1. Establish a culture of devotion 2. Communicate expectations clearly 3. System of handling conflict 4. System of handling finances 5. Learn to listen 6. Share (Openness & transparency) 7. Put your legal work in paper 8. Establish a good relationship with your in-laws. 9. Plans, goals & vision 10. Talk about family planning (& how you'd raise your children) 11. Establish traditions (Don't judge the health of the marriage by the consistency of the traditions tho') 11 years & counting...(with JESUS tho'😅)
I've been married for 23 years, and I just shared this video with my daughter, who got married in July! Thank you for sharing these truths. New couples will find them helpful.
I am zero married, no man yet but I'm getting married next year 2025 and before February next year , I'm meeting my destined partner, a man after God's heart that will love me as Christ loves the church
It's zero years, I am waiting on the Lord and prophetically getting married before August 2025. Thank you so much for the powerful insight. I pray God helps us all implement wisdom in our marriages.
Listening to respond is a Nigerian disease, I tell my subordinates at work especially when it's appraisal season. Listen, take feed back especially when it's given constructively. Don't just hear, LISTEN. Listen, internalise be introspective. It's my zero years o, still trusting God but my good friend sent this to me propheticlly. She said as she was watching, I came to her mind and she said God knows why, so here I am saying though it's Oct2024, there is still a lot of time for God to do it😁😁❤️❤️
It's exactly 3 months of my marriage today. I believe my steps were ordered here because I've been intentionally asking the Holy Ghost to show me how to build my home. God bless you, Ma! Thanks for sharing! I've gained new insights.
Its my first year in marriage and i got pregnant 2months after marriage we didn't even have the time to talk about family planning.Look forward to the video for couples about to have their first child.Thanks for this video.❤
So much wisdom is packed in this! I’m still a university student with marriage not in the radar yet but i know I’ll definitely rewatch this when the time is right For now, I’ll hold on to point 2 because I think that’s also important in close non-romantic relationships Thank you so much PL!❤
So much wisdom in this words of wisdom from PL My marriage will be 20 years this December It's like a magic boom we are here and God is helping us Personally I am not enduring marriage but enjoying to the fullest christian home is good Marriage is sweet honestly
This is so profound. Implementation seems to always be the probelm. If both spouse have access to this information it becomes easy to hold each other accountable
Its going to be One year this October! I am so blessed to come across your Video ma!! Thank you so much ma. More of God's Wisdom and More Knowledge. My Marriage is blessed, Fulfilling and Fruitful!!
The Holy Spirit has always been directing me here to learn for the future. I’m not married yet but I have no doubt that with all these lessons I have been learning here my marriage will work and it will be heaven on earth. Thank you for being a blessing, ma’am.
This is my first year heading to my second anniversary, and I must say majority of what you have mentioned my husband and I went through it and still do especially communicating,listening and the devotion, thank you ma and by the grace of God all our effort will be directed rightly
I'm so happy to have listened to this. We're about 9 months old in marriage. 😊 There are a few of the things listed we have started before now, which has really helped us. However, there are most of which we really should start as well. 😊 Thanks PL, really looking forward to the video on expectant parents. 🥰
Wow... This is my first year of marriage. In fact, we just started the journey. Thank you so much, Ma. I will listen to this over and over again. God bless you Ma
It's exactly my one year in marriage last month September and this absolutely blessed me. Thank you PL for always. Your teachings are good and solid seeds in my marriage. God bless you ❤
I didn't want the video to come to an end. It's so insightful. There's so much light here. I'm in my second year and I'm definitely going to make adjustments where necessary. Thank You so much PL. God Bless You.
This is my first year and I thank you for the lessons and points you’ve shared. My wife and I are going to endeavor to do the ones we’ve not started doing already.🙏🤝
This is so beautiful. I'm listening right here with my spouse on our honey moon. Somehow we've been doing some of these It's our 1st year in marriage. Thank you.
I love you, Momma Your energy is top-notch Your teachings are always awesome and full of insights. I am still single, waiting on God for my blessing soonest
My parents established traditions for Christmas, birthdays, school resumptions, life milestones generally and new year and I look forward to them so much. I love love traditions
Thank you so much, PL. Everything shared is practical and I look forward to discussing with my boyfriend and implementing these in our context. SUBSCRIBED!
Thank you pastor ma, this is very very insightful. You can never know it all. And no knowledge is a waste. We keep learning, unlearning and relearning. I am still waiting on the Lord for His son😂
So impactful. Thank you so much ma’am A big lesson for me that hasn’t gotten married yet I am happy I will be awaiting lesson learnt in 10 years of marriage. Gos bless you ma
Hmm I started following this channel because I love the way PL talks and teaches but I've learnt a lot and I'm learning a lot from this channel. Thank you Ma for always sharing all these knowledge with us.
