5 signs that He is wasting your time - Marriage is a continuation of dating problems | Joe Wisdom

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 года назад +16

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  • @julianangwira9338
    @julianangwira9338 3 года назад +200

    1. Communication breakdown
    2. Untimely timeouts
    3. Postponing procedural events
    4. Inability to make important decisions - immaturity.
    5. Unending busy schedules - always having lame excuses

    • @joewisdomtalksrua4365
      @joewisdomtalksrua4365 3 года назад +6

      Unending busy schedules- Lame excuses....

    • @joewisdomtalksrua4365
      @joewisdomtalksrua4365 3 года назад +5

      5. Unending busy schedules - Lame excuses...

    • @roseogoti8455
      @roseogoti8455 3 года назад +11

      Not having a vision or mission of the relationship

    • @felliesweetie
      @felliesweetie 3 года назад +6

      I left one with unending busy schedules. I am glad I did!

    • @Dohty5406
      @Dohty5406 3 года назад +5

      I was looking for someone who has made these points... Thankyou

  • @bettybetty8440
    @bettybetty8440 3 года назад +41

    Mwikali laughter is so infectious plus the way she's responding tells that she has been a victim ,

  • @divinakeru9469
    @divinakeru9469 3 года назад +58

    Wish I got this advice years back.

  • @lizmurish7735
    @lizmurish7735 3 года назад +14

    "The best way to learn is through observation" this has touched me

    • @edithmbugua5959
      @edithmbugua5959 3 года назад +1

      They mean what they do not what they say

    • @lizmurish7735
      @lizmurish7735 3 года назад

      Yes @Edith 😂😂😂 very true

  • @kammusic22
    @kammusic22 3 года назад +58

    I stopped proving anything in love.
    I am the only woman who will tell you if you want to go go you are not my oxygen.

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +26

    Instinct that gut feeling from inside.
    Instincts come from God.
    You know and know that this man is playing you.

  • @amen3545
    @amen3545 3 года назад +76

    Last year i met someone who was speaking my exact language but later I realized it was all nouns no verbs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I left immediately!!!

  • @brunos.lukyamuzi
    @brunos.lukyamuzi 3 года назад +31

    Sharing with my boys from Uganda. Time reveals

  • @carolinegonani4291
    @carolinegonani4291 3 года назад +30

    I love Mwikali’s outfits. They are always on point.

  • @lisamungai930
    @lisamungai930 3 года назад +19

    I decided to be SINGLE. Men can realy drain you 🤣🤣🤣🤣lies lies weeeh I I quit

  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee 3 года назад +62

    Those good looking guys have the worst behaviours!

    • @rispathequeen
      @rispathequeen 3 года назад

      Very true

    • @marycatherine3857
      @marycatherine3857 3 года назад +1

      Skuizi hata hao sura Timbuktu have bad manners

    • @claudiamarekia5125
      @claudiamarekia5125 3 года назад +1

      Walai tena,, and most of them are lazy af

    • @mwendapoleee
      @mwendapoleee 3 года назад

      @@marycatherine3857lol ati timbuktu ..aki woooiiiyyee tena sikuhizi wanataka wakatiwe na vile hujui ni binadamu ama ubwa mwitu mimi nam scan kwanza mara kwa mara lol

    • @kaonemere1219
      @kaonemere1219 3 года назад

      i relate

  • @mercykoks7498
    @mercykoks7498 3 года назад +26

    I watched this.. The advice was so true... And mwikalis make- up was on point maze

  • @Mercylynn254
    @Mercylynn254 3 года назад +11

    That is how he started, when I call he is busy or in another call, I'm somewhere with friends, I left him without even goodbye.

  • @helen7272
    @helen7272 3 года назад +16

    The hunter becomes the hunted imenimaliza 👐😂, this man is the best on relationships, thankyou so much Joe Wisdom, your wisdom on relationships is on another level

  • @Fcamila100
    @Fcamila100 3 года назад +20

    Can we all give a round of applause to Mwakali...you are phenomenal girl. From one woman to another I am proud of you girl. You ride the waves of this show and pick up from the speakers. Love listening to you girl....Girl power!!!!!!!!

