What is depression? - Helen M. Farrell

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2015
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    Depression is the leading cause of disability in the world; in the United States, close to ten percent of adults struggle with the disease. But because it’s a mental illness, it can be a lot harder to understand than, say, high cholesterol. Helen M. Farrell examines the symptoms and treatments of depression, and gives some tips for how you might help a friend who is suffering.
    Lesson by Helen M. Farrell, animation by Artrake Studio.

Комментарии • 27 тыс.

  • @louferrari1503
    @louferrari1503 2 года назад +13554

    Imagine being unhappy with your life but not having the energy or motivation to change it. That’s depression.

    • @happyness24
      @happyness24 2 года назад +403

      exactly, that's what is happening with me right now, but one thing can't be changed in my life is my looks, I am stuck with it forever .

    • @porc1429
      @porc1429 2 года назад +362

      I want to change but i just do the same things over and over

    • @train_go_boom2065
      @train_go_boom2065 2 года назад +105

      When ever i try to change it, it gets worst so why try to get it worst faster

    • @louferrari1503
      @louferrari1503 2 года назад +131

      @@happyness24 you’d be surprised what a healthy diet, exercise, a haircut, and a clean shave/ or growing a beard can do to change a person’s looks

    • @CuongNguyen-hc6py
      @CuongNguyen-hc6py 2 года назад +25

      Hang on my friend. It sucks but we too shall pass

  • @imsamiurrahman
    @imsamiurrahman 3 года назад +5042

    depression: i want to die
    anxiety: what if i die

    • @pourtoujours3130
      @pourtoujours3130 3 года назад +9

      ruclips.net/video/XXoAGucFY0U/видео.html

    • @npc8261
      @npc8261 3 года назад +273

      I dont want to die, but I dont really mind if I would...

    • @fellicia4620
      @fellicia4620 3 года назад +58

      Double homicide

    • @jahlel.5291
      @jahlel.5291 2 года назад +4

      yes!

    • @sebastiant.3588
      @sebastiant.3588 2 года назад +39

      i'm diagnosed with mixed anxiety-depressive disorder and can relate

  • @amelialucy8778
    @amelialucy8778 Месяц назад +173

    I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.

    • @brooklynbaywatch6256
      @brooklynbaywatch6256 Месяц назад +1

      I have autism, I was diagnosed with it when I was 15. I tried shrooms and it made me function so much better.

    • @remyscott6296
      @remyscott6296 Месяц назад

      Eek I’m autistic too and might wanna try mushrooms. How do I go about it?

    • @brooklynbaywatch6256
      @brooklynbaywatch6256 Месяц назад

      Yeah doc.brentttt is your guide. Man is exceptional with anything psychedelics.

    • @BuckyBrooky
      @BuckyBrooky Месяц назад

      Hello Can he be reached on IG?

    • @brooklynbaywatch6256
      @brooklynbaywatch6256 Месяц назад

      Yes doc.brentttt

  • @hope-.
    @hope-. Год назад +160

    The scariest thing is that feeling of emptiness and numbness. I remember wanting to feel something, anything, even if it meant that I had to feel the saddest. The mere recall makes me shiver. That was scary and that was when I realised that sadness, devastation, every negative emotion is better than not feeling emotions at all.
    Love to everyone. It's hard to push through but know that you're the most precious thing in the world. Live for yourself. Don't give up. You're so strong for clicking on this video, learning about it ands still breathing. YOU ARE STRONG AND VERY AMAZING. Sending love and hope and prayers for you to get outta depression soon. ❤️

  • @katashi6293
    @katashi6293 5 лет назад +25862

    Sometime I just want to be in a deep comma and sleep all the years leaving all worries behind.

  • @jackma8738
    @jackma8738 4 года назад +15563

    I just hate that feeling when everyone else is having fun and your alone depressed with no one to talk with

    • @myciaoww_
      @myciaoww_ 4 года назад +712

      Well i feel it every time in school 🙃

    • @danigroot2250
      @danigroot2250 4 года назад +145

      This, just this for at least the past month

    • @valksasss
      @valksasss 4 года назад +64

      Yup I feel the same way

    • @ahfreshair9242
      @ahfreshair9242 4 года назад +189

      I understand completely. The feeling of loneliness is unbearable when you need someone to be there for you in your time of need.
      Friends should know when you’re upset and not leave you behind to go do something fun without you..but they won’t know that you’re not okay unless you tell them. Not *everyone* understands when you’re upset, some people are blind to knowing people’s actual *true* emotions even if they’re a close friend that you care dearly about.
      If you need me I’m here for you.

    • @AhmedMohamed-hq5op
      @AhmedMohamed-hq5op 4 года назад +35

      This is my me at my school

  • @xspectorpatronum5440
    @xspectorpatronum5440 Год назад +678

    The fact that this is one of Ted Ed’s most popular video really tells us a lot about our society

    • @miruxa.
      @miruxa. 10 месяцев назад +26

      It means society is curious.
      Let me help the way you view:
      The fact that the infinite hotel paradox video in this channel has the same amount of views as this video really tells us something about your comment.

    • @PMangoDraws
      @PMangoDraws 21 день назад +2

      @@miruxa. I watched this to see if I am depressed or just feeling like that

  • @jordanlewis5666
    @jordanlewis5666 18 дней назад +233

    Psilocybin has been shown to reduce anxiety in patients with life-threatening illnesses.

    • @shokotatsuno-p5497
      @shokotatsuno-p5497 18 дней назад

      Golden teachers has been my go-to mushroom for months, it has helped in my recovery journey

    • @ricomanuel7567
      @ricomanuel7567 18 дней назад

      Looking at the good effects of psilocybin mushrooms on depression I had a test, the effects of just one dose of psilocybin mushroom gave me an encouraging result.

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 18 дней назад

      After my trip yesterday, I did understand why mushrooms are praised... you can have some beautiful experiences on them..

    • @popkanchinlobos9634
      @popkanchinlobos9634 18 дней назад

      y'all talk about the benefits of mushrooms, but no one talks about where to fetch from.

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 18 дней назад

      𝕴𝖓𝖘𝖙𝖆𝖌𝖗𝖆𝖒

  • @xfilesfoxisdead7979
    @xfilesfoxisdead7979 5 лет назад +3582

    Worst thing about depression is lost interest in things that you used to love aka anhedonia. You just wake up on the morning and You have nothing to hang onto ....

    • @Olivia-W
      @Olivia-W 5 лет назад +154

      You just sort of... exist. Like a zombie. Yeah. Things like moving a hand become so, so hard.
      I have a friend who sometimes forgets to breathe.

    • @mohcinemahdar504
      @mohcinemahdar504 5 лет назад +9

      I ve been like that for the past week

    • @anuraag7075
      @anuraag7075 5 лет назад +2

      Exactly......

    • @SilverDragonEyess
      @SilverDragonEyess 5 лет назад +8

      Try years. Its horrible

    • @lordbeerus2062
      @lordbeerus2062 5 лет назад +3

      true mate

  • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
    @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 3 месяца назад +229

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @steceymorgan814
      @steceymorgan814 3 месяца назад +3

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 3 месяца назад +2

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @steceymorgan814
      @steceymorgan814 3 месяца назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 3 месяца назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @Nerjiswerjis
    @Nerjiswerjis Год назад +273

    I hope everyone in the comments are ok, its ok to ask for help. I hope we can all make it on this journey.

  • @pippiman
    @pippiman 3 года назад +7259

    everyday is just constantly trying to find a reason to live, hoping you’ll find one before you get tired of looking

    • @gomomon1895
      @gomomon1895 3 года назад +15

      exactly

    • @shahhayderzaidi4445
      @shahhayderzaidi4445 3 года назад +11

      We help you to get out of depression by medication we do online meditation sessions

    • @curiosityshop2297
      @curiosityshop2297 3 года назад +55

      I still haven’t found one.

    • @ericrose8363
      @ericrose8363 3 года назад +8

      Yo you need help.

    • @Cookiedooough_
      @Cookiedooough_ 3 года назад +27

      I have a reason to live... I wnted to make my family succes and after that I could rest now... Been thinking that since child... Ive been like this for awhile I hate myslef tbh When Im growing up i started to hate myself and i was haooy back then But when Things got Bad my Brain wont stop thinking Stuff Thats bad for me and Also I keep wanting to die but I dont also want to cuz Im still not Doing The reason I want to live...

  • @adityathakur6435
    @adityathakur6435 3 года назад +2062

    Depression is like being in a another universe. Like living in a infinite emptiness, loneliness, in a void.

    • @buckets3628
      @buckets3628 3 года назад +4

      I used to get that exact vision all the time man

    • @Alexis-uz3hd
      @Alexis-uz3hd 3 года назад +2

      Like the upsidedown in stranger things

    • @khushinaik1969
      @khushinaik1969 3 года назад +1

      I am in the state of commiting suicide What shuuld I do to commit suicide

    • @rodrigofiallos669
      @rodrigofiallos669 2 года назад +3

      @@khushinaik1969 please don’t do it. There is hope! People care about you! Chat with me if you want, and need someone to talk to!

