Black women will: > encourage you to live a lifestyle that'll get you killed > watch you get killed > wear a t shirt with your face on it for a few months > start sleeping with some other guy > while simultaneously being unsatisfied with that guy because she's still In love with the IDEA of you... Who is deceased. It's chaos all around. Lol
There’s a reason so-called nerds run the world. Because they often can’t get the girls they redirect that energy into other areas. And they develop a love for certain hobbies and creative endeavors apart from women. These are they guys who gave us all these apps we use everyday. Too many young Black men are stuck in this cycle of defining themselves by women, their attraction or lack there of. The irony is if we are to be the men our communities NEED we have to ignore women. At least somewhat. A lot of what our women are attracted to and impressed by is backwards. Functional communities aren’t built on swagger and “masculine energy” They are built on family values, stability and order. You know, the boring stuff that generally doesn’t get people excited.
I agree with you on the point of not defining yourself by your access to loose, immoral women. That's a great many of our problem. And leaves us powerless and humiliated especially if we get many women. BUT as far as nerds running the world, I disagree. I think they are in first place in a race over a cliff. The most "developed" countries have below replacement birth levels, i.e. going extinct. I think "modern" men and women have been removed from our true nature and may have to go back to recapture it, maybe to even survive, long term.
2Pac in a suit. Great artist, also a convicted s-x offender, weed/cigarette smoker, heavy drinker, height under 6ft., a self-professed womanizer, high school drop-out, and gang member.💯 "But he had swag."🤪🤪🤪
And then you have the Strong, Silent and laid-back types such as myself who are about our Hustle, LEGAL that is. I am no Thug, Gangster nor Drug Dealer. But I have noticed, they are the ones within the Black Male Community who get the MOST attention. This observation, going way back to the Crack Era here in NYC. Those cats, got all the love from the ladies, and that's facts.
That's what a lot of us are exposed to in our communities. I met my husband after I changed locations. Smart, hard working, well spoken, and so many other things. What attracted me was he invited me out for coffee on our first date and he was such a gentleman. The gentleman part had me hooked, 16 years and three children later. I'm so proud of my straight-laced man.
being laid back is a big part of game, women fall for men who are laid back. regardless if you a thug or not. it shows confidence and a little arrogance, like i can do better than her. An she knows it.
@@genovasquez8361 No "games"played here buddy, with all due respect. In the wise words of that other YT Content Creator Coach Adams on his channel, your T.E.A.M (Time, Energy, Attention and Money) is paramount.
I agree with the bro’s comment women are attracted to Pookie’s energy……. Well a poor blk bro on his grind legally to get work, pay bills, remain drug/alcohol free is 5x more gangster to me. Because he got a lot more to lose than the Pookies & Ray rays of the world. His job, his sobriety, his freedom, etc etc. When will our blk sisters wake up and Actually See Is Too?
Personally I’m identical to Mr James Evans (Good Times), looking for my Florida Evans…. I guess the Florida Evans of the world has been replaced by the Baddies and the Boss B’s and they not checking for the Mr James Evans of the world, but we still exist, we still on our grind, ready to die for who we love .
@@no-capcounselorsremember good times and the cosby show were fictional works of art. NOT real life. i went to college, it was NO DIFFERENT WORLD. more like freaknic 1996
Life-long lame here. Recently have getting alot of ex Pookie groupies trying to get me to "take them on dates" aka get in my pocketses. Lol. Im suprised that its actually funny to me. I should be offended. Somebody told them us lames would be waiting to save them after they been ran through. I remember a song "dont save her" but ima edit in "now that she wants to be saved." Stay with Pookie baby. Im still lame as ever, even more.
Remember Freaknic 1994. Nothing has changed. The 304s have taught their daughters and grand daughters to be just like them. 304 nature was the same back in 1990s. The whole redpill and manospher ish was basically what we called the "GAME". infact there is a book by iceberg slim He details female nature, greatly. an i wanna say he from the 1920s.
Honestly if you're an upstanding dude who's disciplined and handles his business, you're better off without those women who are attracted to the pookies and Ray-rays anyway. Water seeks its own level.
A lot of people have this same mentality about moving out of state the problem is that you are still taking yourself there so if you can't get a women to submit to you perhaps you need to choose better and have better leadership skills because men are in charge of the relationship. The men approach, the men ask the women on a date, the men propose marriage.
Because sistas see such a man as feminine, you need to be hyper masculine, because they view themselves as being more masculine than even Brad, Shane, or Conrad. Just look at how average sistas, act, talk, behave and even their posture and walk. They are way more masculine looking and sounding than Bill Gates Jeff Bezos the facebook guy they just are more masculine in theor phyisology than most asian and indian men. So black men who are just normal masculine men seem feminine to most sistas. BECAUSE sistas are actually hyper masculine compared to normal men.
This is disturbing, the more I learn about women/male dynamics the more I realize why humanity hasn’t evolved very much in certain regards . It’s our mating and selections & habits . Both men and women typically use low vibrational, primal energy to attract someone to copulate with . It’s crazy how changing yourself into a sorta bad boy/girl increases your attraction to the opposite sex. Great video none the less. Keep grinding ma’am
It's the same as men who try to turn whores into housewives instead of looking for the girl next door. They will date the city girl and complain about how she dresses and how much she parties rather than going to find a girl who already dresses modestly and has fewer friends. It's not fair to either side. Just accept people as they are or move on. Don't try to change them.
Don't mind them. They want black men to have some type of record to control them. The irony is if he is non black man, all of a sudden him being nerd, professional and blue collar become cute and attractive to them but not in a black man. Example Serena Williams husband, black women will brag he was cofounder of Reddit. Now all of a sudden, this is attractive to them. Question is do you know how many black men own tech companies? They don't know because they are so focused on dating pokies and thugish black men. These women don't love you black men, they promote dysfunction among black men while the promote excellence among non black men.
In my opinion the type of women that are attracted to these guys, feel a connection to them because it does not require much of them. They don’t have to be have, there are no rules. When you date a typical upwardly mobile corporate guy, you are expected to behave as a corporate wife. So many of us who choose women outside of the culture are doing so for that reason. We don’t want to be embarrassed by the behavior of our women. We expect something out of them and that is not always fun, it’s rewarding! But not always fun
This argument is valid. Women who like thugs know they won’t be held to any standard of achievement because all a thug cares about is how good she looks and whether she puts it down in the bedroom.
I will be honest I fall into this category of man. I played the streets and a young man, went to jail and reformed my life at a young age. I now work as an architect for a reputable firm. As a young black man I do not find many men who played the streets like I did and made better choices. They usually wait until they are 40 or 50 before they make those changes.
Had too many women say this to me when i was younger. I learned it was a test because i had certain bad traits when i was younger. They were attracted but wanted to see me in action. I had to learn that was the wrong attention also while learning to lay down the hood mentality i grew up with so that i could advance my career. Let me be clear, even if you do find him, he wont be successful long term if he doesn't change his mentality. When he lose the corporate, you gonna be stuck with the thug.
Tupac changed his character for women. Imagine how many good guys or nice guys become thugs, pookies, and Ray Ray because they want women. It shows you how powerful women are.
It shows how weak some of those men are. I grew up in hood of LA in the 90’s. I saw guys dive head first into the gang life because it got them more attention from women. Risking your freedom and livelihood for the attention of women is the true definition of a lame.
Yeah, Tupac is dead! Glad to see how well that worked out for him. Men have the power if they wouldn’t give in to those demands. Black women have lost me. I date Mediterranean (Armenian, Greek, etc.), Asian, or non-African-American Black women.
I do not want this. I love a kind gentleman. My fiance is literally the sweetest man I've ever met. I wanted nothing more than to be a wife to a gentle spirited man.
The crazy part is I am an actual corporate thug! I grew up in poverty stricken streets of Cleveland Ohio. Selling drugs and being in gangs. I left home and graduated from college and have worked in corporate finance for 20+ years! I have never had a problem getting women. My issue is having too many women and being greedy and lustful. Everything that was said in this video is very accurate and true! Thanks for sharing!
