Three types of women a man should never date - Benjamin Zulu

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • #SwitchTV #FullCircle #BenjaminZulu #Relationships

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  4 года назад +26

    Don't forget to subscribe to our RUclips channel.. Click here to subscribe -- ruclips.net/user/switchtvkenya

    • @veronicaisiaho9165
      @veronicaisiaho9165 4 года назад +2

      Mwikali....you're doing PERFCT, pay raise;

    • @odhiambocamilla6503
      @odhiambocamilla6503 4 года назад

      Hee kumbe there are women who are narcissist 😲nimejua leo😅😅..weeeu

    • @odhiambocamilla6503
      @odhiambocamilla6503 4 года назад +1

      I can literally listen to Benjamin na nisichome🤭😅😅😅I thank God I met Him via this media I just become wiser everyday yaani ....🥳🥳😁God bless you Benjamin aki

    • @PrueBurke1976
      @PrueBurke1976 4 года назад

      Love love your show,

  • @hesbonkojo7922
    @hesbonkojo7922 3 года назад +29

    This guy should be having millions of views, but many people haven't realized what's important

  • @piuskelvin6627
    @piuskelvin6627 4 года назад +168

    This is the best line I have ever heard..."A virtuous woman is more into giving than receiving"

    • @lydiabukachi5246
      @lydiabukachi5246 4 года назад +4

      Exactly

    • @zoe1870
      @zoe1870 4 года назад +3

      Yes yes yes when you read proverbs 31 you will see that prov 31 woman had or has a productive extended hand or hands. (Very deep insight in the Bible. God Bless us. I appreciate your sharp ear of the more giving virtuous woman than receiving.
      👏👏👏

    • @zoe1870
      @zoe1870 4 года назад

      )

    • @khomotjosetseta6375
      @khomotjosetseta6375 4 года назад +18

      A terrible concept, that's why people end up burnt out... They're pouring from empty cups.

    • @Nombuso1
      @Nombuso1 4 года назад +19

      Thats why they need people who are just as giving otherwise they will be burnt out or be scammed by scam artists. If you are a giving person set limits bcoz people who take won't set them!!!

  • @michelleokonda8947
    @michelleokonda8947 3 года назад +25

    'When you meet your soulmate you feel peace. You feel home. Home is not a place, its a FEELING.'
    That's very true

  • @mr.prince5614
    @mr.prince5614 4 года назад +121

    Mwikali is a good Replacement for Joice. She is doing a good job. Thumbs up!!

    • @Am-promise30
      @Am-promise30 4 года назад +15

      Nop dea, both of them are good on their own unique ways, pls don't compare, it's hurting to human hearts 🤦‍♀️,it's my opinion though,am sorry 😐 😔 🙏

    • @mr.prince5614
      @mr.prince5614 4 года назад +18

      @mercy I didn't really mean that Joice is better than her... All I meant was that she perfectly fits the standard that Joice had made thus a perfect replacement.

    • @Am-promise30
      @Am-promise30 4 года назад +1

      @@mr.prince5614 ooh 😲that's good bro, now I gat you and agreed with you, but sai saa saba hujalala bado???😂😂😂🤦‍♀️

    • @mr.prince5614
      @mr.prince5614 4 года назад +1

      @@Am-promise30 Not yet tunajenga taifa😂

    • @virginiamugure1601
      @virginiamugure1601 4 года назад +2

      Very sure she's lively than Joyce

  • @starshiko
    @starshiko 4 года назад +91

    ✍️Don't ruin connections by introducing romance into all good connections ...noted

  • @kasivamary5958
    @kasivamary5958 4 года назад +117

    'When you meet the true partner you feel peace' this is golden. Thanks a lot Zulu.

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 4 года назад +234

    Virtuous ladies 💪
    come thumb here!

