I've mentioned it before but I just wamna say thank you to your editor! Shes doing a fabulous job. Your videos still feel like yours so shes done an amazing job working in synergy with you. Plus she's giving you your life back! Shoutout to Jessie's editor 💜
I feel like one thing that happened for the majority of people over the pandemic was they were forced to slow down. And at first it was hard but I think now that so many of us are back to working regularly we have realized how necessary it was to slow down. And I think we miss it. Coming back to work consistently has been such a struggle and I find myself and others more burned out than usual!
Amen! I wish I could live more slowly again and do all the things I didnt while during last year. Plus working in an industrial job has worn out m body a lot in just 8 months. Im ready for a "big girl" office type job at 28 if I can get one
Video idea: Opening the PR you do receive on camera and taking us through the process of how you decide what you'll try and what you'll give to family/friends. Would be interesting
Have you watched Kelly Gooch declutter? She keeps a smaller collection so when she declutters 5-10 items (assorted categories), she makes a short video about it. It is a nice way to do it if you’re being very deliberate about what you are keeping/decluttering.
@@bethpat9 I agree for a person on You Tube her collection is quite curated. Hannah Louise Poston probably does the best job in keeping a small curated collection. I like both channels for different reasons.
Your note on job and fulfilment is SUCH. A. SIGN! I’ve been struggling with job search and the fear of being stuck with a soul-sucking job, your advice definitely helps to put things into perspective. Thank you!
Teaching is definitely more challenging than ever, I've been teaching 14 yrs and this is by far the toughest year ever. Every time I turn around they are putting a new demand on us, my plate is literally already overflowing. It is not sustainable long term, I am at school until 6:00 four nights a week just to maintain my classroom. Thanks for touching on it Jess! Great video!
Thank you for all that you do. Teachers don’t get nearly as much love and appreciation that they deserve, especially with everything that’s going on right now. Hang in there ❤️
I read a comment somewhere once about a job being there to help you do what you really want and I totally agreed with it. I really enjoy my job and the people I work with. That said, it's not my focus in life. It thankfully is able to pay for stuff I really love doing (travel, makeup, etc).
I do understand that you have chosen to remove yourself from a lot of PR. Would you please consider sharing with us which brands you decided to keep receiving their products? I really respect your ethical choices when it comes to makeup products so I'm definitely curious to know which companies you decided to stay on board with.
I agree. I find myself of late actually getting angry with some of the really big PR hogs out there who show off their drawers, closets and cabinets full of duplicative, unopened, luxury products they can never use before they expire, but still won't refuse, nor pass along for others to share. There are so many women's organizations out there who would be so grateful to accept those products for women in need of a boost in their lives.
@@neresq I understand having stuff is a part of some of these people’s jobs but it is actually kind of gross to watch the scale of things these people are obtaining. Like does one person really need 30 coats for the winter???
@@neresq I completely agree with you. There are a couple popular beauty youtubers that I have actually unsubscribed from because I have been upset over those videos. Yes, I understand it is "their job" and they receive things for free...they might not be spending thousands of dollars on makeup themselves. However, they can ask to be removed from companies they don't really believe in, truly love their products etc. Instead of seeing a video titled "HUGE PR HAUL..LOOK AT ALL THIS MAKEUP I HAVE AND DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT 1/4 OF IT IS...OR HOW MUCH OF THIS HAS EXPIRED "...I know that is an exaggeration but it's what I feel like when I see that. I would so much rather know that those products went to smaller creators who may not be on any pr lists that maybe they could make a few extra videos showcasing those products or donated to womens shelters to women who have had to leave their makeup behind when escaping an abusive living environment etc. In this world of so much excess, I just wish they would pass things along to others who would actually benefit from it.
True. Thrift Thick and Allie Glines come to mind. Allie is all for high-end stuff anymore and ignores the rest. Cassie (Thrift Thick) will show all the expensive PR she receives and then she never reviews any of it. I find that irritating.
I’m a teacher & it feels good just to hear someone say that it’s such a hard time to be a teacher. Girl! You couldn’t be more right! It’s just sometimes nice to feel like other people see that. Thanks, Jess ❤️
My husband and I moved from NYC to South Florida when we were newlyweds 40 years ago to escape winter and city life. But, increasingly over the past few years, we have grown really tired of dealing with the 3 H's: hurricanes, heat and humidity, all of which have greatly intensified due to climate change. Our visits to one of our sons in Chicago have led us to conclude that we want/need to experience the change of seasons (and city life) again and so we are actually planning to reverse-retire northbound within the next few years.
I moved from Orlando Florida. I don't miss the hurricanes but the rest of it was great. Well the humidity was no fun but we did alot of great fun in side. I miss the beach sooo bad. Now im in Illinois and freeze for 4 to 5 months. 🤦♀️
@@gidget_ I just move from Jacksonville to northern Illinois and while the weather adjustment is a shock, I'm so relieved to be out of the hurricanes and humidity! I'm from Wisconsin originally though.... so I think it's just in my blood to prefer the cooler weather. But the beach... missing it like crazy!
Thank you so much for touching on fulfillment coming from all different aspects, I really needed this insight. Truly it made me tear up, and was an answer to a quite prayer in my heart.
Jess, thank you for touching on how tough the teaching environment is right now. I'm student teaching while getting my masters in elementary education and keep doubting myself and questioning if I actually do want to be a teacher. To be honest, I'm not sure anymore
Definitely not the students fault. Neither the parents fault. Parents have every right to know and voice an agreement or disagreement as to what is being taught to their kids. Teachers work for us, not the other way around.
