🚩RED FLAGS! 🚩Discerning Toxic Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @jofeclothings800
    @jofeclothings800 10 месяцев назад +162

    Who else enjoy how mama laughs😅…. More grace mummy wa

  • @harmonyabache5322
    @harmonyabache5322 10 месяцев назад +77

    "Courtship is the time to love intelligently and marriage is the time to love blindly"

  • @ThelmaOkon-cs2mw
    @ThelmaOkon-cs2mw 9 месяцев назад +11

    Lovely piece I think most times it’s loneliness that makes people hold onto people who aren’t right for them .. May God give us the spirit of discernment

  • @ifeanyiamaechina7853
    @ifeanyiamaechina7853 9 месяцев назад +13

    Toaster: "I'm drowning in the depths..."
    Toastee: awwwnnnnn....
    PL: Swim, don't drown so that you'll see where you're going to 😆😆😆😆

  • @simi2469
    @simi2469 10 месяцев назад +65

    An interesting idea might be Christian parenting. How to raise young children in this age. The balance between “gentle parenting” and “archaic parenting”.

  • @amarachiamadi4732
    @amarachiamadi4732 9 месяцев назад +8

    It’s the way PL laughs in intervals 😂😂😂.

  • @_omorewo
    @_omorewo 10 месяцев назад +21

    Courtship is not an institution, marriage is the institution

  • @favourokorie4283
    @favourokorie4283 10 месяцев назад +24

    “I dey craze, we dey craze for our family” 😂😂😂😂

  • @ajayiebunoluwa7532
    @ajayiebunoluwa7532 10 месяцев назад +29

    I would really love to suggest " a video on patience in marriage" what it means to tolerate and compromise for your marriage
    Thank you ma ❤

  • @stacyforyoung3674
    @stacyforyoung3674 9 месяцев назад +10

    Jesus was single, and you are like Him! Praise the Lord‼️ Hallelujah ma’am 🎉😂

  • @adebisitobiloba2619
    @adebisitobiloba2619 2 месяца назад

    God bless you ma. It’s the way you laugh for me, and you are actually saying something serious.

  • @ThrivingwithATSAK
    @ThrivingwithATSAK 10 месяцев назад +22

    PL is looking beautiful as alwayssss ❤❤❤ 🥹🥹🤩🤩🤩

  • @lightgiverscharityfoundati6786
    @lightgiverscharityfoundati6786 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you ma. I love your delivery.
    Your smiles and thanks to Apostle Iren.
    I pray I find a wife with joyful spirit.
    I love you ma. More grace to keep blessing us.

  • @ademorewaadebiyi6418
    @ademorewaadebiyi6418 8 месяцев назад +1

    PL’s voice and sense of humor!>>>>>>>>>😂
    We laugh and we learn
    Thankyou ma!❤

  • @lightgiverscharityfoundati6786
    @lightgiverscharityfoundati6786 2 месяца назад +1

    NOTES ON RED FLAGS
    1. Faith crisis .
    Don't date an unbeliever.
    2. Abuse .
    Anger must be checked.
    3. Bad character trait.
    Care about how they treat other people and not only you.
    4. When they don't value you( God said versus I love you )
    A break up is not always a bad things.
    5. When your partner is unfaithful.
    Don't settle for less.
    6. When your partner pulls you from the activities of God.
    7. When you see no future.
    Break up is sometimes good. Not all relationships must end in marriage. ( swim but don't drown so you won't die )
    8. Covetousness .
    Money can fly away.
    9. Family approval.
    Family deciding for you on an extreme traits.
    10. When the relationship is not as good as it used to be.
    Work on it or break up.
    11. Genotype issue.
    Go and get tested before you break someone's heart.

  • @Miss_doma
    @Miss_doma 9 месяцев назад +5

    “I’m drowning in the depths” swim don’t drown 😂

  • @emezuonwachi7702
    @emezuonwachi7702 10 месяцев назад +7

    "This red is for red flags" 😂😂 love u ma

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 10 месяцев назад +39

    Thank you for the point you raised about dating an unbeliever.
    A lot of people say ‘I know a Christian that married an unbeliever and they’re happy, they’ve been married for 50 years’ etc- but happiness isn’t the only pointer!
    The purpose of our lives (and relationships) is to know Christ and make Him known📌