There's no such thing as a "corporate thug" dude. You're a guy that's street smart and intelligent enough to know the dumb shit in the streets isn't sustainable lifestyle. Also, you like pussy. A lot. Women gravitate to people who are positive and successful. Congratulations on all that. Just like wine, women are good in moderation brother. Be careful out there🤙
Same! Went to jail for attempted murder at 16, beat it and got out at 17, and had my son. I was gang banger (GDN), a drug dealer and even did drugs. Never had problems with women or disrespectful over/undertones. Had my daughters at age 23 & 24. Something changed in me. Idk what it was but it was like a light switched on. I cut my dreads. I squared up. I went back to school and got into IT. I got full custody of my son. All of this happened in a 10 year time frame. I’m 30 bro & A lot of people tell me I act like a old man lol. I stay away from large crowds. I don’t have social media. I read and watch RUclips videos . Me and my son go to the boxing gym, eat, and pray. I like peace, but most Bw tell me that’s lame 🤷🏿♂️ What’s crazy is a lot of women tell me I still give them the thug vibes until I list my accomplishments, aspirations and long term goals, it’s almost as if an inferiority complex kicks in. I’ve had women tell me I’m lame because I don’t smoke weed anymore. I’ve been told I think ima “white boy” because I like to jog. I’ve had women tell me I think I’m better than them or they’ll accuse me of insulting their intelligence all because I may give suggestions or opinions or certain matters and stand on it. Hell my own baby mama reminds me every chance she gets who the old me was. I usually wear polo shirts tucked in my khakis with loafs. I’ve been told I think I’m “too much for myself” and I take myself to serious. I guess to get respect from BW you have to be a young hothead ready to crash out or someone they feel better than. I also never have these problems with other races of women. It’s real bad out here bro 😮💨 #Doneventing Edit: My son is 13 and has the same exact complaints as me. This is a very deep problem in our community.
This couldn’t be more true had a chick who I was seeing was legit an engineer for the government but degraded me because I talk proper and “act/dress” white. It’s not just normal women it’s the ones in high positions that look down on professional brothas
I've had two girlfriends try to dress me up in some timberland boots. Once on a shopping spree for myself to expand my style (accompanied) and the a second time when I received some knockoff timberlands as a christmas gift. Years later, I took the fake timberlands out off storage and use them as my squating support boots.
timberlands and jordans i been wearing since way back win. girls love my jays. also another thing that gets girls in them jeans with the drip. girls love that stuff. i started dressing hood back in 1994. its what attracted the most black girls. before that, it was the white girls, biracials and asian chicks approaching me the most.
When I think of corporate thug I think of Jay Z and Kendrick Lamar. Their bad boy persona is layered, they are introspective and selectively vulnerable through their art. They are obviously intelligent and honest about who they are, who they have been and what they want. Both of these men are married now, so not your average every day Pookie. Men don’t have to be BAD men, the opposite is actually more attractive. Maintain a good heart despite the hardships life puts you through and give up on trying to please everyone. Be someone that people want to follow. That’s how you achieve this level of “villain rizz.”
You mention hardships. What if a guy never grew up with hardships? What if he grew up in a normal, middle-class, two-parent home? It’s a shame that he is invisible to most black women.
The ladies are mighty quiet in this comment section today, lol, very interesting. But, thank you for addressing this issue. I believe I’ve commented on one of your earlier videos regarding “Invisible Black Women”, and I mentioned that there are also ALOT of Invisible Black Men. It’s a sad reality that in the black community, if you don’t fit into the norms of the current popular culture, then you may as well be wearing an invisibility cloak, smh, that’s just the way it is.
Is this the reason the Pass port Bros receive so much hate because they are intelligent enough to find a woman who enjoys a man who can be himself without the Thug Life behavior.
I'm a well educated, and earning professional man, Nigerian. Not a thug in any way shape or form. Corporate dudes don't lack as a general rule. I think at the end of the day, women are drawn to confidence and power - whatever the particular setting. A lot of Black folks in America grow up in certain imperfect circumstances, so in the hood "power" looks a lot like pookie to those women. In the world outside, power looks like not only money, but authority within your circle and over your affairs and if so, you will attract women, no matter their race, hue or financial level (hood chicks too if that's your jam).
The problem is some women Thank street and violence equals protection. But why can't he be a corporate guy and a man at the same time that can protect you Everybody's not from the street
Only black women hold their men to this standard beyond their late teens or colleges years. Other women know that you cannot win in life with a 40-year-old thug. One more thing: Jay-Z is no thug…never was.
The 🙋🏾♂️ Question is, what do women want, the answer is: Every 🤬 Daaaaamn Thing.....A Modern Black Womans ideal man is 6'6, he has 100 tattoos & gold teeth, he's been locked up before, he has 3 degrees, he makes over 200 thousand a year, he's an entrepreneur, that helps her kids with their homework & he's at home every night before 8:00.....Because this describes like 5 different dudes they become like that feather in Forrest Gump constantly floating from 1 failed relationship to another, and end up buying a 🐶 & dying alone , because settling is totally out of the question.
Great video! The point made about the energy being wanted by the woman being similar or the same as a middle linebacker and the street dude is very accurate solid and pretty much describes myself and my inner circle of brothers. We all were solid athletes in high school, college, and some professional and we all use that same energy to be successful and perform in various careers/line of work now ranging from high school football coach to construction supervisor to engineer in oil and gas industry. We talk about it from time to time as men now and we all know that we just have 'it' in us that drives us. Its a beautiful thing. A man should always have his edge and fire it just has to be directed in a position direction and not for negative. Keep on keeping on Nneka!
Good video sis.. Rom and Pac are correct about the energy ladies are attracted to. Like Tupac you play a character and it's actually sad because alot of brothers are good guys but know that to maintain frame and not get used and gamed it has to be moderated.
Stringer Bell from The Wire is what made BW fall in love with Idris Elba. Many BW didn’t find Michael B Jordan sexy, until he played Erik Killmonger or Adonis Creed. Before that all you heard was corny, like that goofy chick he went to HS with in Newark.
Our smartest black boys don't desire to go to college for education because black girls think that's lame, They see those same girls giving all their love and respect to the Pookies
Many years ago I working in a setting where it was 7/10 ratio favoring blk women I kept it professionally but I asked a few of dem out and got rejected every time and the same women was sleeping with the same thug guy that didn’t work there so anyway I got fired and had to escorted off the property by several officers 👮♀️ 😅 a few days later my phone was jumping off all by the women I use to work with coming over to chill with me bringing me 🥙 lunch keep in mind I’m unemployed for at least 7 months all out of saving these women paying my bills I’m laying it down and the common denominator was me losing my job ready to set shit off on site very unstable and unpredictable the nice guy that I was stable responsible courteous got rejected so there used to be go
Seriously, Martin Luther King will be so distraught to see the state of Black relationships today. He will ask himself, "You mean I gave up my life for these time-wasting mofos??😮😮😂😂😂
They lampooned that on The Boondocks. When he supposedly was in a coma instead of dead and he was like “is this what I took all them ass whoopings for”??
Honestly black men live your life , listening to women talk about pookie and ray ray is not beneficial despite what these ladies say. If black woman dont want a good black men then leave 😒 lets stop talking and begging for attention.
Exactly. I live here in Colorado where most black men here are professional, nerd and blue collar type. Over 90% of them are with or married to non black women. They know what's up with black women and their dysfunction. You can't raise a decent black family with most black women except the exceptions like Nneka, Chez Charde, Crimson Cure, e.t.c. Most of them are very dysfunctional and responsible for the dysfunction in our communities.
@@MsLotusBloomsplease y'all all get on these platforms and say that WE KNOW ITS NOT YOU, but it dam sure is 90% of BW the other 10 is married I've traveled a lot and seen a lot.
I think that most women want a man who’s desired by other women and respected by his peers(other men). He has other options(women) but refuses to exercise those options and remains with her exclusively.
Vetting is a very big deal. It has always been a group activity. Those that have your best interests in mind, usually your family, mom and dad. There's is a neccessary level of discernment in merging this complex tapestry. And in the case of BM & BW, considering our unique past, present, and inevitable future, we must be especially aware of our problems, pressures, and plight.
It's not contempt. Majority of blk men have been lied to and sent out here on dummy missions for decades just to be somebody's soft landing. The anger is very justified, we're just better on not acting on it. It's not contempt my guy, it's disappointment, anger, sadness, and feeling devalued.
So since I am not a woman I can only approach this from a man's perspective. As a man I am visual and there are plenty of women I find visually appealing. There is probably some animal brain involved in that. That said, I can recognize that certain looks usually come with too much downside so I know what to avoid. I think this is what men like myself have a hard time wrapping our heads around. Why does the downside of fooling with a pookie seem not to be a deterrent even if there is something about that energy that is appealing to women? Especially in a time when we are constantly hearing that men are terrible. Why is that energy so much more of a draw that the other qualities that would make a man a good mate, and father to children? So to be clear, I am not questioning the attraction. I am questioning the discernment
Because those niggas are easy to manipulate. MOST MEN ARE ALREADY SMARTER THAN WOMEN. They meet theyre intellectual superiors all the time. Pookie slips them in another universe tho, where she feels special and shxt... meanwhile the rest of us live in reality. They ditch the pookie to, you only the man for as long as you have it. Which is why the women become babymommas and most pookies in end in and out of bars if not ded. The worse is when they do have a long life, and just end up as a bum. Ppl that don't live conducive to they're environment are doomed to fail. Watch carefully as the resources and lifestyle that American military might had afforded us starts slipping for real. Who knows wat type of dude will be viable, I say the once that look like they can protect a females choice in the coming unrest.
