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Garnier has a hair oil and after showering I put 1-2 drops in my hand and while my hair is toweled off/wet just at the back and ends and it keeps the oil off the top and your ends are nice and moisturized.
As someone who works with college freshmen-I AM BEGGING you to allow your children to fail, experience natural consequences, to not have everything go their way. Don't bail them out all the time. You are doing more harm than good, I promise. We're dealing with a generation of kids who have rarely been told no, who don't have to have responsibilities (one parent truly asked if the dorms had a maid service), have never failed b/c mom or dad bails them out. They come to college and they can't make decisions for themselves. They can't talk to their professors or schedule appointments because their mom has done it. I get it. I have an 18 and a 15 yr old...The desire to be the hero and swoop in and help is strong. Wanting to do those things to somehow keep them young, in your mind, is strong. But trust me...they are becoming adults who are just not able to adult. Let them have growing pains. They lack the resiliency they desperately need.
Yes!!! My daughter is 24 & we actively made an effort to allow her to fail & experience negative consequences & even with all that we did, we feel like it was not enough. These children are soft, in a way that is concerning because, at some point, you'll experience some form of adversity & you need to be able to cope, learn from it & move forward.
I'm an advisor to a chapter of my sorority at a small liberal arts college, and these young women BAFFLE me. They are mostly raised in affluent, primarily upper class families, and they just don't know how to do anything for themselves without asking the "adults" for help. Several of us advisors were talking one day, and we all agreed that we would not hire any of the graduating seniors that year because they had no problem solving or critical thinking skills.
This is so very true, and so many parents have harmed their now young adult children. The effects are so clear. Too many are incompetent, have no critical thinking skills and don't have any of the skills and mentality to transition into adulthood, but then, at the same time, they think they are saving the world because they made a social media comment. It not only hurts the child into their own adulthood, but it is hurting all of society as whole and will continue to do so unfortunately.
@@a.beaverhausen1140 yes! It is very concerning. Every year students come in more disrespectful, less prepared, and just very lost as to how to do anything w/o an adult there to tell them every choice to make. BUT when we give legit advice, like don’t hang w/ that person, these friends are no good, don’t dive head first here w this boy-we’re the dumbest humans alive 🤣
I think of your channel as my comfort channel. When I'm not having a great day, I know I can watch any of your videos and feel happy. I feel as if you are an online bestie. I'm super grateful that you are here and making content and putting the time and so much effort into everything that you do as you do it very well. You are doing great things, bestie!
I think of your channel as a “relatable lifestyle blogger” lifestyle I think captures everything, in this video you’re having a conversation like catching up with a friend, normal, relatable thoughts and discussions. Relatable lifestyle trying to pick what makeup to invest in and wear; relatable recipes and grocery hauls, etc
In response to your conversation about responding to tantrums… I LOVE that you are a parent who actually understands that children NEED boundaries! As someone who has worked in childcare for over 15 years, I have seen WAY too many children who have not been taught that at home and it makes it so much harder for them. While I have tons of childcare experience, I have no children myself. So I never criticize parents or try to give advice unless I am asked directly for it. Plus, I always explain that I don’t have children and my advice simply comes from my years of experience working with children which I know is different than parenting.
As someone that doesn’t have kids (we want them it just hasn’t happened yet) being part of my friends “village” has been one of the biggest blessings of my life. I love those sweet kiddos more than words can describe
Gentle parenting ≠ permissive parenting. Gentle parenting is pretty much what you’re describing lol, positive discipline and natural consequences etc. I practice gentle parenting and my kids are also very familiar with the word no 😂
Jessica, you’re the first RUclipsr that I started following a few years ago. I’m old enough to be your Mom so I consider you as a best friend to my daughter. She’s very knowledgeable in makeup so when I found your channel, I found a best friend of my daughter. I really enjoy all of your videos and I love the GRWM videos. I’m 64 and live alone, my daughter works, so during the day you’re my company and I love all your posts, whether they’re makeup or anything else, I love your content ❤❤❤❤ Please don’t change being yourself. I also enjoy you and Tyler together at the end of the day!!! I’m so proud of you 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻
I pretend you are my daughter - you have a similar vibe: confident, articulate, sense of humor. She is busy living her life and doesn't have time to chat with me for half an hour 3 times a week, so you are the substitute during the week. On weekends I get to catch up with her.
I love your sit-down chatty videos. I appreciate you being open about an array of topics. As a new mom of a 7-month-old, I really enjoyed hearing a little about your parenting and handling tantrums or navigating things with your girls. I hope you and your family have a lovely day!
Jess, I've been watching you guys for so long (from when you first started dating) that ya'll are almost like family members in our house! 😀Our kids have grown up watching you. My husband sometimes forgets that I'm talking about you and Tyler and thinks I'm referring to somebody else we know in Florida. Me: "Jess was saying that this recipe was really easy so that's what we're trying this week, etc. " And "Tyler recommended this book and I went ahead and got it for you." Also, whenever I am a nervous wreck about something, I grab a coffee and come sit down for a moment to decompress with you because you are my kind of people. Genuine, sincere, family oriented, and honest. You are literally the most down to earth RUclipsr I've ever seen, and I really do appreciate your content. 🦋 Thank you!
I think of your channel exactly as you describe it - an internet big sister and friend. I started watching around 2015 and 2016, and although I’ve gone through different RUclips phases and didn’t always keep up with every video, I always find myself coming back to your channel when I need support, to unwind, or just feel like I have company! Too many RUclipsrs feel like actors nowadays and do not seem authentic, whereas you truly seem like a friend I’m just on FaceTime with. I love all the content you put out and your channel has graciously evolved with every stage of your life. I know you don’t know me, but it’s been great to see your channel and your life evolve from where it was almost 10 years ago!
I found your channel back in your college days but I still love watching. I just turned 27 in august and I’m pregnant with my first baby. I have thought of your channel as like a big sister. One life stage ahead of me. I don’t have any sisters or close girlfriends so that’s what I come to your channel for.
The “Gentle Parenting” style is very much about being responsive and not reactive to your kids. I use some of the ideas but I also agree that there are certain things that over talking about doesn’t help and a simple “No” is appropriate. Parenting is hard no matter how you do it. Just trying to raise my daughter to be a kind, healthy human 🥰
Yes!!!!! A balance between things that work and don’t with your specific child, but for sure give them consequences when they misbehave or they will grow into not good human beings
I love your in-depth commentaries! You ARE my internet bestie 👭 it feels more like an actual friendship because you are so open and you cover many different topics
I found your channel from a “what’s in my hospital bag” when you were having your babes! And you were just so real and relatable and had lots of content with vlogs and makeup (which I both love).
When you were talking about "shorts" my first thought was "Stop trying to make fetch happen". And then you said it!!! And that is why I love you so much
I definitely feel like online besties!🥰 I’ve been watching since before your wedding so it truly feels like getting weekly updates from a friend❤ your channel is definitely a comfort channel.