Yeah I'm student teaching right now while getting my masters in elementary ed and I have been doubting and questioning my career choices right and left
You are so fun (and that’s from a 70+ gal) and cute! Love your stories about Pinocchio, the “old man”. Our little fluffy terrier mix left us a couple months ago at 16 years and we miss her terribly. Stay happy and BUZZED with your beautiful family.🤗
Jesse, I'd be interested in any video you put out. Seriously. You're one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I really value your honesty. Besides that, your vlogs are my perfect relaxation 😌 xox
I get that about lighting in your home can make the room brighter, and just a soothing positive feeling opening curtains in a dark room. I feel lighter too.🌼🍁🌻🥰
I absolutely agree about the job not being the source of your life’s fulfillment. I enjoy my job but it does not define me. How I live my life is more about family, friends and living my life with purpose. And at the end of the day whether i have held the door for someone, given someone a random compliment, spent quality time with family or been there for someone who really needed it, that is when i feel fulfilled! Thank you Jessica for your honesty and always being you! That’s what keeps me coming back for more 💕
I love your coffee chats, always great getting your perspective on things - you always make me feel uplifted and ready to face things with positivity, so thank you for your honesty and advice 🥰
Jessica would you be willing to venture out into more fall inspired makeup looks ? Especially for the eyes cause I know that’s the look your comfortable with but if you can try something else with the changing season maybe ? 🤷🏻♀️
Love your coffee chats! So glad you brought up feeling fulfilled in other aspects of your life besides just work. That is something I need to focus on more. :)
Jess, I agree with you on teaching. I don’t think I would go back after being away for so many years. Things are so different now and it’s not the students or the parents, it’s just the way things are in this country. As usual, loved the video. Looking forward to your vlogmas.
I have several youtubers who I watch all the time, but you are the only one who really feels like a friend- especially in videos like this. You are so genuine and I think your honesty has a lot to do with that. Thanks for being you, Jess. You are so loved! ❤️
Jessica, I just wanted to say, I absolutely love you and your videos. I just started a new job this week and have been catching up on the past few videos you put out because I haven’t had the time to watch them this week. You are by far my favorite you tuber, I think it would take a year to scroll back and find the last video of yours that I DIDNT watch. It’s just so obvious that you are a kind, genuine person at heart. You care so much about others and trying to listen to other people’s side of things, even when you might not necessarily agree, and I just love that about you. We need more people like that in the world. 💙
Your comment about not worrying so much about what you do that makes you money was spot on! It is a means to the end, not " the end". Our relationships during good or bad times are really what our focus should be on. Work will always be just that- work! We should strive to have a positive outlook and do things that are not damaging to us physically and mentally- by all means, if your work is harming you, do all you can to find a better fit. But, work should not define us. I would rather be remembered for the way I treated people, wherever I am. And those are the people that have touched my life the most!
You definitely speak the truth about what fulfills you as a person. It shouldn’t just be your job. There is so much more in life! Love ya Jess!!💕 My favorite you tuber!
When you’re trying to explain the fulfillment of your job, every mom probably understands. While I love my job, after being a mom, it became a thing I do… while being a mother and having a family, is what fulfilled me ❤️
Me and my husband are both 22 and we LOVE Disney! We went in June this year and so excited to go again for Christmas this year. A lot of people do wonder why we love Disney so much (like my family lol they don’t get it), but honestly all I can say is if you get Disney, then you understand. My only complaint is that Takumi-Tei and Jiko are closed!!! We were pumped and it’s not looking like they’ll be open :(
You're honesty is so refreshing and I personally didnt hear anything offensive..Never have... Everything you said made sense and you inspire me to seek out my happiness. I know that may sound corny but I'm being completely sincere. 💛🌻
I wasn’t even wondering about why the door was the way it was. I was more so admiring how it’s a darker grey versus the wall 😍😂 we have a similar color on our walls. Now I want to go to Lowe’s and get a darker grey for all of our doors 😂 Also, YAY for Vlogmas. That’s almost as exciting as Christmas morning! ❤️💚So happy you’re feeling better and more relaxed! Also: Yes please for declutter videos! 😍
For some reason i stopped watching you for like 3-4 months could be even nearly 6 months but now im back binge watching what i have missed! And i was laughing and nodding to what you said at the end. 😍😂
I love what you said about work and what it provides . I think it’s hard to ,sometimes, keep your work registered as a small part of who you are bc we spend so much of our time working. And many many many many simply work bc they have to not bc there’s any joy in it. So when you work 40-60 hours a week and hate the job you do feel so empty. (And that’s in no way a dish to you you work extremely hard at a job that can be just as exhausting!!) what you said though is true! Trying to leave work at work and finding the deep joys of your family, faith, volunteering whatever it is is soooo important bc the fact is we might not ever find joy in our work. That doesn’t mean our day to day life has to be empty and hallow!!Thank you for sharing!
That blush is very flattering. But I get what you mean about about the seasons. The cold will begin to get to me but when the humidity starts, I'm like, I can't wait till the winter. I do enjoy spring & fall.
Thank you for talking about your job and fulfillment! I recently left my nursing career full-time and have really struggled with my sense of purpose and feeling like I'm not making a difference! I'm doing a job I never dreamt I would do and actually have energy left at the end of the day and just feel like I am able to give more of myself in areas of life that I feel matter so much more than a career and what others think of me.
I feel it on the Disney section. I’m heading there next Friday, and Tyler has been great helping us book our second trip. The price increasing and losing benefits have just got out of hand in my opinion. It’s getting too expensive to go to Disney, even as an adult. Next year the airport transportation is gone…. That’s going to be big miss. I still love it, and will wanna go again when I’m come home. However this CEO is taking out what Walt always wanted something “families could go to a magical place together”
Thank you so much for acknowledging how difficult the education world is-especially right now. I’m 12 years into my teaching career (High school Literature-love your reading habits and book chats, btw!) and though it’s both a passion and a calling, I’m not sure I can do 30 more years anymore. And you’re absolutely right. It’s not the kids. In any case, thank you. Love all your videos and I’m happy to hear you’re feeling better and it’s feeling more manageable. ♥️
I'm so glad that you are feeling more like yourself! I can't wait for you and Tyler to do Vlogmas, watching it every year has become a tradition for me!
