1. Nutrition 2. Employers Don’t Care About You 3. Invest Your Money Into Your Future(real estate/stocks/etc.) 4. Take Your Risks 5. Bars Are Always Going To Be Open(Say ‘NO’) 6. You Don’t Have To Prove Anything To Anyone 7. Create Good Memories(Focus Less On Stuff) 8. You’ll Notice The Benefits From Taking Risks and Facing Your Fears(Investing In Your Future) 9. Life Is About Helping/Giving To Other People 10. Be Teachable
As a 2000's baby, I really am enjoying seeing more and more dudes in their 40's and 50's and older embracing what social media SHOULD be used for, and having the courage to post that first video. These videos are what our people need right now. We need good men to show the boys of our generation what they should strive for. I want to become a man that can create opportunities for the people I care about Thank you for taking the time to talk with us sir
Strive to know God and be saved. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. That’s the number one goal. The world may not get it but your creator and the angels will rejoice.
Im 24 and I swear I remember being a freshman in high school thinking it was going take forever. I graduated in 2018 it’s been over 6 years now but it’s 💯saying time goes by faster the older u get
Feel that. I still remember distinctly waking up at 18 years old on my birthday wishing I didn’t have to grow up. Now I’m 32. Granted a lot has changed for the better and I’ve learned a lot of great things, but it goes by quick.
Bought a house at 23. Sold it 12 years later for £100k profit. Live closer to my two amazing daughters and took up majority custody. Bought a nice car, paid rent for the year and still have over £50k left, debt free, decent enough job, can take my kids anywhere. Can easily save up now and get compounding interest as well. Can’t put a price on stress free sleep.
@@JYKZFORTNITEyou don’t have a chance. I make enough money now that I could have afforded a mortgage on a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom house if I was born when he was. In this economy it’s only enough for me to afford rent
Damn dawg I actually cried thinking about how Mom and Dad won’t always be around to help with setbacks. I appreciate you taking the time to make such an eye-opening vid 🙏🏾
@@RazuVankii it’s a sad reality. It’s even worse when they’re gone. I appreciate the kind words and I’m glad you found value in my thoughts and experiences. It means the world to me! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
36, and this hit home big time. Got the house, the company, and just focusing on gratitude when things get hard. Thank you Chad. Your authenticity is appreciated
My dad killed himself when I was 12 bc of military ptsd and I’m 20 now and in the military so I haven’t had any males to really look up to for most of my life. I’m so thankful for this information, you have no idea how many young men you have helped!!
Turning 19 in a couple days. this video just confirmed for me everything I need to be doing to set up my future. Everyone around me tells me to stop working so hard and focus on the “college experience” while they get shitfaced multiple days a week. Everyone around me tells me it’s unrealistic and too much to try and buy a rental property in 3 or 4 years. Of course I will enjoy being young, but your advice makes me realize that those aspirations are the things that will set me apart.
@@tylerhrizo8424 I’m glad to provide some direction for you. You’ll see in the future those are the same people that will be victims in their own minds and complain that everything is everyone else’s fault. They’ll never get ahead. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day! God speed!
Don't waste your money investing right now the whole system is crashing within the next 2 to 3 years stockmarket gone banks gone .. land and growing food is a way better investment cos starvation will be coming too
@@Jokayne that’s why I said I’m investing in property! And it’s for me to live in! Maybe read the comment before you reply random dude who is saying starvation is coming!
Good on you dude! I love to hear people making it, even though everything we see today says it’s not possible and the American dream is dead. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Almost 27, if your 25 and under you're super young. Stay out of debt and budget hard. Don't waste away your money on materials and liabilities. Wish i was 20 again with the financial knowledge I have now. Its never too late, just a harder hill to climb the longer you wait to get on track.
This is the truth. I'm 36 and just about paid off all my debt. I invested a few thousand into an IRA, but I need to keep contributing, and taking care of my mental health. My physical is fine, but everything he said rains true with me. Employers do NOT CARE. Your health and your family. Also making your money work while you sleep, aka invest
Learning this now, finally paid off my truck early on my 25 birthday. Got rid of almost alllll debt and completely paid off some land, can’t wait to finish working off this debt and get my life started.
I just turned 29 and have been feeling really depressed and like it’s the end of my road because my finances are down, my job isn’t fulfilling and life seems pointless. But this really helped keep things in perspective. Thank you.
About to turn 30 myself & basically feel pretty much how you’re describing. The only thing I can do is to tell myself my life is worth living. No matter how shitty it is. I was reunited with an old friend. That old friend was myself. I found myself again. If I can do it. Everyone can. Don’t give up.
“Don’t let the bastards grind you down” there will be rough patches in life and it may suck right now, but write down what makes you happy and what does not. Follow what makes you happy, and during that time figure out a plan that works towards bringing you the things that makes you happy. You can do it, just take one step at a time
Thank you! I strongly feel young men need to hear this. There’s way to many manchildren out there the MGTOW, and INCElLS, dudes simping. It’s terrible man!
Me too ,this is so touching .Since I watched this video I started questioning my life.Thank you for sharing these lessons with us and thank god I came across you
My twin brother sent me this video. We're 22 years old and by the 5th point I could've sworn it was a conversation between the 2 of us. We took risks early and now we own an 8 bedroom room rental house and a construction business. Every young guy needs to watch this video
That’s sick bro I have a twin brother too but we’re not as close as we used to be. I’m 19 but I honestly just want to break this generational curse of poverty, do you have any tips?
@@joshualeon5331 hai im 21 with a twin sister too. i would say just save as much as u can. ik its hard but even if u save a dollar, it something. i have a casual job and its paying ok whilst im studying. but i barely buy myself anything. i save and invest as much as i can.
@@ieboyz3106 Experience anything you are have been wanting to try, regardless IF IT WILL PAY OFF OR NOT then. Types of schools, jobs, countries, hobbies, partners..
This is so real I'm 27 and started to go hard in investing 5 years ago living with only what I need to survive it washard but now with 150k in assets and a home but honestly you get to a point were you are actually get comfortable living below your means and when you try to spoil yourself it doesn't feel right in my opinion so you tent to go back to living below your means because it feels comfortable in the end the hard times is were you get best memories in my opinion
That’s bad ass man! Unfortunately most won’t find comfort where they are. The saying “the more you make the spend”, is very real. You’re definitely not average! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Love it when you said if things went south there no shame to moving back in with mom and dad dust it off and keep moving forward makes me feel grateful for my mama.
i’m 20 and recently fell for a fraud check scam, i’m now 30 grand negative in the bank. i’m partly thankful for it to have happened i feel this is what i needed to really discipline myself and go hard for it i know someday i’ll get to look back knowing i got myself out of this hole. thanks for this video
People like you are extremely important to be on social media. Sharing life lessons through a video as you take a walk could potentially completely transform someone's life. I am 19 right now. Hoping to get things figured out as soon as possible. Thanks for such videos man! You are very much appreciated😊
Turned 18 this year, and work 2 jobs. I appreciate this advice from somebody who done been there and done that, and is willing to share their experience. Thank you and loved the vid !
