Am 30, did minimal dating. I have dodged the bullet too many times. My heart has never been broken n have God to thank for. He always warns me before I leave the house, "dont settle," he says. Pursuing God at a young age and yearning and learning to hear His voice has been my BIGGEST blessing.
@@justmo6896 weirdly am also 32 and have always seen the red flags which I really don’t know if am too much or alot of people try to fake a lot of things in life at a certain age inorder to settle. Bt hey even at this age i will say it’s hard to find a guy with enough pontential.
You cannot be broke and broken at the same time. I'm 21. I can't lose it because i take Benjamin's advice seriously. If wisdom was a person it would be him
I have been listening to benjamin zulu ... Kila pahali akienda Niko naye kila pahali ... Imagine am happy being single.... Am single... Right now am going back to school instead of thinking of getting married... I said no to relationship ... I cannot be abondened by money , relationship and God... Right now am trying to open a small business , and going back to school... I don't want any relationship except my parent , siblings and friends ... Working on myself now ... I have to be self centered.
Watching from South Africa and I've been following you since last year. Yohhhh Zulu you are a God sent, I was in an abusive and infedility marriage when I started listening to you and now I left the marriage and I'm healing through your teachings. I wish I met you earlier
Aaaah Benjamin your too emotional about youth thanks Dia am learning I never thought I can abstain when I went back after my hustle I swear I did it hooooo no more testing thank think b4 marriage yaaamawe am stil pre 25 focus on hustling now days class attract class ❤❤❤ Uganda 🇺🇬
I am very glad I came across Switch TV and discovered Benjamin Zulu on RUclips. I have learned so much from listening to his wise talks, and he shouldn't stop anytime soon.
From {22:48 - 23:30} Benjamin I concur with you 💯. These things are avoidable! Boys and Girls need to work on their lives before thinking about marriage, baby- making etc. I wish the whole country, no, the whole world could here this!!! Our society need this kind of information, we are lost, and so our children. Please find a way of getting this message across every platform!
I love love love Benjamin Zulu. I pray the Lord keeps you and your word travels far. I beg you not to stop talking. I wish I knew you when I was younger. keep up the good work.
Woooow! This is amazing! I wish all young people in the world could hear this. It has touched my heart. Thank you so much Benjamin and Joyce for such amazing content! Be blessed.
hahaha😂😂 "Brighter than 24 elders put together", I couldn't agree more! I've never thought of a better commentary whenever I watched these shows! Yes, Benjamin!!!!
Mr. Benjamin you're truly life coach, mentor and speaks to the heart of truth, I wish all African countries could carry your teachings and knowledge to bring awareness, so pleased and I wish I could hear you growing up for sure I wouldn't be where I'm, keep it up and be blessed
You always inspire me Benjamin . Made mistake when I was 23 three and got a baby three years ago.Now developing on my career as I plan to get married two years ago.
Benjamin is a great blessing to this generation which includes me😅,I thank God for bringing you to us,Just turned 20 and with Benjamin all through my twenties I'm sure right to always make the right decisions in life going forward😊
Am not a fan of writing comments but for this I must. Benjamin you are a father every child should have. Many sons and daughters get lost somewhere in life for lack of such fathering.
Mr Benjamin, God bless you with divine grace and wisdom 🙏 may God almight increase your oil of anointing, am deeply grateful to God for his talented wisdom he bless you with. Am Mary Ben Michael Am Nigeria 🇳🇬 citizen, All i have to say, God bless you 🙏 and your family and business 🙏
Benjamin we're sorry eeeeiiiyyy😂😂😂please please this man has preached it enough!!! Those with ears let them listen otherwise stop making mistakes and complaining choices have consequences
Absolutely edified and certainly entertained! Really want to commend Joyce and Benjamin on the scriptural wisdom constantly poured out. Such solid truth. Sending greetings and sunshine from the little town of Leeton in eastern Australia 🌞!
Wisdom is my friend. I get knowledge and Al's understanding. I will never be fooled again. Let them try they will see fire . Thanks Benjamin for this wise council
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Am 30, did minimal dating. I have dodged the bullet too many times. My heart has never been broken n have God to thank for. He always warns me before I leave the house, "dont settle," he says.
