The OnlyFans Model who became a Killer... | The Case of Courtney Clenney
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- Опубликовано: 16 май 2024
- Fame, fortune, and success... Courtney Clenney had it all. But after years of terrible behaviour, one fateful evening would leave Courtney behind bars and her partner Christian Obumseli dead. And a mountain of evidence left behind painted a very concerning picture...
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00:00 Intro
01:35 Miami
02:39 The Growth of Courtney Clenney
05:56 Christian "Toby" Obsumseli
07:26 A Crumbling relationship...
08:29 July 2021, BODYCAM FOOTAGE
11:00 Moving to Miami
12:30 WE IN MIAMI PODCAST
13:12 Amplified behaviour...
14:50 Heartbroken messages left behind
16:50 More disputes...
18:38 BODYCAM FOOTAGE
22:59 911 CALL
24:12 April 3rd 2022
25:25 INTERROGATION FOOTAGE Pt. 1
26:53 Courtney's story
28:33 INTERROGATION FOOTAGE Pt. 2
33:31 Aftermath, and let go...
37:02 Arrested...
38:17 Medical Examiner's Observations
40:02 Other media
41:20 Legal proceedings...
42:58 Wrapping up, remembering Christian...
44:27 Outro
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She should be jailed for life with no parole
Love the longer videos! Please do more
Love it!
I think the videos should be as long as they need to be to accurately tell the story, pay respect to the victims. I don't see any need to arbitrarily try and keep the videos to a standard ~30 minute length. Great work, Adrian!
I agree with all of these people. As I said in my comment, I get mesmerized listening to your voice and watching the video. Please use as much time as necessary to properly (and respectfully) give us the complete crime story. Thank you again, Adrian.
Sadly domestic violence against men isn’t taken nearly as seriously as it should be.
@@denboix7524 Wdym there were many signs and police call outs…..
Sad but true
That's because they're fuckin pussies for talking about it.....
I kid I kid....can you imagine..?
The sad thing is there are some idiots that genuinely believe that.
DV in any form, against whomever is disgusting and all victims should feel they have the support and safety to call it out and not be ashamed.
Seriously without the video footage and all his secret recordings the police even believed she killed him in self defense. No doubt influenced cause he was a tall strong black man and she was a small white girl. Thats crazy
100% there is a major bias.
My brother was married to a woman like that and one night while she was asleep he took his important documents and his car keys and drove for over 20hours and never looked back
So glad he got out of that situation safely!!
She could call the police and report him missing. But I guess even if they do track him down, she can't do anything, he's a free man and he is free to go anywhere he wants.
@@treehugger3615 Yeah, she can try to do that, but in the end if he doesn't want to go back they can't force him ^-^ I'm just so glad he was able to safely get away.
Im glad your brother got away
Deeply wish he would share his story to help so many men ashamed and so fearful of running away. Or still blinded and confused by the love bombing in the beginning or in between. Or blindsided at every turn.
The testimonies of others really helps, and so much too once the individual has managed to get out.
Men suffering from DV and SA need a platform on social media.
I sincerely wish I had the time. That could be a project when I retire or leave teaching Junior High.
It's remarkable how these 'internet-famous' people look a LOT different when they end up in jail.
Like everyone else 😒 put every celebrities without glam squad !
@@sarahrean7174 Every one of us could be internet-famous with the right filters and layers of makeup, right?!
Makeup is almost like magic in the right hands, plus filters of course
She went from an 8 to a 4.
She is no natural beauty that is for sure...very ordinary face.
Hearing him saying he was going to die and the fact she waited so long to call 911 makes her guilty in my eyes.
Yeah this is what happens when you treat a woman like a queen, the situation would've been different if he had treated her like a Dog she would have loved the ground he walked on, trying to show him she's Worthy of being loved,.... it's sad but it's true.
Abso freakin lutly!!!!!!!😢
@@BrianWarren-hl6pvwhy do you think that?
@@camilla_films_stuff when you're left by a woman who you treated like a queen, she turns around and returns to her abuser to be treated like a Dog, what else am I supposed to think ??
@@BrianWarren-hl6pv damn, that must suck. it makes sense to feel that way after something like that. when did this happen to you?
As Cristian is bleeding out, he still has to give 911 the address and try and talk Courtney out of her meltdown as she makes everything about herself. And in true narcissistic behavior, when she finds out he died, she's again making it all about herself by asking for hugs. She's a self-centered narcissist who thought she could boo hoo her way out of this.
They live in a fantasy bubble! Believe they're own lies! Blame shift reapetedly! They have a two faced personality! The recordings proved it
What's even more upsetting is that it almost worked.
SHES ULTING!
Exactly
Well-said
She ain't crying because she's sorry he's gone. She's crying because her life is done.
Women...
@@gladiammgtow4092 … be so fr rn. Not every woman, as a matter of fact I’d argue MOST are not like that lol.
@@bikebmc226 Those 16 are more than enough to destroy her narcissist life.She losses the best years in terms of looks for her.Thats a huge blow for a narcissist.
Exactly. This story made me sick. Just because of money, she turned into an arrogant monster. I hope she rots in jail for taking an innocent man's life. Its unfortunate that domestic violence against men is overseen. May his soul rest in peace 🙏
@@AshNikkosWife whilst you're right, it is the same attitude as when people use phrases like "r@pe culture". All men get accused of every injustice that a woman might receive. Then when a man says well its not all men it falls on deaf ears and women are trained to believe all men are dangerous.
What I'm saying is, I hope you stand up against the comments like this either way?
I was married to an abusive narcissist who always acted like he was the victim even though I was the one dragged around and suffered by his hands. Her asking for a hug is so triggering because my ex asked for the same exact thing, trying to gain sympathy from me when he was “ill” but I wasn’t having it. Thank goodness he is no longer in my life. I hope she rots in jail.