Touching on your thoughts on teaching, you are so right. The climate of teaching and education is awful right now and that's what lead me towards working in Libraries instead. Now I get to teach kids so many fun and exciting things but don't have as many of the terrors that teachers do. This is a career path option for those that love the idea of teaching but don't love the bureaucracy and issues with it.
I loved this coffee chat. Specially the part about the job not being the only full filling aspect of life. There are SO many other important things to enjoy.
Planning to move to FL in one year. Praying I don’t lose the Disney magic being closer. Thank you for the honesty. Going to guard against it. Noticing all the people in the comments who agree. Also, you nailed it talking about Disney’s idea of families enjoying time together. It’s still the most exciting place to go for both parents and kids, faults and all, hands down!
I appreciate how genuine you are on your channel, and that you are open about the importance of your Christianity. Just a very well rounded place for me to enjoy and relax. I’ve been watching since you and Tyler were dating.
When I work in an office I HATED the air conditioning in summer. I would dress to be warm in the office but then would almost pass out from the heat driving home. And I hate freezing while grocery shopping.
I’m so with you about the atmosphere in education right now. I left a few years ago for a completely different career. Like you, I miss the idea of teaching, but not the actual teaching.
Same.. born and raised in FL and every summer I say I'm moving to Alaska! Summer is miserable in FL and I live inside in the air-conditioned world for months. I lovee FL winters though. Come on cold fronts! Lol
YEEESSSS GIRL on everything you said about Disney!! Its funny how people forget that Disney is ultimately for kids! Also 100% on teaching! Its definitely "not the kids". Teaching is 100% different then what it used to be.
We had a saying in our house growing up: “don’t jazz the baby.” (Some siblings needed to be reminded not to wind up the youngsters right before bed or naptime… It was me. I was “some siblings.” 🤣)
We have an old man dog too! Always has been. There are times that he sits on the couch with his back up against the back of the couch and his head up to the ceiling like "I can't even with you people anymore". It's hilarious to see him sitting like a human. My college age daughter said to him once "Murphy, why are you a 70 year old man?" 🤣
I had a dog who’d do the same thing. But he did love his fuzzy toys. My most recent dog only cared about humans. Didn’t care at all to play with other dogs. I miss both of them.
I am so happy for you, Jessica. You having an editor and being able to breathe and be yourself really comes through in your videos; I can see it in your eyes. Obviously I watch every video you do, and I really appreciate all of your different styles of videos. You have a natural talent for this and I hope you keep doing it. What is coffee without Jessica?
I love when you talk about Disney! That’s actually how I found your channel years ago…a Disney haul. Maybe you should look into DVC? You’re not moving there but it feels like you do! Happy medium!
You’re a teacher? Me too! That explains a lot re your love of reading, your ability to communicate so effectively with your audience, your approachable demeanour. I’m getting outta the game this year. I’ve had enough. I want to pursue my MUA career seriously now. Set up my little business here in Australia.
1000000% agree with your thought about the AC in the summer. It gets very hot & humid where I live too and while I love summer and the warm weather, I hate how cold it is when you go inside anywhere. It actually makes me very angry lol
Is it ridiculous that I watched 1 year of vlogmas and now I feel like it’s apart of my Christmas tradition?! ESP during covid when we couldn’t do a lot, I was able to escape and get in the Christmas season because of your videos even when I couldn’t see my own family and friends. Can’t wait!
Jessica! I love your coffee chats so much! I hope you feel fulfilled with your youtube career because you do so much more than just talk about makeup. I always watch your videos if i’m stressed, having a bad day, or want to make a great day even better! My best friend and I always talk about your videos when we’re out shopping together and watching you brings us closer as friends! I hope you know how much good energy you bring to people! ALSO I live in Orlando and I feeeeeel you when you say summer here is way too hot. I literally cannot leave the house. Anyway, love you Jess!!
We moved from FL to NC and we were not prepared. We had no coats, gloves, or anything you wear when it's below 60. Well, on the drive up there we ran into a sleet storm. What the heck. Soo my grandpa drove our car and grandma drove theirs. We stop at the nearest store which was a Walmart. Lol. Grandma and grandpa saved us and started piling clothes in the cart but wait they're buggies now. Lol so with in an hour we had a good chunk of what we will need for the seasons as they changes. We make it in and we were so cold. Even with the new gear. They only had wall heaters and a Heat in the living room that was a big box I still don't know how it heated. No heat in the bedrooms but... they new we would need it so we each go a plug in heater and an electric blanket. I remember the first day of school after the new year break. I always picked my outfit the nigh before. I was only in 2nd grade. I had to fit in. My grandpa would put my clothed on top of the big box heater. Then he made me soft boiled eggs and toast and OJ. Then he would plug in the electric heater and make just enough space to have it rest in the window slit of the window so after my awesome breakfast and putying on my warm clothes. I was climbing into a warm car ready to go to school. My grandpa was such a loving man. I was his little girl. We drove 5 house down the road and pulled into the school parkinglot. Yup he did this every morning just to get me 5 houses down. Until I stated riding the middle school bus. When I got home grandma would have cookies or brownies baked and hot chocolate. Even single day. Me and my grandpa were so close. I could go to him with anything and he'd just listen until I was finished the ask "can I say something that may help?" Of course and he would give excellent advice. Or he would just let me cry with no explanation. Or read the Bible. When I was finsh he would take me out for ice-cream. God I miss my grandpa. He's in heaven planting the best garden and teaching children all kinds of things. Sorry, I just couldn't stop writing once I said one thing. To anyone who read this whole thing, thank you. It means alot.
Ok. I live in an area where we get days without the sun shining, and I come from a very sunny place like even when it’s super cold. I get depressed every year around this time because that’s when it starts. You don’t know how thankful I am that you mentioned “happy light” in this video! I never knew it existed. I am ordering one and hoping from the bottom of my heart it works!
