Nurses Fired For Unprofessional TikToks & Nick Carter Accusations + A Little Birthday Fun!
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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16:36 - L&D Nurses TikTok
47:35 - Nick Cater accusations
1:06:36 - birthday party 🎉
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My mom was a nurse for 17 yrs. She worked nights the entire time. There was a time that she gave a patient the literal shoes off of her feet. My mom walked to her car after her shift, in her socks and there was snow on the ground. The hospital did a whole article on her in their newsletter and I had never been more proud of my sweet momma 🩶 Unfortunately she passed away in 2016 and I miss her so much! Nurses are so very important and should take their oath as seriously as my momma did!!!!
RIP to your wonderful Mom ❤️
Thank you to your mom for being a wonderful nurse
@@marykatestevenson176 Thank you so much!! That means a lot!!! 🩶🩶🩶
@anitasweet4675 Awe thank you so much!!! She was def an amazing woman , mom and nurse!!! 🩶🩶🩶
I appreciate your mom ,you should be proud of her.She sounds like she was one of the wonderful nurses 🤍
Both my parents were nurses, my grandmother, and best friend are nurses. I’m a phlebotomist, so I’m also in the healthcare field. This behavior by these nurses is APPALLING!! Nursing is a calling, you take an oath to care for patients without judgment. PERIOD!!!
Yes exactly!!! Their behavior is disgusting and no nurse should ever act like that. Complain to your friends and family or find a different speciality.
Unfortunately SO MANY healthcare professionals dont understand that & thats the main reason, as someone who has addiction issues, i refuse to go to the dr about the gaping wound/bone issues in my arm. I went before for help and they treated me like gutter scum. Im just like anyone else. Im a person. I take care of family, i run a small business, i love & care for my animals. I deserve to be treated, not judged.
I had an emergency c section. Doc got baby out in 45 second. It was scary. We both almost died. (We both made it) but the nurses were like “indint know why you’re in so much pain” my doc was like “what?! That was a extreme surgery!! Of course you’re in pain!!” They were horrible
@@goddammitalana you are loved and you matter💜
@@lyndseybernardi7088 I’m sorry you to go through a traumatic birth. No one should feel/ be treated that way, especially at such a vulnerable time. I’m so happy it ended well for you and baby💜
While I was miscarrying, a nurse told me, "why are you upset? You're barely even pregnant." I'll never forget those words. That dagger. 8 weeks is pregnant. 💔
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. It is 100% not okay.
That's awful and I'm so so sorry for your loss and what that bitch said
I had two miscarriages and it’s painful mentally and physically.. how dare she!! A real mom becomes a mom immediately so the pain is NO different!!..
that is disgusting. so sorry you had to go through that
WOW that's so disgusting she will love to regret that statement that's so so ignorant to say.. deff shouldn't be a dang nurse I'm so sorry she tried to invalidate your feelings and experience in such a hurtful way.. you had every right to be upset clearly from the moment u find out, you get excited and accept the idea of bringing a child into this world i don't care if u only know for a day it's still devastating bc you know that was YOUR CHILD.. I hope that ignorant ass woman isn't a nurse anymore smh how do u go into that field and have NOO bedside manners smh
My niece passed away giving birth. (Baby is awesome today) The nurses came to her funeral. It was sheer devastation to each and every one of them! (It was their first loss like it was ours) They were welcomed with opened arms! They ALL did everything they could do to try to save them both. Not a single one made a fn video. Side note when the next great nephew/niece came months later, they were on staff and rejoiced with us!
so tragic and much more common in America than many know. Sending love to your family ❤ I’m so glad your family was surrounded by strong, compassionate medical professionals
I'm so sorry for the loss of your niece! but so happy the baby is doing great and that you guys all got to celebrate another new life together!! as a nurse myself I know that they were just as happy as your family!!
I am so sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss! 😢 It’s comforting to hear that the nurses went out of their way to make it to the funeral. Bless your family ❤❤
Karelly brings such a sweet and authentic energy to the show 💜✨♐️ She’s 100% the type of gal you’d wanna be besties w 😌
Agreed!!!! ❤
Yesss, I ALWAYS think this.
Happy belated birthday, Karelly!😊
Yes!! Love Karelly ❤
absolutely!! cutie
100% agree!
I just got diagnosed with Hashimoto’s after being sick for 3 years & nobody being able to figure out what was wrong with me. In the 3 years, I’ve met some of the coldest, rudest, just awful medical professionals. I’ve been laughed at, told it’s mental illness, told to google my symptoms & come back when I have an idea of what’s wrong with me, etc. I cannot even believe how many medical professionals are working in the field, that have zero compassion for their patients. I know there’s absolutely some gems out there, but I’ve encountered some of the worst unfortunately. Get out of the medical field if you’re a dick.
I'm sorry you've experienced such awful medical staff
My mom got diagnosed with Hashimotos as well and she broke down crying one time because she felt like she was going crazy since all of the medical professionals she went to told her they didn’t know what was wrong and gave her placebo pills. It was awful to watch her go through hell just to get diagnosed and finally understand what is wrong.
I feel this SO HARD I was going to med school and started having seizures out of nowhere after so many doctors they told me it was “Anxiety” literally couldn’t tell me anything but to go to a psychiatrist. Gave me meds that made me puke for 3 days and made the capillaries behind me eyes burst my anatomy teacher at the time told me. “There is a reason it’s called a practice.” Hun…WTF?!? I got kicked out of school for being a “Liability” and decided right then and there I was done with the medical field and had ZERO interest in continuing. It’s scary.
