I tell my son, "Sometimes being a man is about avoiding a fight, and showing the other person, that your powerful enough to use your words, but if he swings at you, your family, you protect yourself at all costs". And "Stand up for what you believe in".
@@Userqiehdn I’d argue the man who is quick to fight lacks self control. And if he’s fighting because he’s concerned of what other’s think of him, means he’s not very secure and easily influenced.
The strongest and most dangerous man is the one who doesn’t let others hijack his emotions or his intentions. Staying cool and self-assured under pressure.
And it hurts like hell when you do what's right but you KNOW you have to do what's right otherwise your conscience will tear you up or charges on your record will. Never had to deal with either but it's the strongest gut feeling you can have a an actual bad mf. And that's probably because if you're confident that you're gonna beat your opponent, it will be total domination and the cops will have an excuse to charge you since you delt enough damage. That's the one thing about getting into a fight if you deal enough damage, or in VA at least there are charges based on how much damage you deal and I fight to destroy if I feel I need to do that, so it sucks not punching someone in the face that needs it but we gotta let it be unless it's consistent and they're not leaving you alone. Sucks wang
@@franklinclinton1234💯 If you are a man of heart ❤️ once you click, it will be for a good reason & to protect something important. A man of heart never does anything to wrong someone, always comes correct.
Patrick Swayze said something similar in the movie "Road House". "The folks that go looking for trouble aren't much trouble for those who are prepared for it" or words to that effect.
Come fuck with me or mine , not only will I be the loudest person you ever heard, you'll find out real quick just how far I will go, being talkative does not mean that you are a sissy
Not always true ,i shouted yelled curse the guy whos been bullying me for yrs before hitting him with lifters conectors …. N not a single mate mate mate of him cared to step coz the volcona erupted and anything on his way faces destruction ,,,that makes up a good man
My Dad was a very dangerous man and as good as they come. You never ever heard him boast or brag and he had plenty he could’ve bragged about. As a kid I saw him help so many people and it taught me about helping others. I have also seen him stand up for those who couldn’t stand for themselves. The Korean War changed him immensely according to my Mother. Man do I miss them both.
I had to look to see who wrote this because it sounded so much like my dad. Korean war vet and it changed him as well. He was never afraid of anyone but what changed him is how quiet he became as well as soft hearted he became helping someone that needed help. Miss him!
I should have known from the "was" at the beginning of the comment but it still shocked me when I got to the end of your post. Sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have become his split image.
@@phillhuddleston9445 Self control is nearly only warranted when the person who is exercising self control is doing so in relationship to his or her current environment! Just because someone or something in your environment is provoking feelings of agitation or aggression, doesn’t mean that you should act or have to act against those influences! Being able to act against those influences is what makes the person dangerous and self control being employed is the exercise of knowing what you are capable of and only doing what you are capable of when absolutely necessary, not just because!
@@dwo356 I would argue otherwise. He's came up against all kinds of negative bias and treatment at the hands of his workplace for years, endured it and prospered to the point he no longer needs them whatsoever. That being said, he's also acknowledged the fact he's more agreeable than he would like to be. He doesn't like confrontation, contrary to his actions on a stage. I get what you mean though, he's a fairly docile "monster" 😆
You know that guy had to put himself into a coma to get off of drugs, right? You sure you want him as your hero? He can even cope with life without getting high.
This is real talk. My husband is the quietest man I've ever met. In our early 20's my husband and I worked at a place where they hired felons. While we were working a group of men were talking about how they had seen and been through a lot. One young man asked the group of men if there was anyone they were scared of. One answered that it's not who he's scared of but who he knows not to mess with. He mentioned my husband and said that people may think that he's weak because he is the quietest but knows that he thinks twice and that's scary alone. I always wondered why they showed my husband respect. He never judges and talks the same to everyone and that is with respect. 💯
@@MasterPlanner99 ridiculously rarely and probably never for most people in a modern society. Unless you live in a bad area or something. For the most part people are quick to action when action isn't needed. This is what people call toxic masculinity.
A good man is a dangerous man. He knows the difference in right vs wrong, but isn't afraid to put wrong in the right place. A quiet man is a thinking man. A thinking man is battling his conscious every day.
I was taught that too. I have also told my children that. I told mine the same thing my parents told me "I had better never hear of you starting a fight or being the bully, that will be a bad day. If you defend yourself or someone else, you will not be punished by me because I have your back"
Yes! And never confuse meekness with weakness! To be truly "meek" is to be strong, but using self- control, to choose not to use your strength in anger unless it is necessary. This is the sort of man (male or female-mankind-human being) that is a "dangerous man" to evil... dangerous to the devil if he or she belongs to Jesus Christ. Jesus was a meek, yet dangerous man. When He overturned the tables or cast out demons, He kicked devil butt!
Jesus is o.k with people being tortured who dont believe a god exists. The god of love send this jesus dude to be tortured on a cross, as a "solution" nfor mankind. What psycho logic is that? The god of love couldnt heal mankind and set an example of love without bloody torture / execution / human sacrifice? Its so crazy, people bought this for centuries thinking it makes sense. It doesnt. At all... @@mariekrasch503
Literally the person who purposely avoids arguments and fight is the most dangerous man. He knows what kind of monster is inside him and he doesnt want to reveal it.
Only an idiot or someone with a death wish wants violence. You push someone enough though, there is that tipping point. Only one time in my life did I get pushed to the point of "seeing red" as they say and I was worried about that loss of control afterwards.
Absolutely, my Grandfather has said this before back when I was still a teenager and I stayed with him a lot. He used to give me small talks like this, but with BIG meaning.
Very cool grandfather you had. You are very lucky to have learned some of life's lessons from him. I never knew either of mine. They both passed before I was born. One was a pharmacist in the 1930's. The other, a cabinet maker.
Quiet people are usually the ones you should watch out for because they are watchers. They are present but they like to just let the ones that need to talk and be seen do their thing. They are learning
Exactly no wonder 💭 why others be worried once I come around. I swear peoples be acting all nervous and scare. I’m just the most quiet person ever but however don’t let that fool you.