  • @onyinyechinwokoro8010
    @onyinyechinwokoro8010 10 месяцев назад +8

    “This red is for red flags” 😂😂

  • @Winifred_N
    @Winifred_N 9 месяцев назад +5

    The way PL laughs in between 😂❤️

  • @soibihart2510
    @soibihart2510 10 месяцев назад +12

    Your humour and laughter is magnetic ma❤

  • @RuthEdo-xp7qo
    @RuthEdo-xp7qo 9 месяцев назад +2

    Her sense of humor 😂😂😂

  • @preciousadebayo2966
    @preciousadebayo2966 9 месяцев назад +3

    It's the did you meet on your wedding day for me 😂

  • @aideemakeover_beads5734
    @aideemakeover_beads5734 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ill forever not understand that their “ i never expected it”😂😂😂😂😂 how?😂

  • @mercyoluwaferanmi-zt9yu
    @mercyoluwaferanmi-zt9yu 5 месяцев назад +1

    I never expect it...who are you expecting...lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @boluwatifeolawoyin6699
    @boluwatifeolawoyin6699 10 месяцев назад +25

    I've shared your channel with my mum. I'm trusting she'll watch and fall in love.
    I've not even started watching but I'm commenting because I know that it's going to be insightful as always.

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  10 месяцев назад +4

      Love that!

  • @sifoncollins895
    @sifoncollins895 10 месяцев назад +9

    This is the answer to all the discussions I’ve been having with people on relationships. Anytime someone asks me a question, I’ll just share this link. Thank you PL❤. God bless you always

  • @tiyaosa
    @tiyaosa 9 месяцев назад +9

    PL is literally so pretty and her laugh is wholesome🥺❤️. Thank you for sharing this wisdom ma’am🙏🏾

  • @chisomjennifer5338
    @chisomjennifer5338 10 месяцев назад +7

    I laughed hard when you mentioned going to “joro”😂😂

  • @Kachmonayy
    @Kachmonayy 10 месяцев назад +14

    Your laughter is so beautiful ma'am 🤭
    Thank you for this video❤

  • @asalame3670
    @asalame3670 9 месяцев назад +3

    Yessssss Ma'am!!!!! Also, please give us the proposal video because times are getting real these days.

  • @favourokorie4283
    @favourokorie4283 10 месяцев назад +6

    “Swim don’t drown” 😩😂

  • @sirvick9533
    @sirvick9533 9 месяцев назад +2

    Oooo, I'm drowning in the depths.
    Swim, don't drown.🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

  • @InyeneUkpe
    @InyeneUkpe 9 месяцев назад +3

    "This red is for red flags." 😂😂😂 I love your laugh PL ❤ Thank you, Mama.

  • @asknursestddavid6603
    @asknursestddavid6603 6 месяцев назад +1

    God bless WOG 🔥

  • @melodyayokunnu2170
    @melodyayokunnu2170 10 месяцев назад +7

    PL!!! This was wonderful, as usual! Thank you ma. Pls have a video on "Shooting your shot as a Christian lady"

  • @rachelkasub
    @rachelkasub 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Mum PL❤ , I have taken notes 🖊️

  • @emmanuelonwuaso4769
    @emmanuelonwuaso4769 10 месяцев назад +4

    It did bless me greatly. You touched every area that needed to be touched! Thank you so much P. L

  • @mercyoluwaferanmi-zt9yu
    @mercyoluwaferanmi-zt9yu 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love the way you laugh 🤗🤗God will continue to help you..." I dey craze, we dey craze for our family 😂😂

  • @blessingetienodickson4949
    @blessingetienodickson4949 9 месяцев назад +1

    Your smiles are Captivating

  • @femiofafrica
    @femiofafrica 10 месяцев назад +9

    A content idea @PL is how to handle breakups, amicably or not.

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 5 месяцев назад

    My God 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    Ds is a bomb
    My God 😭
    Thanks momma
    I love the way you speak and laugh ♥️♥️♥️😍🌹

  • @yenniejoe8941
    @yenniejoe8941 10 месяцев назад +5

    Jesus was single and we're like Him!
    Ehhh God!😅😅
    Thank you PL. I truly enjoyed listening to your soothing voice, and learnt alot from the message.❤

  • @andrewyisa642
    @andrewyisa642 4 месяца назад

    One of the things pl said i liked was you might be the red flag which is true we focus so much on finding the red flag in the other person forgetting ourselves to see if we are guilty of any and improving and changing those things also.