I find that medical professionals are terrible when dealing with chronic illness/autoimmune diseases. They’re so complex that when they get stumped they just downplay it or undiagnose you. It’s happened to my mum. Truly terrible!
That's awful I can't imagine how that has been for you❤️ and for them to say Google your symptoms and come back is disgusting, that's their job is to help investigate what symptoms you have and what it could be.
AS A NURSE I 100% agree they should be fired. I’d that’s how you feel about patients enough to make a TikTok about you shouldn’t be in this profession. Nursing is hard. Taxing in all aspects. You know what you signed up for. I go above and beyond for even my needy patients. They’re in the most vulnerable state and I am here to make their hard time better. It’s my goal. This is disgusting to me.
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Exactly. It is hard and I can’t imagine how worn out you get, but anyone with a conscience would never have the attitude that they do. We appreciate people like you who actually care and are in that field for good reason. You make all the difference. My aunt was an run for 30 years and I never heard her talk down on anyone she helped.
Thank you for being a great nurse, I spend a lot of time in the hospital and I appreciate all the nice nurses.They can make or break your day
You are an angel. I come from a family of nurses and it is a calling. Not all people can do it. Nurses are the best people in the world!!!! Thank you
so i am just a lab professional contracted in to draw blood at nursing homes. one morning i went in and a patient wasn’t responding so i went to ask a nurse if she was on heavy medication or if something was wrong or what was going on this patient was new. the nurse went in picked this patient max of 80 pounds soaking wet up literally 3 feet up off the bed and then dropped her on the bed and said “she’s up now” and walked out. thats not even my worst experience with a nurse- but it was the first time i had to report someone to the state for misconduct. i was disgusted .
The Emory Nurses' situation absolutely disgusts me. That's not how nurses should act at all. My grandmother used to work there, and we were talking about the situation, I showed her the video, and it absolutely disgusted her to a point she cried. These women take a profession full of so much love and are destroying it.
My mom has been a nurse for almost 50 years. She’s been in administration for probably 20 years. She felt she could help more patients moving to admin. Anywho, I showed her a video and she got so pissed at what they were saying and doing. She said taking care of patients is their f-ing job! She would have absolutely fired any of her nurses that acted the same way. She is very much about the patient and she will back her nurses if they are in the right, but she will never have mercy for nurses that are this way. I’ve never once hear her talk about patients. Does she have her times she’s vented about other work stuff? Absolutely and there is def nothing wrong with venting. But, find one person to do it with and don’t post it to social media while on the clock. This is just crazy behavior.
im obsessed with karelly honestly she really does add SO much to the show and she’s fucking beautiful. happy birthday queen 💘
Just hearing Kendall saying to Karelly “you can just jump on the companies insurance” was so nice because that’s such a bitch to find in your own if your work doesn’t offer 😂
Yes, I'm impressed that they offer it! Very cool.
How would that work? I hope Kendall Rae provides health ensurance
@@aq1516 yes, the Mile Higher business provides insurance for their employees, which is excellent.
Happy Birthday to Karelly 🎉 from another Sagittarius gal! I knew she were a Sag, totally Sagittarius vibes! 🙌 love her, she adds so much to this show!
Girl I work as a server in a restaurant and I can imagine how inappropriate it would be to start recording a TikTok on my phone on the clock, let alone AT THE HOSPITAL as a PROFESSIONAL 🤯
Yet, many servers have tik toks making fun of their customers. Not saying these nurses are right, but they are not the only profession doing this.
Ikr? We did stuff when we were on breaks or before or after work and we didn't do stuff that hospital did. The worst we did was prank each other in the kitchen was when co workers started coming in.
my mother has been a nurse for almost 20 years and she still gets praised for her bedside manners & regularly gets gifts from past/repeat patients. nursing is something that truly has to be in you, it is not just a job for easy money. the whole situation is sickening.
Easy money ?
I had my first baby last month and im so thankful for my amazing nurses making my labor and delivery as smooth as possible. I cant imagine having a crappy experience and then having those nurses talk shit about me on the internet. Those tiktoks nurses were annoyed at pregnant patients asking for water and showers? Wtf
I work as a medical secretary. In orientation we got friendly advice along the lines of “if you post something on social media, pretend your boss & CEO will see it”. it was great advice I still follow
I’m a nurse, never worked in L&D but worked in ICU and I couldn’t even imagine using social media to complain about poor patients or struggles. Hospitals need to have more rules in place and warn the employees against this ridiculous behavior.
Recently had an appointment and as I was telling the doctor my symptoms he said “you have a very vivid imagination don’t you” I felt so dismissed that doctors was horrible I left with no help and feeling hopeless
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Holy shit. Did you report that, try and find another doc?? I’m so sorry. Hope you’re getting better treatment now ❤ male doctors should have “mystery shopper” female patients and vice versa to ensure gender bias is caught or something honestly
I so would have filed a complaint against him and bot return to that practice
even though this episode was heavier - the ending where karelly opens her gifts is so wholesome. i love this crew - you guys are the internets best big sisters
Karelly is my birthday twin down to the year! happy belated 🥳♐️ thank all of you ladies for everything you do, sending much love and good vibes your way 😌💖
Happy belated 🎉♐️ I hope you had a beautiful day!!
Happy Belated Birthday! 🎉 I
hope that your birthday was as incredible as you are.
