@@mthokozisilanga4497 Read my comment again. I didn't say every relationship on social media doesn't last.But even David Beckham' s relationship you alluded to is shaky. Type this recent article on google : David and Victoria Beckham "barely spoke" as marriage hits crises-point. [ Mirror]
This is really sad, is there hope for marriage at all. I love Rachel, she has done a lot for Siya and his career. She put her career on hold and became a house at a young age, kuyo yonke lento my heart goes out for her, nangona ke ndingayazi what happened
@@pensonmlotshwa I hear you but the most amazing thing about her is that she was in it for money. She met him when they had nothing and she genuinely seemed to love him. Also she was very instrumental in his success. Aby girl that he meets now, chances are that she is with him for his money
1st TIMOTHY 6:9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
Relationships are complicated. Difficult dealing with another human being especially when you are not compatible. Marriage is not for everyone. Hyping couples is also a problem because the are human beings not superheroes. We all have our shortcomings. They just happen to be public figures. May God carry them through this transition.
In this country 😭once you have a family brand as couple u bound uku bhedda. Hence bra Howza is still standing. Im 23 but i know marriage does not need many unnecessary energies .
1st TIMOTHY 6:9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
Yhooo the way imijolo and marriages have been such a disappointment sannaa.... I've never been married but most of my family members are, and sana there are times when they cry tears 12months straight zibuya emtshatweni but they never consider divorce shame, they fine now but when it starts raining in their homes it pours, so that always discourages me, and seeing "celebrities" n couples that i admire going trough divorce, vele bone ayikho moes lento wheee... As a result after a few disappointment emjolweni nam i decided to stay away from abafana, ive been celibate for 6years now, yes 6 years...!!!! that's the decision i took and i want to keep it that way for as long as i possible can. Ngaba singadlal'abafana wheeee Incase you curious, i fight temptation by never giving any boy my number or even a 2nd of my time to lo listen to lies... 5years later im still on it.
CELIBATE FOR SIX YEARS???!!! Let me focus on your message. Umjolo is very difficult! Marriage is very difficult! LIFE IS VERY DIFFICULT!!!! We just need to keep pushing through.
Hi sisi unjani? Thank you for sharing your story, I'm feeling so sorry for you and your family members that have been through shit, I can relate to having traumatised family members. My grandmothers, mother, aunts, cousins, etc all got traumatised by their men, mind you that when a woman with children is being traumatised, the children lose a mentally stable parent, and remember that fathers have been deadbeats for generations. I heard of a story in Kenya where there's a village for women and children only, men are not allowed there because of their toxicity.🤣 But jokes aside, it's sad that the Kenyan women had to do that but if that meant more safety and stability for the women and children then the sacrifice was worth it. I'm so proud of you for staying celibate so long, it's not easy to deny yourself sex but because you're a star, you're able to do it. Plus you're also protecting yourself from STIs, men who will impregnate you and leave you to raise the child alone and lastly you're also protecting yourself from those 'high body count' men who are spiritual danger zones. Think about the amount of spiritual impurities they carry from having sex with women who miscarried, aborted, got violated sexually, women who got cursed through witchcraft and women with high body counts themselves. Would you brush your teeth with a toothbrush that's been used by 50 different people in your community? I don't think so, so it's the same with people who live promiscuous lives, you wouldn't want to join yourself to them. Don't follow these trends being promoted on media platforms, they're agendas used by our slavemasters to attack us. They don't need to get police to assault us anymore like back in apartheid, now they just give you the media and they fight you through it.
Decided to save my self from all that drama man bring to our lives and just be by my self. I'd rather be disappointed by the decisions I took and didn't turn out great than be hurt by someone I trusted who took a decision only thinking for themselves... I know man are probably not the same, the z still a few good ones out there, I just have no more interest in that department.
IF he indeed did cheat as he has been rumoured to for years, Rachel must take him for everything he's got. Ubekezile umfazi womlungu shame. I feel for her. I remember the old twitter days when she was busy fighting women online left, right & center because of her husband. She eventually left twitter - probably realized it wasnt healthy for her. And now she is exiting the marriage. Good for you Rachel. Choose yourself beautiful lady. The Bible even says that the only time God allows divorce if there has been cheating by one of the spouses. I love seeing women choose themselves by no longer tolerating continued disrespect from men.
2024 has been filled with bombshells. My biggest bombshell was when my sister told me that she filed for divorce after almost 20 years of marriage. No one saw that coming
Another example of “do believe what you hear and see on social networks and media” It’s just a facade 😢 hope they will be okay and look after their children in peace ✌️
Ayy sisi kunzima, mara one thing I can say is that it's not beneficial or worth it to sacrifice your mental wellbeing and physical wellbeing for someone who wouldn't do it for you. Khona amaSTIs la ngaphandle and wena what will you be getting from being with someone who doesn't make sacrifices for you, while you have to make sacrifices for them? One-sided relationships are just not the way.
