Is India safe for women?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2023
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  • @RhettandClaire
    @RhettandClaire  11 месяцев назад +8

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  • @Godonmars
    @Godonmars Год назад +566

    As an Indian I thank you for speaking the truth regarding the safety of women in India. No need to sugar coat the situation. India is not a safe country for solo female travellers. I won't recommend that either to any female foreigner reading this comment.

    • @Amae580
      @Amae580 Год назад +25

      Totally agree. I lived there as foreigner on 3 different occasions and sometimes sexual assault, in different forms, could be daily. I was was always dressed conservatively. I still love India but I would not let my Daughter go there like I did.

    • @Copeharder556
      @Copeharder556 10 месяцев назад

      Definitely not India is very safe see the rape statics
      Mostly Europe countries top India after 90th number
      In korea harrasment it's common they consider it's an big issue
      It's become big issue India people beat in public and judiciary is system is slow they talk they can report

    • @mizhirs9811
      @mizhirs9811 10 месяцев назад

      But in Kerala it is ok

    • @birdyceleste1872
      @birdyceleste1872 9 месяцев назад +4

      Lol you were not alone girl, you were with your bf

    • @lanamber4894
      @lanamber4894 8 месяцев назад

      @@birdyceleste1872 that's my thought

  • @teanmol
    @teanmol 10 месяцев назад +162

    No, Claire you don't need to be polite about it. As an Indian male, I'm sorry to say that uncomfortable situations for women in India are a BIG problem. Thank you for making an honest video about it while being so respectful! Kudos!

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  9 месяцев назад +14

      🥹🙏🏻 hopefully one day things change. I feel terrible for the women

    • @gabrielaylisto
      @gabrielaylisto 3 месяца назад +3

      It makes no sense. I like in the USA and I used to work for Bollywood parties in Los Angeles, the audience was Indian people or Indian descent people and women always complain about being harassed by the guys, absolutely awful

    • @ezrapranata7584
      @ezrapranata7584 22 часа назад

      Men will be men, not just in india

  • @IpsanAdventures
    @IpsanAdventures Год назад +132

    My husband and I went to New Delhi December 2022, and every experience you had was spot on with our experiences. The train station in Agra was one of the worst experiences. I could tell the locals were getting upset with how much we were getting harassed by tiny children. My husband is a red head and I am blonde and we were pulled into photos constantly. At the Taj Mahal, an Indian woman grabbed my arm and pulled me off of a tall cement curb and I fell to the ground. She did not apologize and pulled me off the ground and pulled me in for her selfie photo. I was really disturbed by this. I documented my trip on my channel too!

    • @uno311
      @uno311 Год назад

      North India is bad for women, but South and North Eastern India is good.

    • @Kemalist0008
      @Kemalist0008 Год назад +7

      Wow... that must be bad

    • @FriedMomo04
      @FriedMomo04 6 месяцев назад +5

      Thats disturbing..I may sound like im trying to advertise but I wish people travelled more to the regions in India like where I belong to (darjeeling kalimpong and sikkim) the people here are culturally different comparatively very liberal and understand whats inappropriate
      It's very sad for us to be clumped together with those unsafe regions when foreigners talk about India..

  • @pragyabhatt17
    @pragyabhatt17 Год назад +121

    I am an Indian currently living in Europe and I totally agree with whatever you've said. I come from a relatively modern family and was living a decent life back in India but only after coming to the West did I realize how unsafe India is for women and especially if you're solo travelling. I can travel solo without a single worry here in Europe, wear whatever I want, be out at whatever hour, and I can't even imagine doing any of it anywhere in India. But nevertheless, we're slowly improving and hopefully one day, I'll be able to proudly say that India is completely safe for women!

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +3

      Thank you for sharing🙏🏻❤️

    • @stephanatlas5331
      @stephanatlas5331 Год назад +15

      Tbh As a German I don't think women and safety is only related to india or developing countries only, in europe also women safety is a matter of concern. Hopefully in the near future we would see a improvement everywhere regarding safety of women.

    • @findabh
      @findabh Год назад +12

      That's a big statement "how unsafe India is for women". I remember when Amir Khan went to turkey and said he feels unsafe in India, a big personality said this infront of first lady of turkey.
      Yes you cayn wear anything you want, even your mom won't let you wear wherever you go. In Europe people some people walk naked, Australia they run/cycle naked, kids can go to brothel legally, minimum age is 14.. India has twice population of Europe still has less rape case and child abuse than some tiny single country of europe.
      But yes you can go wherever you want at any time for sure, but even your own family won't let you go to stay with your girl friends at night. The thing is in India people don't let women work or pay Cause many thanks it is men's duty to provide or his self respect. This things are changing. People say India is bad because India is poor people won't say a thing about USA gun violence, school shooting, racism against blacks, drugs abuse and their World class adult industry cause they hide it with their wealth. :)

    • @stephanatlas5331
      @stephanatlas5331 Год назад +9

      @@findabh Yes,you are right, I just researched and came to know india is among the country with lowest r@pe rate(1.8) , germany(9.3) ,USA (27.3) ,south africa(72.1). Ground reality is not always the same as our media portrays. Hopefully, in the future we would see improved situation for women in every country in the world and will be able to say our world is safe for women.

    • @bombayboymumba7853
      @bombayboymumba7853 10 месяцев назад +3

      visit balkans you'll see how "safe" europe is ?!!!!i an indo caribbean guy with dreads and when i visit eastern europe, such as bealrus ,poland and ukraine people were staring at me and many wanted to click pictures with me.

