It's called the dark triad. Women chase the bad boys because of the subconscious association of these bad traits with having power and being successful. Successful and powerful people throughout history have typically had these dark traits, so women gravitate to them for those reasons.
You know a question most men need to answer for themselves is what do I want want for myself from this woman or a partner. If you take sex off the table most men cant answer the question. Most guys think they are in love while they are just in lust.
@winniemabula7747 this is how men think : If I meet you after I'm rich I just want to hit and run. Most rich men aren't marrying someone they just met before they were poor. So the good rich guys are already taken.
I might be delulu for saying this, however, I'm just waiting on God to deliver me my partner n while I wait, I'm focused on working on self emotionally, mentally, financially, physically n just learning to live in the moment Abo I want a guy like this does not work shame
Just as I was about to say, “uSisi just wants one person in that pool of 50 potential guys.” ……then you ask a very important question, “How many of the men you desire actually want her?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Asivele siyekeni ngoba kubi
Looking for someone to fulfil some extensive list is overated. Investing in yourself to live a fulfilling life brings more contentment. I may be wrong but how time and resources are wasted in looking for strangers to fulfil us? Aiii kunzima!
@@user-oj2lb7mm5i I consider myself a responsible lady, which explains my desire to build a life with a responsible man. Before I impose my standards on another person's child, I must first apply them to myself.
Your videos are like the springbok and new zealand match which are always humdingers🙌🙌🙌🙌, please bro i know maybe youve dealt with this Topic i want you to talk about but please We need more of it , the fake life and social media toxicity and the way it has turened us to wild animals. Dankie Zitha🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽keep it up.
As a soon-to-be 30-year-old woman, I would not want to date someone over 40. I have an age gap of 18-20 years with my parents, therefore 50 means father to me now. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Sengingamane ngibe umjendevu, akufi muntu 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Woman In Our Generation Are the Most Successful yet depressed And Sad Woman In All Generations😂 I always Laugh When A Woman Cry's on Podcast On Past Choices
Exactly bafo. This is a well articulated argument that will hopefully help our sisters snap out from inganekwane…….because their standards are just nonsensical lol
It's also okay for us women not to wanna date someone with multiple children with multiple women. Say what u want. I won't date such. But ke...I'm off the market anyway...happily so.
Coach HYPOTHETICALLY if you are young, still in varsity etc.. and you happen to be one of these “ideal” men, are you entitled to more than one relationship? 😅
[3:14 ] some of th weirdest goal poast shifters, but you right, I think their main goal is to take the wildest stallion in the lot, and have them neutred...To be fair, I don't know when that was a thing, but since the 60's when women started to get a voice, they were free to act on their impulses... It's weird but a lot of women actually think their boyfriend is their personality, they actually lack a lot of it...They don't wanna put in the work to develop one, what is the primary source of stories when women gossip together? Who are they dating, and they wanna be the one that tells the best story, so...The Bad Boy adds a bit of colour to their bland lives, the sad thing is though, wanting to live your life like a daredevil similar to the guys on Jackass, you gonna end up with some broken bones, ask Johny Knoxville and in some instances they could lose their lives, I mean how many women run to dudes they know Beat women...They know this, they really know that a dude rearranges faces, she will still date the dude...Why? Because it adds to her character, what is a story without conflict? I ain't advocating we become women beaters and treat women like trash, but WOmen's PR does that All by itself...
But guys are scared of successful women. Nonku Williams from RHO Durban said it was difficult for her to be in a stable happy relationship, guys were intimidated by her achievements
There is usually a nuance that women who say stuff like that omit: the difference between character and status. Some women think men walk away because of status but really it's just her unpleasant character and how she thinks status is a character trait (kind of like how some guys think their wealth is their identity and all women should be falling head over heels for them even though they may be insufferable to be around). A lot of high status women have a character issue not a status issue. They use status to try and emasculate men because to them money equates to power and power equates to masculinity and masculinity equates to dominance and they'll more often than not try to dominate the man, thus forcing him into a more effeminate role thus leading back to the first point about emasculation. Basically, high status women try to wear the pants in the relationship and wrestle with their men for the masculine role and then wonder why men keept walking away.
Who ever has social media, I'm already second guessing your ability to detached from societies pressure, hidden agendas and constructed thinking. So how you'll find a good man is by not having social media.
Sometimes I don't like what content creation is making out of men, particularly black men. It doesn't matter how many sisters react how to your nails, bro it's wrong. Hai Penson, you want to act now like this thing is right because some sisters DM you. How many of those sisters are actually women, and I mean "woman "
My humble advice: Work on being a good Wife. The good men (and the bad ones) will flock to you. Once they begin flocking, you will recognize the real ones because they will be actively cutting themselves from the same cloth as you (working towards fashioning themselves into good husbands) 🫶🏾🇿🇼
Just as I was about to say, “uSisi just wants one person in that pool of 50 potential guys.” ……then you ask a very important question, “How many of the men you desire actually want her?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Asivele siyekeni ngoba kubi
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Someone said that he stopped listening to what women want in men and started looking at who they sleep with. He said that changed his perspective.
