How To Make The Audience Cry

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
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    Here is my guide on how to bring the reader to tears. In this video essay I analyse Up, The green mile and interstellar to try and figure out what makes them so sad.
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  • @dickwwee9366
    @dickwwee9366 7 лет назад +6916

    "Don't put that thing over my face. Don't put me in the dark, I'm afraid of the dark." that part always makes me burst into tears. He is just so innocent.

    • @orfeas248
      @orfeas248 7 лет назад +114

      same

    • @freyatheplaya994
      @freyatheplaya994 7 лет назад +411

      It's the handshake while he's shackled to the chair that gets me

    • @rise9666
      @rise9666 7 лет назад +10

      nope nope
      I have your profile pic as mine in what's app 😂

    • @dlc1518
      @dlc1518 7 лет назад +176

      I have never seen that move but in the scene that he showed and the knowledge of the character and the situation he was in got me Reeeeeeeeeeeal sad

    • @annacollins8999
      @annacollins8999 7 лет назад +22

      Denise Cornelius geuss who be crying right now boi

  • @jakemitchell1132
    @jakemitchell1132 3 года назад +5474

    “I’s afraid of the dark.”
    That line right there, always brings me to tears.

    • @dillpickle9438
      @dillpickle9438 Год назад +171

      "I'm tired boss"

    • @jamesr5436
      @jamesr5436 Год назад +137

      Everything about the Green Mile just burns an absolute hole in my chest. Its such a GREAT movie.

    • @brisklloydavator
      @brisklloydavator Год назад +56

      i didn't even watch the movie and i got a little watery

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 Год назад +14

      He's very childlike there.

    • @justinsingh912
      @justinsingh912 Год назад +8

      That line hurts

  • @SweetiePieChannelLink
    @SweetiePieChannelLink 3 года назад +4736

    “don’t put me in the dark boss. I’s afraid of the dark.”

    • @Maerahn
      @Maerahn 3 года назад +212

      @Ryan Lynch Oh god yes! The mouse getting killed by that douchebag prisoner, the moment we realised the real meaning behind John Coffey's statement about the two girls - "I couldn't take it back"... yeah, there was a LOT of sadness mixed in with the lighter moments.

    • @ImperialWarrior6490
      @ImperialWarrior6490 3 года назад +55

      I bawled my eyes out when I first watched that scene. I've got tears in my eyes right now just thinking about it. Poor John Coffey...

    • @The_Official_Goblin
      @The_Official_Goblin 3 года назад +36

      You ever seen just mercy
      The scene of Herbert's death is just heart breaking you feel bad cause hes on death row hes a nam vet and as hes strapped in the chair the people watching hear cups clanging as all the other inmates are rattling there cups and just yelling " WERE ALL HERE FOR YA HERBERT" and just before the switch is pulled he smiles a little and I'm crying writing this

    • @Eta_Carinae__
      @Eta_Carinae__ 3 года назад +22

      I have only cried once at film in the last 10 years, and it was that damned movie

    • @r.jclark4641
      @r.jclark4641 3 года назад +43

      Stephen King decided that day to stop making people scared and start making them depressed.

  • @patrickkanas3874
    @patrickkanas3874 Год назад +450

    What also makes John's death heart wrenching is that the guards offered to let him run, but he said no and stated that he wished to die because he had enough of how cruel the world is

  • @CoryTheCorsterCory
    @CoryTheCorsterCory 2 года назад +4701

    "A confused viewer, is never going to cry"
    Totally agree, when I was a child and saw Up for the first time, I didn't understand how devastating the loss of a baby is, that the funeral of Ellie was indeed her funeral (I thought that Karl wanted to re-visit the place where he got married or smth) and those two key elements to make sadness totally failed me, I learned too late what meant what so I think I'll never cry to that scene again unless I want to, damn it

    • @mintyhippo8125
      @mintyhippo8125 Год назад +84

      Can’t you just watch it again? The reveals aren’t the only sad part, it’s the contrast with the good and bad

    • @Tondon..
      @Tondon.. Год назад +48

      Just wait a decade and rewatch it like me

    • @AlinaAniretake
      @AlinaAniretake Год назад +11

      Same was with Mufasa death

    • @charlesguillergan8759
      @charlesguillergan8759 Год назад +16

      Dawg I didn’t know those things either as a kid and still cried my ass off

    • @basti2607
      @basti2607 Год назад +19

      @@mintyhippo8125 At least for me this doesn't work. If I cried once because of a film or series, I will not again. It's still sad, but idk just not sad enough to make me cry again.

  • @the-jar
    @the-jar 5 лет назад +9020

    “I’m a nerd, I’ve never even had a girlfriend”
    Head up king, your crown is falling

    • @aaaaantek
      @aaaaantek 5 лет назад +186

      It went to show how well he understood and mastered the subject he was describing. I am sad now.

    • @Daddyghostface1153
      @Daddyghostface1153 4 года назад +89

      My best friend once told me that. It brought tears to my eyes❤

    • @peachyyy7728
      @peachyyy7728 4 года назад +55

      That was the part of the video that made me cry 😂

    • @hasancankirac9265
      @hasancankirac9265 4 года назад +30

      That made me cry

    • @SplitGoose
      @SplitGoose 4 года назад +2

      @@hasancankirac9265 Seriously? Wow.

  • @lastnamefirstname8224
    @lastnamefirstname8224 7 лет назад +2003

    One particular scene that gets me is the scene on I Am Legend where Will Smith's character has to kill his dog that is infected with the virus. The close up to his face while he's angry and crying really expresses the injustice that he feels of his dog getting robbed of its life and not only that but he is getting robbed of his only living friend.

    • @RazmOnnen
      @RazmOnnen 7 лет назад +264

      what really gets me is the scene just after that, when he goes into the shop and is desperate for the dummy to speak to him, "please say hello to me"

    • @mrhoapro1
      @mrhoapro1 7 лет назад +138

      RazmOnnen that's a great scene too. The movie deal with loneliness really good, until the woman appear

    • @acr7780
      @acr7780 7 лет назад +53

      That's the only scene ever in a movie that has made me cry

    • @acr7780
      @acr7780 7 лет назад +51

      and it had me crying like a bitch...

    • @A2Ztigers
      @A2Ztigers 7 лет назад +34

      Also because it's a dog and for some reason we emphasize more with people losing animal companions.

  • @genericfriend2568
    @genericfriend2568 Год назад +602

    That one scene in the Green Mile is one of the most heartbreaking things in film making. Mr. Duncan's performance was absolutely painful to watch, but also genuinely one of the best deliveries ever.

    • @khpoon5424
      @khpoon5424 Год назад +4

      yes

    • @aidensudeyko183
      @aidensudeyko183 10 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah, truly , John was an amazing character.

    • @Noobatsecs69
      @Noobatsecs69 7 месяцев назад +1

      And during emotional scenes Mr. Duncan would recall his father leaving him as a child to evoke such profound emotions

  • @kitkatkinz
    @kitkatkinz 5 лет назад +5257

    "a confused viewer is never going to cry"
    *infinity war flashbacks*

    • @VargoOP
      @VargoOP 5 лет назад +99

      kitkatisweird how was infinity war confusing

    • @animasuper1343
      @animasuper1343 5 лет назад +251

      what if he didn't watch other marvel movies

    • @VargoOP
      @VargoOP 5 лет назад +42

      AnimaSuper O

    • @kuroshiro413
      @kuroshiro413 5 лет назад +230

      Dude I watched Endgame, the only marvel movie I ever watched. Half the time, I didn't understand anything. I still got the goosebumps when cap america said 'assemble'. Almost felt like crying right there

    • @sloopfan3706
      @sloopfan3706 5 лет назад +31

      @@animasuper1343 actually, i hadn't seen other marvel movies (except spider-man:homecoming) and i was able to get a really good grasp on the film.

  • @chrismhp
    @chrismhp 7 лет назад +20949

    "I'm a nerd, I've never even had a girlfriend."
    Damn, you need a hug bro?

    • @TheCloserLook
      @TheCloserLook  7 лет назад +5643

      :(
      Girlfriends get in the way of overwatch. I have my priorities sorted out...

    • @evanm320
      @evanm320 7 лет назад +1020

      The Closer Look I don't want no teenage queen, I just want my M14

    • @chimpinaneckbrace
      @chimpinaneckbrace 7 лет назад +424

      Chrispy Cine He's just trying to make everyone cry.

    • @MrTheManav
      @MrTheManav 7 лет назад +123

      hugs are appreciated

    • @Toffeecup
      @Toffeecup 7 лет назад +67

      Such a sad man....

  • @PacKMAnpimp
    @PacKMAnpimp 6 лет назад +898

    When he said, “I’ve never even had a girlfriend” I instantly started crying. Great vid

    • @JP_AZ
      @JP_AZ 6 лет назад +11

      Mikhail Buchanan. Lol you mean from laughing...😂

    • @PainfulWatching
      @PainfulWatching 6 лет назад +34

      I know! It's so relatable...