This is one of the few sober takes regarding this matter; everyone else is basically just gossiping and fishing for negativity. This is one of the few divoirces that devastated the country and left everyone shocked simply because they were both authentic people, and everyone knew that their love was real.
Sportsman who tend to be successful have in many instances lost their families because of the very thing their successful in. Thank you for this commentary as these relationships are tested way more than most.
While many interracial marriages are founded on genuine love and mutual respect, it's important to acknowledge that some may be driven by ulterior motives such as financial gain or manipulation.
Being on social media a lot can attract monitoring spirits to your private business. Celebrities are always on the public eye and they get noticed by some👿👿
One day, we'll discuss the motivation behind interracial marriages in sports and music. If it is about promoting unity in the world, why do couples divorce?
Remember though only black people want unity white people are not invested or interested in that idea, they got zero intentionality about all that, they just chilling and minding their own business
I saw the tension between them, the tone and attitude says a lot even if you are not insulting someone but decided to keep quiet. If you start chiding your wife publicly it means something is wrong in the background.
Rachel we apologise, this is what we black woman deal with, our Black man are toxic Thank you for building this man, he will regret it. Wishing you healing and Love ❤❤
I see the story on social media and really quite sad indeed, if I was Siya I would really reconsider those decisions because this will haunt him for the rest of his career and life, I saw Rachel been this Lady that was so carrying always supported her husband under very difficult circumstances, let's put colour aside here, people are casting aspersions and probabilities, however my advice to Siya would be to grow up and bring up his kids with his wife, this bling bling out there will dissipate and reality will dawn, atleast Rachel knew him when they had nothing and now the sharks will bite him, I pray for the couple to reconsider is not too late.
Thank you for sharing this video ❤. Why has divorce become such a bad thing. They might end up together again. I don't think they had to tell or share it with anyone. People should be respectful and not be mean. They just need a break
Hmm, im worried bra Siya( might get hooked to the wrong crowd, after u divorce as a gent , abo cherri bakfuna to much . Nd the black girls bham bhekile no give it 6 months uzobona.
Shocked by the news tbh.. Do you think our generation will have marriages longer than 10yrs? 😢 My Parents have been married for 34yrs and they're soooooo inlove it's beautiful.
@@tembelabee We have no idea what we’re doing… we’re trying to have TV marriages… they won’t last unfortunately. It’s not real. Our parents didn’t have to pretend on Socia Media
The are too many variables for a marriage to last these days , people are insatiable due to too much exposure to variety & newest thrills that having a steady marriage or relationship is boring & too much hardwork since most of us don't even have the skills ( patience , empathy , selflessness , discipline -emotionally & sexually ) , mindset & commitment to stay in a LTR . I mean why stay in monotonous relationship when ur next honeymoon stage with potential love of your life is just a DM away .We go through relationships just like how we scroll through social media , lots of noise very little substance .😂😂😂😂
Off topic. I didn't know his full name was 'Siyamthanda'.😊 That’s the thing with these names; I wonder why you cut out the content of the word and go with the function part of the word. The '...thanda' part is actually where the essence of the name is but it is cut out. What a shame. 😊
@@pointa2b388 I don't think you can compare celebrity marriages to any individual there's lot of stress for them especially because they always have to build a persona around everyone, but normal human beings we can vent anytime and don't need to act okay in circumstances
We are a shattered and weak generation, No matter what the situation may be divorce should be the last last last resort unless there was infidelity involved but of not i urge them to fight for their marriage. Lets help and encourage them to work it out...
High School relationships fail the Reality Life Test - They exist in a controlled and ideal environment . They usually have AGE GAP challenges, Maturity challenges and Academic challenges.
Didn't expect this one. No red flags. No signs of seperation. This thing reminds me of Dr Uma. Dr Uma has said interesting things about interracial relationships/marriages🤔
tbh, i don't get the sadness part of this.. relationship started as his rugby career was taking off, already certified he'd be a springbok and definitely millions he'd then make. He'd not have been attractive to her at all if he was just some poor struggling black dude from the eastern cape😂.. let's not make out like this is some amazing pure & great love story - she met him at a "dinner party in stellenbosch" they say, 😂 Enough things in this country for us to be sad about - like school kids in townships dying from poisonous foods😢
I say this respectfully but if the great Siya Kolisi and Rachel, couldn't make marriage work 😢what is the point of marriage if it will probably end in divorce
I don't feel sorry for people who go out there to cheat on their partners. We didnt see her lonely nights and days while Siya was outhere satisfying himself with his mistresses.
😂😂😂 guys be serious, you don't even know what's going in their marriage. Focus on your marriage or relationship. Just bcoz someone's garden is not watered doesn't mean urs will be unwatered. Just water urs and ull see the results.