    • @maryannethuranira227
      @maryannethuranira227 4 года назад

      Ave understood ty donn ask for money. Iyo tu🤣

    • @DianaRoseAOyula
      @DianaRoseAOyula 4 года назад

      Haha
      He gives you an answer unakaa chini unasoma, hata ka si advice ya shule about working hard at school...🤣🤣🤣🤣 You just relax and keep busy make your life better 😂😂😂

    • @johnsonmachapopo2065
      @johnsonmachapopo2065 3 года назад

      hahaha following

    • @Vin-ip3jd
      @Vin-ip3jd 3 года назад

      so men are not supposed to like😂😂😂

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 3 года назад

      @@Vin-ip3jd
      😅😅😅 Of course yes...

  • @valerieesther5549
    @valerieesther5549 4 года назад +61

    Hey guys,
    Dont you just love Mwikali's voice and her interjections. She simply nails my expressions and reactions.
    Go girl❤️

  • @neomash8320
    @neomash8320 4 года назад +104

    Wow, I'm learning a lot from Benjamin at the age of 37. 🙏🏽 and much appreciations from 🇿🇦

    • @tmntsewa
      @tmntsewa 4 года назад +6

      Homegirl! Here with you. He's amazing!

    • @neomash8320
      @neomash8320 4 года назад +5

      @@tmntsewa I can't get enough of the truth dear...it's amazing.

    • @africanloveletter1988
      @africanloveletter1988 4 года назад +6

      🇿🇦🇿🇦 Hey home girls... 🤗🤗

    • @neomash8320
      @neomash8320 4 года назад +3

      @@africanloveletter1988 Halala wena girl....😁😁

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 года назад +10

    At my age I have learned how valuable peace is in your mind, soul and spirit and house and would never exchange it for anything or any person. When Benjamin said that when u meet your soulmate you will feel peace, it was a huge confirmation to me.

  • @elizabethmapetla8690
    @elizabethmapetla8690 4 года назад +65

    "...this life is a jungle, you can't afford to behave mindlessly." I felt that

  • @veronicahnjoroge3653
    @veronicahnjoroge3653 4 года назад +62

    I absolutely love this show! I made my own fair share of pre-25 mistakes but I own my mistakes. I don't blame anyone but myself and am working on improving myself and not making the same mistakes I did back then. Thank you Benjamin for sharing your wisdom.

    • @zoe1870
      @zoe1870 4 года назад +1

      CONGRATULATIONS, you are going somewhere.

    • @bigben3462
      @bigben3462 3 года назад

      Atleast you are not blaming a man

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 4 года назад +58

    Benjamin never disappoints🤞🏽 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @belindaokello2985
    @belindaokello2985 3 года назад +6

    "Some things feel very right but they are bad for you"~ My lesson

  • @SylviahandRichard
    @SylviahandRichard 4 года назад +27

    "When you meet your lifetime partner you feel peace" This carries it all.bigups my people@mwikali@zulu

  • @apimaxltd6103
    @apimaxltd6103 4 года назад +4

    This man has real substance, Facts and truth about relationships
    Best person have ever listen

  • @charleskalei4282
    @charleskalei4282 4 года назад +44

    Mwikali has a warming smile🙈😍

  • @CalledForSuchA7imeAs7his
    @CalledForSuchA7imeAs7his 3 года назад +5

    “If you behave without thinking, you’ll end up in a grave while you’re still alive.” Powerful.

  • @samsamjel6628
    @samsamjel6628 4 года назад +9

    I love the way Mary is always attentive and calm ."A virtuous woman is more into giving than receiving" this is a strong point

  • @justgits
    @justgits 4 года назад +58

    i can listen to Zulu for hours,awesome show mwiks

  • @2012loveyourself
    @2012loveyourself 4 года назад +19

    Benjamin remind me Paul in the Bible. Please continue to love us with the harsh truth brother

  • @FayGor
    @FayGor 4 года назад +15

    "life is about how far you go not how fast you go"

    • @charlesmbori88
      @charlesmbori88 4 года назад +4

      How far you go not how fast you go😅

    • @joshuavatu5671
      @joshuavatu5671 9 месяцев назад +1

      How far you go....no how fine.

