Moving out of my mother’s house soon after varsity with no plan was the best thing I ever did. I have gained so much respect from my family and the things I learnt on my journey to being independent have shaped me into the best man I could be for myself.
Ahh man @pensonmlotshwa and @godpenuel❤❤❤❤the brotherhood gents sfunda a lot kunina❤❤❤❤. Keep it up and pass it to your sons , we need each in life so it should start at family level. Great one zitha❤❤.
i think this topic is very complex. people move out of their mothers homes for various reasons. but I wouldn't advise a guy who's earning R4500 pm to move out, especially if you come from a stable home. what i would advise is that you push and save while you're still building at home. Growing up in a colored/muslim community gives you a different perspective, you find a 30 year old still living with his parents, but he has a good paying job and owns the local gatsby spot. by the time he moves out his financial situation is WAY better than his peers that moved out early, but each to his own bafethu
Just say you are scared of being independent because reality will hit you hard there. Go live by yourself and if it doesn't work out come back home baba at least now you'll know what to do next in order to climb the income ladder.
Person has a point, I can relate.. I got into trouble with my mom's car while she was not around I had to fix the Damage with no money I tried to contact people for assistance but no one was able to help me but reality is I screwed up , the situation made me realize that I honestly need to move away from my comfort Zone I'm currently 28 but still no direction yet when ninjas hit me up for drinks or vibes I'm always there but after that I feel miserable cause I'm not growing or going anywhere subconsciously my mind is telling me that I must take it easy but reality is I'm almost fucken 30 with nothing to show and my Mom can //will one Day Die(God Forbid)and I'll be left all alone to fend for myself.. In Short Growth does and will never come from a place of Cormfort.. Thanks penson for this Video I needed it.
There are also people who are the only breadwinners and even if they want to cant move out, because their parents or siblings depends on them financially.
I hear u🤞🏽🤞🏽working abroad and stepping out of my comfort zone has made me realize that I actually need to have my place man yaz. I just bought a land in SA and atarted to build, it’s feels super good yaz that when I visit home I won’t just be going to see my family but my house aswell. It’s also ok to have your place as an unmarried lady. Property is a long lasting investment just like these expensive bags ladies buy.
from when i was 6 yrs old, mom would tell me ... "when u are 21 yrs old, u will be living on your own, IN YOUR OWN HOUSE!" growing up, i thought 'every1 was told this' , i just assumed! i missed my mark by 1 yr & started living independently at 22. so i dont understand. esp for MEN!! MALES!!! MOVE OUT yo ma's house, drive that Uno, that Tazz, That CitiGolf, that Badboy Scooter!, whatever ..... BECOME INDEPENDENT washo 50Cent 'get rich or die tryn'!!!!
Worst advice from an economic realities and traditional values perspectives, if anything pay rent to your parents and save until you can afford. Home is a launch pad and if your family follows this mentality, you will perpetuate poverty within your blood line, remember homesteads are built with multiple structures within the compound, you leave when you are ready and always have a place called home. The structures we live in these days are not affordable or compatible with traditional values. This is just my opinion so please if you disagree you are entitled to, like I have, please just keep it respectful as I have.
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198and whose fault is that...i can tell you that at home they get about 12k money and no one is working they are 5 in the household but they cant even lay-bye a fence...so why should my life be stuck by parents who squander money uselessly...believe when i say they could not even buy an iron from the 12k they are getting...on top of the allowance that i send them i still had to buy an iron for them...all the handle doors at home are broken...we close them with the brown box from the toilet paper...and they see nothing wrong with that....and mind you im.working in retail...you can say whatever about me and how my home looks but im tired of nursing parents who don't know how to take accountability and use money well to fix the house...i am building for me.and my child now...
That advice is very subjective and you are well within your own prerogative to believe such but some of us once sisebenza everybody in the homestead turn their eyes on you for provision out of this little money you have. You can never be ready for anything in fact, just move out and figure life out on your own. The challenges will always be there whether you are ready or not so just do it.
Some of the negative comments show that certain demographics do not listen to comprehend but only to be offended. Penson contextualised it well in parts of this video he specifically mentioned men who are able to spend money projecting an image online yet still stay at their mom's house. Moving out of home teaches necessary survival skills and ultimately a well rounded independence, doing everything for yourself.