Interesting. Why didn't YOU(Nneka) comment on this video? I would've loved to have heard your thoughts on this matter. You usually have a commentary for your videos. I missed hearing your commentary on this video.
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If you can keep in perpetual drama. They will be with you always. It blows my mind that i would pull drama out of no where and they would get w3t. Break a glass cup, wave your arms around, yell with a volume that would scare anyone. They love it. I got to the point that i just wanted peace. I stopped dating all women. The silence is priceless. There are some good women out there, but its like finding gold in a field of horse manure
I'll never lust after women that women be with the you types. I was never in the game, even when they try rope me into it... No sir reee! Ain't nobody got time to be going to jail, I taught Wayne Brady everything he knows IYKYK 💀💀😂😂😂
I'm just an average small town Black person with a blue collar job. I will say that 100% of every corporate Black man that I've had a 1 on 1 talk with pretended to be a thug they even change their way of talking. Then they start talking recklessly about street activity. They really come off as feds 😂😂
Thats probably who they really are and they "switch up" to their " business tone" when they are handling the business that pays them. I see a lot of lower wage earning people who deal with public for a living talking like they are at home, that usually wont get you very far in the business world. Adaptability is key to survival.
We give it the name pookie energy, but what it is, is barbarism and fearlessness, it’s that they want to feel protected, even if you got money, what makes a women get moist is when you don’t seem like a dude that other men try and when tried you handle yourself well. I know this because i’m from the hood but also reformed my life by joining the army, i’m 6’ and stocky, i get attention from women everywhere. Growing up in the hood, i was always bigger than kids my age, most kids would jump or pull a weapon. Most dudes as an adult say “if you walking down the street i wouldn’t challenge you to a fight, i’m pulling a weapon or calling somebody.” It the 50 cent effect, 50 cent is both barbaric and intelligent. And a pretty sizable dude, from the hood, and he got the respect, size and battle scars to prove it but he also got the business acumen and money to prove his intelligence. In the army my superiors while i was in training said “you look like you already served three tours in Iraq, you look fearless.” Or “so grays you like to fight, i’m putting you in boxing.” it the fearlessness of a man that attracts women.
I'd believe that if the majority of blk stars amongst our ppl weren't these wannabee hood types that look like bxtch aas niggas. I myself am 250lbs, 6ft, and stocky as well... Not a single woman ever has corroborated this viewpoint. The most common I've gotten is having mysterious eyes... (I got that niji blood in me heavy lol, low and almond shaped slits) I think it's simply money and status. I've seen fat, nasty looking, ugly, all types of unattractive men get swooned over. Idk, but being that most times when I get "activate" everyone stands on edge with bated breath, I have a hard time believing that looking dangerous it the "it" factor. You dint have to look like a menace to have the persona of being able to hold ur own.
Because we live in a duality world, our actions are tied to consequences. Meaning, positive, or negative. So, if you are not doing one, by default, you are doing the other. Fence riding is forbidden in nature.
Watching this from outside America, it is really disturbing to see the level of dysfunctionality in America particularly in the Black community when it comes to family, Your Kevin Samuels spoke about "the ethnic image" this is not a good look for African American Women, what man would ever see women who act like this en-masse and take them seriously, some things I watch them say would make any man re-coil in horror,(if I was an American I would not go near them) Sorry Nneka I know you are trying and I do recognize and appreciate your efforts.
We have to much t lose to be pookie because he simply is in an female emotional when he put at risk his life his children life freedom and respect from those in power.What u have to understand is that true power HAS to be controlled.
I was a nerd. My life = Getting and paying off the mortgage ,getting married and going on multiple holidays with my globe trotting loving wife . We’re both Caribbean British . We’re old school both our sets of parents and grand parents were also married. It’s great going on holidays with your family. Eg France Spain Africa Morocco United emirates Hawaii New York San Francisco statin island Washington Las Vegas South America Guyana the Caribbean Saint Lucia 9 times Barbados Saint Vincent & the grenadines Grenada Antigua Tobago ( honeymoon ) done most Caribbean islands twice plus two Caribbean cruises etc. That’s the life of a nerd. The life of a hoody thug = jail mental hospital the morgue drugs booze homelessness .
Funny thing is when you see the two parts of Tupac video his transformation from LOVER boy who respects women to the savage who treats them all like peices of meat. Its funny. He has always learn the hard way, sistas werent innocent or pure. This is hard for us men, Because we want to see sistas as soft, sweet, kind, and loving. But they are fallible humans, they are imperfect, they are just regular, just average. The pedstal we as men try to put them on, NO religious leader could even be held too. IM A THUG, i got a suga mama who is 70. She says she likes me because i got a little thug to me. i became more thuggish when i was highschool. I dont sell drugs or anything. Back in the day gang members just had gang fights at school. i was never put on to the set, but i was cool with a lot of bloods, because they was the kids i went to club scouts and weblos with in highschool i didnt grow in the hood, i grew in the suburbs. MOST of the bloods i knew had grew up in two parent households. All of them were middle class. Wasnt no one missing meals. if Girls were attracted to straight A students, every body would be trying to be geniuses. If girls were attracted to guys going to college brothers would literally all be in college. The guy son basketball and football team had girls. But usually those girls were either into sports or cheerleaders. MOST of the other girls went for the thugs. it didnt matter how good you look or even if you had a nice body. How i dressed alone attracted alot of women. Even now when i wear certain clothes, i get followed in the grocery store by gurls who are 28 years younger than me. Its called the game White Tee and Khakis work Jeans with certains styles embroder work Timberlands and Jordans and Dunks work The hair cut: Bald, waves with bald fade, dreads work Talking with some slang and using profanity works How you act, talk, walk, and even posture works. A guy who has a little thug bravado to him turns women on.
@@nnekaonyilofor corporate naw Just a thug. My accolades,. education, skills and other stuff I keep secret among sisters. I'm not a provider. I'm a taker. I prefer to attract women who want to spoil me Very few women know About the intellectual side of me. I lead as being thug.. because it's the swagga and edge that have attracted the sistas I desire. They see corporate guys as weak or soft someone you can. Finesse. I like being the finnesser. I'm more of smooth talker. The type of guy who is laid back, cool and down to earth, I use my gift of Gab to mental stimulate a woman just enough she feels chemistry and connection. But I also lead with sex and seduction to facilitate a spark. Charisma, swagga and edge are weapons of power I utilize to my advantage. So in short just a thug with an Insight on the female psyche.
@@JustMalcolm914 no one is naturally muscular it takes practice. I learn to roller skate and do lots of tricks. Your first time dancing you didn't look smooth or even good. I learn to dance an over time for good at it I don't know how to sing. It's not Me. But if I really wanted too I could become great a singing in a year. People aren't born being a polyglot. You learn multiple languages with practice. No one expert at basketball, pool, piano or even talking to girls with out practice. It's not being fake it's practice makes perfect and endless repetition makes you and expert. The game is something you have to learn and practice. It's a skill. Nothing more. Master the skills of the game. Macking Attracting Social skills Communication skills Soft skills Learn practice repeat. Form new habits... Can you do 100 push ups straight Can you run a mile in under 10 minutes Can you rap or sing really good If not what could you do if you practice these things daily.
@@nnekaonyilofor I work in corporate. But I became a thug in highschool. My job has nothing to do with it. I have a car and apartment because it makes it easier to get girls who don't have they own place or only on the bus. A lot of women over 40 don't even have cars. And some don't have they own. Place.. But I mess with girls of all ages
When are we having the conversation where the majority of these rappers. Who to get the level of clout, had to do things, that women won't like. By that i don't mean breaking the law, but the kind of things where you have to sell your body to other grown men to get that fame
I'm not saying it's a good thing. If sistas were different I would have never changed. There are only two choices change the race of women you date. Or change how you perceived your race and identity. I changed myself, i still attract women outside my race. But not as much as I did when I wasn't a thug. I still date outside my race and probably have been with different races of women than most men. However, my goal is black women I seek them first. In order to get them to seek me...I had to change so much... My character My personality My behavior How I talk My actions And how I treat women Even how I view women had to change In a perfect world men could wear their heart on their sleeve. Get with a girl who shows interest in her and fall in love with her at first sight and give her his all and be happily ever after. But this is not the case. Sistas take kindness for weakness..if you do too much for her she will mistakenly think you would do that for anyone..if you're a yes man to her she will see you as weak with no backbone.. Basically sistas want a man who can stand up to her. Check her, put her in her place otherwise she will walk all over him.. Similar stories, The guys who are successful with black women all changed to become more like me the guys who didn't change are successful with non black women. We eliminated our ability to fall inlove at first sight. We focus more on who likes us. Not on who we like. We go for what's fxxxckable, not what's our type.... We have all have program we adhere too. Usually dress similar in style... Urban Wear or drip Jordans or Dunks Ball cap Some other accessories and cologne Fresh hair cut every week Stay in the gym or do some physical activity We are hyper masculine. Confident and outspoken We have the gift for gab and extroverted Tend to become popular if we are in an area for a prolonged periods. I also have friends who did t change or adapt. One became a police officer. I went with him to his mama house one day we was talking about the bible and she was saying something wrong. He tried to say something...but he got quiet and let her believe the wrong thing. I defended him and say he is right and elaborated then I pulled up the Bible verse on my phone and share several more scriptures with her. We had conversations about relationships, money, businesses and religion. Before I left his mama was like take my number call me sometime I like you come back over and see me again. It's because I very opinionated and quick to stand my ground and back down even if a chick disagrees. Sistas get turned on by men checking them or proving them wrong. I think sistas just like a man who stands up to them and stands his ground. Hence why my home boys is married to a white woman..and his mama gave her phone number and was like can you come over sometime...Infront of him. It was.weird AF. Like you really trying to holla Infront of your son. When I was on Facebook telling sistas they need to change the big three things we as men don't like. I had women cuss me out of years and eventually they would change two or three things and inbox me out the blue saying you was right. I changed this an now I have great results in engaged. Most women it's just three things they need to improve. Of course not all some have alot more to do. But even if they did nothing else and change these three things they would make men so happy. But those guys who didn't become similar to me aka what they call ray ray...complain and say they wish things were different. An they consistently get cheated on and used for their money if they do get with sistas. The only ones who end up with a woman who is compatible is dating Becky or Maria or Singh or Nguyen. Ie men who divest or passport bros Because sistas need hyper masculinity. They need that Thug bravado Swagga Edge. With out you will have a hard time connecting and finding compatibility with 80% of sistas..
