesong6722 3 года назад +2

    I love this conversation! “I want the same clothes!” That’s what we all want! And I’m glad you’re representing what most women can relate to when it comes to fashion-both of you!

  • @vimarbonitavasquez3819
    @vimarbonitavasquez3819 4 года назад +6

    What an empowering interview. Independently of being or not a “plus size”, I think it’s important for all people to know that we all have insecurities and that it’s okay. We all can do hard things and overcome the mental barriers that keep us from feeling good with who we are.

  • @helenhewitt1273
    @helenhewitt1273 4 года назад +12

    two queens making everybody feel confident and happy! love!

  • @elenallen8884
    @elenallen8884 4 года назад +4

    I just absolutely iove Ashley Graham she is just so honest . Thank you for introducing us to Palomna she is so beautiful ! ❤😎

  • @EleanorJosefina
    @EleanorJosefina 4 года назад +45

    OMG! Anyone else been dying for the new season!? 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️
    👇🏼

  • @Moonlight-mz7mu
    @Moonlight-mz7mu 3 года назад +3

    I really want to model, I’m really genuinely considering applying to IMG. I’ve always wanted to, but I never felt represented. You two genuinely inspire me so much. It’s pushing me and motivating me to give it all a try. You Two are so articúlate and intelligent beauties. Such beautiful souls.

  • @prasad_create6066
    @prasad_create6066 4 года назад +56

    Loved this Episode with Paloma. She is bold.

  • @sabahyaqoob1177
    @sabahyaqoob1177 4 года назад +3

    Ashley your videos are amazing. The conversations you lead and the guests you choose are so informative, fun and soothing to watch. These videos always chill me out and inspire me during my day. BIG love

  • @Karlamarie216
    @Karlamarie216 4 года назад +10

    the fact that I completely related to every single thing Paloma uttered in this interview! you are my role model and inspiration sis

  • @krissyk354
    @krissyk354 3 года назад +1

    I really hope this interview and other interviews of similar experiences will make the proper changes it needs for the fashion community and the model community. Very disheartening to hear that is how people of any size, colour, culture are treated. Thank you Ashley for shining a light on where it matters most ❤️

  • @ChanningWearsSunscreen
    @ChanningWearsSunscreen Год назад +1

    I would lOVEE for this pod to come back

  • @raquelcolon5785
    @raquelcolon5785 4 года назад +6

    Two beautiful women representing 99.9 person of the women in this world. Thank you Ashley, in my head you both are my daughters. Smart, powerful, caring, gorgeous, but most importantly, not compromising who you are. ROCK ON LADIES, ROCK ON!!!

  • @ryleeburgay7534
    @ryleeburgay7534 4 года назад +2

    both ashley & paloma are so radiant & beautiful & positive💘

  • @tatumlawrence4391
    @tatumlawrence4391 4 года назад +5

    I could listen to these two women every single day.

  • @wandjau14
    @wandjau14 4 года назад +8

    This was an amazing episode and I really admire Paloma confidence.

  • @tainamarrrero267
    @tainamarrrero267 4 года назад +6

    This is all such great advice and important information for everyone in any industry or part of life. Stand up for yourself and those around you! Have no fear ♥️

  • @mairalila7827
    @mairalila7827 4 года назад +11

    Thank you Paloma!
    Thank you Ashley!
    Thank you!!!

  • @sabinabozadzhieva2855
    @sabinabozadzhieva2855 3 года назад +1

    I am really happy that we have this type of conversation. I always have been big girl not only by nature but in hormonal side of the spectrum. Most people can't understand of the struggle what people like me have every day. I really want if this conversation continues with to second part with fashion tips and advice 🤗😁🤪 Both of them are amazing

  • @raqueltorres8263
    @raqueltorres8263 4 года назад +2

    I love Paloma's personally the way she speaks! So smart and gorgeous!💛

  • @MadelineModesti
    @MadelineModesti 4 года назад +1

    I'm crying because I feel so empowered by both of them and I relate so much to everything they're saying thank u

  • @marsandfruit6135
    @marsandfruit6135 3 года назад +1

    I relate to her story. I’m ethnically ambiguous, grew up hippie, and experienced identity issues as well. I was an overweight kid and when I lost weight high school, I reached my lowest point. I did it for me but no one around me liked it and felt inferior to it. It was dumb and those people are no longer in my life. So when it came to modeling I did it out of my own self love. A self-expression. I started modeling randomly one day when someone needed a model for their portfolio. I’ve been modeling ever since then and am now considering applying to some major agencies. That being said, I am freaked to do it lmao.

  • @catherineebikpoja961
    @catherineebikpoja961 Год назад

    I just wanna say I was really blessed by this interview especially be Paloma
    . A lot of the insecurities and issues she pointed out I faced and some still facing now and it really made me feel not alone and included, I love you so much Paloma and Ashley❤. You guys are blessings in plus size models life’s

  • @LaiaSD1
    @LaiaSD1 4 года назад +4

    What a long wait I love your podcast!!

  • @jaboubaa928
    @jaboubaa928 4 года назад +24

    😂 The ssss gets everyone stressed.