    • @Queef_Storm
      @Queef_Storm 6 лет назад +1

      why is that sad? plenty of people go through life alone and are quite happy

    • @diegosilva3927
      @diegosilva3927 6 лет назад +6

      Dustoe McDust Stop... My heart can't take this...

    • @GustoFormula
      @GustoFormula 6 лет назад

      But humans are social creatures. I think you should see the movie Into the Wild.

  • @EggRobot
    @EggRobot Год назад +2673

    An example of “you don’t need to empathize with a character to be sad when they die” that I couldn’t help but think of during this was Walter White. He became a horrible person, and barely anyone in the audience could empathize for him, yet it was still very sad to watch when he died

    • @zeej80
      @zeej80 Год назад +34

      It’s a masterpiece at a redemption arc!

    • @xavierwhitcraft1310
      @xavierwhitcraft1310 Год назад +218

      @@zeej80 i wouldnt say redemption. Walter just rights his wrongs with Jesse and cleans up everything connected to him. Him dying is him being victorious in never being caught and having lived his life to the fullest in the short time he had left.

    • @ah-sh9dw
      @ah-sh9dw Год назад +46

      I had a different experience with breaking bad. Empathize means to understand someone's feelings, Walter might have made some horrible decisions and was straight up evil towards the end but he was also well fleshed out, his motivations made sense, we could see how everything effected him, and I still found him easy to empathize with. If I dont have that kind of connection to character and the show wants me to feel sad then it better have some damn good music

    • @LadyCorthon
      @LadyCorthon Год назад +27

      @@ah-sh9dw understand evil, but do not sympathize with it

    • @roxwize
      @roxwize Год назад +15

      AGGGGHHH SPOILER WARNING PPLEASE

  • @lizzysiambread3130
    @lizzysiambread3130 5 лет назад +1643

    Literally anyone:
    *mentions Interstellar
    Me:
    *loud crying

    • @ssently7512
      @ssently7512 5 лет назад +3

      Lizzy Sima me omg

    • @Yeetboi-lf7yz
      @Yeetboi-lf7yz 4 года назад +27

      I don’t find it sad but the soundtrack gives me the goosebumps with the intense moments like in the black hole scene or in the scene where they start playing mountains

    • @lvbboi9
      @lvbboi9 4 года назад +3

      Same

    • @taysem321
      @taysem321 4 года назад +20

      This movie is really strong. I mean, it has everything. Space, drama, impossibly good soundtrack, exciting visuals and the most important part, crying in total gloom over a relationship at the same time impossible to apply to yourself and incredibly empathetic for probably anyone

    • @Safiyahalishah
      @Safiyahalishah 4 года назад +14

      I cried at _four_ different points in the film. One of them was not even sad!! I cried at the goddamn docking scene after Mann blew up the hatch! 🤣
      Yes I am pathetic.

  • @jennyneon
    @jennyneon 3 года назад +7391

    It's ironic that the movie called _“Up”_ puts everyone's mood _down._

    • @ritaress9910
      @ritaress9910 3 года назад +326

      But you can't get more up than by starting at the bottom...

    • @jennyneon
      @jennyneon 3 года назад +46

      @@ritaress9910 That is true.

    • @jamesnialG
      @jamesnialG 3 года назад +137

      @@jennyneon I agree with what Rita said. The title of the movie carries strong double meaning. In the literal sense, the title "Up" is fitting because they are going up into the sky, but it could also be interpreted as Carl starting the film at an all time low, and slowly rising up, and bringing the audience with him, as he finds something new to live for.

    • @N.N01
      @N.N01 3 года назад +7

      🌽

    • @edenmckinley3472
      @edenmckinley3472 2 года назад +11

      That movie had so many gutpunch moments, interspersed between moments of absolute joy. It puts you both up and down, which makes for good writing.

  • @jacko9760
    @jacko9760 3 года назад +1217

    Things that make me cry in movies:
    Remembering
    Forgetting
    Accomplishing A Dream
    Finishing A Journey

  • @earthisround6783
    @earthisround6783 Год назад +159

    No matter how many times I watch this, the, “I’m afraid of the dark” line will always, and I mean always make me cry.

  • @Robo0595
    @Robo0595 7 лет назад +1216

    I think what also makes the Up sequence especially sad is that it's so perfectly normal. There's no fantastical tragedy that sweeps his life. It's simply a view of a plausible life, as we see 5 second snipets of Everyman's life story. There is happiness, love, joy, sadness, death, and loneliness. These are all experiences we are nearly guaranteed as humans.
    It serves as an overview of our own pointless fleeting mortality and that terrifies and saddens us. The rest of the movie uses this understanding of existence to make a point that it's never too late to seek adventure and find joy in life once again.

    • @AllThingsFilm1
      @AllThingsFilm1 6 лет назад +16

      Well said.

    • @richardph5359
      @richardph5359 6 лет назад +6

      Dang...

    • @R4Y2k
      @R4Y2k 6 лет назад +9

      The real "great tragedy" is the "small tragedy" and by decoding that from the movies, you can learn a lot about human behaviour and the great tragedy that is life ;-)

    • @soullight8632
      @soullight8632 6 лет назад +4

      I love that Pixar always (or at least usually) tries to bring a great message behind each movie

    • @falseworldtruehearts3740
      @falseworldtruehearts3740 6 лет назад

      Robo0595 well said

  • @bladez8589
    @bladez8589 4 года назад +4738

    This is how to make them cry
    -sad backstory
    -funny and likeable character
    -friends
    -one goal they never achieve
    -death
    Boom tears

    • @nitroxylictv
      @nitroxylictv 4 года назад +177

      Holy shit I'm gonna die. I have made it to step 3......

    • @pokaay3163
      @pokaay3163 4 года назад +74

      @@nitroxylictv at least people will miss you

    • @pr6897
      @pr6897 4 года назад +39

      JoJo?

    • @urmumlol1991
      @urmumlol1991 4 года назад +46

      -Have a kid have mom troubles with no dad
      -have him have an escape from this world where he can enjoy himself
      - He makes friends and has a good time
      -Make him realize his mom is the only real thing he had and make him regret his actions
      -Some kid in a wolf suit

    • @giusio9114
      @giusio9114 4 года назад +4

      Nairobi from La Casa De Papel

  • @valiant_7274
    @valiant_7274 4 года назад +622

    “I’m not married. I’m a nerd, I’ve never even had a girlfriend.” That’s the most relatable thing I’ve heard.

    • @SkylarGlider
      @SkylarGlider 3 года назад +5

      It is

    • @stephenpassaggio9975
      @stephenpassaggio9975 2 года назад +1

      I can’t relate to that at all - I’ve had probably 50 girl friends

    • @Officiall_Bean
      @Officiall_Bean 2 года назад +12

      @@stephenpassaggio9975 I have found 50 dead bodies in ur basement. What did you do

    • @_the_rizzler
      @_the_rizzler 2 года назад +11

      @@Officiall_Bean You don't seem to understand that they were already like that when he started dating them

    • @TyrannosaurusGaming
      @TyrannosaurusGaming 2 года назад

      @@_the_rizzler 💀

  • @mintyhippo8125
    @mintyhippo8125 Год назад +1288

    In Up when Carl notices that Ellie filled out the rest of the adventure book with their life together makes me cry, too.
    The contrast of Carl feeling like he failed Ellie then him finding out that Ellie didn’t feel like they failed at all is so cute and loving.
    More moving than sad, but still makes me cry.

    • @joserios4409
      @joserios4409 Год назад +54

      I felt like this scene was hugely overshadowed by the audience for a long time now. This scene feels incredibly emotional because the audience saw how broken and desolate Carl was after the passing of Ellie. Him being a cheerful and happy young person at the beginning of the montage only to turn into a lonely and depressed old man by the end. Throughout the movie Carl does everything to honor Ellie, like choosing to save their house over saving Kevin despite Russell's urgent pleas, because he feels that he failed Ellie on accomplishing their trip to Paradise Falls. To especially point out that Carl kept avoiding to look at the adventure book after her death at first, and be finally strong enough to open the book and realize how in Ellie's perspective, she was happy and accomplished with her life. And Ellie's message for Carl to move one and start his own adventures was what I believe started to steer him to a more happy and determined direction about saving Russell and Kevin. It's one of my favorite scenes in Pixar.

    • @jeremynikijuluwstanevil7551
      @jeremynikijuluwstanevil7551 Год назад +7

      ​@@joserios4409 I agree wholeheartedly with you

    • @linkfan160
      @linkfan160 Год назад +3

      I agree, that scene makes me more emotional than the beginning, actually.

    • @lavendertease
      @lavendertease Год назад +3

      That part had my husband sobbing

    • @sieteocho
      @sieteocho Год назад +3

      I don't agree with henryboseley / Closer Look's interpretation that the Up segment is about injustice. I prefer to call it love and grief. His life is not a tragedy - it was a wonderful thing. Ellie was a gift to him, even if it were taken away in the end.
      The most important aspect of this thing was that it explained why Carl was so attached to the house and the idea of the vacation and adventure.

