You are not the Assistant Jesus Christ - If it doesn't work, QUIT - Benjamin Zulu on dating

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • #SwitchTV #FullCirclewithMwikali #BenjaminZulu

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 года назад +9

    Do not forget to subscribe to our RUclips channel.. Click here to subscribe -- ruclips.net/user/switchtvkenya

    • @alindafelix9836
      @alindafelix9836 3 года назад +2

      The audio volume is low 😫

    • @macym57
      @macym57 3 года назад +1

      Could you please post the contacts for Mr. Zulu, not personal ofcourse but the one that a client would get in touch with. Thanks.

    • @kelvinjameson3764
      @kelvinjameson3764 3 года назад

      you probably dont give a damn but does anybody know a method to get back into an instagram account?
      I somehow lost the login password. I would appreciate any help you can give me

    • @milomathew5267
      @milomathew5267 3 года назад

      @Kelvin Jameson Instablaster ;)

    • @kelvinjameson3764
      @kelvinjameson3764 3 года назад

      @Milo Mathew Thanks so much for your reply. I got to the site thru google and Im in the hacking process atm.
      Seems to take a while so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.

  • @hannahkihara5532
    @hannahkihara5532 3 года назад +47

    Don’t trade your happy single life for a miserable relationship.. have you heard?👂🏽

  • @mercynakandi286
    @mercynakandi286 3 года назад +37

    The issue of always being ready to walk away is really important, always know your worth. Thanks Benjamin

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 года назад +136

    When people ghosts you, treat them as the dead😂

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 года назад +28

    "Do the right things first!Poverty is a mindset!"

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 года назад +64

    "If you are 20, go plant a tree and grow with it first" Indeed, you have no business being in serious relationships in your 20s.Get a life!Focus on your life.Focus on your career.Grow and develop yourself in your 20s... Those are the best times to set the pace for the rest of your future.Enjoy your single-hood thoroughly in your 20s...
    Punchline after punchline on this episode! :-)

    • @nzisawambua4141
      @nzisawambua4141 3 года назад +4

      How can anyone not take this serious?.in our twenties,we didn't have RUclips or WiFi..so we couldn't watch this important videos..

    • @shirokarume9464
      @shirokarume9464 3 года назад +3

      This one is so true and correct

    • @moasiyena5012
      @moasiyena5012 3 года назад

      It's very true.

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 года назад +40

    "Why should a church limit your life?" "It's very healthy to outgrow a church" "Will that denomination marry you?" "Politely migrate to a church you can find candidates to marry" Those thoughts really struck me hard!

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 года назад +30

    i have seen it with my kids.We randomly confirm our love daily to us and ensure the other person understands.Also that they know how to apologise with love and not put each other down.I teach my son how to love and appreciate his sister because thats how he will appreciate his wife in future.

    • @faymalaika7144
      @faymalaika7144 3 года назад +1

      Wow!I admire that dear

    • @leahanitareddig
      @leahanitareddig 3 года назад +1

      @@faymalaika7144 thanks. Because the math is easy.If i want a man to love and respect me then i should teach my sone to do the same and carry it on to his wife.Because that someones daughter is any woman out there that i would pray for my sone.Also that someones daughter could be my daughter another mother is praying for his son. Its all the mirror reflection all through.

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 3 года назад +11

    Consistent communication is a sign of maturity

  • @mama_christian
    @mama_christian 3 года назад +25

    I love the title, its true I used to go into a relationship trying to play Jesus by changing someone or trying to convince someone on their potential

  • @teshshon9404
    @teshshon9404 3 года назад +65

    Mr Benjamin Zulu has a youtube channel..........lets follow him.

  • @beckydavid3247
    @beckydavid3247 3 года назад +8

    I was once married and one day the guy texted me and told me this is not who I was looking for......I choose to walk away.

  • @ngangindunge6764
    @ngangindunge6764 3 года назад +8

    The moment I will make decision to settle down again,I will be ready.
    Thanks Zulu and Mwikali.

  • @barbaraboatengapea-kubi4903
    @barbaraboatengapea-kubi4903 3 года назад +23

    Thank you Zulu, you think like me, talk like me and today you have put all my thoughts into the right words for me. I feel proud of myself and I thank God for people like you. May we be persons of our words in action. God bless you.

  • @everlynnyaberi1120
    @everlynnyaberi1120 3 года назад +7

    Oooohhhh my young people lucky you take note of Zulus advice some of us wish we could change times

  • @kemigishasylvia1708
    @kemigishasylvia1708 3 года назад +8

    Let the dead people continue resting in peace... Benjamin you speak my mind always ❤️❤️❤️

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +14

    Keep them fearful of losing you.
    Especially when their is disrespect.

  • @Liz-pv9yx
    @Liz-pv9yx 3 года назад +76

    I'm a 1st yr student at Mr Benjamin Zulu University...