@@zeesays726 how can he have ANC when they were childhood sweethearts & he had nothing when they married ,white women know how to play the long game in dating & marriage , they buy low & sell high ( Melinda Gates , MacKenzie Bezos ) by the time u done with them , u end up paying 70 % of ur earnings for a lifetime cause they chose to be " housewife " u literal have no leverage in court when she is that it's lifetime spousal support . It's not a coincidence the timing of it cause she knows he's at tail end of his career so if she wants to cash out now its perfect time .
@@pensonmlotshwa true… but signs were there! Siya was showing he is no longer there! He could be dancing or just playing! One could tell he checked out… well hope they manage the new chapter. Penson, maybe a discussion about life after divorce in your podcast?
@@pensonmlotshwa yes that would be insightful! I am divorced as well would be interesting to know the views on what people think on life after divorce! Have had my fair share 😂
Many black women will rejoice. If Siya has been unfaithful, he will come to regret it. Playboy,watch out for karma. Rachel you are beautiful and the kids are lovely, i pray that you find love again.❤
Black men being ungrateful as usual. I don’t need to hear what happened. I know it’s him. There were rumours of him constantly cheating. I hope women wake up! The builder never gets to enjoy the fruits. Stop building with these men and focus on you! 💔 Don’t comment on my post.
They are not being a hater but actually supporting Rachel. The poor woman has been through a lot. I remember the old twitter days when she was fighting women online left, right and center because of the rumoured cheating. She eventually left twitter - probably because she realized it wasnt healthy fighting women over your man all the time. Just because some of you are new to supporting rugby and knowing about these players, not all of us are new to this. So someone pointing out truth is not being a hater. I, for one, support Rachel as a woman. That lady has tolerated a lot and if she decides to take him to the cleaners during the divorce then she must do so! Financial compensation for ukubekezela for as long as she did. @@faithMketo
i am the only one who is ok, i dont think they will be enemies these ones. In fact they are going to raise kids together. i think Siya cheated and cheated and cheated. Having said that he is still a good guy
They couldn't wait 10 yrs? marriage in 2024 really is a joke. No one is willing to put up with a partner anymore and struggle with them. Everyone is just "me first" in a marriage, just depends on how long their grace period is in 2024 until the reason they look for appears. I'm sure she initiated though, the stats support this.
@@pensonmlotshwa 😩 I don't have money for bail so let me tool. But it's well known in their circle that Siya loves skirts and this created insecurities in Rachel and thats why she was always next to him so she could assert her place.
@@pensonmlotshwa Not all men. Some have self-control. Black men however, are always intentionally ruining their families. You guys make it so easy for the devil. Honestly!
Dr. Umar said interracial marriage is 5 years contract and With that being said, really sad for the brother however it's not the end there are many Black beautiful women and wife material in South Africa. Hopefully he will recover from this set-back soon ❤
1st TIMOTHY 6:9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
I get where you coming from🤑 I'm also not surprised😍 When a white lady divorce a black guy it's because of only one reason (iyaphela imali)💰💰 period and nothing els,plz do your research before coming for my comment📚 White people don't use emotions and feelings to influence their decisions and they don't move away from money. They spot dryness/poverty from a distance🧐 I admire how calculative they are😂 Very smart people🙌
Look if the rumours are true that he may have cheated some relationship coach mentioned that athletes are expected to perform alot like make sure their athletic performance is always top- notch so that requires high levels of testosterone. Ultimately that testosterone needs an outlet which may lead to certain behaviours that release or reduce the testosterone in the body and unfortunately cheating becomes one of those outlets...
But some people🤔 i dont think i will ever dervoce my wife because she cheated, so this Kolisi and Rachel thing i see very stupied as for them they are too old to part ways because of one cheated.
Ehhh she'll cheat on you again and again and u won't be able to take it, ull start resenting urself as a man and this may lead to abuse (emotional, verbal if possible physical). But to each their own.
@@theemapsmash I think they lack something, what makes someone to cheat in the first place? you can't just let go of a marriage you have been invested so long into, cheating is normal and not a valid reason to part ways, I really don't understand people are married and still looking for love how? I like that part I'm married for 14 yrs now what keeps us together is understanding not love people confuse love with marriage.
@@MQEKEFIRSTLEGACY Yes some ppl cheat bcoz of something missing, but according to most guys they jst cheat net for control (for the thrill of it). If a man cheats it's easier as a woman to forgive him for cheating especially if he shows remorse and I knw a man can love a woman and still cheat, as long as he doesn't rub his shenanigans on her face. For a woman what a man doesn't know won't kill him, a woman will continue to treat u like a king as long u haven't caught her cheating. But I think if a gal cheats on u and u catch her and forgive her, she most likely will lose respect for you.