  • @p0rt3r
    @p0rt3r 5 лет назад +2945

    The part most noticed by viewers: "I'm a nerd, I've never even had a girlfriend."
    Their reaction: empathy and sadness, offerings of hugs
    Reason: INJUSTICE!

    • @ks6650
      @ks6650 4 года назад +36

      *Internet hug*

    • @Dammlee
      @Dammlee 4 года назад +10

      i kinda feel like this was totally intended and i love it

    • @Hacker_Kamyko
      @Hacker_Kamyko 4 года назад +7

      Nerd? Lucky that he is smart in some way. I'm an ugly duckling and I'm an idiot.

  • @notjamin
    @notjamin 6 лет назад +2245

    "I'm a nerd, I've never even had a girlfriend" relatable content

    • @marinjo123
      @marinjo123 6 лет назад +185

      most emotional moment in youtube history, i cried

    • @jeffcelis3024
      @jeffcelis3024 6 лет назад +141

      that's a huge injustice right there

    • @FinalFirebrand
      @FinalFirebrand 6 лет назад

      How ignorant.

    • @tanzhonghui
      @tanzhonghui 6 лет назад +9

      Injust, evokes sympathy and empathy. Now we just need to see you react XD

    • @Comedyschule
      @Comedyschule 6 лет назад

      Jamin You Have No Jims this made me cry

  • @DennyFatKid
    @DennyFatKid 5 лет назад +5650

    How To Make The Audience Cry:
    "I'm a nerd, i dont even have a girlfriend"

  • @squishyeggg7251
    @squishyeggg7251 Год назад +17

    Honestly, I feel like I cry hardest when a scene is sad but also has a beautiful undertone.
    I remember Klaus (spoilers) makes me ugly cry every time when Klaus disappears into the woods after announcing to his late wife that he’s coming. He’s not scared, he’s satisfied with the life he lived, which is something not everyone gets when it’s their time.
    When it shows Jesper looking for him, asking everyone they’ve met throughout the movie, I got this sad sad feeling. Klaus is happy, but he left so many people behind. The movie ends when Jesper has two children, tucking them into bed before he sets out some milk and cookies before sitting in a chair and staring at the chimney. The last thing he narrates is “I don’t know why or how, but once a year, I get to see my friend again.” As he hears someone come down the chimney
    Something about tragedy that is interlaced with a beautiful undertone really hits me and a lot of my friends, since you don’t always see things like death highlighted in a more positive way, allowing us to know that everything isn’t always as bleak as it seems

  • @elilastnamington9808
    @elilastnamington9808 6 лет назад +936

    The whole time he's building up his character to be this nice likable guy, who has done nothing wrong and we begin to feel as if we know him. Then he lays it on us "I've never even had a girlfriend, I'm a nerd." This not only makes the viewer weep with empathy, but it's also a twist, which is a call back to some of his earlier work --- Well done.

    • @mariouribe4083
      @mariouribe4083 6 лет назад +62

      Eli Lastnamington this comment needs to be viral.

    • @nigeltheipodmaster
      @nigeltheipodmaster 6 лет назад +6

      Eli Lastnamington Literally the funniest comment ever

    • @jq1841
      @jq1841 6 лет назад +2

      Underrated comment😂😂😂

    • @Digiglobal
      @Digiglobal 6 лет назад +2

      Best comment Ever !!! Hands down

    • @iironhide6209
      @iironhide6209 6 лет назад +2

      I'm getting you a medal

  • @lightyagami4535
    @lightyagami4535 3 года назад +11770

    How to make the audience cry:
    - create a compelling and appealing character for your audience
    - have the audience learn to care for the character
    - have them follow the character’s journey for years
    - kill them off
    Congratulations. You made the audience cry.

    • @starflight228
      @starflight228 3 года назад +466

      All I see is Loki

    • @felwinterslie8223
      @felwinterslie8223 3 года назад +237

      So danganronpa

    • @fkdjdjcmckdjdjf3728
      @fkdjdjcmckdjdjf3728 3 года назад +257

      HIm: you absolutely don't need to relate to the character. you ust need the audience to empathize
      You: no

    • @Fatestcates
      @Fatestcates 3 года назад +86

      *it's alright boah*

    • @averagechannel4210
      @averagechannel4210 3 года назад +91

      The Walking Dead (the Telltale series), Lee and Clementine (kinda)

  • @jacobb.9181
    @jacobb.9181 5 лет назад +435

    *Hears the piano music from up*
    *immediately starts crying*

    • @rider3117
      @rider3117 5 лет назад +3

      Dude I fuck with your profile pic

    • @Cody-ru1cz
      @Cody-ru1cz 5 лет назад +2

      @@rider3117 is that speedwagon

    • @lannasdoom
      @lannasdoom 5 лет назад +1

      i stared sobbing the second i heard the piano

  • @Megacooler96_
    @Megacooler96_ Год назад +67

    I rarely cry but that scene from The Green Mile gets me every damn time...its just too painful not to shed a tear.

  • @freyatheplaya994
    @freyatheplaya994 7 лет назад +1156

    Had to add Logan to the short list of films that made me cry. "It wasn't me, Charles, it wasn't me..."

    • @David_Larkin
      @David_Larkin 7 лет назад +99

      Freya The Playa So... that's how it feels like...
      That's the line that broke me

    • @adamwoolston253
      @adamwoolston253 7 лет назад +85

      DeadStrike99 For me it was "Daddy." Can't get over that one. I realized that all I was looking at was an 11 year old girl who had lost everything watch the last person that was important in her life die. The injustice bwing that she had lost her childhood and her every meaningful relationship she ever had. And she was so young. Compound that with the end of Wolverine and I couldn't handle myself

    • @nicksketch7122
      @nicksketch7122 7 лет назад +38

      Adam Woolston
      I'm still recpvering from LOGAN emotionally.

    • @layoverbear
      @layoverbear 7 лет назад +20

      Freya The Playa fuck you just opened the flood gates again.

    • @anonymousaccount4483
      @anonymousaccount4483 7 лет назад +21

      Freya The Playa Logan was the best Marvel Movie emotional wise, it wasn't about the characters as superheroes anymore as they are innocent people dealing with life. Even all the easter eggs which if it were any other Marvel film people would flip out in excitement, in Logan people were so silent as they let it sink in because the Easter Eggs were still amazing but so sad tone wise

  • @oceanmonument823
    @oceanmonument823 4 года назад +2892

    “A confused person is never going to cry”. Someone’s never seen Evangelion

    • @neththeobnoxioussponge8929
      @neththeobnoxioussponge8929 4 года назад +161

      Imagine how would a sad confused person sound like

    • @milkabutterfly
      @milkabutterfly 4 года назад +32

      Underrated comment lmao

    • @Dahpie
      @Dahpie 4 года назад +97

      I think even if you don't really understand every aspect of Evangelion the troubled relationships between the characters and the main theme of people being unable to express or relate to others without pain can be felt regardless.

    • @LeBornMajes
      @LeBornMajes 4 года назад +19

      The person who cried is the one who lost a friend or family because of the clusterfuck of that ending (seizure)

    • @inkay1801
      @inkay1801 4 года назад +18

      Someone hasn't seen the death of Kakyoin

  • @thealienlife
    @thealienlife Год назад +654

    as a man, I have never cried
    harder than when I watched green mile

    • @Cowboy0Hat
      @Cowboy0Hat Год назад +18

      Same, Green Mile was the closest I've ever came to crying over a show or movie. Absolute masterpiece

    • @lucasho-hz4tt
      @lucasho-hz4tt Год назад +9

      I haven’t even watched it but from the clips I have seen, I can flood mars with the tears I shed
      Even looking at the still images makes me tear up

    • @sillygustavo775
      @sillygustavo775 Год назад +3

      Same. I cried for 20 minutes

    • @skansky__
      @skansky__ Год назад +1

      Its the only movie I have cried in but I cried more when the guy with the mouse dies (I don’t remember he’s name)

    • @narmale
      @narmale Год назад +1

      or watching Sabaton's version of 1916... or Rammstein's Zeit

  • @Hannah-dm2jy
    @Hannah-dm2jy 5 лет назад +9345

    You guys are overthinking this too much. Just get pepper spray and spray it on the audience.

    • @WokeDEMOCRATShaveASPD
      @WokeDEMOCRATShaveASPD 5 лет назад +209

      That was wonka's original plan. Instead of sending chocolate through the tv, he wanted to mace people through the tv.
      Wonka- "ahhhhh.....not a dry eye in the house.......soon.....not a dry eye in any house 😠".

    • @ronxinator9050
      @ronxinator9050 5 лет назад +48

      Ah so that’s the weird smell there always is in drama cinema showings

    • @andreweeb0331
      @andreweeb0331 5 лет назад +31

      @@khatunamezvrishvili6211 well fuck you

    • @Whatismusic123
      @Whatismusic123 5 лет назад +5

      Angsty Tantrum was that an attemt at a joke?

    • @dinoclaire1014
      @dinoclaire1014 5 лет назад +10

      No, use tear gas.

