As an OG of talking stages, I must say that this is so spot on!!😂😂 Btw, God please! I am not a customer care representative. I don't want any more talking stages.😩🙏
There's something about PL, her charisma, soothing voice🤭, laughter and everything God bless you PL ❤️ Thank you for constantly being a blessing to us all 🤗
Hi PL, please talk about Virtual talking stages and long distance relationships. Recommended or not. How to know if its worth exploring and if you are not being deceived.
"I like this guy... should I ask him what we are?😅" Don't sleep with someone in a talking stage and ask what are we? My sister... we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. Breakups are hard things, and everyone wishes to not have to go through them (I believe). Even still, people need to learn how to do them softly and not land them like bangers. Communication is very vital in talking stages and every aspect of life, so we don't just work based on assumptions. Thank you, PL
After watching this video, I just realized I was in a talking stage with somebody that didn't end well but we still talk but not like before. Like you said because a talking stage ended badly doesn't mean you should give the person attitude. And also I'm in another talking stage and I've made a lot of mistake and it hasn't gone on for long, let's say a few weeks and that's before watching this video. I just hope it's not too late to amend the mistakes.
So far this is the best video I’ve seen on “do’s and don’t in talking stage”. Everything was said on point and in detail. Definitely going to share this to ladies like myself ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you and thank you
This was such a nice topic PL🥹, it’d be soo nice if you can get to do ways you could recover from a failed talking stage where you over committed, how to deal with your not-so-ex and not hating them, how to move on basically, and also how we can all create a better future for ourselves by not projecting our past experiences into what God has in store for us. Basically how we can work around our past experiences from not hindering us from things God wants us to enjoy and experience.
Thank you Pastor Laju, It is the way you laugh in between while hitting the strong points. Everything said here reminds me of 2021/22 for me. I believe my MOG is coming for me this year. Amen!
Wish I could give this video a double thumbs up. When I saw how long it was I wondering if I could follow through,but I did!! Thank you so much Ma. Pls I’d like you talk about age factor in relationships next 🙏 ❤
For someone who had flagged talking stages, i think this would have helped me more when i was in that ministry but like they say, no knowledge is a waste so i will say this was so spot on for any relationship even😅😅😅. Thanks PL for enlightening us, God bless you🙏🙌🏻❤️
"A situationship isn't a ship, it's a Canoe"🤣🤣🤣 PL is so funny! I wish I heard these things earlier, it would have saved me a lot of stress😂🤲 Thank you so much, PL! A lot of wisdom and value gained
I have always looked forward to knowing more about talking stage as many people disregard friendship and go all about talking stage. This is so timely🌹
PL..I just want you to know, I love watching you!! I love your laugh, your calm aura, and ofcourse the wisdom you share with us. Thank you for being amazing!!
Thanks Mrs Iren for such wisdom had it been I did not further my research on such topics I would never have known what to say or where to start. Most at times as young ladies we anticipate a lot and forget that we need to learn how to talk and be addressed. Thanks so much 🙏 ❤
Hmm, protecting people. This is also true outside of relationships. You don’t need to let everyone know if someone hurts you or of their inadequacies. Thank you Ma. I’ve learnt from that 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you so much maa😭🙏❤️ I wish there was a video on how to go into a talking stage if it's your first time being in a relationship. Because it's something I know if it doesn't begin with a talking stage and you just run into dating the person immediately the relationship is most likely to be unhealthy. I'd really love if you can enlighten us ma.
👌🏾Atttack and retreat, toxic non -relationship, love you love you…then ghost for a period then show up and tell you how they were going through a lot👌🏾……very true
PL thank you for always taking out the time to teach us so lovingly! This actually got me thinking about my own choices as well😊 Thank you PL! We love you❤
This is so profound! One of the best vlogs on the internet. I just had to leave a comment. I love your sincerity and how you left no stone unturned. I really found this useful. Thanks PL for being a voice
my dear you are in a toxic non relationship runnn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣for some reason I came across this podcast since I am on a healing journey and my advice to my Christain brothers and sisters is to know who you are and whose you are do not settle for less than God's best for you, you attract who you are so find your identity in God and he will send you the right person when the time is right currently on my healing journey and pay keen attention to the red flags that will save you a whole lot
I am actually shocked that people ask and exchange nude pictures...It is actually real! In a talking stage even if it is in a relationship, it is very weird and strange. Thank you so much PL for this. Very insightful and helps to be able to help others too
I am watching your for the first time ever and 1, I love how you are comfortable in your skin. This reminds me to be more of myself and simply just be me. 2. You are down to earth and say things like they are. 3. You are hilarious and you genuinely made me laugh a couples of times during the course of this video. 4. Very informative. 5. Thank for the information and representing Christ!!!
