Feeling stuck in life || 2 Ways young men can become unstuck.

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  • Опубликовано: 8 апр 2024

Комментарии • 53

  • @tsepofenyane3605
    @tsepofenyane3605 3 месяца назад +8

    I'm 32 I feel stuck man. I'll give gym a go.

    • @AphelionCode
      @AphelionCode 3 месяца назад

      30 and I'm on the same boat. Slowly picking up the pieces.

  • @felixmkhwanazi6802
    @felixmkhwanazi6802 3 месяца назад +13

    Gym is medicine for both physical and mental strength. Dankie Penson 👊

  • @nicosekano5942
    @nicosekano5942 3 месяца назад +2

    this guy is a true mentor for men in south africa

  • @princesstshabalala4102
    @princesstshabalala4102 3 месяца назад +1

    I am working as a teacher in the Free State and just this year alone I saw a huge number of prospective students returning home due to the lack of funding NFSAS rejected most of them and my heart just broke I had no idea how to help them both Male and female...I love your platform so much please keep doing the most to build our black community

  • @itumeleng_seema
    @itumeleng_seema 2 месяца назад +2

    Great video man. I’m 22 years and currently living with my parents who one of them happens to a Narcissist. I’m currently I’m depressed I had to move back home after uni and the freedom I had for a few years actually made realise that I’ve been living in a toxic environment all my life.back in high school I used to get bad grades but when I was in uni I became an A student. But none the less I currently feel stuck because I can’t get a job and back again in my parents home emotionally I’m dying slowly I don’t know what to do next everyday when I wake up I watch your videos just to fuel me to at least try and be productive

  • @sindiem4153
    @sindiem4153 3 месяца назад +5

    Your way of seeing things, really love it❤❤. As a female I have gained a lot from your sitdowns

  • @Elias_Capital
    @Elias_Capital 3 месяца назад +6

    Pen bro you nailed it with this one. There's magic in seeing progress develop and you know you have put concentrated effort in. It's paradigm shift at its simplistic core. Every man should engage in some sort of physical exercise everyday. This is a powerful message .

  • @nomynoms1969
    @nomynoms1969 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤🔥🔥I hope our young brothers would listen to this👏🏾 As for iVoice kaOlady ethetha noSbongseni🤦🏾‍♀️🫢🤣🤣💦

  • @Healingson
    @Healingson 3 месяца назад +3

    This is proper advice hoping this gets to those gents in the kasi

  • @andile5945
    @andile5945 3 месяца назад +3

    I believe we are being way too soft on our boys (young men). If it was truly easy then south africa would be a super power. Nothing is easy its EXTREMELY difficult but its worth a shot EVERY single day!! Sacrifices! Which translates to tradeoffs.
    Thank you Pen. Love your brother's shows too. Hes socratic!

  • @SimplyThabani
    @SimplyThabani 3 месяца назад +2

    100 Pushups
    100 Sit Ups
    100 Squats
    5KM
    If you can build up to do this every day. Your whole life can change. It's literally crazy.

  • @priest_rsa7755
    @priest_rsa7755 3 месяца назад +2

    Tjoo grotmarn, i wish all ma brothers could hear this..truth in this though yhoo🔥🔥

  • @tebogothamaga6897
    @tebogothamaga6897 3 месяца назад +4

    Great advice and very practical , even for young ladies.

  • @leecole7665
    @leecole7665 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you grootman you are a mentor to alot of young man🙏

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much!
      I’ll keep pushing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @gcinamthembu1786
    @gcinamthembu1786 3 месяца назад

    Great advise Bafo, I train/gym too. It helps with a lot of things. Powerful advise.

  • @thulitukisi1711
    @thulitukisi1711 3 месяца назад +1

    I also suggest cardio (skipping or/and jogging 🏃‍♂️)
    PULL UPS are important Also
    There's a regimen I created called the Tripartite Exercises:
    Pull ups, Push Ups and Squats + Cardio
    Thank you brother Pens

  • @TebogoMasinga-hf8cw
    @TebogoMasinga-hf8cw 3 месяца назад

    Thank You Penson
    this channel really means a lot to some us..

  • @LindokuhleNzuza-gg9wd
    @LindokuhleNzuza-gg9wd 3 месяца назад +2

    I love you big man you our south Jordan Peterson much love❤❤❤❤

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад +1

      Dankie my brother 🙏🏽
      I truly appreciate it!

