Aww Thank you SO much! I’ll have been working on this channel for almost 4 years soon, so knowing my content is helpful is very encouraging to me, even if the numbers don’t show it yet.❤️ Blessing to you! 🙏
To me having a tidy, clean home is showing my gratitude for all I have worked hard for and been given, knowing that others are not as fortunate. The men and women in war torn, third world, suppressed situations would love to take a hot shower, clean their house, wash their clothes, and prepare a nutritious meal in their kitchen.
I love the way you describe it perfectly!! It ceases to be a burden when we are genuinely thankful for being ABLE to have dirty laundry (because we HAVE extra clothes), dirty plates and fridge (because it means we have food), and a bed to be able to make in the morning (because it means we have a bed). Well said. ❤️
Wow! I didn't expect that you would be addressing the wounded inner child and how addressing our clutter and cleaning our house can help our inner heart, soul and mind! I'm going to be listening to this video quite a few times, yessi, thank you so much! I love your depth! You are deep, deep, and a joy to listen to!🎉😊🎉
I’m SO glad to know it was helpful. 🙏 Welcome to my RUclips corner! I’m Yesi. I love to have deep conversations with people, and my background as a hospice nurse made me fall in love with romanticizing life and living passionately. I hope it will show in my content to come and that you get value out of my videos. 😊
Wow! Such an amazing and perfect video! Well, put in your priorities and words of wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing! You have definitely given me much to think about.
So true, doing it for me, for my peace 😌 because i'm the one who sees the problem first, they'll follow along "Coming from an aspect of love" not of resentment, lovet
I absolutely love this video thanks for sharing especially the doing it for me! I don’t want my family to feel like it’s not their house and I’m always nagging but doing it for me and having a better artifice is so helpful
I'm a new subscriber and I have been enjoying your videos so much! Just a note - I was listening to this in bed, and the scream at 2:18 shot me out of bed and checking my entire house to make sure everyone was ok.
Dear Yesi, I know I matter and I believe all you said about doing the cleaning for ourselves. I do like cleaning now that I see it as an act of love for me, my family and even my home. I'd also like to start a YT channel with this kind of cleaning and decluttering inspirational content (in spanish) but I'm afraid of what people would say about this. I think some people would see this as we're just wives doing the cleaning for their husband, abnegated woman that do what they're "supposed to do" and saying we're doing it for ourselves is just us convincing us and others it's good for us while enslaving ourselves to our home and family. Have you ever thought of that? Do you have any advice on how to respond if someone would happen to say something like that? Thank you! :) PS, I think your home is gorgeous and I really liked your video! ❤
A good way to know you're moving forward in life is when people begin to attack or criticize you. Some people want to build the biggest building by tearing someone else's down because of their own insecurity. Do NOT ever let what others think stop you from doing what you feel called to do. Any attack you're given, turn it into inspiration for another video. That being said, have compassion for those that WILL criticize you. It's not an "if" it's a "when." Some people have been wounded, betrayed, and hurt - and their defense mechanism is to attack what feels uncomfortable. Don't take things personal. You can't change how others act, but you choose your response. Go for it!! We need more channels like this in Spanish.
@@YesiIbarra Thank you!! Even your comments are so inspiring 🙌 It's SO true, we can control only our actions and how we respond to other's. I'm starting to work on it, hopefully I'll upload a video soon. Thanks for your kind words and hope you keep growing and bringing your knowledge and experience over here ❣️
Amordulcehogar please DO IT I think spanish women need to hear it especially the new wifes and mothers that are starting off to make their new homes they are plenty of nay sayer that criticize the good we need more encouragers like you don't let them stop you.❤
She’s only 5 🤷♀️ How can she even handle a broom or whatever well enough to sweep properly? If she’s willing to try, let that be enough, plz. I’ve been married for 32 yrs. & altho’ my hubby is very caring & a good provider, as well as generous, he’s never been much for cleaning or straightening up - even his own areas. I let that go for a long time, but finally decided I needed to confront the issues for my own self-respect. Why should I continue picking up & cleaning up after him as if he were a child, for 20 + yrs.?? It wasn’t easy getting him to turn around, but come to find out he DID feel guilty ~~ he was just following behaviors his father displayed with his wife, my husband’s Mom. He’s learning to help more now, & learning more respect both for me & himself. It’s very positive 🤗 Now, why do u speak almost in a whisper?? Your intentions are well-founded, I’m sure, & you seem very kind ~ but too indulgent of your hubby 😉 Just my take on things ~
Thanks for allowing me to clarify the points I failed to describe appropriately. The simple answer is that it's not about perfection, but discipline. I frequently tell them (and show them) that our family is a TEAM. I use this word often because though we may have different roles, no one is more important than the other. My little ones help with lots of things like cleaning baseboards, wiping counters, and putting laundry in the drier. With a positive, grateful attitude, it fosters a feeling of confidence in themselves and it gives them the first-hand experience that THEY are also responsible for taking care of the home and the world around them - like picking up trash in a park. Kids can do SO MUCH more than we give them credit for sometimes. Also, there's kid-sized tools of all sorts! (Like small brooms, mini rakes, and wheelbarrows.) So it's not about "what" is done by "who," but what attitude its done with. In this video, I'm talking about resentment. Attitude changes everything. 😊
Cleaning a “decluttered” home is easier. I wouldn’t use the word “easy” as it implies little effort, but definitely easier than when my closets were stuffed full and I couldn’t find things because I had too much to manage. I have small kids, so it’s a daily thing for me, but definitely easier/faster than it used to be.