    • @shivaprasada4177
      @shivaprasada4177 2 года назад +4

      @@khushinaik1969 stay strong my friend..this is not gonna last forever...time will change.

  • @santiagotorres7552
    @santiagotorres7552 Год назад +94

    I have watched this video so many times in the past few months because it makes me feel like someone understands how I feel. It is like a checklist of what I go through every day, people don't seem to understand that is not sadness, particularly those I care about the most.

    • @Anonymous_dumdum
      @Anonymous_dumdum Месяц назад

      It just strikes so well when someone understands. When we wake up everyday, it is always like "back to sadness"

  • @lee-yc5os
    @lee-yc5os Год назад +34

    This video makes me bawl my eyes out every time I watch it, it explains exactly how I feel in words I can't put together

    • @mouslimalg7771
      @mouslimalg7771 Год назад +1

      please read the Quran, it changed my life

  • @dantemcmillan6337
    @dantemcmillan6337 3 года назад +43233

    Depression is like having a mind that wants to die, but a body that wants to live...

    • @rajats67
      @rajats67 3 года назад +1168

      I can feel this

    • @nikitabansal9747
      @nikitabansal9747 3 года назад +1492

      Oh my God. This statement is what I have been feeling for years but could never put in words.

    • @sharonheskey1418
      @sharonheskey1418 3 года назад +11

      m.ruclips.net/video/5mmV-5BnWv8/видео.html a

    • @oya6118
      @oya6118 3 года назад +273

      Ye
      Inside dead outside live

    • @JustMarie260
      @JustMarie260 3 года назад +64

      Spot on

  • @ryugujiken998
    @ryugujiken998 3 года назад +18253

    Saying "Why are you depressed? Life is so beautiful"
    is like saying
    "Why do you have asthma?
    there is so much oxygen to breathe!"

    • @eternaldarkness3139
      @eternaldarkness3139 2 года назад +541

      Most comments here either made me angry at their dismissive nature, or made me sad because of how relatable they are.
      This one made me laugh. Thanks

    • @ohshanana2397
      @ohshanana2397 2 года назад +145

      I like this comment 🎖you get an award

    • @cloudboy08
      @cloudboy08 2 года назад +50

      @@ohshanana2397 sounds like we got a redditor here

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/XWvITX1c-S4/видео.html

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад +2

      @@ohshanana2397 ruclips.net/video/XWvITX1c-S4/видео.html

  • @Dr_Sheeda
    @Dr_Sheeda Год назад +28

    been suffering from depression and anxiety ever since i turned 17, its been ten years now. recently sought treatment. doing great now.. dont hesitate to reach out for medical help, you deserve help!

    • @muhammadusman5521
      @muhammadusman5521 3 месяца назад

      I'm depressed because I failed on my academic career. I can't see any hope in life. And I am gonna be like this forever

    • @Dr_Sheeda
      @Dr_Sheeda 3 месяца назад

      @@muhammadusman5521 setbacks are common. Failure in goals is also common. You must process your emotions and explore what tou xan do next.

    • @muhammadusman5521
      @muhammadusman5521 3 месяца назад

      @@Dr_Sheeda I'm good at programming, computer networking and also do freelancing but my parents are not happy. They want me to complete my degree and I can't go back there it would take me a lot of time. I applied to a thousand institutions abroad but no one is accepting me. I just want to end here I can't do anything. I worked hard on programming did a lot of work but still I'm not reaching anywhere

  • @Spiritryptamine
    @Spiritryptamine Год назад +27

    Once, I believe I was depressed, during my teenager years to be precise. It was a dark period of my life. I couldn't muster up the strength to do anything worthwhile. Studying was impossible. But the worst part, I think, was the persistant flow of negative thoughts. It was overwhelming and destroyed my confidence in seconds.
    At the moment, I'm in a good place in life. Through therapy, I gained a lot of control of the flow of my thoughts : I don't control my thoughts, but I am able to dismiss the negative, argue against it and, eventually, have positive opinions about myself and what I do.

  • @Wolf-ny6bz
    @Wolf-ny6bz 4 года назад +10286

    I’m not suicidal I don’t want to die, I just want to close my eyes and feel alright

    • @stoofypoof7998
      @stoofypoof7998 4 года назад +48

      You're loved.
      ruclips.net/video/Xr-r855IXoY/видео.html

    • @prayfortheworld7960
      @prayfortheworld7960 3 года назад +88

      Yes.Its hard.

    • @whitefawn4196
      @whitefawn4196 3 года назад +38

      Thisss

    • @aquabitxh9770
      @aquabitxh9770 3 года назад +108

      Lmao did you took that from the song "suicidal thoughts"?😂

    • @Smithster80
      @Smithster80 3 года назад +52

      I want to close my eyes and not feel suffering anymore

  • @barackdwaynecenajohson3289
    @barackdwaynecenajohson3289 2 года назад +2216

    "Im tired of living but scared of dying"

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад +30

      Keep faith we are born to win. We creative from creator god. We are fearless from fearless god. Serve souls from heart. Be kind be honest be truthful. Fear will go away. When you do everything right god said fear not allowed to even touch you. Faith keep us safe.

    • @TheTrueAdonis
      @TheTrueAdonis 2 года назад +3

      @@gurgurgur except fear is a thing tho

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/a5yKHVtAn-o/видео.html

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад

      @@TheTrueAdonis ruclips.net/video/a5yKHVtAn-o/видео.html

    • @nobody-xg8ep
      @nobody-xg8ep 2 года назад +5

      damn same

  • @scrumptious7266
    @scrumptious7266 Год назад +38

    6 years later and as a psychologist this video is AMAZINGLY instructive. Congratulations 👏

  • @SUZANNE-jp7cd
    @SUZANNE-jp7cd Год назад +649

    “Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.” Best definition ever heard, TYVM.

    • @dukeofpuzzles8502
      @dukeofpuzzles8502 Год назад +27

      unless it keeps coming back, then its a permanent solution to a temporary but reoccurring problem. if i was to describe it, it'd be like moving away because badgers keep coming in your back garden during the winter.

    • @jcjohncurtis
      @jcjohncurtis Год назад +43

      Depression is incredibly persistent for a so called temporary problem though

    • @thefunkiestswag
      @thefunkiestswag Год назад +1

      @@dukeofpuzzles8502 wdym? i thought you meant after you commited suicide you revive

    • @ArpitMehta2006
      @ArpitMehta2006 Год назад +1

      yeah and i think many like me would favour the permanent solution to this heart crushing problem

    • @kry_ses
      @kry_ses Год назад

      Depression may collapse but its effects probably will chase u

  • @kasandraborgess
    @kasandraborgess 4 года назад +1625

    The worst is when you know you’re suffering but can’t afford to get help so you get by by feeling numb and pretending

    • @MrSrvpl
      @MrSrvpl 4 года назад +10

      Guys i had depression due to work stress and I have survived it by my own without any medication or medical help. This is for the people here who are having depression, running thoughts, sleepless nights, bad dreams and anxiety. Try 'mantra meditation' by chanting 'omm namah shivay'. You can see RUclips videos about chanting 'om namah shivay' 108 times etc (there are many videos regarding this) and follow the tone and tempo. Then sit in a relaxed meditation pose and chant it in very low tone so that you can feel your voice vibration in the throat, chest and brain. Focus on vibration and feel it. Do it 10-15 mins (you can do more time if want) every day before sleeping or at dawn (or many times you want). you can feel peacefulness in brain and feel that every running thoughts and bad thoughts are tearing out from brain. You can feel the change after within 4-5 days and within one month you can remove the depression completely (at least in my case). PS: I am not spreading any religion here. So if you are comfortable with it, then follow it. I come to know about it from internet also. You can dm me on Instagram @sourabhpal03 if it is helpful for you. I will glad to know that I can change someone's life. Thank you :)

    • @sherylg2601
      @sherylg2601 4 года назад +6

      This is a true story of a lady who came out of eighteen years of depression : m.ruclips.net/video/2QJwE9ed8xc/видео.html
      I even have her contact number if any of you wanna talk to her. But please don't give up. Your lives are so precious.

    • @sugoish9461
      @sugoish9461 4 года назад +5

      @@sherylg2601 You seem like such a sweet and kindhearted person going around sharing encouraging words and hope like this. I hope your life will be filled with lots of love and happiness! 💛💛☺️

    • @sherylg2601
      @sherylg2601 4 года назад +2

      @@sugoish9461 Same to you

    • @ranjimunna2205
      @ranjimunna2205 4 года назад

      I felt that

  • @hineraable
    @hineraable 2 года назад +17093

    I don't know who originally say this, but for me, it was extremely accurate:
    "Depression feels like badly wanting to go home, even when you are already there".

    • @larslemn4835
      @larslemn4835 2 года назад +426

      Somewhere nobody knew you.. Like a fresh start

    • @quin642
      @quin642 2 года назад +94

      This is so true

    • @Tdubbz44
      @Tdubbz44 2 года назад +185

      WOW. I'm blown away at how such a simple description hits the nail directly on the head.
      I'm copy & pasting this to put in my gallery.
      Thanks man.