4 years and a few months and I thank God some of the things you mentioned we have discussed before we said yes I do. Thank you so much ma'am,I shared this video in my group for married womens.
This is very instructive. Thank you PL. This is my 0th year of marriage 😂 I'm certain God will connect me to my spouse soon and there will be favour just as you rightly said ma. Thank you again!!!
Thank you so much for this delivery. Can you please expasiate on the fourth point, which is system of handling finances. Because I think is a real challenge to many marriage relationships.....
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1. Establish a culture of devotion
2. Communicate expectations clearly
3. System of handling conflict
4. System of handling finances
5. Learn to listen
6. Share (Openness & transparency)
7. Put your legal work in paper
8. Establish a good relationship with your in-laws.
9. Plans, goals & vision
10. Talk about family planning (& how you'd raise your children)
11. Establish traditions (Don't judge the health of the marriage by the consistency of the traditions tho')
11 years & counting...(with JESUS tho'😅)
Thank you 😊
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you! When I realized the video doesn't have time stamps, I just hoped someone broke it down in the comments! 😅
Thank you 😊
I've been married for 23 years, and I just shared this video with my daughter, who got married in July!
Thank you for sharing these truths. New couples will find them helpful.
@@ezebuneayoyemi2166 thanks for watching ma’am
@@LajuIrenthank you mama. God bless you. These tips are helpful. Infact I've screenshot the tips. I love you too. I'm single ma
I am zero married, no man yet but I'm getting married next year 2025 and before February next year , I'm meeting my destined partner, a man after God's heart that will love me as Christ loves the church
Amen
Amen ….. it will happen in Jesus name ❤
We await your testimony in Jesus name.
AMEN
Amen
One month and 3 days in! Precious gems! Thank you, Pastor Laju!
❤🎉🎉🎉
I am in year zero😂 but I'm super glad I have this knowledge while I'm single. Thank you so much ma, this blessed me👏💯💯💯
It's zero years, I am waiting on the Lord and prophetically getting married before August 2025. Thank you so much for the powerful insight. I pray God helps us all implement wisdom in our marriages.
❤❤
Amen
Amen 🙌. So shall it be unto me too
It will happen in Jesus name ❤…… Amen
Can I have your contact?
Getting Married in November ❤🎉 and this is really timely and helpful for myself and my fiance
Thank you ma.
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love how you express yourself. It is so engaging and i feel like i am sitting next to you on a couch.
Awww! Thank you so much
She has a free spirited nature❤😊
I'm in my 2nd week of marriage😊
Thanks for the tips pastor.
Listening to respond is a Nigerian disease, I tell my subordinates at work especially when it's appraisal season. Listen, take feed back especially when it's given constructively. Don't just hear, LISTEN. Listen, internalise be introspective.
It's my zero years o, still trusting God but my good friend sent this to me propheticlly. She said as she was watching, I came to her mind and she said God knows why, so here I am saying though it's Oct2024, there is still a lot of time for God to do it😁😁❤️❤️
It's exactly 3 months of my marriage today.
I believe my steps were ordered here because I've been intentionally asking the Holy Ghost to show me how to build my home.
God bless you, Ma!
Thanks for sharing!
I've gained new insights.
Congratulations
Its my first year in marriage and i got pregnant 2months after marriage we didn't even have the time to talk about family planning.Look forward to the video for couples about to have their first child.Thanks for this video.❤
A must watch
Very instructive and interesting video.
Sharing is very important that’s my take home
Thank you PL
I'm in my first year. I don't feel like we are getting off on a good start..... But I'm glad gor this information. Will look to apply it.
So much wisdom is packed in this!
I’m still a university student with marriage not in the radar yet but i know I’ll definitely rewatch this when the time is right
For now, I’ll hold on to point 2 because I think that’s also important in close non-romantic relationships
Thank you so much PL!❤
So much wisdom in this words of wisdom from PL
My marriage will be 20 years this December
It's like a magic boom we are here and God is helping us
Personally I am not enduring marriage but enjoying to the fullest christian home is good
Marriage is sweet honestly
Thank you for sharing, it is good to know that it can be sweet and enjoyable...
Congratulations... Glorious Anniversary
I am so excited to watch this! My husband and I have been married for a week !and you should see me writing . Thank you so much Pastor L.
I am not married yet.. But with all this resources from PL..My marriage will be safe and sound...
