I needed this video too. I got fired from the internship I needed to graduate from university. It was clear that I was not welcome there and my supervisors started mistreating me because of my disability. Jokes on them, my former manager offered me a full time job on the spot at a place where my talents and skills are appreciated.
I experienced kind off the same thing! Only I decided to quit my internship because I wasn’t valued and now I found a different internship in witch I am seen as equal. I wish you good luck!☺️🍀
I'm a medical worker who deals with dying patients on a daily basis. I've been at my job for 6 yrs. A new manager comes along and in less than a year my job is threatened. I'm now off for a month due to my mental health. This video is something that I needed to see. I gotta pay my rent with this check. But the next one I'm going to do something for me. I can't afford Fendi but I'm going to buy something that I normally wouldn't. 🎉❤! Thx Molly MoM and LT !
As a formerly bullied PTSD-having disabled woman who is handful of months away from being real-life LAWYER, I'm here to tell you make me feel less alone in the world. Watching you do this for yourself made me so happy. That was a masterclass in externalizing your trauma, and I'm here for it.
I feel empowered!!!!!!! I just got my last pay check from my ex best friend and emotionally abusive boss! I'm still traumatized but I'm gonna go TREAT MY SELF!!! THANK YOU MOLLY!!!
Happy Healing! 🎉 I hope that you are able to use your experience to better see red flags in the future. Life does get a lot less stressful when you value yourself enough to leave situations as soon as you realize they are unhealthy for you.
I can't get over the fact that the bully brand basically enabled her to purchase a $1000 dog poop bag. I hope someone from that company watches this video and sees that.
I love how you said you had a messy bun when you literally have the CLEANEST and most beautiful bun I have ever seen. Seriously I could do ballet with a bun that good.
I'm in the middle of a legal procedure to reclaim my house and home from my ex, who has been abusing me for years. I was starting to feel tired and weak. Your words and story is lifting me up this morning. I have to hold my head up a little longer before allowing myself to be weak and surrounded with love and friendship. Thank you so much! You're a beautiful and great human ❤❤❤
This is such a random thought. But you should consider doing a collab with Kall Me Kris! You could take her shopping, and help her develop her own style! She's always saying she has no idea what she's doing with clothing or outfits. I think it would be so fun!
I love your outlook! I’m actually dealing with a director who literally berates and tears me down every day, she’s awful and I’ve felt so anxious, degraded, and overall useless. I’ve actually been in tears almost everyday since she accepted the job a YEAR ago. When you said to remember all the people that support you was a great reminder of all the positive feedback I get at work. I let her cancel them out, NO MORE! THANKS 😊
If you feel she'll only be there a short time it may be worth attempting to stay, otherwise start lookng for another job. It's not worth taking that kind of abuse daily for a job that will go on for years. Look while you have a job and a better opportunity will open up. Do so quietly. Best of luck to you.
Good for you! I was in three car accidents in a year when I was younger, and once those were settled, I treated myself to a trip to the UK. It didn’t fix any of it, but I really needed that. I don’t regret doing that at all.
Glad you were able to prove that they can’t have the money back as that is so disgusting. Understandable you won’t share who this company was but would love to someday see that company go bankrupt.
I am not at all into designer bags, and I know very little about them or their brands. But I absolutely LOVE your decision to take your own power back in a way that holds some significance to you personally. And though nothing specific in my life led me to it, I feel like that lesson was one that I needed reminding of as well. :)
I understand if you legally can't give out the company name but If you are able to share it please do. I would love to boycott that company as I would hate to give money to a company that does this type of horrific thing.
@@lorij9649 it more so seems they were legally obligated to pay her in full due to the contract and she didn’t have to do the job. If she walked away from the money I’m pretty positive she would have been able to share the brand/companies details. To me that’s the opposite of the high road.
I will be watching this comment section because I doubt that there are a lot of companies that put it out that they didn't plan to work with Molly Burk between November & Today. (My guess is about 10 weeks ago, when factoring the weeks she needed to heal from the abuse.) The chat is BAE & loves Puzzles!
I'm sorry they were so unprofessional and nasty to you. Kindness is free and easy, so behavior like that is extremely uncalled for. If respect is not being served then it's time to leave the table, so kudos to you for knowing your worth and taking your power back. You rock that F/U bag, girl! 👏💖
The fact that professionals from a company that deals in this kind of money and seems to be successful resorted to strategies that reminded your mom of seventh graders who threw trash at a blind girl to torment her is horrifying. I'm glad you got through this with such a positive outlook!
It sounds like you dodged a bullet by no longer working with those people but I'm sorry that it went down that way. How dare they make our Molly cry! 😠
I wonder what they even had to say. That's so weird. Molly is a great person and very inspiring. I understand her not wanting to talk about specifics and I don't expect her to. I just can't even imagine what they could have even said.
