Stop Obsessing About The Way You Look

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

Комментарии • 208

  • @kingofraleigh
    @kingofraleigh 2 месяца назад +90

    As a 23 year old, I can definitely say that looksmaxing works. Women care about looks almost just as much as we do, and I get way more respect now that I take care of myself than when I was younger and more ugly lol. Just don’t make looksmaxing your whole personality.

    • @nomadman5288
      @nomadman5288 2 месяца назад +23

      Are you "lookmaxing" or just taking care of yourself and dressing nice? Those aren't the same thing.

    • @geekiepooh
      @geekiepooh 2 месяца назад +10

      ​@nomadman5288
      Working out, getting in shape, keeping skin clean, grooming, and dressing good is basic stuff.
      I'm surprised why some men only do this after they been seeing/hearing about looksmaxing. Why not just make yourself look better.

    • @symboIiq
      @symboIiq 2 месяца назад +9

      Facts. Guys who tell other guys to not work on looks…and yet that same guy looks like he takes care of his looks. Makes no sense

    • @drmahidhar1876
      @drmahidhar1876 2 месяца назад +2

      @@symboIiqthat is something a woman would do

    • @almadawarrior
      @almadawarrior 2 месяца назад +3

      @@symboIiq looks do matter, if u look sickly weak ur out

  • @AnabolicAsylum
    @AnabolicAsylum 2 месяца назад +22

    I do my best, to look my best. I do it for me, cause when you look good, you feel good. 💪

  • @xrppornstar9483
    @xrppornstar9483 2 месяца назад +7

    This is very revealing about the quality of a mindset that @LFA carries himself. I am pretty impressed with this video.

  • @ericeighteen
    @ericeighteen 2 месяца назад +34

    ...make the best of what you're born with, love yourself especially from within, and know your audience (they'll show signs that they like you). LFA always droppin informative vidds.

    • @dantimber
      @dantimber 2 месяца назад +4

      Yes. Like those who like you and forget about the rest.

  • @SamuelGadagbui
    @SamuelGadagbui 2 месяца назад +40

    Note: You should never stress on it when you like the way you look. You only worry about it if you don't like the way you look but not her resenting your looks.
    Only make changes when you want to do it for yourself but not for someone else

  • @yellowquantum4240
    @yellowquantum4240 2 месяца назад +6

    Great advice! Be thankful, grateful, blessed for what you have and don’t have.

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 2 месяца назад +16

    Thank you for the video LFA, 🙏🏿❤️

  • @thomi77
    @thomi77 2 месяца назад +9

    Looks matter. proof: Richard Ramirez. One of the worst criminals in history, but also one of best looking guys ever. Women loved him - or what they saw in him.

  • @donramon2501
    @donramon2501 2 месяца назад +4

    Have a great rest of the week G

  • @darrenjeromemusic
    @darrenjeromemusic Месяц назад +1

    Your values are on point and I resonate with you!

  • @Guymobile94
    @Guymobile94 2 месяца назад +12

    Lets be honest, yes looks matter

  • @A_Mind_For_Change
    @A_Mind_For_Change 2 месяца назад +7

    You're effort too look the part for you're videos is proof that looks matter

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 месяца назад +2

      I just throw a tee shirt on, press record, and start talking, never knowing or caring what I might look like.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      @@LFA 🙄

    • @A_Mind_For_Change
      @A_Mind_For_Change 2 месяца назад +3

      @@LFA you don't fool anybody 😮‍💨😂

    • @Pleaidian-z3x
      @Pleaidian-z3x 2 месяца назад +3

      Just basic grooming guys c'mon

    • @Cargo_Bay
      @Cargo_Bay Месяц назад +2

      @@LFA that's hot guy privilege. I wish i could throw on a t-shirt and look like Mens Journal cover model.

