1. He should be forgiven 2. He should be committed. 3. He should be single. 4. He must see you and speak life to you. 5. He must have self leadership with a track record. 6. He must be accountable, who his friends and people can talk to. 7. He must have integrity. 8. He must have good character in every scene of mind. How did he treat challenges has they come. 9. Clarity of purpose. Such as following Jesus. 10 Choose someone you can respect. 11. Choose someone who is hardworking. 12. Choose someone who believes in marriage. Godly marriage works. 13. Single mindness and focus
Thank you for this. Please someone should like my comment so i can always come back here to confirm what i see in my God given husband. This was so timely
@@elizabethnwaeke7284 I'm relaxing sis😂😂😂, I can't afford to make the mistake of falling into a trap that I will leave to regret for the rest of my life
Some salient points I was able to gather - "when God gives someone to you, there is something you will see that others won't...they don't even have to graduate with a First class...Preach Pst Iren. - You are choosing a spouse for yaselfiiii - Choose a spouse whose future you can see, or God has somehow given you a mental picture of his future(I also don't know how to explain this one furtherly too😅) Someone who believes in marriage, hardworking, deligent, single-mindedness etc... Who SEES YOUUU Last but not the least, God still has Sonsss
"The supernatural nature of your meeting is not as important as your commitment to making it work" Thank you so much PL for sharing such a timely wisdom with simplicity.
PL ma, can you talk on marrying from different denomination especially when the lady's church is "more knowledgeable on God's word" than the other. That's the only difference Someone should please like my comment because I plan to return to this comment one year married to this man in my life 😂
This has brought me closure on so many levels❤. In few years, I'll testify and properly acknowledge Mama Iren. Thank you ma'am for being true and authentic❤. For coming to us with relatable content. Thank you. This has healed me❤.
This is so helpful 🙏🏿thank you I will appreciate my boyfriend more because he just fits everything you’re saying perfectly but my expectations are just too high may God help me 🙏🏿
7:52 i always think that if youre sure that God is leading you, break up from the wrong people as soon as you can. Even without the assurance of a backup from anyone but God. 8:58 i always find it silly when people wait for their "true love" to give a yes before breaking up from the people they're sure is wrong. Nothing is wrong with being single. You can take a break
This video has popped up twice on my feeds and I kept it in a cool dry place: "Save to watch later". And getting it again, i jusy had to play and I'm hooked. It's timely. I will stay sat on the will of God. Thank you sm, Mama L.
I learnt it the hard way but I am glad that The Holy Spirit was able to point where I missed it and it's exactly all you've pointed out ma. I would have said, I wished I knew this earlier but I am glad I experience it because it has birthed more understanding with The person of The Holy Spirit. Thank you ma
I so love Pst Laju Iren, i just love hearing her laughter ( it's so cute) I love how she acts, like the cuteness ( respectfully ma), After watching the movie "loving Amanda" my love tripled
Pastor Laju, you’re so filled with joy and love. You make me smile so much and I’m so glad to have found you here too. You’re very creative too, I really admire you and look forward to see you one day. ❤
This is very timely for me . Thank you PL. I have been praying concerning God's will for my life for a spouse, I had always thought that once I had seen someone in my vision he has to be the one, but he clearly doesn't even recognise me and I can't help God by approaching him. That's even if he is willing 😅😅😅. But now I know that God validates our choices also.
This is one of my best videos from Mrs. PL Thank you ma for your obedience to God. And ma well-done for the video attached to the end (8 days of Christmas).
