Matthew Perry made wholesome deeds by opening up in his memoire, interviews to help people with addiction. This will go a long way even after his passing. He has a good and big heart. RIP Chandler/Matthew.
I started with pills after a skateboarding injury at 18 after a few years I moved on to heroin and then fentanyl. Everything he says is so relatable! I did things I thought I'd never do... stealing pills from people, money, manipulation. Luckily after 4 overdoses I got away from it... I've been sober 6 years now! Thanks for sharing this mathew maybe it will help people to reach out.
Hell yeah, man. I used on and off for 10 years then got into shooting up and with all the fentantyl being around it wasn't long before I overdosed. Thankfully I got treatment and went on suboxone and I'm now 11 months clean. I feel so bad for this new generation of opiate users as it doesn't take much to die these days.. literal 15 year old kids dying from the fake oxy s that are being pressed.
Even if you weren’t the biggest Friends fan, the terribly sad passing of Matthew Perry is a reminder that those who try and make you laugh the hardest often hardly laugh when they are with themselves. It’s probably good to check on them as regularly as we do others
This is heartbreaking. Friends got me through so much in life. His humour has made me laugh in bad times. Hope he knows that and we as fans are grateful ❤
I know right he was a good man, but we all got to go , none of us are here to stay. This is only our home for a temporary time until God calls us. We are all leaving.
I'm so moved that he is so vulnerable and courageous being world famous and sharing his darkest moments. So glad he is healing and coming back. I know he is hoping to help others. Here he is this incredibly successful person at the height of fame and wealth in his industry and he's saying, how much that doesn't matter. Much LOVE Matthew. You're a good person and that matters the most.
Yeah, and he's doing this for years now. he's very fierce in charing some heavy stories. He even did that while accepting an award at the white house. It's to get people out of the isolation and help them to talk. He's brave.
This was just one of the most raw, intimate, beautiful pieces of journalism and storytelling I’ve seen in a long time. Congratulations to you Matthew and thank you for your bravery, openness and vulnerability. Well done Diane, for holding him and highlighting him throughout this. Editing was spot on
@@DevinSheaProductions when you can go to the depths of your mistakes and then have something helpful to say on the other side of it - then, please, feel free to share
He will be known forever as someone who was not only just a gifted comedic actor who starred on a hit show. But also as a man who never gave up, fought his disease until he expelled his last breath, and left behind a book that will help people fight their addictions. I’m not one for idolatry, especially of Hollywood types. But Mathew Perry earned my complete and total respect as a man. God Bless RIP
He was so open and brave to share his darkest days, most people will not speak of that. He was an incredible human and his legacy will help so many people..
It takes a heck of allot of courage and authenticity for someone to bare their soul like this, in order to help others that are suffering. Sending love and loads of respect for you Matthew xxx
As a recovered alcoholic I really appreciate people opening up about this. Unfortunately this is very much a normal thing in society today. Addicts need reprieve. They don't need persecution. Give love and safety. I never wanted to die in the depths of my addiction, but I also didn't mind if my addiction took me. Love to all that struggle.
So true. I was there and still kind of am. I will always be an alcoholic but I'm also lying about my drinking. I do not drink every day like I used to however I will drink a few times a month. And always regret that morning feeling. The cycle is so hard to break.
@@zjow4755 not really. I mean, some could say I substituted one addiction with another. I’m not obsessed but I love going to the gym for my outlet to let go of stress. I love bike rides, hikes and walking my dogs. I just don’t use liquor or alcohol as my mental and emotional escape. I went to a rehab for 1year, did massive work and it was all worth it. We only drink to escape something within ourselves and we fear confronting it. Once we digest and process whatever it is (not easy, very scary, at least for me) we’re able to move on. If we lie to ourselves and those around us then we will forever remain stuck.
@@JinxMarie1985 I still have one or two beers when I want to, but I don’t like feeling buzzed in the slightest. I also only drink those one or two beers as long as I know it won’t take away from my next day or morning. I appreciate the taste of beer and appreciate it with a lunch or dinner here and there on the weekends. But I do not let it take away from my joy and ability to do whatever it is I want to do. I have two kids, if they want to play sports together or go hiking I will always be ready to do so. I use the gym, getting sunlight and being in nature to find peace and harmony… I don’t lie to myself with thinking that’s what drinking will do for me… I was always left with shame, guilt, self hate when I got buzzed and drank all the time.
@@zjow4755 I’m no professional in the field but over the year I was in treatment myself I did see many situations where symptoms occurred. For such long term use, no matter how much or how little, that timeframe surely caused your system to count on it every day. When you take something that consistent from your body, your body will wonder where it’s gone and now your system needs to react and act differently due to its absence. I wouldn’t be fearful to begin, I would just baby step away from it.
The fact that all through those struggles he was able to pull off acting in Friends and keeping us laughing and none the wiser to the turmoil within him…that truly is worth an Oscar!!!
Mental and physical health is worth much more than any award. He needs peace and quiet much more than a golden calf that's the epitome of Hollywood's rat race.
This sadness and loneliness is so consuming for him. Painful to see Matthew tell his story but what bravery and strength to come forward and put it out there and be accountable - that will help pave the way for better days.. Prayers for you Matthew for sobriety, strength and happiness. God Bless you. You are loved.
May God bless you and keep you healthy and well. He didn't let you die, because you had a testimony to give...All the best to you ...from Brazil a big fan of yours...now even more. It takes guts to go out there and tell your story. Congratulations.
It's touching to see him being compassionate for his younger self. I wish him all the best and everyone in a similar situation. It's so important we learn how to love ourselves and be generous with ourselves.
Matthew if you read this by any chance, through all your pain and struggles you made a difference in the world. I was late teens early 20s through friends. I came from a troubled home. Mom was a bad addict. Chandler was my favorite. He still makes me laugh out loud. Thank you for bringing joy to me during a very dark time in my life.
Heartbreaking to hear what he has been through. His character has given me so much laughter and joy over the years and it’s so horrible to hear how addiction has affected him. I truly hope he can stay on the path of healing for the rest of his life.
The best thing about Mathew Perry was his desire to help others instead of drowning in self pity. He was a hard core drug addict. He is so honest about his addictions.
Fortunate for him to have survived the depths of what he describes his addiction being. Prayers to those going through their own struggles for the strength to find health and peace.
As an avid friends viewer and have always watched it when I myself have felt down this was heartbreaking to watch. That scene with Rachel's hat had always made me laugh but what Matthew said about not recognising himself and how skinny he was I just started crying for him. Crazy when I don't personally know him. I thank him and the rest of the cast for years of laughter. I pray he gets well 🙏 ❤️
It's such a tragedy that a man so gifted, so funny and so full of potential unleashed cannot look back on his most productive period in the profession without being haunted by regrets and demons from that past. Get well, Matt. Stay well. You're worth it. More than you know.
SURAH AL MULK In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful. Blessed is He in whose hand is dominion, and He is over all things competent - [He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving - [And] who created seven heavens in layers. You do not see in the creation of the Most Merciful any inconsistency. So return [your] vision [to the sky]; do you see any breaks? Then return [your] vision twice again. [Your] vision will return to you humbled while it is fatigued. And We have certainly beautified the nearest heaven with stars and have made [from] them what is thrown at the devils and have prepared for them the punishment of the Blaze. And for those who disbelieved in their Lord is the punishment of Hell, and wretched is the destination. When they are thrown into it, they hear from it a [dreadful] inhaling while it boils up. It almost bursts with rage. Every time a company is thrown into it, its keepers ask them, “Did there not come to you a warner?” They will say,” Yes, a warner had come to us, but we denied and said, ‘Allah has not sent down anything. You are not but in great error.'” And they will say, “If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.” And they will admit their sin, so [it is] alienation for the companions of the Blaze. Indeed, those who fear their Lord unseen will have forgiveness and great reward. And conceal your speech or publicize it; indeed, He is Knowing of that within the breasts. Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted? It is He who made the earth tame for you - so walk among its slopes and eat of His provision - and to Him is the resurrection. Do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not cause the earth to swallow you and suddenly it would sway? Or do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not send against you a storm of stones? Then you would know how [severe] was My warning. And already had those before them denied, and how [terrible] was My reproach. Do they not see the birds above them with wings outspread and [sometimes] folded in? None holds them [aloft] except the Most Merciful. Indeed He is, of all things, Seeing. Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion. Or who is it that could provide for you if He withheld His provision? But they have persisted in insolence and aversion. Then is one who walks fallen on his face better guided or one who walks erect on a straight path? Say, “It is He who has produced you and made for you hearing and vision and hearts; little are you grateful.” Say, “It is He who has multiplied you throughout the earth, and to Him you will be gathered.” And they say, “When is this promise, if you should be truthful?” Say, “The knowledge is only with Allah, and I am only a clear warner.” But when they see it approaching, the faces of those who disbelieve will be distressed, and it will be said, “This is that for which you used to call.” Say, [O Muhammad], “Have you considered: whether Allah should cause my death and those with me or have mercy upon us, who can protect the disbelievers from a painful punishment?” Say, “He is the Most Merciful; we have believed in Him, and upon Him we have relied. And you will [come to] know who it is that is in clear error.” Say, “Have you considered: if your water was to become sunken [into the earth], then who could bring you flowing water?”