  • @Kino_209
    @Kino_209 Год назад +14

    Is India safe for women??
    Me as a Indian - No !!

  • @michellefong952
    @michellefong952 Год назад +27

    Hi Rhett and Claire, I watched so many of your travel vlogs before traveling to India recently and I just want to thank you so much for helping me be prepared for the experience and knowing what to expect. I really had such a great time

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +3

      Yay Michelle! We are so glad we could help🥰. Glad you had a great time!

    • @michelevandermerwe1378
      @michelevandermerwe1378 Год назад

      Hi there. Did you travel solo ?

    • @michellefong952
      @michellefong952 Год назад

      @@michelevandermerwe1378 no, luckily I was able to go with a friend. We spent part of the trip attending a friend's wedding and then did a guided tour for the other part

    • @RR-pc7yv
      @RR-pc7yv 6 месяцев назад

      India is a country of 1.5 Billion+ people. Please don't generalise whole country and all the 1.5 Billion+ people of Indian origin by the bad actions and acts of some bad people. Bad apples are everywhere and in every society including in the so-called civilized Western countries.

  • @georgeng9252
    @georgeng9252 2 месяца назад +21

    You did not have a bad encounter and experience only because you had a intimidating companion to protect you.

  • @TheAmeris
    @TheAmeris Год назад +14

    Awesome video guys! Love that fact that the video was fair and real, rather than just one side about a topic! Awesome tips we'll be using when we go! 😁👌🏻

  • @dhruvilkumpavat6037
    @dhruvilkumpavat6037 Год назад +16

    Ur review was perfect Sister. Bad things are everwhere. No one is immune to that. U gotta have precautions and preparation going abt what you want to do in a big country like. We are proud of you and my country.

  • @nikhil_01a
    @nikhil_01a Год назад +97

    Kudos to you guys spreading the truth, I think your review of the whole situation is practical enough. Coming from someone who migrated from India to United States, I really appreciate the amount of money that one can make here but safety wise it's horrible, I'm really terrified of the horrific gun violence here, really. Every now and then I keep hearing about a shootout nearby or some burglary even in the popular areas of New York and New Jersey and now I suddenly feel how safe it really was back home in comparison. The point is every place is unsafe unless you know how to avoid trouble and protect yourself. I don't carry my laptop to college sometimes as a precaution to avoid losing it in case I get mugged by someone, cause these cases are so common here. I can only imagine what a mess this place would be if it had a population of 1.4 billion with millions of them carry guns around.

    • @Stories_by_pravin
      @Stories_by_pravin Год назад +1

      On point

    • @ravivyas7532
      @ravivyas7532 Год назад +2

      Guns plays an important role in population control. 😆Also an armed society is a polite society. BTW I lived in USA for 5 Years but in more civilized cities like Charlotte, Dearborn, Overland Park etc. Also, there are more prisons than schools.

    • @rafan3422
      @rafan3422 Год назад +1

      Gun violence is increasing in Toronto as well sadly!

    • @naughtypotato5243
      @naughtypotato5243 Год назад

      unrelated but u r cute lol

    • @Ternakdollar26
      @Ternakdollar26 Год назад

      🇮🇩

  • @siddharthaxX
    @siddharthaxX Год назад +7

    thank you for being so honest, subscribed!

  • @cezaraberezovschi2585
    @cezaraberezovschi2585 Год назад +6

    Claire, thanks a lot for takling this topic. Despite of the many hater comments below, the content was very helpful for me as a solo female traveller planning to visit India! I cannot thank you enough!! ❤🙏🙏🙏

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Thank you for saying that🙏🏻❤️. I’m glad I could help! Enjoy India🥰

    • @cezaraberezovschi2585
      @cezaraberezovschi2585 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire thank you! 💗

  • @pogureddy
    @pogureddy Год назад +3

    Good one, as an indian i can agree you on your views, i have few europen friends and my wife is european too, they said in banaglore and hyderabad the staring is a much less or they always said felt safe travelling in in south more than north , hopefully you will be back to india and compare diffrent parts of india and let the world know if there is any truth is the statment. great content:)

  • @instyleti
    @instyleti Год назад +10

    Thank you and totally love that you are so honest about the experience. Please stay so genuine!
    12:35

  • @jeevabalegar4954
    @jeevabalegar4954 Год назад +3

    I appreciate your honest feedback.
    We will take this in a positive way.
    So that we can improve and learn .

  • @jaunjaydey8328
    @jaunjaydey8328 Год назад +7

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    Curious to know what you guys record on and what editing software you use.

    • @valleydecore
      @valleydecore Год назад

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  • @pranshuatrey
    @pranshuatrey Год назад +56

    It's take courage to speak truth! Well done.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +13

      Appreciate this, thank you😊🙏🏻

    • @darthvaderibioles
      @darthvaderibioles Год назад

      She's speaking the Indian version of truth u like to hear😂 because they need views lol

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Год назад

    Thank you for the truthful review!!!

  • @mihir1405
    @mihir1405 Год назад +151

    Asking this question India is safe? Is like "is Europe safe"? This is a big country almost a Continent so safety in few cities is not guaranteed especially in some north part states where you'll get so many staring! But north east, South states are generally safe.

    • @power8087
      @power8087 Год назад +34

      Don't agree

    • @priyalpatel4250
      @priyalpatel4250 Год назад

      Bro.....half of the country is not aware that there is western India as well..... 😂😂😂😂 Dummies.....