  • @terrywaithira6883
    @terrywaithira6883 3 года назад +22

    I thank God coz i realized early my ex was wasting my time and prayed God to give me strength to done with him now I 'm happily with no stress.

  • @lynnnamu1196
    @lynnnamu1196 3 года назад +39

    Why are you speaking to me joe..thankyou..he is out of my life from now

  • @njeeringugi3702
    @njeeringugi3702 3 года назад +8

    This is the most raw Candid talk ever....thank you

  • @maggierattz8552
    @maggierattz8552 3 года назад +13

    There is something divine about Mwikali. Just love her b4 the show

  • @ChrissieGitau
    @ChrissieGitau 3 года назад +80

    sometimes I prefer someone who will tell you they need a break rather than one who will just block you and come back 3 or 4 months later to say they needed the break

    • @gladysmamatwins1019
      @gladysmamatwins1019 3 года назад +4

      Ama anaamua kukimya, ukiuliza why the sudden silence? The creature tells you ati anakupima tu...

    • @ChrissieGitau
      @ChrissieGitau 3 года назад +8

      @@gladysmamatwins1019 very annoying...people lack emotional intelligence. Funny enough whoever put me through that kept telling me "communication is key"

    • @gladysmamatwins1019
      @gladysmamatwins1019 3 года назад

      @@ChrissieGitau ego

    • @cathythuo8606
      @cathythuo8606 3 года назад +3

      @@ChrissieGitau the irony of it all! His actions spoke louder then his words. Its torturous though🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @gruendlichmummy4083
      @gruendlichmummy4083 3 года назад +5

      By the time he blocks me I block him too and when he comes to me I will let him know that I also need a break ☕

  • @nikitatuo6360
    @nikitatuo6360 3 года назад +4

    That Bruce quote really got me thanks guys for the show

  • @mumbidee143
    @mumbidee143 3 года назад +11

    Haki mimi am laughing so hard.....😂😂😂😂 This discussion is so interesting.. Kudos guys

  • @Byronwanjau
    @Byronwanjau 3 года назад +14

    Nice topic, Thank God i have never wasted someone time.

  • @jacklinemiriti1878
    @jacklinemiriti1878 3 года назад +7

    Mwikali.. Those shoes🔥🔥🔥
    Pastor Joe.. Have a vision even in the relationship

  • @emareesther3341
    @emareesther3341 3 года назад +9

    So glad this came timely
    With love from Nigeria

  • @marilynphillips3204
    @marilynphillips3204 3 года назад +6

    AMEN that's true
    You take care of what you love
    Pure love from the heart

  • @rosenelima8618
    @rosenelima8618 3 года назад +4

    Thanks for this advise,this is what I'm going through,unending busy schedules,always having lame excuses.

  • @TheTabbym
    @TheTabbym 3 года назад +8

    mwikalis laughter is contagious, lovely conversation

  • @annewamuti3952
    @annewamuti3952 3 года назад +3

    Mimi i love the maturity that mwikali carries herself with....nigawie kidogo tu....love the advice soooo on point.

  • @lylyanefletcher6958
    @lylyanefletcher6958 3 года назад +29

    Mwikali facial expression tells it all😀😀we are always victims🤦‍♀️

  • @annenyambane4141
    @annenyambane4141 3 года назад +37

    Mwikali's laughter is infectious!

  • @MathewKenyi18
    @MathewKenyi18 3 года назад +9

    Mr. Wisdom and Benjamin, you men have really made me very wise.
    Switch Tv, I can say you have set the bar of TV very high. I don't like watching TV and I don't have a TV, but you switch have made me love watching TV.