    • @nootnewt04
      @nootnewt04 2 года назад +76

      Oh my god this made me cry. I- can't comprehend how much I relate to that.

    • @noobovsky420
      @noobovsky420 2 года назад +2

      Lol

  • @_bigsimpforarmin
    @_bigsimpforarmin Год назад +34

    Idk why but I’m obsessed with his voice

    • @Nerjiswerjis
      @Nerjiswerjis Год назад +2

      Its so soothing, especially after hearing that one tiktok audio of this video and that slow song

    • @necrosis6037
      @necrosis6037 Год назад

      @johnj5783shut up already

    • @legitimate_rice
      @legitimate_rice 4 месяца назад

      LMAO FR

  • @shittyworld5079
    @shittyworld5079 Год назад +52

    It's like I'm not even living for myself, but just living for my family because the thought of knowing that my parents would get very devastated when I'm gone is the only thing that is anchoring me to this world. Maybe, this explained why I've been feeling like I don't have any goals in my life or things that I'd like to achieve. Maybe, it's the feeling of what good having dreams or goals do anyway if you're not going to live long enough to make them come true.

    • @seaveller
      @seaveller Год назад +2

      sending hugs from an online stranger🫂.
      i hope ur alright and soon find your purpose (actual live not just hold on dear life for your parents).You may seek help from people you trust.😊
      best of luckk🍀.

    • @Nailpol
      @Nailpol Год назад +1

      Chad same 😭

    • @Nailpol
      @Nailpol Год назад +2

      I've always had This imaginary picture of my future self. Later I realised that my life is diverting in another route, I am not afraid of taking that route but I'm afraid that the picture i have always remembered will stick with me as another person who i imagine everything I want in my life as and do absolutely nothing. I have some imaginary sides of mine and I cannot satisfy any of them . I know there is something wrong in my head so if my imaginary future self becomes my present copy of mine I swear I will go insane because that's how thoughtfully I have created a future self.

    • @user-ko2xu6ff8l
      @user-ko2xu6ff8l Год назад +1

      That's what I think too

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh Год назад +1

      My god, you just described me to perfection. I feel like I'm just waiting for things to become too terrible to bear as I age and become even more lonely until I'm free to finally let myself go

  • @sahana4498
    @sahana4498 4 года назад +4204

    When the comments section understands you better than your friends and family :'(

    • @arnold20139
      @arnold20139 4 года назад +87

      Yea in know that, My parents literally tell any of my doctors that I don’t need it. Cause to them, I don’t have it even with the doctors have evidence for it.
      And when I try to get a therapist, they literally tell them to quit calling.
      I hope the best for you.

    • @depression6261
      @depression6261 4 года назад +21

      ...and when some comments understands you even worse then your friends and family

    • @mindfreak5360
      @mindfreak5360 4 года назад +3

      Love ❤

    • @bijanmahata3025
      @bijanmahata3025 4 года назад +1

      Haha

    • @DietDrKelp-ty3fh
      @DietDrKelp-ty3fh 4 года назад +31

      Sahana Roy I totally get you. I’m scared to tell my family. If I tell my friends, they’ll just claim they’re depressed too. I haven’t been professionally diagnosed with depression, but, sometimes I fantasize (literally FANTASIZE) about my death which I don’t know is really weird, psychotic, or is just really weird lol. I’ve been hiding dangerous objects under my bed, and, just recently, my mom got me a counselor because she thinks there’s something wrong with my mental health. I don’t like my counselor, I think she’s kind of mean, and, anyway, I’ve found myself not even wanting to talk to people anymore so that could be part of it. I don’t know if things are going to get better or worse. I think I need help, but I don’t want help. I feel like at this point, the only people I can talk to are amazing people like you, who don’t joke around about this, and make such relatable and heartwarming comments. That’s why I came here :)

  • @Andrea-gz8pi
    @Andrea-gz8pi 3 года назад +2418

    The fact that i can't even say 'im depressed' because now apparently it's a trend.

    • @ilikedarknes3351
      @ilikedarknes3351 3 года назад +292

      Especially when your friend jokes about depression 24/7

    • @Andrea-gz8pi
      @Andrea-gz8pi 3 года назад +13

      Ong^

    • @peeppaa1997
      @peeppaa1997 3 года назад +11

      This right here I-🥲

    • @tanvikhare9710
      @tanvikhare9710 3 года назад +73

      @@ilikedarknes3351 my god, I remember the day I learnt that making jokes on depression is not funny. I regret my words from before then

    • @yashikasharma8455
      @yashikasharma8455 3 года назад +69

      @@tanvikhare9710 You stopped, that's enough!😄

  • @hannanora9507
    @hannanora9507 4 месяца назад +293

    I could remember several years ago I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Was actually addicted to cigarettes and alcohol. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 11 years totally clean. Shrooms are God- sents.

    • @RogerStevens-hs4ju
      @RogerStevens-hs4ju 4 месяца назад +13

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @BrayWilliam-jq6wv
      @BrayWilliam-jq6wv 4 месяца назад +4

      Can you help me with the reliable source. I'm 64 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Greece. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

    • @SokMark
      @SokMark 4 месяца назад +14

      YES very sure of Dr.raymycology. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @WilliamSok-ib1ms
      @WilliamSok-ib1ms 4 месяца назад +9

      Ive done shrooms last month in my house. It taught me how severely traumatized I was from alcohol. I healed from many mental traumas from my past and was able to forgive, let go. Shrooms to me is a remedy not a vice. I even felt more refreshed the morning after. So no hangovers. No depression mood for days. No anxiety.l now have a more calm mind

    • @BillySnyder-eq2he
      @BillySnyder-eq2he 4 месяца назад +1

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @alcerdemon9768
    @alcerdemon9768 4 года назад +4911

    Me: **turns 12**
    My Serotonin: *Aight, am I head out*

    • @serian6748
      @serian6748 4 года назад +37

      Amma head out

    • @trayce5233
      @trayce5233 4 года назад +6

      When ur b day

    • @saiunknown_2718
      @saiunknown_2718 4 года назад +28

      Similar but when I hit puberty instead, anxiety and puberty don’t mix well together

    • @Venlysi
      @Venlysi 4 года назад +15

      me when i turned 10

    • @thegirrafe2828
      @thegirrafe2828 4 года назад +2

      I am the 1000 like lol

  • @percyjackson4333
    @percyjackson4333 3 года назад +26812

    "I don't wanna die, but sometimes I wish I'd never been born at all."
    -Freddie Mercury.

  • @relaxationviewchannel
    @relaxationviewchannel Год назад +23

    Music will always be an important tool in relieving anxiety and depression!

  • @QuynhQuynh-no3nv
    @QuynhQuynh-no3nv Месяц назад +2

    I think the best way to overcome the sadness is accept all the things happen to you, even negative thoughts. For the reason, I had some experiences related to depresssion, and I chose try to escaped from it. It took a very long time I realized I was not happy with my life. Then I learn how to accept with my real emotion and respect all of that. The result is I feel better, and my thoughts is more relieve. I used this way to give advice for my friend and she said that she become more comfortable with her life.
    Therefore, one of the biggest lesson I have learn in my life is love myself positive slowly 😊❤

  • @EinsteinsChalkboard
    @EinsteinsChalkboard 3 года назад +644

    It's not about a will to die, it's about the lack of will to keep living

    • @fhhoechry8479
      @fhhoechry8479 3 года назад +2

      Hi!
      Jesus Christ healed me from depression. I know He can do the same for you. Please come to Jesus. He died for your sins on a cross. Please repent of your sins and come to Him. "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Matthew 28:11

    • @EinsteinsChalkboard
      @EinsteinsChalkboard 3 года назад +13

      @@fhhoechry8479 Im good

    • @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4
      @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/92viHiKMUhk/видео.html

    • @thunderbust1260
      @thunderbust1260 3 года назад

      @@fhhoechry8479 help pls

    • @icecoolguita
      @icecoolguita 3 года назад +1

      ​@@fhhoechry8479 Jesus really loves us more than any person ever could

  • @piyg69
    @piyg69 3 года назад +3003

    The worst thing is when people joke about being depressed when they're really not. Seriously, it's not a joke.

    • @miked0073
      @miked0073 3 года назад +54

      They dont just understand
      ..

    • @miked0073
      @miked0073 3 года назад +12

      @@piyg69 just tell her gently and slowly, I think she might understand...

    • @shaikm5151
      @shaikm5151 3 года назад +99

      It can be made into a funny joke but when it’s time to be serious it’s time to be serious. Dark humor is still funny but when people actually need help at the time they deserve jt

    • @brennacyanne7276
      @brennacyanne7276 3 года назад +40

      I cope w humor, but non depressed ppl shouldn't joke abt it.

    • @maryb4493
      @maryb4493 3 года назад +6

      sometimes they don't know, they think they actually have depressioon but it's more serious than they think

  • @Everleigh29
    @Everleigh29 21 день назад +1

    I had 8 of those symptoms back then everyone said "that's not depression you were just sad" I would cry in secret but never shed a single tear in front of them. Then later i stopped talking to anyone. Not a single word left my mouth for 5 days when I was too much into it. After i got out of that environment and came back home to my family things got better. Sometimes you just need to be around people who love you❤ that helps a lot. They somehow gave me hope.