To explain the call light thing from a nurse’s perspective: nurses are often catching up on charting at the nurses station. When you come to the nurses station asking for something, there is an expectation that the nurse will stop everything they are doing to complete your request. When you press the call light it gives them an opportunity to finish the charting that they are working on and then go get you a water or blanket. Not excusing the TikTok but just wanted to explain why that can be annoying. Although I think most nurse’s understand that the patient or family member is just trying to be helpful 🙂
From a fellow nurse, this is the perfect way to explain it! We are always happy to serve you and make sure you are comfortable with warm blankets, water, crackers, etc. However, sometimes we can’t drop everything and do that right then and there when there are other more urgent things happening with other patients, so hitting the call light instead gives us the chance to prioritize care and make sure everyone is taken care of💕
@@emilys.7627 thank you! I wasn’t sure if my comment would be taken the wrong way, I considered deleting. Thanks for validating me 😂 still, that TikTok was horrible 🥴
Agreed! Also, as an ED nurse, at my hospital, our registration person usually takes the call bell calls and announces what the need is. Therefore anyone available, charge nurse, other nurses, ED techs, etc., can help grab blankets or drinks. Allows me to cont. charting or giving meds, for example.
There’s a policy at the hospital I work at that the nurses/aides have to answer the call light within a certain amt of time when it goes off. Charting can wait. Patients shouldn’t. If you’re taking care of another patient, that’s one thing. But for charting, no. But aides and nurses should be working together as well.
As a 3 time maturnity patient if I press my call light it's because I need IMMEDIATE attention/help. It's not for ice or water. What if the patient us bleeding, what if their stitches ripped, what if something is wrong and they are scared and yall are ignoring her calls. I call bullshit. Get up and make sure your patient is okay! That's your job!
I’m a nurse and genuinely would never make a tik tok like that in the entire world it’s disgusting
I appreciate you!
@@anitasweet454 oh thank u so much
I had one horrible nurse, but the other one that I had for most of the time after I gave birth was AMAZING. Made me want to go to nursing school to specialize in labor and delivery because I know how big of a difference you can make in a mothers experience by being a good person and a good nurse.
Gotta say I'm not terribly surprised by what those nurses did. I worked as a medical scribe for a year at a cancer center and the nurses there were some of the most miserable, hateful people I've ever met. The things they would say about their cancer patients... so out of line... Obviously not all nurses are like this, but too many are and it's so infuriating.
I love how you show each other how much you love them! Especially on their birthdays! I think karelly cut her hair, I love it it really suits you!! Love you all and happy late birthday karelly!
Thank you so much!! and yes i did cut my hair :)
The work culture at your office is probably phenomenal. You all just radiate positivity 🥰
Yeah as a nurse we aren't supposed to post on socials in our uniform or anything that could look bad to employer. Also opens up for a lot of litigation.
It's good that they did so everyone can see how trash they are. As someone in the medical field I am so embarrassed
@@sarahbrivio4159 don’t be embarrassed,you are one of the angels and as a cancer patient I appreciate you
As a nurse these stories break my heart. No one should ever be treated like that. Of course we are tired and we deal with a lot but there’s never a reason to treat patients like that. So sad.
I’ve had good nurses and some who were really rude.
When I went to the ER with a herniated disc, the intake nurse literally told me I was making it up because I was too young to be in that much pain. I couldn’t even sit down, so I stood in the waiting room for close to 6 hours just trying not to scream, on top of the 11 hours I had been standing at home.
But the nurse I got in the back not only took me seriously, but when I was struggling to even get in the hospital bed she lifted me up herself and gently placed me there and moved me up to the triage unit. I was shivering from the pain so she ran to grab me 2 blankets and pumped my IV twice with painkillers and stayed there to chat with me about our favorite movies to calm me down while the drugs kicked in.
It was the worst pain I’ve ever been in and it took me almost 2 years of physical therapy, steroids, and muscle relaxers/painkillers to recover.
There was another time when I went to see a crisis therapist after a particularly bad DV relationship, and the therapist listened to what I said, looked at me, and asked if I wouldn’t be happier if I lost weight. This woman was 4x my size.
So I went to a different crisis therapist and she gave me all the resources I needed to leave the relationship.
I had my son in June 2020, and I had a ton of nurses but had one most of the time during the harder parts that was very motherly, my mom couldn’t be there cause of covid so it was just my husband. That nurse was “off” when I went in for an emergency c section and they couldn’t find my son’s heartbeat and I was freaking out without my husband back there and she came over and stayed by my side even though she wasn’t really supposed to and wasn’t even clocked in. She didn’t leave til my husband came in ❤
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Good people out there
The nurse tictok made me cry.
I was the person who came in saying I didn't want an epidural. I had put a lot of importance on doing it that way and the decision to get the epidural was a very difficult decision and I felt such guilt. I thought I was a failure. Thankfully my nurse was amazing, supportive, and most importantly allowed me to make my own choice without pressure but with support. I was bawling, apologizing to my husband.
I'm 11 weeks PP and I am so thankful I did not deliver at THAT hospital...
Edit to add- the reason I changed my mind about the epidural is because I fighting an infection at that time and was becoming incredibly weak, I was worried I wouldn't be strong enough to push and I had been fighting that infection for about 24 hours before it was caught. I can handle pain, I practice human body suspension it wasn't that I couldn't handle pain. It was because I was ill and needed relief.
As an Aussie nurse my understanding is HIPPA itself doesn’t specify on technology laws, but hospitals and healthcare services individually have social media policies that state you are not allowed to film or record in your workplace or in your uniform. Those nurses absolutely knew better than to film themselves at work in their uniforms!
yeah hipaa’s regulations mainly cover explicit sharing of info (like if you filmed a pt’s chart or talked about a patient with identifying details).
but shit-talking and using unspecific details isn’t what the law encompasses. however, like you said there’s a code of conduct you’re expected to follow at any workplace and ya gotta follow it. they definitely deserved to get fired for it, they knew what they were doing
for example, im a pharmacy tech and so i have to follow all of hipaa’s regulations. so like if i filmed the computer or gave info about a specific person, it’d be the same as me showing the computer to a person in-person, or talking to someone face to face who isn’t involved in the patient’s care
but my job has other rules to follow so while i can talk about the non-hipaa parts of my job, i’m supposed to say my views aren’t representative of the company (assuming i bring up which company i work for, ideally for your own privacy reasons ya don’t talk about where you work)
Lol I had to pause the new mile higher episode to watch this first! You guys are always the highlight of my week ☺️
Same here 💕
The new mile higher was so interesting!!