I'm glad you escaped that nightmare. Best wishes to you.
That letter he wrote SCREAMS: TRAUMA BOND
Magical thinking. Delusional
Hoping tomorrow will be better.
She's a sadist a textbook narcissistic woman. And he was desperate to be loved and validated by her.
😢 Is devastating indeeed. Never let anyone tie u down emotionally on the negative levels
she was having a panic attack in that interrogation room, not because of toby’s death, but because her lifestyle was about to be ripped away from her once convicted.
plus she was faking it, thats not what a panic attack looks like. She was a straight up psychopath or narcissist
Yep, their own ego is the only thing narcissists, borderlines and psychopaths care about.
100% facts
that is not panic attack, she is acting
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back.
I was star-struck.
I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step."
He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod.
"That's me."
Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore."
He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife.
It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat.
Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now!
I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
I’m so annoyed that our society rewards people like her with fame and fortune. She adds NOTHING to humanity but makes millions while there’s others fostering children, working on medical cures, at war defending our country, feeding the homeless, etc who don’t reap any of those rewards. I can’t believe how she treated Christian. I hope she never gets out of prison. And I hope her parents are put on trial for knowing he was in danger and doing nothing.
Preach!
Ppl are intoxicated by sex. They see this so call beautiful girl and becomes obsessed by her. Making her rich. Shes and ugly person. Her ugliness showed when in court. She has no brain or love in her heart. This guy was also an idiot and should hv left. Love it blind. Sorry for him n his family. May the lord hv mercy on his soul.
"I’m so annoyed that our society rewards people like her with fame and fortune. She adds NOTHING to humanity but makes millions while there’s others fostering children, working on medical cures, at war defending our country, feeding the homeless, etc who don’t reap any of those rewards". Fuckin' tell me about it! I wish all the findoms would get their asses in prison.
It isn’t society that rewards her it’s men. Men made her rich and famous. Let’s be clear on that.
@Messer Moreaux true.
UPDATE:s Clenney's parents are now facing charges-accused of tampering with Obumseli's laptop (CBSNEWS). & In court, Assistant State Attorney Shawn Abuhoff said they charged Clenney with one count of interception of wire or electronic communication, which is a third-degree felony. Clenney, who’s already facing second-degree murder with a weapon, was also charged with one count of unauthorized access or excessive access to a computer for allegedly serving as a principal and breaking into her boyfriend Christian Obumseli’s laptop.
I just watched the video of them getting arrested in Texas. I didn't get good vibes from them as they acted very arrogant. Hum wonder where Courtney got the same attitude!
@@11chancerwhere is the vid
Its staggering how different she looks without make-up and props. Just shows how fake everything is on the internet. What looks so pretty, so happy and so successful is a shattered mess.
Chilling to hear him realize he’s dying and how scared he was, I hope he’s at peace, man deserved way more than this girl
Amen to that
🙏😢
too much love will kill you. Reserve some love to yourself.
Well...if you don't know that an only fans model who dominates you and brags that she's toxic is going to end up eating you alive...I don't know what to tell you. If that's victim blaming, sign me up, I'm not scared of silly phrases invented to make anyone who's died completely above reproach.
People need to start seeing these types of women for what they are, and get a clue. Try looking beyond the physical and thinking with something other than certain parts of your anatomy.
@@zeldagoblin you are a awful person
The power of makeup, hair extensions, fake lashes...is incredible. The orange suit and jail exposed her.
I'll still hit it tho ;)
and photo editing
@@gregpeterson3144 oh for sure! It's all fake!
@@jondoh3471 hopefully she won't hit you back. Like she did the poor guy.
@@user-jz2uj1mr5coutta pocket
I actually dropped quite a few tears.
You can get your millions and your perfect body and your perfect life but if you're rotten inside.. it won't change a thing.
Rotten apples always rot away eventually.
Rest in Peace Christian. ❤ Condolences to the family.
That was so sad. Especially given the fact the authorities first just believed Courtney. Good that his family never gave up. So heartbreaking.
It just hit me hard how this dynamic echoes Get Out... The situation isn't necessarily the same, but it's such a culturally-enforced subconscious bias to view the thin, pretty, blonde, young, white woman as the sympathetic and pitiable and believable character, and the black man as... deserving whatever violence was inflicted on him.
Christian's letter to her was so beautiful. He seemed like a good partner and a passionate and driven man. Rest easy. I pray for justice.
its a wedding vow level 🥹😭
He just needed someone who deserved that love and kindness.
It's plain naïve. Life is not a fairy tale, not some happy ending Hollywood's movie. Honestly, what does he see in her?
@@angelicaadriel3168 he loved white girls I guess on his Twitter he would bash black girls and call them ugly . And she only liked black men so I guess it was a fetish toxic mess
He seemed like a true romantic. Sad he was taken for granted.
She was spoiled her entire life. She is the very definition of toxic. Her parents insist it was self defense. I hope his family receives justice.
Her parents said that?????? 😡😡😡 may he receive justice.
Of course they said that. And I’m sure exactly why they said it as well. Not even shocked
The entitlement is crazy. The bodycam of when she asked "well how do I get first" as if there is some way to push her way to the front of the line and get her case focused on above everyone else's.
My dad spoilt my brother. Dad would never believe we did anything wrong.
Only 16 years. That’s not much of Justice
Thanks so much for making this video! It’s the only one I could find which started at the beginning, assuming the viewer was not familiar with the case, which I was not. Very well done and informative!
32:57 would the detective be this willing to give her a hug if she was a man or an obese 55 year old woman?
Buddy jumped out of his chair so he could rub up on her after she killed her boyfriend to comfort her.
Why isn’t this being talked about more? Absolute creep.
That was her attorney. But still cringe nonetheless.