Hi Jessica..Just a note to say I have been viewing your videos for several months now and so glad I stumbled upon you..While though I'm old enough to be your mom I do enjoy tuning in as your personality makes me smile..I watch a mix of influencers who vary in age..I've come across beauty influencers who are my age that do not appeal to me and there are those who are younger who I cannot relate to also..It's not the age so much it's the person ..Btw I particularly love your eyeshadow..Looking forward to your next video..
Can I say how much I love how your channel is more lifestyle videos. I started watching you years ago when I was just getting into makeup. But now at 31 I kind of know the brands I like and how I like to do my makeup. So lots of channels I use to love l just aren't for me anymore but its nice when the channel evolves with you. Not saying there is something wrong with channels that just do makeup . It just not the channels I enjoy anymore.
I hear you on the temperature thing! I was in Vegas in June and it was freezing in the casinos and 112 degrees outside. I kept having to take a sweater on and off lol
I feel u on the "hot in the summer but everything is cold inside". I've been getting comfortable going braless in baggy t-shirts (I'm a B cup so nothing insane) but mannnnnnnnn.... Walking into a cold grocery store. I'm like 🙈😯😳🤭
I love living in the Orlando area. It's great to head to Disney on a day off and escape the world and then come back home the same day and sleep in my own bed. Nothing like your own bed! Lol
That's how I felt when we lived there. Plus you don't have set days so if it's raining for a day or more you're not screwed. You can just go when all the rain clears up.
@Kristy Manis ok sooo... this is totally off topic but I'm one of those people that'll compliment a stranger when I see something I like.. whether it be their outfit, haircut, tattoos or makeup. And I just wanted to say, you're SO pretty! Lol I clicked your pic bc for a split second I thought you were someone else.. I was obviously wrong lol but you have a really pretty smile and I thought I'd just mention it! Truly hope this doesn't come off as creepy, in hindsight I realize that it quite possibly could 😆 ok, that's all. Have a great day!
Omg I remember being so SAD when Vlogmas was over last year and now it’s almost time again. This year has gone SO FAST! Doesn’t feel like Christmas without them… lol
Yes! The worst thing for me about hot summer weather is the aggressive air conditioning, not the weather itself... I hope companies stop doing that. It is unpleasant and bad for the environment.
I’m rolling cabbage leaves and I had to wash my hands to comment! I could see Tyler as Ted Lasso! I love it! As for living in Florida, it is too humid in the summer, and that’s why the rest of the year is the best here. I miss the snow at times, but I can’t see myself living in that kind of weather anymore. It’s funny how your feelings about climates change as you get older. It sounds like a great idea to go back and live up north and experience the four seasons, but then when I think about driving in snow and shoveling snow, I think again and appreciate Florida a little more. It sounds like a rant, right? 😂
I'm a Southern lady who spent several years in CT. I'm back in my home state of Alabama and although I've been back for several years I still struggle dealing with the heat and humidity here in the deep south. I tell people my internal thermostat was permanently altered. 😏And I miss seasons. I miss Fall colors and a Spring that lasts more than a week☺ I don't miss shoveling snow but I do miss watching it fall from inside a cozy house. ☺ You'd probably miss all that too.
Not related to any of the questions, but your ability to talk whilst doing winged liner is IMPRESSIVE.
Amen!
I've mentioned it before but I just wamna say thank you to your editor! Shes doing a fabulous job. Your videos still feel like yours so shes done an amazing job working in synergy with you. Plus she's giving you your life back! Shoutout to Jessie's editor 💜
“I ranked it 4, well 4.5 in my head.”
Petition to have Goodreads add half stars.
I feel like one thing that happened for the majority of people over the pandemic was they were forced to slow down. And at first it was hard but I think now that so many of us are back to working regularly we have realized how necessary it was to slow down. And I think we miss it. Coming back to work consistently has been such a struggle and I find myself and others more burned out than usual!
Same here! And i feel residual guilt of like why am I not joining and rushing into the bustle and hustle
Amen! I wish I could live more slowly again and do all the things I didnt while during last year. Plus working in an industrial job has worn out m body a lot in just 8 months. Im ready for a "big girl" office type job at 28 if I can get one
Video idea: Opening the PR you do receive on camera and taking us through the process of how you decide what you'll try and what you'll give to family/friends. Would be interesting
I would love this, too!
Me, too!🌟
Have you watched Kelly Gooch declutter? She keeps a smaller collection so when she declutters 5-10 items (assorted categories), she makes a short video about it. It is a nice way to do it if you’re being very deliberate about what you are keeping/decluttering.
I love Kelly!!!
I feel like her collection is so huge still.
@@KourttneyL Really?!? I do not. 🤷♀️
@@bethpat9 I agree for a person on You Tube her collection is quite curated. Hannah Louise Poston probably does the best job in keeping a small curated collection. I like both channels for different reasons.
Your note on job and fulfilment is SUCH. A. SIGN! I’ve been struggling with job search and the fear of being stuck with a soul-sucking job, your advice definitely helps to put things into perspective. Thank you!
Teaching is definitely more challenging than ever, I've been teaching 14 yrs and this is by far the toughest year ever. Every time I turn around they are putting a new demand on us, my plate is literally already overflowing. It is not sustainable long term, I am at school until 6:00 four nights a week just to maintain my classroom. Thanks for touching on it Jess! Great video!
Thank you for all that you do. Teachers don’t get nearly as much love and appreciation that they deserve, especially with everything that’s going on right now. Hang in there ❤️
@@TheChubbyJenny thank you! 😊
I love how honest you are in these. Truly feels like some friends having a nice chat.
I read a comment somewhere once about a job being there to help you do what you really want and I totally agreed with it. I really enjoy my job and the people I work with. That said, it's not my focus in life. It thankfully is able to pay for stuff I really love doing (travel, makeup, etc).