  • @KennlitoeWanjiru
    @KennlitoeWanjiru 3 года назад +26

    Agreed Respect comes before Love

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 3 года назад +9

    Respect comes before Love: Indeed!

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 года назад +16

    I love Mwikali’s expressions when an email comes from a pre 25🤣🤣🤣!!

  • @lisaelly7501
    @lisaelly7501 3 года назад +8

    Mr Zulu, simply the best, call a spade a spade.
    Much Blessings! Much love from Tz!

  • @rhodahbranice3379
    @rhodahbranice3379 3 года назад +6

    From the Reading of the comments l can say indeed people are learning alot from you Zulu n mwikali.Good job you are doing. 👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @jessicakwaro4073
    @jessicakwaro4073 3 года назад +8

    Kai🤣🤣🤣this man Zulu is just an inspiration aki learning alot from him

  • @jeniphermbakile8274
    @jeniphermbakile8274 3 года назад +15

    From Tanzania, I am learning a lot

  • @gladysngami9685
    @gladysngami9685 3 года назад +38

    Under 25 and in relationships thinks zulu is just talking fikeni hapa 30 ndio mtaelewa and it will be too late,,zulu wisdom need more and bigger flatform

  • @lorraineoneill9297
    @lorraineoneill9297 3 года назад +2

    Benjamin Zulu is entertaining, sensible, full of good insights and a good mentor for women who are seeking a relationship.

  • @rozzycate5239
    @rozzycate5239 3 года назад +8

    Mwikali plus zulu
    Just pure wisdom..

  • @lefarevealed
    @lefarevealed 3 года назад +3

    This is a! Man God has send to change African perspectives 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +10

    RESPECT COMES BEFORE LOVE.
    Napenda Benjamin advice.
    Develop good language

  • @winnieachieng2764
    @winnieachieng2764 3 года назад +19

    I will never ressurect any dead spirit in my life..... RIP is the answer.

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 года назад +28

    Mwikali's Laughter 😂😂

  • @claireaurugai8266
    @claireaurugai8266 3 года назад +14

    "For someone to pull you down, they must be down and for someone to throw dung at you they must first hold the dung themselves"......wisdom.
    BENJAMIN ZULU

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 года назад +15

    "The problem is not God or the government, it is YOU!"

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 3 года назад +69

    When someone ghosts you let them continue resting in peace

    • @jullyvlog8198
      @jullyvlog8198 3 года назад

      What's ghosting?

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 3 года назад +7

      @@jullyvlog8198 people just disappearing on you and stops contacting you. You message and call and they don't respond.

    • @morineakinyi1116
      @morineakinyi1116 3 года назад +1

      Very true

    • @josphinesherry5511
      @josphinesherry5511 3 года назад

      Exactly

    • @kimrenard923
      @kimrenard923 3 года назад +1

      Wanjiru eeeish from Tuko to Switch. Tuko na wewe bumber kwa bumber. But Zulu is just funny

  • @carolinemwazi5583
    @carolinemwazi5583 3 года назад +6

    Mismatched energies = frustration. So true. Also: respect actions more than words. Do not overlook disrespect....you're inviting abuse. Know when to stop being good. Happily married or happily single. Loving the clarity! POOR: Passing over opportunities repeatedly. The problem is not God, it's not government, it's you! Thank you for shooting straight, Benjamin!

  • @wacheram3494
    @wacheram3494 3 года назад +10

    That part of communication😏. I don't call nobody😉😉 only do it when it's necessary.

  • @serahm8207
    @serahm8207 3 года назад +64

    I usually tell my gals and everyone that respect comes before love.... Nimwaigua

    • @eudiaorwa8121
      @eudiaorwa8121 3 года назад +3

      Very true
      ruclips.net/video/iTD5emP0JUo/видео.html

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 года назад +7

      I can handle a man not loving me... could never handle disrespect...

    • @monicambugua557
      @monicambugua557 3 года назад +2

      Nindaigwa kairitu

    • @raelnzulu143
      @raelnzulu143 3 года назад +1

      Yiii nitwaigwa

  • @Salvation123..
    @Salvation123.. 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Mr Zulu,
    For a lady in the mid30s, this is now to my ears. Even though someone I was getting to know, who was even texting and asking meaningful questions, just vanished ... God knows why .

  • @emilywandalo3590
    @emilywandalo3590 3 года назад +5

    Am loving it from Scotland......so much wisdom sir 💪💪👏👏

  • @lizonyango1547
    @lizonyango1547 3 года назад +11

    Wow I"m learning new things each and everyday through this show,,,thanks to Benjamin and Mwikali

    • @eudiaorwa8121
      @eudiaorwa8121 3 года назад

      Me too
      ruclips.net/video/iTD5emP0JUo/видео.html

  • @moderngrandma3452
    @moderngrandma3452 3 года назад +3

    Viva Benj!!!!! Saying it loud and clear ........ you may not notice but your words make differences in our lives ......