Wish this came earlier in the year but I'm thankful that it came still. Thank you PL. Now I'm equipped with more knowledge that I can apply going forward. ❤
2:27 I would like the masculine point of view about talking stage from Daddy... (cos I don't think as a guy, I should be asking "what are we"....I should be the one to define it right? which also makes me infer that there are many more differences as well)
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"Jesus is coming soon, don't waste your life." 😂😂 funny, yet true.
"Getting to know the person as a friend without the pressure of a relationship" Golden wisdom in this statement.
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This can be challenging oh. More like you have a foresight of where you are headed, but let it not cloud my reasoning.
Courtship is a time for interview, not intercourse📌
"You are a Christian, behave like one" .. I love this woman
It's the way PL jokingly reminds us that Jesus is coming soon. Thank you ma ❤
I laughed out loud when she said Jesus is Coming Soon 😅😅😅
‘They might not be your spouse but their brother might be “ . Facts 1000%
As an OG of talking stages, I must say that this is so spot on!!😂😂
Btw, God please! I am not a customer care representative. I don't want any more talking stages.😩🙏
😂😂 this year receive your husband amen!!
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@@T.ERYILA amen oo.😂🙏
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I just subscribed... A lot to learn from this space with plenty laughter as bonus 😅
There's something about PL, her charisma, soothing voice🤭, laughter and everything
God bless you PL ❤️
Thank you for constantly being a blessing to us all 🤗
Listening to her for the first time and this is exactly what jumped at me. She sounds like a breath of fresh air.
Listening to her for the first time, it's been amazing here so far. Thank you Ma🙏
‘..Even if people want to be taken advantage of, we can protect them’.
That’s so wise PL✍️
Heyy
What are we??"we're human beings".Got me rolling😂😂😂
PL, I will remind you every single chance I get. YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!!! Jeeeeez!😩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Her voice is something else 😩❤️
@@blessedchidera601 it really is!!!
Don't over committed in a talking stage❤❤ I really love this part
If it doesn’t end in a relationship,it’s okay
There’s no need to hate them 📌📌📌
"you are reward enough, value yourself!". highlight😍
Hi PL, please talk about Virtual talking stages and long distance relationships. Recommended or not. How to know if its worth exploring and if you are not being deceived.
I concur
I agree
Please talk about this ma... We need lot of help here...
This is lovely .. I’m just tired of talking this year it’s marriage straight after getting our values straight
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"I like this guy... should I ask him what we are?😅"
Don't sleep with someone in a talking stage and ask what are we? My sister... we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator.
Breakups are hard things, and everyone wishes to not have to go through them (I believe). Even still, people need to learn how to do them softly and not land them like bangers.
Communication is very vital in talking stages and every aspect of life, so we don't just work based on assumptions.
Thank you, PL
Pencils in the hands of the creator😂😂😂
😂😂 I love how she laughs and her confidence ❤
Apostle Emmanuel Iren's wife be that.
So soothing ❤❤❤ I pray the Holy Spirit spirit leads me in the right path to marriage 🙏
Only if I saw this video sometime earlier I for don run. My own talking stage got married and all this flags were there, we thank God for deliverance.
This is the kind of thing I am in atm. 9 months of talking stage when I am not a pregnant woman 😅😅
😂😂 even a pregnant woman go don born. Don't worry. God's got you!🙏@@adeolasegun-peter4541
@@adeolasegun-peter4541😂😂😂
I love the gentleness of this video
Behave like a Christian!!!...Thanks for the constant reminder ma ❤
PL is too fine... Whooosh 🥰🥰🥰
After watching this video, I just realized I was in a talking stage with somebody that didn't end well but we still talk but not like before. Like you said because a talking stage ended badly doesn't mean you should give the person attitude.
And also I'm in another talking stage and I've made a lot of mistake and it hasn't gone on for long, let's say a few weeks and that's before watching this video. I just hope it's not too late to amend the mistakes.
