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Snobbery, nothing less! I agree that handling the fork or spoon can be done in a NICE way, ie not like a Chimpanzee might otherwise do, but,….Spoon, r/h to mouth, ok, fork l/h to mouth not ok! I’m right handed, therefore my r/h does all my manipulation, a left handed person would do likewise with their l/h! It’s simply pure logic, not b/s rules, laid down by Victorian minded snobs! Sorry but I am a pragmatic and logical thinker! Cheers
Wait what, I know there's a 99% chance that you're joking but I would actually love to see that. The things I would do to argue like Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy in that rain scene
My mother was the queen on etiquette. It resonates with me as of today. Manners are very important. How one dresses tell a lot about that person. There's a time and a place for jeans. It should not be worn in an opera concert as I saw it in Florida (Bocelli's concert) Thanks. It was refreshing. I wish people would adhere to good manners or improve their manners.
Completely agree with you, dressing well and appropriate is a must (teachings of my mother also) I get so repelled when I go to a fine dining restaurant and see people looking like they're going to the park! Also was at the theater for a ballet performance and most ppl without any proper etiquette, behaving inappropriately and dressed like they were going to Walmart!
@@NajLahsen they were having fun and you were miserable judging people from your high horse. life is too short for these fancy rules, live in the moment and screw whatever people think of you.
Tomorrow is my exam but here I'm learning etiquettes of dining. Guys it's been an year since I commented this and today was also my exams but here I'm replying you guys.
😂😂😂😂 i was raised with normal table manners like "Close your mouth while chewing, and don't talk while chewing" When i moved out and started living with friends, i realised how POSH i was, we werent even remotely rich or close to being rich! my friends don't have any manners at all
It’s funny how that works. My mom comes from an upper middle class - almost aristocratic - background, and I remember the table manners and general etiquette she constantly instilled in me. To this day, I hate eating anywhere but the table. But, its allowed me to be somewhat comfortable in fine dining situations, and in business lunches.
I have worked in fine dining for many years and have served very important people. All the things you teach are the same thing I taught other servers for years. You are doing an excellent job.
Rules: 1. Don't slouch 2. Don't press your back to the chair 3. Don't place your elbows on the table when eating 4. Hold your hands on your laps 5. Don't place your bag on the floor Dining table: 1. Napkin on your lap, dap your lips. Place your napkin on the chair when you go to toilet/on the table when you leave the restaurant 2. Right- glass, left-butter knife 3. Champagne glass: hold the stamp, not touching the bottom 4. Wetwide glass: hold the stamp 5. Send a thank you messages/flowers
There was a joke about some countess, which, to offend the guests, gave her plate to the dog for licking after the dinner, saying "this way, we save on washing up dishes before next meal".
I am sure that she is ... well, just a regular person, actually, who has knowledge of very niche type of information/skills. And those who are interested, will find her and learn what they need to, OR just be entertained by the content. 😊
Thank you @@JamilaMusayeva for educating people on proper manners. Also, you could have pointed out that in many places to signal the waiting staff with anything else than a look or nod is considered rude (you managed to make raising your finger look quite classy, tho).
My first grade teacher taught us good table manners. We had to wait for everyone to be served before eating during class parties. We were in an under resourced school but everyone from her class learned good table manners and how to read proficiently. When I transferred schools the following year, my new teacher thought I came from a private school (her students were still sounding out words). Thank you Mrs. Castillo.
I can just imagine how pleased Mrs. Castillo would be to read this. I pray she gets to see this, because it will make her heart sing. I remember doing what your Mrs. Castillo did many years ago with some of my kids at lunchtime. We often ate in class as a special treat when they got all their work done, & I would teach & check their table manners then. It's wonderful that you remembered - God Bless You, Marisol - ✌!!
I'm part of the younger generation, and I appreciate these videos so much! I've always been fascinated by etiquette that schools don't teach so being able to learn them is an absolute miracle to me
@@JamilaMusayeva I have a question, when you started to be a lady? I am Aria and now I have 15 years old and my mother learn me how to be a lady, she herself is very elegant and stylish and she wants me to be like her and I want to be like her because I would like to be a lady. When I had 14 years old, she learned me how to eat in elegant way and how to behave. Now I have 15 years old and today she painted my nails. My nails are pink now and they are so beautiful. I love them. Tomorrow she will learn me how to walk in high heels and play piano and I can't wait. I would love to walk in high heels. Anyway thank you for your tips. Aria is my real name if you would like to know, my mother gave me name Aria because in her opinion Aria is wonderful and elegance name, I agree with her. Aria sounds beautiful and when you started to learn how to be a lady?
I was eating with my grandparents and my grandma suddenly turns to me and whispers ”put the paper towel on your lap, you’re not a kid anymore”. After that experience I decided to research etiquette haha
I’m so delighted that I learned these by taking an etiquette class in high school. It has served me so well in my profession. But I didn’t know about the thank you note to the host the next day. I quite like that idea. It’s very courteous and respectful. I’m going to try it. 🤗
I am so glad I found this channel. I never learned any of this when young and have suffered from a slight coordination disability, so as I re-learn coordination of activities I'm going to learn the proper etiquette way. It's never too late to learn!
I love this. Could you please do a series on how to host a breakfast, brunch, lunch, tea, dinner. The correct etiquette. The way the table should be set. How to Ask guests about allergies and preferences. How to be a good hostess
how about you use your own brain and just think of how you would like to be hosted and then do it that way? why let someone else tell you what is "right" or "wrong"?
@@anja-beveneberle3472 It's not even about what's "right or wrong", it's just seeking advice from someone with more experience. What's wrong with that? What's wrong with asking questions and learning?