@@rbh1997you know Canada has much less addicted people with pills? Sure there are some alcoholics and drug addicts but not as many as in the US. It’s this American pharmaceutical companies and doctors who are corrupt AF prescribe pills for money. I mean what can you expect when your healthcare system is based on for profit. America is the only country that it’s healthcare is for profit among all developed nations. None of others is except corrupt capitalistic America. Why? It allows corruptions that’s why. But America is for profit healthcare which is the source for failure.
Im happy to see that Matt is doing good and choose to write that book. This dude went at it hard, for years. That colon exploding surgery is no joke, he was almost a goner. He said so much truth about addiction (when you think you dont need anybody, and think you can do this alone and how the disease is just waiting, doing push ups getting stronger as you are in recovery) I remember many years ago i saw an interview of Seymour Hoffman and in it they were talking about addiction (which i had no idea he ever struggled with, he said he got cleaned when he was like 22 23 years old) anyways he said "good thing i got clean back then because i wouldn't have survived with the money/fame that i have now, i know it". Flash foward a few years later i heard that he relapse and got out of the treatment center early, i think he lasted a week and i just knew something bad was going to happen to him. I think it was less than a year later he died. After 23 years clean....yeah addiction is a bitch, always stay vigilant.
Tremendously brave to speak out about addiction. A terrible illness that ruins lives. It’s hopeful to see him in recovery, and long may his recovery continue.
There is a very good Ted Talk on RUclips about a man describing how doctors are not equipped to help people withdraw from meds. I was taking OxyCodone 20mg 6x a day and Norco 10/325 6x a day for breakthrough pain (plus medication to sleep, for an upset stomach, blah, blah blah, 16 different medications a day). I survived an extremely abusive husband - Demon Jimmy - that tried to kill me, then cancer that was not nearly as painful or deadly as Jimmy. I asked my 'pain management doctor when I would know if I was doing better since I was always doped up. When could I stop taking some of the pills and wean off them? When I had monthly drug tests to make sure I was taking what was being prescribed, I had to make sure my levels where were they wanted them, or they would cut me off completely. Doc told me they were maintenance drugs for the rest of my life. NOPE! I started to wean myself off the meds and was able to do it with all of them. I was on Oxy for 8 years and the other pills for over ten years. I had a heart attack and I was in intensive care for trying to get rid of the Oxy. I had a heart attack and ended up in the Intensive Care unit. They could not figure out what was wrong. My heart rate would slow down, then speed up, and I would vomit, was wearing a diaper, and was in and out of consciousness, when a Cardiologist came into the room during one of these episodes. He asked if he could try something and I agreed. He gave me something in my IV and my heart rate leveled out and I felt 100% better. He explained it was a small amount of Oxy and my body was fighting hard to stay on it. When Mr. Perry described having to stay on the pills to keep from getting sick, I cried. The way most insurance is, I have to take my pain medication daily to qualify for it. It cannot be an as needed, for those high doses. It got to the point where I was taking meds just to keep from getting sick. They were not killing the pain. Thank God I spent 11 days in Intensive Care and got off Oxy. I pray I never need it again. I still have intense pain and terrible things going on with my body, from the demon named Jimmy, and I do take Percocet a few times a month. But, I know my limits and I have a pain management doctor that works with me instead of the system. Prayers for everyone that is suffering with pain of any kind.
Nice to see more and more celebrities opening up about their addictions. It really help’s humanize addicts to some people who think addicts are trash. It can happen to anyone. But if you truly want to get better you can.
I never watched the show unless I happened to see a few minutes at a friend's house and we remember discussing that he was addicted to something. It wasn't a huge secret back then either. It was in tabloids and I think that a lot of people were in denial because they thought that he had a life so many would want to live. I wonder when addiction will be treated as a health issue and not a moral failing or automatically seen as a criminal? Prohibition has obviously been a waste of money and not much has changed.
As a 10 year coke addict I did my last rehab in 2002. The guys who were heroin and prescription pull addicts had the very worst withdrawals. Many of them relapsed after, took former quantities and are now dead. Anyone who gets and stays clean are personal heroes of mine and they all say, it was the hardest and the best thing they’ve ever done in life.
I worked with Matthew on the film Serving Sara. He would say a few lines, then go to his trailer. Over & over, all day & night. Initially I thought he was just a $1M per episode diva who didn't want to be in the room with the peons for long. Then production shut down so he could enter rehab. I'm glad he has survived this - I think discussing it so publicly will help the healing process.
As just a random face out here from the generation that was here for the whole thing, from the first Friends episode to the movies and right up to now, you are and always will be a part of our lives, an extended member of our family, and you'll always be somewhere in the memories I personally have of a time in my life that was truly magical and will be forever untouched and undimmed by the creeping cynicism that can come with the mediocrity of day to day life. I think a lot of us experimented and dealt with things the same way you did and I'm glad to know you've made it through because not all of us did. I'm proud of you and you should be proud of yourself. If it means anything, whenever I see you, you're still a part of that time when coffee houses were converted houses with old couches, unmatched bookshelves, and random donated books (there was no Starbucks), and we were all just old enough to be completely in control of our out of control decisions and just young enough to have no idea what we were doing and be completely confident. It was wonderful and we loved it. Take care, see you around.
Matthew Perry. You are a legend. I'm sorry for your pain and difficult journey. Your brave to speak out and help others. I'm so happy that your doing good and deserve to live a wonderful life. Addiction isn't a choice but a disease. Lots of love xxx
What an idiot you are! Imagine calling a self-entitled drug addict from Hollywood a legend. Lol! Drugs and alcohol are NOT diseases they are addictions. Before they are addictions though they are poor lifestyle choices. Only losers such as yourself would call being a drug addict a disease because it takes the responsibility off you for the poor decisions you make. Take responsibility and stop pointing the finger away from yourself!! At the end of the day you are the only one to blame for your stupid choices.
This man and his on screen colleagues built my life. They were amazing and made my life a little better in a hard time. The fact he could go through such pain and suffering and all of them could have to bare these things, they still delivered me 10 years of entertainment I'll never be able to be grateful enough for. I hope Mathew is doing well and really hope he stays the path, because he's a treasure to me and millions other and to the acting community. All the best mate. All the very best.
The saddest moment is when he says "I didn't understand what was going on." That heartbreaking confusion when you are suffering so much. I can relate to this when I was battling severe depression and anxiety. It is unfair. We shouldn't suffer on that level in life. But he kept going, and I kept going. For me, a big part of it was a chemical imbalance that the right medication helped repair and put my life back on track. Our society stigmatizes addiction but it's just our mind and body's attempt to "heal" something, to self-medicate. Therapy has been huge for me. And a loving community of friends. I truly hope Matthew has a great therapist on his side. But the hard work, the really hard work, we have to do ourselves. But thing is, we are capable of SO much. We just have to take the first step, and then another, and another.