100% you are my youtube bestie and my comfort person i can put on no matter what! always so excited to hear you chat about anything, and I love how much you've been branching out in other topics recently too! thanks for always being there when i need a friend to watch :)
I found this channel because I was stressed out while I was starting Invisalign so I started searching for videos about it. Your videos on the topic were so delightful and informative and then I got hooked on the rest of the content here too. Jessica, you are very good at your job! Hahah love to the whole fam! ☕️💕
I've been with you since you were at your parents house, your warmth, giggle and being down to earth is what's kept me coming back. Even if I have to go searching for your videos
I have watched for about eight years or so and honestly, you have become a comfort channel for me. I love the beauty, vlogs, life, Disney, all of it lol. I also have two small kiddos & agree 10000% with your parenting comments.
I was going to say I feel like you’re beauty and lifestyle, but internet bestie is so much better! You give us beauty recs, you share your life, your thoughts, goals, and interests, it’s perfect!
I just had to say your lifestyle content is my fav, I’m a toddler mom who’s pregnant with number 2 and I now tend to watch all of your content like cleaning, your vlogs, and just your lifestyle chats! I grew up in love with makeup but I’m totally in a new phase of my life and I adore your content based around that kind of thing!
I started watching you and Taylor Wynn around the same time. I am old enough to be your mom but I feel like you are my RUclips friend and I always learn from each of your videos. You have a beautiful family! ❤❤
Being a parent and saying “because I said so” is totally fine, but I found my kids responded WAY better to the order or rule being given, when they were given a reason or explanation as to why they have to do something or not allowed to do something.
From a leadership styles perspective, it works nicely to treat the family as a small community that works together and shares a space, where everyone has an important role, rather than giving top down orders for chores/behavior "because I said so." We all preferred those teachers and bosses, didn't we?
Hi Jessica, I just wanted to share how I found your channel many years ago. I was a teacher and a huge lover and loved that I could find content pertaining to both/common interests in one place. Make up videos were a plus. It’s been so nice seeing you evolve through life with leaving the classroom, being a mom, and expanding yours and your husband’s channels (podcast too) and etc. It truly shows how life changes so much in such a short amount of time. Wishing your fam the very best and hope that your channels stay successful! Love your content, personality, and the personal things you choose to share with the internet. ❤🎉
I raised my 2 sons as a single parent. One of my favorite quotes in raising them was "If it will matter five years from now, then it matters now". That especially helped when they got a little older and until they turned 18 and had to make a life decision (with my help of course). And being consistent is crucial when they are young. Kids crave consistency even when they are trying to get their way. It's comforting for them to know what to expect at any age, even if "All their friends get to (fill-in-the-blank)". I had to be a very strict parent raising sons on my own. These are the rules and these are the consequences of you break the rules. Both my sons are grown with families of their own. They are both still very protective of me. They even both use sayings that I used on them to their own kiddos. Funny how that all works out right? lol 💜💙💚💛🧡
I found your channel from one of your Invisalign videos. I usually don’t completely watch long videos of people I don’t know but something about you was different. I could watch you talk all day lol. You’re you if that makes sense. You don’t sound like an average influencer. I love how you don’t promote ridiculously expensive products. You’re funny. Wise. I enjoy your videos so much! ❤
You talking about doing things that make you nervous and being in charge of your life was nice to hear! I just put in notice at my stable long term job to try my hand at something new. It’s scary but in a good way- ready for a change.
I’ve been watching you for about 7 or 8 years I remember Taylor W mentioned you and also I love makeup so I found you that way❤️❤️ and I love EVERYTHING you post so real so relatable friend vibes honest just normal living ❤
Your approach to parenting is spot on. We have a wonderful 31 year old son/man to prove it. 🙂 Please don’t change your content of beauty, vlogs & lifestyle. You are so watchable and relatable, love them and your sense of humor is paramount for me. 🥰
I would describe your channel as relatable. I think that’s why I’ve always stayed subscribed and have watch your videos throughout the years. I also enjoy your content but you’re very relatable.
I graduated as an Optometrist and few years in of working felt that life was stagnant and time was flying by. I have random bouts of wanting to paint, and one time I didn’t have the time needed to finish a full oil painting so I found my sister’s eyeshadow palette and started playing around with colours. That was such a moment for me where I realised I could express my creative needs and it doesn’t have to take weeks to complete! In the end I fell in love with the art of makeup so much that I did a course to become a better and qualified makeup artist. Fast forward a few more years of now working as both an optometrist and makeup artist and long story short I’m now also a qualified regression hypnotherapist. My day can be very routine and a mix of surprises. The routine comes from doing the necessary things everyday as a mum and attending to my optometry clinic, but interspersed through the week I’ll have clients for therapy. I take on only last minute makeup clients so that is always a surprise for me. So no week is the same and it’s such a great thing coz now they don’t just all blend into 1.
a time out always seems like the best way, or removing yourself from a meltdown, but it’s akin to saying to them, “i’m not going to be around for the tough times in your life and you need to deal with it yourself.” i gave my daughter time outs and now i really regret it bc, as a teen, she doesn’t believe i’ll be there or understand when she has a problem. and i hate that she thinks that bc we’re so close in every other way but she won’t open up when she really wants and needs the help. and this isn’t just me saying this. i’ve read quite a lot about it. i do believe gentle parenting is the best way bc it’s what i started doing at a certain point years ago and my relationship with my kid has changed so drastically for the better ever since i changed my ways. that doesn’t mean she doesn’t hear “no” or that she doesn’t have consequences, but it’s all in a way that makes sense. like you said, the consequence for not cleaning her room is cleaning her room. but to take away a date for the weekend bc one test came back with a C, that’s makes no sense. there has to be a correlation. usually it’s screen time that causes the bad grade, so a laptop and ipad and all are taken away as a consequence that makes sense to everyone. unless spending time with said date is what caused the lack of studying and the following C on the test. then maybe time away from that person makes sense. i’ve just never understood parents who say, “well now you can’t do this bc this happened,” when it doesn’t correlate. i’ve been a single mom for 19 years and, believe me, i’ve tried every way of parenting possible. these things are just part of what i’ve come up with that works. just my experience and what i’ve seen and watched and read up on.
This reminds me of a story I've heard from my parents about one time when I was a toddler having a meltdown in a supermarket. My mum was embarassed because people were staring, but my dad just sat down on the floor and sat with me until I calmed down. As a teen and now as an adult, I'm closer to my dad and always felt like he understood my needs better. Side note: a C is still a pass, and grades aren't everything, so I'm not sure it's worth punishing a kid for getting a C. If they've always gotten As and getting a C is a new thing, there's probably something going on beyond too much screen time or getting distracted by relationships (e.g. depression and/or anxiety, not coping with stress, struggling with the teacher's teaching methods, classmates being bullies, etc). If that's the case, they might not want to talk to you specifically, but they'll still need you to be part of their support network. They'll need a hug and to feel supported, not to be told that a pass isn't enough.
@@caityjayde96 that’s interesting about how your dad reacted to your meltdown. i swear it’s the way to be! as far as a C, i just said that bc i didn’t want anyone thinking my kid got Ds and Fs or something lol I’ve never’ punished’ my kid for a C. it really wasn’t even about me and her, anyway. just an example :)
I personally have been subscribed to the same channels for years. I don’t watch or subscribe to TikTok, I don’t watch any shorts, and I tend to watch the longer videos multiple times because it’s truly like a daily visit with a friend. Thanks for keeping the long videos and for sharing your thoughts and life with us.