00:00 Good table manners are important for your comfort and to put others at ease. 01:39 The guest of honor should be given the best seat. 03:04 Keep your phone and bag off the table. 04:29 Table etiquette for dining. 06:02 Proper etiquette for handling napkins and glasses. 07:25 Different wine glasses are used for red and white wines. 08:43 Two ways of eating: American vs European. 10:33 Proper etiquette for dining out. You're welcome.
I love learning proper social skills through videos like the one you have here. I will definitely apply these skills for dates, dinner parties that come alongside professional business meetings, and other events. I really want to make a good impression on others and succeed in life! Thank you so much for making this video!
@@JamilaMusayeva I met my gf at a beautiful bistro. At the end when we asked for the bill, the owner came over and said: this is my pleasure. You reminded me for much of my mother. Your table manners are impeccable. She's in Russia and I miss her so much. This was the nicest thing anyone has ever done. We left a 40% tip to our waitress. She was fenomenal.
These are not social skills, most of people don't know or use this stuff. This is mostly for rich people who are dinning at some high-end restaurants. I'm sad you feel like you need to do this in order to impress people. Good social skills would be helping an old lady in the elevator, holding a door for someone, feeding a stray cat in front of your building... Acts of kindness come in all shapes and sizes. Do that and god will love you much more than for simply holding a fork in the "right" way.
I am really thankful to my dad for teaching me all this when I was little. Now, thanks to that and years of experience, I don't need to think much about it as it has become my second nature.
11:32 yes I totally agree about the note thing!! When people invite me to their home for a dinner or wedding/baby shower, I like to give them a thank you note the next day or next time I see them. It always makes a good impression. 😅
Can somebody tell me why this is being recommended, I haven't been to a restaurant in 10 months. And besides the only table manner I have right now is to not spill food on my bed while eating Edit: I was going to say thank you for all these likes, but I realized I made a funny statement, I deserve those likes, let me enjoy my self I've had a bad day today
I grew up learning this from my grandmother, it's a nice refresher, also great to inform me about the glasses...since my family never consumed wine or Champaign, that was always left out of my grandmother's etiquette lessons.
Oh my goodness what a glorious find you are! I cannot wait to watch all of your work! It's dawned on me recently that I feel uncomfortable at restaurants and I don't know how to sit and relax, how to eat without making a fool of myself. Thank you for such a beautiful channel.
आपके डैड तो 200 साल जिंदा रहे होंगे ? और आप 250 साल रहोगे ? 😂😂 अबे अंग्रेज़ों की नाजायज औलादो 😂😂 हाथ से खाने और बैठ कर जमीन पर आराम से खाने मे का दिक्कत है बे ?
This was actually taught in my high school home economics class. We also had a class that prepared us for job interviews, resume writing, proper attire for interviews. I guess the world no longer deem these classes valuable to the society.
Excellent way to share good manners. Thanks! I lived in Europe, and I found their ways quite sophisticated compared to our routine ways here in America.
A whole year late, but I'd say having proper etiquette does set you apart from crowd. Even though younger people nowadays don't know that's it's an etiquette, it still leaves behind a very good impression. What's wonderful about having them is that over time we wouldn't even have to actively try to do it, we'd be natural at it and only notice how far we've come when someone points it out. It still makes a person appear high class.
it is typically used by the upper class at formal dinner gatherings as these forms of eating etiquettes show you have class and have manners. i had to attend one of these "formal" like events for a huge family gathering in the past. half of the people there were wealthy, while the other half (myself included) were in the middle to middle upper class level. needless to say, it was quite intriguing to watch 3 different class structures. one being wealthy and having these subtle etiquettes that give a person "class" as well as their oozing aura of presence that is almost palpable. second being wealthy but lacking in these forms of etiquettes. basically having money but lacking in class. they dont have that much of a presence as the ones who carry themselves with that aura of godlike and class. you can probably mistake them for just being upper middle class. and finally, the common folks who lack in both money and knowledge of these social rules and manners but try their best to adapt and fit in to their surroundings so that they dont stand out in a negative way.
The hardest part about this is expecting the establishment to be able to keep up with your manners, but realistically this will only be applicable in certain circles that already know quite well about all the etiquette and are expected to act accordingly.
and also, "no elbow on the table", "both hands on the table at any time', "don't speak with food in your mouth","don't make noise with your utensils in your plate', "don't make noise with your mouth when eating or drinking", "don"t cross over someone else"s plate", "fork and knife shall be in your hands at all times for starter and main dish". This is simple education and good manners.
Im so thankful for my friends' grandmother who at age 9 taught us dinning etiquette & Tea party etiquette. This knowledge helps a lot when you want to make a nice impression.
I really enjoyed this video, thank you. People may not realize how much of an impression proper etiquette can make at a formal work diner or charity event. It shows a level of refinement most people do not have.
@Isabel reed just being present in a situation doesn't mean you learn from it. You need to be conscious of what is happening in the first place. You are the perfect example. You have witnessed my sarcastic comment about the idiocy of the original comment, yet you still don't understand the essence of the humor.
Iam actually watching this video to improve my English skills not because I would ever gonna act according to the etiquette but for real this lady is sweet ❤
I am* and I think that’s a lovely idea! 😊 This lady is softly spoken and easy to understand and I think listening to her will definitely help you improve your English skills, - a native English speaker
Dinning etiquette: 1- don't use phone 2- appreciate the effort of cook 3- thank god for giving you such wonderful meal 4- and always share it with animals and homeless. That's all you need ☺
Very useful. Thank you for sharing. I'm glad RUclips recommended me a video with an elegant lady who presents in a very understandable way a video, neither too long nor too short, on how to be comfortable at a dining table. I'm not sure in other countries, but a basic restaurant in France, even though it might not have all the cutlery, most of what you teach here is actually usefull and can be put in practice.
