By now I have watched most of your episodes since I found you not too long ago. I love your channel and your voice. But I am really curious about the wool BLAZERS you are wearing - they are so elegant! What brands are they? where can people find them? It would be great if you can share information on those.
I have done the one-year fast from buying clothes. What helped me adhere to my fast was realizing that there will always be something that I want. In fact, there is something that I always want, which means that if I don't buy an item now, I'll always find something later. This worked during the fast (there'll be plenty to like next year) and still works for me now.
Scholastica Cooney it might sound ridiculous, but I’ve watch a lot of videos on buying less, and I’ve never heard this idea put this way. Thank you for sharing!! Just what I needed to hear today. 😉
@@MrsOZ-nj5ty Here's what helped me: if you subscribe to retailers for deals emails, then unsubscribe. That, for me, was the biggest help in not being tempted. That may have been mentioned in the video - I don't recall, it's been years since I've watched it. As for paper catalogs, I'd leaf thru them and turn the pages down of what I liked, let the catalog sit for a week, and then pitch it w/o looking thru it again - b/c I couldn't remember what I wanted in there, anyway. Or, if it's easier for you, just pitch the catalog as soon as you get it. I am not a shopoholic in the first place, so these practices were not too difficult for me. Since it seems that perhaps you are a shopoholic based on your comment (and my apologies if I interpreted that incorrectly), I'd say for you, since reaching the goal is difficult for even one week, you need to take it one day at a time. Tell yourself "I am not going to buy anything today" and try to stick to that goal. Just take it one day at a time. Also, don't visit the web sites that provide temptation. Oh, and one last suggestion, which you've probably seen before: if you spy something you'd like, wait a couple of days before deciding to purchase; if the thought of the item has not been percolating in those two days, then you don't need and you don't really want it. Good luck!
Too many You Tubers...are really selling...hence the endless hauls..many don't disclose that these hauls are paid for ...most of it is smoke and mirrors all designed to sell sell sell. You Tubers aren't called " influencers" for nothing...they are highwaymen...waiting to take our money.. Your channel is a delight because it's not an endless round of selling ...and hauls...and fake.."oh this is my favourite " French Chic..dictates ...less is more. Quality over quantity. Wise words..
Such a soft-spoken, well-mannered woman! I like your entire persona and mantra on shopping. I hope that younger audiences will watch you more. The influence you create is practical yet refreshing.
Exactly! I live near an independent living facility, and see so many senior women hooked on shopping for things they don’t need. I know that knows no age , but it makes me realize we all need hobbies and passions to fulfill us, or we could likely fill our hours with mindless shopping and junk.
I don't recommend it because you would find yourself with few clothes, with the urgency to buy others and you would buy on impulse finding yourself from point to head. Work with what you already have and gradually add according to your needs. Remember that someone's basic pieces are not yours.
Any tips from the counselor you went to? I feel like I lack someone hold me accountable and someone to reach out like a support system.but I feel stupid asking someone as I am ashamed of it
@@MrsOZ-nj5ty I am not perfect, I'm still relapsing from time to time, but looking back on myself from 2 years ago I feel very proud of the long way I have come.
Audrey, I just donated 4 bags of clothes. I'm so upset with myself since these were mostly trend items. What I'm left with are the classics and essentials. I saw all the physical waste and monetary waste. Thank you for this video. Your vlogs have actually had a mindful influence on how I shop and curate my wardrobe. XOXO
Dear Audrey, Your video could not have spoken to me more powerfully. Thank you for your insight, wisdom and ability to communicate this truth. My "no buy" spree began when I planned to move. Looking at all the stuff I had was sobering. Ultimately, I asked myself "If your house was on fire, what would you take with you?" Asking this question, although harsh, did reveal to me what truly matters (clothing or otherwise). I have since sold or donated items that never brought me a spark of joy (visual or physical). This has been therapeutic. It was my way of helping my home "lose weight" and refocus on the FEW items that I truly loved. You are a joy to watch, listen and learn from. Please continue to teach us your gentle wisdom. Thank you xoxoxo
Another great video, Audrey - thanks! On this topic, I recently heard someone say "We all like shiny, new things... but, once the shiny and new wears off the latest item, we want something else shiny and new." I think just being conscious of this, can sometimes help the shopping urge.
Very encouraging. I've built up my wardrobe and gone through my closet to cull what I don't really wear...things that were on sale but I didn't really love. Now I'll get it all beautifully organized... instead of buying more. Great advice. Thanks 😊
I'm 44 years korean woman. You are my teacher of noble woman. I introduced your channel to my husband, and my friend. They agreed your opinion and styling. Thank you so much. You are my angel to beautiful life.
Hi Audrey, this is a very helpful video , sometimes i feel tempted to buy things that i dont need. Right away i remember you and the 10 essentials pieces that you thought me to have in my closet. If i realize that i dont need it , i dont buy it. I just wrote down the pieces that i need from that 10 items list and buy only what i need from that list.Thank you somuch! You are amazing.💝
After my 2 retired friends and I meet for lunch, we going shopping, BUT we have a $20 rule. None of us can purchase any item or items over $20. Of course, we make sure we go on the days that our regular stores are having sales which has been a blessing to us as retired persons. Many times we come away without purchasing anything but we often got ideas of how to reorganize our clothing we already have. All our trips have been worth the time and energy as well as sealing our great friendship!!
