Synastry- Moon hard aspect to Moon- different comforts
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- What happens when one Moon is in difficult aspect to another's Moon. Learning to come out of one's comfort zone and into another's.
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It’s so funny how sometimes you can see synastry play out so accurately in real life. For example, 50 Cent’s moon is in Gemini closely square Ja Rule’s moon in Pisces. And those two have been beefing since the 90’s 😂😂😂
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50 cent is a emotionally broken Cancer
Lmfaooooooooo get out!
It’s true tho
This is so fucking random omg hahhahaha
Funny enough I'm dating a man in which we both are so ourselves naturally and comfortably it feels like a miracle! lol We are both up front about our feelings, wants, needs and desires... and we really get each other. His moon Virgo and my Pisces moon work really well together. He's a practical doer and I'm lay back easy going... we both are Aries sun with 3 other planet in Aries too... maybe that makes a huge difference... at any, we really enjoy each other :-)
But is not in aspect
I just found my dogs birthday. Funny enough he and I have Moon’s in opposition to the degree. I love him so much, but he is the most difficult dog to read that I’ve ever been around. He is Aquarius Moon and I’m Leo. His Capricorn Sun is exactly on my Ascendent. He is super quiet and enjoys his personal space, he hates hugs and traditional snuggles. I’ve had to learn to respect that he is uncomfortable with hugs, but found he likes pats on the hip instead, he is more rough and tumble than tender
He gets upset if his schedule is I interrupted. He hates to take his meds or get a bath, I’m a dog groomer by profession so he is groomed frequently, he is tolerant and sweet. It’s funny all the synestry on his chart with mine. Definitely helped me grow through some difficult times. I’ve also helped him through some medical issues such as lupus. It was meant to be.
too funny
This is so cool, to find another person, who does their pets chart :) I did that too with my two cats ^_^ I am a scorpio moon and my cat is an aquarius moon like your dog. The 'personal space thing', the 'no huggs please but certain petting styles are ok thing' - I know that all too well. My other cat has a cancer moon, which is far easier for me to interpret, but still, I so loved the journey to get to know my aquarius moon kitty, what she is about and how she wants to be treated. In the end we worked it out, both ways ;)
this is so cute 🥰
Moon Square Moon = Death Sentence for Relationship.
Small mannerisms annoy each other and eventually pile.
Also, Hard Aspects to the Ascendant = Annoyances.
:( damn so it doomed from the start? What was you experience?
That's not a death sentence, though. You have to be mature.
@@ellie-tk4jy You have to adjust constantly and it's a deep energy since it's your Moon. Unless the surrounding placements are very good, this will be too hard to overcome.
A question about Moon square moon in a synastry chart?
Hello Dixie. I can recall two experiences I had this with a romantic partner, and one with a friend/aquaintence.
With the romantic relationship, he and I were born the same year and exactly nine days apart. His moon sign is Sagittarius and mine is in Virgo. I don’t know what his rising is, but, yes, for the most part, we got along and agreed with many things. He is one of these people who last I recall was heavily into the law of attraction. I believe in this too. One thing I did admire about him was his dedication and determination to ONLY look at and stay in what’s positive, but what I found irritating was that when I was having some personal issues, I felt it minimized by him! He would deliberately avoid me and not want to deal with it and told me I’m making my problems bigger than they really are and how I’m creating this negative reality by my negative attitude and focus. I felt that he was being insensitive, invalidating and unsupportive. In reality, we both are right in our own way. He was right that in order to stay resilient, one must look at things in perspective and seek a solution instead of dwelling on the problem. But where I was right was that well, let’s just say, don’t judge another man until you walk at least 10 miles in his/her moccasins. From the outside, it’s easy to pick apart and judge, but unless you’ve been dealing with and have been faced with the same kind of stuff? Also, I think it’s mean to just leave someone in the dark and when that person really needs someone to be there, it’s not about solving the problem, sometimes it’s just providing some support even if it’s just listening and validation, you don’t have to have all the answers or fix anything. How can one claim to know what someone should/shouldn’t feel?
