I asked out 100 girls on a date to get over my fear of rejection. Here’s what I learned

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024
  • I challenged myself to ask 100 girls out on a date to overcome my fear of rejection. Watch as I navigate awkward moments, unexpected responses, and surprising outcomes. Will I find success, or will it all end in rejection?
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  • @RobinSteblea-n1c
    @RobinSteblea-n1c Месяц назад +1924

    „I have an ex-boyfriend“ is the coldest rejection I’ve heard 😂😂

    • @hottamalekid3502
      @hottamalekid3502 Месяц назад

      She is a Stage 5 Clinger for sure...probably stalks the poor guy.

    • @ricardoberlin2958
      @ricardoberlin2958 Месяц назад +29

      this got me cracking🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jamesmarks8099
      @jamesmarks8099 Месяц назад +37

      I would have said do you want a better ex boyfriend?

    • @Art-uz3fk
      @Art-uz3fk Месяц назад +17

      My impression is she was being somewhat forthcoming that it was a messy situation that she didn't want to implicate him into

    • @NickMirro
      @NickMirro Месяц назад +1

      Hilarious😅

  • @erick9526
    @erick9526 3 месяца назад +5091

    Still better turnout than dating apps. Good job.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  3 месяца назад +243

      Yeah dating apps are boring

    • @odingameslayer3689
      @odingameslayer3689 3 месяца назад +93

      And mostly useless.

    • @meinkek7896
      @meinkek7896 2 месяца назад

      @@odingameslayer3689 no if you are good looking

    • @lonestarr1490
      @lonestarr1490 2 месяца назад +110

      And devastating for your mental health.

    • @VideoVerdict
      @VideoVerdict Месяц назад +27

      Talking to women in real life just works

  • @ericdoury7727
    @ericdoury7727 3 месяца назад +4782

    16 % Is really more than I would have expected.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  3 месяца назад +172

      Ahah me too, thank you for comment

    • @simrdownmon6431
      @simrdownmon6431 2 месяца назад +288

      The forst half he only had an 8% success rate. The second half was 24%, a 300% increase.
      The more practice the more success.

    • @infect6521
      @infect6521 2 месяца назад +48

      @@michalthekind that is the dumbest logic ever

    • @joecooley278
      @joecooley278 2 месяца назад

      @@simrdownmon6431

    • @iAmJoshC
      @iAmJoshC 2 месяца назад +24

      @ericdoury7727 he Is good looking (not a girl but that's what i think) so i personally didn't expect less either. Probably with different dressing style It might even be more, Who knows. Also, sometimes it's not even You . Sometimes what makes the difference It's Just the choice of the girls to approach

  • @ContinuousRefinement
    @ContinuousRefinement Месяц назад +766

    The more confidence you displayed, the more 'yes' responses you received.

    • @jtt5277
      @jtt5277 Месяц назад +22

      You mean the better looking you are the better "yes" responses you will receive

    • @ContinuousRefinement
      @ContinuousRefinement Месяц назад +2

      @@jtt5277 The reference was for the creator of the video, but I agree…better looking and taller are likely important factors.

    • @jtt5277
      @jtt5277 Месяц назад +5

      @@ContinuousRefinement Yea I get it, but sad reality is a super model could literally say anything with 0 confidence to a girl that actually has a boyfriend and they would give their number with no hesitation :P have a good one

    • @rossini-ck9fw
      @rossini-ck9fw Месяц назад

      F america

    • @rossini-ck9fw
      @rossini-ck9fw Месяц назад

      land of the dumb

  • @diegoalvarez7230
    @diegoalvarez7230 Месяц назад +366

    Always remember boys, it’s the words you use, the energy you communicate, and the tone you use when asking a girl out

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  Месяц назад +18

      100%true

    • @neteroipman4478
      @neteroipman4478 Месяц назад +53

      If you are good looking or their type it doesn't matter what you say.

    • @Dario911-d5r
      @Dario911-d5r Месяц назад

      You and your bluepilled bullshit are just going against you. Do you think girls care about the way you ask them out?? 😂😂😂 They only care about the way you look as you also only care about the way they look. The only difference is that because of a bunch of desperate bluepilled guys who think that confidence and tone makes girls wanting them sexually, now girls can rise their standards and dating up in terms of look since they have already many simps and desperate begging for their attention in street without even they have to do nothing. Dude, if a girls Is attracted to you, you don't really have to talk, she will do everything.

    • @camilla757
      @camilla757 Месяц назад +14

      ​@@neteroipman4478no that's not quite true bc a large part of being attractive is your vibe and the way you carry yourself. This guy is cute. Not necessarily everyone's type but I'm guessing a lot of it is about his delivery and probably not being confident (based on his intro). I bet as he gets more comfortable he will have better luck.

    •  Месяц назад

      @@neteroipman4478 He doesn't look bad at all. He has a pretty good face and not fat or short. It's just that many women maybe won't think he looks good *enough*. Or as you say...maybe not their type. Many women aren't into blonde guys, it's just the way it is. Also maybe some need more time to talk or don't like being asked on camera. And maybe half of them weren't lying about having a boyfriend.

  • @Knee-nf4zh
    @Knee-nf4zh 2 месяца назад +3204

    It's hilarious how they actually decide if they have a boyfriend on the spot

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +125

      Haahah

    • @adrianparker-e9f
      @adrianparker-e9f 2 месяца назад +51

      I'd be interested to know how exactly they met their boyfriends, and did they not have a boyfriend at the time they were asked out ?

    • @popisolation
      @popisolation Месяц назад +7

      A lot of girls' boyfriens is the attention they get from social media.