I've stopped watching the "haul" videos. I did love them -- it was so much fun --but watching all the "stuff" just became a turn-off. Plus, I had already carefully edited and organized my fall/winter/holiday wardrobe ( thanks to some of your tips). I saved what I loved, consigned and earned $950, and donated what didn't sell. I'm squashing my shopping urge by carefully putting away my holiday clothes, while remembering how much fun I had wearing them! And, I'm reviewing my Spring/Summer clothes and planning outfits. I had edited/curated that last year before packing it away, so I am excited to see my "new" wardrobe! Thanks for sharing your insights!
“Do I really need that sweater”? Makeup? Necklace? Gadget? ... This is something I’m asking myself a lot the last few years and it is definitely helping me cut down on buying things I do not need! Falling back in love with what we already own is a wonderful concept. Wish list too. Browsing. Oh my gosh browsing is the devil! Watching a new television show is a great idea to curb boredom as long as it’s not QVC (my favorite channel) I’ve still not gotten the courage to block it. Ha. De cluttering is a personal favorite for me as I love to organize. Love your ideas. You are an inspiration for me- thanks so much!
Whenever I get the urge to shop I just remember... I don't have any money! lol Thanks for the video on folding (or rolling rather) your sweaters. Nice.
Yes, I agree with all you have said in this video. I use several of these tips already and recommend them, it is to easy to shop thoughtlessly. Audrey, you have great insight into this subject and have presented the information quite clearly!
I discovered her channel a couple of weeks ago and I am really surprised on how practical the advice is, even if, like myself, your personal style is quite different from Audrey. It has helped me dress and shop much more confidently and she is a pleasure to watch.
Audrey, Just wanted to take a moment to tell you how much I appreciate your new content. I have been working on many of these same things and love the tips you have been sharing with us. Thanks again, Linda
You're correct on all of your points. I would like to say that you do look wonderful in everything. I'm still struggling with finding my style so I don't look too young or too old. It's hard.
Well Coney, watching you got me obsessed with cashmere sweaters, I never needed them because I thought they were itchy (I cannot stand wool sweaters or anything that may be itchy!) you got me curious about cashmere and now I have 2 cashmere sweaters that I love and that I know I will use year after year! I have you to thank!
As I watched this video, all of the impulse clothing that I’ve purchased popped into my head...things that I rarely wear! Thanks Audrey for the inspiration and plan for the future! Great video as always!
I can't tell you how much I enjoy your videos! I've downloaded this video and I listen to it whenever I find myself mindlessly shopping. You've saved me a bundle!
This is a great video reminder of how easy it is to be influenced into buying more than you need or really even want. As the new year is upon us I am going through my email to unsubscribe to the many clothing sites that are sending ads to tempt me every day, often multiple times a day. You have inspired me to take a break from on line shopping until I figure out what I really want to add to my wardrobe. Thank you Audrey!
I've been online shopping for my 23-yr old daughter-in-law who needs work wear for her TA job w/special needs kids in the rural Colorado Rockies. Not many stores there and she hasn't got a car. She's got lots of casual and snowboarding clothes, but little for indoor professional ensembles. Thank goodness for your CAPSULES! They are my guidelines for saving time & $$ to shop for her. She loves my style, but I tell her it's really Audrey's influence!
Such great ideas! One thing I like to do is to learn more about how to care for my clothes so that they last as long as possible. It is a really interesting rabbit trail, And it doesn’t usually end in a purchase.
Audrey, Thank you so much for this video! I am currently trying to. maintain a no-buy. My spending got completely out of control over the last few years and I am in the process of trying to correct that. It is not a good feeling when your house is overwhelmed by stuff. I think of all the places I could have travelled to instead of accumulating all this unnecessary stuff. Your video really resonated with me on how it is all a marketing ploy and that our lives are much better just having the stuff that we really love. So, thank you again! Now I need to figure out how to declutter :)
Thanks for creating this video. Your comments are so true and it relates to the pressure women sometimes feel to stay up to date and keep buying more clothes etc. when we might already have it.
O my! This was exactly what I needed to listen to. I've recently realized that I've finally obtained my wardrobe staples and within a year so I've taken my time in purchasing. But even now I find myself in Marshalls, TJMaxx still shopping and I don't need anything more. I think shopping just became a daily habit. Ugh. Thanks! Also, I think you're lovely, classy.
I don’t have a problem shopping. In fact, until I stumbled onto your channel and a few other style you tubers, I’ve always hated shopping because I knew nothing about my colors, body type, quality clothing and forget knowing about a wardrobe capsule! However food is my issue (I’m a chef) and I eat when I’m bored. I will definitely use your advice about doing something positive when impulsive urges (grazing, nibbling, bingeing) hit me. Love your channel and your energy!
Gold knowledge for me ! Thank you Audrey you’re a real gem in RUclips And I love that you don’t push people to like and subscribe. You are the finest even in that
Love your fashion/style philosophy, Audrey! I have an online browsing/shopping habit that I know deep down is unhealthy. Lots of $ wasted and energy on making returns on impulse buys. Thanks for your thoughtful words, and for not being heavy-handed - it's re-inspired me to become more aware of how/where I direct my energy. 💜
Because of your channel, I wore a scarf I bought for my first job in 1980 and hadn't worn since. I, too, have a wish list but have held off splurging now because I have a "wish list" that includes travel and courses I want to take.
Great video & tips Audrey! I just had my Birthday and recieved a gift card for a clothing store. For the first time ever I didn't feel the need to go straight out and spend it. I looked online and they didn't have anything in stock that I'd already identified that I needed for my winter capsule. So I am saving the gift card for spring. Love how much easier having a capsule wardrobe makes my style and my life!