  • @pontywaun
    @pontywaun 3 года назад +684

    Just showing The Green Mile in the thumbnail was enough to make me tear up

    • @bnn366
      @bnn366 3 года назад +7

      And interstellar

    • @dicklover4203
      @dicklover4203 2 года назад +8

      Green mile was so sad, dell's death made me sob like a baby first time i saw it, especially when percy told dell that mousevile isnt real, that moment and the iconic line about not wanting to be left in the dark are the things that made me and every person i know weep like a child, the only happy death was billy the kid's death

    • @nuggetanimation7217
      @nuggetanimation7217 2 года назад +3

      same thinking about that movie makes me wanna cry

    • @istolethispfpsorry485
      @istolethispfpsorry485 2 года назад +1

      Reading a quote from it in the comments makes me want to cry

    • @Unpug
      @Unpug Год назад

      :(

  • @Therealjjinxed_turtle
    @Therealjjinxed_turtle Год назад +22

    In The Outsiders, Johnny Cades’s death is the same way. He was abused all his life, rescued children from a church fire, and he still died, while Ponyboy, his friend, couldn’t do anything to help him. Great video!

    • @Liability2
      @Liability2 Год назад +4

      I know. I personally find the fact that he had done good all his life yet faced such injustice. He wasn’t even happy when they won the fight, just disappointed. It shows that Johnny had not cared about the darker side of the world anymore.

    • @Therealjjinxed_turtle
      @Therealjjinxed_turtle Год назад

      @@Liability2 IGuess that’s the key to the sadness in the film.

    • @Liability2
      @Liability2 Год назад +1

      @@Therealjjinxed_turtle yeah. I cried when I first read the book

    • @Therealjjinxed_turtle
      @Therealjjinxed_turtle Год назад

      @@Liability2 same here 😭

  • @_taylor_1604
    @_taylor_1604 5 лет назад +828

    Bruh I cried during the scene where Wilson gets lost in Castaway

    • @aidanoneill1506
      @aidanoneill1506 5 лет назад +17

      Same

    • @bugsyn
      @bugsyn 4 года назад +26

      That film is soooo underrated

    • @Luminty99
      @Luminty99 4 года назад +22

      Exactly, because of of Tom's dramatic reaction and sadness over it

    • @thehamster0520
      @thehamster0520 4 года назад +7

      I did too , but not for wilson , for the characters mental state

    • @yeetrootthebeetroot3872
      @yeetrootthebeetroot3872 4 года назад +6

      Omgg I was bawlinggg

  • @volcanosauce00
    @volcanosauce00 7 лет назад +510

    I assumed that Carl and Ellie had a miscarriage. It makes more sense as to why they never have another child.

    • @babotond
      @babotond 7 лет назад +177

      I think he meant that too, but actually, when I first saw the movie, I thought Ellie was unable to give birth.

    • @maura_the_rose
      @maura_the_rose 7 лет назад +57

      garner montgomery I believe they were refering to Ellie being infertile-- miscarridges happen pretty often.

    • @joltster109
      @joltster109 7 лет назад +59

      garner montgomery I always thought she was infertile.

    • @DirtyPrancing
      @DirtyPrancing 7 лет назад +40

      It might be that the first miscarriage made them look deeper and discover an issue with her body that makes it impossible to carry an infant to term.

    • @marianyvega8756
      @marianyvega8756 7 лет назад +10

      I'm pretty sure she had the same issue that Marilyn Monroe did, like endometriosis or her ectopic(tube) pregnancy were there would have been no saving the child. Bc why start setting up a nursery if they weren't getting ready for the baby?

  • @staorus4047
    @staorus4047 Год назад +33

    Inside Out was also a great movie that followed this formula of contrasts and injustice. Strangely, the scene that nearly made me cry was when the monkey island fell down. Riley lost Joy and Sadness to no fault of her own and watching the grey barren island (each island had a personal resemblance) fall down into a void of damp darkness, it was accompanied by cutscenes of happy memories of Riley being a complete goofball and having playful fun, just being a kid. It's powerful because it reflects losing a very defining part of yourself because of circumstances you cannot control.
    Another example was, interestingly, Minecraft: Story Mode, chapter 4. The writers made Rueben the pig such a lovable companion to the gang, and the big injustice is that Rueben essentially saved the day, the poor piglet didn't deserve to die. This shows that sometimes serving justice to everyone else comes at the cost of injustice to you, you did your part for everyone else, and you get no reward, no chance to see the bright world afterwards that you helped save. It's what made Iron Man's death very compelling as well in Avengers: Endgame, which I will mention, Tony dying did not make me cry, Tony's hologram telling Morgan, "I love you 3000" is what made me bawl my eyes out. Tony always learns from his mistakes, he never got to say goodbye to his parents, so he left a message behind so that he could say goodbye to his daughter one more time. And the cherry on top was the "Proof that Tony Stark has a heart" on a bouquet sent into the stream, a callback to the message that kept him going in the first Iron Man movie 11 years (15 years chronologically) before.

    • @sathvamp1
      @sathvamp1 8 месяцев назад

      Inside out was MY first movie to strongly trigger tears from me... at a late age 35, too! For me it was when Joy was stuck in the pit thinking Riley may never be happy again, especially when she said "Do you remember... when she used to stick her tongue out when she was coloring?"
      That was like "OK GAME OVER" for me...!

  • @josephmother3720
    @josephmother3720 4 года назад +17999

    you missed one more important thing, it's the music

    • @davyjones5068
      @davyjones5068 4 года назад +126

      Infinity War?

    • @gemerM0
      @gemerM0 4 года назад +529

      He mentioned it in up he said the camera and the music were the only things to create the story

    • @kikru5542
      @kikru5542 4 года назад +69

      @@Melina_Evarblume_Seelie The guy literally said Infinity War. So i wanted to know if he was an adult or not. I am not a pedophile lol

    • @tanaka9260
      @tanaka9260 4 года назад +21

      yikiio I cried in infinity war

    • @josephmother3720
      @josephmother3720 4 года назад +48

      Wanted to cry in infinity war tbh, but there was no music, it was quite empty, and I also knew that everything was not the end.

  • @YakMartin01
    @YakMartin01 4 года назад +313

    Remember that scene of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,when Will Smith's dad leaves and Will's like "How come he don't want me back?" Not gonna lie,I cried watching that scene.

    • @CardboardBoxOfficial
      @CardboardBoxOfficial 4 года назад +4

      i remember that one, it was really sad

    • @beastofbussycreek
      @beastofbussycreek 4 года назад +4

      Literally teared up reading this comment, how dare you

    • @TheArgentinianStealer
      @TheArgentinianStealer 4 года назад +3

      Thats a meme in latin américa he says in spanish "como es posible que no me quiera?" Which means "How is posible that she Doesn't love me?"

    • @Plop2839
      @Plop2839 3 года назад +14

      A lot of people are talking about how music is needed for scenes that make you cry, but sometimes pure slience and allowing the full force of the emotions to come through is better. Exhibit A being the scene you commented about.

    • @silysister4815
      @silysister4815 3 года назад +2

      That part wasn’t even scripted.

  • @zqxzqxzqx1
    @zqxzqxzqx1 Год назад +43

    I've never seen The Green Mile, but that scene you included at the end, those scant seconds where the convict is asking not to be hooded, was like a stab of sorrow that brought me to immediate tears. Even without knowing anything about the story. Amazing...

    • @noctexcaelum
      @noctexcaelum Год назад +7

      I watched it myself and let me tell you, I got a headache from crying so much but it's a truly beautiful film

  • @justzedd8430
    @justzedd8430 3 года назад +1542

    How to make the audience cry:
    Make a dog movie and get it killed in the end, works everytime

    • @anndownsouth5070
      @anndownsouth5070 3 года назад +85

      Not me, because I will probably not watch the movie.

    • @EpicBoy94
      @EpicBoy94 3 года назад +93

      there is one movie in which the same dog reincarnates in different dogs and they kill him everytime. They kill like 5 times the same dog and the dog is the narrator

    • @fulana_de_tal
      @fulana_de_tal 3 года назад +11

      Throne of Glass did a wise job in having a dog, not killing it off and making all the audience cry in at least one point in the series

    • @blank4844
      @blank4844 3 года назад +3

      I don't cafe if dog will die

    • @patrickfarrell6192
      @patrickfarrell6192 3 года назад +9

      @@EpicBoy94 it was called ‘A dog’s purpose’ I’m pretty sure

  • @cmakeham
    @cmakeham 7 лет назад +420

    When he showed the shot of the up guy sitting alone at his wife’s funeral I started crying

    • @buzzardbeatniks
      @buzzardbeatniks 6 лет назад +30

      You know it's effective when even the out of context analysis of a scene makes you cry.

  • @X-man0074u
    @X-man0074u Год назад +11

    No matter how much I brace for it, the "I's afraid of the dark" still makes me tear up.