    • @kshitijsingh1894
      @kshitijsingh1894 Год назад +8

      I think it depends person to person and also northern states have much large population

    • @rahilmalhotra001
      @rahilmalhotra001 Год назад +12

      You cant generalise south. Particularly with the incidents that happened in Bangalore and Hyderabad to women.

    • @Baru_boy
      @Baru_boy Год назад +8

      Himachal,uttrakhand,ladakh are pretty safe and so is Punjab and Haryana why are you generalizing north?

  • @hannewybouw1346
    @hannewybouw1346 Год назад

    Very interesting and informative topic 🙏🏽 thank you Claire ❤❤

  • @abirbo
    @abirbo Год назад +3

    Hey Claire! I had followed your past videos of this India series, especially the trip to Ladakh and loved the way you guys covered it! Also seen some Indonesia vlogs. Please cover Vietnam. Wanna see the country through your lenses! Just came across this video and here is my thought on it.
    I met a woman traveler in Budapest (2018), she was from Slovakia. She was with a female friend from Montenegro. The Slovak lady visited India 2 years prior with another female friend. She told me right at my face that she hated India. When asked the reason, she said she was groped by few guys while taking a group photo (just like you guys experienced) at a historical palace in a city in Rajasthan. Someone put their hand on her shoulder without asking her and someone touched (rather, felt) her bums! She felt it was intentional and not accidental. Even more, someone touched her friend's bosom while taking the group photo! You can imagine their horror! The woman from Montenegro simply didn't want to visit India. So, I can totally understand and connect with the points that you made about safety. Indian women also face similar ordeal in their own country and it's a real fact! Nevertheless, happy that you enjoyed seeing the varied landscapes and the hospitality there! Next time, please visit Southern India and North East India. Trust me, you will have much better experiences.

    • @kitty_s23456
      @kitty_s23456 Месяц назад

      Thank you for this story! I'm a woman & thinking of travelling to India - but not alone.

  • @unreralism1972
    @unreralism1972 Год назад +56

    As an Indian living in India, I totally agree with the points you have made. Thankfully violent crimes, specially against tourists are very rare. Still, its better for solo women travelers to be in a group or maybe hire a local guide. By the way, where is this beach that you are filming this video at ? it's gorgeous !!

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +9

      Totally!🙏🏻. That’s Clifton beach in Cape Town😊

    • @unreralism1972
      @unreralism1972 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire breathtaking ❤

    • @yashsony934
      @yashsony934 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire most foreigners judging India by media bbc , CNN always spreading negetivity about India and some propoganda " is Europe and west safe for women ask yourself " your media never shows your society dark secrets so don't judge country based on fkae stream media 🙏🏻

    • @yashsony934
      @yashsony934 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire And west have more rape cases than India if you don't believe me serch google " most rape cases country you realised how India is safe 🙏🏻

    • @yashsony934
      @yashsony934 Год назад +3

      @@RhettandClaire Indians want photos from foreigners reason is " most people don't meet foreigners in real life so they are just excited nothing to worry 🙏🏻

  • @user-gh9tx8ux5y
    @user-gh9tx8ux5y Год назад +7

    as an indian i am really sorry for the things you faced here 🙏

  • @Gb83197
    @Gb83197 Год назад +13

    You should have visited South India, South India is totally different from North and is safer than North India.

  • @rohitsundria308
    @rohitsundria308 Год назад +14

    sorry guys for u r discomfort , u know india is such a huge country with 1.4 billion people more than entire population of africa , so sometimes some stupids people are their but most of indians thinks foreigners are some celebrity , they dont want to harm u guys just they want to tell at their home that they met a foreigner today , thats all

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +7

      Absolutely! We totally understand😊🙏🏻

  • @ExpatNatt
    @ExpatNatt Год назад +7

    Great video (so far! I haven’t finished watching yet!) 🥰

  • @darksouls5495
    @darksouls5495 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the honesty!!! Do visit South India also there are lots of sites to visit

  • @wanphrangdiengdoh2884
    @wanphrangdiengdoh2884 Год назад +13

    Appreciate your feedback, it will help others travellers👍 India is a big country which contains 1 billion people!!! So you will find all types & variety😅 moreover Indians are still live with strong attachments with tradition, culture & religion, so especially dress and how we carry ourselves is very important because we will be judged base on how we present ourselves, Even Though it shouldn't be like that anymore in this new developed world😅 travel safe👍

  • @paulacarter9498
    @paulacarter9498 6 месяцев назад +9

    I work with an Indian physician who grew up in Delhi. He said women should never travel alone to India. My adult son is accompanying me. I downloaded your resource pack! Thank you! 🇺🇸❤

  • @goodsong_views
    @goodsong_views Год назад +5

    The more visitors we get, the more it becomes normal for us. So keep coming!

  • @benchmarks1016
    @benchmarks1016 10 месяцев назад +5

    Short answer no... But there are few places where it is safe to do so even as a solo traveller.

  • @balajikumar1919
    @balajikumar1919 Год назад +126

    Claire, I am a Canadian of Indian origin. It depends on which part of India you are traveling in. India is a huge country, almost a continent with different states, languages, culture, and ways of life among its people. So that experience can differ from person to person; especially if you happen to be white. The stares, though not pleasant , are purely out of curiosity. I can tell you as a brown person that I don't feel comfortable touring a white majority city or nation due to the unwelcome stares I have gotten from people. I went to Iceland once, and it was one of the WORST experiences of my life. Racists everywhere !! The woman running a bar where I went for a drink even asked me if I was just visiting or if I was there to take away their jobs. I don't even have to start about USA, UK, Australia, South Africa, where non whites are still viewed and treated badly. I would take a stare based on curiosity any day over stare based on racial mistrust and hatred.