  • @Thats_it_97
    @Thats_it_97 28 дней назад +2

    I just watched this video out of curiosity of what depression is… since I’ve seen many subjects about suiciding people due to it. Stay strong everyone, stay strong.

    • @s..6472
      @s..6472 27 дней назад +1

      Thanku😔
      Thanku so much friend
      Atleast someone is there for me

  • @pusheenosaurous3284
    @pusheenosaurous3284 4 года назад +10880

    Did you hear that? Depression ISN’T a personality trait.

    • @NoTaboos
      @NoTaboos 4 года назад +31

      Yes it is.

    • @mycommentisgonnaruinyourday122
      @mycommentisgonnaruinyourday122 4 года назад +913

      @@NoTaboos it isn't, it has to do something with the brain it's not just boo boo I'm sad

    • @Vicky-di5kp
      @Vicky-di5kp 4 года назад +522

      @@NoTaboos it's not going to someone and be like: hi! Im depressed

    • @wateryoutalkingabout6113
      @wateryoutalkingabout6113 4 года назад +211

      felt cute i think im depressedq

    • @NoTaboos
      @NoTaboos 4 года назад +9

      @@PaperSpoons No I didn't watch it. It's a video only for victims.

  • @flappawaffle2787
    @flappawaffle2787 4 года назад +13633

    You know what makes it worse? The fact that you're not able to say "I'm depressed" without feeling guilt or certainty because in today's society it's a "trend". You can't openly talk about it with someone becuase you haven't experienced this thing and you have this status and so forth. Being told "just cheer up there's so much to be happy about" is like telling a person with asthma "just breathe, there's so much air"

    • @Summer-sx7xl
      @Summer-sx7xl 4 года назад +314

      Same with panic attacks. I’ve never told anyone outside my family and therapist because that reduces my credibility. I don’t think that most people get why I don’t show fear

    • @kbpanchal22
      @kbpanchal22 4 года назад +25

      Yess.. Absolutely True..💯💓

    • @12bushraakhtar7c3
      @12bushraakhtar7c3 4 года назад +14

      You okay

    • @bibi_bear
      @bibi_bear 4 года назад +20

      I felt that I my soul

    • @FactFusionU
      @FactFusionU 3 года назад +7

      I write my feelings into poetry. Perhaps you would relate?
      ruclips.net/video/Cfhy7vFtMMs/видео.html

  • @dark-ghost5455
    @dark-ghost5455 9 месяцев назад +13

    maybe no one will read this but im writing my situation im a 17 year old ( close being 18)who lives in florida that has no friends no one ever messages me or checks up on me its been like that since i started high school , so when i graduated high school i didnt start college in fall which is when everyone starts college instead i chose an esl program for 2 months to try and make friends but it turned out that this program is filled with 25-30 -40 and even 50 aged people thats why i regret signing up for the esl program i wish i went to college in fall 2023 and met people that are my age, but for now im alone , i eat alone i hang out with myself when i see friends hanging out together while im out i pretend im on the phone talking to someone when in reallity there is no one to talk to.

    • @mickeypearce244
      @mickeypearce244 9 месяцев назад

      How are you doing today friend? Hope you are well. God bless you

    • @jasonwang1471
      @jasonwang1471 2 месяца назад

      I'm sorry to hear about your story. I hope you are currently doing well. We will make through this, together

  • @mariaeduardadias3935
    @mariaeduardadias3935 10 месяцев назад +6

    Depression is a really hard illness. I as twelve years old when my moms was diagnosticated with it. I barely remember how the things were in that time; however she usually tell me about the feelings and sensations she had in this period, and exemplifies that teraphy saves her life.

  • @POSEYPLUS
    @POSEYPLUS 5 лет назад +955

    I dont even enjoy being near people anymore, and I feel nothing but anger and sadness

    • @davidmorgan758
      @davidmorgan758 5 лет назад +18

      Yxung FX If you don’t want to talk to someone in person, try calling a depression hotline or joining a chat room for depression. I truly hope you feel happy again one day

    • @egg3288
      @egg3288 5 лет назад +29

      Same here...I kinda miss the old naive me....

    • @mohamoodabdirisak8749
      @mohamoodabdirisak8749 5 лет назад +1

      Research ISLAM and you will find peaceful life .Am not here to troll but just consider what I say please .thanks

    • @ashyy6819
      @ashyy6819 5 лет назад +1

      Yxung FX
      anime profile picture BTW

    • @suga-free3111
      @suga-free3111 5 лет назад +6

      Same here I feel anger and sadness all the time im literally numb and im just used to it :/

  • @98Dreadboy
    @98Dreadboy 2 года назад +934

    I'm not suicidal I just feel an overwhelming sense of hopelessness and dread, I feel hollow and like I have no control over my own life

    • @commie3393
      @commie3393 2 года назад +22

      Just remember that i love you brother i dont know you but i care for u and love u pls stay strong for ur family that loves you

    • @ultraferal6138
      @ultraferal6138 2 года назад +7

      We’re all in this together. I might not know you personally, but I genuinely do feel concerned over your circumstance. If there’s anything you need or want to talk about, or if you feel overwhelmed, I’ll always be here to lend you an ear. I really wish you all the best in your future endeavours.

    • @BlissAnimations
      @BlissAnimations 2 года назад +8

      Like the video said if you have 5 or more of these symptoms it's depression. Suicidal thoughts are just one of them. If it isn't depression but you still feel terrible the label shouldn't matter anyways. Consider talking to someone you know or trust, and if it is really bad get therapy. The pandemic has made a lot of us felt depressed so what you're going through is normal.

    • @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363
      @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 2 года назад +2

      Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
      Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
      ruclips.net/video/_C6lNThb2cU/видео.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this

    • @pulina2909
      @pulina2909 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/OFKjOcFgMSI/видео.html ...

  • @sadcat7758
    @sadcat7758 Год назад +5

    The voice the animation the script everything is just so great..

  • @sealver5970
    @sealver5970 Год назад +4

    When I'm very depressed, I've always thought of
    "I'm worthless", "I'm useless"
    and it escalates whenever I make mistakes
    "I'm good-for-nothing", "I'm doing my best but I only worsen"
    and at some point, it degressed to
    "Everything will be a lot better if I wasn't here"
    and maybe, if I wasn't that mentally stable, I wouldn't probably be in this world by now saying
    "For the sake of everyone who I dragged down", "Everything and everyone will roll off better without me"

  • @Natslocker
    @Natslocker 3 года назад +768

    “I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”

    • @GhostMonkey772
      @GhostMonkey772 3 года назад +9

      I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real it’s impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES! ruclips.net/video/EXQGTInPpZU/видео.html
      "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest"

    • @harivinayak5252
      @harivinayak5252 3 года назад

      1. Try not to think about anything (COMPLETE ABSENCE OF MIND) for ten minutes.
      2. If this is hard do 10 pushups and now try not to think anything. Since you have depreciated your energy your brain will not think that fast and you can make it much easier not to think about anything.
      3.After 10 minutes focus on onlh posiive things .If you do it correctly, it might be hard for you to thing about negative things since you have shutdown your mind for sonetime. Know think aboug your dreams and continue.
      4.If you cant do what you want then you will
      This might seem absurd but hey there is no loss.
      Hope you get well soon mate.
      Respect
      You csn try taking a shoeer before doing this and it might be more effective.
      (I am starting to think i have mad psychology skills of maybe its just that wuerantine philosophy and psychology boost)

    • @autumnthewolf5382
      @autumnthewolf5382 3 года назад +2

      Ik how it feels it's so scary all you ever want is to feel better 💔

    • @farhannoor3433
      @farhannoor3433 3 года назад +2

      Are these words from a book or something? I see you've quoted.

    • @Natslocker
      @Natslocker 3 года назад +5

      @@farhannoor3433 No it's just a famous quote I don't think it's from a book or what not

  • @trayce5233
    @trayce5233 4 года назад +9357

    I'm don't want to live but I'm afraid of dying

    • @94D33M
      @94D33M 4 года назад +68

      @@KannaTheGamer have you found any reason yet ?

    • @mpumelelochaosndlovu9134
      @mpumelelochaosndlovu9134 4 года назад +584

      Same here, I wish for my death nearly every day but I just can't do it.

    • @94D33M
      @94D33M 4 года назад +120

      @@mpumelelochaosndlovu9134 don't worry buddy everyone will get it someday

    • @njr1098
      @njr1098 4 года назад +43

      Damn

    • @McMerlin11
      @McMerlin11 4 года назад +33

      Trayce Baird Same dude, same. It’s hard.

  • @user-cn2dh3fr3y
    @user-cn2dh3fr3y Год назад +7

    I wanted to open this up to my family.But my family is the reason why I had depression.I'm still depress right now.I do smile alot and was called "The ball of sunshine" in my school.But noone knew I had depression,they just think I had a perfect life.Well,I wish I do.I hope one day I'll be fine and healthy.Hope I get a good therapist too..

  • @h2amster328
    @h2amster328 Год назад

    i have seen this video before i was treated for depression and after and currently in treatment. and i am glad that i sought for help and was able to. i am happy now. and i hope you guys are happy as well.

