10 minute guided meditation and sound healing for grief

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @thatElene
    @thatElene Год назад +66

    To anyone struggling:
    You’re stronger than any test, paper due, breakup, money issue, or any battle you’re facing. Keep your head up.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      🙏🏻💜

    • @farrah203
      @farrah203 15 дней назад

      It's been two weeks since my dad passed away so suddenly and this is exactly what I needed to hear. It's so beautifully put, thank you for saying this ♥

  • @imanek9885
    @imanek9885 Год назад +26

    My father brutally passed away last week and I’ve been dealing with heaving feelings and anxiety due to the grief. Thank you so much for this beautiful practice that helped me feel so much lighter. I felt a lot of discomfort in the beginning, my body was literally hurting, but your stunning words led me to a peaceful state Im really grateful to feel after these rough few days.
    Thank you

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re so welcome. I’m humbled that my work has been able to help you through this time. 🙏🏻💜

  • @maricela5567
    @maricela5567 2 года назад +76

    I liked this guided meditation very much. It’s going on 2 years since my cat, Fluffy, passed away. Listening to this helped me process all the emotions that are sometimes hard to feel.

    • @lauratanner412
      @lauratanner412 Год назад +12

      My cat passed away yesterday. The pain is relentless

    • @karenlenk1724
      @karenlenk1724 Год назад +9

      I need this for pet loss too. It's harder than losing a person.

    • @danielleallen8846
      @danielleallen8846 Год назад +3

      Hey friends. Came here because I'm coming up on 1 year (tomorrow) that my sweet kitty passed. Sending you love ❤

    • @Hollypenopepper
      @Hollypenopepper Год назад +2

      ​@@lauratanner412 Just think of the awesome life you gave your cat and how much love you showed him/her. I'm sorry for your loss. Just know they had a great life. ❤

    • @elanastahl619
      @elanastahl619 7 месяцев назад +3

      Came here for the grief over the loss of my pup a week ago. Miss you Duke

  • @anabrr1123
    @anabrr1123 2 месяца назад +2

    I love my mom last month. And I feel like each passing day is just more pain and anguish. More regret, more hatred towards myself, towards the world. She was so young. I would give anything for just one more hug.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  2 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏻💜

  • @devinmcgrawpautler285
    @devinmcgrawpautler285 Год назад +11

    I just lost someone whom i was incredibly close with 3 days ago… the grief is so physically painful…this meditation was helpful. Im so glad i found it. Thank you

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome Devin. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏻💜

    • @InTheLight54
      @InTheLight54 7 месяцев назад

      I hope you are doing better today. Love and hugs to you. I'm going through the same thing right now.

  • @juliek3181
    @juliek3181 2 года назад +12

    I just happened upon this meditation as I was looking for healing music to sleep. Thank you for your soothing voice and loving words. I am really needing to actively grieve. I've pushed the pain of so many losses, in the last 9 years, away: several friends, my in-laws, my parents, my oldest son and one of his twin unborn babies, my youngest nephew, a grand nephew, 3 pets, and my middle daughter who is very much alive but chooses to stay away (and occasionally hurt me emotionally by pointing out my faults, but not letting me explain or apologize...).
    This is the first time I've been able to sit through an entire meditation and release some of the anger & tears. There will definitely be more to come. But thank you for helping me take this first step of healing from grief & trauma. Blessed be, jewels

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  2 года назад +1

      Jewels, I am so happy to hear this meditation gave you a release. Sending you love 💜🙏🏻

    • @reamariasimola
      @reamariasimola 2 года назад

      Thank you sweetheart I lost my mom 23.8.2020 and I am on antidepressants and have a hard time grieving. 🙏❤️

  • @danielacarneiro141
    @danielacarneiro141 Год назад +10

    This is wonderful and since my dog dies I have listening this meditation and it is very helpful 😊

  • @deepa0706
    @deepa0706 Год назад +1

    This was intense..i cried and cried.. Thanks❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      Sending you love 🙏🏻💜