I did the same! I almost felt guilty and was thinking "I'll be back guys, so sorry, just gotta watch this one real quick then I promise I'll be back, sorry Josh" lol
I have loved every single channel/podcast for years but The Sesh is truly the highlight of my week as well ❤
Considering how advanced we are as a country, our maternal/infant mortality rates are absolutely absurd. I can't imagine what that mother went through, and what many more continue to go through. I've learned that it is so incredibly important to educate ourselves when pregnant. Especially in densely populated areas where OBGYNs are overly congested. The clinics and hospitals inevitably start to run like an assembly line, and every patient becomes a number. You can't be afraid to ask questions and advocate for your own care, respectfully but assertively. While we should be able to rely on our medical professionals to care about us and our experience, it's just not realistic anymore. I felt completely powerless when I had my first, and my experience throughout the whole pregnancy and delivery was scary, disheartening, and traumatic. So now, going through my second pregnancy, I'm taking a much more proactive approach. I show up to my appointments with a notebook full of questions, my plan is to leave no stone unturned. And if that annoys the nurses, so be it. And if I'm mistreated in retaliation, I will speak up and I will defend myself. I think some of them have done the job for so long that they become disconnected as a human being. And I understand how that happens, but if you're in that position it is your responsibility to be aware of where you're at mentally, and how you affect your patients. If you get to the point where you just don't care anymore and can't muster up the slightest bit of compassion, it's time to do something differently. Not just for your patients, but for yourself. And that goes for a lot of other professions as well, including law enforcement, psychiatric care, social work, child care / teaching, etc. There are so many good ones out there. I still believe that there are more good ones than bad ones. But it's those few bad apples that end up doing so much damage. Shit's gotta change.
As a RN, now SAHM, I cannot believe those nurse. When I worked at the hospital, I experienced some of the worst harassment of my entire life from patients, doctors, and nurses. My patient load was at its max and I was so tired. HOWEVER, not once did I complain about any of my patients needs. My heart breaks because nurses have harden and have forgotten what an honor it is.
As a mom of a baby who was in the NICU for the first 68 days of her life, I can confirm that there are 100% nurses who love your child and will do whatever they can to make this experience a little less harsh, but then there are also 100% nurse who do not care for your child, and it’s terrifying that there’s people in health care like that.
I love that my day off every week is Thursday’s, so every Thursday I can have a smoke sesh while watching and painting. Highlight of my week ❤
As A labor and delivery nurse this is so disgusting and I just want to say if you come in for your induction and want to get your food in you and the shower out of the way like I am so happy to get that done for you before you become uncomfortable, knowing that you could have eaten and you could’ve showered but now you’re 8 cm and you still have a little bit to go before you get to meet your baby. Ugh!!! 💙💗👣
Seriously asking because I don't know... but if someone had an induction scheduled, why would they not shower and eat at home prior to going to the appointment?
@@sarahschouveller1993 because they ask you not to eat for bloodwork prior to induction.
This is my comfort podcast and has been for YEARS I love you guys!! Happy birthday Karelly!! 🥳🥳
I’m a respiratory therapist in colorado and most hospitals I’ve worked at there is a social media and cell phone policy which usually states you can’t record or take photos
Ladies, Im honestly excited for this sesh! Also Happy belated Birthday Karelly🎉🎉🎉🥹
thank you!! 💜
My god, im 31 and don't plan to have any kids but this warriors story of how she lost her child had me in tears, bawling, with chills all up and down my body. I don't even know what to say as someone who has spent a LOT of time in hospitals i FULLY understand what she means by their energy. When i was in ICU, i was one of the only patients awake, most were put into a medically induced coma to treatment so these nurses didn't have to deal with people who were awake most of the time and i swear to God, to this day, i remember the faces of those nurses and will never forget them. I honestly and truly do not understand why some of these nurses are in the field they are in and when i think about it too long i get so triggered, so upset i could cry any time i think about it. I'm terrified to go to the doctor now, even if im severly injured it takes SO much to get me to go to the ER bc of those bad people who decided yeah let me be a fucking NURSE but i really do hate everyone who breathes.
I absolutely love the dynamic of the show. You really are a little family and it absolutely shows!
As a nurse myself, I am so beside myself. It is giving nurses such a bad light, and causing mistrust! This is so sad and frustrating!! I am glad they are all being held accountable.
Thank you. I've been to the doctor a lot lately.
I really hope I am Not judged.. but so weird
It really is, it has people terrified to trust anyone in the medical field because of videos like this and it shouldn't be that way
I microdosed this morning and this is the comfiest thing to watch. I love the sesh thank you ladies!! I know it’s cringe but i always say to myself that I’m chilling with the girlies when I’m about to put an episode on😭❤️ happy bday karelly!! And glad ur back Syd it’s never complete without you❤️
Ugh.. the nurse thing is so triggering. I’m glad these nurses are so bad that they feel free to expose themselves! When I had my twins they were rushed away and I couldn’t hold them for hours and hours. With my singleton baby I didn’t expect to have to give her up at all. And I didn’t. But the nurse assigned to my care made that experience even worse than when I had my twins. It was a planned c-section. She told me they wouldn’t be giving me pain medication. I knew she was entirely wrong lol but I said ok that’s cool as I was only wanting to get my child out of my body at that point. I wasn’t there to seek meds I was there to evacuate my tenant lol. She was so rude. As I’m getting cut open she’s telling the doctor I gave cat scratches on my leg. Just obsessed with
These “cat scratches” the doctor called her out “why do I care if she has a cat?!”