8:28 I almost cried 😢 We can terribly feel how hard it was for him… We can understand how difficult it is for him to see this young boy pretending everything’s fine while he was lost and scared… We’re so proud of you Matthew ❤
Bless your heart. I was in the movie Serving Sara as an extra. When you were almost hit by monster truck while filming. You can do it. I'm proud of you for doing all you can to get help. This happened to me at age 17. I refuse pain medication as long as humanily possible. Hugs from me to you, Matthew. You are an amazing person, don't ever forget that. Reach out if you ever need to talk, I'll listen. No catch. Just human to human. 🙏✌️❤️
The way he is speaking and his physical appearance shows the toll his struggles took on his body. Sometimes when we abuse our bodies it doesnt show up when we are young. It shows as we age.
@@barbarad3869 Hen ever claimed to be sober. He specifically says that he doesn't count days he's sober because that never worked for him. He is trying his best, that's all he or anyone else can do
Everyone has a story to tell. Thank you, Matthew, for telling yours. You've gotten through that phase, and are continuing to move through your story. It will inspire and help many. God bless.
This is a heartbreaking story. I was under the impression Perry had been clean and sober for many years, so I was shocked to learn of his most recent relapse and serious set-back from recovery (which has severely impacted his health). I'm no expert, but opiates and meth seem to be extremely dangerous, powerful narcotics that alter a person's brain and body chemistry - making it excessively difficult to remain clean and sober. In contrast, many people will typically tire of the insidious, insane nature of cocaine, and quit the drug after several years. This does not seem to be the case with opiates (whether pills or heroin), as well as meth - as people who desperately want to quit seem incapable of doing so. My heart and prayers go out to Perry and all of those families suffering from this horrible affliction.
My deepest condolences to his family. What a great actor we enjoy for so long. Rip no more suffering in life!!! Doctors destroyed lots of people's lives by prescribing medication without telling them about the repercussions.
@matthew perry Matthew, i watched friends as a young adult and it really was funny but also had so many life lessons. Thank u for showing us that we all face hurdles in life and we can overcome them. Am watching from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤️
I feel this shows the strength he has and commitment to life. To endure all he did and keep plugging along. And to have fought through his hospitalization- he really seems to have a very very strong Will to live. Blessings to you Matthew. You are courageous
You know we've always heard about stars like charlie sheen, johnny depp or downey jr having drug problems but you cant help but have a profound respect for someone who is going through or went through something so real and suffering so much in silence with such a soul destroying addiction. Im an addict have been for 12 years trust me every addict watching this around the world gets what he means.
I listened to his book. I learned a lot from it. This book will save a lot of lives. I think Matthew Perry's reason to be was/is to support and save those who are experiencing this disease. From what I learned about his addiction, it is a disease. Chapter 10 really got me, just by saying three vital words about himself with conviction. Three words that we all come to learn and say to ourselves in our lifetime. I really look forward to what he does next. It will above and beyond Chandler. God bless Matthew Perry.
I can’t believe he’s gone 2 months already today. As a huge friend’s fan this truly hurts my heart. I hope you have finally found the peace that you couldn’t find on earth. May you forever rest in Gods arms. Thanks for the laughs Marty ❤
I grew up watching Friends as a kid, and I would never ever have guessed that Matthew Perry was a drug / alcohol addict. It's "funny" because he always looked so healthy on the show and appeared perfectly natural (as an actor anyway) but no one knows what's going on INSIDE. Wish him all the best though, he is a great actor regardless of his addiction. I'm an addict myself who has and still is struggling to maintain a healthy balance in my life. I was addicted to Bodybuilding in my early years for 7 years until I had to see a therapist. What I've learned from life so far is that I truly believe all humans are addicts or at least become addicts if they fail to maintain a healthy work, hobbies, family, and friends lifestyle. The few years I managed to have a balanced lifestyle, never lasted too long. I always fall out and go to the extreme. Thus, I have been addicted to everything from power to money to stoicism to being social as well.
I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer. Jim Carrey Love you, Chandler
7:05 it’s hard for everyone to watch you in hindsight what we now can clearly see how much obvious pain you were in. I can only imagine not feeling like you belonged anywhere, perhaps even wondering how / if / could be worthy of even just a simple average human let alone this huge icon that guys would have given up anything to be and girls crushing on you. Mathew you must stay strong for not only yourself and your loved ones but for your fans , the industry that chews people up and spits them out when their relevancy turns pasé and for all people who hurt , who struggle with mental illness , who are battling addiction. Your torch has the ability to not only illuminate the path to a salvation that so many seek but thru your accomplishments this amazing glow emits signaling that hope is real. This is what it’s all about , this is why people like you are a humongous blessing to us, thank you for showing us what a true star looks like… ❤
Beautiful but tormented soul. Mathew, you have inspired generations to come, I grew up watching you, one of the greatest 😢 always dreamt of meeting you one day, never thinking you would disappear. I hope you have found peace! It’s very hard to write this, it’s always the best people who’s the most tormented. 😓
I just wanna jump through the screen and give him the best hug I could give him. I’m currently in the process of getting my MSW and in an addictions class now, I preordered the book and hopefully can get better insight for my profession
Like man, when I’m an alcoholic myself, and him telling his story is like what you hear at every AA meeting in America at 7 PM every night of the week. My alcoholic brain heard he was only drinking a quart of vodka a day and I was like “that’s it?” It’s just a trip into the mind of a disease that affects so many people. We all know an alcoholic or addict, all of us. It’s miserable. And when he said “detox is hell. There is a hell, I can sense tangible features, I can describe it.” I felt that. I’m only 28 and it’s freaking miserable man. Withdrawal is some sort of animal we aren’t taught to deal with. But he had a good support system around him and that’s probably what got him through to share his story and help people. Cheers Chandler.
No sympathy for this guy, waisting his life away making millions , doing drugs & alcohol while others struggle to make ends meet totally homeless desperate hungry souls, no excuses you made a choice Mathew no excuse!!
Just finished reading his memoir! Great book! I also struggle with addiction issues that I have mostly gotten over but not yet completely gotten a hold of since I teeter-totter back and forth between sobriety and getting high! Thank you for sharing your story with Matthew! Your book inspires me to keep on going, becoming a better version of myself and never giving up!
It was sad to see his coworker crying and saying they didn't see it. People want to help, and always feel like failures when they THINK they miss the cues.
He should make a series based on his struggle. The good, the bad, and ugly. Letting addicts know that they’re not alone and warning others of the risks. Keep on fighting Matthew and thank you. You’re the man!
SURAH AL MULK In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful. Blessed is He in whose hand is dominion, and He is over all things competent - [He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving - [And] who created seven heavens in layers. You do not see in the creation of the Most Merciful any inconsistency. So return [your] vision [to the sky]; do you see any breaks? Then return [your] vision twice again. [Your] vision will return to you humbled while it is fatigued. And We have certainly beautified the nearest heaven with stars and have made [from] them what is thrown at the devils and have prepared for them the punishment of the Blaze. And for those who disbelieved in their Lord is the punishment of Hell, and wretched is the destination. When they are thrown into it, they hear from it a [dreadful] inhaling while it boils up. It almost bursts with rage. Every time a company is thrown into it, its keepers ask them, “Did there not come to you a warner?” They will say,” Yes, a warner had come to us, but we denied and said, ‘Allah has not sent down anything. You are not but in great error.'” And they will say, “If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.” And they will admit their sin, so [it is] alienation for the companions of the Blaze. Indeed, those who fear their Lord unseen will have forgiveness and great reward. And conceal your speech or publicize it; indeed, He is Knowing of that within the breasts. Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted? It is He who made the earth tame for you - so walk among its slopes and eat of His provision - and to Him is the resurrection. Do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not cause the earth to swallow you and suddenly it would sway? Or do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not send against you a storm of stones? Then you would know how [severe] was My warning. And already had those before them denied, and how [terrible] was My reproach. Do they not see the birds above them with wings outspread and [sometimes] folded in? None holds them [aloft] except the Most Merciful. Indeed He is, of all things, Seeing. Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion. Or who is it that could provide for you if He withheld His provision? But they have persisted in insolence and aversion. Then is one who walks fallen on his face better guided or one who walks erect on a straight path? Say, “It is He who has produced you and made for you hearing and vision and hearts; little are you grateful.” Say, “It is He who has multiplied you throughout the earth, and to Him you will be gathered.” And they say, “When is this promise, if you should be truthful?” Say, “The knowledge is only with Allah, and I am only a clear warner.” But when they see it approaching, the faces of those who disbelieve will be distressed, and it will be said, “This is that for which you used to call.” Say, [O Muhammad], “Have you considered: whether Allah should cause my death and those with me or have mercy upon us, who can protect the disbelievers from a painful punishment?” Say, “He is the Most Merciful; we have believed in Him, and upon Him we have relied. And you will [come to] know who it is that is in clear error.” Say, “Have you considered: if your water was to become sunken [into the earth], then who could bring you flowing water?”