    • @whatever4721
      @whatever4721 Год назад

      Who are you informing this , this white get scammed and harrassed every time but they still will land on Delhi international airport, and they will explore around without a Guide, with Zero knowledge of language and culture, as if the illiterate people that harrass them with even know, that there actions are making them fell unsafe and traumatized. As if most people speaking broken down English = to Every one understanding there foreign English and accent.
      I know why they get harrassed in big cities, even i Get ,even we Indian get scammed and get into a word fights in big cities.

    • @darthvaderibioles
      @darthvaderibioles Год назад +11

      Whole of India is unsafe.. why don't u come here in India alone at night?

    • @whatever4721
      @whatever4721 Год назад +2

      @@darthvaderibioles why don't you just get in the New York metro at mid night passed☠. I can conform that you will feel so safe that you will feel uncomfortable💀. Just visit London at night I can promise you your expensive watches will remain safe with you💀. Definitely robbery will not kill you for your watch. 😅☠

    • @alani3992
      @alani3992 Год назад +2

      But why even live in the wicked West, when India is so great.

    • @kimieann1975
      @kimieann1975 11 месяцев назад +2

      I often wonder sometimes if folks just take things the wrong way. I'm very,very white with red hair and hazel eyes. Whenever I travel to a place where there isn't a lot of white folks I get stared at and women touch my hair daily. I don't get insulted by it, I recognize it for what it is, just curiosity.

  • @costasworldofmusicmemories5792
    @costasworldofmusicmemories5792 Год назад +14

    This was a well thought out video. Wise Advice. One thing we might add is don't look like a tourist. Blend in with the locals. Don't bring attention upon yourself. Be nice and be firm.
    If you want to travel solo . The use of a hired local guide will help you navigate the harrassment . It also helps the local economy. India is a great country to visit, but like any country
    in the world don't ever let your guard down. Enjoy and Be Safe. Love you Guys🥰🥰🥰 Harriet, Jim and Yuki. Richmond, Va.

  • @Hindu07613
    @Hindu07613 Год назад +5

    Your opinions is best for india we appreciate it 🥰😍

  • @vishalnune1887
    @vishalnune1887 Год назад +20

    As a Indian tq for giving a honest review .
    Because of your honesty your channel will grow very good in future .
    All the best ❣️❣️❣️

  • @saurabhkankarwal2072
    @saurabhkankarwal2072 Год назад +3

    This is called TRUE review 👏

  • @kanikahasija3537
    @kanikahasija3537 Год назад +6

    Just a tip, if you come again in India. Just try to avoid these boy groups that hang around pretty much every where making Instagram reels, RUclips videos and what not. More often than not these kids (because most of them are even below 18) will accidentally brush up with you if you get too much friendly. Don't let them take your photos, trust me (for past 5 or 6 years they are most common around Delhi) on this. I always tell this to my friends who are not from Delhi.

  • @tabysart
    @tabysart Год назад +25

    I personally loved India!! I travelled alone as a woman for three months from north to south and it was fine. But yes, respect the local conservative culture, wear long, loose clothing , but don’t let the little nuances bother you. Yes they stare, yes they want your picture, yes they’ll harass you for money or sell you something, but I just ignore all of that. It’s part of traveling. It’s what makes India so different from other countries, therefore so precious

    • @JT-qr8lt
      @JT-qr8lt 5 месяцев назад +1

      Agree with you - I’m planning a solo trip in the new year!

    • @DJosh20
      @DJosh20 4 месяца назад

      @tabysart you are in a real sense, a wanderer/traveller. Travelling in a true sense is experiencing something different (and I mean not crime) from where you come. If you want to have same experiences everywhere then it will be boring. Secondly, where ever you travel, you should always be careful about local sensibilities and traditions. If you ignore them then there would be repercussions and they happen everywhere and with everyone.

  • @Stella-xh5vq
    @Stella-xh5vq Год назад +4

    Hi, your videos are amazing and actually helped me a lot already to confirm whatever my boyfriend told me about India!
    I'm currently planning to visit my ldr boyfriend from North India, we never ever saw us before except on video calls and pictures, and now it's time for us to meet after over 1 year together. Since he is currently studying and has to do an internship during his semester break, I'm planning to visit him. I'm European, which means that I'm white as Calc and have long blond hair, so I already accepted my faith with the pictures and stares. Also, I'm relatively young and have, so far, never traveled alone. I'm really eager to see India itself regardless of my boyfriend, to clearify that im not only going for him. I will have him around at all times during my visit. That should make me pretty safe already, right? Also, I'm good with languages, which makes communication no problem either. He says that I will be completely safe with him, but my family is really concerned about my plans. They heard a lot of bad things about India. Even tho I trust my boyfriend, I still am concerned if my family is right that I shouldn't go (alone, at least). That leads me to my actual question: Do you have any advice on what you'd do in my case!? Maybe you've experienced similar things and can tell me how to be safer in India? Are there any safe guides I can book with whom I don't have to go through whole India in a big group of travelers -obviously I rather wanna stay in one bigger city where I'm near my boyfriend.
    Thanks to anyone who will read this far and maybe even give me any feedback. Have a nice day, and thanks already:)

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +6

      Hey! Oh wow, that’s a tricky situation. Considering you haven’t met him in person, we’d say to not travel to India alone. If you can travel with a friend or family member, that would be ideal. If not, contact India someday thinkingindia@indiasomeday.com and plan a trip with them. They’ll look after you and help you tour India in a safe way❤️. I know it’s tough to say but don’t trust anyone over the internet, India can be dangerous for a female solo traveler so make sure you’re always in contact with someone on the ground and someone back home. Even get an Apple AirTag and keep it on you and share the location with multiple people. Better safe than sorry🥰

    • @gabriel.stcharles
      @gabriel.stcharles Год назад +1

      @@RhettandClaire Great advice!