If u are editing who you are as a man to attract any woman, you are making a mistake. Itsis better to be true to yourself even if not one women who ever lived would like you. The serpent promised " you shall not die" by showing us how to clone ourselves ie procreation, sex. Adam disobeyed to please the woman. We still havent learned.
@@JustMalcolm914 no man naturally has muscles he has to practice and get better at it. No man can naturally be good best dancer at the club he has to practice and get good at it. I wasn't naturally the best skater I had to practice and get good at it With practice I developed the gift of Gab. With practice I became a super reader With practice I learn how to jump rope good With practice got better at shooting basket ball... None of this stuff is natural. It's like doing mathematics it takes daily practice. Start off with developing 3 to 4 things get good at it an add more. Over time you become well rounded. For instance The big three Exercise calisthenics or weights Start talking women every day just Convo Read a book every day for 20 minutes Watch how your body, mind and interactions with women change.. Get knowledge, get muscles get social skills
Does the idea Black man exist? Logic says No!, but in the mind of Black women, he out there, she just hasn't met him. They want a Suge Knight, all the aesthetics of a father figure, all the money of a baller, all the "respect"/fear of those around = protector, access to a life she has never known = provider. If they can find that archetype in a younger body, say, Tu Pac, Nick Cannon, Future..., then Black women are closer to their "perfect man" than they have been dissuaded/deterred from believing, actually, exists. For this reason - maybe a few others - they will not "lower their standards" and will not "settle" 'cause they believe their archetype is out there, she just hasn't met him yet. Derek Jaxn is an elevated Pookie, maybe even a notable Ray-Ray, a "celebrated" Ray-Ray, as the 2 are interchangeable. He has perfect aesthetics, charm/suave, a magnetic presence, he don't need do shit to have them draws at his doors.
Ladies, If you want the Corporate Thugs (Brothas), look no further than JP Morgan Chase, at 14800 Frye Rd Ft Worth TX The P slayers, and all races women can get it baby! This is public service announcement by FK and the dopest black brothas at JP Morgan. We outside!
I Know a corporate Ray Ray very successful, but he like to romance women lead them on to nowhere for months. He hates that I call him a high end ray ray. The reuslt are the same if a woman dates him with all his pedigree or dates Ray ray up the block. Its a rollercoaster ride lies deception to no where fast. the only difference is he can take you to nicer restaurants and recreational activiites but the intention is the same... sex and fun and freedom to no where. high value means nothing its a false sense of quality and charater in a man it only means high earner cause he ceratinly isnt protecting you or your feelings. One must actually have those virtues not just degrees and titles at work to qualify as a good marriagable man. Look at his history, daily character, core values make him earn your committment and love slowly maybe even to engagment.
I see these comments are a bash the black woman hate train. It's sad that so many of you can try to describe what women want when its only describes the women you have come in contact with. Maybe if the pool of worthy men was deeper women wouldn't be trying to build a man. I reject the idea that good men that aren't thugged out are what black women want. When you look at it it's other races that want them also. I am from Memphis and if you know anything about me city then know that a thug aint it
Hi everyone 👋🏾. It has been said that “Black women want to date Tupac in a suit.” Do you agree or disagree?
Agree
Facts
No tho the young tupac seemed sweet. But said women said he was too nice 🤷🏾♀️ In that video he did seem kinda sweet
In my opinion, a subset of Black Women do.
Not black women it's yall African American women are like that
Never cater to a self destructive mindset
Black women will:
> encourage you to live a lifestyle that'll get you killed
> watch you get killed
> wear a t shirt with your face on it for a few months
> start sleeping with some other guy
> while simultaneously being unsatisfied with that guy because she's still In love with the IDEA of you... Who is deceased.
It's chaos all around. Lol
That's mostly everything WRONG with them, you're missing the bastard children born out of wedlock.
Agents of chaos
If you attract that type, that's what you will have...
@@vanessarichardson110 yeah, but the funny thing is that those same women won't have those expectations for the white men that they deal with
@@ReaperCet everyone should strive to be the best person they can be
Idgaf what the ignorant ones want. Im gonna be myself. Y'all can keep the toxic women. Peace.
There’s a reason so-called nerds run the world. Because they often can’t get the girls they redirect that energy into other areas. And they develop a love for certain hobbies and creative endeavors apart from women. These are they guys who gave us all these apps we use everyday.
Too many young Black men are stuck in this cycle of defining themselves by women, their attraction or lack there of.
The irony is if we are to be the men our communities NEED we have to ignore women. At least somewhat.
A lot of what our women are attracted to and impressed by is backwards. Functional communities aren’t built on swagger and “masculine energy”
They are built on family values, stability and order. You know, the boring stuff that generally doesn’t get people excited.
I agree with you on the point of not defining yourself by your access to loose, immoral women. That's a great many of our problem. And leaves us powerless and humiliated especially if we get many women.
BUT as far as nerds running the world, I disagree. I think they are in first place in a race over a cliff. The most "developed" countries have below replacement birth levels, i.e. going extinct.
I think "modern" men and women have been removed from our true nature and may have to go back to recapture it, maybe to even survive, long term.
I agree.
2Pac in a suit. Great artist, also a convicted s-x offender, weed/cigarette smoker, heavy drinker, height under 6ft., a self-professed womanizer, high school drop-out, and gang member.💯
"But he had swag."🤪🤪🤪
L
Alot of those things are not true about Pac......
@@mrpj1390 Exactly...
Love Pac and it's all true. He was claiming Mob Piru
@@mzmav720pac ain’t a sex offender tho that was clearly proven false
And then you have the Strong, Silent and laid-back types such as myself who are about our Hustle, LEGAL that is. I am no Thug, Gangster nor Drug Dealer. But I have noticed, they are the ones within the Black Male Community who get the MOST attention. This observation, going way back to the Crack Era here in NYC. Those cats, got all the love from the ladies, and that's facts.
That's what a lot of us are exposed to in our communities. I met my husband after I changed locations. Smart, hard working, well spoken, and so many other things. What attracted me was he invited me out for coffee on our first date and he was such a gentleman. The gentleman part had me hooked, 16 years and three children later. I'm so proud of my straight-laced man.
being laid back is a big part of game,
women fall for men who are laid back. regardless if you a thug or not.
it shows confidence and a little arrogance, like i can do better than her.
An she knows it.
@@genovasquez8361 No "games"played here buddy, with all due respect. In the wise words of that other YT Content Creator Coach Adams on his channel, your T.E.A.M (Time, Energy, Attention and Money) is paramount.
Sad but true
Agreed big bro. Never had any issues personally attracting attractive women. A woman needs to know you have that dog in you to assert boundaries IMO.
I agree with the bro’s comment women are attracted to Pookie’s energy……. Well a poor blk bro on his grind legally to get work, pay bills, remain drug/alcohol free is 5x more gangster to me. Because he got a lot more to lose than the Pookies & Ray rays of the world. His job, his sobriety, his freedom, etc etc. When will our blk sisters wake up and Actually See Is Too?
Personally I’m identical to Mr James Evans (Good Times), looking for my Florida Evans…. I guess the Florida Evans of the world has been replaced by the Baddies and the Boss B’s and they not checking for the Mr James Evans of the world, but we still exist, we still on our grind, ready to die for who we love .
