I like how you mentioned that open relationships usually don't work, I myself can be very jealous too, and my man is MINE and I'm his. There are times when we need to be selfish❤
I think that if you are thinking of opening your relationship, you first need to spend time together and become more like “one” so that one of you don’t start to feel insecure afterwards, if you can get that. The after affect often can come with consequences or bring about bad vibes. Strict rules could be very important as long as the rules make sense to you both as a couple.
These are all very valid points, thank you! Yeah, I don't think we would do that anytime soon. What we have said about an open relationship is more meant in the long term. Maybe in 5 years, 15 years, or even never, this will be an option. Who knows. For the moment, though, we prefer being open and honest with each other, and when asked, also with you guys. Thank you for the good comment! ❤️
Когда я увидела ролик,где было сделано предложение,очень красиво и романтично,то стала смотреть ваш канал! Вы очень милая пара! И ,могу сказать, что открытые отношения это путь постепенно развалить семью. Лучше без этого! И желаю вашей паре удачи и счастья!!! ❤❤❤
Вы прекрасная, гармоничная и любящая пара, конечно это Ваше право выбирать какими будут Ваши отношения в дальнейшем, но свободные отношения приходят тогда когда проходит любовь. Желаю Вам долгой, безграничной, трепетной любви. Берегите друг друга ❤❤❤
Hallo ihr zwei... ich hoffe ihr überlegt euch das nochmal gut mit der eventuellen offenen Beziehung. Ich kenne keine die das überlebt hat 😔🙈 Ihr seid so ein tolles Paar und wirkt so harmonisch. Die Chance nochmal jemand zu finden der so kompatibel ist, ist sehr gering. Ich schicke euch verschwitzte Grüße aus Baden-Württemberg 😂 ich glaub bei uns ist es noch etwas heißer aktuell 🥵🥵🥵 LG Sabrina
Ich kenne ein paar Paare, die das ganz gut managen. Aber ich stimme dir voll zu, dieses Modell ist schon recht risky. Dass wir darüber so offen reden, heißt allerdings auch nicht, dass wir es wirklich versuchen werden. Bisher war gerade mir das Risiko zu groß und ich will auf jeden Fall bei Thanh bleiben. Also, keine Sorge. Wir sind recht offen mit diesem Thema, aber auch vorsichtig mit unseren Entscheidungen. LG ins heiße BW! Wir haben endlich einen kühleren Tag heute!
Aww, thank you! ❤️ This is not live, though. It's pre-recorded. But we could do a live Q&A as well, if you're interested in that. Even though this video is not live, we will be there at the premiere later. See you later :))
@@kookie_nightappleff I'll talk to Thanh what he thinks. I could imagine that we mix live and pre-recorded video to create a bit more content overall. But let me talk to Thanh first 😉
I feel Eti is a very romantic person. His deep voice indeed sounds very sexy and soothing to put a person to sleep, like a lullaby. Both of you compliment each other in many different ways. Discover your vlog by accident. Thought I 'd watch with no harm.
In my experience open relationships never work. They are centred on sexual gratification without any love involved. Sexual relationships with genuine love are more gratifying on a higher plane. Open relationships indicate a flaw in intimacy and sexual satisfaction IMO. Openness brings insecurity. If people are not in love, there is a chance they could fall in love with the third party and marriages would be on a road to breakdown.
I think that's a good point! Though, falling in love with someone else is theoretically always possible, and not just limited to physical stuff. However, the way it looks like, Thanh and I may never actually do it. We both want to protect our marriage and are very careful.
Open relationships why did you guys even bother to marry ive followed you guys but open relationships will lead to jealousy breakups etc Also THAN is such a beautiful looking man how would you feel if someone else fell for him etc
@@tinapiliouras4103 We said we're open to the idea, not that we're actually doing it, and we also voiced several concerns regarding the idea. And even if we were to do it, it would not negate our wish to be together and be married. But yes, I would of course also be worried that someone else would fall for Thanh. That's natural and good, and actually completely unrelated to an open relationship, as this can theoretically also happen at Thanh's workplace or choir, or wherever.
@@tinapiliouras4103 Being married and having an open relationship are not contradictory. For me, a marriage vow primarily means promising the other person lifelong love.
Les saludo.desde Venezuela Piensen bien el tema de una tal relacion abierta que claro que para muchos es absurdo el solo pensarlo. Tres son multitud Nunca seria amor ni respeto. Seria un desocupe. 😢😢😢 Y creo que ustedes como pareja si algo tienen es dignida y respeto mutuo Sean muy felices con mucha fidelidad comprencion AMAR ES RESPETAR nuetra pareja ❤❤❤❤
You're right, love is about respecting each other! ❤️ That is why we talk so openly about things, and as a result, can also give an honest answer to this question in the video. As said in the video, we have our concerns with the idea of an open relationship, and so we may end up never doing it.
@@roxika-oq3jy Tienes razón, ¡el amor se trata de respetarse unos a otros! Por eso hablamos tan abiertamente de las cosas y, por eso, también podemos responder honestamente a esta pregunta en el vídeo. Como se dice en el video, nos preocupa la idea de una relación abierta, por lo que es posible que nunca terminemos haciéndolo. 🙂
@@arb63061 Oh, that's what you meant 😆 (with all the rather critical comments on what we said about open relationships, I was assuming you thought we're switching into that right away). Thank you so much! We're nearing our second anniversary in a few days! And yes, we're very happy! Thanks for your support! ❤
@@etivathanh asiatische Menschen sehen meist juenger aus, auch durch ihr schmaleren zierlichen Koerper ihr volles Haar ,das gilt fuer alle Geschlechter..aber zun Unterschied altern sie meist 10 Jahre frueher als Europaer besonders wenn sie unter asiatischem Himmel leben und dem entsprechnden Klima.Und Fastfood hilft auch dass sie aus der Form gehen ,wie ueberall Lebe seit 35 Jahren in Indochina und ich habe das immer beobachten koennen... Da kommt dann Botox und Silikon zum einsatz und andere Spachtelmassen.....da wird dann unterspritzt und gezupft und gespannt .alles was die Experten koennen....ein fettes Geschaeft.