Wow Audrey, this video was on another level in terms of creativity and production values. I really admire the way you have consistently upskilled yourself and given us more. Hats off. You inspire in more ways than one.
You are an absolute delight, Audrey! I shared one of your videos with my daughter and now she is a huge fan, as well! Keep posting! We all benefit from your wisdom, insight and enthusiasm! Much love from Annecy, France! 👗👖❤️
Audrey, I just love watching your videos...you have such a good, solid sense of quality fashion and how to pair items together that make your outfits look like a million dollars! I especially love the advice that you give in this particular video, I needed a gentle reminder to keep my eye on the prize, and to stay focused on my overall goal...which is to build my wardrobe with classic and quality pieces, that never go out of style, as well as stand the test of time, in lieu of wasting my money on shiny and trendy pieces that don't have the quality factor or the staying power.😊🌸
Audrey, you are a really wise person !!! Your videos are amazing and though I'm more than twice your age I get so much inspiration and positiv input from you. Thnks a lot !!! Love from Austria !!!
The closet organizer apps made a HUGE difference for me. You can search and find many apps like that, and get one that you like. What it does is to let you upload all your clothing items on the app, specifying what it is, its color, brand, season, etc. Because we don't all have a super organized wardrobe and some of us don't have the space to hang every piece so they're easy to see and find(my clothes are mostly folded and put as different category in a Ikea hanging organizer), so the app lets you to search for a particular clothing item easily, and it lets you view your clothing items by category, colors or seasons. You can also combine your clothes to create different looks and put them in the build in calendar so you know which day you wore what, it's extremely helpful for work if you don't want to repeat your looks too much. It also has a statistics section where you can see how many times you have worn each clothing piece or a look, it helps you to know what your clothing preferences so you can invest in the pieces that you wear more often and are more versatile. It also let's you see the clothing items that you don't wear enough or at all, then you can decide if you want to wear them more often or get rid of them. It's a lot of work having to take pictures of your clothes, and upload them one by one and specify what they are. It took me about a week to do everything. But once it's done it makes your life so so much easier. It also makes me realize how much I already own, and when I want to buy something I can always go to the app and see if I don't already have a lot of similar items. It's a late comment but I hope more people see it. I don't say that a lot but the difference it made is life changing. I spent way less time trying to think what to wear and trying to remember what I wore last week, getting dressed is so much easier and fun now, and I really wish more people will benefit from it
Audrey, your videos are a breath of fresh air. Besides the great content without trying to sell us anything, you have a lovely voice. Your warmth and intelligence really show through your tone, diction, articulation and smile. I feel like I'm learning some good lessons without receiving criticism or condescension. You're a great communicator.
What I like to do is have my basics wardrobe and then get less expensive trendy pieces that will still go with them but not stay in my closet forever. I donate anything that's still good quality to my churches refugee center.
You are absolutely changing the way I see and feel about clothing and shining through my own style. Caring about quality and properly taking care of special pieces is not something I've really done but you make me want to change my approach towards clothing. I cleaned up my closet of the cheap, not super flattering pieces I owned and will start fresh (slowly but wisely) I'm also addicted to browsing, I'm very good at finding new needs in my life You are addressing it in such a calm and positive way in this video . This is extremely inspiring and i cant be thankful enough. I found your channel yesterday and I'm deeply thankful for it. THANK YOU. Greetings from Montreal xxx
Audrey Coyle, thank you for sharing your practice wisdom and tips. It has changed my fashion world. I’m a real fan who has benefited from you and your channel.
Great tips, I used to be the biggest shopaholic but cultivating a more minimal wardrobe has pretty much stopped all that. It has also made it more fun and easier to get dressed in the morning! Channels like urs have really helped teach and inspire me 🤩
I've been so inspired by your channel. Sometime last year I started to really revamp my closet and I've discovered or should I say confirmed "my style" so now I'm really picky about what I buy. I don't shop nearly as often and when I do it's almost always second hand since most of my style is not what's "on trend" anyway. Only rarely do I go out and purchase brand new clothes anymore. And when I do add to my closet I try to get rid of at least one item as well - at some point that will stop or at least slow down since I'm shopping less but also because now my closet is starting to have only items that I love and will wear for longer. This was another great video - thank you.
I really needed this, I shop every time I feel a little sad or irritated. My shopping definitely gets triggered by all those marketing emails/ads/ Instagram and then I too scroll the web just to get a “feel” of what’s new. I’m starting now by removing my credit cards from all the shopping websites.
Thank you Audrey. This video was so well put together. The tip I like the most., Don’t think you can’t shop, Think what you can do instead. That’s positive thinking.
You have really changed my life Audrey. The comment I’m feeling free is so true! I no longer feel stressed putting outfits together. Thank you! Love you loads 😘😘😘
Goals and lists are two of my favorite things in life. 👏🏻😂 For the past two years I’ve been refocusing on my personal style. It’s such a fun journey!! I had the opposite problem. I would wear things until they died. I cringe to think of some of the sweat stained, paint speckled clothing I wore out and about in my twenties😖😂 Thank you for another great video
This is great advice. I also realized the times I wanted to purchase SOMETHING that "feeling" could be supplanted with a walk which is so much better for me. Plus, walking is free!😁
Thank you so much for this thoughtful video. I am newly committed to a 'no shopping spree' over the next year. I have started decluttering and organizing my wardrobe and found many pieces that I have forgotten that I have mostly because I can't see what I have. I am planning to 'shop my closet' and fall back in love with pieces that I had purchased and also find new ways of putting things together. My goal is to save to 'special items' that I have been wanting to purchase but were beyond my reach due to the amount of 'mindless shopping' I had been engaging in and also travel and building my savings. I think that Pintrest will be a great way to learn to shop my closet and to get inspiration for my wishlist that I am saving for. Thank you for your realistic advice. I can tell that you have learned from previous 'hindering habits' and am happy that I can learn from your advice. Thanks again.