@@no-capcounselorsremember good times and the cosby show were fictional works of art. NOT real life.
i went to college, it was NO DIFFERENT WORLD. more like freaknic 1996
Many black women see this. Many black men do not see her.
They know exactly they just don't care or want good men until they need them
Life-long lame here. Recently have getting alot of ex Pookie groupies trying to get me to "take them on dates" aka get in my pocketses. Lol. Im suprised that its actually funny to me. I should be offended. Somebody told them us lames would be waiting to save them after they been ran through.
I remember a song "dont save her" but ima edit in "now that she wants to be saved."
Stay with Pookie baby. Im still lame as ever, even more.
Ain’t nobody trying to go out with you stop capping
It’s amazing how our Icon Tupac made this video eons ago yet it’s still relevant today. Rest in Power my brother
Remember Freaknic 1994. Nothing has changed. The 304s have taught their daughters and grand daughters to be just like them.
304 nature was the same back in 1990s.
The whole redpill and manospher ish was basically what we called the "GAME".
infact there is a book by iceberg slim
He details female nature, greatly. an i wanna say he from the 1920s.
Facts
He’s your icon..
@@vjones34 exactly say it again
Whose icon?
Honestly if you're an upstanding dude who's disciplined and handles his business, you're better off without those women who are attracted to the pookies and Ray-rays anyway. Water seeks its own level.
Nah, we don't care about no pookie energy. Get your passports gentlemen ✈️
It's a big world out there with lots of options ✈️
A lot of people have this same mentality about moving out of state the problem is that you are still taking yourself there so if you can't get a women to submit to you perhaps you need to choose better and have better leadership skills because men are in charge of the relationship. The men approach, the men ask the women on a date, the men propose marriage.
@user-yr6xc7gg8q Passport IS choosing better, you stuck in that 1960s mentality while dudes is waking up to the bs. Forget about chasing these 304s.
💯 yup
Being a man's man taking care of ur busy while being a gentleman to real feminine women is frown upon now a days shouts out the man's man
Because sistas see such a man as feminine, you need to be hyper masculine, because they view themselves as being more masculine than even Brad, Shane, or Conrad.
Just look at how average sistas, act, talk, behave and even their posture and walk.
They are way more masculine looking and sounding than
Bill Gates
Jeff Bezos
the facebook guy
they just are more masculine in theor phyisology than most asian and indian men.
So black men who are just normal masculine men seem feminine to most sistas.
BECAUSE sistas are actually hyper masculine compared to normal men.
This is disturbing, the more I learn about women/male dynamics the more I realize why humanity hasn’t evolved very much in certain regards . It’s our mating and selections & habits . Both men and women typically use low vibrational, primal energy to attract someone to copulate with . It’s crazy how changing yourself into a sorta bad boy/girl increases your attraction to the opposite sex. Great video none the less. Keep grinding ma’am
👏🏽 Someone gets it.
It's the same as men who try to turn whores into housewives instead of looking for the girl next door. They will date the city girl and complain about how she dresses and how much she parties rather than going to find a girl who already dresses modestly and has fewer friends. It's not fair to either side. Just accept people as they are or move on. Don't try to change them.
I’m realizing the same thing it’s almost like this comment was for me. “Low vibrational energy” is the only way to explain it.
They want a savage gentleman
Corporate thug will have you in jail and no job if they cant be happy without drama. Mental anquish emasculating deceitful. We have a problem.
Don't mind them. They want black men to have some type of record to control them. The irony is if he is non black man, all of a sudden him being nerd, professional and blue collar become cute and attractive to them but not in a black man. Example Serena Williams husband, black women will brag he was cofounder of Reddit. Now all of a sudden, this is attractive to them. Question is do you know how many black men own tech companies? They don't know because they are so focused on dating pokies and thugish black men. These women don't love you black men, they promote dysfunction among black men while the promote excellence among non black men.
It's silly I know almost some Young and the Restless crap.
See Shirley Strawberry
@@cpthetrucker9067 facts. This is true is shows even. Sophisticated elegant beautiful upward noble person loves the pookie lol
I don’t think you understand what the label means
They what James "Ghost" St. Patrick from Power, and admire Tasha St. Patrick. They want that lifestyle and that type of bragging rights.
they want you to be stringer bell
We saw tasha resent ghost more and more for wanting to leave the criminal life behind and even encouraged her son to be a drug dealer
That’s why I said Angela was the one who really loved him because she wanted him to be legit.
In my opinion the type of women that are attracted to these guys, feel a connection to them because it does not require much of them. They don’t have to be have, there are no rules. When you date a typical upwardly mobile corporate guy, you are expected to behave as a corporate wife. So many of us who choose women outside of the culture are doing so for that reason. We don’t want to be embarrassed by the behavior of our women. We expect something out of them and that is not always fun, it’s rewarding! But not always fun
All facts💯
This argument is valid. Women who like thugs know they won’t be held to any standard of achievement because all a thug cares about is how good she looks and whether she puts it down in the bedroom.
This is it.
That’s definitely a factor they know all they can do is bring looks and don’t have to put any other effort.
I will be honest I fall into this category of man. I played the streets and a young man, went to jail and reformed my life at a young age. I now work as an architect for a reputable firm. As a young black man I do not find many men who played the streets like I did and made better choices. They usually wait until they are 40 or 50 before they make those changes.
Had too many women say this to me when i was younger. I learned it was a test because i had certain bad traits when i was younger. They were attracted but wanted to see me in action. I had to learn that was the wrong attention also while learning to lay down the hood mentality i grew up with so that i could advance my career.
Let me be clear, even if you do find him, he wont be successful long term if he doesn't change his mentality. When he lose the corporate, you gonna be stuck with the thug.
Tupac changed his character for women. Imagine how many good guys or nice guys become thugs, pookies, and Ray Ray because they want women.
It shows you how powerful women are.
It shows how weak some of those men are. I grew up in hood of LA in the 90’s. I saw guys dive head first into the gang life because it got them more attention from women.
Risking your freedom and livelihood for the attention of women is the true definition of a lame.
They changed for the worse though. If this is their power it’s no good.
@@LitCentralMillennialXLIII Just imagine if they can speak life to a young boy or maybe change a bad boy into a good man.
Yeah, Tupac is dead! Glad to see how well that worked out for him. Men have the power if they wouldn’t give in to those demands. Black women have lost me. I date Mediterranean (Armenian, Greek, etc.), Asian, or non-African-American Black women.
You black Americans worship women
I do not want this. I love a kind gentleman. My fiance is literally the sweetest man I've ever met. I wanted nothing more than to be a wife to a gentle spirited man.
THEY WANT "GHOST"!
Facts 💯
The crazy part is I am an actual corporate thug! I grew up in poverty stricken streets of Cleveland Ohio. Selling drugs and being in gangs. I left home and graduated from college and have worked in corporate finance for 20+ years! I have never had a problem getting women. My issue is having too many women and being greedy and lustful. Everything that was said in this video is very accurate and true! Thanks for sharing!
why do you find yourself having too many women or being to greedy????
What measures have you put into place to limit the access women have to you????
It might be you are too obsessed with physical atttaction , sex ,and having moment in now time
@@Moonshinesgreen physical and Attraction and sexual compatibility is the most important thing
There's no such thing as a "corporate thug" dude. You're a guy that's street smart and intelligent enough to know the dumb shit in the streets isn't sustainable lifestyle. Also, you like pussy. A lot. Women gravitate to people who are positive and successful. Congratulations on all that. Just like wine, women are good in moderation brother. Be careful out there🤙
Same! Went to jail for attempted murder at 16, beat it and got out at 17, and had my son. I was gang banger (GDN), a drug dealer and even did drugs. Never had problems with women or disrespectful over/undertones. Had my daughters at age 23 & 24. Something changed in me. Idk what it was but it was like a light switched on. I cut my dreads. I squared up. I went back to school and got into IT. I got full custody of my son. All of this happened in a 10 year time frame. I’m 30 bro & A lot of people tell me I act like a old man lol. I stay away from large crowds. I don’t have social media. I read and watch RUclips videos . Me and my son go to the boxing gym, eat, and pray. I like peace, but most Bw tell me that’s lame 🤷🏿♂️ What’s crazy is a lot of women tell me I still give them the thug vibes until I list my accomplishments, aspirations and long term goals, it’s almost as if an inferiority complex kicks in. I’ve had women tell me I’m lame because I don’t smoke weed anymore. I’ve been told I think ima “white boy” because I like to jog. I’ve had women tell me I think I’m better than them or they’ll accuse me of insulting their intelligence all because I may give suggestions or opinions or certain matters and stand on it. Hell my own baby mama reminds me every chance she gets who the old me was. I usually wear polo shirts tucked in my khakis with loafs. I’ve been told I think I’m “too much for myself” and I take myself to serious. I guess to get respect from BW you have to be a young hothead ready to crash out or someone they feel better than.
