yea even i used to think that, whenever a teacher makes a bad image of a person, just by making him/her stand up in front of the whole class, me and rest of the class would also feel that the person is not good, and we should we should never take him seriously.
‘even talking to boys can land you in trouble’ point is SO REAL. Im in grade 10 (wish me luck yall)and this is from two months back. A male friend and I would go to the ground during recess and some teacher(s) noticed and they spread the word around in the staff room. Initially, my english teacher asked me ‘if i was distracted’, even after telling her a simple no many times she wouldntlet it go and i rold my class teacher who also (later in the story) says the same. after a few days, my class teacher calls me after class to ‘talk’ and shes like “your name is being highlighted in all ‘that’ stuff and im just saying that you should mend your ways” and I told her very firmly that you needn’t overthink things and im doing just fine after that, that male friend sits behind me casually and my social science teacher notices and taunts me on that, saying “your class teacher told me that she made yall sit far from each other so what is he doing behind you?” (is this real? 1.) like we’re 10th graders and still have a seating arrangement, 2.) the teacher is absent so let us sit wherever we want to? 3.) hes not even sitting WITH ME? hes literally behind me so does it even matter? and l4.)WHY WOULDNT YOU ASK HIM INSTEAD? she was so rude and pathetic about it because why would you want to humiliate a girl in front of a class of 40 people? genuinely didntsee that coming from her because I really liked her but Alas! this is so petty honestly and i still cant recover from their wrong-doings.
it traumatized us all. as a guy you cannot imagine the disgust of comments we get having a new female friend. rape jokes involving my sister among elder dudes wasn't uncommon too after all.
I had my bully classmates who I once called my friends give small dose about "how to behave with boys" 💀 Teachers never said a thing to me as such but these people who u have to share 6hrs of your day and of the same standard as me to remind what to do and what not. My insecurity peaked everytime I would go to school cus of this beings.
Just read this novel , I dont wanna oppose or hate but I can bet that the male friend you mentioned does not think of you as a friend. I somewhere read a quote that a man and a woman can never be just friends and I can assure that this is true for a guy's case (Idk about XX chromosomes thought patterns). Maybe the teachers wanna stop him to get distracted rather than you? Afterall , the school aint there for yall to find soulmates
My first grade teacher bullied me for no reason at all, mentally and physically she used to punish me for not bringing my many books on my tiny little back
My second grade teacher was so toxic and hateful of me she use to physical and mental punish me so much so that it traumatizing to even think about it, that experience has Scared me for the entirety of my life
My second grade teacher had cornered me a handful of times. I would totally dislike her and I had said it out loud to my friends. During that time, somewhere at the back of mind I felt that me disliking a teacher is as equivalent as to me being absolutely a disgraceful person. But i still kinda don't like that teacher and hate those memories. Plus, don't even get me start on how teachers use unruly persuasion to apply for a competitive exam conducted by the school, just because you are a "bright student". I mean shut the F up, you guys!!!!!
I still have scar on nose that I got from my teacher who beaten me for shredding pencil dust on floor She didn’t stop even when her stick broke. The scar on my nose is still crystal clear and looks really ugly and this happened when I was in first grade 😃
I feel jealous of people who had a big friend group and generally a good time at school. I will never choose to relive that time. It was the most anxiety inducing and horrible experience for me.
i used to feel the same until i realised ALL big friend groups with no exceptions has sp much drama & politics beyond you can imagine regardless of how perfect they look from outside
same is my plan. real homies remain real but all those classmates we don't even talk to but still follow through mutuals and shit are just for name. they have their own lives and aint gon help when in need, they prolly dont even know u exist lol
Because kids are extremely vulnerable and most likely they won't fight back so these adults use it to their advantage and project all of their trauma anger and jealousy on the students It's all about power dynamics and our culture of letting everything slide the same teacher who beats tf out of students in india will lick the azz of incharge and principal because of their position not only school this type of behaviour exist even in government services where the one with power bullies the person with lower position than them and the one with lower position bullies who's even lower in position
"Teachers can be bullies too". I had this one teacher who targeted me always and she has humiliated in front of the whole class multiple times. She'd always try to find fault in me. I am actually a very quiet student and I stay quiet most of the time but to this teacher, i happened to be the noisiest. It's been a long time since i graduated high school but i still can't forgive that teacher for everything she's done to me
i was also a quiet kid and i had this teacher who basically called me dumb in front of the whole class and compared me with another student, questioned me about my private life in front of the WHOLE class and was just generally rude to me. she even twisted the words that i said to her in a total another way and claimed that I disrespected her. god the trauma 💀 she's my most hated teacher in my school life
i was the topper of my class and yet i was treated so badly.... i was bullied and i was literally compared with another girl whose father was at higher rank.... i always tried my literal best and worked my ass off only to hear taunts and mockery from children and class teacher cuz i was bad at sports and my bad posture.... i had a few good friends.... i just miss my time with them.... also i had an academic downfall in 11th 12th because of my shitty teachers and peer pressure to fit it.... i wish i had studied more instead of trying to gain popularity i would have cracked neet
@@jasminekaur8809 i took a drop this year and am studying my a** off after cutting off from friends... wouldn't advice that if you are not like extremely mad in love with the idea of being a doctor..... i woud advice focussing on getting good score in CUET and you can give other entrance exams suitable for science stream.... it's not that if you fail NEET you are doomed but if you don't have a structured college list and backup plans it might be tough for you to get paid well early in any career
Once my hindi teacher slapped me in front of the whole class because apparently i failed in my hindi exam. On the result day i went with my mom obviously my mom was mad she still asked me to check my numbers and answers so i did and guess what in my hindi papers 15 marks were missing. My essay marks were not added 🙂 we immediately went back to school and talked about it to my class teacher. She was shocked too she said she'll talk to the hindi teacher and said "thank god you didn't went to the principal or else it would have been a really big problem for your hindi teacher" Now i wish i went straight to the principal's office.
The same teacher also slapped and pulled my friend's hair who had short bob kind of hair and she didn't tie her hair and was wearing earrings we were like 10 and 11 🙂 Our class teacher didn't had any problem with her hair and we also greeted our principal in the morning he didn't had any prblm but she had. Ok i understand hairstyle is also part of our uniform but why the f did she pulled her hair so roughly and slapped her?? That's a child??
now that I've completed my schooling this year, I can remember atleast 3 incidents of the teachers being horrible. back when I was in 3rd grade, I was a slightly below average student (like i wasn't bad i just didn't care about studying, i only studied during exams) so there was this infamous maths teacher who was assigned to my class, oh my god she was such a tyrant. like we had every student in the class to bring a glitter pen to make somthing specifically in her notes(we wrote with pencils back then), and god forbid someone forgot or just didn't have the pen on them, she would verbally berate them for minutes, saying stuff like "are your parents so poor they can't afford a glitter pen" "do you live in a basti" and so much shit about being poor and the thing is there were bpl students in our school and now that I look back, this girl who was one, she got berated so often. and apart from that the students who didn't perform well in weekly tests by some imaginary margin she had, she'd make them sit in the front, 4-5 people squeezed in seats for two students, 2 poorest ones would stand at her desk and study the entire class, and I remember being poor in maths and I remember when I had to stand at her desk once, she would berate you so much, i remember sitting in those front desks for quite some time too, like I can't say for sure but I feel like that was the time when fear of maths was instilled in my mind. she taught us 4th grade too (thank god i did get better) then there was my grade 7 class teacher, and by my own admission, I was one of the two most popular/influential girls in the class, my best friend at the time and me, and a bunch of guys we were part of this big big friend group, and every monitor of some kind was from our group. I loved that year, I tied rakhis to all the guys too, never dated any, we had similar humor and we all sat in the same row so it was always so fun, thing is my bsf was dating one the guys, I sat with him the entire 7th grade and even 6th grade i think (back when roll no. se baith te the), anyways, so many girls in the class liked him and their were these 2 who my bsf never saw eye to eye with because she would constantly try to flirt with this buffoon even though she knew they were dating, , so long story short this girl, for some reason or the other, irked by something decided she'll take 3 of her friends and make up some bs story about all the class being controlled by us (me and my bsf for some reason) because our group monopolised the monitors. like everyone in the class was chill except these 3 people, and they made their parents bring up this fake issue to the ct in parent teacher meeting and boy oh boy then it started, the ct would absolutely grill me and my friend for no reason, like she would call us to her desk and berate us in front of the whole class for even flipping a page so much as the wrong way, she was nuts, she would start glaring at you and make faces in the middle of the class and had an in general bias towards guys. thank god I was great at academics that year, all my other teachers loved me. also this one quite recent, in 11th grade my biology teacher alright. she drove me to tears everyday, so thing is she had such a huge glaring vendetta against me, like nobody comes to school regularly in class 11th, you have coachings, tests, all that jazz, you need to study, completely common stuff, everybody in every class did it, everyone in my class did it, but whenever I would god forbid take a leave, the next day, she would make me stand up and rip me a new one, ask me why i was absent, even when i told her the reason (I was so stressed in grade 11, i was sick every month atleast twice, thrice even, down with 103 fever everyday, my physical health was so unbelievably bad, even my periods came like every 2/3 months when they used to be regular just before 11th), like she'd ask me the reason, and if i opened my mouth to tell her, she would scream at me to shut up, she would ask me hard questions about what she taught the previous day(which she didn't she'd just play a ppt, even people who came to class couldn't answer the questions she's ask) and she would constantly berate me, and mind you I'd never been dislikeable to a teacher all my life even for no reason, I used to be an appointee, listened in class, debated well, was some or other monitor every year, it was so jarring having this teacher who was also the vice principle of the school completely hate me for no reason. then i got it one day, so at my coaching i was the top scorer in biology and she had an incredible vendetta against the coaching for no apparent reason (probably because she taught us nothing so people in the class would ofc focus on their coaching). and on 1st day of 11th grade, she asked everybody who went to that coaching to stand up and innocent and unknowing all my peers did (I was absent that day, conjuctivitis) and as time passed, I think she probably asked someone who tops this coaching's test from our class and some dumbfuck probably told her it was me) and fuck my life from then on, she was so relentless, I remember november of that year, i was so so sick, a bajillion health problems and it was so hard to show upto school and i showed up atleast 3 days a week, she would take entire classes up shredding me, that whole month I'd come home and sob everyday because I was so tired, it was so obvious that my classmates who weren't even my friends would try to comfort me after biology periods, anycase I complained to my parents but really they couldn't even do anything, she was vice principle and if i complained, she'd only bully me harder. I've never felt that helpless in my entire life, she made my life a living hell, entire 11th , even half of 12th, then just a month before boards she did a complete 180 cooing me, giving me resources, and in general being very nice to me (i learned this was because she thought i was had the potential to bring a complete 100 in bio, that would add to her laurel, because she was afterall our teacher), and I ended up scoring 97, and then after the result, when we went to meet the teachers, and collect documents etc, she was back to being horrible to me. she was truly something else (I'm sorry to anyone who made it to the end or even bothered to read this, its too long ik TT)
Bro the tyrant math teacher trauma is probably the reason I never liked maths, it was the teacher not the subject. She used to call us to boards and pull our hair and slap us too hard for a 3th grader and I used to cry. I still remember 💀.
I read it, and I can see how you must have felt, something about being academically up there and still being targetted by teachers hurts differently, i remember I had this teacher who in front of the whole class in class 8th called me fat because I'd got in an accident she said , "uska accident ho gaya? Bolo weight Kam kare moti hoti ja rhi hai tabhi accident ho raha hai" and that was the moment my really close friends picked up on it and bodyshamed me up untile 12th,,,, and just like you i remember everyone was taking day off school in 12 to finish up on work etc but whenever I took a break my class teacher would literally send me to the PRINCIPAL'S office and have me write an apology letter wtf was that ???, she also said I was on her hit list apparently?? I was also the shy quiet girl who was very hardworking ,,, I don't know why teachers just hate some students
@@Cyberswirls I genuinely don't get why pre-primary and primary wing teachers are so cruel and violent?? like is hitting small kids (who don't even understand the world) helping with your frustation ma'am?
@@wings2769 I get you, I'm so sorry that happened to you genuinely, and those people that teased you don't deserve to be called your friends, it hurts even more when people who you'd expect were on your side , do stuff like that. you didn't deserve that shit. as for your 8th grade teacher, I don't get it, why such children-hating people choose to be teachers. fuck her and your imbecile petty ct
I was so bullied because i was short at height and i was also not good at study's but i was good at singing and other instruments and teachers would literally hit me because i was going to extra class for singing and one of the teacher also said that " tum bde hoke kuch nahi krr pao ge or singing se tumara ghar nahi cle ga faltu kam he " ☹️☹️☹️
Bro my friend who's a phenomenal singer, her parents are in musical field. Our teacher said " Ki pura samye tum stage pe gaati rho, pardho mat kuch" she sang one time only that year. And it was for teacher's day practice
School was genuinely horrible for me 😭😭, I was sexually harassed as a girl , I got bullied by boys in my class , they used to beat me up , teachers completely brushed off every single of my cry for help . It took me years to get over the trauma and honestly still not over some of the things . I became really suicidal developed unhealthy coping mechanisms, self harm etc . One of my teacher also used to target me so much she put the blame on me that it was my fault that I was getting bullied , harassed and stuff . I never ever wanna go back to those days . I just passed 10th grade and I’m glad school is finally over . I feel really bad for kids who have also gone through this stuff it’s really fucked up man . I’m not even gonna start about the Indian education system where our worth is attached to a very linear form of education.
@@goodmood2000 I'm a guy so I don't know why she didn't but my guess is that she was scared because of blackmailing or think of it as cowardly or she did and her parents wouldn't do anything about it. If I was in her shoes, I would've done the same at that age.
School was the worst time of my life, it just took away, what could have been a good childhood. it not only ruined my self-esteem, also my relationship with my parents. i finally was able to fix it all at the age of 25 that too after so much therapy.
The stress India's education system puts on students has no benefit either. I'm an NRI living in Australia, and over here the two most common nationalities for internation students in universities is Indian and Chinese. Both countries have extremely difficult, ruthless education systems that put an insane amount of stress on students, and the thing is whenever I work with Indian or Chinese international students in group assignments, they never really perform significantly better or worse than students who grew up here in Australia, despite the education system here putting faaar less pressure on students. I have heard absolute horror storries about the JEE from indian international students, but despite the difficulty they haven't performed any better on average. Then there is the insane strictness of teachers in the Indian education system making it worse on students as well.