He spoke about two types of guys. Those that feed off their parents and those that live at home cause it helps them to portray the image that they have made. I personally found nothing offensive
Our young bloods need tough love and we need to stop this soft mindset. The worst thing for a man is comfort. Discomfort = Growth ✊🏾🙌🏾. Nice video bhuti….keep it up
Eish... So so true!!! 😂 The best home to go back to is self love by confronting internal unresolved conflicts and wounds so that you are no longer triggered... That is the most effective healing by far... No muthi, no swasho, not even prayer just the decision and courage to embark on healing🤞🏾 Naturally the healed and healthy version of you will easily attract peaceful and successful energies like wise.. Struu 🤞🏾🤞🏾
Thank you so much for this bhuti😭❤. I'm in my mid 20s I'm stuck kithi I did not finish my diploma bcz of financial situations at a private institution all bcz I don't even qualify to get into a public university.. thank you so much I've been thinking about upgrading my matric cz nomsebenzi ngihlezi 2 years yonke angiwutholi nomsebenzi. Thank you Penson Mlotshwa.. ngabe ngikude kakhulu if I had a brother or an uncle like you. Thanks you grootman🙏🙌
Moved out this year.. Got a job and just moved into my apartment.. Now i am working towards moving in with my Lil bro.. Be deserves to grow out sooner than later
Usually I just likes to watch but feel compelled to comment on this. I tried moving out at 20 but stayed to "stand by my Mum like she stood by us". Didn't move out until 30 a year ago for a place she had to approve of and now we aren't on speaking terms because of this enmeshmed son-husband dynamic that came due to staying far too long. Move out for your own self respect if anything, I know why I'm saying this. As soon as you can, leave.
As a dude who is looking to move out, I've found myself with this dynamic with my mom. I had to set strong boundaries with her, but I think that moving is going to better for my overall growth.❤
@@yoladamoyi9801 Guy, I don't know what your financial situation is but if i'm to be brutally honest, give yourself 2 months from today to move out. Even if it's a room in shared apartment, leave. No offence to your Mom and stop me if i'm wrong but longer you stay worse things will get because she wants to dominate your entire life. God help you if you are in/get into a relationship while living under her roof if not already.
Siyabonga Brother Mlotshwa.I lost my parents by age 13. My elder siblings tried hard for us.Went to Tuks but they spoil rotten my younger brother.They were harsh on me but very soft on him and it's affecting him.He does not want school nje angazi kuthi uyitjele ngani in life.Its sad to watch.Mina lapha I watch content to open my mind to try nami not depend on a gent and have my own shit.Kundzima but will hold on
sh*T bro. You are 100% correct. Brutally honest. I didn't know my dad till I was 20. But yeah I can't hide behind that I gotta grind. Youvé earned a Sub this side
So I am compelled to share my little story. I WFH and I used to live by myself in PTA, about 2 years ago I got a call from mom telling me that she had decided to divorce my father. Now, they live a very upper middle-class lifestyle, where dad took care of most of the financial responsibility. Now mom on the other hand is a teacher and so when dad moved out of their home, mom asked if I could come back home to assist with the now financial responsibilities that are left with her. Dad only pays for the children's maintenance, but the house is now under mom. I agreed to come back as I couldn't let my mom drown in bills. I regret coming home because I now am responsible for major financial responsibilities of the home, as I used to spend way less my living by myself. But as I said I cannot leave her to drown in these finances. It's complecated because now I wonder if I ever decide to live by myself again she will suffer.😓
It's a recipe for bottled up resentment going forward. We obviously lack a lot of context but you say they live or lived an upper middle class lifestyle. The family has to really downgrade in that regard. I respond because it seems we always have to be burdened with things that really have very little to do with us, black tax, parents dragging us into their toxic affairs etc. and I know the situation is likely nuanced, but it still is unfair. Please stand up for yourself once you have the courage to do so.
You need to sit your Mom down and have a proper adult conversation about EVERYTHING. Downgrade and start working on something to bring in some passive income for her. Set boundaries and stick to them. Or else…disaster awaits.