I am a society cross expert. Since I was a kid I always navigated various classes and nationalities. I quickly noticed that table manners were different everywhere and there was a lot of bullshit behind it sometimes. The only rules are don't stuff you face, don't drink and eat in the same mouth, don't make strange noises, don't invade space on the table. Hold your cutlery in an elegant way. Be smiley, don't speak politics or religions. That's it.
This is really helpful. I have always wondered what etiquettes and manners to follow in a restaurant since I was a child. Now I know them.I will definitely follow your advices the next time I'm on a restaurant. Thank you Jamila
These are lessons that every responsible adult should have taught their children. Born in the 60’s, and basically to working poor parents, it was the norm to have been taught dining etiquette. It was used at church dinners, having meals at family and neighbors homes, and also when we went to above average restaurants where we had to dress semi formal.
Yes it is true I hate seeing people in my young age laughing at that or saying things like "I dont need a men or "This is so stupid like,why? It is good to know.
@@me00088 it’s true we don’t NEED men, how is that relevant to the conversation anyways? My parents taught me etiquette, and it does make people “respect” you more. Though I understand the “why” cause why?
@@sassyqueen9739 It's true that when you have more manners you get a little more respect simply because manners are less and less taught to young people (From my point of view we need men. Without men, we women would not be here. Men are simply better at some things because their bodies are built differently than women's. Men are important in a way. Not to mention that everyone has a different opinion but that's mine.)
@@me00088 Of course men are better then women in some ways and vise versa. Though I do not think anyone needs anyone. At least not these days... Oh, and have a good day😊
I’m about to go out to a fancy restaurant to celebrate my new boyfriend’s birthday in front of all of his friends. I’m seeing some of them for the first time so I really want to leave a good impression. It’s also my first time going out without my family of closest friends, in front of whom it wouldn’t be terrible to do some mistakes. Your video definitely gives me more confidence in my capability to not embarrass myself, so thank you!
@@newyorker5010 like if you or your spouse are invited to a fancy dinner by your boss. I know a lot of people get nervous about situations like that. just guessing
More examples, Formal dinners, invited to eat at top table with college dons, formal restaurants, Chamber of Commerce Annual dinners, Black Tie dinners. As Karthik says, you never know what situation may arise in your life. ☺️
Coming from an italian family with academics and sportsmen followed by antique dealers, I was raised with all sorts of etiquette. This brings me so much childhood nostalgia watching this video.
Actually, I know there are employers out there who will conduct “brunch” interviews and based on etiquette (as opposed to experience alone), they will hire (or not) their interviewee. It’s especially important when your job position will require you to dine with specific people who are in high positions regularly.
I really doubt that in my country there are employers that may score their interviewers like that. But just in case, I think it could be a great impression for them.
"it's time for the bill..... you can do so by having eye contact with the waiter" me: stares at waiter waiter: *Scared for their life* ma'am would you like a 100% discount?
I bumped into Your channel accidentally and was pleasantly surprised. The presentation of the information is extremely interesting and the content is really useful! ❤
There should be more video like this for young people on RUclips. I feel worried when my child watches prank videos and little child thinks it’s fun seeing the exaggerating actions. Luckily, she understands that acting is for effect of the video not in real life. I really love the positive influence from all your videos. Thank you very much.
This is for me: 1- Sit straight (dont let your back pressing the chair) 2- Dont place your elbows on the table, but you wrists or on your legs; 3- Silence your phone, put it in your bag or pocket and place the bag on another chair or behind your back; You can place on your legs and cover it with a napkin Wait for everyone to be served then you can eat
Much needed video at the present . Good old us has 5 millions guests and nobody wants to host them.For those guests manners at the table are very important. 😊
I will practice it at my home , am from India and from a rural area thats why this is the best time to learn because after a year i am going to a big city for my further studies.
It's never bad to learn about etiquettes of certain culture, you never know when it may come in handy. Though, it is true, most of the places in India, you won't need to go this deep.
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Snobbery, nothing less! I agree that handling the fork or spoon can be done in a NICE way, ie not like a Chimpanzee might otherwise do, but,….Spoon, r/h to mouth, ok, fork l/h to mouth not ok! I’m right handed, therefore my r/h does all my manipulation, a left handed person would do likewise with their l/h! It’s simply pure logic, not b/s rules, laid down by Victorian minded snobs! Sorry but I am a pragmatic and logical thinker! Cheers
This is really beautiful. I'm gonna practice this at McDonald's
This cracked me up😂😂
Hahaha... try eating your burger with a fork and knife next time 😂😂
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Screaming 😭😂😂😂😂
Ha ha ha 🤣🤣🤣
she's different level of living. Can you do a video on Arguing etiquette, it'd be so aggressively polite.
Wait what, I know there's a 99% chance that you're joking but I would actually love to see that. The things I would do to argue like Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy in that rain scene
@@NothingToSeeHere836 on the contrary Mimi, I wasn’t joking!
@@LowkeyBone8 Good to know. If you ever happen to find a tutorial on Arguing Etiquette, please do let me know!
LoL 😂
Omg😂😭
Finally ready to accept the queen's invitation.
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Lol!
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The smartest reply
My mother was the queen on etiquette. It resonates with me as of today. Manners are very important. How one dresses tell a lot about that person. There's a time and a place for jeans. It should not be worn in an opera concert as I saw it in Florida (Bocelli's concert)
Thanks. It was refreshing. I wish people would adhere to good manners or improve their manners.
