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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 года назад +13

    Do not forget to subscribe to our RUclips channel.. Click here to subscribe -- ruclips.net/user/switchtvkenya

    • @jacintasimu3762
      @jacintasimu3762 3 года назад

      Mutemi zulu u are above this generation. Wakwitu

  • @MaggieKahbuu
    @MaggieKahbuu 3 года назад +125

    This man is a gift of our time.

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 года назад +152

    "If the relationship is not happier than your single life, go back to single life "

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 года назад +1

      Not happier but happy like your single life. You shouldn't expect a relationship to make you happier

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 3 года назад

      💯

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 года назад +1

      If 9o ooh

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 года назад +1

      @@melmel7011 the one iii

    • @idahanubi6745
      @idahanubi6745 3 года назад +1

      @@melmel7011 pió

  • @katekay5595
    @katekay5595 3 года назад +107

    If you can not trust me with your phone, I can not trust you with my life 🤔

    • @rhodahj7121
      @rhodahj7121 3 года назад +2

      Point taken

    • @paulyneMercyPaula
      @paulyneMercyPaula 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely 👌

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 3 года назад

      Nkt

    • @katekay5595
      @katekay5595 3 года назад +1

      @@jakobo2824 what with NKT😏 I just quoted what Zulu said 🙄

    • @jakobo2824
      @jakobo2824 3 года назад +4

      @@katekay5595 is your life equivalent to a phone..??? that response wasn't for malicious intent it's just that you shouldn't value your life with a phone. It's stupid. And that's exactly the thing that destroys relationships. You give way too much priority to things that don't really matter

  • @ajalahupfront
    @ajalahupfront 3 года назад +26

    When Benjamin laughs it comes from deep down and his laughter lights up the whole room.

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 3 года назад +22

    Mwikali is so lively.....she fits this show 💯.Zulu is my favorite....the chemistry of this two is amazing.Best show ever

  • @queenlyne2363
    @queenlyne2363 3 года назад +25

    Keep your partner from worrying...this got me thinking 🤔.

  • @dorrismakena6380
    @dorrismakena6380 3 года назад +12

    Kila siku nilikuwa nahisi nahitaji kuolewa b4 am 24 but since I started listening to Mr Zulu huh it's success first for me...his advice has changed my mindset aloooooot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 года назад +2

      Me too,,I was planning to get married next month at 23years. His videos have really helped me and I've changed my mind completely yesterday

  • @thayu2821
    @thayu2821 3 года назад +21

    Honestly this was the smoothest😁 transition of hosts. I enjoyed Joyce and I totally still enjoy your hosting Mwikali.

  • @hottest1
    @hottest1 3 года назад +22

    Watching this bright passionate man full of wisdom, Zulu talks the reality of life

  • @jacklinemuchoki4237
    @jacklinemuchoki4237 3 года назад +40

    It is true long distance relationships are not for immature people. I'm in one and silence is not allowed. You have to always communicate to make it work. 👌So long as you both communicate well, you'll be good.

    • @raelmumo396
      @raelmumo396 3 года назад +2

      Communication is everything.

    • @judynjerisilvanus6573
      @judynjerisilvanus6573 3 года назад +2

      Yeah am wedding on may have been in two years long distance rship it worked

    • @jacklinemuchoki4237
      @jacklinemuchoki4237 3 года назад +3

      @@judynjerisilvanus6573 woow amazing, congratulations on your big day 🎉🎉💃💃

  • @yasnyne
    @yasnyne 3 года назад +51

    Daddy Benjamin, I wish you can sprees all your blessings to all African countries. At least this channel should be in all African countries, families, children , teenagers, adults, elders need to know of your existence because you can make a difference in their lives as you have made in many lives and relationships by changing mind settings. Thank you so much to your parents for creating you. You were born to do this work, you are truly blessed. Thank you ☺️

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 года назад +6

      Very true am above 40 and am learning alot. But thank God he has his own show now

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 года назад

      @@hellenwanjiku167 when is his show?
      He has really transformed the whole of Africa. Much love from 🇺🇬

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 года назад

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 😀

    • @hellenwanjiku167
      @hellenwanjiku167 3 года назад +1

      @@pamellanuwarinda7554 just Google Benjamin zulu show

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 года назад

      @@hellenwanjiku167 Thank you

  • @techienomadiso8970
    @techienomadiso8970 3 года назад +12

    The wisdom in this man is on another level. Wow!