Also guys. Its okay to not move out of your parents homes. Unless really work demands it. And perhaps family circumstances force it. But its just my personal view...m too traditional.😅 This thing can be disastrous in cases....depression etc.
You have to fight for your independence! This life thing isn't easy. And, all Penson is saying is you need to start understanding how tough it is out here. The economy is never going to be ripe enough. You will never experience any meaningful deflation. You are risking your more than you realize staying at home.
I started writing a thousand word essay expanding on this subject, realised it would take 5000, decided to give it a miss, you covered all the bases...👍🏼
This is why it is important to leave wherever you are and go to where who you want to be can flourish. That environment will influence you in a feedback loop, a self-fulfilling prophecy, and an upward spiral of becoming who you want to be. Where you are or come from, is keeping you the same and keeping you right there.
I'm currently building my home.. I had to fix my moms house while staying there... As for a guy who is staying in their mother's house and not contributing fokol that guy needs to grow up and move out.
This hits different when you’re a 24 year old immigrant with an overcontrolling mom,a dad that does whatever she says and your family is in a church cult 😭
Atleast ke last born. My brother is 39, second born and never moved out. He keeps wondering why my parents want him out and why there’s disrespect. I’ve been telling him to leave….. He doesn’t get it!
@@moe_ramz they get too comfortable unfortunately and some of their habits were condoned from a young age hence they are stuck a stage where they are unable to leave the nest
@@moe_ramz yep! In our communities we will always have bomahlalela and I didn’t want to call my brother that but that’s who he is 😅 and I also had such high hopes for him
Nah this one is cheese boy coming well of family probably his parents gave him money to go live elsewhere, now his her telling you to move out no, don't move out use that opportunity to budget for your own place I'd do the same if I had that opportunity of family house. You don't just move out without a plan unless you dum go ahead. Reality of success which no one speaks about is thst all successful people have nor have hand foundation be it support or something helping them
Our very own SA Tate brothers Pen and pen are very strong minded and if they have an opinion they believe in it big time you can’t force your opinion to them
First time seeing this channel or this video being recommended to me and I thought you were this other content creator that has a name that starts with a P until I actually saw him on the comments section 💔💀😅
Different stroke. Madoda look at other cultures. If your çircumstance is such, then be. Kwa le kaMothers house I dnt understand. Aksi states mo. Love and respect this brother so not bashing him but rather the global narrative he and others are falling victim to. Kwantu, your mother is a well treated guest in your fathers house. If he left her then hayke. The spawn of single mothers and 2 parent homes have different problems.
lol no one stays in my mother's house are you saying I should leave it unoccupied? Clean I should be in JHB given my career path but I can't at the moment cause my job allows working from home and clearing out my debts. That said I do think coming back here was a mistake.
...my young black brother. Yu are speaking from a point of privilege. I think you have scales in your eyes. Life is not a straight forward line. Some of us have been wounded and lost business family waves and health. Yu create this podcasts nonsense so that you can look smart. My older brother was married with 2 kids. He. Lost his job during lockdown, he divorced, he became sick, his depression became ao severe it seemed like he is crazy. Yu sound like a child. My manager was going through hell he went back to his township home, and he managed to regroup. He has managed to balance his finances. Most Indian families do all they can to never leave home. Bafo yeka ukuphapha nokusisanganela laaa ku RUclips what on earth are you rambling about. ..
Moving out of my mother’s house soon after varsity with no plan was the best thing I ever did. I have gained so much respect from my family and the things I learnt on my journey to being independent have shaped me into the best man I could be for myself.
Do I move out whilst I’m unemployed and figure it out or get some income no matter how small and get out
@@lunganiphahla3120nobody moves out with nothing. Have something to survive on and then move out
Move out of your mother's house??? Heh Baba... if you want to say something to me, come straight... and not around the corners!
Hahahahahahaha!!!
Why are you still eNewcastle??? 😂😂😂
@@pensonmlotshwa Akufune wena lokho
@@godpenuelLil bro firing shots indirectly 😂.