I feel the same, but I am 62. Don’t beat yourself up over being a certain age, as long as you keep trying. You might not get as far as some people - but it’s better than not moving forward at all.
A long time friend and coworker stopped talking to me because I wouldn't go to the bar to celebrate someone retirement. She didn't know that in my early 30's I was one drink away from becoming an alcoholic. I quit cold turkey and have never looked back. I'm 65 now.
I truly believe the reason why time moves faster the older you get is because as you get older you’re so used to life’s tasks and doing repetitive things as to when you were younger and things were new to you and doing different things all the time. It’s like doing a lot of stuff and looking at the clock at work and it zooms every time you glance at it. Why do you think starting a new job your days go by so slow? The key to slowing down time is to do new and different things. This year I finally broke that repetitive cycle and started trying to do new things and living in the moment instead of working non stop. It’s not healthy so I changed it up and voila! This year has been so long for me. I’m 32 and I finally know how to slow time down. I think this needs to be spread out to everyone.
Agree. Also quitting alcohol/drinking really slows things down. If you stop drinking and redirect your attention from socializing to learning things and improving yourself - time really slows down. I did both of those things this year - and it's by far the longest year I've lived in a very very long time.
I’m 27 now and this has always been my perspective since I was like 15-18, when time really started flying by for me. That’s why traveling I love to travel whenever I can, especially to different countries.
I’m currently 23 and I’ve been in the worst slump of my life. No purpose no sure where I’m going to end up and working for a boss I despise. I’ve just very recently been trying to straighten up my finances and get my health in check and watching this has put a fire under my ass that I needed to keep moving forward thank you for sharing this advice I’m definitely going to put it to use!
"The more you know, the more you realize you don't know" and it hurts, I'm 20, and have not been to any job, but I'm discovering the world as much as i can.
Love your message. Frugality is majorly underrated. “Live like no one else today and you’ll live like no one else tomorrow” - Dave Ramsey. That’s been me and my husbands motto for 20+ years (we’re in our early 40’s now) and it has “paid” off. So much pressure when you’re younger to keep up, nah!
I had great parents and was taught the majority of this, but God provides us people like you for us to learn from. Thanks a lot sir, imma go open that index compound interest fund
Im 39 and am learning this is a fact. Own a business that is profitable. But I spent everything on building it to this size. I was feeling depressed and overworked so I bought a race car and a rubicon rock climber to feel wealthy. But now at 39 I see I have to buy realstate. 2024 First year I felt old. My mind is on real-estate now. How ever I don’t regret building my family I have 4 kids and my wife so that makes me feel rich. I spent a good amount of my money vacation and camping with them. In a nutshell I’ve never really had savings I spend it all. But it’s time to change that. I hope it’s not too late for me
DROPPING GOLD BROTHER! im 19 turning 20 in 2 months and im fucking scared of life. i need to start truly living. wasted so much time already. but your insight helped a lot. thank you. love you.
I thank you for uploading this video it, not only inspired me, but changed my whole perspective on where I should be in the next couple of years. Currently I am 22, and I’m trying to make sure me and my family live a happy and healthy life. I still got a lot to learn, but for these next couple of years I will be patient, and willing to learn.
Love the video just started to follow your journey. I was one who took the risk early and did have to move back in with mom after things went south fast. I was never ashamed but rather grateful to still have them to be able to do that and recover from it. Which is exactly what I did
First time I’ve ever heard of your channel. I turn 45 October 16th and this is one awesome video of great advice. I listened to every word you said. 👍👍
Turning 26 this month, and i remember when i was 19 like yesterday. Between that time i haven't accomplished anything. Only thing i got new with me is a STD from all the sez i was having. I realize how much of a fool i was, and how dumb i was i had big dreams at 19 yet here i am almost 26 and i am not anywhere, I don't being in the military didn't really get me anywhere nor do i feel like a winner. I know what i have i just say this to inspire someone in a similar situation.
Beautiful advice bud I really appreciate it. I’m 22 and not sure what career path to take once I graduate. I worked 4 internships in accounting and investment firms and work part time in investment management right now as I finish off some courses at university. I spoke with the CEO and CCO of a lending company and impressed them, leading to a job offer for an underwriting position once I graduate from university. However, I enjoyed a plant growing job at my family’s greenhouse back in 2021. It’s strange because I like plant growing, yet it’s not mentally stimulating enough for me. On the other hand, being in an office for too long gets me depressed since I love to be outside. I’ll try to work out a plan to do the underwriting and grower job at different times of the year since both are seasonal. Great video lots for me to consider!
Facing the same issue I work for the govt for which i have a permanent position which is away from the city and I want to learn something for which you have to be physically present in the city ... 🫤
I'm so grateful to see this in my 20s. It's no coincidence-it’s a sign to start making smarter financial decisions now so I can enjoy life later. Going to bars with friends is like burning money, and our 20s are the prime time to lock in. Distractions will come, but we need accountability to stay purpose-driven and perform at our best. Thanks for this video 🙏
I am 25 and just entered the real estate market after saving up for years, as I think the earlier the better as you state, everything in the video is true and you can hear it's coming from the heart with good intentions, thank you for the wisdom and sincerity. Keep it coming, as I am sure it helps keep younger generation in the right direction.
I hope it does help the younger generation. As long as they’re teachable, they’ll get it. I wash you the best on your ventures your headed the right direction with a good head on your shoulders!! Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
Excellent list man. Pretty much everything I would’ve said. I just turned 50. Some of these things I did do (bought properties, invested) and I have six children. They are my life and my heart. I live for my memories with them. My ex wife took all my properties and I had to start over, but God lifted me up again. I’m sharing this video with my older children.
Im in my 30s (31 almost 32 in a few months) and wish i was 21 again holy shit...but, this may be the best decade of my life. Just like my 40s ...and 50s...
I'm a 21 year old guy and have been doing my Roth IRA and 401k because of guys like you that make me look to the future. Also I stopped eating processed food which has improved my health a lot. Thanks
I turned 26 just a few weeks ago. As a child, I had my life planned out. I thought I'd be in grad school by this time, married, and with a house. Unfortunately, I dropped out of college, have never been in a relationship (and unsure of how to get into one), and nowhere near financially stable enough to own a house. It isn't because I made bad decisions. I just have chronic psychiatric illnesses that have stopped me from progressing in life. It breaks my heart, and I'm starting to lose hope. To have your life mapped out and not have met a single goal or dream of yours is draining. I am starting to feel lost and purposeless. It's easy for people to say, "Don't give up," but I haven't given up since the day I was born; it's just getting harder and harder to "just keep swimming." I know women my age who are already married, have a career, and children whereas I have absolutely nothing going on for me. Whenever I try to get back up, I make progress, but then I fall right back down. It's exhausting, and I'm not sure how much more I can take before I stay down.
