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Today I got an email saying that I failed this fucking board exam and I needed this. Somehow I managed to smile with everyone at work and as usual people like coming to me / my desk for a chat. I had great conversations but I felt like a looser inside. Even as an adult, I still find it hard to deal with failure because in high school I too was one of those with the busy blazer but fortunately I have a support system that picks me up so I can continue every time. Thanks bro for this

i love being lonely. i believe its a price one has to pay for sanity & solace, ive been lonely my entire life. its more the case now as I moved to another province for work away from my family. ive beem here for 7 months. no social life whatsoever

With Jesus you will never feel lonely. ❤

Yoh this touched me alot society is really superficial it's scary. At times I feel like society needs a reset button

Jesus Christ is king.He is the only one who can truly deliver you from lonileness

Best channel discovery I've made in a while🙌🏼

I've been alone for months bro I'm not feeling good

good talk poi, is really difficult to be vulnerable cos lately they use it against u, expecially women.

I hear you bhuti, but share your vulnerabilities with a woman at your own peril.......

..... Are lonely in a crowd!! Meditate!

This is interesting because i feel adulthood means being independent since its something i have always done as a first born. i like doing things on my own and i never feel lonely. I get uncomfortable when people try to enter my world. The only time i felt deeply lonely was in university and high school.

Mxm fire content🔥🔥🔥Thank you bro❤

Gladly you have children now, so u will never feel lonely again. No matter if the adults in your life are "busy with their own lives" or not etc. Kids always connect to you daily in life. No space to feel alone or lonely no more. My unpopular advice 2 those who feel alone is .... have kids👌😂

Gabor Mate said 'If people dont know you, you will feel lonely'. Im sure you've heard it before. I believe that.

I've never felt lonely, but have always felt alone. I've mostly felt alone when in a relationship. Especially when everything was on me and me never having help. The problem had been me dating people that could not be in a position to help. And that made me feel alone a lot

Siyabonga Bhuti. this is a talk that we all run away from kodwa its the truth.

It's still easier said than done. You know if you've asked for help in the past and been disappointed countless times whilst you were always available to extend a helping hand it sort of takes something away from you. You end up keeping it all to yourself so as to not be a "burden". We truly are a broken people in so many ways yo. But nonetheless I love the content.❤️❤️ It's speaking to me.🥲

My brother, I appreciate you sharing this with us (particularly gents). 🤲

Thank you Penson for highlighting the critical socio-economic issues. I have invested some time into help-interventions. Social workers are handling difficult cases with minimal resources. It draining to show-up but with perseverence, their services are invaluable. At schools, the counsellors are very helpful. Please encourage the boys to attend sessions even if they are hesitant initially. If you have medical aid, please get referrals to good psychologists. Heyi kunzima! We are dealing with identity issues, belonging and childhood traumas nje within families. At work, please use the wellness programs and go for consultations for specific issues. We didn't have all these interventions growing up. What we had though were loving family members, strict but caring teachers, neighbours who watched over us, church folk who nurtured our spirituality, childhood friendships and parents who instilled good moral values who sacrificed so much that at any point in time one knew that one is cherished. So blessed!

Loneliness is a human condition. It’s funny, the more populated the world becomes, the lonelier we feel. I’m surprised you can relate because you have a partner and children but I’m glad you shared 🙏🏿

Try putting baking powder on the ulcer. Try keep your tongue out Keep putting it on if you had to swallow etc. It will be gone in the morning..

Dope content brvh 🔥🔥

We hear you Baba...❤❤❤

Love such content brother. Thank you for this

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Bro😭. If there ever was a time I needed to hear this it's NOW. Thank you for sharing.

love love your conversations, you’re so witted and would love for you to host a dinner or something with your followers sixoxe nje noma sikulalele 😅 ei nami buthi, i am writing my last paper of my academic career and i can’t believe that i am about to be a graduate ngendlela engabambezela ngayo with the fast life but look at me and “not giving up”. bengihlezi ngithola ama supp and would pick up from there! my academic record doesn’t look so great, sometimes i doubt myself but only God knows.

Mr Pen. Please drop the link to that Jay Shetty episode. I cannot find it.

Very emotional and inspirational story funny enough im at Rhodes University currently and we about to go ino finals so this really resonated with me.

This story is so similar to mine. I am a gyanaecologist now. Travelling on a bus to South Africa alone as a 17 year old was what I did to get it done.

She said don't tell anyone😂. thanks a lot man 🙏

😢😢😢 I needed to hear this, I feel like I'm not where I thought I'd be by now.... I have a certificate from a tvet collage but it hasn't done anything for me, I gave up applying for jobs.... I'm already 35years with 3 kids, I''ve been playing with the idea of going back to school/university but considering the age, I'm not sure if I would still be standing a good chance to get a job by the time I finish my studies..... All and all sana I feel lost and I feel like I have failed my self, it hurts!

This video brought me to tears. I relate too much with having a brother larger than life and being academically excluded. I can't deal with it.

Okay i hear all that but do you go out in public with that nail polish 😬

That res story had me in tears. Bekunzima. We survived though 🙏🏽

I needed to hear this message, thank you

I’ve got stories for days

Phephisa

Thank you for making us cry

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Thank You, Penson.

Thank you🙏🏽

Love your aunthesity and transparency baba...keep rocking❤

Thank you so much for this 🙏🙏🙏

great storytelling

Exe bro..I am a 25 years old, currently in my final year of studying bachelors of education (I hate it AF). The pressure from my parents to go to varsity is the reason i chose the course. I just discovered that i actually want to do Law. The problem with Law is that it is going to take me 4-6 years to be fully qualified. Which means I will probably start working and earning when I am 32 years old. I don't think age favours me, especially as someone who wants to have a family. Do you think it would be wise to start the law degree or must I just push the teaching career ?? Another problem with teaching is the salary. I don't think it is enough to sustain and provide for a family

That big bag is called "Umhlaba ungehlule" hahaha Usebenzile mfowami!!!

How I wish they can invite you at my workplace they have an upcoming men's event black tie.....I believe you have so much to share Pen......

This is the content we signed up for this morning, Mlotshwa siyabonga! Grit, resilience & always showing up for yourself will never stop being the winning formula for falling 7 times & getting up 8 times.

I needed this motivation with my upcoming finals. Thank you.