I think we both had something valuable to learn from one another. But... What really broke us apart was when one day out of the blue he told me that he met this lady and saw the brightest light in her he’s ever seen in anyone. He kept talking about her even after I brought up that it bothered me. My fragile ego couldn’t take it so we both finally agreed to sever that connection. As friends, he and I get along great!! We have a lot in common! It’s possible we could have worked? But I think at the time I was rebounding and I think for him he didn’t want to be alone and we were fairly attracted to each other so why not? We also had some cultural differences so that could be a part of it too. I had a lady friend where her moon square mine, but she was also a double libra, I’m a double Taurus. Again, quite a few things in common, but we were both competing for the same man, so that got in our way. She wanted to believe she was his number one, I wasn’t as overt about it as she was, but secretly, I also felt that way. She also had mental illnesses that has caused many to repel from her, I have mild mental issues, but I can function easier in the world than she can I think, at least with relationships. So I guess my point, I think moon signs are or can definitely be a factor, but idk that’s its really the end all say all as some astrologers might suggest? I think one has to consider everything and also their own chart and what they already feel at home with. I also you have to consider timing and mental health of people and their ability to be in a relationship at all. My best friend has a Leo moon and his ascendant is Aquarius and he’s a Pisces sun. I’m a Taurus sun/rising and a Virgo moon. Our moon signs are not considered an ideal match? Our ascendant are square, but we get along famously!! Two peas in a pod!! So these things are not always so black and white. There’s positive and negative in every connection. But your soul knows where you belong! Astrology provides a blueprint of what we’re working with tendencies and the potential! But you have to consider the person and how you relate.
Also, I wanted to add, I had a physical relationship with someone who I was madly in Love head over heals for…. I won’t go into to many gory details, but I just wanted to point this out to reveal why one can’t always claim something as being definitive. I was enthralled with this individual!! The chemistry passion was explosive and out of this world!!! I mean, so far, I have not experienced this level of intensity ( ok, maybe one other time later yes!!) I wanted the full package with this person, he lusted and craved me physically, but that was IT!! His moon is in scorpio, mine is Virgo. That’s considered GOOD! It’s a sextile! But he did not ever want a full relationship with me, only physically!! That killed me, at first I thought maybe it’s because he just doesn’t want to be tied down, not true, because he did have serious relationships with other women!! In fact, he was even in love and obsessed with them!! But NOT with me! That KILLED!! I was on the brink of being suicidal… it was bad! He is a libra rising and a Leo sun and a Scorpio moon. I’m a Taurus rising/sun but Virgo moon. Virgo and Scorpio are supposed to go well and be in harmony together and it’s MOON so that’s intimate?? But nope 👎overall feeling was NOT mutual! And I don’t think he and I would have lived well together. So moon signs may matter when considering a relationship. But it’s not the end all be all, also look at your composite and that would probably be the ultimate say? Good luck 🍀
ooo please do the conjunction! Since it's the fastest moving luminary, Moon Moon aspects to me seem like some of the most intimate.
Moon opposite moon with a recent love interest.sag moon n gem moon. The saving grace is my mercury conjunct their moon! And moon conjunct ascendant.
What is the most difficult, having hard aspects between moon/moon or not having any aspect at all?!
Having no aspect definitely! But other personal planets need to be in aspect at least.
The most difficult is Moon Square Moon and moon opposing Moon. If you have moon trining moon with the other person or Moon conjunction Moon consider yourself lucky the second-best aspect is moon trining Mercury or Moon sextile Mercury.
@@immortalhygiene actually there is a situation where there are no aspects between two people with the moons and in that case you don't even get along end of story
Ive been talking to a boy for so long who’s Aries moon opposes my libra moon and it feels comfortable being around him and yes we’ve fought and it’s mainly me just leaving every time feeling things change but he allows me to enter back into his life everytime although he holds grudges but idk his energy is addicting and I feel he feels the same way.
That's funny! I have the Aries moon, he has the libra and we're opposing eachother, but! My saturn/jupiter conjunction in libra ALSO conjuncts his moon and opposes my own moon in aries. His sun is conj my asc as well. We enjoy each other's company but he's not willing to invite me into his life more than ... whenever he wants to. I feel like I'm the one always going to him, but he never reciprocates. he's an old high school friend who says he's been in love with me since then but dude. We hadn't talked in 25 years. He's seeing me as a fantasy. i just need more and it seems he's not able to give it.
I have this with my brother and it’s the worst aspect lol, it’s 0 degrees. We get on each other’s nerves and he’s constantly hurting my feelings. I’m a cancer moon and he’s an aries moon
I'm an Aries moon but this isn't an Aries moon thing. This is a misogynistic male thing. He should respect your emotions.