  • @ruezoeentertainment2439
    @ruezoeentertainment2439 3 года назад +13

    This is the best show... keep it up..much love from Zimbabwe🇿🇼

  • @rebeccarachel1770
    @rebeccarachel1770 2 года назад +1

    This conversation is a trigger as it has been my decade long trauma in marriage. I'm now divorcing and healing....but all the red flags mentioned to a tee are what I have gone through until I chose to leave and divorce. Thanks for this guys. Going forward, non toxic vybes only. Let me choose me and my babies all the time no ifs, buts or maybes.

  • @jennifernzioka81
    @jennifernzioka81 3 года назад +8

    Ur wisdom Joe is on another level..wow

  • @janemuiruri4420
    @janemuiruri4420 3 года назад +6

    I love this got a lot of wisdom,Mwikali laughter😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣on another level

  • @kaiserfitzwanga653
    @kaiserfitzwanga653 3 года назад +4

    I love myself. If I sense there is no future I opt out to protect myself

  • @gracemuthoni2687
    @gracemuthoni2687 3 года назад +5

    Thank you Mwikali and Joe. Am always learning something new.

  • @silungilempofu3956
    @silungilempofu3956 3 года назад +52

    Ladies turn red flags into pinky flags when in love.

  • @elizabethwainaina2887
    @elizabethwainaina2887 3 года назад +15

    I love the whole conversation..oh my God! Am happy I could afford to hear this..

  • @thehomestead5387
    @thehomestead5387 3 года назад +10

    After 4 years and 4 kids I have realized this but Im not grieved, it's a lesson to teach others

  • @janemkade3488
    @janemkade3488 3 года назад +4

    Very powerful, enlightening conversation
    Handsome and beautiful we can't be eaten 🔥🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Kevin_Nyutu
    @Kevin_Nyutu 3 года назад +14

    You will always make time for what you love

  • @beckyesther8669
    @beckyesther8669 3 года назад +12

    Blessed to hear Joe Wisdom!

  • @mercyseremFavoured
    @mercyseremFavoured 3 года назад +6

    Joe Wisdom, you are full of wisdom for sure

  • @terrywaithira6883
    @terrywaithira6883 3 года назад +5

    It is very true someone can not eat the beauty of a person

  • @wanjikunjeri4630
    @wanjikunjeri4630 3 года назад +8

    Am also laughing like Mwikali🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the show is on top.

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 года назад +2

    You have to be found awesome. Being specific with your expectation and understand what is my vision and mission.Where are you heading to.Powerful.Looks is not all.

  • @washingtonochieng4881
    @washingtonochieng4881 3 года назад +5

    Mwikali you are just beautiful......all the same Advise is real

  • @SavedByGrace715
    @SavedByGrace715 3 года назад +12

    Ladies, build your life with a man who LOVES you, not a man you love ....A man who loves you will be careful with your heart and will do anything to keep you.

  • @janegitau5146
    @janegitau5146 3 года назад +3

    I was really going thru this but I Thank God alifanya nikatoka apo

  • @childvoice8007
    @childvoice8007 3 года назад +2

    Thankyou so much Lord for having this advice now!

  • @enrietanyongesa8322
    @enrietanyongesa8322 3 года назад +26

    Sadly so many time wasters around..people especially men nowadays fear responsibilities so as woman we have decided to be our own kind of people.

    • @crayfish3629
      @crayfish3629 3 года назад +1

      It’s both my dear I’m a man and I’m heartbroken 😔

    • @bettybetty8440
      @bettybetty8440 3 года назад +1

      So true

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 года назад +1

      @@crayfish3629 sorry dear thus life
      But men have gone beyond in doing this

  • @salyakinyi4011
    @salyakinyi4011 3 года назад +39

    Wangapi wanasoma comments tukiwatch

  • @blessedbanda4654
    @blessedbanda4654 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for the right words at the right time,I indeed, needed to hear this from someone.