Hola, voy a dar mi apreciación personal con todo respeto, los sigo porque me gustan como se aman sin importar nada y eso es hermoso, vivir en pareja es muy difícil, son muchas cosas las que debemos hacer para complementar la relación y que sea exitosa y duradera. Siento que ustedes a pesar de todo lo que han vivido se han llevado bien...por lo menos es lo que muestran en sus vídeos. No quiero imaginar lo difícil de una relación abierta, por supuesto que cada quien toma sus decisiones, de hecho me encantan los chicos de China que tienen una relación de tres y lo que muestran es hermoso, yo personalmente no lo haría porque lo mío debe ser mío y de nadie más. Cómo le dije anteriormente respeto a los demás sí toman esa decisión y es bien complicado y hay que hablarlo mucho y llegar a un acuerdo mutuo, no probar por probar porque puede estar en riesgo su relación y siento que no vale la pena. Me gusta verlos juntos amándose y quisiera seguir viéndolos juntos por el resto de sus vidas! Con cariños y mucho respeto espero que tomen en cuenta mi humilde opinión y lo analicen extremadamente!! Saludos desde 🇻🇪❤
Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️ And yes, we will be very careful before making any quick decisions. We have both been working a lot on this relationship, and we cherish it every day. So, don't worry, we'll be continuing to cherish what we have and develop it further. Considering all the difficulties that are linked to an open relationship, we might never actually do it anyway. Much love to you! ❤️
Hallo ihr zwei es war sehr erfrischend euch beiden zu sehen. Ich wollte noch fragen wann Thanh wieder ein vidio auf nimmt wo er sing ich mag seine Stimme und ❤ Das Gefühl was er rein bringt
Hallo mein Lieblingspaar💞freu mich euch beide gleich zu sehen.Ein wunderschönes Bild von euch beiden,seit immer glücklich ihr zwei hübschen Jungs.🥰Liebe Grüße an euch von Peggy.🥰
Thanh, that's sweet you see your husband as a "super hero" but like he said, when you got like six angry guys who want to hurt you because you're gay, unless he's "packing" that's a lot for anyone!
Мои вы хорошие!!!❤❤❤❤❤ Я вас так люблю!!! ❤ Иногда смотрю и думаю...Тхань более женственнее чем я!😂 Обожаю вас и ну их ...эти свободные отношения! Не надо они вам! Любите друг друга и будьте счасливы ! А то боюсь Тханя уведут 🤔😂❤
Thank you so much! ❤️ Thanh can be feminine, yeah, but I think that's fine. He just himself :)) And yes, while we are open towards the idea of an open relationship, we might end up never doing it.
@@etivathanh про женственность Тханя я сказала с лучшей стороны! Это красиво !!! ❤ Вы очень красивая пара! ❤❤❤Что насчёт свободных отношений ... у нас с мужем сейчас такие😏 и чувства к друг другу угасают(можно сказать исчезли чувства совсем!) 🤔но живём в одном доме! Наверное привыкли друг к другу.
@@민수안나 I think so too, his femininity is beautiful! Thank you! ❤ I see, that's a bit sad to hear. But do you think that's only because of the open relationship? (ignore then question if it's too personal, please).
@@etivathanh не могу сказать точно из за свободных отношений это произошло или может нет ...но могу точно сказать что со стороны женщины (а я женщина) это как то задевает наше чувство достоинства!😏 Мы предпочитаем не делить своего мужчину с кем то ещё!😂 Женская натура (не важно в каком теле) непредсказуема! Поверьте!😂 Мы чудим похлеще мужчин но владеть хотим одни ...тем что пренадлежит нам!😅 не знаю поняли вы меня или нет? Но прежде чем начать эти отношения у нас всё было хорошо! Сейчас мои лично чувства исчезли ( встретила мужчину ) не рискуйте пожалуйста. Любите друг друга столько...сколько вам отведено! А лучше всегда!❤❤❤ извините что пишу много,просто правда ваша пара мне запала в душу! Жду ваши видео и даже пересматриваю!❤❤❤
@@민수안나 I think I understand, and I appreciate you sharing this! Thank you! Since Thanh has his feminine sides too, I think it might be a good idea to take your perspective seriously, even when he's actually a man 😀We won't take any risks, and we both want to grow and foster this relationship! Thank you for your great support! ❤
It's ok if u guys are open with the idea of open relationships.... But plz don't try it out.. Cause there are many risk factors behind it. Also it's enough to destroy a perfect relationship ❤🥲. I want you guys to be together forever like you are doing now.. These days many couples are breaking up.. I don't wanna see more heartbreaking news.. Love each other more and more... Solve every problems. ❤❤❤
As we said, we're seeing the risks and despite some interest in the concept, we have not found any good approach to negate the risks, so I'd say it's unlikely that we do this any time soon, if at all. Thanks for your support! ❤❤❤
Maybe you're right. As stated in other comments, we might not even try that in the end, because we both have our concerns with (health, everyday life, emotions, etc).
@@etivathanh they let a third person into their relationship, basically an “open relationship”, out of pleasure, curiosity and lust, and eventually it ruined what they have. Sometimes we think these things can help you discover and explore some things and help keep the fire going between both of you by distracting yourself to things that is caused by lack of satisfaction and contentment. For me, always chose what’s right if you don’t want to regret the impact of something you know isn’t morally right, last thing you will know it will take things sour and eventually become bitter. You chose the path of marriage, we know in gay culture not every gays wants to settle down, in that case, if you choose to get married, why choose a life with a partner when you can just hook-up with anyone being a batchelor.