  • @toiletman1932
    @toiletman1932 3 года назад +718

    dealing with depression is especially hard when the environment you’re in barely helps you and just acts like it’s not even there

    • @CoachDavidAdes
      @CoachDavidAdes 3 года назад +1

      yezzir

    • @sharonheskey1418
      @sharonheskey1418 3 года назад

      m.ruclips.net/video/5mmV-5BnWv8/видео.html a

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious 3 года назад +1

      Then I will try to help. 🙏 First, dare I ask, what is stopping you from taking action? And of course, what would you like to have? What can be done for now? To start.

    • @toiletman1932
      @toiletman1932 3 года назад +1

      @@yoursubconscious wow thanks for actually caring i never expected this lol, things have actually gotten better since i made this comment and i am now in a more understanding environment

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious 3 года назад +1

      @@toiletman1932 great to hear! just remember the ups and downs are part of life. And often the best stories 😉

  • @psy-lion
    @psy-lion 8 лет назад +489

    Been struggling with it almost 4 years. Can't even remember how is it like to have a happy or just a normal life. It's like a demon in my head which raises only negative stuff, eats my energy. Wish i could go back in time to just get the old feelings and the view of life.

    • @FriendlyCommenter
      @FriendlyCommenter 8 лет назад +5

      Well... As I always say to my friend. Keep your chin up someone always will love you and you always have something to live for. Life is like lemonade, if it's too sour, add some sugar

    • @alyxice8191
      @alyxice8191 8 лет назад +1

      At least you have a wish to get your positive feelings back, that's a good sign. Do you feel like nothing excites you, nothing seems new..? Like something is always pushing you to the ground? Only when we were kids, discovering life, those were the times when we would appreciate little things, and those little things would make us happy.

    • @thefeerwasabi
      @thefeerwasabi 8 лет назад +5

      Hey. I've been struggling with this for 10 years. Things got worse since 3 years ago. I feel terrible right now. And I don't really know why I am typing this...
      I... I only hope things will get better soon... For everyone.

    • @safeplace7037
      @safeplace7037 7 лет назад

      get medical help or see a therapist don't be scared or why they there to help

    • @DanielAlvarez-he9jq
      @DanielAlvarez-he9jq 7 лет назад +2

      Fer Abaroa I feel like I've struggled with it for my whole life. I can't really remember living without it, and I feel hopeless about it. Thankfully, I do have someone I can talk to, even if he is not a therapist, he knows what it feels like and understands me. I would suggest talking to someone if you haven't yet. And keep your head up!

  • @yy5678y
    @yy5678y 5 месяцев назад +2

    when my depression was really really bad I couldn't understand this video's content, but now I understand it and even that my depression gets better than before.

  • @moony__9821
    @moony__9821 Месяц назад +1

    For anybody who needs this, as someone who has struggled and still struggles with depression, one thing that helps is finding the small things. It could just be a small action, like moving across your house to sit somewhere else. For me, I make a breakfast that makes me feel just a bit better. Don't expect for things to feel good again instantly, but eventually the small things get bigger and I have found that by slowing down and finding these joys or comforts, life feels more livable. One day at a time❤

  • @whatrysees8795
    @whatrysees8795 2 года назад +4343

    I have depression and anxiety and for me, it was difficult to open this topic up to my parents because the last time I tried my mom said "Why are you depressed? What's there to be depressed about? Your life is so good.". I remember telling my therapist "I am tired of everything, but I don't know what everything is.".

    • @SomeDude_
      @SomeDude_ 2 года назад +127

      Damn, I hope your doing good

    • @viktorthevictor6240
      @viktorthevictor6240 2 года назад +194

      I've had similar experiences with my mom. I don't know if I should feel angry that she dismisses my problems, or if I should feel empathetic because I know she's dealing with her own set of them.

    • @Am0ha
      @Am0ha 2 года назад +19

      @@viktorthevictor6240 definitely neither try not to get upset by that

    • @Shiro-pi4gy
      @Shiro-pi4gy 2 года назад +171

      "Why are you depressed? What's there to be depressed about? Your life is so good." this is exactly what my parent's said and that felt like a stab on the heart

    • @harshityadav.17
      @harshityadav.17 2 года назад +7

      @@Shiro-pi4gy mee too

  • @Someone-hj2mn
    @Someone-hj2mn 5 лет назад +3374

    "if you have at least five of those symptoms-"
    Oh boy I have nine of them

    • @breakingthechains3222
      @breakingthechains3222 5 лет назад +25

      My channel helps dealing with depression

    • @rajum83
      @rajum83 5 лет назад +1

      Cemil PCMR .hi I had similar problems ...I over came that... I found out lot of ideas to over come depression... if you want I can share it with you and help you out

    • @supercarlwin5517
      @supercarlwin5517 5 лет назад +12

      i have 30

    • @littlebanana4108
      @littlebanana4108 5 лет назад +12

      I’m not sure how many there were but I have every single one

    • @lilpup1414
      @lilpup1414 5 лет назад +6

      I have 57

  • @bilalkaya1778
    @bilalkaya1778 Год назад +10

    Another excellent video! As a psychology student I can definitely say that to struggle with depression is not easy. I heard from one of my teachers a patient who was crying because she ran out of shampoo. If you have 4 or more depression indications it would be healty to apply to a mental health professional. The world may not be as dark as you see.

  • @evrimzanatas
    @evrimzanatas 5 месяцев назад +3

    I hope people learn how to treat someone who is depressed

  • @yolk7460
    @yolk7460 3 года назад +378

    I miss the times I could feel happy, the times I didn't feel so down all the time and I didn't have anxiety all the time

    • @harivinayak5252
      @harivinayak5252 3 года назад +5

      1. Try not to think about anything (COMPLETE ABSENCE OF MIND) for ten minutes.
      2. If this is hard do 10 pushups and now try not to think anything. Since you have depreciated your energy your brain will not think that fast and you can make it much easier not to think about anything.
      3.After 10 minutes focus on onlh posiive things .If you do it correctly, it might be hard for you to thing about negative things since you have shutdown your mind for sonetime. Know think aboug your dreams and continue.
      4.If you cant do what you want then you will
      This might seem absurd but hey there is no loss.
      Hope you get well soon mate.
      Respect
      You csn try taking a shoeer before doing this and it might be more effective.
      (I am starting to think i have mad psychology skills of maybe its just that wuerantine philosophy and psychology boost)

    • @aslandachman711
      @aslandachman711 3 года назад

      Feeling down. I am sure this will help you stay positive.
      ruclips.net/video/CNe3y5aZWbE/видео.html

    • @ilikedarknes3351
      @ilikedarknes3351 3 года назад

      Me too

    • @kaori7472
      @kaori7472 3 года назад +1

      me too but since young i am always full of depression and anxiety, full of worries. I dont want to die or attempt suicide, I just want to be happy again without any worries or problems occuring me...

    • @nessatorres1409
      @nessatorres1409 3 года назад

      Me too it’s hard when I want to be as happy as I was before

  • @soothingmusicpalette7264
    @soothingmusicpalette7264 2 года назад +6728

    "Depression is being colorblind and constantly told how colorful the world is" - Atticus
    Let's support that special someone and hear them out. It helps.

    • @mategameryt1019
      @mategameryt1019 2 года назад +6

      I might as well be blind at that point then.

    • @gorilla8811
      @gorilla8811 2 года назад +12

      Colorblind people can still see color, just not all, only like a very small fraction can't

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад

      Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life.ego and discrimination brings fear in life .do little things for others builds up happiness in heart. God is our inner beauty. Make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path.

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад

      @delancy lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail.guilt and stress stop blessing .Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food. Cut down desire only grateful.family is blessing. Make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path .

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад

      @@mategameryt1019 lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love.make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path . Faith is big pillow. Do little things for others builds up happiness in heart and soul coprate with love.

  • @rabiehdavari2335
    @rabiehdavari2335 Год назад +2

    for everyone thats watching this i love you so much please dont give up you are worth it and theres always light at the end of the tunnel❤️❤️

  • @rosannrosann5031
    @rosannrosann5031 Год назад +3

    Early to bed , early to rise, drink lot of water , Enjoying with friends , Spending time with family...
    This heals...

  • @avajensen4324
    @avajensen4324 2 года назад +3165

    A thing I’ve experienced, is feeling emotionless. Many people think depression is about being sad, but most of the time you just don’t feel anything. For a good amount of time, the only emotion I felt was anger. Because I was angry at myself for not feeling any emotion like sadness, happiness, etc.

    • @UknownAfrican
      @UknownAfrican 2 года назад +94

      Yeah same. I think this is type of depression is the worst in my opinion and feels like it won’t ever go away. Honestly, I think it’s more so genetic than anything. I used to feel joy, love, pleasure etc. when I was in highschool but now after highschool I don’t fee any of those feelings anymore. No excitement, no pleasure, no interest to do anything. I purely do the things I do with my friends because I know it’s what I’m supposed to do to feel human. But even being people causes no joy or pleasure, only experiencing anxiety or fear for no reason.
      I’ve been in that same mindset and on a rare basis get mad over the fact I can’t feel those emotions anymore but, I found that doing that only makes it worse so it’s better to just deal it with for now and hope that in the future with the advancements of technology, science and medicine that we’ll one day find a cure or some type of relief for this type of depression.