So true, less is more! I bought clothes over the years and never worn them but at the time thought I just had to have them! We all reach for our favourite pieces time and time again and definitely don't need an endless range of clothes in our wardrobe. Great video 😄
So glad this bubbled up on my home page. I recently had weight loss surgery & when I reach my goal weight I will have to replace or tailor nearly my entire wardrobe. I love the idea of being intentional about that.
Amazing channel! I start to subscribe your channel last week and now I can't stop watching your videos. Your channel makes me incorporate 'values' in clothes. You just made me realize to choose quality than quantity because I tend to be able to get more clothes with my limited money. Now, I prefer saving my money first while making wishlist then shop consciously in the big sale season for good pieces with great deals. Thank you, Audrey..
@audrey coyne I discovered you a couple of days ago and I’m so obsessed with your channel! I must say I love the sound of your voice. You’re so sweet and genuine and I honestly feel engaged in every video! You have great content and exactly what I need to help me get my life together! LoL Keep them coming!
Audrey, thank you for sharing this healthy approach/ antidote to all of the unnecessary shopping temptations to which we can all be inundated. I will definitely consult your decluttering videos. I love your content!
zero dislike. let's keep it that way please. I just recently discovered your channel and you have been way way more helpful than nay RUclipsr I have stumbled upon.
Although I can afford buying more clothes, I am recycling my old clothes. I have realized I have a lot of clothes that are trendy this year. As I have lost some weight I am modifying some and really as you said, don't feel the need to shop a lot.
Browsing or window shopping the trends can occasionally be fun for me as it gives me new inspiration, but I always make it a rule to stick to my list and my budget whenever I go out shopping in person or online. Also, I’m totally behind you on unsubscribing from marketing emails, Audrey! It feels better to only get emails from places or companies that are worth my attention or are of high importance in general. :)
Love this video! You did an excellent job and it's so inspiring! I do thrift shop as a hobby though because I like the thrill of the hunt to find something truly incredible. I only buy if I love something 100% and I know I can wear it with at least 3 other items in my closet, and I can see myself still wearing in 10 years.
Pip's Closet I confess that I’ve been to 3 or 4 thrift stores in the past few weeks hoping to score someone’s Konmarie donations. Six if you count kid consignment shops. Lol! I only bought a cashmere scarf and little black dress, so I feel like I did great! (Ok, and two pairs of pants for kids!)
Very well said Audrey 👍 l have been trying to abide by these rules now. I realized end is last year, that I was getting in to this mode of impulse buying a lot & so this year I have decided and set goal for myself that I'll suppress this urge and not buy any clothes, shoes, handbags or jewellery for myself. And I am thankful to such RUclipsrs like you & Alyssa Beltempo who inspire me in doing so. Honestly I have started shopping my own closet now and it's so fun. Thanks so much for all the tips 😊
Thank you so much for watching! I’m slowly but surely trying to reply to all the amazing comments you’ve left ❤️❤️
By now I have watched most of your episodes since I found you not too long ago. I love your channel and your voice. But I am really curious about the wool BLAZERS you are wearing - they are so elegant! What brands are they? where can people find them? It would be great if you can share information on those.
You are a constant and graceful source of elegance, inspiration and knowledge!
I have done the one-year fast from buying clothes. What helped me adhere to my fast was realizing that there will always be something that I want. In fact, there is something that I always want, which means that if I don't buy an item now, I'll always find something later. This worked during the fast (there'll be plenty to like next year) and still works for me now.
Remembering this has helped me a lot too.
Scholastica Cooney it might sound ridiculous, but I’ve watch a lot of videos on buying less, and I’ve never heard this idea put this way. Thank you for sharing!! Just what I needed to hear today. 😉
How do you do 1year? I keep setting a goal of no shop 2 weeks and I fail within 1 week each time.
@@MrsOZ-nj5ty Here's what helped me: if you subscribe to retailers for deals emails, then unsubscribe. That, for me, was the biggest help in not being tempted. That may have been mentioned in the video - I don't recall, it's been years since I've watched it. As for paper catalogs, I'd leaf thru them and turn the pages down of what I liked, let the catalog sit for a week, and then pitch it w/o looking thru it again - b/c I couldn't remember what I wanted in there, anyway. Or, if it's easier for you, just pitch the catalog as soon as you get it. I am not a shopoholic in the first place, so these practices were not too difficult for me. Since it seems that perhaps you are a shopoholic based on your comment (and my apologies if I interpreted that incorrectly), I'd say for you, since reaching the goal is difficult for even one week, you need to take it one day at a time. Tell yourself "I am not going to buy anything today" and try to stick to that goal. Just take it one day at a time. Also, don't visit the web sites that provide temptation. Oh, and one last suggestion, which you've probably seen before: if you spy something you'd like, wait a couple of days before deciding to purchase; if the thought of the item has not been percolating in those two days, then you don't need and you don't really want it. Good luck!