I do understand that you have chosen to remove yourself from a lot of PR. Would you please consider sharing with us which brands you decided to keep receiving their products? I really respect your ethical choices when it comes to makeup products so I'm definitely curious to know which companies you decided to stay on board with.
I agree. I find myself of late actually getting angry with some of the really big PR hogs out there who show off their drawers, closets and cabinets full of duplicative, unopened, luxury products they can never use before they expire, but still won't refuse, nor pass along for others to share. There are so many women's organizations out there who would be so grateful to accept those products for women in need of a boost in their lives.
@@neresq I understand having stuff is a part of some of these people’s jobs but it is actually kind of gross to watch the scale of things these people are obtaining. Like does one person really need 30 coats for the winter???
@@neresq I completely agree with you. There are a couple popular beauty youtubers that I have actually unsubscribed from because I have been upset over those videos. Yes, I understand it is "their job" and they receive things for free...they might not be spending thousands of dollars on makeup themselves. However, they can ask to be removed from companies they don't really believe in, truly love their products etc. Instead of seeing a video titled "HUGE PR HAUL..LOOK AT ALL THIS MAKEUP I HAVE AND DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT 1/4 OF IT IS...OR HOW MUCH OF THIS HAS EXPIRED "...I know that is an exaggeration but it's what I feel like when I see that. I would so much rather know that those products went to smaller creators who may not be on any pr lists that maybe they could make a few extra videos showcasing those products or donated to womens shelters to women who have had to leave their makeup behind when escaping an abusive living environment etc. In this world of so much excess, I just wish they would pass things along to others who would actually benefit from it.
True. Thrift Thick and Allie Glines come to mind. Allie is all for high-end stuff anymore and ignores the rest. Cassie (Thrift Thick) will show all the expensive PR she receives and then she never reviews any of it. I find that irritating.
Yes, it’s been awhile since she updated us on this
I’m a teacher & it feels good just to hear someone say that it’s such a hard time to be a teacher. Girl! You couldn’t be more right! It’s just sometimes nice to feel like other people see that. Thanks, Jess ❤️
I love how you look like a beautiful modern day Belle princess with the color of your hoodie
My husband and I moved from NYC to South Florida when we were newlyweds 40 years ago to escape winter and city life. But, increasingly over the past few years, we have grown really tired of dealing with the 3 H's: hurricanes, heat and humidity, all of which have greatly intensified due to climate change. Our visits to one of our sons in Chicago have led us to conclude that we want/need to experience the change of seasons (and city life) again and so we are actually planning to reverse-retire northbound within the next few years.
I moved from Orlando Florida. I don't miss the hurricanes but the rest of it was great. Well the humidity was no fun but we did alot of great fun in side. I miss the beach sooo bad. Now im in Illinois and freeze for 4 to 5 months. 🤦♀️
@@gidget_ I just move from Jacksonville to northern Illinois and while the weather adjustment is a shock, I'm so relieved to be out of the hurricanes and humidity! I'm from Wisconsin originally though.... so I think it's just in my blood to prefer the cooler weather. But the beach... missing it like crazy!
Thank you so much for touching on fulfillment coming from all different aspects, I really needed this insight. Truly it made me tear up, and was an answer to a quite prayer in my heart.
Jess, thank you for touching on how tough the teaching environment is right now. I'm student teaching while getting my masters in elementary education and keep doubting myself and questioning if I actually do want to be a teacher. To be honest, I'm not sure anymore
So many teachers are questioning everything right now (me included), hang in there.
Definitely not the students fault. Neither the parents fault. Parents have every right to know and voice an agreement or disagreement as to what is being taught to their kids. Teachers work for us, not the other way around.
As a current teacher who is dying during everything that’s going on, thank you for acknowledging!
Yeah I'm student teaching right now while getting my masters in elementary ed and I have been doubting and questioning my career choices right and left
@@shelbybell6207 High school English here! 😂 Ik this career is for me, I can’t imagine doing anything else. But boy is it rough atm 😭
@@alissa3047 hope it gets better soon! 💕 that’s so great that you know it’s the career for you!
@@shelbybell6207 thank you 💜 I hope you find clarity soon girl!!
Teachers here too! It’s been rough…. 😩
You are so fun (and that’s from a 70+ gal) and cute! Love your stories about Pinocchio, the “old man”. Our little fluffy terrier mix left us a couple months ago at 16 years and we miss her terribly. Stay happy and BUZZED with your beautiful family.🤗
I feel you with the hatred of hot weather. Summer is probably my least favorite season. I'll take winter over 90s and humidity any day!
Jesse, I'd be interested in any video you put out. Seriously. You're one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I really value your honesty. Besides that, your vlogs are my perfect relaxation 😌 xox
Oh daylight savings.. more states need to get on the Arizona bandwagon. We don’t change during daylight savings 🤷♀️
Yes I wish we could stay on Daylight Savings instead of moving back to Standard time in a few weeks. Pitch black skies at 4:30 pm stinks!
Indiana was one of last states to switch over and I Miss the days when we didn’t participate!!! 🤮
Yes I would love this. I hate dark at 5 pm it’s so depressing.
Most of Indiana didn't for a long time either
I get that about lighting in your home can make the room brighter, and just a soothing positive feeling opening curtains in a dark room. I feel lighter too.🌼🍁🌻🥰
I absolutely agree about the job not being the source of your life’s fulfillment. I enjoy my job but it does not define me. How I live my life is more about family, friends and living my life with purpose. And at the end of the day whether i have held the door for someone, given someone a random compliment, spent quality time with family or been there for someone who really needed it, that is when i feel fulfilled!
Thank you Jessica for your honesty and always being you! That’s what keeps me coming back for more 💕
I love your coffee chats, always great getting your perspective on things - you always make me feel uplifted and ready to face things with positivity, so thank you for your honesty and advice 🥰
Jessica would you be willing to venture out into more fall inspired makeup looks ? Especially for the eyes cause I know that’s the look your comfortable with but if you can try something else with the changing season maybe ? 🤷🏻♀️
I always love your videos…it’s like chilling with a friend.