Detective is a disgusting perv, you are so right to point this out, it's sickening
I thought the same
@@reelflyhe got paid for it
Exactly! 🤮
The authorities handled this case horribly initially. They didn’t even notify Toby’s family he had passed, his mom found out when medical staff called and asked her if she wanted to donate his organs still. That’s so messed up!
THE LIFE OF A SIMP
@@THEcommitteeVISION you’re gross. Seriously. Toxic culture.
Well, the question is, who did the hospital call first? The police or the family? You can't expect the police to stay at the hospital with a victim until they either recover or die. They only can know the victim died when/if they are announced. And even if the police didn't announce, the way the hospital acted is ludicrous... You don't call and ask about organ donation, you first call and announce the family that their member died. Afterwards you can think about your own interests... But hey, that's an American hospital for you!
@@THEcommitteeVISION that’s such a rude thing to say. No one should be violent against each other’s partner and unfortunately it happens more often than people think. He was manipulated and gas lighted to stay with his abuser.
In too many of these cases I don't expect much from authorities, but this is Florida police....I wouldn't be surprised if one of them coached the girl to claim she was in danger. That's what they'd do themselves.
Anytime a relationship gets abusive mentally, physically, or financially, pack up your bags and leave and never look back. No partner is worth one's life.
Anytime a relationship gets physical,. Pack up your bags and leave and never look back. No partner is worth one's life.
I agree, but unless they are well off that's not easy.
@@Wastingsometimehere I would rather be poor but alive than rich but dead!!!
No pair of tits and a pretty smile is either.
And also when it gets psychologically abusive.
I just discovered your program and I love it and please keep it long!
Fantastic narration. Excellent coverage.
Staying in an abusive relationship, thinking your partner is gonna change has taken many to grave. If you’re in such relationship just leave before it’s too late. RIP Tobby🕊
Coon train 🚂💨🦝
I agree Kay. I don't understand why he even stayed in such an extremely toxic relationship. He should have left when she stabbed him in the leg. Suuuuch a horrific story that shouldn't have gone as far as it did. I feel awful for Tobi's family. All that money and fame went straight to her head causing her to sadly destroy another person's life and hers
“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” - Ecclesiasticus 26:23 ✝
@@crazy4felines4ever Men are treated like shit when women are the aggressor. It's really not fair at all. We need to normalize men being victims of DV not just in homosexual relationships or as children 😞
This dude hit the fucking lotto and he would have NEVER left this girl no matter what! A gorgeous big titty blonde with a 3/10 black dude??? AND SHE WAS RICH???? If the mfer survived the night she stabbed him he STILL would have never left. I’ve seen this shit before.
Something about her stating she only dates “rich black guys” made me very uncomfortable. I don’t think she sees them as individual humans, they’re just accessories to her.
The fact that the black men in the room didn’t call her out on it- and appeared to SUPPORT it- is infuriating. It’s indescribable.
As a black woman watching this there are so many layers to this. Soooo many. All the traits bm say bw have are what she had and was displaying so obviously and yet he still stayed. He protected her image eve when he was in danger. Bw don’t get that same grace with bm. And this is even outside of the domestic violence elements of this. It’s just crazy.
And rich black guys like him only want to provide white women. Doesn't matter if a black woman is dainty, feminine, and a loving wife. These guys would still treat trashy white women better
@@cupcake1065 you said it.
@@cupcake1065 PREACH!!!
Amazing work and great investigation. You are a true professional!
Wow! I can’t believe this is the first I’ve heard of this story! Thanks for sharing! Yall covered it in such great detail! I feel so bad for him!!!😢💔
She’s so entitled that she doesn’t even realize the weight of the situation after being brought to an interrogation room by two homicide detectives.. “I’m probably not in trouble..”
too much money causes brain rot
Yeah. Total arrogance mixed with cluelessness!!!
God there’s nothin attractive about this girl .. period
Well she's a pretty white girl with an 'abusive' black boyfriend. So she was banking on that to be let go. And shock, she was. She's getting karma now. Hopefully a jury will see through her BS.
And believing she could talk her way out of it. Jeesh.
He was nothing but a fetish to her. Disregarding her physical abuse, the fact that she called him racial slurs when she was mad at him as well showed how she truly regarded him. sick over this
What do you think she was to him? 😂 these psychos deserved each other
@@evaphillips2102 Im seeing just low self esteem from him which isn't an excuse for abuse. He obviously didnt think highly of himself either but thats incredibly common in abusive relationships. There is absolutely no way you are calling a VICTIM a psycho and implying he deserved any of the things she did to him.
@@sydneyroth1853 nah, da shit he said Abt blk women is crazy. He deserved it. Especially when he bashes blk women and fetishizes yt women then dies for it🤦🏿♂️. It's like wat was bro cooking.
Fetish is right..."I only date Black guys". Disgusting.
He was dumb too.
"have you received information that the defendent is a professional knife thrower?" Is such a funny question 😂
I subscribed! I’ve seen this true crime story before but I like your content so I kept watching…plus what a great channel name 💯❤
To think that the initial prosecutor didn't do his research and this girl almost walked free is daunting.
She probably felt like she deserved to.
WORD.🤨😡
White woman privilege
Wrong use of daunting
Must’ve got her onlyfans for free
My heart aches for people whose greatest weakness is their kindness.
Or stupidity
Same 😥
I felt this
It’s so sad, I feel so bad because all he wanted to do was care for her when she didn’t deserve his love at all. I hope he rests easy.
Not if you let it be your weakness
I feel so bad for Christian. He totally wore his heart on his sleeve for her & he suffered so much. She treated him so awful & he gave her the benefit of the doubt, thinking maybe she would change. What a horrible & scary feeling he must've been living with.
Just hearing this case, heartbreaking. Condolences to this young man’s family. The pain can be unbearable. Prayers for comfort and healing. God Bless.