  • @Thandonline
    @Thandonline 4 года назад +2

    So honest. So smart. Love her!!

  • @SuperToocool4skool
    @SuperToocool4skool 4 года назад +17

    I need paloma's dress in my life.❤🧡💛💚

  • @danielasesma2097
    @danielasesma2097 4 года назад +3

    Obssesed!!!! I never leave comments but this is amazing, thank you paloma for your realness and beautiful mind and body😍in love

  • @mirizaga8868
    @mirizaga8868 4 года назад

    as someone who conciders herself a BEAUTIFULL pluz size women, i loved listening to this, and not only that, but relating and noticing that it happens to everyone. and i love what you guys do to the industry and what you represent

  • @Pinkbubble
    @Pinkbubble 2 года назад +1

    Wow this was so relatable. Almost everything she said I have experienced to an extent. I love this interview

  • @DenineRogers-ei4eo
    @DenineRogers-ei4eo 4 года назад +3

    I truly love Paloma and for what she stands for. I wish I had that wisdom and smarts at her age! She will definitely go far! You do you Paloma and Ashley! ;)

  • @SherG2774
    @SherG2774 4 года назад +2

    Yasss Paloma and thank you Ashley, wonderful interview and great success stories too, so proud of you both and what you are doing for the fashion industry 🤗

  • @TheNightGaiden
    @TheNightGaiden 4 года назад +4

    I love this!! Also Palomas voice sounds so familiar does anyone else notice?!

  • @jennifermitchell9018
    @jennifermitchell9018 3 года назад +1

    both of you are amazing! paloma is one of your best guests! i loved this conversation :)

  • @user-gf7ck8xn8p
    @user-gf7ck8xn8p 3 года назад +1

    Ahley looks stunning in this episode, im i love with this look

  • @RoxanneDesforges
    @RoxanneDesforges 4 года назад +3

    This is such a solid interview.

  • @sarahsaid1427
    @sarahsaid1427 4 года назад +43

    Something about their mouths looks similar, both so gorg

    • @filmwiz7636
      @filmwiz7636 4 года назад

      lmao i see it

    • @Unstable_Luis
      @Unstable_Luis 4 года назад +2

      why are you looking at their mouths, pay attention man

    • @MsMeGUka
      @MsMeGUka 4 года назад +1

      Yesss i thought the same thing😁 sooo beautifull though ❤🙄

    • @starshine8141
      @starshine8141 3 года назад

      To me, they BOTH look like mixed race plus sized models - I don't think that Ashley looks white.

  • @SuperToocool4skool
    @SuperToocool4skool 4 года назад +15

    I dont get people who fit in. Like not at all. I could totally relate to her. Love Paloma! Shes gorgeous!😍

  • @moniquelynch-cosme9496
    @moniquelynch-cosme9496 7 месяцев назад

    I love both these women and how they’ve represented in their careers❤ Icons 💯

  • @andreafuentes1234
    @andreafuentes1234 4 года назад +1

    Paloma is such an amazing person. She has been an inspiration for couple years now.

  • @nataliewerthamer1277
    @nataliewerthamer1277 4 года назад +2

    This is amazing. Forever in awe of both of your BEAUTY😍❤️

  • @kishorechakraborty8991
    @kishorechakraborty8991 Год назад

    I'm Very Happy To See Both Of You & Feel Proud Both Of You 🥰🥰🥰

  • @nassdenice
    @nassdenice 4 года назад

    WOW This is just amazing !!! I am so happy that video is there for all the young girls and teenagers and any women who need a boost in their life, they can watch and listen to all the single words in that feeling good video!! What an inspirational Woman!! We should move on from the women from the past and talk more and women like you. I wish the teenager that I was could have watched this but anyway the woman that I am today really love it !!! Thanks

  • @vvsym
    @vvsym 4 года назад

    Loved this episode!! Thanks for bringing Paloma on this show ❤︎

  • @tutyvb1456
    @tutyvb1456 4 года назад +1

    Amazing!!!!! You both are such an inspiration!!!!!

  • @lucia_cossu_voiceteacher
    @lucia_cossu_voiceteacher Год назад

    WELL DONE! So great content and discussions in these shows, and some nice and fun that is nice also. I cannot say how much this is important to me being a 51 years old Italian/French raised in Italy where the craziness of the model was so strict summed up with a patriarchy so strict that any stranger could comment on you and your eating and your appearance from teen years: the model was 52kg no matter the height or the athletic/nonathletic physique. I still have some issues and doing the pushing me on taking my spaces for myself, pretty stupid things like going out in shorts to feel the sun and feel comfortable while I still feel uncomfortable (working well but I had to see Ashley to put in my head that this was a thing I was not permitting for no reason but an external pressure on how I have to be seen my professional and age role, really? :D :D :D ). I am an accomplished professional and before soloist and in scene I can do whatever I feel right and transferring this into those personal aspects that where like a others business thing and not just a personal one.
    You show and teach and inspire how to get to a better, more evolved and cherishing and free place and this is so beautiful. GREAT GREAT dear Ashley Graham and Paloma Elsesser, and we love being a pretty big deal. Cheers to all of us and thank for this!