And instead of dropping it she decided to complain to the other nurses about the doctor lol. Then she refused to bathe my newborn. Which ok. But also let me sit in the same bloody pad that I had already worn for hours because according to her I wasn’t”the only patient” lol. When honestly she didn’t seem to understand that I was even physically there. Nursing is such a difficult profession but there are so many of them that judge before they even get to meet you. Goes without saying the entire healthcare system needs an overhaul.
Emory Atlanta saved My daughters life when pregnant with a baby whom had Potters Syndrome. Don't really care what the nurses were doing, just the Dr. 2 healthy grandbabies wish we had Potts
My mom was a L&D nurse for most of my life (different department & hospital now) and it really takes a bad ass, strong, kind & compassionate person to work in that field- I've seen her come home glowing from a lovely interaction with a patient & their family, I've also seen her come home absolutely devastated and in tears from a bad outcome with mom and/or baby (never ever gave us details, we just knew her well enough to tell). She's the definition of soft yet strong. And i really hate that there are people in the medical field that can be so cold & careless. It overshadows all the lovely caring humans keeping us healthy/alive.
I am very fortunate and blessed to be a nurse, being able to care for people and also know my rights when I am in the patient position. After having my daughter, they would ignore my call light and sit at the desk doing nothing. Multiple times my friend who is also in healthcare had to restart my antibiotic IV drip because they would ignore the alarm and let it be clogged. It scares me that some people don't know what's going on or what rights they have.
I’m graduating from my masters in nursing today! Side note: I have to make the valedictorian speech and am quietly sh**ting myself lol. Gonna have this on to distract myself as I get ready! Nursing is such a special and meaningful profession, to me some of the tik toks I’ve seen have been really in bad taste and I’m generally pretty against them.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Good Luck!!! I'm sure your speech will be amazing ❤
Congrats!! that's incredible!! Good luck on your speech 🙌🏼
Omg thank you guys so much!!!! I was going to post another reply about how upsetting I found that video.. but then I saw all these congrats messages! 😭🥰
I hadn’t seen the actual tiktok when I wrote that and honestly the behaviour hurts my heart, and just shows these people aren’t in the right profession. You’re so right that nursing is a huge privilege, it’s such an honour and I have 0 tolerance for any behaviour that fails to respect that! Sadly the vast majority of nurses are wonderful people but it’s the 2% who are immature and not suited to the role who make videos like that tik tok trying to chase clout! So embarrassing, so gross, I just don’t get it honestly! Kinda glad this was discussed by you guys.
Congratulations on graduating with your masters in nursing! 💗 And I wish you the best of luck with your speech. I am sure you will do an incredible job. 💞
Okay.. the Nick Carter story made me pause. I was at THAT EXACT concert. Tacoma Dome, Black & Blue tour. I was 15 and my first concert & do excited cause my mom got me floor seats for my birthday
When you guys were talking about not knowing how good you have it when you’re a kid made me think of the Andy Bernard quote "I wish there was a way to know you were in the good old days before you actually left them." WHICH IS A REFERENCE JANELLE WON’T GET lol breaks my heart!
My heart broke for the woman that eventually lost her son and was treated so abhorrently by the nurses in L&D and the NICU. 💔 My SIL is an incredible NICU nurse and goes above and beyond to ensure that all of the babies and parents are taken care of to the best of her ability. I hope that those that are in the wrong profession leave the profession and do something else with their lives. Doctors and nurses are there to help patients not make things even worse. Mama Doctor Jones has made a lot of informative videos on the topic of infant and mother mortality rates during labor and delivery here in the States and how it is exponentially higher for African American women and babies. Clearly our health care system, especially in regard to women’s reproductive health, needs an overhaul to improve the outcomes for pregnant mothers throughout the States.
As an ER nurse and a flight nurse I can say that there is a problem on both sides of the coin. Nurses are presenting themselves online (in uniform) therefore representing the profession in a light that the board of nursing can call “conduct unbecoming” and they don’t realize that by saying and doing these things you could not only lose you job but your license. Patients are becoming more belligerent, antagonistic, threatening and violent than I have ever seen in my 15 + years in this career. This could be rectified by blanket state and federal laws making it a crime to threaten healthcare workers AND backing from the companies that own the hospitals that we want safe work environments.
Yay the whole gang is back!! Looking fabulous and festive, ladies!
My mom is a nurse and tbh the hardest thing for her are families that sometimes are asking about meds that nurse obviously can't talk about, screaming at nurses, claiming that nurses are stealing for patients even though people on the ward are eldrely with dementia etc and they often lose stuff. My mother is great nurse working for over 30 years now. In my country Saint Nicholas Day is a big thing and people are exchanging presents with their family, boyfriends etc so in the last few years she organise it at her ward buying gifts just to make patients happy. Obviously she is often very tired and underpayed. This job is very difficult. She was threatened to be sued just because she didn't answer question about meds which is ridiculous. Respect for all the nurses that put their hearts into this job. You are true superheroes. Also best wishes to Karelly 💗 Amazing gifts from Sydney, Janelle and Kendall.
