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  • @Thewizardliz
    @Thewizardliz  Год назад +16969

    I forgot to add: NEVER COMPLETELY RELY ON A MAN FOR MONEY. Make sure you have your own money too!!
    I’m not financially dependent on my partner and you shouldn’t be either. Independent AND spoiled. 💞

    • @bomb-dot-com
      @bomb-dot-com Год назад +24

      yep! establish your own financial security ladies. just make sure YOU have that freedom first & a partner who adds to your life is wonderful too.

    • @Yourhanddarling
      @Yourhanddarling Год назад +106

      Thank you Liz 🫶🏾

    • @AnaDiaz-yi1ux
      @AnaDiaz-yi1ux Год назад +53

      Gracias Liz por todo te quiero ❤❤❤

    • @softdolllife
      @softdolllife Год назад +15

      Thank you 👑✨

    • @Melek-y4e
      @Melek-y4e Год назад +74

      Yea yea make sure you have your own money, keep it, use it whenever you want but the man is gonna spoil u as well

  • @tanisha2596
    @tanisha2596 Год назад +20082

    I love this era of women realising their worth.

    • @meli7315
      @meli7315 Год назад +35

      💯 ❤

    • @AjuneAbdulla
      @AjuneAbdulla Год назад +44

      You're right

    • @hearteu5403
      @hearteu5403 Год назад +19

      Samee

    • @rainbowprincess456
      @rainbowprincess456 Год назад +15

      Not all tho ...

    • @enxvj3407
      @enxvj3407 Год назад +212

      Getting spoiled by men cuz you‘re not smart enough to create wealth by yourself is not realising your worth, it‘s quite the opposite, it‘s realising how unworthy and incompetent you are.

  • @crystallldelmar
    @crystallldelmar Год назад +854

    The moment you said "why is never realistic when a single mother is providing" i gasped. SO true and I never thought of it like that.

    • @katrinbrankova1373
      @katrinbrankova1373 Год назад +7

      Yes ,but her kids are not able to go working and earn money. You as an adult have enough qualities and can provide for yourself. If the man earns enough- of course he can support you. But do not expect another human being (expect your parents) to treat you like their child🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @milktea_gang
      @milktea_gang 7 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@katrinbrankova1373 But how did that woman end up with kids anyway? Just because the children can't work, doesn't mean it's ok for the woman to do all the duties from cooking, cleaning to many times working 2 jobs and that's normalised. But when it's a single dad, he gets so much praise and the mother is looked at as this evil woman. There are many women I know who spoil their boyfriends, they just don't make as much noise as the broke men who are paranoid about 'gold diggers'.

    • @LocalSubDealer
      @LocalSubDealer Месяц назад

      @@milktea_gang no spoiling and being a gold digger is 2 different things especially with women on TikTok saying they need a man just for money and don’t care about nothing else

    • @milktea_gang
      @milktea_gang Месяц назад

      @@LocalSubDealer Women on Tiktok are literally are 1%, they probably don't even mean the most of the things they say it's just good content.

    • @LocalSubDealer
      @LocalSubDealer Месяц назад

      @@milktea_gang Sure buddy it’s definitely not 1% it’s millions of women that are also influencing young girls the same thing, I actually saw a video of a mid aged woman saying how TikTok feminist influenced her and many others to be independent and need no man and how she wanted a family but now is single and feels she wasted her youth, which I actually also see on Pinterest you girls saying “I want to be girlboss and hate men but I really want a relationship” it’s everywhere and sad just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s 1% have a good day

  • @theresazombieonyourlawn
    @theresazombieonyourlawn 9 месяцев назад +124

    "Men will say that they want a good women but good women don't get rewarded" that is so true but I feel like that speaks for good people in general. Good people don't get rewarded instead get used and taken advantage of.

  • @cocob0l0
    @cocob0l0 Год назад +4701

    Growing up, my father gave me THE princess treatment, and spoiled me rotten. He taught me my worth, and I will not accept anything less. He raised my younger brother to have the “provider mindset” that you described in the video. Thank you for reminding me of this, Liz 💕

    • @angelcndz
      @angelcndz Год назад +184

      same with my dad. I had few guys tried to date me and it was just hilarious how most of them expected me to pay for them when they never even paid for me not once. Nothing wrong with it, I'm just not into feminine men. Never settling for anything less ever

    • @cocob0l0
      @cocob0l0 Год назад +69

      @@angelcndz Glad that we’re in a day and age where women are starting to realise their worth and the power we hold. God bless Liz for spreading the word!

    • @truereligionfiend738
      @truereligionfiend738 Год назад +32

      WELL DUH HE'S YOUR DAD NOT YOUR PARTNER

    • @lisalisa7473
      @lisalisa7473 Год назад +14

      could you explain what he exactly did? As someone who did not have that I am interested in what it look liked.

    • @cocob0l0
      @cocob0l0 Год назад

      @@truereligionfiend738 Room Temp IQ. A lot of women and girls here didn’t experience that, so they don’t know how they’re MEANT to be treated by their partners.

  • @pacov3
    @pacov3 Год назад +3836

    Liz ALWAYS posts exactly what you need to hear and we are here for it

  • @MELLMAO
    @MELLMAO Год назад +3648

    "Demanding a man to do something is disgusting. The men don't OWE you anything" I am so glad you dropped that one in. Never force someone to do stuff, it's very trashy and very rude

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад

      Their like the female equivalency of guys that expect sex after dinner
      These both groups are so entitled

    • @missmashami
      @missmashami Год назад

      Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2).
      This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16).
      To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace?
      "Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3).
      To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home.
      Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows
      Six Steps to Grace
      The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace.
      1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24).
      2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16).
      3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32).
      4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32).
      5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16).
      6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62).
      Jesus loves you ❤❤
      Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification.
      Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on RUclips for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless
      In simpler terms :
      God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives.
      For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline Год назад +73

      If you don’t like their treatment you can just not be with them

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Год назад +90

      It feels good when a man spoils you because he wants to and it makes him happy to see you happy, anything done forcefully is just not worth it.