I found your channel last December because I searched for channels with Vlogmas videos and yours was one of the first ones it showed. Then I seen all of the travel videos, including Disney World so I continued watching that channel but then heard about your personal channel and so I’ve been following since. I so binged watched the travel videos. We went on a wish trip in 2002 to Disney World. Since then we have tried to plan a trip down there again but it’s never worked out so it’s nice to watch those type of videos. I love the idea of travel so of course I enjoy watching all of the other travel videos you guys have!
I found you before you got married! I have grown along with you in many ways. Parenthood, marriage, house stuff, adult life, ect. It's been fun to watch! I appreciate you sharing and hanging out with us! 🥰💜
I think of your channel as comforting, relatable, safe space and thorough. There are too many channels that are over the top, lying about products, portraying a false lifestyle. I have unsubscribed to so many, you may have noticed the trend happening where influencers are calling out the over the top channels. I started noticing this last year, it has increased, talking about over consumption, tricks/key phrases used by influencers to convince the viewer that they absolutely need certain products, "run don't walk" and buy these products kinds of videos. The "you're doing your makeup wrong" and "you look old if you do this" videos. I felt it a couple years ago with some influencers, I didn't feel good or relaxed after watching their videos, they were somehow different. It's frustrating because once I noticed the tricks/key phrases they use, I can't watch them with the same kind of relaxing mind set. Thank you for being real Jessica, I do feel you are one of rare content creators that I can relax and watch.
I always learn so much from you Jessica. For example that makes so much sense that doing something new slows time down in a good way. Thank you for all your content.
I can't remember when I started watching your videos. It's probably been a few years. My first videos of yours were probably makeup or hauls. I would describe your channel as authentic. Your channel has turned into my comfort channel. It makes me so happy seeing new videos from you. you are down to earth.
you're one of my faves. I've looked up to you for so long!! your videos are so easy to watch in the BEST WAY. like I always know that I can count on you if I need something to watch
Hi Jessica😊! I know you may not see this, but I'm a long time subscriber, & very new to making videos. I do nail stamping/reverse stamping as a hobby, (not a professional). I am on a journey of finding myself, as I was a SAHM, & my kids are now young adults. I'm glad you mentioned the sub count, as I have alot to learn, & thought that was what made your "success" level. My views don't seem to line up with my sub count, as my views seem to be more than what my sub count is. Anyways, I do it bc I enjoy it😊. I'm not making money from YT at this time, I honestly don't even know how to yet. I do get some ads at the beginning of some videos, but I guess that since I'm still new I won't make anything from it for a bit. However, I also don't want it to become stressful, as it brings me much needed joy at this time in my life. I also do NOT, understand the whole algorithm thing, way over my head. All this, to say Thank You for explaining it! Love your family friendly channel, love you, & your family, (extended as well). Love seeing your parents🤍 & Blue Nana💙 when they visit. You're one of my top fav YT'ers!! Actually sub'ed to you from watching Taylor😁. Have a Blessed Day 🫶!!
I’ve literally been watching your videos since before y’all had your first daughter! I remember you announcing it & it’s been so cool to watch you & your fam grow through the years 🫶🏼 (that being said, I don’t remember how I first found your channel, which is what made me think about the beginning 😂🤦🏼♀️)
I love listening to you chat about life. And I also enjoy watching you do your makeup.. Im not sure how you should/could market your channel🤔. But you inspire me to be more mindful and intentional, and your laugh is so cute!! Take care, from your 🇨🇦 pal. 😊💖 Ps thanks for just speaking openly like a regular person, its unfortunate so many people want to critique you so much and that you need to explain yourself when you clearly do not have bad intentions on your statements and thoughts. ❤
I really enjoyed this video, enjoyed watching you apply your makeup and also enjoyed the topics. I learn heaps from these videos because you have a different perspective than what some other people do and I’m so thankful for you and these videos. I’ve been a subscriber for many years now and you never get boring to watch! 😊
I always ignore the home page and go into my subscriptions, watch my fav creators (like you Jess!) then will go to my home screen to see what else comes up.
I first stumbled on some of your older videos in the makeup realm. Then started binging and was watching newer vids and older. I've been hooked for 2 years. You are my Number #1 RUclips Influencer. I don't always agree with everything you say, but for the most part you are my online Bestie and I adore your channel. You are my daughter's age and I find it intriguing to hear your thoughts and insights. She shares but there's boundaries and the level of sharing you do intrigues me. It helps me to have more insight into what my daughter might be feeling as she is parenting our only granddaughter. I love the fact that you bring your Christianity to the table and out in the open. I wish you would do that more. I hope to see you do that in the future. I would also enjoy seeing more growth from you in that area on your channel. Don't be afraid of it! My husband and I used to live in Indiana for 3 years and so I have that in common with you too. This is a long comment so I'll let it go but you're doing a great job honey and I love your balance and your calmness, which is ultimately what keeps me coming back. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I found you when I was pregnant with my first child and watched a video where you chatted about what was in your hospital bag. Just love your energy, honest opinions and reviews. Keep on keepin' on!
Yay, love these videos! 🥰 I actually found your channel through one of your pregnancy update videos a few years ago. I was pregnant with my son (he was born a month after Felicity) and had just left my job to be a stay at home Mom. I was so happy because it felt like chatting with a friend who was going through the same things as me, and I've been watching ever since! ❤️
Not sure how i stumbled upon your channel but its my absolute fav! I sot and make jewelry for a living so your channel has been all ive been wanting to listen to and watch. Love the vlogs the most. Your whole family is just so darn wholesome and entertaining
I found your channel from beauty videos but as I've grown and become and Mom (as have you) I love the "lifestyle" vibe of your channel. I've gotten Mom advice, Costco recommendations, beauty recommendations and life advice from your sit down videos. I love it all!!!!
I’m a relatively newer follower. I found your channel via one of Tyler’s vlogs. I was researching taking babies/toddlers to Disney, and I remember thinking I wanted to be as chill and positive as you. Then Tyler mentioned your channel and I rushed over as fast as I could. I hope this doesn’t come across as weird, but as an only daughter, watching your videos makes me feel like I have a sister gabbing with me 💕
I really enjoy these vodeos. They make putting on my makeup and getting ready for work so enjoyable. I like the three videos a week but understand if that is not do-able every week.
Watching my kids play in the yard and drinking my coffee! I found your channel about 6 years ago when I was looking for a make up review for something! I watched the review and was hooked! Now I watch literally anything and everything you and Tyler create!