You shouldn't have to ask your husband to clean up. You shouldn't have to clean up other people's mess as an act of love, or 'for yourself.' I hope that the internalised patriarchy reveals itself to you, and you come to realise that an act of love for yourself would be to hold healthy boundaries around how your partner (and age-appropriately, your children) respect the shared space that is your home. You are doing a lot of valuing others and valuing your home ... what is the rest of the family valuing?
❤
Aww Thank you SO much! I’ll have been working on this channel for almost 4 years soon, so knowing my content is helpful is very encouraging to me, even if the numbers don’t show it yet.❤️
Blessing to you! 🙏
To me having a tidy, clean home is showing my gratitude for all I have worked hard for and been given, knowing that others are not as fortunate. The men and women in war torn, third world, suppressed situations would love to take a hot shower, clean their house, wash their clothes, and prepare a nutritious meal in their kitchen.
I love the way you describe it perfectly!! It ceases to be a burden when we are genuinely thankful for being ABLE to have dirty laundry (because we HAVE extra clothes), dirty plates and fridge (because it means we have food), and a bed to be able to make in the morning (because it means we have a bed).
Well said. ❤️
We don't realize how powerful we are in setting the tone in our homes! You are very wise. Kindness brings us more respect and love over time. 💞
Wow! I didn't expect that you would be addressing the wounded inner child and how addressing our clutter and cleaning our house can help our inner heart, soul and mind! I'm going to be listening to this video quite a few times, yessi, thank you so much! I love your depth! You are deep, deep, and a joy to listen to!🎉😊🎉
This just makes my day! 🤗
That is my entire hope for this channel. It's about so much more than "stuff."
Thank you for your kind voice and help with this.
This was my first video of yours I've watched and it was much needed. Instant subscribe and like. Thank you.
I’m SO glad to know it was helpful. 🙏
Welcome to my RUclips corner! I’m Yesi. I love to have deep conversations with people, and my background as a hospice nurse made me fall in love with romanticizing life and living passionately.
I hope it will show in my content to come and that you get value out of my videos. 😊
The last few minutes are powerful. Thanks.
Here for the marriage advice lol! I am that wife. Every example you gave. Will definitely be implementing your tips.
Wow! Such an amazing and perfect video! Well, put in your priorities and words of wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing! You have definitely given me much to think about.
I’m glad it gave you something positive to think about. That’s the goal! 😊
What an amazing video!♥️🇨🇦
I’m so glad you liked it!
So true, doing it for me, for my peace 😌 because i'm the one who sees the problem first, they'll follow along
"Coming from an aspect of love" not of resentment, lovet
It’s easier said than done, but it really is a mental habit that gets easier with time. ❤️
I absolutely love this video thanks for sharing especially the doing it for me! I don’t want my family to feel like it’s not their house and I’m always nagging but doing it for me and having a better artifice is so helpful
I really hope it helps you! These points I mention truly improved my family life and marriage so much.
I'm a new subscriber and I have been enjoying your videos so much! Just a note - I was listening to this in bed, and the scream at 2:18 shot me out of bed and checking my entire house to make sure everyone was ok.
Oh no! I’m sorry. I’ll definitely be mindful of that in the future.