Pursuing God at a young age and yearning and learning to hear His voice has been my BIGGEST blessing.
Woow love this
Wauw so do I! I'm 32 never settle for less....I feel you on this.
@@justmo6896 perfectly said.
@@justmo6896 weirdly am also 32 and have always seen the red flags which I really don’t know if am too much or alot of people try to fake a lot of things in life at a certain age inorder to settle. Bt hey even at this age i will say it’s hard to find a guy with enough pontential.
get your hearts broken early...it's a rite of passage because the smooth ones can still get you but it's a good thing you are always on the look out
this part of the show should be compulsory in high schools. I wish people can hear this early in life
💯💯💯
I agree
I swear,, like this really needs to be heard
At that age people are very ignorant
I concur
Mr Zulu you are on fire!!! Thank you from South Africa!!!
You cannot be broke and broken at the same time. I'm 21. I can't lose it because i take Benjamin's advice seriously. If wisdom was a person it would be him
Amen im 22.. His advices are just on time
Go sis!!
@faith ice 😂😂😂😂 agemate agemate 😂😂😂😂
Jesus in him is the wisdom.
I'm also somewhere in this age gap..... Beware, take care of your pride girls
Joyce you are the only person who knows how to have a conversation with Mr Benjamin 😂
True😂😂😂
True 💯
😂😂
Sure!
Yes. Been thinking the same thing. I find his conversations better here than with other hosts.
Benjamin if you will be judged for your sins in heaven God will secure your heart cz you have saved so many hearts oooh
True that
Ameeenn
Amen
i see the passion Benjamin has for youths. let's listen intently
I really wish people (youths) can listen.
For real,I wish I knew him back them,I wouldn't have made the mistakes I made then
@@richauntie316 same here gal
Benjamin is indeed brighter than 24 elders put together.. God bless him. I pray to meet him one day
We are sorry Baba Benjamin we shall do better. "Find your calling first before you start taking off your clothes" 🙈
Doing what he knows best...much love for you Mr Zulu....from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
I have been listening to benjamin zulu ... Kila pahali akienda Niko naye kila pahali ... Imagine am happy being single.... Am single... Right now am going back to school instead of thinking of getting married... I said no to relationship ... I cannot be abondened by money , relationship and God... Right now am trying to open a small business , and going back to school... I don't want any relationship except my parent , siblings and friends ... Working on myself now ... I have to be self centered.
Go gal keep going ....
Woooowww so proud of you
We are together in this💕💕let's focus
This show is an eye opener for everyone in or out of relationship,,am addicted with it,,,
Same here, I can't have enough of Benjamin's advice on relationship @22yrs now. I love it so much. Soo much wisdom.
Zulu start start a tv programme. You are already blessed. Bless kenya.please
Watch him on citizen tv on sat 7.30 pm
Wow! Benjamin you are the reason I am not dating before 25...you really empower me alot...God bless you.
Siz we was like you.follow your path.
Benjamin 💥💥💥💥 those with ears listen🤣🤣🤣 “Choose your struggles”
Where were u Benja when we were making mistakess..please take me back in time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
We were on fire ,hatungeskia aki
Forgiven under very strick conditions.. 😅😅This man is a whole comedian. But wise too
Watching from South Africa and I've been following you since last year. Yohhhh Zulu you are a God sent, I was in an abusive and infedility marriage when I started listening to you and now I left the marriage and I'm healing through your teachings. I wish I met you earlier
UGANDANs representative here❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙏💜💜💜
Aaaah Benjamin your too emotional about youth thanks Dia am learning I never thought I can abstain when I went back after my hustle I swear I did it hooooo no more testing thank think b4 marriage yaaamawe am stil pre 25 focus on hustling now days class attract class ❤❤❤ Uganda 🇺🇬
Respect is Minimum
Leave them those doesn't Value You
You can't NEGOTIATE RESPECT Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 WATCHING 🇸🇦 🇸🇦
Do sales and marketing when you are young. Develop a skill when you are young.