    • @michelevandermerwe1378
      @michelevandermerwe1378 Год назад +3

      I’ve been solo travelling in India for a month now. Haven’t felt unsafe at all. But obviously follow the usual safety precautions. I have only experienced good while I’ve been here. There are lots of young, independent Indian women around and everyone is super helpful

    • @janvimyadventures1310
      @janvimyadventures1310 Год назад +3

      @Stella
      It is my opinion , girl instinct ,take it or leave it .
      Hey don't do this . As as Indian I will say don't do this . All he want is nationality . They will say sweet things I will be there for you bla bla .

    • @Stella-xh5vq
      @Stella-xh5vq Год назад +1

      Hey everyone, thanks for all the advice:) This really helped a lot, and I'll do this whenever I do travel to India because I will! India is a beautiful country and I really wanna see it, but I'll not go alone:) I separated from my bf and again, for clarification, he's a good man and this was from my side. I'm really good now:) I won't go to India in near future but whenever I'll go, I'll take this advice, so thank you a lot for everything you commented and I hope you have a great day:)

  • @ravivyas7532
    @ravivyas7532 Год назад +3

    In most of the stories it was the local guide/cheap hotel staff manager who assaulted the female traveler. But in a group it is less likely to happen. Due to the recent incidents in last few years police department is criticized about safety of woman. Although cops may not be really helpful in such cases but some sexual offenders were encountered(shooting criminal while making an attempt to escape) by cops in last years.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Terrifying that a traveler even has to go through all of that.😭

  • @aditya_saha
    @aditya_saha Год назад +2

    honest response. even as a Indian man, i feel uncomfortable when people start staring at me. there is something about Indians and stares.

  • @kanikahasija3537
    @kanikahasija3537 Год назад +13

    Being an Indian female here, you are correct about wearing shorts in public places. I mean (as a local in Delhi) even I wear a short dress when I'm with my brother or taking my car. Can't travel wearing shorts in metro, even in women compartment. Even ladies stare at you like they'll burn you.

  • @traveler3287
    @traveler3287 Год назад +3

    Waiting for you to come again in India especially in south india 💞💞💞

  • @marken8888
    @marken8888 9 месяцев назад +4

    its not racist to say no to this.
    its just facts.
    some horrendous stories emerges from that part of the world...

  • @jenmar9428
    @jenmar9428 Год назад +2

    Watching this, because hubby and I are planning to go there Dec 2023 for two weeks. Thank you very for your honesty ❤

    • @michelevandermerwe1378
      @michelevandermerwe1378 Год назад

      I’ve been in the South. Started in Goa … loved South Goa. Stunning beaches, very safe and vibey
      Then went to Bangalore… also safe. But super busy. Not much to see
      Alleppy Back Waters is amazing
      Fort Kochi lovely … super safe as they have a huge military base there
      Verkala also so safe. Lots of young girls and guys walking around alone in the evenings. And older women too. Very hippie vibe. Great food. Very safe
      Now I’m in Munnar, which is breathtaking!!
      Definitely have an international drivers licence for scooters. You’re so lucky to have a man to drive you around. I’m definitely bring my husband the next time!
      I’ve been solo in South India for a month and not one issue. Lovely helpful and humble people.

    • @uno311
      @uno311 Год назад

      If you are travelling to India, please go to South India. It's very safe and even much more cleaner. As a North Indian I can bet on it.

    • @uno311
      @uno311 Год назад

      North India is unfortunately unsafe for women especially delhi

    • @vanisharma9444
      @vanisharma9444 8 месяцев назад

      You can safely travel to North India too if you are with someone. Just dress modestly and be a little cautious in overcrowded areas then you'll be completely fine. Hope you'll have a great journey 👍

  • @anuharsh152
    @anuharsh152 Год назад

    Loved your feedback....

  • @mayan5600
    @mayan5600 Год назад +9

    Really insightful.
    I'm from Shimla, Himachal. I have noticed that people in state, such as, Delhi, Rajasthan, Mumabi, U.P are pushy and don't have basic etiquette on how to behave in a compony of other. And these are the states I have 1st seen people begging and population so much that I can't even see the sun.
    But you might have noticed it too that people in mountains(J&K, h,p and northeast India) and Goa don't care. They won't take pictures and stare. As you might have noticed in you ladak trip.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +2

      Yes, we definitely noticed that. Not one person bothered us in Ladakh. What is the reason for it?

    • @anish7183
      @anish7183 Год назад +2

      @@RhettandClaire The states he mentioned above are the poorest states in India that's why. It's as simple as that.

    • @rahilmalhotra001
      @rahilmalhotra001 Год назад +3

      ​@@RhettandClaire The states you visited (Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh and parts of Delhi) rank on the lower tier of literacy and economy per capita. Generally in India (and probably rest of the world), the more the poor people, the more is the crime rate.