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 5 месяцев назад

    PL looks so beautiful and gorgeous as usual
    I celebrate you ma'am
    Hope to see you one on one 😭😭

  • @alexanderall1660
    @alexanderall1660 9 месяцев назад +5

    "When you're courting swim so that you can see but don't drown, you'd die😂😂"

  • @PraiseOmenogor
    @PraiseOmenogor 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you very much ma for sharing this these things.
    It's all so enlightening.❤

  • @oluwakemisolajuliana4415
    @oluwakemisolajuliana4415 10 месяцев назад +3

    She never expereret it😂😂😂, oh my God😅😅😅 love you pl you’re too much , sweet,cute and contagious smile. Sleep over is getting to know each oda😂😂😂

  • @ayeeshahadjoa
    @ayeeshahadjoa 7 месяцев назад

    Please talk about the importance of communication in relationships

  • @funkeolasupo8221
    @funkeolasupo8221 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's the proposal like that 😂😂

  • @andrewyisa642
    @andrewyisa642 4 месяца назад

    Pl's laugh is making my laugh to laugh 😂😂❤

  • @temitopebamisaiye4892
    @temitopebamisaiye4892 10 месяцев назад +4

    PL looks sooooooo goood ! Ahaan 🎉
    This video was exciting and educative. ❤

  • @eyifunmi
    @eyifunmi 9 месяцев назад +2

    The laugh itself😂😂😂
    'Jesus was single, Hallelujah' 😅😂😂😂

  • @abuwaodeworitse
    @abuwaodeworitse 8 месяцев назад

    You're so lovable Ma😊
    Oh the Joy when I realized you're my tribe too🤗

  • @gladysantonza
    @gladysantonza 9 месяцев назад +1

    This video is for everybody! Those who need to be delivered from toxic relationships and those who are toxic in the relationship. Thank you so much, PL 😍

  • @victoryughakpoteni6942
    @victoryughakpoteni6942 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you PL, love you!❤

  • @mideglow
    @mideglow 9 месяцев назад +2

    I love PL’s sense of humour 😂😂

  • @opemipoogunrinola126
    @opemipoogunrinola126 9 месяцев назад +1

    11:31…..i dey craze oo, we no well for our family 😂😂😂

  • @MusingWithMary-me7nu
    @MusingWithMary-me7nu 10 месяцев назад +3

    So much wisdom nuggets. As a person who teaches on similar topic, I totally agree with you on every point.

  • @LorettaaE
    @LorettaaE 9 месяцев назад +4

    So much balance and wisdom in this video !!! Thank youuu PL❤

  • @Ajirielutabe
    @Ajirielutabe 9 месяцев назад +2

    “I never expected it” 😭😭😂

  • @daramfonisong8648
    @daramfonisong8648 9 месяцев назад +1

    Money can grow wings and fly away 😂😂😂

  • @AdedejiOpemipobadmus
    @AdedejiOpemipobadmus 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for all your labour of Love PL. I hope this question finds you well and I am able to present it properly....
    Here is my question: I have always heard some of our spiritual guidance, leaders, authorities etc..that the word "Dating isn't a Christian's thing or sounds worldly, some don't even believe in this "Talking Stage" of a thing and this really makes me feel curious😢, from my understanding so far i could see that they believe as a Christian brother or sister, the legal ground or biblical standard to know more about your spouse to be, is when you're in courtship with that sister or with that brother 😢 and for me with all due respect, isn't that stage too far to start knowing and discovering some red flags in who you're support to spend your lifetime with? ... At this point how do we describe that stage of Talking Stage which I now believe is the elementary level of setting up a Romantic relationship and most especially the period of Dating or should we call it Courtship so as a disciple and a younger follower, we don't find ourselves in dishonour or seeing us as someone walking in dishonour to our higher authority? Of course as a Christian brother the relationship is a Marriage in view.... so PL can you say something about this probably in your next video. Thank you ma

  • @IamachildofGod001
    @IamachildofGod001 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you ma, More grace to you. A video idea on how to navigate young relationships that have long-term marriage plans, say a 23 and 22-year-old couple in school and plan to. marry in the next 5 years, what are the difficulties, and the right way to approach it.

  • @bolaoluwatito_
    @bolaoluwatito_ 9 месяцев назад

    PL has so much wisdom😩

  • @omowunmiolowu
    @omowunmiolowu 9 месяцев назад +1

    The knock and small slap😊

  • @estheruchechi9364
    @estheruchechi9364 9 месяцев назад

    What was a source of concern,becomes a reason to thank God❤❤

  • @christinescorner113
    @christinescorner113 9 месяцев назад

    You laughter Ma 😂. Love, love, love itttttt ❤❤❤

  • @blessingakhanyemen15
    @blessingakhanyemen15 9 месяцев назад

    This video blessed me, can you also talk about what to discuss in a godly talking stage relationship.

  • @ozichi.
    @ozichi. 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, PL. I learnt a lot and I noted it for my future.

  • @oluwadamisolaoreofe
    @oluwadamisolaoreofe 9 месяцев назад +1

    PL's humour and laughter😂❤

  • @chibuzordeborahakuwueke2784
    @chibuzordeborahakuwueke2784 9 месяцев назад

    I am blessed. All points noted in writing.