For cozy series, I think you’d like the Inspector Gamache series by Louise Penny. It’s set in rural Quebec, really woodsy, cozy vibes and full of philosophy, witty humor, and mystery too! The Thursday Murder Club is also a series I think you’d like-British elders in a nursing home fighting crime together. Super funny! I know sometimes you hesitate talking about certain topics because your words get picked apart, and I see evidence of it already in these comments. But I knew what you meant, and I think most of us did! ❤️
It is always a pleasure to watch your videos, Jess. Whether it is your vlogs or your GRWM, they are very entertaining and informational. Keep up the good work
As a mom of a child with autism spectrum disorder, we absolutely HAVE to keep a middle ground between gentle and hard parenting. Our younger kiddo has felt like she gets things harder lately, and luckily she is at the age now that we can sit her down and explain the why as to how she might feel she is being treated differently. It's a rough time for sure, but she is absolutely brilliant and can see the difference between the way she can comprehend things over her brother. She often times will gentle parent him along side us anymore. The tantrum thing you said is beyond spot on with what we have to do with our oldest. His ASD often leaves him feeling overwhelmed and he cannot function until he gets his emotions out. Unfortunately, the public school we send them both to doesn't understand that concept and has forced him to comply or be punished. His IEP now states no group work unless a separate room is available for his group after MANY meltdowns last year resulting in others being harmed. It is so frustrating when people do not know how you actually have to be with a little person who does *NOT* understand what they are doing is wrong because of the way their special brain works. It breaks my heart some days, but I have faith that we will oversome this obstacle and get things figured out this year. His teacher this year fortunately has siblings who are on the spectrum so he actually knows how to handle things. I truly believe God sent this new teacher our way to make it through as well! 🙌🏼
Jess, I agree with you on the parenting. There are times that you really have to be firm, doesn't mean you are a mean parent. The statement "you have to be a parent" really is something that seems to be quite forgottten nowadays. And I also agree on being one of your "besties" 😂 ❤ from the Philippines🇵🇭
I just wanted to tell you that you brighten my day and I love watching you I try to watch as many videos as I can of yours. I'm a teacher and I totally relate to all your teacher brain stuff. We have four kids in our family ranging in age from 11 to 22
I agree on positive reinforcement mixed with consequences is best! Agree with you on gentle parenting. Help your child understand their emotions, but also have strict boundaries.
Perfect timing for my pumping break at work! I love your take on the aspects of parenting and tantrums. Taking notes, but I totally agree with it not being black and white with a method. I’d love a chatty bff sit down talk about that topic from you.
I actually stumbled across your channel after RUclips recommended the first ever Disneyville podcast back in the day when it launched and just loved the vibe you and Tyler gave off. Love the idea of “online bestie” and can’t tell you how much of a comfort channel you’ve become for me. Keep being your wonderful, genuine self (flaws and all; love your realness).
Here's the thing about disregarding the opinions of people without kids; just because they don't have any doesn't mean they don't see and understand the child's behaviour. And if they don't get a say in how your child behaves when they're with them and especially towards them, you and your children stop getting invited into their lives. Just another perspective.
very true. especially learning about your own childhood trauma, you understand how the way you were parented affects you still to this day. and then learning how to be a better person and unlearning that harmful behaviour for your (possible) future kids so it doesn’t get passed down. we were all kids once
Yeah childless adults still have a valuable perspective on parenting, even if it’s untested and has its limits. But it’s also not helpful to take the stance of knowing better than our parent peers without valuing their perspective and experience. Maybe we can both be open to understanding the other without feeling threatened, though that can be hard to do and takes a lot of practice!
Absolutely, not being a parent does not automatically disqualify you from being able to give parenting advice (just like being a parent also doesn't automatically qualify you to give parenting advice). With some things, lived experience is more important than whether or not somebody is a parent, such as disabilities, health conditions, people whose parents were controlling or overly strict or invaded privacy or disrespected boudaries or exhibited other harmful behaviours, etc. If the non-parent adult has lived experience with whatever the kid is going through, their insight and advice will be way more valuable than anything that a parent who hasn't experienced it can offer.
The Thursday Murder Club series is the BEST cozy mystery book series for fall! Old people solving crime and so much found family, they are the sweetest and most funny books 📚💕 6:19
These are wonderful books!!! And for more old people (cozy crime), Agatha Christie’s Miss Marples are wonderful. They always have a depth along with the cozy English village vibe.
I love how your channel has evolved. I was a subscriber back in like 2015-2016 but then after having kids I stopped watching a lot of beauty content and unsubscribed from all the beauty gurus I followed. Then I came across your name again when I saw a "Jessie Day" video and watched it. I re-fell in love with your personality!
I started watching your channel when I found you and Tyler’s Disneyville podcast on YT! Also, I would describe your channel as an authentic beauty and lifestyle channel that fosters thoughtfulness and insight into life. I seriously love your content and feel like we’re friends ❤
I found your channel through your baby videos with Gigi around the time Gigi was a year old when we were thinking about starting to have kids. I enjoyed makeup too so I stuck around and now I’m here more for your lifestyle/chores and chats/and Disney than makeup 😂 but I appreciate and enjoy it all!
It’s so interesting when you talk about the back end of RUclips. I never look at my home tab, ever. And I hattttte the shorts. I always go immediately to my recent searches for my faves, now it even shows in that part if there’s a new video! If I just wanna cruise through things I go to my subscriptions. I might be the weird one on this but I’m always looking out for my faves. I love to rewatch old videos too - I watch old vlogmas when I’m feeling lonely or sad
I would have to think on how to brand this (I do that as my day job) but, I think of you as one of the few relatable influencers in the space. You're from the midwest like me, still hold midwestern values, and quirks. Obviously when you were teaching you were relatable in that you had a 9-5 but even now, you've maintained that feeling. It's honestly a really hard thing to find someone so "down to earth" on here! That's not really brand advice but maybe it helps get you closer!
I am not sure how I found you , it has been a while , but I search for your name and check for when you post . You are such a fresh breath of air ♥️ love all of your content
I found your channel through your „newborn essentials“, birth prep videos etc. when I was pregnant with my first daughter end of last year. Kind of stuck to your channel and find your content so relaxing, nice to watch and listen to. Lots of love from Vienna, Austria.
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I love love Leaves from B & B, for me it’s a new scent! Thanks for being you
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As someone who works with college freshmen-I AM BEGGING you to allow your children to fail, experience natural consequences, to not have everything go their way. Don't bail them out all the time. You are doing more harm than good, I promise. We're dealing with a generation of kids who have rarely been told no, who don't have to have responsibilities (one parent truly asked if the dorms had a maid service), have never failed b/c mom or dad bails them out. They come to college and they can't make decisions for themselves. They can't talk to their professors or schedule appointments because their mom has done it. I get it. I have an 18 and a 15 yr old...The desire to be the hero and swoop in and help is strong. Wanting to do those things to somehow keep them young, in your mind, is strong. But trust me...they are becoming adults who are just not able to adult. Let them have growing pains. They lack the resiliency they desperately need.
Yes!!! My daughter is 24 & we actively made an effort to allow her to fail & experience negative consequences & even with all that we did, we feel like it was not enough. These children are soft, in a way that is concerning because, at some point, you'll experience some form of adversity & you need to be able to cope, learn from it & move forward.
I'm an advisor to a chapter of my sorority at a small liberal arts college, and these young women BAFFLE me. They are mostly raised in affluent, primarily upper class families, and they just don't know how to do anything for themselves without asking the "adults" for help. Several of us advisors were talking one day, and we all agreed that we would not hire any of the graduating seniors that year because they had no problem solving or critical thinking skills.
This is so very true, and so many parents have harmed their now young adult children. The effects are so clear. Too many are incompetent, have no critical thinking skills and don't have any of the skills and mentality to transition into adulthood, but then, at the same time, they think they are saving the world because they made a social media comment. It not only hurts the child into their own adulthood, but it is hurting all of society as whole and will continue to do so unfortunately.
I always said I was raising adults, not children.