@@allenreid62 Thank you! That really means a lot coming from someone with your experience. Yesterday was quite a challenge with one tech issue after another-I had to re-record multiple times, lost audio, (that’s why it’s at night) and my editing software kept glitching. It was frustrating, but your support makes it all worthwhile. I truly appreciate it!
Just keep reiterating it in different ways and when the time is right. I’ve grown to be surprised how many helpful lessons my parents taught me, even when i was a spiteful troublemaker of a teenager 😂😂
Chad, thank you for this video. I’m 25 right now and everything you said resonated with me. Going to do my best to make the smart long term decisions and have a teachable mindset so that I can create a life I can be proud of in 20 years. Please know your efforts are greatly appreciated.
26 and been building my self as a single man. Had some mistakes but recoverable and in place to recover. Started my journey investing in myself at 19. Best decision I’ve ever made. To think at point they have been doubts but God has shown me examples over these pass 7 years of why the slower route was the better route. Haven’t partied in 7 years - I’ve went out a handful of times but I mostly go out to network and still meet with women often. Actually higher quality women at times that are willing to build with me in some form. Keep working Jed.
Thanks for this. I’m 31 I miss the feeling of immortality in my 20’s , but life has whopped me enough to have humility so I am gonna be able to grow properly in 30’s.
It amazes me to hear how far a person can reach in this day and age! It’s all about perspective. You only lost everything if you didn’t learn from it. Otherwise if you can shift your perspective, you’ll see it as an expensive lesson. Thank you! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
One of the most valuable youtube videos out there for people in their 20s or anyone that really wants to grow and prosper in life. I know from experience that it is actually hard, so hard to learn from someone else's experience, to believe that you shouldn't do what your arrogance tells you to do, what your gratification is lacking, what you desire. When you know how life should be lived yet still insist on living it on your own messed terms which oppose the real wisdom and truth. It is certainly hard to experience the depth of the words and it is only easy to say that "okay, thats how you had it, should not be how i have mine" while still behaving as if you listen to what the OG has to say, to what the wise speak. "The great is he who truly learns from others' mistakes" (i.e, not replicating what you know to be wrong, not insisting on going the wrong paths and just thinking arrogantly that you're paving a new path)
Bro you’re such a g. I’m 22, moving to the Philippines to keep growing my business in January and I can relate to a lot of things you’ve said. Your eyes and voice show the kind of person you are and I truly thank you for sharing your experiences, you can be very proud. My first ever comment on RUclips, I hope you read it because yeah I can see a father talking here and I respect that. Keep posting and take care of yourself, thanks. Thomas
Thank you for this. I'm 41 now with a family to take care of and had to learn a lot of these lessons the hardway since being on my own without much of a father figure since I was 14. Such good sage life advice. Hats off to you sir!
Find something you love to do and make it your job. If you love being a garbage collector, be a garbage collector. Disregard what others say and whether something is possible or not. Your life will be much, much better for it.
18 years old seeing this video gives where that having this knowledge before men your age did at such a young age I’m extremely grateful. Going into life head on and focused and won’t stop until I get there 🙏🏽
I just finished watching this video. Im 28 and I feel lost. 1 thing that made me happy was hearing you say nutrition is most important because Ive always focused on the gym and nutrition since I was 12 so at least I have that. I tried so many different things in my life that didnt work out, I was a pro athlete in my late teens and early 20s, at 25 I got my CDL (AZ here in Canada) and became a truck driver but left laster year because it was severelt jeopordizing my health. I made good money, really good money for a year that I managed to buy my firsr car and survive being unemployed for 11 months now involuntarily of course. Im thinking about going back to school for something but I dropped out of high school in my athlete days and part of me thinks its too late now. When I have a mission I really do hone in and focus and go all in on it but when I dont have a direct goal infront of me I fall off the wagon really hard and end up wasting my time on video games and procrastinating. I feel like I should have my life together by now at 28. Most my friends are married with careers some with kids.
With all of that, I’m confident you have what it takes to go where you want as long as you can keep yourself entertained and focused on the end goal. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
What makes this video even more credible is the fact that you put nutrition first on the list. People, for some reason, think, or perhaps they are not thinking at all that they can put garbage in and get prestine out, and no matter what you say to them, nothing works. I guess it's true that we love our misery.
And misery loves company. I’ve been on both sides of it. Trash in and feeling like trash several times. This time I got my shit dialed in and I’m never going back. Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I wish I had learned this in my teens. I'm 31 now and trying my best to catch up. Much appreciated, my brother.
6. You don’t owe anyone anything, you don’t have anything to prove to anyone, & you don’t owe anyone any explanations. 7. Create more memories & put less focus on stuff; as you get older life speeds up & life passes you by faster. The days get longer, but the decades get shorter. 8. Don’t allow FEAR to be a shape-shifter in your life & don’t be scared of failure. Go BIG while you’re young & while you still can! 9. Life isn’t just about you, it’s much bigger than you and it paints a bigger picture. Your life includes you, but also about relationships, helping other people, establishing life for your children, giving & being generous, etc. That’s how you give back to Earth & back to humanity. The value that you provide to the humanity, society, & the world is the cap & will be the pathway to you making more money. 10. Be teachable & remain teachable; be a student throughout life. No matter how smart you are, remain humble and know that there’s always someone bigger, better, & smarter than you are. Happiness requires gratitude; be appreciative & grateful for what you DO have.
My man, doesn't matter what mistakes you've made except for the part it made you what you are today which is a good human being judging from the video. Don't forget to enjoy the journey and try not to stress about the finish line.
I’m 27, I really needed this advice. I want to succeed in life, I want the best for my family, I want to create a beautiful life and thank you for sharing your wisdom. Lucky to have come across your video.
My girlfriend of 5 years "cheated on me" We were middle and high school sweethearts I don't know what happened but around a week before our 5 year anniversary she wanted a "1 month break" a couple of weeks before that she became so distant and just yelled at me about everything, she said I didn't give her enough attention but I was the only one working hard to have us move out from our parents, I had so much trust and respect for her I didn't see how she would control everything in my life and distance me from my friends and family, the night of our anniversary I got access to her tik tok account where she was confessing her feelings to a co worker and thinking back she would always bring him up around me. Anyways I broke up with her last night because of that and she was telling me she broke up with me first, I don't even know if it counts as cheating but it sure hurts because I literally thought she was my everything. I don't know how to process the feelings I have, I feel betrayed and I can't eat or sleep, her parents liked me so much and are angry at her but she just seems so happy to be with that other guy and she is throwing away 5 years for him. Am I in the wrong at all? What should I do to cope? I’m 19 and she was my first everything and she just left without remorse
Brother that’s rough. I can’t say. I’m not her to give advice. There’s way too many moving parts in every situation for me to be able to legitimately be able to give anything. All I can do is offer my thoughts and experiences. I know you can get through it but that’s about all I can really say. I wish you the best of luck!