@@scholasticacooney6830 thank you. I will take note
Too many You Tubers...are really selling...hence the endless hauls..many don't disclose that these hauls are paid for ...most of it is smoke and mirrors all designed to sell sell sell. You Tubers aren't called " influencers" for nothing...they are highwaymen...waiting to take our money..
Your channel is a delight because it's not an endless round of selling ...and hauls...and fake.."oh this is my favourite "
French Chic..dictates ...less is more. Quality over quantity.
Wise words..
Agree!
Audrey is classy and elegant. Not only her clothing style but her character and personality.
Such a soft-spoken, well-mannered woman! I like your entire persona and mantra on shopping. I hope that younger audiences will watch you more. The influence you create is practical yet refreshing.
Mass consumerism. ☺ It is a serious issue. Mindless shopping. Thanks for sharing Audrey.
Exactly! I live near an independent living facility, and see so many senior women hooked on shopping for things they don’t need. I know that knows no age , but it makes me realize we all need hobbies and passions to fulfill us, or we could likely fill our hours with mindless shopping and junk.
Could you please do a basics/essentials video? For someone who wants to start over and jsut have the must-have pieces as a base?
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Yes I just found you and this would be very helpful!!
I don't recommend it because you would find yourself with few clothes, with the urgency to buy others and you would buy on impulse finding yourself from point to head.
Work with what you already have and gradually add according to your needs.
Remember that someone's basic pieces are not yours.
Just saw my therapist for my compulsive shopping problem today and opened youtube to see this - making my problem seem not that unsolvable anymore
Good luck Lizzie, I want to do it too.I 🥰
Any tips from the counselor you went to? I feel like I lack someone hold me accountable and someone to reach out like a support system.but I feel stupid asking someone as I am ashamed of it
@@jessicablack6473 It's a long fight but totally worth it. Thank you Jessica, I hope it's going better for you too!
@@MrsOZ-nj5ty I am not perfect, I'm still relapsing from time to time, but looking back on myself from 2 years ago I feel very proud of the long way I have come.
'One in, one out' rule is excellent when a person is able to upgrade an item to a better/higher quality.
Audrey, I just donated 4 bags of clothes. I'm so upset with myself since these were mostly trend items. What I'm left with are the classics and essentials. I saw all the physical waste and monetary waste. Thank you for this video. Your vlogs have actually had a mindful influence on how I shop and curate my wardrobe. XOXO
I love this. Thanks for sharing.
Dear Audrey, Your video could not have spoken to me more powerfully. Thank you for your insight, wisdom and ability to communicate this truth.
My "no buy" spree began when I planned to move. Looking at all the stuff I had was sobering. Ultimately, I asked myself "If your house was on fire, what would you take with you?" Asking this question, although harsh, did reveal to me what truly matters (clothing or otherwise).
I have since sold or donated items that never brought me a spark of joy (visual or physical).
This has been therapeutic. It was my way of helping my home "lose weight" and refocus on the FEW items that I truly loved.
You are a joy to watch, listen and learn from.
Please continue to teach us your gentle wisdom.
Thank you xoxoxo
Samira Tahtawi thank you SO MUCH for leaving such a wonderful, heart felt comment! You’ve inspired me and I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
I used to shop on my lunch break. I now do a yoga class during lunch break...and the urge to shop has vanished :)
You are so soft-spoken, articulate, feminine, informative and genuine. It was such a refreshing video presentation.
I always knew you were the ultimate in elegance, but you are now exceeding yourself!
Another great video, Audrey - thanks! On this topic, I recently heard someone say "We all like shiny, new things... but, once the shiny and new wears off the latest item, we want something else shiny and new." I think just being conscious of this, can sometimes help the shopping urge.
Audrey, this video is a gem! And your new light blue sweater really lights up your complexion. Beautiful choice.
Very encouraging. I've built up my wardrobe and gone through my closet to cull what I don't really wear...things that were on sale but I didn't really love. Now I'll get it all beautifully organized... instead of buying more. Great advice. Thanks 😊
I'm 44 years korean woman. You are my teacher of noble woman. I introduced your channel to my husband, and my friend. They agreed your opinion and styling. Thank you so much. You are my angel to beautiful life.
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
The blue sweater so so attractive on you. Enjoy your videos.
Your voice is so relaxing and pleasant to listen to 👍🏾
Hi Audrey, this is a very helpful video , sometimes i feel tempted to buy things that i dont need. Right away i remember you and the 10 essentials pieces that you thought me to have in my closet. If i realize that i dont need it , i dont buy it. I just wrote down the pieces that i need from that 10 items list and buy only what i need from that list.Thank you somuch! You are amazing.💝
After my 2 retired friends and I meet for lunch, we going shopping, BUT we have a $20 rule. None of us can purchase any item or items over $20. Of course, we make sure we go on the days that our regular stores are having sales which has been a blessing to us as retired persons. Many times we come away without purchasing anything but we often got ideas of how to reorganize our clothing we already have. All our trips have been worth the time and energy as well as sealing our great friendship!!
Love your videos. I'm so much happier since I started my minimalist journey. x
Me too!
So late to this vid, but that blue color makes your eyes just sparkle! You are a beautiful and calming soul. I love this message 💕
I’ve cluttered up my closet so badly that I’ve had to implement the “one in, 5 out” rule! 😐 It’s helping me weed out the unnecessary less worn pieces👍
I've stopped watching the "haul" videos. I did love them -- it was so much fun --but watching all the "stuff" just became a turn-off. Plus, I had already carefully edited and organized my fall/winter/holiday wardrobe ( thanks to some of your tips). I saved what I loved, consigned and earned $950, and donated what didn't sell. I'm squashing my shopping urge by carefully putting away my holiday clothes, while remembering how much fun I had wearing them! And, I'm reviewing my Spring/Summer clothes and planning outfits. I had edited/curated that last year before packing it away, so I am excited to see my "new" wardrobe! Thanks for sharing your insights!