    • @michaelharris871
      @michaelharris871 Год назад +7

      its goign to be very hard for this nar-cissist to heal her very very deep wounds shes not aware of!she looks older than her age and made surgery of nose ect...she looks like MJ !

  • @ChanduKhokher
    @ChanduKhokher Месяц назад +1735

    Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone

  • @unconsciousfairy8563
    @unconsciousfairy8563 Год назад +1603

    true words from liz. made me go from disliking myself to loving myself

  • @romaiseb
    @romaiseb Год назад +2359

    I love the advice Liz has given here. Something I'd add:
    1 - Be careful of telling a guy what you want from the get go as he might shape shift in the beginning and act like a provider, but once he gets you the facade will fade away.
    2 - ALSO be careful of lovebombers, who might spend lots on you but their intentions are to blind you from any red flags and essentially trap you this way
    3 - If you want a provider, generous man, make sure you're also bringing something to the table by adding value to his life in some way. You can't expect princess treatment if you behave like a peasant x

    • @missandry2669
      @missandry2669 Год назад +113

      It’s a manipulative tactic!! Don’t tell them your dream man

    • @hinaguiza8810
      @hinaguiza8810 Год назад +77

      What exactly do we need to bring to the table? Genuine question.

    • @Ethe1eal
      @Ethe1eal Год назад

      @@hinaguiza8810righttt

    • @ulkukorkmaz9002
      @ulkukorkmaz9002 Год назад +11

      3 is so true

    • @emilycarrots1990
      @emilycarrots1990 Год назад +49

      What do we bring to the table ?
      Like cooking cleaning and taking care of the house right?
      Cause if he pays all the bills, then we need to make home a warm welcome place where our partner can rest

  • @qianwu2089
    @qianwu2089 Год назад +921

    rule 1: don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
    rule 2: have realistic expectations
    rule 3: let a man know what your intentions are
    rule 4: do not demand a man for things
    rule 5: do not tell a man your exes treat you badly
    rule 6: don't say you don't need a man
    rule 7: act like you do need him for small things
    rule 8: appreciate your man
    rule 9: make him do small things for you
    rule 10: dont fear to aks for giving you things
    rule 11: make sure he knows what you like
    rule 12: show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад +10

      And what are you doing in return?

    • @megumifushiguro3761
      @megumifushiguro3761 Год назад

      ​@@salaahkhayr2398go away its a girls safe place no men are allowed here

    • @madeline7969
      @madeline7969 Год назад

      ​@@salaahkhayr2398she is giving her divine presence to a man and that's enough. Men do, women just be.

    • @thepointlesswords290
      @thepointlesswords290 Год назад +2

      ​@@salaahkhayr2398women itself is a price for men. Women is a source of love and nurturing.

    • @anusha2465
      @anusha2465 Год назад

      ​@@salaahkhayr2398nothing 😮

  • @DChaeWomamck
    @DChaeWomamck Год назад +78

    She is right on point. I been thinking this for years and it's gets worse and worse everyday with society. Keep preaching sis.

  • @tralala88
    @tralala88 Год назад +2444

    Saying "all my exes took care of me. I was always financially taken care of" is such powerful advice and a great way to mentally reframe the old narrative too. Dropping gems as usual, Liz x

    • @jayjoseph-r5t
      @jayjoseph-r5t Год назад +43

      “All my ex girlfriends were good looking and did cooking and cleaning”

    • @S0FlA
      @S0FlA Год назад +69

      @@jayjoseph-r5t why would he date an "ugly" woman then

    • @RoxyCherryRozy
      @RoxyCherryRozy Год назад +4

      Nothing like entitlement

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat Год назад

      ​@user-pi4qd8ik5i Ugh, why do people like you exist? Is that supposed to be a smart retort? Yes, your ex-girlfriends can be good-looking and do all the cooking and cleaning, and there's nothing wrong with that. But, what do YOU bring to the table?
      There's nothing wrong with having expectations, as long as you can meet the expectations of the person you want. If she wants a man with money, and she's bringing good looks and and housekeeping on the table THEN THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. ffs

    • @missmashami
      @missmashami Год назад

      Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2).
      This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16).
      To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace?
      "Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3).
      To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home.
      Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows
      Six Steps to Grace
      The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace.
      1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24).
      2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16).
      3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32).
      4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32).
      5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16).
      6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62).
      Jesus loves you ❤❤
      Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification.
      Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on RUclips for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless
      In simpler terms :
      God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives.
      For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.

  • @kaylatovar4177
    @kaylatovar4177 Год назад +1172

    she just made me realize so many things and opened my eyes within the first 10 minutes. please never stop making these videos

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 Год назад +1

      I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor.
      I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter.
      Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over.
      Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад +1

      Why is very hard for a man to find a good women nowadays.

    • @kojinmaster
      @kojinmaster Год назад

      Is the video maker single? This mind set is too expensive. Run fellas

    • @Luxiouriousprettyme
      @Luxiouriousprettyme Год назад +1

      shera seven vibes the real goat. but liking Liz too

    • @Dolce-Vita1111
      @Dolce-Vita1111 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Tom-px9hdbecause you hate women. Congratulation for your coming out 🌈

  • @EmpressEpisode
    @EmpressEpisode Год назад +6406

    17:11 "Men are literally not afraid to ask us for anything. They will ask you to take your clothes off in 2 seconds." made me laugh so hard LMAO 🤣 Love you Liz! ❤️

  • @Mat-x8w
    @Mat-x8w Год назад +440

    Every girl needs to be financially independent, so you are not just someone's wife or someone's sister or someone's daughter, your identity will be defined by your ability to be independent and that comes with finance in the world that we live today. It doesn't matter who your father is, or who your brother is or who your husband is gonna be or who the man in your life is, you need to be responsible for your finances and be financially independent. You go girl!! - PC

    • @xoliphakathi5614
      @xoliphakathi5614 9 месяцев назад +4

      You're masculine that's y you have this opinion....

