Things to talk about 2:12 Expectations 6:07 Conflict Resolution 9:29 Family Planning & Children 13:47 Spiritual Growth 15:58 Extended Family 20:25 Secrets Courtship is the time to love intelligently, and marriage is the time to love blindly
The way I skip relationship advice videos thinking I know everything there Is about relationships. Thank God I decided to watch this video. Thank you PL
1. Expectations ( what do you expect in a wife/husband, how do you define a goodwife,helpmeet,how do you expect me to support in your ministry 2. How do we handle conflicts (who do we call, what do we approach disagreements. 3. Family planning and children (what method of birth control will we use, )pay attention to his mindset abt trending issues 4. Spiritual goals. Equally yoked 5. Extended family. ( are there going to live with you ) love. How do there do things in your family 6. Life goals. What interests them Thank you mme 🎉❤ my note pad is full😅. GOD BLESS AND INCREASE YOU IN ALL GOOD AREAS ❤
***Finding Yourself, Before You Find Your Partner - Have idea of what you are going to do/what you want to do/what you desire to do/where you are going in future. 🙏🥳
Pls talk about long distance relationship. As a believer, how do we navigate through the troubles that comes with long distance relationships before marriage?
Thank you Ma. Hobbies and Personal interest Finances - like debts, saving or financial goals (Probably secrets) Household Responsibilties Intimacy and Sexual expectation - I might assume this one is under Family planning and children Communication Style - I think this one comes under Conflict resolution
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Talking about finding your goals and life purpose before getting married is very important but the truth about this is that it does not apply to everyone that way as some goals reveal over time. Time really reveal alot of things , my advise is that partners should be flexible.
Good day ma, please we need you to do a video about talking about your past relationship to your present partner, is it ideal to tell your present partner who and numbers of whom you have dated. Please kindly educate.
@LajuIren This is just everything. I’m in a position where I am struggling to make my husband understand that I’m now working and I cannot do a lot of house chores and I need help. Even though he was doing them before. I also feel that he is not supportive the way I want him to be in where God is taking me to right now. 😢
Continue to communicate your feelings to him and back it up with prayers and you will see how God will work wonders on him and he will come around. Good luck 🍀
Whether you choose to build your house on a rock or not, rain will come and wind will blow. Challenges will come regardless of who you decide to be with and it would be hard! So choose your hard wisely 📌📌📌
Thank You very much for this Videos. Please if you could do a video also about how to handle Toxic parents and if it’s a good idea to set Boundaries with toxic parents and childhood trauma before Marriage… Would really be very helpful Thank U very much
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PL forgot Financial discussion. This is very important. All points noted
Things to talk about
2:12 Expectations
6:07 Conflict Resolution
9:29 Family Planning & Children
13:47 Spiritual Growth
15:58 Extended Family
20:25 Secrets
Courtship is the time to love intelligently, and marriage is the time to love blindly
Thanks
Thanks
Thank you 🙏
. Talk about Expectations
. Conflict resolution
. Family planning and children
. Spiritual Goals
. Extended family
. Health
. Secrets
. Life Goals
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Courtship is a time to love intelligently while marriage is a time to love blindly.
I think it's also important to talk about residential preferences(plan for the future, preferred locations) and migration plans if any.
Find yourself before finding a partner. Self discovery and personal development should be non-negotiable. 👌
The way I skip relationship advice videos thinking I know everything there Is about relationships. Thank God I decided to watch this video. Thank you PL
Courtship: love intelligently
Marriage: love blindly 📌📌📌📌
Pay very close attention to what people DO not just what they SAY.
Conversations about Money and Finance
1. Expectations ( what do you expect in a wife/husband, how do you define a goodwife,helpmeet,how do you expect me to support in your ministry
2. How do we handle conflicts (who do we call, what do we approach disagreements.
3. Family planning and children (what method of birth control will we use, )pay attention to his mindset abt trending issues
4. Spiritual goals. Equally yoked
5. Extended family. ( are there going to live with you ) love. How do there do things in your family
6. Life goals. What interests them
Thank you mme 🎉❤ my note pad is full😅.
GOD BLESS AND INCREASE YOU IN ALL GOOD AREAS ❤
Hello Pastor Laju. Please talk about what to do in a relationship or marriage where the Lady is more spiritually mature than the guy. Thank you ma❤.
Right? We need answers to that
Yes, please🙏🏻
You also read your bible and grow and don't be lazy spiritually
Yes good question
Yes please, very good question
Thank you PL, maybe Conversations about food and football clubs too ma😎
***Finding Yourself, Before You Find Your Partner - Have idea of what you are going to do/what you want to do/what you desire to do/where you are going in future. 🙏🥳
I love the way you speak. So so soft , poise, intelligent and with authority
Commenting before watching because I’m sure it’ll be that good! 🤩
Pls talk about long distance relationship. As a believer, how do we navigate through the troubles that comes with long distance relationships before marriage?
Wow I can’t believe my partner and I have discussed all of these from start to finish✅
This woman is blessed with intelligence and wisdom! God bless and continue to increase you ma’am!
Conversation on Finances
How disruptive is your past relationship to our marriage?
Finance, Support and Budgeting allocation
You are a leader, thanks ma❤
I’m just concentrating on the beauty 😊. God finish work on her 😎😩🥺
What if the person pretends to tick all your boxes??…I guess that is where the holyspirit comes in(Luke 12 vs 2-3,Mark 4 vs 22)
Can't luv you less pastor laju ❤️🙌
More grace 🙏
Thank you Ma.