    • @genji539
      @genji539 Месяц назад +150

      @@adrianparker-e9f it's obvious, some don't want to be rude by straight up saying someone isn't to their taste, so they'll get an excuse. If your appearance is to their liking, they won't give you that excuse

    • @ENZOxDV9
      @ENZOxDV9 Месяц назад +59

      Because they don't (most of them). It's just the easiest excuse to get a man off your back

  • @mrboost4186
    @mrboost4186 2 месяца назад +1737

    Don't ask them all when they are in a group 🤣

    • @ramondgutierrez4932
      @ramondgutierrez4932 2 месяца назад +46

      Contrary will help your confidence

    • @Pswayze23
      @Pswayze23 2 месяца назад +68

      Disagree, that increases your chances because she'll see if her friends like you, how you handle a group situation where you need to entertain multiple people, and that youre by yourself coming up to a group of people who are going to judge you and make you feel insecure.

    • @KiyuzoVAL
      @KiyuzoVAL 2 месяца назад +105

      @@Pswayze23yes but dont ask all of them out, choose one of them 😭

    • @vdghj93
      @vdghj93 Месяц назад +7

      For real 😂​@@KiyuzoVAL

    • @mrboost4186
      @mrboost4186 Месяц назад +40

      @@Pswayze23 I'm not saying don't ask a girl out when she's with friends, I'm saying don't line all the girls in the group up and ask each of them out one by one, they're gonna be weirded out and feel like you're not genuinely into them

  • @piwi2k
    @piwi2k Месяц назад +932

    The first yes was a win in a lottery, man

    • @Dornenherz
      @Dornenherz Месяц назад +50

      Like forreal, she was stunning!!!

    • @AhaOk2398
      @AhaOk2398 Месяц назад +33

      you could tell she was being polite, she hesitated so much

    • @tubescool
      @tubescool Месяц назад +7

      and how funny he could not handle this situation. There should have been a "let's go now" or "give me your number" Unfortunately we didn't get that the 15 times "yes" he got after that. These dates would be a good following video...

    • @mikelessard7492
      @mikelessard7492 Месяц назад

      Being bold is key....who ever declines it's no big deal....we humans will succeed in Anything we truly want if u never give up regardless how long it takes 💪 gr8 job my friend & proud of u

    • @Nikita-wt1bu
      @Nikita-wt1bu Месяц назад +8

      @@tubescool This is actually not try, most of the girls gonna ghost him. Some of girls decline date. So it's not like 16 , but more like 4-6 in best case scenario

  • @profaltman
    @profaltman 26 дней назад +84

    I was impressed at how kind most of the women were giving their answer (yes or no). It gives me hope for humanity.

    • @loltheworld
      @loltheworld 24 дня назад +9

      This is in Europe. Americans would be brutal.

    • @Emanuele246gi
      @Emanuele246gi 24 дня назад

      It's just because lots of people prefer to stay in their bubble, afraid to talk because of the, still small, chance of getting a rude answer, when it would be much better to talk each others rather than blaming each others

    • @giobd
      @giobd 16 дней назад +9

      They are filmed.

    • @justinh2158
      @justinh2158 13 дней назад

      they are being flimes. they are nor usually nice

    • @stryker1797
      @stryker1797 11 дней назад

      Camera

  • @avrylmallen273
    @avrylmallen273 Месяц назад +30

    I met a guy who came and said hello to me and my work colleagues and he told he was tasked by his therapist to say hello to 100 strangers to try and get over his shyness and anxiety! He was a very sweet person!

  • @wokeaf1337
    @wokeaf1337 2 месяца назад +784

    16% is really good, just imagine an item that gives u 16% crit rate !

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +66

      Ahahah I am fan of wow

    • @clubstep8244
      @clubstep8244 2 месяца назад +35

      Infinity Edge gives 25%

    • @späsitel2
      @späsitel2 Месяц назад

      @@clubstep8244 like others crit items in lol XD

    • @moejellini
      @moejellini Месяц назад

      @@clubstep8244 He's playing Dota in the first clip. League sucks

    • @Avopunk
      @Avopunk Месяц назад

      @@clubstep8244 Me knowing about this is what's dropping me below 5% 😰

  • @JOHNJ3DI
    @JOHNJ3DI 2 месяца назад +1152

    look at it this way. In my opinion, 16% is better than 1% and even more than enough to experience unforgettable moments with the ladies. The fact that you asked 100 ladies in a single day catapults you into the 1% special boys who have created something like this anyway

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +36

      Thank youuuyyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @michelesantana1816
      @michelesantana1816 2 месяца назад +6

      Yeah, he Is in top 1% simps

    • @solidshrek
      @solidshrek 2 месяца назад +59

      ​@@michelesantana1816 bro how. You sound like your room smells like a swamp

    • @callc7719
      @callc7719 Месяц назад

      @@michelesantana1816 ok virgin

    • @markodonoghue9526
      @markodonoghue9526 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@solidshrekYou horrible person! How dare you make a much an unfounded, illogical statement.

  • @Kostarasta
    @Kostarasta Месяц назад +285

    No matter how many NOs you'll have. You only need one YES.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  Месяц назад +28

      Not enough for me

    • @lynic-0091
      @lynic-0091 Месяц назад

      T h i s

    • @tswagger4663
      @tswagger4663 Месяц назад +5

      @@iamigor4lamborghini Then you'll never have a girlfriend because you're never content about settling with one and you'll always keep asking multiple girls and keep multiple in your roster and end up burned out and lonely because you can never decide for yourself.

    • @w444rbv
      @w444rbv Месяц назад

      ​@@tswagger4663 talking stage with many get to know them and then settle with the best one and stop talking to the others

    • @IndineraFallz
      @IndineraFallz Месяц назад +4

      you need one yes from someone you LIKE. it's not as easy.

  • @tookmaners
    @tookmaners Месяц назад +61

    10:06 she gave bro a chance and he completely messed it up talking bout money😂💀

  • @dinodudedanny6324
    @dinodudedanny6324 Месяц назад +91

    You look way better than many of the girls who rejected you. A lot of women just have crazy standards now days, but there are still some gems out there.

    • @TactlessGuy
      @TactlessGuy 25 дней назад +9

      Have you considered the possibility that they'd just rather be single?