What’s one area you’re decluttering or cleaning this spring? 🌿
I’ve been big on decluttering, cleaning and organising my kitchen
Dear Yesi,
I know I matter and I believe all you said about doing the cleaning for ourselves. I do like cleaning now that I see it as an act of love for me, my family and even my home. I'd also like to start a YT channel with this kind of cleaning and decluttering inspirational content (in spanish) but I'm afraid of what people would say about this. I think some people would see this as we're just wives doing the cleaning for their husband, abnegated woman that do what they're "supposed to do" and saying we're doing it for ourselves is just us convincing us and others it's good for us while enslaving ourselves to our home and family.
Have you ever thought of that? Do you have any advice on how to respond if someone would happen to say something like that?
Thank you! :)
PS, I think your home is gorgeous and I really liked your video! ❤
A good way to know you're moving forward in life is when people begin to attack or criticize you. Some people want to build the biggest building by tearing someone else's down because of their own insecurity. Do NOT ever let what others think stop you from doing what you feel called to do. Any attack you're given, turn it into inspiration for another video.
That being said, have compassion for those that WILL criticize you. It's not an "if" it's a "when."
Some people have been wounded, betrayed, and hurt - and their defense mechanism is to attack what feels uncomfortable. Don't take things personal.
You can't change how others act, but you choose your response. Go for it!! We need more channels like this in Spanish.
@@YesiIbarra Thank you!! Even your comments are so inspiring 🙌 It's SO true, we can control only our actions and how we respond to other's. I'm starting to work on it, hopefully I'll upload a video soon. Thanks for your kind words and hope you keep growing and bringing your knowledge and experience over here ❣️
Amordulcehogar please DO IT I think spanish women need to hear it especially the new wifes and mothers that are starting off to make their new homes they are plenty of nay sayer that criticize the good we need more encouragers like you don't let them stop you.❤
@@juanav9200 thank you Juana for your kind comment ☺️ I'm working on it!!
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She’s only 5 🤷♀️ How can she even handle a broom or whatever well enough to sweep properly? If she’s willing to try, let that be enough, plz. I’ve been married for 32 yrs. & altho’ my hubby is very caring & a good provider, as well as generous, he’s never been much for cleaning or straightening up - even his own areas. I let that go for a long time, but finally decided I needed to confront the issues for my own self-respect. Why should I continue picking up & cleaning up after him as if he were a child, for 20 + yrs.?? It wasn’t easy getting him to turn around, but come to find out he DID feel guilty ~~ he was just following behaviors his father displayed with his wife, my husband’s Mom. He’s learning to help more now, & learning more respect both for me & himself. It’s very positive 🤗
Now, why do u speak almost in a whisper?? Your intentions are well-founded, I’m sure, & you seem very kind ~ but too indulgent of your hubby 😉 Just my take on things ~
Thanks for allowing me to clarify the points I failed to describe appropriately.
The simple answer is that it's not about perfection, but discipline. I frequently tell them (and show them) that our family is a TEAM. I use this word often because though we may have different roles, no one is more important than the other.
My little ones help with lots of things like cleaning baseboards, wiping counters, and putting laundry in the drier. With a positive, grateful attitude, it fosters a feeling of confidence in themselves and it gives them the first-hand experience that THEY are also responsible for taking care of the home and the world around them - like picking up trash in a park.
Kids can do SO MUCH more than we give them credit for sometimes. Also, there's kid-sized tools of all sorts! (Like small brooms, mini rakes, and wheelbarrows.)
So it's not about "what" is done by "who," but what attitude its done with.
In this video, I'm talking about resentment. Attitude changes everything. 😊
Cleaning a spotless house is easy
Isn’t it?
Cleaning a “decluttered” home is easier.
I wouldn’t use the word “easy” as it implies little effort, but definitely easier than when my closets were stuffed full and I couldn’t find things because I had too much to manage.
I have small kids, so it’s a daily thing for me, but definitely easier/faster than it used to be.
You shouldn't have to ask your husband to clean up. You shouldn't have to clean up other people's mess as an act of love, or 'for yourself.' I hope that the internalised patriarchy reveals itself to you, and you come to realise that an act of love for yourself would be to hold healthy boundaries around how your partner (and age-appropriately, your children) respect the shared space that is your home. You are doing a lot of valuing others and valuing your home ... what is the rest of the family valuing?
Whatever floats your boat.