  • @daphinenamuli7566
    @daphinenamuli7566 3 года назад +5

    Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom..... Thank you Zulu for unlocking this generation

  • @estherlightshow222
    @estherlightshow222 3 года назад +21

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love how this guy gets mad sometimes

  • @sikhululekilemoyo7156
    @sikhululekilemoyo7156 3 года назад +13

    Thanks Zulu you are an eye opener

  • @kele6wele
    @kele6wele 3 года назад +2

    I love this man and the hosts make it even more enjoyable, thank you all

  • @rosenangila1125
    @rosenangila1125 3 года назад +21

    Yes, I'm with mwikali on this, Mrs zulu aletwe 😁

  • @hellenwanjiku167
    @hellenwanjiku167 3 года назад +11

    Mwikali in future you need to put water hapo it helps. As usual thanks for ur words benja.

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 года назад +13

    Keep them fearful😂
    ie know your worth and what you're worthy of! 🙌 💯

    • @charitymwangi2062
      @charitymwangi2062 3 года назад

      12:50 it is not love that makes people faithful..it is fear of losing you...👌

    • @yourstrulyKe
      @yourstrulyKe 3 года назад

      @@charitymwangi2062 Absolutely!

  • @kagkats
    @kagkats 3 года назад +1

    am looking for the love button bt only seeing the like one...well done Benjamin Zulu and Mwikali. Sense sense sense....Respect should be a standard upheld in any relationship

  • @pamelawanderaofficial6257
    @pamelawanderaofficial6257 3 года назад

    These intelligence is high way above, umenijibu Benjamin. Your show is up

  • @mercyabenaessuah3255
    @mercyabenaessuah3255 3 года назад +2

    "Happily married or Happily single" BOOM! words to live by

  • @nancynoellahc2176
    @nancynoellahc2176 3 года назад +7

    Pre 25s please sharap🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sharap, we cant afford to loose Zulu to BP

  • @hindenburg2006
    @hindenburg2006 3 года назад +2

    "Follow your heart, but carry your head with you"
    😳😳😳

  • @aishahamad6251
    @aishahamad6251 3 года назад +7

    From Sudan i am learning alot

  • @maryjulius2863
    @maryjulius2863 3 года назад +6

    Thanks for helping us laugh Benjamin.... 💥years added for that

  • @Mwaluzi39
    @Mwaluzi39 3 года назад +6

    Benjamin Zulu 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Much love from 🇹🇿

  • @rebekah1278
    @rebekah1278 3 года назад +8

    I'm going to throw a funeral for those that ghosted me to mark the death of the relationships.

  • @jeffgicharu220
    @jeffgicharu220 2 года назад +2

    "Next time you get attention with experts like us please ask things that can improve your life. Don't ask about men and trousers and sleeping and sex and breakups and nonsense. You're only 20. Why are you shattering your life? Do you have a covenant with death and depression and disaster and death. What's wrong with you, you're too young."
    "Can you start with money. Look! You're broke. You have no money, you have to throw questions on TV because they're free .......can you go to the right things first. Poverty is a mindset. "😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Very good advice for a 20 year old 😂😂😂

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 года назад +5

    this was good lessons.Teaching your children to express yourselves from young on.

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 6 месяцев назад

    Are you a marriage counselor Benjamin? I love the way you are expressive, genuine and honest

  • @annieblessing9954
    @annieblessing9954 3 года назад +5

    😂😂😂😂😂 the way Zulu reacted on the 20years old😂😂😂😂 seriously at 20 thinking about man you’re loosing yourself

  • @stellahmarriswambuwah9919
    @stellahmarriswambuwah9919 3 года назад +4

    🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💞💞💞 ITS GOOD TO KNOW SOME DECISIONS I MADE IN THE PAST WHERE RIGHT🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.ZULU ALWAYS MAKES ME 😂 😂 😂 AND FORGET MY PROBLEMS.

  • @irenenjeri3544
    @irenenjeri3544 3 года назад +36

    Mwikali please stop asking zulu this questions of pre 25s we dont want to loose him toB.P😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KK-yt3ty
      @KK-yt3ty 3 года назад +1

      I blame the people calling in. They should know better 😂😂🤣

    • @TheLilly
      @TheLilly 3 года назад

      Lol 😆

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +11

    Sometimes we have to outgrow some friendships.
    This is true

  • @emeldapaul5796
    @emeldapaul5796 3 года назад +3

    Energy Match ....Thank you Benjamin

  • @ebaianne1392
    @ebaianne1392 2 года назад

    Hi I'm from Cameroon. I love the conversation

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 года назад +3

    For a person to throw dung at you , they must hold the dung themselves...!!!! This is a game changer . 🤣🤣🤣

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +2

    Build something together.
    Eeeeeiiisssshhh this is brilliant.