Facts only here!!!
😂😂ngizwile
Wise men don't listen to women they observe what they respond to!
Sheeeeesh!!! Facts though!
truth
"Out of those 50 men , how many do you think want you ? chozi chozi yaphela ndaba kanjalo "😂😂😂😂. Real chats
Some of our sisters are not ready to have these conversations… 🤷🏽♂️
It's called the dark triad.
Women chase the bad boys because of the subconscious association of these bad traits with having power and being successful.
Successful and powerful people throughout history have typically had these dark traits, so women gravitate to them for those reasons.
You know a question most men need to answer for themselves is what do I want want for myself from this woman or a partner. If you take sex off the table most men cant answer the question. Most guys think they are in love while they are just in lust.
They only want "good men" when life has humbled them.
Exactly, they were all gonna marry rich guys when they were younger and they put their careers first . 10 years later it's chai
@@ghostchipoko6929So rich men are not 'good men'??
@winniemabula7747 this is how men think : If I meet you after I'm rich I just want to hit and run. Most rich men aren't marrying someone they just met before they were poor. So the good rich guys are already taken.
Kevin Samuels didn't die, he multiplied 😅
😂😂😂
I got the same feeling when I saw this 🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahaha!!!
RIP Kevin Samuels 🙏🏽
Godfather!
I might be delulu for saying this, however, I'm just waiting on God to deliver me my partner n while I wait, I'm focused on working on self emotionally, mentally, financially, physically n just learning to live in the moment
Abo I want a guy like this does not work shame
I love the fact that you’re working on yourself… please don’t be scared to put yourself out there to attract the person you seek!
"Work on yourself to a point where you can attract what you want". Mmm.
100%
This is SOOO important! Can't be stressed enough
Yoh Pen, you've nailed it again my brother🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just as I was about to say, “uSisi just wants one person in that pool of 50 potential guys.” ……then you ask a very important question, “How many of the men you desire actually want her?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Asivele siyekeni ngoba kubi
Mara Penson you had to include the 5%.😂😂😂😂You killed me there
Is it 5% though, I think the percent should be somewhere 30%
Looking for someone to fulfil some extensive list is overated. Investing in yourself to live a fulfilling life brings more contentment. I may be wrong but how time and resources are wasted in looking for strangers to fulfil us? Aiii kunzima!
No feelings here straight facts love it!😂
DANKO!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ey that laugh after the 5% stat🤣🤣🤣
My bad 🙊🙈
A good man is a responsible man
Do you have a child?
Sounds like a looking for help and not looking for love type of a person 😅 right here
@@andilemkhize6382 No I don’t have
@@user-oj2lb7mm5i
I consider myself a responsible lady, which explains my desire to build a life with a responsible man. Before I impose my standards on another person's child, I must first apply them to myself.
@@user-oj2lb7mm5ishe's right tho, or what? You can be irresponsible and be a good guy? By your definition of being responsible
Your videos are like the springbok and new zealand match which are always humdingers🙌🙌🙌🙌, please bro i know maybe youve dealt with this Topic i want you to talk about but please We need more of it , the fake life and social media toxicity and the way it has turened us to wild animals. Dankie Zitha🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽keep it up.
I second this, ✊🏾
As a soon-to-be 30-year-old woman, I would not want to date someone over 40. I have an age gap of 18-20 years with my parents, therefore 50 means father to me now. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sengingamane ngibe umjendevu, akufi muntu 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao😂
Thabo Bester pulled Nandipha...
Ladies don’t settle, don’t ever have a self limiting beliefs. Don’t allow fear mongering, you can get the life you desire.
😂😂delusion
Lol😂
Woman In Our Generation Are the Most Successful yet depressed And Sad Woman In All Generations😂 I always Laugh When A Woman Cry's on Podcast On Past Choices
No you can't my sister.
Lol 😅,
Humility & respect 💯
The guys that she wants, probably don't want her 🤣
They view nice guys as simps
Bro is cooking daily
Thanks fam!
Even michelin star chefs don't cook this hard!😅
@@kgosimatlala1696 OOOH SNAP!!!!
Thank you Penson. I love your content. You're realist and on point. ❤
LOL his name is Penson, you reffering to his brother
@@tee9828 I meant to say Penson 🤣 . I'm gross with myself. I like Penson so much
The reality and expectations don't match lol.
~4:00- Show us the DMs😂 ! The "golden guava" 😂😂😂
AH NEVAH!!!
They’ll stop phela 😂
Lapho bona abawona ama type ama type wabo🤣
you need a talk show + a matchmaking show
I WILL DO THAT!!!
I think you should write a book 1st
Exactly bafo. This is a well articulated argument that will hopefully help our sisters snap out from inganekwane…….because their standards are just nonsensical lol
are you somehow related to King Dalindyebo? can't shake off resemblance
YOU ARE THE WORST!!!