I'm in 12th and I'm almost dome with my school life but I also have a few things to share. So basically we didn't have humanities in our school up until now, I and other 4 students are the first batch of humanities. When it was first introduced and when it was my first day of school our history and polity teachere were absent so ons of my guy friends asked Principle ma'am that when will the classes begin or will it even begin so our principle said -" If there are enough students then it will otherwise I dont know " We were like what do you mean I dont know... What are we supposed to do if there are not enough students! The next day we again asked her to which she got mad and scolded us saying ki jabse humanities kya agay tum log to hawa mein udne lage vo.. Chalo batao kon hai DM hamara... Huh tumhe pata bhi nhi hoga chale hain IAS banne. Now that pissed me off. We still dont have a proper classroom for us,we sit with commerce and study in staff room when its History and polity period. They say if we dont get 98 or 99 in boards they are going to discontinue humanities! I can go on and om with the other bullying, sexist rules and discrimination but the comment is already is big to read.
that's just horrible. why did they even open a school if this is how they're going to treat their students? not even providing a decent classroom or staff, and simultaneously expecting- no, threatening the students to score a 98? bloody hypocrites. and don't even get me started on how the humanities stream is so underestimated and looked down upon in this country. our education system is visibly so fucked up and people still have the audacity to complain about how we are so behind other countries.
@@ninglightttttruee, being a science student i totally respect all the streams and this is what i am facing too, my school doesnt even gives us any opportunities we are totally neglected for extracurriculars as they only wants us to study all the time to score good, taking extra classes and not taking science students for tour cause we didnt score that well in half yearly according to their expections
Being bullied as a literal baby really did something to me...... it caused trauma...... being left out of various extra curricular activities just bcz of not being the teachers favourite child, being ignored by peers....... still thinking about this makes me feel sad and depressed......
Recently our 12th phy teacher who was considered good and funny by the students made fun of a boy who stuttered and my whole perception of him changed instantly. I was sitting on the backbench and was so hurt because everyone in the class laughed like it was the funniest thing. The boy who was made fun of reminded me of my nephew who also stuttered.
This is soo relatable in many aspects. Last year I made a video on how I used to get bullied in school and that same person tweeted my old videos on social media, which was kinda shitty tbh. Well, I thing experience in school can really shape up a personality of an individual. Also it’s being 5 years since I graduated, yet it is very traumatising whenever you pass through my school or get any kind of flashbacks.
My brain has thankfully pushed all those sad and hurtful memories of my school life to the very back on my mind so i can barely remember them but ik there was a lot of bullying that happened.
Schools not only traumatize you but also take away your skills and the natural passion you once had. Teachers (not all, but most of them) act in school like they are always angry. I remember even after kindergarten, with very poor grades, when I was in 1st grade (6 years old), I struggled to write properly, especially in Hindi. I couldn't even write a word properly; my handwriting was so bad. But guess how our Hindi teacher thought she would change or improve me? She gave me an extra class and slapped me very hard every time I couldn't write properly or made any mistake. She literally slapped me 30-40 times, and that was the most horrific thing I ever experienced as a kid. Even though I don't feel much traumatized by that now, I still feel bad for myself when I think about it, considering the fact that now I can not only write and read more languages than her but also know much more about them. I always felt bad for girls who faced sexual harassment by teachers in the name of punishment. And yeah, our school also had the same FUCKING rules for girls. Don’t wear this, don’t style your hair like that, don’t do ponytails, don’t wear nail polish-like, WTF. Why don’t they just fuckin focus on what is actually expected of them-TEACHING? The school curriculum never allowed me to do what I wanted. They cared more about what we were wearing, whom we were talking to, and, as you said, about talking to girls-yup, that happens in every school. When I was in 9th grade, we had a small friend group of 3 boys and 3 girls, but the fact that we were friends for a very long time didn’t matter. There was this one day when a teacher saw us just talking to each other in a friendly way (just like all other friends do) during lunchtime at the main entrance of the classroom. Guess what? That was the last time boys and girls sat together in the classroom. From the next day, they created a separate section for boys and girls. Physics teachers have an attitude like an IIT professor, and English teachers expect us to speak only English in their classes after teaching us nothing about the language. Yup that's the beloved SCHOOLS for you. 🙃
This toxicity of Indian schooling leaks into the corporate too where some Indian managers act as bullies. I've 2 people reporting to me and even though my manager asks me to be controlling, I stay lenient and supportive.
I hate my school. so much pressure to perform by teachers & my parents, it really ruined my physical & mental health, & my life. I was a topper through out my school, but now I am an unemployed graduate. we still hear about so many student suicides in news... now I understood that both parents & teachers forced good grades NOT because they cared for me, but because for their own benefit. parents wanted bragging rights & for teachers, they got pay hikes based on how their students performed. its horrible, but true. that's why teachers force to get good grades. their pay depends on it. I hate this quantifying & reducing a kid to his marks. we are much more than how much marks or money we get.
So there are some incidents happened with me. Once when i was in 1st grade i was standing beside my english teacher as she was checking my notebook, suddenly another teachers passed outside the class, the english teacher said me to go and call her immediately, i was maybe in some random thoughts so i was just clicked to present and she was saying go fast, and i didn't knew what to do suddenly she sent other girls to call that teacher and she hit me 2-3 times so hard that i was shaken. I know you would think what's a very big deal in it but these are the moments which make a child's confidence low. She hit me like i did something very wrong. And once in 4th grade our evs teacher was checking notebooks and many students haven't done work and her anger was increasing as the students were coming one by one, when it was my turn my work wasn't incomplete entirely but there was something i didn't completed, and i wrote a spelling wrong she threw my notebook on the floor in front of whole class. And there was a girl too in our class who make her friends do for her what she wants, praises herself and was rude to other students. Only because she used to get good marks and was able to control class all teachers liked her unaware of her reality(she started making boyfriends from 4th or 5th grade and many more things)i didn't knew why noone ever dared to say anything about her to teachers. I never liked her. Once in 6th grade when it was my birthday as every other student i also distributed toffees to whole class, i had another box of chocolate which a family member gave me in school as they were leaving this city something like that, that mean girl pulled my hairs and it hurt me and asked to give her thse chocolates her friend said she have given you from where she will have more, she said no i want another one. Me and my friends were outside of classroom as it was games period but when i entered in class i saw my bag's zip was open and they were eating something, i didn't say anything not even when she pulled my hairs, i was introvert and shy and never used to stand up for me, but i am not like this anymore. There are a bunch of incidents which happened with me, i already used to talk less in childhood and these incidents used to make my confidence low. Not only this i have dealt with teachers unnecessary pressure too, i was always a average student but in 10th boards i scored very high and achieved 2nd rank, and opted for pcm, but in 11th grade i started facing downfall, my teacher point out me a lot and compared to the girls who are still doing good, i had horrible ptm experiences, faced teachers comments in front of class like you didn't studied enough?, i didn't expected this from you, you could do more, your train is not coming on track, and when once my phy teacher got to know i got 2nd rank he asked you are the one who got those marks and was repeating those class test marks again and again in front of class which i didn't even told my friends. It doesn't mean i scored well in in 10th grade i would continue to get good marks. There are many more things like this which if i write here, it will be too long. Thanks for reading if you have reached here.
my sister's class has a monster's bench for kids who are 'bad' basically, they submitted their notes late or zoned out during class despite never get in trouble, being the top of my class in marks even-while maintaining excellent extracurriculars, many teachers hated me prob cause they were projecting some personal or they didn't like i did that in an unconventional way.... my physics teacher hated physics i felt all the losers of society, who had nothing better to do became teachers in my school for a low salary but there were a few heroes too, amazing teachers changing lives for the better
yk today our principal announced the results for student council like he told us who all were selected, after results he said smtj like "yall are part of the student council now which means you're important unlike others, yall are exceptionals" and it annoyed me sm bcs how u say such a mean statement in front of the students who werent selected? just bcs they didnt made it doesnt mean you'll indirectly call them useless :/
I spent my entire middle school just wanting a friend ...well a good friend at that but the experience just in general made me a very quiet person out of loss of confidence
My classmates (couple) were literally threatened with a knife by another classmate due to a petty fight but the teachers made a bigger issue about them dating over someone with a knife, they're parents got called and they all got an equal punishment and the guy with the knife was let off easy 💀🙏
yk since I'm a muslim, some islamophobe cut my hand and it was so deep like some more and my vein would've cut off. i remember teachers tried to put the blame on me and closed the case within few hours. my parents raised voice but none took action and everyone ignored the incident. and funny thing is an year ago before the knife incident, 4 girls and me+1guy(my only friend) were playing truth and dare in free lesson and i got dare to say "muh me lele "name" " to a guy 1 girl had beef with. the teachers made the incident so big that i had to even say sorry in front of 6 teachers to close the issue since others were blank. i still have trauma from many incidents
Man I hate school and always will. The amount of damage and trauma those 15 years gave me though. I cannot wrap my head around an adult making a scene out of stupid silly things
My school literally gave me PTSD, and I still struggle in daily life because of it. I just hate education in general; it’s too much anxiety for me. I recently ended up dropping out of university because the pressure to do well gets overwhelming. In school, teachers used to tell me I could never be an artist because my handwriting was bad. Everyone would make fun of me and laugh whenever I talked about my dream. Now, I am an artist working in a good company with very good pay, but every time I make a mistake, I start having a panic attack, thinking they were right and that I’m useless at everything. To top it all off, I was chubby, quite and not the brightest in academics. It’s my biggest fear now. I feel a bit of comfort knowing I’m not alone in this because everyone I meet talks so highly about their school days, and whenever I think about mine, I’d rather be dead than go through that again. I’ve realized I’m not as dumb as I was made to feel. I just didn’t have the motivation to learn. I’m actually pretty smart and have a good memory. I never studied until right before my 12th-grade exams and still passed with 55%. It’s not the best, but I know that if I had good teachers and encouragement, I could have done so much better.
I was a topper with social anxiety and all my teachers bullied me , they never appreciated me like their "fAv kIdS" they dont even know how to treat kids with "social anxiety" its a serious mental health condition not a joke they insult us openly and traumatize us more for life
I can so much relate to youu!! Like some teachers ,batchmates,seniors etc target some particular students that they are only good and they should only respected and others shouldn't. Like life feels really tough when you're stuck in those situations when they don't value you that too at that stage of life when we are actually growing and learning thingss. But as soon as we hit 18 or like when we start to know things and become aware then our life becomes better but still a kind of anger for those past people doesn't fade away easily. It's stuck with us for the rest of our lives. And I felt really good after watching this video and seeing you're doing really well now. You've gained a lot of confidence! You're kinda spreading awareness. Keep it up.❤️
But most of the IIT’s are filled by bihari people because of their brains, UPSC as well because they are actually too smart. Who is this stupid person bullying ? .-.
Tw: self harm My 2nd class teacher used to make us slap ourselves when we did something bad. And i remember i made that a habit to slap myself whenever I made a mistake (i used to do that till my face was red) even when no one told me to and i think that is why I started harming myself seriously when i was in highschool and intermediate (because everything was shit). Another way school ruined my mental health and now I'm paying for medication lol.
i randomly discovered your channel today and started binge watching because i love your commentary and opinions so much :p (crazy how this is a video from 2 years back) my teacher told me and my best friend "these girls won't be participating in the events" when we went up to her to register our names and i'm not very social in the class and don't participate in group activities.i was confident i could do something and enjoy the experience.however, cuz we were "too enthusiastic" for her she won't allow that and i'm actually kinda mad at her for picking her favourite students (aka the prefects and toppers) and that hurt me a lot. i hate her so bad. she didn't just treat me and my best friend like this but the entire class except for her favourites, she pays attention to them, helps them understand better, doesn't make weird comments about their appearances and their insecurities passing them on as jokes. she's got targets too.i hate it when teachers just make their favourites or toppers do activities because according to them nobody else is fit for it. how do you expect anyone to participate willing at this rate and them just doing it to learn instead of doing just for the sake of it because the teacher said so? how is anybody gonna be ready to do this in the future if you don't give them the opportunities now? last year's teacher tried to be friendly with the class but ended up degrading them in front of everyone and making fun of their interests. when i was in nursery, i was a cry baby too (still am lowkey) but whenever i cried i used to get hit and this went on till class 3. we have a maths teacher who doesn't teach or explain she just walks into class picks an usual from her favourites and makes them do sums on the board so the rest can copy. you need to understand maths to do it. then they're gonna act surprised as to why 89% of the school is failing in maths. i got a new maths tutor this year and its actually so amazing for me because i understand stuff and have confidence and i got rid of the maths phobia (maths is now my favourite subject sorry if i'm too nerdy T-T) and like getting praised for doing things correctly and especially for trying got so much of my self esteem back. i barely used to pass maths when the first teacher i spoke about was the maths teacher. in class 6 i had a really nice class teacher who treated everyone fairly and made it interesting to study (she was like a mom to me) but she had to move and leave the school.
In India teaching is taken as a profession by people who had usually scored low marks,cannot get any prospective newage jobs, cannot relocate due to low confidence. These are the teachers in India. So how can they teach anything of significance. Marks are scored by Student's own hardwork.
I really hate school and definitely im probably gonna be that person to unfollow everyone once i get out of this school (i.e next year thankfully). One of the most important reasons have to be the fact that how badly teachers treat you like for example they barely pay attention to us quiet kids except their so called "their favourite students". I am really good as a student but never get any appreciation honestly. Except for that being the quiet kid i did get treated really badly, having no friends ,bullying,etc Teachers never really helped eventhough telling them continuously. Except for that i really love education itself and never really had any problems with studying itself really.
I don't miss being in school at ALL. The number of times I got molested by my male classmates... They'd throw paper balls or rockets at me, pour water on my light grey uniform top... Touch and grind on me sometimes... This happened to other girls also. We complained and teachers simply said "Boys will be boys", and simply gave them warning... What's worse is that some girls also enjoyed seeing us getting harassed, they'd bully us too. Now all the boys will get married and have daughters. Meanwhile, we can't even move on from the trauma. Thank God, I escaped the hellhole.
Omg why is this so relatable 😭😭 I was such a crybaby and no one took me seriously ever! Not the teachers not the students not my parents, mannn it sucked so much... That's why I started to bottle everything up and my parents were like tell us everything but like you're the reason I don't 😭 bffrrn
Omg I just remembered, whenever I lost my notebook and knew i would get slapped for it I'd just start crying as defence mechanism like unprompted, The teacher would be like girl copy? I was like fully teared up apologising like i killed her dog or smth.... School was something else
Ya misimi salute to you for being brave and truthful about your school experience.... My school experience was horrible.... My maths teacher bullied me alot.... It is still there in me like a trauma....
Many people in India have rationalized harming students as a form of authority and discipline, when in fact, it is physical child abuse which develops subconscious and conscious consequences. Luckily, I believe fewer schools in India have stopped hitting/touching students.