@@lonewolf5969 I see, though it's not yet really clear to me what type of 'letting in' that was. It sounds a bit like letting this person in emotionally too. This, of course, could have been a lot more dangerous than something purely physical and limited. I don't know if this is a 'gay culture' thing. Here in Germany, for example, some married couples (mostly straight ones, actually) go to something called a 'Swinger Club', basically a club where both can 'play' with others. Then they go home, and life goes on. Theoretically, this is somewhere on the 'open relationship spectrum' for me (if that makes any sense), as it is some form of limited openness within an otherwise closed marriage. So, an idea like this isn't part of a 'gay culture' necessarily, and surprisingly well established. However, it is not a majority thing either. It might be a cultural thing, though, as for example in Vietnam, not much like this seems to exist, even for straight couples (though I'd not be surprised if there are similar establishments). Anyway, we chose to get married because we love each other and because we want to stay together, ideally for the rest of our lives. Not sure if this will ever include some form of openness, but I can assure you that we will protect what we have. While opening up a bit (sexually) could be fun, we won't sacrifice our relationship for this.
@@etivathanh its easy said than done to be honest, but i wish you the best, and hopefully you could continue to battle against your demons which i know is not an easy process for you, but all the best whatever you would like to do and discover more about life.
Love your long hair Thanh....don't you mean he is turning 20? lol.....Open relationship!.....what exactly is that?.....love you gentlemen...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Richard
Haha 😆 Thanh will love this! No, he actually almost 30 (but don't tell him 😆). Open relationship would mean having also other sexual partners, but yeah, despite being open towards the idea, we both haven't really tried that together yet. Have a great evening, Richard! ❤️
Me suscribí a tu canal para seguir esta hermosa historia de amor, mire todos tus videos y tambien me emocioné con tus testimonios.. Pero con todo respeto, me decepciona un poco que exista la posibilidad de una relación abierta😢..
I think we still are the beautiful love story. Just because we're honestly telling our take on this, doesn't mean we're risking our relationship for it. Like we stated, there are many unsolved issues with the idea of an open relationship. For the moment, I don't think that's happening any time soon, to be honest. So, no worries 😉
Hallo ich trage Hörgerät seit ich klein bin und euche Videos inspirieren mich immer und liebe euche video ich seit tolle menschen bleib so wie ihr seid können ihr ein video machen wo ihr deutsch sprechen würde mich sehr freuen gruß von Sofia
J’ai jamais compris le concept de relations ouvertes 😩 Je suis mariée au même homme depuis 20 ans (j’ai eu pas mal de relations avant) mais avec mon homme on s’éclate que tous les 2 . Je ne vois pas pourquoi je risquerais mon couple pour juste du s.x. 🤔😢 Mais j’ai l’impression que c’est commun pour les homos non ? Vous ne vous suffisez pas ? 😢 Dés l’instant où tu l’envisage c’est que tu n’es pas satisfait de ton partenaire .
Yes, open relationships are difficult, but perhaps not more than relationships are in general. Both, closed and open relationships, require work and commitment. Thanh and I may never actually try an open relationship due to all the issues we see with it (health, management, emotional side, etc), but we wanted to talk honestly about this. I don't think open relationships mean that one is not satisfied with their partner, by the way, and I don't think this applies to us, as we are happy with each other.
Also niedlich und schön paar du beide bist also niedlich und klug nett und sehr liebe manns ....Danke Wie geht's und leis spater Eti my German is not to good so you can write answer in english
Thank you so much! ❤️ And thanks for trying to write in German! I actually understood everything. We're fine, I (Eti) just had a lot of work recently, but I think it's going to be better soon.
cute but i can see thanh dont like the idea of an open relaonship and you do, so i think you should respect his decision if you wanted to hook up there was no need to take this boy from his home country and marry him etc, its not a hate comment i think you two are lovely but you are probably a bit egoistic
I think calling me egoistic just for liking the idea of an open relationship more than Thanh is perhaps a bit judgemental. There is no decision, by the way! If anything, I was so far the one not wanting to open the relationship because of all the concerns we mentioned and my past, rather bad experiences with that. We're openly discussing things, but this doesn't mean we do it. We have, for example, also discussed buying a houseboat, which, like the open relationship, we may never actually do.
Honestly if you guys do the open relationship than you will definitely loose Thanh because in 15 years you will look old faster than him because Asian look younger than their original aged. Thanh will meet someone more handsome, wealthy, and younger than you. Thanh is a 10 while you are an average. It will be your lost not Thanh. Choose wisely so you won't regret it.
While I get the concerns about an open relationship, and I think these concerns are well-placed, there are quite a few issues here: 1) I would lose Thanh because of age / looks > This assumes our relationship and love is only based on these two factors, which frankly would be a very fragile kind of relationship if that was true. 2) Asian look younger than their original age > After 10 years in Vietnam, I disagree with this, and would rather say this is a stereotype. Also, Asia is freaking huge and includes everything from countries like Turkey, Iran, Iraq, to those like China, South Korea, Vietnam, and Japan. Not sure a statement like this holds up. 3) Thanh is a 10, and I'm average > You can have your opinion, of course. And while I agree with Thanh's 10, like in 1) it's solely based on looks, it seems. 4) My lost, not Thanh's > This statement, as it doesn't bring up anything else that makes us who we are, seems purely based on looks again. It's discrediting many of our personal traits that we love about each other. To sum up, much of what you brought up based our relationship on looks (and age) alone, which is sad to see. Is that what you think makes up a love relationship? If that's the case, I fully understand your point about the open relationship.
OMG what a superficial attitude. In a real relationship based on deep love, looks are not the most important thing. And by the way, for Thanh, Eti is also a 10 ;-)
Jaa, stiemme dir völlig zu. Jungs, ich habe euch in der Beziehung ganz anders gesehen. Verliebt, verlobt, verheiratet! Ein "drieter" hat da nicht zu suchen. Eure Heirat war sooo romantisch. Besonders die weinende "Braut". Schade, bin etwas endteuscht. Trotz allem, liebe Grüße, von Totka😊
Bisher haben wir das auch nicht vor. Aber, innerhalb der nächsten 50 oder so Jahre, wäre es schon möglich, zumindest theoretisch. Einen dritten im Sinne einer polygamen Beziehung wird's aber sicher nicht geben.