@@pensonmlotshwa eish we don't enter siblings' issues😅
Ahh man @pensonmlotshwa and @godpenuel❤❤❤❤the brotherhood gents sfunda a lot kunina❤❤❤❤. Keep it up and pass it to your sons , we need each in life so it should start at family level. Great one zitha❤❤.
i think this topic is very complex. people move out of their mothers homes for various reasons. but I wouldn't advise a guy who's earning R4500 pm to move out, especially if you come from a stable home. what i would advise is that you push and save while you're still building at home. Growing up in a colored/muslim community gives you a different perspective, you find a 30 year old still living with his parents, but he has a good paying job and owns the local gatsby spot. by the time he moves out his financial situation is WAY better than his peers that moved out early, but each to his own bafethu
No matter how you calculate moving out will always be beneficial to u
Just say you are scared of being independent because reality will hit you hard there. Go live by yourself and if it doesn't work out come back home baba at least now you'll know what to do next in order to climb the income ladder.
Person has a point, I can relate.. I got into trouble with my mom's car while she was not around I had to fix the Damage with no money I tried to contact people for assistance but no one was able to help me but reality is I screwed up , the situation made me realize that I honestly need to move away from my comfort Zone I'm currently 28 but still no direction yet when ninjas hit me up for drinks or vibes I'm always there but after that I feel miserable cause I'm not growing or going anywhere subconsciously my mind is telling me that I must take it easy but reality is I'm almost fucken 30 with nothing to show and my Mom can //will one Day Die(God Forbid)and I'll be left all alone to fend for myself..
In Short Growth does and will never come from a place of Cormfort.. Thanks penson for this Video I needed it.
There are also people who are the only breadwinners and even if they want to cant move out, because their parents or siblings depends on them financially.
I'm probably older than you but I'll say this much, you're speaking wisdom to these young men.
Keep it up.
I hear u🤞🏽🤞🏽working abroad and stepping out of my comfort zone has made me realize that I actually need to have my place man yaz. I just bought a land in SA and atarted to build, it’s feels super good yaz that when I visit home I won’t just be going to see my family but my house aswell. It’s also ok to have your place as an unmarried lady. Property is a long lasting investment just like these expensive bags ladies buy.
from when i was 6 yrs old, mom would tell me ...
"when u are 21 yrs old, u will be living on your own, IN YOUR OWN HOUSE!"
growing up, i thought 'every1 was told this' , i just assumed!
i missed my mark by 1 yr & started living independently at 22.
so i dont understand. esp for MEN!! MALES!!! MOVE OUT yo ma's house, drive that Uno, that Tazz, That CitiGolf, that Badboy Scooter!, whatever ..... BECOME INDEPENDENT
washo 50Cent 'get rich or die tryn'!!!!
Worst advice from an economic realities and traditional values perspectives, if anything pay rent to your parents and save until you can afford. Home is a launch pad and if your family follows this mentality, you will perpetuate poverty within your blood line, remember homesteads are built with multiple structures within the compound, you leave when you are ready and always have a place called home. The structures we live in these days are not affordable or compatible with traditional values. This is just my opinion so please if you disagree you are entitled to, like I have, please just keep it respectful as I have.
Well said…🙌🏾
One of the reason why some of those that "have made it" rent an apartment and their home base doesn't even have a gate
@@sibongisenikhumalo8198and whose fault is that...i can tell you that at home they get about 12k money and no one is working they are 5 in the household but they cant even lay-bye a fence...so why should my life be stuck by parents who squander money uselessly...believe when i say they could not even buy an iron from the 12k they are getting...on top of the allowance that i send them i still had to buy an iron for them...all the handle doors at home are broken...we close them with the brown box from the toilet paper...and they see nothing wrong with that....and mind you im.working in retail...you can say whatever about me and how my home looks but im tired of nursing parents who don't know how to take accountability and use money well to fix the house...i am building for me.and my child now...
That advice is very subjective and you are well within your own prerogative to believe such but some of us once sisebenza everybody in the homestead turn their eyes on you for provision out of this little money you have.
You can never be ready for anything in fact, just move out and figure life out on your own. The challenges will always be there whether you are ready or not so just do it.