  • @graceokoye5588
    @graceokoye5588 9 месяцев назад +1

    Mama, your laugh is soothing😊😊😊

  • @bolaoluwatito_
    @bolaoluwatito_ 9 месяцев назад

    This was so funny, yet very very insightful. Thank you PL💛

  • @deborah_nwosu
    @deborah_nwosu 9 месяцев назад +1

    Such depths of wisdom. I love PL ❤

  • @faithcharisma
    @faithcharisma 6 месяцев назад

    Here to find out if I was the problem 😂..
    God abeg 😅

  • @happinessitelima
    @happinessitelima 10 месяцев назад +2

    Her laughter 😂😂😂

  • @peteradeleye5713
    @peteradeleye5713 10 месяцев назад +6

    Wow, thank you so much, PL for this profound truth. Our generation needs such advice as this. God bless you ma'am

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you!

  • @bomakala-otaji3966
    @bomakala-otaji3966 9 месяцев назад

    PL's Laughter makes me laugh🤭🤭

  • @deborahmatt3197
    @deborahmatt3197 9 месяцев назад +1

    You're so cute ...respectfully ma😍😍😍. I'd love to hear more about rekindling the love in a relationship when it seems to wane🤔

  • @enogelaojima1095
    @enogelaojima1095 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love how you enjoyed filming this…the laughs and smiles in between love love it😂💕and you look so beautiful❤️✨

  • @oluwatobi3863
    @oluwatobi3863 10 месяцев назад +2

    video on Exes, talking about your past how much is too much to share, when is the best time to talk about your past.

  • @marcusruth8257
    @marcusruth8257 9 месяцев назад

    I can never settle for Less!❤

  • @ifektivenigerian1532
    @ifektivenigerian1532 9 месяцев назад +1

    I don subscribe ooo... My day has to be great 😂❤
    I was really blessed by this ma. Thank you so much.

  • @tsky86
    @tsky86 9 месяцев назад

    PL’s laughter is sending me 😅😅😅😁😁 love it

  • @sundayswithmwens
    @sundayswithmwens 8 месяцев назад

    Loved!❤

  • @Growupwithpeacemaker
    @Growupwithpeacemaker 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for your use of words...God bless you for answering God's call.
    Some topics that you could also talk about are:
    1. What to look out for before entering a relationship
    2. What a woman wants in a man or Vis-versa
    3. How to get over a broken relationship or move on
    4. How to train yourself to be the kind of partner for your dream partner.
    Thank you ma

  • @Thepampereddaughteroftheking
    @Thepampereddaughteroftheking 9 месяцев назад +2

    Dear PL a good video to make would be “navigating adoption and your experience so far”

  • @tshegopadi2014
    @tshegopadi2014 9 месяцев назад

    Broos You cant be this Funny I am following you nahh, ah ah😂😂😂😂

  • @anuoluwa_peace
    @anuoluwa_peace 9 месяцев назад +1

    I really love the background music❤
    So much

  • @fisayospoint
    @fisayospoint 9 месяцев назад

    I think you are enjoying yourself a little too much here ma.... that intro Love it

  • @iyanuadeosun218
    @iyanuadeosun218 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Pastor Laju!🎉

  • @omodeleayobami1899
    @omodeleayobami1899 9 месяцев назад

    I enjoy how you speak calmly😍😍🥰

  • @toriemckadesskum8936
    @toriemckadesskum8936 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you PL. More Grace

  • @christabelabumere2124
    @christabelabumere2124 9 месяцев назад

    As usual, thank you abiding by this

  • @faithchizy7844
    @faithchizy7844 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much PL. your laughter is so beautiful 😅 and the mention about genotype was so necessary thank you for shedding light on it. God bless you

  • @Elizabethelsea
    @Elizabethelsea 9 месяцев назад

    I really enjoyed watching this video. God bless you ma.

  • @Semilore_Ojeniyi
    @Semilore_Ojeniyi 10 месяцев назад +5

    My God, Laju Iren is just so intelligent that is one of the reasons why I like her. I celebrate your intelligence ma. More Grace. ❤️

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  10 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you. Glory to Jesus!

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  10 месяцев назад

      Awww thank you. Glory to Jesus!

  • @favourojei2441
    @favourojei2441 10 месяцев назад +1

    PL really came for us today with gba gbos😂😂😂. Thank you maa!!

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  10 месяцев назад +1

      My pleasure 😊

  • @Mae_AA
    @Mae_AA 9 месяцев назад

    Hmmm, so timely and spot on. Thank you PL!