    • @UknownAfrican
      @UknownAfrican 2 года назад +40

      One thing that I believe has helped so far is listening to different types of music and singing along with them. My body, for some reason, can still remember the emotions I’ve felt in the past so, my thinking is that by listening to different types of music with different genres will help me “spark” those emotions in my body again. Start of with sad and depressed music but make sure to slowly and surely move upwards to exciting music and love songs.

    • @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363
      @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 2 года назад +9

      Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
      Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
      ruclips.net/video/_C6lNThb2cU/видео.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this

    • @UknownAfrican
      @UknownAfrican 2 года назад +24

      @@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 you might need help lol

    • @eszmeletlen3023
      @eszmeletlen3023 2 года назад +2

      @@UknownAfrican he is not the one whos depressed tho 🤷🤷

  • @verityreese
    @verityreese 3 года назад +3649

    "Depression isnt a personality trait" & "You shouldnt expect just to get over it"
    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 2 года назад +85

      Say it louder my mother was busy in her own work

    • @Nooo893
      @Nooo893 2 года назад +25

      That and the opening sentence are my favorite sentences ever.

    • @SleepyPanda-co3iy
      @SleepyPanda-co3iy 2 года назад +12

      I somehow got over it... IDK how but it kinda gone away; although if I feel really down I still have -suicidal thoughts-

    • @emybiju9298
      @emybiju9298 2 года назад +11

      @@SleepyPanda-co3iy Stay safe. The same thing happened to me last year but it is all building up again. I don't want that to happen to you

    • @hiii5157
      @hiii5157 2 года назад +2

      @ SleepyPanda3609 I hope it's gets better for you just watch out because for me my depression disappeared for a while now it's back and it's worse.

  • @rumeysaturk673
    @rumeysaturk673 Год назад +3

    I would like to talk about my treatment journey that has just begun. First of all, it was very difficult to ask for help because I didn't want to hear anyone mocking and saying that I was "exaggerating" something. So I delayed my request for help and believed that I might be really exaggerating. For about 2 years, I resisted thinking that even if these feelings and thoughts come and go, they will go. But especially in the last months, everything that I have experienced from time to time until now has started to suppress in a concentrated way. Although I always tried to console myself that you would be fine, I realized that I had a hard time believing it anymore and everything started to lose its meaning and joy completely. It's been a few days since I started treatment and I can't tell you everything has changed completely, of course, but knowing that there was a reason for my crying for no reason and this feeling of unhappiness that stuck with me gave me some relief. Even knowing that I feel seen and heard is quite enough for this stage. I wish the best of luck to anyone struggling with this, and I want you to know that you are not alone. This life is worth living.

  • @mindfulnessasia1082
    @mindfulnessasia1082 Год назад +5

    On the subject of Hope, it is really important that everyone has something to look forward to, especially young people. And also the elderly, so that they don’t just wait to die. It is essential that one still has motivation, makes plans, tries to improve things on this human journey. Otherwise, if people feel hopeless, this can lead to feeling depressed, lonely, overwhelmed, without purpose.

  • @doczero1296
    @doczero1296 3 года назад +1220

    I can't remember the last time I was genuinely happy... Now I'm pretty much always sad, I have nothing to look foward to, I regret my past, hate my present and I'm pessmistic about my future.
    I thought this was just a phase in my life but now I'm starting to think otherwise.

    • @ItsWolf0
      @ItsWolf0 2 года назад +11

      I hope you get over it. (I also reported the spam)

    • @teshy4237
      @teshy4237 2 года назад +8

      Same here..

    • @ItsWolf0
      @ItsWolf0 2 года назад +12

      @Little_Froggo I had depression a while ago. To get over it, embrace the small things in life, and talk to your parents. You should get over it.

    • @saraboyd1892
      @saraboyd1892 2 года назад +2

      DocZero I feel exactly the same.

    • @BloxxerBoi_m134
      @BloxxerBoi_m134 2 года назад +20

      Good ol' days when life was easier...
      I'm always having a thought of resetting my age to 5 and time travel to when i was a kindergarten

  • @ryuk5432
    @ryuk5432 2 года назад +6202

    ive read somewhere that depression is like drowning in an ocean but not dying, and that's exactly what it is

    • @aaryapawar1158
      @aaryapawar1158 2 года назад +43

      No it isn't, we aren't ever going to die till it's a severe trauma depression is just the person is thinking so less of himself which kills the faith in him

    • @tracydawson239
      @tracydawson239 2 года назад +3

      Gkg

    • @Tegui4
      @Tegui4 2 года назад +9

      @@ohio I suffer that and it's not easy

    • @barmayneg
      @barmayneg 2 года назад +7

      I spazzed out and went to jail on thanksgiving. I need to go to qng managment. I am slowly becoming a shell of who i once was and there is no one to talk to

    • @ryuk5432
      @ryuk5432 2 года назад +18

      @@aaryapawar1158 well, what I mean is that (to me,) when I was in a state of depression, it was very painful, nobody understood me, and to me, pain was something that would eventually stop. however when I was in that stage it didn't. it never did. I felt like I had to end myself in order to stop this pain. but I was also terrified of doing that. I wanted to enjoy my life, but depression would not let me. just like the words of Freddie mercury, I don't want to die, I just wish I was never born. you're right, it killed the faith in me. I used to have faith in myself, but several experiences made me lose the faith I had.

  • @anujdayat9174
    @anujdayat9174 Год назад +3

    Didn't even listen to the man in the video.. Just going through the comments to cope up with depression and seeing a comment that will motivate me to strive forward

  • @maketimetotalk
    @maketimetotalk Год назад +6

    Thank you so much for this, I bet it's helped more people than you can possibly imagine.
    Let's lift the stigma once and for all with videos like this...

  • @kissaprojectcomic2984
    @kissaprojectcomic2984 5 лет назад +2267

    People with depression can have happy days sometimes too, they aren’t constantly depressed.

    • @thefoolsfavorite
      @thefoolsfavorite 5 лет назад +212

      That's true, but most of the time they aren't.

    • @charmy1284
      @charmy1284 5 лет назад +27

      omg thank you

    • @ohok2879
      @ohok2879 5 лет назад +134

      i haven't had a "happy day" for almost 3 years now lmao

    • @redlady9219
      @redlady9219 5 лет назад +4

      @@ohok2879 Find what makes you happy.

    • @user-zr3gl6pp7q
      @user-zr3gl6pp7q 5 лет назад +96

      @@redlady9219 It's not as easy as it seems

  • @anirudhaswal6523
    @anirudhaswal6523 8 лет назад +2152

    i really liked the lesson but what i like the most is the narrator.. he is the best narrator in the ted..

    • @boy638
      @boy638 8 лет назад +14

      +Anirudh Aswal Yea i wonder if his face matches his voice lol

    • @avicohen2k
      @avicohen2k 8 лет назад +2

      I actualy dislike his voice, too monotonic and slow, makes me loose concentration. the distorted base also gives me a head ace if the video is longer then 5 minutes. i only watch his narrated videos if its one that interest me allot and its usually thnaks to the video, not the narrator

    • @MrFallenSkillz1
      @MrFallenSkillz1 8 лет назад

      +Anirudh Aswal Well made artistic videos, characters show emotion. Salud! To the animator(s).

    • @joannamariep.5740
      @joannamariep.5740 8 лет назад +10

      +Anirudh Aswal he sounds hot

    • @theNumberOne
      @theNumberOne 8 лет назад +1

      +Evan Leeds It quite obvious is. "Helen M. Farrell" can't fool us with her deep voice.

  • @Cats.are.cute.8
    @Cats.are.cute.8 6 месяцев назад +1

    I am depressed and idk why im not seeking help, but i am grateful for my friend trying to help me and find a therapist.

  • @ayane1102
    @ayane1102 5 месяцев назад +2

    In my second year of high school, I developed symptoms such as anorexia, loss of interest in what I like, restlessness, getting up early in the morning and not being able to sleep at night, and so on.After that, depression became traumatic, nausea continued, and I didn't even want to go to school.
    It's been a few months now, and I'm much better, but it's not perfect.
    It was really hard.I just wanted to disappear.Above all, it was hard because there were not many high school students who suffered from depression.I want more people to know that they can be students.

  • @SuperNexus20
    @SuperNexus20 2 года назад +3248

    "Depression is feeling a void inside yourself, but that void weighs too much". Words that came into my mind while I was on the bed the other day.