    • @rosepark108
      @rosepark108 8 месяцев назад +16

      @@xoliphakathi5614 its not about masculinity. I mean look at the economy right now. It is a good idea to be financially independent. Prior to meeting the one, and try to keep sustanance. Its great that a man provides for his woman. But to be safe, worst case scenario he passes away, she is still able to stand on her 2 feet to move on long term.

    • @21eternal
      @21eternal 8 месяцев назад +5

      just do both get money but still let man pay for u

    • @21eternal
      @21eternal 8 месяцев назад +2

      men have to learn from a woman and women gotta learn from a men

    • @weirdasff
      @weirdasff 6 месяцев назад +12

      ​@@xoliphakathi5614 What's wrong with having your own money being financially independent? I believe everyone regardless of their gender should be financially independent.

  • @someonemaybe7937
    @someonemaybe7937 Год назад +811

    The second Liz uploads I know my day (and life) is gonna get so much better

  • @mariaclara7araujo
    @mariaclara7araujo Год назад +70

    “you want money? go bless a woman” LOVE IT

  • @alishavk
    @alishavk Год назад +726

    Time stamps:
    - 3:47 - people in life get what they expect
    - 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
    - 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
    - 8:12 - have realistic
    expectations
    - 9:49 - if a man shows off ask him to give it to you
    - 10:24 - let a man know what your intentions are
    - 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly
    - 13:21 - work on a man’s competitive nature
    - 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man
    - 15:19 - appreciate your man
    - 15:35 - make him do small things for you
    - 15:57 - don’t be shy to ask a man for things
    - 17:21 - make sure he knows what you like
    - 17:42 - show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
    - 18:25 - make him think spoiling you is his idea
    - 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
    - 20:30 - a woman has to receive
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hearteu5403
      @hearteu5403 Год назад +5

      Omg thanks

    • @xo_naee
      @xo_naee Год назад +1

      Ty ! ❤

    • @Nekomirajan
      @Nekomirajan Год назад +1

      Thank you for your work 💓

    • @Mlopesfornow
      @Mlopesfornow Год назад

      Thanks

    • @mihaicraiu9779
      @mihaicraiu9779 Год назад +2

      arent the points made in minute 11:45 and 15:58 contradictory?
      the first one says never demand things for men and saying you should let them spoil you from their own initiative however later on she says dont be shy to ask men for things like ''give me money''. Maybe theres a barrier between demanding and asking, perhaps thats what she meant but the words are way too similar and cause confusion. Im just here to learn.

  • @iflaziart
    @iflaziart Год назад +44

    I wish I knew these things before I got my heart broken by a ''man'' who couldn't even provide things for me. Thank you so much for your words full of wisdom! :)

  • @HM87520
    @HM87520 Год назад +660

    Make men spoil you BUT please also be financially independent. Work for yourself to be financially independent. Please don't be financially dependent on men or anyone. Make men provide for you but please also make sure that you are financially in a situation that if you are not with him anymore, you won't have any problem providing for yourself because you are financially independent. So do work, don't sit at home thinking that only man will provide for you. Work for being financially independent!!! (unless you have money in your bank account or have a family who will take care of you)

    • @shreyana_
      @shreyana_ Год назад +23

      Yes, don't be a gold digger

    • @deniz281
      @deniz281 Год назад +18

      Agree 💯, balance ,make the man feel his masculin energy by taking care of u and in the same time be independant and make ur own money

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад +6

      Lol the audacity. So what do you give in the relationship exactly? Girl, you better be a house wife, cooking cleaning without complaining, if you want to be provided for. Re read your comment 😂😂.

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 Год назад +1

      @@salaahkhayr2398 Y'all deserve nothing. Even when women work and provide for themselves you would still want her to cook and clean for you. Think about the audacity of men for oppressing women for thousands of years and the audacity of you all to still treat us like your slaves. Women should develop the audacity to treat you all the same.

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 Год назад +2

      @ConnorMurpheehee You need to consult a psychiatrist. Hope you get well soon.

  • @hippieprincess
    @hippieprincess Год назад +1607

    My first 3 serious relationships were me basically SPOILING my bfs 🤦🏻‍♀️taking them out, buying them whatever they wanted and I thought that was noble but HAHA now as a 21 yo woman who actually needs stability and care, NO MORE BS!! Liz has literally helped me become a more self aware woman and know what I deserve.

    • @cat-il2mw
      @cat-il2mw Год назад +108

      I almost died when you said you were spoiling your bfs😭😭 im so glad you realized your worth 💕

    • @lhughes6656
      @lhughes6656 Год назад +87

      Yes, ladies please don't EVER do this. Men do not respect women who do this because you are taking over their role in the relationship. This is why Liz's sweet mother got cheated on. Men don't respect provider women because it's emasculating for them. If they can't provide for you, they will find someone to provide for.
      It's also the quickest way to resentment and burnout for a woman because the roles are reversed and a woman will eventually resent the man she's providing for because he stops doing things for her. It's disastrous.
      I'm happy you're realizing this early and before making a baby. Never again girl. Keep your head up and receive what your new man has to give.

    • @patchgamer693
      @patchgamer693 Год назад

      Good so see U realised u can’t provide for yourself. Good luck finding someone

    • @kenadams894
      @kenadams894 Год назад +8

      Just reciprocate whatever your man does for you.

    • @lhughes6656
      @lhughes6656 Год назад +18

      @@kenadams894 if by reciprocate you mean with appreciation, encouragement and a grateful heart, then yes. It's not necessary to reciprocate their actions or to feel pressured to give something in return. Of course it's always sweet to give back in some way, and for provider men, like Liz said, all they truly desire is to feel needed and appreciated. Boost his confidence and peace. Be in that receiving energy and this should be no problem 🙂

  • @user-th3ez5sj9y
    @user-th3ez5sj9y Год назад +884

    Liz i have applied all of your advices for almost 7 months, I am a highly sensitive person and also an empath, not so much ago I sadly attracted a narcissist and I am so grateful that I found out really soon abt his shitty ass behavior and I dumped his sad ass, I felt so proud and I immediately thought abt you and all of your advices, really my life has changed A LOT, I couldn’t be more grateful for all the things you do for others

    • @paulovemx2222
      @paulovemx2222 Год назад +4

      How did you notice he was a narcissist?