    • @Emanuele246gi
      @Emanuele246gi 24 дня назад +3

      @@TactlessGuy Indeed, when a guy asks a girl and gets rejected, it's almost always girl's fault for some people, it's so upsetting seeing someone who doesn't accept a choice made from another person

    • @mark2220
      @mark2220 24 дня назад +5

      A little harsh. Rando with camera in face asking you out. Very weird.

    • @dinodudedanny6324
      @dinodudedanny6324 24 дня назад +1

      @@TactlessGuy Hence why I said "a lot of women" and not most women or every woman.

    • @bloodyidit4506
      @bloodyidit4506 21 день назад +2

      @Emanuele246gi
      One of the factors for male suicide is not getting into a relationship. Male suicide rates are much higher then female. You do not comprehend what you haven't suffered. Learn more about people.

  • @ninjetti9898
    @ninjetti9898 2 месяца назад +689

    The savagery with which some of these girls turned you down, man I felt that all the way here my dude. You deserve the medal of honor for all the bullets you took. We the men who aren't on the battlefield salute your bravery and valiant sacrifice.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +34

      Ahahah really appreciate it brooooo

    • @Vextrove
      @Vextrove Месяц назад +27

      Savagery? I found the responses quite understandable

    • @nvmffs
      @nvmffs Месяц назад +20

      @@Vextrove "My ex-boyfriend wouldn't like it"

    • @sebastianliebmann6014
      @sebastianliebmann6014 Месяц назад +20

      @@nvmffs Thats not savage that's just sad

    • @alessandrovangeli8395
      @alessandrovangeli8395 Месяц назад

      and only a few of them were nice or better. none of them is beautiful.

  • @andiXD1990
    @andiXD1990 2 месяца назад +419

    the fun thing is, in dating, you only need to win once ^^. Great Video !

    • @Lobos222
      @Lobos222 2 месяца назад +11

      Hitman Agent 47 would say something like that.

    • @andiXD1990
      @andiXD1990 2 месяца назад

      @@Lobos222 would he ?😉🤫

    • @Duke6598
      @Duke6598 2 месяца назад +23

      Exactly. Even if he got only one number out of 100 chicks, if that girl really likes him, its all worth it.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +16

      Totally agree with you

    • @jeremyh9841
      @jeremyh9841 2 месяца назад +2

      but to get laid, it will be another job

  • @Gxbriel8
    @Gxbriel8 2 месяца назад +160

    the camera kills it too my man, don't think they rejected you cuz they don't like you, they're just shy sometimes

    • @E-plunksna
      @E-plunksna Месяц назад +32

      Not necessarily shy. If someone sticked a camera to my face and asked me to a date, I would instantly feel alarms that this is some kind of social experiment and I maybe don't want to be an experimental bunny. Maybe only I would be curious to play just for the sake of game, gaining skills and my own personal scientific curiosity, but then it would say nothing about your true results of getting a real date in real life, right?

    • @mariateresa5068
      @mariateresa5068 Месяц назад +20

      @@E-plunksna I was looking for a comment or a response like this. I agree in 100%. The camera in their face invalidates any response he got during the video.

    • @AmosArdent-zx6jj
      @AmosArdent-zx6jj 28 дней назад +4

      Totally! A hidden a camera (face blurred to protect their privacy as they are not aware of being filmed) with a good microphone, would have been much appropriated. No girl wants to be on camera when you asK them out.

    • @AmosArdent-zx6jj
      @AmosArdent-zx6jj 28 дней назад +2

      Actually asking girls out without any sort of conversation is probably not the best tactic. Nevertheless, putting yourself out there is very admirable. This is what we should all do, ditch the apps, and soon, the apps will almost become irrelevant as phone-boxes or landlines.

    • @GenX-007
      @GenX-007 24 дня назад

      Ya I can tell you from experience I had a couple of girls hit on me, that I was checking out...but I turned them down or it fell apart for some reason and it's because at the time I was shy too...sometimes if someone is really forward/confident and you're not ready for it, you'll say "no, I'm seeing someone."
      And they knew I was lying...so did I... don't take it personally, sometimes we have our own issues that stop us from being normal...hate myself for it, but shiit happens. When I'm myself, then I'm good...so never take rejection too personally maybe the girl was not ready for it....a non-direct approach is usually best.
      Let's say I had problems with confidence growing up and I was nerdier and wasn't used to pretty girls hitting on me, I got better looking as I hit my late teens...but still was socially awkward. So even if a girl says no, she could mean yes and might change her mind later...but leave it be at the time, we all do silly things, esp. when it comes to dating/romance.

  • @Nickalig
    @Nickalig Месяц назад +10

    Getting girls is like sending cv's for job interviews ,you will get rejected a lot but once you get one you will not even care about the rejections you had from other companies...

  • @attimofuggxnte2612
    @attimofuggxnte2612 Месяц назад +16

    I’m a girl and when I first saw you in the video I thought “wow this guy breaks hearts for sure” because you’re handsome and very sweet

    • @hansbendixen5430
      @hansbendixen5430 27 дней назад +2

      Can you pls explain how he is handsome? he looks like a 40 year old lesbian . Im really curious.

    • @Visuvh
      @Visuvh 26 дней назад

      @@hansbendixen5430 bullshit

    • @GenX-007
      @GenX-007 24 дня назад +3

      @@hansbendixen5430 lol that's a little mean but funny.

    • @JulianPawels
      @JulianPawels 22 дня назад

      @@hansbendixen5430 ever thought about the fact that beauty is subjective?