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I'm pained but not surprised. Relationships advertised on social media often don't last long. Too many evil eyes were on them.
thats so true, i can actually believe that.🤔😪
They are not advertised, it just happened that Siya is popular. David Beckham and many more celebrities are still married.
@@mthokozisilanga4497 Read my comment again. I didn't say every relationship on social media doesn't last.But even David Beckham' s relationship you alluded to is shaky.
Type this recent article on google : David and Victoria Beckham "barely spoke" as marriage hits crises-point. [ Mirror]
Victoria just settled for David's infedility @@mthokozisilanga4497
people grow and outgrow each other in relationships and also wanting different things in life.love alone can not sustain a relationship.
This is really sad, is there hope for marriage at all. I love Rachel, she has done a lot for Siya and his career. She put her career on hold and became a house at a young age, kuyo yonke lento my heart goes out for her, nangona ke ndingayazi what happened
A house wife
@@lungelwamadela1946 Financially she took a better gig let’s be honest.
She has waaaaaay more money by focusing on Siya vs carrying on with Marketing.
@@pensonmlotshwa I hear you but the most amazing thing about her is that she was in it for money. She met him when they had nothing and she genuinely seemed to love him. Also she was very instrumental in his success. Aby girl that he meets now, chances are that she is with him for his money
@@pensonmlotshwa yes...."MONEY."....
1st TIMOTHY 6:9
But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
Relationships are complicated. Difficult dealing with another human being especially when you are not compatible. Marriage is not for everyone. Hyping couples is also a problem because the are human beings not superheroes. We all have our shortcomings. They just happen to be public figures. May God carry them through this transition.
@@sibongisenisakhele3114 This is very true!
They are humans and make mistakes too…
In this country 😭once you have a family brand as couple u bound uku bhedda. Hence bra Howza is still standing. Im 23 but i know marriage does not need many unnecessary energies .
Very wise for a 23 year old.
In other countries how is it like?
white women will never be loyal to a black man...lol
1st TIMOTHY 6:9
But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
😢I never thought that they would ever divorce. Man, this month has been tough on relationships😢
Hai, It was obvious he’s black shes white!
Relationships are super tough!
@@FastandFinance most ignorant thing I've ever read 🤦♂️
Siya and Rachel should think twice this is a trap to destroy everything they worked for, i don't even want to talk about the kids
Right? 😢
Yhooo the way imijolo and marriages have been such a disappointment sannaa....
I've never been married but most of my family members are, and sana there are times when they cry tears 12months straight zibuya emtshatweni but they never consider divorce shame, they fine now but when it starts raining in their homes it pours, so that always discourages me, and seeing "celebrities" n couples that i admire going trough divorce, vele bone ayikho moes lento wheee...
As a result after a few disappointment emjolweni nam i decided to stay away from abafana, ive been celibate for 6years now, yes 6 years...!!!!
that's the decision i took and i want to keep it that way for as long as i possible can. Ngaba singadlal'abafana wheeee
Incase you curious, i fight temptation by never giving any boy my number or even a 2nd of my time to lo listen to lies... 5years later im still on it.
CELIBATE FOR SIX YEARS???!!!
Let me focus on your message.
Umjolo is very difficult! Marriage is very difficult!
LIFE IS VERY DIFFICULT!!!!
We just need to keep pushing through.
@@pensonmlotshwa Yep 6years n still going strong.
Hi sisi unjani? Thank you for sharing your story, I'm feeling so sorry for you and your family members that have been through shit, I can relate to having traumatised family members. My grandmothers, mother, aunts, cousins, etc all got traumatised by their men, mind you that when a woman with children is being traumatised, the children lose a mentally stable parent, and remember that fathers have been deadbeats for generations. I heard of a story in Kenya where there's a village for women and children only, men are not allowed there because of their toxicity.🤣 But jokes aside, it's sad that the Kenyan women had to do that but if that meant more safety and stability for the women and children then the sacrifice was worth it.
I'm so proud of you for staying celibate so long, it's not easy to deny yourself sex but because you're a star, you're able to do it. Plus you're also protecting yourself from STIs, men who will impregnate you and leave you to raise the child alone and lastly you're also protecting yourself from those 'high body count' men who are spiritual danger zones. Think about the amount of spiritual impurities they carry from having sex with women who miscarried, aborted, got violated sexually, women who got cursed through witchcraft and women with high body counts themselves. Would you brush your teeth with a toothbrush that's been used by 50 different people in your community? I don't think so, so it's the same with people who live promiscuous lives, you wouldn't want to join yourself to them.
Don't follow these trends being promoted on media platforms, they're agendas used by our slavemasters to attack us. They don't need to get police to assault us anymore like back in apartheid, now they just give you the media and they fight you through it.
Decided to save my self from all that drama man bring to our lives and just be by my self.
