Bipolar, Borderline and Beautiful-Savannah (part 1)
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2023
- Part 1 of a Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Savannah, a woman with borderline personality disorder in Los Angeles. Here’s a link to Savannah’s follow up video:
• We’re All F*cked Up-Sa...
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Thank you mark for giving me this opportunity to be authentic ♥️
Thank you for sharing Savannah! 🤍
Listening to you right now in Youngstown, OH :)
I haven’t heard you mention anything about it yet, but I would bet anything you have ADHD. ADHDers can spot each other a mile away. You’ve got the charisma, energy, and catch yourself wandering off in your stories. ❤️
Wait. You just mentioned that meth calmed you down. That’s why it didn’t affect you.
Ok. Back to listening. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your story. Have a great day😊
Such a beautiful story
Savannah - I am now watching this so don’t know what you’ve been thru - pls do what you can to get on top of managing your mental health condition - if you do this while you are still young you will have a chance at a good life!!!!
Savannah opening up about being in hospital 23 times and addiction to then have mark saying you seem like every man’s dream girl twice is unsettling imo
This is the comment I was looking for. I had to pause to make sure someone else caught this.
She seemed uncomfortable with him saying it the 2nd time. He is so fucking creepy.
I'm sure this guy has some skeletons in his closet with the way he operates these interviews. Especially with people he finds attractive. It's disgusting and honestly quite infuriating!
Exactly!! Also, this woman is a compulsive LIAR!
😅 ikr
I think he was being facetious…
Not a good message for her and stereotypes men in a bad way.
“A lot of guys dream girl”?? He wouldn’t be saying that if she wasn’t attractive. He’s proving her point of being able to get away with not needing anything but her looks .
Wow, haven’t gotten to that part but what an odd thing to say.
@@prague7706 it’s true though.
He’s saying that in terms of the old saying “men are attracted hot & crazy women” & by most accounts it’s true! lol
Her “Song to the Siren” is strong. People love that beautiful, damsel in distress kinda woman.
Mark is a creep...he gives me weird vibes and I don't understand how others can't see or feel it.
The fact that she doesn’t play the blame game & takes accountability for what she’s done speaks volumes. She seems very highly intelligent despite the poor choices. I hope she stays on track.
Real borderlines don't take accountability for ANYTHING. I dated one, this girl doesn't have diagnosed BPD. She might meet a few criteria for it but she needs to meet 5 of 9 criteria to be diagnosed with BPD. She doesn't have the BPD eyes, it's a 1000yrd stare, like they have nothing they care about.
Trauma does that to people. Almost all people that do heavy drugs have PTSD.
She isnt lying. If youve been through so much trauma you tend to NOT have the tineline of events in order when trying to remember.
THANK YOU
Also people who haven’t been through shit always think traumatised people lie when they finally open up about it..
It's not just about the timeline issues though... 23 times overdosing and 3 A list celebrities?! Lol... Yeah right.
Just saw the other video and had to come back and watch this one . I’m wondering why in the world , if she’s so close to her dad , didn’t he help her when she was a child? That confuses me . I’m only 10 min in maybe mark will ask her .
I have a Bi polar, borderline relative. Her stories sound VERY similar in exaggeration etc.
It's just that my relative can go from screaming you in the face over some minor inconvenience and then 5min later has flipped the story to it being that you screamed at her until she cried.
I have a very hard time believing her stories, knowing how reality isn't always real for people qith the BP/borderline combo. Especially Because she's just jumping from the next unbelievable thing to the next with no real details.
I have no doubt that she has lead a difficult life. BP/borderline is NOT easy, and it makes it nearly impossible to form long lasting relationships and hold down a job, but I do not believe the movie-like parts of the stories she's telling.
This just shows how important it is to take care of a child.
but she's a dream girl to so many, as M says
she’s a dream girl to drug addicts, alcoholics and worse!!!
The first 7 years are the most vital .you can't undo trauma from these years .
It fkd me up for life.❤
FACTS
@@zellipa in terms of appearance yes, she is pretty but in terms of mental stability no she isn’t most guys dream girl unless the guy is also crazy.
There is no more important job in your life than loving and caring for your children. She was so badly let down by her mother you are nurturing a future citizen of the world when you have a child. I wish her the very best for the future. I am really glad she is close to her father. Lots of love to her from Scotland. xx
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Thank you! People say mean things. That was beautiful. And our dna is mostly Scottish/Irish. 🙂
I agree. I think it was President John F Kennedy's mother who said, "The best thing that you can do for the world is raise a good citizen" or something to that effect. My mama used to say it all the time when she was trying to teach us to have a moral compass and it has stuck with me. 😀
"Being a control freak makes you want to lose control". Transparent wisdom that many don't glean in time.
It's true though, look at how many submissive women are type a, perfectionist personalities.
Interesting, thanks for pointing this out. I prefer to be in control, but some of my happiest moments are when I let go.
Her comments around attractiveness and addiction are really true and you don't hear about it often. My long time boyfriend is a really attractive guy and even deep in addiction he was still dressed nice and looked attractive. So he would get away with so much and even get special treatment when he went to treatment centers. It actually is a disadvantage to these people because it takes them much longer to see real consequences.
@@commonsense2680we love beautiful things… that’s just common sense.
@ejm918 yes...I was a dancer for 10 years and most women hate you unless their a fellow dancer . And all men that approach you are married and just want to use you I literally have lived this girls later life with just a few differences
That’s the way it is for me. My older brother even more so. He passed away 2019. There was not a soul alive who didn’t absolutely love him. Even after using and stealing and lying… he died with no enemies
We never got to hear why her “wonderful” father abandoned her to leave her in such an abusive household for so long.
In the USA and many other Western countries, men are presumed guilty in family court without trial and denied custody based solely on accusations even though every statistical category shows single fathers to be vastly superior compared to single mothers for the healthy upbringing of a child.
Probably idolized him because of the extremes and is missing the flaws
...Probably her mother got the custody because of the "wonderful" family laws? Never thought of that, haven't you, dingbat?
That is what I kept thinking about. She lived for years in an abusive household so I wonder if dad tried to get custody but lost. Because it wasn’t until she was 17 or so that she moved in with him I think.
Maybe the messed up courts gave her to her mom. Full custody and the dad was shut off. The mom must of tortured her father too.
It's amazing how much the human body can handle. She has abused her body so much and still at only 11 days sober, she's impressively articulate and manages to maintain her looks. People can be so resilient. As long as there's air in your lungs, you have a fighting chance at turning your life around. I hope she keeps going.
I totally agree!
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@@btnhl No doubt she had pretty privileges, but like she said addiction doesn't discriminate. Her body has withstood so much poison and to still have her faculties is such a testament to the human spirit.