    • @hansbendixen5430
      @hansbendixen5430 21 день назад

      @@JulianPawels yes. I would just want to hear the reasoning

  • @hollowmane-b6k
    @hollowmane-b6k 2 месяца назад +546

    I'm 25 and never approached. Never flirted. Never been on a date. Absolutely zero experience with this at all. I don't think anyone has ever been interested.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +130

      Look for some info, videos on yt , books and start to approach bro, I were in same situation

    • @CBCx77-
      @CBCx77- 2 месяца назад +4

      Same here

    • @Vladi2102
      @Vladi2102 2 месяца назад +62

      I recently turned 30 and I am in the same position. At this point and in the current dating and financial market, not sure I even want to change that, as a very introverted guy and fairly successful I have my comfort, I'm used to being alone and I'm only willing to get out of the comfort zone for something I know will make me or my life better, something productive and meaningful.
      And have little to no confidence that dating will do that. Obviously, if you meet the right person, sure, but these are difficult odds to beat today. Not saying this to discourage anyone of looking for love and starting a family, just be very intentional and careful to avoid being heavily burned or disappointed.

    • @Stallzyx
      @Stallzyx 2 месяца назад +2

      Same

    • @HeitorLuisCP
      @HeitorLuisCP 2 месяца назад +31

      Never give up man, go outside. Talk to anyone. Be friendly. Be the change that you want to happen! I dont think you can, i know you can!

  • @ReyAloneAloneRey
    @ReyAloneAloneRey 3 месяца назад +365

    I have social anxiety, and talking to strangers almost triggers a panic attack-heart racing, sweating, my voice shaking, trembling… It’s terrible. I’ve noticed that the more I put myself out there, the more my body starts to realize it’s not a real threat. Your videos have been helping me overcome this fear. It’s really tough because I miss out on so many opportunities in my life because of it.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  3 месяца назад +34

      i am very happy that my videos can help people. but i agree with you the more you try to talk to people the less anxiety and pressure you feel. but you have to try several times, and then when you are calm it will be easier to interact with people. but you have to try 1000 times to talk to unknown people to feel relaxed.

    • @greenesyt563
      @greenesyt563 2 месяца назад +1

      Same1

    • @ProtoIndoEuropean88
      @ProtoIndoEuropean88 2 месяца назад +7

      this social anxiety is all in your head, you create a barrier that creates this phantom of a problem. You need to control your own mind and overcome this barrier.

    • @Body.By.Bennett
      @Body.By.Bennett 2 месяца назад +5

      It’s cuz u view it as a loss if ur get rejected. U lose nothing if someone doesn’t like you. Learn to love yourself and not rely on others for validation

    • @Tobi9753
      @Tobi9753 2 месяца назад +1

      It’s temporary state man. More practice (even if it could be the hell at beginning) = less anxiety in future interactions.

  • @herrvich
    @herrvich Месяц назад +58

    ”No can we just be friends” is a response to a complete stranger.

  • @billymuellerTikTok
    @billymuellerTikTok Месяц назад +7

    '"you miss 100% of the shots you don't take' - Wayne Gretzky" - Michael Scott

  • @II_TELETUBBIES_II
    @II_TELETUBBIES_II Месяц назад +15

    6:00 is the perfect example of why you shouldn’t quit gambling

  • @dipbar1824
    @dipbar1824 2 месяца назад +133

    They feel pressured if you just ask them out with the first line. Talk to them without any contingencies for a bit, and then when they gain a bit of trust and a feel of your nature , ask them to continue the conversation on a different location another time because you have to go now. If a woman approached a man and said wanna go on a date , the answer would be yes in most cases, but it's different when it's the other way around. As the weaker and less dominant gender they require to feel safe with you first before saying yes.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +30

      Maybe I will do the video in the future with little more game

    • @dipbar1824
      @dipbar1824 2 месяца назад +2

      @@iamigor4lamborghini looking forward to it , good luck!

    • @StinkyPopi
      @StinkyPopi Месяц назад +7

      @@iamigor4lamborghini yes try different approaches then compare the results, could be interesting

    • @hindflight
      @hindflight Месяц назад +7

      Yes, this is what I was going to say also. Need to build rapport first before asking. Most women in fact would probably say no if you asked them out straight up. But I do think Igor did well to get over approach anxiety

    • @ParadigmRabbit
      @ParadigmRabbit Месяц назад +10

      As a woman, I agree. Hesitation or “maybe” can serve to indicate to you that they don’t have enough information to make a decision. And it’s clear to see for me.
      For women, there are serious risks involved in dating. We need you to speak enough or to see how you are with people to get a good character read and to feel that we are likely to be safe with you or that we might have any compatibility.
      Asking a woman if she will date you without saying anything else first is like asking someone on the street if they will sign something.
      This guy did an awesome job of confronting his fear!

  • @travysnazzy
    @travysnazzy 2 месяца назад +146

    When this young man gets older and wiser like me, if you ask a girl out and she actually accepts and decides to cling on to you, you are in deep shit.

  • @siamanspaps
    @siamanspaps 2 месяца назад +79

    16% is incredible! That is a amazing statistic my friend, much better than any dating app.
    I hope lonely guys see this and understand it :)

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +9

      Yeah tinder is terrible place

    • @oatmeal7818
      @oatmeal7818 Месяц назад +1

      Tinder sucess rate less then 1%

    • @siamanspaps
      @siamanspaps Месяц назад

      @@oatmeal7818 Thats exactly why im saying its amazing.
      Any average dude is going trough dirt and mud in the apps getting depressed and feeling bad about himself.

    • @GenX-007
      @GenX-007 24 дня назад

      ya that's 1 out of 6 girls who said yes...that's amazing, if he has some rizz going in, rather than 'cold calling'...it would've probably been higher as others said, girls like to feel safe/comfortable with you first...so that's very good just on a random attempt without any rizz.

  • @Cal3d1ts
    @Cal3d1ts Месяц назад +6

    This year ive been pushing myself ive asked 3 girls out this year and now i am going out with one. Just remember each no you get is one no closer to your yes

  • @zanimaldoescudo8421
    @zanimaldoescudo8421 Месяц назад +3

    Getting 16% of girls go on a date with you is good
    Overcoming fear of rejection is SUPERB and it is going to bring you much more joy than a date ever will.
    Nice work!