  • @reginalangat5194
    @reginalangat5194 3 года назад +12

    Benjamin Zulu you are a blessing to this generation for sure.

  • @keziahmwangi9920
    @keziahmwangi9920 3 года назад +6

    Aki mwikali your laughter is everything😂😂. The kind that makes others laugh too even when they haven't heard the joke.

  • @blessedmercy3036
    @blessedmercy3036 3 года назад +19

    Benjamin... I now have the wisdom. May the lord bring me my king

  • @shemmosoti2808
    @shemmosoti2808 3 года назад +35

    Have never understood how someone u call the love of ua life, someone who sees u nakedness, someone u call the father/ mother of ua child but u can not touch one's phone, very unfortunate

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 года назад +15

    I love how Benjamin says "My girl". It sounds so sweet!😁
    Long distance communication is the mother of all communication🙆‍♀️ Please discuss it💯

  • @zingimazongs274
    @zingimazongs274 3 года назад +11

    Ahhh Zulu... We're calling each other to breathe on the phone😂😂😂😂 that finished me

    • @lucynyamai6854
      @lucynyamai6854 3 года назад

      Yea when in a bad mood you breathe your silence and let it be...

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande6856 3 года назад +14

    “I waited long enough to be sure with what I wanted. So you are not behind you are right on time.”😊

  • @monic1594
    @monic1594 3 года назад +2

    I love how Mwikali says, "That's what's up!" anytime Benjamin hits a 'jackpot'.
    Her laughter is contagious too.

  • @teckie__songsofworship6680
    @teckie__songsofworship6680 3 года назад +14

    Wapi likes za Mr.Zulu he is gifted with wisdom and he really inspire the world

  • @maggiedoublenofficial981
    @maggiedoublenofficial981 3 года назад +7

    Waah..you call somebody to hear them breath!🙆‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 ZULU n MWIKALI u will kill me! Waah that just finished me...otherwise learning a lot from ZULU

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 3 года назад +47

    I don't have time snooping on my hubby's phone,as a wife I can know what goes on behind my back without checking his phone.

    • @stepmum2451
      @stepmum2451 3 года назад +1

      no u cant

    • @blandinamnyinga8318
      @blandinamnyinga8318 3 года назад +2

      @@stepmum2451 believe me there are so many ways of knowing that without bothering yourself with his phone.

    • @pamellanuwarinda7554
      @pamellanuwarinda7554 3 года назад +1

      True u can know something is going on without the phone. May be someone may involve it for more evidences but u get to know even without a phone

    • @luminous3015
      @luminous3015 3 года назад +2

      Thank u ..my dear u're a confident woman

    • @rahab1918
      @rahab1918 3 года назад +1

      Very true am sure by now my husband thinks am a witch or something 😂😂

  • @presidentofkenya6896
    @presidentofkenya6896 3 года назад +12

    Mwikali's laughter timestamps: 2:57, 3:42, 8:04, 14:29, 17:55, 23:46, 27:36, and the biggest of them all 30:37

  • @sherryshazala7123
    @sherryshazala7123 3 года назад +9

    Mwikali smile ,laughters melts my heart ❤. Benjamin is always on point. Hio number hulala st/room 😂😂😂🔥👌🙏

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 3 года назад +3

    Mwikali has a great voice. I can listen to her for 24hours

  • @shadrackolepesi273
    @shadrackolepesi273 3 года назад +21

    Very interesting this man Zulu has all the wisdom

  • @viviandorcas9125
    @viviandorcas9125 3 года назад +7

    I can relate to what Benjamin Zulu is saying
    Preach truth brother👐

  • @herlifeshow5453
    @herlifeshow5453 3 года назад +1

    Zulu, you are really an asset on our continent Africa. I really love this show. Greetings from Ghana

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 3 года назад +16

    I like how Mwikali doesn’t speak a lot of Swahili.

  • @racquellek
    @racquellek 3 года назад +7

    why is he so smart....just facts ontop of facts
    if you cant trust me with your phone then i cant trust you with my life period

  • @castormuthoka
    @castormuthoka 3 года назад +11

    This man is always on point.

