My grand mom she would always say to us that there is no such thing as a Perfect Relationship, but a Healthy Relationship and again she would tell us to always be with someone whom we either share the same birth month or share the same birthdates 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i dont know whether its by coincidence or what but my wife and i share the same birth dates I'm 11 jan she is 11 feb i m a year older than her and we share similar traits and characteristics we usually dont try to put pressure on ourselves and marriage we just go with the flow she s been the same person that i knew of while we were dating and pretty much nothing has changed we are still the same even in our married lives we have been married since 2016 but the moral of the story is that to sustain a good healthy relationship be with someone whom you share the same values and had the same experiences and above all someone who builds and nurture your character to become the best you could be, someone who sees things beyond mistakes or short comings but is willing to share the experiences with you either negative or positive as a path towards growth.
I've been privi by His Grace that I got to experience and being raised by mom and dad also experiencing the husband and wife situation. However it's painful to date and/or being in a relationship with a person who has daddy issues and unaware and also carrying all the baggage of taking care of mom and kids yet at the same time wanting a 'perfect' relationship, you fulfilling marrying them and at the same time she not willing to take that risk of leaving her mom's house to enable the two of you starting and building what she never got to experience. But expecting you to come full swings with all the good things yet she doesn't even make an effort to come visit you by herself from home yet she's able to pass your place and go to the salon, she's able to go to concerts alone. Doesn't check up on you yet she's always waiting for you to check on her..
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My grand mom she would always say to us that there is no such thing as a Perfect Relationship, but a Healthy Relationship and again she would tell us to always be with someone whom we either share the same birth month or share the same birthdates 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i dont know whether its by coincidence or what but my wife and i share the same birth dates I'm 11 jan she is 11 feb i m a year older than her and we share similar traits and characteristics we usually dont try to put pressure on ourselves and marriage we just go with the flow she s been the same person that i knew of while we were dating and pretty much nothing has changed we are still the same even in our married lives we have been married since 2016 but the moral of the story is that to sustain a good healthy relationship be with someone whom you share the same values and had the same experiences and above all someone who builds and nurture your character to become the best you could be, someone who sees things beyond mistakes or short comings but is willing to share the experiences with you either negative or positive as a path towards growth.
Said it all bro
Penson saying what I think about exactly how I think about it once again.
I seem to always agree with you
Sbonge 🙌🏾
I've been privi by His Grace that I got to experience and being raised by mom and dad also experiencing the husband and wife situation. However it's painful to date and/or being in a relationship with a person who has daddy issues and unaware and also carrying all the baggage of taking care of mom and kids yet at the same time wanting a 'perfect' relationship, you fulfilling marrying them and at the same time she not willing to take that risk of leaving her mom's house to enable the two of you starting and building what she never got to experience. But expecting you to come full swings with all the good things yet she doesn't even make an effort to come visit you by herself from home yet she's able to pass your place and go to the salon, she's able to go to concerts alone. Doesn't check up on you yet she's always waiting for you to check on her..
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