The fact that we're calling the relationship "highly toxic" instead of what it is: domestic violence and abuse, says a lot about how seriously we take violence towards men. Poor Toby.
Lol his name was Christian
@@AlphonseWeebayhe was referred to as Toby throughout the video, and it was mentioned very early on that he went by Toby.
Toxic because it's a white girl that was abusing her black boyfriend. Is DV when it's black on black
Did she say she wish that had the questions first so she could think about the answers
Toxic isnt downplaying anything
This is narcissism at it’s worst. If only he could have had the strength to free himself from her. Love is definitely blind 😢
Yeh, I think he had substantial trauma bond.
Blind? I don't think so. He was with her for her looks. He wouldn't have put up with her shit if she didn't look like that.
@@Valdrex that's b.s he could of found another woman. She reeled him in to batter him slowly to death. Stop victim blaming. She's the monster not him.
@@cookiesnmilk9200 I didn't blame him. I just explained why he stayed as long as he did.
Love is blind! You’re 100% correct and only when you see that person you “love” for who they really are, only then will you understand that saying.
The elevator footage and all the recordings of Courtney verbally abusing Toby while he just took all the blows and jabs should be enough evidence of who's the perpetrator in the relationship.
What do you mean “No one saw this coming”?!? WTF
"Courtney knew what she was doing was wrong, and would profusely apologize" This is like a MAJOR red flag for abuse. They always apologize, and never mean it.
Sometimes they apologize to keep everything for themselves and not others
She will only get maximum 16 years? That’s almost bad as UK sentencing
@@deepblack2193no. That’s the minimum punishment possible. She will likely get life with chance of parole.
Poor Courtney. She didn't deserve any of this. R.I.P.
Cocaine's a hell of a drug.
Father didn't know about her career? She bought a mansion near you! What did you think she was doing?! The ignorance of some parents is truly baffling...
..and she was doing what after deciding not to go to college after all the money they spent supporting her extra curricular activities as a teen? So they suddently took zero interest in her? And you know she wouldn't have lied about how she made her money. Please.
He’s not ignorant; he’s a liar.
Did you not watch the video and just comment dumb shit? Lol I said clearly she was already successful online before that so for all he knows she could’ve been making it from Instagram and other places she had over 1 million followers on Instagram not hard to make money when you have that many followers
She had a huge following before OF. She could’ve made the money from social media. I mean, look at how much influencers are banking.
He's definitely lying. One does not become a millionaire out of the blue.
Thank God his parents didn’t just accept the story she told and Law Enforcement quickly assuming she was the victim……they would never have got justice if they had been too afraid or scared to fight back!
Almost broke down crying. This man is dying on the floor saying he can't feel his arm and still tell her in a calm demeanor the address, poor man he deserved better.
Yes.
Poor soul may he rest in peace I truly hope he is in a better place
@@OpalBLeigh He would have expired more quickly had he allowed himself to react more strenuously because his heart in turn would have pumped the blood out even faster.
He got what he chose.
@@edntz Shut your trap.
All I can say: What a genuinely disgusting and narcissistic person. Abusive relationships hit me hard as someone from a family with a history of DV, but her brazen and shameless nature about it all makes my blood boil.
Also, thank you for spreading the word about male victims of abuse. It's a topic that our culture continues to willfully overlook to this day and it NEEDS to stop. The fact police and detectives literally assumed it was a case of an abusive Boyfriend with 0 evidence apart from Tobey *being the one that was dead* is despicable.
Abuse isnt gender exclusive and the belief that women cannot be abusive is itself a sexist assumption.
The ego to think you can diagnose someone with a mental disorder based off a true crime video.
You can have your opinion but stop trying to sound smarter than you are.
@@BobungaShamunga Or maybe people tend to not show theirs true colours immediately? Hello??
Funny story, I actually met Brandon Call at a shuffleboard tournament years back.
I was star-struck.
I got my first taste of the Hollywood limelight, and I was in a state of transcendental ecstatic bliss. My chest swayed, my eyes rolled back in my head and I gasped, "Brandon Call, right? From Step by Step."
He acknowledged me with a gleeful smirk and a proud nod.
"That's me."
Sprawled on the concrete, writhing in ecstacy, I managed to garble out a few more words, "they don't make shows like that anymore."
He agreed and proceeded down the boardwalk hand in hand with his supple wife.
It's impressively gracious that a man of such caliber would ever grace my presence, let alone stoop to the level of the common man for a humble chat.
Since then, I've reflected back on that day with great reverence pondering where would we be now if back when even before they made shows like that, we all got to experience a certain level of precision entertainment that people were never able to get when they can't even watch it before they did it now!
I'll miss those days. 🫖 ❤️ 🍿
@@BobungaShamunga not true.
He just couldn’t quit that white smoke show ass💯
It can happen to the best of us .. R.I.P.
Great work on this documentary, subscribed ❤
I had a girlfriend like that. Lived with her for almost 2 years. Love and miss her till this day and was one of the most painful thing i have done in my life to let her go. If I stayed with her i would not have been here to tell the tale today.
Same here
Proud of you. I know how hard it is to walk away from someone you love but is hurting you. Been struggling myself the last 3 and a half years. Sending love and manifesting vibes that you’ll find someone who deserves you
That’s called a trauma bond
Everything she says is infuriating, because she twists it to make the boyfriend the one who’s always at fault. “I was sitting in a puddle of my boyfriends blood begging him to not give up on me?” YOU stabbed him, yet he’s “giving up?”
May she rot in hell.....
She's fucking disgusting, I've never hated someone I don't know so much in my life before this
Seen too many documentaries like this to not be surprised by this unfortunately. She's incredibly narcissistic and it's blatant, anything and everything is all about her; her restraining order, how she feels, what's going to happen to her and so on. I'd be very surprised if she ever asked how this poor lads day went if she wasn't asked first, if at all... So sad, he deserved so much more.