  • @mrondieki9514
    @mrondieki9514 3 года назад +6

    Joe Wisdom 🔥, Mwiks, love ua laughter 🥰

  • @issackabdi7001
    @issackabdi7001 3 года назад +1

    If you get someone who loves you without condition plz keep that person bcz they are very rare

  • @nobuhlekhumalo1903
    @nobuhlekhumalo1903 3 года назад +7

    Baby bye..."cut it off immediately...don't waste anymore time..."

  • @mantumasibe9455
    @mantumasibe9455 3 года назад +1

    Watching from South Africa, point taken 👌

  • @lovelyshix8425
    @lovelyshix8425 3 года назад +2

    I had to pause ikiwa half to break up with my boyfriend 1st now am back to finish 🤪 i know i have made the right decision coz i have just realised i have been in that now relationship alone

  • @adahanunda1229
    @adahanunda1229 3 года назад +1

    Weee joe, Truth kabisa heve been lying to me over five years ati ooh ntaenda tu kwenu it's corona, it's this and this

  • @jasminewambui6052
    @jasminewambui6052 3 года назад +5

    If you want to enjoy life save time.

  • @maurineakinyi2910
    @maurineakinyi2910 3 года назад +3

    I wish I could have gotten this advice lyk back in 2005 I couldn't have done all this 2 my lyf

  • @joystarwatiri1667
    @joystarwatiri1667 3 года назад +3

    Joe I love how blunt you are

  • @hellengitahi8979
    @hellengitahi8979 3 года назад +2

    I have enjoyed this show 👏👏👏👏Thank you for sharing.

  • @edithmbugua5959
    @edithmbugua5959 3 года назад +2

    This is on another level 💯

  • @gladysmamatwins1019
    @gladysmamatwins1019 3 года назад +27

    I feel like tagging someone or sending this video to the creature

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 года назад +3

    Mwikali great shoe there na bwana wisdom, the lady that asked about her hubby not goin to chch I'll request she check her self first, she might be a reason y, this men also are soo absorbent about the God we serve on how we treat them back at home

  • @joycekabugua153
    @joycekabugua153 3 года назад +3

    Pastor Joe this is amazing 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂💯

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 3 года назад +2

    Waaah joe maukweliii aty atalima, ataumiria..... Great episode

  • @luciamurunga2813
    @luciamurunga2813 3 года назад +5

    Joe's and Zulu time should be made as 1 so that it can take 1 hour, time zao zinaisha haraka aki😓

    • @thuthula
      @thuthula 3 года назад +2

      I definitely agree with u. These 2 guys have great wisdom.

  • @teresagitonga8749
    @teresagitonga8749 3 года назад +2

    Great wisdom sir, I love the way you are composed in this conversation.

    • @janewangari8729
      @janewangari8729 3 года назад +1

      Am really loving this😅I feel motivated

  • @sarahnamazzi8855
    @sarahnamazzi8855 3 года назад +1

    THE BEST WAY TO LEARN IS TROUGH OBSERVATION!!!!!👌

  • @ireneobbayi4277
    @ireneobbayi4277 3 года назад +3

    Thank God we have advise for our kids.

  • @ndutak5690
    @ndutak5690 3 года назад +9

    Funny how my "knower" told me to stop wasting my time and I told my ex this today..I was sooo heartbroken afterward....but after watching this Nimejipa shughuli 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

  • @lucywambui8072
    @lucywambui8072 3 года назад +6

    Please Joe and Mwikali, talk about age gaps in relationships. And is the perfect age gap Calculator accurate?

  • @joycenasaka3425
    @joycenasaka3425 3 года назад +3

    You have nailed it,more wisdom

  • @florencewanjiku6715
    @florencewanjiku6715 3 года назад

    Mummy am in love with ua voice. Hiyo voice ukiipeleka kwa mziki unatetemesha ardhi.