  • @katiemeehan7718
    @katiemeehan7718 Год назад +10

    Came across this meditation today & it was just what I needed ❤️ I've lost my grandmothers close together over the past 2 years & trying to work through my grief, painful but necessary

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      So sorry for your losses Katie 💜🙏🏻

  • @nualanolan6271
    @nualanolan6271 Год назад +7

    Thank you ❤️ My lovely husband passed away all to soon 5 weeks ago This meditation has really helped me xx

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss 💜

  • @Plantmum90
    @Plantmum90 Год назад +5

    This mediation practice was perfect. I just went through a miscarriage and have been focusing on actively feeling and processing my emotions instead of avoiding them. I've also incorporated your yoga for grief into my daily routine and it's made a huge difference.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m glad to hear these meditations have been helping you Olivia.

  • @michieregan1053
    @michieregan1053 Год назад +2

    I need this. I'm so overwhelmed with how hard this is.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      I’m sorry to hear that Wanda. Sending you love 💜🙏🏻

  • @andreadybvik
    @andreadybvik Год назад +2

    What a really beautiful meditation! Exactly What I Needed🦋🤍

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m glad you enjoyed this Andrea 🙏🏻💜

  • @TonusFabri2024
    @TonusFabri2024 2 месяца назад +1

    This was lovely. I liked the quiet gong, it took me back to my years of Buddhist practice. Whenever I opened my eyes, I made eye contact with you; it was strangely as though you were actually in the room with me. Thank you.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  2 месяца назад

      Oh I love that. Glad to have practiced with you today 🙏🏻💜

  • @annflaherty541
    @annflaherty541 11 месяцев назад

    A wonderful meditation. The peace it left me with set the rest of the day. Thank you. ❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  11 месяцев назад

      You’re so welcome Ann. I’m glad you found some peace here 🙏🏻💜

  • @ZenWithDebby
    @ZenWithDebby Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this calming and perfectly guided meditation. I lost my grandma today and am not okay. I allow myself to feel and to grief, but also to take care of myself. This was very much needed. Thank you 🙏

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome Debby. Sending you love 💜🙏🏻

  • @getgrounded6211
    @getgrounded6211 Год назад +1

    This was great. My dog is passing from kidney disease, and I have a full week of therapy clients. I needed to find a space for my own feelings before helping others. Thank you.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m glad to hear this was helpful for you 🙏🏻💜

  • @noonespecial4171
    @noonespecial4171 4 дня назад

    Thank you ✨️

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  4 дня назад

      You’re so welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @SoniaRaoVlogs
    @SoniaRaoVlogs Год назад +1

    I simply needed this. It’s beautiful: thank you so much.

  • @amyp.9880
    @amyp.9880 Год назад

    We had to help our beloved dog cross the Rainbow Bridge today. I have been overcome with grief actually for about 9 months now since it has been "a long goodbye" because of his cognitive decline. Thank you for posting this. I will return to this again.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss Amy. 🙏🏻💜

  • @SuperMzjames
    @SuperMzjames Год назад

    I struggle with meditations that don't have a defined start and finish. It's really helpful for me

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I get that! If you don’t know when it will end it can be hard to relax into it.

  • @c62161
    @c62161 16 дней назад

    Thank you. I'm so sick with grief I've lost 12 lbs but I sat up from this a little lighter.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  15 дней назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad this helped you feel a little lighter 🙏🏻💜

  • @VickiDooling
    @VickiDooling Год назад

    I absolutely really liked this section of the course, and because it has given me so many tools to use in my grief counseling .

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      What course is that? I’m glad it’s been helpful.