Yeah, Thanh's German is still in the beginning stages, and my Vietnamese is of course also not on his level, but you can say we both speak three languages on various levels. English is our main language, though.
I was betting that you two were in a monogamy, and I'm happy to find out that you are! :) I think being jealous (healthy dose, of course because otherwise it can be a problem, too) is a sign that you care about that person as you both say. I mean how could you not?! By the way, did I just hear Thanh say, "I need one dick and he needs more holes"? I was like no he did not just say that hahahaha Same when he said, "I'm like a battery for a dead phone". I could imagine life with Thanh would not be a boring one at all. All these random and unexpected things he throws out haha. You complement each other well. You seem more grounded, and Thanh is more upbeat and cheerier. Good balance! Yes, Eti, you are good to look at & admire, and you have a nice soothing voice. I think you wanted to hear something more internal rather than external things because praises on the outer appearance might be interpreted as superficial and shallow, but I believe what's on the outside is just as important if not more. I mean who doesn't want to live with a good-looking partner with a good voice?! ;) I know how Thanh might be feeling about turning 30 years old. but tell him it gets easier hehe Eti, you look much younger than your age. Ok, I enjoyed your video. off to bed now. Wish you two guys a great week ahead!
True! A healthy dose of being jealous is good, I think. Yeah, he did say that 😆 And no, life with Thanh is never boring 😆 Maybe you're right about the comments on the external things. I think they do matter too, and Thanh's cuteness is definitely something crucial for me too, though this is more his behaviour than his looks, I'd say. Thanks for the age-related praise, by the way! We both like to hear that, I think 😆
Thank you very much for taking the time to answer our questions. I am really impressed Eti's age, he really looks young. Finally, I wish you many successes, happiness and health.🤍
I like how you mentioned that open relationships usually don't work, I myself can be very jealous too, and my man is MINE and I'm his. There are times when we need to be selfish❤
”Im like a battery for a dead phone” I love your humour and laghter and as always wish you both well in Germany! Love from Sweden ❤
as always thanh is so cute and naturally honest,,love you both❤❤
Cute video! And I like the little setup/decorations too!
Thank you so much! ❤️ I want to add more later and make this corner even cuter!
I think that if you are thinking of opening your relationship, you first need to spend time together and become more like “one” so that one of you don’t start to feel insecure afterwards, if you can get that. The after affect often can come with consequences or bring about bad vibes. Strict rules could be very important as long as the rules make sense to you both as a couple.
These are all very valid points, thank you! Yeah, I don't think we would do that anytime soon. What we have said about an open relationship is more meant in the long term. Maybe in 5 years, 15 years, or even never, this will be an option. Who knows. For the moment, though, we prefer being open and honest with each other, and when asked, also with you guys. Thank you for the good comment! ❤️
Thanh is right, you have a calm voice Eti. You can be a good teacher
Thank you! ❤️
Thanks!
Thank you so much for your support! ❤
Когда я увидела ролик,где было сделано предложение,очень красиво и романтично,то стала смотреть ваш канал! Вы очень милая пара! И ,могу сказать, что открытые отношения это путь постепенно развалить семью. Лучше без этого! И желаю вашей паре удачи и счастья!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! ❤️ Yeah, even if we're generally open towards the idea, the risks seem difficult to overcome.
@@etivathanh У вас отличный английский язык! И голос красивый.❤️
Sense of humour of thanh is too good😊
Thành talking about the proposal has to be the highlight for me ❤️ he was literally beaming with happiness
How beautiful to see you together🥰❤️I enjoy pursuing your interests in anything
Day by day thanh look gorgeous ❤
Вы прекрасная, гармоничная и любящая пара, конечно это Ваше право выбирать какими будут Ваши отношения в дальнейшем, но свободные отношения приходят тогда когда проходит любовь.
Желаю Вам долгой, безграничной, трепетной любви. Берегите друг друга ❤❤❤
Hallo ihr zwei... ich hoffe ihr überlegt euch das nochmal gut mit der eventuellen offenen Beziehung. Ich kenne keine die das überlebt hat 😔🙈 Ihr seid so ein tolles Paar und wirkt so harmonisch. Die Chance nochmal jemand zu finden der so kompatibel ist, ist sehr gering. Ich schicke euch verschwitzte Grüße aus Baden-Württemberg 😂 ich glaub bei uns ist es noch etwas heißer aktuell 🥵🥵🥵 LG Sabrina
Ich kenne ein paar Paare, die das ganz gut managen. Aber ich stimme dir voll zu, dieses Modell ist schon recht risky. Dass wir darüber so offen reden, heißt allerdings auch nicht, dass wir es wirklich versuchen werden. Bisher war gerade mir das Risiko zu groß und ich will auf jeden Fall bei Thanh bleiben. Also, keine Sorge. Wir sind recht offen mit diesem Thema, aber auch vorsichtig mit unseren Entscheidungen. LG ins heiße BW! Wir haben endlich einen kühleren Tag heute!
Lovely vlog as usual. Hope you both are well. Keep safe and looking forward to your next vlog. Much love Jennifer xx
Thank you so much!