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 3 года назад +5

    I have experienced time wasting once. Now every guy I go out with I think is he one too?🤔

  • @puritytianta5560
    @puritytianta5560 2 года назад

    Mwilkali your laughter is contagious

  • @mwongelikyalo3555
    @mwongelikyalo3555 3 года назад +1

    following.......this is just awesome.....am learning much mwikali and joe

  • @amywaweru7347
    @amywaweru7347 3 года назад +7

    Mwikali's laughter just makes my day

  • @bewisetv3476
    @bewisetv3476 3 года назад +1

    Wow so many things to learn from this article thanks for sharing

  • @reckydee7267
    @reckydee7267 3 года назад +2

    aki I just feel like crying coz you people are actually talking about my relationship right now I love the guy soo much and i feel he don't care anything about me am soo much afraid to step out

    • @jody-jk8nd
      @jody-jk8nd 3 года назад +2

      When you feel the feelling of love for him, afraid to be alone, fear ,sadness Just kill the feelling in your heart. Make your heart like hard Stone to kill these feellings and while doning that think at the same time of the things hé did wrong to you and the things you deserve . Think you deserve a man that loves you the same way you do. You have to be daring to choose for your self.
      Choosing for your self is a painfull journey but after that IT is a blisfull gift. You Will be Proud of yourself.
      You fight fight for your self. Its your self walking with you. Your self is letting you do daily things. When your alone is with yourself. Your self is asking you bagging you love me not him.
      Hé does not deserve you.
      We all want to be with someone and feel boring alone with ourself. We have to be ashame at ourself not to be alone with our self. I was there where you are now. Learn to have and but boundries for giving love.

    • @reckydee7267
      @reckydee7267 3 года назад

      @@jody-jk8nd THANK YOU i hope i get the courage

    • @stacianduta4079
      @stacianduta4079 3 года назад

      Step out

    • @tesh8176
      @tesh8176 3 года назад

      Dear Gal just walk away you will find a person who truly love you

    • @reckydee7267
      @reckydee7267 3 года назад

      @@tesh8176 thank you am already out now

  • @graceonyango160
    @graceonyango160 3 года назад +2

    This came in at the right time

  • @monicanabaasa2345
    @monicanabaasa2345 3 года назад +1

    In your #Knower you already kno the truth so please don’t waste someone’s time Lol love ❤️💜this. Ugandans 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 where are you?

  • @nitawilliams9726
    @nitawilliams9726 3 года назад

    yes, a mentor(my pastor) and my big brother😊

  • @monicamwove637
    @monicamwove637 3 года назад +6

    Oh yes, I like Mwikalis laughter...deep

  • @AtDorry
    @AtDorry 3 года назад +2

    Thank you,I needed this.

  • @annnumi2623
    @annnumi2623 3 года назад +2

    Very informative. Good job Joe.

  • @nancynganga6731
    @nancynganga6731 3 года назад +1

    Waaaaaa alaaaaa this topic has opened my eyes omg 😢😢😢😢😢🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @carenkachecheba5538
    @carenkachecheba5538 3 года назад

    Wow mwikali you're so cute dear....I remember you on actor... With mzee onjwain...others..God bless u

  • @pattyray328
    @pattyray328 3 года назад +2

    I am calling myself for a Meeting

  • @CaroLina-qq1hl
    @CaroLina-qq1hl 3 года назад +7

    I wish I saw this before!

  • @lydiahdollah5356
    @lydiahdollah5356 3 года назад

    Reality,,wish the talk could be longer
    Thanks for the topic

  • @rosewangui1071
    @rosewangui1071 3 года назад +2

    Hayaaaa!!!!!!...mtu aniongezee GIF ya mshtuko

  • @monicambewe8437
    @monicambewe8437 3 года назад

    Am really learning...With love from Zambia

  • @katemusembi793
    @katemusembi793 3 года назад +22

    A person may look "otherwise" 🤣🤣.... Spare my ribs pleaseee😀😀

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka6624 3 года назад

    Funny thing is that u will always know yo dealing with a wrong man, I mean u real feel it, only that we tend to ignore d red flags n fall for d excuses