@@liberaltears1714 He grew up in a pretty rough working class environment in Canada and used to drink a lot with the other guys. I'll bet he can hold his own. He's given a talk or two where he describes this experience. I wouldn't underestimate him. He's a classic Gemini, meaning he leads with intellect and words; doesn't mean he isn't able to fight.
I'd like to add "Don't take kindness for weakness" Sometimes people take things too far relying on someone's good will. I've done it and regret it lol.
From what you have written all i can say is "you have earned it", no sorries. Do not rely on people just to keep urself on surface, otherwise you will sooner or later end up below. Stop judging people, a misjudgement may lead you straight to a downfall. Keep that. Make use of it.
Hence the current state of the Western world, where "good" men (and women) have been conditioned to "go along to get along," never push back and accept the unacceptable, while attempting to destroy anyone who strays outside the flock.
I've learned that being a dangerous man is simply having and knowing your own capabilities and power and yet knowing most fights aren't worth it, until someone crosses you then you show em your wrath
Like my dad always said. "The loudest and most aggressive man is the biggest pu**y." Real men don't boast or threaten. They just react when the time comes.
@@liberaltears1714 Those bad dudes are usually adolescent minded bullies that don't understand the art of fighting and why it exists in the first place. But I understand what you're saying!
My wife calls me the silverback gorilla 😂 Because the rare times when I’ve been pushed too far, the rage comes out and I will do whatever it takes to protect my family.
Being dangerous means willing to fight to the death for truth. A dangerous man is often a quiet man because the more he says, the more he has to be accountable to defending that truth.
No, a dangerous man is one who will tell the truth and leave it up to YOU to find out if the truth is actually true. He will say the truth and walk away. Because the truth cannot be defended (by definition of defense) and the only thing a dangerous man can do is leave the uninformed a choice to accept the truth or drag the man FOR the truth.
I was once told by a very strong person who I respected, a person who had been in real danger and taken lives mind you, that “The loudest guy in the room is always the weakest. It’s the guy with his back against the wall not saying anything that you need to keep an eye on.”
You just described the difference between the orange faced blabber mouth man child & American men & women who quietly take it all in while knowing exactly who he is & what he is. Be Well.
@@puttervids472 how can taking no action be presented as evil? And in order to be good i must take action, which in this case is to cause harm to the attacker. How can causing harm be the precondition for being good?
Akyl, this is true to a point. Yet many feel no need to assist the vulnerable when the vulnerable brought problems upon themselves. After protecting many over the years, I am happy to watch some get what they begged for. For instance, I seldom will help a female. The dangers of doing so outweight my want to help. Plus, let them live up to what they claimed.
A good man is one who runs towards danger rather than away from it - he runs in defense of those he loves. A bad man is one who attacks the loved ones of a good man.
That shouldn't be rare. You should listen to everyone you encounter, and take note of everything they say. You can learn something from everyone, even if it's what not to do.
@shootaman2 unfortunately it is rare. I've long understood that Life itself is the greatest teacher in that it allows you to repeat the problem until the lesson is learned. That said, many people fail to reach that phase, as is evident in the idea that I do better than 90% of the people around me. One of the key elements to this is learning to discern who/what is a distraction and who/what is worth your attention. This guy is clearly the latter.
I agree with you 100%. Sometimes the most dangerous person is the quietest person in the room. That quiet person is thinking of what he'd love to do *to* you given an opportunity. He ain't telling the world, he's just pondering it in his head.
.." Good" ?? ... And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me GOOD? there is none *GOOD* but One, that is, God. Mark:10:18 You're looking for Good ?? ... Be more like Jesus Christ . You want "Quiet" ?? .. He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet *He opened not His mouth* : He is brought as a Lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so *He openeth not His mouth* . Isaiah:53:7
My mom told me to be good, do good to others no matter if they did bad to me, My dad told me to be neutral, if they do badly on me, give em back the taste so they respect and remember that after all. Following my mom, I've been bullied often since I was a kid, following my dad, those bullies, well that was the last time my brother n I saw them.not dead,just they don't appeal in front of us anymore Nowadays, it's better to be neutral. And I always observe and stay silent in the crowd. So you will alert more for any unusual things. My dad is navy veteran.
Often a good man is someone who has poured his heart and soul into his family. So when some jerk comes along and threatens that, you better believe he will fight like a lion to protect that. A man’s protection drive supersedes everything else, even their own life.
There is no such thing. Everyone gets scared. Its Just some people do things despite being scared of them. Every martial artist is scared when they step in the ring. Every soldier is scared in combat. And everyone has SOMETHING to lose. If they didn't, there would be nothing worth fighting for
The strongest men I ever knew were kind men. The power of kindness cannot be understated. But, those same men would also crack your head in a split second if it called for it.
Being quiet just means that you listen and pay attention. That combined with being confident in who and what you are and your beliefs usually sends a clear message to everyone else.
The be the strongest person. 1. Never lose enthusiasm in what your dreams are. Even if you fail at obtaining them, at first keep pushing yourself until you do. 2. Don’t complain much especially around others they will see this as weakness, and you’re not going to have people that will want to have much to do with you. So don’t let your problems overwhelm you. Solve them you’ll save time and energy and reach a sense of accomplishment and be rewarded. 3. Let go of the past and move forward to the future. Don’t let the pass drag you down. 4. Exercise and eat healthy, set a time table. 5. Read a book. Reading not only educates you, but broadens your mind also. 6. Get involved in community work, do some charity work it’s. good for your sole. And good to help others less fortunate than you. 7. Be kind and humble. Be patient by doing these things you’ll be able to think more clearly. 8. Always keep busy doing something you enjoy. That will get rid of any distractions like anxiety, depression and stress. 9. Remember you will at a points in your life find your self in uncomfortable situations. Excepting that will make you more prepared when it happens. Thank you!
It's almost always when you see someone making a fool of themselves, I always love that little "I got you if you got me" silent interaction across a room
I always say this is one of the only rewards you get for being a good man. you hopefully get some respect, you get pride, & you get comradery. they're trying to take away these, the only incentives to be good men.
.." Good" ?? ... And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me GOOD? there is none *GOOD* but One, that is, God. Mark:10:18 You're looking for Good ?? ... Be more like Jesus Christ . You want "Quiet" ?? .. He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet *He opened not His mouth* : He is brought as a Lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so *He openeth not His mouth* . Isaiah:53:7
This is what my father taught me from a young age and I always protected my family members (mostly younger brothers & mom) but in school I fought the bullies for the poor kids who couldn't defend themselves and it only got me kicked out of school and jail time... but I felt Great afterwards. Because I knew what I did was right in my heart.