You didn’t deserve to be treated that way! You are amazing. When I went through vision loss late in life I watched your videos and I learned a lot about my situation. I just want you to know that you have helped so many people. We love you, Molly!
Molly, the little bag is to put your glasses in, and it clips to your purse! Not sure if that normally comes with a purchase or if they included it when they saw you had your Fendi glasses
I hope your management team's takeaway from that experience was to be able to better recognize when it's time to pull the ripcord on a client and talent conversation. Now that they've seen the signs of an abusive setup, they'll be able to protect you and others from the type of ugly situation you had to go through.
I was thinking the same thing. Why did they let it get to that point? I think sometimes we just don't trust our own ears. It takes a while to process what someone is saying as you're thinking "I must be misunderstanding this". Yes, quicker to step in next time would be good.
I hope those awful people see this video! Such a good message to take back your power when people are trying to pull you down!! Sending you love Molly!
I love the voice you do for Elton it's literally so funny and so accurate to how I see his personality and I just love your relationship with him so much!!
Love this! I’ve had two professors in university that were mentally/verbally abusive and finally have a professor that I like. This is such a helpful video, turning something negative into something positive and taking control back after a hard situation
Wow… that is not what I was expecting you to say. I am so glad you didn’t end up working for them, and I’m happy that you seem to have a great team who will stand up for you. This is exactly why I have PTSD from previous bosses. It’s awful and NO ONE deserves that. Beautiful bag ❤
Oh my goodness yes! PTSD from terrible bosses is such a thing. My last boss, before starting my own business, was so two faced. He and his wife are good people in the end. But he was such a micromanager and made working at his business so toxic. I never felt comfortable there, I was always looking over my shoulder, I couldn't relax. And now I'm just happy that I'm my own boss, and I don't have to be at the whim of someone else.
@@KristenABales good for you!! I honestly never noticed the PTSD until I was at my current job who are so fabulous and kind and understanding, that I thought “is this normal? What’s happening” why are bosses like that?
This! I have a chronic pain condition and PTSD, so sometimes I need accommodations at work or to leave early. I have had so many managers treat me poorly because of this or think I’m lying. My current bosses are absolutely incredible and it’s been hard to let myself relax around them and just tell them what I need.
This feels like a disproportionate reaction to a contract. Why would they just have been like "thank you so much, we're moving in another direction. Good luck to you" and that's it. It feels ABUSIVE that they decided to handle it this way. I hope that you can inform your fellow creators that you were treated as such and that may help others consider whether they want to work with a company that communicates so ineffectively and ABUSIVELY! I'm so sorry this happened to you.
So they won't have to pay out the contract. Notice once she asked if they wanted to part ways they told her they could keep the deal but asked her to change a lot about herself. Which anyone would know is not a reasonable ask. I think they wanted to look like they wanted to work it out and make her seem as if she was the one that decided to quit on them.
I adore you girl!!!!!!! I was bullied too, and spent a lot of my childhood sick and in the hospital. You have really let your light shine in this world and it pains me that anyone would feel the need to bring pain to you. All my love girly gal! ❤❤❤❤
That company is simply sickening. So happy that you decided to this for yourself. Those items are super cute and just so perfect to close out this ordeal for you!
You are a strong, accomplished, beautiful, articulate and inspirational young woman and you are a light in this world. How anyone could treat you as anything less, I don't understand.
I totally agree with you. I have encountered people that do not like me no matter how good or nice I am. Therefore, I take that power back when they have made me feel down. I have a moto: everything that goes up it will eventually come down. Cheer up Girl!❤
Oh the ending brought me to tears.. I’m still having a tough time after my engagement ended and every day is a constant battle to not think about what is wrong with me and I can only workout so much haha so thank you for those words!!
Your video already head me feeling big feelings, but when you said you may have to go back onto a medication to help and that it’s okay to need that help again, I lost it. So often it feels like leaning back on old crutches and that you’ve failed. Mental health is so hard sometimes. ❤️ Thank you for those constant reminders that needing help is okay.
Thanks for sharing this story. I had almost the exact same thing happen to me when I left my old job last month. I had to stand up and fight for myself. I had to show them proof of the work I did and that they need to pay me. I do find myself doubting myself because of what they said. This is exactly what I needed to hear at the right time. Love you Molly!