I love d way thanh flips his hair
So girly 💋💋💋💋
Eti kudos to u
Thank you so much! ❤️
Omg finally my favourite couple is doing live ❤❤❤ how are you both ❤❤ lot of love 😘😘
Aww, thank you! ❤️ This is not live, though. It's pre-recorded. But we could do a live Q&A as well, if you're interested in that. Even though this video is not live, we will be there at the premiere later. See you later :))
@@etivathanhthank you 😊 🥰 and yeah we would love to see you both on live 🤩🤩
@@kookie_nightappleff I'll talk to Thanh what he thinks. I could imagine that we mix live and pre-recorded video to create a bit more content overall. But let me talk to Thanh first 😉
@@etivathanh yeah thank you so much 😊🥰🙂☺️☺️😊🥰🥰😍
Thanks for sharing. Keep loving each other. I send BIG hugs to both of you ❤️
We will! Thank you, and big hugs to you!
His hair he is more pretty than many girls 😂❤
I'm sure Thanh will love reading this comment! ❤️
He definitely has more sass than me, a girl😅. Cutie
@@Iover7789 😆
Is Thanh a trans? He seems turning herself more feminine as time goes
I feel Eti is a very romantic person. His deep voice indeed sounds very sexy and soothing to put a person to sleep, like a lullaby. Both of you compliment each other in many different ways. Discover your vlog by accident. Thought I 'd watch with no harm.
You're leaving such nice comments! Thank you so much! ❤️
@@etivathanh It is easy to leave a compliment to you and your spouse. Bless you. Coming from SE Asia with sad memories, i know how it feels like.
In my experience open relationships never work. They are centred on sexual gratification without any love involved. Sexual relationships with genuine love are more gratifying on a higher plane. Open relationships indicate a flaw in intimacy and sexual satisfaction IMO. Openness brings insecurity. If people are not in love, there is a chance they could fall in love with the third party and marriages would be on a road to breakdown.
I think that's a good point! Though, falling in love with someone else is theoretically always possible, and not just limited to physical stuff.
However, the way it looks like, Thanh and I may never actually do it. We both want to protect our marriage and are very careful.
Open relationships why did you guys even bother to marry ive followed you guys but open relationships will lead to jealousy breakups etc Also THAN is such a beautiful looking man how would you feel if someone else fell for him etc
@@tinapiliouras4103 We said we're open to the idea, not that we're actually doing it, and we also voiced several concerns regarding the idea. And even if we were to do it, it would not negate our wish to be together and be married.
But yes, I would of course also be worried that someone else would fall for Thanh. That's natural and good, and actually completely unrelated to an open relationship, as this can theoretically also happen at Thanh's workplace or choir, or wherever.
@@tinapiliouras4103 Being married and having an open relationship are not contradictory. For me, a marriage vow primarily means promising the other person lifelong love.
What is open relationship means ??
Yeah i also remember how he proposed to you that was so wholesome and that's the when I start following you and subscribed ❤❤❤❤
Aww, thank you 🥰
Les saludo.desde Venezuela Piensen bien el tema de una tal relacion abierta que claro que para muchos es absurdo el solo pensarlo. Tres son multitud Nunca seria amor ni respeto. Seria un desocupe. 😢😢😢 Y creo que ustedes como pareja si algo tienen es dignida y respeto mutuo
Sean muy felices con mucha fidelidad comprencion AMAR ES RESPETAR nuetra pareja ❤❤❤❤
You're right, love is about respecting each other! ❤️ That is why we talk so openly about things, and as a result, can also give an honest answer to this question in the video. As said in the video, we have our concerns with the idea of an open relationship, and so we may end up never doing it.
@@etivathanh traduce al español O deja el tradutor para poder entenderte 🤗🤗🤗
@@roxika-oq3jy Tienes razón, ¡el amor se trata de respetarse unos a otros! Por eso hablamos tan abiertamente de las cosas y, por eso, también podemos responder honestamente a esta pregunta en el vídeo. Como se dice en el video, nos preocupa la idea de una relación abierta, por lo que es posible que nunca terminemos haciéndolo. 🙂
Best of luck adjusting to new circumstances, I hope you think long and hard about opening up your relationship as they never end well.
What circumstances? And yes, we do. We might end up never doing it because of the concerns we mentioned.
@@etivathanh I meant to say best wishes with the marriage, the move to your new home, all the new changes in your lives. You look very happy together.
@@arb63061 Oh, that's what you meant 😆 (with all the rather critical comments on what we said about open relationships, I was assuming you thought we're switching into that right away).
Thank you so much! We're nearing our second anniversary in a few days! And yes, we're very happy! Thanks for your support! ❤
Oh I am waiting for this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are precious! I like the way you take care of each other. 🥰.
You are so kind!
Love for both and tbh you guy should continue a close and lovely relationship not open relationship with insecurities and worries
Thank you! This is probably the safest option! Much love to you! ❤️
Stay happy.. Healthy and in love guyz.. Be true to each other coz lying can lead to another lie and another... ❤❤❤
Que o amor, a confiança e o companheirismo estejam sempre presentes na vida de vocês ❤❤
Thank you so much! ❤️
Hermosos ❤❤ me gusta como llevan su relación 😊😊 espero y sigan así por muchos años más 😊😊😊😊
Thank you so much! I'm sure it will! ❤️
Im like a battery for a dead phone 😂💀
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Desejo muitas bençãos e felicidades para vocês!😃🇧🇷🌻🌼
Etienne, STAY jealous for Thành. That means you love him. 🙋🏻♂️🇺🇸🤝🇻🇳🇩🇪
I will, and I do ❤️ Thank you, Matthew!
That's a nice thing about the US, can get any variety of Asian food pretty much anywhere. Well, if you live in a larger city.
Yeah, Germany isn't that great on Asian food xD
😮😮😮whattttt...... Thanh is going to be 30..
Nooo wayyyyy... He's so fine & still looking young like in his 20s...
True, but he's indeed going to be 30 soon 😆
@@etivathanh asiatische Menschen sehen meist juenger aus, auch durch ihr schmaleren zierlichen Koerper ihr volles Haar ,das gilt fuer alle Geschlechter..aber zun Unterschied altern sie meist 10 Jahre frueher als Europaer besonders wenn sie unter asiatischem Himmel leben und dem entsprechnden Klima.Und Fastfood hilft auch dass sie aus der Form gehen ,wie ueberall
Lebe seit 35 Jahren in Indochina und ich habe das immer beobachten koennen...