  • @zanelebuthelezi8732
    @zanelebuthelezi8732 3 года назад +11

    This also goes to relationships too its destroys it before marriage

  • @ivywamurwa6149
    @ivywamurwa6149 3 года назад +4

    Yesss can we please talk about long-distance relationships

  • @vunenenthani6640
    @vunenenthani6640 3 года назад +4

    Benjamin is killing us with this suit aaah my Gad!! 😍❤️

  • @tetelomampe3064
    @tetelomampe3064 3 года назад +3

    I don't know Benjamin zulu personally.. and I don't think I will ever meet him but hey this guy has become my life coach

    • @julietkasungwa6535
      @julietkasungwa6535 3 года назад +1

      He was always present in my school years and I can tell you He is the best mentor.

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 года назад +5

    U looking good benja, u too mwikali I'll never miss ua show guys u inspire alot

  • @nnekynathan
    @nnekynathan 3 года назад +2

    Love it when Benjamin is on set. I have never clicked soo fast.

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 2 года назад

    Love him to bits, he is the Sthembiso Zondo of Kenya. South Africans especially Zulus will know what I mean

  • @yvonnemonde1307
    @yvonnemonde1307 3 года назад

    Changing one relationship at a time! Thank you Mwikali and Benjamin Zulu; we appreciate y'all and the much needed message!

  • @JumaTrojanHorse
    @JumaTrojanHorse 3 года назад +5

    Benjamin Zulu: What a gem! 💎

  • @susanwangui4181
    @susanwangui4181 3 года назад +10

    😂🤣🤣🤣 can't wait for long distance relationship topic

  • @robertkorir2490
    @robertkorir2490 3 года назад +5

    Wow! What an amazing talks... indeed assumption and lack of communication are the number one relationship killers.we all perceive diffidently.we've lived different lives,we have different views...true love is born from understanding.
    ~Robert korir.

  • @beingkeemie26
    @beingkeemie26 3 года назад +21

    I just have respect for his wife... How can you marry psychologist? 😂😂😂.

  • @abibena4364
    @abibena4364 3 года назад +4

    Benjamin is teaching us the meaning of genuine communication in relationships

  • @scolla81
    @scolla81 3 года назад +7

    My old relationship was so dramatic, it went more to tracking, i kept quiet and started building my strong me,the moment i got him cheating live i went completely, deep down him knowingly that he will apologise, this was like nothing was left for him, blocking him was the first step to keep off from him, now am happier than be4.

    • @carowambui2994
      @carowambui2994 3 года назад +2

      That's good dear best decision ever

  • @Brayn778
    @Brayn778 3 года назад +1

    Mwikali has a great voice, thnks benja am a victim of hiding phone

  • @peoplevoices5307
    @peoplevoices5307 3 года назад +7

    Benjamin Zulu,..live long my guy ❤️

  • @jemfridahanangwe1152
    @jemfridahanangwe1152 3 года назад +10

    Thank you Mr Zulu I just like this and av forwarded it to my Hun 😘 to watch it.

  • @blandinamnyinga8318
    @blandinamnyinga8318 3 года назад +8

    Zulu,call me so I can breath🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Ben this man😂😂😂😂😂😂am diying heyyyyy, how I love this Man frm🇹🇿🤣🤣🤣

  • @natashaprossy4276
    @natashaprossy4276 3 года назад +5

    Long live Benjamin. Much love from dubai💖💖💖

  • @suzanne6922
    @suzanne6922 3 года назад +7

    I remember my partner changing the password to a new one 🙄😏

  • @MultiKasuku
    @MultiKasuku 3 года назад

    I have cracked it -- the details are in the business phone -- very smart

  • @ireanriyaitah9319
    @ireanriyaitah9319 3 года назад +4

    Ya long-distance relationship ikuje...infact long-distance marriages...I can't wait

  • @roseshiku1045
    @roseshiku1045 3 года назад +13

    Kikuyu men need to hear this

  • @joyceruthi8438
    @joyceruthi8438 3 года назад +4

    The topic today is a wow factor. love your show guys.