Oh Molly, I am so sorry to hear about what you had to go through with that terrible company! You definitely don’t deserve that at all! You being SO much light and positivity and joy to RUclips and to the world. YOU matter. YOU are perfect the way you are. Thank you for letting us in on your journey of truly rising above this negative situation. You are so strong, and you are teaching and bringing so many along with you. ❤️
I am so sorry this happened to you! You did not deserve such abhorrent treatment! You are an incredible woman and I am so proud as a preschool teacher to have featured you in my Women's History Month lesson plans. The week of 3/6-10/23 I featured a different woman in history with disabilities each day. I closed out the week featuring you and taught my kiddos about service dogs, understanding that no matter what other people think your interests are valid, we made glitter art, we talked about how makeup fashion and interior design are for everyone, we explored braille and and the importance of tactile products! You are an incredible woman, you fight for what is right, and you're changing the world. Your story is helping to bring up a new generation of more tolerant people. Thank you for reminded us how to be above the terrible things other people do and say to us! You absolutely deserve to treat yourself and help yourself feel better and more confident in whatever way makes sense for you!
An absolutely beautiful way to weather the storms in our lives. I love this and will apply it to my life! I've been there once when I held things together then broke down in tears once it was all over. And now if it ever happens again, I'll be planning a pamper/treat day for myself and have something to look forward to.
Hi Molly, MB and furbabies. Thank you for what you do Molly in the disability community. As someone with Cerebral Palsy I relate to alot of your stories. I am the 4’7 lover of purple from your amazon live. Hugs and pets 💜
I can’t believe people would do something like this? I’m glad you took this experience in stride and you treated yourself! Live to make yourself proud, what a lovely message ❤️
I love how you handled it, and I love that this was not an immediate response, you told us how you needed processing time and coping strategies to get back on track first. It makes me think of a phrase I use to be kind to myself: "Diamonds are formed under pressure, but dough only rises when you let it rest"
You Go Girl! I had an experience years ago that still occasionally crops up. You helped me so much to put this memory in its place. It has been squished.
Oh my god thank you Molly for sharing this horrible shocking experience. I have been so down on myself and this is making me feel so positive. Thank you for reminding me that it is important to pick ourselves back up and love yourself. I really needed to hear this.❤ You are an amazing strong person. Thank you again. 🙏🏻💗💗💗
I love how kind you are to yourself here. This is such a powerful thing. You have a wonderful team that sees you and values you and has your back. Not to mention the beautiful Elton John who totally sees your beauty inside and out❤
Today I am recovering from a traumatic event at the Doctor's office yesterday, and my bestie just called me to ask if we could go shopping this weekend! I'm so sorry for all of the trauma we go through just because people think they can do whatever they want, to whomever they want because of their position. Hugs. You're lovely ❤🎉
Molly, I'm so sorry you went through this! That company's behavior was absolutely unacceptable and not OK. I'm so proud of you for empowering yourself and taking care of yourself and for not changing yourself just because they told you to. You are an amazing person and we are all here to support you.
The one problem with not naming the company is that other people can fall prey to those tactics in the future. The company will not learn anything from having done this except to hide evidence better in the future. It’s sad that nothing will happen to them for what they put Molly and probably other people through.
Molly, one of the reasons I continue to watch your channel is because I identify with the struggles of being a very sensitive person. I can understand why this traumatized you and I love how you handled it. I'm so sorry it hurt so much. I'm glad you got paid and treated yourself. Way to take back your power!
Loved this video. I must admit I was taken aback at first by the video « FU » title… but I knew that I could trust Molly and wasn’t disappointed. I hope one day my children find the strength to also say FU to any haters around them. Doing my best (as a mom) to teach them to demand to be treated kindly/respectfully and to recognize when people should be ignored because any interaction with them isn’t worth their time/effort. So glad you made the choices you made and managed to recover and post this video about buying an FU bag!!!
This video came at the best time for me. I was recently fired from my job, very abruptly and without good reason. I gave everything to that job for a year and a half, and I never got anything good in return. Being fired was a blessing in disguise, but I'm still really stressed about it. This video really helped ease some of the stress and reminded me that I'll be better off elsewhere, and I don't have to worry about that place or those toxic ass people
Hey 👋 Molly you always been a inspiration to me with your videos. My mom just had her first chemotherapy treatment and I'm praying 🙏 it will work 😢. Please keep me in your prayers 🙏
Absolutely loved this video and your message! Never change who you are to make someone else happy. It took me a long time and a horrible relationship to really learn how detrimental losing myself was to my mental health. I am a huge advocate of therapy, caring our mental health and personal growth. I’ve been on this journey for the past 3 years and wish I had done it years ago. I love your outfit and your FU haul! That Fendi bag is to die for !!
You handled yourself so well in this situation, Molly! Happy to hear how your team responded to the other company. Some people are so miserable they literally get joy out of hurting other people. Joke's on them because you got their money and have risen above them. F them.