Bro it's only marriage dont date. Dating is for kids and you should know if you are dealing with a girl or a true women. You dont need a girl in your life you need a women who know the hardship of life not some drunk teenager . ❤
I am retired and your strategy mirrors my own. I was one of 6 children born in poverty. I wanted something different. This strategy allowed me to have 6 wonderful children and more prosperity than I ever imagined. All by your same strategy. Wishing you the best my friend. I am a new subscriber sharing your sight with my children, grandchildren and friends. Keep it up! I tell all my children, the person I have to watch out for the most is myself. Don’t worry about others. Ben, Tucson, Arizona.
Keep up your good work. If you and your wife ever vacation in Tucson. We will host you as a complementary guest in one of our places located in Saguaro National Park west.
@ I appreciate that. We’re both from Arizona. She’s a Phoenix girl and I’m a Yuma guy. We’re actually just moved to Washington from Yuma about a year and a half ago. I have tons of friends in Tucson, Vail and Marana.
You’re setting a path for boys who want to become proper men. Unfortunately my father wasn’t in the picture in my transition from boy to man. But I’ve found honest men like yourself on this platform and couldn’t be more thankful for your insight. Respect for sharing your failures. You are resilient. I’m proud of you for where you are mentally. I hope when I reach your age someone can be proud of me and look up to me for the same knowledge. Thank you Chad
Love how you always take the time to say hello as you walk by people, that’s awesome. So glad there are people out there that think like me and see the world the same way. It’s even better to hear someone else speak out your thoughts out loud. It helps us realign. Thank you soo soo much for your videos. A lot of your mindset and life experiences are very similar to mine and so many people out there.
41 in a lot of chronic stomach pain all the time. I work full time and I am about to start another side hustle. I have 4 daughters and not leaving them something behind is not an option. I thought working a safe job was the thing to do. I was wrong. Great video my friend.
1. Nutrition
2. Employers Don’t Care About You
3. Invest Your Money Into Your Future(real estate/stocks/etc.)
4. Take Your Risks
5. Bars Are Always Going To Be Open(Say ‘NO’)
6. You Don’t Have To Prove Anything To Anyone
7. Create Good Memories(Focus Less On Stuff)
8. You’ll Notice The Benefits From Taking Risks and Facing Your Fears(Investing In Your Future)
9. Life Is About Helping/Giving To Other People
10. Be Teachable
Those are some note taking skills!! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
❤❤❤@@ChadLisonbee
Thankyou for listing ❤
Number 9 is complete bs! No good deed goes unpunished!
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As a 2000's baby, I really am enjoying seeing more and more dudes in their 40's and 50's and older embracing what social media SHOULD be used for, and having the courage to post that first video. These videos are what our people need right now. We need good men to show the boys of our generation what they should strive for. I want to become a man that can create opportunities for the people I care about
Thank you for taking the time to talk with us sir
@@ryul_daniel hell yeah!! Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate you and have a wonderful day.
Strive to know God and be saved. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. That’s the number one goal. The world may not get it but your creator and the angels will rejoice.
Bro there was no social media how it is today until early 2010s
Me too
Im 24 and I swear I remember being a freshman in high school thinking it was going take forever. I graduated in 2018 it’s been over 6 years now but it’s 💯saying time goes by faster the older u get
Feel that. I still remember distinctly waking up at 18 years old on my birthday wishing I didn’t have to grow up. Now I’m 32. Granted a lot has changed for the better and I’ve learned a lot of great things, but it goes by quick.
Yep. Same age too it’s crazy
I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
I'm 24, and feel the exact same way
@@SatoshiSky 🙌🏻
I love how you say "hello" to every stranger you see. Shows that your awesome
Thank you!✌🏻
Bought a house at 23. Sold it 12 years later for £100k profit. Live closer to my two amazing daughters and took up majority custody. Bought a nice car, paid rent for the year and still have over £50k left, debt free, decent enough job, can take my kids anywhere. Can easily save up now and get compounding interest as well.
Can’t put a price on stress free sleep.
Bro…. Killing it. I completely agree. Thank you!!✌🏻
Can u teach me bro, I just turned 20, living in the uk like you
@@JYKZFORTNITEyou don’t have a chance. I make enough money now that I could have afforded a mortgage on a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom house if I was born when he was. In this economy it’s only enough for me to afford rent
@@ewalka9177 if u have a girlfriend can u not both put 40k down each for a mortgage?
@@ewalka9177this is the sad reality, I'm almost 30 and I doubt anyone my age will own a house
Damn dawg I actually cried thinking about how Mom and Dad won’t always be around to help with setbacks. I appreciate you taking the time to make such an eye-opening vid 🙏🏾
@@RazuVankii it’s a sad reality. It’s even worse when they’re gone. I appreciate the kind words and I’m glad you found value in my thoughts and experiences. It means the world to me! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
36, and this hit home big time. Got the house, the company, and just focusing on gratitude when things get hard. Thank you Chad. Your authenticity is appreciated
Very welcome. Thank you!✌🏻
My dad killed himself when I was 12 bc of military ptsd and I’m 20 now and in the military so I haven’t had any males to really look up to for most of my life. I’m so thankful for this information, you have no idea how many young men you have helped!!
That’s truly means the world to me brother!!! Thank you for serving! I appreciate you!✌🏻
Stand strong brother. We love you. America
Turning 19 in a couple days. this video just confirmed for me everything I need to be doing to set up my future. Everyone around me tells me to stop working so hard and focus on the “college experience” while they get shitfaced multiple days a week. Everyone around me tells me it’s unrealistic and too much to try and buy a rental property in 3 or 4 years. Of course I will enjoy being young, but your advice makes me realize that those aspirations are the things that will set me apart.
@@tylerhrizo8424 I’m glad to provide some direction for you. You’ll see in the future those are the same people that will be victims in their own minds and complain that everything is everyone else’s fault. They’ll never get ahead. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day! God speed!
im 19 too but you don’t gotta follow anyone’s literally fully advice just take what you think it’s right and live
@@lilmanq7746 I couldn’t agree more.
Don't waste your money investing right now the whole system is crashing within the next 2 to 3 years stockmarket gone banks gone .. land and growing food is a way better investment cos starvation will be coming too
@@Jokayne that’s why I said I’m investing in property! And it’s for me to live in! Maybe read the comment before you reply random dude who is saying starvation is coming!
Woman here in 40s and I totally agree. Thank you for teaching younger men and providing them with your perspective.
@@chessc.3407 thank you for the kind words sister! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
27 man living in Zimbabwe Africa.....I appreciate you Big Bro!💯
I appreciate you brother!!✌🏻
I'm 28, got my own place and stable job, but still thankful for finding this video, great talk man! Needed to hear this
Good on you dude! I love to hear people making it, even though everything we see today says it’s not possible and the American dream is dead. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Almost 27, if your 25 and under you're super young. Stay out of debt and budget hard. Don't waste away your money on materials and liabilities. Wish i was 20 again with the financial knowledge I have now. Its never too late, just a harder hill to climb the longer you wait to get on track.