  • @Jamesmatthew44
    @Jamesmatthew44 2 месяца назад +46

    I’m ugly on the inside too

    • @collegerebel
      @collegerebel 2 месяца назад

      ​@@oonojoe
      Oh, nobody's nailin' that.

    • @nickc3856
      @nickc3856 2 месяца назад +5

      Me too (also on the outside)

    • @xrppornstar9483
      @xrppornstar9483 2 месяца назад

      @@collegerebelhuh? You are the only one who knows what you mean by your comment. We are not mind readers- be specific bruh

    • @dustinmiller2775
      @dustinmiller2775 2 месяца назад

      @aboy! 🤣

    • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
      @IgorMironov-rq4ye 2 месяца назад +3

      Praise God, me as well. I am 6' 5, work a minimum wage crap Job, been single for years.

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 2 месяца назад +33

    We're all gonna make it brahs
    👍

  • @redpilldredd9907
    @redpilldredd9907 2 месяца назад

    Wise words you spoke. I treat myself badly. I appreciate you dropping these vids. Thanks

  • @EAW-c5t
    @EAW-c5t 7 дней назад

    I am a recent watcher. I’m a 39yo woman/mum and not your audience. But I came across you. I stuck around as you have mentioned a lot of things that are correct in your videos. Plus you’re super cute, not in a douchey way but a lovely way. Just thought I would comment and say I like your videos and how you don’t treat women as if they’re meat, you are keeping it true.

  • @SimonB.
    @SimonB. 2 месяца назад +9

    I think there is a big difference between doing unnecessary plastic surgery and obsessing about your looks and just improving your looks because you feel better about yourself.

  • @jlprescott7243
    @jlprescott7243 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes sir, just growing my hair long and no spending money on haircuts. Cheers!

  • @Tyler-wl8kq
    @Tyler-wl8kq 2 месяца назад +1

    This is my favorite video you’ve ever made and that says something! A+

  • @Mr.YasQueen
    @Mr.YasQueen 2 месяца назад +4

    Why does society keep having this debate in 2024? Do looks matter? Yes they do.

  • @AngelofJustice412
    @AngelofJustice412 2 месяца назад +7

    I agree with everything you’re saying, but unfortunately most dating happens online these days, especially amongst young people

    • @kenlee-97
      @kenlee-97 2 месяца назад +2

      Cold approaching is better for us Normies for dating...
      Apps only work for chads /chad-lites or vain people...

  • @nikhil8892
    @nikhil8892 2 месяца назад +1

    That dog example was awesome bro

  • @-glitch-8195
    @-glitch-8195 2 месяца назад +5

    The internet loves to give Chads way too much credit because they get off on the idea of them playing females. But then it's like most females punish Chad for his beauty, and/or self-reject. So there's that.
    Confidence & appearance aren't even correlated. Someone can look attractive, but have no clue. What shapes their confidence are the experiences they have. One heartbreak can turn someone into a shell of a person. It's interesting though how beauty is correlated with deception. I've had dudes say some weird stuff like "Oh I think you're gonna cheat on me" when it's the first conversation & I'm dressed modestly. Massive red flag. Same thing happens to handsome men/pretty boys. The female cheats on him before, In her mind at least, he cheats on her. Super weird & toxic.
    Love the "boring chad" character. Definitely my type.

  • @Surfsup448
    @Surfsup448 2 месяца назад +5

    Someone is hitting the gym Extra hard ❤ What’s up brotha? Hi 👋

  • @dnbaddict
    @dnbaddict 2 месяца назад +1

    This is some damn good advice! I appreciate the positive message.

  • @DeathGodCaine
    @DeathGodCaine 2 месяца назад +14

    Damn man I went through the same thing recently. I told this chick she was fine how she was. Didn't listen

  • @dominikduchovic5816
    @dominikduchovic5816 2 месяца назад +4

    Sometimes it is also about the health. I prefer going out during weekends, not drinking at all. Imagine, I am not funny guy, not drinking, so that do I have left? The answer is way how I look, but I bet on communication skills, genuine interest, active listening, strong eye contact... And all of this is much easier to do when you are confident with who you are, how you look, how you dress, fresh breath, not a bad hair day, and so on. I can imagine to be funny, charismatic communicator effortlessly leading the debate in group of ten. But I find this very hard to even learn, that is why some people are forced to max it all, visage included. Hopefully what I am saying here make sense.