Da kommt dann Botox und Silikon zum einsatz und andere Spachtelmassen.....da wird dann unterspritzt und gezupft und gespannt .alles was die Experten koennen....ein fettes Geschaeft.
Какой красивый Тхан❤
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 love this
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love one another guys 🤗🤗🤗
Hola, voy a dar mi apreciación personal con todo respeto, los sigo porque me gustan como se aman sin importar nada y eso es hermoso, vivir en pareja es muy difícil, son muchas cosas las que debemos hacer para complementar la relación y que sea exitosa y duradera. Siento que ustedes a pesar de todo lo que han vivido se han llevado bien...por lo menos es lo que muestran en sus vídeos. No quiero imaginar lo difícil de una relación abierta, por supuesto que cada quien toma sus decisiones, de hecho me encantan los chicos de China que tienen una relación de tres y lo que muestran es hermoso, yo personalmente no lo haría porque lo mío debe ser mío y de nadie más. Cómo le dije anteriormente respeto a los demás sí toman esa decisión y es bien complicado y hay que hablarlo mucho y llegar a un acuerdo mutuo, no probar por probar porque puede estar en riesgo su relación y siento que no vale la pena. Me gusta verlos juntos amándose y quisiera seguir viéndolos juntos por el resto de sus vidas! Con cariños y mucho respeto espero que tomen en cuenta mi humilde opinión y lo analicen extremadamente!! Saludos desde 🇻🇪❤
Total mente de acuerdo con comentario🤔🤔🤔🤔
Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️
And yes, we will be very careful before making any quick decisions. We have both been working a lot on this relationship, and we cherish it every day. So, don't worry, we'll be continuing to cherish what we have and develop it further.
Considering all the difficulties that are linked to an open relationship, we might never actually do it anyway.
Much love to you! ❤️
You guys is so sweet. And funny.
That man hair is so beautiful 😍
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😂😂I m asking you 😂😂 that was nice ❤❤
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Hallo ihr zwei es war sehr erfrischend euch beiden zu sehen. Ich wollte noch fragen wann Thanh wieder ein vidio auf nimmt wo er sing ich mag seine Stimme und ❤
Das Gefühl was er rein bringt
Dankeschön ☺️
Ich hoffe auch, Thanh nimmt bald wieder etwas auf. Ich sag's ihm auf jeden Fall!
Hallo mein Lieblingspaar💞freu mich euch beide gleich zu sehen.Ein wunderschönes Bild von euch beiden,seit immer glücklich ihr zwei hübschen Jungs.🥰Liebe Grüße an euch von Peggy.🥰
Hi Peggy! Vielen lieben Dank und LG! ❤️
Thanh, that's sweet you see your husband as a "super hero" but like he said, when you got like six angry guys who want to hurt you because you're gay, unless he's "packing" that's a lot for anyone!
True! 😆 I wouldn't want to deal with that, and I'm not strong enough for that either 😆
Мои вы хорошие!!!❤❤❤❤❤ Я вас так люблю!!! ❤ Иногда смотрю и думаю...Тхань более женственнее чем я!😂 Обожаю вас и ну их ...эти свободные отношения! Не надо они вам! Любите друг друга и будьте счасливы ! А то боюсь Тханя уведут 🤔😂❤
Thank you so much! ❤️ Thanh can be feminine, yeah, but I think that's fine. He just himself :))
And yes, while we are open towards the idea of an open relationship, we might end up never doing it.
@@etivathanh про женственность Тханя я сказала с лучшей стороны! Это красиво !!! ❤ Вы очень красивая пара! ❤❤❤Что насчёт свободных отношений ... у нас с мужем сейчас такие😏 и чувства к друг другу угасают(можно сказать исчезли чувства совсем!) 🤔но живём в одном доме! Наверное привыкли друг к другу.
@@민수안나 I think so too, his femininity is beautiful! Thank you! ❤
I see, that's a bit sad to hear. But do you think that's only because of the open relationship? (ignore then question if it's too personal, please).
@@etivathanh не могу сказать точно из за свободных отношений это произошло или может нет ...но могу точно сказать что со стороны женщины (а я женщина) это как то задевает наше чувство достоинства!😏 Мы предпочитаем не делить своего мужчину с кем то ещё!😂 Женская натура (не важно в каком теле) непредсказуема! Поверьте!😂 Мы чудим похлеще мужчин но владеть хотим одни ...тем что пренадлежит нам!😅 не знаю поняли вы меня или нет? Но прежде чем начать эти отношения у нас всё было хорошо! Сейчас мои лично чувства исчезли ( встретила мужчину ) не рискуйте пожалуйста. Любите друг друга столько...сколько вам отведено! А лучше всегда!❤❤❤ извините что пишу много,просто правда ваша пара мне запала в душу! Жду ваши видео и даже пересматриваю!❤❤❤
@@민수안나 I think I understand, and I appreciate you sharing this! Thank you! Since Thanh has his feminine sides too, I think it might be a good idea to take your perspective seriously, even when he's actually a man 😀We won't take any risks, and we both want to grow and foster this relationship! Thank you for your great support! ❤
It's ok if u guys are open with the idea of open relationships.... But plz don't try it out.. Cause there are many risk factors behind it. Also it's enough to destroy a perfect relationship ❤🥲.
I want you guys to be together forever like you are doing now.. These days many couples are breaking up.. I don't wanna see more heartbreaking news.. Love each other more and more... Solve every problems. ❤❤❤
As we said, we're seeing the risks and despite some interest in the concept, we have not found any good approach to negate the risks, so I'd say it's unlikely that we do this any time soon, if at all.