I'd rather be disappointed by the decisions I took and didn't turn out great than be hurt by someone I trusted who took a decision only thinking for themselves...
I know man are probably not the same, the z still a few good ones out there, I just have no more interest in that department.
@@pensonmlotshwado you really think shes telling the truth?
IF he indeed did cheat as he has been rumoured to for years, Rachel must take him for everything he's got. Ubekezile umfazi womlungu shame. I feel for her. I remember the old twitter days when she was busy fighting women online left, right & center because of her husband. She eventually left twitter - probably realized it wasnt healthy for her. And now she is exiting the marriage.
Good for you Rachel. Choose yourself beautiful lady. The Bible even says that the only time God allows divorce if there has been cheating by one of the spouses. I love seeing women choose themselves by no longer tolerating continued disrespect from men.
Divorce rates in this country are scary 😢💔
Marriage is tough, not for the weak.
Most people get married before dealing with their own demons, both men and women.
2024 has been filled with bombshells. My biggest bombshell was when my sister told me that she filed for divorce after almost 20 years of marriage. No one saw that coming
The devil is at play
@@siyamanci2596 the end is near
Yhooo 🙆🏽 did not see this one coming.. eish, this is sad man. We really wanted to see the Kolisis succeed
Another example of “do believe what you hear and see on social networks and media”
It’s just a facade 😢 hope they will be okay and look after their children in peace ✌️
Iyohhh kwaze kwabuhlungu...thina sizokwenze njani makuhluleka abo Rachel
@@zamaswaziSimelane-uy9hl You must be open to sharing your man 🫣
@@pensonmlotshwa Kwanzima
Ayy sisi kunzima, mara one thing I can say is that it's not beneficial or worth it to sacrifice your mental wellbeing and physical wellbeing for someone who wouldn't do it for you. Khona amaSTIs la ngaphandle and wena what will you be getting from being with someone who doesn't make sacrifices for you, while you have to make sacrifices for them? One-sided relationships are just not the way.
@pensonmlotshwa 🤣🤣🤣Haaibo. Luckily my man doesn't have a lot of money.
This is one of the few sober takes regarding this matter; everyone else is basically just gossiping and fishing for negativity. This is one of the few divoirces that devastated the country and left everyone shocked simply because they were both authentic people, and everyone knew that their love was real.
Sportsman who tend to be successful have in many instances lost their families because of the very thing their successful in. Thank you for this commentary as these relationships are tested way more than most.
I'm devastated
@@MandisaManci So sad hey
Dude who cares
Calm down mandz it It is well❤
@@killersredsniper4265 i know for people like you. But its chilled.
While many interracial marriages are founded on genuine love and mutual respect, it's important to acknowledge that some may be driven by ulterior motives such as financial gain or manipulation.
It is what it is. Relationships are hard these days, have a feeling she initiated the divorce.
We love him College and Rachel College Divorce! I don't think I would name my child "We love him."😂😂😂😂😂
be careful who you build with because people will use you for the foundation and finish the structure with somebody else
Being on social media a lot can attract monitoring spirits to your private business. Celebrities are always on the public eye and they get noticed by some👿👿
One day, we'll discuss the motivation behind interracial marriages in sports and music. If it is about promoting unity in the world, why do couples divorce?
Remember though only black people want unity white people are not invested or interested in that idea, they got zero intentionality about all that, they just chilling and minding their own business
3:04 who ends a marriage on Love and Respect??😂
Aii these PR social media breakups 💀💔
I saw the tension between them, the tone and attitude says a lot even if you are not insulting someone but decided to keep quiet. If you start chiding your wife publicly it means something is wrong in the background.
I'm just blown away by this news😮
@@scellowmcineka4087 Crazy right…
It is NEVER mutual...one wanted it more then the other, I bet SHE initiated it....
The divorce? Ey we'll never know hey... So sad
I share the same sentiments.
True. The cheating might have been too much for Rachel.
Bekayaphi
Rachel we apologise, this is what we black woman deal with, our Black man are toxic
Thank you for building this man, he will regret it. Wishing you healing and Love ❤❤
Nyoana ya mmao letekatse.
Penson 15 years??! 🫤😭😭 Yoh man I can't imagine how leaving that must've been🙌
Very few trees grow together, one out grows the other, very tough on rsa supporters.
That’s so deep! I appreciate it 💚
As a Canadian, I can report lots of hardy trees can grow together. They just need the right environment
Yoooh cry 😢 😭 💔 😪 😫 can't thy reconcile please?let's pray for them 🙏 I just hope thy can have some one who can help them to stop this 🙏
most people we deem to be success, find it difficult in romantic relationships 😢
EVERYONE IS STRUGGLING 😭😭😭
I see the story on social media and really quite sad indeed, if I was Siya I would really reconsider those decisions because this will haunt him for the rest of his career and life, I saw Rachel been this Lady that was so carrying always supported her husband under very difficult circumstances, let's put colour aside here, people are casting aspersions and probabilities, however my advice to Siya would be to grow up and bring up his kids with his wife, this bling bling out there will dissipate and reality will dawn, atleast Rachel knew him when they had nothing and now the sharks will bite him, I pray for the couple to reconsider is not too late.