  • @sinbadk.7667
    @sinbadk.7667 5 лет назад +194

    The green mile made me ball my eyes out. It was probably the most powerful moment in film for me. Especially when the mouse died, I yelled out “NO!”

    • @Eva-os9qc
      @Eva-os9qc 5 лет назад +1

      That scene with the mouse was horrendous, I was crying about that for months after I watched it

    • @Arphemius
      @Arphemius 5 лет назад +1

      *bawl

  • @destielswizzle3655
    @destielswizzle3655 5 лет назад +586

    i’m a writer, not a filmmaker, but your channel still helps me a lot and i just wanna day THANK YOU

    • @awesomelalo5125
      @awesomelalo5125 5 лет назад +3

      You are a writer but cant spell say right lol good luck buddy

    • @destielswizzle3655
      @destielswizzle3655 5 лет назад +62

      Awesomelalo512 well..there goes my writing career

    • @pinchependejas6492
      @pinchependejas6492 5 лет назад +17

      Awesomelalo512 people have spelling mistakes. Get over it please..

    • @austinjobst4154
      @austinjobst4154 5 лет назад +30

      @@awesomelalo5125 That's why editors exist. Good grammar makes writing passable, but good ideas make writing separate from every other novelist trying to make a buck. Also, don't jab at someone if you don't know how to end a sentence or start new ones.

    • @user-xp9jo2rv3q
      @user-xp9jo2rv3q 5 лет назад +9

      Austin Jobst damn you got him good.

  • @CharlemagneGuy127
    @CharlemagneGuy127 2 года назад +1558

    A good emotional scene for me is one that will always make me cry or tear up, even after seeing it many times or know what’s about to come. Perfect example: The Iron Giant. I don’t think there’s ever been a time where I didn’t get choked up at the scene when the Giant flies into the nuclear missile to save the entire town.

    • @TrueMakaveli50
      @TrueMakaveli50 2 года назад +39

      You are who you choose to be

    • @thehyperobsesr
      @thehyperobsesr Год назад +12

      Same damn near makes me weep

    • @drrobocar6459
      @drrobocar6459 Год назад +14

      It didn’t used to do that to me, but now every time I watch the movie, I am on an emotional roller coaster.

    • @drrobocar6459
      @drrobocar6459 Год назад +12

      To me one of the best scenes of the iron giant is when he thinks Hogarth is dead. Seeing how he just breaks is just something else.

    • @Deathstroke-bs8gx
      @Deathstroke-bs8gx Год назад

      Same, one of the few movies that can choke me up

  • @geekinhard343
    @geekinhard343 Год назад +18

    You don't have to have the same experiences as someone else to have sympathy for them. That's called empathy.

  • @quid6775
    @quid6775 5 лет назад +754

    *How to make a RUclips audience cry:*
    begin your video with the heartbreaking Up sequence
    _Done_

  • @austintingles4639
    @austintingles4639 10 месяцев назад +17

    I've never cried over a movie until right before I moved in to college. I rewatched Toy Story 3 and the scene when Andy left the toys and went off to college had me shedding a few tears since I actually was starting to feel what it was going to be like to leave.

    • @sathvamp1
      @sathvamp1 8 месяцев назад

      Oh wow what timing for you to watch that movie too! That movie is infamous for tears!
      Inside out was MY first movie to strongly trigger tears from me... at a late age 35, too! For me it was when Joy was stuck in the pit thinking Riley may never be happy again, especially when she said "Do you remember... when she used to stick her tongue out when she was coloring?"
      That was like "OK GAME OVER" for me...!

  • @fulltimelegend6853
    @fulltimelegend6853 5 лет назад +344

    I feel like it is
    1. The effect of the sad action is shown.
    2. Something bad happens to a character.
    3. It's a character that you actually care about.

    • @madsniperD
      @madsniperD 4 года назад +17

      Getting to care about the characters seems like it should be the most important part of making the audience feel for them, but then you have instances like the beginning to Up. So there's something else going on here.

    • @dillonpollard4545
      @dillonpollard4545 4 года назад +4

      Thanks sans

    • @CosmostheEchidna
      @CosmostheEchidna 4 года назад +6

      ok sans

    • @Aoi_Ohayashi
      @Aoi_Ohayashi 4 года назад +2

      Correct

    • @annorakanon
      @annorakanon 4 года назад +1

      Yea. I think that's the reason Y "Steven Universe" is such a sad story (as a whole). The main character - Steven - is very likeable, and by that, I mean that he's that cute child you want to protect, and you just don't want him to get hurt, but unfortunatily, he does... He gets hurt because of all the terrible things his mother did, before she died during his birth. But there's more... In the new season (which was a timeskip sequel), it was shown that most of his "adventures" in the story gave him a serious trauma, and in the end, he turns into a monster, and becomes the endgame villian... Honestly, this story was so sad, I always get sad when I think about it...

  • @corneliusm3054
    @corneliusm3054 6 лет назад +664

    "I'm a nerd, I've never even had a girlfriend" Like if you cried.

    • @epsilon5733
      @epsilon5733 6 лет назад +68

      Its the injustice

    • @nilocrekkab3112
      @nilocrekkab3112 5 лет назад +5

      Now that's sad

    • @justinrussell2865
      @justinrussell2865 5 лет назад +15

      *F*

    • @richardyu1589
      @richardyu1589 5 лет назад +7

      I came to comment section looking for u

    • @bfnchannel3452
      @bfnchannel3452 5 лет назад +2

      I understood his pain. I'm in the same boat. I cried on her, so much more relatable than a lot of movies I watch. These three choices were sad movies though. Very rememberable to.

  • @teryakibandit2350
    @teryakibandit2350 4 года назад +624

    “This right here is the most powerful sho-“
    *LETS PLAY RAID SHADOW LEGENDS*

    • @ZomboidMania
      @ZomboidMania 3 года назад +22

      raid shadow legends is trash

    • @VinelSeason
      @VinelSeason 3 года назад +6

      HAHAHAHA

    • @MrAlien23
      @MrAlien23 3 года назад +4

      Same thing happened to me, but it's this ad about degreaser. It the started buffering and still is. I'm reading the comments right now waiting for it to continue. I never thought it would come to this :(

    • @mathewh4004
      @mathewh4004 3 года назад

      @@MrAlien23 best of luck to you hero

  • @fnollo7870
    @fnollo7870 10 месяцев назад +5

    Perosnally, the part of Interstellar that nearly makes me cry every damn time is when Coop is in the black hole. Slowly he starts to realise he's the one that's been sending Murph messages through the bookshelves. The point that he realises that, no matter what he does, he can't make himself stay in the past. The "Don't let me leave, Murph", is what gets me every time.

  • @SinAndreww
    @SinAndreww 7 лет назад +711

    "I've never even had a girlfriend, how can I be sympathetic ?"
    That, that is how you make someone cry

    • @Empty-ov3on
      @Empty-ov3on 7 лет назад +1

      Drewwy i cant, idk why, but i dont feel empathy or sympathy at all. Do you know why, i would like to know?

    • @bear5782
      @bear5782 7 лет назад +2

      Xanthrax MC&MORE™ you're a psychopath mate.

    • @Empty-ov3on
      @Empty-ov3on 7 лет назад

      Bear i know

    • @rkhan5807
      @rkhan5807 7 лет назад +1

      Xanthrax MC&MORE™ more information please? I don't think I can just outright say you're a psycho/sociopath without knowing more.

    • @wic09
      @wic09 7 лет назад

      r khan lol

  • @serenitypreston1767
    @serenitypreston1767 3 года назад +158

    The scene in Interstellar when her daughter said "I'm the age you were when you left" made me sob.

  • @xavierwhitcraft1310
    @xavierwhitcraft1310 Год назад +46

    Interstellar's 23 years scene is the most powerful movie moment. It's easily Matthew McConaughey's best performance. Just the idea of being stuck in space, watching as your families lives flash in a blink of an eye while you are billions of lightyears away from the Earth. Jessica Chastain's emotions in that scene really hit home too its just so heartbreaking

    • @sathvamp1
      @sathvamp1 8 месяцев назад

      Interstellar was a HUGE surprise for me. But first, one little backstory:
      Inside out was FIRST movie to strongly trigger tears from me... at a late age 35, too! For me it was when Joy was stuck in the pit thinking Riley may never be happy again, especially when she said "Do you remember... when she used to stick her tongue out when she was coloring?"
      That was like "OK GAME OVER" for me...! In fact, (as I later researched, because the effects had confused me at first!) ... some feel-good brain endorphins had come along WITH those tears, as they sometimes do even if we do not notice... but THOSE were so noticeable I was actually CRAVING MORE tearjerkers after that movie.
      But finding another one that "did that to me" was easier said than done.
      Three years later, I stumbled upon Interstellar. I knew NOTHING about it so was not expecting much... then noticed (as I was still trying to eat my salad while watching!) tears dripping down my nose during that 23 years scene!

    • @xavierwhitcraft1310
      @xavierwhitcraft1310 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@sathvamp1 interstellar just has like the perfect movie pacing.