  • @shellyannrichards6565
    @shellyannrichards6565 3 года назад +1

    Loving this Title for the Video. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @judy-et1vm
    @judy-et1vm 3 года назад +3

    I needed this.plus a big slap on my pretty face.

  • @rosettekatusiime6710
    @rosettekatusiime6710 3 года назад +2

    Am here wondering y someone would dislike this video apart from the fact that they are negative people

  • @annewachira4317
    @annewachira4317 3 года назад +1

    Very informative show! Thanks Benjamin Zulu!

  • @judy-et1vm
    @judy-et1vm 3 года назад +3

    Add to my happiness or subtract your presence.love it.

  • @martinab2055
    @martinab2055 3 года назад +7

    @25:24 it’s not only KE problem, it’s an African problem. Most unemployed think that ‘job’ is only if it’s in the office. Why is it most will do ANY job out of Africa, but NOT in Africa? Our (African) mindset is our enemy. 😡

    • @hellespont1
      @hellespont1 3 года назад

      .. And he's not making it up its called the poor man's syndrome

  • @pamelawanderaofficial6257
    @pamelawanderaofficial6257 3 года назад +1

    Zulu I feel your pain when you see people don't think wise

  • @aimeeadeti-muga8868
    @aimeeadeti-muga8868 3 года назад +11

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 mwikali "keep them fearful"
    How come I never get these sessions live, nakuwanga na maswali...

  • @musiimentaanitah4906
    @musiimentaanitah4906 3 года назад +1

    Guy speaks soo much sense ooooh

  • @didihighly-favoured7163
    @didihighly-favoured7163 3 года назад +4

    Beautiful dress Mwikali 👌👌👌

  • @dativanguma8310
    @dativanguma8310 3 года назад +1

    Stay blessed .Your doing a good job

  • @yousfomar2448
    @yousfomar2448 3 года назад +17

    Let me alow that relationship of mine rest in peace.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nzisawambua4141
    @nzisawambua4141 3 года назад +8

    Wooow!. Teach your kids how greet each other when they wake up🙏🙏💯our parents didn't,so let's teach the current and future generation 💋❤️💋

  • @ruthmutinda6522
    @ruthmutinda6522 3 года назад +2

    Respect calls before real love...
    Ooh yes,don't trade for a miserable relationship...better stay single...

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 6 месяцев назад

    I tell you…I hope he is a billionaire. He has rich ideas. I feel like I can’t explain what I thinking. I appreciate what he has to say

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 10 месяцев назад

    I like your everything go forward
    Your start topic so much
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌✔️

  • @elizabethkumador5513
    @elizabethkumador5513 3 года назад +1

    Woow am learning alot tanx, listening from Ghana

  • @kammusic22
    @kammusic22 3 года назад +1

    Speaking about ghosting there is someone I recently told please RIP. We are gonna move ghosting to another level you send them a flower with writings RIP.

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +4

    Please respect actions more than word's.
    Don't overlook disrespect.

  • @gracewaithira2871
    @gracewaithira2871 3 года назад +4

    Enjoying listening to zulu 🥰

  • @maryhebrew9480
    @maryhebrew9480 3 года назад +5

    In my friendships I first look what someone is putting on the table, 🤣😂

    • @wecalm5258
      @wecalm5258 3 года назад

      What exactly do u bring to the table

  • @sarahal-e.5389
    @sarahal-e.5389 3 года назад +3

    Hello from Saudi Arabia
    Big fan

  • @ruthmutinda6522
    @ruthmutinda6522 3 года назад +2

    I love this talk
    let the Ghosts remain Ghosts please...😁😁

  • @charityscopas3751
    @charityscopas3751 3 года назад +1

    Respect to you Sir Benjamin Zulu

  • @pamelawanderaofficial6257
    @pamelawanderaofficial6257 3 года назад

    If people followed your advice the world of marriage would be the best to n ride in

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 6 месяцев назад

    HAPPILY MARRIED OR HAPPILY SINGLE😂😂😂😂. Well done 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @alicedaudi5933
    @alicedaudi5933 3 года назад +2

    Yes ,I am learning daily

  • @lisasoriano8
    @lisasoriano8 3 года назад +1

    Hallelujah 👏🏽 the problem is you!

  • @jamesokaro6606
    @jamesokaro6606 3 года назад +14

    Are you worshipping God or the church?!!??!
    Swali nyeti hiyo! May God help us.

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 года назад +2

    Please heal the irritation.
    This one men have to do it often.
    Make use of crisis.

  • @vennaodhiambo5447
    @vennaodhiambo5447 3 года назад +1

    Plant a tree and grow with it. Wale Wa 20s,kieleweke.
    Nice one