Some of the negative comments show that certain demographics do not listen to comprehend but only to be offended. Penson contextualised it well in parts of this video he specifically mentioned men who are able to spend money projecting an image online yet still stay at their mom's house. Moving out of home teaches necessary survival skills and ultimately a well rounded independence, doing everything for yourself.
He spoke about two types of guys. Those that feed off their parents and those that live at home cause it helps them to portray the image that they have made. I personally found nothing offensive
Our young bloods need tough love and we need to stop this soft mindset.
The worst thing for a man is comfort. Discomfort = Growth ✊🏾🙌🏾. Nice video bhuti….keep it up
We're physically and mentally built for discomfort bra. Thats why we go to war with other men.
Eish... So so true!!! 😂 The best home to go back to is self love by confronting internal unresolved conflicts and wounds so that you are no longer triggered... That is the most effective healing by far... No muthi, no swasho, not even prayer just the decision and courage to embark on healing🤞🏾 Naturally the healed and healthy version of you will easily attract peaceful and successful energies like wise.. Struu 🤞🏾🤞🏾
Angiyi ndawo ndoda. These prices out here be crazy. I'll move when I'm done building on my own land
Happy Men's Mental Health month, my brothers 😉
I need to do a video on this… 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you for making this video topic ...idk about others but I really needed to hear this.
No one is real anymore,,but this is as real as it can get!
Bro i really do agree with you on this one, thanks for standing up and put it there way it is 🙏🏾
Thank you so much for this bhuti😭❤. I'm in my mid 20s I'm stuck kithi I did not finish my diploma bcz of financial situations at a private institution all bcz I don't even qualify to get into a public university.. thank you so much I've been thinking about upgrading my matric cz nomsebenzi ngihlezi 2 years yonke angiwutholi nomsebenzi. Thank you Penson Mlotshwa.. ngabe ngikude kakhulu if I had a brother or an uncle like you. Thanks you grootman🙏🙌
This is REAL TALK. Bro I don’t think you understand how important your video posts are. Keep doing your thing brother.
Moved out this year.. Got a job and just moved into my apartment.. Now i am working towards moving in with my Lil bro.. Be deserves to grow out sooner than later
Keep on shining brother and big ups for putting your lil bro on, God sees what you doing 🙏🏽💯
Usually I just likes to watch but feel compelled to comment on this. I tried moving out at 20 but stayed to "stand by my Mum like she stood by us". Didn't move out until 30 a year ago for a place she had to approve of and now we aren't on speaking terms because of this enmeshmed son-husband dynamic that came due to staying far too long.
Move out for your own self respect if anything, I know why I'm saying this. As soon as you can, leave.
As a dude who is looking to move out, I've found myself with this dynamic with my mom.
I had to set strong boundaries with her, but I think that moving is going to better for my overall growth.❤
@@yoladamoyi9801 Guy, I don't know what your financial situation is but if i'm to be brutally honest, give yourself 2 months from today to move out. Even if it's a room in shared apartment, leave. No offence to your Mom and stop me if i'm wrong but longer you stay worse things will get because she wants to dominate your entire life. God help you if you are in/get into a relationship while living under her roof if not already.
@ednutowaoa thank you for the advice man. I really appreciate it.
I do have the money, I just need to take the next soon💯
I've never been so positively attacked in my entire life. I physically had to take a seat just to process what umjita was saying🤕
Powerful...✊🏾
I too need to break the hurt of my child hood trauma.
Sleeping in the same room as you were 10 😂😂 Wowzer
Dankie bafo. I needed to hear this 👊🏼
Siyabonga Brother Mlotshwa.I lost my parents by age 13. My elder siblings tried hard for us.Went to Tuks but they spoil rotten my younger brother.They were harsh on me but very soft on him and it's affecting him.He does not want school nje angazi kuthi uyitjele ngani in life.Its sad to watch.Mina lapha I watch content to open my mind to try nami not depend on a gent and have my own shit.Kundzima but will hold on
Thanks for the wisdom big bru
Thank you 🙏🏽
Really profound and tangible advice bro. Thank you.