Completely agree with you, dressing well and appropriate is a must (teachings of my mother also) I get so repelled when I go to a fine dining restaurant and see people looking like they're going to the park! Also was at the theater for a ballet performance and most ppl without any proper etiquette, behaving inappropriately and dressed like they were going to Walmart!
I’m inspired.
@@NajLahsen they were having fun and you were miserable judging people from your high horse. life is too short for these fancy rules, live in the moment and screw whatever people think of you.
@@handlenot030perfectly fine with losing the blue jean crowd 👌. Im sure theres a cardi B concert thats more suited for their taste in music”art”
@@NajLahsenunfortunately, the venue not enforcing dress code ruined that experience. Sorry you experienced that
Tomorrow is my exam but here I'm learning etiquettes of dining.
Guys it's been an year since I commented this and today was also my exams but here I'm replying you guys.
holy shit same
this is me
OMG same here😂😂😂
Me too 😂😂 wtf are we people!
@@cs7364 We are Pro level careless people. 😂😂✌
This is everything my grandparents wanted me to be 😂
😂 😂 😂 I can imagine the pressure
😂😂😂😂 i was raised with normal table manners like "Close your mouth while chewing, and don't talk while chewing"
When i moved out and started living with friends, i realised how POSH i was, we werent even remotely rich or close to being rich! my friends don't have any manners at all
It’s funny how that works. My mom comes from an upper middle class - almost aristocratic - background, and I remember the table manners and general etiquette she constantly instilled in me. To this day, I hate eating anywhere but the table. But, its allowed me to be somewhat comfortable in fine dining situations, and in business lunches.
Yoo🥴🥴
A bag holder/chair.
I'm going to practice with my dog. She is my guest of honor.
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Lol
Sad dog
She deserve it 😂😂♥
I have worked in fine dining for many years and have served very important people. All the things you teach are the same thing I taught other servers for years. You are doing an excellent job.
Rules:
1. Don't slouch
2. Don't press your back to the chair
3. Don't place your elbows on the table when eating
4. Hold your hands on your laps
5. Don't place your bag on the floor
Dining table:
1. Napkin on your lap, dap your lips. Place your napkin on the chair when you go to toilet/on the table when you leave the restaurant
2. Right- glass, left-butter knife
3. Champagne glass: hold the stamp, not touching the bottom
4. Wetwide glass: hold the stamp
5. Send a thank you messages/flowers
Bless
💐thank you
2 depends on fallowing french or american french is wrists on table American in lap. English is also wrists
GOOD
That’s Red wine & White Wine glass.
watching this while laying down on my bed and eating a bag of chips
🤣🤣🤣🤣 hot Cheetos
We are all human. I do that too 😊
I'm laying down too :( now I want chips hahaha
I've got cookie dough hahaha
Hhhh
The napkin thing explains why people throw their napkin onto the table at the end of arguments in shows
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that’s what i was thinking about😂😂😂
Yea it's like a mic drop
Hi
Exactly what I was thinking about 😂
This comment section is the funniest section in for a while , you gotta love humans 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I totally agree. lmao
true
All the aliens are here
same XD it makes my day
@@mk-ki4ls Not aliens omg lmfao
I take it that licking the plate when you’ve finished is out of the question?
There was a joke about some countess, which, to offend the guests, gave her plate to the dog for licking after the dinner, saying "this way, we save on washing up dishes before next meal".
Or licking ur fingers to appreciate the aftertaste
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Burping too?
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Your voice sounds really elegant
Uyên Dương thank you 🙏🏻
@Bilal Al Rashid no, I am from Azerbaijan 🇦🇿
So relaxing! im about to watch her "Tea Etiquette" now.. just incase i've been drinking tea the wrong way all my life 😋
@@TsarOfRuss 🤣🤣
Beautiful woman with nice voice,elegant 100%
My parents never taught me this. I finally know the proper dinning etiquette
Perfect timing, I didn’t know what to do during lockdown 2. Now I know how to eat properly at my table alone in my room
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She is so sweet. She doesn't even understand that people are roasting her.xD
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I'm obsessed... I mean, I don't do anything she's teaching but it's so interesting that people like this exist in the world.
Thank you!
@jamila i don't think he is complementing you.
@@kumaryogesh5829 🤣🤣
I am sure that she is ... well, just a regular person, actually, who has knowledge of very niche type of information/skills. And those who are interested, will find her and learn what they need to, OR just be entertained by the content. 😊
This made me feel like i never wanna go out and eat food in public . Glade were in lockdown 😂😂
She’s the definition of classy elegant woman and love her voice so much omg
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@@JamilaMusayeva yes,ur voice is soo,sweet & elegant,it soothe my mind and soul too😊
Thank you @@JamilaMusayeva for educating people on proper manners. Also, you could have pointed out that in many places to signal the waiting staff with anything else than a look or nod is considered rude (you managed to make raising your finger look quite classy, tho).
@@JamilaMusayeva Hi, aren't you Uzbek ?!
@@shoyusufsiddiqov3329 she's azerbaijani
Thank you Jamila for making our lives beautiful by sharing these helpful etiquette lessons with us.
You are so welcome
Me: eating like a pig.
YT: Here, learn peasant.