  • @janeetaprakash5586
    @janeetaprakash5586 2 года назад

    Ok I just can't get over how exceptionally pretty Paloma's face is, like her bone structure, symmetry and lips are mesmerizing

  • @FopsyTheGreat
    @FopsyTheGreat 4 года назад

    Such an incredible interview! We can't get enough plus and midsize body inspiration.

  • @sphephelomnguni4700
    @sphephelomnguni4700 4 года назад +2

    "I want to take a nap on you." LOL

  • @wendyscurlytips46
    @wendyscurlytips46 4 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed this interview! What a great lady.

  • @ghjgjlmhjkjk
    @ghjgjlmhjkjk Год назад +1

    Where can we find the zine Paloma talks about? She mentions producing photographs and writing along with her friend in regard to the process of breast reduction, etc? Is there somewhere we can read it?
    Thanks so much!

  • @guylainebourdeau7269
    @guylainebourdeau7269 4 года назад +2

    Interesting enterview!!! Love it!!!❤

  • @sophialee6085
    @sophialee6085 4 года назад +1

    I'm obsessed with her!!! She's stunning and so smart ❤️

  • @corrinvoeller9491
    @corrinvoeller9491 4 года назад +2

    Side note: I freakin love Ashley’s laugh

  • @lovejademonet
    @lovejademonet 4 года назад +1

    Love, love, love this interview!

  • @jarqul
    @jarqul 4 года назад

    Thank u ashley for amazing interviews.so inspiring

  • @MrTheosaurusrex
    @MrTheosaurusrex 4 года назад

    Really loved this interview!!!

  • @lulukinyozibeauty5628
    @lulukinyozibeauty5628 4 года назад +1

    Yes Paloma with the Africa knecklace!She is gorgeous.

  • @temisspot5234
    @temisspot5234 4 года назад

    THIS WAS A GREAT EPISODE AND I VIBE AND ENERGY WAS JUST BEAUTIFUL

  • @liiindzay4285
    @liiindzay4285 4 года назад +5

    how do plus size models have the most chiseled scuplted faces!!!!! im so jealous lmao

  • @Unknownuser89878
    @Unknownuser89878 4 года назад

    I could listen to her talk all day long

  • @Beckylory
    @Beckylory 4 года назад +1

    Such an amaaaaazing interview!!! I loved it! My sister send it to me and im so glad she did! I was watching Paloma’s progress for while through her instagram and I always wondered how her personality is. I like het even more now!! I can really relate about being unhappy about my breasts. Also love her styleeeeeee

  • @blancadz8419
    @blancadz8419 4 года назад

    so powerful interview!

  • @aaliyahosman7115
    @aaliyahosman7115 3 года назад

    I wanna be as eloquent and wise and articulate as both these women

  • @deeprasarkar1409
    @deeprasarkar1409 2 года назад

    Amazing Intv. Love ur PBD. Love ❤️ Paloma

  • @bianca5375
    @bianca5375 4 года назад +1

    This was amazing

  • @cecerenavarro9507
    @cecerenavarro9507 4 года назад

    The strength this girl had to combat such mentality as an 11 year old girl is so empowering!!!

  • @welingtononair
    @welingtononair 4 года назад +10

    Watching this interview felt like they were biological sisters!!!!

    • @starshine8141
      @starshine8141 3 года назад

      And both bi-racial. I do not think Ashley is white, she doesn't look white she looks mixed.

  • @himanshupareek7125
    @himanshupareek7125 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing

  • @GoddessSage444
    @GoddessSage444 4 года назад

    This was amazing!!!

  • @alexcostin7804
    @alexcostin7804 4 года назад

    i love paloma so much!! so happy to see her!!

  • @MM-iu8fk
    @MM-iu8fk 4 года назад +2

    Missed your show! Love from sis in Christ in Germany💛

  • @yaiviersalabarria8538
    @yaiviersalabarria8538 4 года назад +1

    My wife and gf in one video I love this

  • @avilajulianna
    @avilajulianna 4 года назад

    Buying Glossier now for sure and also going out and working on radical acceptance...

  • @amiamiami974
    @amiamiami974 4 года назад

    I feel like it's a worldwide phenomenon for the 90's and the 2000's that super expensive jeans were in fashion in middle school.

  • @constanzamarchantmiranda1709
    @constanzamarchantmiranda1709 4 года назад

    Amazing!! I loveeee it! Saludos desde Chile 🍃🌙

  • @fideliofidelio1222
    @fideliofidelio1222 4 года назад

    Ashley Graham , BRILLIANT , interviewer !

  • @mohammeds3515
    @mohammeds3515 4 года назад +2

    This is beyond beautiful.

  • @kristicardenas.1176
    @kristicardenas.1176 4 года назад +1

    Loved this one.

  • @deajonez90sbaby
    @deajonez90sbaby 4 года назад

    That was so refreshing to watch.

  • @michelelanham
    @michelelanham 3 года назад

    I love both of these women so much. Fierce!

  • @claireroche8920
    @claireroche8920 4 года назад

    You are such a great interviewer. Also love paloma.

  • @FNFNFN99KKK
    @FNFNFN99KKK Год назад

    Her voice