    • @carolinemarchand4743
      @carolinemarchand4743 Год назад +1

      I loved Shimla! it's sooo beautiful and the only place in India where people were not harassing us for being women

  • @NoFvckWasGiven
    @NoFvckWasGiven Год назад +4

    As usual you guys are the most genuine youtuber, so rare these days. Love you both!

  • @devamjani8041
    @devamjani8041 4 месяца назад +5

    As an Indian man i can definitely say that India is not safe for women so to any solo female traveller i would recommend to have good weapons, self defense training and if possible a good large dog to have while in India.

  • @dipayanghosh9513
    @dipayanghosh9513 Год назад +1

    Well Done Rhett and Claire. This is the accurate picture.

  • @snehabrahamane8109
    @snehabrahamane8109 2 месяца назад +1

    as an Indian girl, I recommend foreign females to travel in groups if you ever want to visit India.

  • @changumangu4660
    @changumangu4660 Год назад +8

    I respect your opinion but India is not just Delhi and Agra. Infact these cities including Mumbai should be in a no go list if you're travelling to India.
    These Delhites and UP waale always bring shame to our country 😔

    • @Metaverserebeliever
      @Metaverserebeliever Год назад +4

      Mumbai is safe but these migrant labours from up, bihar and illegal immigrants from bangladesh are bringing shame.

    • @naughtypotato5243
      @naughtypotato5243 Год назад +1

      Mumbai is much safer than Delhi and the cowbelt region.

    • @prajconnect8573
      @prajconnect8573 Год назад +1

      Mumbai is safe

  • @nathanc6314
    @nathanc6314 3 месяца назад +3

    The answer is no. I took a two-week trip to India with my wife, but we ended up returning to Thailand after just four days, before I lost control of my anger 😡 . I don't want to go into much detail, but in one word, it was (CREEPY)! One of the Country that women should stay away.

  • @thetruepatriot7733
    @thetruepatriot7733 2 месяца назад +2

    The only reason she wasn't touched is because she had a man with her...if she was alone, it would be very different. 😢

  • @Tololsapiens
    @Tololsapiens 3 месяца назад +3

    LOL.... So relatable today after what happened with spanish tourist with her husband...
    The Answer is : NO.!!!!!

  • @BulgaryZeyenek
    @BulgaryZeyenek 2 месяца назад +2

    I think you coming out of India still alive and safe is one of God's miracles

  • @Ari_diwan
    @Ari_diwan 2 месяца назад

    It's not just travelling, it's everything, going to school, college, coaching classes, and working job - everything is a challenge but we need to survive as there is no option

  • @harshitapatel1366
    @harshitapatel1366 10 месяцев назад +3

    solo travelling in india can be super unsafe. my parents still wont agree to let me shift to delhi or mumbai for studies and its understandable.

  • @sayanmandal1289
    @sayanmandal1289 Год назад +2

    It's sounds funny but there are more dengerous countries in American continent, Africa and in Europe too. But for women it's kind of true , bc sometimes I have to travel with women for some reason and yeah people stare so bad sometimes that I had to say I'm their relatives or their boyfriend. It happens few days back when me and one of our youth member she was older than me, were going to a seminar so many people thought that we are couple so they screamed to us and also a woman in a metro was constantly looking at us so bad . But we literally laughed so hard at them 😂.

  • @unique_battler
    @unique_battler 3 месяца назад

    Where is this beach located the one you are filming this video from?? Its beautifully blinding and i love it....

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  3 месяца назад

      Clifton beach Cape Town South Africa😍

  • @Dev-rs6fk
    @Dev-rs6fk Год назад +2

    You must come to Kamakhya temple ,in India 😊.

  • @ailingzubi
    @ailingzubi 2 месяца назад +4

    Those pictures they ask yo for are often used for shady purposes.

  • @adidutta5863
    @adidutta5863 Год назад +2

    Im Indian but i must tell you India is still not safe for solo women traveler, but we are working on it,,

  • @mitzy123
    @mitzy123 Год назад +8

    Ive been to 38 countries and India has to be the worst ive been to in terms of basic manners. Even as a man I was stared at even whilst eating which is incredibly rude. Sellers and tuk tuk drivers followed me and wouldnt take no for an answer. Asking for selfies from strangers ive never experienced before apart from india, what do they even do with these photos?! Must say the south of india i found people were less intrusive and well mannered so it could just be a north india thing

    • @kaushikroy5675
      @kaushikroy5675 7 месяцев назад +1

      isn't that still better than getting mugged at KNIFEPOINT???? Trust me, I lived 18 years in India, never saw or experienced any crime. Here in CANADA, I have been mugged at KNIFEPOINT 3 times LOL

  • @FeelTheWorld
    @FeelTheWorld Год назад +16

    I think India is one of the most beautiful countries in the world
    And you can travel to it

    • @rezaalizaida783
      @rezaalizaida783 Год назад +4

      is it safe for women?

    • @yamatokira4335
      @yamatokira4335 Год назад +3

      @@rezaalizaida783 No. Sorry.

    • @Zzzzzzz927
      @Zzzzzzz927 Год назад +2

      @@rezaalizaida783not safe…dont come to india

    • @247_shivamkilanjar2
      @247_shivamkilanjar2 Год назад

      @@yamatokira4335 then how come so many foreigners living in India

    • @yamatokira4335
      @yamatokira4335 Год назад +1

      @@247_shivamkilanjar2 Well, if your country is not safe for women, you must find why is it like that.
      Many foreigner choose to stay in India doesn't mean they feel safe there.