Thank you for sharing this video ❤. Why has divorce become such a bad thing. They might end up together again. I don't think they had to tell or share it with anyone. People should be respectful and not be mean. They just need a break
Hmm, im worried bra Siya( might get hooked to the wrong crowd, after u divorce as a gent , abo cherri bakfuna to much . Nd the black girls bham bhekile no give it 6 months uzobona.
Shocked by the news tbh.. Do you think our generation will have marriages longer than 10yrs? 😢 My Parents have been married for 34yrs and they're soooooo inlove it's beautiful.
@@tembelabee We have no idea what we’re doing… we’re trying to have TV marriages… they won’t last unfortunately. It’s not real.
Our parents didn’t have to pretend on Socia Media
The are too many variables for a marriage to last these days , people are insatiable due to too much exposure to variety & newest thrills that having a steady marriage or relationship is boring & too much hardwork since most of us don't even have the skills ( patience , empathy , selflessness , discipline -emotionally & sexually ) , mindset & commitment to stay in a LTR . I mean why stay in monotonous relationship when ur next honeymoon stage with potential love of your life is just a DM away .We go through relationships just like how we scroll through social media , lots of noise very little substance .😂😂😂😂
@@laygossom2655 We do things because we’re told to… eg go to University, get married, have kids… and all these things are so difficult…
@@laygossom2655well said!
This is so sad 😭
Sad for the kids and greater South Africa
7:28 Yhooo! No maan ayabimbii lento I thought it was fake news but I can see its real 😮😢😢 abantwana maan yhoo!! Ha.a ninani
I am shocked and sad💔
Off topic. I didn't know his full name was 'Siyamthanda'.😊 That’s the thing with these names; I wonder why you cut out the content of the word and go with the function part of the word. The '...thanda' part is actually where the essence of the name is but it is cut out. What a shame. 😊
Who else took a shot when dude used the word "phenomenal"?
I am going to be honest. I was expecting this. Siya did not want to get marry, she did.
Humans are not made to handle all that fame, eventually the temptations will get to you.
@@karooboermeyer1115 Too much temptation for one person!
I'm not surprised publicized marriages never work, privacy is key
even private marriages fail, mine was private, it failed
@@pointa2b388 I don't think you can compare celebrity marriages to any individual there's lot of stress for them especially because they always have to build a persona around everyone, but normal human beings we can vent anytime and don't need to act okay in circumstances
Are you related to Penuel? The black pen?
Yes they are brothers
Damn bra Pen u pushed 15 yrs ( yoh inspiring , im sitting on 2 days.😂)
@@Sbabalwe33 Started with 2 days…
So Wena just focus on one week at a time!
We are a shattered and weak generation, No matter what the situation may be divorce should be the last last last resort unless there was infidelity involved but of not i urge them to fight for their marriage. Lets help and encourage them to work it out...
I wouldn’t be surprised if you blamed Rachel for the divorce 😏
Yohh who am I to find love 😭
You will find love!!! ❤️
Who are you not to?
@@millicentsifisomthunzi3799exactly 🙏🏾
Askies😢
They met when he was still in high school
High School relationships fail the Reality Life Test - They exist in a controlled and ideal environment .
They usually have AGE GAP challenges, Maturity challenges and Academic challenges.
If Mr Kolisi is getting divorced who are we ????
Stop placing mere humans on a pedestal .
It Italian job has been done on Siya half if not 80 % of his assets are now gone
Really sad and my heart goes out to Rachel…
Didn't expect this one. No red flags. No signs of seperation. This thing reminds me of Dr Uma. Dr Uma has said interesting things about interracial relationships/marriages🤔
I don't know about "no signs"...but we all think it's the ups and downs of relationships...
Interracial couples are like any other couple
Dr Uma is a racist
Dr Umar warns Black communities to always stick to their own. But anizwa nina abantu abamnyama....
@@sir_michaelbosmanso black couples dont get divorced? Mxim
thats her relevance over....
tbh, i don't get the sadness part of this.. relationship started as his rugby career was taking off, already certified he'd be a springbok and definitely millions he'd then make. He'd not have been attractive to her at all if he was just some poor struggling black dude from the eastern cape😂.. let's not make out like this is some amazing pure & great love story - she met him at a "dinner party in stellenbosch" they say, 😂
Enough things in this country for us to be sad about - like school kids in townships dying from poisonous foods😢
How much will he pay ?