True! We have moon square moon but we also have many sextiles and ASCENDANT CONJUNCT SUN, ASCENDANT CONJUNCT VENUS, ASCENDANT CONJUNCT MARS, Venus CONJUNCT mercury etc.
Good luck Moon Square Moon is not a very good indication for long-term happiness I wish you luck unless you have a moon sextile Mercury or moon trine Mercury.
@@ApplePie.. Such a bitter individual.
Another great video as always. Thank you for your many insights, Jewel. You're the best. Peace.
Great video. You are certainly one of a kind. I cant find your content anywhere else. My boyfriend has an aries moon and my moon is in pisces, but we have sun and moon with the north node contacts, the ascendant to the moon, 4th house and 7th house contacts in synastry. I thought we wouldnt work out when I looked at our synastry but its almost a year since we got together, but its what you said we have other things supporting our relationship.
What if we have moon square moon in synastry but I have my moon in her 1st house ?
We have this, BUT! His Moon/Jupiter/Chiron is on my Cancer Venus Ascendant. So I think that mitigates it a lot, He's Cancer Moon I'm Cancer rising. He helps me get that Lunar Venus connection that is inconjunct in my own chart. He also has Moon inconjunct Venus in his own chart, but the way they connect in our synastry brings them together.
I would love to see moon conjunct moon. can't find much on it
Very different styles causes friction, emotions conflict, wrong interpretation is a struggle to feel secure, resolving this is difficult, respond in an unfamiliar way at your peril, blame synastry, look to other aspects, because of perceived rejection on either part, alienation from reality🆘✅
Moon conjunct moon means that both of you see things mostly the very same way emotionally connect would have to see the rest of the Synastry to see where the rest of the relationship will end up. Specifically where planets end up on your angles and asteroids
My moon in capricorn is opposition to my hubbys moon in gemini..Your 100% correct...Fortunatley we have many other positive aspects that are pretty binding because this one is frustrating....
close but sagittarius is opposite gemini while cancer is opposite capricorn
@@004honchonot if it’s the ending degrees of Gemini..and partner is early degree of Capricorn. This is still an opposition
@@Loveinbetween very true
@@Loveinbetween No, it is a weak opposition between signs that are not naturally opposites and that is a weaker energy, Jewel made a video about it
i have moon square moon with a lot of my pisces moon relationships (and i have many pisces moon/ mars in my life) and i genuinely wanna know how to work this out and what i could do to make the pisces in my life feel comfortable and happy without getting my sagittarius moon in the way…(pisces is in my 5th house of fortune and fun so this is why it’s important for me as a scorpio rising i love my water signs , but dear god i will never get along with cancers)
I have this with someone I see frequently... I couldn't figure out why they make me uncomfortable, but it turns out we have this aspect (his Gemini moon squares my Pisces moon). Even though he is physically attractive and shows interest in me, there's something about him that is repulsive to me.
maybe their lack of depth, loyalty and compromising is repulsive to you. they 'feel' in their head and as long as you're beneficial and go along with their plan they'll stay and you're good in their book. i was part of a collective, of the 5, 3 are gem moon and i'm pisces moon. if their sun is in air too then run for sure
What if in synastry theres sun trine moon and sun conjunct moon, but also moon square moon?
Moon conjunct Sun is a really good aspect for a best friend relationship but it is not a replacement for positive Moon Moon aspects. Such as moon trine moon or moon sextile moon. The rest of the synastry chart has to be an analyzed for a good relationship. What are the Orbs? In order to determine the validity between these aspects you have to pay attention to the orbs the closer the better
@@ApplePie.. Please, go away with you bitter nonsense
What if you have this but also see moon conjunct venus?
Yes I need an answer to this. Also if there is a sun moon double whammy does it mitigate a lot of hard aspects like moon square moon and mars square mars? We have great Jupiter ascendant and Jupiter moon and Jupiter sun aspects too lol
My ex boyfriend and me had a square. My moon is in Taurus, his moon is in Leo. It was a very hard relationship. He was so impulsive and egoistic. Never cared about my feelings...My friend and his husband has a square too. The moon of his husband also opposed by her Venus and squared by her Uranus and Neptune. And her moon is squared by his Pluto. I was wondering if this will work in the long run or not.
Moon in Leo is very difficult to handle and it requires emotional maturity from the other person. Moon in Leo are drama queens.