  • @iggyw0
    @iggyw0 2 месяца назад +50

    Hey I'm not a dating coach but from what I experienced is that you need steps to lead to asking them on a date. Step 1: this is what I do sometimes is (Compliment what they have on) Ex: "Those are cool shoes" or "That is a great outfit"
    Step 2: after the compliment start a conversation based of something you complimented them on. Ex: " Is (blank) your favorite color" or " Are you fan of the (blank) brand?" or " Are you in (country) for work or vacation?"
    Step 3: ask for their name. Ex: " What is your name?"/ (This is optional{ "That's a cool name} {Never met a (name) before.})
    Step 4: Reveal your intention. once the convo dies down a bit make it clear (not that clear lol) what you want (" You seem pretty cool, lets (food/drinks or activity) sometimes" or "Let's exchange contact informations I would like to get to know you more" " (A hail marry) I would like to take you on a date, lets exchange contact information")

    • @iggyw0
      @iggyw0 2 месяца назад +16

      also read her body language if she seems closed off just end the convo on step 1 or 3.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +13

      Thank you for your advice ! I know you need to put more effort into, start with little talk and maybe later ask for a number , but the idea was to ask one question

    • @iggyw0
      @iggyw0 2 месяца назад +1

      @@iamigor4lamborghini ok

    • @AsherToperoff
      @AsherToperoff 2 месяца назад +7

      @@iggyw0bro that was some great advice ! Thank you ! I usually reveal my intentions as soon as I meet them and then start a convo. Sometimes I get lucky and it works but you’re advice is so much better. Thanks bro

    • @iggyw0
      @iggyw0 2 месяца назад +1

      @@AsherToperoff no problem man

  • @monmar5
    @monmar5 Месяц назад +29

    “No I prefer to be single” after analyzing is wild 😂

    • @k.gischi
      @k.gischi 25 дней назад

      yeah my exact thought...

  • @Grecks75
    @Grecks75 Месяц назад +23

    Well done, Igor. That 16% you got is actually pretty damn good, it probably means you are attractive above average. I wonder if things were different without your filming them with the camera.

    •  Месяц назад

      I think some would react differently. Some will be less pleasant and maybe more likely to say "no." Others will be more likely to say "yes", when they know they aren't being filmed for the world to see.

  • @MathiasKarjalainen
    @MathiasKarjalainen Месяц назад +17

    I appreciate and respect those girls honesty who said immediately no, those who said maybe were afraid of offending you with saying no. It is perfectly fine if somebody isn't your type, just be honest about it.

  • @Vincent_19999
    @Vincent_19999 3 дня назад

    Bro you're a legend and a big winner. You've done what most guys are afraid of doing. be fking proud of yourself bro. You got another sub 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @awesomekaratedude
    @awesomekaratedude Месяц назад +23

    honestly i respect this guy so much for doing this i have a crippling fear of rejection so i could never do this

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  Месяц назад +6

      After 1000 rejection you don’t care anymore

    • @Phil-1
      @Phil-1 29 дней назад

      Nah, the guy's a weirdo.

  • @sungbeenlee9317
    @sungbeenlee9317 2 месяца назад +61

    "no, if you give me a million dollar,, maybe."

    • @HillbillyJohnny
      @HillbillyJohnny Месяц назад

      kinda crazy coming from a dumb fuckin ginger (that lady)

    • @Alternativezz
      @Alternativezz Месяц назад +13

      She ain't even worth $10,000 😂

    • @GenX-007
      @GenX-007 24 дня назад

      she might've been trying to joke and see how well he can be at charming her....but true, she was average.

  • @paparadeliko
    @paparadeliko 2 месяца назад +59

    Congrats, most ppl would get their confidence wrecked fully

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +8

      I know, but I think after several attempts you don’t care anymore

    • @RobertDniroLHC
      @RobertDniroLHC 2 месяца назад

      @@iamigor4lamborghinithats in your case mate. If an indian guy did this, he would be brootally humilated, face looks of terror and possihly after asking 100 girls get a restraint order lol

  • @kphoenix137
    @kphoenix137 Месяц назад +8

    The most humiliating part was probably getting rejected by the ones he didn't actually find attractive at all, but still asked them as a part of the experiment.

    • @lafireteamplx3400
      @lafireteamplx3400 Месяц назад

      No, the worst is for the uglies to say yes then you have to make that decision of wanting to bust the slump or stay on the dry spell

    • @GenX-007
      @GenX-007 23 дня назад

      I don't think any guy cares if an unattractive girl turns them down...he only hit on them for the video. You only feel hurt if you hoped they'd say yes.

  • @captaingold1685
    @captaingold1685 29 дней назад +1

    For a guy to put himself out there and be vulnerable is impressive but honestly more hard work than it’s worth.

  • @kellywilliamson2187
    @kellywilliamson2187 3 месяца назад +108

    This is wonderful. I remember being 18 and wanting a girlfriend so bad I must have asked 20 girls in one night and striking out with every single one. I never did that again. As a matter of fact, I have never gotten the girl I really wanted, I only get the girls that want me.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  3 месяца назад +25

      thanks for your comment! I understand you! it's about trying, trying and trying! until you find the right match! but I know it's very difficult to find the girl you like physically and character-wise, sometimes you have to accept less

    • @kellywilliamson2187
      @kellywilliamson2187 2 месяца назад +22

      @@iamigor4lamborghini or accept nothing at all . . . It’s better to be alone than wish you were!

    • @outperformancelife3145
      @outperformancelife3145 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@iamigor4lamborghini are you from Czech Republic? England?

    • @Newgrist
      @Newgrist 2 месяца назад +10

      Same. When I like them, they don't like me. When they like me, I don't like them.

    • @tubescool
      @tubescool Месяц назад

      ​@@kellywilliamson2187uh, you can stop a relationship either! Get your wish come true... (to feel better)

  • @daveymjohnson
    @daveymjohnson Месяц назад +12

    10:43 Don't say that bro! You are enough! And don't let your demons tell you otherwise! You have more balls than 99% of men by doing this and that's something to be proud of. the setting would make a difference too, the lack of time to get to know them for a start, 16% is pretty good considering the blunt approach.