Remember Pampers is expensive please 😂😂😂😂
🤣
True,babies are an economic liability
Benjamin.....people shld stop making u mad with their nonsense!!!!!!! This show was fireeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I am very glad I came across Switch TV and discovered Benjamin Zulu on RUclips. I have learned so much from listening to his wise talks, and he shouldn't stop anytime soon.
From {22:48 - 23:30} Benjamin I concur with you 💯. These things are avoidable! Boys and Girls need to work on their lives before thinking about marriage, baby- making etc. I wish the whole country, no, the whole world could here this!!! Our society need this kind of information, we are lost, and so our children. Please find a way of getting this message across every platform!
Relationship is not oxygen 🤣
True my dear
True
So true, I wish we have better understanding, Mr. Benjamin is pure in heart mentor and life coach, I wish I could heard him in my 20
I love love love Benjamin Zulu. I pray the Lord keeps you and your word travels far. I beg you not to stop talking. I wish I knew you when I was younger. keep up the good work.
🤣 Benjamin is🔥🔥🔥🔥true there wasn't cross pollination ✊. Thanks Joyce and Benjamin, the show is full of impact to many people ,I salute
Our Benjamin laughs on his his own jokes
@doris be your own cheerleader
@@annieo7656 kweli kabisa
😂😂😂
Ikr😂😂it's ok
Woooow! This is amazing! I wish all young people in the world could hear this. It has touched my heart. Thank you so much Benjamin and Joyce for such amazing content! Be blessed.
Joyce was fire fighting coz Benjamin was on fire! 🔥 🤣😂🤣 Another great segment 👏 👏 👏
hahaha😂😂 "Brighter than 24 elders put together", I couldn't agree more! I've never thought of a better commentary whenever I watched these shows! Yes, Benjamin!!!!
So much passion, but he is wise " explore your gifts not wasting destiny and putting yourself in positions you have absolutely no business being in"
I love this show; hilarious and candid
Hello from Saudi Arabia
Aki under 25s ladies and men under 30. Si jokes. No need to get into commitments aki
Right
True!!
Mr. Benjamin you're truly life coach, mentor and speaks to the heart of truth, I wish all African countries could carry your teachings and knowledge to bring awareness, so pleased and I wish I could hear you growing up for sure I wouldn't be where I'm, keep it up and be blessed
You always inspire me Benjamin . Made mistake when I was 23 three and got a baby three years ago.Now developing on my career as I plan to get married two years ago.
God bless you,, and may He restore the years, Hes faithful
Dr Phil needs to bring benjamin Zulu on his show as a guest therapist 🤣
please give those who make mistakes hope even after a baby. That girl still has hope......
Very profound and candid ✅I turned 20 recently and am always intentive On his nuggets of wisdom.
Benjamin is a great blessing to this generation which includes me😅,I thank God for bringing you to us,Just turned 20 and with Benjamin all through my twenties I'm sure right to always make the right decisions in life going forward😊
BENJAMIN, you are a blessing for today’s try and error generation. I believe in your worming young people not to start with sex.
Am not a fan of writing comments but for this I must. Benjamin you are a father every child should have. Many sons and daughters get lost somewhere in life for lack of such fathering.
I wish i listened to such advice some 5 years ago.Anyway,lessons learnt.I wish the young people should know the truth and live accordingly.
👏👏Benjamin u were on fire leo 😆😆
Sacred dancing 😹😹😹Waaaaaaaaaahhhh... Benjamin aki
Shout out from Eswatini, I love your show, great content !
Mkhaya
The last part got me😆😆😆Benjamin the way he changed his moods aaaaah😆😆😆😆😆😆😆I better listen or else mmmh😆😆😆
I'm so glad youtube has landed me here - Learning and laughing at the same time. Thank you Joyce and Benjamin
Benjamin you are guiding young pple bt also try to help those who are in the trap already may it bcoz they did'nt know
Benjamin and Jocye Thankyou I really enjoy the show everyday is a learning day Thankyou
Benjamin, be blessed.....you inspire me aloot!!