Omg I can't wait to see Tyler as Ted Lasso, I started watching it last year because of you guys
Love your coffee chats! So glad you brought up feeling fulfilled in other aspects of your life besides just work. That is something I need to focus on more. :)
Jess, I agree with you on teaching. I don’t think I would go back after being away for so many years. Things are so different now and it’s not the students or the parents, it’s just the way things are in this country.
As usual, loved the video. Looking forward to your vlogmas.
I have several youtubers who I watch all the time, but you are the only one who really feels like a friend- especially in videos like this. You are so genuine and I think your honesty has a lot to do with that. Thanks for being you, Jess. You are so loved! ❤️
Merry Vlogmas everyone! The peak of my day! Thank you Braun family! 🥰
It’s not vlog as yet! It will be soon though :)
Jess, you are around my daughter’s age and I think you are so wise and genuine. I really enjoy your Coffee chats! 😘
I 1000% agree with you on missing the idea of teaching, but not missing everything that goes into teaching.
OMG! My youngest daughter used to think her Grandma was on the Magic Schoolbus AKA Miss Frizzell! So funny to hear you mention that 🤣!
Jessica, I just wanted to say, I absolutely love you and your videos. I just started a new job this week and have been catching up on the past few videos you put out because I haven’t had the time to watch them this week. You are by far my favorite you tuber, I think it would take a year to scroll back and find the last video of yours that I DIDNT watch. It’s just so obvious that you are a kind, genuine person at heart. You care so much about others and trying to listen to other people’s side of things, even when you might not necessarily agree, and I just love that about you. We need more people like that in the world. 💙
Woohoo! 32 minute video! YAAAAASSS! :) *runs off to grab coffee before settling in*
I look so forward to your videos, esp ones like this one. No drama, just real talk from a kind, smart & witty working mom ❤️
Your comment about not worrying so much about what you do that makes you money was spot on! It is a means to the end, not " the end". Our relationships during good or bad times are really what our focus should be on. Work will always be just that- work! We should strive to have a positive outlook and do things that are not damaging to us physically and mentally- by all means, if your work is harming you, do all you can to find a better fit. But, work should not define us. I would rather be remembered for the way I treated people, wherever I am. And those are the people that have touched my life the most!
Would totally love to see a declutter! I find them so therapeutic❤️
You definitely speak the truth about what fulfills you as a person. It shouldn’t just be your job. There is so much more in life! Love ya Jess!!💕 My favorite you tuber!
When you’re trying to explain the fulfillment of your job, every mom probably understands. While I love my job, after being a mom, it became a thing I do… while being a mother and having a family, is what fulfilled me ❤️
Me and my husband are both 22 and we LOVE Disney! We went in June this year and so excited to go again for Christmas this year. A lot of people do wonder why we love Disney so much (like my family lol they don’t get it), but honestly all I can say is if you get Disney, then you understand. My only complaint is that Takumi-Tei and Jiko are closed!!! We were pumped and it’s not looking like they’ll be open :(
You're honesty is so refreshing and I personally didnt hear anything offensive..Never have... Everything you said made sense and you inspire me to seek out my happiness. I know that may sound corny but I'm being completely sincere. 💛🌻
Thanks for the work- life balance reminder. If you work on the rest of your life, work doesn’t have to fulfill you 100%
I wasn’t even wondering about why the door was the way it was. I was more so admiring how it’s a darker grey versus the wall 😍😂 we have a similar color on our walls. Now I want to go to Lowe’s and get a darker grey for all of our doors 😂 Also, YAY for Vlogmas. That’s almost as exciting as Christmas morning! ❤️💚So happy you’re feeling better and more relaxed!
Also: Yes please for declutter videos! 😍
For some reason i stopped watching you for like 3-4 months could be even nearly 6 months but now im back binge watching what i have missed! And i was laughing and nodding to what you said at the end. 😍😂
I love what you said about work and what it provides . I think it’s hard to ,sometimes, keep your work registered as a small part of who you are bc we spend so much of our time working. And many many many many simply work bc they have to not bc there’s any joy in it. So when you work 40-60 hours a week and hate the job you do feel so empty. (And that’s in no way a dish to you you work extremely hard at a job that can be just as exhausting!!) what you said though is true! Trying to leave work at work and finding the deep joys of your family, faith, volunteering whatever it is is soooo important bc the fact is we might not ever find joy in our work. That doesn’t mean our day to day life has to be empty and hallow!!Thank you for sharing!
That blush is very flattering. But I get what you mean about about the seasons. The cold will begin to get to me but when the humidity starts, I'm like, I can't wait till the winter. I do enjoy spring & fall.
Thank you for talking about your job and fulfillment! I recently left my nursing career full-time and have really struggled with my sense of purpose and feeling like I'm not making a difference! I'm doing a job I never dreamt I would do and actually have energy left at the end of the day and just feel like I am able to give more of myself in areas of life that I feel matter so much more than a career and what others think of me.
I feel it on the Disney section.
I’m heading there next Friday, and Tyler has been great helping us book our second trip.
The price increasing and losing benefits have just got out of hand in my opinion. It’s getting too expensive to go to Disney, even as an adult.
Next year the airport transportation is gone…. That’s going to be big miss.
I still love it, and will wanna go again when I’m come home. However this CEO is taking out what Walt always wanted something “families could go to a magical place together”
I agree!
Thank you so much for acknowledging how difficult the education world is-especially right now. I’m 12 years into my teaching career (High school Literature-love your reading habits and book chats, btw!) and though it’s both a passion and a calling, I’m not sure I can do 30 more years anymore. And you’re absolutely right. It’s not the kids. In any case, thank you. Love all your videos and I’m happy to hear you’re feeling better and it’s feeling more manageable. ♥️
Yes 🙌🏼🙌🏼. TAKE THE VACATION. Take the time off. You need it and deserve it ❤️.