What perfect choices you made! The textures are everything!! Wear everything in good health and know that when you wear it, the F stands for FABULOUS!!!!!
FU to the haters for SURE im so glad you found a way to turn that terrible situation into something empowering, bc what those people did was BEYOND effed up
You did it again. I'm at a low right now and here you are saying all those things and here I'm crying because you're so right. Thank you, I love you're FU bag!! And that you found the sunglasses 😎🤍🤍 you're the best. xoxoxo
I am so sorry this happened to you, but also really appreciate you sharing. I needed to hear much of this advice lately, so thank you as always for sharing your wisdom.
I support and believe in you 💯!! You are so inspiring and honest. It took me a long time to own who I am and that it is not an option to change for anyone! You are so right that you have many, many people in your life that support, love and believe in you!! You have no room for them! Waste of your headspace!! I love the power that you got back to!! You are awesome!!!
Good for you! It was the perfect thing to do with that money. Retail therapy is sometimes the best therapy. I can't even imagine what they'd want you to change? Look more blind? Be taller? What's to change? I'm guessing they wanted you to be dishonest about their product and you said no. Either way, revenge bag is the perfect response.
Standing your ground, and standing up for yourself and being true to yourself is absolutely an achievement. Not an achievement any one wants to have, but you held on to your integrity and refused to sell out. I'm sorry that was done to you. I'm also glad that you are taking this and running with it and turning into a positive, and taking your power back.
Honestly this outfit is so you!!! It really suits your style well! And I'm happy that you've been able to transform this experience into something positive! But it sucks that a company acts that way. It's shady and they shouldn't be in business.
Good for you Queen. Life and shiddy people may knock you down occasionally, but they can't keep you down. Hopefully you know that they hold no power over you, even when they get to you. Like you did this and other times, you got yourself back up and offered help and inspired to the rest of us. Nobody can take that away. And this community outshines any haters that come along. You made space for that.
Y🥰U are a great therapy, Molly!! You being you and sharing yourself with us sure brightens my life, thank you! 💝 Yesterday, I was having a tough disability day, exhausted and was brought to tears of gratitude thinking about you! 😍 I knew I could keep going, I wasn’t alone! I thanked God for you, and so many Warriors out there living with graceful endurance too! 🧡 Your FU outfit is on point!! I love it and the LOVE on the shoes is the big (fuzzy) bow that ties it all together! 🤎👟🤎
I love how you turned the situation into something that would give you some joy. You already know you didn't deserve the abuse and I can't imagine the mental gymnastics those people had to do for them to ultimately end up with the solution they went with. They're bullies and they deserve a HUGE F YOU
I needed this video too. I got fired from the internship I needed to graduate from university. It was clear that I was not welcome there and my supervisors started mistreating me because of my disability. Jokes on them, my former manager offered me a full time job on the spot at a place where my talents and skills are appreciated.
I experienced kind off the same thing! Only I decided to quit my internship because I wasn’t valued and now I found a different internship in witch I am seen as equal. I wish you good luck!☺️🍀
I'm a medical worker who deals with dying patients on a daily basis. I've been at my job for 6 yrs. A new manager comes along and in less than a year my job is threatened. I'm now off for a month due to my mental health. This video is something that I needed to see. I gotta pay my rent with this check. But the next one I'm going to do something for me. I can't afford Fendi but I'm going to buy something that I normally wouldn't. 🎉❤! Thx Molly MoM and LT !
As a formerly bullied PTSD-having disabled woman who is handful of months away from being real-life LAWYER, I'm here to tell you make me feel less alone in the world. Watching you do this for yourself made me so happy. That was a masterclass in externalizing your trauma, and I'm here for it.
One of the best phrases I was ever told: "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm."
I feel empowered!!!!!!! I just got my last pay check from my ex best friend and emotionally abusive boss! I'm still traumatized but I'm gonna go TREAT MY SELF!!! THANK YOU MOLLY!!!
Happy Healing! 🎉 I hope that you are able to use your experience to better see red flags in the future. Life does get a lot less stressful when you value yourself enough to leave situations as soon as you realize they are unhealthy for you.
And treat yourself to something for yourself. You are worth it. It doesn't have to be platinum expensive, but something nice just for you.
You do that! Get something that makes you HAPPY! 😊
LOVE it
Enjoy 🎉
“Your value does not decrease based on someones inability to see your worth” unknown. Keep up the great work! 🇨🇦❤️🇨🇦
getting a mini fendi bag for poop bags is such a mood
I can't get over the fact that the bully brand basically enabled her to purchase a $1000 dog poop bag. I hope someone from that company watches this video and sees that.
@@brianne9 Oooooh yes.😈
I love everything about this
I’m so glad your team and parents had your back. I can’t imagine how awful that experience was, but you are awesome and it’s that company’s loss
Well said!