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 3 года назад +4

    He needs to give this advice to all the Bahamian man💯😫😩

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 года назад +1

      The Bahiamian had a good teacher Dr. Myles Munroe,,,,,check out his teachings please. I am a Kenyan I started watching his clips last year and I've also learned alot

    • @dr.faithadhiambo254
      @dr.faithadhiambo254 3 года назад

      I count the Bahamas lucky for having him,,,

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 года назад

      It is so sad that doctor miles munroe passed away. May his soul rest in peace

  • @enrietanyongesa8322
    @enrietanyongesa8322 3 года назад +3

    Mwikali looking good dear..The shoes eeeish

  • @akiaflorence2472
    @akiaflorence2472 3 года назад +1

    Much love from Uganda walai I complain to my boyfriend about communicating every day and sometimes using voice notes but he is not taking it serious and we are on a long distance relationship 😔😔😔

  • @pwrhb
    @pwrhb 3 года назад

    Benjamin is on fire, yes🔥lakini hii kicheko ya mwikali😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥eish

  • @tytypartridge3135
    @tytypartridge3135 28 дней назад

    If I’m already thinking about looking at your phone then something is already up!!

  • @wanyinavybes421
    @wanyinavybes421 3 года назад

    Great topic😎 Zulu please discuss Privacy & Confidentiality some time. There are laws that exist to safeguard that at all levels. Hi ujinga ya people possessing others is unacceptable.

  • @valerieesther5549
    @valerieesther5549 3 года назад +1

    I love you Zulu, God bless you and grow you. Shouter please "maturity" "courtesy" and "secrecy! "

  • @stephenvodasalano4945
    @stephenvodasalano4945 3 года назад +1

    This guy is the best BENJAMIN ZULU 👏👏👍👍

  • @shiftinggrades
    @shiftinggrades 3 года назад +2

    AT 23:13 ZULU YOU ARE MISLEADING PEOPLE. RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CHALLENGES AND YOU SHOULD ADVISE PEOPLE TO COPE UP WITH THEIR PARTNERS AND NOT TO QUITE. AS WE GROW WE ENCOUNTER A LOT OF ISSUES AND WE ARE BOUND TO FACING THEM. IF WE FIND STRESS AT WORK PLACES SHOULD WE VACATE AND GET BACK TO UNEMPLOYMENT?

  • @Jessy-px4jc
    @Jessy-px4jc 3 года назад +1

    My hubby is on social media throughout the day night. He even developed insomnia. He keeps is phone upside down always., he goes in washroom with it, he comments in fb in every ladies photo sweet names yet he has never commented on mines or even like. He has never put my photo or his children photo since we married. He has insecurities with me with my phone even he has hacked it. I cannot have any male number expect family. He calls even women in front of me. I wish the government could close down social media .we remain the way it was.

  • @dorcaskarago2876
    @dorcaskarago2876 3 года назад +9

    I left my husband because of the password 😒

  • @raelnzulu143
    @raelnzulu143 3 года назад +8

    Mm, at least am tuning one on one today, exited to be here 😀 👂# wisdom tips.

  • @evelynekebenei9266
    @evelynekebenei9266 3 года назад +1

    Mwakali laughter gives me confidence

  • @dorcaskyai8250
    @dorcaskyai8250 3 года назад +1

    I never pick my husband's calls. That's kiddish. Pure and simple

  • @mustang_wanjau
    @mustang_wanjau 3 года назад +7

    My mentor is the best @Benjaminzuluke

  • @ellyjoy7382
    @ellyjoy7382 3 года назад +9

    I can relate what you guys are talking about, I had married at 19yrs and we broke up last year after 10yrs of marriage all because of a phone

    • @patriceh8444
      @patriceh8444 3 года назад

      Jesus it happen to the best of us I dont think it's the phone it's the person who is having the phone secret.

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 года назад +2

      That person holding the phone is the problem

  • @jonahomari7726
    @jonahomari7726 3 года назад +9

    Wengine wamesave kama Mzee wanyobah😂😂

    • @janenjeri2487
      @janenjeri2487 3 года назад

      😂😂😂

    • @jonahomari7726
      @jonahomari7726 3 года назад

      @@janenjeri2487 you have seen it via ur parents

    • @janenjeri2487
      @janenjeri2487 3 года назад +1

      @@jonahomari7726 yeah😂😂😂

    • @jonahomari7726
      @jonahomari7726 3 года назад

      @@janenjeri2487 uko mtaa gani

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣 my mom saved my dad as Mr.so n so n my dad got mad 🤣 she had to change it to my husband

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 3 года назад +4

    I must watch everything I have been missing.