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ouch
Lol 😂😂😂
You got me dude 😂
Watching this because one day i believe i will be invited to a dinner in A BIIIGGGG CAASSSTLEEE . 😆😆
Best comment lol
It's not like I want to be princess or something
JUST IN CASE YOU KNOW
That's faith baby,I also watch and learn for future reference because I don't wana embarrass myself
@@anonaka131 totally 🙄
My first grade teacher taught us good table manners. We had to wait for everyone to be served before eating during class parties. We were in an under resourced school but everyone from her class learned good table manners and how to read proficiently. When I transferred schools the following year, my new teacher thought I came from a private school (her students were still sounding out words). Thank you Mrs. Castillo.
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Love it😊❤
I can just imagine how pleased Mrs. Castillo would be to read this. I pray she gets to see this, because it will make her heart sing. I remember doing what your Mrs. Castillo did many years ago with some of my kids at lunchtime. We often ate in class as a special treat when they got all their work done, & I would teach & check their table manners then. It's wonderful that you remembered - God Bless You, Marisol - ✌!!
I really love the idea of children learning manners in school ❤
That's interesting! I wish we'd have that kind of a teacher 😢
I'm part of the younger generation, and I appreciate these videos so much! I've always been fascinated by etiquette that schools don't teach so being able to learn them is an absolute miracle to me
Great if you meet the upper crust. Never know.
@@phylis3917 so true
Yes!! Idk what it is about it, but I love etiquette! And after learning more about it and why it's used, I really wished that people would use it more
Imagine the pressure on her boyfriend on their date.
I cant even imagine 😂
*sweats profoundly *
She would probably date someone who was raised with this type of etiquette.
She is already married and have babies 😍
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I’m going to watch this everyday for it to get stuck in my head.
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Me too haha 😂
I do it every month
@@JamilaMusayeva I have a question, when you started to be a lady? I am Aria and now I have 15 years old and my mother learn me how to be a lady, she herself is very elegant and stylish and she wants me to be like her and I want to be like her because I would like to be a lady. When I had 14 years old, she learned me how to eat in elegant way and how to behave. Now I have 15 years old and today she painted my nails. My nails are pink now and they are so beautiful. I love them. Tomorrow she will learn me how to walk in high heels and play piano and I can't wait. I would love to walk in high heels. Anyway thank you for your tips. Aria is my real name if you would like to know, my mother gave me name Aria because in her opinion Aria is wonderful and elegance name, I agree with her. Aria sounds beautiful and when you started to learn how to be a lady?
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Step 1: get invited to a posh restaurant.
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Why not practice good etiquette at mcDo's?
That portion of food. I'll need 8 portions to fill my tummy
I was just about to say that:v
I was eating with my grandparents and my grandma suddenly turns to me and whispers ”put the paper towel on your lap, you’re not a kid anymore”. After that experience I decided to research etiquette haha
Grandmas know best ☺️
At this point, i don't even know if i'm breathing PROPERLY !!
most likely you’re not
@@exoscalmfan191 🤣🤣🤣
I know I’m not, I have some bellyaches because of that when I run
You are not. Now stand outside in the snow and think about what you've done, peasant.
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World's ending and RUclips be like.. "Relax, watch some table etiquette" 😂
Right? Lol
It is?
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"The varus" is really useful for programmers.
This funny though🤣I laughed like....wait😄
I followed this on my dinning table with my parents.
With one slap I was back to normal.
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That cracked me up so bad
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my prom is tommorow
and they said dining etiquette will be strictly observed
thank you so much
The way you talk and everything is just perfect
Thanks a lot! 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva hope you are doing well ..are you in azerbaijan ?
So basically do everything that makes you uncomfortable
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Pretty much 😂😂😂. It made me appreciate my simple life lol
So true😂
It doesn't seem that difficult once you get into a habit
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What if I’m fat and there’s no space between the back of the chair and the table?
Then you must never eat again.
@@anasimic1109 why would u say sth like that...
@@peaceamongworlds2256 Um I'm obviously being sarcastic and joking? 😶
@@anasimic1109 ppl got eating disorders so saying that might not be the right thing even if you are joking about it
@@anasimic1109 LMAO thanks hun
I’m so delighted that I learned these by taking an etiquette class in high school. It has served me so well in my profession. But I didn’t know about the thank you note to the host the next day. I quite like that idea. It’s very courteous and respectful. I’m going to try it. 🤗
I am happy to hear that!
i really love the outfit but the way she carry herself makes it so much more beautiful
Thank you!
"To show your partner that you're not holding any weapon under the table"
Hahaha! I'm out.
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You never know when your guest of honour turns into a murderer 😔😂
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In Arizona it still make sense, apparently 🤣
I think in some parts of the world that should still be required etiquette.
oh my god when i see this , i realise that i 'm a monster when i start eating lol
No, I am sure you are not. But there is always a path for improvement 😊
@@JamilaMusayeva to i
Same😂😂
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I am so glad I found this channel. I never learned any of this when young and have suffered from a slight coordination disability, so as I re-learn coordination of activities I'm going to learn the proper etiquette way. It's never too late to learn!
OK but your voice is so calming ❤️
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@@JamilaMusayeva Oʻzbekmisiz? Are u Uzbek?
@@uzbekistanuzbekistan5918 no azerbaijani
"oKaY bUt"
I love this. Could you please do a series on how to host a breakfast, brunch, lunch, tea, dinner. The correct etiquette. The way the table should be set. How to Ask guests about allergies and preferences. How to be a good hostess
Yesss
Yeeeeeeeeeeesss a million times!
Yessssssss
how about you use your own brain and just think of how you would like to be hosted and then do it that way? why let someone else tell you what is "right" or "wrong"?
@@anja-beveneberle3472 It's not even about what's "right or wrong", it's just seeking advice from someone with more experience. What's wrong with that? What's wrong with asking questions and learning?