@@btnhl Goes to show you, genetics plays such a large role in how all of our lives progress...regardless how much society tries to feed you the 'everyone's special' line with participation trophies. She's obviously a good looking girl and has had a lot more financial privileges and opportunities than most other girls in her situation just by 'existing.'
The truly devastating damage comes from the stuff you can't see. She stated she was in early stage cirrhosis. It's not reversible and the liver cannot just regenerate or improve. She continues on this path and doesn't quit alcohol cold turkey and odds are she won't be around much longer, regardless how much her body has held on up til now. We all feel invincible when we're young....until we aren't.
that amazing to u cause ur prob judgmental. most addicts who are functioning can usually get past the twenties decently. she won't hold up ten more years and i promise u that.
Ive had an alchol drinking disorder. Did meetings etc. Good job sharing your experiences, strength and hope. 🙏🏿 To those still struggling.
I really appreciate your videos. The perspective it gives me in life is so much better than only seeing through my own eyes. Your videos are part of what has let my empathy grow. I really appreciate your work. I hope you guys keep at it. 👍💜
I was diagnosed Borderline at age 30 after struggling undiagnosed for over a decade. I did the drinking, the drugs, the sex work- all being beautiful. Im now closer to 50 and manage an organization that serves older adults whose lives strayed as well. Sex workers who no longer have teeth, money, or men’s couches. I am clean and sober and serving. Thank You Savannah for being braver at 28 than I could be at even 40. - don’t focus your energy on what happened rather on building what will.
These diagnoses are all nonsense. Bordeline is actually trauma & post-traumatic stress. I will guess that you experienced abuse, likely sexual abuse, at a young age.
HER TEETH LOOK FAKE ,NOW I KNIOW WHY.
@@steakeater4018 getting diagnosed does nothing in itself. realizing what behaviors you have that are destructive and attributing them to the disorder, then working on it relentlessly preferably with therapy (while actively making positive choices) can make you a functional human being not in constant pain/chaos though. in the end it comes down to self awareness, discipline and honesty though.
Congratulations. I was finally correctly diagnosed at 50 with Bipolar and Borderline after a suicide attempt. Unless you’ve lived it, I don’t believe anyone can understand the heartbeat of living with a mental illness.
@@marylougeorge9890 my sister had untreated mental illness and now she is ashes. She committed suicide. Our country pushes mental health aside.No one really cares.
psilocybin mushrooms therapy is beneficial in relieving resistant borderline personal disorder, depression, obsessive compulsive disorder and other mental health disorders.
Heard so much about magic mushrooms I'lld like to give it a try please where do I get from ?
He has the best Psilocybin mushroom in the states.
dr.shaneshrooms products are produced in an AA-rated BRC facility.
Dr.Shaneshrooms products are as well vegan friendly.
If you want her to loose her mind completely yeah magic mushrooms will do the trick.. it definetely gives you painrelease, thats true, i experienced that myself. but it also brings a lot of toxiticy in your system which a long time to level again to normal values. so its the best & worst of both worlds.
Good one, I like her honesty and her awareness of the self destruction. I hope she stays sober. I am glad she takes accountability.
Hearing her talk about alcohol makes me so glad I have been quitting drinking for almost two months now and I'm done. I was an alcoholic drinking hard liquor every night for the last 12 years. It's such a demon and I finally got away from it.
Good for you. I am 10 years sober. You can do it. Stay strong ! If I can be sober, anyone can do it!
@@Monkey114thank you! I've tried many times over the years but the difference is this time I actually truly want to quit and my body has had enough. I'm 31 now and have a baby on the way and I don't want to die in my 40s from alcohol. I had enough.
@@devontolly1596don’t ever tell yourself you got it beat tho bro. Alcoholism and addiction is a subtle cunning foe. Go to some AA meetings and work the steps to find the root cause of why you drank so you can address it and stay sober. I hope the best for you bro I’m rooting for you
@@devontolly1596stay strong! Youre baby is gonna need it. I have a 11 month old girl and she is the best.
Prayers for your sobriety and praying for your mind to stay clear and free!!!
Mark, be mindful of your words and the messages/impressions your words can leave on someone. This poor woman is pouring her soul out to you/us and you continue to reinforce that she’s a guys dream girl. Twice now at times where she’s getting stuck on how crazy she can be. Saying shit like that, particularly to an addict who is aiming for recovering, is harmful and can feed the fuel of conversations an addict cycles through in their head a million times a day when deciding whether to use or not.
No disrespect but dude, think about what is coming out of your mouth….
Grow up.
It’s true ! It’s gross !
Be professional or don’t be in a position of interviewing vulnerable people !
The "you're a lot of guys dream girl" was what got me. Like why did he say that?
That bothered me too
BPD is marked by Impulsivity - Impulsivity is the tendency to act without thinking. I hope you can continue to stay safe.
This lady keeps referring to “those people “and “these people “ it’ll be an interesting day for her when she realizes that SHE IS “one of those people” blessings to her🌷
Shes not a celebrity?
“I wasn’t that afraid of dying… I was more afraid of waking up.” Wow, I get that 100%. I relate so much to Savannah.
I'm so sorry. Please seek help.
Yeh my friend who drinks a couple of bottles of vodka a day says that as well and I never got it
Please get the help you deserve. Its better to have a strong and healthy chance at life then killing it before it began
That's an old line that she heard somewhere
@@cindy5874the detox that hits as soon as you open your eyes makes you want to die.
That quote “Give up one thing for everything, or give up everything for one thing.” Wow! That one is sticking with me forever. ❤
Let me guess, you have all-or-nothing thinking patterns, so that is why that resonates with you.
@@le_th_ you don’t truly understand the quote if that’s all you took from it. You must be a “I’m smarter than everyone else in the room” type of person, when in reality you’re just ignorant &arrogant😂 its a pretty deep quote if you can understand it, but seems you don’t, sorry about that for you
That's correct bud
It is referring to the fact that abusing substances can lead to giving up everything, friends, family, home, or choosing to give up a substance, one thing, can preserve relationships and financial footing.
@@le_th_ No.... It's actually a Fact that after years, sometimes less, of active addiction people will give up relationships with their spouses, children, and careers that meant the world to them, as well as burn every bridge they once had. All to get high "just one more time." It sounds like you have never struggled with a serious addiction.
As someone who has also been through many similar experinces shes had, I believe her 100%. People also call me a liar. To me it doesnt matter if people believe me or not, because I know the truth. Experiencing traumatic things makes you realize what truly trustworthy people look like, and thats a very small number of people in this world.
Very true
I am so sorry that you have experienced people who don't believe you. Sending you lots of love.
This is a great interview ! I hope she makes it and keeps sober.