My partner has it and when she throws one of her tantrums I just ignore her. If she does it in public, I leave her on the spot and she has to take Uber back home. It has been 20 years and we are still together, but she has never learned and never understood it.
Think I asked this on another video but it’s more relevant here- what are your thoughts on Leo moon in a male and cancer moon in a female, since rulers of these moons are yin Yang energies (sun/moon). Does this offer a measure of compatibility or attraction? Or feeling of belonging…
my moon is in scorpio my bf moons in Taurus but I just meet my own emotional needs my moon conjuncts uranus so I feel so detached and like to keep it that way … he seems like he’s super emotional I’m
wondering if it’s bc his moons into my 8th house .
My Venus conjunct moon is right on his ascendant (Venus 0,00 Degree literally) - his moon is in my 4th house
We have hard aspect between moon. But rising conjuct his moon. And his rising conjuct my moon.. so what will happen now?
What if it's not north node to moon but south node to moon? Is it still a good aspect?
moon conjunct moon is also a hard aspect!
I don’t think so. Conjunction just gives a profound similarity that can be unsettling at times, like you’re with your mirror. Feelings are in sync.
That's a really good aspect Moon conjunct Moon
I have seen moon conjunct moon and the relationship seems bland tbh because people are too alike and it lacks the chemistry and differences. Id say moon opposite moon or moon conjunct sun/mars are the top tier :)
Me and someone I really like right now, we have moon sesquiquadrate moon. Both of us are water placements here. However we both have strong sexual energy in our Pluto Trine Mars, Mars trine Jupiter, Ascendant conjuct ascendant. So maybe we have more sexual and attraction towards each other but to be all romantic with feelings it probably wouldn't work out. Yet Ascendant Square Chiron is in our synastry so who knows.
Jewel, what about moon biquintile moon?
That’s a combination of easy and hard.
@@JewelMayberry in your video on Sun biquintile moon you describe it as a wonderful aspect. How come it's good and bad for moon-moon? Thank you for responding!
Si we have moon square moon and sun square sun
a lot of great aspects but moon square moon. No emotional connection
this scares me, i'm a leo moon and he's a scorpio moon so our moons are squared. we vibe very well tho and we have some trines so who knows.
@@camillethompson3429 yes look at the rest. As challenging aspects - He had his moon square both my moon and sun & murcury. Saturn conjunct venus and south node conjunct my sun & murcury.
Hope yours better
@@Nayaniify lord have merthy- 🤯i’m so sorry, that sounds like a nightmare. our sun and venus are trined and our venus are mars are trined so maybe there’s some hope? lol we’ll see.
@@camillethompson3429 How did you go?
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😩😫😖 so no hope then , for a relationship
To me this is a good match because the tention brings sex.
Actually it doesn't Venus Square Mars does
@@ApplePie.. Wrong.
@@ApplePie.. The way you say it is as if all the billion couples that have sexual tension between them all have Venus Square Mars.. Can't you see how impossible (and ridiculous) this statement of yours sounds like?
@@constantinosavraam6657 nope. Depends on the rest of the chart
i meeeean i’ve had moon square moon with an ex and it was the best sex i’ve had so far (due to a bunch of other aspects) but neither of us could care for the other person emotionally in they way they needed. if you don’t feel comfortable and seen by your partner no amount of sexual compatibility will save you. sexual tension just turns into actual tension after a while
What about conjunct? Is that hard?
Since she is not going to answer your question I will Moon conjunct Moon is a really good aspect you really feel each other deeply. This is an excellent placement.
Moon conjunct moon relationships I’ve seen are too bland and lack chemistry because two people are too alike. I haven’t seen a long lasting one. I say moon opposite moon or trine are the best :)
@@Jessknowsbestt REALLY? I always heard it made it more intense. I heard trine is super boring with zero chemistry and no heat!
@@minuit6305 no It’s not I’ve studied a lot of celebrity couples who broke up with this aspect because they’re too alike and feel emotionally exactly the same. Chemistry is when there’s different energies to balance it. Even if they conjunct but different planets such as moon conjunct mars etc. The ideal is for the moon to get with a person who’s sun , ascendent or mars conjunts their moon but with moon it’s either in the same element or an element that’s compatible such as (air+fire) or (earth+water) I can even say from experience as a libra moon I do NOT find libra moon men attractive at all because they’re way too emotionally like me on the other hand Gemini , sag or Aquarius moons are so balancing and intriguing to my moon.