  • @ThePappygretsch
    @ThePappygretsch Год назад

    Just learned a family member may have a serious illness so it's been a very stressing day. This helped a lot. TY

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m sorry to hear that. You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @selinagoyal4712
    @selinagoyal4712 Год назад

    Thank you so much. This meditation really helped me ❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад +1

      I’m glad to hear it helped Selina 🙏🏻💜

  • @sarahbentley2436
    @sarahbentley2436 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Helping me with sudden loss of my fluffy friend ❤

  • @emilysmith5654
    @emilysmith5654 Год назад +1

    This was just what I needed today. Thank you.❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome Emily 🙏🏻💜

  • @Orlagh
    @Orlagh 3 месяца назад

    Thankyou, this really helped me this morning

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  3 месяца назад

      I’m glad to hear that. Sending you love 💜

  • @SunflowerEyes252
    @SunflowerEyes252 Год назад

    First thing you said about not wanting to get to the core of it , hit the nail on the head. 3 years is approaching....I need to deal with this in a new,way now.
    I wanted to get through it, to the other side of it, and move forward. However I think this will be a different process.
    I'm taking in your video now.
    My sweet son Michael, 21 forever.

  • @rose-zj5zv
    @rose-zj5zv 6 месяцев назад

    🌼I loved the humming and instruments in this and wish it was much longer. As if I was being hugged and soothed. Could you please make that part longer like an hour.❤ Still missing my Mother after 8 years.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  6 месяцев назад +1

      I can definitely make a longer version of this. Thanks for the feedback 🙏🏻💜

  • @dananderson3243
    @dananderson3243 Год назад

    Thank you, Im so glad it was your words to help encourage the breathing!!❤❤❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @StrictlyChosen
    @StrictlyChosen Год назад

    Just what needed thank you very helpful ❤❤❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @marias5038
    @marias5038 Год назад +1

    This meditation always helps 2 months after my husband passed. The grief & lonliness is terrible 😢

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m glad it has been so helpful for you. 🙏🏻💜

    • @22zyto
      @22zyto Год назад

      Bless your heart and may your husband rest in peace and be your angel❤

  • @carolhastings4489
    @carolhastings4489 Год назад +4

    My adult son is moving out, albiet not far from me, but he's been with me for 22 years without a father. We are very close .. my best friend and the most compassionate, kind soul you'd want to meet.. I can't describe the pain I'm feeling .. anxiety and gut pain .. heavy crying bouts. I am so proud he is able to buy his own home and has a beautiful girlfriend and I am sad that I'm feeling this way. I just want to feel and express my joy. I'm afraid of what his empty room will do to my emotions. He will be leaving in a month and I'm trying to figure out ahead of time how to adjust to this. Heavy sigh. This is pain like I've never felt before, yet he is still with me and loves me so much. I don't know if I've become co-dependent, or what the matter is, but I don't think it should be this painful to let your adult child move on to his own. All I know is I will miss his presence here terribly. I don't even feel like I can stay in this home without him, yet I want to keep it for a safe place for him to return to when he wants to come "home" - he's always gotten home sick when leaving for trips. I'm just a mess.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      Carol the thought of this makes me emotional so I’m not surprised you are feeling this way. Allow yourself to feel the sadness but also lean into the new opportunities this brings for you. Sending you love 💜

    • @Kimmy4205
      @Kimmy4205 Год назад

      What a sweet mom I hope you’re doing ok

  • @annieseyler8071
    @annieseyler8071 Год назад

    Lovely. Thank you, Bettina

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @reneelevitt2721
    @reneelevitt2721 Год назад

    Thank you.

  • @TysonMichael77
    @TysonMichael77 4 месяца назад

    I feel so sad about my life rn and who I know I am vs where I am right now and the journey has been really hard since I’ve been living back at come as a young adult after school. I couldn’t believe I would be here this far out of school. I just feel sad about “where the hell am I going in a sense” it’s all made me mad and sad. I also miss men that I’m not even with anymore it’s so weird and odd and strange but thank you ❤

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  4 месяца назад +1

      I think sometimes we need to feel a bit lost so that we can work towards the things we want more of. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @TysonMichael77
      @TysonMichael77 4 месяца назад

      @@BettinaRae thank you for your response

  • @mr6sg
    @mr6sg 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you. I am an alienated mother from my beloved daughter. We are apart against our will but grief of her absence is unbearable.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  10 месяцев назад