  • @TestarossaF110
    @TestarossaF110 4 года назад +131

    "You can sleep now, Tony".... always makes me cry.

    • @coreyrowns1.21gigawatts2
      @coreyrowns1.21gigawatts2 3 года назад +1

      Or “we won mr stark, c’mon sir you did it” and “it’s okay” endgame is a sad ass film

    • @arturocastroverde3349
      @arturocastroverde3349 3 года назад +1

      The russos
      We know you grew up with this character
      So pepper 2008 is more important than spiderman 2016

  • @sammysam2615
    @sammysam2615 5 лет назад +268

    Didn't cry during Interstellar. Not gonna lie, got choked up during UP. Bu definitely cried during The Green Mile. And if you didn't at least feel for the character, then you are a sociopath

    • @loridragon1118
      @loridragon1118 5 лет назад +12

      I about cried just watching the clip in the video, and I haven't even watched the movie

    • @Sea_bear_42
      @Sea_bear_42 5 лет назад +2

      Lori Granger I was bawling at the end of this video 😭

    • @alxss4248
      @alxss4248 5 лет назад +1

      Dude...I'm in a mall, people look at me like a weirdo cause I started to cry on the las part...

    • @mima_piedade
      @mima_piedade 5 лет назад

      Just the couple of seconds shown in this video made me cry, I don't think I would handle the movie.

  • @syedwaleedshah2830
    @syedwaleedshah2830 6 лет назад +885

    8:15" im a nerd ...i dont even have a girlfriend "...... i understand bro ... i understand

    • @giacomooliva1546
      @giacomooliva1546 5 лет назад +39

      nah he said he NEVER even had a gf R.I.P

    • @Scheisseistnass
      @Scheisseistnass 5 лет назад +17

      How to create Empathy 101

    • @wolfe440
      @wolfe440 5 лет назад +9

      gearhead Personally, I think life’s better without a gf/bf....not gonna cry.....not gonna cry.......

    • @emgeevic524
      @emgeevic524 5 лет назад +1

      Very very relatable

    • @wolfe440
      @wolfe440 5 лет назад +2

      EmGee Vic My heart hurts

  • @mousepie
    @mousepie 5 лет назад +695

    How to make the audience cry:
    Say "I'm a nerd, I've never even had a girlfriend"

    • @notsocrazytank707
      @notsocrazytank707 4 года назад +4

      I summoned 69 likes

    • @ellieaquitaine6396
      @ellieaquitaine6396 4 года назад +3

      How true! Waaaay sadder than the topic. Dude you've got 611k subs. You've gotta be likeable so get off your pc, head to the nearest bar and talk to peeps.
      You're breaking my heart!

    • @Bane520
      @Bane520 4 года назад

      Stolen.

    • @mousepie
      @mousepie 4 года назад

      @@Bane520 wut 😂

  • @alfieburnt8188
    @alfieburnt8188 3 года назад +186

    "That's enough to make a grown man cry, and that's ok."
    -Terry

  • @armageddonmma8907
    @armageddonmma8907 6 лет назад +1219

    1: Turn all the new characters to dust at the end

    • @theweakestbrazilianmale3398
      @theweakestbrazilianmale3398 6 лет назад +52

      Too soon dude, too soon.

    • @LuLu-lh1hz
      @LuLu-lh1hz 5 лет назад +21

      that hurts...oh dear lord that really hurts UGH
      but that was the first movie I cried at. literally THE FIRST

    • @lightningmcqueengaming7547
      @lightningmcqueengaming7547 5 лет назад +33

      Iron Knight that wasn’t sad. The only emotion that any sane person would feel during that movie is indifference.

    • @wasp2272
      @wasp2272 5 лет назад +4

      Iron Knight I’m assuming this is that shitty movie rogue one?

    • @1SSJA
      @1SSJA 5 лет назад

      @@wasp2272 yep! /s

  • @deaks25
    @deaks25 2 года назад +703

    The Green Mile is that film that never fails to break me. Either in the scene described or the one later where we see the mouse still alive in the current time, one or both of those will have me crying. I first saw the film around the time it was released as well so it's not a new film to me either.
    I think the other thing worth mentioning in both Interstellar and the Green Mile is the acting. Matthew McConaughey in Interstellar and Tom Hanks and Michael Clarke Duncan all put in superb performances, and I think it's no coincidence that these great moments are also examples of superb acting.

    • @SingingSealRiana
      @SingingSealRiana Год назад +12

      for me a big moment in the green mile was, when the build up of the line "I am tired" payed of . . . oh fuck that hit hard.

    • @busylivingnotdying
      @busylivingnotdying Год назад +1

      @@SingingSealRiana Yeah, that was the one that hit me too. I remember John said:
      "and sometimes I feel so alone, .. like a sparrow in the rain" (John Coffee in the same speech)
      And I could FEEL that :)

  • @daltonvargas15
    @daltonvargas15 Год назад +2

    This video is all about oversimplifying a masterpiece. A good movie that brings you joy is not a methodical work but an artistic one that requires talent.

  • @savagewonton6986
    @savagewonton6986 5 лет назад +2309

    How to make the audience cry:
    -Kill off a character that greatly impacted the story and plot for the greater good, saved the world, and had a great sendoff that completes their character arc and shows what a great hero they truly were with strong acting to support it all 😐😑😴❌
    -Kill off a character’s dog 😱😢😭✅

    • @ididntmeantoshootthatvietn5012
      @ididntmeantoshootthatvietn5012 4 года назад +112

      No no no john wick not gonna like that

    • @Fireeater-rl4ep
      @Fireeater-rl4ep 4 года назад +76

      I said the same thing! What is it with movies killing off dogs? Is everyone in Hollywood a cat person or something?

    • @madsniperD
      @madsniperD 4 года назад +48

      John Wick was the only good example of this, and it's only because he spends the rest of the movie murdering everyone to avenge that dog. XD

    • @Blackmello
      @Blackmello 4 года назад +7

      What about a dark turn? Killing the character whis done alot to help the plot suddenly to change the mood drastically for the rest of the time it's going?

    • @rimrejects
      @rimrejects 4 года назад +6

      I am Legend shits on John wick

  • @Zephirite.
    @Zephirite. 2 года назад +267

    Helplessness helps, too.
    Understanding why a character’s sad, and watching them accept that there’s nothing they can do…
    but cry.

  • @eatower2
    @eatower2 4 года назад +66

    I didn't even watch the whole damn montage and I still dropped a tear when he was sitting alone in with the balloon.

  • @skybuilding1377
    @skybuilding1377 Год назад +17

    Me and my family watched interstellar and we all thought it would be a fun adventure movie but god damn that was something

  • @sauced-potato9159
    @sauced-potato9159 4 года назад +137

    “I’m a nerd, I’ve never even had a girlfriend”
    We’re all with you man

  • @QueenoftheRandoms
    @QueenoftheRandoms 6 лет назад +87

    Am i the only one who cries harder at the scene where he finds the book towards the end of the movie, when he thinks he has failed to make the woman he loved happy by giving her the one thing they wanted to do only to discover that in the end she regarded him and the life they shared as her greatest adventure? Because everytime i think about it (including now) i tear up.

    • @TheCloserLook
      @TheCloserLook  6 лет назад +13

      Yeah, that got me too :(

    • @benjaminaptekar8372
      @benjaminaptekar8372 6 лет назад +9

      I totaly agree. This scene is much deeper and makes me way more sad then the beginning one.

  • @Gordon_Freeman484
    @Gordon_Freeman484 Год назад +8

    I just finished the green mile and the line "I'm tired boss" and "Don't put me in the dark" made me cry

  • @Sakuramoch1__
    @Sakuramoch1__ 3 года назад +1751

    How to make the audience cry:
    1- turn a character into a donut
    2- "Are we just gonna leave him here, Bucciarati?!?"
    3- watch the fans cry

    • @cifer8070
      @cifer8070 3 года назад +66

      I had tears in my eyes whole time watching Jojo
      Not because I was sad but instead because I was yawning of boredom

    • @Sakuramoch1__
      @Sakuramoch1__ 3 года назад +224

      @@cifer8070 i dont remember asking

    • @CharroArgentino
      @CharroArgentino 3 года назад +164

      @@cifer8070 normies usually don't apreciate higher art.

    • @olezka_dostoyevsky6434
      @olezka_dostoyevsky6434 3 года назад +126

      step 1: good character
      step 2: donut
      step 3: profit

    • @spiritual9574
      @spiritual9574 3 года назад +20

      Arigato, Abbacchio…

  • @username3471
    @username3471 3 года назад +2494

    "How Carl's been a good person and lived a life without sin"
    Little did we know, that he was cooking meth in an RV without his wife's knowledge.

    • @jaydenrise7186
      @jaydenrise7186 3 года назад +78

      “Alexa, play Baby Blue by Badfinger.”