Read the Bible as Tool... for your spirituality....you will never look back when you meet Christ.I can guarantee that you will thrive❤❤❤
sh*T bro. You are 100% correct. Brutally honest. I didn't know my dad till I was 20. But yeah I can't hide behind that I gotta grind. Youvé earned a Sub this side
So I am compelled to share my little story. I WFH and I used to live by myself in PTA, about 2 years ago I got a call from mom telling me that she had decided to divorce my father. Now, they live a very upper middle-class lifestyle, where dad took care of most of the financial responsibility. Now mom on the other hand is a teacher and so when dad moved out of their home, mom asked if I could come back home to assist with the now financial responsibilities that are left with her. Dad only pays for the children's maintenance, but the house is now under mom. I agreed to come back as I couldn't let my mom drown in bills.
I regret coming home because I now am responsible for major financial responsibilities of the home, as I used to spend way less my living by myself. But as I said I cannot leave her to drown in these finances. It's complecated because now I wonder if I ever decide to live by myself again she will suffer.😓
It's a recipe for bottled up resentment going forward. We obviously lack a lot of context but you say they live or lived an upper middle class lifestyle. The family has to really downgrade in that regard. I respond because it seems we always have to be burdened with things that really have very little to do with us, black tax, parents dragging us into their toxic affairs etc. and I know the situation is likely nuanced, but it still is unfair. Please stand up for yourself once you have the courage to do so.
@@georgemaredi5771 like before i had planned to buy myself a car, travel abroad etc. but those plans have moved to maybe a year from now.
You need to sit your Mom down and have a proper adult conversation about EVERYTHING. Downgrade and start working on something to bring in some passive income for her. Set boundaries and stick to them. Or else…disaster awaits.
I couldn't have said it better myself 💯👌
Also guys. Its okay to not move out of your parents homes. Unless really work demands it. And perhaps family circumstances force it. But its just my personal view...m too traditional.😅
This thing can be disastrous in cases....depression etc.
You have to fight for your independence! This life thing isn't easy. And, all Penson is saying is you need to start understanding how tough it is out here. The economy is never going to be ripe enough. You will never experience any meaningful deflation. You are risking your more than you realize staying at home.
Gentz listen to ubra bra... As former a "loser" "ulova"... Smaaashin her at yo own spot💯.. The PS4 at yo own spot💯
...JUS HIT DIFF😂👌
Honestly needed to hear this, No lies detected 🤞
I stay with my mom cause i can't support two households.
I hope those guys you are talking to are really listening
I started writing a thousand word essay expanding on this subject, realised it would take 5000, decided to give it a miss, you covered all the bases...👍🏼
I sent this video link, to all my cousins that need to here this 👏👏👏🤝
This is not good advise . Do not give yourself undue pressure , you will create unnecessary financial stress . Move out when you’re ready financially.
Moving out of home as soon as you can is scam.. .
This is why it is important to leave wherever you are and go to where who you want to be can flourish. That environment will influence you in a feedback loop, a self-fulfilling prophecy, and an upward spiral of becoming who you want to be. Where you are or come from, is keeping you the same and keeping you right there.
It can be depressing to constantly remind yourself of the truth, but the power is that you can actually decide what you want.
I think not only for amagents,sonke nje we must just move out and face life without our parents❤
Thank you for this video really needed it
Thank you for the support! 🙏🏽
I'm currently building my home.. I had to fix my moms house while staying there... As for a guy who is staying in their mother's house and not contributing fokol that guy needs to grow up and move out.
Some of us are breadwinners you can move out and see your mom struggling with the siblings how have degrees but are unemployment we are prioritizing
Thanks for this video Pensos, in future please talk about this issue of Mamas and Oumas not wanting to let us go and have our lives.
My brother my girlfriend had to come to Gauteng from freestate to pull me out at my dads house now we work together i drive uber now
From today i will do better
I Thank God for his channel
Thank you soooo much 🙏🏽
This hits different when you’re a 24 year old immigrant with an overcontrolling mom,a dad that does whatever she says and your family is in a church cult 😭
Are you Samson from Zimbabwe?
@@FictionHubZA I’m from Congo,y did u ask bro?
@@Samson_992 Nah. I thought you were another Samson I used to know.