Love when the sesh posts 🥰it always gives me a boost of serotonin to get through the day🥳
My first two births were at a big, busy hospital. I felt like everyone was rushing and impatient, were annoyed with me for not wanting an epidural and for "taking too long". It just felt like they wanted to rush the birth and get it over with, so they could get the next person in. I did not feel supported and cared for. My third birth was at a smaller hospital and it was amazing! The midwife and nurses were so friendly and patient. I just felt like I had all the time in the world to do things my way. When I'm in pain, I go into a sort of very quiet, very still, shutdown state. That's how I cope with things. They just let me get on with it, they did not tell me to get up and walk, get procedures done to speed things up, etc. I felt very safe and relaxed. I'm still grateful to them!
kendalls stepping it up this episode with TWO stanley cups at the same time
I'm an ER nurse, never worked L&D, and agreed I'd never film at work nor post something complaining about patients. The general public have no idea the responsibility nurses have, and can't understand how things we may complain to coworkers about are frustrating. As an ER nurse I may have 6 patients one being an ICU patient on multiple drips, a stroke, an abdominal pain, a NSTEMI that I need to start a heparin drip on but I need to get an accurate weight on first, another patient that I need to take upstairs, and I just got another patient in the room that I just discharged and it isn't even clean yet and I haven't even charted on that pt I that just left. We're busy and unfortunately i can't always timely get to things patients request thay arent emergent. We had 9 cardiac arrests in 36 hours the last weekend I worked. We're coding a patient in one room and after coding that patient for 45 minutes I answer a call light and that patient is making rude comments about how long it took for me to answer the call light. Some patients suck, some family members suck but they will always be treated with respect and kindness even when it's hard or they treat you poorly. We're doing our best. I may complain but never in a tiktok filmed at work.
There should not be a statue of limitations for cases like this. So sad
I love all 4 of your guy's energy together. It feels like I get to hang out with the girls which is nice since I'm on the way other side of the country from my home for almost 2 years now. Keep up the good work gals
I worked at sonic before and was told right away that we were not allowed to film inside the building/make tiktoks for privacy reasons, so it's just crazy to me that these nurses could do that. I'd say there is more personal things going on in the hospital then in the back of sonic. Watching the ick video made me wonder if I had done something wrong or annoying when I had gone into labor. I'm glad they lost their jobs.
I actually work at the hospital they were employed at as a nurse myself and the general consensus of everyone else in the hospital is that we are all pretty disturbed by the behavior. “Breakroom” talk is just that, talk that is shared in private with your cohorts… not shared on social media. Or better yet, in some cases, not verbalized at all! These patients depend on us, and to make fun of them for asking for a blanket? What’s the patient supposed to do, get up and get it themselves?
Patients can be rude, mean, condescending and make your job miserable but that kind of patient is very few and far between. The majority of patients are there against their will, vulnerable and want to go home. They depend on your care to SURVIVE the hospitalization.
Nursing is a pleasure, and it’s a shame these nurses now have us all in the spotlight. We have it hard enough without the whole world turning on us thinking we are uncaring monsters. I am sincerely sorry to anyone who feels betrayed or triggered by their abhorrent behavior.
Not ALL nurses are like this. Some have the maturity to keep their thoughts to themselves. I put myself in the patient's position the second I get frustrated--it quickly diffuses because I know my service matters. Not only to the patient but their family. They want their family member healthy and at home. I really hope they start showing these in nursing classes as an example of unprofessionalism at it's finest.
I don’t plan on having children but seeing those nurse videos made me so angry. Although labor can be a beautiful thing, it is also physically and emotionally vulnerable and traumatic. I would be so insecure and hesitant to ask for help after hearing what thoughts go on in the heads of labor and delivery staff.
When my son passed away I had a terrible nurse. I had never had a baby and I hadn't felt him move (I was 28 weeks) in a day and the damn nurse said "And you waited this long?" It was 4 am because I was so worried and my son was stillborn.
I’m so sorry for your loss 🤍
Thank you Karelly for mentioning that the loss of a loved one is a private, intimate moment and it truly is. No one knows how it feels to watch your loved one take their last breath until it happens to you, it is such an intimate moment and memory that you want to keep just for yourself. Love you girls and all your content, new videos of The Sesh always make my days. ❤️
Happy Birthday Karelly!! You bring such light to the podcast.
This is so heartbreaking. Especially considering how hard it is to access affordable resources for this kind of trauma (or trauma in general).
It hits on so many levels. I couldn’t imagine having to navigate something like this. I just want to go hug them all 💔
Happy birthday Karelly!! We love you and we appreciate everything you contribute to the shows and all! You’re amazing and beautiful ♥️
I’d like to add as a medical professional (emergency medicine) that talking to coworkers helps process those more difficult calls. Mocking your patients for having basic needs and questions in an unfamiliar situation is disgusting
I believe the biggest problem is that health care workers believe they are above the rest.. I hate getting treated like we are less than doctors and nurses
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my mom is a nurse (i’ve grown up around health care workers my whole life) and i work as a pharmacy tech now and some health care workers get big ass egos from it
idk i think feeling like youre in control of someone’s health goes to people’s heads especially since we can be seen as authority figures in a way. ofc they’re good health care workers but more of us need to know how delicate the situations we deal with are.
nobody wants to be made to feel shame or embarrassed by someone with authority
Hearing Kendall slating the take off of the top made me so happy. I work in the Vancouver film industry and “clap board” is the right term. But, on set they just call it a slate. The clip itself gives the beginning of the podcast an even more personable vibe! LOVE IT
Girl you're livin my dream life!