      You’re welcome. That sounds really hard. Sending love 💜

  • @ke6197
    @ke6197 2 года назад

    Thank you🙏

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  2 года назад

      You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜

  • @leviwinters9820
    @leviwinters9820 Год назад

    Thank you

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re welcome Levi 🙏🏻💜

  • @marias5038
    @marias5038 Год назад

    I find this meditation helpful grieving the sudden loss of my husband of 46 yrs😢

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss. 💜

  • @ednalivingstone754
    @ednalivingstone754 Год назад

    Thankyou 🙏

  • @SophiaMohammed-m2u
    @SophiaMohammed-m2u 8 месяцев назад

    i lost a foal today she was only 2 days old nothing the vet or I could do it was genes mixed badly. i had my cry and I've been grand all day! i turned this on and when you said that its ok to let yourself be angry I lost it. i had to stop but ill be back tmmr to try sort through everything

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  8 месяцев назад

      I’m sorry for your loss 😞

  • @dannaisabella2586
    @dannaisabella2586 Год назад +1

    The part where you hug yourself.... It made me tear up

  • @lauracolbywitt4375
    @lauracolbywitt4375 Год назад

    Very calming and helpful. Although, a loud, bright, tacky cheerful ad came on at the end.
    Can this be fixed?

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      Oh gosh I’m sorry. That’s not good at all. I’ve turned off the ad at the end.

  • @jazznutz
    @jazznutz 4 месяца назад

    Although my person has not passed away, I have still lost her for all intents and purposes. My heart is breaking!

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  4 месяца назад

      Sending you love 🙏🏻💜

  • @JessieTG
    @JessieTG 8 месяцев назад

    I struggle with not suppressing my emotions. I’ve been conditioned for so very long to not show emotions and to push through them.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  8 месяцев назад

      A lot of people feel like this. The fact that you’re here tells me you’re on the way to changing that. 🙏🏻💜

  • @tagordon6678
    @tagordon6678 6 месяцев назад

    Today I had to put my dog down. He was leaving but was in discomfort. I don’t know if I will be okay, but I do know he is not in pain anymore. I know in my head that I did what was best for him, but my heart doesn’t agree.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  6 месяцев назад

      That’s so hard, sending you love. 🙏🏻💜

  • @marystewart1125
    @marystewart1125 4 месяца назад

    I lost my identical twin sister. Everyone who sees me gets sad because I look like her. I feel all their pain. It’s horrible.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  4 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love 🙏🏻💜

  • @blacktarpanasmr
    @blacktarpanasmr 2 года назад +1

    lovely, but I couldn't follow the instructions. there were too many and not enough silent between, time to explore

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  2 года назад

      Thanks for your feedback. I’ll try to go slower next time.

  • @SoniaRaoVlogs
    @SoniaRaoVlogs Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @lefuleseleNkopane
    @lefuleseleNkopane 3 месяца назад

    I lost my mom two weeks ago..

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  3 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏻💜

  • @aashinanra
    @aashinanra 3 месяца назад

    😚

  • @torontoluck
    @torontoluck 5 месяцев назад

    I didn’t find this helpful. I found the music to be too dark. And I found it to talk too negatively. “Maybe there’s tension in your temples and your shoulders are sore.” “This death is allowed to go against your values and stir up everything you believe” “you can be confused and unsure” - just so much negative talk. This made me more upset than when I started. We are all different, I know. This was not for me.

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  5 месяцев назад

      You’re absolutely right. Everyone is different. It’s okay if this one isn’t for you. A lot of people who enjoy this one are looking for something that affirms the pain they’re feeling and acknowledges the negative. Maybe you get that elsewhere and are looking for something different from your meditation.

  • @RasmusNorregaard
    @RasmusNorregaard Год назад

    Thanks 🙏🏻

    • @BettinaRae
      @BettinaRae  Год назад

      You’re very welcome 💜🙏🏻