This is THE MOST USEFUL etiquette video I’ve been across! Thank you!
Fahima Haque thank you Fahima ☺️
for real @fahima this is so useful
Absolutely, all class and no pretentiousness 👏👏👌
@@gemspiritmessages2754 thank you!
@@JamilaMusayeva Can i ask if you're a libra? You're so perfect omg 😍
00:00 Good table manners are important for your comfort and to put others at ease.
01:39 The guest of honor should be given the best seat.
03:04 Keep your phone and bag off the table.
04:29 Table etiquette for dining.
06:02 Proper etiquette for handling napkins and glasses.
07:25 Different wine glasses are used for red and white wines.
08:43 Two ways of eating: American vs European.
10:33 Proper etiquette for dining out.
You're welcome.
#freepalestine
You're a godsend
here I am eating 10 french fries at a time.
Same
Im eating nuggets
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I could relate to this on another level of relating👁👄👁
That's good.
I love learning proper social skills through videos like the one you have here. I will definitely apply these skills for dates, dinner parties that come alongside professional business meetings, and other events. I really want to make a good impression on others and succeed in life! Thank you so much for making this video!
You are welcome
@@messyhessy6318 bullshit
@@JamilaMusayeva I met my gf at a beautiful bistro. At the end when we asked for the bill, the owner came over and said: this is my pleasure. You reminded me for much of my mother. Your table manners are impeccable. She's in Russia and I miss her so much. This was the nicest thing anyone has ever done. We left a 40% tip to our waitress. She was fenomenal.
and every country is different go to asia and it is very different than the EU
These are not social skills, most of people don't know or use this stuff. This is mostly for rich people who are dinning at some high-end restaurants. I'm sad you feel like you need to do this in order to impress people.
Good social skills would be helping an old lady in the elevator, holding a door for someone, feeding a stray cat in front of your building... Acts of kindness come in all shapes and sizes. Do that and god will love you much more than for simply holding a fork in the "right" way.
I am really thankful to my dad for teaching me all this when I was little. Now, thanks to that and years of experience, I don't need to think much about it as it has become my second nature.
Same
It's nice watching videos like this though to refresh my memory since I don't dine out or with many people often
11:32 yes I totally agree about the note thing!! When people invite me to their home for a dinner or wedding/baby shower, I like to give them a thank you note the next day or next time I see them. It always makes a good impression. 😅
Can somebody tell me why this is being recommended, I haven't been to a restaurant in 10 months. And besides the only table manner I have right now is to not spill food on my bed while eating
Edit: I was going to say thank you for all these likes, but I realized I made a funny statement, I deserve those likes, let me enjoy my self I've had a bad day today
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Probably that comes under bed manners😂
Relatable😂
@@ananthim7358 lol :)
specifically "Ramen"
WHY AM I WATCHING THIS?
Same reason as me. For the hot girl.
Because... Attractive
U and me both
Haha
good manners!!
I grew up learning this from my grandmother, it's a nice refresher, also great to inform me about the glasses...since my family never consumed wine or Champaign, that was always left out of my grandmother's etiquette lessons.
Thanks Grandma for teaching from early on ☺️
Oh my goodness what a glorious find you are! I cannot wait to watch all of your work!
It's dawned on me recently that I feel uncomfortable at restaurants and I don't know how to sit and relax, how to eat without making a fool of myself. Thank you for such a beautiful channel.
Welcome aboard! 😉
I feel like I have been eating like a cave man after watching this.
Same hahaha
Omg 😁😄
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same hahahaha
I’ve been living like a beast
🤣girl of my dreams
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My dad (born in 1928) was a big advocate of dining etiquette….i am so grateful that he taught me this skill!!!!
आपके डैड तो 200 साल जिंदा रहे होंगे ? और आप 250 साल रहोगे ? 😂😂 अबे अंग्रेज़ों की नाजायज औलादो 😂😂 हाथ से खाने और बैठ कर जमीन पर आराम से खाने मे का दिक्कत है बे ?
Honestly....I got tempted to read comments in the first few minutes and I couldn't stop🤣🤣🤣🤣... my stomach was almost aching!
This was actually taught in my high school home economics class. We also had a class that prepared us for job interviews, resume writing, proper attire for interviews. I guess the world no longer deem these classes valuable to the society.
It is still very important albeit forgotten by the younger generation with adherent of social media. It is time to bring it back to fashion :)
There are lots of ppl who still lack manners.
Excellent way to share good manners. Thanks!
I lived in Europe, and I found their ways quite sophisticated compared to our routine ways here in America.
Damn shame. Bring home ec' back!
A whole year late, but I'd say having proper etiquette does set you apart from crowd. Even though younger people nowadays don't know that's it's an etiquette, it still leaves behind a very good impression. What's wonderful about having them is that over time we wouldn't even have to actively try to do it, we'd be natural at it and only notice how far we've come when someone points it out. It still makes a person appear high class.
as a kid, this is everything i thought the grownup world would be like....
Same
dude same
But now its only you commenting in videos 😂
Yeah... so disappointed
it is typically used by the upper class at formal dinner gatherings as these forms of eating etiquettes show you have class and have manners. i had to attend one of these "formal" like events for a huge family gathering in the past. half of the people there were wealthy, while the other half (myself included) were in the middle to middle upper class level. needless to say, it was quite intriguing to watch 3 different class structures. one being wealthy and having these subtle etiquettes that give a person "class" as well as their oozing aura of presence that is almost palpable. second being wealthy but lacking in these forms of etiquettes. basically having money but lacking in class. they dont have that much of a presence as the ones who carry themselves with that aura of godlike and class. you can probably mistake them for just being upper middle class. and finally, the common folks who lack in both money and knowledge of these social rules and manners but try their best to adapt and fit in to their surroundings so that they dont stand out in a negative way.