I’m on this table too
Bro 😢 same
I have really learnt alot
This lady is soooo beautiful
After 2 weeks talking stage.
She: “What are we?”
Me: “We are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator 🤲”
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We are a chosen generation 😭
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I was blessed......So much value in just one video..... consistency really pays....Mama's RUclips videos have so much improve🥹❤️
It's the "comprends oui" for me
You're a beautiful woman, a woman of wisdom and virtue
‘Thief and non-thief’ had me rotfl 🤣😂
I love how she always spikes her talking with a laugh.
Yeah❤
Really glad I saw this video 😅 God forbid fruitless talking stages 😂😂😂
After 2 weeks talking stage.
She: “What are we?”
Me: “We are celebration church.
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In Christ, for Christ, with joy! 😂
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PL really said a situationship is not a ship. It’s a canoe.
Falls on the floor in laughter😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Walk away determined not to hurt them back”
Thank you ma.
As a Chairman and Executive in the talking stage i totally agree with everything you have said Ma. Thank you
So far this is the best video I’ve seen on “do’s and don’t in talking stage”. Everything was said on point and in detail. Definitely going to share this to ladies like myself ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you and thank you
This was such a nice topic PL🥹, it’d be soo nice if you can get to do ways you could recover from a failed talking stage where you over committed, how to deal with your not-so-ex and not hating them, how to move on basically, and also how we can all create a better future for ourselves by not projecting our past experiences into what God has in store for us. Basically how we can work around our past experiences from not hindering us from things God wants us to enjoy and experience.
I need this too
Emphasis on how not to let it affect our God-created future
I'll love that too please. It's been a struggle.
A situationship is not a ship😂😂it is a canoe😂😂
😂😂😂this got me.
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Rhema 😂
If God provides a situation for you people to meet, see it as a canoe to be stirred to a desired direction not a cruise ship
I love that zoom in😅😅😅
First time seeing this channel, subscribed.This was very nice.
I already subscribed and liked the video beforehand. This has to work! 🤭
No more “Have you eat?” every two market days.
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It's the way mama laughs for me. Thank you for these tips❤
You are a witch, hahaha
You are not a witch you are just behaving like one 😭😭😭😭😭😭😜😜😜
I just love your sense of humor.
Thank you PL
A relationship is not a reward for what someone gives you,you build life together.
Thank you PL❤😘
My first time seeing her video. She made so much sense😊. I like her sense of humour too. God bless you Ma PL
Is it just me, or it's the way she laughs 😂. Cracks me up everytime 😂
Oh I love pst Laju, especially her sense of humor 😂😂😂
Learn to be the kind of person that even if people want to be taken advantage of, you can protect them
Thank you Pastor Laju, It is the way you laugh in between while hitting the strong points.
Everything said here reminds me of 2021/22 for me.
I believe my MOG is coming for me this year. Amen!
It’s always PL’s laughter for me😂❤
Thanks for this ma 😊🙏🏽
Wish I could give this video a double thumbs up.
When I saw how long it was I wondering if I could follow through,but I did!!
Thank you so much Ma.
Pls I’d like you talk about age factor in relationships next 🙏 ❤
For someone who had flagged talking stages, i think this would have helped me more when i was in that ministry but like they say, no knowledge is a waste so i will say this was so spot on for any relationship even😅😅😅.
Thanks PL for enlightening us, God bless you🙏🙌🏻❤️
"A situationship isn't a ship, it's a Canoe"🤣🤣🤣 PL is so funny!
I wish I heard these things earlier, it would have saved me a lot of stress😂🤲
Thank you so much, PL! A lot of wisdom and value gained
Honestly
This is me commenting so I can move from talking stage 😂🙏🏽
See the way I am happy because your video popped on my screen❤❤
It’s so beautiful and therapeutic to watch you ma❤
Why do I love this lady so much 🥰❤️
PL!
This was too good.
Timely and profound.
I like how relatable it was as well.
Thank you so much. ❤️
I have always looked forward to knowing more about talking stage as many people disregard friendship and go all about talking stage.
This is so timely🌹
PL..I just want you to know, I love watching you!! I love your laugh, your calm aura, and ofcourse the wisdom you share with us. Thank you for being amazing!!
I think PL and I are in the spirit 😂😂cos I literally said Hadiza before she did😂😭😭
I happen to find this video to be very vital to me. Thank you for making me understand more on talking stage
Coming out from a talking stage that didn't work, this video really bless me .