Sighs. Thank you so much PL. It’s been a while that your channel popped up on my notifications, but it did, and I can say it popped up on my feed because of a clue I needed to have I realized some time ago that God even speaks to us through clues on happenings around us. And this channel as at this morning is my clue to what I’ve been praying about. Like you answered my questions, and I’ll follow suit. Although I’m a guy, and I’ve sent this to “her”😊. But I got my own message from this topic today. You’ve gained a subscriber God bless you ma. ❤
God really bless you Pastor Laju. You have SO much wisdom and you REASON with so much intelligence. We hear too much of 'you need to have peace', 'the man needs to be in the same Church', 'You need to have a deep conviction from God' and much more related to 'spirituality'. While all of that is TRUE making such a HUGE decision without also, considering the things you mentioned in addition to character, upbringing and how that affects how they see marriage, attraction, whether you both actually get along! etc etc is an error. You hit the nail on the head when you said, 'make sure you've heard God about other things too'. Soi true because it's not always God o! Sometimes it's really your emotions. And sometimes that peace....is also based on emotion.God help us all to be open to His will outside of our emotions and our flesh😅
I am just 5 minutes into this video, and It's making so much sense to me. I'm sure I am not the only one hungry for How to recognize your God given wife. Thank you so much PL ma 😊
This is the right video for me now. Thank you ma, I'm in the phrase in my life that I dreamt not 2 or 3 times about a man but he didn't like me as someone he can be in a relationship with.
Immediately, PL said “God is not out of sons; He’ll comfort you and settle you” I knew that was meant for me. I remember pushing away a man who wanted to have a relationship with me in my twenties simply because he mentioned sex during our conversation. At that time, as a young Christian, any mention of sex by an unmarried man was a red flag. Fast forward eight years, and I find myself single and waiting, while he is happily married. I recently met him again, and he spoke fondly of how much he loved me back then, laughing as he reminisced. I feel regretful, and it honestly hurts. It seems like he was the only one for me, and I lost that opportunity. I just wish I could turn back the hands of time. I pray for healing from this pain.
Don't regret my sister . Allow the past mistakes to go and be open to date a responsible man. One thing I know is that God is a merciful God. ( Isaiah 43:18-19. Hebrews 4:16 ). May God grant you grace to heal of your past in Jesus name
If he isn't saved you dodged a bullet. You don't know if he is truly happy in his marriage. Regretting pushing him away is childish. You are probably weary and a bit lonely. You want to fall in love with the Lord. He promises to give us our hearts desire if we delight in him. You need a solid church/ Bible study.
@@danilaroche1156Thank you for your input. I belong to a church and study the Bible. You may be correct in saying that I feel lonely, as I have been praying and waiting for my marital breakthrough for a few years now. Honestly, it's starting to take a toll on me. Waiting is not easy, and my previous comment reflected a moment of weakness. However, since I typed that message, I can say that I've moved past the regret.
Though still watched it till end...I thinks its cool, you tried, that's how GOD leads in most cases...I love the dual Christmas song you did with your husband.💑
1. He should be forgiven
2. He should be committed.
3. He should be single.
4. He must see you and speak life to you.
5. He must have self leadership with a track record.
6. He must be accountable, who his friends and people can talk to.
7. He must have integrity.
8. He must have good character in every scene of mind. How did he treat challenges has they come.
9. Clarity of purpose. Such as following Jesus.
10 Choose someone you can respect.
11. Choose someone who is hardworking.
12. Choose someone who believes in marriage. Godly marriage works.
13. Single mindness and focus
God bless you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You’re welcome awesome. Thank you !
Thanks for this
Thank you for this ma'am
Thanks you ❤
The man I'm falling for has all these attributes. He's being attentive & respectful to me. Very kind and caring. Pray for us!
PL childlikeness is so cute😩🥺❤️❤️
So feminine and beautiful
I agree 😊
Soooo cute, that's what attracted me to Listen more to PL, she is very relatable
Likeeeeeeee
I dey tell you ❤🎉. She's a wonderful person ❤🎉
Thank you for this. Please someone should like my comment so i can always come back here to confirm what i see in my God given husband. This was so timely
Please like mine too
Ha ha ha you are very smart to ask for likes😂😂😂😂❤❤🎉
@uchennanwosu2488 Hah! ah! Now, I just want to visit the page from time to time in order not to make a mistake 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
You know you can save the video right?
GOD HAS SONS!!!🙌relax....