I also never have these problems with other races of women. It’s real bad out here bro 😮💨 #Doneventing
Edit: My son is 13 and has the same exact complaints as me. This is a very deep problem in our community.
This couldn’t be more true had a chick who I was seeing was legit an engineer for the government but degraded me because I talk proper and “act/dress” white. It’s not just normal women it’s the ones in high positions that look down on professional brothas
I've had two girlfriends try to dress me up in some timberland boots. Once on a shopping spree for myself to expand my style (accompanied) and the a second time when I received some knockoff timberlands as a christmas gift. Years later, I took the fake timberlands out off storage and use them as my squating support boots.
Tims are GREAT for heavy lifting.
And they will get you through walking 7 miles in hurricane flooded Houston streets 😅 I still have that 'Harvey' pair... 🔥
@@jasonBGIyes!
timberlands and jordans i been wearing since way back win.
girls love my jays.
also another thing that gets girls in them jeans with the drip. girls love that stuff.
i started dressing hood back in 1994. its what attracted the most black girls.
before that, it was the white girls, biracials and asian chicks approaching me the most.
@genovasquez8361 girls not women. Asians are fulfilling their fetish.
When I think of corporate thug I think of Jay Z and Kendrick Lamar. Their bad boy persona is layered, they are introspective and selectively vulnerable through their art. They are obviously intelligent and honest about who they are, who they have been and what they want. Both of these men are married now, so not your average every day Pookie. Men don’t have to be BAD men, the opposite is actually more attractive. Maintain a good heart despite the hardships life puts you through and give up on trying to please everyone. Be someone that people want to follow. That’s how you achieve this level of “villain rizz.”
You mention hardships. What if a guy never grew up with hardships? What if he grew up in a normal, middle-class, two-parent home?
It’s a shame that he is invisible to most black women.
@DeCurtaRican facts💯
They want a Casino,Goodfellas,Joe Pesci type black dudes
The ladies are mighty quiet in this comment section today, lol, very interesting.
But, thank you for addressing this issue. I believe I’ve commented on one of your earlier videos regarding “Invisible Black Women”, and I mentioned that there are also ALOT of Invisible Black Men. It’s a sad reality that in the black community, if you don’t fit into the norms of the current popular culture, then you may as well be wearing an invisibility cloak, smh, that’s just the way it is.
Is this the reason the Pass port Bros receive so much hate because they are intelligent enough to find a woman who enjoys a man who can be himself without the Thug Life behavior.
I'm training my 12 year old to be feminine,&go for the Russell&Micheal B.Jordan types.
No you aren't
Lies
I'm a well educated, and earning professional man, Nigerian. Not a thug in any way shape or form. Corporate dudes don't lack as a general rule. I think at the end of the day, women are drawn to confidence and power - whatever the particular setting. A lot of Black folks in America grow up in certain imperfect circumstances, so in the hood "power" looks a lot like pookie to those women. In the world outside, power looks like not only money, but authority within your circle and over your affairs and if so, you will attract women, no matter their race, hue or financial level (hood chicks too if that's your jam).
I love men who have something going for themselves (pursuing their degree, having their own business, etc), and they are not about that street life.
The problem is young black girls don't think that way until they get older with a couple of kids
@@bama2dabone229 Sad but true.
The problem is some women Thank street and violence equals protection.
But why can't he be a corporate guy and a man at the same time that can protect you Everybody's not from the street
@@evanking0588 Facts. I just wish these young women would see that if a man is about that violent thug street life...he might use it on her 😬
Only black women hold their men to this standard beyond their late teens or colleges years. Other women know that you cannot win in life with a 40-year-old thug.
One more thing: Jay-Z is no thug…never was.
Unfortunately, the thug/hood/street image is the “standard” of black male masculinity in the black community.
Yup. Its like this in the hood, in schools.. these dynamics get tweaked but they never really change.
A Tupac with a degree.
They want Ghost from Power!😂😂😂
The 🙋🏾♂️ Question is, what do women want, the answer is:
Every 🤬 Daaaaamn Thing.....A Modern Black Womans ideal man is 6'6, he has 100 tattoos & gold teeth, he's been locked up before, he has 3 degrees, he makes over 200 thousand a year, he's an entrepreneur, that helps her kids with their homework & he's at home every night before 8:00.....Because this describes like 5 different dudes they become like that feather in Forrest Gump constantly floating from 1 failed relationship to another, and end up buying a 🐶 & dying alone , because settling is totally out of the question.
🤣🤣🤣
The guy that is street savy… prolly got caught in a RICO/felony indictment, but got off bc he could afford good lawyers 🤣
Corporate thugs? So black women want a man who acts like a comic book villain?
😅😂😂
You have to remember women live in fantasy, men live in reality
😂😂😂😂
Superman AND Clark Kent rolled into one dude. 😂
DC villain 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great video! The point made about the energy being wanted by the woman being similar or the same as a middle linebacker and the street dude is very accurate solid and pretty much describes myself and my inner circle of brothers. We all were solid athletes in high school, college, and some professional and we all use that same energy to be successful and perform in various careers/line of work now ranging from high school football coach to construction supervisor to engineer in oil and gas industry. We talk about it from time to time as men now and we all know that we just have 'it' in us that drives us. Its a beautiful thing. A man should always have his edge and fire it just has to be directed in a position direction and not for negative. Keep on keeping on Nneka!
Thank you for your comment!
Good video sis.. Rom and Pac are correct about the energy ladies are attracted to. Like Tupac you play a character and it's actually sad because alot of brothers are good guys but know that to maintain frame and not get used and gamed it has to be moderated.
The Game is undefeated. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Stringer Bell from The Wire is what made BW fall in love with Idris Elba. Many BW didn’t find Michael B Jordan sexy, until he played Erik Killmonger or Adonis Creed. Before that all you heard was corny, like that goofy chick he went to HS with in Newark.
I see you used some content from the Brother Rom Wills..great video. BTW, this video torpedoes the “ self improvement “ argument that BW like to use.
Our smartest black boys don't desire to go to college for education because black girls think that's lame, They see those same girls giving all their love and respect to the Pookies
Many years ago I working in a setting where it was 7/10 ratio favoring blk women I kept it professionally but I asked a few of dem out and got rejected every time and the same women was sleeping with the same thug guy that didn’t work there so anyway I got fired and had to escorted off the property by several officers 👮♀️ 😅 a few days later my phone was jumping off all by the women I use to work with coming over to chill with me bringing me 🥙 lunch keep in mind I’m unemployed for at least 7 months all out of saving these women paying my bills I’m laying it down and the common denominator was me losing my job ready to set shit off on site very unstable and unpredictable the nice guy that I was stable responsible courteous got rejected so there used to be go
That’s sad bro. They really are attracted to no good dudes out here.
Never care if a woman tells you that you're too nice because you're good she's just not good enough for you
The thang is WATER SEEKS ITS OWN LEVEL 💯👌🏿
Really good insight on this topic! 99% of everything in this video is true.
Seriously, Martin Luther King will be so distraught to see the state of Black relationships today. He will ask himself, "You mean I gave up my life for these time-wasting mofos??😮😮😂😂😂
They lampooned that on The Boondocks. When he supposedly was in a coma instead of dead and he was like “is this what I took all them ass whoopings for”??
No me!! I'm allergic to thugs 😂😂
Honestly black men live your life , listening to women talk about pookie and ray ray is not beneficial despite what these ladies say. If black woman dont want a good black men then leave 😒 lets stop talking and begging for attention.
Exactly. I live here in Colorado where most black men here are professional, nerd and blue collar type. Over 90% of them are with or married to non black women. They know what's up with black women and their dysfunction. You can't raise a decent black family with most black women except the exceptions like Nneka, Chez Charde, Crimson Cure, e.t.c. Most of them are very dysfunctional and responsible for the dysfunction in our communities.
I have no idea what kind of women you're referring to. I'm black and don't want a low class thug as a partner.
@@MsLotusBloomsplease y'all all get on these platforms and say that WE KNOW ITS NOT YOU, but it dam sure is 90% of BW the other 10 is married I've traveled a lot and seen a lot.
Where do you get your video clips?
I think that most women want a man who’s desired by other women and respected by his peers(other men). He has other options(women) but refuses to exercise those options and remains with her exclusively.
Those types of dudes are literally shared by the comminitah lol this is why bw stay single.
In other words they want a mythical “loyal alpha”. Something that doesn’t exist.
@@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 Yeah they want it both ways smh it's pure delusion.
Dumbest ish I ever heard but it's true and that is why bastard kids run wild in the ghetto
This speaks to the "low boiling contemp" of BM.
Vetting is a very big deal. It has always been a group activity. Those that have your best interests in mind, usually your family, mom and dad. There's is a neccessary level of discernment in merging this complex tapestry. And in the case of BM & BW, considering our unique past, present, and inevitable future, we must be especially aware of our problems, pressures, and plight.