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 4 года назад +8

    I looove his wisdom and his funny side👍hata hujuangi 30 mins zikiisha😂😂😂

  • @nobubelephuza5045
    @nobubelephuza5045 4 года назад +15

    First time watching this show, yoooh i love losisi mahn your energy is so contagious, I love code switching, kusexy, kuyiPrivilege, it is a form of bragging that our African languages are as intellectual and as professional as English. I'm here for this content. Sending love from KwaZulu-Natal Province in South Africa.

  • @ckb7878
    @ckb7878 3 года назад +3

    It's my wish and prayer to settle down with Benjamin Zulu's student coz am also a here learning 💫

  • @fatmanasir6691
    @fatmanasir6691 4 года назад +22

    The show is lit. I love Mwikali, ate ke? Benjamin you have taught me a lot than I knew in all my 40s. I started seriously searching with style...

  • @Embracejustice
    @Embracejustice 4 года назад +4

    The way Zulu is on fire about these tu pre-25 made me subscribe right away.Thank you.

  • @itsbetter9039
    @itsbetter9039 4 года назад +28

    Kenyan advicing people around the world

    • @zoe1870
      @zoe1870 4 года назад +1

      YES YES YES YES, he is at a very high height of wisdom.
      Thank you.

  • @pamellanuwarinda7554
    @pamellanuwarinda7554 4 года назад +31

    When you meet your soul mate, you will feel peace. 👌

    • @osho6158
      @osho6158 3 года назад

      Soulmates don't exist.

  • @lillymumbi.3969
    @lillymumbi.3969 4 года назад +39

    Mwikali nakupenda tu ivo yani... Yu seem to have a very good heart plus you're all vibrant 👌

  • @ivywanjala8804
    @ivywanjala8804 4 года назад +29

    I think I should take it upon myself to be inviting the young people to listen to Benjamin Zulu for their good.
    Oh my! the kind of mistakes the pre-25 make to ruin their future!!

    • @julietkasungwa6535
      @julietkasungwa6535 4 года назад +3

      Sure... zulu used to visit my school...while I was in highschool...and I can tell he is such an inspiration.

    • @raelnzulu143
      @raelnzulu143 4 года назад +3

      Me too I will mobilise our young ones to this show..they will benefit

  • @annekaloki6899
    @annekaloki6899 4 года назад +9

    Thanks mwikali and Zulu u really don't know how much this is helping youths apa nje may God increase u guys

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 4 года назад +21

    The way Benjamin always react when the pre-25s do send in their comments 😂😂😂😂🙌🙌

  • @oluwaseunodunsi8142
    @oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 года назад +4

    Truly with chemistry it's like you are under pressure to impress the person, I experienced that towards the end of my last relationship. I then realized from listening to messages and words from older people that a relationship with your soul mate gives you peace and you both just flow beautifully as not just lovers but friends.

  • @lillianmbeke9038
    @lillianmbeke9038 4 года назад +15

    I love the way Mwikali laughs 😃

    • @bildad3
      @bildad3 4 года назад +1

      I'm sure you can pretty much do the same huh

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 4 года назад +8

    Precious nugget: home is not a place, it is a feeling 👌🏿👌🏿

    • @dorcaskyai8250
      @dorcaskyai8250 3 года назад +1

      I caught that too.absolutely beautiful

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 4 года назад +24

    Aky benjamin mwikali is even worried to read a 24s messages😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @maureenmaina4005
    @maureenmaina4005 4 года назад +27

    Mwikali just makes my day yaani. Joyce your show is in good hands

  • @felixamollo5926
    @felixamollo5926 4 года назад +7

    I just find myself watching this show like every now and then 🔥🔥🎯🔥🔥thank you Benjamin Zulu

  • @markkirabomd2488
    @markkirabomd2488 4 года назад +7

    Marriage/ relationship is supposed to make you better than you were when single. Compatibility of vision and value system before chemistry/connection. Connection and chemistry calls from mutual effort. The arrivalism mentality/ settling causes slow death of the relationship.

  • @mikienne6058
    @mikienne6058 4 года назад +6

    Kindly bring Benjamin Zulu to speak about co-parenting...