@@Xzavyuh absolutely. Hell even at 45 in still super young. I appreciate you!
This is the truth. I'm 36 and just about paid off all my debt. I invested a few thousand into an IRA, but I need to keep contributing, and taking care of my mental health. My physical is fine, but everything he said rains true with me. Employers do NOT CARE. Your health and your family. Also making your money work while you sleep, aka invest
Learning this now, finally paid off my truck early on my 25 birthday. Got rid of almost alllll debt and completely paid off some land, can’t wait to finish working off this debt and get my life started.
I’m 25 now. Thank you man. I will try my best to listen to what you said
Simple concept but they aren’t always easy to do. All it takes is direction and drive. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!!
I just turned 29 and have been feeling really depressed and like it’s the end of my road because my finances are down, my job isn’t fulfilling and life seems pointless. But this really helped keep things in perspective. Thank you.
Thank you!✌🏻
About to turn 30 myself & basically feel pretty much how you’re describing. The only thing I can do is to tell myself my life is worth living. No matter how shitty it is. I was reunited with an old friend. That old friend was myself. I found myself again. If I can do it. Everyone can. Don’t give up.
@@madschassis hell yeah dude!! Amazing way to see it!! ✌🏻
“Don’t let the bastards grind you down” there will be rough patches in life and it may suck right now, but write down what makes you happy and what does not. Follow what makes you happy, and during that time figure out a plan that works towards bringing you the things that makes you happy. You can do it, just take one step at a time
20 year old listening this, I held my breathe listening. Real talk that all men need to take serious. Appreciating the men who shares his wisdom …
Always. So much appreciated. 🙏🫡
Thank you! I strongly feel young men need to hear this. There’s way to many manchildren out there the MGTOW, and INCElLS, dudes simping. It’s terrible man!
Thank you!🙏🏻
Me too ,this is so touching .Since I watched this video I started questioning my life.Thank you for sharing these lessons with us and thank god I came across you
My twin brother sent me this video. We're 22 years old and by the 5th point I could've sworn it was a conversation between the 2 of us. We took risks early and now we own an 8 bedroom room rental house and a construction business. Every young guy needs to watch this video
Broooo. That’s what I’m talking about!! Let’s freaking go!! ✌🏻
That’s sick bro I have a twin brother too but we’re not as close as we used to be. I’m 19 but I honestly just want to break this generational curse of poverty, do you have any tips?
@@joshualeon5331 hai im 21 with a twin sister too. i would say just save as much as u can. ik its hard but even if u save a dollar, it something. i have a casual job and its paying ok whilst im studying. but i barely buy myself anything. i save and invest as much as i can.
Taking risks early in life is truly so important. When there’s less repercussions and the lessons you learn can be used for the rest of your life
🙏🏻I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
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when you say taking risks, what kind of risks are you talking about?
@@ieboyz3106 Experience anything you are have been wanting to try, regardless IF IT WILL PAY OFF OR NOT then. Types of schools, jobs, countries, hobbies, partners..
@@ieboyz3106Romance, business, travel etc.
Young people better listen to this guy! Hes absolutely speaking the truth
Thank you!✌🏻
This is so real I'm 27 and started to go hard in investing 5 years ago living with only what I need to survive it washard but now with 150k in assets and a home but honestly you get to a point were you are actually get comfortable living below your means and when you try to spoil yourself it doesn't feel right in my opinion so you tent to go back to living below your means because it feels comfortable in the end the hard times is were you get best memories in my opinion
That’s bad ass man! Unfortunately most won’t find comfort where they are. The saying “the more you make the spend”, is very real. You’re definitely not average! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Love it when you said if things went south there no shame to moving back in with mom and dad dust it off and keep moving forward makes me feel grateful for my mama.
Always be grateful for them. Thank you!✌🏻
i’m 20 and recently fell for a fraud check scam, i’m now 30 grand negative in the bank. i’m partly thankful for it to have happened i feel this is what i needed to really discipline myself and go hard for it i know someday i’ll get to look back knowing i got myself out of this hole. thanks for this video
Absolutely. One day you’ll laugh about it. ✌🏻
People like you are extremely important to be on social media. Sharing life lessons through a video as you take a walk could potentially completely transform someone's life. I am 19 right now. Hoping to get things figured out as soon as possible. Thanks for such videos man! You are very much appreciated😊
I appreciate that! Thank you!✌🏻
Turned 18 this year, and work 2 jobs. I appreciate this advice from somebody who done been there and done that, and is willing to share their experience. Thank you and loved the vid !
Get after it man. Stay away from the stuff and be patient and good things will come! Thank you!! I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
I'm 55 and wish these words were available 40 years ago.. I agree 💯%! LISTEN!
Thank you for all of the support brother!!! 🙏🏻
I feel the same, but I am 62. Don’t beat yourself up over being a certain age, as long as you keep trying. You might not get as far as some people - but it’s better than not moving forward at all.
A long time friend and coworker stopped talking to me because I wouldn't go to the bar to celebrate someone retirement. She didn't know that in my early 30's I was one drink away from becoming an alcoholic. I quit cold turkey and have never looked back. I'm 65 now.
I truly believe the reason why time moves faster the older you get is because as you get older you’re so used to life’s tasks and doing repetitive things as to when you were younger and things were new to you and doing different things all the time. It’s like doing a lot of stuff and looking at the clock at work and it zooms every time you glance at it. Why do you think starting a new job your days go by so slow? The key to slowing down time is to do new and different things. This year I finally broke that repetitive cycle and started trying to do new things and living in the moment instead of working non stop. It’s not healthy so I changed it up and voila! This year has been so long for me. I’m 32 and I finally know how to slow time down. I think this needs to be spread out to everyone.
That’s an awesome perspective! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
Agree. Also quitting alcohol/drinking really slows things down. If you stop drinking and redirect your attention from socializing to learning things and improving yourself - time really slows down. I did both of those things this year - and it's by far the longest year I've lived in a very very long time.
I’m 27 now and this has always been my perspective since I was like 15-18, when time really started flying by for me. That’s why traveling I love to travel whenever I can, especially to different countries.
I’m currently 23 and I’ve been in the worst slump of my life. No purpose no sure where I’m going to end up and working for a boss I despise. I’ve just very recently been trying to straighten up my finances and get my health in check and watching this has put a fire under my ass that I needed to keep moving forward thank you for sharing this advice I’m definitely going to put it to use!
Let’s go dude!!✌🏻
"The more you know, the more you realize you don't know" and it hurts, I'm 20, and have not been to any job, but I'm discovering the world as much as i can.
Keep moving forward dude. You’ll find your path!