  • @v4l4r_m0rghul15
    @v4l4r_m0rghul15 Год назад +1

    Can you make a video on safety in South Africa? Plan to visit it soon

  • @movieediting3117
    @movieediting3117 Год назад +3

    These are safe cities in India for women:-
    1-Kolkata
    2-Mumbai
    3-Chennai
    4-Hydrabad
    5-Surat
    6-Ahemdabad

  • @sunny-mo1zy
    @sunny-mo1zy Год назад +10

    I would say South India and North East India are safe as safe as Southeast Asia even for Solo female travelers. most unsafe place in India is Delhi after that unsafe would be parts of Bihar, UP and West Bengal.

    • @mayan5600
      @mayan5600 Год назад +1

      Excuse me. I'm HIMACHAL. why you guys putting us with bad crowd with north india?

    • @shrutiverma7056
      @shrutiverma7056 Год назад +1

      i am from bihar the basic difference is education and development this lack in the north

    • @darthvaderibioles
      @darthvaderibioles Год назад

      ​@@mayan5600 Himachal is the only safe place . Manali is awesome 🎉

  • @ZuluMachineTravels
    @ZuluMachineTravels Год назад

    interesting information

  • @Akash-jo6oo
    @Akash-jo6oo Год назад +1

    Yaah best recommendation is to travel with your partner or any male friend you got. I am not a big guy but my presence is enough to stop anyone approaching my girlfriend even in crime infested regions of Delhi.
    India is a mix bad of good and bad stuff and I hope in coming decades boys and men in India start to mature a little bit.

  • @MEETGOLAKIYA
    @MEETGOLAKIYA Год назад

    I always up down from new york to new jersey and I always feel unsafe and same as in india I never feel unsafe.

  • @gouravlohar8736
    @gouravlohar8736 Год назад +2

    I request to all foreign whoever about to come india. Please avoid high density area like old markets you will get nothing there and people will harash you to buy products. And am really sorry to hear that .

  • @Catwoman1464
    @Catwoman1464 7 месяцев назад

    I will share my experience after I'm back as a solo female traveler on a private tour.

  • @sarthakthapliyal4710
    @sarthakthapliyal4710 9 месяцев назад +1

    Me and my friend are tall and fair Indian males and we get asked for selfies sometimes.
    With everyone having a smartphone now it has become a norm for people to think that it would be cool to show off a selfie with a foreigner to their friends. Acute selfishness because they do not consider the discomfort caused. Indian youtubers should use their soft power to preach against this but alas! they are too busy counting their views.
    Regarding the female solo travelling situation I have a different opinion - my ex was a big solo traveller and she has travelled across India. Yes she gets lots of attention and yes guys approach her but she has never faced a situation where she felt threatened. I also see lots of female Indian solo travellers in India nowadays.
    The equation changes once you are a female foreigner. You may want to limit solo travelling to the northern Himalayan States, Rajasthan, North east India and Southern India. In central India if you must travel then book a Taxi guy recommended by a trustable source and limit the travel to popular destinations only.

  • @vijaythakar5635
    @vijaythakar5635 Год назад +1

    Thak you

  • @rumi8
    @rumi8 3 месяца назад +2

    Is India safe for women? No !!!. Next question please.

  • @i.mohamedanish
    @i.mohamedanish Год назад +6

    Next time come and visit south India like Tamil nadu & Kerala more than north you guys will LOVE south India❤

    • @nanonanao9988
      @nanonanao9988 11 месяцев назад +1

      I was thinking North and South India should be separate countries

    • @i.mohamedanish
      @i.mohamedanish 11 месяцев назад

      @@nanonanao9988 that's your opinion but i didn't mention like that

  • @PS-1234
    @PS-1234 Год назад +2

    I am Indian and I think some parts of India are not ready for tourists yet. Tourists please read about the places you are going to visit preferably hire a tour guide after reading their reviews on trip advisor. Its shameful that some of the fellow Indian illiterates and literate fools don’t understand ethics, manners and personal space. But trust me not all places are same. In Europe someone visiting Paris and experience some scam or pick pocketing then based on that saying entire Europe is unsafe to travel. So please check which places are safe to travel. I recommend north-east and south India, they are relatively (not 100%) tourist friendly.

  • @ArmorofGod24by7
    @ArmorofGod24by7 2 месяца назад +1

    Calling your own country a third world and yet i see no abusive comments by south africans is something i like about people outside of india. In India people are so narrow minded that criticising india is kind of a war zone here

  • @TheIndiaNoOneTalksAbout
    @TheIndiaNoOneTalksAbout 11 месяцев назад

    I am an Indian born, sorry for what you feel about solo travellers in India.

  • @sagarmnaik5759
    @sagarmnaik5759 5 месяцев назад

    @Rhett and Claire, I Wish you would have visited South India, your perspective and experience in India would have changed a lot. Next time you plan for India please do visit Karnataka and other southern states.

  • @traveler3287
    @traveler3287 Год назад +2

    @mihir You are right from Indian perspective but think from their side they are in India for visiting only tourists places what they see what they feel what they are experiencing they are going to tell everyone.