@@elizabethnwaeke7284 I'm relaxing sis😂😂😂, I can't afford to make the mistake of falling into a trap that I will leave to regret for the rest of my life
@bakonafisatoumbebu574 well said!
“Wrap up my thoughts, with a nice bow 🎀 😂😂” PL 😂
Some salient points I was able to gather
- "when God gives someone to you, there is something you will see that others won't...they don't even have to graduate with a First class...Preach Pst Iren.
- You are choosing a spouse for yaselfiiii
- Choose a spouse whose future you can see, or God has somehow given you a mental picture of his future(I also don't know how to explain this one furtherly too😅)
Someone who believes in marriage, hardworking, deligent, single-mindedness etc...
Who SEES YOUUU
Last but not the least, God still has Sonsss
Can we talk about the ad at the end…love the creativity 😂❤
You are choosing a spouse not for your friends but for the sake of your destiny!
"The supernatural nature of your meeting is not as important as your commitment to making it work"
Thank you so much PL for sharing such a timely wisdom with simplicity.
PL ma, can you talk on marrying from different denomination especially when the lady's church is "more knowledgeable on God's word" than the other. That's the only difference
Someone should please like my comment because I plan to return to this comment one year married to this man in my life 😂
I just love PL😂😂. "Your God-given husband will be tada single"😂😂
Very important 😂
God help me recognize my God given Man when he comes, Amen 🙏
Father, in your mercy let one of your sons find me in Jesus mighty name Amen
Amen ❤
Amen
the guys too are making this prayer. father let your daughter see in me what you see. God help us
@@tmsedustore4028 God will help us
I would love to see a video on how to recognize your God given wife. 😊
😊
That’s up next!
Love love love!!!!
The interlude to advertise Pastor Laju's movies!
"...but in your daily life if learn to recognise people by grace, you're most likely to choose right." that's very deep right there
This has brought me closure on so many levels❤. In few years, I'll testify and properly acknowledge Mama Iren. Thank you ma'am for being true and authentic❤. For coming to us with relatable content. Thank you.
This has healed me❤.
Thank you PL❤.
Go for someone that has mentor that are alive when his head is turnionown 😂😂😂😂😂
That advert at the end with PD was EVERYTHING! I suspect a new power has been unlocked. Advert guru!😅
“The right word at the right time…” Proverbs 25:12❤🎉 such a timely word, and you’ve gained a new subscriber❤
"God has sons"🔥🔥🔥
Awwwwn😩it's her voice for me🥰is this how she sounds?😅
Yeah. This is her voice 😂😂
This is so helpful 🙏🏿thank you I will appreciate my boyfriend more because he just fits everything you’re saying perfectly but my expectations are just too high may God help me 🙏🏿
7:52 i always think that if youre sure that God is leading you, break up from the wrong people as soon as you can. Even without the assurance of a backup from anyone but God.
8:58 i always find it silly when people wait for their "true love" to give a yes before breaking up from the people they're sure is wrong.
Nothing is wrong with being single. You can take a break
This video has popped up twice on my feeds and I kept it in a cool dry place:
"Save to watch later". And getting it again, i jusy had to play and I'm hooked. It's timely.
I will stay sat on the will of God.
Thank you sm, Mama L.
I learnt it the hard way but I am glad that The Holy Spirit was able to point where I missed it and it's exactly all you've pointed out ma. I would have said, I wished I knew this earlier but I am glad I experience it because it has birthed more understanding with The person of The Holy Spirit. Thank you ma
Not sure if what they say about watching ads aiding channnel revenue is true, but I’m watching just in case. So worth it!
It’s true! Thank you!
Beyond spirituality, look out for character
PL na vibe abeg 😂😂♥️
Thank you so much for this ma 🙏🏽
New follower from Zambia 🇿🇲 thank you for this message.