My hindi teacher ripped my hindi notebook just bc I scribbled something on the last page, that day I was already having a bad day and when this happened, I couldn't help but cry.. I mean it's my notebook, I bought it who gave you the right to rip it off?? She didn't even apologize which is not surprising but whenever I remember this incident I feel like slapping her so hard. But nowadays she's good to us, still what she did is terrible.
in 11th class one of our teachers retired , so there was a vacant position available. Different teachers were coming everyday and teaching during one of our periods while our class teacher judged if they were good enough for the job. this one super nice lady came and taught so well, she explained everything in a simple way and even taught in such a simple way that when she asked a student ( who wasn’t good at studies) a question he was able to answer it. I personally found her great and would have loved to be taught by her because her teaching wasn’t complex and being a person with many mental disorders, it was actually easy for me to focus. Once she was done our class teacher asked the class if we liked her. A lot of us said we understood her easily, including me. then our class teacher went back to her desk, and then proceeded to call the two topper girls of the class , who were amazing academically and scored literally full marks every time and were even vice captains of their respective houses. Overall, they were perfect students. when they came back from her desk I asked what she wanted and turns out the teacher asked them both personally what THEY thought of the teacher. I know it’s not a big thing but that just felt so disrespectful. teachers really don’t care for the kids who don’t do academically well. The teacher is not just gonna teach the two students , but apparently their opinion is important than the other 40 students in the class because they are academically well.
gosh, hi, i am that orange rubber band girl, it traumatised the hell out of me, I cried the entire day. i could never forget that traumatic incident, thanks for putting it up, even tho I'm like 2 years late to this video. fhss sucked ass, the people sucked so bad
you speak from my heart, I passed out my 12th like 4 months back and I never ever want to do that shit again. I had this weird tension with most of my teachers throughout my high school, unlike my middle school where I was a quiet kid who didn't say anything back whenever any teacher said anything bad to me, when I entered high school I decided I'm not going to let these teachers publically humiliate me for no reason and yeah even though I had this weird thing with teachers I am happy that I talked back at times. There are endless and endless traumatizing experiences from high school and I am thankful it's over. Did I type too much haha? All the best, loved your video!!!! 😚
My physics teacher made me feel like an alien i still feel isolated in the world bcz of the shame he filled me with its hard not feeling like i don't deserve to live here to be around people or deserve any good thing Honestly I hate him so muchhhh
I don't know about what happens to girls in other schools but from what I've experienced girls are given more advantage over boys in highschool...? Boys are spoken to roughly as if they're no humans. The teachers of highschool are very humiliating and after only some time I started realising that it's just not me that's feeling bullied because as a conservative guy - down to earth and considering myself at fault first - double checking myself if only I'm wrong - I felt that I was the only one who was at fault. I'm still through, gon' appear for 12th boards the coming year. Mainly just because of teachers over the years my self respect has deteriorated and I used to be treated like a zombie in class...? After a traumatic experience of 6 years, I'm trying to get out of it; it's not the teachers when you know it; inside-school bullying was less that teachers had to jump in. Truly relatable video; I don't know about "talking to boys" being "danger" - it might happen in schools because that's when ur growin up and teachers notice that too and just inapprop'ly shame you for it...? Totally normal; it's just old-fashioned the way older people still see talking to the opposite gender as a taboo. Idk; girls are just treated more nicely because they're girls and they're good looking...? Boys are often discriminated and esp. if you're not good looking enough. As someone who's been since the start of the school and his learning journey both, I can tell that in our school if a student stays active throughout the class, actively participates and asks questions but gets average or even below-average marks - they won't get scolded much even if they're assignments and notebooks aren't complete. Silent psychology tells they're seen to be "studying more" just because they're participating in the class. As someone who gets humiliated by teachers a lot, if I answer what the teacher asked correctly, I'm still not praised when teachers fall into the "how did he answer that" pit. Correct me if I'm wrong. They can't focus on every child, but I often go to school, but I still get the feedback of teachers that I lay at home all the time arest. Humiliation and bullying is regarded as "teacher's care" for the students - they say they don't want students to score less - when it's not for the student but only for the teacher's tutoring credits and nothing less. Deans and headmasters scold them whose frustration they take out on us. Teachers don't care a bit and unko ghanta farak nahi padta if you're failing or have a bad mental health especially then too when it's only because of them. If teachers were to care, they'd naturally react by encouraging the poor students more than the already accomplishing/flourishing students. That's just my take; other schools might find better teachers but it's almost the same thing everywhere else if anybody could relate. TLDR; school is trash; read to find out why PS: This will be updated if I care enough before me dropping out. Ain't visiting that place even after board results. Thanks if you read this far
School is quite traumatizing for me and Teachers here are not that supportive and if someone bullies you they'll be like ignore it and do nothing about it and personally I think that they failed at their job and are nothing less but a lazy person who claims that they did their job 😶
@@SurendraKumar-wp5jr Exactly. Teach the bullies a lesson if you're a teacher - but no - you yourself choose to bully and harass a single child. I feel targetted a lot and that's my take - I guess I'm not handsome or shit...? What a qualifying materialistic factor we got here, whoa. Teachers usually go around saying they won't handle complaints and it's not their duty to solve matters like...........??! If you're giving in in "inappropriate" acts of the teenage so much then why back off oh btw this is me only from an alt id
@@soniavii I am a girl and the worst way we were treated was taunts and remarks but boys, I have seen my classmate be pulled, thrashed, pulling of hair continuous 5-6 slaps on face told to stand out of class, threatened to suspend/rusticate from school and TOTAL ABUSE. Felt so bad about them, with "I shouldn't beat students" rule they would violate it taking harsh steps towards boys. I always wondered why don't the boys cry- like had it been with a girl we would cry, throw tantrums and somehow make the teacher apologise with this harsh treatment. But nah, hope u all did cry back in home, if not THATS A TRAUMA.
@@windssn3zidk if I have trauma or something But you asked questions why don't boys cry after getting beating Idk about all boys But when me and my boys were in class 2 We used to get our ears hair pulled By teacher and getting slap or taunts was normal for boys we used to cry like hell in those times We we didn't showed tear because if we show them tear they would beats Us even more So probably thats why idk about all boys we in my school we did cry but we didn't want to show infront of them or else we used to beat more or getting yelled by all teacher in lunch period
oh where do i even start? my math teachers tearing me down to a point where asking for doubts to help with my studies being treated as tabboo? or my english teacher purposely docking marks from my essays baceuse she didn't like me for being "too introverted"? or fourth grade when i was bullied for a year straight and essentially ignored, and the teachers never believed be since the girls in question were "good spirited and open."
Omg ya if you're introverted they treat you like you're the dumbest person alive, which has zero correlation, and i only found out about that from my tuition teacher... Like she was the sole reason for my academic comeback
I was scolded for wearing literally a religious ring and beaten in front of whole school as the buses were passing by watching me got beaten by this one teacher who before laying hands on me not only cussed the ring saying "Abe tere jesus ki to mai" but also threw it far far away into school playground. That day onwards not only I got traumatized but also lost my will to attend school and basically went from being an average student to a failure, but now in my 20s I realized how serious of an issue it was, so my kids' teachers have to have a ppt with proper logical reasons involved if they ever lay a hand on them or I'm shutting the whole sh*thole up. Thanks this was a good platform to blow off my heat💀❤️much love.
I am in college now but back when I was in 10th, our physics teacher (female) was taking an oral test of some sort and she was calling out girls row wise and asking them questions. She was doing like a marathon or smth because as fas as I remember she asked like 20 or 25 questions in a go. The one who stopped or stuttered in the middle were disqualified according to her and what she did was hold the girls hair from the pony and just pull it so harshly in front of the whole class. When it got to me, I stopped in the middle due to social anxiety or just nervousness and I kid you not she held my hair with such force I almost screamed in front of the whole class. After that she made us sit on our knees while facing the wall. Now that I remember it I wish I was a little bold back then to point it out to the teacher that it was wrong oh her side, yk, even if i did not study enough, it was the time of just after corona so what do you expect from students. Not everybody had crisp and precise hold on the concepts and some students usually stutter like me. That day broke me so much that I still struggle with social anxiety. Being humiliated in front to a class of 50 students was really horrible. Sorry to say but I wish karma repays her because no matter what the reason, a teacher should never behave like this. Till today she stands on top of my most hated people's list.
When i was in 1st std one of the sirs used to pull pants and skirts as punishments thankfully i never experienced it but it was the very fking wrong thing to do to anyone
I was bullied by teachers whole year, most of the days, it was a boys only school, school was 50% trauma. They used to do immense partiality towards the students who used to get privatev coaching from them. I was badly beaten by a teacher because I left his coaching. I couldn’t share those incidents with my parents.
I'm in 10th grade rn and I can't relate to people that misses school 🤷♀️ like I can't wait to get out and never ever visit... just bad memories and shitty teachers filled up my entire 14 years going to school
@nikaX2000 It's way better than what I experienced in school. I made good friends and the teachers are also nice. I made an academic comback too and It's all because of the environment, it really matters. The people that I surrounded myself with had an impact in ways that I can't explain. So if anyone feels trapped right now or is going through a lot in school just remember that the grass is 100% greener on the other side :)
when you said you were one of those kids whose parents told them to always respect elders i felt that cause whenever i told my parents about a older person who commented on my weight or just made me feel bad in general they would always say "they are only joking, don’t take everything seriously, if they say something take it." so i grew up letting people walk all over me and just recently realised i needed to change.
i was also bullied but puberty hit me up and it was good later on i still had to struggle with my personality cuz i never experienced this attention and respect like for no reason they were nice to me ( especially girls ) i was so annoying but that got healed with time eventually i grew our of it and yeah it's good after 8th i can feel the pain of bullied kids i can feel what they want i never ever bullied anyone instead helped them i became a new man just don't giva shi-- no one cares about you you have to keep this universal law conserved so don't care about others
I do relate to this alot, Flashback to that day when I was in 10th grade, I was in school and peacefully minding my business in class without doing anything that would trigger the teacher then this teacher straight up came to me and slapped me on my face in front of whole class, for no reason and then she went on with her day. I know she might not even remember because why would she, now I’m 22 and finished my bachelors too but still I think about that incident in 10th grade, it makes me cry untill this day, like why the fuck she did that.
I never wanna go to my school days again I am just so grateful you shared your scenario I always thought that there must be so wrong with me but seeing people experienced same kinda make me feel bit peace with myself
I can relate SO hard to these things which you talked about, I've had really bad experiences like these too in school. How messed up and shitty can teachers be to treat helpless kids like shit for little to no reason is beyond me
I have been bullied a lot. When i complained it to teachers, they just tried to shut my mouth because it will mame the college campus sound bad and admissions of stnds will be affected.
Lol I recently got kicked out of my College hostel cause apparently I am being medicated for my depression. The warden got to know after I was taken to the hospital after a side effect of the medication. They don't wanna take responsibility and think I ODed, the warden is not willing to house me Better tho, cause flats are WAYYY better than the hostel.
In 9th grade a substitute teacher just happening to roam around the classroom without any specific goal saw me drawing female body anatomy sketches next to the male ones. She called me to her table in front of the whole class, tore the pages down from my entire sketchbook, she wrote my name on them, and told me it was "vulgar" and that i shouldnt be doing that at "my age" while giving me a cold shoulder. My self esteem was beyond repair to the point where i thought drawing women's bodies was something vulgar. Yeah she didnt think anything was wrong with the male anatomy sketches. To this day i fear even my parents finding out i study the body anatomy art, thinking they'd react in the same way that karen did. There's something that keeps me from merrily flaunting my art in front of people unlike before the incident happened.
I passed from an all-boys and teachers used to tell us that we are getting beaten because we are boys, and girls don't get beaten but they do get like standing, and sit-up kind of punishment. There were some teachers who beat us because they were narcissistic, some which beat us jokingly, some beat us because they were fools, and some beat us to make us tougher and focused on what has to be done. Some teachers were chill, and intellectual, and I think that those kinds of teachers had the best impact on me personally. Second would be those who beat me to toughen me up. About the rest of them, I absolutely hated them. And I used to avoid any possible interactions with teachers as much as I could even though I was good with academics because many times teachers beat me for no reason, and just like you I never used to say anything to them. But the teachers which used to listen, and clear doubts, and actually teach with passion, and not just joking with some passion really touched the heart.
In school, I faced constant criticism, which destroyed my confidence. My physics teacher said to me one time, 'You're worthless and will never do anything with your life,' because I didn't know the answer to his question. He kept pointing out to me, insulting me, and acting as if I don't exist, making me terrified even to speak. I suffer from extreme social anxiety and stage fright now-I stutter, my words jumble, and find myself unable to speak even in front of my friends properly. I overthink everything I say; there is always that fear of being judged. I was an average student before, but those experiences drained my motivation and left me feeling completely worthless. In 9th grade, our music teacher used to tell a girl in my class that she could never sing and shouldn’t even try when she told him that she wanted to be a singer. It was heartbreaking to see because, at that age, we’re supposed to learn and explore, not be perfect. Comments like that can crush someone’s confidence, especially when they’re just trying to find what they love. The teachers at my school except few were biased n didn't even tried to hide it, would always demotivate weaker students as if we are that one odd black spot in a white shirt that shouldn't exist and sore to the eyes. School was so traumatic n depressive for me and I hate it so much.