    • @hiBa-ko6ys
      @hiBa-ko6ys Год назад +7

      So proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jillianbil6492
      @jillianbil6492 Год назад

      Im so proud of you! I was married with a narcissist for 3 years, and I’ve been divorced for 5 months, I’m still healing ❤️‍🩹 it’s been a long journey

    • @v_aphro
      @v_aphro Год назад +12

      You should be really proud of yourself ❤ And now the good thing is that you are also showing God or the Universe that you will not allow these types of people in your life

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад

      You yourself must be narcissistic that is why you attracting.

  • @user-yf7it4bz6p
    @user-yf7it4bz6p Год назад +190

    Girl, I have watched like 5 of your videos and I have the exact same mindset! Men get away with way too much! Women need to expect better and if not they need to walk away. If a guy don't treat you right, you treat you right and the right guy will come along because you are able to attract the same high vibe man because you are being a high vibe woman! Girl your content is amazing and you are amazing thewizardliz! Keep doing what you are doing! 💜💜💜

    • @Hihi_222
      @Hihi_222 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​@MdoubleHB.xbro ur Everyfkg place what the hell this place is not for u wtff😭???

    • @RS-xx9ve
      @RS-xx9ve 10 месяцев назад

      LMAO, any guy who dates her (or her deranged followers) would have to be an absolute loser.

    • @Tirigon
      @Tirigon 9 месяцев назад +2

      Respectfull Treatment ist that woman and man wants. But a man is not your financal Provider.

    • @yakimalpi
      @yakimalpi 19 дней назад +1

      ​@@Tirigon a woman is not your house wife to cook or clean for you

    • @Tirigon
      @Tirigon 19 дней назад

      @yakimalpi But a man is your " Housewife"? I spoke from Sharing! Build a Team and being equil.

  • @princess_selfimprovement
    @princess_selfimprovement Год назад +559

    She’s making me realize things… it’s true that if a guy doesn’t at least try to spoil you he doesn’t want you or you’re temporary I’ve also seen this many times.

    • @prussiansocietyofamerica
      @prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад +8

      Is that your own mental justification for believing you are entitled to a Man's money and asking him for it!? LOL. Cope baby Cope!

    • @kyojuroswife4112
      @kyojuroswife4112 Год назад +78

      ​@@prussiansocietyofamericaa relationship goes both ways- if u ain't providing don't expect nurturing

    • @prussiansocietyofamerica
      @prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад

      @@kyojuroswife4112 Men are Sovereigns. Women aren't. We are not equals. Don't act like you are being virtuous about suggesting both Ways, because Women don't give or do anything.

    • @princess_selfimprovement
      @princess_selfimprovement Год назад +40

      @@prussiansocietyofamericaIf you’re saying this shit them you shouldn’t be watching Liz’s channel or be in her comments lmao

    • @_vayda_
      @_vayda_ Год назад +20

      @@prussiansocietyofamerica ur just mad cuz this shit is actually true

  • @khyatiupadhyay
    @khyatiupadhyay Год назад +544

    There's a thin line between getting spoiled , and get dependent completely on men.
    And liz , like seperated it with a fine thin line ,showing how these two are totally different things.
    Getting our respect and be dependent ourselves is what we all want when it comes to any type of relationship.
    Lovely video 💗

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад

      I can’t wait til all these gold diggers hit the wall
      And won’t even get the attention from their own father 💀
      Also the lip filler will look mad hideous once they get older

    • @SM-gm6hr
      @SM-gm6hr Год назад

      You’re becoming a PROSTITUTE in both. That’s the name of y’all. When someone put money or material things in an interchange for sex an company THATS A PROSTITUTE and if you do that you are one. Nothing special and you are the opposite of special

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline Год назад +2

      I’ve never been with a man that hasn’t given me enough money to make sure I’m okay if we end. Like if I we break up I won’t have to struggle they are gonna make sure I’m good. I don’t have to work because they give me money and if I do I don’t have to ever spend that money

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад

      @@dani09eveline ur either dating simps
      Or this is cap
      Ur also bl4ck which is prob among the least desirable in the dating market statistically proven

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад +1

      Every men are now becoming a part of mgtow and saying no to dating and marriage...avoiding women.....

  • @unknownoblivion2417
    @unknownoblivion2417 Год назад +34

    4:55 “but good women never get rewarded” omg you are so right

    • @unknownoblivion2417
      @unknownoblivion2417 Год назад +4

      We might very well get rewarded in the hereafter but we definitely won’t be getting rewarded my broke men or just any man who takes us for granted

  • @jackimoon8284
    @jackimoon8284 10 месяцев назад +8

    This girl is speaking the deepest facts. Every word.

  • @theempressmak
    @theempressmak Год назад +200

    “In my head - no one is good enough for me - I am the best - I make people happy - you have to make me happy as well” - boundaries and self love at its finest 🎉❤

  • @Chicoyo21
    @Chicoyo21 Год назад +308

    My step dad has a provider mindset and he loves to spoil my mom. It’s really sweet. Ex: As soon as he parks the car, he opens the door. He never lets her open the door by herself. He always pays for things and he’s always helping her. I’m really happy for both of them because my mom in her previous marriage (with my dad) he was abusive.

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад +3

      Unless woman has beauty/youth and purity
      They deserved no providement

    • @lc-do5eo
      @lc-do5eo Год назад +15

      @@Max4Zpurity…? You want a child…?

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад +4

      @@lc-do5eo this the best response u could think of?
      Nope just don’t want an old bag with a “High mileage”

    • @noaboa222
      @noaboa222 Год назад +27

      @@Max4Zyou don’t deserve a woman, wether she’s young or a bit older, especially not with that mindset.