    • @TheShadowW0lf
      @TheShadowW0lf 2 года назад +30

      always described it as a heavy emptiness

    • @synx4182
      @synx4182 2 года назад +9

      I can sure tell you that kids these days are getting depressed by their own will. Its like they think being depressed is the new fashion
      I really don’t have proof of this but I have seen it happen. :/

    • @adfadge
      @adfadge 2 года назад +27

      @@synx4182 nah bro you're just making people depressed because you exist

    • @bikoar2826
      @bikoar2826 2 года назад +25

      @@synx4182 you're mostly right, but the major part isn't pretending and it's very real. I think it's because they don't have anything to complain about so life get's boring and you fall into it little by little. I think most depressed people aren't the ones with the hardest lives and the biggest struggles. These people do not have time to be depressed, mostly.
      I'm 19 and I have a normal life, not poor nor rich, I have friends and a family that loves me, a girlfriend that loves me and that I love. But i'm diagnosed as depressed. Last year I spent in a foreign country far from my family and friends, locked down, I spent 24h/24 in my bed didn't attend university and lost my body shape my face had red marks on it that slowly got away after a while (it was apparently because of stress my doctor said). The only reason I left the house was to buy food. And the food I bought wasn't the best. I found myself in a bad situation out of nowhere. Today I'm better but I haven't fully recovered. I have no reason to still be depressed yet I am. I don't even know why i'm saying all this but whatever just what passes through my mind.

    • @christianwagenseil9621
      @christianwagenseil9621 2 года назад

      indeed, a void that seems to be encompassing everything connected to life itself

  • @lordbeerus2062
    @lordbeerus2062 5 лет назад +1831

    depression is not just a sad feeling it is like a brain who forgets what is happiness..

    • @idberfzif1206
      @idberfzif1206 5 лет назад +10

      lord beerus Ahhhhh the poetry.

    • @ImagineFreedom
      @ImagineFreedom 5 лет назад +4

      happiness is to be present in the moment and enjoy what you are presently doing

    • @KY-rr6wc
      @KY-rr6wc 4 года назад +6

      Sick of these edge lord telling me what depression is when they don’t even have it, smh😂

    • @idontlikeyou7084
      @idontlikeyou7084 4 года назад +6

      I’m glad that i don’t have any illness

    • @hotdoguy9563
      @hotdoguy9563 4 года назад +8

      @@idontlikeyou7084 I wish I can say the same. I hope when life hits you hard you will be okay.

  • @leon-sk2jb
    @leon-sk2jb 3 месяца назад +2

    I was diagnosed with clinical depression a year ago. I can tell you, suicide is not a solution. Every problem has a solution; it's just a matter of not giving up until you find it. You're not alone in this journey, and there's hope even in the darkest of moments.

  • @known8049
    @known8049 6 месяцев назад +2

    See? This is the reason why i want to become a therapist. But when i confessed to my parents about it, they rebuked. They told me that 'it's not worth it' and asked me 'do you want to treat mad people in a mad hospital?'.
    My dream shattered at that moment...but this video revived it.

  • @jhcs6
    @jhcs6 2 года назад +3219

    “depression is like a war. you either win, or you die trying.”

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад +19

      Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food. Positive attitude is power of mind. Do little things for others builds up happiness in heart.

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/TVgQ_tgWMyU/видео.html

    • @tabbaldwin3165
      @tabbaldwin3165 2 года назад +4

      @@gurgurgur ew vegan

    • @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363
      @thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 2 года назад +4

      Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
      Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
      ruclips.net/video/_C6lNThb2cU/видео.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this

    • @ishmael9435
      @ishmael9435 2 года назад +11

      @@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 i hate god

  • @rexroselo5060
    @rexroselo5060 5 лет назад +1916

    Wish i was just a child again

    • @Yukkuri_Yakumo
      @Yukkuri_Yakumo 5 лет назад +31

      Oh no, you reminded me 😞

    • @diamonddaze4312
      @diamonddaze4312 5 лет назад +53

      I was happy then..😔

    • @faz3662
      @faz3662 5 лет назад +11

      Dandelion3 I’ve forgot to feel happy

    • @amanaa.x
      @amanaa.x 5 лет назад +1

      😭🥺

    • @nellieeess
      @nellieeess 5 лет назад +25

      Rexx Roselo depression led me to my eating disorder, anorexia nervosa. Depression and anorexia almost killed me. I’m only 14. 😣 My childhood was swept away from me and now the depression is worse than ever. I just wanna die.

  • @zarkos2313
    @zarkos2313 Год назад +11

    Psilocybin containing mushrooms saved my life. The drastically reduced my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quite illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit. It has also helped me survive depression.

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 Год назад +1

      Psychedelic’s definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it’s just so hard to source out here

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku Год назад

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 Год назад +1

      @@patriaciasmith3499 I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across dr.sporess, a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 Год назад

      @@elizabethwilliams6651 Please how do I contact him?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 Год назад

      @Laura Polonioli yes, he ship discreet and anonymous.

  • @nibirsaikiya4990
    @nibirsaikiya4990 2 года назад +4

    My father fought for depression last 6 month and after doing treatment at a doctor he is completely cure now

  • @itrains1841
    @itrains1841 4 года назад +3740

    Daughter: mom I'm depressed
    Mom: *_its because of that damn phone._*

  • @merathe9391
    @merathe9391 2 года назад +1772

    Best way I can describe depression (at least for me, or how I felt when I was depressed) is just the feeling of tiredness. Tired of dealing with people, tired of waking up and just tired of living to be more specific. You just want to keep sleeping and never wake up. You just don’t have the energy to keep going or to push through, even though you want to live. So it just feels like a constant battle that never ends, and hopefully it gets easier with time but you gotta push through, you gotta

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 2 года назад +1

      I hope success and happinness for you,take care of yourself

    • @radixmaharaj5912
      @radixmaharaj5912 2 года назад +17

      I just don't care. If someone says something about me I say ok. I don't waste my time explaining or caring. Like I don't have that energy to care and that is begining to expand into all areas of my life. My answer to everything is ok.

    • @veiserexab1428
      @veiserexab1428 2 года назад +3

      I feel that way but I didn't assume it to be depressed, instead I just feel lazy

    • @murrijuana2842
      @murrijuana2842 2 года назад

      @@joshe1569 knock it off with that mumbo jumbo. You worship a false idol.

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 2 года назад +1

      I might advise one to stay out of politics. Looking at our political climate and times to come certainly gives me feelings of nihilism.

  • @mrseaweed88
    @mrseaweed88 2 месяца назад

    I've always felt that even on the days that i feel happy, that feeling of utter hopelessness and despair is still there somewhere. It never goes away, it just subsides slightly from time to time.

  • @susannaalexanyan1345
    @susannaalexanyan1345 7 месяцев назад +1

    Actually it is really important to distinguish between depression and feelings of sadness. It seems like every person has a depression nowadays, because we heard about it a lot. Video is very beneficial and helpful to understand what is depression and depression symptoms

  • @tarik.azml7
    @tarik.azml7 2 года назад +3642

    Isn’t it sad enough that this video already has over 20 million clicks?
    I wish everyone who suffers from this disease good luck and health.

    • @dieselgeezer18
      @dieselgeezer18 2 года назад +155

      just because it has 20mil views doesn't mean that the people watching it are depressed. It's probably the fact that they are interested in the topic and want to learn more about it, just like i am

    • @nug9g
      @nug9g 2 года назад +64

      @@dieselgeezer18 I mean look at the comments, alot of people are mostly talking about their own depression or poetisizing it. Unfortunately I think depression is one of those things that just need to be taught in school or something because the stigma is so strong, that to teach a individual person who is most likely close minded isn't going to be of their own will. It's like with trans identities or other lgbtq+ identities. Most people unfamiliar with it don't want to be educated unless their heart is still open to it, so imo it has to be taught at an age where you start meeting new and more people. So that we don't end up with more hate crimes like we have in the past.

    • @closet9378
      @closet9378 2 года назад +30

      @@nug9g they were saying that not all 20mil people are depressed. The people in the comments most likely are, but that doesn’t mean everyone who only clicked on the video is.

    • @uongtuthach200
      @uongtuthach200 2 года назад +4

      @@dieselgeezer18 nah, im depressed.

    • @dieselgeezer18
      @dieselgeezer18 2 года назад +20

      @@uongtuthach200 you ≠ everyone

  • @stickyfin5338
    @stickyfin5338 2 года назад +4085

    the part where you said “it’s a medical condition, not a weakness. you can’t will yourself to get over depression just like you can’t will yourself to get over a broken arm.” i really needed to hear that, thank you.

    • @Reyhealz
      @Reyhealz 2 года назад

      🔝🔝🔝
      My RUclips channel name can help you with shrooms, LSD, DMT and other health stuffs that cure anxiety and depression

    • @nointerestmusic
      @nointerestmusic 2 года назад +26

      Same man hope we'll get out of this mess sooner than anything else

    • @jvruger357
      @jvruger357 2 года назад +11

      I always thought of myself as strong physically and mentally. Than 4 years ago I went through a bout of depression for a year. I don't wish that experience on anyone. What I was told by two of my cousins who are combat veterans and had PTSD was to throw away the medication or at least limit it and just do what you like doing, live life. That's what I did and slowly things got better. Don't give up and you will be just fine trust me. Good luck.

    • @liamkneeson8866
      @liamkneeson8866 2 года назад +10

      It's true, we're all products of causal influences; none of us got to choose anything about ourselves, our bodies, brains, genes, chemical balances, etc..
      You can choose the influences to make things better though.