There are different ways to be an addict...Food is my drug of choice, Specifically sugar, and carbs, .which break down into simple sugars... Believe it or not, this interview has shown me to never give up and to continue to battle my addiction. Sugar addiction is real and who knows maybe alcoholism can be related to sugar addiction as well., or vice versa...Sugar does bad things to our brains, Thanks, Matthew... for your honesty! Keep walking your sobriety walk one day at a time. XX
He slurs the sentence " I was slurring my words". He doesn't sound sober to me. I have seen addiction and he definitely under the influence of something. He may be sober but he not- chemical free. There is a difference
This made me cry. He didn't deserve that desease. Matthiew was going through hell while playing Chandler from season to season. It breaks my heart that he was suffering so much. Rest in peace Matthew ❤
We respect you Matthew! You are doing your best and we hope you go back to your feet and shine the way you like! You are so vulnerable and courageous but also so brave, we are proud of you and we love you❤
I didn’t really watch Friends like millions of people but I hope he is doing better! Everyone can easily get addicted to substances especially celebrities. High stress & fast times. Glad he fought his way out.
To think we were watching him on Friends and in films. The whole time we are sat there laughing, we had no idea he was struggling so badly. He was deteriorating right in front of us and we didnt have a clue. And now he's GONE. Matthew I'm so sorry you couldn't fully recover. I hope youre at peace x
As a kid watching the show, I knew something was wrong with Matthew. I had a crush on him and so when he noticeably started changing physically season to season, what made me realize these changes were “bad” was his eyes. Something about them were unsettling and it became more uncomfortable to see. Even watching reruns I’m reminded of these thoughts as a child. Eyes don’t lie; he clearly was suffering with his addiction. I’m so glad he found the peace and happiness he so desperately was seeking and found a way to fight for life outside of his addict lifestyle. I continue to root for him each and every day! ❤
We love you Matthew and we are so glad you are doing better ❤️ The doctor that just left really makes me sick. He’s a doctor, and he just ran away and left someone to possibly die without even trying to do something 😓
Doctors are narcissists. They become doctors to make money and pretend they are on tv. That’s why we have this issue. They just get you addicted so you keep coming back.
He's been open about this for many years and doing great things to help others. He's also done more writing and coming up with jokes for friends that people might realise because they always wanted to give credit to the whole group. Which means less credit for him. He has given and still gives a lot to others. Hope someone's caring for him.
What has struck me the most about this part of the interview was when he watched the scene back, he looks so sad and uncomfortable watching it. My naivety led me to believe that all the cast would love to sit back and watch friends time and time again with their family and close ones because of how successful and hilarious it was. However, he’s just made me realise that’s not case and as a viewer i am so lucky to get to enjoy the show for what it was the first time I watched it and the countless times I have watched it again and not know what was going on behind the scenes.
I wish he had help sooner. Might sound silly but that show has meant so much to me over the years with my own struggles and I wish I could have helped him. I know he helped me.
Wow Matthew... amazing story. I'm so glad your here with us. I'm sure your story will inspire other's and give them Hope that they can do it too. Stay Well! ❤️
I adore you Matty. Sending you the biggest, longest healing Mom hugs to you, sent through the Universe, right to your beautiful Soul. ❤️❤️❤️ Never give up. You have angels supporting you, wherever you go. Thank you very much for not giving up.🍀☝️♥️🙏❤️
I don't understand how this is called a disease. Opiods were designed to addict people and make it almost impossible to stop. I guess maybe the opiods are the cause of the disease called addiction?
Matthew Perry made wholesome deeds by opening up in his memoire, interviews to help people with addiction. This will go a long way even after his passing. He has a good and big heart. RIP Chandler/Matthew.
Guy was high whole time. Saw him in mtgs. Slapped a coffee out of an old ladies hand Truth
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I started with pills after a skateboarding injury at 18 after a few years I moved on to heroin and then fentanyl. Everything he says is so relatable! I did things I thought I'd never do... stealing pills from people, money, manipulation. Luckily after 4 overdoses I got away from it... I've been sober 6 years now! Thanks for sharing this mathew maybe it will help people to reach out.
Hell yeah, man. I used on and off for 10 years then got into shooting up and with all the fentantyl being around it wasn't long before I overdosed. Thankfully I got treatment and went on suboxone and I'm now 11 months clean. I feel so bad for this new generation of opiate users as it doesn't take much to die these days.. literal 15 year old kids dying from the fake oxy s that are being pressed.
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Congrats on your sobriety buddy! Keep staying positive.
@@danielcaponera5771 thank you that means a lot!!!
@@tylercatron9783 SO PROUD OF YOU TYLER & YOUR SOBRIETY! YOU HAVE DONE A FANTASTIC JOB OF CHANGING YOUR LIFE! PLEASE TAKE CARE & STAY BLESSED 🙏
Even if you weren’t the biggest Friends fan, the terribly sad passing of Matthew Perry is a reminder that those who try and make you laugh the hardest often hardly laugh when they are with themselves. It’s probably good to check on them as regularly as we do others
So so true
Perry CHOSE to destroy his life, he was a drunk and a druggie
Another spoiled rotten rich kid died of drug addiction , sad yup
He did other things but okay
I don't understand how you can't be a Friends fan. It was one of the funniest shows of all time. And Matthew was the funniest of the group.
This is heartbreaking. Friends got me through so much in life. His humour has made me laugh in bad times.
Hope he knows that and we as fans are grateful ❤
I know right he was a good man, but we all got to go , none of us are here to stay. This is only our home for a temporary time until God calls us. We are all leaving.
It’s so amazing that he is doing this interview. All the best to him. He deserves to be free of addiction.
He’s so brave..He’s like Millianial women who have babies and tell everyone how brave they are.
No one "deserves" anything. he's working for his recovery. It's a daily fight. Saying a word like "deserves" diminishes his fight.
Who doesn't "deserve" to be free of addiction
@@DevinSheaProductions *millennial
Ah the ETERNAL PESSIMIST who skates thru life feeding their ego on the trauma of others , for you, someday KARMA will arrive on your doorstep .
I'm so moved that he is so vulnerable and courageous being world famous and sharing his darkest moments. So glad he is healing and coming back. I know he is hoping to help others. Here he is this incredibly successful person at the height of fame and wealth in his industry and he's saying, how much that doesn't matter. Much LOVE Matthew. You're a good person and that matters the most.
Yeah, and he's doing this for years now. he's very fierce in charing some heavy stories. He even did that while accepting an award at the white house. It's to get people out of the isolation and help them to talk. He's brave.
Dont drink all the Hollywood koolaid.
Wow, you’re just soooo moved. Get a life.
@@billbigshlong382 I'm sorry you are so negatively triggered by compassion. That must be hard.
Ummm....he is trying to make money
This was just one of the most raw, intimate, beautiful pieces of journalism and storytelling I’ve seen in a long time. Congratulations to you Matthew and thank you for your bravery, openness and vulnerability. Well done Diane, for holding him and highlighting him throughout this. Editing was spot on
He’s so brave. To monopolize on his self inflicted addiction. Let’s all go do some fentanyl so everyone calls us brave after we stop
@@DevinSheaProductions when you can go to the depths of your mistakes and then have something helpful to say on the other side of it - then, please, feel free to share
Matthew thanks you for your support and hopes you buy his book because he needs more money for drugs.🤣🤣🤣
@@DevinSheaProductions Easy does it. Life is long and you never know what's around the corner. 😉
Millions of addicts are in recovery, he's not special lol
He will be known forever as someone who was not only just a gifted comedic actor who starred on a hit show. But also as a man who never gave up, fought his disease until he expelled his last breath, and left behind a book that will help people fight their addictions. I’m not one for idolatry, especially of Hollywood types. But Mathew Perry earned my complete and total respect as a man. God Bless RIP
He was so open and brave to share his darkest days, most people will not speak of that. He was an incredible human and his legacy will help so many people..