  • @Caleb-lu3zl
    @Caleb-lu3zl 2 месяца назад +2

    I think it's okay to optimize your looks and kinda work with your good features or whatever but when it gets to the point that you are basically lying, like wearing shoe lifts, makeup, and stuff like that. You make a good point not to get obsessed with your looks, and I definitely agree

  • @BlueBEAZY45
    @BlueBEAZY45 2 месяца назад +3

    I’m handsome just obese but I’m steadily working towards fixing that. I’ve lost 50 lbs but still have a long way to go before I can be where I want. I’ll be honest I’m not doing it for my health, my reasons are pure vanity. I just want to be attractive to women cause let’s be real.. the vast majority of women aren’t lining up to date fat guys. It’s just a fact.

  • @glnknl2232
    @glnknl2232 2 месяца назад +4

    It's all the rejections that makes me stressed out. Because of average looks or below a girls standard you don't even get to talk to her. Some even get offended or they play uninterested-girl. And that ruins my self esteem. You look exceptionally buff for a guy who doesn't care by the way.

    • @frblaze2
      @frblaze2 2 месяца назад

      he doesn't know wtf he's talking about, he's clueless as FUK

  • @Krrish85
    @Krrish85 2 месяца назад +1

    Great stuff. Play the hand you're dealt and stop complaining about the cards. Love yourself first.

  • @vincewarren1271
    @vincewarren1271 2 месяца назад

    Waiting on the summer walks 🚶‍♂️ LFA takes around the neighborhood videos 💪

  • @PerryNight-gc3fp
    @PerryNight-gc3fp 2 месяца назад +7

    When it comes to looks all men are not created equal looks matter to women it's just a fact.

  • @christosdelos3318
    @christosdelos3318 2 месяца назад +3

    The subject cares about looks when they are young. Money when they are golddiggers or want to settle down to start a family.

  • @jadizm
    @jadizm 2 месяца назад +1

    Much Thanks LFA!

  • @Hoki4
    @Hoki4 2 месяца назад +8

    Oh yeah I ain't stressing about my looks anymore. Lost some weight and it changed my face pretty well, brought in hollow cheeks and made my jaw stand out better. A simple thing like that made it so that I'm getting a lot of attention now from women.

  • @Rayhuntter
    @Rayhuntter 2 месяца назад +2

    I've always struggled with the concept of *exciting life*. It seems like this is supposed to mean - partying, alcohol, drugs, smoking, promiscuity, etc. This had never appealed to me because it does not excite me the slightest bit. I would really be happy to hear your views on what exciting life is supposed to mean.

    • @SeanRussell-r1z
      @SeanRussell-r1z 2 месяца назад

      Think exciting life can be having friends, family, goals, fulfilling career etc. for example, having the ability to take family in a nice vacation a couple of times per year.

  • @marcus_ohreallyus
    @marcus_ohreallyus 2 месяца назад +18

    I never stress about it. I'm good looking

    • @jimjames9779
      @jimjames9779 2 месяца назад +3

      Is that you Elvis?

    • @HoopTiger
      @HoopTiger 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jimjames9779😂

    • @andyvux8256
      @andyvux8256 2 месяца назад +1

      Cope. You will stress about it soon. Just wait and go cry cry about it

  • @terrylim9902
    @terrylim9902 2 месяца назад +2

    We guys are also attracted to beautiful & attractive looking girls. So do girls too. They also wants handsome & attractive looking guys.