I so love Pst Laju Iren, i just love hearing her laughter ( it's so cute)
I love how she acts, like the cuteness ( respectfully ma), After watching the movie "loving Amanda" my love tripled
‼️‼️Before I start watching I just want to say : PL you look amazing and I think Orange or lilac/purple outfits make you glow😍😍
I’m speechless. I needed this. Thank you ma🙏🏾 And this ending? Simply the best 💯 😅
Okayyyyy😍😍😍 Love love love the ending. This is absolutely creative. Can’t wait for the virtual cinema💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
The ad at the end is sooo brilliant!🥰🔥🔥
Pastor Laju, you’re so filled with joy and love. You make me smile so much and I’m so glad to have found you here too.
You’re very creative too, I really admire you and look forward to see you one day. ❤
Yes! She exudes so much love, joy, peace, gentleness, goodness, and life!
I had these questions in mind and stumbled upon this. Thank you God.
God has sons....... this is true... Thank you for this
God has his sons for his own ❤🙏
God has sons❤❤ Thank you PL
This is very timely for me .
Thank you PL.
I have been praying concerning God's will for my life for a spouse, I had always thought that once I had seen someone in my vision he has to be the one, but he clearly doesn't even recognise me and I can't help God by approaching him. That's even if he is willing 😅😅😅.
But now I know that God validates our choices also.
This was actually so rich!! Thank you so much, PL.
Insightful❤thank you Ma and God bless you moreeee
This is one of my best videos from Mrs. PL
Thank you ma for your obedience to God. And ma well-done for the video attached to the end (8 days of Christmas).
she said "May you not see men as trees" 😂😂😂😂
Sighs.
Thank you so much PL.
It’s been a while that your channel popped up on my notifications, but it did, and I can say it popped up on my feed because of a clue I needed to have
I realized some time ago that God even speaks to us through clues on happenings around us. And this channel as at this morning is my clue to what I’ve been praying about. Like you answered my questions, and I’ll follow suit.
Although I’m a guy, and I’ve sent this to “her”😊. But I got my own message from this topic today.
You’ve gained a subscriber
God bless you ma. ❤
God bless you PL you are filled with so much wisdom❤
God bless you for making this video!!
Hello PL, you look so gorgeous ❤
So much wisdom in this btw… I’m glad I’m unmarried atm, I’ll not miss it in Jesus name.
You are fortunate not to be married when you see this video.
Amen!
I could listen to you speak, every day.😂❤️
i love how you are putting it, been looking for this
God really bless you Pastor Laju. You have SO much wisdom and you REASON with so much intelligence.
We hear too much of 'you need to have peace', 'the man needs to be in the same Church', 'You need to have a deep conviction from God' and much more related to 'spirituality'. While all of that is TRUE making such a HUGE decision without also, considering the things you mentioned in addition to character, upbringing and how that affects how they see marriage, attraction, whether you both actually get along! etc etc is an error.
You hit the nail on the head when you said, 'make sure you've heard God about other things too'. Soi true because it's not always God o! Sometimes it's really your emotions. And sometimes that peace....is also based on emotion.God help us all to be open to His will outside of our emotions and our flesh😅
God bless you ma. Watching this video just eases my heart of the heartaches I've been going through.
This is so insightful!
These wisdom just confirmed and gave words to some of my thoughts and uneasiness.
I am just 5 minutes into this video, and It's making so much sense to me.
I'm sure I am not the only one hungry for How to recognize your God given wife.
Thank you so much PL ma 😊
Omg PL is so gorgeous! I opened this and was gobsmacked in the face by the beauty!
The ad at the end was beautifulllll😍😍😍.. Welldone mama🥰
Timely message. Thank you PL💜
Thank you for this ma❤
I enjoyed this wonderful episode ❤
Thank you ma❤❤
Let me like the video before I finish watching ❤
I'm so glad I subscribed to your channel. This was timely. God bless you, ma!
I don't know how I clicked on this video while doing major in the restroom but it's the Word I needed to hear
Thank you PLA
This is the right video for me now.
Thank you ma, I'm in the phrase in my life that I dreamt not 2 or 3 times about a man but he didn't like me as someone he can be in a relationship with.
I approached him already 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I don't like myself right now but I don't know he was in a relationship
Woman to Woman, you are beautiful Pastor Laju 🥰.