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He was an abusive drug addict and liar and that NEVER changed
@@robingagan6288 Robin Gagan is a sinless, righteous human devoid of compassion 🤮
@@robingagan6288 Exactly!
For what ever reason , you are alive . Telling your story will save lives , many many lives . Respect !
Sydney AUST .
ivan baric from australia
It takes a heck of allot of courage and authenticity for someone to bare their soul like this, in order to help others that are suffering. Sending love and loads of respect for you Matthew xxx
As a recovered alcoholic I really appreciate people opening up about this. Unfortunately this is very much a normal thing in society today. Addicts need reprieve. They don't need persecution. Give love and safety. I never wanted to die in the depths of my addiction, but I also didn't mind if my addiction took me. Love to all that struggle.
So true. I was there and still kind of am. I will always be an alcoholic but I'm also lying about my drinking. I do not drink every day like I used to however I will drink a few times a month. And always regret that morning feeling. The cycle is so hard to break.
@@zjow4755 not really. I mean, some could say I substituted one addiction with another. I’m not obsessed but I love going to the gym for my outlet to let go of stress. I love bike rides, hikes and walking my dogs. I just don’t use liquor or alcohol as my mental and emotional escape. I went to a rehab for 1year, did massive work and it was all worth it. We only drink to escape something within ourselves and we fear confronting it. Once we digest and process whatever it is (not easy, very scary, at least for me) we’re able to move on. If we lie to ourselves and those around us then we will forever remain stuck.
@@JinxMarie1985 I still have one or two beers when I want to, but I don’t like feeling buzzed in the slightest. I also only drink those one or two beers as long as I know it won’t take away from my next day or morning. I appreciate the taste of beer and appreciate it with a lunch or dinner here and there on the weekends. But I do not let it take away from my joy and ability to do whatever it is I want to do. I have two kids, if they want to play sports together or go hiking I will always be ready to do so. I use the gym, getting sunlight and being in nature to find peace and harmony… I don’t lie to myself with thinking that’s what drinking will do for me… I was always left with shame, guilt, self hate when I got buzzed and drank all the time.
@@zjow4755 I’m no professional in the field but over the year I was in treatment myself I did see many situations where symptoms occurred. For such long term use, no matter how much or how little, that timeframe surely caused your system to count on it every day. When you take something that consistent from your body, your body will wonder where it’s gone and now your system needs to react and act differently due to its absence.
I wouldn’t be fearful to begin, I would just baby step away from it.
Prayers lifted for you, All! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
The fact that all through those struggles he was able to pull off acting in Friends and keeping us laughing and none the wiser to the turmoil within him…that truly is worth an Oscar!!!
Mental and physical health is worth much more than any award. He needs peace and quiet much more than a golden calf that's the epitome of Hollywood's rat race.
This sadness and loneliness is so consuming for him. Painful to see Matthew tell his story but what bravery and strength to come forward and put it out there and be accountable - that will help pave the way for better days.. Prayers for you Matthew for sobriety, strength and happiness. God Bless you. You are loved.
May God bless you and keep you healthy and well. He didn't let you die, because you had a testimony to give...All the best to you ...from Brazil a big fan of yours...now even more. It takes guts to go out there and tell your story. Congratulations.
It's touching to see him being compassionate for his younger self. I wish him all the best and everyone in a similar situation. It's so important we learn how to love ourselves and be generous with ourselves.
Matthew if you read this by any chance, through all your pain and struggles you made a difference in the world. I was late teens early 20s through friends. I came from a troubled home. Mom was a bad addict. Chandler was my favorite. He still makes me laugh out loud. Thank you for bringing joy to me during a very dark time in my life.
This is Matthew thank you
@@aulzhoefer lol
No, I'm the real Mathew Perry...all you other Mathew Perry's are just imitating. You're welcome my friend.
U have been through hell and back how ya feeling
Heartbreaking to hear what he has been through. His character has given me so much laughter and joy over the years and it’s so horrible to hear how addiction has affected him. I truly hope he can stay on the path of healing for the rest of his life.
The best thing about Mathew Perry was his desire to help others instead of drowning in self pity. He was a hard core drug addict. He is so honest about his addictions.
Fortunate for him to have survived the depths of what he describes his addiction being. Prayers to those going through their own struggles for the strength to find health and peace.
I feel too sorry for that guy, he's going through too much, and it's me...😭
As an avid friends viewer and have always watched it when I myself have felt down this was heartbreaking to watch. That scene with Rachel's hat had always made me laugh but what Matthew said about not recognising himself and how skinny he was I just started crying for him. Crazy when I don't personally know him. I thank him and the rest of the cast for years of laughter. I pray he gets well 🙏 ❤️
It's such a tragedy that a man so gifted, so funny and so full of potential unleashed cannot look back on his most productive period in the profession without being haunted by regrets and demons from that past. Get well, Matt. Stay well. You're worth it. More than you know.
SURAH AL MULK
In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
Blessed is He in whose hand is dominion, and He is over all things competent -
[He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving -
[And] who created seven heavens in layers. You do not see in the creation of the Most Merciful any inconsistency. So return [your] vision [to the sky]; do you see any breaks?
Then return [your] vision twice again. [Your] vision will return to you humbled while it is fatigued.
And We have certainly beautified the nearest heaven with stars and have made [from] them what is thrown at the devils and have prepared for them the punishment of the Blaze.
And for those who disbelieved in their Lord is the punishment of Hell, and wretched is the destination.
When they are thrown into it, they hear from it a [dreadful] inhaling while it boils up.
It almost bursts with rage.
Every time a company is thrown into it, its keepers ask them, “Did there not come to you a warner?”
They will say,” Yes, a warner had come to us, but we denied and said, ‘Allah has not sent down anything. You are not but in great error.'”
And they will say, “If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.”
And they will admit their sin, so [it is] alienation for the companions of the Blaze.
Indeed, those who fear their Lord unseen will have forgiveness and great reward.
And conceal your speech or publicize it; indeed, He is Knowing of that within the breasts.
Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted?
It is He who made the earth tame for you - so walk among its slopes and eat of His provision - and to Him is the resurrection.
Do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not cause the earth to swallow you and suddenly it would sway?
Or do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not send against you a storm of stones? Then you would know how [severe] was My warning.
And already had those before them denied, and how [terrible] was My reproach.
Do they not see the birds above them with wings outspread and [sometimes] folded in? None holds them [aloft] except the Most Merciful. Indeed He is, of all things, Seeing.
Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion.
Or who is it that could provide for you if He withheld His provision? But they have persisted in insolence and aversion.
Then is one who walks fallen on his face better guided or one who walks erect on a straight path?
Say, “It is He who has produced you and made for you hearing and vision and hearts; little are you grateful.”
Say, “It is He who has multiplied you throughout the earth, and to Him you will be gathered.”
And they say, “When is this promise, if you should be truthful?”
Say, “The knowledge is only with Allah, and I am only a clear warner.”
But when they see it approaching, the faces of those who disbelieve will be distressed, and it will be said, “This is that for which you used to call.”
Say, [O Muhammad], “Have you considered: whether Allah should cause my death and those with me or have mercy upon us, who can protect the disbelievers from a painful punishment?”
Say, “He is the Most Merciful; we have believed in Him, and upon Him we have relied. And you will [come to] know who it is that is in clear error.”
Say, “Have you considered: if your water was to become sunken [into the earth], then who could bring you flowing water?”
cant believe he was given drugs as a baby for crying I wonder if that was the start
@@rbh1997you know Canada has much less addicted people with pills? Sure there are some alcoholics and drug addicts but not as many as in the US. It’s this American pharmaceutical companies and doctors who are corrupt AF prescribe pills for money. I mean what can you expect when your healthcare system is based on for profit. America is the only country that it’s healthcare is for profit among all developed nations. None of others is except corrupt capitalistic America. Why? It allows corruptions that’s why. But America is for profit healthcare which is the source for failure.