@@shkmru3 sounds more like they're reckless and don't give a shit about being a good man. Jose you seem like you have a lot to learn about the world. How bigga boy areya?
@@shkmru3 being loud is being insecure. If you have to be loud about how dangerous you are, it's because you don't want anyone else to know how weak and vulnerable you really are.
i think being told to be quiet is not a sign of strength...lovingly telling opinions that help others even when they dont want to hear it is a sign of strength and rarely does a quiet man do that.
My father, the most dangerous man ever. He is the quiet man in the room. He is the man people don't expect a serious reaction to bad behavior. I always feel the safest when with him. I have seen what he can do.
It's always the introvert standing around observing. The danger lies because we act without warning. We are seemingly unimportant and never viewed as a threat, we neither argue or hesitate to thrown down and choose the target wisely. The quiet man is the tactician that will position himself and crew in winning position. Often times, first punch thrown is from that quiet guy whom has already assessed the situation and chose a target.
Matt, he’s real. My advice is stop watching soap operas like Yellowstone and find a job you love. You will become the cowboy you search for. Any job son. After 25 years if you’re smart you will have saved some money, and you will have learned enough to become wise.
My Father Says " Don't wish for Fight avoid it but if someone hurts your self respect then respond him with your full force otherwise don't come back to my home".
So violence is the solution to any insult? A man should stand in defense Of any eminent physical threat and respond accordingly but to disregard words as just wind Yet speak your mind with intent. that is true strength of a man's character To Ignore the words of an idiot🙂 To descalate the situation And not give into violence like a simple mindless animal! But this is how your father believes? to respond to just words with the full force of violence Because of your ego and pride? That is the actions of an insecure child and a fearful coward filled with hate. The character of a true man is to stand strong with honor Against insult But reacting with Aggression Does not show strength But simply Proves weakness
@@ilovepizza666 ummm...What!? A. Your comment really makes no sense Like there is no relatable context or Connection to to what anyone said in relation to you responce. And B who is that directed at? Is it possible it was intended Somewhere else and you commented here by mistake?
true otherwise weve gone soft which is whats happenning now with masculinity so when there ready to attack who will defend? God Help Us i hate soft men (as in Dont Like)
This are things My Dad used to say, and he tried to get that in My kids head. "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt" I learned young that being quiet is the best thing you can do, you can pay attention to what's going on around you better and be prepared for anything. I've often made people nervous just because I'm quiet, My Dad taught me that.
My uncle is like this.. he’s 6’6 works out but volunteers at the homeless shelter every weekend. Every. Single. Weekend. Including Christmas and he never misses it! I hope to one day be like him!
Never underestimate no one ever! Lesson no. #1 in life and respect yourself and others. When the situation is right and you are to stand up you do what you gotta do within the law.
I tell my son to be respectful, because people often mistake kindness for weakness. And when that happens you must present a dark side of yourself to let everyone know you don’t give a damn.
@SteveVi0lence Jordan is not the only perspective. sometimes I will hear him and he makes sense. I agree with much of what Jordan says but not all. as with all people.
Being a good man is the most important.If you become too dangerous it will torture you're being and you're soul.Its not worth it unless you have to. Stand up for what's right not for what's wrong
Because a dangerous man who chooses to be a "good" man is much different than a "good" man who is only being good because they are weak cowards with no other options.
@@GarethOnPoint"Be dangerous", be capable of great destruction. Capable of great violence. Capable of burning down a city. Capable of killing others. Capable of beating people. Capable of great destruction. What makes a good man is one who is capable of great destruction but chooses peace. Chooses not to destroy but to build and create. You cannot be a good man if you are not capable of evil. You lack the ability to be evil. That doesn't make you good. You are neither. Whatever you are, it is not by choice. If you aren't a "dangerous man", or capable of evil, that means you don't have a choice to be evil even if you wanted to be. Lacking evil is not equal to good. Good is proactive. A choice. However, if you are capable of evil and good, you have the option to choose between both. Therefore, you can know you're truly good because you have the option to be evil. Both choices are available to you. Does that make sense or do I need to explain it better? I'd also like to point out Jesus Christ said no man is good.
This is the cowboyification ofJordan Peterson
Lol😅
I dub thee “Yeehaw Peterson”
I thought the same 😂
@@Stephen94A that’s exactly what I thought also.
Yeah but Jordan Peterson doesn’t have half the balls this guy does
My dad always said: "be good, don't be nice."
Glad to know you had a good dad. My dad was a p o s wife beating child abusing coward!
Smart man
What's the difference
A good man does the right thing, which can be very hard to do. A nice man, people pleases.
My mentor always says "Good ain't always nice Ace. Be gracious, be caring. But you do not ask them. You tell. Do what is good. Don't be nice."
“It’s better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war”
but theres wisdom in being a gardener in a war, if you think about it
@@krzstarfarr1216 we call those people medics lol
Unless you're Sam Gamgee
Garden warfare
@@liammeadows9782 gottem
I tell my son, "Sometimes being a man is about avoiding a fight, and showing the other person, that your powerful enough to use your words, but if he swings at you, your family, you protect yourself at all costs". And "Stand up for what you believe in".
Wait… Dad is that you???
You should never avoid a fight if the other guy challenges you or people will see you as weak.
@@Userqiehdn I’d argue the man who is quick to fight lacks self control. And if he’s fighting because he’s concerned of what other’s think of him, means he’s not very secure and easily influenced.
Yep, self defense.
@@SirS2pendous If others think of you as weak that puts you and the people you love in danger.
The strongest and most dangerous man is the one who doesn’t let others hijack his emotions or his intentions. Staying cool and self-assured under pressure.
No, the most dangerous man in the room is the one who doesn't value human life.