Whatever you say and how you say it is just so fun to watch. Keep doing what you do. . When you club you make me smile.
I'm so glad that you are feeling more like yourself! I can't wait for you and Tyler to do Vlogmas, watching it every year has become a tradition for me!
Touching on your thoughts on teaching, you are so right. The climate of teaching and education is awful right now and that's what lead me towards working in Libraries instead. Now I get to teach kids so many fun and exciting things but don't have as many of the terrors that teachers do. This is a career path option for those that love the idea of teaching but don't love the bureaucracy and issues with it.
I miss that elf eraser pen! I look for it every time I’m anywhere that sells elf and get sad when I never see it. It was a genius product!
I know I’ve said this before on other videos, but I love your declutter series and hope you bring it back!
I loved this coffee chat. Specially the part about the job not being the only full filling aspect of life. There are SO many other important things to enjoy.
“It’s not the kids. NOT THE KIDS.” 😂😂 love it. As a teacher, I know exactly what you mean by all of that. 😂
Planning to move to FL in one year. Praying I don’t lose the Disney magic being closer. Thank you for the honesty. Going to guard against it. Noticing all the people in the comments who agree. Also, you nailed it talking about Disney’s idea of families enjoying time together. It’s still the most exciting place to go for both parents and kids, faults and all, hands down!
I appreciate how genuine you are on your channel, and that you are open about the importance of your Christianity. Just a very well rounded place for me to enjoy and relax. I’ve been watching since you and Tyler were dating.
When I work in an office I HATED the air conditioning in summer. I would dress to be warm in the office but then would almost pass out from the heat driving home. And I hate freezing while grocery shopping.
My husbands grandpa always says do what you have to do, so you can do what you want to do. And I totally agree 💗✨
😂love your eyeliner application.. too funny from one person who speaks with their hands to another..😂💜been loving your channel for years.
I’m so with you about the atmosphere in education right now. I left a few years ago for a completely different career. Like you, I miss the idea of teaching, but not the actual teaching.
I’ve lived in Florida over 15 years. The answer is we don’t spend time outside during the summer 😂 it’s miserably hot half the year if not more
I can attest to that! I don't leave my house unless absolutely necessary between June and October😅
Ditto here in Texas
Same
Same.. born and raised in FL and every summer I say I'm moving to Alaska! Summer is miserable in FL and I live inside in the air-conditioned world for months. I lovee FL winters though. Come on cold fronts! Lol
YEEESSSS GIRL on everything you said about Disney!! Its funny how people forget that Disney is ultimately for kids! Also 100% on teaching! Its definitely "not the kids". Teaching is 100% different then what it used to be.
I appreciate your honesty and i am not offended at all :) i 100% agree with what you say about not looking for fulfillment from your job.
Girl this liquid liner application had me on pins and needles 🤣🤣🤣 I hollered, “just finish it!” I was so worried about it
We had a saying in our house growing up: “don’t jazz the baby.” (Some siblings needed to be reminded not to wind up the youngsters right before bed or naptime… It was me. I was “some siblings.” 🤣)
We have an old man dog too! Always has been. There are times that he sits on the couch with his back up against the back of the couch and his head up to the ceiling like "I can't even with you people anymore". It's hilarious to see him sitting like a human. My college age daughter said to him once "Murphy, why are you a 70 year old man?" 🤣
I had a dog who’d do the same thing. But he did love his fuzzy toys. My most recent dog only cared about humans. Didn’t care at all to play with other dogs. I miss both of them.
I am so happy for you, Jessica. You having an editor and being able to breathe and be yourself really comes through in your videos; I can see it in your eyes. Obviously I watch every video you do, and I really appreciate all of your different styles of videos. You have a natural talent for this and I hope you keep doing it. What is coffee without Jessica?
I don’t usually comment but I have been watching your videos for years. So glad your doing well!. I love your videos (and Tyler’s)!
I love when you talk about Disney! That’s actually how I found your channel years ago…a Disney haul. Maybe you should look into DVC? You’re not moving there but it feels like you do! Happy medium!
You’re a teacher? Me too! That explains a lot re your love of reading, your ability to communicate so effectively with your audience, your approachable demeanour. I’m getting outta the game this year. I’ve had enough. I want to pursue my MUA career seriously now. Set up my little business here in Australia.
1000000% agree with your thought about the AC in the summer. It gets very hot & humid where I live too and while I love summer and the warm weather, I hate how cold it is when you go inside anywhere. It actually makes me very angry lol
Is it ridiculous that I watched 1 year of vlogmas and now I feel like it’s apart of my Christmas tradition?! ESP during covid when we couldn’t do a lot, I was able to escape and get in the Christmas season because of your videos even when I couldn’t see my own family and friends. Can’t wait!
Jessica! I love your coffee chats so much! I hope you feel fulfilled with your youtube career because you do so much more than just talk about makeup. I always watch your videos if i’m stressed, having a bad day, or want to make a great day even better! My best friend and I always talk about your videos when we’re out shopping together and watching you brings us closer as friends! I hope you know how much good energy you bring to people! ALSO I live in Orlando and I feeeeeel you when you say summer here is way too hot. I literally cannot leave the house. Anyway, love you Jess!!
Tyler as Ted Lasso = PERFECTION.