I've got all the problems you've listed. Social anxiety and all. I've always been praised, ignored when I did something wrong and respected by every single teacher that has taught me. There might be other factors that made you like this. For me, I had strict parents, didn't travel for tuition, didn't play outdoors, never went out to buy groceries, and didn't indulge in with my friends because all of them were low life pretentious trashers
Long rant, just sharing my experience and hatred for my school 😁 Im northeast Indian and i faced similar experiences, my teachers aren't as bad as yours but they do hit u at times like when you fail a test or for some really dumb reason like forgetting to bring a pencil. It's honestly so normalised here and when I got older like reaching high school, the scoldings got way more serious and hurtful bc of some teachers 😰 The students themselves are also reeally toxic as well, there is so much racism, sexism, homophobia and religion hating. Light skin is the ideal in Indian culture and you could really see it in schools, light skin was considered beautiful but dark skin was ugly, people would get bullied for it and also soo many male teachers indirectly told us about how males are superior which made my classmate boys become so egoistic, they would always demean us and say males are better but we could all see that they were insecure and victims of toxic masculinity so they had to project it onto us. When we were really young, we all girls and boys used to sit together and be friends but then in like 3-4 grade suddenly we were not allowed to sit together and if we talked to each other they would shame us and its so dumb, it's like they think the moment we make eye contect we're gonna start making out in front of the whole class 🤦♀️ and this kind of mindset not only is the dumbest thing ever but really bad for our development, it really made us distant which caused the sexism. My classmates are also very homophobic, they have this very strong unreasonable hatred towards homosexuals, they are disgusted by them say stuff like all gays will burn in hell (most of us are Christians), they don't realise it but it is so hypocritical, no good christian would ever act that way towards them, but they actually do know it's not Godly but deliberately choose to ignore it 😐 shows me alot about their relationship with God. And ofc girls are slut shamed alot and if anyone is in a relationship, many people immediately assume that they do "indecent" things and are looked down upon (very Indian mindset) which is also the dumbest thing i have ever heard I could go on forever but overall, I hate my school soooo much, it really made me realise how important a good school environment is for a child
Meh! I was scared of school when I was 4 and 5 because my teachers were cruel. When I was in LKG, the teacher said that she would glue our lips together if we talked and she glued my friend's lips for 4 hours because he said something. I also remember a sir taking him and beating him with a stick because the teacher accused that he made a loud noise when it was actually my seat mate letting out a hiccup. I was horrified hearing his screams as the sir beat him with that stick and kept asking "Why did you do that?" and he replied "I didn't do anything" repeatedly and it went on for like 5 minutes. I looked at hiccup boy and he was about to cry, I felt so bad for the both of them. Next year, when I was 5 - I switched states and the teacher there was also pretty strict...I really hated her because she used to pinch us till we bled for the silliest reasons. One day, I accidentally tore my paper which was barely noticeable and I knew what would happen. She didn't see the paper but she asked me why I looked worried and being the honest idiot I was, i told her and she brought me to the front of the class, told everyone that I tore the paper a little, apologised to me saying that "Sorry but books are equal to God and you tore it so you have to be punished" and pinched me with her long nails till I got a wound, worst part is - i started crying in front of everyone because I was so overwhelmed by fear and everyone staring at me with horror but I'm glad the rest of the class empathized with me. One day she said "The next person who asks to go to the bathroom will be punished" I held my piss for 3 hours but then I let it go.... that was embarassing as hell! She even hanged my wet underpants on the window so that everyone could see it. Once, a boy let out a fart and the teacher asked who it was. Of course, he didn't admit it and he ended up admitting that he wanted to take a dump after a few hours. Unfortunately for him, the toilet had some issues that day and the teacher did not allow him to take a crap. For some reason, the teacher made him sit butt naked in front of the class. I think it was because he stained his uniform as I saw him wearing different clothes during dispersal but she still did not have to strip him naked in FRONT OF THE CLASS just because we were 5. I still remember him doing the thousand yard stare at me while covering his ding dong, sitting against a wall. Since first standard, I've led a peaceful life at school and I'm grateful.
this is so true. Till my last grade, I used to score good marks and teachers also appreciated me a lot. But this year my academic flow was broken due to some issues and there's this teacher she made me stand in front of the class and said very awful things like focus on yourself don't get involved in any other stuff keep all those attractions outside and stuff involving my "harkatein" tho her intentions were good but it was really embarrassing and sad. And then, I had to go on a leave for like 2 weeks due to some emergency but when I came back all the teachers started scolding me and none of them asked if everything was fine and i literally had to mentally prepare myself to go to school. Only when I did good in my studies the teachers were nice to me but then everything changed and they are so discouraging and demotivating now. I really can't stand it.
My teacher quite literally has a social heirarchy! The good students, avg students and bad students. All on basis of grades. How discouraging this is to the 'bad' students who must be trying really hard. The teachers keep targetting my boyfriend bcs he's not 'focusing' and cus he's a 'bad' student even tho he's avg, but i think he has ADHD and he definitely has anxiety issues. The trauma my school has given to me too is immeasurable and beyond repair. Wont delve much into that except how a confident girl was turned into a ball of anxiety. Schools are really toxic and i just want to get out.
This year my school's getting over and i just randomly got this video on my fyp .. GURL, I HAVE NEVER RELATED WITH ANYONE SO MUCH BETTER like this is the most relatable video i have found on yhe internet.. sigh... being a dark skinned girl and average at studies .. i have been bullied a lot from teaxahers and students .... alaways been an outcast all my life and i was/still am so shy back then, my self esteem went down the ocean. I got anthrophobia, im not being extreme.
another thing i hated in my school was the school council,they keep on choosing the same students despite the applications being open and when it comes to competitions whether interschool or outerschool,they always choose council members over those who have talent,like when i was 5th,i had given auditions for a dance program and i have danced on stage multiple times but no a council member was chosen over me
bro im in a cbse school and like a sir of ours who teaches hindi shouted so loudly at a kid cause he laughed this is like durin the time where the teacher was explaining that no1 did incomplete work lol. and once during exams the most annoying 10th grade supervisor came and shouted at a kid because he didnt organize his writting papers neatly on the damn table bro like this shi crazy 😭 and i lost a lotta marks for english coz i prob wrote 1 or 2 words over the limit in a writing ques like eg they say tht u need to write 120 words in a ques but then if i wrote 125 or 130 words my marks are cut 💀
back in school i was really a quiet kid who never participated in class or anything like that but always did well on exams so the teachers not really knew about me. I remember once i did really great on my maths exam as compared to the other class toppers. So he accused me for cheating on my maths exam infront of like 30+ students.
i just wanna get done w school as soon as possible omg. i remember, last year when i was in ninth grade, i got into an accident bc of which i had to skip school for almost a month. the accident happened just a few meters away from the school premises so a lot of teachers witnessed it, including my physics teacher. after i recovered and started school again, the physics teacher made fun of my accident as a way of shutting me up. the whole class was talking. but i was specifically targetted by him, because *I* was disturbing the class. thinking about this still makes me sad. teachers can def be bullies.
I just passed out my high school and I used to go school once or twice on a week because I am person who gets sick every month but when I went to school after some days the so called female teachers in my high school OH MY GOD attacks me like I am a big piece of sugar in front of those fkng ants I feel so bad I can't even have audacity to tell them that I am not well or anything but I got bullied since I was like 6 or 7 years old whenever I'll start my youtube I am definately gonna make a video on this topic I wanna say I admire you sooooo soooo much like If I ever get a chance to meet you I'll be the happiest person on earth that day. virtual huggies to you💌
0:45 This often happened with me when I when in kindergarten and my father complained to the school management but no action was taken.😢 Hence, He made me switch schools. I am 16 years old now, in 12th grade and still remember the long series of incidents and the only nice thing attached to it was my father picking me up from school early than the school would be over and pampering me. We both would get scolded by my mother for that 😅😂
@@dummywave-xe5lv Oh ! I see. Actually, maine nursery nhi ki and I started schooling at the age of 3 with LKG (lower kinder garden) All the Best for your Boards and other competitive exam if you are giving any !!
teacher are afterall human,those regular being that u usually saw around ur society/environment so basically just don't expect them to act as some superficial being..they can be a bully
I never specifically had an incident which would make me hate school but in general it was just that I never felt that i even belonged there. I was studying in Co Ed but my mom wanted to send me to some other school, girl's school if better. I did get into an all girls school but even after 7 years of studying there, I never really felt like I am supposed to be there in the first place. I thought that its just something I'm feeling because i am new and would eventually feel used to after a while but no. I was always annoyed and that school always felt out of place. Although I won't blame my school for that but i would definately like to mention that one maths teacher who just considered me as a dumb student the entire year she taught us even tho I was pretty good in every subject but maths because it was genuinely hard for me even though I tried my best at scoring good marks in it. She segregated the rows according to the marks and made all the students who were bad at maths sit in a particular row which was called the row for the 'duffer' students. I understand that she did it so that she would know which specific students need special attention at this subject but she never thought what us as 'duffer' students would feel. It was genuinely humiliating even though she did it with right intentions because we got undermined by the whole class and our bench partners who were the 'smart' ones assigned by her so that we would learn from them treated us like we are stupid and far below their level. I remember my bench partner snatching my answer sheet when I scored more than her in my English exam so that she would find just something to get my marks deducted and to satisfy her ego even though she knew that I'm better than her in English so no matter how much she tried to find a flaw in the correction, she would find nothing because how perfect my answers were. But yeah I would say that only if I wouldn't have been classified as the 'duffer' kid by my maths teacher that day, all of these prejudice and feeling of inferiority complex would have not existed.
In my coaching, all the teachers are iitians and once our maths teacher asked ki how many people in the class wants to be a teacher. Nobody raised their hands . Then he said maximum teachers in indian schools are those who couldn't do anything in there lifes and just below avg students taking out all the anger of their lifes on students I failed 11th and now im repeating because i didnt get the additional project marks in every subject that were supposed to be given to everyone because the teachers didnt like me they always targeted me because i didnt understand their teachings specially physics because the chapters that were supposed to be taught thoroughly were completed in just one class. All the teachers used to bitch about me in the staff room target me for my hair even tho they were well groomed .i heard from my friend that passed and now is in 12th that the physics teacher was saying in class "inn baccho ko maine jaan buch ke fail kia tha" .Most of the students that passed 80% of them cheated and 20% actually studied .ik this because the kids those who are in 12th now are failing all their subjects lol So now im in a dummy school thats connected to my coaching and my lifes never been better . I thought physics and maths is not for me but when i learned those concepts from iitians i got all of it in one go. These teachers are like a blessing to me . When we dont understand something they tell us to take a break then we can start from the beginning . They even tell us ki tumhe agr nhi hai inn sab me interest toh mujhe bolo mai parents se baat krunga . They have even kept a special box thats made for the student to put their feelings on a paper and put it in a box and talk to them anytime if someones feeling depressed They have such professionalism because they have gone through the same shit and dont want there students to face the same . I hope anyone whose going through a rough school life will get through this because obviously theres much more planned for u in the future Well many more bad things happened so fuck the past Im very grateful for my life now
It's really true that school and specially the teachers play a big role in shaping your self esteem. And for people like me who are generally very quite and weren't good at studies, they will literally eat you up. I don't know what trauma do THESE teachers bring up from their home to project it on a child like that. A child who basically has no sense of self will definitely be easily crushed by teachers like these. They will either say it on your face or make an environment like that for you and everyone just believes you are the dumb kid. Describing the pain of years in words is impossible. I was worse because I was the mute child, I couldn't speak at all and the teachers would just get even harsh instead of trying to scare the child less. To this day, I'm still afraid of speaking in front of 40 people, afraid that everyone judge me just like they did when I was a child. School was sweet too but more bitter.
bro im in 10th rn and my cousin just got her results, she got 98%. my mom has been just scolding/yelling at me everyday for not studying as much as my cousin, and if I won't score 98% or above shes gonna send me to a boarding school :/
Bruh 🫂🫂🫂 , my mom telling me that my dad's colleague girl got 92% in 12th and that I'm in 12th so I should try to get better than her otherwise they'll prolly takeaway daily needs :/
Bro same she kept comparing me to my cousin while the students who got less percentage then me are getting treats and love meanwhile my mother treating like I failed my boards tell me 87% is not that bad ?
I remember getting bullied by my own friend circle multiple times and the Teachers only cared about students who visited their Tuition centers and I was frequently targeted by Teachers for taking tuition classes from some other teachers(which was my problem by the way and they had nothing to do with it). My entire School life(specially from 8th standard to 10th standard) was filled with Mental torcher and sometimes I used to get into Physical fights with other boys who had this delusion or mindset that the world revolves around them and they could bully anyone they wanted. Thankfully, I left school after 10th standard and went to Kota to prepare for JEE exams which was a big relief for me. I blocked everyone I met at school(every student I knew and every teacher). I gave my 10th boards in 2018 and Sometimes I miss my school days but yeah! a part of me feels relieved😇. I never wanna go back to that hellish place ever again.
"IF YOUR TEACHER DIDNT GAVE YOU RESPECT,THEN YOUR CLASSMATES WILL ALSO NOT RESPECT YOU"Trueeeeeeeeeee.
yea even i used to think that, whenever a teacher makes a bad image of a person, just by making him/her stand up in front of the whole class, me and rest of the class would also feel that the person is not good, and we should we should never take him seriously.
That's some real truest ever thing!
‘even talking to boys can land you in trouble’ point is SO REAL.
Im in grade 10 (wish me luck yall)and this is from two months back. A male friend and I would go to the ground during recess and some teacher(s) noticed and they spread the word around in the staff room.
Initially, my english teacher asked me ‘if i was distracted’, even after telling her a simple no many times she wouldntlet it go and i rold my class teacher who also (later in the story) says the same.
after a few days, my class teacher calls me after class to ‘talk’ and shes like “your name is being highlighted in all ‘that’ stuff and im just saying that you should mend your ways” and I told her very firmly that you needn’t overthink things and im doing just fine
after that, that male friend sits behind me casually and my social science teacher notices and taunts me on that, saying “your class teacher told me that she made yall sit far from each other so what is he doing behind you?” (is this real? 1.) like we’re 10th graders and still have a seating arrangement, 2.) the teacher is absent so let us sit wherever we want to? 3.) hes not even sitting WITH ME? hes literally behind me so does it even matter? and l4.)WHY WOULDNT YOU ASK HIM INSTEAD?
she was so rude and pathetic about it because why would you want to humiliate a girl in front of a class of 40 people? genuinely didntsee that coming from her because I really liked her but Alas!
this is so petty honestly and i still cant recover from their wrong-doings.
it traumatized us all.
as a guy you cannot imagine the disgust of comments we get having a new female friend.
rape jokes involving my sister among elder dudes wasn't uncommon too after all.
Bruh thats actually so annoying and genuinely sucks
I had my bully classmates who I once called my friends give small dose about "how to behave with boys" 💀 Teachers never said a thing to me as such but these people who u have to share 6hrs of your day and of the same standard as me to remind what to do and what not. My insecurity peaked everytime I would go to school cus of this beings.
Just read this novel , I dont wanna oppose or hate but I can bet that the male friend you mentioned does not think of you as a friend. I somewhere read a quote that a man and a woman can never be just friends and I can assure that this is true for a guy's case (Idk about XX chromosomes thought patterns). Maybe the teachers wanna stop him to get distracted rather than you? Afterall , the school aint there for yall to find soulmates
@@Narcissistic.nAz_iyour name explains it all lol
"Teacher's can be bullies too" Yes gurl say it loud
My first grade teacher bullied me for no reason at all, mentally and physically she used to punish me for not bringing my many books on my tiny little back
I've never related more :)
My second grade teacher was so toxic and hateful of me she use to physical and mental punish me so much so that it traumatizing to even think about it, that experience has Scared me for the entirety of my life
My second grade teacher had cornered me a handful of times. I would totally dislike her and I had said it out loud to my friends. During that time, somewhere at the back of mind I felt that me disliking a teacher is as equivalent as to me being absolutely a disgraceful person. But i still kinda don't like that teacher and hate those memories. Plus, don't even get me start on how teachers use unruly persuasion to apply for a competitive exam conducted by the school, just because you are a "bright student". I mean shut the F up, you guys!!!!!