I love love love your voice. 🤎
Another enlightening content but how come no one is talking about the ‘8 Days of Christmas song’ 🤷🏻♀️ I loveeetttt!😍🚶♀️
It's too too good🔥😍
I want to watch her movies
Mistakenly yours
And 8 days to Christmas
Pls where did u watch it?
Just the first point made me to stay till the end. PL you did justice to this topic. More grace Ma
Immediately, PL said “God is not out of sons; He’ll comfort you and settle you” I knew that was meant for me.
I remember pushing away a man who wanted to have a relationship with me in my twenties simply because he mentioned sex during our conversation. At that time, as a young Christian, any mention of sex by an unmarried man was a red flag. Fast forward eight years, and I find myself single and waiting, while he is happily married.
I recently met him again, and he spoke fondly of how much he loved me back then, laughing as he reminisced. I feel regretful, and it honestly hurts. It seems like he was the only one for me, and I lost that opportunity. I just wish I could turn back the hands of time. I pray for healing from this pain.
Don't regret my sister . Allow the past mistakes to go and be open to date a responsible man. One thing I know is that God is a merciful God. ( Isaiah 43:18-19. Hebrews 4:16 ). May God grant you grace to heal of your past in Jesus name
@ Amen🙏. Thank you so much for the encouragement. This made me feel better.
God bless you
@@priscillahela7997 It shall be well with you
If he isn't saved you dodged a bullet. You don't know if he is truly happy in his marriage. Regretting pushing him away is childish. You are probably weary and a bit lonely. You want to fall in love with the Lord. He promises to give us our hearts desire if we delight in him. You need a solid church/ Bible study.
@@danilaroche1156Thank you for your input. I belong to a church and study the Bible. You may be correct in saying that I feel lonely, as I have been praying and waiting for my marital breakthrough for a few years now. Honestly, it's starting to take a toll on me. Waiting is not easy, and my previous comment reflected a moment of weakness. However, since I typed that message, I can say that I've moved past the regret.
Love Love the rendition 👏👏😂
Thank you so much this is so helpful, currently needed to hear this, Cos I am at this point in my life to make this decision
This is wonderful 🥰 the advert song at the end of the podcast too 😍
I should mention that I Love the Song at the end of these videos! 😅😁
Thank you for the great Teachings Ma! So So Blessed!
Wahalurr for who no watch the video till the end 🤭
Honest work 😊
So much wisdom and creativity in one video❤
Thank you ma
Great teachings. 🙏God has sons. I needed to hear this 😢
Pastor Lajus laugher is contagious 😂❤
I just love this woman 😊❤ You are a great blessing ma
I love the end. The 3 -in- 1 virtual cinema 🎉❤. Love you PL❤
Thank you so much Ma'am God bless you more grace ma'am 🙏❤️❤️
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this😂❤️ and I learned a lot! Thank you so much PL, God bless you!
Very powerful teaching, May God richly bless you.
The most insightful video for days😊❤God bless you ma, more wisdom🙏
Amen 🙏
God has sons and will settle me with one❤️
It’s the advert at the end for me 👏 🎉
A woman of wisdom...thank you ma
Though still watched it till end...I thinks its cool, you tried, that's how GOD leads in most cases...I love the dual Christmas song you did with your husband.💑
Thank you so much PL. The last few remarks were for me. God has sons!
Thank you very much for this wonderful message PL.
More of God's Wisdom and Grace ma.
You look so beautiful ma.
“Learn to recognize people by grace”
This is so beautiful to watch
The Supernatural nature of your meeting Is not as important as your commitment to making it work
So true
Choose someone you can respect hmmm 🥺🙏
Thank you for this message, it has come straight to me
You've earned yourself a new subscriber
Very Good, well-done girl and thank you for your advice 🙏 be blessed
This was too instructive. Thank you so much, PL!
Thank you so much, ma.
God bless you richly, ma.
God bless you 🤗
This is amazing ma! Thank you!
Thank you ma'am for sharing..I am blessed 😊more grace ma .