Thank you so much for this beautiful one ma.
I gained lots of insight. Its also my first time coming across your you tube channel.
Thanks Mrs Iren for such wisdom had it been I did not further my research on such topics I would never have known what to say or where to start. Most at times as young ladies we anticipate a lot and forget that we need to learn how to talk and be addressed. Thanks so much 🙏 ❤
I like your smile,your voice and sense of humor
I needed to hear this..Thank you PL.
I'm sha tired of talking stages Lord..This year 🙏🙏This year will not pass me by.
Hmm, protecting people.
This is also true outside of relationships. You don’t need to let everyone know if someone hurts you or of their inadequacies. Thank you Ma. I’ve learnt from that 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Ma, it will be good to have this on spotify as well, so that we can listen on the go!
Great content PL🔥. By the way, the background music is just spot on
Thank you so much maa😭🙏❤️
I wish there was a video on how to go into a talking stage if it's your first time being in a relationship. Because it's something I know if it doesn't begin with a talking stage and you just run into dating the person immediately the relationship is most likely to be unhealthy. I'd really love if you can enlighten us ma.
You are reward enough, value yourself!!
It's the attack and retreat for me.. I can relate
As for me, I love this video ❤️. This video and the aesthetics is so beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you 🙏🏿🤗
👌🏾Atttack and retreat, toxic non -relationship, love you love you…then ghost for a period then show up and tell you how they were going through a lot👌🏾……very true
Thank you so much ma. This was timely and eye opening. Caught myself at some points😅
There’s so much wisdom in this. Thanks for sharing PL. The term for that “attack and retreat” is breadcrumbing, PL😅
I love pastor laju's laugh ❤😅
Thank you Pastor Laju for this 🙌, I learnt a lotttttttt 🤭. And i love the vibes too, i was just laughing while watching 😂🥰.
PL thank you for always taking out the time to teach us so lovingly! This actually got me thinking about my own choices as well😊
Thank you PL! We love you❤
It's the way I smiled and said AMEN
This is so profound! One of the best vlogs on the internet. I just had to leave a comment. I love your sincerity and how you left no stone unturned. I really found this useful. Thanks PL for being a voice
You're so beautiful ma 😍. I'm currently reading your book; "dating intelligently " weldone ma and God bless you for all you do❤
I like the way you laugh. Dating intelligently blessed be so much as a teen and contributed immensely to my watch. Thank you.
You're right, not every relationship must be a dating relationship. One can keep reponsible friends of the opposite sex too, even when married
Thanks mama💖💖... Feels like I'm having a gist with you.
Please kindly talk about Convictions before saying Yes to marry a person.
Thank you for this session, it was a good one.
Yes to this!
The video didn't have to end 😪. Thank you PL! 😊 ❤
Honestly !!
my dear you are in a toxic non relationship runnn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣for some reason I came across this podcast since I am on a healing journey and my advice to my Christain brothers and sisters is to know who you are and whose you are do not settle for less than God's best for you, you attract who you are so find your identity in God and he will send you the right person when the time is right currently on my healing journey and pay keen attention to the red flags that will save you a whole lot
I am actually shocked that people ask and exchange nude pictures...It is actually real! In a talking stage even if it is in a relationship, it is very weird and strange.
Thank you so much PL for this. Very insightful and helps to be able to help others too
I was shocked too oo my brother
I am watching your for the first time ever and 1, I love how you are comfortable in your skin. This reminds me to be more of myself and simply just be me. 2. You are down to earth and say things like they are. 3. You are hilarious and you genuinely made me laugh a couples of times during the course of this video. 4. Very informative. 5. Thank for the information and representing Christ!!!
Wish this came earlier in the year but I'm thankful that it came still. Thank you PL. Now I'm equipped with more knowledge that I can apply going forward. ❤
I love your smile ma ❤️ ma God bless you for such great knowledge
Your laughter lights me up ma😂 very beautiful sound.
"When it comes to a talking stage, talk." This is good PL.
Am in love with you Ma...
I love the way you dealt with this matter. So lively
2:27 I would like the masculine point of view about talking stage from Daddy... (cos I don't think as a guy, I should be asking "what are we"....I should be the one to define it right? which also makes me infer that there are many more differences as well)
toxic non relationship is wild maam😭✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