So true!!!
Imagine sending your beloved child just for them to get beaten by a random-ass 45 year old guy😂
LITERLLYYY SOOO TRUE.
Bt violance is actually best option to study 😂. It's just current generation is weak. And u have to accept it
Wdym by beloved !!!!!???? Whyyy you think every child is being loved by their own parent???? Theyyy don'ttt!!
I still have scar on nose that I got from my teacher who beaten me for shredding pencil dust on floor She didn’t stop even when her stick broke. The scar on my nose is still crystal clear and looks really ugly and this happened when I was in first grade 😃
@@Flake52 GOD! its so scary and traumatizing. IS she is even a human how can someone do this with a such a small child ;disgusting !!😐😑
I feel jealous of people who had a big friend group and generally a good time at school. I will never choose to relive that time. It was the most anxiety inducing and horrible experience for me.
i used to feel the same until i realised ALL big friend groups with no exceptions has sp much drama & politics beyond you can imagine regardless of how perfect they look from outside
Truly
god SAME. I wish so bad college won't be the same.
LITERLLY USSSS!no friends,bad teachers,horrible education system,sooo truamatizing fr.
I was one of them, trust me we all are depressed now!! The silent ones at those times are finally coming out of that zone now!! but we can't
I’m the “I unfollowed everyone after leaving school” person 😭
Same... As if I'd wanna keep in touch with those unfunny close-minded creatures😂😂
same is my plan. real homies remain real but all those classmates we don't even talk to but still follow through mutuals and shit are just for name. they have their own lives and aint gon help when in need, they prolly dont even know u exist lol
😂I don't even remember names to even follow them
Cant unfollow if you didn't follow them in the first place 😂😂
I deleted my account after leaving inter
I don't understand why so many teachers forget to act professional.
99% are horrible and unprofessional.
Because kids are extremely vulnerable and most likely they won't fight back so these adults use it to their advantage and project all of their trauma anger and jealousy on the students It's all about power dynamics and our culture of letting everything slide the same teacher who beats tf out of students in india will lick the azz of incharge and principal because of their position not only school this type of behaviour exist even in government services where the one with power bullies the person with lower position than them and the one with lower position bullies who's even lower in position
99 percent? Oh shut up dude. You don't even know shit
@@im3ism uhm 80-90 % actually
"Teachers can be bullies too". I had this one teacher who targeted me always and she has humiliated in front of the whole class multiple times. She'd always try to find fault in me. I am actually a very quiet student and I stay quiet most of the time but to this teacher, i happened to be the noisiest. It's been a long time since i graduated high school but i still can't forgive that teacher for everything she's done to me
Same
USSS.
i was also a quiet kid and i had this teacher who basically called me dumb in front of the whole class and compared me with another student, questioned me about my private life in front of the WHOLE class and was just generally rude to me. she even twisted the words that i said to her in a total another way and claimed that I disrespected her. god the trauma 💀 she's my most hated teacher in my school life
i was the topper of my class and yet i was treated so badly.... i was bullied and i was literally compared with another girl whose father was at higher rank.... i always tried my literal best and worked my ass off only to hear taunts and mockery from children and class teacher cuz i was bad at sports and my bad posture.... i had a few good friends.... i just miss my time with them.... also i had an academic downfall in 11th 12th because of my shitty teachers and peer pressure to fit it.... i wish i had studied more instead of trying to gain popularity i would have cracked neet
Girl same!!
Same ಠ_ಠ
usss @priiiyayadav @drkartikk
may i ask, how is life now, i'm petrified about life if i'm not able to clear neet
@@jasminekaur8809 i took a drop this year and am studying my a** off after cutting off from friends... wouldn't advice that if you are not like extremely mad in love with the idea of being a doctor..... i woud advice focussing on getting good score in CUET and you can give other entrance exams suitable for science stream.... it's not that if you fail NEET you are doomed but if you don't have a structured college list and backup plans it might be tough for you to get paid well early in any career
Once my hindi teacher slapped me in front of the whole class because apparently i failed in my hindi exam. On the result day i went with my mom obviously my mom was mad she still asked me to check my numbers and answers so i did and guess what in my hindi papers 15 marks were missing. My essay marks were not added 🙂 we immediately went back to school and talked about it to my class teacher. She was shocked too she said she'll talk to the hindi teacher and said "thank god you didn't went to the principal or else it would have been a really big problem for your hindi teacher" Now i wish i went straight to the principal's office.
The same teacher also slapped and pulled my friend's hair who had short bob kind of hair and she didn't tie her hair and was wearing earrings we were like 10 and 11 🙂
Our class teacher didn't had any problem with her hair and we also greeted our principal in the morning he didn't had any prblm but she had. Ok i understand hairstyle is also part of our uniform but why the f did she pulled her hair so roughly and slapped her?? That's a child??
@@bubbleofdreams1166 bro tf man, some people shouldnt be allowed anywhere near kids
now that I've completed my schooling this year, I can remember atleast 3 incidents of the teachers being horrible. back when I was in 3rd grade, I was a slightly below average student (like i wasn't bad i just didn't care about studying, i only studied during exams) so there was this infamous maths teacher who was assigned to my class, oh my god she was such a tyrant. like we had every student in the class to bring a glitter pen to make somthing specifically in her notes(we wrote with pencils back then), and god forbid someone forgot or just didn't have the pen on them, she would verbally berate them for minutes, saying stuff like "are your parents so poor they can't afford a glitter pen" "do you live in a basti" and so much shit about being poor and the thing is there were bpl students in our school and now that I look back, this girl who was one, she got berated so often. and apart from that the students who didn't perform well in weekly tests by some imaginary margin she had, she'd make them sit in the front, 4-5 people squeezed in seats for two students, 2 poorest ones would stand at her desk and study the entire class, and I remember being poor in maths and I remember when I had to stand at her desk once, she would berate you so much, i remember sitting in those front desks for quite some time too, like I can't say for sure but I feel like that was the time when fear of maths was instilled in my mind. she taught us 4th grade too (thank god i did get better)
then there was my grade 7 class teacher, and by my own admission, I was one of the two most popular/influential girls in the class, my best friend at the time and me, and a bunch of guys we were part of this big big friend group, and every monitor of some kind was from our group. I loved that year, I tied rakhis to all the guys too, never dated any, we had similar humor and we all sat in the same row so it was always so fun, thing is my bsf was dating one the guys, I sat with him the entire 7th grade and even 6th grade i think (back when roll no. se baith te the), anyways, so many girls in the class liked him and their were these 2 who my bsf never saw eye to eye with because she would constantly try to flirt with this buffoon even though she knew they were dating, , so long story short this girl, for some reason or the other, irked by something decided she'll take 3 of her friends and make up some bs story about all the class being controlled by us (me and my bsf for some reason) because our group monopolised the monitors. like everyone in the class was chill except these 3 people, and they made their parents bring up this fake issue to the ct in parent teacher meeting and boy oh boy then it started, the ct would absolutely grill me and my friend for no reason, like she would call us to her desk and berate us in front of the whole class for even flipping a page so much as the wrong way, she was nuts, she would start glaring at you and make faces in the middle of the class and had an in general bias towards guys. thank god I was great at academics that year, all my other teachers loved me.
also this one quite recent, in 11th grade my biology teacher alright. she drove me to tears everyday, so thing is she had such a huge glaring vendetta against me, like nobody comes to school regularly in class 11th, you have coachings, tests, all that jazz, you need to study, completely common stuff, everybody in every class did it, everyone in my class did it, but whenever I would god forbid take a leave, the next day, she would make me stand up and rip me a new one, ask me why i was absent, even when i told her the reason (I was so stressed in grade 11, i was sick every month atleast twice, thrice even, down with 103 fever everyday, my physical health was so unbelievably bad, even my periods came like every 2/3 months when they used to be regular just before 11th), like she'd ask me the reason, and if i opened my mouth to tell her, she would scream at me to shut up, she would ask me hard questions about what she taught the previous day(which she didn't she'd just play a ppt, even people who came to class couldn't answer the questions she's ask) and she would constantly berate me, and mind you I'd never been dislikeable to a teacher all my life even for no reason, I used to be an appointee, listened in class, debated well, was some or other monitor every year, it was so jarring having this teacher who was also the vice principle of the school completely hate me for no reason. then i got it one day, so at my coaching i was the top scorer in biology and she had an incredible vendetta against the coaching for no apparent reason (probably because she taught us nothing so people in the class would ofc focus on their coaching). and on 1st day of 11th grade, she asked everybody who went to that coaching to stand up and innocent and unknowing all my peers did (I was absent that day, conjuctivitis) and as time passed, I think she probably asked someone who tops this coaching's test from our class and some dumbfuck probably told her it was me) and fuck my life from then on, she was so relentless, I remember november of that year, i was so so sick, a bajillion health problems and it was so hard to show upto school and i showed up atleast 3 days a week, she would take entire classes up shredding me, that whole month I'd come home and sob everyday because I was so tired, it was so obvious that my classmates who weren't even my friends would try to comfort me after biology periods, anycase I complained to my parents but really they couldn't even do anything, she was vice principle and if i complained, she'd only bully me harder. I've never felt that helpless in my entire life, she made my life a living hell, entire 11th , even half of 12th, then just a month before boards she did a complete 180 cooing me, giving me resources, and in general being very nice to me (i learned this was because she thought i was had the potential to bring a complete 100 in bio, that would add to her laurel, because she was afterall our teacher), and I ended up scoring 97, and then after the result, when we went to meet the teachers, and collect documents etc, she was back to being horrible to me. she was truly something else
(I'm sorry to anyone who made it to the end or even bothered to read this, its too long ik TT)
Bro the tyrant math teacher trauma is probably the reason I never liked maths, it was the teacher not the subject. She used to call us to boards and pull our hair and slap us too hard for a 3th grader and I used to cry. I still remember 💀.
I read it, and I can see how you must have felt, something about being academically up there and still being targetted by teachers hurts differently, i remember I had this teacher who in front of the whole class in class 8th called me fat because I'd got in an accident she said , "uska accident ho gaya? Bolo weight Kam kare moti hoti ja rhi hai tabhi accident ho raha hai" and that was the moment my really close friends picked up on it and bodyshamed me up untile 12th,,,, and just like you i remember everyone was taking day off school in 12 to finish up on work etc but whenever I took a break my class teacher would literally send me to the PRINCIPAL'S office and have me write an apology letter wtf was that ???, she also said I was on her hit list apparently?? I was also the shy quiet girl who was very hardworking ,,, I don't know why teachers just hate some students
@@Cyberswirls I genuinely don't get why pre-primary and primary wing teachers are so cruel and violent?? like is hitting small kids (who don't even understand the world) helping with your frustation ma'am?
@@wings2769 I get you, I'm so sorry that happened to you genuinely, and those people that teased you don't deserve to be called your friends, it hurts even more when people who you'd expect were on your side , do stuff like that. you didn't deserve that shit. as for your 8th grade teacher, I don't get it, why such children-hating people choose to be teachers. fuck her and your imbecile petty ct
You're so brave that u went through all of this. I read the whole thing
I was so bullied because i was short at height and i was also not good at study's but i was good at singing and other instruments and teachers would literally hit me because i was going to extra class for singing and one of the teacher also said that " tum bde hoke kuch nahi krr pao ge or singing se tumara ghar nahi cle ga faltu kam he " ☹️☹️☹️
Wtf is wrong with these teachers bruh..I hate em soo muchh.
so are you earning now? (this is no sarcasm. i am genuinely asking)
Bro my friend who's a phenomenal singer, her parents are in musical field. Our teacher said " Ki pura samye tum stage pe gaati rho, pardho mat kuch" she sang one time only that year. And it was for teacher's day practice
@@zylieacaria4601
So did she make a career in singing?
@Editsagastudios not yet, she's in college tho cuz she's kinda studious even if she sings well
School was genuinely horrible for me 😭😭, I was sexually harassed as a girl , I got bullied by boys in my class , they used to beat me up , teachers completely brushed off every single of my cry for help . It took me years to get over the trauma and honestly still not over some of the things . I became really suicidal developed unhealthy coping mechanisms, self harm etc . One of my teacher also used to target me so much she put the blame on me that it was my fault that I was getting bullied , harassed and stuff . I never ever wanna go back to those days . I just passed 10th grade and I’m glad school is finally over . I feel really bad for kids who have also gone through this stuff it’s really fucked up man . I’m not even gonna start about the Indian education system where our worth is attached to a very linear form of education.
i hope you heal from these things, you have come v far. proud of u
Same happened to me, Indian teachers does little to help you
@@Flake52can u explain me how can some boys bully her and she not tell her parents ?
@@goodmood2000 I'm a guy so I don't know why she didn't but my guess is that she was scared because of blackmailing or think of it as cowardly or she did and her parents wouldn't do anything about it. If I was in her shoes, I would've done the same at that age.
School was the worst time of my life, it just took away, what could have been a good childhood. it not only ruined my self-esteem, also my relationship with my parents. i finally was able to fix it all at the age of 25 that too after so much therapy.
im sorry... glad u were able to fix it.
The stress India's education system puts on students has no benefit either. I'm an NRI living in Australia, and over here the two most common nationalities for internation students in universities is Indian and Chinese. Both countries have extremely difficult, ruthless education systems that put an insane amount of stress on students, and the thing is whenever I work with Indian or Chinese international students in group assignments, they never really perform significantly better or worse than students who grew up here in Australia, despite the education system here putting faaar less pressure on students.
I have heard absolute horror storries about the JEE from indian international students, but despite the difficulty they haven't performed any better on average. Then there is the insane strictness of teachers in the Indian education system making it worse on students as well.
Lol in India cuz competition is high. I'm also living in usa. Bt in India if u do blue collar job then ur life is doomed 😂.
When they do bias i really hate those teachers who only love the one who is close to them 🥲
I'm in 12th and I'm almost dome with my school life but I also have a few things to share. So basically we didn't have humanities in our school up until now, I and other 4 students are the first batch of humanities. When it was first introduced and when it was my first day of school our history and polity teachere were absent so ons of my guy friends asked Principle ma'am that when will the classes begin or will it even begin so our principle said -" If there are enough students then it will otherwise I dont know " We were like what do you mean I dont know... What are we supposed to do if there are not enough students! The next day we again asked her to which she got mad and scolded us saying ki jabse humanities kya agay tum log to hawa mein udne lage vo.. Chalo batao kon hai DM hamara... Huh tumhe pata bhi nhi hoga chale hain IAS banne. Now that pissed me off. We still dont have a proper classroom for us,we sit with commerce and study in staff room when its History and polity period. They say if we dont get 98 or 99 in boards they are going to discontinue humanities!