" No pretty = homeless '" " No pretty = no free drugs. " " No pretty = no money ." Her words and clearly even at her worst , she knew where her priorities lay . I wish I were that gobsmackingly beautiful but it does have a time limit and a dark side .
She should watch & dwell on the one (maybe she has) last week with the ''$1k per 20 minutes'' at her age but ending up on skid row.
She should invest her money or pay for education. Looks fade fast. Plus she probably spend money on dope if she don't Invest. Get out of LA is first priority
This will now stick with me when I feel like I can't get ready in the morning. Lol
That’s a cold, hard fact of life although it’s neither cold nor hard if you’re attractive.
@ladyv890 Haha, I like your sense of humor! 😆
She reminds me so much of my best friend growing up. The mental illness, the addictions and being so pretty that people around her just can’t believe that there could possibly be anything wrong. I wish her strength and that her outcome is better than my friend.
I had a friend like that in school too. It didn’t work out for her either.
My Mom is Borderline I don't believe a word she says Borderlines have no filter, 28 and she behaves like a 16yr old.
@@alanabernstein2081 There's no reason to not believe a stranger because of your mom. Get help.
@@corinneskitchen I got help and there are no medications for Borderline personality disorder only therapy, she said she got in the car with dude he wanted to take her to get something to eat and she told him she was bulimic she was just gonna throw it up anyway, bulimia is a serious issue people who have bulimia nervosa don't tell random people they have it and bulimics binge and purge a true bulimic would have ate and excused herself to the bathroom. A lot of her story contains holes like this you do know people lie to Marc all the time for exposure and cash. Your gullible
@@corinneskitchen pathological lying is a symptom of borderline personality disorder…which this girl states she has been diagnosed with.
I like her so much,I would love to be friends with her or a chick like her just because she is so candid and honest about her experiences but she never tried to make herself look like a victim. She also just seems like a nice person and its rare to find females that are real and not fake or manipulative or petty.
Dear Savannah, during this interview I heard you asking for help to discover who you really are so that you can ground yourself & do better than what you saw at home. If I'm off, I'm really sorry & please forget this message.
If I'm right, here's a tip:
Anxiety is the fear of being seen by someone else before you manage to see yourself which makes you a controlfreak that keeps people at arms length. The lack of self-awareness is what causes the anxiety (lack of trust) in he first place.
To trust yourself you must be grounded & for that you have to know yourself (as you so wisely said in the video).
To trust yourself you must first trust your body so that you feel emotions instead of think them. That's how you break the chaotic patterns of life. Second step is to be able to face silence bc drugs, nonstop talking, avoiding eye contact, etc are all ways to avoid silence, therefore, what you've been carrying in the shadows. Remember feelings are just passing if you allow them to do so, & pain can be healed through grieving. Grieve what didn't happen to you even though you wish you could, & that's how your true self starts coming out.
Throughout this process I highly reccomend you start exploring what you love (music, colors, places, food) & fill your life with as much of that as you possibly can ❤
With so much love,
Carla
Could not of expressed it any better! Great advice i took this advice from someone years ago and never looked back! 🖖🏼👍🥰💖
I think she seems extremely self aware. The kind of life she has lived certainly made sure of that.
I truly think that you’re right.
I work in mental health .... you should NEVER judge a book by it's cover. Thanks for sharing Savannah, I wish you all the best.
It’s irrelevant that you work in mental health
You better judge a book by its cover! That stupid saying has gotten so many people killed. We don’t live in a perfect world. If someone gives you bad vibes, go the other way.
Don’t let retards tell you different. It’s ok to stereotype and judge.
I agree. She looks like the dream girl, but being her man would be a nightmare.
It’s bullshit when people start a-thread with I’m this I’m that. Nobody gives a toss what you say you are. You can be whoever you want on this format. I’m a juggler…….
@@janellesamuels3385 maybe she bites pillows
She’s 100% on point when saying you can’t accomplish your goals and party 24/7 at the same time. Im her age and also a recovering alcoholic - her story reminds me so much of mine. Alcoholism is a POWERFUL disease and i would not wish it on anyone.
Edit: Savannah, if you read this im with you and im very proud of you 🙌🏼 it’s definitely not easy for women our age to achieve sobriety in this world!
Can 1000% relate with both of you, alcohol is the most fucking silent piece of shit ever.
Ultra pretentious. This is a microcosm of this channels replies, it seems. This is literally elementary. Nothing profound about what she said, it's actually a, "well duh" statement.
life is quite simple, but it is hard.
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Not to take away from this interview, savannah went through the ringer but came out the other side with scars but still alive and strong.
I am researching myself into BPD. I understand that it need to be diagnosed by a professional but everything that Savannah had gone through and effects are things that I go through now. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in 2022. I’m currently on meds but it always felt like there was something more than just those two and now I’m understanding from others such as savannah.
So I want to say thank you for this interview to Savannah and all the others for helping me understand and not feeling alone with this disease.
Have you figured out your favorite person pattern yet?
Definitely get the best professional opinion about it. It can be nice to give a name to the monster inside us and easier to blame an affliction so there are a whole bunch of pits one can fall into on the journey of discovering yourself. Its almost guaranteed to be a bad time trying to figure it out on your own.
I learned that BPD mostly goes undiagnosed because the people with it are rarely willing to accept that reality and work to keep life in order.
But it sounds like you have extremely good self awareness!
The “beautiful” aspect is a huge turn-off since other interviewees haven’t received those comments, and the focus should NOT be focused on physical attributes when opening up about trauma. Those physical attributes can be related or even a root to some of the abuse we’ve endured.
she reminds me a lot of myself. i’m also 28. except i’m 4 years sober and did the bulk of my SW after recovery with a solid plan/financial goals. you can do it savannah!
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Wow! This is an insane story. Very good interview. I’m happy she explained how horrid alcohol is. People don’t give it enough credit as far as addiction goes sometimes. ❤
Alcohol is the OG killer. Still the most dangerous in our culture because of the attitudes toward it. People die of alcoholism & alcohol-related accidents every single day. It's not only socially acceptable, but it's pushed onto people in a way to make binge drinking seem normal. It's not. The reason (besides the cultural issues) other drugs are so dangerous is because they aren't regulated like booze is. We have prohibition to thank for that. Way more people would meet their demise on alcohol if it wasn't regulated and tested regularly.
My mum is in hospital with a fractured back from falling on Friday night after drinking a bottle of sherry, it’s a horrible drug
Yeah, almost like most of it was embellished...
I strongly resonate with her story of fighting her mom. I had a similar situation with my mother, fighting back was a pivotal moment of my life.
I literally had a 24 year old hospice patient who died of cirrhosis of the liver because he drank, partied too much, and took too many drugs. It is not a pretty or easy way to die. It’s very uncomfortable, painful, among many other things. Get sober and stay sober! Rooting for you!
I feel I should add that you don’t typically actually die of cirrhosis, either. Cirrhosis of the liver causes the vena cava, the biggest vein in the body, to swell up and it eventually will burst, which means you bleed out and/or drown in your own blood. So your last minutes of life are usually spent spewing blood from your mouth while it also fills your lungs.
Sorry to be so morbid, but I’m a hospice nurse and have seen people die of cirrhosis of the liver many times. Partying hard is not worth it.
@@lindsaycallahan8075no doubt. Kidney, liver failure, (or any major organ) are no joke.
Drowning in your own fluids not being able to breathe is a nightmare of mine. Especially if it goes on and on..😢
She has described exactly what happened to me more than a year ago... The blood vomiting, liver scarring etc. I was diagnosed stage 2 liver cirrhosis. Was in intensive care in hospital 4 times. Then i did rehab 6 months. I had a 35 year addiction problem. My go to was always alcohol. Clean for 13 months today and don't have any urges or triggers after hitting rock bottom and almost dying. I just realised that i was looking for the best drug for 3 decades and i only found the best drug now. It's a drug called sobriety.
Good for you! I'm so glad you have overcome this. Stay strong.
Thank you.
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I hope you are doing well
The title borderline bipolar and beautiful is weird to me bc so many other people on this podcast have the same diagnosis and do the same things but are labeled addict, bc they are missing the beauty. It’s a little weird that mark you point out randomly “you’re a lot of guys dream girl”. Twice… It’s just alarming that her beauty truly changes so much. She’s a smart girl and cd have a lot more depth in her life. She understands that most men are easily distracted with looks. Even you mark clearly. Anyway… I wish you so much luck and a good life ❤
the title is just trying to show that mental health issues do not discriminate. a lot of people think of mental health & think dirty people, people you shouldn’t be around, horrible people. but mark is just trying to show you can be society’s standers & still be stung out, have mental illness. & the “you’re a lot of guys dream girls” he means older men who buy girls time like girls w mental illness because they r easy to manipulate & take advantage of, old rich men want a young hot girl to do drugs with.
I saw it immediately and thought... That's fucking weird. She's gorgeous but what a simp. Ew. Loss respect as I do when men say it to me. It's like yeh yeh, it's all shallow. People are more than that.
Manipulative and narcissitic
Beauty does get u places that normal ppl don’t 😅 believe it or not it is 💯
@@jewelseng9900That does not make it ok. We are not troglodytes who have no ability to self-reflect and critically think about what's truly important and how to progress.
Instead of just accepting this type of imbalance, we should do the work to redress the balance. Just because something has always been, doesn't mean it has to always be.
The statement 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder is not for nothing. Asthetic pleasure is truly subjective.
She summed it up...she's not grounded....a "jumbled mess" as she says. Love her honesty.
Her story is amazing, kind of ethereal, very fortunate in a lot of ways, many people could have taken advantage. She damaged her body but never acted like a victim or suffered the inner torment of depression and anxiety like so many of us do. She survived and is actually a really interesting person.
I had a friend who had BPD (she died from cirrhosis of the liver in her 40s). She was the greatest story teller of all time and this reminds me so much of her. Three A list actors…my friend never once admitted she had BPD. She had no identity. She moved to NYC, pretended to be in law school, lived episodes of sex and the city and was high off of the “life” she claimed she lived. Every story my friend told I realized after she passed that 99% was made up. Her whole life was this epic, vibrant, rollercoaster of made up stories. A dark ride. All the characters she told me about I still think about them. I met her when I was 15 years old. I told her I like the shoes she had on. She said “thank you. My mom bought me six pairs of them.” I looked at her and immediately said “no she didn’t”. She didn’t argue. She dismissed my comment and walked away. That was our first encounter.
so she has a dual diagnosis so Bi polar has a list of symptoms that can very easily impact her in the way that she has mentioned. A diagnosis is a set of symptoms not a person.
I had an affair with a BPD woman, not proud of it but she sold me a story her husband was abusive and I fell into the whole white knight thing to rescue her, none of it was ever true. She also hid a secret drug addiction from me and was seeing other men too. After we broke up she’d send me dozens of texts at 3am pretending to be other people with burner numbers saying she was going to tell the police, my parents and my boss I was a pedofile and other nasty stuff. The next day she’d be begging for me to take her back. Only when she ODed on drugs did I ever get any peace which is sad to say.
Mulholland Drive...
It's a movie that is about a woman who fantasises an incredible life.
"Lying is really rooted in emotional dysregulation, which is one of the main symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder."
This is why it always amazes me when somebody says "Why would somebody make that up?"
I'm like....have you known many people? People make up wild shit all the time.
“You’re a lot of guys’ dream girl.” Ugh, Mark. That statement made Savannah so uncomfortable and you probably don’t even know it. It caused her to recollect on “waking up in random dudes’ cars”.
It was so creepy of him to say. Like inappropriate and uncomfortable af.
Oh yeah there’s videos of this girl that he interviewed that he was basically exploiting her with this other “group” she has since then passed away but yeah he’s not the best guy that everyone thinks
Edit looked it up and her name was Amanda he has a playlist of her
🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️it was obviosly said as a joke, thats why she laughed. How can you not get that🤯
@@Grslxi people laugh out of discomfort too 🥴
@@savannahjames3259 exactly. I said this all along. He exploits these people
Please update her, and thank you for everything. We appreciate you Savannah.
An update is up
Thank you for having her tell her story. Understanding is better than Intolerance.
You know that Dan Cummins bit where he talks about going along with a pathological liar just to see where the adventure goes? I get that feeling with this episode.
💯 😂
Indeed, I might watch the second half later, but only because she’s good value as a storyteller. There are so many body language red flags, it makes her an interesting fabricator of the truth. It always surprises me how many people get sucked in, I think we assume the truth as default, and only question things when there’s an obvious fabrication.
Her “Song to the Siren” is just so good. She is beautiful and well spoken. She cusses a lot and says dude a lot. Otherwise, she sounds incredibly intelligent. Her blood sugar dropping and throwing up blood with her bubbly voice makes it sound wonderful. She says it was a horrible, terrible cycle, of being covered in piss and vomit, because she was afraid of going through withdrawals. Get to the end of it. She tells how much of a toll it took on her.
Thinking the same, and I am not someone who tends to not trust. But part of this just makes no sense.
I agree. Seems like every bit of this is made up.
I also have BPD, & I relate so much to Savannah. My mom was an alcoholic & unfortunately passed away 3 years ago. I am currently in DBT & with lots of therapy, there is hope. I am big into health & fitness, so that's been my escape on how I handle my mental illness. It's definitely a battle, but with help & support there is hope. 💗🦋
my BPD partner was so beautiful i was in disbilief when she was acting madly, telling fake stories, betraying me, drinking and using drugs, so everytime i was seeing her again i was thinking " she is so perfect that all that happened was just a nightmare, she cannot be like this". Beeing beautiful and with BPD is much worst than looking normal, because they hate to be loved and being so beautiful everyone want to love them, so is a never endind vicious cycle
From a woman who has loved an insanely attractive man with BPD in the past- I agree with you 100%. Also the physical appearance focus is frequently part of BPD. Part of the reason it didn't work for us is because I would say things like "the heart is more important than the outward appearance to me/ I just want to focus on being kind" and his response would be "oooh, and you probably also believe in Santa! Only the outward gets you anywhere."
i relate to her so so much, im 17 n was diagnosed with borderline last year. she reminds me sm of me
The combination of BPD, PTSD, and ADHD can cause for misdiagnosis as bipolar. That happened to a woman I know--and she definitely isn't bipolar. She seems to have that combo. Becoming relaxed from smoking methamphetamine seems a decent sign of ADHD--along with her descriptions of her life.
all these diagnosis"are not grounded in any seriously objective science,they rely on often fairly subjective arbitrary assessments and merely are grouped together behaviours and so called symptoms"that one way or another are merely responses to trauma.They are not rooted in biology as such even though there is very real biological effects in mood changes and disregulated nervous systems hence the need to self medicate.
Basically the psych meds also dampen and sedate emotions and feelings,they do NOT treat any imbalance.
Its all trauma just in different guises.
I get super relaxed by it .... Almost sleepy.
@@Zhiivago Do you know if you're ADD/ADHD?
I agree with this. My brother had ADHD and meth relaxed him.
it doesn't really matter it's all the same
I feel like Marc should do his research on mental health more to ask better questions in his interview. And watch the words he uses with people who have trauma, because we are really good at hiding it.
Yeah in my opinion, he’s an insensitive amateur with a camera exploiting people in a bad light. Literally, a bad light.
@@AFoodReview⁴4444⅝4⅘t5y66⁶⁸
You all are the ones who keep watching him you fuckin cry babies.
I feel like you should shut the hell up. You realize people contact him ASKING to be interviewed right? Maybe you should do research before posting idiotic bs, decrying a man who helps more people in a day than you will in your entire garbage life.
cuz yer jealous you don't look like her.
Being from Dayton OH. After reading the title and hearing her say she grew up in Dayton it already adds up
She is no dumb blonde. I hope she writes a book on her life. I’d read it. I pray for a better future for her 😊❤️🙏🏼
I'm genuinely interested to know how she got diagnosed w/BPD & Bipolar 2? Her dad, a great supporter but allowed her to get abused? The 100k? A lot of her stories she looked scary crazy OD'ing, ended up in different states, wild in public but no one would know she was an addict? OD'd 23 times in a year but also, not? She didn't foam at the mouth but also, she foamed one time. DT's but 11 days sober, she looks great. Also, Bipolar 2 is largely depression/less impulsivity. But everything she did was extreme impulsive, no mention of depression. BPD, doesn't want to know what it is but also she elaborates symptoms of it. Reminds me of Trisha Paytas & she has BPD. If you know Trisha's M.O you'd know she has made up many wild stories of her life, LOVES to talk, & very fast nonstop. She also takes someone else's horrific stories & makes them her own. Sound familiar. Just wish we got more details on the trauma situations & less of the wild somewhat sensationalized tales. I'm sorry that I am judging but just wish we got a slowed down version of deeper issues.
I'm reading the comments and thinking if I'm the only one who sees through her BS?
The strip club story.........
@@loriroy1705 right?! I thought that too. I found a couple of people that feel the same. I think because she is pretty that it has skewed people's better judgement.
@@jaimelovemac88 She is attracted to darkness, but the flashing lights attracted her but also stripping was never considered dark to her. Making a lot of quick cash but the bathing suit? What about stripper shoes or was she in beach flip flops? The girls would have loaned her something but also usually those clubs have a store nearby with stripper clothes or they sell them directly there in the backrooms. I know this from several videos/docuseries of L.A stripper life here on RUclips.
@@loriroy1705 like you’re Einstein? Sobriety is a process - not a snap of the finger. You’re standing on ONE side being exclusive. The whole point of SWU is to showcase people of all types to bring awareness of human struggles and bring compassion and understanding to the masses. You may have only a pinhole of reality. This is her story and who cares about the nitty gritty details. Overall she’s being REAL and I BELIEVE HER !!! ❤
Her foot is Broken and twisted sideways, she's being carried into the house by her boyfriend. Yet she's able to stand on her bed holding a knife on her stepdad!!
If you've ever had a broken foot, that's just unbelievable!!! Makes me wonder if the story is 100%.
None of these stories are true 😂 it’s crazy to see how many gullible people there are. Take into account the BPD and if all makes sense with the attn seeking and making up grand stories. Guarantee the stories get wilder every time she tells them.
And she tells them ALL THE TIME 😂😂
i hope she matures and seeks mental help. This disorder can ruin your life and relationships in a heartbeat
Out of her head and remembers what she said to UBER
@@GypsyRock I'm so glad someone else sees it besides me...people will literally believe anything. That's one of the reasons our society is in such a downward spiral.
@@GypsyRock I agree. With thw combo of the drugs and having BPD, it's no surprise she sounds 15 years younger than her age.
Im entertained none the less! 😂
You could tell that she is very smart.everybody has their demons and the fact that she is aware of the things she did and taking full accountability its very brave on her part. i can respect that and relate to it.
She is a really interesting articulate fascinating woman. I really enjoyed listening to her story. Thanks for posting.
Can we all just agree that Mark gives strange energy and make offhanded comments? He rubs me the wrong way.
I agree. Think I need to unsubscribe.
Same
Half of what she sais is exaggerated. Make a real acc first u internet troll
Super creepy
This woman is just like my mom. She would act the same way on alcohol and off of it. My dad says it’s very easy to fall in love with a woman who holds life so tightly in her hands that it ends up squeezing through the cracks.
Something about how your dad described your mum struck a chord with me. A really interesting comment.
Wow, that is indeed a very interesting comment
What does this mean?
@@Amber_999 it means if u love life so much u just have fun with no responsibilities and you keep doing this eventually it isn’t fun. Things catch up to you. N then u crash and nothings fun. Or something like that. I mean you really just have to read it and get it or don’t.
@@y.dylanhusband8664 I appreciate the explanation but hold the smart remarks please. “Hold life so tightly in her hands that it squeezes through the cracks” is not very straight forward, and honestly doesn’t make much sense. Which is why I asked.
So charismatic, intelligent and articulate, especially considering her upbringing and experiences. I truly hope she stays sober, she could achieve the life she wants 💖
I lost track of how many times she flicked, touched, scratched her nose.
"Constantly touching the nose can be a sign that the person is exaggerating or lying"
Or still doing Coke, is my guess
It's a drug thing. Almost all coke and ex cokeheads do it.
@@itfitness5791 I grew up in the Coke scene. My ex fiance was a Coke addict. He sold it out of our house. I had NO Clue.
It nust be some new kind of Cocaine. No one from the 90s touched their nose that much. .
It's a coke thing.
Opioids cause that too...
Physical beauty is fleeting. Inner beauty, depth, and other qualities can also contribute to someone being perceived as beautiful.
Sounds like a line you give to Fugly People!! Lmao
Yes, thankyou.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person thinks is beautiful, the next person might think is ugly.
@@devontolly1596 Thanks Yoda!!
@@toddsterling4949.....do or do not....there is no try
How this woman is alive is beyond me. And the fact she tells this whole story with a smile is insane.
Probably a sign of emotional repression (repressing the dark and painful emotions, keeping them out of our awareness). And how she said she tries not to think about her childhood - repression. Unfortunately as long as we are repressing the pain, sadness etc. we can’t heal and will remain traumatized and disordered.
Very blessed
Remember that she is only 28 and will probably feel a bit different about all that in 10 years or so
@@penyarol83 Dissociation, not repression.
@@NaNa-re3wc what's the difference?
Amaziing strength, to overcome as much as she has, from such a young age. Just so resilient and intelligent. Remarkable. Continued health and strength young lady. Never give up. I think she could be anything she wanted , if not for all the challenges she has met. Remarkable tenacity, moxie, character, under all that surface. Just really smart gal. Hope she does well.
Why does the fact she’s beautiful take away from her story ?? I mean people are commenting she’s a liar, she’s trouble, she’s this and that negative. But, if she was homely and disheveled , then it’s oh poor girl, I wish her happiness, etc, etc…….Blessings. 🙏🏼❤️
Savannah is also a really good example of how childhood trauma can subsequently lead to disorders such as borderline and bipolar. I've studied mental health a lot over the years and am un-diagnosed (what I believe to be) borderline and possibly ADHD. Thankfully now that I've gotten older and done some healing, my symptoms and behaviour have calmed down a lot, but as an older teen and in my twenties I was an absolute spitfire and was completely lost. Even now, in my thirties, I have no sense of self and no direction in life. There's a massive correlation between childhood neglect/ abuse and borderline personality disorder and I hate that people have preconceived notions of what sufferers of that particular disorder are 'like' and also that BPD or any mental disorder is just an 'excuse' for bad behaviour. It shouldn't ever just be the what - always consider the why and that not everything is what it seems.
Biggest example for borderline is that we are manipulative. It might look that way, perhaps even be true at times, but this is something that we aren't always aware of and also came about as a survival mechanism to try avoid bad things earlier in life. We can also be incredibly introspective and aware of a lot of our faults or bad behaviour, especially as we get older, but that doesn't mean any of it is easily 'fixed', as we have terrible impulse control and tend to be very self destructive. Personally, I'm also very observant and learnt early in life how to read the room and read other people's moods - again another survival strategy.
Once you really get into studying everything 'mental disorder' and really everything 'human', people start to make a lot more sense in general. Although a lot of it is very tragic.
I can relate to everything u said. And I completely agree, the stigma that comes with all cluster b personality disorders is so negative but the reality is those disorders came about as a way of coping and when u don't have a good model of behavior, ur bound to pick up everyone else's also.
I aslo can relate to everything you said.
@@candyland8903 I agree.
@@candyland8903 Even in the psychiatrist world, bpd has huge stigma.
It also has a genetic components
Mentions that she has a broken foot, so broken it's twisted sideways, boyfriend brings her home instead of seeking medical care, she just goes to bed but then manages to stand on her bed to threaten her step dad? Standing on a twisted, displaced fractured foot?
You'd be surprised what adrenaline and drugs will do 😂 My cousin literally had a fractured femur for 4 days and was walking around on it. By the time we got to the hospital she almost lost her leg because she almost severed the artery. She was a heroin junkie and that's why she was able to walk around for 4 days. She didn't want to go to the hospital because she knew that she would go to jail after because she had warrants. I've been stabbed by a girl and I didn't feel it until after I had gotten the stitches and was laying in bed that night. I wasn't on drugs so it was just adrenaline. So let's not make assumptions about what the human body and people can put up with and do.😂
It is incredibly interesting how she answers all the canned questions from the host that is usually asked of the others being interviewed as soon as she responds to the first one.
I had a wicked cocaine addiction from age 18-21 & when I got clean I had SO MUCH RESPECT for alcoholic in recovery. I wouldn’t have succeeded if the sold crack in corner stores, if every restaurant had a crack menu on the table, a crack bar, crack commercials . . . no way. Sober alcoholics are AMAZING and strong.
Interestingly, she never said that lying was one of her problems.
“Beautiful savannah” ??? Cool mark you never say this to anyone else on your episodes which I find rude... how about next you cover stories like …one on lip injections, fillers, fake silicone implants and lifts and whatever else vile nasty toxic chemicals people put into their bodies because that definitely ain’t beautiful …
I couldn’t finish and after reading the comments I’m glad. Why use ‘beautiful’ in the title? Aesthetics don’t matter. The human being does.
cux youre weak
she sat down. she saw the cut.. ask herrrrrrr!!!!
Lmao yeah just act like looks don’t matter. Why do girls wear makeup ? Why did this girl get all done up? Because looks matter
She’s a hot ass B. It matters for sure
Apparently, aesthetics do matter
Doing these interviews can be healing for some people. to finally have a chance to speak about your pain the way you felt it and not be interrupted, not be judged, not be pushed away or told something negative about it. He is just present and listening. It helps them release a hurt of silencing that they didn’t know they had. I truly love listening to these people just talk about who they are and what brought them here or self-reflect on how they should be better but these are the things that brought them here.
Thanks Mark ❤
She comes across like an actress preparing for a role. She seems pleased with herself somehow--I don't know how much of her story is real. I'm quitting the interview early.
First, sometimes people smile or laugh about things that they're actually ashamed about because it's a response to being uncomfortable and self defense. Second, she's clearly not over her addictions because she still talks about them in a fond or even positive light. This is something I also did when I still wasn't over my addictions. Someone even pointed it out to me that the way I talked about drugs and my experiences made it clear to them I wasn't over it yet. They were correct. Don't judge people so harshly when you don't know them, it's clear to me she's still in the throes of addiction and has a lot more work to do. She does a lot of justifying and minimizing especially when it comes to "Alcohol is horrible for me but i've never had issues with other drugs". Again, addiction. Addiction and mental health issues can cause a lot of mental gymnastics.
Same. Typical stripper energy lol
As someone with BPD we tend to seem like we’re acting a lot because we mirror others and don’t have a strong sense of self. Depersonalization and dissociation from trauma is also common. It’s part of the disorder.
I find her fun and interesting, I get what you mean tho
She reminds me of Paris Hilton. Her mother formed her personality at a very young age. Our mother used to say she wished we were never born. It gets you to think about your own existence at a very young age. If we ever tried to get physical with our mother, the weapons would come out-wooden spoon, one of dad's belts. If someone plopped $100,000 into my lap at that age, I would have asked my dad what to do with it. He would have asked where and how I got it, and he would have yelled and swore at me at the top of his lungs, kicked me out of the house and told me to never come back, then he would have invested it.
YEAH SGE KOOJS A BIT LIKE OARIA, HIOWEVR SHE WEAR TOO MUCH BLUSH AND HE NAILS ARE CLAWS LOL.
I'm sorry
I so feel you on that my mom still says that to us to this day ❤ god bless
I thought that she was Paris at first glance.
@@btnhl 😂😂😂 dang
she is smart and self-aware af. wish her the best.
I've never done meth or coke in any form. In the 80's I tried lsd and mdma several times and alcohol is by far the strongest thing I've ever done. I won't touch it now. Luckily I don't like the way it feels and the dopamine drop the next day is too much for my anxiety. This woman is a survivor. I hope she finds peace for the rest of her life.
Yeah, LSD is the greatest. And it's not a drug, drugs like crack and heroin limit your possiblilities, LSD opens you up to infinite possibilities!
Borderline is created in the first seven years of life. Neglect, abuse, emotional needs unmet, dealing with emotionally immature caregivers who are volatile, capricious and not present emotionally. It’s no wonder she is filled with rage. A child innately knows they deserve love and nurturing. She feels betrayed. Everything feels like a threat to her now. The most fundamental need is to feel safe. She was robbed of that in her formative years.
Wow
Thank you for sharing that information! Super interesting.
Not 7, but 3. The personality is fully formed by the age of 3
My mother was borderline for the very reasons you list.
@@louisweisberg6879 same with mine. She is now homeless and in psych. wards. I tried to help, but she almost destroyed me in the process. Be careful-
Mark, I love love your interviews. Just one thing - there's no need to point out when you have a physically attractive guest. It's not relevant to their story - unless they wish to make it so. As a "beautiful": trauma/ ADHD/ CPTSD/GAD and possibly ( big Dr. argument there ) Bipolar person, my looks have added nothing to my life. If anything, they've caused attention by people like narcissists who harm us more. ( My Mom had NPD ) We grow to think it's the only "worthwhile" thing about us, for a while it may even stunt our growth and healing as the relationships/ societal approval may be a distraction. I'm older now and when society deems your beauty has "faded" a bit, the jolt out of that bubble is dramatic. If you haven't been working on yourself all along the way... things get even worse for you. She's told it and told it and told it and at some point that will make it harder on her. I wish Savannah all the best. Thanks for listening.
Agreed. It becomes a scary thing
Saying looks add nothing to your life is not true. I'm sure you've had a lot of opportunity in your life, because of your looks alone.
If you have a bad personality then you're lucky you have good looks fam
@@StartContaversy1 I'm sure I have, but it doesn't last and is way less important than developing a good character, displaying kindness, working on relationships and building a sustainable career. So yes, not ' nothing' but at times, oddly detrimental.
She mentioned herself that being beautiful and keeping up appearances was an incredibly important part of her life. I think it's perfectly valid to have that as part of the title for this video.
Not afraid to die, but afraid to wake up. That's powerful.
Then she says: "You do it all to your damn self." "I did this" and "I created this hell"
Girl I hear you, but give yourself grace because you're doing what all humans are wired to do: escape discomfort and seek rewards. Drugs and alcohol do this for you. Nobody gave you the tools you needed early in life to be able to cope with discomfort in other ways (and based on how they treated you, they also lacked coping mechanisms). None of this is your fault...you're simply having a normal human response to awful circumstances. It's never too late to gain those coping skills and repair the damage that was inflicted upon you, especially when you have so much insight already and are full of potential.
Thank you for sharing your story.
You have so much potential Savannah. I hope you can heal from your trauma and mental health issues and find peace and contentment. Seek people who "help your being" and stay away from those who hurt.
Based on my experience with BPD individuals, you cannot trust a word they say. They aren’t necessarily lying, they just adapt to a truth that keeps them from feeling abandoned.
Yeah at the beginning of this vid, 'my Dad is not an addict'. If you watch part 2, 'my Dad is an addict'.
@@Just1laurence I caught that, too. And then I found myself making excuses for her like, "Well, maybe she meant her STEP-dad was an addict." but she's had no problem distinguishing the two the whole time, so why would she only then?
They are totally delusional. They tell themselves whatever story matches the thing they are trying to convey. Then 5 minutes later tell something that completely contradicts what they said 5 minutes earlier..and they can't see that they are lying.
There also isn't "medication for it" as she said. There isn't medication for personality disorders but rather meds to address anxiety and depression that go along with this particular one
True…I work with people who have bpd and they all tell stories that are full of lies and exaggerations. They are also manipulative and use other people for their own benefit. All of the ones I’ve known are really good at talking and their tales are interesting even if not true x
I can relate to this. My step-father used to like to beat me up when I was a kid. Mom would get mad at me when I tried to defend myself from him. One day I realized I was big and strong enough I cracked him back across the jaw and made him bleed then scaled a 6 foot wood fence like spiderman hyped on adrenaline and ran away for the rest of that day. Mom was pissed, but step-dad never touched me again after that.
Bless her heart. I hope she is doing well today. This disease of addiction is horrible. Self medicating the mental illness diagnosis. I relate ❤
The “you’re a lot of guys dream girl” comment is bizarre. I take it Mark hasn’t dated any alcoholics or drug abusers. Is she hot AF? Absolutely. Magazine worthy if you ask me. But dating someone in active addiction is only fun for about a week. The highs and lows, the unpredictability, the chaos, it’s not sustainable and it gets old real quick. Ask my ex husband, lol. If I didn’t get clean one year into that marriage the relationship wouldn’t have lasted more than a very turbulent 16 mos. We ended it at 7 years and what a blessing it was to be sober.
Savannah, who cares if you do it for the sake of vanity as you said or any other reason, get sober. You deserve it. The first year is the hardest, after that it gets exponentially easier. Thank you for sharing your story!
Yeah I think he was a bit under a spell with this one.
I agree... this interview makes me feel very weird about the guy. Seen other ones and he acts much more professional. Poor girl, Likely that problem men has with being real with her has helped with her issues
Mark responded to a comment on Part 2 and said that the majority of people making negative comments about her are jealous. wtf
I thought he was being sarcastic.
I cant believe you are saying she is every guys dream girl Mark...why do you feel you can glorify this behaviour? She is ill and you say that she is a dream girlfriend?? That made me question what type of person you are. I wish you well Savannah and stay away from CREEPS. CREEPS are everywhere.
I know plenty of dudes that would drop everything for a chick like this. Not wifey material but hella fun and crazy wild times to be had. Hump and dump.
He's always falling for this sort of girl and gives them lots of money. She's playing him, sees right through him. He said twice she's every guy's dream girl. Creepy for sure. And asked her if she could stay with one guy as she's babbling on about jumping from man to man.
I agree with some of the videos I've seen but I think here and from what I've learned on the Whatever podcast I think he's joking. A lot of guys don't want a Bipolar, sex working, party/drug/alcohol addicted girlfriend. Some might not mind but she's every party guys (part time) dream girl. Not a long term relationship girl. (Just basing off what I've heard the opinions and statistics from guys)
just proves most men care only about looks.....
She talks quite proudly of her life. Lets see if this is the same in 20 years. All I'm saying is that too many of my friends have gone down this road, thinking they are so cool, and balancing party life and drugs and now in hindsight, most are dead or hugely depressed and made nothing of themselves. each to their own I guess.
I've got 7 years clean from a 16 year long drug addiction (mainly heroin, some meth, Xanax.. a little bit of everything) and I've NEVER met an addict who "thinks they're cool". We're all broken and miserable. Now, I'm living the life of my dreams, but if you don't get out, you will die.
@@kaleyjanenigh that's awesome! Incredible turn around...you are an outlier, and you must have amazing character to have achieved that. Anyone that can come through that, can really do anything. In regards to my mates thinking they are cool, it's frustration on my part. Because they are party addicts, that are obsessed with drugs and partying, similar to this girl. And they don't realise that drugs aren't cool, for some reason in their mind being out of control, being a badass, not remembering, getting high af, nearly dying.. is cool. Being able to tell their crazy stories of how out of control they were makes them feel they are living an eventful crazy life. This girl gave me this impression at times.
I’m now convinced the celeb she was referring to was Matthew Perry
She is either the most insightful woman of her age or she's making shite up
As an recovering Alcoholic she is
When she said she was less concerned about dying and more concerned about waking I felt like I understood drug addiction for a second. For whatever it is worth, I hope you are able to understand who you are and find what it is that will make your soul happy. Life is very short.
Savannah, I understand completely and have shared many similar experiences. Good luck on your sobriety, I recently, finally started AA. GOD BLESS 🙏🤞🙌👏
what would posses someone to say "you're every man's dream girl" after someone opens up to you about such horrific and difficult things that they obviously deeply struggle with is completely beyond me
The good thing is you are still smiling and enjoying life. I have been sober 6 years. You have so much potential.
Her reasoning for getting sober is honestly sobering & seems true for anyone who wants to achieve great things--you can't have both. It's a tough pill to swallow. So much wisdom in that.
Gosh you have given yourself such a hard time and I see what you mean about being challenged with grounding but you are still young and some of the realisations you have had already, you tell them quickly in a couple of words but some people take a lifetime of therapy to come to verbalise these existential statements.
I think that this is going to be the type of trend with your generation, it's like the spiritual download is quick and dense where my generation ( I am 45 )is a lifetime of learning and working on self development etc ( even de-development lol ,as I feel like we need to always re-evaluate everything, every single concept, dogma, trend, things we all have always heard but never had a clue what made them stand so strongly. You guys just cut right through bs without a blink .. perhaps we actually did do a good job at chewing down the most indigestible crap for you guys to take over 😊)
It is fascinating to watch as much as it is painful because you guys vibrate so high that most things in materialistic life feel too slow or too low I guess.. typical recipe for staying in the head, in the mental, a lot of air , , the "opposite" to earth grounding, right? So girl I wish you to find what makes content peace in your heart and your guts , and to never run out of energy to chase after it, as it takes different forms through life's waves ❤
Also I wish you to find ways to put a LOT OF love and TLC into your physical and physiological self because some of the things you have put in there should not be put in there lol so time to flush out ! 😅
Wishing you all the best with your recovery!!!! You deserve it. Pray to God, he will give you the Power!!!!
So many parts of her story seem really really questionable.
I'll leave it at that.
My gut instinct is this woman is making up a lot of things. I had a friend who had BPD and she would make up elaborate stories about her life. It was hard to know what was true and what was not. I got a similar feeling when listening to this woman.
Same! My daughter is as well and there is 0 accountability from her. No punishment was the result of her actions or lack of. This is common with BPD people, their brain's are literally wired incorrectly
@@salutedabadd1yadigg Not everyone with BPD is a compulsive liar. I have BPD and I just have bad emotional regulation and abandonment issues. BPD presents across a variety of 9 symptoms, this girl has high impulsivity and poor emotional regulation at the very least.
Full of shit, I've known many like her
I normally get that feeling when people tell elaborate stories, but I believe her actually.... Nothing she said is really out of the realm of possibility... She's gorgeous, very outgoing personality, and LA isn't a normal city... I've done a lot of what she has as far as the partying goes and know people who do the whole seeking thing and you find yourself in movie like situations and that's just in Jacksonville FL.. LA is wild.... lol
I spent a weekend in LA and ended up in the looney bin bc of psychosis..
Victim shame much! You’re not a psychologist. People with trauma like myself when u hear our stories can sound unreal but they are real. Never invalidate someone’s pain
Savannah has been through so much it’s almost unfathomable and yet she is obviously such a survivor and good-hearted person and I wish her all the best life has to offer. 💕
I did NOT like how the interviewer was acting. It was super cringey, like he was interrupting her to change the subject and not even hearing what she was saying, not even caring about her feelings but giddy at the thought of her self-destructive behavior. I hope Savannah knows that millions of women are out here who would have your back and are rooting for you to stay sober and have the life you choose. There’s so much love for you . Take good care and maybe watch out for that Mark guy. 😬
what's wrong with her dad? she is calling from LA saying she is stuck without money and he is like - you're gonna figure out - what a bad father. normal parent would help.
My dad said pretty much the same thing to me when I was out in LA, I applied for disability and as everyone knows it takes forever. I asked him if he could send me even $20 and after two weeks he sent me a letter telling me he would not do that because he didn’t want to “enable” me. Enable me to stay alive? At least he left me his house later on in life, but yeah.