Loved the video. I have unsubscribed from retail emails and it definitely helps!
“Do I really need that sweater”? Makeup? Necklace? Gadget? ... This is something I’m asking myself a lot the last few years and it is definitely helping me cut down on buying things I do not need! Falling back in love with what we already own is a wonderful concept. Wish list too. Browsing. Oh my gosh browsing is the devil! Watching a new television show is a great idea to curb boredom as long as it’s not QVC (my favorite channel) I’ve still not gotten the courage to block it. Ha. De cluttering is a personal favorite for me as I love to organize. Love your ideas. You are an inspiration for me- thanks so much!
Whenever I get the urge to shop I just remember... I don't have any money! lol Thanks for the video on folding (or rolling rather) your sweaters. Nice.
Yes, I agree with all you have said in this video. I use several of these tips already and recommend them, it is to easy to shop thoughtlessly. Audrey, you have great insight into this subject and have presented the information quite clearly!
I discovered her channel a couple of weeks ago and I am really surprised on how practical the advice is, even if, like myself, your personal style is quite different from Audrey. It has helped me dress and shop much more confidently and she is a pleasure to watch.
Audrey, Just wanted to take a moment to tell you how much I appreciate your new content. I have been working on many of these same things and love the tips you have been sharing with us. Thanks again, Linda
Love your videos! Your videos have inspired me more than any others on RUclips.
Leni R thank you so much! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much Audrey ! I love love love your videos ..
So true.
You're correct on all of your points. I would like to say that you do look wonderful in everything. I'm still struggling with finding my style so I don't look too young or too old. It's hard.
Well Coney, watching you got me obsessed with cashmere sweaters, I never needed them because I thought they were itchy (I cannot stand wool sweaters or anything that may be itchy!) you got me curious about cashmere and now I have 2 cashmere sweaters that I love and that I know I will use year after year! I have you to thank!
As I watched this video, all of the impulse clothing that I’ve purchased popped into my head...things that I rarely wear! Thanks Audrey for the inspiration and plan for the future! Great video as always!
I can't tell you how much I enjoy your videos! I've downloaded this video and I listen to it whenever I find myself mindlessly shopping. You've saved me a bundle!
You are the cutest , sweetest gal on RUclips! Love to watch your channel to listen to you talk , as well as to learn new tips!
I have found the one in one out rule is hugely helpful to me in order to cut back on shopping,plus the Konmari method.
Do you have a video on hair care and product? Your hair is so healthy and beautiful! 💝
This is a great video reminder of how easy it is to be influenced into buying more than you need or really even want. As the new year is upon us I am going through my email to unsubscribe to the many clothing sites that are sending ads to tempt me every day, often multiple times a day. You have inspired me to take a break from on line shopping until I figure out what I really want to add to my wardrobe. Thank you Audrey!
I've been online shopping for my 23-yr old daughter-in-law who needs work wear for her TA job w/special needs kids in the rural Colorado Rockies. Not many stores there and she hasn't got a car. She's got lots of casual and snowboarding clothes, but little for indoor professional ensembles. Thank goodness for your CAPSULES! They are my guidelines for saving time & $$ to shop for her. She loves my style, but I tell her it's really Audrey's influence!
Such great ideas! One thing I like to do is to learn more about how to care for my clothes so that they last as long as possible. It is a really interesting rabbit trail, And it doesn’t usually end in a purchase.
Audrey, Thank you so much for this video! I am currently trying to. maintain a no-buy. My spending got completely out of control over the last few years and I am in the process of trying to correct that. It is not a good feeling when your house is overwhelmed by stuff. I think of all the places I could have travelled to instead of accumulating all this unnecessary stuff. Your video really resonated with me on how it is all a marketing ploy and that our lives are much better just having the stuff that we really love. So, thank you again! Now I need to figure out how to declutter :)
redirect the energy is the coolest advice - reading is always a cool thing and makes your skin glow, eyes sparkle
Thanks for creating this video. Your comments are so true and it relates to the pressure women sometimes feel to stay up to date and keep buying more clothes etc. when we might already have it.
How did you know I needed this?! These are really great tips.
O my! This was exactly what I needed to listen to. I've recently realized that I've finally obtained my wardrobe staples and within a year so I've taken my time in purchasing. But even now I find myself in Marshalls, TJMaxx still shopping and I don't need anything more. I think shopping just became a daily habit. Ugh. Thanks! Also, I think you're lovely, classy.
I don’t have a problem shopping. In fact, until I stumbled onto your channel and a few other style you tubers, I’ve always hated shopping because I knew nothing about my colors, body type, quality clothing and forget knowing about a wardrobe capsule! However food is my issue (I’m a chef) and I eat when I’m bored. I will definitely use your advice about doing something positive when impulsive urges (grazing, nibbling, bingeing) hit me. Love your channel and your energy!
Gold knowledge for me ! Thank you Audrey you’re a real gem in RUclips
And I love that you don’t push people to like and subscribe. You are the finest even in that
Love your fashion/style philosophy, Audrey! I have an online browsing/shopping habit that I know deep down is unhealthy. Lots of $ wasted and energy on making returns on impulse buys. Thanks for your thoughtful words, and for not being heavy-handed - it's re-inspired me to become more aware of how/where I direct my energy. 💜
Because of your channel, I wore a scarf I bought for my first job in 1980 and hadn't worn since. I, too, have a wish list but have held off splurging now because I have a "wish list" that includes travel and courses I want to take.