Amen ooh
Amen!! Amen to this prayer
AMEN!
Amen
Listening to her has changed a lot in my mind
Great message n a beautiful 😍 voices😊
18 years and i feel so blessed , because i have alot to unlearn from my parents marriage. God bless you ma .
This is so profound. Implementation seems to always be the probelm. If both spouse have access to this information it becomes easy to hold each other accountable
I'm not married yet, but one of the things to do in year 1 is to binge watch PL marriage series again with woman
It’s my first year of marriage. It’s been 6 months in😊. Thank you PL. This is so insightful.❤️
I am waiting on the LORD😊. This time next year i shall testify ijn. So i am learning from you ma. Thank you so much for sharing
I love the wisdom of the Spirit of God in you pastor laju ❤❤❤
Its going to be One year this October! I am so blessed to come across your Video ma!! Thank you so much ma. More of God's Wisdom and More Knowledge.
My Marriage is blessed, Fulfilling and Fruitful!!
It's my first year... 1 month in 😊
This video was made just for you Rachel!! Have a happy married life!
Congratulations 🎉
Same here, 1 month yesterday
I wish you a happy married life
First year in marriage, thanks you so much pastor ma.
I was really blessed by your teachings at Glory Zone Church ❤ Jos ma.
More grace 🎉🎉🎉
This was definitely amazing and helpful.
I am yet to get married but this has been so impactful...
Im not married yet, but i really love watching your videos. They are always packed with so much wisdom. I'm actually 21❤
The Holy Spirit has always been directing me here to learn for the future.
I’m not married yet but I have no doubt that with all these lessons I have been learning here my marriage will work and it will be heaven on earth.
Thank you for being a blessing, ma’am.
This is my first year heading to my second anniversary, and I must say majority of what you have mentioned my husband and I went through it and still do especially communicating,listening and the devotion, thank you ma and by the grace of God all our effort will be directed rightly
"Don't use me to fight". My favourite PL line from this RUclips channel. PL is such a well of wisdom. Thank you so much PL❤.
This is very instructive. Thank you, PL, for always dishing out value.
Sometimes I wonder how people handle transitioning from Single to Married.
I'm so happy to have listened to this.
We're about 9 months old in marriage. 😊
There are a few of the things listed we have started before now, which has really helped us.
However, there are most of which we really should start as well. 😊
Thanks PL, really looking forward to the video on expectant parents. 🥰
I'm in zero year but am learning and gathering the right knowledge for my marriage
God bless you PL❤️
Wow...
This is my first year of marriage. In fact, we just started the journey.
Thank you so much, Ma. I will listen to this over and over again. God bless you Ma
Thank you PL for being a blessing. I'm not yet married. Trusting God to send my way the one He has prepared for me.
It's exactly my one year in marriage last month September and this absolutely blessed me. Thank you PL for always. Your teachings are good and solid seeds in my marriage. God bless you ❤
Thank you for these helpful and insightful tips
God bless you richly
I didn't want the video to come to an end. It's so insightful. There's so much light here. I'm in my second year and I'm definitely going to make adjustments where necessary. Thank You so much PL. God Bless You.
I'm so glad!
Thank God for the wisdom He has given you, PL. You are so beautiful 😩❤
PL ma. My God will bless you. I have learnt a lot from your teachings.
Zero year of marriage presently…I will be back to testify soonest!
You have a captivating voice and your demure is alluring. Beautiful suggestions, thanks for sharing. I am in my 9th month of marriage.
Currently not married, trusting and believing God for a spouse. I find this very interesting and enlightening. Thank you ma
Thank you PL...I was really blessed and instructed by this video, shared the video with my partner immediately😄
I am getting married by December🎉🎉
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🎈
Congratulations, Precious 🎊 ❤🌟
Congratulations
It's my zero year and I'm so grateful for all these gems you've shared because I'll hold them dear for when I get married. Thank you PL❤
These are very helpful. Many marriages have failed because of lack of knowledge of these things. May God bless you and uphold your marriage.
Preparing and still waiting on the Lord❤️❤️. Thank you PST Laju. This is beautiful 😊
Getting married by December thank you so much ma for this powerful insight.
The foundation is a key. Year 12😊
This is my first year and I thank you for the lessons and points you’ve shared. My wife and I are going to endeavor to do the ones we’ve not started doing already.🙏🤝
This is so beautiful. I'm listening right here with my spouse on our honey moon. Somehow we've been doing some of these It's our 1st year in marriage. Thank you.
Thank you PL, I was blessed by this. My marriage will be the best.