I love how you said you had a messy bun when you literally have the CLEANEST and most beautiful bun I have ever seen. Seriously I could do ballet with a bun that good.
My ex-fiance just called off our wedding and I really needed to hear this message! Thank you for this!
I'm in the middle of a legal procedure to reclaim my house and home from my ex, who has been abusing me for years. I was starting to feel tired and weak. Your words and story is lifting me up this morning. I have to hold my head up a little longer before allowing myself to be weak and surrounded with love and friendship. Thank you so much! You're a beautiful and great human ❤❤❤
I worked at a dog hotel that calls “poop walk” a “business walk” for doing their business. :)
This is such a random thought. But you should consider doing a collab with Kall Me Kris! You could take her shopping, and help her develop her own style! She's always saying she has no idea what she's doing with clothing or outfits. I think it would be so fun!
That would be a great collaboration. 👍🏻
OMG she definitely should! Kris is amazing!
That would be a lot of fun! And two great gals!
I think this is the perfect video to let you know that I just named my daughter after you, Molly. I hope she will be as brave and kind as you are.
I love your outlook! I’m actually dealing with a director who literally berates and tears me down every day, she’s awful and I’ve felt so anxious, degraded, and overall useless. I’ve actually been in tears almost everyday since she accepted the job a YEAR ago. When you said to remember all the people that support you was a great reminder of all the positive feedback I get at work. I let her cancel them out, NO MORE! THANKS 😊
If you feel she'll only be there a short time it may be worth attempting to stay, otherwise start lookng for another job. It's not worth taking that kind of abuse daily for a job that will go on for years. Look while you have a job and a better opportunity will open up. Do so quietly. Best of luck to you.
Good for you! I was in three car accidents in a year when I was younger, and once those were settled, I treated myself to a trip to the UK. It didn’t fix any of it, but I really needed that. I don’t regret doing that at all.
Glad you were able to prove that they can’t have the money back as that is so disgusting. Understandable you won’t share who this company was but would love to someday see that company go bankrupt.
Agreed this is unfortunate we love Molly ❤
@darkessraven *Rather, be . . . **_no more._* Disincorporated and imprisoned.
I am not at all into designer bags, and I know very little about them or their brands. But I absolutely LOVE your decision to take your own power back in a way that holds some significance to you personally. And though nothing specific in my life led me to it, I feel like that lesson was one that I needed reminding of as well. :)
Me too.
it’s amazing how your team identified that the call was abusive, asked you to hop off, and came to your defense♥️
I understand if you legally can't give out the company name but If you are able to share it please do. I would love to boycott that company as I would hate to give money to a company that does this type of horrific thing.
She won't because she is taking the High Road!
100%
Exactly!
@@lorij9649 it more so seems they were legally obligated to pay her in full due to the contract and she didn’t have to do the job. If she walked away from the money I’m pretty positive she would have been able to share the brand/companies details. To me that’s the opposite of the high road.
I will be watching this comment section because I doubt that there are a lot of companies that put it out that they didn't plan to work with Molly Burk between November & Today. (My guess is about 10 weeks ago, when factoring the weeks she needed to heal from the abuse.) The chat is BAE & loves Puzzles!
I'm sorry they were so unprofessional and nasty to you. Kindness is free and easy, so behavior like that is extremely uncalled for. If respect is not being served then it's time to leave the table, so kudos to you for knowing your worth and taking your power back. You rock that F/U bag, girl! 👏💖
The fact that professionals from a company that deals in this kind of money and seems to be successful resorted to strategies that reminded your mom of seventh graders who threw trash at a blind girl to torment her is horrifying. I'm glad you got through this with such a positive outlook!
It sounds like you dodged a bullet by no longer working with those people but I'm sorry that it went down that way. How dare they make our Molly cry! 😠
I wonder what they even had to say. That's so weird. Molly is a great person and very inspiring.
I understand her not wanting to talk about specifics and I don't expect her to. I just can't even imagine what they could have even said.
You didn’t deserve to be treated that way! You are amazing. When I went through vision loss late in life I watched your videos and I learned a lot about my situation. I just want you to know that you have helped so many people. We love you, Molly!
Molly, the little bag is to put your glasses in, and it clips to your purse! Not sure if that normally comes with a purchase or if they included it when they saw you had your Fendi glasses
I hope your management team's takeaway from that experience was to be able to better recognize when it's time to pull the ripcord on a client and talent conversation. Now that they've seen the signs of an abusive setup, they'll be able to protect you and others from the type of ugly situation you had to go through.
I was thinking the same thing. Why did they let it get to that point? I think sometimes we just don't trust our own ears. It takes a while to process what someone is saying as you're thinking "I must be misunderstanding this". Yes, quicker to step in next time would be good.