Im happy to see that Matt is doing good and choose to write that book. This dude went at it hard, for years. That colon exploding surgery is no joke, he was almost a goner. He said so much truth about addiction (when you think you dont need anybody, and think you can do this alone and how the disease is just waiting, doing push ups getting stronger as you are in recovery)
I remember many years ago i saw an interview of Seymour Hoffman and in it they were talking about addiction (which i had no idea he ever struggled with, he said he got cleaned when he was like 22 23 years old) anyways he said "good thing i got clean back then because i wouldn't have survived with the money/fame that i have now, i know it". Flash foward a few years later i heard that he relapse and got out of the treatment center early, i think he lasted a week and i just knew something bad was going to happen to him. I think it was less than a year later he died. After 23 years clean....yeah addiction is a bitch, always stay vigilant.
Tremendously brave to speak out about addiction. A terrible illness that ruins lives. It’s hopeful to see him in recovery, and long may his recovery continue.
He was slurring his words in the interview.
@@smfarrie2943he had ongoing medical issues caused by the original addiction that affected his speech.
@josephmartin5483 Not typically, but it's possible.
I broke my back and became medically addicted to pain pills. How he survived 55 a day is a miracle! I’m a survivor too. His honesty is amazing!
30 year old woman are the number 1 abusers of Opiods.
My aunt was given pain killers from her car accident injury. She stopped as soon as she felt herself getting addicted
I’m sure he is a liar
There is a very good Ted Talk on RUclips about a man describing how doctors are not equipped to help people withdraw from meds.
I was taking OxyCodone 20mg 6x a day and Norco 10/325 6x a day for breakthrough pain (plus medication to sleep, for an upset stomach, blah, blah blah, 16 different medications a day). I survived an extremely abusive husband - Demon Jimmy - that tried to kill me, then cancer that was not nearly as painful or deadly as Jimmy. I asked my 'pain management doctor when I would know if I was doing better since I was always doped up. When could I stop taking some of the pills and wean off them? When I had monthly drug tests to make sure I was taking what was being prescribed, I had to make sure my levels where were they wanted them, or they would cut me off completely. Doc told me they were maintenance drugs for the rest of my life. NOPE! I started to wean myself off the meds and was able to do it with all of them. I was on Oxy for 8 years and the other pills for over ten years. I had a heart attack and I was in intensive care for trying to get rid of the Oxy. I had a heart attack and ended up in the Intensive Care unit. They could not figure out what was wrong. My heart rate would slow down, then speed up, and I would vomit, was wearing a diaper, and was in and out of consciousness, when a Cardiologist came into the room during one of these episodes. He asked if he could try something and I agreed. He gave me something in my IV and my heart rate leveled out and I felt 100% better. He explained it was a small amount of Oxy and my body was fighting hard to stay on it. When Mr. Perry described having to stay on the pills to keep from getting sick, I cried. The way most insurance is, I have to take my pain medication daily to qualify for it. It cannot be an as needed, for those high doses. It got to the point where I was taking meds just to keep from getting sick. They were not killing the pain. Thank God I spent 11 days in Intensive Care and got off Oxy. I pray I never need it again. I still have intense pain and terrible things going on with my body, from the demon named Jimmy, and I do take Percocet a few times a month. But, I know my limits and I have a pain management doctor that works with me instead of the system. Prayers for everyone that is suffering with pain of any kind.
No doubt a miracle hope he stays clean.
I feel so deeply for this guy. RIP Matthew. Thanks for all your contributions ❤
I'm In tears, what a fantastic man! Glad he's on recovery and is alive!!
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Nice to see more and more celebrities opening up about their addictions.
It really help’s humanize addicts to some people who think addicts are trash. It can happen to anyone. But if you truly want to get better you can.
You can never know what someone is going through from just their outward appearance alone. They can be smiling on the outside but hurting from within.
This is so true!!!!
I never watched the show unless I happened to see a few minutes at a friend's house and we remember discussing that he was addicted to something.
It wasn't a huge secret back then either. It was in tabloids and I think that a lot of people were in denial because they thought that he had a life so many would want to live.
I wonder when addiction will be treated as a health issue and not a moral failing or automatically seen as a criminal?
Prohibition has obviously been a waste of money and not much has changed.
Exactly. Kindness matters.
As a 10 year coke addict I did my last rehab in 2002. The guys who were heroin and prescription pull addicts had the very worst withdrawals. Many of them relapsed after, took former quantities and are now dead. Anyone who gets and stays clean are personal heroes of mine and they all say, it was the hardest and the best thing they’ve ever done in life.
I worked with Matthew on the film Serving Sara. He would say a few lines, then go to his trailer. Over & over, all day & night. Initially I thought he was just a $1M per episode diva who didn't want to be in the room with the peons for long. Then production shut down so he could enter rehab. I'm glad he has survived this - I think discussing it so publicly will help the healing process.
get a life
Your first thought was correct. This is a fashionable way for 'celebs' to remain relevent.
@@georgesparham3964 Yeah people willingly throw themselves into being shamed and out of control addicts for the fun and relevance. Ignorant af bro
As just a random face out here from the generation that was here for the whole thing, from the first Friends episode to the movies and right up to now, you are and always will be a part of our lives, an extended member of our family, and you'll always be somewhere in the memories I personally have of a time in my life that was truly magical and will be forever untouched and undimmed by the creeping cynicism that can come with the mediocrity of day to day life. I think a lot of us experimented and dealt with things the same way you did and I'm glad to know you've made it through because not all of us did. I'm proud of you and you should be proud of yourself. If it means anything, whenever I see you, you're still a part of that time when coffee houses were converted houses with old couches, unmatched bookshelves, and random donated books (there was no Starbucks), and we were all just old enough to be completely in control of our out of control decisions and just young enough to have no idea what we were doing and be completely confident. It was wonderful and we loved it. Take care, see you around.
Matthew Perry. You are a legend. I'm sorry for your pain and difficult journey. Your brave to speak out and help others. I'm so happy that your doing good and deserve to live a wonderful life. Addiction isn't a choice but a disease. Lots of love xxx
What an idiot you are! Imagine calling a self-entitled drug addict from Hollywood a legend. Lol! Drugs and alcohol are NOT diseases they are addictions. Before they are addictions though they are poor lifestyle choices. Only losers such as yourself would call being a drug addict a disease because it takes the responsibility off you for the poor decisions you make. Take responsibility and stop pointing the finger away from yourself!! At the end of the day you are the only one to blame for your stupid choices.
It's a choice when made cool in name of modern ness
This man and his on screen colleagues built my life. They were amazing and made my life a little better in a hard time.
The fact he could go through such pain and suffering and all of them could have to bare these things, they still delivered me 10 years of entertainment I'll never be able to be grateful enough for.
I hope Mathew is doing well and really hope he stays the path, because he's a treasure to me and millions other and to the acting community.
All the best mate. All the very best.
The saddest moment is when he says "I didn't understand what was going on." That heartbreaking confusion when you are suffering so much. I can relate to this when I was battling severe depression and anxiety. It is unfair. We shouldn't suffer on that level in life. But he kept going, and I kept going. For me, a big part of it was a chemical imbalance that the right medication helped repair and put my life back on track. Our society stigmatizes addiction but it's just our mind and body's attempt to "heal" something, to self-medicate. Therapy has been huge for me. And a loving community of friends. I truly hope Matthew has a great therapist on his side. But the hard work, the really hard work, we have to do ourselves. But thing is, we are capable of SO much. We just have to take the first step, and then another, and another.
yeah that part hit me the most as well
This book might help me out of my “big terrible thing” just like he wanted. RIP Matthew no more pain no more terrible things. ❤️
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I hope you’re doing well and living this beautiful life to the fullest, even though it does suck sometimes.❤
8:28 I almost cried 😢 We can terribly feel how hard it was for him… We can understand how difficult it is for him to see this young boy pretending everything’s fine while he was lost and scared… We’re so proud of you Matthew ❤
You almost cried? Lol! The only thing Perry hopes you do for him is buy his book cuz he needs the money for more drugs. Clown.
Not me
@@sean4060 doesn't matter if you don't
He was either high or drunk during the interview.
What a fighter. Grateful for him being alive and still kicking 🙏 Long life Mr. Perry.
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So sad he's gone now 😢
Bless your heart. I was in the movie Serving Sara as an extra.
When you were almost hit by monster truck while filming.
You can do it. I'm proud of you for doing all you can to get help.