    • @darthvader5853
      @darthvader5853 3 года назад +117

      Pixar's ''breaking bad"

    • @horsenuggets1018
      @horsenuggets1018 3 года назад +55

      @@jaydenrise7186 “Russer, we need to make methane for Goose Fringdê”

    • @projectpitchfork860
      @projectpitchfork860 3 года назад +3

      What's the difference between murdering someone without anybody knowing and with someone knowing? Yes, there's a witness but it doesn't change anything about the murder.

    • @a.bagasm.7253
      @a.bagasm.7253 3 года назад +2

      @@projectpitchfork860 i think when you "kill" someone you KNOW you did it,so there's no "nobody know" even when there's none arround

  • @fern8336
    @fern8336 Год назад +5

    The first time I cried watching something was ATLA's "Tale of Iroh". Leaves From the Vine will always have a place in my heart

  • @UltimateKyuubiFox
    @UltimateKyuubiFox 7 лет назад +1629

    Sympathy is a requirement, actually. You've confused it for empathy. Empathy is feeling what another person feels. Sympathy is being emotionally affected even though you can't relate.

    • @TheCloserLook
      @TheCloserLook  7 лет назад +95

      Well if you watch it again I pretty much say that. Sympathy is not a requirement. I cried at interstellar yet I am 19. I don't have nor have I ever even thought about having children. It was empathy rather than sympathy.
      Empathy is understanding a character's emotions.
      Sympathy is feeling a character's emotions.
      For the audience to find a situation sad, they need merely understand.

    • @UltimateKyuubiFox
      @UltimateKyuubiFox 7 лет назад +123

      The Closer Look Those words have the opposite definitions from what you assume is what I'm saying. Empathy is deeper and tends to come from shared experience and, if not, is about putting yourself in the person's shoes to feel their pain. Sympathy is pity for another person's circumstances, in a way that doesn't require a change of your own perspective. Empathy isn't just about understanding the pain, it requires the pain to be felt. Empathy IS feeling a character's emotions. Sympathy does not require equal or proportionate pain to be felt by the audience, merely understanding.
      Sympathy is "Gee, that's sad."
      Empathy is "That makes me sad."

    • @TheCloserLook
      @TheCloserLook  7 лет назад +159

      Yeah I see what you mean. Ok I admit I didn't understand the difference. I'll be sure to not make that same mistake in the future :)

    • @UltimateKyuubiFox
      @UltimateKyuubiFox 7 лет назад +57

      The Closer Look No problem at all, it's a common one.
      Fan of your work. Love the effort you put into your videos, especially for such a new channel.

    • @tortture3519
      @tortture3519 7 лет назад +12

      UltimateKyuubiFox I've read a few definitions about sympathy and empathy, and they all said that empathy is understanding the pain and sympathy is feeling it. Do a quick google search and you'll see too.

  • @sloth5894
    @sloth5894 Год назад +8

    i recently watched intersteller. now, it didn’t make me cry, as i dont easily with movies, but i was very close to doing so. i have wanted to watch it for a while, and it was such a beautiful movie. 10/10 would recommend

  • @frosty8592
    @frosty8592 5 лет назад +390

    Take a shot for every time he says “Injustice”

    • @ineednothin6373
      @ineednothin6373 5 лет назад +13

      Drunk and dead. I miss my friend.

    • @tommyaguirre3479
      @tommyaguirre3479 5 лет назад +8

      4 shots lol

    • @NoCluYT
      @NoCluYT 5 лет назад +10

      I think I did the wrong type of "shot". I've got multiple bullets holes in me and I'm bleeding.

    • @IMMASICKKKFUCK
      @IMMASICKKKFUCK 5 лет назад +1

      Frosty thats literally what the video is about, what is your point?

  • @Street.Hermit
    @Street.Hermit 2 года назад +247

    The line where MCD asks to not be "put into the dark" was a gut check for sure. Fantastic writing and phenomenal acting by a legend.

  • @egg1643
    @egg1643 Год назад +7

    I’ve never even watched the green mile but that 2 second scene was all it took for me to cry.

  • @DonRivers
    @DonRivers 7 лет назад +13

    "The key of creating sadness does not lie in the action but rather the reaction of those affected by it." Truer words have never been spoken - and that sentence is not only valid for movies but for real life as well...
    My mother died last week. She has been ill for a long time so it didn't came as a surprise. I was at peace with it. But we had to tell my father that his beloved wife was dead. And to see him being crushed by the sad news, to see him realize that the world as he knew it just ended, to see him break down and cry - that completely devastated me.

  • @staashj
    @staashj 5 лет назад +399

    how to make audience cry:
    purple grape snaps fingers
    tin can snaps fingers, dies
    everyone cry. easy.

    • @fayadios3773
      @fayadios3773 5 лет назад +8

      stale memes wow almost impossible to call this a spoiler

    • @staashj
      @staashj 5 лет назад +8

      Fayad Remix yeah, its too bad that the spoiler grace period for the movie im referencing ended two weeks after it came out though

    • @thekingduckkun2013
      @thekingduckkun2013 5 лет назад

      Zee zee?

    • @TheNotRealKappa
      @TheNotRealKappa 5 лет назад

      oof xD

    • @misterecho3712
      @misterecho3712 5 лет назад

      @@fayadios3773 :'!

  • @seriouswithdaysoff
    @seriouswithdaysoff 6 лет назад +242

    I was watching The Boy In The Striped Pajamas and the part that hit me was when the mom started crying and that last shot of that movie just lets it sit with you for a while. I didn't cry but it gave me a weird numb "oh..." type of feeling

    • @bluujelly
      @bluujelly 6 лет назад +7

      Serious(WithDaysOff), dude... that movie man... I cried there bro, that was also injustice I see.

    • @timtheconqueror95
      @timtheconqueror95 6 лет назад

      Same. It just gave me a “well, shit” kind of feeling.

    • @screwalltheads1494
      @screwalltheads1494 6 лет назад

      That’s a movie? I read the book...would have been really emotional if I understood the book. (I was in 3rd grade and I was uneducated about history then)

    • @starfruitglory4915
      @starfruitglory4915 6 лет назад +5

      I watched that movie at school. The part that hit my class was after the death of the kids, when it just showed the door to the gas chamber and everything was still. The whole class got quiet

    • @DDLLDDLLDDLL
      @DDLLDDLLDDLL 6 лет назад

      Star Fruit Glory aye I hear u, I’ve had the same thing with my class, years ago. My class was silent and I was confused. When the credits rolled I was like,”....Oh shit! They dead! They gone!”

  • @joshuaschwartfigure9342
    @joshuaschwartfigure9342 Год назад +5

    One thing that always gets me is right when someone begins their journey to developing as a character only for them to have their chance ripped away. American History X in the end is a harsh movie to watch due to this. Seeing someone just get on the right path for their chances to be ripped away is painful.

  • @beepotf
    @beepotf 7 лет назад +37

    Even watching the explanation of UP made me cry.

    • @MmmKayHuuNay
      @MmmKayHuuNay 7 лет назад

      grandaddyflexmaster the music alone makes me cry

  • @kron4x
    @kron4x 5 лет назад +102

    spoilers for the end of interstellar and the green mile:
    interstellar: the scene that made me shed tears the most is the ending where coop's daughter is a grandmother by the time he comes back.
    the green mile: while his execution made me cry, what made me cry even more as a bonus was also the ending where the mouse still lived.

    • @shaunyjimenez9637
      @shaunyjimenez9637 5 лет назад

      I looked up the green mile scene
      Ah shit there goes my happy

    • @bornakozic7733
      @bornakozic7733 5 лет назад

      Same with me at the Interstellar scene.

    • @pickachu3739
      @pickachu3739 4 года назад +3

      Same. Also in UP I cried when he sees the message of his wife at the end of the book.

    • @luqcrusher
      @luqcrusher 4 года назад +1

      Lord Stewie Griffin
      “Thanks for the adventure - now go have a new one!”
      Great, I’m tearing up as I write this.

    • @granolaassasin
      @granolaassasin 4 года назад

      In the book a bully at Paul’s retirement home stomps on the mouse ☹️

  • @skybeckgamer
    @skybeckgamer Год назад +6

    I remember the first time I watched the green mile, I was having such a hard time breathing because I was crying so much. That scene is so powerful. It pulled my heart strings so damn hard! I cried a damn ocean! and just as I am watching this video without the movie sound and just the narrators voice, I'm still tearing up.

  • @rodrickchiwundura2588
    @rodrickchiwundura2588 3 года назад +181

    Lori's death in The Walking Dead wasn't what made me cry, it was when Rick dropped to his knees and started wheezing that did it

    • @Lvl1.Sentry
      @Lvl1.Sentry 3 года назад +31

      Im pretty sure everyone was begging for Lori to die for all the bullshit she caused. But yea, when it came to Rick, it was hear breaking.

    • @johnP0908
      @johnP0908 2 года назад +2

      it was a good scene indeed, but the fact that it was memed so hard it watered down the very serious scene into a chuckle.

    • @thecontinuityguy3476
      @thecontinuityguy3476 2 года назад

      Corallllllllll

    • @epicsshadesmaster-animatio4398
      @epicsshadesmaster-animatio4398 2 года назад +1

      Ricks reaction was sad

  • @luciagalve1875
    @luciagalve1875 3 года назад +41

    I started crying at 2:20, the moment I saw the shot of him alone with the balloon. I had forgotten how heartbreaking that moment was.