@@ChadLisonbeethanks man
Love your message. Frugality is majorly underrated. “Live like no one else today and you’ll live like no one else tomorrow” - Dave Ramsey. That’s been me and my husbands motto for 20+ years (we’re in our early 40’s now) and it has “paid” off. So much pressure when you’re younger to keep up, nah!
So true! Thank you!✌🏻
I had great parents and was taught the majority of this, but God provides us people like you for us to learn from. Thanks a lot sir, imma go open that index compound interest fund
Thank you for the kindness! I wish you the best in your ventures!
Amen 👏👏
Im 39 and am learning this is a fact. Own a business that is profitable. But I spent everything on building it to this size. I was feeling depressed and overworked so I bought a race car and a rubicon rock climber to feel wealthy. But now at 39 I see I have to buy realstate. 2024 First year I felt old. My mind is on real-estate now. How ever I don’t regret building my family I have 4 kids and my wife so that makes me feel rich. I spent a good amount of my money vacation and camping with them. In a nutshell I’ve never really had savings I spend it all. But it’s time to change that. I hope it’s not too late for me
It’s never too late brother! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
35 no wife no kids no money. Crippling mental illnesses. You’re doing well nice see hard work paying off keep grinding
DROPPING GOLD BROTHER! im 19 turning 20 in 2 months and im fucking scared of life. i need to start truly living. wasted so much time already. but your insight helped a lot. thank you. love you.
Thank you homie! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
I truly mean this bro start jogging half a miles for a month then up it from there
Wasted time? You’re 20 f&&n years old….
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I am in my early twenties, thank you for sharing your wisdom. I can not stress into words how powerful I found this video. Thank you.
Thank you brother! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
One of the most articulate person i've ever seen. Great advices
Wow. Thank you!!🙏🏻
I thank you for uploading this video it, not only inspired me, but changed my whole perspective on where I should be in the next couple of years. Currently I am 22, and I’m trying to make sure me and my family live a happy and healthy life. I still got a lot to learn, but for these next couple of years I will be patient, and willing to learn.
You’re already way ahead of others in your generation. Keep going!!✌🏻
Thank you, I will make sure to keep going.
Love the video just started to follow your journey. I was one who took the risk early and did have to move back in with mom after things went south fast. I was never ashamed but rather grateful to still have them to be able to do that and recover from it. Which is exactly what I did
That is awesome! Thank you!✌🏻
First time I’ve ever heard of your channel. I turn 45 October 16th and this is one awesome video of great advice. I listened to every word you said. 👍👍
Come on in brother. The water is warm. Lol. I appreciate your kindness and support. I’m here making a new video everyday. ✌🏻
Turning 26 this month, and i remember when i was 19 like yesterday. Between that time i haven't accomplished anything. Only thing i got new with me is a STD from all the sez i was having. I realize how much of a fool i was, and how dumb i was i had big dreams at 19 yet here i am almost 26 and i am not anywhere, I don't being in the military didn't really get me anywhere nor do i feel like a winner. I know what i have i just say this to inspire someone in a similar situation.
Keep going and you’ll find what you’re looking for. Get your VA benefits rolling to help you. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Beautiful advice bud I really appreciate it.
I’m 22 and not sure what career path to take once I graduate. I worked 4 internships in accounting and investment firms and work part time in investment management right now as I finish off some courses at university.
I spoke with the CEO and CCO of a lending company and impressed them, leading to a job offer for an underwriting position once I graduate from university. However, I enjoyed a plant growing job at my family’s greenhouse back in 2021. It’s strange because I like plant growing, yet it’s not mentally stimulating enough for me. On the other hand, being in an office for too long gets me depressed since I love to be outside.
I’ll try to work out a plan to do the underwriting and grower job at different times of the year since both are seasonal.
Great video lots for me to consider!
I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
Facing the same issue I work for the govt for which i have a permanent position which is away from the city and I want to learn something for which you have to be physically present in the city ... 🫤
I'm so grateful to see this in my 20s. It's no coincidence-it’s a sign to start making smarter financial decisions now so I can enjoy life later. Going to bars with friends is like burning money, and our 20s are the prime time to lock in. Distractions will come, but we need accountability to stay purpose-driven and perform at our best. Thanks for this video 🙏
Heck yeah!! Let’s go!✌🏻
29 going on 30. A veteran and still made mistakes. Rushing without a plan… hit rock bottom, heartbreaks and had the wake up call. Great video..
Thank you for your service brother!
I am 25 and just entered the real estate market after saving up for years, as I think the earlier the better as you state, everything in the video is true and you can hear it's coming from the heart with good intentions, thank you for the wisdom and sincerity. Keep it coming, as I am sure it helps keep younger generation in the right direction.
I hope it does help the younger generation. As long as they’re teachable, they’ll get it. I wash you the best on your ventures your headed the right direction with a good head on your shoulders!! Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
Excellent list man. Pretty much everything I would’ve said. I just turned 50. Some of these things I did do (bought properties, invested) and I have six children. They are my life and my heart. I live for my memories with them. My ex wife took all my properties and I had to start over, but God lifted me up again. I’m sharing this video with my older children.
Thank you!✌🏻
Walking in nature while making these videos is a wonderful idea. Keep up the good work brother.
@@palobar9974 thank you. It helps me get into a state of flow. I’m glad you enjoy it and I’m grateful for your support!
Spot on brother, I'm 33. Hopefully I still have time to recover from the risks I took these past couple or years. God bless you man
Best of luck! Thank you!✌🏻
thanks for making this, especially needed the part about investing (buying property & making it a source of income) and saying no to the bar
You got this. I wish you the best on this journey we call life!✌🏻
I’m 26 and still needed to hear this badly…..
Thank you for watching ✌🏻
Im in my 30s (31 almost 32 in a few months) and wish i was 21 again holy shit...but, this may be the best decade of my life. Just like my 40s ...and 50s...
If you design and focus on your future you’ll build the future you want! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
What would you do differently?
@@our.secret1130 me? Learn a trade. See my parents and grandparents more.
The politeness to the people around you is what makes this video even better.
I appreciate you brother! ✌🏻🙏🏻
That's amazing as a 25 yrs old moved to another country, really needed to hear that , thank you so much
I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@@ChadLisonbee you too sir
I'm a 21 year old guy and have been doing my Roth IRA and 401k because of guys like you that make me look to the future. Also I stopped eating processed food which has improved my health a lot. Thanks
Let’s go bro!
I’m 23 man been living wit my girl since we was 19 its been hard but i love everyday of it thank you man
Thank you!✌🏻
Well said man. I'm gonna be 43 soon and you nailed it
Thank you!✌🏻
This is my vibe lately. I watched this at 2x speed and man, catchy and flowing. Thank you, Chad! New sub earned.
Thanks for the sub! I appreciate it. 🙏🏻
This video spoke to me I am turning 21 in a few weeks and trying to turn my life into something great for myself and my family thank you 🙏
@@reecerazz4807 I’m extremely happy to hear that. Start right be right! Don’t forget your youth, but emphasize on your life on the future!