This happened to me at age 17. I refuse pain medication as long as humanily possible.
Hugs from me to you, Matthew.
You are an amazing person, don't ever forget that. Reach out if you ever need to talk, I'll listen. No catch.
Just human to human.
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Narcissism. Look at me, I was an extra and I refused pills.
@@DevinSheaProductions paranoia is strong with you.
@@DevinSheaProductions casting stones from your glass house I presume?
@@justinpieces1856 exactly. There is always one like that on social media. Kudos to you for offering to help.
I admire him. For turning his life around. Addiction is not easy and he found his way out of it.
The way he is speaking and his physical appearance shows the toll his struggles took on his body. Sometimes when we abuse our bodies it doesnt show up when we are young. It shows as we age.
He doesn't seem sober here, actually :/
@@barbarad3869 Hen ever claimed to be sober. He specifically says that he doesn't count days he's sober because that never worked for him. He is trying his best, that's all he or anyone else can do
@@foreverme3078 true
Everyone has a story to tell. Thank you, Matthew, for telling yours. You've gotten through that phase, and are continuing to move through your story. It will inspire and help many. God bless.
You see a lot of famous people struggle with addiction but his has been so raw and ongoing. Wishing him and all who struggle deep peace.
This is a heartbreaking story. I was under the impression Perry had been clean and sober for many years, so I was shocked to learn of his most recent relapse and serious set-back from recovery (which has severely impacted his health). I'm no expert, but opiates and meth seem to be extremely dangerous, powerful narcotics that alter a person's brain and body chemistry - making it excessively difficult to remain clean and sober. In contrast, many people will typically tire of the insidious, insane nature of cocaine, and quit the drug after several years. This does not seem to be the case with opiates (whether pills or heroin), as well as meth - as people who desperately want to quit seem incapable of doing so. My heart and prayers go out to Perry and all of those families suffering from this horrible affliction.
My deepest condolences to his family.
What a great actor we enjoy for so long.
Rip no more suffering in life!!!
Doctors destroyed lots of people's lives by prescribing medication without telling them about the repercussions.
Absolutely heartbreaking, especially when he saw himself on the friends episode. Brought tears to my eyes.
@matthew perry Matthew, i watched friends as a young adult and it really was funny but also had so many life lessons. Thank u for showing us that we all face hurdles in life and we can overcome them. Am watching from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤️
Rest in Peace Chandler, You'll always be in our hearts.
I feel this shows the strength he has and commitment to life. To endure all he did and keep plugging along. And to have fought through his hospitalization- he really seems to have a very very strong Will to live. Blessings to you Matthew. You are courageous
😓 how sad now though..
You know we've always heard about stars like charlie sheen, johnny depp or downey jr having drug problems but you cant help but have a profound respect for someone who is going through or went through something so real and suffering so much in silence with such a soul destroying addiction. Im an addict have been for 12 years trust me every addict watching this around the world gets what he means.
Thank you for being so vulnerable… thank you for sharing your story. Hope it helps someone else. Please keep fighting.
I listened to his book. I learned a lot from it. This book will save a lot of lives. I think Matthew Perry's reason to be was/is to support and save those who are experiencing this disease. From what I learned about his addiction, it is a disease.
Chapter 10 really got me, just by saying three vital words about himself with conviction. Three words that we all come to learn and say to ourselves in our lifetime.
I really look forward to what he does next. It will above and beyond Chandler.
God bless Matthew Perry.
Nothing but love to you, Matty! I will include you in my daily prayers.
I can’t believe he’s gone 2 months already today. As a huge friend’s fan this truly hurts my heart. I hope you have finally found the peace that you couldn’t find on earth. May you forever rest in Gods arms. Thanks for the laughs Marty ❤
"Marty"...lol
He doesn't sound good during this interview.
I grew up watching Friends as a kid, and I would never ever have guessed that Matthew Perry was a drug / alcohol addict. It's "funny" because he always looked so healthy on the show and appeared perfectly natural (as an actor anyway) but no one knows what's going on INSIDE.
Wish him all the best though, he is a great actor regardless of his addiction. I'm an addict myself who has and still is struggling to maintain a healthy balance in my life. I was addicted to Bodybuilding in my early years for 7 years until I had to see a therapist.
What I've learned from life so far is that I truly believe all humans are addicts or at least become addicts if they fail to maintain a healthy work, hobbies, family, and friends lifestyle. The few years I managed to have a balanced lifestyle, never lasted too long. I always fall out and go to the extreme. Thus, I have been addicted to everything from power to money to stoicism to being social as well.
Keep fighting Matthew. Never give up. You will help lots of people.
Huge respect for Matthew Perry! Glad he’s out of it now and doing well for himself
Didn't age well
@@Thunderchild-gz4gche’s in a better place now with no more sufferings I guess. May his soul rest in peace
I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer.
Jim Carrey
Love you, Chandler
Profound in the deepest and saddest way ever. Rip Matthew Perry.
7:05 it’s hard for everyone to watch you in hindsight what we now can clearly see how much obvious pain you were in. I can only imagine not feeling like you belonged anywhere, perhaps even wondering how / if / could be worthy of even just a simple average human let alone this huge icon that guys would have given up anything to be and girls crushing on you.
Mathew you must stay strong for not only yourself and your loved ones but for your fans , the industry that chews people up and spits them out when their relevancy turns pasé and for all people who hurt , who struggle with mental illness , who are battling addiction. Your torch has the ability to not only illuminate the path to a salvation that so many seek but thru your accomplishments this amazing glow emits signaling that hope is real.
This is what it’s all about , this is why people like you are a humongous blessing to us, thank you for showing us what a true star looks like… ❤
Beautiful but tormented soul. Mathew, you have inspired generations to come, I grew up watching you, one of the greatest 😢 always dreamt of meeting you one day, never thinking you would disappear. I hope you have found peace! It’s very hard to write this, it’s always the best people who’s the most tormented. 😓
Omg I cry for this guy! I hope this generation becomes more aware of the destruction of drugs.
Heartbreaking. We love you Matthew Perry. Praying for you on your way to Heaven and for your family. You will be missed.
I’m so sorry you have had to go through this. Stay strong ❤
I just wanna jump through the screen and give him the best hug I could give him. I’m currently in the process of getting my MSW and in an addictions class now, I preordered the book and hopefully can get better insight for my profession
I didn't know you, personally, but oh my lord, do i miss you! 😢
Thank you for being you. You were always enough. 💔
Like man, when I’m an alcoholic myself, and him telling his story is like what you hear at every AA meeting in America at 7 PM every night of the week. My alcoholic brain heard he was only drinking a quart of vodka a day and I was like “that’s it?” It’s just a trip into the mind of a disease that affects so many people. We all know an alcoholic or addict, all of us. It’s miserable. And when he said “detox is hell. There is a hell, I can sense tangible features, I can describe it.” I felt that. I’m only 28 and it’s freaking miserable man. Withdrawal is some sort of animal we aren’t taught to deal with. But he had a good support system around him and that’s probably what got him through to share his story and help people. Cheers Chandler.
Yep. AA is the only place you can say how much you were drinking and not hear gasps in the room.
No sympathy for this guy, waisting his life away making millions , doing drugs & alcohol while others struggle to make ends meet totally homeless desperate hungry souls, no excuses you made a choice Mathew no excuse!!
@@lisalucero1035 Plenty of poor addicts as well, addiction isn’t a rich/poor issue as much as it’s a mental health issue. Any thoughts?
Just finished reading his memoir! Great book! I also struggle with addiction issues that I have mostly gotten over but not yet completely gotten a hold of since I teeter-totter back and forth between sobriety and getting high! Thank you for sharing your story with Matthew! Your book inspires me to keep on going, becoming a better version of myself and never giving up!
He brought us so much joy. I feel for him from the bottom of my heart. ❤❤
I’m too sad that we lost him so young.😔
It was sad to see his coworker crying and saying they didn't see it. People want to help, and always feel like failures when they THINK they miss the cues.
I love that guy. With all his vulnerability. Good for him, he deserves all the live and admiration there is.