I can go on and om with the other bullying, sexist rules and discrimination but the comment is already is big to read.
that's just horrible. why did they even open a school if this is how they're going to treat their students? not even providing a decent classroom or staff, and simultaneously expecting- no, threatening the students to score a 98? bloody hypocrites. and don't even get me started on how the humanities stream is so underestimated and looked down upon in this country. our education system is visibly so fucked up and people still have the audacity to complain about how we are so behind other countries.
Cry about it. Bitch!
@@ninglightttttruee, being a science student i totally respect all the streams and this is what i am facing too, my school doesnt even gives us any opportunities we are totally neglected for extracurriculars as they only wants us to study all the time to score good, taking extra classes and not taking science students for tour cause we didnt score that well in half yearly according to their expections
@@Monsieurrubio she's a crybaby fs
Being bullied as a literal baby really did something to me...... it caused trauma...... being left out of various extra curricular activities just bcz of not being the teachers favourite child, being ignored by peers....... still thinking about this makes me feel sad and depressed......
Ur not alone 💜
Recently our 12th phy teacher who was considered good and funny by the students made fun of a boy who stuttered and my whole perception of him changed instantly. I was sitting on the backbench and was so hurt because everyone in the class laughed like it was the funniest thing. The boy who was made fun of reminded me of my nephew who also stuttered.
This is soo relatable in many aspects. Last year I made a video on how I used to get bullied in school and that same person tweeted my old videos on social media, which was kinda shitty tbh. Well, I thing experience in school can really shape up a personality of an individual. Also it’s being 5 years since I graduated, yet it is very traumatising whenever you pass through my school or get any kind of flashbacks.
My brain has thankfully pushed all those sad and hurtful memories of my school life to the very back on my mind so i can barely remember them but ik there was a lot of bullying that happened.
No matter what, it subconsciously affects you, unless you address the trauma.
REALLL
Same i can hardly remember my childhood except my feelings because of deja vu
Schools not only traumatize you but also take away your skills and the natural passion you once had. Teachers (not all, but most of them) act in school like they are always angry. I remember even after kindergarten, with very poor grades, when I was in 1st grade (6 years old), I struggled to write properly, especially in Hindi. I couldn't even write a word properly; my handwriting was so bad. But guess how our Hindi teacher thought she would change or improve me? She gave me an extra class and slapped me very hard every time I couldn't write properly or made any mistake. She literally slapped me 30-40 times, and that was the most horrific thing I ever experienced as a kid. Even though I don't feel much traumatized by that now, I still feel bad for myself when I think about it, considering the fact that now I can not only write and read more languages than her but also know much more about them.
I always felt bad for girls who faced sexual harassment by teachers in the name of punishment. And yeah, our school also had the same FUCKING rules for girls. Don’t wear this, don’t style your hair like that, don’t do ponytails, don’t wear nail polish-like, WTF. Why don’t they just fuckin focus on what is actually expected of them-TEACHING?
The school curriculum never allowed me to do what I wanted. They cared more about what we were wearing, whom we were talking to, and, as you said, about talking to girls-yup, that happens in every school. When I was in 9th grade, we had a small friend group of 3 boys and 3 girls, but the fact that we were friends for a very long time didn’t matter. There was this one day when a teacher saw us just talking to each other in a friendly way (just like all other friends do) during lunchtime at the main entrance of the classroom. Guess what? That was the last time boys and girls sat together in the classroom. From the next day, they created a separate section for boys and girls.
Physics teachers have an attitude like an IIT professor, and English teachers expect us to speak only English in their classes after teaching us nothing about the language.
Yup that's the beloved SCHOOLS for you. 🙃
mood.
IIT professor 😂😂😂 mera teacher to roo deta hai use question puchta hu iit ka 😂😂
School teacher isilye bante hai log kyuki woh jindigi main kuch nhi kar paye (yeh hai reality ) unse ghanta kuch nhi ukhada gya life main
This toxicity of Indian schooling leaks into the corporate too where some Indian managers act as bullies. I've 2 people reporting to me and even though my manager asks me to be controlling, I stay lenient and supportive.
I hate my school. so much pressure to perform by teachers & my parents, it really ruined my physical & mental health, & my life. I was a topper through out my school, but now I am an unemployed graduate. we still hear about so many student suicides in news...
now I understood that both parents & teachers forced good grades NOT because they cared for me, but because for their own benefit. parents wanted bragging rights & for teachers, they got pay hikes based on how their students performed. its horrible, but true. that's why teachers force to get good grades. their pay depends on it. I hate this quantifying & reducing a kid to his marks. we are much more than how much marks or money we get.
So there are some incidents happened with me. Once when i was in 1st grade i was standing beside my english teacher as she was checking my notebook, suddenly another teachers passed outside the class, the english teacher said me to go and call her immediately, i was maybe in some random thoughts so i was just clicked to present and she was saying go fast, and i didn't knew what to do suddenly she sent other girls to call that teacher and she hit me 2-3 times so hard that i was shaken. I know you would think what's a very big deal in it but these are the moments which make a child's confidence low. She hit me like i did something very wrong. And once in 4th grade our evs teacher was checking notebooks and many students haven't done work and her anger was increasing as the students were coming one by one, when it was my turn my work wasn't incomplete entirely but there was something i didn't completed, and i wrote a spelling wrong she threw my notebook on the floor in front of whole class. And there was a girl too in our class who make her friends do for her what she wants, praises herself and was rude to other students. Only because she used to get good marks and was able to control class all teachers liked her unaware of her reality(she started making boyfriends from 4th or 5th grade and many more things)i didn't knew why noone ever dared to say anything about her to teachers. I never liked her. Once in 6th grade when it was my birthday as every other student i also distributed toffees to whole class, i had another box of chocolate which a family member gave me in school as they were leaving this city something like that, that mean girl pulled my hairs and it hurt me and asked to give her thse chocolates her friend said she have given you from where she will have more, she said no i want another one. Me and my friends were outside of classroom as it was games period but when i entered in class i saw my bag's zip was open and they were eating something, i didn't say anything not even when she pulled my hairs, i was introvert and shy and never used to stand up for me, but i am not like this anymore. There are a bunch of incidents which happened with me, i already used to talk less in childhood and these incidents used to make my confidence low. Not only this i have dealt with teachers unnecessary pressure too, i was always a average student but in 10th boards i scored very high and achieved 2nd rank, and opted for pcm, but in 11th grade i started facing downfall, my teacher point out me a lot and compared to the girls who are still doing good, i had horrible ptm experiences, faced teachers comments in front of class like you didn't studied enough?, i didn't expected this from you, you could do more, your train is not coming on track, and when once my phy teacher got to know i got 2nd rank he asked you are the one who got those marks and was repeating those class test marks again and again in front of class which i didn't even told my friends. It doesn't mean i scored well in in 10th grade i would continue to get good marks. There are many more things like this which if i write here, it will be too long. Thanks for reading if you have reached here.
my sister's class has a monster's bench for kids who are 'bad' basically, they submitted their notes late or zoned out during class
despite never get in trouble, being the top of my class in marks even-while maintaining excellent extracurriculars, many teachers hated me prob cause they were projecting some personal or they didn't like i did that in an unconventional way....
my physics teacher hated physics
i felt all the losers of society, who had nothing better to do became teachers in my school for a low salary
but there were a few heroes too, amazing teachers changing lives for the better
yk today our principal announced the results for student council like he told us who all were selected, after results he said smtj like "yall are part of the student council now which means you're important unlike others, yall are exceptionals" and it annoyed me sm bcs how u say such a mean statement in front of the students who werent selected? just bcs they didnt made it doesnt mean you'll indirectly call them useless :/
omg that would have REALLY pissed me off
I spent my entire middle school just wanting a friend ...well a good friend at that but the experience just in general made me a very quiet person out of loss of confidence
came for the rant stayed for the ted talk
My classmates (couple) were literally threatened with a knife by another classmate due to a petty fight but the teachers made a bigger issue about them dating over someone with a knife, they're parents got called and they all got an equal punishment and the guy with the knife was let off easy 💀🙏
What the- these stories getting on my nerves
"Murder of a couple"
Society : ITS THEIR FAULT, HOW COME THEY ARE A COUPLE???
yk since I'm a muslim, some islamophobe cut my hand and it was so deep like some more and my vein would've cut off.
i remember teachers tried to put the blame on me and closed the case within few hours.
my parents raised voice but none took action and everyone ignored the incident.
and funny thing is an year ago before the knife incident, 4 girls and me+1guy(my only friend) were playing truth and dare in free lesson and i got dare to say "muh me lele "name" " to a guy 1 girl had beef with.
the teachers made the incident so big that i had to even say sorry in front of 6 teachers to close the issue since others were blank.
i still have trauma from many incidents
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Man I hate school and always will. The amount of damage and trauma those 15 years gave me though. I cannot wrap my head around an adult making a scene out of stupid silly things
Same fear of not giving homework project long hair low mark
My school literally gave me PTSD, and I still struggle in daily life because of it. I just hate education in general; it’s too much anxiety for me. I recently ended up dropping out of university because the pressure to do well gets overwhelming. In school, teachers used to tell me I could never be an artist because my handwriting was bad. Everyone would make fun of me and laugh whenever I talked about my dream.
Now, I am an artist working in a good company with very good pay, but every time I make a mistake, I start having a panic attack, thinking they were right and that I’m useless at everything. To top it all off, I was chubby, quite and not the brightest in academics. It’s my biggest fear now. I feel a bit of comfort knowing I’m not alone in this because everyone I meet talks so highly about their school days, and whenever I think about mine, I’d rather be dead than go through that again.
I’ve realized I’m not as dumb as I was made to feel. I just didn’t have the motivation to learn. I’m actually pretty smart and have a good memory. I never studied until right before my 12th-grade exams and still passed with 55%. It’s not the best, but I know that if I had good teachers and encouragement, I could have done so much better.
I was a topper with social anxiety and all my teachers bullied me , they never appreciated me like their "fAv kIdS" they dont even know how to treat kids with "social anxiety" its a serious mental health condition not a joke they insult us openly and traumatize us more for life
I've always hated school and I always will idc I'm in 12th grade and can't wait to pass out
I can't even talk to my boyfriend without hiding :(
I can so much relate to youu!! Like some teachers ,batchmates,seniors etc target some particular students that they are only good and they should only respected and others shouldn't. Like life feels really tough when you're stuck in those situations when they don't value you that too at that stage of life when we are actually growing and learning thingss. But as soon as we hit 18 or like when we start to know things and become aware then our life becomes better but still a kind of anger for those past people doesn't fade away easily. It's stuck with us for the rest of our lives. And I felt really good after watching this video and seeing you're doing really well now. You've gained a lot of confidence! You're kinda spreading awareness. Keep it up.❤️
Relived my entire trauma of being bullied for my dusky skintone and “but you’re too smart for a Bihari”.🥲 You should rant more, Miss Misimi.
But most of the IIT’s are filled by bihari people because of their brains, UPSC as well because they are actually too smart. Who is this stupid person bullying ? .-.
Indians really stereotype people from Bihar
And here I thought Biharis were smart (IAS IIT)
GURLL SAME😭😭 the way everybody's faces fall off when they hear i'm a bihari is insane!!
Tw: self harm
My 2nd class teacher used to make us slap ourselves when we did something bad. And i remember i made that a habit to slap myself whenever I made a mistake (i used to do that till my face was red) even when no one told me to and i think that is why I started harming myself seriously when i was in highschool and intermediate (because everything was shit).
Another way school ruined my mental health and now I'm paying for medication lol.
Hey, I hope you're okay now.
Hope you are doing good🫂
i randomly discovered your channel today and started binge watching because i love your commentary and opinions so much :p (crazy how this is a video from 2 years back) my teacher told me and my best friend "these girls won't be participating in the events" when we went up to her to register our names and i'm not very social in the class and don't participate in group activities.i was confident i could do something and enjoy the experience.however, cuz we were "too enthusiastic" for her she won't allow that and i'm actually kinda mad at her for picking her favourite students (aka the prefects and toppers) and that hurt me a lot. i hate her so bad. she didn't just treat me and my best friend like this but the entire class except for her favourites, she pays attention to them, helps them understand better, doesn't make weird comments about their appearances and their insecurities passing them on as jokes. she's got targets too.i hate it when teachers just make their favourites or toppers do activities because according to them nobody else is fit for it. how do you expect anyone to participate willing at this rate and them just doing it to learn instead of doing just for the sake of it because the teacher said so? how is anybody gonna be ready to do this in the future if you don't give them the opportunities now? last year's teacher tried to be friendly with the class but ended up degrading them in front of everyone and making fun of their interests. when i was in nursery, i was a cry baby too (still am lowkey) but whenever i cried i used to get hit and this went on till class 3. we have a maths teacher who doesn't teach or explain she just walks into class picks an usual from her favourites and makes them do sums on the board so the rest can copy. you need to understand maths to do it. then they're gonna act surprised as to why 89% of the school is failing in maths. i got a new maths tutor this year and its actually so amazing for me because i understand stuff and have confidence and i got rid of the maths phobia (maths is now my favourite subject sorry if i'm too nerdy T-T) and like getting praised for doing things correctly and especially for trying got so much of my self esteem back. i barely used to pass maths when the first teacher i spoke about was the maths teacher. in class 6 i had a really nice class teacher who treated everyone fairly and made it interesting to study (she was like a mom to me) but she had to move and leave the school.
In India teaching is taken as a profession by people who had usually scored low marks,cannot get any prospective newage jobs, cannot relocate due to low confidence.
These are the teachers in India.
So how can they teach anything of significance.
Marks are scored by Student's own hardwork.
this should literally be the top comment
I really hate school and definitely im probably gonna be that person to unfollow everyone once i get out of this school (i.e next year thankfully). One of the most important reasons have to be the fact that how badly teachers treat you like for example they barely pay attention to us quiet kids except their so called "their favourite students". I am really good as a student but never get any appreciation honestly. Except for that being the quiet kid i did get treated really badly, having no friends ,bullying,etc Teachers never really helped eventhough telling them continuously. Except for that i really love education itself and never really had any problems with studying itself really.
I don't miss being in school at ALL. The number of times I got molested by my male classmates... They'd throw paper balls or rockets at me, pour water on my light grey uniform top... Touch and grind on me sometimes... This happened to other girls also. We complained and teachers simply said "Boys will be boys", and simply gave them warning... What's worse is that some girls also enjoyed seeing us getting harassed, they'd bully us too. Now all the boys will get married and have daughters. Meanwhile, we can't even move on from the trauma. Thank God, I escaped the hellhole.
omg i am so sorry that happened to you
Omg why is this so relatable 😭😭 I was such a crybaby and no one took me seriously ever! Not the teachers not the students not my parents, mannn it sucked so much...