So how has life in South Africa been?
@@FictionHubZA it ain’t easy being an immigrant man 😭
Yoh the way I want our last born at home to move out and make something of himself.
Atleast ke last born. My brother is 39, second born and never moved out. He keeps wondering why my parents want him out and why there’s disrespect. I’ve been telling him to leave…..
He doesn’t get it!
@@moe_ramz they get too comfortable unfortunately and some of their habits were condoned from a young age hence they are stuck a stage where they are unable to leave the nest
@@KatMug it’s crazy, he’s at an age where he should have his own family but nix. It’s sad actually….
@@moe_ramz yep! In our communities we will always have bomahlalela and I didn’t want to call my brother that but that’s who he is 😅 and I also had such high hopes for him
@@KatMug
Same. I just hope it’s not too late for them. 🙏
what if the financial situation at home is bad and they depend on you??? and because of that you cant afford rent?
I live in mothers house but not with her .she only comes twice a year
You are looking after the house 👍.
😅@@simonboyane1140
Well said brother
Exactly bro nothing will move
I am a Mother of adult sons an I can relate😢
"You want the truth you cannot handle the truth." Robert Kiyosaki
this video was for me
9min- Ppl must book a commune for 2 weeks & get a sense of "living away from mother's house "
Let's talk about the male last born scenario.. Kuthiwa we must not move out, why?
Nah this one is cheese boy coming well of family probably his parents gave him money to go live elsewhere, now his her telling you to move out no, don't move out use that opportunity to budget for your own place I'd do the same if I had that opportunity of family house. You don't just move out without a plan unless you dum go ahead. Reality of success which no one speaks about is thst all successful people have nor have hand foundation be it support or something helping them
We all know what to do just not prepared to do it
23 years old college student should I wait until 25 years old graduate/job or should I move out now be homeless it will make me more of a man?
Our very own SA Tate brothers
Pen and pen are very strong minded and if they have an opinion they believe in it big time you can’t force your opinion to them
15:36 🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great advice
real shit. [21 y/o]
6:08 - 6:55 : The dark night of the soul
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First time seeing this channel or this video being recommended to me and I thought you were this other content creator that has a name that starts with a P until I actually saw him on the comments section 💔💀😅
Different stroke. Madoda look at other cultures. If your çircumstance is such, then be. Kwa le kaMothers house I dnt understand. Aksi states mo. Love and respect this brother so not bashing him but rather the global narrative he and others are falling victim to. Kwantu, your mother is a well treated guest in your fathers house. If he left her then hayke. The spawn of single mothers and 2 parent homes have different problems.
Another extra comment for the NAIL POLISH !!! What did your kids say abt it bru!??
bro why are you wearing nail polish or am i mistaken ?
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No but why vele
@@tshepang7922 exactly 💯
Nail polish has no gender
@@phumudzon1853 then you have been colonized by the 🌈 community
lol no one stays in my mother's house are you saying I should leave it unoccupied? Clean I should be in JHB given my career path but I can't at the moment cause my job allows working from home and clearing out my debts. That said I do think coming back here was a mistake.
Finally someone said it❤❤
You cooked 👌🏼
Whats going on with the Nail polish though sir
40 year old still governed by mom. we cant be friends
Amazipho ?
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What if you don’t have a job.Please stop imposing your ideas.
Then make a plan bro or atleast do something that will make you able to move out
Think as a man don't come with feelings here....This video is for the doers and dreamers bro
Stop hate watching his videos bra. There are a lot of other youtube channels out there.
...my young black brother. Yu are speaking from a point of privilege. I think you have scales in your eyes. Life is not a straight forward line. Some of us have been wounded and lost business family waves and health. Yu create this podcasts nonsense so that you can look smart. My older brother was married with 2 kids. He. Lost his job during lockdown, he divorced, he became sick, his depression became ao severe it seemed like he is crazy. Yu sound like a child. My manager was going through hell he went back to his township home, and he managed to regroup. He has managed to balance his finances. Most Indian families do all they can to never leave home. Bafo yeka ukuphapha nokusisanganela laaa ku RUclips what on earth are you rambling about. ..