It does make sense, Yoh! This doesn’t make sense at all man
I say this respectfully but if the great Siya Kolisi and Rachel, couldn't make marriage work 😢what is the point of marriage if it will probably end in divorce
@@siyabongaradebe4186 But we don’t know them personally… we just know Siya is good at rugby
Don't use them as a yardstick. You don't know them personally
Im not surprised at all was waiting on this day
Why usitsho haybo mara 😮
I don't feel sorry for people who go out there to cheat on their partners.
We didnt see her lonely nights and days while Siya was outhere satisfying himself with his mistresses.
Sya and Rachel please try to solve it please
Izindaba zabantu. Aai maan, 🐍
Tell them because I don't understand why people love doing this special on high previlage people
@@GINB329 We need to learn how to manoeuvre these challenges in 2024
if they r divorcing...i no longer believe in love
Lmao, real people are out enjoying their lives & marriages. Not posing on social media
😂😂😂 guys be serious, you don't even know what's going in their marriage. Focus on your marriage or relationship. Just bcoz someone's garden is not watered doesn't mean urs will be unwatered. Just water urs and ull see the results.
Very sad Pen, life maar...
@@nomfundompondo6987 It’s life hey…
weak moments are weak moments we all have them no justification for Siya if you turn away from your partner turn back barco
I wonder if he had an ANC contract if not this divorce will cost him millions
@@zeesays726 how can he have ANC when they were childhood sweethearts & he had nothing when they married ,white women know how to play the long game in dating & marriage , they buy low & sell high ( Melinda Gates , MacKenzie Bezos ) by the time u done with them , u end up paying 70 % of ur earnings for a lifetime cause they chose to be " housewife " u literal have no leverage in court when she is that it's lifetime spousal support . It's not a coincidence the timing of it cause she knows he's at tail end of his career so if she wants to cash out now its perfect time .
No no no don't do that Siya didn't need Rachel
What??? When how…
@@andilengubane5178 Ey… life is life
@@pensonmlotshwa true… but signs were there! Siya was showing he is no longer there! He could be dancing or just playing! One could tell he checked out… well hope they manage the new chapter. Penson, maybe a discussion about life after divorce in your podcast?
@@andilengubane5178 I didn’t think he had checked out, but one never knows.
I love that topic… “Life after Divorce”
Thank you for that.
@@pensonmlotshwa yes that would be insightful! I am divorced as well would be interesting to know the views on what people think on life after divorce! Have had my fair share 😂
I want to comment something but I know I'll get banned already have like 2 strikes now.
But these IR relationships never work
@@killersredsniper4265 You got two strikes??!!
😅😅😅🫣🫣🫣🫣
Take the risk!
You just dropped Rachel’s call. Yini ngathi you are involved? 🙄
🤣Into ezoyi bhoswa yona!
Everyday I’m convinced that men are the wordy people on earth, argh 😩
Haibo !
@@SkhuluDeMaestro yup!
Snow bunnies are not good for us brothers, as Dr Umar Johnson
Many black women will rejoice. If Siya has been unfaithful, he will come to regret it. Playboy,watch out for karma. Rachel you are beautiful and the kids are lovely, i pray that you find love again.❤
Black men being ungrateful as usual. I don’t need to hear what happened. I know it’s him. There were rumours of him constantly cheating. I hope women wake up! The builder never gets to enjoy the fruits. Stop building with these men and focus on you! 💔
Don’t comment on my post.
Mnxxmmmm hater
They are not being a hater but actually supporting Rachel. The poor woman has been through a lot. I remember the old twitter days when she was fighting women online left, right and center because of the rumoured cheating. She eventually left twitter - probably because she realized it wasnt healthy fighting women over your man all the time. Just because some of you are new to supporting rugby and knowing about these players, not all of us are new to this. So someone pointing out truth is not being a hater.
I, for one, support Rachel as a woman. That lady has tolerated a lot and if she decides to take him to the cleaners during the divorce then she must do so! Financial compensation for ukubekezela for as long as she did. @@faithMketo
Stop trying to be a superhero for women. You don't know what happened in that house.
Stop telling us when siya started playing rugby
i am the only one who is ok, i dont think they will be enemies these ones. In fact they are going to raise kids together. i think Siya cheated and cheated and cheated. Having said that he is still a good guy
They couldn't wait 10 yrs? marriage in 2024 really is a joke. No one is willing to put up with a partner anymore and struggle with them. Everyone is just "me first" in a marriage, just depends on how long their grace period is in 2024 until the reason they look for appears. I'm sure she initiated though, the stats support this.
If he cheated then GOOD that she is leaving. Struggling during marriage does not include tolerating continued disrespect. I support Rachel
What did he expect when choosing a racist in the first place
Siya cheated im not shocked
@@missramz207 He cheated??? How do you know?