Hobbies and Personal interest
Finances - like debts, saving or financial goals (Probably secrets)
Household Responsibilties
Intimacy and Sexual expectation - I might assume this one is under Family planning and children
Communication Style - I think this one comes under Conflict resolution
😅..It was the element of witchcraft part that got me the most😂😂😂😂😂. God bless you Pastor L
If you haven’t subscribed to this channel, what are you doing dear? Please it’s free. Go ahead and subscribe. Okay let’s enjoy the video 👏🏾👏🏾🥁❤️. God bless you Pastor Laju 🥁🤗
The safest method of family planning is
Natural Family planning ❤
Amen
What does that mean
Talking about finding your goals and life purpose before getting married is very important but the truth about this is that it does not apply to everyone that way as some goals reveal over time. Time really reveal alot of things , my advise is that partners should be flexible.
God bless you, Ma'am
It's just remaining finance discussion.
Also, in expectations, domestic chores and house helps should be included.
Courtship is the time to love intelligently while marriage is a time to love blindly 🥰
Her laughter is so beautiful😊
Thank you PL!
Questions about finances is another one
Courtship is a time for INTERVIEW not intercouse.
I love your laughs in between the conversations.
Fun to watch and value filled.
Thank you ma.
And your voice Ma. It's so heavenly, so cool and wonderful to listen to Ma 😊 Podcast friendly Ma 🥰
This is a beautiful video PL. This is a great topic and I really enjoyed and learnt from it.
Very helpful, God bless you maa❤❤❤❤❤❤
I just love PL❤
Lol it’s the witchcraft part for me .. yooh otherwise very educative , thank you mama😀
Thank you my PL❤❤❤
How about finances? Some people think it’s too sensitive a conversation to be had before marriage
It’s an important conversation to have. I cover this in another video coming soon
Great content, truly relevant, only at the end could you create a list of the topics for display just to reiterate. Thanks
Nice video as always PL! Finances is another important conversation to have before marriage
Awesome topic. God bless you.
Welcome PL, my past 2 fridays have been empty without your videos and laughter
You are looking beautiful Pastor Mrs.
Great information...
Very Insightful and helpful
Thank you for blessing my life Pastor Iren.
This is my first time watching 😊
I just looked at the subscribe button and realized she is talking to me 😂
I always taught I was subscribed 😅😅
God bless you woman of God ❤
Please talk about how to deal with distance relationships
My book is full. Thank you Ma. 🙏❤️
I just like to hear you laugh PL😂. Thank you for sharing this Ma.
I love her 😂😂😂😂 look at me, I look at you !
I so much love this particular episode! Very expository and practical! Thank you PL!
Gems all around. thx for the heads up.
God bless you ma.❤
Thank you PL😍, this is really an eye-opening
Thank you ma
Really deep matters to talk about
Conversations on finance and how to save is also necessary
Momma ❤
Good day ma, please we need you to do a video about talking about your past relationship to your present partner, is it ideal to tell your present partner who and numbers of whom you have dated. Please kindly educate.
Thank you PL for this insights. My note is full. God bless you greatly ma.
All points noted and will definitely be taken into consideration. Thank you Pastor Mrs Laju Iren. More wisdom from above.
WOW
Am noting. I'll soon have to use this knowledge. Thank you Mme
Thank you for sharing.... God bless you 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you Jesus🙏
Thank you Ma❤
Awesome 🎉
Thank you PL for the wisdoms in this video. … That narrative about the tribe “that gives a visitor their wife” is false though.
Wooowww
So eye-opening 👏👏
Thank you ma
Thank you so much PL for this. Such wisdom tips to be applied. All these points noted ma'am.
@LajuIren This is just everything. I’m in a position where I am struggling to make my husband understand that I’m now working and I cannot do a lot of house chores and I need help. Even though he was doing them before. I also feel that he is not supportive the way I want him to be in where God is taking me to right now. 😢
Continue to communicate your feelings to him and back it up with prayers and you will see how God will work wonders on him and he will come around. Good luck 🍀
Conversations about finances
Very profound. Thank you Pst Laju
Thank you 😊
Thank you Ma,on my way to conduct interview 😁
Thank you 💕 ma this video is very helpful
Finance is also key.
So much wisdom. Thank you so much PL ❤️
Full of insights. Thank you ma
This is so educative thank you pastor ma
Thank you so much ma.
God bless you ma.
This is so insightful!
Thank you pastor Laju
Very good and helpful video!!
Thank you Pastor Laju
Thank you PL it’s so impactful
Whether you choose to build your house on a rock or not, rain will come and wind will blow.
Challenges will come regardless of who you decide to be with and it would be hard! So choose your hard wisely 📌📌📌
Thanks for this insightful series
Thank you for this video pastor Laju🤍🙏🏻
Very important conversations to have truly!
Thank you Ma'am, its your soothing voice for me 😅😊
Inspiring and full of wisdom..
Thank You very much for this Videos. Please if you could do a video also about how to handle Toxic parents and if it’s a good idea to set Boundaries with toxic parents and childhood trauma before Marriage…
Would really be very helpful
Thank U very much
Makes sense. I’ll do it
My fave🤗🤗 love your videos PL 🙌🏽✨
You are always a blessing ma.,. thank you so much ma
I love you ma.
Thanks God bless you ma.
This is so helpful! Thank you PL
An amazing message... thank you may❤😊