Thank you, sir. I'm a 24 year old guy, and I appreciate you for making this video. All love, man ❤
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you!✌🏻
it hits too hard because its too real. im 23, and im currently working to invest in myself
@@storyIine the best investment you could ever make dude!
Straight to the point talk, thats what i like. Suscribed!
I appreciate your support!
I turned 26 just a few weeks ago. As a child, I had my life planned out. I thought I'd be in grad school by this time, married, and with a house. Unfortunately, I dropped out of college, have never been in a relationship (and unsure of how to get into one), and nowhere near financially stable enough to own a house. It isn't because I made bad decisions. I just have chronic psychiatric illnesses that have stopped me from progressing in life. It breaks my heart, and I'm starting to lose hope. To have your life mapped out and not have met a single goal or dream of yours is draining. I am starting to feel lost and purposeless. It's easy for people to say, "Don't give up," but I haven't given up since the day I was born; it's just getting harder and harder to "just keep swimming." I know women my age who are already married, have a career, and children whereas I have absolutely nothing going on for me. Whenever I try to get back up, I make progress, but then I fall right back down. It's exhausting, and I'm not sure how much more I can take before I stay down.
Thank you!!✌🏻
You crushed it on this one. I try relaying much of what you've touched on in this video to my kids, but you never know if it sinks in.
@@allenreid62 Thank you! That really means a lot coming from someone with your experience. Yesterday was quite a challenge with one tech issue after another-I had to re-record multiple times, lost audio, (that’s why it’s at night) and my editing software kept glitching. It was frustrating, but your support makes it all worthwhile. I truly appreciate it!
@@ChadLisonbee But you got it done when you could've easily said screw it.
@@allenreid62 amen brother!!!!🙏🏻
Just keep reiterating it in different ways and when the time is right. I’ve grown to be surprised how many helpful lessons my parents taught me, even when i was a spiteful troublemaker of a teenager 😂😂
Chad, thank you for this video. I’m 25 right now and everything you said resonated with me. Going to do my best to make the smart long term decisions and have a teachable mindset so that I can create a life I can be proud of in 20 years. Please know your efforts are greatly appreciated.
You got this! Thank you!✌🏻
I hope this finds those feeling lost, this will help many young guys out there.
Thank you!!!!🙏🏻
As a 22 year old about to get out of the military going through a rough time, thank you. I took notes.
I was once there brother. You will figure this out. Thank you for watching ✌🏻
turn 24 next month man this video really resonates. Appreciate you sharing your thoughts man 🙏 It means a lot
Thank you brother!! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
26 and been building my self as a single man. Had some mistakes but recoverable and in place to recover. Started my journey investing in myself at 19. Best decision I’ve ever made. To think at point they have been doubts but God has shown me examples over these pass 7 years of why the slower route was the better route.
Haven’t partied in 7 years - I’ve went out a handful of times but I mostly go out to network and still meet with women often. Actually higher quality women at times that are willing to build with me in some form. Keep working Jed.
Awesome dude! Thank you!✌🏻
I’m 49 and I’ve also learned the hard way. Great advice! Subscribed.
@@wvjon75 I appreciate the support! Thank you! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for this. I’m 31 I miss the feeling of immortality in my 20’s , but life has whopped me enough to have humility so I am gonna be able to grow properly in 30’s.
Sometimes we have to learn the hard way. The important thing is we learn. ✌🏻
Listening to you feels like i know you for ages and also feels like you’re talking about me
Thank you! It means the world to hear I’m able to connect with others.
I love that trail. Great bridge on one end, cool view of the refinery
It’s beautiful here man.
Thanks bro for this video, I'm in South Africa and your video touched me 😢🙏🏿 I'm 32yrs old,lost everything bcz of business, but thank you for those w
It amazes me to hear how far a person can reach in this day and age! It’s all about perspective. You only lost everything if you didn’t learn from it. Otherwise if you can shift your perspective, you’ll see it as an expensive lesson. Thank you! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
One of the most valuable youtube videos out there for people in their 20s or anyone that really wants to grow and prosper in life. I know from experience that it is actually hard, so hard to learn from someone else's experience, to believe that you shouldn't do what your arrogance tells you to do, what your gratification is lacking, what you desire. When you know how life should be lived yet still insist on living it on your own messed terms which oppose the real wisdom and truth. It is certainly hard to experience the depth of the words and it is only easy to say that "okay, thats how you had it, should not be how i have mine" while still behaving as if you listen to what the OG has to say, to what the wise speak. "The great is he who truly learns from others' mistakes" (i.e, not replicating what you know to be wrong, not insisting on going the wrong paths and just thinking arrogantly that you're paving a new path)
True words! Thank you for watching✌🏻
I’m almost 29, thank you for this
I’m. Glad you’re able to get something out of my thoughts and life experiences. I wish you the best in this game we call life!!! I’m here everyday! ✌🏻
Bro you’re such a g. I’m 22, moving to the Philippines to keep growing my business in January and I can relate to a lot of things you’ve said. Your eyes and voice show the kind of person you are and I truly thank you for sharing your experiences, you can be very proud.
My first ever comment on RUclips, I hope you read it because yeah I can see a father talking here and I respect that.
Keep posting and take care of yourself, thanks.
Thomas
I appreciate that! I read and reply to all comments. It’s getting harder but so far I’ve been getting it done. ✌🏻
I’m 29 god bless you
Thank you!✌🏻
Thank you for this. I'm 41 now with a family to take care of and had to learn a lot of these lessons the hardway since being on my own without much of a father figure since I was 14. Such good sage life advice. Hats off to you sir!
Thank you brother!! Thank you!🙏🏻
Find something you love to do and make it your job. If you love being a garbage collector, be a garbage collector. Disregard what others say and whether something is possible or not. Your life will be much, much better for it.
Thank you!✌🏻
Needed this man. I turned 23 yesterday and i've been struggling a lot. Thank you for your wisdom
Happy birthday!
@@ChadLisonbee Thank you!
18 years old seeing this video gives where that having this knowledge before men your age did at such a young age I’m extremely grateful. Going into life head on and focused and won’t stop until I get there 🙏🏽
Thank you!✌🏻
I just finished watching this video.
Im 28 and I feel lost. 1 thing that made me happy was hearing you say nutrition is most important because Ive always focused on the gym and nutrition since I was 12 so at least I have that.
I tried so many different things in my life that didnt work out, I was a pro athlete in my late teens and early 20s, at 25 I got my CDL (AZ here in Canada) and became a truck driver but left laster year because it was severelt jeopordizing my health.
I made good money, really good money for a year that I managed to buy my firsr car and survive being unemployed for 11 months now involuntarily of course.
Im thinking about going back to school for something but I dropped out of high school in my athlete days and part of me thinks its too late now.
When I have a mission I really do hone in and focus and go all in on it but when I dont have a direct goal infront of me I fall off the wagon really hard and end up wasting my time on video games and procrastinating.