  • @jaimeluisi1807
    @jaimeluisi1807 6 лет назад +500

    "The real kick in the balls"
    oh, it was so much more than that. The Green Mile, ripped out my heart and stabbed it multiple times, then proceeded to run it over with a truck. I was actually starting to cry during this video when you were summarising it.

  • @vonalysongreg2780
    @vonalysongreg2780 Год назад +2

    there's no question to all these films being incredibly affecting my whole being with the presented melancholia..
    i just got reminded of one particular anime film "Your Name" with that particular scene when the protagonists were about to finally meet, but then, you already know the "injustice" that took place (don't wanna spoil it to those who haven't watched it)

  • @felixpawlowski9033
    @felixpawlowski9033 7 лет назад +280

    I cried when bubba said he wants to go home and then dies...

    • @catswag16
      @catswag16 6 лет назад

      Warwick, Your grandma's fear ~....injustice....~

    • @RockBottom1999
      @RockBottom1999 6 лет назад +3

      He did go home, heaven was his home

    • @Starmadien2019
      @Starmadien2019 6 лет назад +2

      Warwick, Your grandma's fear oh god yes, I didn't even cry when Jenny died or his mom. But that simple plea of a boy turned into a man by war begging to go home to his mom just broke me.

  • @Horror_Writer_2468
    @Horror_Writer_2468 2 года назад +205

    From what I’ve learned from Up is that symbolism can be such a powerful tool. From the ballon, to the adventure book, to the grape pin, all of those things were given to the main character when he was living out his youngest, happiest moments, by his love interest. And when he’s much older, when she’s gone, when time is slowly running out, the audience can see he still holds onto those things, reminiscing without words, holding onto the good of the past. Take the mailbox, they built it in and painted it in a significant, happy moment in his life. And when he’s older, it’s slowly crushed under a moving vehicle (I don’t know what it’s called sorry ;-;). This is such a powerful moment, because he still lives in the past, he just accepts he’s going to die and decides to live his last moments in his memories. Even the entire house symbolizes his life with his wife, carrying so much weight on his back to get to grand falls, a dream he was never able to achieve so young. But a lot of his problems come from the fact he’s carrying an entire house on his back. A house of memories, as he continues to live in the past. It’s crazy how much this movie gives and there is so much more I could pick apart, but just remember. You can use symbolism to your advantage, show empathy in your characters through the change of that symbolism in contrasting moments, and the change of that character. Without using any words at all.
    I’m shocked that one of my favorite CHILDREN’s movies is following an old man in his adventures to find theirs so much more to life he hasn’t discovered yet. That’s the power of writing.

  • @jacobkeary6740
    @jacobkeary6740 7 лет назад +296

    The two movies I've cried to are Logan and an all time classic The Iron Giant.

    • @spagelsmegal
      @spagelsmegal 7 лет назад +7

      Jacob Keary I cryed in Logan and in gotg 2

    • @completeandunabridged.4606
      @completeandunabridged.4606 7 лет назад +4

      Jacob Keary I cried at the end of the dead poets society.

    • @Juggernogger64
      @Juggernogger64 7 лет назад +5

      Jacob Keary "Superman"

    • @hemalathavegi7910
      @hemalathavegi7910 7 лет назад +8

      Watch Grave of the Fireflies then , Ghibli sure knows how to make you cry

    • @Epicness1000
      @Epicness1000 7 лет назад +6

      Grave of the Fireflies is insanely sad for me :(

  • @Zephirite.
    @Zephirite. 3 года назад +84

    I’d argue a sense of helplessness (on the main characters’ part), reminding the audience of what’s being lost and how the circumstance is unfair, and showing the characters recognize this and the resulting pain caused by that realization are critical points too. The injustice part is key, but there’s more to it than just a tragic premise; add the characters’ RESPONSES to that premise, and you’re gold.
    A cheat is to tap into a primal fear all humans experience (fear of death, loss, you’re worst fear coming true despite your best efforts, helplessness, etc). If you can have a character in the scene verbally connect the two in a single line of dialogue, even better.

  • @zeusinho1986
    @zeusinho1986 Год назад +4

    To this day, I still can’t watch that opening in Up without breaking down into pieces, especially now that I’m a father it hits more

  • @HoopsAndDinoMan
    @HoopsAndDinoMan 6 лет назад +1497

    What about making the audience cry out of happiness? Is there a science to that as well?

    • @Pablovru
      @Pablovru 6 лет назад +374

      *There is no place for happiness here, mate.*

    • @GodKingReiss
      @GodKingReiss 6 лет назад +145

      HoopsAndDinoMan I think the key to creating tears of happiness is the triumph after a long struggle. The best examples I can think of are both from The Return of the King, Sam’s triumph in remaining Frodo’s dearest friend after three movies of hardships and strained bonds (“I can’t carry it for you, but I can carry you!”) and Frodo’s triumph in receiving praise from all the peoples of Middle-earth after three movies of hardships and near-failures (“You bow to no one.”).

    • @TheRealPifflesticks
      @TheRealPifflesticks 6 лет назад +63

      happiness is capitalist propoganda

    • @FinalFirebrand
      @FinalFirebrand 6 лет назад +10

      It's called psychology.

    • @HullsColby
      @HullsColby 6 лет назад +19

      I think My Hero Academia S3 when Deku was fighting Muscular is a great example, try to analyze that scene, it shows that Deku was struggling trying to save someone then when he failed to do it someone gave him hope and it gave him power to defeat Muscular.

  • @jbb5865
    @jbb5865 5 лет назад +272

    Look at how endgame used this by preping you for 11 years

    • @whitehairedbadass3475
      @whitehairedbadass3475 5 лет назад +27

      Lol did anyone actually cry for endgame though? I know some people were sad but....

    • @caleb428
      @caleb428 5 лет назад +1

      @@whitehairedbadass3475 at the funeral part

    • @moteschh
      @moteschh 5 лет назад +2

      @@whitehairedbadass3475 when I watched it some grown ass dude was balling his eyes out.

    • @yeehawjigsaw6579
      @yeehawjigsaw6579 5 лет назад +7

      @@whitehairedbadass3475 I never really related to any chatacters or grew a strong bond to them. The movie series was really boring to me-

    • @10000subswithnovideos.
      @10000subswithnovideos. 5 лет назад +1

      Elijah Kitsmiller Hey, so you’re 15 like my great granddaughter!

  • @Rez_Boy117
    @Rez_Boy117 5 лет назад +172

    The way how Paul says "Roll on, one" and hesitates, he's choked up, he doesn't want to do it. He even asks John if he wants to be set free, but John declines and tells him not to "do such a foolish thing", he explains how people act towards each other, how they act, how they feel, what they think, and how saddening it is to him to see humanity like this, he doesn't want to see it anymore, he's tired of it. Paul even goes on to saying that why should he kill someone that was brought by God himself, "because it was his job?" And by the end, John even pleads not to put the cloak over his head, he afraid of the dark, and that child like innocence sticks with the viewer, he's afraid, yet he's ready to go.
    (I even had to stop myself from crying while typing this.)

    • @Canalbiruta
      @Canalbiruta 4 года назад +13

      Rez Boy man, that moment when he said he was tired of the bad things in the world, i already was very sad, but that moment he said sorry for being who he was, i bursted into tears. What a masterpiece of storytelling!

    • @wornstrat5517
      @wornstrat5517 4 года назад +1

      It's even worse in the book... so is delacroixe death.

    • @wornstrat5517
      @wornstrat5517 4 года назад +1

      @Dwyane Wade he sure did!

  • @fencer1979
    @fencer1979 Год назад +10

    The green mile made me cry so much. It made me think back to my peers that died such horror deaths. In 7th grade, which was about 3 years ago, there was this girl, Abigail, who was in my orchestra class. One day, she and her mother were driving to the place to get her violin fixed, but a truck ran a red light and T-boned them, killing both Abigail and the mother… our school set funds to finish the job of fixing her violin and gave it to her brother who just entered middle school. And then 1:37 , there was this boy in my math class in 9th grade last year who drowned at night when riding Jetskids with his family member. His Jets Ku didn’t work so his family member got a rope to pull him back and when he arrived, he was missing, with the life vest floating on the water… he drowned in Jordan lake and our hs community is still saddened and will forever remember him. This movie is just sad with the people dying and makes you think back to personal expiró en es you have of people you know dying… no kid my age at 16 shoud never have experience 2 classmates who died of terrible deaths…

  • @sarahharmon9403
    @sarahharmon9403 4 года назад +61

    this is exactly the reason I cried every single episode of violet evergarden, simply the the fact what this has been submitted to all of the horrible things and why they were bad, coupled with her seeming lack of emotion at things that would destroy people, and the fact that throughout all of this, she is still kind to people even though she has every right to hate them, makes for a heartwrenching yet beautiful image