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад +3

      @@noaboa222 what’s wrong with men having standards?
      Are we not allowed to? Lol

  • @skyeoconnor101
    @skyeoconnor101 Год назад +3889

    "Try daing a broke man... those men have no money but they have audacity" 🤣
    Liz you're so right, that made me laugh, thank you for all your teachings!

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад

      This channel shows what man hating is.This channel is full of man hating and misandrystic women.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 Год назад +29

      I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor.
      I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter.
      Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over.
      Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.

    • @lunkee6972
      @lunkee6972 Год назад +45

      @@ceooflonelinessinc.267I am sorry, if you came here for sympathy. It is impossible to raise a family on a dishwasher salary. You’re barely able to raise yourself. Have you thought of starting your own business or staying at one certain dishwashing job to move up the ranks in?
      College itself is not the one way to gain money. There are other ways.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 Год назад

      I am mentally handicaped, I will always make somewhat minimum wage. But I am here to inform hat these women are just hypocrites. They misuse the words like ambition, disciplined to lie over their true intentions, which is finding someone they can take finanically advantage of. @@lunkee6972

    • @esroskesafos3533
      @esroskesafos3533 Год назад +9

      And they also have knives to kill you when you broke up with them. A lot of samples are there in my country

  • @neweelle
    @neweelle 2 месяца назад +4

    "You want to attract? You have to receive" wow, I never thought about it this way. It's working not only for romantic relationships in fact. Thank you for this insight

  • @ButterflyAffirmations
    @ButterflyAffirmations Год назад +523

    Paused this video because I realised our 6 month anniversary is less than a week away and asked my boyfriend very sweetly what our plans are for that day and how I would just love it to go out for dinner at one of the nicest restaurants in the city. He took the hint and saw how I lit up and reserved it right away. Ladies, enthusiasm and appreciation are the key, he really just wants to see me happy! But without me hinting he would've probably not bothered to organise anything. Princess treatment only, happy to learn all this at 19 :)

    • @ButterflyAffirmations
      @ButterflyAffirmations Год назад +50

      He is my first boyfriend but he literally calls me his princess and it feels so good, don't settle for guys who do not want to treat you right and provide!

    • @jonathanxavier2026
      @jonathanxavier2026 Год назад +7

      What are you doing for him in return to deserve all of this?

    • @shrinkhalalala6808
      @shrinkhalalala6808 Год назад

      ​@@jonathanxavier2026shes existing. isnt that enough?

    • @bratesta
      @bratesta Год назад

      @@jonathanxavier2026 none of your business

    • @jonathanxavier2026
      @jonathanxavier2026 Год назад

      @@prettyglowin694 This has nothing to do with value and everything to do with her reciprocating. What is she reciprocating.

  • @tamuz9633
    @tamuz9633 Год назад +101

    You are so on point. There are wealthy men who are so stingy it's disgusting. I dated a very wealthy man who is SO STINGY. My love is very generous but he is not a very wealthy man. He treats me like a Goddess. He started paying ALL my bills after our second date. I get gifts ALL the time. I am LOVED 24/7 without demanding it. I expect it, I deserve it and so I receive it.

    • @Rezzas4298
      @Rezzas4298 Год назад

      Same question as bellow

    • @DesiMinnesotan
      @DesiMinnesotan Год назад

      He got a parasite and you enjoy being a parasite

    • @j1nnienchrist
      @j1nnienchrist 9 месяцев назад

      @@Rezzas4298^

    • @chassidy2222
      @chassidy2222 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Joynzau Unfortunately, there is now way around it but being blunt. A man that does not want to provide for you will not take hints or miraculously change. If you’re clear about this standard when in the talking stage, you can save yourself from entertaining a “dusty”. I too have had poor dating experiences in the past, but we must stand up and stop accepting less.

    • @shebaloso
      @shebaloso 9 месяцев назад +1

      What do you do for him tho? I mean, what does he get in return for being a provider?

  • @luisarig2733
    @luisarig2733 Год назад +62

    Omg the last part is so true. My husband never provided for any of his gf. When he met me he started providing and we got married in less than a year. And ever since he’s been providing he’s been more productive and even start a business, which he could had opened before but he said “I didn’t have the motivation” now he’s making double than he has making before we start dating

  • @nancysimasiku8735
    @nancysimasiku8735 Год назад +14

    Where have you been all my life. I had 0 confidence and your videos changed my mind almost instantly. Thank you Liz

  • @Obsidiansarah
    @Obsidiansarah Год назад +200

    Ever since I started watching your videos and changed my mindset about myself, relationships and men in general, I now have a really good partner who has a provider mindset and provides for me and gifts me stuff and spoils me. And it really does make women happy. Thanks Liz ❤

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад

      And you what do you do?

    • @Obsidiansarah
      @Obsidiansarah Год назад

      @@salaahkhayr2398 what do I do?? I work at UNHCR and also EGSCO organization for refugees in Spain and I make good money out of it. Satisfied?

    • @oliviaxyz2087
      @oliviaxyz2087 Год назад +1

      @@salaahkhayr2398 WE GET IT, YOU ARE BROKE. now stop commenting this bs everywhere

    • @kenadams894
      @kenadams894 Год назад

      Hope that you’re not a leech. Hope you reciprocate and buy him stuff too and spoil him.

    • @oliviaxyz2087
      @oliviaxyz2087 Год назад +1

      @@kenadams894 LMFAOOOOO poor guy wanna be treated like a princess. honestly stfu

  • @anne-se8hw
    @anne-se8hw Год назад +20

    i just entered a situationship recently and he already gifted me jewelry, takes me out to eat every week , and is taking me to the hair salon next week. He is not rich at all, just prioritizes taking care of me !!
    this video reinforces my beliefs and guys its TRUE I SWEAR its all about mentality

  • @nonononotytytyty
    @nonononotytytyty Год назад +385

    1:02
    I am SO glad Liz mentioned this. We think it's okay for women to give their everything to take care of their kids but it's not okay when they expect the person who also has responsibility over those kids to help her? It's not okay when she expects the man who also chose to have those kids to treat her well and provide for her? I love the fact women are realising their worth and value - thank you Liz and all the other female content creators speaking out about this!💗

    • @laallala-g9h
      @laallala-g9h Год назад

      Frr!!