Thats ASMR level of teaching, don't really need to know all that but it's a treat to listen to and relax
The hardest part about this is expecting the establishment to be able to keep up with your manners, but realistically this will only be applicable in certain circles that already know quite well about all the etiquette and are expected to act accordingly.
Me, an Indian, who eat with their hands and lick their fingers after finishing, watching this 🙂
As an Indian, our food is finger licking good so I don't care I'll wipe out the entire plate😂
beautiful name u have ❤️
@@shrutisinha1384 lol thats literally same as your name tho😂😂
Shru Ti. I relate as an indian🤣🤣
True. LOL, She said good etiquettes will make others feel at ease. I would be stressed rather than at ease
At times like this, I am thankful for my father for being a little more strict about our Dining Etiquette. Thank you for this helpful video.
You are welcome
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and also, "no elbow on the table", "both hands on the table at any time', "don't speak with food in your mouth","don't make noise with your utensils in your plate', "don't make noise with your mouth when eating or drinking", "don"t cross over someone else"s plate", "fork and knife shall be in your hands at all times for starter and main dish". This is simple education and good manners.
Manners and etiquette are very important. As she says good etiquette makes you and everyone around you more comfortable
Im so thankful for my friends' grandmother who at age 9 taught us dinning etiquette & Tea party etiquette. This knowledge helps a lot when you want to make a nice impression.
Absolutely 😉
watching just in case i am asked to become a princess who knows
omg thank u for the likes
Lmao
😄😄😄😄 this remind me of transmigration in Korean manhwas
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HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA
@@arni81 OMG YES HAHA
I really enjoyed this video, thank you. People may not realize how much of an impression proper etiquette can make at a formal work diner or charity event. It shows a level of refinement most people do not have.
Thank you!
If that's the case, then who are you showing it to?
@Isabel reed but according to Jonesie these people do not have the necessary level of refinement so they wouldnt recognize it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@Isabel reed just being present in a situation doesn't mean you learn from it. You need to be conscious of what is happening in the first place.
You are the perfect example. You have witnessed my sarcastic comment about the idiocy of the original comment, yet you still don't understand the essence of the humor.
@Isabel reed Sure. I did like the video. I was just light-heartedly mocking the original comment of this thread
Iam actually watching this video to improve my English skills not because I would ever gonna act according to the etiquette but for real this lady is sweet ❤
I am* and I think that’s a lovely idea! 😊 This lady is softly spoken and easy to understand and I think listening to her will definitely help you improve your English skills, - a native English speaker
Appreciate her voice... sooo calm n sweet!
Thank you!
Dinning etiquette:
1- don't use phone
2- appreciate the effort of cook
3- thank god for giving you such wonderful meal
4- and always share it with animals and homeless.
That's all you need ☺
❤️ So true
Not sure about sharing with animals during the meal. This has led to a very mournful looking dog sitting next to the table looking pleadingly at one.
She : using 10 items to eat 1 meal
Me: uses 1 plate to put my cake, chips, dinosaurs and my whole life 😂😂😂
lol.. i was think the same
Huh hah!! Me too
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Me using the same plate for breakfast, lunch, dinner for 3 days without washing
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Very useful. Thank you for sharing. I'm glad RUclips recommended me a video with an elegant lady who presents in a very understandable way a video, neither too long nor too short, on how to be comfortable at a dining table. I'm not sure in other countries, but a basic restaurant in France, even though it might not have all the cutlery, most of what you teach here is actually usefull and can be put in practice.
I followed the advice on pretending there was a kitten behind me in my chair today at brunch. It helped me sit up straight! Thank you!
Glad to hear it!
That smile... only motivates me to learn English
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One of my cats actually does like to do this anyway. Very helpful video. Thank you.
Aww, don't sit on the kitten! 😆
She doesn't just eat her meals
She *enjoys* them
her ex realising “oh thats where I went wrong”
Hahahaha I laughed so hard
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Underrated comment 😁
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I am a society cross expert. Since I was a kid I always navigated various classes and nationalities. I quickly noticed that table manners were different everywhere and there was a lot of bullshit behind it sometimes. The only rules are don't stuff you face, don't drink and eat in the same mouth, don't make strange noises, don't invade space on the table. Hold your cutlery in an elegant way. Be smiley, don't speak politics or religions. That's it.
asks for bag holder at McDonalds*
😂😂😂😂😂😂
lmaoo XD
Or don’t go to McDonald’s lol 😂
@@ajohonly3721 or don't reply to comments lol
@@ragh9014 😂😂😂😂😂
She's so like a princess...so elegant and classy lady.
Meanwhile me: well ⊙﹏⊙!
Thank you ☺️
Princesses pretend they are Jamila
Why does everything related to her looks elegant. Including those flowers, glasses plates windows and all.🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🧐🧐
Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
😆😆😆welcome. ( First time got a reply from a RUclipsr 😅😅😅)
Femininity❤️
So insanely perfect
THANKS TO ALL WHO SHARED IN THE GROUP.
This is really helpful. I have always wondered what etiquettes and manners to follow in a restaurant since I was a child. Now I know them.I will definitely follow your advices the next time I'm on a restaurant.
Thank you Jamila
These are lessons that every responsible adult should have taught their children.
Born in the 60’s, and basically to working poor parents, it was the norm to have been taught dining etiquette. It was used at church dinners, having meals at family and neighbors homes, and also when we went to above average restaurants where we had to dress semi formal.