Shit happens, even for professionals 🥴
I hope those awful people see this video! Such a good message to take back your power when people are trying to pull you down!! Sending you love Molly!
I'm sorry that happened to you Molly. Great job making something positive out of something negative
This is the BEST designer bag unboxing video ever! F that company and hell yeah to your attitude Molly!
I love the voice you do for Elton it's literally so funny and so accurate to how I see his personality and I just love your relationship with him so much!!
That get up is so you. It's wonderful!
Love this! I’ve had two professors in university that were mentally/verbally abusive and finally have a professor that I like. This is such a helpful video, turning something negative into something positive and taking control back after a hard situation
I feel you on this one. We got it and we are amazing!
Wow… that is not what I was expecting you to say. I am so glad you didn’t end up working for them, and I’m happy that you seem to have a great team who will stand up for you. This is exactly why I have PTSD from previous bosses. It’s awful and NO ONE deserves that. Beautiful bag ❤
Oh my goodness yes! PTSD from terrible bosses is such a thing. My last boss, before starting my own business, was so two faced. He and his wife are good people in the end. But he was such a micromanager and made working at his business so toxic. I never felt comfortable there, I was always looking over my shoulder, I couldn't relax. And now I'm just happy that I'm my own boss, and I don't have to be at the whim of someone else.
@@KristenABales good for you!!
I honestly never noticed the PTSD until I was at my current job who are so fabulous and kind and understanding, that I thought “is this normal? What’s happening” why are bosses like that?
This! I have a chronic pain condition and PTSD, so sometimes I need accommodations at work or to leave early. I have had so many managers treat me poorly because of this or think I’m lying. My current bosses are absolutely incredible and it’s been hard to let myself relax around them and just tell them what I need.
This feels like a disproportionate reaction to a contract. Why would they just have been like "thank you so much, we're moving in another direction. Good luck to you" and that's it. It feels ABUSIVE that they decided to handle it this way. I hope that you can inform your fellow creators that you were treated as such and that may help others consider whether they want to work with a company that communicates so ineffectively and ABUSIVELY! I'm so sorry this happened to you.
I expect they did it for exactly the reason she speculated. If they could force her to quit, they wouldn't have to pay her. Absolutely reprehensible.
So they won't have to pay out the contract. Notice once she asked if they wanted to part ways they told her they could keep the deal but asked her to change a lot about herself. Which anyone would know is not a reasonable ask. I think they wanted to look like they wanted to work it out and make her seem as if she was the one that decided to quit on them.
I adore you girl!!!!!!! I was bullied too, and spent a lot of my childhood sick and in the hospital. You have really let your light shine in this world and it pains me that anyone would feel the need to bring pain to you. All my love girly gal! ❤❤❤❤
That company is simply sickening. So happy that you decided to this for yourself. Those items are super cute and just so perfect to close out this ordeal for you!
So sorry that happened to you. I had to quit my last job because of bullying so I understand you. Sending love and hugs ❤
I hope that things start going better for you. 😺💜
@@westzed23 Thank you so much 💖
Omg, I’ve been having a worst mental health day than most and just hearing your reminder around 15:00 was very needed. The universe knew❤
You are a strong, accomplished, beautiful, articulate and inspirational young woman and you are a light in this world. How anyone could treat you as anything less, I don't understand.
Love that you treated yourself with the money as a way to turn the awful situation around 💕
I totally agree with you. I have encountered people that do not like me no matter how good or nice I am. Therefore, I take that power back when they have made me feel down. I have a moto: everything that goes up it will eventually come down. Cheer up Girl!❤
We all have that story. Thanks for your vulnerability. I feel the same way. And everything just makes me better, brighter and bolder.
Beautiful Choices 💓 Enjoy them and always walk away from negative people and be true to yourself 💖🌟✨✨
Oh the ending brought me to tears.. I’m still having a tough time after my engagement ended and every day is a constant battle to not think about what is wrong with me and I can only workout so much haha so thank you for those words!!
Your video already head me feeling big feelings, but when you said you may have to go back onto a medication to help and that it’s okay to need that help again, I lost it. So often it feels like leaning back on old crutches and that you’ve failed. Mental health is so hard sometimes. ❤️ Thank you for those constant reminders that needing help is okay.
Thanks for sharing this story. I had almost the exact same thing happen to me when I left my old job last month. I had to stand up and fight for myself. I had to show them proof of the work I did and that they need to pay me. I do find myself doubting myself because of what they said. This is exactly what I needed to hear at the right time.
Love you Molly!