  • @emmanuelmwangi2514
    @emmanuelmwangi2514 4 года назад +11

    n when you tell them these pre 25s they dont listen wooii Benjamin will bust a vein in his brain🤣🤣BREEEEEATH!ZULU

  • @sandranyaguti3233
    @sandranyaguti3233 4 года назад +11

    This was the most interesting of all to watch, full of advice and laughter

  • @DianaRoseAOyula
    @DianaRoseAOyula 4 года назад +6

    Waaa! Zulu angekua big bro waaa! Maisha yangu yangekuwa straight! Waaaa!

  • @migot1944
    @migot1944 4 года назад +1

    Hapo kwa good boys with narcistic ladies is so very accurate, am lucky to have come across this Zulu guy when am about to turn 25✌️

  • @loisemwangi9258
    @loisemwangi9258 4 года назад +16

    Benjamin has really changed my way of thinking. I feel at peace with my relationship life progress 🤗.

  • @raelnzulu143
    @raelnzulu143 4 года назад +27

    A wow!!! Much love for this girl👧@fullcirclewithMwikali..can't go any better..she is just fit to hold this session.

  • @r..6842
    @r..6842 3 года назад +4

    Am 20 years in the university always wanted to date in school but now benja has taught me i rather make my life 1st thank you uv repressed ny useless desires.

  • @nakirandapatshav4204
    @nakirandapatshav4204 4 года назад +10

    Thnx mr. Benjamin we missed you. Am learning alot from here. Lots of love from kampala.

  • @vunenenthani6640
    @vunenenthani6640 4 года назад +8

    I really just love Benjamin like every thing just comes up to personal growth you can't get away it's either you deal with it or suffer consequences 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @seraphine8213
    @seraphine8213 2 года назад

    I met this guy and he told me I'm God's will for his life,I never had peace when I prayed about it but I still have him a chance into my life,
    Later,it started looking like I was the one omitting peace in his life cos of the arguments we have..I noticed we don't agree mentally, spiritually and psychologically...he always thinking low while I want to do great things.
    I have flaws in my character and so does he and I believe we can individually work on ourselves so the best thing was to break up and find our compass in life.. he's 26 and I'm 22.
    There's more I need to learn.

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 4 года назад +13

    Benjamin, welcome back we ve missed you!

  • @malaikaglory4566
    @malaikaglory4566 4 года назад +10

    Iam a seasoned woman of a certain age and I wish I had a Zulu those days in my campus life, dating, looking for love, ...and I was below 25 years of age.
    Honestly, my maturity came after my 33rd birthday, by then, I had a profession, my place, a child, marriage, but still I wished I knew all what I know now I wish I had hade a coach like Zulu.
    Mwikali and Zulu, you are doing a great job.

  • @petruskambamba1287
    @petruskambamba1287 4 года назад +11

    My absolute favorite youtube channel ✨🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @lydiajuma7694
    @lydiajuma7694 4 года назад +1

    I like this'life is about how far u go not how fast you go'

  • @Ats_RO
    @Ats_RO 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for that comment on birthday celebrations Dr Zulu, I have been thinking I have no recognition for anyone who will be wishing me a happy valentine's day whereas they kept quiet on my birthday.

  • @kerubobathsheba1069
    @kerubobathsheba1069 4 года назад +13

    Just 19 but Benjamin has thought me alot

    • @ckb7878
      @ckb7878 3 года назад +1

      Hope you will not end up in bad relationships,happy to hear that you have been enlightened this early

  • @hgffhhbty3053
    @hgffhhbty3053 4 года назад +3

    We will never go wrong while listening to the show .be blessed dear bro and sister.

  • @payaske
    @payaske 4 года назад +40

    My new years resolution ni kuona wife wa Benjamin

  • @simpledeliciouscooking563
    @simpledeliciouscooking563 4 года назад +33

    'Hi' is for teenagers😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i loved this

    • @rooseijai2947
      @rooseijai2947 4 года назад

      ....or adults with wat......finish my friend🤣🤣

    • @simpledeliciouscooking563
      @simpledeliciouscooking563 4 года назад

      @@rooseijai2947 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you want me to spit it out

  • @maggiedoublenofficial981
    @maggiedoublenofficial981 4 года назад +6

    Mwikali na Benjamin ..spare my ribs now...but learning a lot

  • @catherinewambui2714
    @catherinewambui2714 3 года назад +4

    Home is not a place it's a feeling!