Thank you PL. It’s my zero year.😁Waiting on the Lord for my marriage miracle
Wow! About to get married. God bless you ma. Plan to take these gems and run with it prayerfully and diligently
It's my first year... We will be 1 year next month🎉
Thank you for sharing all these profound truths PL!❤
Still in the waiting season.... These are great insights.
God bless you.
I love you, Momma
Your energy is top-notch
Your teachings are always awesome and full of insights.
I am still single, waiting on God for my blessing soonest
Love love love it!!! Thank you PL!!!!! I’m not married yet but i have learnt a lot!!!! I celebrate grace! God bless you ma
Thank you so much Sir for making me to understand that knowing is part of having faith in God ❤😊🎉
My parents established traditions for Christmas, birthdays, school resumptions, life milestones generally and new year and I look forward to them so much. I love love traditions
Thank you PL…. My journal is filled once again with your words of wisdom… zero years
Thank you so much, PL. Everything shared is practical and I look forward to discussing with my boyfriend and implementing these in our context. SUBSCRIBED!
Thank PL. am in my first year of marriage and this is very handful. Thank you ma
Very helpful tips!
Indeed all our marriages will stand the test of time🎉
Too Solid. Thank you so much PL
10th month of marriage😊, this is really instructive. I was blessed. Thank you PL.
Trusting God for His right time and person to marry. This is so helpful in preparation thank you Pastor Laju 💕
I'm in my zero year, There is nothing impossible for God to do, thank you for this message ma.
Yes. Yes. We want you to do the video- lessons learnt in your 10 years of marriage 😂❤
Challenge accepted!
Thank you pastor ma, this is very very insightful. You can never know it all. And no knowledge is a waste. We keep learning, unlearning and relearning.
I am still waiting on the Lord for His son😂
I'm definitely saving this video for that first year as I'm geng zero year of marriage 😂😂 abi zero say sef 😂😂
Thank you PL, halfway to my first year in marriage. Looking forward to the video in couples expecting a child
This your smile ehhhh, so contagious. I just love this woman
Thank you for this PL. In my Zero year. Thank you for all this wisdom.
PL is full of wisdom and so beautiful ❤️.
Thank you for always ma
From the reviews I know I'm in the right place, let me go and watch, thanks Ma for sharing
Thanks for watching
So impactful.
Thank you so much ma’am
A big lesson for me that hasn’t gotten married yet
I am happy
I will be awaiting lesson learnt in 10 years of marriage.
Gos bless you ma
Marriage is not a place for secrets!📌Thank you so much PL.
Thank you so much ma.
I always look forward to seeing your contents, it's always wisdom packed. God bless you for us ma❤.
About to get married next month. Thank you Pastor Laju
I am single and I am believing God for a good man. In Jesus name.
It's my 0th year. I'm still a very young lady of 21 years and I believe that at the right time, God will make it happen
I'm in my 9th month of forever. 🥰
And I came here because I have some marital questions.
I am blessed by this. Thank you maama.
Hmm
I started following this channel because I love the way PL talks and teaches but I've learnt a lot and I'm learning a lot from this channel. Thank you Ma for always sharing all these knowledge with us.
4 years and a few months and I thank God some of the things you mentioned we have discussed before we said yes I do. Thank you so much ma'am,I shared this video in my group for married womens.
And next month is my wedding... This is so Apt. Thanks for your word of wisdom, my fiancee shared the link with me.
This is so profound!
I’m learning to be a better listener and I love how you explained that part.
Awwn thank you so so much for this beautiful message Mrs iren
It’s my first year of marriage PL. it’s been 5months🎊🎉. Thank you PL, this is super helpful!❤️
This is very instructive. Thank you PL. This is my 0th year of marriage 😂 I'm certain God will connect me to my spouse soon and there will be favour just as you rightly said ma. Thank you again!!!
I'm about to get married, thank you ma'am for this knowledge 🎉❤
I'm really blessed
Very Educative video
I am
Listening to
You alone for the very first time. My marriage will
Be 6years on the 27th of October. I gained and learnt a lot from this video
Not yet married (zero year)... But this is powerful. Thanks Mama❤.
Looking forward to the video on lessons learnt on your 10th marriage anniversary ❤
Thank you PL. I'm in my 1+years and this is enlightening. I needed this and I will definitely put these points into practice.
God bless you ma
More Grace Ma, I am about to get married, Trusting Jesus for resources and by December this year, i will be with my Wife
Thank you so much for this delivery. Can you please expasiate on the fourth point, which is system of handling finances. Because I think is a real challenge to many marriage relationships.....