And it hurts like hell when you do what's right but you KNOW you have to do what's right otherwise your conscience will tear you up or charges on your record will. Never had to deal with either but it's the strongest gut feeling you can have a an actual bad mf. And that's probably because if you're confident that you're gonna beat your opponent, it will be total domination and the cops will have an excuse to charge you since you delt enough damage. That's the one thing about getting into a fight if you deal enough damage, or in VA at least there are charges based on how much damage you deal and I fight to destroy if I feel I need to do that, so it sucks not punching someone in the face that needs it but we gotta let it be unless it's consistent and they're not leaving you alone. Sucks wang
Pretty cool.
Just like Mayweather. They tried to create fighters every single day just to ruin his career
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The person that doesn’t look for trouble, is usually the person that can take care of trouble.
@@franklinclinton1234💯 If you are a man of heart ❤️ once you click, it will be for a good reason & to protect something important. A man of heart never does anything to wrong someone, always comes correct.
Patrick Swayze said something similar in the movie "Road House". "The folks that go looking for trouble aren't much trouble for those who are prepared for it" or words to that effect.
Ooooooooo look out for that guy!!!!😨💀
Is that why criminals are afraid of ordinary people who doesn't look for trouble.
So true.
“Don’t Mess With Quiet
People, Because He Who Is Quiet Is Humble In Appearance Only”.
Bruce Lee
💯 true.
U sure are right
Bruce has been my childhood Idol, and remains in the #1 spot today at 54 yrs old.
Or more likely holding something on the inside, from truma
I’m the most quiet person you’ll meet. This is bs 😂
"The weakest man is the loudest man, it is the empy tin that rattles most." Rudyard kipling.
Come fuck with me or mine , not only will I be the loudest person you ever heard, you'll find out real quick just how far I will go, being talkative does not mean that you are a sissy
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Not always true ,i shouted yelled curse the guy whos been bullying me for yrs before hitting him with lifters conectors …. N not a single mate mate mate of him cared to step coz the volcona erupted and anything on his way faces destruction ,,,that makes up a good man
@@Blackcaviar444 100% damn right, good for you
Andrew Tate 💀💀💀
My Dad was a very dangerous man and as good as they come. You never ever heard him boast or brag and he had plenty he could’ve bragged about. As a kid I saw him help so many people and it taught me about helping others. I have also seen him stand up for those who couldn’t stand for themselves. The Korean War changed him immensely according to my Mother. Man do I miss them both.
My dad was in the Korean War also
I am very sorry for your loss....even after many years it still hurts immensely.
I had to look to see who wrote this because it sounded so much like my dad. Korean war vet and it changed him as well. He was never afraid of anyone but what changed him is how quiet he became as well as soft hearted he became helping someone that needed help. Miss him!
Hey man, he succeeded the one job he had to do.
And that was making you the person you are today. He succeeded his mission 💯
I should have known from the "was" at the beginning of the comment but it still shocked me when I got to the end of your post. Sorry for your loss. Hopefully you have become his split image.
Self control in ANY situation (even fighting) makes a person dangerous💯
Self control helps but it doesn't make you dangerous on it's own.
@@phillhuddleston9445
Self control is nearly only warranted when the person who is exercising self control is doing so in relationship to his or her current environment!
Just because someone or something in your environment is provoking feelings of agitation or aggression, doesn’t mean that you should act or have to act against those influences!
Being able to act against those influences is what makes the person dangerous and self control being employed is the exercise of knowing what you are capable of and only doing what you are capable of when absolutely necessary, not just because!
Dangerous people lack self-control.
I was like number 69. I just wanted to let everyone know.
@@phillhuddleston9445 duh. Did it really need to be said?
"You should be a monster, then learn to control it" -Jordan Peterson
Says Jordan Peterson??? 🤣🤣🤣 He's as far from being a monster or dangerous as possible.
@@dwo356 😂😂
@@dwo356 I would argue otherwise. He's came up against all kinds of negative bias and treatment at the hands of his workplace for years, endured it and prospered to the point he no longer needs them whatsoever. That being said, he's also acknowledged the fact he's more agreeable than he would like to be. He doesn't like confrontation, contrary to his actions on a stage. I get what you mean though, he's a fairly docile "monster" 😆
@@otto3361 No only the dumb ones will interpret what he said in a way that will get them in trouble.
You know that guy had to put himself into a coma to get off of drugs, right? You sure you want him as your hero? He can even cope with life without getting high.
This is real talk. My husband is the quietest man I've ever met. In our early 20's my husband and I worked at a place where they hired felons. While we were working a group of men were talking about how they had seen and been through a lot. One young man asked the group of men if there was anyone they were scared of. One answered that it's not who he's scared of but who he knows not to mess with. He mentioned my husband and said that people may think that he's weak because he is the quietest but knows that he thinks twice and that's scary alone. I always wondered why they showed my husband respect. He never judges and talks the same to everyone and that is with respect. 💯
He is a cuckold❤
Ya okay
@@stevenresendez6735😂😂😂😂😂
...it helps when your kids tell others he wears long sleeves cuz he has prison tatoos....
This was a great comment that got highjacked by a couple of punks.
“No Man can be good unless he’s understood his capability for evil”
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I agree.
I am stealing this
You deserve more likes 👏👏
Utter nonsense.
A dangerous man is one who keeps his word and does what he says he's going to.
Underrated comment right here
That literally has nothing to do with danger
@@mutantbarbeque4653 Keep being a smartass, with that attitude no amount of advice is gonna be able to help you
u literally talking sht rn 😂😂
That's just a trustworthy man. A dangerous man specializes in violence, but only uses it when need be.
Be soft, but not weak.
Be strong, but not violent.
Exactly
There are times where you have to be violent towards people.
Stay Hard!
-goggims
“Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength.” - St. Francis De Sales
@@MasterPlanner99 ridiculously rarely and probably never for most people in a modern society. Unless you live in a bad area or something. For the most part people are quick to action when action isn't needed. This is what people call toxic masculinity.
A good man is a dangerous man. He knows the difference in right vs wrong, but isn't afraid to put wrong in the right place. A quiet man is a thinking man. A thinking man is battling his conscious every day.
My dad always told me "never start,trouble son, but make damn sure you are the one who stops it..."