  • @mindsetmotivation9124
    @mindsetmotivation9124 2 месяца назад +3

    Im 35 as of yesterday. No beer gut, thinning hair but whatver.."6,3 and fit. White teeth, id say it comes down to wanting to better yourself. Do you LIKE being fat and not feeling good or do you enjoy workouts and getting better and feeling well. It comes down to a state of mind.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад

      I knew fat guys and it sucked. They’d be done at midnight. Once the clock strikes midnight or they had a meal these guys would be tired fast

  • @PhilBert-sh3nk
    @PhilBert-sh3nk 2 месяца назад +3

    They matter enough for you to do something about them.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 месяца назад +1

      Nah, I just throw a tee shirt on and go!

  • @antoniocorreia9512
    @antoniocorreia9512 2 месяца назад

    one of yor best movies you make, focus what realy is real...thanks

  • @modernman7576
    @modernman7576 2 месяца назад +1

    Don't worry about looks maxing. Take care of yourself sure but focus on your goals.

  • @primalstudies
    @primalstudies 2 месяца назад +51

    Give me a natural 6 who has a pleasant attitude over a Botox & implant 8/9/10 any day, everyday day

    • @jonmueller2117
      @jonmueller2117 2 месяца назад +3

      Skip the makeup too.

    • @yoshi314
      @yoshi314 2 месяца назад +5

      i just met a girl like that.
      she was pretty but not my type. but what really caught me off guard was her feminine personality.

    • @TrealTalk187
      @TrealTalk187 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree 💯, but shit even those are getting more rare everyday lol its crazy. Makes sense about why passport guys leave to find that elsewhere more available 🤔

    • @hablabamosa
      @hablabamosa 2 месяца назад +1

      But the fact you want a 6 means that you still care about looks to an extent

    • @primalstudies
      @primalstudies 2 месяца назад +3

      @@hablabamosa of course looks matter - I can’t think of anyone who would want to be with someone that is ugly. A six is slightly above average looking - which for most people would be acceptable

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад +3

    Looks helps. There’s a reason why you don’t see 60 year old dudes with 24 year old women.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +4

      That's less about looks and more about how age prejudiced women are. Even a younger good-looking dude will get screwed out of dates by women just because he's 35. True story. 😎

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад +5

    Irony is women who are so health focused that they become boring and go to bed early are desirable girlfriends

  • @salty3069
    @salty3069 2 месяца назад +1

    One of the rare videos im agreeing with you lol

  • @binbons2
    @binbons2 2 месяца назад +1

    straight on.thanks

  • @tedknight1676
    @tedknight1676 2 месяца назад +7

    Will played LFA don't be Zoolander.

  • @LimaFoxtrot_98
    @LimaFoxtrot_98 2 месяца назад +4

    You get a lot more passes for shit tests and fumbles if you are good looking. I don’t think a date has ever not wanted a second date with me - even when it was awkward.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 месяца назад +1

      You can either try to pass tests, or you can have control of yourself and be the one testing.

    • @LimaFoxtrot_98
      @LimaFoxtrot_98 2 месяца назад +1

      @@LFA true

  • @roberth4350
    @roberth4350 2 месяца назад

    Bro, this advice was golden 😅 for me!

  • @GangstalkingClips
    @GangstalkingClips 2 месяца назад

    LFA looking sharpe with the blue shirt unbuttoned in the middle. That's my style :D

  • @ts3011ISRL
    @ts3011ISRL 2 месяца назад +5

    True

  • @flilguy
    @flilguy 2 месяца назад +1

    This has been going on in the back of my mind for a while. A few decades ago I went on a date with my high school crush. This was 1991 and I was doing all of this stuff to look better. I got my tooth that was chipped in the 3rd grade fixed. We didn't pair off. One of the comments she made was I'm almost as high-maintenance as her. I used to go to the hair salon and buy the expensive stuff and my hair looked good. Well in 1999 the bonding on the tooth fell off. Oddly when I went out I actually had more women interested in me. I got the tooth fixed because it's vital to keep the nerve healthy. Last month my tooth fell apart and now they want to do a porcelain veneer. I was in Walmart last night and she was in there. I had not seen her since 1991. She started laughing and told me she just had 12 of her teeth porcelain veneered. She told me "You can enjoy being ruggedly handsome until you get your tooth fixed." All while 6ft 7in 275lb hubby was an earshot away! LOL

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад

      One bad tooth is no fatal flaw!