Even while her partner's dying she still can't help protecting herself.
Narcissists can only love themselves...
Lol
This poor man was a victim of abuse from her for so long. She deserves prison.
I agree
Poor man? He was a pos who was rac!st towards Black women and said the most horrible things about them. He got what he deserved.
He was never a victim he chose that for himself
@@taoriq3632 strange thing to say kid
@@taoriq3632 based.
Yikes, this dude was weak as piss! The moment I saw the footage in the elevator there's no way Id have spent another minute with that sociopath - and look what it did to him! He needed to grow some balls and leave! He clearly had zero sense of any values because if he did he would not have put up with such behaviour. Abuse? Thats a massive RED flag!
Incredibly sad for Toby's parents that raised such a loving person.
Children should be taught to recognise and get out of toxic relationships.
Yes. I think they need to teach warning signs in high school. How to recognize abusive gf/bfs, starting with controlling behavior, where it leads, and safe ways to remove yourself from the situation.
Absolutely! It should be a part of standard health classes or sex education.
You shouldn't have to be taught. Any normal reasonable person with self respect knows when they are getting abused and disrespected. If someone is mentally and physically abusing you. Guess what? It's toxic! This guy I'm sorry was kind of an idiot for staying with this girl. She literally stabbed him. And he's like oh babe I woke up the next day so happy. Like wtf. Smh. And look what happened, he ended up dead.
@@doubleboy2388, thousands of people stay because they don't recognise abuse. Instead, they try to modify their behaviour in order not to "provoke" their partner.
Some ask "What should I do?" They simply do not know they are being abused and that they should leave.
Boys should be taught to be men problem solved. this was no man.
Applause for the ladies that called her out and filmed, told her she should leave. That's how you handle murderers, politicians, pedophiles, predators...shunn them from polite society because they are destructive leeches.
How social media makes these people rich tht's crazy. To Follow them. Wow
@@rmc0329 😂
@@OSDDASPD Courtney, it must be really nice spamming from your alt account, thinking you're all mighty by spamming 😂 emotes
THE AUDACITY 🤣😂😂 bless yer heart, bish thinkin she slick
@@karcavida3250 she’s boring , how’s yo mom karc
It happened to O. J. Simpson after his acquittal. I’m glad it happened to this girl at least once.
Please can you do an update on this? And link it to us? I’m really interested!
Also only just found your channels and really enjoying your videos ❤
The case is going on currently as of January till todate….i actually learned that her parents broke into Tobby laptop after his death ! This wicked woman and her parents are filth I wish they all go to jail and th keys thrown away. Despicable! I wish Toby had left her , trauma bonding is real my goodness 😢Rest in Peace Tobby ! May they never know peace !!!
Her parents have both been arrested over allegations of evidence tampering! What a sick world we live in..
I am SO glad the judge blocked them from hiding all the recordings and evidence!
Definitely. Probably would of been a different story if she did. At least, her money and/or looks did not keep her out of trouble like it usually does for some people.
Please, please, please show the black ladies in prison with her a photo of Toby and share with them how kind & wonderful he was...
...The DA wouldn't need to ask for the 💀 sentence. The 💀 sentence would already be done.
My condolences to Toby's family & friends.
For once a female abuser got in trouble.
What’s up Jenn?
@@TenFalconsMusic Not likely for Black women to involve themselves. Tobby was a very known antiBlack man. He has posted and stated how much he hated Black women, he called Black women ALOT of colorist names. So no, Black women will sit this one out. He died from his preference.
I was in an abusive marriage. Cops called multiple times. Stints in the er. Yet I stayed until one of the responding cops told me he was afraid the next call to my house would be to pick up my body. It finally clicked and he helped me get put. I lost everything I had in that marriage but my life. I'll always be grateful to that man for showing me a way out. This case reminds me of how lucky I was to make it out alive.
So glad to hear you got out!
Glad you're still with us, stay safe.
Very moving story Stephanie. You sound like an extremely strong woman. And a humble one also. Your words saying "I lost everything except my life" is very powerful. Material things, in the long run, do not matter at all. Continue to be strong & ALWAYS love yourself....
This is about men being abused not women!
@@johnnnyboo7105 it's about domestic violence and the extremes it can go to. Abuse knows no gender, religion, sexual orientation, or socioeconomic status. Everyone is at risk. I relate to this story because violence is not gendered. 🤷♀️
It's interesting how police just accept the surviving party's word as fact. Self defense meanwhile she had a violent history of abuse.
People always think money makes you happy in life but all it does is cause trouble. With her talking to police she’s on drugs, she is high. She murdered a man that she used and abused him and then stabbed this poor man. She’s so evil and cold hearted.
Courtney was essentially 2 years old, temper tantrums, the whole screaming, kicking, etc.
no, she was an abuser
She’s clearly used to being given whatever she wants and having her way for sure. While I don’t want to drag her parents through the mud since they’re not the ones responsible for Toby’s tragic passing, I do have to wonder if they spoiled her profusely while she was growing up given how immature she acted throughout this entire situation. 😒
Strangely attractive to a lot of men.
@@Mercurio2435 - only to simps
My 2 year old is more emotionally stable than her 😅
"I don't necessarily feel like I'm in trouble". That's the mind of a spoiled person who never got checked by her parents. Money has bought her confidence that she can do what she wants.
nope, narcissistic brain damage - much more dangerous and serious than any "spoiled child
So true
Yeah she thought she’d get away with killing somebody but then again maybe she didn’t mean to kill him but she was terrible about the whole thing
You have the most beautiful and calming voice 😊
It is obvious from the elevator incident that she is aggressive and violent towards him. He showed a great deal of restraint to not pound her back. God Bless him, may he rest in peace
This is so tragic. He gave her so many chances to change and improve herself. This gentle, kind man lost, and his family will forever suffer.
i searched for any s.3.x videos about her and i did find it on the internet. it was the two of them and it really looks like the guy can't leave her just because of her pussi. even tho she is very toxic. she's quite good at the bed. he is a simp and that killed him. that's not love. you just can't let go of her pussi. fight, s.3.x., fight, s.3.x., lmao
It angered me when she was playing victim and lying about him attacking her first.