Thanks for your support! ❤❤❤
@@etivathanh i know it's your life.. Your choice.... 👍🏼but I'm afraid 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thanh é muito mimado e mandão, mas é lindo e fofo. Seus cabelo semi longos estão cada dia mais bonito.❤❤❤
Yep, he can be kinda bossy xD But he's always cute when he wants to be bossy xD
Gosto de ver o amor de vocês, acho que em um relacionamento aberto iria estragar esse amor, é só minha opinião, não é uma censura.
Amo vocês!
Maybe you're right. As stated in other comments, we might not even try that in the end, because we both have our concerns with (health, everyday life, emotions, etc).
@@etivathanh vocês são uns príncipes, me divirto muito com a carinha do T que é muito fofo e a sua quando fica com vergonha.
Amo vocês !
Какой малыш красавчик❤
I remember i talked to a guy who let someone enter their relationship and it ruined their relationship and lost his soulmate eventually.
What do you mean by "enter"? The story sounds sad, tho.
@@etivathanh they let a third person into their relationship, basically an “open relationship”, out of pleasure, curiosity and lust, and eventually it ruined what they have. Sometimes we think these things can help you discover and explore some things and help keep the fire going between both of you by distracting yourself to things that is caused by lack of satisfaction and contentment.
For me, always chose what’s right if you don’t want to regret the impact of something you know isn’t morally right, last thing you will know it will take things sour and eventually become bitter. You chose the path of marriage, we know in gay culture not every gays wants to settle down, in that case, if you choose to get married, why choose a life with a partner when you can just hook-up with anyone being a batchelor.
@@lonewolf5969 I see, though it's not yet really clear to me what type of 'letting in' that was. It sounds a bit like letting this person in emotionally too. This, of course, could have been a lot more dangerous than something purely physical and limited.
I don't know if this is a 'gay culture' thing. Here in Germany, for example, some married couples (mostly straight ones, actually) go to something called a 'Swinger Club', basically a club where both can 'play' with others. Then they go home, and life goes on. Theoretically, this is somewhere on the 'open relationship spectrum' for me (if that makes any sense), as it is some form of limited openness within an otherwise closed marriage. So, an idea like this isn't part of a 'gay culture' necessarily, and surprisingly well established. However, it is not a majority thing either. It might be a cultural thing, though, as for example in Vietnam, not much like this seems to exist, even for straight couples (though I'd not be surprised if there are similar establishments).
Anyway, we chose to get married because we love each other and because we want to stay together, ideally for the rest of our lives. Not sure if this will ever include some form of openness, but I can assure you that we will protect what we have. While opening up a bit (sexually) could be fun, we won't sacrifice our relationship for this.
@@etivathanh its easy said than done to be honest, but i wish you the best, and hopefully you could continue to battle against your demons which i know is not an easy process for you, but all the best whatever you would like to do and discover more about life.
You guys so cute 🥰
Wow cute Couple.❤❤❤
YOU BOTH LOOK LIKE KIDS!!!❤❤❤
What? 😆 I'm moving towards 40 now 😆
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Love your long hair Thanh....don't you mean he is turning 20? lol.....Open relationship!.....what exactly is that?.....love you gentlemen...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Richard
Haha 😆 Thanh will love this! No, he actually almost 30 (but don't tell him 😆). Open relationship would mean having also other sexual partners, but yeah, despite being open towards the idea, we both haven't really tried that together yet.
Have a great evening, Richard! ❤️
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Me suscribí a tu canal para seguir esta hermosa historia de amor, mire todos tus videos y tambien me emocioné con tus testimonios..
Pero con todo respeto, me decepciona un poco que exista la posibilidad de una relación abierta😢..
I think we still are the beautiful love story. Just because we're honestly telling our take on this, doesn't mean we're risking our relationship for it. Like we stated, there are many unsolved issues with the idea of an open relationship. For the moment, I don't think that's happening any time soon, to be honest. So, no worries 😉
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Who is Husband and who is Wife please make clear
We're both husbands. It's a gay relationship.
En France, on peut avoir deux nationalités et même plus!
That's so cool!
Waao nice couple with great relationship.....I want also good relationship with love n care....Any mature men for me.... I am 30 yr old
te ves muy bonito con el cabello largo
Cute ☺️
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Open relationships don't really work😢
Very often they don't, indeed.
love you both guyz please take care of each other... thanh is sooo sexy and cute❤❤❤❤
We will! ❤
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Hallo ich trage Hörgerät seit ich klein bin und euche Videos inspirieren mich immer und liebe euche video ich seit tolle menschen bleib so wie ihr seid können ihr ein video machen wo ihr deutsch sprechen würde mich sehr freuen gruß von Sofia
Danke dir, Sofia! ❤️ Vielleicht können wir ja ein bisschen Deutsch sprechen. Sehr viel geht leider noch nicht, aber mit der Zeit immer mehr :))
No sound???
The sound seems to be working fine. Can you check your device?
@@etivathanh now it's audible, don't know what happened with my device. Thanks thou. 💕
@@RayAnupam Glad it's working now! Hope, you'll enjoy the video!
❤ gosto muito de vcs ! Parabéns por serem quem são 😊
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Hallo wie geht’s euch denn so ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Gruss Andrea
Danke, uns geht es gut, Andrea! Und dir? ❤
J’ai jamais compris le concept de relations ouvertes 😩 Je suis mariée au même homme depuis 20 ans (j’ai eu pas mal de relations avant) mais avec mon homme on s’éclate que tous les 2 . Je ne vois pas pourquoi je risquerais mon couple pour juste du s.x. 🤔😢 Mais j’ai l’impression que c’est commun pour les homos non ? Vous ne vous suffisez pas ? 😢 Dés l’instant où tu l’envisage c’est que tu n’es pas satisfait de ton partenaire .
Yes, open relationships are difficult, but perhaps not more than relationships are in general. Both, closed and open relationships, require work and commitment. Thanh and I may never actually try an open relationship due to all the issues we see with it (health, management, emotional side, etc), but we wanted to talk honestly about this.