  • @AngelKen-bq2kz
    @AngelKen-bq2kz Год назад +3

    Hi Claire, I am from the US and currently on a solo trip through Southern India, week 9 of 12 week trip. So I understand why this video came into my feed. I agree to everything you said in this video. Just wanted to add one point. Before coming here, my Indian friends back home suggested that I travel to Southern states (especially Kerala, Goa and Tamil Nadu) and to avoid northern parts of India, as it is much safer. So that is what I would would also suggest. I would definitely return to India next year for a tour of Nothern India, not solo though, but with a couple of friends.
    One thing that is common though for both south and north is the insane and crazy traffic and the honking (especially the motorcycles and scooters). You can't escape that.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing that!🥰. We’ll visit South India one day soon! We hope you’re having a great time though and that nothing bad has happened🙏🏻🥰

    • @AngelKen-bq2kz
      @AngelKen-bq2kz Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire Thanks. Yes, I am having a great time. Also one point I intended to add but missed, is to learn to politely say no to selfies in touristy areas. If you make that mistake, as I did initially, it is like opening the floodgates - everyone wants one with you.😃. I do agree to selfies occasionally, with families and friendly people in less crowded places, though.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      @@AngelKen-bq2kz we mentioned that in this video🥰

    • @darthvaderibioles
      @darthvaderibioles Год назад

      Better carry a gun ,knive and have the police number all time 😂

    • @darthvaderibioles
      @darthvaderibioles Год назад

      U will be in for a trauma if not life changing once u enter UP, Rajasthan ,Bihar 😂Delhi

  • @manuvashishtha6947
    @manuvashishtha6947 Год назад

    Love from India🇮🇳

  • @sumeetghai8867
    @sumeetghai8867 11 месяцев назад +1

    They arent there own child but mostly abducted from either maternity centre where they were born or left as orphans or trafficked by orphanage centre. We rescue quite a few of them but there are over 1 million such childrens on road and are living in terrible condition.

  • @MohamedIsmail-oj4jp
    @MohamedIsmail-oj4jp Год назад +1

    Please visit south India, people are more civil in this part of the country, relatively safe

  • @nitinverma7841
    @nitinverma7841 Год назад

    Well if you are a person with normal black hair congratulations you cracked the code coz this matters a alot how you will be treated.

  • @CC-kl4nh
    @CC-kl4nh 3 месяца назад +3

    The answer is Noooooooo!!!

  • @mangomate1623
    @mangomate1623 Год назад +5

    you have not seen best of Indian architecture. best of them are in South India.

  • @MC-gc4mt
    @MC-gc4mt Год назад +1

    claire, tq

  • @wardredd6394
    @wardredd6394 3 месяца назад +2

    If you have to make a video asking this question it is not safe - for you~

  • @hustler5396
    @hustler5396 Год назад +8

    Ya as an indian male also i don't recommend solo female traveling India, because it is nearly impossible to control the mindset of 1.4 billion people, just get a trustworthy guide u will be fine, though south india might be better in terms of safety but not delhi, rajasthan or mumbai with such huge population.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Agreed🙏🏻

    • @alokm1233318
      @alokm1233318 Год назад

      This whole golden triangle is a trap. Just goto south and see marvellous architecture or goto the hills and chill out.

    • @shivangnautiyal3522
      @shivangnautiyal3522 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire out of India you only explore golden triangle at least you have chosen better state

    • @lyamorian767
      @lyamorian767 Год назад

      Where can you get a guide?

  • @madmousetales
    @madmousetales 10 месяцев назад

    clairey you're beautiful that's why they stare lol, still uncomfortable tho! I lived in India before and I know what its like :P I'm glad you had some good experiences also. I'd love to go to /pakistan but bit worried as I've heard it's worse in terms of staring and Im already very self conscious lol ! You make such good, informative and helpful videos, so thank you for that guys :D xx

  • @pauline6005
    @pauline6005 Год назад +1

    My Indian ex said if I wore a cotton vest out and about in India it would be my own fault if I got unwanted advances 😲😤
    He lives Ghaziabad utter pradesh

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад +5

      I haaaate that mentality!😞😞. Glad he’s your ex!

    • @rahilmalhotra001
      @rahilmalhotra001 Год назад +1

      Lmao Ghaziabad is very infamous for crimes in India

    • @pauline6005
      @pauline6005 Год назад

      @@rahilmalhotra001
      Not sure why that is funny
      I would say this though.
      He never onced asked me for money . Nor would he accept it .
      Its just that his mentality could be worked on as at first he was such a good person but his thoughts changed and became very negative. Or just maybe it was a mask of his true self

  • @hsingchen5141
    @hsingchen5141 3 месяца назад +2

    You are exceptionally lucky; however, keep on visiting the country and one day you will hit the jackpot !

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  3 месяца назад

      Well this is a messed up comment. You need help.

  • @jenmar9428
    @jenmar9428 Год назад +2

    I sent this video to hubby and he ask me where is that beach. 😂😂😂 Is that in Cape Town S.A? Please drop the name of the beach.

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Hahaha it’s Clifton 1st beach, in Cape Town, our favourite beach in the world so far😍

    • @jenmar9428
      @jenmar9428 Год назад

      @@RhettandClaire thank you! 😊. It looks so gorgeous.

  • @pvasa20
    @pvasa20 Год назад +2

    Mostly it’s an issue if you are single and room in a budget hotel. Do take those extra door locks and keep your cellphone. Watch out for that knock on the door. Do not open unless you verify with reception. Also taxi very late at night.

  • @hariprasath2008
    @hariprasath2008 Год назад +3

    Asking for photos should be a north indian problem . Not in south india

  • @michelevandermerwe1378
    @michelevandermerwe1378 Год назад

    My biggest concern is getting from Mumbai to Goa … any ideas ?

    • @RhettandClaire
      @RhettandClaire  Год назад

      Either a train or a flight?😊. We’ve not been to either so we can’t help with more details