@@a.beaverhausen1140 yes! It is very concerning. Every year students come in more disrespectful, less prepared, and just very lost as to how to do anything w/o an adult there to tell them every choice to make. BUT when we give legit advice, like don’t hang w/ that person, these friends are no good, don’t dive head first here w this boy-we’re the dumbest humans alive 🤣
I think of your channel as my comfort channel. When I'm not having a great day, I know I can watch any of your videos and feel happy. I feel as if you are an online bestie. I'm super grateful that you are here and making content and putting the time and so much effort into everything that you do as you do it very well. You are doing great things, bestie!
This was such a sweet comment!! :) Thank you so much!!!!!
I feel the same way! I work retail so some days are better than others. I cannot wait until Vlogmas. The Brauns are my comfort family!
Same here! And her outro tune is so beautiful, I listen until it's done😅🙃🎶🎶🎶
I think of your channel as a “relatable lifestyle blogger” lifestyle I think captures everything, in this video you’re having a conversation like catching up with a friend, normal, relatable thoughts and discussions. Relatable lifestyle trying to pick what makeup to invest in and wear; relatable recipes and grocery hauls, etc
I describe your channel as fun, friendly and honest.
I call you my friend when talking to others… lol! Then I have to say “my RUclips friend.”
😀 I totally get this!
Me too!😂 I call her my RUclips friend too!
This is so sweet!!!
In response to your conversation about responding to tantrums… I LOVE that you are a parent who actually understands that children NEED boundaries! As someone who has worked in childcare for over 15 years, I have seen WAY too many children who have not been taught that at home and it makes it so much harder for them.
While I have tons of childcare experience, I have no children myself. So I never criticize parents or try to give advice unless I am asked directly for it. Plus, I always explain that I don’t have children and my advice simply comes from my years of experience working with children which I know is different than parenting.
I feel like your channel is just a friend! I see your life, makeup, chit chat. I love the variety! It keeps it from feeling monotonous!
I consider people without kids to be an important part of the “village” it takes to raise a child ❤️
As someone that doesn’t have kids (we want them it just hasn’t happened yet) being part of my friends “village” has been one of the biggest blessings of my life. I love those sweet kiddos more than words can describe
Gentle parenting ≠ permissive parenting. Gentle parenting is pretty much what you’re describing lol, positive discipline and natural consequences etc. I practice gentle parenting and my kids are also very familiar with the word no 😂
exactly.
@@BareBohemianBeautyyussss it’s so frustrating that soooo many people think it’s permissive parenting! 😔
Respectful parenting is the term I prefer so it doesn’t get construed.
Jessica, you’re the first RUclipsr that I started following a few years ago. I’m old enough to be your Mom so I consider you as a best friend to my daughter. She’s very knowledgeable in makeup so when I found your channel, I found a best friend of my daughter. I really enjoy all of your videos and I love the GRWM videos. I’m 64 and live alone, my daughter works, so during the day you’re my company and I love all your posts, whether they’re makeup or anything else, I love your content ❤❤❤❤
Please don’t change being yourself. I also enjoy you and Tyler together at the end of the day!!! I’m so proud of you 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻
I pretend you are my daughter - you have a similar vibe: confident, articulate, sense of humor. She is busy living her life and doesn't have time to chat with me for half an hour 3 times a week, so you are the substitute during the week. On weekends I get to catch up with her.
I love your sit-down chatty videos. I appreciate you being open about an array of topics. As a new mom of a 7-month-old, I really enjoyed hearing a little about your parenting and handling tantrums or navigating things with your girls. I hope you and your family have a lovely day!
Jess, I've been watching you guys for so long (from when you first started dating) that ya'll are almost like family members in our house! 😀Our kids have grown up watching you. My husband sometimes forgets that I'm talking about you and Tyler and thinks I'm referring to somebody else we know in Florida. Me: "Jess was saying that this recipe was really easy so that's what we're trying this week, etc. " And "Tyler recommended this book and I went ahead and got it for you." Also, whenever I am a nervous wreck about something, I grab a coffee and come sit down for a moment to decompress with you because you are my kind of people. Genuine, sincere, family oriented, and honest. You are literally the most down to earth RUclipsr I've ever seen, and I really do appreciate your content. 🦋 Thank you!
I think of your channel exactly as you describe it - an internet big sister and friend. I started watching around 2015 and 2016, and although I’ve gone through different RUclips phases and didn’t always keep up with every video, I always find myself coming back to your channel when I need support, to unwind, or just feel like I have company! Too many RUclipsrs feel like actors nowadays and do not seem authentic, whereas you truly seem like a friend I’m just on FaceTime with. I love all the content you put out and your channel has graciously evolved with every stage of your life. I know you don’t know me, but it’s been great to see your channel and your life evolve from where it was almost 10 years ago!
I found your channel back in your college days but I still love watching. I just turned 27 in august and I’m pregnant with my first baby. I have thought of your channel as like a big sister. One life stage ahead of me. I don’t have any sisters or close girlfriends so that’s what I come to your channel for.
The “Gentle Parenting” style is very much about being responsive and not reactive to your kids. I use some of the ideas but I also agree that there are certain things that over talking about doesn’t help and a simple “No” is appropriate. Parenting is hard no matter how you do it. Just trying to raise my daughter to be a kind, healthy human 🥰
Yes!!!!! A balance between things that work and don’t with your specific child, but for sure give them consequences when they misbehave or they will grow into not good human beings
I love your in-depth commentaries! You ARE my internet bestie 👭 it feels more like an actual friendship because you are so open and you cover many different topics
I found your channel from a “what’s in my hospital bag” when you were having your babes! And you were just so real and relatable and had lots of content with vlogs and makeup (which I both love).
When you were talking about "shorts" my first thought was "Stop trying to make fetch happen". And then you said it!!! And that is why I love you so much
I definitely feel like online besties!🥰 I’ve been watching since before your wedding so it truly feels like getting weekly updates from a friend❤ your channel is definitely a comfort channel.
100% you are my youtube bestie and my comfort person i can put on no matter what! always so excited to hear you chat about anything, and I love how much you've been branching out in other topics recently too! thanks for always being there when i need a friend to watch :)
I found this channel because I was stressed out while I was starting Invisalign so I started searching for videos about it. Your videos on the topic were so delightful and informative and then I got hooked on the rest of the content here too. Jessica, you are very good at your job! Hahah love to the whole fam! ☕️💕
I've been with you since you were at your parents house, your warmth, giggle and being down to earth is what's kept me coming back. Even if I have to go searching for your videos
I have watched for about eight years or so and honestly, you have become a comfort channel for me. I love the beauty, vlogs, life, Disney, all of it lol. I also have two small kiddos & agree 10000% with your parenting comments.
I was going to say I feel like you’re beauty and lifestyle, but internet bestie is so much better! You give us beauty recs, you share your life, your thoughts, goals, and interests, it’s perfect!
I love your channel. You are so down to earth and relatable. And also I love how you don't show your kids and family
I have been watching since before Genevieve was born. It has been a pleasure to watch you grow as a family. Blessings to all of you. ❤
I just had to say your lifestyle content is my fav, I’m a toddler mom who’s pregnant with number 2 and I now tend to watch all of your content like cleaning, your vlogs, and just your lifestyle chats! I grew up in love with makeup but I’m totally in a new phase of my life and I adore your content based around that kind of thing!