  • @thebeardeddan905
    @thebeardeddan905 2 месяца назад +1

    Great vidio again
    Very true in what you say most woman want the fun guy not the vain guy but on dating sites completly difrant
    Anyway keep up the good work, really enjoy your content

  • @TheBeachGhost
    @TheBeachGhost Месяц назад

    this is deep

  • @RamanPlayz410
    @RamanPlayz410 2 месяца назад

    You made me motivated, I'll subscribe you.

  • @aaronsmith6302
    @aaronsmith6302 2 месяца назад +1

    Cucumber cutlets 😂😂 that shit killed me man 😂😂😂

  • @clintmatthews4342
    @clintmatthews4342 2 месяца назад +1

    Develop your assets. Develop your deficiencies. Look in the mirror and improve on how you were yesterday.

  • @andyvux8256
    @andyvux8256 2 месяца назад +2

    Do handsome men get more compliments from women than average men, guys??? 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @supercargeek
    @supercargeek 2 месяца назад +1

    I saw a gigachad at walmart like 2 months ago. dude had HUGE legs. of course he was with a female.

  • @truthbetold6496
    @truthbetold6496 2 месяца назад +2

    go online dating and see for yourself hahah is a rude awakening

  • @bartzeegers3663
    @bartzeegers3663 2 месяца назад +2

    Agree. Be confident with yourself. Dont like it aswell when women are so narcissistic with there looks. turns me off aswell.

  • @silentwalk1768
    @silentwalk1768 2 месяца назад

    Thanks 100% agree. Thanks great videos 😅👍🏼✅

  • @cihancelikel9411
    @cihancelikel9411 2 месяца назад

    I miss the plus 5 hat of weapon smithin reference bro 🤠

  • @kovenmoore9314
    @kovenmoore9314 2 месяца назад

    No I can't be all in the mirror I was healing from trauma from being with a toxic and cheating but I'm healed but I thank I look fine and what u say make since

  • @Already.Forgotten
    @Already.Forgotten 2 месяца назад +12

    If I had a dollar for every time I looked good, I’d have… $0.

    • @jf8651
      @jf8651 2 месяца назад +3

      But you got alotta cents! 🥁

    • @Isaac-m7b8b
      @Isaac-m7b8b 2 месяца назад

      😂​@@jf8651

    • @jonmueller2117
      @jonmueller2117 2 месяца назад +5

      I'll give you a dollar for making me laugh.

    • @jessekuchinski1172
      @jessekuchinski1172 2 месяца назад

      No not true. Women want to bang u i gaurantee. Theyre sicker in the mind than men.

  • @BigG6179
    @BigG6179 2 месяца назад +10

    I have been saying it to LFA's subs and many men for a long time. Bulk up to get your muscle mass and when your too big, cut your carbs and candy down and watch the magic happen. You increase the testosterone, you will have 0 problems with stress, woman, confidence.

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 2 месяца назад +1

      @stevo6891
      bulking: I eat pretty much any kind of carb. Pizza, bread, cookies, fruit, vegetable, potatoes, rice. I want to get as strong as possible.
      Cutting: I keep my vegetables and fruit intake the same, but I slowly cut back on my sweets, bread, rice and potatoes. That stuff will bloat you and give you an upset stomach is you keep it the same size.