It was very clear in the elevator video that she was the aggressor and *he did/does not fight back!*
Too many men and women tolerate loony partners
thats what happens when you leech off of your gf
I think if you give someone several chances and they don't do anything, better leave. Not all end in death, but for your own mental health it is the better step. It hurts at first for sure, if you love the person, but it will get better after some time. In contrast: staying will always create more issues.
I don't want to sound like I blame the guy or anything, it is hard to do that for many. It is sad that he didn't do it.
The way she reacted when they told her Toby had passed, was so overly dramatic and the addition of "can I get a hug"made me physically ill. She is nothing but a sociopath/psychopath and Toby seemed so restrained, loving, tender... no words. RIP Christian (Toby) your spirit will always shine❤❤
Was so irritated watching that part of the video.... like really
It’s so fucking hilarious and pathetic I cannot wrap my head around it.
Gosh I remember the first time hearing that and having a visceral reaction to it.
Yeah, narcs don't know what acting normal means or looks like....they mirror/copy people......that's cringeworthy.
She's absolutely topic but doesn't have the traits of a psychopath or sociopath. Pretty sure she has BPD.
I know I am a year late but I just recently found your videos and it’s so fun to listen to while cleaning
His messages about the abuse he endured are heart breaking. It really shows the psychological part of domestic violence. He was blinded…by love🤷🏾♀️. 😢
When you played the 911 recording and he said "I'm dying ", I just broke down. This case makes me so sad. I grew up in a household where DV occurred and my mom was the abuser. I've seen how poorly these things are handled by authorities when the abuser is a woman. It is tragic, I feel awful for his friends and family. Justice needs to be served
Fr i had an abusive roommate and she was going for a social work degree and was from an influential family. Crazy b. She counsels ppl online.
@@ark194 Wow. I would try to sabotage her "carrier" as much as possible lol
Truth. My older sister is a violent abuser. She's knocked everyone in the family around, even when we kicked her out, she'd come back for visits which usually ended in her having an emotional screaming meltdown, punching, kicking, slapping.
So when she got married, it was no surprise he came to me one day telling me she had been thumping him, a lot, regularly. Now my sis is a big STRONG woman. 💪 She would really let loose. When he struck her back, as he was hurting, angry and frustrated, she would just hit him harder!
Ofc they divorced and have no relationship now, wont even speak, despite having 3 kids. He really put up with her shit for a long long time.
Surprisingly, he never wanted to go to the police about it, because he had/would thump her back. He felt this invalidated the fact that she was always the physical aggressor. Yes he was stronger, but honestly not by much!
Even if women are weaker, should men just become punching bags? Ofc not!
Because of gender stereotypes some people just refuse to believe that women can be the violent one but it can and does happen.
@@TheDramacist Who cares if men on average our stronger? It shouldn't count in the equation in the least, because a weaker person can always use a weapon....even wait until you are asleep and then do whatever. I don't care if you are man, woman, in between. If you come at me violently, expect full force aggression in return. I'd expect the same if I came at someone.
She's a perfect example of how fake social media is," believe none of what you hear and half of what you see because it isn't what it seems to be" without make up , she'd be working at Starbucks , now she'll be another lady's girlfriend in jail
I don’t disagree with you but it’s funny to me that you think women’s prison is the same as men’s. Its basically a summer camp where they all fuck each other so I don’t think being someone’s girlfriend is the punishment you think it is lol
Exactly. Social media is not reality. Everything is made-up, filtered, and scripted. And most of these "content creators" and "influencers" are talent-less, shallow, dull, and has no real personality... they do nothing society at large but weak people validate them and even pay them for their "services".
@@phillyliverpoolfc4079 Come on. I don't like her nor condone her actions, but she is definitely a 9/10. It's for that exact reason she was let go for months.
@@phillyliverpoolfc4079 she is a horrible human being and I hope she stays locked up but you don’t need to bring misogyny into this please
She is aweful but to start degrading her looks as if that changes anything about what she did or the fact that she did OF is just uncalled for
@R Is she still a 9out of 10 without the make up at her last court hearing ? Didn't even look like the same person without the money and makeup and filters
Her physical transformation cannot be ignored.
I cannot wrap my mind around why or how Christian/Toby put up with her crazy shit. None of her behavior is okay. It's abusive. He deserved so much better.
If you recognize your own relationship anywhere in this video, RUN. Leave. Get out. Choose a time to slip away when they're not around. Do NOT tell them ahead of time that you're thinking about leaving. You "owe" them nothing.
I believe as a first generation Nigerian he was taught that she was the ultimate prize as a yt woman and to denigrate people of color. He had an open disdain for black women and African Americans. Nigerians and other recent immigrants sometimes look down on African Americans without understanding the history and sacrifice it took for them to enjoy the freedoms they now have as recent immigrants of color. I do respect the commitment to success, but I cringe when people imply African Americans have never or do not try for their own successes. Prior to 1965 and following the Civil Rights Act, neither Africans nor Indians could immigrate to the U.S. Yet, many come here with attitudes similar to the racists they hope will accept them one day. Christian wanted that acceptance despite all the n-words and physical abuse. It's really quite sad.
@@KS-vd3cveverything you say is accurate 💯 as a Nigerian I do understand the historical context African Americans went through 💯 💯 💯 💯 I appreciate your insight.