I started watching you and Taylor Wynn around the same time. I am old enough to be your mom but I feel like you are my RUclips friend and I always learn from each of your videos. You have a beautiful family! ❤❤
Being a parent and saying “because I said so” is totally fine, but I found my kids responded WAY better to the order or rule being given, when they were given a reason or explanation as to why they have to do something or not allowed to do something.
Agreed, thank you!
From a leadership styles perspective, it works nicely to treat the family as a small community that works together and shares a space, where everyone has an important role, rather than giving top down orders for chores/behavior "because I said so."
We all preferred those teachers and bosses, didn't we?
That’s so great that you’ve found something that works for your children and your family!
Love any content you show, it’s your happy, positive personality- that I would watch anything you talk about😊
I appreciate your balanced view on things, it’s refreshing in the RUclips space. ❤
Hi Jessica,
I just wanted to share how I found your channel many years ago. I was a teacher and a huge lover and loved that I could find content pertaining to both/common interests in one place. Make up videos were a plus. It’s been so nice seeing you evolve through life with leaving the classroom, being a mom, and expanding yours and your husband’s channels (podcast too) and etc. It truly shows how life changes so much in such a short amount of time.
Wishing your fam the very best and hope that your channels stay successful! Love your content, personality, and the personal things you choose to share with the internet. ❤🎉
I raised my 2 sons as a single parent. One of my favorite quotes in raising them was "If it will matter five years from now, then it matters now". That especially helped when they got a little older and until they turned 18 and had to make a life decision (with my help of course). And being consistent is crucial when they are young. Kids crave consistency even when they are trying to get their way. It's comforting for them to know what to expect at any age, even if "All their friends get to (fill-in-the-blank)". I had to be a very strict parent raising sons on my own. These are the rules and these are the consequences of you break the rules. Both my sons are grown with families of their own. They are both still very protective of me. They even both use sayings that I used on them to their own kiddos. Funny how that all works out right? lol 💜💙💚💛🧡
I found your channel from one of your Invisalign videos. I usually don’t completely watch long videos of people I don’t know but something about you was different. I could watch you talk all day lol. You’re you if that makes sense. You don’t sound like an average influencer. I love how you don’t promote ridiculously expensive products. You’re funny. Wise. I enjoy your videos so much! ❤
The Thursday Murder Club series is definitely cozy mystery for fall!
You talking about doing things that make you nervous and being in charge of your life was nice to hear! I just put in notice at my stable long term job to try my hand at something new. It’s scary but in a good way- ready for a change.
I’ve been watching you for about 7 or 8 years I remember Taylor W mentioned you and also I love makeup so I found you that way❤️❤️ and I love EVERYTHING you post so real so relatable friend vibes honest just normal living ❤
Your approach to parenting is spot on.
We have a wonderful 31 year old son/man to prove it. 🙂
Please don’t change your content of beauty, vlogs & lifestyle. You are so watchable and relatable, love them and your sense of humor is paramount for me. 🥰
I would describe your channel as relatable. I think that’s why I’ve always stayed subscribed and have watch your videos throughout the years.
I also enjoy your content but you’re very relatable.
I graduated as an Optometrist and few years in of working felt that life was stagnant and time was flying by. I have random bouts of wanting to paint, and one time I didn’t have the time needed to finish a full oil painting so I found my sister’s eyeshadow palette and started playing around with colours. That was such a moment for me where I realised I could express my creative needs and it doesn’t have to take weeks to complete! In the end I fell in love with the art of makeup so much that I did a course to become a better and qualified makeup artist. Fast forward a few more years of now working as both an optometrist and makeup artist and long story short I’m now also a qualified regression hypnotherapist. My day can be very routine and a mix of surprises. The routine comes from doing the necessary things everyday as a mum and attending to my optometry clinic, but interspersed through the week I’ll have clients for therapy. I take on only last minute makeup clients so that is always a surprise for me. So no week is the same and it’s such a great thing coz now they don’t just all blend into 1.
a time out always seems like the best way, or removing yourself from a meltdown, but it’s akin to saying to them, “i’m not going to be around for the tough times in your life and you need to deal with it yourself.” i gave my daughter time outs and now i really regret it bc, as a teen, she doesn’t believe i’ll be there or understand when she has a problem. and i hate that she thinks that bc we’re so close in every other way but she won’t open up when she really wants and needs the help. and this isn’t just me saying this. i’ve read quite a lot about it. i do believe gentle parenting is the best way bc it’s what i started doing at a certain point years ago and my relationship with my kid has changed so drastically for the better ever since i changed my ways. that doesn’t mean she doesn’t hear “no” or that she doesn’t have consequences, but it’s all in a way that makes sense. like you said, the consequence for not cleaning her room is cleaning her room. but to take away a date for the weekend bc one test came back with a C, that’s makes no sense. there has to be a correlation. usually it’s screen time that causes the bad grade, so a laptop and ipad and all are taken away as a consequence that makes sense to everyone. unless spending time with said date is what caused the lack of studying and the following C on the test. then maybe time away from that person makes sense. i’ve just never understood parents who say, “well now you can’t do this bc this happened,” when it doesn’t correlate. i’ve been a single mom for 19 years and, believe me, i’ve tried every way of parenting possible. these things are just part of what i’ve come up with that works. just my experience and what i’ve seen and watched and read up on.
This reminds me of a story I've heard from my parents about one time when I was a toddler having a meltdown in a supermarket. My mum was embarassed because people were staring, but my dad just sat down on the floor and sat with me until I calmed down. As a teen and now as an adult, I'm closer to my dad and always felt like he understood my needs better.
Side note: a C is still a pass, and grades aren't everything, so I'm not sure it's worth punishing a kid for getting a C. If they've always gotten As and getting a C is a new thing, there's probably something going on beyond too much screen time or getting distracted by relationships (e.g. depression and/or anxiety, not coping with stress, struggling with the teacher's teaching methods, classmates being bullies, etc). If that's the case, they might not want to talk to you specifically, but they'll still need you to be part of their support network. They'll need a hug and to feel supported, not to be told that a pass isn't enough.
@@caityjayde96 that’s interesting about how your dad reacted to your meltdown. i swear it’s the way to be!
as far as a C, i just said that bc i didn’t want anyone thinking my kid got Ds and Fs or something lol I’ve never’ punished’ my kid for a C. it really wasn’t even about me and her, anyway. just an example :)
I personally have been subscribed to the same channels for years. I don’t watch or subscribe to TikTok, I don’t watch any shorts, and I tend to watch the longer videos multiple times because it’s truly like a daily visit with a friend.
Thanks for keeping the long videos and for sharing your thoughts and life with us.
I found your channel last December because I searched for channels with Vlogmas videos and yours was one of the first ones it showed. Then I seen all of the travel videos, including Disney World so I continued watching that channel but then heard about your personal channel and so I’ve been following since. I so binged watched the travel videos. We went on a wish trip in 2002 to Disney World. Since then we have tried to plan a trip down there again but it’s never worked out so it’s nice to watch those type of videos. I love the idea of travel so of course I enjoy watching all of the other travel videos you guys have!