I feel like I should have my life together by now at 28. Most my friends are married with careers some with kids.
With all of that, I’m confident you have what it takes to go where you want as long as you can keep yourself entertained and focused on the end goal. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@kinGsaL1515_not getting married with kids in your 20s might be the thing that could happen to you.
@@KJ-pu8dw why so?
@@ChadLisonbee Thank you!
Thank you for this! Might be late for my approaching 40, but I got the finance and bodybuilding down. Men helping men!
Fantastic! Let’s go dude. 💪🏻
What makes this video even more credible is the fact that you put nutrition first on the list. People, for some reason, think, or perhaps they are not thinking at all that they can put garbage in and get prestine out, and no matter what you say to them, nothing works. I guess it's true that we love our misery.
And misery loves company. I’ve been on both sides of it. Trash in and feeling like trash several times. This time I got my shit dialed in and I’m never going back. Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I wish I had learned this in my teens. I'm 31 now and trying my best to catch up. Much appreciated, my brother.
You got this! You still have plenty of time as long as you start now!
6. You don’t owe anyone anything, you don’t have anything to prove to anyone, & you don’t owe anyone any explanations.
7. Create more memories & put less focus on stuff; as you get older life speeds up & life passes you by faster. The days get longer, but the decades get shorter.
8. Don’t allow FEAR to be a shape-shifter in your life & don’t be scared of failure. Go BIG while you’re young & while you still can!
9. Life isn’t just about you, it’s much bigger than you and it paints a bigger picture. Your life includes you, but also about relationships, helping other people, establishing life for your children, giving & being generous, etc. That’s how you give back to Earth & back to humanity. The value that you provide to the humanity, society, & the world is the cap & will be the pathway to you making more money.
10. Be teachable & remain teachable; be a student throughout life. No matter how smart you are, remain humble and know that there’s always someone bigger, better, & smarter than you are. Happiness requires gratitude; be appreciative & grateful for what you DO have.
Yo. That is some legit note taking skills dude! I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!! 🙏🏻
@@ChadLisonbee thank you & no problem! I appreciate you for the game & wisdom you were dropping, God bless you & keep doing your thing! 💯💯
My man, doesn't matter what mistakes you've made except for the part it made you what you are today which is a good human being judging from the video. Don't forget to enjoy the journey and try not to stress about the finish line.
Absolutely. Thats why I say regret nothing, learn and don’t do it again. Thank you!✌🏻
Great video , greetings from Europe.
Thank you homie! It’s a wonderful time that we can communicate with others across the pond! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
I’m 27, I really needed this advice. I want to succeed in life, I want the best for my family, I want to create a beautiful life and thank you for sharing your wisdom. Lucky to have come across your video.
I’m glad to hear this video resonated with you. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
The dude just wrote 5 books in under 20 mins. Listen up, kids! Late 30's here. I see not one lie in this video.
Thank you for the support brother!
My girlfriend of 5 years "cheated on me"
We were middle and high school sweethearts I don't know what happened but around a week before our 5 year anniversary she wanted a "1 month break" a couple of weeks before that she became so distant and just yelled at me about everything, she said I didn't give her enough attention but I was the only one working hard to have us move out from our parents, I had so much trust and respect for her I didn't see how she would control everything in my life and distance me from my friends and family, the night of our anniversary I got access to her tik tok account where she was confessing her feelings to a co worker and thinking back she would always bring him up around me. Anyways I broke up with her last night because of that and she was telling me she broke up with me first, I don't even know if it counts as cheating but it sure hurts because I literally thought she was my everything. I don't know how to process the feelings I have, I feel betrayed and I can't eat or sleep, her parents liked me so much and are angry at her but she just seems so happy to be with that other guy and she is throwing away 5 years for him. Am I in the wrong at all? What should I do to cope? I’m 19 and she was my first everything and she just left without remorse
Brother that’s rough. I can’t say. I’m not her to give advice. There’s way too many moving parts in every situation for me to be able to legitimately be able to give anything. All I can do is offer my thoughts and experiences. I know you can get through it but that’s about all I can really say. I wish you the best of luck!
Grind hard bro she did u a favor
Forget about her. Never take a cheater back! Work on yourself, money, body and nutrition! Use the pain to grow.
Bro it's only marriage dont date.
Dating is for kids and you should know if you are dealing with a girl or a true women.
You dont need a girl in your life you need a women who know the hardship of life not some drunk teenager .
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Brother what a great video, sound life advice. I wish I could've given it more than a thumbs up.
Glad it was helpful! Thank you! ✌🏻
Thanks for this wisdom
I’m glad to hear you found value! I’m making new videos everyday. I appreciate you! I hope you have a wonderful day!
I am retired and your strategy mirrors my own. I was one of 6 children born in poverty. I wanted something different.
This strategy allowed me to have 6 wonderful children and more prosperity than I ever imagined. All by your same strategy.
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Ben, Tucson, Arizona.
@@benchavis1624 I love to hear success stories from those ahead of me. I appreciate you sir! ✌🏻
Keep up your good work. If you and your wife ever vacation in Tucson. We will host you as a complementary guest in one of our places located in Saguaro National Park west.
@ I appreciate that. We’re both from Arizona. She’s a Phoenix girl and I’m a Yuma guy. We’re actually just moved to Washington from Yuma about a year and a half ago. I have tons of friends in Tucson, Vail and Marana.
Thanks dad!
😂Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
You’re setting a path for boys who want to become proper men.
Unfortunately my father wasn’t in the picture in my transition from boy to man. But I’ve found honest men like yourself on this platform and couldn’t be more thankful for your insight.
Respect for sharing your failures. You are resilient.
I’m proud of you for where you are mentally. I hope when I reach your age someone can be proud of me and look up to me for the same knowledge.
Thank you Chad
Thank you!✌🏻
Another thing I have learnt from the vid, always say hello. With a smile.
100%. Pass those smiles on! They’re contagious! Thank you!✌🏻
Wise words, my friend. Turning 40 later this year and all that you said rings perfectly true to me.
Thank you!✌🏻
That was brilliant. 1979? Me too. Cheers!
Yes sir. 1979 sure was an amazing year!
Love how you always take the time to say hello as you walk by people, that’s awesome. So glad there are people out there that think like me and see the world the same way. It’s even better to hear someone else speak out your thoughts out loud. It helps us realign. Thank you soo soo much for your videos. A lot of your mindset and life experiences are very similar to mine and so many people out there.
Thank you ✌🏻
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I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!✌🏻
Maybe because the author is trash! Any thing good from a man of such character?
Amazing book?
Might be a promo bot guys
@ anything Trump is dead on arrival, even bots know this!
41 in a lot of chronic stomach pain all the time. I work full time and I am about to start another side hustle. I have 4 daughters and not leaving them something behind is not an option. I thought working a safe job was the thing to do. I was wrong. Great video my friend.
You got this! Thank you!✌🏻