Ngyakuchela nas stru🤞
Haybo wena you don't know that 😮😮
Sad ey! But Siya has always been a skirt chacer and Rachel knew this. My bet is that Siya got the side chick pregnant and Rachel dipped!
@@Luk012NW WHAT???!!
Where you get this info from?? 😱
@@pensonmlotshwa 😩 I don't have money for bail so let me tool. But it's well known in their circle that Siya loves skirts and this created insecurities in Rachel and thats why she was always next to him so she could assert her place.
@@Luk012NW But all men love skirts mos... ey times are tough!
@@pensonmlotshwa
Not all men. Some have self-control. Black men however, are always intentionally ruining their families. You guys make it so easy for the devil. Honestly!
@pensonmlotshwa and this is why a lot of families are broken. This all men cheat mentality.
Another Pabi Moloi, Fiasco on the way lol
Why do you speak so much like the other Pen😮
@@Nozipho_N Who’s the other Pen?
😂@@pensonmlotshwa
Black Pens cousin 😂😂😂
They are brothers
😂😂😂😂😂
Dr. Umar said interracial marriage is 5 years contract and With that being said, really sad for the brother however it's not the end there are many Black beautiful women and wife material in South Africa. Hopefully he will recover from this set-back soon ❤
And as usual black women must pick up the pieces and heal black men. Nah, he must continue dating white women 🙄
Mxim.
@@moe_ramz😂😂😂😂 LOL you're being funny
@@judyatoro9387
Black women are tired xem. 🤦🏾♀️
Grahams Town Albany Road!!!
1st TIMOTHY 6:9
But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
Fuck sakes!!! Very sad...
@@mneer747 So sad…
For the algorithm
@@justanmpowereddude5021 THANK YOU!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Guys why are you shocked,people go through a lot and divorce everyday
Siya has developed an ego, watch how his popularity & performance takes a nosedive!😢
It no surprise. His career is ending soon 😮
@@sthembisomthembu395 HAWU 😮
Hayini boo snukudala okubi ngemilomo yenu dana
True, after divorce all the devils will be upon him masquerading as angles of light, before he knew it, it will be over
I get where you coming from🤑
I'm also not surprised😍
When a white lady divorce a black guy it's because of only one reason (iyaphela imali)💰💰 period and nothing els,plz do your research before coming for my comment📚
White people don't use emotions and feelings to influence their decisions and they don't move away from money.
They spot dryness/poverty from a distance🧐
I admire how calculative they are😂
Very smart people🙌
😢
Look if the rumours are true that he may have cheated some relationship coach mentioned that athletes are expected to perform alot like make sure their athletic performance is always top- notch so that requires high levels of testosterone. Ultimately that testosterone needs an outlet which may lead to certain behaviours that release or reduce the testosterone in the body and unfortunately cheating becomes one of those outlets...
I think marriage shouldn't have existed, that's just my personal opinion, the divorce sucks
What a man is he so important his nothing pls
Sometimes, I felt he was detached from his own culture in that marriage. Maybe that was one of the reasons. But I digress-sorry!
Yho!
@@Nqobilee It’s real ma’ Ntuli
African man are not meant for monogamy.
Talk for yourself
@@rhumash5977 I fully agree!
@@reabetsweimanmoabi7911 He’s talking on behalf of many of us…
Your man is meant for monogamy though 😉
@@pensonmlotshwa😂😂😂
@@khaliphazondo8619 What did I say? 😅🫣
Too sad 😢 too many jezebels out there wanting to enjoy his wallet and sport cars....😏
But some people🤔 i dont think i will ever dervoce my wife because she cheated, so this Kolisi and Rachel thing i see very stupied as for them they are too old to part ways because of one cheated.
Ehhh she'll cheat on you again and again and u won't be able to take it, ull start resenting urself as a man and this may lead to abuse (emotional, verbal if possible physical). But to each their own.
@@theemapsmash I think they lack something, what makes someone to cheat in the first place? you can't just let go of a marriage you have been invested so long into, cheating is normal and not a valid reason to part ways, I really don't understand people are married and still looking for love how? I like that part I'm married for 14 yrs now what keeps us together is understanding not love people confuse love with marriage.
@@MQEKEFIRSTLEGACY Yes some ppl cheat bcoz of something missing, but according to most guys they jst cheat net for control (for the thrill of it). If a man cheats it's easier as a woman to forgive him for cheating especially if he shows remorse and I knw a man can love a woman and still cheat, as long as he doesn't rub his shenanigans on her face. For a woman what a man doesn't know won't kill him, a woman will continue to treat u like a king as long u haven't caught her cheating. But I think if a gal cheats on u and u catch her and forgive her, she most likely will lose respect for you.
@@theemapsmash you caught me off guard, are you a relationship expert then☺️
Maybe he will get a woman who looks like his mother now.