He does look like him indeed, now that that mention it
Thank you Penson 🙏🏾🤍
The bitter truth 😫😭
50k per month is 5% of the RSA population...
We have been waiting for this one.
Oh!!! 🙊🙈
Love your views my brother❤🙏
A Kevin Samuels translation... I'm here for it.
Lmaoooo not p diddy 😭😭😭
women need DELIVERANCE !!!!
Hawu 😂😂😂
Not to be judgmental but women are disappointing,they hurt Good guys and reward bas boys.Female nature is very complicated
Who's taller between you and Penuel?
Keep the videos going women must wake up and repent and stop be delusional and come back to reality.
They will come for me!
But these things need to be said!
Abavele basivume isithembu ngoba kubi
I like be "Be honest to yourself" hahaha
And the question ;Is she a type of those guys who earns above 50 k😅
I like how you use mathematics to prove how delusional we are sometimes in terms what we want.
Yho hayi kodwa nawe bhuti, waze waba strict ne Maths yakho. But it makes sense 😂😂😂
~2:00-Yes banamanga! Also look at the balloon popping show. They r liars.
It's also okay for us women not to wanna date someone with multiple children with multiple women. Say what u want. I won't date such. But ke...I'm off the market anyway...happily so.
'Like' the thing on your way in people bkoz these internet people make videos for us to watch.
Ayyyyy PEN ITS COMPLICATED MFETHU
Coach HYPOTHETICALLY if you are young, still in varsity etc.. and you happen to be one of these “ideal” men, are you entitled to more than one relationship? 😅
Looking for a future wife
Is height a big deal?
Would you date a guy who is significantly shorter than you?
@@pensonmlotshwa Oh yes. My stepdad is way shorter than my mom and I grew up seeing nothing wrong with it.
@@nkululekomabaso1629 Theres a big contrast in what woman say and what they actually do
@@tee9828 you’re right
Maybe in Kzn
Maybe what in KZN?
[3:14 ] some of th weirdest goal poast shifters, but you right, I think their main goal is to take the wildest stallion in the lot, and have them neutred...To be fair, I don't know when that was a thing, but since the 60's when women started to get a voice, they were free to act on their impulses... It's weird but a lot of women actually think their boyfriend is their personality, they actually lack a lot of it...They don't wanna put in the work to develop one, what is the primary source of stories when women gossip together? Who are they dating, and they wanna be the one that tells the best story, so...The Bad Boy adds a bit of colour to their bland lives, the sad thing is though, wanting to live your life like a daredevil similar to the guys on Jackass, you gonna end up with some broken bones, ask Johny Knoxville and in some instances they could lose their lives, I mean how many women run to dudes they know Beat women...They know this, they really know that a dude rearranges faces, she will still date the dude...Why? Because it adds to her character, what is a story without conflict? I ain't advocating we become women beaters and treat women like trash, but WOmen's PR does that All by itself...
But guys are scared of successful women. Nonku Williams from RHO Durban said it was difficult for her to be in a stable happy relationship, guys were intimidated by her achievements
There is usually a nuance that women who say stuff like that omit: the difference between character and status. Some women think men walk away because of status but really it's just her unpleasant character and how she thinks status is a character trait (kind of like how some guys think their wealth is their identity and all women should be falling head over heels for them even though they may be insufferable to be around).
A lot of high status women have a character issue not a status issue. They use status to try and emasculate men because to them money equates to power and power equates to masculinity and masculinity equates to dominance and they'll more often than not try to dominate the man, thus forcing him into a more effeminate role thus leading back to the first point about emasculation.
Basically, high status women try to wear the pants in the relationship and wrestle with their men for the masculine role and then wonder why men keept walking away.
Who ever has social media, I'm already second guessing your ability to detached from societies pressure, hidden agendas and constructed thinking. So how you'll find a good man is by not having social media.
And yes I have a BF. 😌
It’s great that you have no social media and a BF!
Sies that you have coloured your nails... Mxm what happened to real men. I don't even colour my nails I just look after them.
Sorry that you don’t colour your nails.
Sorry I can’t be a “real man” 😅
Enjoy your day 😄
Your body, your rights...😂you forgot?
Double standards....nxa
Sometimes I don't like what content creation is making out of men, particularly black men. It doesn't matter how many sisters react how to your nails, bro it's wrong. Hai Penson, you want to act now like this thing is right because some sisters DM you. How many of those sisters are actually women, and I mean "woman "
My humble advice: Work on being a good Wife. The good men (and the bad ones) will flock to you.
Once they begin flocking, you will recognize the real ones because they will be actively cutting themselves from the same cloth as you (working towards fashioning themselves into good husbands)
🫶🏾🇿🇼
15:13 Penson took the words out of my mouth👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏿
Just as I was about to say, “uSisi just wants one person in that pool of 50 potential guys.” ……then you ask a very important question, “How many of the men you desire actually want her?”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Asivele siyekeni ngoba kubi