I found you before you got married! I have grown along with you in many ways. Parenthood, marriage, house stuff, adult life, ect. It's been fun to watch! I appreciate you sharing and hanging out with us! 🥰💜
i found her before she got married, too! i feel like i’ve been through it all with her lol
@@BareBohemianBeauty Me too! In fact, I just watched her wedding video about a month ago. :)
I think of your channel as comforting, relatable, safe space and thorough. There are too many channels that are over the top, lying about products, portraying a false lifestyle. I have unsubscribed to so many, you may have noticed the trend happening where influencers are calling out the over the top channels. I started noticing this last year, it has increased, talking about over consumption, tricks/key phrases used by influencers to convince the viewer that they absolutely need certain products, "run don't walk" and buy these products kinds of videos. The "you're doing your makeup wrong" and "you look old if you do this" videos. I felt it a couple years ago with some influencers, I didn't feel good or relaxed after watching their videos, they were somehow different. It's frustrating because once I noticed the tricks/key phrases they use, I can't watch them with the same kind of relaxing mind set. Thank you for being real Jessica, I do feel you are one of rare content creators that I can relax and watch.
I always learn so much from you Jessica. For example that makes so much sense that doing something new slows time down in a good way. Thank you for all your content.
You are always on my homepage because I watch you so much, lol. Even though I don't comment, I love your personality and how great of a mom you are. 💯
Same
I can't remember when I started watching your videos. It's probably been a few years. My first videos of yours were probably makeup or hauls. I would describe your channel as authentic. Your channel has turned into my comfort channel. It makes me so happy seeing new videos from you. you are down to earth.
you're one of my faves. I've looked up to you for so long!! your videos are so easy to watch in the BEST WAY. like I always know that I can count on you if I need something to watch
I literally think of you every day. Every time I use my Missha BB Cream. It’s now my holy grail. Thank you so much.
Hi Jessica😊! I know you may not see this, but I'm a long time subscriber, & very new to making videos. I do nail stamping/reverse stamping as a hobby, (not a professional). I am on a journey of finding myself, as I was a SAHM, & my kids are now young adults. I'm glad you mentioned the sub count, as I have alot to learn, & thought that was what made your "success" level. My views don't seem to line up with my sub count, as my views seem to be more than what my sub count is. Anyways, I do it bc I enjoy it😊. I'm not making money from YT at this time, I honestly don't even know how to yet. I do get some ads at the beginning of some videos, but I guess that since I'm still new I won't make anything from it for a bit. However, I also don't want it to become stressful, as it brings me much needed joy at this time in my life. I also do NOT, understand the whole algorithm thing, way over my head. All this, to say Thank You for explaining it! Love your family friendly channel, love you, & your family, (extended as well). Love seeing your parents🤍 & Blue Nana💙 when they visit. You're one of my top fav YT'ers!! Actually sub'ed to you from watching Taylor😁. Have a Blessed Day 🫶!!
I’ve literally been watching your videos since before y’all had your first daughter! I remember you announcing it & it’s been so cool to watch you & your fam grow through the years 🫶🏼 (that being said, I don’t remember how I first found your channel, which is what made me think about the beginning 😂🤦🏼♀️)
I love listening to you chat about life. And I also enjoy watching you do your makeup.. Im not sure how you should/could market your channel🤔. But you inspire me to be more mindful and intentional, and your laugh is so cute!! Take care, from your 🇨🇦 pal. 😊💖 Ps thanks for just speaking openly like a regular person, its unfortunate so many people want to critique you so much and that you need to explain yourself when you clearly do not have bad intentions on your statements and thoughts. ❤
I really enjoyed this video, enjoyed watching you apply your makeup and also enjoyed the topics. I learn heaps from these videos because you have a different perspective than what some other people do and I’m so thankful for you and these videos. I’ve been a subscriber for many years now and you never get boring to watch! 😊
I always ignore the home page and go into my subscriptions, watch my fav creators (like you Jess!) then will go to my home screen to see what else comes up.
I first stumbled on some of your older videos in the makeup realm. Then started binging and was watching newer vids and older. I've been hooked for 2 years. You are my Number #1 RUclips Influencer.
I don't always agree with everything you say, but for the most part you are my online Bestie and I adore your channel.
You are my daughter's age and I find it intriguing to hear your thoughts and insights. She shares but there's boundaries and the level of sharing you do intrigues me. It helps me to have more insight into what my daughter might be feeling as she is parenting our only granddaughter.
I love the fact that you bring your Christianity to the table and out in the open. I wish you would do that more. I hope to see you do that in the future. I would also enjoy seeing more growth from you in that area on your channel. Don't be afraid of it!
My husband and I used to live in Indiana for 3 years and so I have that in common with you too.
This is a long comment so I'll let it go but you're doing a great job honey and I love your balance and your calmness, which is ultimately what keeps me coming back. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I found you when I was pregnant with my first child and watched a video where you chatted about what was in your hospital bag. Just love your energy, honest opinions and reviews. Keep on keepin' on!
Yay, love these videos! 🥰 I actually found your channel through one of your pregnancy update videos a few years ago. I was pregnant with my son (he was born a month after Felicity) and had just left my job to be a stay at home Mom. I was so happy because it felt like chatting with a friend who was going through the same things as me, and I've been watching ever since! ❤️
I love this series💕💕
I love that you emphasize that the world and its issues are not black and white.. everything has a gray area and nuance and happy mediums ❤️
Not sure how i stumbled upon your channel but its my absolute fav! I sot and make jewelry for a living so your channel has been all ive been wanting to listen to and watch. Love the vlogs the most. Your whole family is just so darn wholesome and entertaining
I think of your channel as family, lifestyle, Disney and makeup! Just life!
Your channel is the comfy, cozy corner of the internet!
I’ve been loving the extra videos!! You’re my favorite
YES!!!!! 🙌🏻 3 a week!!! We’ll take it any time we can get it!
Got 2 sleeping babies and a cup of tea. Let's go! ❤️
I found your channel from beauty videos but as I've grown and become and Mom (as have you) I love the "lifestyle" vibe of your channel. I've gotten Mom advice, Costco recommendations, beauty recommendations and life advice from your sit down videos. I love it all!!!!
I'm so glad!!! :)
I truly feel he “online bestie” vibe! ❤
As a Christian I grew up on “WWJD” and as much as I try to live by that I also think “What Would Jessica Do” and look for you recommendations a lot 😂
I love the Mrs. Murphy mystery series! It’s old, but I enjoy it so much!😊
I’m a relatively newer follower. I found your channel via one of Tyler’s vlogs. I was researching taking babies/toddlers to Disney, and I remember thinking I wanted to be as chill and positive as you. Then Tyler mentioned your channel and I rushed over as fast as I could.
I hope this doesn’t come across as weird, but as an only daughter, watching your videos makes me feel like I have a sister gabbing with me 💕
I really enjoy these vodeos. They make putting on my makeup and getting ready for work so enjoyable. I like the three videos a week but understand if that is not do-able every week.
Watching my kids play in the yard and drinking my coffee! I found your channel about 6 years ago when I was looking for a make up review for something! I watched the review and was hooked! Now I watch literally anything and everything you and Tyler create!
For cozy series, I think you’d like the Inspector Gamache series by Louise Penny. It’s set in rural Quebec, really woodsy, cozy vibes and full of philosophy, witty humor, and mystery too! The Thursday Murder Club is also a series I think you’d like-British elders in a nursing home fighting crime together. Super funny!