  • @halimamohamed2146
    @halimamohamed2146 4 года назад +5

    Hhhhhh i like the way Mwikali is laughing🤣🤣

  • @Lovedis4
    @Lovedis4 3 года назад +2

    I definitely love her personality as well as his. Wish I would’ve come across this Channel two years ago 😩. Great tips!

  • @edwinodhiambo5372
    @edwinodhiambo5372 3 года назад +1

    Zulu wewe umenichoma sana. Thanx to you.

  • @akunnaihute2141
    @akunnaihute2141 4 года назад +91

    This is really good. But what about the men? They're looking for good qualities while they aren't good themselves. Just confused

    • @cathrinemanyeruke6028
      @cathrinemanyeruke6028 4 года назад +4

      Hello l love what you said so true

    • @larrychurchill9773
      @larrychurchill9773 4 года назад +3

      Nice."men who are good hearted are the prime candidates because they are responsible and reliable."waah!

    • @Jmwamuchemi
      @Jmwamuchemi 4 года назад +1

      Drop them🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @mpendakiswahili3053
      @mpendakiswahili3053 4 года назад +2

      Stop deflecting... topic is about women...

    • @vibes8924
      @vibes8924 4 года назад

      @@mpendakiswahili3053 right it’s always wat about men😐. FIX yourself dw about them.

  • @dorcaskyai8250
    @dorcaskyai8250 3 года назад +1

    Oooh my gracious, life is not about how fast you go, but how far you go.Mwikali honey, you just got yourself a subbie pap!!!

  • @anitahwanjiruh4332
    @anitahwanjiruh4332 4 года назад +6

    I really needed this , thank yu Zulu and Mwikali

  • @judy4139
    @judy4139 3 года назад

    We are not here on Earth for Eternity.No wasting time dating...Benjamin Zulu is wise & logic.Legend!!

  • @odhiambocamilla6503
    @odhiambocamilla6503 4 года назад +3

    Sasa huyu wa 24yrs🤭😂😂😂😂😂ati they are soo idle aki Benjamin wahh😂😂😂I just love the way you unleash the truth so dramatically..... please mwekange tu maji hapo karibu naye ndio akijam akunywe tu kwanza atulie priss🤭😂😂

  • @moonokaliyangile5141
    @moonokaliyangile5141 4 года назад +5

    Benjamin Zulu, oops you are something else l love your show. I think you are from my beloved country zambia

  • @nimachomeanddecor6722
    @nimachomeanddecor6722 4 года назад +2

    Mwikali excellent job..she is amazing

  • @flashmburu907
    @flashmburu907 3 года назад

    Don't lose that joy/happy self ati now you are old.... Nailed it!!!!

  • @pinamwake4912
    @pinamwake4912 4 года назад +5

    You guys are such a blessing.
    I look upto you. And I must say you inspire me aloot.

  • @dianahvuyanzi1600
    @dianahvuyanzi1600 4 года назад +6

    I miss u Bishop and mama director💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @melmel7011
    @melmel7011 4 года назад +10

    There is a lesson to be learnt in Benjamin's story in searching for a wife... a good woman will never want a man to spend money on her, if anything...she will make sure he saves more money. If you meet a woman and she wants to be wined and dined then run for the hills

  • @debbiethekenyan3274
    @debbiethekenyan3274 4 года назад +11

    I love this guys truth.learning alot.

  • @judikatumo6859
    @judikatumo6859 4 года назад +8

    Mwikali, you are just a cool girl. Beautiful too.

  • @janemkade3488
    @janemkade3488 4 года назад +6

    Amazing moments with Zulu always 💪💪💪
    Am greatly learning from you great leader.

  • @tinahpinah
    @tinahpinah 4 года назад +46

    Nice show ..but zulu just relax as you talk .siutaumwa na kichwa? hahahaha!