It's not contempt. Majority of blk men have been lied to and sent out here on dummy missions for decades just to be somebody's soft landing.
The anger is very justified, we're just better on not acting on it. It's not contempt my guy, it's disappointment, anger, sadness, and feeling devalued.
@@KNGDDDE great points
So since I am not a woman I can only approach this from a man's perspective. As a man I am visual and there are plenty of women I find visually appealing. There is probably some animal brain involved in that. That said, I can recognize that certain looks usually come with too much downside so I know what to avoid.
I think this is what men like myself have a hard time wrapping our heads around. Why does the downside of fooling with a pookie seem not to be a deterrent even if there is something about that energy that is appealing to women? Especially in a time when we are constantly hearing that men are terrible. Why is that energy so much more of a draw that the other qualities that would make a man a good mate, and father to children?
So to be clear, I am not questioning the attraction. I am questioning the discernment
Because those niggas are easy to manipulate. MOST MEN ARE ALREADY SMARTER THAN WOMEN. They meet theyre intellectual superiors all the time.
Pookie slips them in another universe tho, where she feels special and shxt... meanwhile the rest of us live in reality.
They ditch the pookie to, you only the man for as long as you have it. Which is why the women become babymommas and most pookies in end in and out of bars if not ded. The worse is when they do have a long life, and just end up as a bum.
Ppl that don't live conducive to they're environment are doomed to fail. Watch carefully as the resources and lifestyle that American military might had afforded us starts slipping for real.
Who knows wat type of dude will be viable, I say the once that look like they can protect a females choice in the coming unrest.
Interesting. Why didn't YOU(Nneka) comment on this video? I would've loved to have heard your thoughts on this matter. You usually have a commentary for your videos. I missed hearing your commentary on this video.
I will. In my next video.
Thank!!!!
If a guy adopts Pookie behavior (Tupac) he will attract Pookie women.
Women who date Pookies will get Pookie treatment.
Wrong black woman wrong not this time you can't lie your self out of this
They want Ghost from Power because he can walk and talk in the corporate world and on the streets.
Exactly fundamentally no woman wants to be with a weak coward period
Women for the most part inately want to be, to feel protected. If your a Passive type of dude, good luck.
No man want a stupid slut, except Pookie and Ray Ray.
Who is your best agent? Your language. It promotes your culture, your history, your ideology, and justifies flaws.
The English language conveys the ideologies of its creators. Death, destruction, and domination .
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If you can keep in perpetual drama. They will be with you always. It blows my mind that i would pull drama out of no where and they would get w3t. Break a glass cup, wave your arms around, yell with a volume that would scare anyone. They love it. I got to the point that i just wanted peace. I stopped dating all women. The silence is priceless. There are some good women out there, but its like finding gold in a field of horse manure
I'll never lust after women that women be with the you types. I was never in the game, even when they try rope me into it...
No sir reee! Ain't nobody got time to be going to jail, I taught Wayne Brady everything he knows IYKYK 💀💀😂😂😂
I’ve never known about this. This is some of your best work
I'm just an average small town Black person with a blue collar job. I will say that 100% of every corporate Black man that I've had a 1 on 1 talk with pretended to be a thug they even change their way of talking. Then they start talking recklessly about street activity. They really come off as feds 😂😂
They don't need to do all that to please black women. They should date and marry out. Move on with life!
@@akendon7260 They do it when they are married to other races. They switch up when they are around other Black people.
@@BLOCKBOI3RD I get your point. All I'm saying is it's unnecessary for them to be switching up to please dysfunctional culture of ours.
@@akendon7260 That's facts. Nobody else tries to identify with the dysfunctional part of their group.
Thats probably who they really are and they "switch up" to their " business tone" when they are handling the business that pays them. I see a lot of lower wage earning people who deal with public for a living talking like they are at home, that usually wont get you very far in the business world. Adaptability is key to survival.
We give it the name pookie energy, but what it is, is barbarism and fearlessness, it’s that they want to feel protected, even if you got money, what makes a women get moist is when you don’t seem like a dude that other men try and when tried you handle yourself well. I know this because i’m from the hood but also reformed my life by joining the army, i’m 6’ and stocky, i get attention from women everywhere. Growing up in the hood, i was always bigger than kids my age, most kids would jump or pull a weapon.
Most dudes as an adult say “if you walking down the street i wouldn’t challenge you to a fight, i’m pulling a weapon or calling somebody.” It the 50 cent effect, 50 cent is both barbaric and intelligent. And a pretty sizable dude, from the hood, and he got the respect, size and battle scars to prove it but he also got the business acumen and money to prove his intelligence. In the army my superiors while i was in training said “you look like you already served three tours in Iraq, you look fearless.” Or “so grays you like to fight, i’m putting you in boxing.” it the fearlessness of a man that attracts women.
I'd believe that if the majority of blk stars amongst our ppl weren't these wannabee hood types that look like bxtch aas niggas. I myself am 250lbs, 6ft, and stocky as well...
Not a single woman ever has corroborated this viewpoint. The most common I've gotten is having mysterious eyes... (I got that niji blood in me heavy lol, low and almond shaped slits)
I think it's simply money and status. I've seen fat, nasty looking, ugly, all types of unattractive men get swooned over. Idk, but being that most times when I get "activate" everyone stands on edge with bated breath, I have a hard time believing that looking dangerous it the "it" factor.
You dint have to look like a menace to have the persona of being able to hold ur own.
FACTS MAN ENERGY SO POWERFUL GOOD WORK🎯🎯
Because we live in a duality world, our actions are tied to consequences. Meaning, positive, or negative. So, if you are not doing one, by default, you are doing the other. Fence riding is forbidden in nature.
They want Jay-Z
No home training activities
Watching this from outside America, it is really disturbing to see the level of dysfunctionality in America particularly in the Black community when it comes to family, Your Kevin Samuels spoke about "the ethnic image" this is not a good look for African American Women, what man would ever see women who act like this en-masse and take them seriously, some things I watch them say would make any man re-coil in horror,(if I was an American I would not go near them) Sorry Nneka I know you are trying and I do recognize and appreciate your efforts.
Thank you for your comment!
We have to much t lose to be pookie because he simply is in an female emotional when he put at risk his life his children life freedom and respect from those in power.What u have to understand is that true power HAS to be controlled.
Functional resolves in commendable works 👍
Key word ideal just an 💡 not rooted in reality so that explains it in their mind so wrong mindset
Brilliant I’m a new sub
SMH it's either going to be a ex inmate or a gigolo/ pookie. These are going to soon be the only man available that's looking.
Good man be on your purpose and don't be too often
I was a nerd. My life = Getting and paying off the mortgage ,getting married and going on multiple holidays with my globe trotting loving wife . We’re both Caribbean British . We’re old school both our sets of parents and grand parents were also married. It’s great going on holidays with your family. Eg France Spain Africa Morocco United emirates Hawaii New York San Francisco statin island Washington Las Vegas South America Guyana the Caribbean Saint Lucia 9 times Barbados Saint Vincent & the grenadines Grenada Antigua Tobago ( honeymoon ) done most Caribbean islands twice plus two Caribbean cruises etc. That’s the life of a nerd. The life of a hoody thug = jail mental hospital the morgue drugs booze homelessness .
They exists but not enough to go around. That thug guy for some reason never got jail time & jumped on the straight n narrow when they read the room
Pac in a suit
Funny thing is when you see the two parts of Tupac video his transformation from LOVER boy who respects women to the savage who treats them all like peices of meat. Its funny. He has always learn the hard way, sistas werent innocent or pure.
This is hard for us men, Because we want to see sistas as soft, sweet, kind, and loving.
But they are fallible humans, they are imperfect, they are just regular, just average.
The pedstal we as men try to put them on, NO religious leader could even be held too.
IM A THUG, i got a suga mama who is 70. She says she likes me because i got a little thug to me.
i became more thuggish when i was highschool. I dont sell drugs or anything.
Back in the day gang members just had gang fights at school.
i was never put on to the set, but i was cool with a lot of bloods, because they was the kids i went to club scouts and weblos with in highschool
i didnt grow in the hood, i grew in the suburbs. MOST of the bloods i knew had grew up in two parent households.
All of them were middle class. Wasnt no one missing meals.
if Girls were attracted to straight A students, every body would be trying to be geniuses.
If girls were attracted to guys going to college brothers would literally all be in college.
The guy son basketball and football team had girls. But usually those girls were either into sports or cheerleaders.
MOST of the other girls went for the thugs.
it didnt matter how good you look or even if you had a nice body.
How i dressed alone attracted alot of women.
Even now when i wear certain clothes, i get followed in the grocery store by gurls who are 28 years younger than me.
Its called the game
White Tee and Khakis work
Jeans with certains styles embroder work
Timberlands and Jordans and Dunks work
The hair cut: Bald, waves with bald fade, dreads work
Talking with some slang and using profanity works
How you act, talk, walk, and even posture works.