I know sometimes you hesitate talking about certain topics because your words get picked apart, and I see evidence of it already in these comments. But I knew what you meant, and I think most of us did! ❤️
It is always a pleasure to watch your videos, Jess. Whether it is your vlogs or your GRWM, they are very entertaining and informational. Keep up the good work
As a mom of a child with autism spectrum disorder, we absolutely HAVE to keep a middle ground between gentle and hard parenting. Our younger kiddo has felt like she gets things harder lately, and luckily she is at the age now that we can sit her down and explain the why as to how she might feel she is being treated differently. It's a rough time for sure, but she is absolutely brilliant and can see the difference between the way she can comprehend things over her brother. She often times will gentle parent him along side us anymore. The tantrum thing you said is beyond spot on with what we have to do with our oldest. His ASD often leaves him feeling overwhelmed and he cannot function until he gets his emotions out. Unfortunately, the public school we send them both to doesn't understand that concept and has forced him to comply or be punished. His IEP now states no group work unless a separate room is available for his group after MANY meltdowns last year resulting in others being harmed. It is so frustrating when people do not know how you actually have to be with a little person who does *NOT* understand what they are doing is wrong because of the way their special brain works. It breaks my heart some days, but I have faith that we will oversome this obstacle and get things figured out this year. His teacher this year fortunately has siblings who are on the spectrum so he actually knows how to handle things. I truly believe God sent this new teacher our way to make it through as well! 🙌🏼
Jess, I agree with you on the parenting. There are times that you really have to be firm, doesn't mean you are a mean parent. The statement "you have to be a parent" really is something that seems to be quite forgottten nowadays.
And I also agree on being one of your "besties" 😂
❤ from the Philippines🇵🇭
I just wanted to tell you that you brighten my day and I love watching you I try to watch as many videos as I can of yours. I'm a teacher and I totally relate to all your teacher brain stuff. We have four kids in our family ranging in age from 11 to 22
I agree on positive reinforcement mixed with consequences is best! Agree with you on gentle parenting. Help your child understand their emotions, but also have strict boundaries.
Perfect timing for my pumping break at work!
I love your take on the aspects of parenting and tantrums. Taking notes, but I totally agree with it not being black and white with a method. I’d love a chatty bff sit down talk about that topic from you.
Pumping as well! You’re doing amazing mama! ❤
I actually stumbled across your channel after RUclips recommended the first ever Disneyville podcast back in the day when it launched and just loved the vibe you and Tyler gave off. Love the idea of “online bestie” and can’t tell you how much of a comfort channel you’ve become for me. Keep being your wonderful, genuine self (flaws and all; love your realness).
I love your channel! Love that it's not always the same thing (i.e. makeup reviews, even though I love those!)
Here's the thing about disregarding the opinions of people without kids; just because they don't have any doesn't mean they don't see and understand the child's behaviour. And if they don't get a say in how your child behaves when they're with them and especially towards them, you and your children stop getting invited into their lives. Just another perspective.
very true. especially learning about your own childhood trauma, you understand how the way you were parented affects you still to this day. and then learning how to be a better person and unlearning that harmful behaviour for your (possible) future kids so it doesn’t get passed down. we were all kids once
we don’t want to be around childless people who are constantly judging us and our kids anyway.
Yeah childless adults still have a valuable perspective on parenting, even if it’s untested and has its limits. But it’s also not helpful to take the stance of knowing better than our parent peers without valuing their perspective and experience. Maybe we can both be open to understanding the other without feeling threatened, though that can be hard to do and takes a lot of practice!
Absolutely, not being a parent does not automatically disqualify you from being able to give parenting advice (just like being a parent also doesn't automatically qualify you to give parenting advice). With some things, lived experience is more important than whether or not somebody is a parent, such as disabilities, health conditions, people whose parents were controlling or overly strict or invaded privacy or disrespected boudaries or exhibited other harmful behaviours, etc. If the non-parent adult has lived experience with whatever the kid is going through, their insight and advice will be way more valuable than anything that a parent who hasn't experienced it can offer.
29:41 I was shocked she said that. That was so disrespectful. I will not be finishing this video.
As a single mom, I find it so interesting to see the differences between the traditional 2 parent basis and single parent.
"Trying to make fetch happen," Priceless lol 😆
The Thursday Murder Club series is the BEST cozy mystery book series for fall! Old people solving crime and so much found family, they are the sweetest and most funny books 📚💕 6:19
These are wonderful books!!! And for more old people (cozy crime), Agatha Christie’s Miss Marples are wonderful. They always have a depth along with the cozy English village vibe.
Yes those books are delightful!
These chats are the best 🤌🏻
I love how your channel has evolved. I was a subscriber back in like 2015-2016 but then after having kids I stopped watching a lot of beauty content and unsubscribed from all the beauty gurus I followed. Then I came across your name again when I saw a "Jessie Day" video and watched it. I re-fell in love with your personality!
I started watching your channel when I found you and Tyler’s Disneyville podcast on YT! Also, I would describe your channel as an authentic beauty and lifestyle channel that fosters thoughtfulness and insight into life. I seriously love your content and feel like we’re friends ❤
Yes! Yes! Yes! Loved this chat so much.
I found your channel through your baby videos with Gigi around the time Gigi was a year old when we were thinking about starting to have kids. I enjoyed makeup too so I stuck around and now I’m here more for your lifestyle/chores and chats/and Disney than makeup 😂 but I appreciate and enjoy it all!
It’s so interesting when you talk about the back end of RUclips. I never look at my home tab, ever. And I hattttte the shorts. I always go immediately to my recent searches for my faves, now it even shows in that part if there’s a new video! If I just wanna cruise through things I go to my subscriptions. I might be the weird one on this but I’m always looking out for my faves. I love to rewatch old videos too - I watch old vlogmas when I’m feeling lonely or sad
That is 100% how I use RUclips too! I think it's kind of an old school way to do it! :)
Really enjoyed the part about changing up your week, even slightly, to slow down time. Very insightful!
Hi Jess, your channel is a must-watch for me. It's such a treat when you post! I love your take on makeup and life. Keep those videos coming girl! 💖
I would have to think on how to brand this (I do that as my day job) but, I think of you as one of the few relatable influencers in the space. You're from the midwest like me, still hold midwestern values, and quirks. Obviously when you were teaching you were relatable in that you had a 9-5 but even now, you've maintained that feeling. It's honestly a really hard thing to find someone so "down to earth" on here! That's not really brand advice but maybe it helps get you closer!
Woohoo! Just momming it at folding all the never ending laundry and packing for a work trip. So happy to have a Jessie video to watch while doing so!
I would describe your channel as "a cozy place where I share authentic life and joy."
The warm hands of ghosts by Katherine Arden was good!
I am not sure how I found you , it has been a while , but I search for your name and check for when you post . You are such a fresh breath of air ♥️ love all of your content
I found your channel through your „newborn essentials“, birth prep videos etc. when I was pregnant with my first daughter end of last year.
Kind of stuck to your channel and find your content so relaxing, nice to watch and listen to.
Lots of love from Vienna, Austria.
This is exactly how I found her channel & stayed too
Fall book: Legends and Lattes. Just a feel good cozy book. Loved it so much! ❤️🍂☕️
I think I found you through Taylor. I really rely on the people I respect and watch to learn about new people to watch.