My daughter is almost 16 now, but I still remember her birth and our hospital stay like it was yesterday. It was hands down, the best few days of my life. The whole experience was so amazing, especially because of the awesome nurses and hospital staff that helped us. I can’t imagine having that special time in my life ruined by a bunch of caddy bitches who are so unhappy with their own lives that they have to shit on others. If I would have seen that tick tock days before giving birth, it would have made me feel like I was bothering my nurses just by asking for things that I literally needed! I’m glad they got fired!
With my first baby I felt like trash because a nurse kept saying how young I looked. I was 19 and scared and then I felt stupid by a nurse. I wish I could go back and have a back bone
My husband just got over Covid about two weeks ago. He’s that type of person who never gets sick and when he does he goes down hard. I surprisingly tested negative. There’s a lot of sickness shit going around.
Mom of four here. I didn’t think the nurse video was that big of a deal. The shower thing I totally get. You check in for a *scheduled* induction and want a shower? Why wouldn’t you just shower at home? Idk. I guess I just disagree with how strongly you’re against it. Probably not a good idea for them to have made and posted it but their opinions for the most part make sense. They’re allowed to have complaints about a job, but they probably shouldn’t post it publicly.
I appreciate you.
I broke my arm last week. The pain was so bad. I was at the emergency room and my mom went to go ask the nurse if there was anything I might be able to throw up in if I needed to. I felt like I was going to because of the pain. The nurse looked at my mom, rolled her eyes, and said, “Well why can’t she walk?”
Honestly I could have walked but I had just gotten into a comfortable enough position to where my arm wasn’t hurting as bad. It made me feel really bad about being in pain :/
I just have to say...I freaking love this show. And a big happy 25th birthday to Karelly!!
I absolutely adore ya'll and love the new introduction!
I've been a BSB fan since they first came out. Nick was my biggest crush. What has been pissing me off so much during this is the people defending him, saying nasty things about her but worst of all thr pathetic "why now"? Last year, after 20 years I confronted mine. It's only been a few years that I finally understood it wasn't my fault. I was 14 he was 21. So seriously fk you to anyone saying "why now, after all these years". Trauma has no time limit. I believe her.
First, nurse TikTok is very cringe. I’m an icu nurse so it’s a little different. I prefer my patients and their families use the call light because if I’m at the nursing station, im typically charting, placing orders, and/or speaking with doctors. It’s the expectation to drop everything I am doing to get a blanket that is a little frustrating. If the call light is used, I can find a good stopping point to help the patient or the CNA to grab it for them. It’s not the biggest deal but it is preference because I have to log out of my computer every time I leave it. It slows down a lot of what I have going on especially when I’m having to chart every 15 minutes :) no excuses for their behavior but as a nurse that is why I prefer you use the call light.
What gives me the ick is when nurses are talking shit when people are paying literally thousands of dollars to be there to he helped. Gross.
It honestly sounds like their child could have been saved if she would have gotten the medical attention she needed when she first went in.
Regarding the nurses .. I work in a hospital and can confirm that we do have a policy which states that no videos or pictures taken in any work setting can be posted to social media unless approved by an exec for marketing purposes. I'm sure it's not the same everywhere but I'm willing to bet money that MOST hospitals have policies similar to this.
Love you girls 🥰 always make my days more delightful
STOP I didn’t think ya’ll would seriously get the clapperboard 😂🤣 Ya’ll crack me up!
It took me a week to test positive after my husband got it…keep testing Carelly, just in case. It could take up to 9-10 days in some instances while that shit incubates lol
As long as there are no personal identifiers of a patient (name, address, social security number, place of employment, phone number, etc), you can discuss a situation and it does not break HIPAA. So, if I were a patient, someone could tell a story such as “I was taking care of a 25-year old female at work today with the flu that she obtained from a coworker” but they cannot say “I was taking care of a 25-year woman named Blahblah who stated she got the flu from her job at Starbucks on 1st Ave.”
HOWEVER, that company for sure has a no phone policy. I would imagine that their reason for termination was breach of contract for using phones at work or “stealing time”. I also know that the hospital I work for has a clause in our contract where it says we cannot bring negative attention to the hospital on social media. I would say filming in uniform at the hospital is a one way ticket out of the door.
They didn’t break HIPAA, but I am glad they were fired. Horrifying that they were ever working with mothers and babies.
IF YOU DONT WANT TO HELP PEOPLE DONT BECOME A NURSE!!!! Wow. That broke my heart
As someone who is in nursing school and working towards becoming an NP in labor & delivery, I couldn’t IMAGINE talking about patients like they did. It’s such a beautiful process and the moms need comfort and reassurance, not to be felt like they’re a burden. I feel terrible thinking about how the women who delivered with these nurses felt when seeing the video.
The woman who lost her son 😔 .....my heart breaks for her. I don't know what I would've done if I lost my son like that ...and the fact that those nurses were just horrible to her and her wife just makes it a thousand times worse...may her little boy r.i.p and I hope those nurses never work in healthcare again
The nurses talking about their pts is MY ICK. As a nurse myself I have seen and been with pts during their hardest and worst moments. Sure some things can stress you out but it’s disgusting to post this on tik tok. Especially when you know they just want views!! Nursing is supposed to be a trusted profession and the nurses who chose to bash pts publicly/ pull all these weird exploitative stunts for views are harming that.
happy birthday karelly!!! 🥳 you truly add so much to the show. thank you guys for your positive energy and light every week🤎🤎
I’m in Atlanta and heard a lot of bad things about Emory, I’m so grateful I delivered at Piedmont after seeing this tik tok.
