Fat Shaming Bullies of Internet Martial Arts and Fitness Communities
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- Опубликовано: 20 апр 2024
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The Internet can be a pretty rough neighborhood and social media, a cesspool of hatred and self loathing, at times. Lot of the time even, perhaps. But I generally tend to take the good with the bad, have a lighthearted attitude towards the madness and have fun.
But today, I'm going to go out of my way to talk about fat shaming and body related bullying on the online martial arts and fitness communities. I've been on the receiving end of a lot of this in the last couple of years due to my excessive weight gain during the COVID pandemic and usually I don't care. I dish out the virtriol thrown my way, right back at the bullies. But over the past couple of months I see the same characters, for example on Facebook martial arts groups like the Yang Family Tai Chi Group and The Fajin Project intensifying their bullying, constantly attacking people who clearly can't stand up for themselves.
Admins of these groups either can't keep up moderating or they don't care to get in the way of the mobs of bullie, in order to uphold a sense of decency and protect the vulnerable. So I've made this video in the hope that someone out there who is watching this, who is also abused by these bullies, to know they are not alone and they have people who care and understand the struggle they maybe goinf through. These bullies often go under fake names to avoid potential legal repercussions even, for example, like the coward bully who calls himself Dragoon Marlon Shadowbinder from Degu city in South Korea that I've named in the video, in recognition of his prolific bullying.
My message to everyone fat shamed by these bullies is: don't let your mental wellbeing be negatively affected by these self loathing bullies, perhaps easier said than done of course. But don't be disheartened, please keep doing what you need to do, to get your health improved, and enjoy your best life! Just let these self loathing bullies fester in their hatred and irrelevance. Hopefully the decent folks out there will grow some courage and responsibility, and take your side against these abusive bullies.
I wish everyone struggling with their weight all the very best and know that you are not alone! Bullies are just what they are, bullying is the only thing they are good at, and their opinions are completely worthless.
Love you all ❤️ 🤗
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Well said. Internet is allowing so many people to say things they will never say in person.
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Hey Joey! Just wanted to share that i really appreciate your honesty and most importantly i can feel your saying this from your heart in a pure way. Keep working on this and let these people who talk bad stuff, to drown themselves into their own pool full of anger. Thanks again for sharing and keep your good work!
Thank you my friend! 🤗❤️🙏
Hey Joey! I love the content that you have been putting out. Your intro sequence is cool, your interviews tend to be really good, and as a Chen stylist I've found you to be the most accessible window into what the heaven man earth people are doing 😁. The content that you create is valuable.
Your not the first RUclips content creator that i follow that has made a statement like this, and that fact alone is a crying shame. I recognize the effort it takes to make this content publicly, especially as a bigger guy, with such hatred out there. I don't think I'd have the fortitude for it. Please don't stop making content, please don't listen to the critics!
Thank you for the support sir! 🤗🤗🤗
We appreciate you sharing, it's so disappointing how people are denigrating and projecting their own insecurities, self-loathing, and negativity. So glad you are far, far stronger then that. Keep posting great content and #bewhole
Appreciate the encouragement brother 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you so much for speaking up for those in our family who haven’t yet developed their voices.
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May we all learn to love and support each other, and ourselves, as we grow and heal as a community. That’s part of our practice, too!
Thank you for your support and the wise words 🤗🙏
Thanks for sharing ☺️🙏 Would be awesome if you could share your current knowledge about how to improve the endocrine system.
Keto diet, Berberin and maybe some healing mushrooms come to mind too.
Also releasing the hidden emotions that caused the body to change in the first place.
Best greetings from Austria/Vienna!
- Paul
Thank you so much Paul, I will, in the future 🤗🙏 All the very best from Brisbane, Australia!
It seems all great figures in history took shots and abuse by others, and since in my opinion you are far more educated and informed than most about the topics of intenal mechanics and are dilligently trying to change the course, it is even less of anyone's business what you do with your body or not.
I WISH I could produce the results you demonstrate online or had a fraction of your understanding (and perhaps they do too).
The haters, 'concerned parties' and critics should probably focus more on the issues they are projecting onto you and running away from in themselves rather than pick on someone like they deem 'less than' if they are so much better and wiser.
Thank you for the kind thoughts brother! There is much truth to what you say 🤗🤗🤗
Thanks for sharing this Joey. One of my sports massage clients who has struggled with weight issues for many years was told by a client at work "That he was a fat bastard and should just sort his diet out!" His reply was well: "You give up your smoking then!" It is always easier to point the finger at another person's problem and find an "easy" solution than to deal with one's own challenges and difficulties.
💯 so sorry your client had to go through that but perfect response from your client that gets to the heart of the problem! Lot of projection of own trauma happens with bullies in all domains and while I do feel for them, the proliferating of the vicious cycle of creating more trauma by their behaviour is not okay! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts 🤗🤗🤗
@@bewholeyoga I just want to take this opportunity to congratulate you for determinedly putting yourself out there. Any flack you are getting must mean that you have something of value to say and this may be threatening to some. Others, who have not experienced genuine internal skills might mock as their sense of what is real is limited by their experience. Certainly, if people have not touched hands with the like of Sifu Mizner, they will literally have no idea of the seismic reality of this. Well done you and keep on keeping on, and as they say "Dont let the bastards drag you down!"
I have a similar problem.
🤗🤗🤗 all the very best! Thank you for sharing 🙏
I helped a friend of mine 5 years ago he lost 120 lbs and reversed his diabetes This is the program I put him on Keto diet for one year combined with berbarine he know is still down 100 lbs 5 years later and know eats on again off again keto
Awesome!!!