  • @puriekaiereetuh3545
    @puriekaiereetuh3545 3 года назад +1

    Aaaah now u r talking Benjamin.....wow..this is amazing.....

  • @C_Sonnie
    @C_Sonnie 3 года назад +3

    Mwikali always hilarious

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 3 года назад +9

    Uganda 🇺🇬 representative

  • @abigaelsamikwo6734
    @abigaelsamikwo6734 3 года назад +3

    my hubby is so insecure when he calls and u don't pick up will get 20 missed calls he never get tired calling

  • @ironscape7465
    @ironscape7465 3 года назад +2

    Stay true to your partner.

  • @ojlyttle5887
    @ojlyttle5887 3 года назад +2

    Benjamin 😭😭😭 if you do NOTHING... your woman will find SOMETHING if you give her your pin

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom and understanding it's and eye opening.

  • @carolinekariuki9621
    @carolinekariuki9621 3 года назад +2

    Your have must be lucky to have you Bz wisdom on another level teach us more

    • @lornananjala9413
      @lornananjala9413 3 года назад

      a partner will password on the phone they are cheating have experience from my relationship

  • @careensimiyu1255
    @careensimiyu1255 3 года назад

    "Breath on the phone",,,🤣🤣🤣

  • @joycemwangi9452
    @joycemwangi9452 3 года назад +4

    High maturity hapa

  • @winsomemorgan-mansour805
    @winsomemorgan-mansour805 3 года назад +3

    I like your talk, my husband what ever change he get him always and is phone some time 12:00am to 2:00am and if I say anything to my husband about is phone he get upset and said it's is phone.

  • @lucynyamai6854
    @lucynyamai6854 3 года назад

    Those ladies who hit on this one man Benjamin Zulu are daring heee... Hee. Unless they go indirect Benjamin can chew them in broad day light. Benja we hukua na chills around admirers of female kind?

  • @ciaraferguson7732
    @ciaraferguson7732 3 года назад +1

    You and preaching today sir. Facts 💯💯💯

  • @brianmoiro2821
    @brianmoiro2821 3 года назад

    Benjamin i love the way u argue indeed you have changed

  • @cassiewilliams141
    @cassiewilliams141 4 месяца назад

    What does it mean when your man text his best female friend my life is in your hands

  • @farhiyaali4844
    @farhiyaali4844 3 года назад +3

    Benjamin Zul😘 Always talking senses. Enjoying your shows big time.

  • @ellem2131
    @ellem2131 3 года назад

    Zulu. Before anyone checks your phone The territory was interfered with. Something was hidden, boundaries were crossed

  • @claircherutoolinyo9977
    @claircherutoolinyo9977 3 года назад

    Benja chukua my hi five😍😍 umeweza mbaya

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 2 года назад

    Mmmmh you can be happy without marriage, some women are too needy. 👍🏿🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @alooaaa22
    @alooaaa22 3 года назад +1

    Wow this is amazing, learning a lot thank you!

  • @pasilisajerono7409
    @pasilisajerono7409 3 года назад

    Thanks for the teaching Benjamin and Joyce.

  • @felixosongo5584
    @felixosongo5584 3 года назад +3

    if you cant trust me with you phone all never trust you with my life.......

  • @pirimwangi8730
    @pirimwangi8730 3 года назад +2

    Akk Benjamin UV made my day....

  • @user-lt4kk3mh3i
    @user-lt4kk3mh3i Год назад

    Ladies leave your man's phone alone..😂😂 I know alot of ladies that will look for shxt, find shxt and still not leave the relationship.. Why do you snoop if you're not going to leave? Save yourself the heartache.. Snooping will not only push your man away, but it will make you bitter and nagging.. No man wants that.. Trust that you will know when you're man is cheating or when something just doesn't feels alright..

  • @lizatieno6443
    @lizatieno6443 3 года назад +3

    All your messages go to your partner, and u know it. Yet u r here texting switch tv🤣🤣