WHEN YOU STOP WAITING FOR THEM TO CHANGE
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
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Stop putting your life on hold, waiting for them to change
Stop defending yourself against the smear campaign
Stop believing that you could have saved them
Stop worrying about their devoted fanclub
Stop making excuses for their behaviours
Stop looking for closure from them
Stop fixating on the new target
Stop putting yourself last
Stop blaming yourself
STOP, JUST STOP ❤
Great message!😮
They won’t bend an inch. But when you give them an inch, they’ll take a mile! Double standard mentality! Great video!
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The moment I stopped waiting for her to change was the moment I took my life back. No more false hope, no more empty apologies, no more cycles of manipulation disguised as 'working on it.' She was never going to change-because she never had to. She thrived on my patience, my willingness to believe, my hope that somehow, this time would be different. But when I finally saw the truth, when I accepted that the only thing changing was my tolerance for the abuse, I became untouchable. She lost her grip, and I gained my freedom.
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" ...the only thing changing was my tolerance for the abuse." Power in that realization. It's a guide post for every single living and overly giving Empath.
For years I worked on myself learning not to be drawn into arguments, not reacting to his critisism and staying positive no matter what. I thought it would help him see that the problem was within him. But it only infuriated him, his attempts to provoke me and bring me out of balance became increasingly crazy and dangerous. So blessed to be out of it.
No amount of setting a good example, not responding to his toddler-rages, not waiting for him to grow up... he will never change. His ex-wife told me, "You'll find out". I'm finally free and neutral. 🎉
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There is no amount of diplomacy, empathy, hope, or forgiveness that will inspire her to improve.
Love you to pieces for the help, Andrew.
I stopped.
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My children grew up. He did not.❣️
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Not sure if I should laugh or cry on that one Roslyn 👍❤💥🙏
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Yes!! Exactly!
Sad reality with these people: My daughters father is the same, too.
Waiting for them to change is the sign of our hypocrite minds, we must change it's good. Thank you for the brilliant idea.
I always say the worst thing in the world is HOPE it keeps you stuck and hurting i told my friend I hate hope she didn't get it
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I think sometimes hope spills over into denial.
"Future Fake You" WOW! Truth! Thank you Andrew! Watching everyday, reading, journaling...
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Slow and steady wins the race. Grace is a powerful gift that eludes me, yet I feel a shift of hope. I'm starting to journal again today, and must remember that my absence from my Journal is ok. It won't be judging me, it's not my mother. It's not any one of them. I dont want to give up
Was hoovered after 13 years. Gave them a second chance thinking they had changed for the better. Wrong. The only thing they change is their mask or different ways to hurt you. Never accept a hoover
Talking to the narcissist is useless because when you talk to them they will just laugh at you and mock you and think everything is funny to them but I always have the last laugh when I block them
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GOOD morning Andrew🇫🇷🫶🦋💜Never ever , will I think my Narc/sister WILL CHANGE!! After the passing of my Dear Mother, 😢The masks of betrayal & lies are SUPER BIG!! SHE thinks she is Above the LAW& JUSTICE,, but she will be put back in her DARK/ PLACE, THE PIT !! Thank you Andrew ,, for reading my story🦋💜🫶
❤ Thank you Andrew ❤It’s a long journey to heal .. I’m still trying to get through it all.. I’m healing ❤️🩹
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Thank you Andrew ❤
Yes!!! The change happens within US!!
THEY will never change....no matter how many times we give them another chance to improve....THEY DON'T!!
Love you too, Andrew, great video, horrible bad people, Thanks for everything you do ❤💛
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Yeah he's Bruce Banner
Don't make me angry. U
Won't Like me when I'm
angry! - How true it was
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yes they do, i have changed they haven’t , they don’t understand me now, i don’t react, and my boundaries are tight.. ❤🙏🏻 … i talk but not with what they want out of me..
went shelling and saw the sunset great video andrew 😌🥰🌅🐚
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Good evening Andrew and friends! GREAT topic Andrew!!! 🙌🙌😊🫂🫶✨👍😁🏔️🌲❤️🩷💜
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Hoping against all odds change never comes they just get worse
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Love and blessings to you Andrew and community ❤️ 🙏
We have learned a lifetime of wisdom from you!❤
Hi Ems 😘❤
As you have said many times it is like finding the needle in the haystack. When you have that sudden moment of clarity and realize the keys to your own kingdom are fully giving up on anyone else (and ESPECIALLY the narcissist) dictating the way you feel about yourself and the way you live your life 😅
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TEACH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY ABOUT NARCISSISM GOOD PEOPLE
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Still healing…but hopeful.