The fact she didn't help pay for his funeral says everything.
She is a sociopathic nutbag , social media breeds these people .
She murdered him..funeral costs like wtf..
Exactly
I know, what an unempathic narcissist.
I doubt his family would wanna accept it.
This goes to show that looks alone should never be your “dream girl” image, but of character, kindness, maturity, and shared interests.
Proverbs Chapter 31
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He was obviously superficial and money oriented to tolerate the abuse. Very sad.
I'm definitely going to show this one to my son. Fortunately, he is very picky, and it's highly unlikely he would tolerate that kind of behavior - no matter how rich or nice looking the girl is.
In my opinion: It was a biracial intimate partnership & the female would've been self promoting while freelancing her own brand of sex trade for compensation.
Acting involves roll play. Business owners wouldn't be "actors" when they would be actually "doing it" themselves.
What man allows whoever to see his woman naked? Nasty people. 🤮
No sympathy whatsoever. So much for love.
- In my opinion.
15:04 So I went to check out the song he told her to listen to at the bottom of his letter titled My Personal Sunset. And to see what she ultimately did to him. Wow...just wow.
You know you're about to become a murder victim when Adrian starts complementing your character
As a huge fan of this channel, this comment is hilarious
😂😂😂 I feel so bad laughing but this comment is hilarious
😂😂😂
Kinda like when Jessica Fletcher says she's coming for a visit.
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My ex-wife became increasingly more abusive to me physically and it culminated in her pulling a knife on me one evening. Though she lounged at me with a look in her eyes I will never forget, I was able to get the knife away from her. I immediately left that night and slept on a friend's couch till the divorce was final and she was forced to leave my home. Don't be like me and don't be like Toby. Walk away.
It took great courage for you to leave. I thank God for your lucidity
As a child raised with a mother and father like these two, you absolutely did the right thing. I wish my father had left her and kept me safe, but sadly, he was bullied into staying and shamed that he wasn't a man due to being beat up by a woman.
These women KNOW a man cannot hit them and they bait them into being physical so that they can have something on the men. These women twist the conversation until you feel insane. You're absolutely lucky. Please educate others, break the stigma, and stay safe.
Glad you are safe, wild situation
Thank God you got away. No man or woman deserves to go through any of that so glad you got away.🌻
may i ask why you didn't leave earlier?
This is good already!!!
Good stuff
She doesn't look like the same person in the court. Just shows you what makeup, enhancements and hair extensions can do.
I hope that young man rests in peace as he went through too much in a short life
I was going to comment the same. She's really just a overweight plain jane with a speech impediment. Warning to men who fall for the Only Fans girls.
It is mainly alcohol abuse what does it in the long run ( change of appearance ) , weight gain . Of course the stress being incarcerated adds to it too.
@@connys.a2412 No, its being seen without facetune and photoshop...
All the filters that run on the photos make a lot of subtle and not so subtle changes too
@@tegridyfarms6851 Yep exactly
People that repeatedly hurt you do not love you. Full stop. No matter how much they beg and plead and make empty promises, they do not love you. If anything they love the love you give them. That's all. I hope everyone that might find themselves in a similar situation as this can get themselves out in time. People like this woman frighten me.
36:08 sorry - but I live near the Lake Point neighborhood- that house absolutely did not cost 1.4 million…that is a typical house here in the suburbs of Austin and a house that size costs between 200K-300K….that house is not a mansion but a standard normal family home of which there are millions all over the suburbs….that has to be a stock photo because if she DID pay 1.4 for that house she got absolutely ripped off by at least 900K !The pics of that backyard are not the same house as the pics of the front …. A 1.4 million dollar home would not have that crappy big single garage door and only fit two cars….the front of these houses are covered in fake stone and the three other sides are covered in vinyl paneling…..
OMG 😮. This story is very Sad 😳. I’m thinking of him and his family right now😢. He did NOT deserve to die like that. I hope you do a PART 2.👍
Proof that a narcissist get can everything in life: money, fame, looks, luxury and loving partner- and still fuck it up.
😂and
yup, they lack gratitude for what they got in front of them
For realll!!
Both people in this specific relationship were interested in lust not love
He was a narcissist too. Having the blond bomb shell as his trophy and also living off her money. He was not far from a pimp.
This guy would write disgusting comments about blk women on his socials.
I've seen people say that she stabbed him in self defense. How people delude themselves amazes me. She clearly has serious issues with anger, rage, self control, jealousy and possessiveness. I'm willing to bet if we looked at her previous relationships we would see a lot of the same. I feel so bad for this guy.
That's pretty much the main reason narcissists continue to run amok. Because there will always be braindead idiots willing to play the Flying Monkey / Enabler to narcissistic behavior.
Yes. At the end of this presentation a former bf said she tried to stab him and she did something to that body builder she was messing with. He didn’t report it because he didn’t want his wife to find out…
@@duvessa2003 I saw after I wrote the comment. I haven't heard anyone else talk about that!
Starting with her relationship with her parents. This is what happens when a child is spoiled. If you can't stand up to a 3-year-old's tantrums, you're actively creating this kind of monster because you're teaching them that using their anger to control people works!
@@gtw4546 absolutely it's called parental manipulation, and there's a whole generation of them
When she disrespected him by calling him racial slurs he should have left her sooner than later.
Her reaction to the news of Toby's death tells it all. She doesn't cry. She does the typical narcissist thing and makes it about herself. She checks her own pulse because all she can think about is herself. She asks for a hug because all she can think about is herself. She talks about how much SHE'S been crying, because all she can think about is herself. Man lost his life at her hands and she shows almost no remorse or sadness, just feigned shock as her thoughts race back to herself over and over.
And when the detective was going to giver one she almost said "eew but not you though!"