  • @e.h.1843
    @e.h.1843 3 месяца назад +110

    good job, in italy I expected a 99% rejection rate. even though almost all the yes are not from italian women as expected

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  3 месяца назад +14

      You are right, here in Milan there are many girls from all the world

    • @Ciskuss
      @Ciskuss 2 месяца назад +4

      i'm italian, it's not 99% rate man. Go try for yourself

    • @aspic4258
      @aspic4258 Месяц назад +1

      @@Ciskuss dipende , di che città sei? qua a brescia e citta vicine se la tirano un sacco

    • @ghostribe82
      @ghostribe82 Месяц назад

      Italiani MAFIOSI

    • @theagentsmith
      @theagentsmith Месяц назад +4

      You are right, it's 99,9%
      it's actually easier to win at Lotto than get a date with girls from Lombardy

  • @Kapparina
    @Kapparina 2 дня назад +1

    "Do you want a better boyfriend?" and "I tried to convince some girls to leave their boyfriends for me" cracked me up

  • @LunaNightshadee
    @LunaNightshadee Месяц назад +6

    Man you should do this weekly, Imagine what it’d look like in a year

    • @tubescool
      @tubescool Месяц назад +1

      Then he asked nearly every girl in Milano...

  • @buildataco8530
    @buildataco8530 3 месяца назад +42

    Im your biggest fan, Igor. Please have my children.

  • @garybean2205
    @garybean2205 2 месяца назад +31

    my take away from this is asking a first-time met woman on a date is quite likely to be a quick NO

    • @RISCGames
      @RISCGames Месяц назад

      you only get one chance in this scenario

    • @garybean9628
      @garybean9628 Месяц назад

      @@RISCGames yes and no. asking again is still possible (granted that will then not be a first-time met woman) Maybe someday women will take the initiative ALSO?

  • @Gobmund2
    @Gobmund2 Месяц назад +12

    love how he put at 2:58 a messi clip after talking to a real madrid fan hahaha

  • @Len-ne7
    @Len-ne7 23 часа назад

    At least half of the " I have a boyfriend are a NO", that is the softer, nicer let down.

  • @BozOnEverything
    @BozOnEverything 27 дней назад +1

    Bro got 16 dates in a single day. I’d say that’s a massive W.

  • @Azeefiz
    @Azeefiz 2 месяца назад +45

    Yo, 16 out of 100 is a really good outcome man! congrats :)

  • @fausto123
    @fausto123 Месяц назад +5

    Man I admire your bravery. If I did this I would probably end up with depression.

  • @johnnypenso9574
    @johnnypenso9574 28 дней назад +22

    The most striking thing about this video is how normal the girls are. No plastic surgery, no obesity, no anger, no profanity. Try this in Canada or the US and it looks completely different.

    • @Danimal990
      @Danimal990 24 дня назад +1

      Yeah.
      Half of them would have told you that they were lesbians or queer. Whatever that's supposed to mean.

    • @BillLaBrie
      @BillLaBrie 21 день назад +2

      It’s almost like he was selecting against those undesirable characteristics….hmmm….

    • @M4rciuZ
      @M4rciuZ 20 дней назад

      So, come to Italy and try, this guy was in Milan😃

    • @johnnypenso9574
      @johnnypenso9574 19 дней назад +1

      @@M4rciuZ I've been to Italy, Spain, Portugal, Switzerland, Germany and Lichtenstein albeit not for a few years. Can confirm that being slovenly is really frowned upon in public.

  • @gustavomolinari7522
    @gustavomolinari7522 28 дней назад +2

    My friends, I'm from Brazil and here it's a cultural thing that you MUST learn how to talk to girls, if you are a boy. Gen Z is struggling with this a bit these days, however.
    Back when I was 12 I was in a school party and as everyone made a big circle to start dancing, I got amped up and went to ask this girl for a dance. Coincidentally, she was walking through the circle to talk to a girlfriend behind me.
    When she saw me walking towards here, she said a loud "NO" in front of everyone and turned her back. When I walked back to my friends they were laughing hard, like everybody else.
    However, although embarrassing, it was the best experience I could have hoped for. From that day onwards, I had no reason to feel shy anymore to approach a girl. Of course I still got a lot of "nos", but with experience and time, things only got better.
    Back on the day when I was single, in my early 20s, I remember once I hooked up with a woman I met on a bus, and there was also a blonde beauty which I casually started talking to on a bus station.
    Those days were great. Knowing how to de with the frustration of women's rejection is part of a man's growing up, and don't worry, don't take too hard on you, there way lots and lots of women in the world and plenty of them will find you attractive for who you are! ♥️😀

    • @gustavomolinari7522
      @gustavomolinari7522 28 дней назад

      PS: never beg to a girl, it sounds miserable. If you want her to go out with you, why would she do it out of pity for you? At least you must be on her "level" and vice-versa, right?
      So, if she says "no", respect her, thank her and move away politely.
      Yet, if she comes out with a "maybe" that's already a "yes". Because on a woman's mind, she has not outwright scraped you off.
      So instead of asking "why", show some positive attitude (just be yourself, be genuine, don't force anything), like, for example:
      - Well, that's awesome, it means we can know each other better! - And then, straight up, keep the conversation going. Anything from "I like your attitude" to "where did you buy those cool sneakers" will work, as long as you are genuine.

  • @leopan7721
    @leopan7721 Месяц назад +1

    I can take 2 important learnings from this: 1. You're gonna be definitely more confident and 2. Pareto 80-20sh apply everywhere. Nice job!