That's why I started to bottle everything up and my parents were like tell us everything but like you're the reason I don't 😭 bffrrn
Omg I just remembered, whenever I lost my notebook and knew i would get slapped for it I'd just start crying as defence mechanism like unprompted,
The teacher would be like girl copy? I was like fully teared up apologising like i killed her dog or smth.... School was something else
Ya misimi salute to you for being brave and truthful about your school experience....
My school experience was horrible.... My maths teacher bullied me alot.... It is still there in me like a trauma....
this video!! this is how problematic school environment is sometimes!!
Many people in India have rationalized harming students as a form of authority and discipline, when in fact, it is physical child abuse which develops subconscious and conscious consequences. Luckily, I believe fewer schools in India have stopped hitting/touching students.
My hindi teacher told my best friend to crumple my project and throw it in the trash 👍🏻, was in 4th grade. Still very traumatized.
Bro wtf these teachers also have kids
My hindi teacher ripped my hindi notebook just bc I scribbled something on the last page, that day I was already having a bad day and when this happened, I couldn't help but cry.. I mean it's my notebook, I bought it who gave you the right to rip it off?? She didn't even apologize which is not surprising but whenever I remember this incident I feel like slapping her so hard. But nowadays she's good to us, still what she did is terrible.
in 11th class one of our teachers retired , so there was a vacant position available. Different teachers were coming everyday and teaching during one of our periods while our class teacher judged if they were good enough for the job. this one super nice lady came and taught so well, she explained everything in a simple way and even taught in such a simple way that when she asked a student ( who wasn’t good at studies) a question he was able to answer it. I personally found her great and would have loved to be taught by her because her teaching wasn’t complex and being a person with many mental disorders, it was actually easy for me to focus. Once she was done our class teacher asked the class if we liked her. A lot of us said we understood her easily, including me. then our class teacher went back to her desk, and then proceeded to call the two topper girls of the class , who were amazing academically and scored literally full marks every time and were even vice captains of their respective houses. Overall, they were perfect students. when they came back from her desk I asked what she wanted and turns out the teacher asked them both personally what THEY thought of the teacher.
I know it’s not a big thing but that just felt so disrespectful. teachers really don’t care for the kids who don’t do academically well. The teacher is not just gonna teach the two students , but apparently their opinion is important than the other 40 students in the class because they are academically well.
when staying up late doing school work pays off to getting misimi content >>>
I love how the video is sped up!! Thank you
gosh, hi, i am that orange rubber band girl, it traumatised the hell out of me, I cried the entire day. i could never forget that traumatic incident, thanks for putting it up, even tho I'm like 2 years late to this video. fhss sucked ass, the people sucked so bad
you speak from my heart, I passed out my 12th like 4 months back and I never ever want to do that shit again. I had this weird tension with most of my teachers throughout my high school, unlike my middle school where I was a quiet kid who didn't say anything back whenever any teacher said anything bad to me, when I entered high school I decided I'm not going to let these teachers publically humiliate me for no reason and yeah even though I had this weird thing with teachers I am happy that I talked back at times. There are endless and endless traumatizing experiences from high school and I am thankful it's over.
Did I type too much haha? All the best, loved your video!!!! 😚
My physics teacher made me feel like an alien i still feel isolated in the world bcz of the shame he filled me with its hard not feeling like i don't deserve to live here to be around people or deserve any good thing
Honestly I hate him so muchhhh
same.
@soniavii are you also talking about praveen chauhan the a s 🕳
Had the most shitty day in school yesterday fr… and almost everything is relatable 💀
I don't know about what happens to girls in other schools but from what I've experienced girls are given more advantage over boys in highschool...? Boys are spoken to roughly as if they're no humans. The teachers of highschool are very humiliating and after only some time I started realising that it's just not me that's feeling bullied because as a conservative guy - down to earth and considering myself at fault first - double checking myself if only I'm wrong - I felt that I was the only one who was at fault. I'm still through, gon' appear for 12th boards the coming year. Mainly just because of teachers over the years my self respect has deteriorated and I used to be treated like a zombie in class...? After a traumatic experience of 6 years, I'm trying to get out of it; it's not the teachers when you know it; inside-school bullying was less that teachers had to jump in.
Truly relatable video; I don't know about "talking to boys" being "danger" - it might happen in schools because that's when ur growin up and teachers notice that too and just inapprop'ly shame you for it...?
Totally normal; it's just old-fashioned the way older people still see talking to the opposite gender as a taboo.
Idk; girls are just treated more nicely because they're girls and they're good looking...? Boys are often discriminated and esp. if you're not good looking enough.
As someone who's been since the start of the school and his learning journey both, I can tell that in our school if a student stays active throughout the class, actively participates and asks questions but gets average or even below-average marks - they won't get scolded much even if they're assignments and notebooks aren't complete. Silent psychology tells they're seen to be "studying more" just because they're participating in the class.
As someone who gets humiliated by teachers a lot, if I answer what the teacher asked correctly, I'm still not praised when teachers fall into the "how did he answer that" pit. Correct me if I'm wrong. They can't focus on every child, but I often go to school, but I still get the feedback of teachers that I lay at home all the time arest.
Humiliation and bullying is regarded as "teacher's care" for the students - they say they don't want students to score less - when it's not for the student but only for the teacher's tutoring credits and nothing less. Deans and headmasters scold them whose frustration they take out on us. Teachers don't care a bit and unko ghanta farak nahi padta if you're failing or have a bad mental health especially then too when it's only because of them. If teachers were to care, they'd naturally react by encouraging the poor students more than the already accomplishing/flourishing students. That's just my take; other schools might find better teachers but it's almost the same thing everywhere else if anybody could relate.
TLDR; school is trash; read to find out why
PS: This will be updated if I care enough before me dropping out.
Ain't visiting that place even after board results. Thanks if you read this far
School is quite traumatizing for me and Teachers here are not that supportive and if someone bullies you they'll be like ignore it and do nothing about it and personally I think that they failed at their job and are nothing less but a lazy person who claims that they did their job 😶
@@SurendraKumar-wp5jr Exactly. Teach the bullies a lesson if you're a teacher - but no - you yourself choose to bully and harass a single child. I feel targetted a lot and that's my take - I guess I'm not handsome or shit...? What a qualifying materialistic factor we got here, whoa.
Teachers usually go around saying they won't handle complaints and it's not their duty to solve matters like...........??!
If you're giving in in "inappropriate" acts of the teenage so much then why back off
oh btw this is me only from an alt id
@@soniavii facts 🗣️🗣️
@@soniavii I am a girl and the worst way we were treated was taunts and remarks but boys, I have seen my classmate be pulled, thrashed, pulling of hair continuous 5-6 slaps on face told to stand out of class, threatened to suspend/rusticate from school and TOTAL ABUSE. Felt so bad about them, with "I shouldn't beat students" rule they would violate it taking harsh steps towards boys. I always wondered why don't the boys cry- like had it been with a girl we would cry, throw tantrums and somehow make the teacher apologise with this harsh treatment. But nah, hope u all did cry back in home, if not THATS A TRAUMA.
@@windssn3zidk if I have trauma or something
But you asked questions why don't boys cry after getting beating
Idk about all boys
But when me and my boys were in class 2
We used to get our ears hair pulled
By teacher and getting slap or taunts was normal for boys we used to cry like hell in those times
We we didn't showed tear because if we show them tear they would beats Us even more
So probably thats why idk about all boys we in my school we did cry but we didn't want to show infront of them or else we used to beat more or getting yelled by all teacher in lunch period
Im so lucky that half of my teachers were actually caring 😭😭 I love them so much 😭🩷🩷
every indian teacher should see this
oh where do i even start? my math teachers tearing me down to a point where asking for doubts to help with my studies being treated as tabboo? or my english teacher purposely docking marks from my essays baceuse she didn't like me for being "too introverted"? or fourth grade when i was bullied for a year straight and essentially ignored, and the teachers never believed be since the girls in question were "good spirited and open."
Omg ya if you're introverted they treat you like you're the dumbest person alive, which has zero correlation, and i only found out about that from my tuition teacher... Like she was the sole reason for my academic comeback
I was scolded for wearing literally a religious ring and beaten in front of whole school as the buses were passing by watching me got beaten by this one teacher who before laying hands on me not only cussed the ring saying "Abe tere jesus ki to mai" but also threw it far far away into school playground. That day onwards not only I got traumatized but also lost my will to attend school and basically went from being an average student to a failure, but now in my 20s I realized how serious of an issue it was, so my kids' teachers have to have a ppt with proper logical reasons involved if they ever lay a hand on them or I'm shutting the whole sh*thole up. Thanks this was a good platform to blow off my heat💀❤️much love.
oh my god. that sounds insane.
I am in college now but back when I was in 10th, our physics teacher (female) was taking an oral test of some sort and she was calling out girls row wise and asking them questions. She was doing like a marathon or smth because as fas as I remember she asked like 20 or 25 questions in a go. The one who stopped or stuttered in the middle were disqualified according to her and what she did was hold the girls hair from the pony and just pull it so harshly in front of the whole class. When it got to me, I stopped in the middle due to social anxiety or just nervousness and I kid you not she held my hair with such force I almost screamed in front of the whole class. After that she made us sit on our knees while facing the wall. Now that I remember it I wish I was a little bold back then to point it out to the teacher that it was wrong oh her side, yk, even if i did not study enough, it was the time of just after corona so what do you expect from students. Not everybody had crisp and precise hold on the concepts and some students usually stutter like me. That day broke me so much that I still struggle with social anxiety. Being humiliated in front to a class of 50 students was really horrible. Sorry to say but I wish karma repays her because no matter what the reason, a teacher should never behave like this. Till today she stands on top of my most hated people's list.
The doing good in a subject because of a teacher's guidance is so true
When i was in 1st std one of the sirs used to pull pants and skirts as punishments thankfully i never experienced it but it was the very fking wrong thing to do to anyone
omg that’s so creepy
@@dontmisimi that's literally harrasment
That's sensual harrasment bro tf
I was bullied by teachers whole year, most of the days, it was a boys only school, school was 50% trauma. They used to do immense partiality towards the students who used to get privatev coaching from them. I was badly beaten by a teacher because I left his coaching. I couldn’t share those incidents with my parents.
I'm in 10th grade rn and I can't relate to people that misses school 🤷♀️ like I can't wait to get out and never ever visit... just bad memories and shitty teachers filled up my entire 14 years going to school
exact same
True same
Now you're in college right? how is it, better or worse. I would say mine has gotten better in some and way worse in others.
@nikaX2000 It's way better than what I experienced in school. I made good friends and the teachers are also nice. I made an academic comback too and It's all because of the environment, it really matters. The people that I surrounded myself with had an impact in ways that I can't explain. So if anyone feels trapped right now or is going through a lot in school just remember that the grass is 100% greener on the other side :)
when you said you were one of those kids whose parents told them to always respect elders i felt that cause whenever i told my parents about a older person who commented on my weight or just made me feel bad in general they would always say "they are only joking, don’t take everything seriously, if they say something take it." so i grew up letting people walk all over me and just recently realised i needed to change.
i was also bullied but puberty hit me up
and it was good later on
i still had to struggle with my personality
cuz i never experienced this attention and respect like for no reason they were nice to me ( especially girls )
i was so annoying but that got healed with time
eventually i grew our of it and yeah it's good after 8th
i can feel the pain of bullied kids
i can feel what they want
i never ever bullied anyone instead helped them
i became a new man
just don't giva shi--
no one cares about you
you have to keep this universal law conserved
so don't care about others
Im sorry u had to go through so much I was also bullied so i can relate 🥺❤️
Yes I had a cultural shock in an Indian school which was traumatic and you also read my mind thank u so much
I do relate to this alot, Flashback to that day when I was in 10th grade, I was in school and peacefully minding my business in class without doing anything that would trigger the teacher then this teacher straight up came to me and slapped me on my face in front of whole class, for no reason and then she went on with her day. I know she might not even remember because why would she, now I’m 22 and finished my bachelors too but still I think about that incident in 10th grade, it makes me cry untill this day, like why the fuck she did that.
Wtf she mad or wor Sorry but i would have asked her that what was that for
I never wanna go to my school days again I am just so grateful you shared your scenario I always thought that there must be so wrong with me but seeing people experienced same kinda make me feel bit peace with myself
Felt like you just exposed my school life 😇
I can relate SO hard to these things which you talked about, I've had really bad experiences like these too in school. How messed up and shitty can teachers be to treat helpless kids like shit for little to no reason is beyond me
I have been bullied a lot. When i complained it to teachers, they just tried to shut my mouth because it will mame the college campus sound bad and admissions of stnds will be affected.
Lol I recently got kicked out of my College hostel cause apparently I am being medicated for my depression. The warden got to know after I was taken to the hospital after a side effect of the medication. They don't wanna take responsibility and think I ODed, the warden is not willing to house me
Better tho, cause flats are WAYYY better than the hostel.
In 9th grade a substitute teacher just happening to roam around the classroom without any specific goal saw me drawing female body anatomy sketches next to the male ones. She called me to her table in front of the whole class, tore the pages down from my entire sketchbook, she wrote my name on them, and told me it was "vulgar" and that i shouldnt be doing that at "my age" while giving me a cold shoulder. My self esteem was beyond repair to the point where i thought drawing women's bodies was something vulgar. Yeah she didnt think anything was wrong with the male anatomy sketches.
To this day i fear even my parents finding out i study the body anatomy art, thinking they'd react in the same way that karen did. There's something that keeps me from merrily flaunting my art in front of people unlike before the incident happened.
That teacher got good grades when she was student but is still stupid..
I passed from an all-boys and teachers used to tell us that we are getting beaten because we are boys, and girls don't get beaten but they do get like standing, and sit-up kind of punishment.
There were some teachers who beat us because they were narcissistic, some which beat us jokingly, some beat us because they were fools, and some beat us to make us tougher and focused on what has to be done. Some teachers were chill, and intellectual, and
I think that those kinds of teachers had the best impact on me personally.
Second would be those who beat me to toughen me up.
About the rest of them, I absolutely hated them. And I used to avoid any possible interactions with teachers as much as I could even though I was good with academics because many times teachers beat me for no reason, and just like you I never used to say anything to them. But the teachers which used to listen, and clear doubts, and actually teach with passion, and not just joking with some passion really touched the heart.