    • @Pia686
      @Pia686 Год назад +3

      @@alara.a2its a bot

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад

      Lol it’s feminists who brought the women don’t need men shit. Men have been providers since the dawn of time. May be blame feminists to begin with.

    • @nonononotytytyty
      @nonononotytytyty Месяц назад

      @@Pia686I’m not a bot, very real! 😭

    • @Pia686
      @Pia686 Месяц назад +1

      @@nonononotytytyty hahaha sorry I think I replied to the wrong comment!

  • @PaletaLee
    @PaletaLee 10 месяцев назад +15

    I needed this woman like, over 5 years ago. It would have saved me from sooo much trouble. Coming from being raised by a single mom, tired and frustrated with 3 jobs, watching my mom being literally slaved by a few terrible boyfriends, that didn't pay her anything and abused everything... And now me, recently divorced from a young marriage from a young alchoholic who thought his cheating father was a wholemodel of manlyness to follow, like his own personal andrew tate... So sad.

  • @ThatsassyGirlboss
    @ThatsassyGirlboss Год назад +274

    For all the people who are dating young...princess treatment doesn't always mean like spending a lottttttt of money and gifting etc...that counts too....but literally even the small stuff matter...like tying the shoe laces... helping you wear a sandal... holding your hands while leading you through crowds.... giving you a lot of reassurance.....all that matters....✨✨

    • @beccaagain9228
      @beccaagain9228 10 месяцев назад +17

      EXACTLYYY

    • @mollesmart
      @mollesmart 8 месяцев назад +3

      No only money matters and lifestyle. You must be smoking weed!

    • @Brightberrystudios12345
      @Brightberrystudios12345 7 месяцев назад +8

      Literally if you’re going to buy me anything, buy me a book, a stuffed animal, and flowers. ❤ I love hugs too

    • @kookie_2178
      @kookie_2178 3 месяца назад +5

      Fr like taking care of me on period or making chai/ tea for me. That will be princess treatment for me. Its not about money. Its about effort❤

  • @Avi.joyyy12
    @Avi.joyyy12 Год назад +104

    Women truly are blessings, and the fact that we have Liz to help other women become blessings to other people is just amazing!!

    • @diandra4311
      @diandra4311 Год назад +5

      This is true. She is teaching us our true nature as women, the receivers, and also to be grateful when we receive.

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад

      @@diandra4311and what do you do in return

    • @Avi.joyyy12
      @Avi.joyyy12 Год назад

      @@diandra4311EXACTLY!! As women we need to understand that we are the receivers while men are the doers.

    • @lulu_luvsu
      @lulu_luvsu Год назад +4

      we are blessings indeed!

  • @maira893
    @maira893 Год назад +164

    I was getting confused if you were focusing on dating wealthy men only but the line "he should have a provider mindset, he may or may not be wealthy" cleared alottt of things. Whatever you said about a man who strives to grow and provides as much as he can was totally relatable.

    • @prussiansocietyofamerica
      @prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад

      A Man should never have a provider mindset. Men were programmed to believe that, but it's not true in reality.

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад +3

      And what do you do in return?

    • @maira893
      @maira893 Год назад

      @@salaahkhayr2398 he is not very active in household chores. We plan on getting married in the near future. No matter what promises he makes, I know i'll be the one mainly looking after his house, his kids, and other stuff.
      In return, it makes sense that he'll be the one taking care of the finances. I was under the impression that Liz wants us to date men only who are wealthy and can provide only the best. But her statements in the video cleared that she wants a guy "with a provider" mindset. Someone who is not a couch potatoe and ready to go above and beyond to build a career and provide for you.

    • @jayjoseph-r5t
      @jayjoseph-r5t Год назад +1

      @@salaahkhayr2398nothing

    • @sweetdreamscr
      @sweetdreamscr 8 месяцев назад

      @@salaahkhayr2398 ask that to a provider man

  • @haoho78
    @haoho78 Месяц назад +1

    Yeah what you are saying making a lots of sense. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint, whoever therapist healed you deserves a raise cuz he/she unveil the power inside you. Love from Vietnam!

  • @Nesrine_toumia
    @Nesrine_toumia Год назад +80

    I cant stop watching her videos literally. She is a real life changer. I really love herr❤

    • @violetnyanzi6394
      @violetnyanzi6394 Год назад

      From uganda 🇺🇬, I love you liz ,you really some thing great ❤

  • @gianagaleno7327
    @gianagaleno7327 Год назад +183

    “One thing in life that broke men have is audacity” -WizardLiz

    • @missandry2669
      @missandry2669 Год назад +33

      They call women goldiggers yet chase after beautiful hot women but shame women the hypocrisy!!!

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад

      Are you ok to cook and clean, stay at home and look after the kids without complaining if the man is providing?

    • @abor1males
      @abor1males Год назад +15

      @@salaahkhayr2398You better have money for a women to be a stay at home mom

    • @jmtolerico
      @jmtolerico Год назад

      I bet you're in debt

    • @gianagaleno7327
      @gianagaleno7327 Год назад

      @@jmtolerico and I bet you’re broke and that’s why you so salty LMFAOO

  • @carrot_cake_p
    @carrot_cake_p Год назад +246

    Honestly at first i wasnt getting her point .....but by the end it really made sense. Liz never fails to bring out the feminine energy in us. As a women we all must support her.
    Women supporting women is the most powerful thing.

    • @human6826
      @human6826 Год назад +8

      lets inspire girls to be golddiggers

    • @sammilligan1305
      @sammilligan1305 Год назад

      @@amariajade255how are you able to explore different opinions and ideas? You read books don’t you? Do you think the authors show you everything. Do you like art? Do you know how many influential artists abused their wives? Sure, you don’t have to support the person themselves but do you support the opinion? Do you agree?