  • @lambo2655
    @lambo2655 2 месяца назад +30

    I'm 59 never been on a real date other than for my senior prom, and for that I ended up taking someone I didn't want to because the girl I asked said no even when my folks were going to pay for both of us. In my 20's I asked out lots of girls, mainly coworkers and they wouldn't go out on a single date. They'd just give me the excuse of the day. I got so dejected I just went into a shell till my current age now retired and absolutely terrified of dipping my toe into the dating pool again but I also don't want to die alone.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +13

      never late to find someone with your interests. There are so many women 45-55 alone, in your same situation

    • @jacqueslee2592
      @jacqueslee2592 2 месяца назад

      Go to Southeast Asia. You won't really find a woman anymore in your age no less a good looking young woman. The single women at your age group are mentally ill due to not being able to swallow their pride of having rejected the beta males.

    • @tweeze123
      @tweeze123 2 месяца назад +4

      this is my biggest fear now that im in my 30s to one day wake up and im 60. Man im sorry this happened but how the heck did u allow urself to be dejected until that age.

    • @thexperimenter88
      @thexperimenter88 2 месяца назад

      One reason that I have given up on women in the West.

    • @BryanK-y5y
      @BryanK-y5y 2 месяца назад

      That's the brutal reality of life as a man

  • @DanTuber
    @DanTuber 2 месяца назад +56

    Some of those were pretty attractive. Some tips. Don't say you pay them 1,000. You can't buy affection or attraction. Also if they say maybe, pull out your phone, hand it to them and say maybe you can put your number in. Say it with a smirk.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +7

      I want to buyyy everything in this world

    • @tubescool
      @tubescool Месяц назад

      ​@@iamigor4lamborghiniyou can't buy love. You maybe buy a date but is this worth a thousand?
      You pay for food - of course, so she must have been hungry :)

    • @BikePappy
      @BikePappy Месяц назад

      It is much better to give them your number.

    • @DanTuber
      @DanTuber Месяц назад

      @@BikePappy no

    • @BikePappy
      @BikePappy Месяц назад

      @@DanTuber So much to learn. You do you though.

  • @ginobuonvino8728
    @ginobuonvino8728 2 месяца назад +20

    Boyfriend rate 99%

  • @tstreb66
    @tstreb66 14 дней назад

    What's really cool about this video is you can tell when a girl is interested and is going to say yes. It's the sincere smiles and the eye contact.

  • @mr.snicker-doodles7081
    @mr.snicker-doodles7081 26 дней назад +1

    Dude way to go!! I think it's interesting that almost ALL of them "loved being asked" you could tell they were ALL smiles..haa

  • @intunewithcars9484
    @intunewithcars9484 2 месяца назад +22

    i wouldnt ask any woman on a date unless she smiled at me or gave me a look, its like a sign!!...no eye contact your wasting your time tbh

  • @andybyrne3542
    @andybyrne3542 Месяц назад +5

    Never offer anything to a woman after she says no, it’s begging and it shows a-lot of negative traits in a partner/person which you never want. Secondly, some of these women that said yes are better looking than most of the “no” ones. Thousands of women in the world, work on yourself and keep doing this, the more interactions you have the better they’ll go.
    Also 16 women, is 16 women, in one day or even a week, that’s a lot of women.

  • @VideoVerdict
    @VideoVerdict Месяц назад +42

    Honestly guys, ditch the camera, fix the hair, eye contact before, complement, then ask out. I guarantee you the success rate would be much higher than 16%.

    • @crazydumbai
      @crazydumbai Месяц назад +1

      EXACTLY... Eye contact is the first sign that you are ``her type´´. Yeah you may misinterpret her eye contact as interest but it will still be a higher percentage for sure

    • @gordo3582
      @gordo3582 Месяц назад

      Good advice, I would add: Lose the earrings, maybe get more stylish clothes, make her laugh.

  • @cefgil3905
    @cefgil3905 25 дней назад +1

    I told my friend he needs to just talk to girls and don’t worry about rejection. Great video

  • @VitalityMassage
    @VitalityMassage 10 дней назад +1

    Dude, I've been a RUclipsr for 16 years. You've inspired me to do a similar type of video because I'm getting back into the dating scene. Thanks. I might even subscribe.

  • @wander9499
    @wander9499 Месяц назад +3

    Dude this shit is the kinda video us guys need. Keep it up! Great content

  • @sweaty.5224
    @sweaty.5224 Месяц назад +5

    What happens man?? You have a legendary skin. Just Come to Brazil and you will be happiness, trust me

  • @Knee-nf4zh
    @Knee-nf4zh 2 месяца назад +4

    rejection DOESN NOT feel better the more it happens, it's kind of exponential

  • @rachelblack3816
    @rachelblack3816 7 дней назад

    Asking a woman on a date that you have never spoken to before is probably the hardest way to get a yes, and you did 16% of the time! That is actually pretty awesome. Believe it or not, you did impressively well, my friend! Good on you. You'll do fine.

  • @santimorelo7978
    @santimorelo7978 24 дня назад

    YOU. ARE. THE GOAT. Learning from each one of your tries is good for anyone who wants to improve and be a little more extrovert.

  • @abhishekbg0610
    @abhishekbg0610 Месяц назад +4

    Girl #43 - "If you jump in the fountain."🤣🤣

    • @tubescool
      @tubescool Месяц назад

      if he would, he'd be arrested (in Rome he would). So I would ask her if she likes boyfriends only in jail - to make joke out of it.

    • @Digitale_Native
      @Digitale_Native 7 дней назад +1

      yeah that part was fun

  • @DiogoGaming2
    @DiogoGaming2 2 месяца назад +21

    Man 16 dates is actually crazy whaaat xD

  • @myselfme9013
    @myselfme9013 2 месяца назад +5

    you get the yes, you say lets go right now

  • @absence3
    @absence3 Месяц назад +2

    "i have a boyfriend, sorry"
    "do you want a better one?"
    "WHAT?"
    5:33

  • @johanssenhamal827
    @johanssenhamal827 2 месяца назад +17

    If a girl says maybe, not sure then go next. These girls are just timewasters.