Narcs never change don’t waste your time with them move onward and don’t look back.❤
Waiting for them to change is like waiting for artificial grass to grow. They have no introspection so they will never change. For whatever time period you are in this situation, I can't call it a relationship because that's reciprocal, this toxic behavior works for them while you are left in confusion and despair. God Bless all who are on the healing journey!
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one step at a time!
Yes sir great message❤
Great content Andrew and Thank You so much
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Thank you for your daily presence, Andrew. I love your videos. They’ve helped me so much. 🙏🏻❤️
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You are awesome....a very outstanding lesson.
1,000 thanks.
I gave chance after chance and it got me nowhere, never again.
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...... The Supply Doesn't Even Know They Are The Supply ..... Changed It To: .......Narcissm 101 ....... Get Educated on all the Vocabulary
Two hours to Write 45 Pages
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He would have EBay packages coming to the house all the time smh
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Wanting someone to change in itself is the indicator you have work to do on yourself.❣️
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Scary truth 👍💥
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Amen, Sister!❤
I didn't get the ding, ding, ding thing. It was more like that carnival attraction where you smash the hammer as hard as you can and if you can ring the bell, you get a stuffed red bunny/mouse/fox." Anyhow, good show thanks for all your guidance!!🤣💖
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thankyou andrew you have great insight - after 4 years with the king without a crown who ruled the world from his computer chair - thank goodness i refused to live with him and wouldn't let him visit as his energy toxic - after an hour in his company i feel drained - i tried communicating at the beginning but these people are ruthless wordsmiths -i knew from the getgo what i was in for yet i went in eyes wide open - wondering if i am a masochist - also any personal info you share is ultimately weaponised against you - have slowly distanced over the years but it has taken a toll on my health and peace of mind - another thing i noticed in my narc is the soul-less eyes like somehow the spirit has been hijacked by some demonic force
Change the narc. Doesn't. Change they love drama child like behavior they get off in hurting people. They love. Conflict. It never ends. Never un mask them they will go above and over the top and make you a life of hell. They are. In trauma. And past they live in their. Crap.
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"I'll turn you into me, I'll tear your mind out I'll burn your soul" LIAR-Rollins Band.
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You are the best
Ding, ding, ding! If i cant punch a like theres something wrong here. Not a healthy channel for me anymore. Never stop brother Amdrew . Powers that be dont want me here. Nameste
Thanks Andrew
true what your saying 👍🏻
Hope deferred makes the heart sick! They only change their tactics...same self serving hearts.The pill of truth is hard to swallow. They will never be as nice as you...but they sure WILL be nasty!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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My Hope for a change, kept getting smaller and smaller... way tiny (single celled animal size).
One day, all hope was gone. There stood Father Time giving me a wink. Thanks, but what took you so long? His excuse--" Heyyy, no internet back then!"🙁
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Yeah bummer 🙄!!! Oh well, lets have coffee ☕☕with apple slices dipped in peanut butter & forget about them! 👍
@@marieeakin8534 Never tried that apple slices thing. Some things you learn on the internet!😋😉
There are many parallels between a pure narcissist and an addict who will do anything to support his/her habit, right? I'm a bit confused about the difference. Nonetheless an empath with boundary issues will be vulnerable to both types. If you see this comment, Andrew, do you have any thoughts about this? Thank you.
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A narcissist is a personality disorder, listed in the DSM. They r continually seeking supply. An addict is hooked on some substance, behavior.
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I got a call today and they said I would most likely get my visa by July or Aug. I have posted my rental with 3 university professionals groups that I have always used. Now I sit back and breathe and have patience and know that it's most likely going to happen...I think
am I the first here?
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You look like Thanksgiving dinner… GAHAHA😂😂😂😂
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Unable to leave you a like. Just sayin