  • @KatlieMoutloane
    @KatlieMoutloane 3 месяца назад

    I feel stuck. Thank you for touching on this. As a 28 year old female that is going through it all and today was worse. Found out I did not pass my internal exams and I haven't been okay. I'm doing N6 in Marketing Management and I have failed every level before getting to N6 , I am so exhausted right now . I feel like I am running out of time , I am the oldest at campus and at home mom is working hard but really she needs to be assisted and by me. Feels like its taking forever to get to my finish line and it doesn't sit well with me. Thinking of taking a break and going to work then resume studies next year part time ,at a different institution anagaz please help.

  • @Tefo_Mathibe
    @Tefo_Mathibe 3 месяца назад

    Thank you

  • @nhlaka._d
    @nhlaka._d 3 месяца назад

    Wise words 👏 Respect to you big bro 🙏

  • @VoiceOfReason579
    @VoiceOfReason579 3 месяца назад

    Solid advice. 🙏

  • @user-di2cs4yi9t
    @user-di2cs4yi9t 3 месяца назад +5

    What you've just described here grootman is a simple "to do" list that is very practical and it WILL produce results.
    1. Gym
    2. Upskill yourself
    3. Gym before bed
    Most peoples to do lists are just full of crap and consist of things that you have to do anyways and they won't really change your situation.
    E.g
    1. Make my bed
    2. Water plants or change dogs water
    3. Bath and brush teeth
    4. Take out garbage
    5. Etc....
    Like!??😂😂😂 That's not a proper to do list, it has too much fluf. You end up ticking a whole bunch of nonsense while achieving nothing.
    Those are things you're supposed to do anyway even if you aren't a Peter Pan.

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад

      “CHANGE DOGS WATER” 😭😂😂😂😭😭😂😭

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад +1

      I actually laughed out loud… and lapho this was such a powerful response!
      Thank you so much 🙏🏽

  • @OGBRADLEY
    @OGBRADLEY 3 месяца назад

    thanks for the advise looking forward to doing these two as a kasi boy🤛

  • @randomvideos7671
    @randomvideos7671 3 месяца назад

    Great video grootman

  • @lindokuhletshongolo6071
    @lindokuhletshongolo6071 3 месяца назад

    Danko groetman.. start where you are, have a mental plan and where you wanna end up, its not easy but from my experiences by week 6 you will be in the zone, some things start being easy, you get used to the questions, six weeks for seemed to be the sweet spot
    ..

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад +1

      “Start where you are”
      I love that!
      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @reldstineuys1861
    @reldstineuys1861 3 месяца назад

    Thanks bro for the video helps me alot, if you don't mind can pls, make it a bit more universal for does who don't really understand the language but regardless 🤜❤️🤛 Thanks brother for the good work you doing 🤘

  • @lebohangmokoena915
    @lebohangmokoena915 3 месяца назад +2

    Honestly I don’t know where I would’ve been if I didn’t use guy as my therapy

  • @katlego_rkg
    @katlego_rkg 3 месяца назад

    Dankie grootman🙏🙏

  • @kagisholeshilo2686
    @kagisholeshilo2686 3 месяца назад

    I hope someone will come back to you penson and testify that they were convinced to upgrade their matric because of this message

  • @LieselFoster
    @LieselFoster 3 месяца назад

  • @ayandamnculwane4781
    @ayandamnculwane4781 3 месяца назад +1

    Agreeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • @LimitlessDomain
    @LimitlessDomain 3 месяца назад

    💯

  • @onwabisanxele7676
    @onwabisanxele7676 3 месяца назад +1

    Part 2 needed Penson

  • @phumelelabuwa5476
    @phumelelabuwa5476 3 месяца назад +1

    I hear you bhuda but what if you not good in books bro and you know you good in an practical work

  • @setshabamojapelo9701
    @setshabamojapelo9701 3 месяца назад +1

    Nothing Kevin Samuels hasn't covered 😴

    • @Facts_Only_SA
      @Facts_Only_SA 3 месяца назад +3

      What is your point?

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  3 месяца назад +8

      RIP Kevin Samuels.
      Hope others watch & learn from him.
      Have a great day brother 🙏🏽

    • @VoiceOfReason579
      @VoiceOfReason579 3 месяца назад +3

      Bro go bath 🛁