Oh Molly, I am so sorry to hear about what you had to go through with that terrible company! You definitely don’t deserve that at all! You being SO much light and positivity and joy to RUclips and to the world. YOU matter. YOU are perfect the way you are. Thank you for letting us in on your journey of truly rising above this negative situation. You are so strong, and you are teaching and bringing so many along with you. ❤️
I am so sorry this happened to you! You did not deserve such abhorrent treatment! You are an incredible woman and I am so proud as a preschool teacher to have featured you in my Women's History Month lesson plans.
The week of 3/6-10/23 I featured a different woman in history with disabilities each day. I closed out the week featuring you and taught my kiddos about service dogs, understanding that no matter what other people think your interests are valid, we made glitter art, we talked about how makeup fashion and interior design are for everyone, we explored braille and and the importance of tactile products! You are an incredible woman, you fight for what is right, and you're changing the world. Your story is helping to bring up a new generation of more tolerant people.
Thank you for reminded us how to be above the terrible things other people do and say to us! You absolutely deserve to treat yourself and help yourself feel better and more confident in whatever way makes sense for you!
Good for you standing up for yourself and your principles and self worth, and good for your team for tearing them a new one.
An absolutely beautiful way to weather the storms in our lives. I love this and will apply it to my life! I've been there once when I held things together then broke down in tears once it was all over. And now if it ever happens again, I'll be planning a pamper/treat day for myself and have something to look forward to.
I love how you went in looking for a F U bag, and came out with a F U outfit!
Hi Molly, MB and furbabies. Thank you for what you do Molly in the disability community. As someone with Cerebral Palsy I relate to alot of your stories. I am the 4’7 lover of purple from your amazon live. Hugs and pets 💜
Hi there! I also have CP, and I'm also blind. 😊
I can’t believe people would do something like this? I’m glad you took this experience in stride and you treated yourself! Live to make yourself proud, what a lovely message ❤️
I love how you handled it, and I love that this was not an immediate response, you told us how you needed processing time and coping strategies to get back on track first. It makes me think of a phrase I use to be kind to myself:
"Diamonds are formed under pressure, but dough only rises when you let it rest"
You Go Girl! I had an experience years ago that still occasionally crops up. You helped me so much to put this memory in its place. It has been squished.
Oh my god thank you Molly for sharing this horrible shocking experience. I have been so down on myself and this is making me feel so positive. Thank you for reminding me that it is important to pick ourselves back up and love yourself. I really needed to hear this.❤ You are an amazing strong person. Thank you again. 🙏🏻💗💗💗
I love how kind you are to yourself here. This is such a powerful thing. You have a wonderful team that sees you and values you and has your back. Not to mention the beautiful Elton John who totally sees your beauty inside and out❤
I love the message of this video! It is so important to be yourself and love yourself. You are truly an inspiration.
Today I am recovering from a traumatic event at the Doctor's office yesterday, and my bestie just called me to ask if we could go shopping this weekend!
I'm so sorry for all of the trauma we go through just because people think they can do whatever they want, to whomever they want because of their position.
Hugs. You're lovely ❤🎉
I sooo needed to hear this 😭😭
Molly, I'm so sorry you went through this! That company's behavior was absolutely unacceptable and not OK. I'm so proud of you for empowering yourself and taking care of yourself and for not changing yourself just because they told you to. You are an amazing person and we are all here to support you.
The one problem with not naming the company is that other people can fall prey to those tactics in the future. The company will not learn anything from having done this except to hide evidence better in the future. It’s sad that nothing will happen to them for what they put Molly and probably other people through.
Great to watch you again , missed you xoxoxoxoxo
Molly I just have to say I'm quite impressed at how well you do your makeup so effortlessly.
I needed to here these words today. Recently I was backstabbed by my very close friends. I’m struggling. Thank you Molly.
Your makeup application is impeccable. ❤
Molly, one of the reasons I continue to watch your channel is because I identify with the struggles of being a very sensitive person. I can understand why this traumatized you and I love how you handled it. I'm so sorry it hurt so much. I'm glad you got paid and treated yourself. Way to take back your power!
Loved this video. I must admit I was taken aback at first by the video « FU » title… but I knew that I could trust Molly and wasn’t disappointed. I hope one day my children find the strength to also say FU to any haters around them. Doing my best (as a mom) to teach them to demand to be treated kindly/respectfully and to recognize when people should be ignored because any interaction with them isn’t worth their time/effort. So glad you made the choices you made and managed to recover and post this video about buying an FU bag!!!