Mr Benjamin, God bless you with divine grace and wisdom 🙏 may God almight increase your oil of anointing, am deeply grateful to God for his talented wisdom he bless you with. Am Mary Ben Michael
Am Nigeria 🇳🇬 citizen,
All i have to say, God bless you 🙏 and your family and business 🙏
Respect is the bare minimum
Life is hard with all this temptations in the world
Benjamin has steam coming out of his ears. Lol bless his heart. I am sure he deals with this daily.
How did you find out about this Man., Zulu .
@@mosepro.1423 He says he's a psychologist
I am listening to you Zulu🤩 thought I am post 25, I made mistakes, God protected me and led me your page. I am listening 🎧. God bless you
Hahaaa i love it when he gets mad..laughing loudly then realised i was alone
joyce, i like your natural hair, anwway done anytime, keep it up girl.
OMG! I love this show, learning a lot. Thank you Benjamin Zulu for enlightening some of us on life aspects.God bless.
Thanks a lot Benjamin. My Respect and Self Estime becomes no1💃💃💃💃
Mr zulu at it again dropping wisdom on us.God Bless you brother.
I absolutely concur👏he is hilarious😂😂😂
Benjamin, your correcting energy is GRACE.
Wow, this is intense @Benjamin ,@joyce. This show should be airing everyday @7.30 instead of likes of kina Maria
NMS kindly kimbieni switch the studio is on 🔥🔥
Wololo....the house is on fire🔥🔥 please Benjamin don't give up on them even though they charge you alot 😅
I wish I had stumbled onto Benjamin before I was 25
Hi Benjamin and joy..ilove this show surely..be blessed
Wooow Benjamin this time you have nailed it🔥..I always watch these videos but I had to comment on this one..I learn a lot from you #My Mentor
Benjamin... Benjamin that's real knowledge and wisdom 🙌🙌 thumbs up for Benjamin for sharing this 🤯🤯
Hahaha😁😁😁Joyce very funnie benjamin is on 🔥
I'm a pre 25 na nimekuskia wise man.
I will implement this.
Benjamin we're sorry eeeeiiiyyy😂😂😂please please this man has preached it enough!!! Those with ears let them listen otherwise stop making mistakes and complaining choices have consequences
Learning more, good job Joyce en Benja
By calling, he mean purpose, missions and goals💯💯
Absolutely edified and certainly entertained! Really want to commend Joyce and Benjamin on the scriptural wisdom constantly poured out. Such solid truth. Sending greetings and sunshine from the little town of Leeton in eastern Australia 🌞!
Ooh zulu I wish I knew this 2yrs ago..but its never too late.greet work you are doing..so intelligent
Who's reading the comments fast and enjoying the show at the same time..
I liked before watching because I know it is good 😅
yani ...Just speachless. Benjamin Asante Sana
Wisdom is my friend. I get knowledge and Al's understanding. I will never be fooled again. Let them try they will see fire . Thanks Benjamin for this wise council
benjamin unanona,your girl doing good,ama ni appreciation yetu inakufanya manenos
Don't be broke and brocken at the same time...waooo choose your struggles wisely
Respect is a personal violation
Truth be told ,keep it up, thanks.
Wow,, Benjamin you are oozing with wisdom. So wise and clear I have really learnt a lot.
There's a reason why they're called X! Don't go there.
Find the X
😂😂😂😂 2024
I always wait for this segment😍😘
😂😂😂i am tired of this nonsense 😂😂😂aki i just love this show makes my day
You cannot be abandoned by men, money and God🤣🤣🤣🤣
Zulu mbona unaongea ukweli wote 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
😹😹😹
Wow wow Benjamin, this has stuck in
22:50 Benja goes on a rant 😂😂😂 Relationships are not Oxygen.
😂😂😂
VERY TRUE. He is on top of it👏👏
Relationship is not oxygen ...best line
Why didn't I hear this years ago😭😭,where were you Benjamin??but I Know there is still hope for those under the sun..
Benjamin was mad shaaaame!pre-25s!!
🤣🤣🤣 They need to have several seats
Find your calling first (Dvelop your career and focus on personal growth), before you remove your clothes😂. I love that😊
This is awesome.Benjamin I learn alot from knowledge you share with us.