@@emilyjamesalisonis not cringe, she was mentally ill . she checked her pulse and grab her chest at first that indicate that she had panic attack. i don’t support her nor i defend her but mentally ill people who suffer from panic attacks or seizure episodes have to know that is not cringe to check your pulse or anything that you can do to prevent you from feeling worse.
I thought she was pinching herself - like she was dreaming.
@@wow35masterI have several brother in laws with bipolar and severe anxiety and Panic/anxiety attacks don’t happen that quickly … they also don’t instantly check their pulse - they don’t need to… they know what’s happening…she was told he died and was literally acting within 20 seconds…. She was 100% cringe…
Wasn’t his name Christian?
''I don't think I'm necessarily in trouble'' You just stabbed somebody, that's one of the worst things you can do to a human.
Definitely not one of the worst
@@DakotaofRaptors A stab is a slow, grueling death, unlike a gun shot that is quick a death. With a stab, the victim knows he is going to die, but he has to sit through every second until he bleeds out. The victim has to endure the pain, the fear, the blood, and the emotions as long as he still lives, or gets medical care. Definitely not the worst, but it is one of the worst things a human can endure.
@@nichie1931 - A gun shot is NOT always a quick death. And death from a knife wound can be quick.
I vote drowning is the most malicious thing you can do to a person and painful way to die.
She's not the brightest bulb in the pack typical Instagram bimbo
There’s some things money can’t buy- namely class and decency
Stories like this always make me happy. The universe has a perfect way of sorting things out. 😂👍🏻
Well done dude. I knew nothing about the details l am now up to speed ....
They used to come into the bar where I bartend at...I always wondered what happened to them. He was a super nice guy. She always seemed to be a bit "high and mighty" but that's pretty normal for girls like that in this town. I always wondered where they went but I just figured they had moved. I have no words....Rest in Peace Toby. I hope that his family can find some sort of peace and that she rots in jail for the rest of her unnatural life.
Wow. Thanks for sharing. 😢😢😢
When he texted "is this love going to kill me"? Wow man...this case just hurts me on another level. Most of us in late 20s crave love so much that we're willing to tolerate something that shouldn't be tolerated. Rest in peace.
Tolerating what he tolerated is amazingly dumb, not amazing.
Dude liked her money, and he was openly racist about black women, so he was clinging to her
The thing is this is not love,this is abnormal addiction...a trauma bond...definitely Toby had unresolved childhood trauma that he needed to confront and heal from before getting into relationships ...cause unresolved inner wounds especially from childhood only will attract toxic people .....and thus this abnormal narcissistic relationship that he attracted.May Toby live Forever Beautifully in Heaven 🕊
@@martuciabeauty1713 Yeah,wouldn't call it love myself either. People tend to confuse love with unresolved trauma so often.
Most people today confuse love with sex, and that's where the issues start.
@@strangetimez Who he was is who he was he spoke horribly about Black women why first that all ply now because he’s no longer here it can’t be because he can’t speak for himself because he left all them tweets behind to speak for him
Great video.
However,when you said she shouldn't need to organize her thoughts if she was planning on being truthful, I disagree...due to her obvious mental illnesses (and there are more than one, with her) her alcoholism alone, would make recalling details incredibly difficult. Alcoholics live in a sort of "between world" much like how you feel after a deeeep sleep with intense dreams... and you have a few minutes of trying to crawl out of the disorienting world you were just in - with your sleep, into reality.
That is why she has issues recounting details that would be easy for us. You add into that, her very very obvious other mental illnesses and it's no surprise to me that she has difficulty differentiating reality for her own disorganized, delusional thinking.
Sadly, she didn't get help before the murder. Or Christian would be alive today.
No mention of the drugs?
She's pure evil, I believe she did know what she was doing when she shoved the knife into Toby's chest. I hope the judicial system doesn't fail this man's family.
She 100% is insane... Calls your own man the N word in a fight. Shes horrible. How do you stay with someone like that though?
Amen!!
When I heard her story about her being given anything she ever wanted. I already knew that this is a recipe for disaster.
Nah she's just a textbook example of extreme BPD. They have no self restrain whatsoever. Secretly she knew she was in the wrong every time but was addicted to her emotions and power over the poor guy. Every relation with someone who suffers from BPD turns into a spiraling fall into drama and insanity.
I doubt that. She never in her life had to experience, that actions have consequences sometimes beyond your control and you have to limit them or at least take responsibility for the outcome. It seems the first time something major happened she couldn't turn around or neglect was sadly the loss of Christian Tobys life.
She kept calling her mother every time shit hit the fan, or was about to. Something tells me her mother was her greatest enabler. Her dad too. A major contributor to how this all panned out
Seriously. Zero lessons taught.
Her parents are walking failures
Don’t assume 😂
@@OSDDASPD hi Courtney
@@karcavida3250 hi UGLY
I really think that if there's evidence of domestic abuse in a relationship, the charges should ALWAYS be moved to first degree murder, DV ALWAYS escalates and the perpetrator is intentionally causing harm.
Damn as I watch this today just to find out that CHRIS birthday is today! WOW sad situation! HBD bro & RIP bro! What a way to go! Sad reality we all live in over social media!
I was almost in tears hearing Christian's letters. He was obviously a gentle, loving man. RIP Christian.
I agree. She certainly picked her victim.
He was very much the wrong man for such a woman.
Aka. Deserved better while she needed a man that stands up for himself and draws consequences for her bad actions. His unbending forgiveness and Kindness is what enabled her abuse to spiral this high. For it begins with hitting the chest and arms testing boindries. Finding out he had none made her realize she could stab the man and hed crawl right back to make her happy.
So i feel incredibly sorry for him he ended up with someone who didnt embrace his kindness but abused it.
what would have gotten you to cry ?
He such a simp
No he actually wasn’t.