In school, I faced constant criticism, which destroyed my confidence. My physics teacher said to me one time, 'You're worthless and will never do anything with your life,' because I didn't know the answer to his question. He kept pointing out to me, insulting me, and acting as if I don't exist, making me terrified even to speak. I suffer from extreme social anxiety and stage fright now-I stutter, my words jumble, and find myself unable to speak even in front of my friends properly. I overthink everything I say; there is always that fear of being judged. I was an average student before, but those experiences drained my motivation and left me feeling completely worthless. In 9th grade, our music teacher used to tell a girl in my class that she could never sing and shouldn’t even try when she told him that she wanted to be a singer. It was heartbreaking to see because, at that age, we’re supposed to learn and explore, not be perfect. Comments like that can crush someone’s confidence, especially when they’re just trying to find what they love. The teachers at my school except few were biased n didn't even tried to hide it, would always demotivate weaker students as if we are that one odd black spot in a white shirt that shouldn't exist and sore to the eyes. School was so traumatic n depressive for me and I hate it so much.
I've got all the problems you've listed. Social anxiety and all.
I've always been praised, ignored when I did something wrong and respected by every single teacher that has taught me.
There might be other factors that made you like this. For me, I had strict parents, didn't travel for tuition, didn't play outdoors, never went out to buy groceries, and didn't indulge in with my friends because all of them were low life pretentious trashers
Long rant, just sharing my experience and hatred for my school 😁
Im northeast Indian and i faced similar experiences, my teachers aren't as bad as yours but they do hit u at times like when you fail a test or for some really dumb reason like forgetting to bring a pencil. It's honestly so normalised here and when I got older like reaching high school, the scoldings got way more serious and hurtful bc of some teachers 😰 The students themselves are also reeally toxic as well, there is so much racism, sexism, homophobia and religion hating. Light skin is the ideal in Indian culture and you could really see it in schools, light skin was considered beautiful but dark skin was ugly, people would get bullied for it and also soo many male teachers indirectly told us about how males are superior which made my classmate boys become so egoistic, they would always demean us and say males are better but we could all see that they were insecure and victims of toxic masculinity so they had to project it onto us. When we were really young, we all girls and boys used to sit together and be friends but then in like 3-4 grade suddenly we were not allowed to sit together and if we talked to each other they would shame us and its so dumb, it's like they think the moment we make eye contect we're gonna start making out in front of the whole class 🤦♀️ and this kind of mindset not only is the dumbest thing ever but really bad for our development, it really made us distant which caused the sexism. My classmates are also very homophobic, they have this very strong unreasonable hatred towards homosexuals, they are disgusted by them say stuff like all gays will burn in hell (most of us are Christians), they don't realise it but it is so hypocritical, no good christian would ever act that way towards them, but they actually do know it's not Godly but deliberately choose to ignore it 😐 shows me alot about their relationship with God. And ofc girls are slut shamed alot and if anyone is in a relationship, many people immediately assume that they do "indecent" things and are looked down upon (very Indian mindset) which is also the dumbest thing i have ever heard
I could go on forever but overall, I hate my school soooo much, it really made me realise how important a good school environment is for a child
Meh! I was scared of school when I was 4 and 5 because my teachers were cruel. When I was in LKG, the teacher said that she would glue our lips together if we talked and she glued my friend's lips for 4 hours because he said something. I also remember a sir taking him and beating him with a stick because the teacher accused that he made a loud noise when it was actually my seat mate letting out a hiccup. I was horrified hearing his screams as the sir beat him with that stick and kept asking "Why did you do that?" and he replied "I didn't do anything" repeatedly and it went on for like 5 minutes. I looked at hiccup boy and he was about to cry, I felt so bad for the both of them. Next year, when I was 5 - I switched states and the teacher there was also pretty strict...I really hated her because she used to pinch us till we bled for the silliest reasons. One day, I accidentally tore my paper which was barely noticeable and I knew what would happen. She didn't see the paper but she asked me why I looked worried and being the honest idiot I was, i told her and she brought me to the front of the class, told everyone that I tore the paper a little, apologised to me saying that "Sorry but books are equal to God and you tore it so you have to be punished" and pinched me with her long nails till I got a wound, worst part is - i started crying in front of everyone because I was so overwhelmed by fear and everyone staring at me with horror but I'm glad the rest of the class empathized with me. One day she said "The next person who asks to go to the bathroom will be punished" I held my piss for 3 hours but then I let it go.... that was embarassing as hell! She even hanged my wet underpants on the window so that everyone could see it. Once, a boy let out a fart and the teacher asked who it was. Of course, he didn't admit it and he ended up admitting that he wanted to take a dump after a few hours. Unfortunately for him, the toilet had some issues that day and the teacher did not allow him to take a crap. For some reason, the teacher made him sit butt naked in front of the class. I think it was because he stained his uniform as I saw him wearing different clothes during dispersal but she still did not have to strip him naked in FRONT OF THE CLASS just because we were 5. I still remember him doing the thousand yard stare at me while covering his ding dong, sitting against a wall. Since first standard, I've led a peaceful life at school and I'm grateful.
hopefully no one reads this cuz i was just thinking about my childhood
also im not traumatized or anything lmao i just find this amusing
Omg how horrible is that teacher :(
this is so true. Till my last grade, I used to score good marks and teachers also appreciated me a lot. But this year my academic flow was broken due to some issues and there's this teacher she made me stand in front of the class and said very awful things like focus on yourself don't get involved in any other stuff keep all those attractions outside and stuff involving my "harkatein" tho her intentions were good but it was really embarrassing and sad. And then, I had to go on a leave for like 2 weeks due to some emergency but when I came back all the teachers started scolding me and none of them asked if everything was fine and i literally had to mentally prepare myself to go to school.
Only when I did good in my studies the teachers were nice to me but then everything changed and they are so discouraging and demotivating now. I really can't stand it.
My teacher quite literally has a social heirarchy! The good students, avg students and bad students. All on basis of grades. How discouraging this is to the 'bad' students who must be trying really hard. The teachers keep targetting my boyfriend bcs he's not 'focusing' and cus he's a 'bad' student even tho he's avg, but i think he has ADHD and he definitely has anxiety issues. The trauma my school has given to me too is immeasurable and beyond repair. Wont delve much into that except how a confident girl was turned into a ball of anxiety. Schools are really toxic and i just want to get out.
Ive completed school this year and you won't believe how relieve and happy I felt
Completely agree with you... each and every sentences are just at point
gurl your spitting factssss
never wanna look back on those daysss
Honestly this video needs to be more popular, just because of how common this is.
This year my school's getting over and i just randomly got this video on my fyp .. GURL, I HAVE NEVER RELATED WITH ANYONE SO MUCH BETTER like this is the most relatable video i have found on yhe internet.. sigh... being a dark skinned girl and average at studies .. i have been bullied a lot from teaxahers and students .... alaways been an outcast all my life and i was/still am so shy back then, my self esteem went down the ocean. I got anthrophobia, im not being extreme.
another thing i hated in my school was the school council,they keep on choosing the same students despite the applications being open and when it comes to competitions whether interschool or outerschool,they always choose council members over those who have talent,like when i was 5th,i had given auditions for a dance program and i have danced on stage multiple times but no a council member was chosen over me
so real!, btw I just wanted to say ur eyes are so pretty girl!!!!
bro im in a cbse school and like a sir of ours who teaches hindi shouted so loudly at a kid cause he laughed this is like durin the time where the teacher was explaining that no1 did incomplete work lol. and once during exams the most annoying 10th grade supervisor came and shouted at a kid because he didnt organize his writting papers neatly on the damn table bro like this shi crazy 😭 and i lost a lotta marks for english coz i prob wrote 1 or 2 words over the limit in a writing ques like eg they say tht u need to write 120 words in a ques but then if i wrote 125 or 130 words my marks are cut 💀
back in school i was really a quiet kid who never participated in class or anything like that but always did well on exams so the teachers not really knew about me. I remember once i did really great on my maths exam as compared to the other class toppers. So he accused me for cheating on my maths exam infront of like 30+ students.
i just wanna get done w school as soon as possible omg. i remember, last year when i was in ninth grade, i got into an accident bc of which i had to skip school for almost a month. the accident happened just a few meters away from the school premises so a lot of teachers witnessed it, including my physics teacher. after i recovered and started school again, the physics teacher made fun of my accident as a way of shutting me up. the whole class was talking. but i was specifically targetted by him, because *I* was disturbing the class. thinking about this still makes me sad. teachers can def be bullies.
I just passed out my high school and I used to go school once or twice on a week because I am person who gets sick every month but when I went to school after some days the so called female teachers in my high school OH MY GOD attacks me like I am a big piece of sugar in front of those fkng ants I feel so bad I can't even have audacity to tell them that I am not well or anything but I got bullied since I was like 6 or 7 years old
whenever I'll start my youtube I am definately gonna make a video on this topic I wanna say I admire you sooooo soooo much like If I ever get a chance to meet you I'll be the happiest person on earth that day.
virtual huggies to you💌
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This often happened with me when I when in kindergarten and my father complained to the school management but no action was taken.😢
Hence, He made me switch schools.
I am 16 years old now, in 12th grade and still remember the long series of incidents and the only nice thing attached to it was my father picking me up from school early than the school would be over and pampering me. We both would get scolded by my mother for that 😅😂
16 saal ka 12th mei ?🤔
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Yes...
I mean, is it not normal ??
@diksha_lather nhi mai almost 18 ka hu aur mai bhi 12 th mei hu aur mere classmate bhi almost meri same age ke hai.. Tumhara jaldi admission hua hoga
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Oh !
I see.
Actually, maine nursery nhi ki and I started schooling at the age of 3 with LKG (lower kinder garden)
All the Best for your Boards and other competitive exam if you are giving any !!
teacher are afterall human,those regular being that u usually saw around ur society/environment so basically just don't expect them to act as some superficial being..they can be a bully
I never specifically had an incident which would make me hate school but in general it was just that I never felt that i even belonged there. I was studying in Co Ed but my mom wanted to send me to some other school, girl's school if better. I did get into an all girls school but even after 7 years of studying there, I never really felt like I am supposed to be there in the first place. I thought that its just something I'm feeling because i am new and would eventually feel used to after a while but no. I was always annoyed and that school always felt out of place. Although I won't blame my school for that but i would definately like to mention that one maths teacher who just considered me as a dumb student the entire year she taught us even tho I was pretty good in every subject but maths because it was genuinely hard for me even though I tried my best at scoring good marks in it. She segregated the rows according to the marks and made all the students who were bad at maths sit in a particular row which was called the row for the 'duffer' students. I understand that she did it so that she would know which specific students need special attention at this subject but she never thought what us as 'duffer' students would feel. It was genuinely humiliating even though she did it with right intentions because we got undermined by the whole class and our bench partners who were the 'smart' ones assigned by her so that we would learn from them treated us like we are stupid and far below their level. I remember my bench partner snatching my answer sheet when I scored more than her in my English exam so that she would find just something to get my marks deducted and to satisfy her ego even though she knew that I'm better than her in English so no matter how much she tried to find a flaw in the correction, she would find nothing because how perfect my answers were.
But yeah I would say that only if I wouldn't have been classified as the 'duffer' kid by my maths teacher that day, all of these prejudice and feeling of inferiority complex would have not existed.
In my coaching, all the teachers are iitians and once our maths teacher asked ki how many people in the class wants to be a teacher. Nobody raised their hands . Then he said maximum teachers in indian schools are those who couldn't do anything in there lifes and just below avg students taking out all the anger of their lifes on students
I failed 11th and now im repeating because i didnt get the additional project marks in every subject that were supposed to be given to everyone because the teachers didnt like me they always targeted me because i didnt understand their teachings specially physics because the chapters that were supposed to be taught thoroughly were completed in just one class. All the teachers used to bitch about me in the staff room target me for my hair even tho they were well groomed .i heard from my friend that passed and now is in 12th that the physics teacher was saying in class "inn baccho ko maine jaan buch ke fail kia tha" .Most of the students that passed 80% of them cheated and 20% actually studied .ik this because the kids those who are in 12th now are failing all their subjects lol
So now im in a dummy school thats connected to my coaching and my lifes never been better . I thought physics and maths is not for me but when i learned those concepts from iitians i got all of it in one go. These teachers are like a blessing to me . When we dont understand something they tell us to take a break then we can start from the beginning . They even tell us ki tumhe agr nhi hai inn sab me interest toh mujhe bolo mai parents se baat krunga . They have even kept a special box thats made for the student to put their feelings on a paper and put it in a box and talk to them anytime if someones feeling depressed
They have such professionalism because they have gone through the same shit and dont want there students to face the same . I hope anyone whose going through a rough school life will get through this because obviously theres much more planned for u in the future
Well many more bad things happened so fuck the past
Im very grateful for my life now
Bhai tu chomu hai tereko pta hona chahiye tha ki school ke teacher harami hote hai tu bht innocent hai
It's really true that school and specially the teachers play a big role in shaping your self esteem. And for people like me who are generally very quite and weren't good at studies, they will literally eat you up. I don't know what trauma do THESE teachers bring up from their home to project it on a child like that. A child who basically has no sense of self will definitely be easily crushed by teachers like these. They will either say it on your face or make an environment like that for you and everyone just believes you are the dumb kid. Describing the pain of years in words is impossible. I was worse because I was the mute child, I couldn't speak at all and the teachers would just get even harsh instead of trying to scare the child less. To this day, I'm still afraid of speaking in front of 40 people, afraid that everyone judge me just like they did when I was a child.
School was sweet too but more bitter.
I never respected any teacher they may treat me right but i never saw any teacher treating everyone right
I am sooo sorry to all the people in the comment section,like genuinely sorry...
bro im in 10th rn and my cousin just got her results, she got 98%. my mom has been just scolding/yelling at me everyday for not studying as much as my cousin, and if I won't score 98% or above shes gonna send me to a boarding school :/
Bruh 🫂🫂🫂 , my mom telling me that my dad's colleague girl got 92% in 12th and that I'm in 12th so I should try to get better than her otherwise they'll prolly takeaway daily needs :/
boarding school is more fun than living with so much pressure to score 🤠
Bro same she kept comparing me to my cousin while the students who got less percentage then me are getting treats and love meanwhile my mother treating like I failed my boards tell me 87% is not that bad ?
I remember getting bullied by my own friend circle multiple times and the Teachers only cared about students who visited their Tuition centers and I was frequently targeted by Teachers for taking tuition classes from some other teachers(which was my problem by the way and they had nothing to do with it). My entire School life(specially from 8th standard to 10th standard) was filled with Mental torcher and sometimes I used to get into Physical fights with other boys who had this delusion or mindset that the world revolves around them and they could bully anyone they wanted. Thankfully, I left school after 10th standard and went to Kota to prepare for JEE exams which was a big relief for me. I blocked everyone I met at school(every student I knew and every teacher). I gave my 10th boards in 2018 and Sometimes I miss my school days but yeah! a part of me feels relieved😇. I never wanna go back to that hellish place ever again.
IIT NIKLA?
Not all people are cool just because they are elder they dont deserve respect. Respect is earned not given bruh