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад +1

      Women who watches videos of liz are the biggest red flag.

    • @pauuuulina
      @pauuuulina Год назад

      @@human6826wanting to have a boyfriend who gives you gifts and takes you to nice places while you still be earning your own money does not make you a gold digger

    • @ishotuknok
      @ishotuknok Год назад

      Men supporting men is also the most natural thing, that's why we would always hire you as a cleaning lady or secretary but never as the ceo of the company
      Btw
      I am certain that her bf looks by far worse than her and therefor feels the necessity to cover his lacking attractiveness with financial support towards her.
      So what is her real deal? Gets a bit of money but never gets the excitement of an equally attractive partner?
      Thats not rocket since, thats a classic trade off

  • @reallyreynaa
    @reallyreynaa Год назад +20

    liz is always putting me on game. she always helps me reset my thinking. she’s the best 🥰🥰

    • @Dolce-Vita1111
      @Dolce-Vita1111 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@kojinmastergreat! 🎉

  • @miftnnah
    @miftnnah Год назад +419

    3:49 People in life get what they expect
    6:09 Reshape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
    6:58 Don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
    8:22 Have realistic expectations
    8:36 Focus on being wealthy instead of trying to look wealthy
    9:47 If a man shows off ask him to give it to you
    10:25 Let a man know what your intentions are
    11:45 Never demand a man for something
    12:28 Don't tell a man that your exes treated you badly
    13:24 Work on a man's competitive nature
    14:07 Stop saying you don't need a man
    14:27 Act like you do need him even for small things
    15:19 Appreciate your man
    15:36 Make him do small things for you
    15:58 Don't be shy to ask a man for things
    17:22 Make sure he knows what you like
    17:43 Show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
    18:26 Make him think spoiling you is his idea
    19:49 You don't need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
    20:31 A woman has to receive

    • @SyckoSiren
      @SyckoSiren Год назад +3

      Thank you so much

    • @kenadams894
      @kenadams894 Год назад +9

      Some of these are kinda manipulative

    • @yumekojabami1839
      @yumekojabami1839 Год назад +3

      Thank you for your work ❤

    • @9darshana
      @9darshana Год назад +8

      As a woman it's important to get a man that spoils you because men want sex and sex with most men isn't that good and even if it is, a man will always enjoy a woman's body way more then you'll enjoy his. If he can't make you "O" the least he can do is be a provider and spoil you.

    • @kenadams894
      @kenadams894 Год назад

      @@9darshana so if he provides, you owe him sex? It’s ok for him to expect sex? And it doesn’t matter if you didn’t enjoy the sex either?

  • @brigitte2156
    @brigitte2156 Год назад +48

    “those men have no money, but they have audacity” liz could not have said it better💀😭

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад

      These women have no beauty/youth nor purity
      But have audacity to ask to be provided for 💀

  • @JayyDy-ey3df
    @JayyDy-ey3df Год назад +17

    Omg!!! Liz, thank you so,so much!
    As I was watching your video, I realized how bad things are with my current partner.
    We've been together for 14 years ,and we live in a hole! You can't even call it an apartment !
    He bought me a bag on out 13th anniversary, telling me it's an "investment" ,because his 40 birthday is coming up and he has expectations ,literally giving me the "you owe me" look.
    He is the main provider, making 5 times more than me. We went on a family vacation, when I had to pay 60% out of the expenses and pay him back for that trip.
    There is always a reminder of:" if you want stuff and you want nice things, go get another jobI !"
    Thank you for opening my eyes!!!

    • @donthateme818
      @donthateme818 Год назад +20

      My blood is boiling just reading this 🫂

    • @mymelody2327
      @mymelody2327 Год назад +10

      wow you totally deserve more

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Год назад +1

      you deserve more 💖💖

  • @taejuri2995
    @taejuri2995 11 месяцев назад +7

    WOW , she changed me a lot in 21 mins

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 Год назад +88

    Liz you’re doing great. Really inspiring for us men too, realizing what women expect from their men and showing me that if I want to stand a chance in dating, I must provide. Period

    • @PK-xu7gu
      @PK-xu7gu Год назад +4

      Yep, you gotta pay for it. Simping away.

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Год назад +8

      you get it! Happy wife happy life it's a win-win situation 🥰

    • @MagsLuv
      @MagsLuv Год назад +8

      That’s great 😁 also make sure that you are improving yourself mentally as well. Like becoming more emotional intelligent! Good luck 🩷

    • @GoldenMushroom64
      @GoldenMushroom64 Год назад

      @@PK-xu7guyou got a better idea there, chump?

    • @joannegreg7867
      @joannegreg7867 9 месяцев назад

      Smart way to think. Wish you the best

  • @shae4488
    @shae4488 Год назад +27

    I love the fact that she brought up that it can also be 50/50. It’s such a great idea of both people putting in 100% effort to try to be great for their partner ❤

  • @AkanshaAkshu
    @AkanshaAkshu Год назад +35

    Just what i needed from you !! Thankyou for saving me sister🥀

  • @Tiffanyii
    @Tiffanyii 7 месяцев назад +6

    The point of provider mentality is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT my father had money he was taking responsibility for the bills and etc but compaired to his income it was nothing he could spoil mom and us waaaay more than he did

  • @thatgirlfeminine
    @thatgirlfeminine Год назад +88

    Time stamps:
    - 3:47 - people in life get what they expect
    - 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
    - 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
    - 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly
    - 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man
    - 15:19 - appreciate your man
    - 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
    - 20:30 - a woman has to receive
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @SC-trix
    @SC-trix 9 месяцев назад +10

    I love being provided for. I loooove it. And, I am a very highly paid individual. What is mine is mine, what is his is mine.