I was taught that too. I have also told my children that. I told mine the same thing my parents told me "I had better never hear of you starting a fight or being the bully, that will be a bad day. If you defend yourself or someone else, you will not be punished by me because I have your back"
i love when older men share things they’ve learned through life.
whoever you are sir, i appreciate you🤞🏽
He was a sheriff in Alaska for a long time. You got to be a dangerous Man in them parts
Only dangerous man are good. _ Old Cowboy Hillbilly logic. hahahah !!!
He’s a hired actor voicing great advice 😊
Till its your stepdad whos just nailing your mom
Nah this man’s name is Dwayne his channels name is drycreekwranglerschool
Never mistake kindness for weakness 💯
Yes! And never confuse meekness with weakness! To be truly "meek" is to be strong, but using self- control, to choose not to use your strength in anger unless it is necessary.
This is the sort of man (male or female-mankind-human being) that is a "dangerous man" to evil... dangerous to the devil if he or she belongs to Jesus Christ.
Jesus was a meek, yet dangerous man. When He overturned the tables or cast out demons, He kicked devil butt!
@@mariekrasch503please keep your comment short thanks
Jesus is o.k with people being tortured who dont believe a god exists. The god of love send this jesus dude to be tortured on a cross, as a "solution" nfor mankind. What psycho logic is that? The god of love couldnt heal mankind and set an example of love without bloody torture / execution / human sacrifice? Its so crazy, people bought this for centuries thinking it makes sense. It doesnt. At all... @@mariekrasch503
Too many modern women mistaken their kind man as weak man.
Be good & do good. Think good.
Literally the person who purposely avoids arguments and fight is the most dangerous man. He knows what kind of monster is inside him and he doesnt want to reveal it.
I could listen to this kind of man all day long.
Right!!!
whats the name
@@farhanstreet not a clue
@@farhanstreetdry creek wrangler school
@@farhanstreet Dewayne has a big youtube channel called Dry Creek Wrangler School
The toughest most dangerous men I've known, are usually humble people who don't claim to be a dangerous.
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you manage to make them lose their cool, and they may unleas hell on you
Only an idiot or someone with a death wish wants violence. You push someone enough though, there is that tipping point. Only one time in my life did I get pushed to the point of "seeing red" as they say and I was worried about that loss of control afterwards.
Absolutely, my Grandfather has said this before back when I was still a teenager and I stayed with him a lot. He used to give me small talks like this, but with BIG meaning.
Very cool grandfather you had. You are very lucky to have learned some of life's lessons from him. I never knew either of mine. They both passed before I was born. One was a pharmacist in the 1930's. The other, a cabinet maker.
N did u learn anything or he was just wasting he’s time telling u that
a wise man is good t be mentored from he did you right :)
Lol didn’t see this but but this makes me think they don’t make them like they used to back in the day
Amen brother to your grandfather I bet he was a good man
A nice man respects the powerful. A good man respects the powerless.
Quiet people are usually the ones you should watch out for because they are watchers. They are present but they like to just let the ones that need to talk and be seen do their thing. They are learning
i like a little busch
"A wise man cries more often than he speaks."
Exactly no wonder 💭 why others be worried once I come around. I swear peoples be acting all nervous and scare. I’m just the most quiet person ever but however don’t let that fool you.
Watching the watchers gets you watched😉
@@BrockGarrett-fm9he might could be 🤷
"Even demons run, when a good man becomes angry."
Nonsense. Anger is of the devil.
@Michael K Everyone becomes angry from time to time. It's what you do with that anger, that matters.
This quote really isn't that true because most people know they are only willing to go so far and do so much even in anger.
Well, from what I understood. God hates sin, so that would mean he is angry at demons or at the devil
@@markoperic5023 god also flooded the world and murdered ot of people so you know I wouldn't base things off God's moral code
A dangerous man who is quiet is quiet because they fear what they'd do when they are forced to be dangerous
Yes! 100% Correct!
Yeah, that pretty well sums it up 💯
Agree , avoid violent confrontation unless its your last resort. Furthmore don't go into a war showing your enemy your potential arsenal .
Facts
that's me I always fear what I'd do if am forced and once I do that it's very hard to stop so I'd rather walk away from that type of situation
I've always felt that those that talk the most and brag the loudest are the most insecure.
@makodirectsalescutco600 you did hit the nail on the head with that buddy👍
Not true in my experience. Some people are more extrovert
@@l.s9148Extrovert: Attention/validation seeking behavior.
@@l.s914899% of extrovert I have met in my life are people with no mind at all,
Not really that's just narcissists, but seriously some people who are being quiet screams "I'm better than them" and feel self important
A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very, very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control. -Jordan Peterson
It’s kind of funny that he said this, because even though I like him, I don’t think he could fight his way out of a paper bag
I agree. But I bet he could talk his way out that paper bag. Physically, he’s not intimidating, but mentally/verbally he’s a ninja.
@@liberaltears1714 You wouldn’t know, he’s over six foot & has a lot to protect, who knows what he’s capable of physically.
@@liberaltears1714 He grew up in a pretty rough working class environment in Canada and used to drink a lot with the other guys. I'll bet he can hold his own. He's given a talk or two where he describes this experience. I wouldn't underestimate him. He's a classic Gemini, meaning he leads with intellect and words; doesn't mean he isn't able to fight.
Never under estimate anyone, ever, for a man as smart as JP, it would shock me entirely if he didn’t know how to handle himself physically.
My Dad always taught me to be kind and treat everyone with respect until they give you a reason not to.
Same here. "Respect is given, trust is earned, and both can be taken away"
@@JSAFIXITdisagree. Respect is earned not given and trust is earned too
@aliassem1035 I see it like that because you should always be respectful until someone gives you a reason not to be.
i believe both are earned but be but show everyone kindness at first@@JSAFIXIT
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A Man's greatest battle is the one he faces daily from within.
A weak man is a danger to himself and others. A strong man is a danger to the wicked.
Our young men need more of this! "Its better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war".
Not if you're at war with a Gardener.
@@michaelbaker7827 that would mean the gardener is at war yeah? I'd still rather be a warrior in a garden.
This reminds me of a rather funny buddhic saying " before enlightenment chop wood and carry water, after enlightenment, chop wood and carry water"
This video was a whole lotta words with no meaning.
Its like a word salad without dressing.
@@gg-gamersyou are too young
“You wonder if you’re a bad man?”