What a trooper! He is saving lives with this interview. ❤🎉😊
How did this man live through all this as long as he did
God Speed Mathew, thankyou for sharing your amazing talent with us ❤
He should make a series based on his struggle. The good, the bad, and ugly. Letting addicts know that they’re not alone and warning others of the risks. Keep on fighting Matthew and thank you. You’re the man!
SURAH AL MULK
In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
Blessed is He in whose hand is dominion, and He is over all things competent -
[He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving -
[And] who created seven heavens in layers. You do not see in the creation of the Most Merciful any inconsistency. So return [your] vision [to the sky]; do you see any breaks?
Then return [your] vision twice again. [Your] vision will return to you humbled while it is fatigued.
And We have certainly beautified the nearest heaven with stars and have made [from] them what is thrown at the devils and have prepared for them the punishment of the Blaze.
And for those who disbelieved in their Lord is the punishment of Hell, and wretched is the destination.
When they are thrown into it, they hear from it a [dreadful] inhaling while it boils up.
It almost bursts with rage.
Every time a company is thrown into it, its keepers ask them, “Did there not come to you a warner?”
They will say,” Yes, a warner had come to us, but we denied and said, ‘Allah has not sent down anything. You are not but in great error.'”
And they will say, “If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.”
And they will admit their sin, so [it is] alienation for the companions of the Blaze.
Indeed, those who fear their Lord unseen will have forgiveness and great reward.
And conceal your speech or publicize it; indeed, He is Knowing of that within the breasts.
Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted?
It is He who made the earth tame for you - so walk among its slopes and eat of His provision - and to Him is the resurrection.
Do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not cause the earth to swallow you and suddenly it would sway?
Or do you feel secure that He who [holds authority] in the heaven would not send against you a storm of stones? Then you would know how [severe] was My warning.
And already had those before them denied, and how [terrible] was My reproach.
Do they not see the birds above them with wings outspread and [sometimes] folded in? None holds them [aloft] except the Most Merciful. Indeed He is, of all things, Seeing.
Or who is it that could be an army for you to aid you other than the Most Merciful? The disbelievers are not but in delusion.
Or who is it that could provide for you if He withheld His provision? But they have persisted in insolence and aversion.
Then is one who walks fallen on his face better guided or one who walks erect on a straight path?
Say, “It is He who has produced you and made for you hearing and vision and hearts; little are you grateful.”
Say, “It is He who has multiplied you throughout the earth, and to Him you will be gathered.”
And they say, “When is this promise, if you should be truthful?”
Say, “The knowledge is only with Allah, and I am only a clear warner.”
But when they see it approaching, the faces of those who disbelieve will be distressed, and it will be said, “This is that for which you used to call.”
Say, [O Muhammad], “Have you considered: whether Allah should cause my death and those with me or have mercy upon us, who can protect the disbelievers from a painful punishment?”
Say, “He is the Most Merciful; we have believed in Him, and upon Him we have relied. And you will [come to] know who it is that is in clear error.”
Say, “Have you considered: if your water was to become sunken [into the earth], then who could bring you flowing water?”
Rest in peace, Matthew. Such a beautiful and lost soul. My heart breaks for the pain you experienced in life. 💔
What an honest and open account of his dark times. I wish him nothing but health, happiness, and sobriety for the rest of his life.💖
Rip matthew 💔 you will always be remembered and missed , this man was a big part of my childhood.
There are different ways to be an addict...Food is my drug of choice, Specifically sugar, and carbs, .which break down into simple sugars... Believe it or not, this interview has shown me to never give up and to continue to battle my addiction. Sugar addiction is real and who knows maybe alcoholism can be related to sugar addiction as well., or vice versa...Sugar does bad things to our brains, Thanks, Matthew... for your honesty! Keep walking your sobriety walk one day at a time. XX
I feel you.
Bro alcohol is fermented sugar 😮😮😮
My heart breaks for anyone with addiction, praying he continues to work on staying clean❤️
He slurs the sentence " I was slurring my words". He doesn't sound sober to me. I have seen addiction and he definitely under the influence of something. He may be sober but he not- chemical free. There is a difference
Him being in a coma and years of abuse of drugs and alcohol impacted his speech
His definitely on something here perhaps medication like anti depressants or valium
I think his brain has been fried / damaged . He may have many holes in his brain .
He's sober. But the booze and drugs took a heavy toll. I'm guessing a series of minor strokes.
He also sounded this way in the recent friends reunion.
This made me cry. He didn't deserve that desease. Matthiew was going through hell while playing Chandler from season to season. It breaks my heart that he was suffering so much. Rest in peace Matthew ❤
We respect you Matthew! You are doing your best and we hope you go back to your feet and shine the way you like! You are so vulnerable and courageous but also so brave, we are proud of you and we love you❤
Mathew is a living legend
Brought so much joy and laughter to are life’s and still does till this day
Thank you 🙏🏽
I didn’t really watch Friends like millions of people but I hope he is doing better! Everyone can easily get addicted to substances especially celebrities. High stress & fast times. Glad he fought his way out.
Ohhhh Matthew.. 😢😢 thank you for sharing this. God bless you!! Dear Chandler.. 😢😢
To think we were watching him on Friends and in films. The whole time we are sat there laughing, we had no idea he was struggling so badly. He was deteriorating right in front of us and we didnt have a clue. And now he's GONE.
Matthew I'm so sorry you couldn't fully recover. I hope youre at peace x
As a kid watching the show, I knew something was wrong with Matthew. I had a crush on him and so when he noticeably started changing physically season to season, what made me realize these changes were “bad” was his eyes. Something about them were unsettling and it became more uncomfortable to see. Even watching reruns I’m reminded of these thoughts as a child. Eyes don’t lie; he clearly was suffering with his addiction. I’m so glad he found the peace and happiness he so desperately was seeking and found a way to fight for life outside of his addict lifestyle. I continue to root for him each and every day! ❤
We love you Matthew and we are so glad you are doing better ❤️
The doctor that just left really makes me sick. He’s a doctor, and he just ran away and left someone to possibly die without even trying to do something 😓
Doctors are narcissists. They become doctors to make money and pretend they are on tv. That’s why we have this issue. They just get you addicted so you keep coming back.
He's been open about this for many years and doing great things to help others. He's also done more writing and coming up with jokes for friends that people might realise because they always wanted to give credit to the whole group. Which means less credit for him. He has given and still gives a lot to others. Hope someone's caring for him.
You know, it's crazy that you said that because I always thought that. I was wondering if I was the only one
What has struck me the most about this part of the interview was when he watched the scene back, he looks so sad and uncomfortable watching it. My naivety led me to believe that all the cast would love to sit back and watch friends time and time again with their family and close ones because of how successful and hilarious it was. However, he’s just made me realise that’s not case and as a viewer i am so lucky to get to enjoy the show for what it was the first time I watched it and the countless times I have watched it again and not know what was going on behind the scenes.
No matter what weight he was, he was always very handsome.
He was very professional despite what he was going through. We your fans love you Matthew.
I’m really impressed with your comment,if you don’t mind friendship please were are you from
I wish he had help sooner. Might sound silly but that show has meant so much to me over the years with my own struggles and I wish I could have helped him. I know he helped me.
Wow Matthew... amazing story. I'm so glad your here with us. I'm sure your story will inspire other's and give them Hope that they can do it too. Stay Well! ❤️
I know what it’s like to get accidentally addicted and dependent on substances. They ruin your life. I feel so deeply for him ❤
Hearing Jennifer Aniston’s voice break “We just weren’t equipped.” Anyone who’s gone thru that with a loved one feels that. Rest in peace, Matty.
I adore you Matty. Sending you the biggest, longest healing Mom hugs to you, sent through the Universe, right to your beautiful Soul. ❤️❤️❤️ Never give up. You have angels supporting you, wherever you go. Thank you very much for not giving up.🍀☝️♥️🙏❤️
Sad. I hope he is in heaven making God laugh. Rip Matthew. Send word bud. And thanks for telling ur story and being honest. Ty. Blessed be. Johnny w
I’m sad for him but I’m grateful he survived and lived to tell his story. It will save others with the disease. God bless you Matthew Perry 🙏🏽
I don't understand how this is called a disease. Opiods were designed to addict people and make it almost impossible to stop. I guess maybe the opiods are the cause of the disease called addiction?
RIP beautiful man. Hope you find peace now. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏻