This is my time. Keep learning from true teachers and never ever give up, help others, do your best and have impeccable intention no matter what. Say that to yourself every day. I made that up to carry me through. Better yet, make up your own mantra. Im 74 now and need to focus on the path. Andrew is the real deal, i think. Keep up the deep work.❤ to u
He needs money & clout...😢 & I don't need all that...He said I was tryin to destroy him !! I got ignored and I am going to Court bc of him...I'm so lonely and sad right now... He's blocked me on everything and I know that I can't believe anything he says... He loved me most... lol 16:31 ...while, I'm so sad...
Why the past haunts the narcissist? Because when you go no contact, block, delete...you are no longer available to receive the abuse that they insisted you live in. Narcissistic abuse, in my personal opinion, is the worst level of abuse. They took pride in how poorly they treated you. The smirk is something that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up. I hope everyone here on the channel has a strong, hopeful, peaceful, uplifting day. Andrew's videos have been life changing and helpful to me in so many ways. This channel can save someone's life
The smirk is something that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up." BUT, after you've seen The SMIRK, and realized you've been duped BY YOURSELF n your "asleep at the wheelness", lol, they have lost ALL their power n stand before you are UTTER buffoons, lol. LAUGH THEM AWAY.
when I found out the narc I was with was cheating. I confronted him while sitting on a chair, my hands were on my knees, maybe it looked like I was holding something or I don't know but he came and he asked ''are you cutting yourself?'' he actually thought I would off myself because of him.... That is the moment when I realized that besides from lying and cheating he could also k*11 me. That is how thin that line is for them.
I agree. It was a fine line to walk while I put my exit plan together. This personality type can not be given the benefit of doubt, once you understand the npd cycle of abuse. It was the most intense 6 months ever exiting without causing a narcissistic injury to trigger a rage fit-where only God knows what they would do if they knew you were leaving. #moveinsilence
He threatened to take my cat to force me to move to Arizona. I took my cat to my son's house 2 hours away and made sure when the narc left my baby was safe.
The NARC poisoned my cat when I went no contact. I am doing my best now. I am on the path and watch Andrew daily. I went to Paris last month on my own. I keep rising. I have a trauma therapist that is working with me. I also document my experiences on my RUclips and journal. I walk and pray. Stay on the path.
@@Empatheticallyrising OMG! I am so sorry for your loss! Right now I am working on a poem/song/rap about my experience and I hope to collaborate with Eminem and make millions to humiliate my ex!
I watched his cat when he took off to Arizona on a whim with his impulsive mom then on the way back they asked me for 50 bucks. Later learned from him talking about her she's doing transactions w a Canadian card at 15.00 apiece in the US lol great investment 👌 now She's mad at *me* after he strangled me while drunk and screaming at me that I'm a failure as a mother , awesome
They will leave nothing behind, pure evil, demonic. Every word you speak is truth. Nobody tells it like it is except for you, I am always amazed , how are you so insightful Thank you
Thanks, Andrew. Correct, 100-percent. Even after the narcissist is fully in the past there is an extensive and expensive cleanup and things to straighten out left to be done.
My children were an unbelievably costly casualty of numerous narcs. I could tremble in fear for their situation, crawl up in the fetal and cry every day, but I pursue the goal. My aim is to give some helpful protection to all the people I love passionately, though narcissists are everywhere.
@@ecm958 Been separated from them for almost 12 years now because of a ruination/smear campaign. I couldn't buy them a cup of coffee for about a decade. Children need love and provision from both parents-their high narc-trait dad (et al) didn't give a ****. We were the 3 Muscateers, as my oldest named us. I hope for healing but it will be a road.
Andrew, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your content. I have just left an abusive relationship with someone who is a master manipulator and nearly drove me crazy. I would never have broken free without your help. Literally you saved my life brother.
Yes they have to purge the rage in private when it gets too much to contain. It is scary to see a person rage for no reason out of the blue. Thank you for the reason why they do this. Mine had a few episodes he had to purge in front of me. I was scared. Once he was driving my car (with me and the kids in it) and he was trying to run a guy off the road he was speeding so fast. We are lucky to be alive.
The freemason government Narc told me straight up, "we don't make dreams come true here". Guess what, they sure didn't....they made NIGHTMARES come true!
"off gallivanting the globe" perfect description. The narcissist was always moving and switching jobs, always on the phone like you described. 100 💯 percent
I believe Empaths need to warn people on these Narcissists especially one's they have dated in the past. It can save a person. Thank you Andrew the audio sounds better 🙏 namaste 🙏
I would love to put my ex on social media blast but my own self respect won’t allow it and I’m afraid he would retaliate. We met in 8th grade (we’re both 55) so we have tons of people in common. I’m gaining peace of mind just knowing I blocked him on everything.
If they ask or I see danger, sure. Otherwise, I have to let it go, I'm afraid. I'm sorry other people have to have him along their path of life, but I suspect that if it wasn't him, it would be some other narcissist instead. We all have lessons to learn, and they aren't always so gentle. 😢
For 30+ years I thought my sister was a sociopath but since learning about narcissism I see that she's on that scale and definitely in the cluster b. Over the years I've watched her wreck havoc in people's lives. She told me once, she had a dream that she was in a prison cell and there was a window with metal bars through which she could see beautiful grassy rolling hills and JC walking with his people but she was trapped in there. Now I understand.
Sociopath was the closest word I had for a long time. Even if it's not going to provide a precise description of the situation, it sure had a lot of overlap. At least I knew I wasn't crazy. 😮
@@ecm958 I don't think she has any idea she's a narcissist. She can flip a script faster than you can blink and any honest introspection is momentary, I assure you. It was a dream she shared and asked me if I could help her understand it. I couldn't.
@ecm958 Sounds like she knows she doesn't really have nice things coming to her and doesn't know why. I wouldn't try to explain it, because narcissists are not exactly known as introspective people. 🤷♀️😕
Thankful that my personna is no longer being dragged through the dark, sick, infested recesses of that sick, depraved, toxic narc mind. The narc regularly re-wrote the actual truth of what happened into the lying polar opposite making himself the victim, it’s hard for me to imagine that any of the evil he perpetrated upon me would come back to haunt him…simply overjoyed I no longer have to experience the toxicity.💜
This is exactly who I am married to, believes he's always right. I'm preparing to leave him and he's so full of himself he doesn't see it. He lied to me about how many times, it's 7 and still thinks he's not the problem. Hi narcissist parent was married 9 times, still enables him. These videos help me get myself back. I became a shell of my former self. Started having seizures due to the anxiety created here.
Every single word you said about a narcissist is just so true, Andy!!! The fact here is that even the past haunts her this senior narcissist still plays, hates, curses the hands which are helping her.
I have reached the pinnacle of indifference where I no longer care. You put my experience into words perfectly. How much does that help me stay the course, knowing I am right, and I am priority 1, 2 & 3. Cognition, understanding, acceptance. Implementation - NO Contact!
Always stand up for yourself, I did and I was with many, they just don't like me because I know how sick & vile they are. Stand up to them. Expose them. Never let anyone on this planet ever abuse your Mind, Body, & Soul, Ever!!! Love yourself enough to say Adios!
The title says it well. To my two siblings, I did not exist as an adult of 65 years later from their childhoods. That was shocking to me. It was because they were still little miserable children 65 years later.
@@kathleencondit1660 Families like that never let you forget stupid things that happened when you were 12. You are never going to be respected at any age.
Yes, I lost contact with a beloved dog we shared, but I’m so thankful that I survived a narcissistic relationship. From all I’ve gathered over time, not all of his past girlfriends were so fortunate. This is scary business! I’m so thankful to have a greater understanding of what narcissistic abuse involves. Praise Jesus for His Mercy!
@ecm958 I was fearful for my dogs too. Since the narc had hand guns in the house. I could see him kill mine if he knew I was leaving. I am so grateful to have made it out with my dogs.❤😊🎉
They are scardy cats, they aré afraid, that's why they hide from people who knows who and what they are, they know what they have done and they dont regret It, never accept the hoover, gray rock them or go cero contact.
@@Thriverforall its just another mask they wear to appear happy, dont get fooled they aré never happy, we as empaths live a happy life with or without material things, we love seeing people happy, that's why narcisist aré always searching for empathic persons.
Good evening Andrew & community! I want to thank each one here on this platform that has encouraged me & took a moment to say something positive & support!! It all matters!! We are all just walking each other home! ❤🏡 What a beautiful Hot August night! 🔥 with a full moon 🌝 🌕
@@leslie4950 I got some great pictures of it last night.... sent them to all my friends.... AT 3:AM !!!! (just kidding, it was like 8:pm last night) LOL !! Next Blue Moon: January and March of 2037
They are possessed. I started having sleep paralysis the same time I started being intimate with my now ex husband. I had never experienced that before. You can’t convince me they’re not pure evil!
What hunts him everyday is the fact he abandoned his child and has zero bond with the child. That is what will keep hunting him forever especially because our child has sickle cell disease he abandoned that child and walked away. They reap what they sow.
Funny how they fail to realize that their "silent treatment" is often a great relief. I chose my stb ex husband's silent treatment as a strategic time to pack and leave. He didn't get a chance to end that one. It's lasted seven months now. I'm better at it. 😊
Okay, SO many things resonated with me in this video I don’t even know where to begin! First off, the narc is a sad little human being… ALWAYS unhappy, and that’s why they have to CONSTANTLY be posting pictures to social media of them with their significant other (looking like they’d rather be LITERALLY ANYPLACE else) and their kids (who behave long enough to TAKE the photo). They gotta show how HAPPY their family is! 🙄 Secondly, they are so miserable, they have to go online and find people to stalk and belittle to make them feel as bad as THEY do. When people come to the realization that they ARE … well… sociopathic narcissists who are just there TO make others feel bad about themselves, they will create a SECOND profile in hopes that no one will recognize them and they can continue posting toxicity until they get found out again. And they can’t help themselves… they WILL administer a smear campaign against someone while that person is still active on the social media platform/ site where they found them. Well… smear campaign (but really slander). They live a life of true misery, wearing a MASK to make people THINK they’re living their BEST life ever. Would the narc so DESPERATELY NEED everyone to see PROOF of that if it were TRUE?! 🤔 No. Also,these people HATE when they encounter Empaths, because Empaths HELP people, they empathize and sympathize with them… they don’t judge them for feeling the way they do or belittle them when they’re ALREADY feeling down in hopes of pushing them right over the edge. That makes them LIGHT YEARS more likable than the narcissist. They CANNOT STAND that! You are right Andrew, narcs DO lurk on this channel trying to get the Empath’s playbook to see how we think and where we are vulnerable. They’ve also been known to attempt to EXPLOIT it. ⚡️👈😱 Sorry that won’t work here! 💪😁 Anyway, a bit long, sorry! I hope you all had a GREAT start to your week, my friends! Love y’all! Stay strong, and bounce the narcs! 😣🫷😁💪😉☮️💯♾️‼️🌺💖🌸🌼🌻🪻🌷❤️💜❤️💜
Yes I get it. I could write a book. As could you. But we carry wisdom now and yes,,, keep telling it. There are still SO MANY WHO DO NOT KNOW WHST/ who they are yet,, not yet,, but those of us who do?? We share what we know,, and let the chips fall. 😢
I am an empath which is why I was targeted. However, there is a side to me no one wants to see, and even though I warned him he did not believe me. As the saying goes, seeing is believing!
Brilliant description counter parenting, mine barely spent time with the kids when they were small. He only took time out with them when we separated sure they are grown up now...new supply😢
Andrew, I swear this video was exactly my life every part of it!! With your help, I am almost to the mountain top of indifference😊😊😊 The doors of abundance are being kicked wide open for me now 😊 I just can't believe when you keep plugging along one day at a time to recover from all that trauma how good you start feeling 💜🩷😋 keep up the good work with helping such a huge community! 😍
After two months of blocking me and being with her new supply, my ex narc girlfriend texted my phone yesterday at 3:22 in the afternoon: “I sincerely apologize to you. Lisa”. I will not respond.
Here I am at 45, realizing I dedicated my life to helping my mother who is a narcissist but is also legally blind. I was the people pleaser. I tried to please her over and over again. She blames everything on me constantly. Anything that goes bad, her horrible financial decisions. In recent years she's begun a smear campaign telling everybody that I'm a bad person. I finally realized the only way not to self destruct and end my own life is to go "no contact". But I fear it's too late to have a normal life. I've never been married and have no kids. I am preparing myself for the journey alone, for what is left of my life.
Greetings ! Happy Monday Andrew and others as we heal. Wise man once told me ... even the goldfish suffer. Take careful steps. Brother your knowledge is awesome !
Thank you Andrew 241/2 with him I am trying so hard but he has ruined me it’s so hard to function day to day it just so hard to believe but the pieces are fitting together
Andrew im ashamed to say that having listened to them i realise after much reflection ad introspection that i actually have many of these character traits and have done/and do many of these things. So it has been hard but enlightening so working on trying to do better Thank you 🙏🙏
I really needed to hear this today!! ❤ Thank you so much Andrew, for reminding me that my narcissistic ex dont live his best life after abandoned our children. 😢🙏
Audio sounds good and I just LOVE your videos. I can tell by what you say that you have had alot of experience with the narcissist. I have only had 2 in my life(ex-husband and sister) and that was enough for me!!!
Hello Andrew! Thanks for all your wonderful videos. Regarding the sound quality I actually liked it better before. It was more authentic hearing the nature around you. Kind wishes from Germany, Jörg
The sound is wonderful. Thank you for reminding me that he will and is sitting in his own misery! No, I don’t wish any ill will on anyone either. I’m just grateful that I went no contact 6 months ago, and I have had doors of happiness opening for me!
I’ll just never ever understand them,,, and have WONDERED AND WONDERED, if they EVER FEEL REMORSE,,, ???? I t seems not. There’s a nasty old narc trying to be my friend and I’m just exhausted dodging him. But I must. It’s difficult when it’s your neighbor. 😮😮😮😮 But I’m so much wiser Andrew thanks to your teaching. If not for this,,, right here,,, my heart strings would be getting tugged , falling for the acts. Bleh. It gets just sickening. The Hoover,, the live bombs. All of it. I could just barf sorry to be blunt. I fell for it long ago,,, because I’m very empathetic very. And feel for a persons loneliness. But I regret it. He EVEN INVITED ME ON A BIKE RIDE,, lending me the bike ,,? It was too high for me,, I fell on my face, breaking my Rx glasses, almost broke my nose. He just. Stood. There. UN believable. Right?? But really it is WHO THEY ARE. .
About coparenting : I remember my ex narc husband leaving taking his tennis raquet while saying "that's the bankrupcy of YOUR education" (about his stepdaughter) I knew nothing about narcissism at the but was trying very to maintain a semblance of family life etc .. That's 24 years ago when I left with my daughter bought a house on my own overcame a cancer was disinherited by my Mother. Now the wheel has turned. My 40 year old daughter has built up a brillant career and nice family. And I am enjoying 2 beautiful toddler grattons ❤😅 Thank you so much Andrew for your enduring loving daily support I apppreciate your integrity and keen insight Very comforting Bless you
I got the message the Audio is perfect. The wheel of life the cycle of karma the cycle of narcissism. The laws of the dualistic universe we live in. It’s common sense what goes around comes around. You are not wishing ill will. Just seeing where the energy is going. Ty Andrew. Great to see you smile
We forget to pray like David did,,ask God to remove,these people from our lives...David had nothing to do with the actions of God...God is God,a True GOD of JUSTICE
Hi Andrew, regarding the sound...i can hear what you say but it's like you are talking through a can of soup 🥫. I can't hear the wind blowing around you like before either. It's like your voice is isolated from the suroundings. Maybe it was best the way you were set up before. That's my opinion. Have a great evening Andrew 😊🙌💜
This is going to be a hard oct and nov... its a big thing... thought I was healed and for a real reason... i need your videos. Keep em up. Its a year and these may be my hardest months. Keep it up Andrew
Exactly why my ex-husband does not want for me to meet any of his girlfriends (they all happen to look like me). Yet he has had no problem introducing all of them to my children. The last thing he wants for these women to know is that he nearly killed me and got away with it. I’m just so thankful to be out of that prison!
Having found out about narcissism has opened my eyes to many other people in my past and now in current. You spot them all around Be aware! Thanks Andrew
I have a hard time reconciling the fact that I truly believed I loved him. I'm learning about the trauma bond now. How can I stop being mad at myself for falling in love with an illusion. It's scary to think of what I would have done to be with him. I went no contact in November, and I do not feel very close to healing. I find myself more mad at myself, than mad at him. Anyone else ever feel like this?
Bro I can’t believe what 😢you do to me , I was married to Narcissist lost my health, my company, my energy, she almost killed me bro, ten years every nasty mistreatment done to me while I am paying for everything, it’s not easy to get out and looking back , what’s wrong with me? But I can’t thank you enough Andrew , much love
Unfortunately my only child is like her narcissist father. Both are negative and entitled. She is in that phase of being selfish and rebellious as a teen and now 20 yr old. Tattoos and plugs in her ears. It saddens me she decided not to go to college and dropped out to be a tattoo artist and cover herself with tattoos. She also decided to go no contact with me and everyone in my family. I’ve been told she cut off his family too. She’s hurting everyone who loves her.
This is my time. Keep learning from true teachers and never ever give up, help others, do your best and have impeccable intention no matter what. Say that to yourself every day. I made that up to carry me through. Better yet, make up your own mantra. Im 74 now and need to focus on the path. Andrew is the real deal, i think. Keep up the deep work.❤ to u
Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜💯⛰️
He needs money & clout...😢 & I don't need all that...He said I was tryin to destroy him !!
I got ignored and I am going to Court bc of him...I'm so lonely and sad right now...
He's blocked me on everything and I know that I can't believe anything he says...
He loved me most... lol 16:31 ...while, I'm so sad...
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The devil whispered in my ear "Your not strong enough to withstand the storm" I whispered in the devil's ear " I AM THE STORM".
Hahaha great😂
Wisdom is powerful 🙏
Yeah baby!!! I am the storm!!!!!
@@happyhealthyblessed stay strong.
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Being with a narcissist is like hell on earth. Literally like being with a demon.
They truly are demonic
I never met anyone like this in my life
Pure ffn evil
Let’s say it louder for the people in the back😮
He was satan himself
Yes, they are demons infesting host bodies, expressing themselves through " narcissism"
Yes absolutely evil 😈
It’s crazy how someone hates themselves so bad that they will try to destroy others. You reap what you sow and that’s a promise
❤💯❤️💯❤️‼️‼️☝️😁 You said it!!!
That's what happens when extreme self-loathing collides with extreme self-preservation, it becomes the worst of both...
Yes!!
For sure they get Karma, you can't go around hurting Good people without consequences 💯
Right...
The narcissist is cursed by their own existence!
Why the past haunts the narcissist?
Because when you go no contact, block, delete...you are no longer available to receive the abuse that they insisted you live in.
Narcissistic abuse, in my personal opinion, is the worst level of abuse. They took pride in how poorly they treated you. The smirk is something that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up.
I hope everyone here on the channel has a strong, hopeful, peaceful, uplifting day. Andrew's videos have been life changing and helpful to me in so many ways. This channel can save someone's life
The smirk is something that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up."
BUT, after you've seen The SMIRK, and realized you've been duped BY YOURSELF n your "asleep at the wheelness", lol, they have lost ALL their power n stand before you are UTTER buffoons, lol. LAUGH THEM AWAY.
It is absolutely amazing how absolutely SPOT ON this guy is to my exact experience!
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Just exactly my terrible experience
Same here just sounds like my old nightmare relationship
I still have PTSD after the relationship ended. Two years on.
when I found out the narc I was with was cheating. I confronted him while sitting on a chair, my hands were on my knees, maybe it looked like I was holding something or I don't know but he came and he asked ''are you cutting yourself?'' he actually thought I would off myself because of him.... That is the moment when I realized that besides from lying and cheating he could also k*11 me. That is how thin that line is for them.
I agree. It was a fine line to walk while I put my exit plan together. This personality type can not be given the benefit of doubt, once you understand the npd cycle of abuse.
It was the most intense 6 months ever exiting without causing a narcissistic injury to trigger a rage fit-where only God knows what they would do if they knew you were leaving.
#moveinsilence
You are 100-percent correct.
How arrogant thinking you would resort to such action
My entire Cop famdamnly has preferred my SUICIDE for 6.5 decades.
do not turn your back to a Narcissist they never change for good.
Daily reminders:
The narc will never change
The new supply is getting exactly what I got
❤❤❤to all healing out there
God bless the new supply....
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🎯 I take my power back💪🏼💯💯 I am not anyone's Supply. WE are NOT anyone's Supply. We are NOT any Narc's "property" either. We are SURVIVORS!!! 🎉💪🏼💯🔥🔥🔥💥💥💥💯💯💯©️
He threatened to take my cat to force me to move to Arizona. I took my cat to my son's house 2 hours away and made sure when the narc left my baby was safe.
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The NARC poisoned my cat when I went no contact. I am doing my best now. I am on the path and watch Andrew daily. I went to Paris last month on my own. I keep rising. I have a trauma therapist that is working with me. I also document my experiences on my RUclips and journal. I walk and pray. Stay on the path.
@@Empatheticallyrising OMG! I am so sorry for your loss! Right now I am working on a poem/song/rap about my experience and I hope to collaborate with Eminem and make millions to humiliate my ex!
I watched his cat when he took off to Arizona on a whim with his impulsive mom then on the way back they asked me for 50 bucks. Later learned from him talking about her she's doing transactions w a Canadian card at 15.00 apiece in the US lol great investment 👌 now She's mad at *me* after he strangled me while drunk and screaming at me that I'm a failure as a mother , awesome
He's just as crazy as the one I married stealing a 🐈😂😂😂😂😂😂
They will leave nothing behind, pure evil, demonic.
Every word you speak is truth. Nobody tells it like it is except for you, I am always amazed , how are you so insightful Thank you
So many women ... he destroyed them all . He tried for so many years to get me back! But I deserve so much more
Thanks, Andrew. Correct, 100-percent. Even after the narcissist is fully in the past there is an extensive and expensive cleanup and things to straighten out left to be done.
Welcome..😌🙏💜
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Absolutely 🙏🏼🌹
Very hard sometimes, we gotta keep our heads up and keep moving forward.
Bless you 💝
My children were an unbelievably costly casualty of numerous narcs. I could tremble in fear for their situation, crawl up in the fetal and cry every day, but I pursue the goal. My aim is to give some helpful protection to all the people I love passionately, though narcissists are everywhere.
People heal. They say children are resilient. They need your love and nurturing. Bless you. ❤
@@ecm958 Been separated from them for almost 12 years now because of a ruination/smear campaign. I couldn't buy them a cup of coffee for about a decade. Children need love and provision from both parents-their high narc-trait dad (et al) didn't give a ****. We were the 3 Muscateers, as my oldest named us. I hope for healing but it will be a road.
Bye Andrew thank YOU the new sound is good!
I think you nailed it when you said rewrite the past. 🙋💡
Andrew, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your content. I have just left an abusive relationship with someone who is a master manipulator and nearly drove me crazy. I would never have broken free without your help. Literally you saved my life brother.
Same. This man is a God send
Yes they have to purge the rage in private when it gets too much to contain. It is scary to see a person rage for no reason out of the blue. Thank you for the reason why they do this. Mine had a few episodes he had to purge in front of me. I was scared. Once he was driving my car (with me and the kids in it) and he was trying to run a guy off the road he was speeding so fast. We are lucky to be alive.
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The freemason government Narc told me straight up, "we don't make dreams come true here". Guess what, they sure didn't....they made NIGHTMARES come true!
The past does just haunt the narcissist, it also haunts the victims.
"off gallivanting the globe" perfect description. The narcissist was always moving and switching jobs, always on the phone like you described. 100 💯 percent
I believe Empaths need to warn people on these Narcissists especially one's they have dated in the past. It can save a person. Thank you Andrew the audio sounds better 🙏 namaste 🙏
I would love to put my ex on social media blast but my own self respect won’t allow it and I’m afraid he would retaliate. We met in 8th grade (we’re both 55) so we have tons of people in common. I’m gaining peace of mind just knowing I blocked him on everything.
I tried to warn someone but she didn't want to hear it and married him. Her mistake. 😢
If they ask or I see danger, sure. Otherwise, I have to let it go, I'm afraid. I'm sorry other people have to have him along their path of life, but I suspect that if it wasn't him, it would be some other narcissist instead. We all have lessons to learn, and they aren't always so gentle. 😢
They usually get there first (tell them either before or after such and such is jealous/crazy or another reason) they're clever and sly
@ecm958 my ex bestee narc,married a narc,,,happy coupling😮
For 30+ years I thought my sister was a sociopath but since learning about narcissism I see that she's on that scale and definitely in the cluster b. Over the years I've watched her wreck havoc in people's lives. She told me once, she had a dream that she was in a prison cell and there was a window with metal bars through which she could see beautiful grassy rolling hills and JC walking with his people but she was trapped in there. Now I understand.
Sociopath was the closest word I had for a long time. Even if it's not going to provide a precise description of the situation, it sure had a lot of overlap. At least I knew I wasn't crazy. 😮
I don't understand. She felt trapped in her narcissism? That is very self-aware for a narcissist in my experience.
@@ecm958 I don't think she has any idea she's a narcissist. She can flip a script faster than you can blink and any honest introspection is momentary, I assure you. It was a dream she shared and asked me if I could help her understand it. I couldn't.
@ecm958 Sounds like she knows she doesn't really have nice things coming to her and doesn't know why. I wouldn't try to explain it, because narcissists are not exactly known as introspective people. 🤷♀️😕
@@cc1k435 What you say fits. She's highly resistant to any admonition and if you try, you'd need to watch your back.
You reap what you sow. Truth always wins, it’s just a matter of time. Thank you 🙏 Andrew. God bless you ❤
Thankful that my personna is no longer being dragged through the dark, sick, infested recesses of that sick, depraved, toxic narc mind. The narc regularly re-wrote the actual truth of what happened into the lying polar opposite making himself the victim, it’s hard for me to imagine that any of the evil he perpetrated upon me would come back to haunt him…simply overjoyed I no longer have to experience the toxicity.💜
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This is exactly who I am married to, believes he's always right. I'm preparing to leave him and he's so full of himself he doesn't see it. He lied to me about how many times, it's 7 and still thinks he's not the problem. Hi narcissist parent was married 9 times, still enables him. These videos help me get myself back. I became a shell of my former self. Started having seizures due to the anxiety created here.
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Run and don't look back.
Best wishes to you as you make your escape! Keep looking ahead; a better life awaits!
Every single word you said about a narcissist is just so true, Andy!!! The fact here is that even the past haunts her this senior narcissist still plays, hates, curses the hands which are helping her.
I now have my own channel and share your channel as much as I can. Keep up the fantastic work.
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ,,,,yes expose them AMAP...AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE..WE ALL NEED TOO!!!
I have reached the pinnacle of indifference where I no longer care. You put my experience into words perfectly. How much does that help me stay the course, knowing I am right, and I am priority 1, 2 & 3. Cognition, understanding, acceptance. Implementation - NO Contact!
Always stand up for yourself, I did and I was with many, they just don't like me because I know how sick & vile they are. Stand up to them. Expose them. Never let anyone on this planet ever abuse your Mind, Body, & Soul, Ever!!!
Love yourself enough to say Adios!
I stood up for myself which caused a smear campaign of lies, but the truth cannot be changed and will eventually be exposed.
@user-bt4uy8yg3x yes it does not make them look good in any way... don't react and keep on keeping on you got this!
Ego is not their amigo😂
"Counter-Parenting" vs Co-Parenting. EPIC Andrew! 🙌🏼💯💯🔥🔥🔥
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@@totga2025 So true.. they were only busy alienating our kids away from us.
The title says it well. To my two siblings, I did not exist as an adult of 65 years later from their childhoods. That was shocking to me. It was because they were still little miserable children 65 years later.
Me too. I am called little Ellie, just a baby. I'm 65. So infuriating.
@@ecm958 So disrespectful. At least, we can see the truth. Thanks.
@@kathleencondit1660 Families like that never let you forget stupid things that happened when you were 12. You are never going to be respected at any age.
@@cc1k435 You are so right. Thanks.
Yes, I lost contact with a beloved dog we shared, but I’m so thankful that I survived a narcissistic relationship. From all I’ve gathered over time, not all of his past girlfriends were so fortunate. This is scary business! I’m so thankful to have a greater understanding of what narcissistic abuse involves.
Praise Jesus for His Mercy!
My ex-husband shot my dog. He is gone from this world now. I was not sad.
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That’s frightening! Thank goodness you got out.
@ecm958 I was fearful for my dogs too. Since the narc had hand guns in the house. I could see him kill mine if he knew I was leaving. I am so grateful to have made it out with my dogs.❤😊🎉
They are scardy cats, they aré afraid, that's why they hide from people who knows who and what they are, they know what they have done and they dont regret It, never accept the hoover, gray rock them or go cero contact.
Thank you . But why they appear having a good life and so happy.
@@Thriverforall its just another mask they wear to appear happy, dont get fooled they aré never happy, we as empaths live a happy life with or without material things, we love seeing people happy, that's why narcisist aré always searching for empathic persons.
Good evening Andrew & community!
I want to thank each one here on this platform that has encouraged me & took a moment to say something positive & support!! It all matters!! We are all just walking each other home! ❤🏡
What a beautiful Hot August night! 🔥 with a full moon 🌝 🌕
Thank you for being here!
I love "We are all just walking each other home". What a beautiful sentiment. Thank you! ❤
That was a Beautiful Moon last night.....
I noticed the beautiful, big, round moon yesterday, too.
@@leslie4950 I got some great pictures of it last night.... sent them to all my friends.... AT 3:AM !!!! (just kidding, it was like 8:pm last night) LOL !!
Next Blue Moon: January and March of 2037
The sound is crisp and clear ! Thank you for helping me !
They are possessed. I started having sleep paralysis the same time I started being intimate with my now ex husband. I had never experienced that before. You can’t convince me they’re not pure evil!
What hunts him everyday is the fact he abandoned his child and has zero bond with the child. That is what will keep hunting him forever especially because our child has sickle cell disease he abandoned that child and walked away. They reap what they sow.
Totally relate. Our son has Cerebral Palsey. Zero bond now. Our son has been traumatized.
Funny how they fail to realize that their "silent treatment" is often a great relief. I chose my stb ex husband's silent treatment as a strategic time to pack and leave. He didn't get a chance to end that one. It's lasted seven months now. I'm better at it. 😊
Okay, SO many things resonated with me in this video I don’t even know where to begin! First off, the narc is a sad little human being… ALWAYS unhappy, and that’s why they have to CONSTANTLY be posting pictures to social media of them with their significant other (looking like they’d rather be LITERALLY ANYPLACE else) and their kids (who behave long enough to TAKE the photo). They gotta show how HAPPY their family is! 🙄 Secondly, they are so miserable, they have to go online and find people to stalk and belittle to make them feel as bad as THEY do. When people come to the realization that they ARE … well… sociopathic narcissists who are just there TO make others feel bad about themselves, they will create a SECOND profile in hopes that no one will recognize them and they can continue posting toxicity until they get found out again. And they can’t help themselves… they WILL administer a smear campaign against someone while that person is still active on the social media platform/ site where they found them. Well… smear campaign (but really slander). They live a life of true misery, wearing a MASK to make people THINK they’re living their BEST life ever. Would the narc so DESPERATELY NEED everyone to see PROOF of that if it were TRUE?! 🤔 No.
Also,these people HATE when they encounter Empaths, because Empaths HELP people, they empathize and sympathize with them… they don’t judge them for feeling the way they do or belittle them when they’re ALREADY feeling down in hopes of pushing them right over the edge. That makes them LIGHT YEARS more likable than the narcissist. They CANNOT STAND that! You are right Andrew, narcs DO lurk on this channel trying to get the Empath’s playbook to see how we think and where we are vulnerable. They’ve also been known to attempt to EXPLOIT it. ⚡️👈😱 Sorry that won’t work here! 💪😁
Anyway, a bit long, sorry! I hope you all had a GREAT start to your week, my friends! Love y’all! Stay strong, and bounce the narcs! 😣🫷😁💪😉☮️💯♾️‼️🌺💖🌸🌼🌻🪻🌷❤️💜❤️💜
Yes I get it. I could write a book. As could you. But we carry wisdom now and yes,,, keep telling it. There are still SO MANY WHO DO
NOT KNOW WHST/ who they are yet,, not yet,, but those of us who do?? We share what we know,, and let the chips fall. 😢
I am an empath which is why I was targeted. However, there is a side to me no one wants to see, and even though I warned him he did not believe me. As the saying goes, seeing is believing!
@@stephaniepiazzese2602"when the chips are down, we abuse how we abuse" read this "time wounds all heels" "all the things I dont have make me free"
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Brilliant description counter parenting, mine barely spent time with the kids when they were small. He only took time out with them when we separated sure they are grown up now...new supply😢
Andrew, I swear this video was exactly my life every part of it!! With your help, I am almost to the mountain top of indifference😊😊😊
The doors of abundance are being kicked wide open for me now 😊
I just can't believe when you keep plugging along one day at a time to recover from all that trauma how good you start feeling 💜🩷😋 keep up the good work with helping such a huge community! 😍
Everything you said is absolutely true I lived and witnessed it with my own eyes
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One of your best videos, Andrew. Will watch it again and again. Thank you so much!
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He loves to play victim.
Crazy... your on point Brother Andrew.
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Thank you Andrew.
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I have reached the point of indifference. He believes I can forget everything. I can't . I'm protecting myself.
That must be exhausting in their part.. how toxic it is. I can only imagine the daily struggle.
After two months of blocking me and being with her new supply, my ex narc girlfriend texted my phone yesterday at 3:22 in the afternoon: “I sincerely apologize to you. Lisa”. I will not respond.
Here I am at 45, realizing I dedicated my life to helping my mother who is a narcissist but is also legally blind. I was the people pleaser. I tried to please her over and over again. She blames everything on me constantly. Anything that goes bad, her horrible financial decisions. In recent years she's begun a smear campaign telling everybody that I'm a bad person. I finally realized the only way not to self destruct and end my own life is to go "no contact". But I fear it's too late to have a normal life. I've never been married and have no kids. I am preparing myself for the journey alone, for what is left of my life.
You are young! You have a lot of life to live, one day at a time in peace! ♥️💜💚💙🩷❤️🧡💛🩵
45 is young!! Start your healing journey,you'll be amazed at your growth! Sending you love and healing❤
I am so grateful for your videos...God bless you and your path!❤
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Thank you Andrew and Community members. This group of wonderful people have helped me so much getting the lights on.. Much love...
Greetings ! Happy Monday Andrew and others as we heal. Wise man once told me ... even the goldfish suffer. Take careful steps. Brother your knowledge is awesome !
Thank you Andrew 241/2 with him I am trying so hard but he has ruined me it’s so hard to function day to day it just so hard to believe but the pieces are fitting together
Andrew, the sounds is definitely a better quality! Sounds so good!
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Sounds nice and clear thanks
Andrew im ashamed to say that having listened to them i realise after much reflection ad introspection that i actually have many of these character traits and have done/and do many of these things. So it has been hard but enlightening so working on trying to do better Thank you 🙏🙏
Good video (the other mic was better) #HaveAGoodie Thank you, Andrew.
Love you Andrew!! ❤❤🎉😊your a blessing!!
I really needed to hear this today!! ❤ Thank you so much Andrew, for reminding me that my narcissistic ex dont live his best life after abandoned our children. 😢🙏
I like this Audio and I like the camera at this distance. Keep up the good work.
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Yes it was me. After 30 years of marriage he immediately moved on to someone I can’t believe he’s going to marry! He WILL pay for that stupid move.
Audio sounds good and I just LOVE your videos. I can tell by what you say that you have had alot of experience with the narcissist. I have only had 2 in my life(ex-husband and sister) and that was enough for me!!!
You are still fortunate,,
Sound is nice and clear Andrew 😊
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Hello Andrew!
Thanks for all your wonderful videos. Regarding the sound quality I actually liked it better before. It was more authentic hearing the nature around you.
Kind wishes from Germany,
Jörg
Powerful message. Thank you, Andrew.
I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH TRUSTING, TOO MANY JUST ROAMING AROUND SEEING WHO THEY CAN WREACK OR BREAK
Very grateful for you Andrew 💕⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Thank you 🐑🥰
Audio sounds great! Soo handsome Andrew 😍😍😍🤟🏼🤟🏼🤟🏼💚💚💚
The sound is wonderful. Thank you for reminding me that he will and is sitting in his own misery! No, I don’t wish any ill will on anyone either. I’m just grateful that I went no contact 6 months ago, and I have had doors of happiness opening for me!
I’ll just never ever understand them,,, and have WONDERED AND WONDERED, if they EVER FEEL REMORSE,,, ????
I t seems not. There’s a nasty old narc trying to be my friend and I’m just exhausted dodging him. But I must. It’s difficult when it’s your neighbor. 😮😮😮😮
But I’m so much wiser Andrew thanks to your teaching. If not for this,,, right here,,, my heart strings would be getting tugged , falling for the acts. Bleh. It gets just sickening. The Hoover,, the live bombs. All of it. I could just barf sorry to be blunt. I fell for it long ago,,, because I’m very empathetic very. And feel for a persons loneliness. But I regret it. He EVEN INVITED ME ON A BIKE RIDE,, lending me the bike ,,? It was too high for me,, I fell on my face, breaking my Rx glasses, almost broke my nose. He just. Stood. There.
UN believable. Right?? But really it is WHO THEY ARE. .
About coparenting : I remember my ex narc husband leaving taking his tennis raquet while saying "that's the bankrupcy of YOUR education" (about his stepdaughter) I knew nothing about narcissism at the but was trying very to maintain a semblance of family life etc .. That's 24 years ago when I left with my daughter bought a house on my own overcame a cancer was disinherited by my Mother. Now the wheel has turned. My 40 year old daughter has built up a brillant career and nice family. And I am enjoying 2 beautiful toddler grattons ❤😅 Thank you so much Andrew for your enduring loving daily support I apppreciate your integrity and keen insight Very comforting Bless you
At the time .. gransons
You are the truth 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I got the message the Audio is perfect. The wheel of life the cycle of karma the cycle of narcissism. The laws of the dualistic universe we live in. It’s common sense what goes around comes around. You are not wishing ill will. Just seeing where the energy is going. Ty Andrew. Great to see you smile
We forget to pray like David did,,ask God to remove,these people from our lives...David had nothing to do with the actions of God...God is God,a True GOD of JUSTICE
Audio sounds good. Appreciate you so much 🤗
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Thank you Andrew, You are always on point.
Hi Andrew, regarding the sound...i can hear what you say but it's like you are talking through a can of soup 🥫. I can't hear the wind blowing around you like before either. It's like your voice is isolated from the suroundings. Maybe it was best the way you were set up before. That's my opinion. Have a great evening Andrew 😊🙌💜
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Fantastic film thanks andrew
This is going to be a hard oct and nov... its a big thing... thought I was healed and for a real reason... i need your videos. Keep em up. Its a year and these may be my hardest months. Keep it up Andrew
Great vid Andrew.
Please speak on breaking the spiritual tie specifically. I’m listening….. 🙏🏻💜⚔️🕊️
I like the background noise Andrew, especially the lovely birdsong on your videos 🦅🕊️
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Here for my reminder. Sometimes I feel lost and you always bring me back to equilibrium. Keep it up, Andrew 🎉
#ThinkAboutThatForAMinute 🤔
Exactly why my ex-husband does not want for me to meet any of his girlfriends (they all happen to look like me). Yet he has had no problem introducing all of them to my children.
The last thing he wants for these women to know is that he nearly killed me and got away with it.
I’m just so thankful to be out of that prison!
You're looking really good Andrew. I could even say you're glowing.
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Normally I'd leave a comment about what I think I can add to what Andrew covers but he literally pulled the words right out of my mouth
I hear you loud and clear and thank you for all your time and effort explaining this evil personality
Having found out about narcissism has opened my eyes to many other people in my past and now in current.
You spot them all around
Be aware!
Thanks Andrew
Thanks for your information Andrew good Day 🙂
Always great info Andrew , thank you
I have a hard time reconciling the fact that I truly believed I loved him. I'm learning about the trauma bond now. How can I stop being mad at myself for falling in love with an illusion. It's scary to think of what I would have done to be with him. I went no contact in November, and I do not feel very close to healing. I find myself more mad at myself, than mad at him. Anyone else ever feel like this?
❤Thank you Andrew ❤
Bro I can’t believe what 😢you do to me , I was married to Narcissist lost my health, my company, my energy, she almost killed me bro, ten years every nasty mistreatment done to me while I am paying for everything, it’s not easy to get out and looking back , what’s wrong with me?
But I can’t thank you enough Andrew , much love
Great content as always Andrew and the audio sounds good definitely one of the channels for this content
Your Right Andrew, they're Greedy Goblins , out to Break you any which way they Can,,T.y.Andrew🤗🌼🌺💖💖👍
..another great podcast.
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Yes Andrew yes most definitely true. I see clearly now 🙏♥️
Unfortunately my only child is like her narcissist father. Both are negative and entitled. She is in that phase of being selfish and rebellious as a teen and now 20 yr old. Tattoos and plugs in her ears. It saddens me she decided not to go to college and dropped out to be a tattoo artist and cover herself with tattoos. She also decided to go no contact with me and everyone in my family. I’ve been told she cut off his family too. She’s hurting everyone who loves her.
I've got one of those, too. It's incredible what I see.