“No, I don’t wonder, sometimes you need to be a bad man to keep the other bad men from the door.”
I'd like to add "Don't take kindness for weakness" Sometimes people take things too far relying on someone's good will. I've done it and regret it lol.
From what you have written all i can say is "you have earned it", no sorries.
Do not rely on people just to keep urself on surface, otherwise you will sooner or later end up below.
Stop judging people, a misjudgement may lead you straight to a downfall.
Keep that. Make use of it.
A principled man is a dangerous man, if he knows someone that crosses lines, he’s going to say something about it. No matter the consequences
Hence the current state of the Western world, where "good" men (and women) have been conditioned to "go along to get along," never push back and accept the unacceptable, while attempting to destroy anyone who strays outside the flock.
A man of virtue is a man who has enough power to commit heinous acts yet chooses to use that very power to protect
Wise words. Train hard, train smart, stay free.
Be consistent, be relentless, be ruthless.
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Eat vegetables
@@Lickmacake And meat. fish, mutton, pork, poultry, beef, game.
@@tidefanyankee2428 And touch grass
I've learned that being a dangerous man is simply having and knowing your own capabilities and power and yet knowing most fights aren't worth it, until someone crosses you then you show em your wrath
Like my dad always said. "The loudest and most aggressive man is the biggest pu**y."
Real men don't boast or threaten. They just react when the time comes.
The loudest most aggresive is only like that when his buddies is with
@@frikkiesmit327 Agree for the most part. Alot of people do it as a tactic so they don't have to fight.
I mean as general rule sure but I definitely know some bad units who love to start shit😂
@@liberaltears1714 Those bad dudes are usually adolescent minded bullies that don't understand the art of fighting and why it exists in the first place.
But I understand what you're saying!
All the really dangerous people I have ever met are very quiet,"Beware of the Dog with no Bark"...
A good man is the man who can harness the beast inside and release the beast when absolutely necessary
My wife calls me the silverback gorilla 😂 Because the rare times when I’ve been pushed too far, the rage comes out and I will do whatever it takes to protect my family.
Jesus Christ
@@lawinaabraham3073 agreed🤣😂😂😂
Being dangerous means willing to fight to the death for truth. A dangerous man is often a quiet man because the more he says, the more he has to be accountable to defending that truth.
No, a dangerous man is one who will tell the truth and leave it up to YOU to find out if the truth is actually true. He will say the truth and walk away. Because the truth cannot be defended (by definition of defense) and the only thing a dangerous man can do is leave the uninformed a choice to accept the truth or drag the man FOR the truth.
Facts ❤❤❤❤
Truth
I was once told by a very strong person who I respected, a person who had been in real danger and taken lives mind you, that “The loudest guy in the room is always the weakest. It’s the guy with his back against the wall not saying anything that you need to keep an eye on.”
You just described the difference between the orange faced blabber mouth man child & American men & women who quietly take it all in while knowing exactly who he is & what he is.
Be Well.
"I will do great and horrendous things to protect those that I love"
I thought he was talking about being a good man/ person.
Exactly. Bad men and women have no idea the danger they’re in while around my loved ones. Death would be welcomed by them before I finished.
@@puttervids472 where exactly does "being good" fit in what you just said?
@@chrisrea6841 good is not some arbitrarily placed ideal of pacifism. In fact standing idly by and doing nothing while harm is being done is evil.
@@puttervids472 how can taking no action be presented as evil? And in order to be good i must take action, which in this case is to cause harm to the attacker.
How can causing harm be the precondition for being good?
A good man can be quiet for some time, but when the vulnerable are in need of protection, he will rise and become dangerous for the bad ones.
Akyl, this is true to a point. Yet many feel no need to assist the vulnerable when the vulnerable brought problems upon themselves. After protecting many over the years, I am happy to watch some get what they begged for. For instance, I seldom will help a female. The dangers of doing so outweight my want to help. Plus, let them live up to what they claimed.
Its the quiet ones with that look on their face. Don't have time for anyone's shit look. Yet still courteous. Those are the ones I don't F with lol.
@@jwtrucker5402 true but you obviously missed the mark
@@bandhead06 or it may be that you did, and haven't realized it yet.
A good man is one who runs towards danger rather than away from it - he runs in defense of those he loves. A bad man is one who attacks the loved ones of a good man.
Facts
MHA? 😂
THen Trump is a bad man would you agree...attacks innocent families of a judge in NY.,
6 4 still going
Most dangerous man is a man with nothing to lose
But still never mess with someone who has everything to lose
Both comments 👌
@@siyabulelasaphetha7385 I agree that they're both 👌
A dangerous man is a calm man thats only dangerous when he needs to be.
Kinda guy I could sit back with, share a bottle, and get some life lessons. One of the rare moments where you sit down, shut up, and take notes.
That shouldn't be rare. You should listen to everyone you encounter, and take note of everything they say. You can learn something from everyone, even if it's what not to do.
@shootaman2 unfortunately it is rare. I've long understood that Life itself is the greatest teacher in that it allows you to repeat the problem until the lesson is learned. That said, many people fail to reach that phase, as is evident in the idea that I do better than 90% of the people around me. One of the key elements to this is learning to discern who/what is a distraction and who/what is worth your attention. This guy is clearly the latter.
@@shootaman2 If you learned more in one topic than most other people, you dont meet a lot of people that you can learn from.
@@Havoc62exactly
@@Havoc62and sadly this isnt one of those things you can easily find good information on
I agree with you 100%. Sometimes the most dangerous person is the quietest person in the room. That quiet person is thinking of what he'd love to do *to* you given an opportunity. He ain't telling the world, he's just pondering it in his head.
Facts I'm always calculating and simulating
.." Good" ?? ...
And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me GOOD? there is none *GOOD* but One, that is, God.
Mark:10:18
You're looking for Good ?? ... Be more like Jesus Christ .
You want "Quiet" ?? ..
He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet *He opened not His mouth* : He is brought as a Lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so *He openeth not His mouth* .
Isaiah:53:7
My mom told me to be good, do good to others no matter if they did bad to me,
My dad told me to be neutral, if they do badly on me, give em back the taste so they respect and remember that after all.