I don't think open relationships mean that one is not satisfied with their partner, by the way, and I don't think this applies to us, as we are happy with each other.
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Also niedlich und schön paar du beide bist also niedlich und klug nett und sehr liebe manns
....Danke
Wie geht's und leis spater
Eti my German is not to good so you can write answer in english
Thank you so much! ❤️ And thanks for trying to write in German! I actually understood everything. We're fine, I (Eti) just had a lot of work recently, but I think it's going to be better soon.
cute but i can see thanh dont like the idea of an open relaonship and you do, so i think you should respect his decision if you wanted to hook up there was no need to take this boy from his home country and marry him etc, its not a hate comment i think you two are lovely but you are probably a bit egoistic
I think calling me egoistic just for liking the idea of an open relationship more than Thanh is perhaps a bit judgemental. There is no decision, by the way! If anything, I was so far the one not wanting to open the relationship because of all the concerns we mentioned and my past, rather bad experiences with that. We're openly discussing things, but this doesn't mean we do it. We have, for example, also discussed buying a houseboat, which, like the open relationship, we may never actually do.
Если вы готовы к открытым отношениям, значит у вас нет любви друг к другу и вы фейковая пара.
We're not ready, as we said. So, every couple having an open relationship is fake, then?
What did you mean to say: Maybe the two are not right for each other or they are a fake couple?
Honestly if you guys do the open relationship than you will definitely loose Thanh because in 15 years you will look old faster than him because Asian look younger than their original aged. Thanh will meet someone more handsome, wealthy, and younger than you. Thanh is a 10 while you are an average. It will be your lost not Thanh. Choose wisely so you won't regret it.
While I get the concerns about an open relationship, and I think these concerns are well-placed, there are quite a few issues here:
1) I would lose Thanh because of age / looks > This assumes our relationship and love is only based on these two factors, which frankly would be a very fragile kind of relationship if that was true.
2) Asian look younger than their original age > After 10 years in Vietnam, I disagree with this, and would rather say this is a stereotype. Also, Asia is freaking huge and includes everything from countries like Turkey, Iran, Iraq, to those like China, South Korea, Vietnam, and Japan. Not sure a statement like this holds up.
3) Thanh is a 10, and I'm average > You can have your opinion, of course. And while I agree with Thanh's 10, like in 1) it's solely based on looks, it seems.
4) My lost, not Thanh's > This statement, as it doesn't bring up anything else that makes us who we are, seems purely based on looks again. It's discrediting many of our personal traits that we love about each other.
To sum up, much of what you brought up based our relationship on looks (and age) alone, which is sad to see. Is that what you think makes up a love relationship? If that's the case, I fully understand your point about the open relationship.
OMG what a superficial attitude. In a real relationship based on deep love, looks are not the most important thing. And by the way, for Thanh, Eti is also a 10 ;-)
Lets be honest, thanh is the beauty here!
Jaa, stiemme dir völlig zu. Jungs, ich habe euch in der Beziehung ganz anders gesehen. Verliebt, verlobt, verheiratet! Ein "drieter" hat da nicht zu suchen. Eure Heirat war sooo romantisch. Besonders die weinende "Braut". Schade, bin etwas endteuscht. Trotz allem, liebe Grüße, von Totka😊
Bisher haben wir das auch nicht vor. Aber, innerhalb der nächsten 50 oder so Jahre, wäre es schon möglich, zumindest theoretisch. Einen dritten im Sinne einer polygamen Beziehung wird's aber sicher nicht geben.
@@etivathanhok das, stiemmt mich schon freundlich zu. Ich mag euch schon sehr, als Pärchen! ❤❤
@@totkamikulec613 Danke, es ist toll, Menschen wie dich hier zu sehen! ❤
@@etivathanh 🥰😘😘😘
@@etivathanhНемного странный ответ. Как понять "Третьего не будет", но при этом планируете открытые отношения? Или вы лукавите в каком то моменте?
So roughly each of you speak at least 3 languages? And we Americans can BARELY speak our "American" English!😂🤣😆
Yeah, Thanh's German is still in the beginning stages, and my Vietnamese is of course also not on his level, but you can say we both speak three languages on various levels. English is our main language, though.
I was betting that you two were in a monogamy, and I'm happy to find out that you are! :)
I think being jealous (healthy dose, of course because otherwise it can be a problem, too) is a sign that you care about that person as you both say. I mean how could you not?!
By the way, did I just hear Thanh say, "I need one dick and he needs more holes"? I was like no he did not just say that hahahaha
Same when he said, "I'm like a battery for a dead phone". I could imagine life with Thanh would not be a boring one at all. All these random and unexpected things he throws out haha. You complement each other well. You seem more grounded, and Thanh is more upbeat and cheerier. Good balance!
Yes, Eti, you are good to look at & admire, and you have a nice soothing voice. I think you wanted to hear something more internal rather than external things because praises on the outer appearance might be interpreted as superficial and shallow, but I believe what's on the outside is just as important if not more.
I mean who doesn't want to live with a good-looking partner with a good voice?! ;)
I know how Thanh might be feeling about turning 30 years old. but tell him it gets easier hehe
Eti, you look much younger than your age.
Ok, I enjoyed your video. off to bed now.
Wish you two guys a great week ahead!
True! A healthy dose of being jealous is good, I think.
Yeah, he did say that 😆 And no, life with Thanh is never boring 😆
Maybe you're right about the comments on the external things. I think they do matter too, and Thanh's cuteness is definitely something crucial for me too, though this is more his behaviour than his looks, I'd say.
Thanks for the age-related praise, by the way! We both like to hear that, I think 😆
Thank you very much for taking the time to answer our questions.
I am really impressed Eti's age, he really looks young.
Finally, I wish you many successes, happiness and health.🤍
Our pleasure! And thank you so much! ❤️