    • @brocklanders3616
      @brocklanders3616 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@stevo6891 Eat rice, high carbs and low fat. Mix this with your vegetables and chicken breast. Great low fat, high protein meal

  • @sokhain007
    @sokhain007 2 месяца назад

    Yes it does

  • @Gabingus69
    @Gabingus69 2 месяца назад

    Young bodybuilders take heed lol

  • @jermainehaslam5634
    @jermainehaslam5634 2 месяца назад +2

    Having chemistry with someone is the most important thing, if you can connect on an emotional level and not just just a physical level than that's all that matters.

  • @MX-CO
    @MX-CO 2 месяца назад

    I wish I could afford to get porcelain veneers, thats the one thing I want, i would rather have that than a new vehicle.

  • @香料國境
    @香料國境 2 месяца назад

    well stated

  • @sircefiro
    @sircefiro 2 месяца назад

    Hit the joint lol nice

  • @-lord1754
    @-lord1754 2 месяца назад +1

    These bots are getting so ridiculous. Anyways have a good day LFA

  • @sircefiro
    @sircefiro 2 месяца назад

    I'm pretty alright with how I look, if I could change something it'd be the puffy under eyes which I'm trying to reduce

  • @tresjolieme81
    @tresjolieme81 2 месяца назад +3

    Im a woman and the pretty boys or handsome guys may not be wild enough when needed. Its really about the lean body and job projections which means you have to be social.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад

      Being handsome helps most with college aged girls. After that she wants a buff body to break her back

  • @247Coby
    @247Coby 2 месяца назад +1

    Look the best you can and hope to hell it opens a few doors.

  • @jumanji6303
    @jumanji6303 2 месяца назад

    What are these bots doin here 😂
    Anyways, nice video! Always interested in knowledge and thoughts you got to share with us.
    Looking forward to next vids ✌️

  • @ModelJames13
    @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад

    On every woman's ridiculous checklist for the perfect man, after age looks is the next important thing.

  • @supercargeek
    @supercargeek 2 месяца назад

    you should define what 'looksmaxing' means in this video.

    • @supercargeek
      @supercargeek 2 месяца назад

      and YOUR definition. not whatever the stupid internet says.

  • @EverlastGX
    @EverlastGX 2 месяца назад +2

    If you looksmaxx you may not attract the average random girl.
    You are maybe looking for someone who will like your lifestyle and dedication.
    Women should adapt to a man's world. Or at least more than the opposite.

  • @kit-ja
    @kit-ja 2 месяца назад

    Would you belive that last week I qualified for a diploma in Psychology with Counselling that also counts towards a Bsc with honors. I had to stop training for a few months towards the end because i was to tired to study efficietly while building muscle. Ive been training again for 5 weeks and got it all back in shape pretty quickly, not as strong as 3 years ago when i was only trai ing but i feel its been worth it to train the brain also

  • @chuckcollins2349
    @chuckcollins2349 2 месяца назад +2

    Is water wet? 🙄

    • @JimV90
      @JimV90 2 месяца назад

      Nope. It makes things that are inherently dry, "wet". Water is simply water. 😂

  • @brandonkush1225
    @brandonkush1225 2 месяца назад +1

    Sometimes I wish I was just a couple inches taller

  • @JohnQPublic345
    @JohnQPublic345 2 месяца назад +5

    What about manlets? Guys under 5'7

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 2 месяца назад +6

      It's over for you

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon 2 месяца назад

      Lift weight get buff. Girls prefer guys who are bigger than them. Don’t make her feel bigger

    • @dissinlol
      @dissinlol 2 месяца назад

      get lean BUILD decent muscle to body ratio.....work on dressing a bit better .... Work on your neck muscle ... And jawline .... DEVELOP PERSONALITY

    • @Ohv111
      @Ohv111 2 месяца назад

      Bald manlet..no chance

    • @saadk8905
      @saadk8905 19 дней назад

      If ur short dress like a CEO and I'll get pussy. Always wear a suit and over dress.