Following my mom, I've been bullied often since I was a kid, following my dad, those bullies, well that was the last time my brother n I saw them.not dead,just they don't appeal in front of us anymore
Nowadays, it's better to be neutral. And I always observe and stay silent in the crowd. So you will alert more for any unusual things. My dad is navy veteran.
Humility is not that you're afraid but afraid of what you can do to them.
Agree
So true, no one understands the danger of silence , it's not what a man says, it's what he doesn't say
"A man who stays silent even after being disrespected is far more dangerous than you think"
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
(Proverbs 17:28 kjv)
This man deserves all the love he can get. And so does so many others dealing with loneliness and depression
Often a good man is someone who has poured his heart and soul into his family. So when some jerk comes along and threatens that, you better believe he will fight like a lion to protect that. A man’s protection drive supersedes everything else, even their own life.
Couldn’t agree more sir
There are two kinds of people who are dangerous:
The one who has no fear
The one who has nothing to lose.
A man who has something to lose is more dangerous than a man who has nothing to lose
A man who has something to lose is more dangerous than a man who has nothing to lose
A man who has something to lose is more dangerous than a man who has nothing to lose
There is no such thing. Everyone gets scared. Its Just some people do things despite being scared of them. Every martial artist is scared when they step in the ring. Every soldier is scared in combat. And everyone has SOMETHING to lose. If they didn't, there would be nothing worth fighting for
@@igor0155yup
The strongest men I ever knew were kind men. The power of kindness cannot be understated.
But, those same men would also crack your head in a split second if it called for it.
Being quiet just means that you listen and pay attention. That combined with being confident in who and what you are and your beliefs usually sends a clear message to everyone else.
This man is like High Honour Arthur Morgan if he grew old
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Mr Morgan
@Juggled he does look more like uncle
😂😂😂
Get outta here.... 😢
A man who has nothing to lose are the ones to look out for.
So true, my dad always said, " A quiet man or woman has been through a lot in their life, and they know who they are...
Yeah, or they have social anxiety disorder.
The be the strongest person.
1. Never lose enthusiasm in what your dreams are. Even if you fail at obtaining them, at first keep pushing yourself until you do.
2. Don’t complain much especially around others they will see this as weakness, and you’re not going to have people that will want to have much to do with you. So don’t let your problems overwhelm you. Solve them you’ll save time and energy and reach a sense of accomplishment and be rewarded.
3. Let go of the past and move forward to the future. Don’t let the pass drag you down.
4. Exercise and eat healthy, set a time table.
5. Read a book. Reading not only educates you, but broadens your mind also.
6. Get involved in community work, do some charity work it’s. good for your sole. And good to help others less fortunate than you.
7. Be kind and humble. Be patient by doing these things you’ll be able to think more clearly.
8. Always keep busy doing something you enjoy. That will get rid of any distractions like anxiety, depression and stress.
9. Remember you will at a points in your life find your self in uncomfortable situations. Excepting that will make you more prepared when it happens.
Thank you!
Sometimes I will notice the other quiet man in the room and we both see the same thing and will smile or laugh together.
Gaaaaaaay
It's almost always when you see someone making a fool of themselves, I always love that little "I got you if you got me" silent interaction across a room
Definitely had this lol.
I always say this is one of the only rewards you get for being a good man. you hopefully get some respect, you get pride, & you get comradery.
they're trying to take away these, the only incentives to be good men.
.." Good" ?? ...
And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me GOOD? there is none *GOOD* but One, that is, God.
Mark:10:18
You're looking for Good ?? ... Be more like Jesus Christ .
You want "Quiet" ?? ..
He was oppressed, and He was afflicted, yet *He opened not His mouth* : He is brought as a Lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so *He openeth not His mouth* .
Isaiah:53:7
“It is because your cherish life that you must protect it.”
Thank you 16, your sacrifice was not in vain
Do not try to be someone else. When the time comes, you will be who you really are. Simple as that.
Thanks, man.
The most dangerous man is self-reliant. He can't be controlled or manipulated. Extremely dangerous.
This is what my father taught me from a young age and I always protected my family members (mostly younger brothers & mom) but in school I fought the bullies for the poor kids who couldn't defend themselves and it only got me kicked out of school and jail time... but I felt Great afterwards. Because I knew what I did was right in my heart.
Never did like a bully
If you have to announce to the world that you're dangerous, you're not.
Yeah fucking right I knew loud people who would do what they said they would do, you really can't just base this off just words
@@shkmru3 sounds more like they're reckless and don't give a shit about being a good man. Jose you seem like you have a lot to learn about the world. How bigga boy areya?
@@shkmru3 being loud is being insecure. If you have to be loud about how dangerous you are, it's because you don't want anyone else to know how weak and vulnerable you really are.
@shootaman2 it doesn't mean they still aren't dangerous. Usually weak insecure people are the most dangerous and unpredictable.
@@liquidbrainstorm every loud person I've known has been a complete idiot. Every. Single. One of them.
Notice that he did not say "Do good to people you love."
He said "Do good to people." That means everyone. Even the ones who hate you.
That is from the Bible.
@@DaYammie Correct.
Love your enemies and hate the enemies of God.
As Denzel said in AMERICAN GANGSTER: " THE LOUDEST ONE IN THE ROOM IS THE WEAKEST ONE IN THE ROOM!"👑
Not always, but it can be true at times.
Then Muhammed Ali came along and fucked all that up
A good man is strength under control which is very different from being harmless.
Amen brother I'm the quietest in my family it's one of the things they teach you in the military
i think being told to be quiet is not a sign of strength...lovingly telling opinions that help others even when they dont want to hear it is a sign of strength and rarely does a quiet man do that.
So tough
If someone tells you to STFU and you do it that doesn't make you quiet, just obedient.
Wow real dangerous killing unarmed afghan women and kids
@@muaythairaja Remember 9/11? Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind.
My father, the most dangerous man ever. He is the quiet man in the room. He is the man people don't expect a serious reaction to bad behavior. I always feel the safest when with him. I have seen what he can do.
@@Touchit344?
@@Touchit344you’re tweaking man
@@Touchit344you're a 6 years old or what?
Facts. Sir, you are wise and it’s appreciated. The quiet one is the dangerous one, usually.
Maddog Maddox said "Be polite, be professional, but have a plan kill everybody you meet." I feel like this fits.