Great video & tips Audrey! I just had my Birthday and recieved a gift card for a clothing store. For the first time ever I didn't feel the need to go straight out and spend it. I looked online and they didn't have anything in stock that I'd already identified that I needed for my winter capsule. So I am saving the gift card for spring. Love how much easier having a capsule wardrobe makes my style and my life!
Wow Audrey, this video was on another level in terms of creativity and production values. I really admire the way you have consistently upskilled yourself and given us more. Hats off. You inspire in more ways than one.
These are very good tips to curb the shopping urge, some of which I have naturally adopted. Thank you so much Audrey.
You are an absolute delight, Audrey! I shared one of your videos with my daughter and now she is a huge fan, as well! Keep posting! We all benefit from your wisdom, insight and enthusiasm! Much love from Annecy, France! 👗👖❤️
Audrey, I just love watching your videos...you have such a good, solid sense of quality fashion and how to pair items together that make your outfits look like a million dollars! I especially love the advice that you give in this particular video, I needed a gentle reminder to keep my eye on the prize, and to stay focused on my overall goal...which is to build my wardrobe with classic and quality pieces, that never go out of style, as well as stand the test of time, in lieu of wasting my money on shiny and trendy pieces that don't have the quality factor or the staying power.😊🌸
I'm working on not purchasing fast fashion and keep with classic items
You have a very "healthy" sense of minimalism! You're very realistic & I enjoy your videos, esthetic, and sensibility!
Audrey, you are a really wise person !!! Your videos are amazing and though I'm more than twice your age I get so much inspiration and positiv input from you. Thnks a lot !!! Love from Austria !!!
The closet organizer apps made a HUGE difference for me. You can search and find many apps like that, and get one that you like. What it does is to let you upload all your clothing items on the app, specifying what it is, its color, brand, season, etc. Because we don't all have a super organized wardrobe and some of us don't have the space to hang every piece so they're easy to see and find(my clothes are mostly folded and put as different category in a Ikea hanging organizer), so the app lets you to search for a particular clothing item easily, and it lets you view your clothing items by category, colors or seasons. You can also combine your clothes to create different looks and put them in the build in calendar so you know which day you wore what, it's extremely helpful for work if you don't want to repeat your looks too much. It also has a statistics section where you can see how many times you have worn each clothing piece or a look, it helps you to know what your clothing preferences so you can invest in the pieces that you wear more often and are more versatile. It also let's you see the clothing items that you don't wear enough or at all, then you can decide if you want to wear them more often or get rid of them.
It's a lot of work having to take pictures of your clothes, and upload them one by one and specify what they are. It took me about a week to do everything. But once it's done it makes your life so so much easier. It also makes me realize how much I already own, and when I want to buy something I can always go to the app and see if I don't already have a lot of similar items.
It's a late comment but I hope more people see it. I don't say that a lot but the difference it made is life changing. I spent way less time trying to think what to wear and trying to remember what I wore last week, getting dressed is so much easier and fun now, and I really wish more people will benefit from it
Audrey, your videos are a breath of fresh air. Besides the great content without trying to sell us anything, you have a lovely voice. Your warmth and intelligence really show through your tone, diction, articulation and smile. I feel like I'm learning some good lessons without receiving criticism or condescension. You're a great communicator.
While I have always been a compulsive shopper I am now trying to be a more conscious shopper setting goals might be a great idea for me
Dear Audrey, thank you for being such a nice and wise friend encouraging to be and act better ❤️
What I like to do is have my basics wardrobe and then get less expensive trendy pieces that will still go with them but not stay in my closet forever. I donate anything that's still good quality to my churches refugee center.
You are absolutely changing the way I see and feel about clothing and shining through my own style. Caring about quality and properly taking care of special pieces is not something I've really done but you make me want to change my approach towards clothing. I cleaned up my closet of the cheap, not super flattering pieces I owned and will start fresh (slowly but wisely) I'm also addicted to browsing, I'm very good at finding new needs in my life
You are addressing it in such a calm and positive way in this video . This is extremely inspiring and i cant be thankful enough. I found your channel yesterday and I'm deeply thankful for it. THANK YOU. Greetings from Montreal xxx
Audrey Coyle, thank you for sharing your practice wisdom and tips. It has changed my fashion world. I’m a real fan who has benefited from you and your channel.
Great tips, I used to be the biggest shopaholic but cultivating a more minimal wardrobe has pretty much stopped all that. It has also made it more fun and easier to get dressed in the morning! Channels like urs have really helped teach and inspire me 🤩
I've been so inspired by your channel. Sometime last year I started to really revamp my closet and I've discovered or should I say confirmed "my style" so now I'm really picky about what I buy. I don't shop nearly as often and when I do it's almost always second hand since most of my style is not what's "on trend" anyway. Only rarely do I go out and purchase brand new clothes anymore. And when I do add to my closet I try to get rid of at least one item as well - at some point that will stop or at least slow down since I'm shopping less but also because now my closet is starting to have only items that I love and will wear for longer. This was another great video - thank you.
I don't need a new sweater but definitely need your gorgeous wooden dresser.
I recently discovered you and I am loving your videos. This one is a gem!