    • @otrz8009
      @otrz8009 2 года назад +5

      U really need to hear that? Ye sure, so u can blame everything u lack doing everyday on this "depression" and not feel guilty for it. Sheesh. These people need to wake up.

  • @SolracCAP
    @SolracCAP Год назад +1

    One of the most important videos on youtube. Lives are being saved and I'm happy for them.

  • @thepursuitofgrowth
    @thepursuitofgrowth Год назад +4

    Sending love to everyone battling depression

  • @ShellyMazur
    @ShellyMazur 8 лет назад +333

    Depression isn't something that can really be explained to someone who doesn't have it...neither is anxiety. "Just be happy" isn't the proper answer to someone who is having these very real thoughts and feelings.

    • @posassyum
      @posassyum 8 лет назад +15

      Thank you for saying this! It's so true! In a different Ted talk, someone said you wouldn't tell someone with a broken leg to 'walk it off, it's just you'. Similarly, we shouldn't tell someone with depression 'shake it off, you're just in a bad mood'. Depression is very real. Treat it that way.

    • @frostydowns
      @frostydowns 8 лет назад +3

      +Sprinkles of Shelly From what I know, and experienced, you have 2 types of depression, your depression in your teens, the whole growing up thing, that is more linked to suicide and what not, where as adult depression (think 25 years+) tends to 'creep' up on you, then boom one day you don't know why you have it, you can't just get rid of the damn thing either, it's like a shadow that follows you around zapping the enjoyment of life out of you, it zaps everything you use to love to do, and because you start to get in this "ugh, I can't be fucked" attitude it breeds and breeds, then you find it harder and harder, and you don't want to be drugged up either. It's a fucked situation.
      I've had moments last year where I was happy, I remember that, it felt shockingly new to me.

    • @vincentvinnie3628
      @vincentvinnie3628 8 лет назад +5

      i have both of them and it is torture.like i don't feel urge to do something but i regret and feel anxious about it.and nobody takes me seriously.

    • @abcdefg15720
      @abcdefg15720 8 лет назад

      +Sprinkles of Shelly Sometimes I wish healthy people all got depression, I wish them to suffer what we're suffering right now. Watching them suffer our pains just makes me happy. But .... I'm not a son of satan. I'm son of god

    • @Trackman2007
      @Trackman2007 8 лет назад

      +Sprinkles of Shelly The proper answer is to tune neurotransmitters in such a way, that your behavior is corresponding to "just be happy" pattern most of the time.

  • @mazenstone1105
    @mazenstone1105 3 года назад +1563

    And my family will just say "it's just a phase."

    • @obuyWw
      @obuyWw 3 года назад +49

      that is exactly what my family said.

    • @mayral6512
      @mayral6512 3 года назад +4

      ruclips.net/video/OfpnBbwmntY/видео.html

    • @cemo3292
      @cemo3292 3 года назад +4

      yes my too

    • @myusername3689
      @myusername3689 3 года назад +8

      Well it’s a long and hard phase that’s hard to get out of.

    • @mahimabhardwaj8
      @mahimabhardwaj8 3 года назад

      @@myusername3689 hey

  • @Eustryy
    @Eustryy Год назад +4

    I remember watching this before I had depression, now here I am once again, only this time with depression.

    • @asias.9943
      @asias.9943 Год назад

      same love.

    • @icebreaker9006
      @icebreaker9006 Год назад

      TURN TO GOD; REPENT OR PERISH, TURN FROM YOUR SIN OR YOU WILL GO TO THE LAKE OF FIRE, ALL SIN LEADS TO DEATH. READ BIBLE TO GET WISDOM, SEEK GOD.

  • @madhusree.r5077
    @madhusree.r5077 7 месяцев назад +2

    Been 2 years after I
    went through this and now I am fine... never told my parents about it because they never understood me. Today finally made up my mind to tell how I hurt myself and stuff and guess what they mocked and laughed and said i am just worthless , depression is all a drama , it happens to weak pple and all that...they were like maybe u had a love failure and that's why u went to depression. Honestly this is how lowly my parents think. They never understood they were the reason for my mental illness and after 2 years they haven't changed a bit. Still the same people who never tried once to understand...just know how to blame and say depression is all an overacting and drama. I swear to god I might go through it again because of them. Some people might be educated but soo illeterate and cheap minded . My parents always surprise me with their lower thinking

    • @known8049
      @known8049 6 месяцев назад

      I hope you are alright, mate. At least you mustered up the courage to say it. Yeah, some people don't take depression seriously...I never tell someone about my sad feelings because I got the same reaction as you did. I write them in a diary. Just to get them out of my mind and it helps.

  • @joemoney61
    @joemoney61 3 года назад +379

    I feel like depression has altered my life. School, relationships, sleep, and even career. These are a few things I’ve noticed through the years.

    • @ruby_august
      @ruby_august 3 года назад +1

      Yeah:( The same

    • @marinamorton8458
      @marinamorton8458 3 года назад +12

      yeah, i realized the other day that ive lost a ton of interesting aspects about me because of my depression. Its like sliding into quicksand, and having your hands tied together behind you, struggling, you want to get out, but you literally cannot. You physically do not have the power.

    • @ruby_august
      @ruby_august 3 года назад

      @@marinamorton8458 u wrote what think🥺💔

    • @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4
      @ihavenoideawhatimdoing4 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/92viHiKMUhk/видео.html

    • @alexander_the_great_1975
      @alexander_the_great_1975 3 года назад

      You´re not alone

  • @happysoul8976
    @happysoul8976 4 года назад +1387

    Depression is brain that wants to die and heart that wants to live.

    • @zainahmed8528
      @zainahmed8528 4 года назад +17

      Quran is actually from the master of the universe that is why it has a unique recitation and completely different style
      It cannot be remade. No human can write when you listen Quran your heart say it is from God. Listen to Quran recitation
      you feel so calm and relaxed
      ruclips.net/video/J4M5_Hba5_k/видео.html (Listen to Quran recitation and feel by yourself)

    • @MrBlue-me9cd
      @MrBlue-me9cd 4 года назад +28

      it's the exact opposite

    • @zainahmed8528
      @zainahmed8528 4 года назад

      @@MrBlue-me9cd have you believe in God?

    • @MrBlue-me9cd
      @MrBlue-me9cd 4 года назад +3

      @@zainahmed8528
      I used to. now I have doubts

    • @zainahmed8528
      @zainahmed8528 4 года назад +3

      @@MrBlue-me9cd
      ruclips.net/video/t86nTHTHcU8/видео.html
      this is only 6 min video in which you will see the Quran challenges all Humans, Scientists,
      Philosophers,atheists etc if you say it is not from God than meet up these challenges then
      what you say
      about these challenges Are you able to meet? if you not able then why you disbelieve
      Or if you know any other book/scripture in the world except Quran who give challenges to humans
      like this?

  • @vivianzickerman302
    @vivianzickerman302 8 месяцев назад +2

    I suffer from this. Thank you for your helpful information

    • @tiell_1
      @tiell_1 8 месяцев назад

      😁

  • @frenchpotato2852
    @frenchpotato2852 Год назад +1

    Nobody’s gonna mention that the animation is great and that people wanted to take time out of their lives to spread awareness like this?

    • @Daniel-Trust
      @Daniel-Trust Год назад

      👆look them up they got the best deals at a very reasonable price 🍄😀 they help with depression and anxiety

  • @vex9471
    @vex9471 2 года назад +465

    The worse part about being depressed it's the overwhelming point of no return, when you loosed all the interest for everyone or anything, nothing it's exiting anymore, living just because dying is'nt a better option

    • @PinkFrog5
      @PinkFrog5 2 года назад

      @@dokusei7722 You’ll be okay my dear!

    • @HBToastedAlmond
      @HBToastedAlmond 2 года назад

      @@dokusei7722 In some countries you can have access to a psycological emergency center for free and as long as you need. The longer it stays untreated, the worst it gets every time it comes back. Sorry

    • @raed_ksa9449
      @raed_ksa9449 2 года назад +1

      When the only thing left is the voice in ur head. Even money didn’t matter at all.

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 2 года назад

      I know your gonna heal take it easy i know you can peace beauthiful

    • @olandatimothy7262
      @olandatimothy7262 2 года назад

      @@dokusei7722 Keep fighting ♥️

  • @Awsmattar
    @Awsmattar 2 года назад +4530

    I have always defined my depression as: “It's like drowning, except you can see everyone around you breathing"

    • @amina-ed1nt
      @amina-ed1nt 2 года назад +24

      Exactly!! I describe it the same way. You're desperate for air but something holds you underwater and it feels cruel and unfair and you just want to give up

    • @etcetera1674
      @etcetera1674 2 года назад +7

      that just perfectly sums it up.

    • @RedaReda-vl9ff
      @RedaReda-vl9ff 2 года назад +9

      I hope for you a happy life my friend,i hope for you a good life,take care of you my friend,you are beauthiful,peace.

    • @wanderinggenius166
      @wanderinggenius166 2 года назад +2

      Why do you have depression?

    • @honeybell1966
      @honeybell1966 2 года назад +2

      I always surrounded myself with a white room where my negative feelings as me is torturing me