  • @Stopmotiondc
    @Stopmotiondc Месяц назад +6

    8:18 DID I HEAR i have a relationship with my dog

  • @ClutchSqueezer03
    @ClutchSqueezer03 2 месяца назад +8

    There's no worse country then Italy to ask gout girls on date

  • @Maniclout
    @Maniclout 7 дней назад +1

    1. Don't ask "why" in that tone, cause it sounds entitled and that's the least they want
    2. Don't ask them if they want a better boyfriend, that's disrespectful, and not the right type of confident
    3. Don't offer €1000 for them to go out with you, it's creepy
    4. Also everyone saying that the girls are making up that they have a boyfriend, it's a really good excuse against guys who will become desperate and hopeful upon hearing she has no partner. Don't blame the girls, blame other guys for being creeps sometimes and ruining it for everyone.

  • @celtics2008champs1
    @celtics2008champs1 28 дней назад

    Great work !!!! Remember to have a location/activity in mind when they do say yes. Follow up with contact information from yourself. Compliment, compliment, compliment.......

  • @ducatidarren3516
    @ducatidarren3516 2 месяца назад +6

    What country is this taking place in Igor? By the way, don't worry about the constant rejection from women. In my opinion that's one thing women will never understand about being a man. Stay strong brother!

  • @LowPalm
    @LowPalm 2 месяца назад +8

    never give up Igor,daje my man

  • @whiskersblues
    @whiskersblues 2 месяца назад +14

    Good job man.. but I have few tips for you. when you approach and you ask the first question you sound already disappointed, that's reducing your changes, second tip is.. when she's saying maybe, you ask why maybe.. it's also reducing your changes. don't ask why maybe, convert the maybe to yes, say something funny after the maybe, like "so you're telling me there's a chanceee!!.." and get more excited and the most important thing, smile.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +4

      Ok noted , thank youuuuuu broo

    • @bigseanprice
      @bigseanprice Месяц назад

      all the women in the clip were born AFTER that reference and wouldn't get it. this isn't 1997 anymore.

  • @kprice399
    @kprice399 24 дня назад

    Good man. Polite and confident. Good job. Just talk to them. Right on!

  • @LPWWE06
    @LPWWE06 29 дней назад

    much respect to you for doing that. and to the ladies
    especially the ones that said they talking to someone, and the one that said she just doesn't want to.
    real dope man. you made something right here brother. keep up
    love from Israel

  • @Colehike
    @Colehike 2 месяца назад +9

    It’s interesting in European countries they are honest about it “you’re not my type”. In the west they gaslight men they aren’t interested in without being honest. I’d rather be told that I’m not her type than be flaked on constantly, or told lies

    • @chriswashingtonbeats
      @chriswashingtonbeats 2 месяца назад +9

      The west? Most of europe consists of western nations 😂

    • @WattsOnTheMind
      @WattsOnTheMind 2 месяца назад +1

      I think this really smart person refers to America or something, West from Europe 🤣

    • @lucaserafini9580
      @lucaserafini9580 2 месяца назад +8

      Bro he was in italy not in cambodia

    • @WattsOnTheMind
      @WattsOnTheMind 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@lucaserafini9580Actually I live in "the west" (Netherlands) and they are here very open, straightforward and honest with what they think.

  • @Weissbier528
    @Weissbier528 2 месяца назад +40

    8:18 BRUTAL DOGPILL

  • @robertfindley921
    @robertfindley921 2 месяца назад +15

    So did I! My eyes are still watering from all the pepper spray, my ears are ringing from all the screaming, my groin is still hurting, my face is still red from the slapping and I have sorted my restraining orders by distance: 100 feet, 200 feet and 500 feet.

  • @zoltanbaroti7998
    @zoltanbaroti7998 3 дня назад

    “If you got rejected doesn’t mean you are ugly” awww

  • @michaelkiener4138
    @michaelkiener4138 Месяц назад

    This video is 100% more helpful than a therapist for dealing with social anxiety and shyness around girls! ... It's not about 16% success rate... The focus is you got 16 dates and no more fear.

  • @Lobos222
    @Lobos222 2 месяца назад +9

    8 billion people on Earth, ca 4 billion of which are female, ca 2 billion are within dating age.
    16% dating chance rate means you could date about 320 million women and you just need 1 to become your gf.

  • @BananaSlug911
    @BananaSlug911 2 месяца назад +11

    Who tf cares about rejection. I care about consequences.

  • @contentprince
    @contentprince 3 месяца назад +10

    this was fun especially the statistics at the end 😅

  • @gastonvalla7015
    @gastonvalla7015 Месяц назад

    I really appreciate that you actually did it, unlike so much others that make these clickbait titles. You also got pretty successful with it too, it's motivating.

  • @NativC2ndChannel
    @NativC2ndChannel 2 дня назад +1

    You are a cool guy. you can for sure improve how you look, becuase you have potential. don't give up!

  • @icksongonzaga4368
    @icksongonzaga4368 Месяц назад +6

    07:46 OMG she is gorgeous.

  • @carnivoreforlifepodcast5664
    @carnivoreforlifepodcast5664 2 месяца назад +6

    These women are beautiful!

  • @yammomatta
    @yammomatta 2 месяца назад +7

    You are very determined, I feel that so many girls lied about having boyfriend. I can just tell that they're lying by how they say it and body language.

    • @iamigor4lamborghini
      @iamigor4lamborghini  2 месяца назад +7

      Yes , because it easier to tell I have a boyfriend, rather say no

  • @MRJKX1981
    @MRJKX1981 Месяц назад +1

    Well done dude. Be proud of yourself - very few men have the guts to do what you just did here 💪
    16% the first time you try cold approaches is a very good ratio I think.
    To get even better with women I recommend you watch Corey Wayne’s videos and read his book. He truly knows women. Great material!

  • @OnlyShortsGoneWild
    @OnlyShortsGoneWild Месяц назад

    This was a very helpful video for introverts and I appreciate you taking your time out to do this, it helps others build confidence. Good Job my friend!

  • @tweeze123
    @tweeze123 2 месяца назад +4

    i need to do this so badly. I am in my 30s and never asked a girl out yikes