I really needed this, I shop every time I feel a little sad or irritated. My shopping definitely gets triggered by all those marketing emails/ads/ Instagram and then I too scroll the web just to get a “feel” of what’s new. I’m starting now by removing my credit cards from all the shopping websites.
You have really helped me find my personal style, shop more thoughtfully and effectively, and feel more content with my wardrobe in general. Lyn
I love your simplicity❤ I find it so inspiring the way you combine elegance and simplicity.
Thank you for this. I am clearing my closet of impulsive purchases and keeping classic pieces.
Thank you Audrey. This video was so well put together. The tip I like the most., Don’t think you can’t shop, Think what you can do instead. That’s positive thinking.
You have really changed my life Audrey. The comment I’m feeling free is so true! I no longer feel stressed putting outfits together. Thank you! Love you loads 😘😘😘
Goals and lists are two of my favorite things in life. 👏🏻😂 For the past two years I’ve been refocusing on my personal style. It’s such a fun journey!! I had the opposite problem. I would wear things until they died. I cringe to think of some of the sweat stained, paint speckled clothing I wore out and about in my twenties😖😂 Thank you for another great video
This is great advice. I also realized the times I wanted to purchase SOMETHING that "feeling" could be supplanted with a walk which is so much better for me. Plus, walking is free!😁
Thank you so much for this thoughtful video. I am newly committed to a 'no shopping spree' over the next year. I have started decluttering and organizing my wardrobe and found many pieces that I have forgotten that I have mostly because I can't see what I have. I am planning to 'shop my closet' and fall back in love with pieces that I had purchased and also find new ways of putting things together. My goal is to save to 'special items' that I have been wanting to purchase but were beyond my reach due to the amount of 'mindless shopping' I had been engaging in and also travel and building my savings. I think that Pintrest will be a great way to learn to shop my closet and to get inspiration for my wishlist that I am saving for. Thank you for your realistic advice. I can tell that you have learned from previous 'hindering habits' and am happy that I can learn from your advice. Thanks again.
Thank you for your caring and generous disposition to share, Audrey ♥️
Your filmmaking skills on this video are amazing. So creative and well done. Great job!
So true, less is more! I bought clothes over the years and never worn them but at the time thought I just had to have them! We all reach for our favourite pieces time and time again and definitely don't need an endless range of clothes in our wardrobe. Great video 😄
So glad this bubbled up on my home page. I recently had weight loss surgery & when I reach my goal weight I will have to replace or tailor nearly my entire wardrobe. I love the idea of being intentional about that.
Amazing channel! I start to subscribe your channel last week and now I can't stop watching your videos. Your channel makes me incorporate 'values' in clothes. You just made me realize to choose quality than quantity because I tend to be able to get more clothes with my limited money. Now, I prefer saving my money first while making wishlist then shop consciously in the big sale season for good pieces with great deals. Thank you, Audrey..
Your voice is so soothing and I love your smile in all your videos!!! Great work!!
I really love to shop in my closet 🙌
I like how you say that you choose personal style over fashion trends.
@audrey coyne I discovered you a couple of days ago and I’m so obsessed with your channel! I must say I love the sound of your voice. You’re so sweet and genuine and I honestly feel engaged in every video! You have great content and exactly what I need to help me get my life together! LoL Keep them coming!
What a useful and lovely video. Just what I needed to see! Thank you for your channel- it is always beautiful and inspiring!!
Audrey, thank you for sharing this healthy approach/ antidote to all of the unnecessary shopping temptations to which we can all be inundated. I will definitely consult your decluttering videos. I love your content!
Thank you for such lovely, inspirational content, as always Audery. Also the color cornflower blue really suits your complexion.
zero dislike. let's keep it that way please. I just recently discovered your channel and you have been way way more helpful than nay RUclipsr I have stumbled upon.
You are an inspiration in your tone of voice, femininity. It's a rarity in this world that has pushed women to be more masculine. Thank you.
All of your tips are great. I also love listening to your beautiful soothing voice.
Loved this video! 💕 I like the idea of making a Pinterest board just for styling a piece of clothing.
Although I can afford buying more clothes, I am recycling my old clothes. I have realized I have a lot of clothes that are trendy this year. As I have lost some weight I am modifying some and really as you said, don't feel the need to shop a lot.
Browsing or window shopping the trends can occasionally be fun for me as it gives me new inspiration, but I always make it a rule to stick to my list and my budget whenever I go out shopping in person or online. Also, I’m totally behind you on unsubscribing from marketing emails, Audrey! It feels better to only get emails from places or companies that are worth my attention or are of high importance in general. :)
Love this video! You did an excellent job and it's so inspiring! I do thrift shop as a hobby though because I like the thrill of the hunt to find something truly incredible. I only buy if I love something 100% and I know I can wear it with at least 3 other items in my closet, and I can see myself still wearing in 10 years.
Pip's Closet I confess that I’ve been to 3 or 4 thrift stores in the past few weeks hoping to score someone’s Konmarie donations. Six if you count kid consignment shops. Lol! I only bought a cashmere scarf and little black dress, so I feel like I did great! (Ok, and two pairs of pants for kids!)
Very well said Audrey 👍 l have been trying to abide by these rules now. I realized end is last year, that I was getting in to this mode of impulse buying a lot & so this year I have decided and set goal for myself that I'll suppress this urge and not buy any clothes, shoes, handbags or jewellery for myself. And I am thankful to such RUclipsrs like you & Alyssa Beltempo who inspire me in doing so. Honestly I have started shopping my own closet now and it's so fun. Thanks so much for all the tips 😊