Ugh I hate when people hurt me.. hurt others!! I always try to be kind! Even if others are mean. I’m glad to see you push through! ❤
This video came at the best time for me. I was recently fired from my job, very abruptly and without good reason. I gave everything to that job for a year and a half, and I never got anything good in return. Being fired was a blessing in disguise, but I'm still really stressed about it. This video really helped ease some of the stress and reminded me that I'll be better off elsewhere, and I don't have to worry about that place or those toxic ass people
Hey 👋 Molly you always been a inspiration to me with your videos. My mom just had her first chemotherapy treatment and I'm praying 🙏 it will work 😢. Please keep me in your prayers 🙏
I love how you are always rocking the bun your so beautiful and inspiring Molly.
Your first outfit is 100% David Rose chic. LOVE IT!
Absolutely loved this video and your message! Never change who you are to make someone else happy. It took me a long time and a horrible relationship to really learn how detrimental losing myself was to my mental health. I am a huge advocate of therapy, caring our mental health and personal growth. I’ve been on this journey for the past 3 years and wish I had done it years ago.
I love your outfit and your FU haul! That Fendi bag is to die for !!
MOLLY UGHHHH I LOVE THE BAG!!!
You handled yourself so well in this situation, Molly! Happy to hear how your team responded to the other company. Some people are so miserable they literally get joy out of hurting other people. Joke's on them because you got their money and have risen above them. F them.
I love your Elton John voice when you say what he thinks, it's just adorable.
What perfect choices you made! The textures are everything!! Wear everything in good health and know that when you wear it, the F stands for FABULOUS!!!!!
FU to the haters for SURE
im so glad you found a way to turn that terrible situation into something empowering, bc what those people did was BEYOND effed up
Absolutely LOVE the Fendi items you purchased. Every single item is perfect. 💕
You did it again. I'm at a low right now and here you are saying all those things and here I'm crying because you're so right.
Thank you, I love you're FU bag!! And that you found the sunglasses 😎🤍🤍 you're the best. xoxoxo
I wish I knew what company it was that acted so horribly and unprofessionally! I don’t want to give them any business
I am so sorry this happened to you, but also really appreciate you sharing. I needed to hear much of this advice lately, so thank you as always for sharing your wisdom.
Preach! I.👏 LOVE.👏 THIS.👏
I support and believe in you 💯!! You are so inspiring and honest. It took me a long time to own who I am and that it is not an option to change for anyone! You are so right that you have many, many people in your life that support, love and believe in you!! You have no room for them! Waste of your headspace!! I love the power that you got back to!! You are awesome!!!
Good for you! It was the perfect thing to do with that money. Retail therapy is sometimes the best therapy. I can't even imagine what they'd want you to change? Look more blind? Be taller? What's to change? I'm guessing they wanted you to be dishonest about their product and you said no. Either way, revenge bag is the perfect response.
You really inspired me. Thank you! Recently went through an abusive situation.
Standing your ground, and standing up for yourself and being true to yourself is absolutely an achievement. Not an achievement any one wants to have, but you held on to your integrity and refused to sell out. I'm sorry that was done to you. I'm also glad that you are taking this and running with it and turning into a positive, and taking your power back.
Honestly this outfit is so you!!! It really suits your style well!
And I'm happy that you've been able to transform this experience into something positive! But it sucks that a company acts that way. It's shady and they shouldn't be in business.
I am a sighted 31 year old woman and you do your makeup 1000% better than I can. You are amazing
I clicked on this video expecting just to distract myself with drama but I actually really needed to hear this right now. Thank you.
Good for you Queen. Life and shiddy people may knock you down occasionally, but they can't keep you down. Hopefully you know that they hold no power over you, even when they get to you. Like you did this and other times, you got yourself back up and offered help and inspired to the rest of us. Nobody can take that away. And this community outshines any haters that come along. You made space for that.
Y🥰U are a great therapy, Molly!! You being you and sharing yourself with us sure brightens my life, thank you! 💝 Yesterday, I was having a tough disability day, exhausted and was brought to tears of gratitude thinking about you! 😍 I knew I could keep going, I wasn’t alone! I thanked God for you, and so many Warriors out there living with graceful endurance too! 🧡 Your FU outfit is on point!! I love it and the LOVE on the shoes is the big (fuzzy) bow that ties it all together! 🤎👟🤎
literally such a cute combo - negative money spent in a positive way 💯
Molly, bravo. You are so amazing. I wish you could name these creeps. So glad you are in a supportive family.
I can't believe you had to go through that 😢 way to take back that energy and turn it around ❤ love the new outfit
The best F U adventure of all! Just got home from a rough trip and this is exactly what I needed - your JOY!
Needed to hear this.
I love how you turned the situation into something that would give you some joy. You already know you didn't deserve the abuse and I can't imagine the mental gymnastics those people had to do for them to ultimately end up with the solution they went with. They're bullies and they deserve a HUGE F YOU
Love you Molly. I'm here with you always ❤️