  • @sandrakanguvi7614
    @sandrakanguvi7614 4 года назад +2

    My absolute favorite RUclips channel...

  • @JoeFreemanOfficial
    @JoeFreemanOfficial 4 года назад +2

    Hapa next time, letea Benjamin kiboko to punish these guys...hahaha

  • @marilyndafeta3064
    @marilyndafeta3064 3 года назад +1

    Your new year resolutions mean nothing and your birthday resolutions mean more
    I agree. I made some hard core resolutions on my 35th birthday
    Best decision I ever made
    Sometimes..you are the reason you are a target for disrespect. You are your problem. Fix you and your boundaries and watch things fall into place

  • @kathomi_vibes
    @kathomi_vibes 4 года назад +3

    i love the advice from this man!!!

  • @nantegerema7124
    @nantegerema7124 4 года назад +4

    This guy makes My life sweet

  • @cynthialebelo5012
    @cynthialebelo5012 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much, I learnt a lot🙏🙏🙏

  • @kelvinmuirugacheru9525
    @kelvinmuirugacheru9525 4 года назад +2

    This show will never be same again without Joyce she was a very good moderator... All the best

    • @nishcabezut77
      @nishcabezut77 4 года назад +7

      Kelvin Muiru!,,I beg to differ, mwikali is really good. Stay positive always!

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 года назад +2

      Mwikali is doing a great job, people have different personalities

    • @janesassy4497
      @janesassy4497 4 года назад +1

      Mwikali is equally good

  • @ndipo1
    @ndipo1 3 года назад

    Mwikali your laugh is refreshing

  • @jacklinekirungi5488
    @jacklinekirungi5488 4 года назад +5

    Thank you, he says it all. I like his open mind in his discussions!

  • @vibrationlyrics3960
    @vibrationlyrics3960 4 года назад +1

    Listening to him at 20🔥

  • @Mega-muramuzi98
    @Mega-muramuzi98 4 года назад

    Wow!
    This was awesome
    Ahsante Benjamin and Mwikali

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 4 года назад +16

    STRUGGLES TO ASK FOR MONEY. 👏👏👏

  • @nancygikonyo668
    @nancygikonyo668 4 года назад +11

    I always look forward to this show

  • @temiotesile9211
    @temiotesile9211 4 года назад +18

    This thing is really not about pre-25 though. It is about people’s maturity. There are people in their 30’s and 40’s and still have no clue.

    • @ashamohammed4033
      @ashamohammed4033 4 года назад

      Kabsaa aki

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 4 года назад +3

      if u gonna reason this way then we can never ever put people in age groups for any purpose, not even for romance. Categories or groups, be it age or what not focus on the majority not minority. You are referring to minority and that's not how generalisations are made.

    • @ismailatako3717
      @ismailatako3717 4 года назад +3

      That is the general rule. But we agree every rule has an exception!

    • @vibes8924
      @vibes8924 4 года назад

      Exactly watch Kevin Samuels.

  • @lucypinky8476
    @lucypinky8476 4 года назад +7

    I just love watching 👀 this man i mean his just wonderful 👏 God bless him more wisdom zulu

  • @leenodero2461
    @leenodero2461 4 года назад +13

    My birthday is on 1st January,so new year's resolutions work for me.

  • @puritymurithi3785
    @puritymurithi3785 4 года назад +4

    Amazing guys under25yrs must see ths it might help there life.

  • @Nyakato-v3t
    @Nyakato-v3t 3 года назад

    You’re the best guys🙏thanx .

  • @abdinasirali3460
    @abdinasirali3460 4 года назад +3

    Kenyans are the most funniest people on earth every thing they make it funny and as if things are easy in life . Happy people . Their topic is phenomenally and I like their dialog about what kind of women to be chosen . Connection is massive in relation and five love languages and surely I recommend that book will surely help those who are in deep relationship . Peace , trust , happiness , deep interactions interms of understanding each other and decision making is the most massive steps which will determine people to get married or not . I can say a lot about that but surely seek who can value ur life and ur time and always stay away people who only focus in materials watched from USA thanks for the podcast thanks lads .