Yeah, I get that. Be sure you don't kill yourself. Proud men die inside.
It's always the introvert standing around observing. The danger lies because we act without warning. We are seemingly unimportant and never viewed as a threat, we neither argue or hesitate to thrown down and choose the target wisely. The quiet man is the tactician that will position himself and crew in winning position. Often times, first punch thrown is from that quiet guy whom has already assessed the situation and chose a target.
He looks like a veteran cowboy who has had that experience and he's willing to share it with everyone. Thanks for your word🙌🏽🙌🏽
He looks like an actor who has never been in a dangerous situation in his life
^ He looks correct.
You look like an idiot.
@@rvp1he’s not. Do your homework. Fake news
Matt, he’s real. My advice is stop watching soap operas like Yellowstone and find a job you love. You will become the cowboy you search for. Any job son. After 25 years if you’re smart you will have saved some money, and you will have learned enough to become wise.
@@sevinstorey4365 🤣Shut up, please
To be committed to doing good is the riskiest thing there is. At some point you will be up against what feels like the whole world.
I love your idea that the most dangerous man is the quietest man in the room. So spiritual!
My Father Says
" Don't wish for Fight avoid it but if someone hurts your self respect then respond him with your full force otherwise don't come back to my home".
Dont herd yourself . Every thing has thier own solution . Learn to think and to stop escaping
So violence is the solution to any insult?
A man should stand in defense Of any eminent physical threat and respond accordingly but to disregard words as just wind Yet speak your mind with intent. that is true strength of a man's character To Ignore the words of an idiot🙂
To descalate the situation And not give into violence like a simple mindless animal!
But this is how your father believes?
to respond to just words with the full force of violence Because of your ego and pride?
That is the actions of an insecure child and a fearful coward filled with hate.
The character of a true man is to stand strong with honor Against insult But reacting with Aggression Does not show strength But simply Proves weakness
And thats why youa are in a wheelchair right now
@@ilovepizza666 ummm...What!?
A. Your comment really makes no sense
Like there is no relatable context or Connection to to what anyone said in relation to you responce.
And B who is that directed at?
Is it possible it was intended Somewhere else and you commented here by mistake?
You have a good father.
If a man is good, it is deliberate. For he understands the implications of the dangers he may inflict.
“The world needs bad men. We keep the other bad men from the door.”
-Rustin Cohle, True Detective
true otherwise weve gone soft which is whats happenning now with masculinity so when there ready to attack who will defend? God Help Us i hate soft men (as in Dont Like)
The new world is trying to make men weak and women strong. It's anti naturistic
All these gurus out here like Iman Ghazdi, Andrew Tate, etc. will never tell you the truth like this man is.
Doing good to people is key
Only god is good.
others being safe from your tongue and hands are the key to success
@@billywayne902and we can do good
A nice man isn't always good, a good man isn't always nice...
Many people aren't good sooo it's not the key
“The world needs bad men. We keep the other bad men from the door.” Rustin Cohle, True Detective
This are things My Dad used to say, and he tried to get that in My kids head. "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt" I learned young that being quiet is the best thing you can do, you can pay attention to what's going on around you better and be prepared for anything. I've often made people nervous just because I'm quiet, My Dad taught me that.
My uncle is like this.. he’s 6’6 works out but volunteers at the homeless shelter every weekend. Every. Single. Weekend. Including Christmas and he never misses it! I hope to one day be like him!
I have been a dangerous man for as long as I can remember. The trouble is, discerning when to unleash the monster.
Same here and aren't they surprised when the monster is released!
C'est vrai, quand est la véritable question...
Cringe
Blud thinks he's the ultimate alpha male 💀🙏🏽
Like a Father.
Thank you sir.
Never underestimate no one ever! Lesson no. #1 in life and respect yourself and others. When the situation is right and you are to stand up you do what you gotta do within the law.
precisely! like my great grandfather used to say
"walk softly, but carry a big stick."
This is yummy ❤
Amen to that brother! If it ain’t good, it ain’t living.
Jordan Peterson said it best. "Be a monster and then learn to control it."
Yes he did & it all makes so much sense
Peterson the charlatan said a lot of things.
@@matthewtaylor3308 doesn't make the statement any less true
@@matthewtaylor3308 how is he a Charlatan?
Like Colby Covington
I tell my son to be respectful, because people often mistake kindness for weakness. And when that happens you must present a dark side of yourself to let everyone know you don’t give a damn.
Best thing I’ve heard in a while. Words to live by.
Listen to Jordan Peterson
@SteveVi0lence Jordan is not the only perspective. sometimes I will hear him and he makes sense. I agree with much of what Jordan says but not all. as with all people.
So true. A good man will come to the rescue of those in trouble without harming anyone else.
Yes, and he will still get a bad reputation.
Being a good man is the most important.If you become too dangerous it will torture you're being and you're soul.Its not worth it unless you have to.
Stand up for what's right not for what's wrong
"Friendly to everyone....friend to no one."
Goodness is a choice not an inability to do evil
I can’t say I understand it 100% but I feel it 1000%
Because a dangerous man who chooses to be a "good" man is much different than a "good" man who is only being good because they are weak cowards with no other options.
That means you got it buddy. You are the real deal, and you are worthy of love and respect. We need more men like you sir, much love brother
That's because it doesn't 100% make sense. Maybe it's the editing, or maybe he can't explain how to "be dangerous" very well.
@@GarethOnPoint"Be dangerous", be capable of great destruction.
Capable of great violence. Capable of burning down a city. Capable of killing others. Capable of beating people. Capable of great destruction.
What makes a good man is one who is capable of great destruction but chooses peace. Chooses not to destroy but to build and create.
You cannot be a good man if you are not capable of evil.
You lack the ability to be evil. That doesn't make you good. You are neither. Whatever you are, it is not by choice.
If you aren't a "dangerous man", or capable of evil, that means you don't have a choice to be evil even if you wanted to be.
Lacking evil is not equal to good. Good is proactive. A choice.
However, if you are capable of evil and good, you have the option to choose between both.
Therefore, you can know you're truly good because you have the option to be evil. Both choices are available to you.
Does that make sense or do I need to explain it better?
I'd also like to point out Jesus Christ said no man is good.