A guy who has a little thug bravado to him turns women on.
Do you identify as a corporate thug or just a thug?
@@nnekaonyilofor corporate naw
Just a thug.
My accolades,. education, skills and other stuff I keep secret among sisters.
I'm not a provider. I'm a taker.
I prefer to attract women who want to spoil me
Very few women know About the intellectual side of me.
I lead as being thug.. because it's the swagga and edge that have attracted the sistas I desire.
They see corporate guys as weak or soft someone you can. Finesse.
I like being the finnesser.
I'm more of smooth talker.
The type of guy who is laid back, cool and down to earth, I use my gift of Gab to mental stimulate a woman just enough she feels chemistry and connection.
But I also lead with sex and seduction to facilitate a spark. Charisma, swagga and edge are weapons of power I utilize to my advantage.
So in short just a thug with an Insight on the female psyche.
So what if those things are not who you are y b fake
@@JustMalcolm914 no one is naturally muscular it takes practice.
I learn to roller skate and do lots of tricks.
Your first time dancing you didn't look smooth or even good. I learn to dance an over time for good at it
I don't know how to sing. It's not Me. But if I really wanted too I could become great a singing in a year.
People aren't born being a polyglot. You learn multiple languages with practice.
No one expert at basketball, pool, piano or even talking to girls with out practice.
It's not being fake it's practice makes perfect and endless repetition makes you and expert.
The game is something you have to learn and practice. It's a skill. Nothing more. Master the skills of the game.
Macking
Attracting
Social skills
Communication skills
Soft skills
Learn practice repeat.
Form new habits...
Can you do 100 push ups straight
Can you run a mile in under 10 minutes
Can you rap or sing really good
If not what could you do if you practice these things daily.
@@nnekaonyilofor I work in corporate. But I became a thug in highschool.
My job has nothing to do with it.
I have a car and apartment because it makes it easier to get girls who don't have they own place or only on the bus.
A lot of women over 40 don't even have cars. And some don't have they own. Place..
But I mess with girls of all ages
On today’s episode of why the black community finishes last….
Imagine a lioness speaking the language of a hyena. Meaning, all there actions becomes negative and backwards.
Lower the music cuz its too loud wheb you doing commentary
😂 just like an accident waiting to happen.
When are we having the conversation where the majority of these rappers. Who to get the level of clout, had to do things, that women won't like. By that i don't mean breaking the law, but the kind of things where you have to sell your body to other grown men to get that fame
I'm not saying it's a good thing.
If sistas were different I would have never changed.
There are only two choices change the race of women you date. Or change how you perceived your race and identity.
I changed myself, i still attract women outside my race. But not as much as I did when I wasn't a thug.
I still date outside my race and probably have been with different races of women than most men.
However, my goal is black women I seek them first. In order to get them to seek me...I had to change so much...
My character
My personality
My behavior
How I talk
My actions
And how I treat women
Even how I view women had to change
In a perfect world men could wear their heart on their sleeve. Get with a girl who shows interest in her and fall in love with her at first sight and give her his all and be happily ever after. But this is not the case. Sistas take kindness for weakness..if you do too much for her she will mistakenly think you would do that for anyone..if you're a yes man to her she will see you as weak with no backbone..
Basically sistas want a man who can stand up to her. Check her, put her in her place otherwise she will walk all over him..
Similar stories,
The guys who are successful with black women all changed to become more like me the guys who didn't change are successful with non black women.
We eliminated our ability to fall inlove at first sight.
We focus more on who likes us. Not on who we like.
We go for what's fxxxckable, not what's our type....
We have all have program we adhere too.
Usually dress similar in style...
Urban Wear or drip
Jordans or Dunks
Ball cap
Some other accessories and cologne
Fresh hair cut every week
Stay in the gym or do some physical activity
We are hyper masculine.
Confident and outspoken
We have the gift for gab and extroverted
Tend to become popular if we are in an area for a prolonged periods.
I also have friends who did t change or adapt. One became a police officer.
I went with him to his mama house one day we was talking about the bible and she was saying something wrong. He tried to say something...but he got quiet and let her believe the wrong thing.
I defended him and say he is right and elaborated then I pulled up the Bible verse on my phone and share several more scriptures with her. We had conversations about relationships, money, businesses and religion. Before I left his mama was like take my number call me sometime I like you come back over and see me again.
It's because I very opinionated and quick to stand my ground and back down even if a chick disagrees.
Sistas get turned on by men checking them or proving them wrong. I think sistas just like a man who stands up to them and stands his ground.
Hence why my home boys is married to a white woman..and his mama gave her phone number and was like can you come over sometime...Infront of him.
It was.weird AF. Like you really trying to holla Infront of your son.
When I was on Facebook telling sistas they need to change the big three things we as men don't like.
I had women cuss me out of years and eventually they would change two or three things and inbox me out the blue saying you was right. I changed this an now I have great results in engaged.
Most women it's just three things they need to improve. Of course not all some have alot more to do. But even if they did nothing else and change these three things they would make men so happy.
But those guys who didn't become similar to me aka what they call ray ray...complain and say they wish things were different. An they consistently get cheated on and used for their money if they do get with sistas.
The only ones who end up with a woman who is compatible is dating Becky or Maria or Singh or Nguyen.
Ie men who divest or passport bros
Because sistas need hyper masculinity.
They need that
Thug bravado
Swagga
Edge.
With out you will have a hard time connecting and finding compatibility with 80% of sistas..
If u are editing who you are as a man to attract any woman, you are making a mistake. Itsis better to be true to yourself even if not one women who ever lived would like you. The serpent promised " you shall not die" by showing us how to clone ourselves ie procreation, sex.
Adam disobeyed to please the woman. We still havent learned.
So what if naturally it's not in you
So what if naturally it's not in you
@@JustMalcolm914 no man naturally has muscles he has to practice and get better at it.
No man can naturally be good best dancer at the club he has to practice and get good at it.
I wasn't naturally the best skater I had to practice and get good at it
With practice I developed the gift of Gab.
With practice I became a super reader
With practice I learn how to jump rope good
With practice got better at shooting basket ball...
None of this stuff is natural. It's like doing mathematics it takes daily practice.
Start off with developing 3 to 4 things get good at it an add more.
Over time you become well rounded.
For instance
The big three
Exercise calisthenics or weights
Start talking women every day just Convo
Read a book every day for 20 minutes
Watch how your body, mind and interactions with women change..
Get knowledge, get muscles get social skills
Does the idea Black man exist? Logic says No!, but in the mind of Black women, he out there, she just hasn't met him. They want a Suge Knight, all the aesthetics of a father figure, all the money of a baller, all the "respect"/fear of those around = protector, access to a life she has never known = provider. If they can find that archetype in a younger body, say, Tu Pac, Nick Cannon, Future..., then Black women are closer to their "perfect man" than they have been dissuaded/deterred from believing, actually, exists. For this reason - maybe a few others - they will not "lower their standards" and will not "settle" 'cause they believe their archetype is out there, she just hasn't met him yet. Derek Jaxn is an elevated Pookie, maybe even a notable Ray-Ray, a "celebrated" Ray-Ray, as the 2 are interchangeable. He has perfect aesthetics, charm/suave, a magnetic presence, he don't need do shit to have them draws at his doors.
'IDEOLOGY'😱
They want a black lex luthor
Ladies, If you want the Corporate Thugs (Brothas), look no further than JP Morgan Chase, at 14800 Frye Rd Ft Worth TX
The P slayers, and all races women can get it baby!
This is public service announcement by FK and the dopest black brothas at JP Morgan. We outside!
I Know a corporate Ray Ray very successful, but he like to romance women lead them on to nowhere for months. He hates that I call him a high end ray ray. The reuslt are the same if a woman dates him with all his pedigree or dates Ray ray up the block. Its a rollercoaster ride lies deception to no where fast. the only difference is he can take you to nicer restaurants and recreational activiites but the intention is the same... sex and fun and freedom to no where. high value means nothing its a false sense of quality and charater in a man it only means high earner cause he ceratinly isnt protecting you or your feelings. One must actually have those virtues not just degrees and titles at work to qualify as a good marriagable man. Look at his history, daily character, core values make him earn your committment and love slowly maybe even to engagment.
Basically want a crazy man 🤦🏽♂️
💯🖖🏾🌹💪🏾
I see these comments are a bash the black woman hate train. It's sad that so many of you can try to describe what women want when its only describes the women you have come in contact with. Maybe if the pool of worthy men was deeper women wouldn't be trying to build a man. I reject the idea that good men that aren't thugged out are what black women want. When you look at it it's other races that want them also. I am from Memphis and if you know anything about me city then know that a thug aint it
IMPOSSIBLE
Villain origin story.
That mf don’t exist.
Women don't know what they want
Compelling. Narrative revisions.
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And us men have too know this these are nor women adult females that's it