  • @Orangejuice9000
    @Orangejuice9000 2 месяца назад

    I love those sunglasses. Anyone know the model?

    • @drmahidhar1876
      @drmahidhar1876 2 месяца назад

      Probably some kind of Maui Jim model

  • @bdsjr32
    @bdsjr32 2 месяца назад +1

    Sad story about the lady friend who got suckered by the degenerate POS world we live in. Sometimes, a person’s natural imperfections are perfection.

  • @cmr1127
    @cmr1127 2 месяца назад

    Man my dillema rite now...got a 6 who is nice no attitude good mother...got a 8 hott af.. tattoos,drinks smokes...and im leaning towards the 8,when i know i shouldn't..but like lfa said...red flags are just hott,and hes rite...it sucks..but hes rite

  • @Lord_Meeks
    @Lord_Meeks 2 месяца назад +3

    I remember I had a pimple on my face before a photo shoot, I wanted to end it all right there. Worst day of my life. That moment made me stronger. Keep grinding guys.

  • @goblinzl1
    @goblinzl1 2 месяца назад +1

    you can overcome bad genetics but youll have to bust your ass.
    now i admit im obsessed with my physique but are you really better off with breasts and a gut? you have to show youre not all looks and you have intelligence and show you can have a conversation and contribute.

  • @RidmakaX
    @RidmakaX 24 дня назад

    Today people think they dont get old.

  • @tym5583
    @tym5583 2 месяца назад +1

    Stressing about money is not weak?? 😅
    Especially if u come from nothing. Stressing about money and then handling that is smart

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 месяца назад +4

      Shoutout for watching all the way through!

  • @christophersanders5007
    @christophersanders5007 2 месяца назад +1

    I need to turn my 24-year old son onto you. He will not listen to me. He is a good looking kid. When he cuts his hair right he has rock star hair most people would die for. Because of his young testosterone level he has a decently strong shape body. I try to advise him on how to dress, but he will not listen to me. I am in my late fifties, and because I stay fit, dress nice, cut my hair right when we go somewhere together I get more looks from woman than he does when he is the one that should be getting way more looks from woman than I do if he cut his hair right, and dressed better.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      Tell him if he doesn't find a wife in his 20's he's doomed. That outta straighten him out if he has any hopes of finding a good woman. 😎

    • @christophersanders5007
      @christophersanders5007 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ModelJames13 I have mentioned that to him.

    • @MagnyCoors
      @MagnyCoors 2 месяца назад

      If he can't pull women now it's probably just down to attitude and mental health, anything else like looks maxxing is just icing on the cake.

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 2 месяца назад +1

      @@christophersanders5007 Good man. Nobody told me that advice when I was in my 20's so I ended up alone. Though even if someone had told me I probably wouldn't have listened. Hopefully your son listens........ 😎

  • @Andreas_K_III
    @Andreas_K_III 2 месяца назад +2

    The last 3 months I had 10 Dates from which 3 resulted in a hook up. Over the last couple months I lost over 30 pounds and I thought this should give me more success with women but it didn't.
    The thing is when I was more overweight I didnt care at that time about my weight and my looks pretty much, I was just pretty chill...and my success rate with the ladys was as good or bad as today.
    Then I really became self consciousness about myself and my weight started to bother me pretty much and I had the feeling that I had to hide myself. This feeling is somehow still there although I am now in much better shape and slimmer. I think I unconsciously projected my self doubt into the world and women pretty much sensed that as they are very sensitive to those kind of signs.
    My point is that the way you present yourself to the world is equally important if not sometimes more important than your looks. You can go to the gym every day but if you dont improve your mindset it wont give you much advantage.
    I also noticed that some of the fittest and most shredded guys in the gym are also the ones who are the most self conscious.

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 2 месяца назад

      Just by curiosity how much do you weigh and how tall are you? I went from 195 to 170 in a summer and lost a lot of confidence to.