Yes it is true
I hate seeing people in my young age laughing at that or saying things like "I dont need a men or "This is so stupid like,why? It is good to know.
@@me00088 it’s true we don’t NEED men, how is that relevant to the conversation anyways?
My parents taught me etiquette, and it does make people “respect” you more.
Though I understand the “why” cause why?
@@sassyqueen9739 It's true that when you have more manners you get a little more respect simply because manners are less and less taught to young people
(From my point of view we need men. Without men, we women would not be here. Men are simply better at some things because their bodies are built differently than women's. Men are important in a way.
Not to mention that everyone has a different opinion but that's mine.)
@@me00088 Of course men are better then women in some ways and vise versa. Though I do not think anyone needs anyone.
At least not these days...
Oh, and have a good day😊
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I’m about to go out to a fancy restaurant to celebrate my new boyfriend’s birthday in front of all of his friends. I’m seeing some of them for the first time so I really want to leave a good impression. It’s also my first time going out without my family of closest friends, in front of whom it wouldn’t be terrible to do some mistakes. Your video definitely gives me more confidence in my capability to not embarrass myself, so thank you!
Happy to hear that☺️
How did it go
how was it?
Did u ask for a bag holder ??
how was ittt
This fuels my perfectionism
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Same disease here🎩
Just one more way I can irritate everyone around me with my perfectionism.
I was just mesmerized this whole time by this absolutely gorgeous woman😍😍😍. Didn't even really pay that much attention to what she was saying.
**Me learning table etiquettes**
**Me at hotel : Bhaiya khichdi milegi ?**
Imagine eating khichdi with fork and knife and the Whole restaurant staring at you. 👀😂
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Hahahahhaha fir usko haath se khaana
Who orders khichdi in a restaurant 😂
@@priyankasingh5975 😂😂 I'm thinking same
Me at MacDonald's: "do you have a bag holder?"
@@realizedreams6183 me: sure go ahead call them. and turns out its my uncle LOL
Lmaoooo
Lmfaooo
She is not saying that we should eat like this the whole time. This is only meant for special occasions!
Like what? Eating with the Queen?
@@newyorker5010 like if you or your spouse are invited to a fancy dinner by your boss. I know a lot of people get nervous about situations like that. just guessing
@@newyorker5010 You never know..
More examples, Formal dinners, invited to eat at top table with college dons, formal restaurants, Chamber of Commerce Annual dinners, Black Tie dinners. As Karthik says, you never know what situation may arise in your life. ☺️
Like when your girlfriend invited you to a dinner party with her parents and you want to impress them.
Coming from an italian family with academics and sportsmen followed by antique dealers, I was raised with all sorts of etiquette. This brings me so much childhood nostalgia watching this video.
The voice is extremely etiquette than the dining etiquette.
That's for next video 😄😄
Me at Taco Bell “dO yOu HaVe A bAg HoLdEr?”
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PLEASE-
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Hahahaaa
Actually, I know there are employers out there who will conduct “brunch” interviews and based on etiquette (as opposed to experience alone), they will hire (or not) their interviewee. It’s especially important when your job position will require you to dine with specific people who are in high positions regularly.
Absolutely!
I really doubt that in my country there are employers that may score their interviewers like that. But just in case, I think it could be a great impression for them.
I'm going to try my best not to squish the kitten behind me when I'm full
Your comment needs more attention 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
its 2am almost and i am laughing like an idiot reading this comment LOL :D :D :D
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Hahahaha you made me laugh. Reading your comment, I even pronounced “kitten” in my head with the “tt” being very prominent😂😂😂
At the start I was thinking.. "how the hell is she so skinny"
And then I saw the food.
@pancakestac but when u r in this kind of restaurants ... it probably become 70$ 😂😂
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Hahahahaa
OMG. Comment of the year!
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"it's time for the bill..... you can do so by having eye contact with the waiter"
me: stares at waiter
waiter: *Scared for their life* ma'am would you like a 100% discount?
@ JL.. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
waiter walking around trying to catch some staires :D
Haha!!!
*stares at the waiter and blink in a specific rhythm while staring
I bumped into Your channel accidentally and was pleasantly surprised. The presentation of the information is extremely interesting and the content is really useful! ❤
There should be more video like this for young people on RUclips. I feel worried when my child watches prank videos and little child thinks it’s fun seeing the exaggerating actions. Luckily, she understands that acting is for effect of the video not in real life. I really love the positive influence from all your videos. Thank you very much.
Thank you for saying this! It means so much to me 🙏🏻
The Aliens: Write that down! write that down!
I laughed soooooo hard😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Alien momma:Cmon boys take notes
Lol
I'm the alien lol
They’ll be the only well mannered ones. They’ll stand out anyway.
This is for me:
1- Sit straight (dont let your back pressing the chair)
2- Dont place your elbows on the table, but you wrists or on your legs;
3- Silence your phone, put it in your bag or pocket and place the bag on another chair or behind your back; You can place on your legs and cover it with a napkin
Wait for everyone to be served then you can eat
Much needed video at the present .
Good old us has 5 millions guests and nobody wants to host them.For those guests manners at the table are very important. 😊
I will practice it at my home , am from India and from a rural area thats why this is the best time to learn because after a year i am going to a big city for my further studies.
good luck on your studies!
sorry to burst your bubble but, nowhere in India people eat like this
@@hotaru6765 🥺
I'm from a top institute and trust me. Pretty much everyone eats eats hands.
It's never bad to learn about etiquettes of certain culture, you never know when it may come in handy. Though, it is true, most of the places in India, you won't need to go this deep.