I’m glad that you’re going to take the time to comment back on your videos❤️
We moved from FL to NC and we were not prepared. We had no coats, gloves, or anything you wear when it's below 60. Well, on the drive up there we ran into a sleet storm. What the heck. Soo my grandpa drove our car and grandma drove theirs. We stop at the nearest store which was a Walmart. Lol. Grandma and grandpa saved us and started piling clothes in the cart but wait they're buggies now. Lol so with in an hour we had a good chunk of what we will need for the seasons as they changes. We make it in and we were so cold. Even with the new gear. They only had wall heaters and a Heat in the living room that was a big box I still don't know how it heated. No heat in the bedrooms but... they new we would need it so we each go a plug in heater and an electric blanket. I remember the first day of school after the new year break. I always picked my outfit the nigh before. I was only in 2nd grade. I had to fit in. My grandpa would put my clothed on top of the big box heater. Then he made me soft boiled eggs and toast and OJ. Then he would plug in the electric heater and make just enough space to have it rest in the window slit of the window so after my awesome breakfast and putying on my warm clothes. I was climbing into a warm car ready to go to school. My grandpa was such a loving man. I was his little girl. We drove 5 house down the road and pulled into the school parkinglot. Yup he did this every morning just to get me 5 houses down. Until I stated riding the middle school bus. When I got home grandma would have cookies or brownies baked and hot chocolate. Even single day. Me and my grandpa were so close. I could go to him with anything and he'd just listen until I was finished the ask "can I say something that may help?" Of course and he would give excellent advice. Or he would just let me cry with no explanation. Or read the Bible. When I was finsh he would take me out for ice-cream. God I miss my grandpa. He's in heaven planting the best garden and teaching children all kinds of things.
Sorry, I just couldn't stop writing once I said one thing. To anyone who read this whole thing, thank you. It means alot.
Ok. I live in an area where we get days without the sun shining, and I come from a very sunny place like even when it’s super cold. I get depressed every year around this time because that’s when it starts. You don’t know how thankful I am that you mentioned “happy light” in this video! I never knew it existed. I am ordering one and hoping from the bottom of my heart it works!
Ugh ilyyy these are my fav videos hahah getting ready at 5 am with my coffee and my “bestfriend !!”
SPRING AND FALL 100% 👏👏👏👏 plus having hot flashes (you are a LONG way away from that) cooler is better! 🥵🤣
Hi Jessica..Just a note to say I have been viewing your videos for several months now and so glad I stumbled upon you..While though I'm old enough to be your mom I do enjoy tuning in as your personality makes me smile..I watch a mix of influencers who vary in age..I've come across beauty influencers who are my age that do not appeal to me and there are those who are younger who I cannot relate to also..It's not the age so much it's the person ..Btw I particularly love your eyeshadow..Looking forward to your next video..
I want to hear you talk about Outlander! :) I just discovered it last year so I'm still obsessed.
Can I say how much I love how your channel is more lifestyle videos. I started watching you years ago when I was just getting into makeup. But now at 31 I kind of know the brands I like and how I like to do my makeup. So lots of channels I use to love l just aren't for me anymore but its nice when the channel evolves with you. Not saying there is something wrong with channels that just do makeup . It just not the channels I enjoy anymore.
Yes!! All of this!!
I hear you on the temperature thing! I was in Vegas in June and it was freezing in the casinos and 112 degrees outside. I kept having to take a sweater on and off lol
I love these chats. You are very wise beyond your years. Thank you for being you❣️
I feel u on the "hot in the summer but everything is cold inside". I've been getting comfortable going braless in baggy t-shirts (I'm a B cup so nothing insane) but mannnnnnnnn.... Walking into a cold grocery store. I'm like 🙈😯😳🤭
I love vlogmas, we watch it every year! My son is ~6 months younger than Gigi and he loves watching her!
I love all your videos and your personality.Been watching you and family for 3 years.Love your coffee chats
I feel the same way about summer! I hate being cold everywhere I go because I'm dressed for the heat 😭
How do you line your lips so nicely while talking?! Wow! Your energy and videos always bring a smile to my face! Love you Jess!💖💖💖
I love living in the Orlando area. It's great to head to Disney on a day off and escape the world and then come back home the same day and sleep in my own bed. Nothing like your own bed! Lol
That's how I felt when we lived there. Plus you don't have set days so if it's raining for a day or more you're not screwed. You can just go when all the rain clears up.
@Kristy Manis ok sooo... this is totally off topic but I'm one of those people that'll compliment a stranger when I see something I like.. whether it be their outfit, haircut, tattoos or makeup. And I just wanted to say, you're SO pretty! Lol I clicked your pic bc for a split second I thought you were someone else.. I was obviously wrong lol but you have a really pretty smile and I thought I'd just mention it! Truly hope this doesn't come off as creepy, in hindsight I realize that it quite possibly could 😆 ok, that's all. Have a great day!
It’s refreshing to see someone do eye makeup that is not outlandish like some of the crazy you tubers. Looks really pretty.
Adore fall and winter, early spring. I like wearing jeans, boots, sweaters, jackets. 😍
Omg I remember being so SAD when Vlogmas was over last year and now it’s almost time again. This year has gone SO FAST! Doesn’t feel like Christmas without them… lol
Yes! The worst thing for me about hot summer weather is the aggressive air conditioning, not the weather itself... I hope companies stop doing that. It is unpleasant and bad for the environment.
I’m rolling cabbage leaves and I had to wash my hands to comment! I could see Tyler as Ted Lasso! I love it! As for living in Florida, it is too humid in the summer, and that’s why the rest of the year is the best here. I miss the snow at times, but I can’t see myself living in that kind of weather anymore. It’s funny how your feelings about climates change as you get older. It sounds like a great idea to go back and live up north and experience the four seasons, but then when I think about driving in snow and shoveling snow, I think again and appreciate Florida a little more. It sounds like a rant, right? 😂
I'm a Southern lady who spent several years in CT. I'm back in my home state of Alabama and although I've been back for several years I still struggle dealing with the heat and humidity here in the deep south. I tell people my internal thermostat was permanently altered. 😏And I miss seasons. I miss Fall colors and a Spring that lasts more than a week☺ I don't miss shoveling snow but I do miss watching it fall from inside a cozy house. ☺ You'd probably miss all that too.