I watch a RUclipsr named Sloan sometimes. He just released a video saying Nick Carter & his family are now threatening him & his family because Sloan released a video about these allegations. That’s what he does though, he reports celebrity gossip. This isn’t the first time a celebrity has come after him, Drake Bell and few others have as well😅. But I’ve never seen him look so scared from a threat before honestly. Watching the part where this girl said he was saying horrible things to ensure she wouldn’t come forward about the Sa, and how scared she looked is how scared he looked the other night. It’s hard to know in these situations but my gut tells me Nick Carter is a pos..
As someone who got my PhD at Emory & worked in a medical building, I am completely unsurprised by the nurse video. I met some of the worst people of my life there.
I did not give birth at that hospital, but I gave birth at the hospital I take people to all the time. (Im a medic) A hospital I trusted. 39 hours into my labor they were ready to do a c section. I was screaming that I couldn't sit up for the epidural, i was gunna sit on my baby, i could feel her ect. This one nurse..... she yanked me up, as im screaming and shaking, PUTS HER HAND OVER MY MOUTH AND TELLS ME TO BE QUIET, and they hold me for the epidural. Im still screaming i cant do it. They lay me back and sure enough... she was crowning. I was feeling her come out, nobody would listen. I ended up pushing and giving birth, epidural didnt even work anyways, and its actually caused issues with my spine and a portion of muscle in my back. It was not a good experience. I wish I had just given birth at home now honestly. But my girl is healthy and almost 5 months old now. ❤️
Oh my Lord, I am so sorry you went through that. Reminds me of this crazy old dentist from my home town. I knew someone who took her 5 year old to get fillings, and he cried while getting the shots. This woman got mad at him for crying, threatened to make it hurt worse, and then pushed the needle in so hard that it broke off in this poor baby's mouth. She then left it in there while she took her sweet damn time getting a new needle. The unfortunate truth is that some people take positions of service in order to take their hatred out on vulnerable people. We see this with nurses, doctors, cops, social workers, even judges. I had nurses who treated me like trash when I had my first, And I truly believe it was because I was young. It felt like they were annoyed because I was inexperienced. I think being on Medicaid also had something to do with it. Where I live, Medicaid patients are less than human. They also placed my epidural incorrectly, snapped at me when I convulsed (involuntarily) and I now have permanent nerve damage. Also, due to the improper placement, I felt them cut into me when I was rushed back for an emergency C-section. They had to give me ketamine, so I don't remember my daughter entering the world. It bothered me for a long time, but I choose to take comfort knowing that my husband got to meet her first, which is still incredibly special to me. 8 years later, I'm now pregnant with my second, And I drive almost an hour to a much better facility for my care. I'm hoping for a much smoother delivery this time around. 😅 Anywho, I'm so very glad you're little one is doing well. I suppose at the end of the day, that's all that really matters.
Happy belated Bday Karelly! I’m catching up after this week’s episode. I would love to see your artistic creations on the channel more. My advice for 25 is to ask for help even when you may not be sure you need it, and to not be so hard on yourself internally. 25-29 and 30 come laden with lots of expectations, and even if you’re happy with your goals it can be hard to enjoy your achievements with how much crap you’re trying to manage. So that’s my bday advice, take it easy on yourself and take lots of selfies with your friends! :3
Idk guys, Nick Carter could have gotten anybody he wanted. And he only ever wanted beautiful, skinny girls, who he could brag about. Not saying this lady is ugly, but I don’t think she met Nick Carter’s standards. I don’t think he would have been with somebody with cerebral palsy, esp when he could be with anybody. And I’m saying this because HE was/is THAT shallow, not that I myself think she’s not good enough for him. I also see several red flags w body language. In hs, my close friend (until this incident) falsely accused someone to get out of trouble w her parents. When she told them the story, I was there, and she sounded this upset. It was eerily similar. And it wasn’t because it happened, it was bcuz she made it up and was scared of getting caught. Btw, I know she made it up because I was w her the night it supposedly happened, and she talked to me after abt how scared she was her parents wouldn’t fall for it. If we’ve learned anything from the DJ/AH fiasco, it’s that all women’s stories should be listened to and investigated, not immediately believed without question. Because thanks to the AH’s in this world, unfortunately ppl DO make horrific crap up for fame and money.😖😞
My niece (not by blood- I’m an only child, but my best friend asked if I could be an aunt) is due today and I’m sooo excited and nervous. I showed her Kendall’s video about her birthing experience and she said it really, really helped. I just wish I could be there but unfortunately I’m in Highlands Ranch, CO and she’s in Slovakia (where my family is from). Thank you for everything ALL of you do ❤️
clearly the tiktok video from those nurses was in very bad taste. however, it’s also important to note that there is still very much a huge nursing shortage right now, and nurses are being severely overworked and under appreciated with crazy patient ratios and inadequate support/staffing. that doesn’t justify this video whatsoever, but I think it’s clear all of those nurses were showing telltale signs of burnout, and this situation isn’t as black and white as slamming all of those women and labeling them as “bad nurses” nor “horrible people”
I feel the same way, and sometimes it’s not about what you say but how you say it. If they said “you have the right to refuse an epideral, but as a nurse I hate to see you in 10/10 pain” or “I hate when a father disrespects my patient by asking for a paternity test at the bedside right after a birth” or “I hate it when I feel rushed by a provider when they ask me how much the baby weighs when I haven’t even made it to the scale yet” or “I hate it when I can’t give all my patients equal attention because one family member is monopolizing my time instead of using their call light or clustering their requests” would we even be talking about This? Then again, I wish nurses wouldn’t post stuff like this because it takes attention away from the issues many nurse creators are trying to bring light to.
Yayy so happy!! I'm home sick and getting ready to clean, and all the releases today have been perfect timing! Thank yall so much for all of the content you guiseeee 🖤🖤 much love from San Antonio, texas