    • @Andreas_K_III
      @Andreas_K_III 2 месяца назад

      @@BigG6179 I am 6 feet tall and now I weigh 200 pounds but I also build some muscle. Its kinda ironic isnt it?

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 2 месяца назад

      @@Andreas_K_III You might have cut your weight too quickly and it effected your testosterone. You should only lose like 10 pound in 3 months (unless someone is super obese). Losing weight that fast means you are cutting something out of your diet that is key to help your hormones. That's what I did in my summer of 23 years old. I cut my protein and carbs lower and I realized it screwed up my hormones. Now I have built it back up at 26. I was 204 recently and now I dropped to 196 with limiting but not cutting out completely pop, candy and bread. Slowly losing fat should help confidence but at one point the diminishing returns will kick in.

    • @drmahidhar1876
      @drmahidhar1876 2 месяца назад

      That’s a lot of weight in a relatively short period of time. Are you shredded ?
      Either way if you lose too much weight too fast it can affect your testosterone levels

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 2 месяца назад

    Love the tiki.;) sounds like she was very insecure so you have to ask yourself why. Is it age? Was it her background? dad’s lift up daughters and show them they’re worth so they don’t have to change their looks for anyone including themselves.

  • @clintmatthews4342
    @clintmatthews4342 2 месяца назад

    Hell, I got poison ivy on my nose, neck, and little on the deck. My left foot is healing from a brown recluse bite. I got bit by a mongril squirrel on the inner right things. My arms and legs are wolverine- like scratch from preparing firewood for the coming cold season. CHICKS DIG SCARS and stories behind them. Rock those rashes, cuts, scraps and bruises. Women will kiss the shit out of you and keep those bandages clean.

  • @TheRedDevil_NC
    @TheRedDevil_NC Месяц назад

    This video is like millionaire down the street telling me not to worry about having little to no money

    • @LFA
      @LFA  Месяц назад

      Not even close. Its like an NFL football player telling a basketball player to focus on basketball instead of football.

  • @alwaysgreatusa223
    @alwaysgreatusa223 2 месяца назад +2

    Looks-maxing fad ? How do you max your looks ? You mean body-building ? Your face is just your face. Sure, you can buy expensive clothes that make you look well-dressed. But there isn't a whole lot more you can do than I've already listed. You look like you ! That's it. She either likes your look or she doesn't. What are we even talking about here, looks -maxing ? Sounds stupid.

  • @Kiitty530
    @Kiitty530 2 месяца назад +5

    Maybe you should discuss the "Madonna-w*ore" complex in men. I'm the girl with botox, lip injections (nothing exaggerated), perfect curls, perfect manicure, false eyelashes, gymgirl and you know what...it works like magic with men. You know who turned me into a little femme fatale......my husband. Most of you claim to want a good girl at home and then turn her into a mommy over time, Secretly longing for the women you criticize so harshly for promiscuity. Hypocrisy solves nothing and the poor women are super confused. And no, I don't have a complicated personality. These transformations have helped me, my husband is even more jealous than usual and this amuses me terribly.

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 2 месяца назад

      Yah he needs to go over that topic. Many guys are still living by that complex and the media does not help. But once a guy overcomes it he will have 0 problem keeping her interesetd.

    • @oldscratch3535
      @oldscratch3535 2 месяца назад +1

      You're amused over your husband being jealous?

    • @Kiitty530
      @Kiitty530 2 месяца назад

      Yes, because for a long time I was the jealous one, now it's his turn. I adore him, we have been together for 11 years, long relationships are challenging.

    • @VADemon
      @VADemon 2 месяца назад

      This will be attractive to one cohort and unattractive to another. I'm with LFA on this one.

    • @scottverge938
      @scottverge938 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Kiitty530 I wouldn't stay with a woman that purposely tries to make me jealous. Sounds like a terrible relationship dynamic. I wouldn't be surprised if you lose attraction to him.