    • @beybladesm8979
      @beybladesm8979 3 месяца назад

      Narcissist personality

    • @souijaboi3198
      @souijaboi3198 2 месяца назад

      strong indpendent women but need mans money

  • @anamikamishra4644
    @anamikamishra4644 Год назад +85

    I really agree with the last part where you said me who take care of women get wealthier. My dad has 4 women including my mum, my sisters and me. Half of my life we were humbly well off but later he got promoted to such a position where he earns 6 times than he did before. Even my mum says the wealth came in because he has 4 women to take care of ❤️

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад +2

      Why every women cheat?

    • @RS-xx9ve
      @RS-xx9ve 10 месяцев назад +2

      Wow this place is Crazies Central! 😂😂

    • @DonCE0
      @DonCE0 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@RS-xx9ve haha men of culture, we meet again.

    • @brennendehexe7934
      @brennendehexe7934 10 месяцев назад

      I think the OP is trying to tell herself that shes not actually a parasite bc by leeching off some guy she actually makes him rich.... smh....these female dating vids ive seen so far are mostly about how to make guys spend money on you. We are lost 🎉

  • @ambitiousmissy
    @ambitiousmissy Год назад +7

    Life really changes, when you change your mindset… Thank God I learned my lessons in my 20s and still grateful to willingly learn so much more, with minimizing mistakes 💯

  • @OliverLi-z9v
    @OliverLi-z9v Год назад +79

    Liz didn't lie. Soon as I put standard in my dating life, even the "talking stages" provide for me. It all started from getting free daily dose of coffee to getting my rent paid for a whole year. On top of that, they respect my decision not to continue the date if I don't see us being together in a committed setting in the future.

    • @rayray9508
      @rayray9508 Год назад +8

      Omg you need to make a video? How do you convince them

  • @PrakritiRaj-f4z
    @PrakritiRaj-f4z Год назад +9

    I kept having questions about things she said and she kept answering them throughout. Liz is definitely a wizard 💅

  • @sanchigoyal1275
    @sanchigoyal1275 Год назад +81

    Thank you Liz for making our day amazing ❤

  • @trulyb9872
    @trulyb9872 Год назад +4

    I have missed your videos so much. The highlight for me is “ good woman don’t get rewarded “ i just love how you capture certain words or phrases in your speech its amazing how talented you are. By the way you’re looking gorgeous and the glow is apparent on your lovely face ❤

  • @edeirain106
    @edeirain106 Год назад +25

    Love how you explain this in a way of actual advice instead of “just use a man for money”. You’re amazing Liz!!

  • @piamarcalinas
    @piamarcalinas Год назад +37

    Thank you Liz for this video and beautiful reminder ❤ it has made me appreciate my partner more for the true man that he is, while embracing my femininity 💖 I lost my job earlier this year and felt so lost. My man has been supporting me financially and treating me like the princess that I am, while I create my dream life and work on my own business. I can't wait to spoil him back in the future and thank him for all he has done for me 🥰

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd 10 месяцев назад

      Why there are so less good women nowadays?

  • @thecoolwhipkid2026
    @thecoolwhipkid2026 Год назад +8

    Thank you for helping me realize that it’s okay to ask my man for what I want.

  • @yejiyunakim2005
    @yejiyunakim2005 9 месяцев назад +7

    You're absolutely right, in India we believe daughters and daughter in laws are Laxmi ( goddess of wealth ) and very lucky. Hence it is believed that families who respect and take care of women, are always blessed and prosperity overflows.

  • @TrinhThiThuThao-ux5by
    @TrinhThiThuThao-ux5by Год назад +13

    that's what I want to hear for a long time that nobody tell me how to behave in a relationship and I start realizing my worth now because of your words 🌷thank you & love you sis 💓

  • @apichinim
    @apichinim 11 месяцев назад +6

    I may say this is one of your BEST videos. What a lesson! You could put in words what I always wanted and never put together so well. Thank you. God Bless you.

  • @jasmvne
    @jasmvne Год назад +165

    I love how liv never sugarcoats anything and is just 100 precent real with us. Liv is literally the big sister that everyone needs. We should all strive to have a Live Laugh Love Liv Lifestyle

    • @dana6498
      @dana6498 Год назад +6

      it’s liz not liv

    • @kataraaa
      @kataraaa Год назад

      Noo, IT IS Liz !

    • @Max4Z
      @Max4Z Год назад

      Woman needs to have beauty/youth and purity to be provided for

    • @ericamcclintock5300
      @ericamcclintock5300 Год назад

      @@Max4Zew ur gross

    • @bratesta
      @bratesta Год назад

      @@Max4Z how do then many men still provide for their wives and mothers of their children even though they are not beautiful and young anymore?

  • @honkingantelope1990_
    @honkingantelope1990_ Год назад +29

    7:28 u re so right . My husband has also a provider mindset and he is happy to take care of me and our son. And it isnt that i was just lucky having him , i choosed my man wisely and after deep experience.
    Basically, next to me he became even more successful

    • @prussiansocietyofamerica
      @prussiansocietyofamerica Год назад

      Your husband is a sad sad man. I feel for him.

    • @honkingantelope1990_
      @honkingantelope1990_ Год назад +8

      @@prussiansocietyofamerica u wish so

    • @jayjoseph-r5t
      @jayjoseph-r5t Год назад +1

      @@prussiansocietyofamericaher husband is simp

    • @Jassmine3333
      @Jassmine3333 Год назад

      @@prussiansocietyofamerica You're non-existent wife must be a really sad sad woman. I feel for her.

    • @Jassmine3333
      @Jassmine3333 Год назад

      ​@@jayjoseph-r5tSo if you respected you're wife and spoiled her you're a simp? No wonder why you're whining in every comment poor thing. How does it feel to live unloved in you're mom's basement?

  • @kharbachifouzia4093
    @kharbachifouzia4093 Год назад +59

    I was always the strong independent I actually would feel insulted if a man gives me money let alone asking him to lol but your videos are helping me feeling okay receiving without the need to give a gift or the money back, I learned and laughed at today's vid you are an inspiration liz, sending you love from Algeria ❤

    • @munmunil
      @munmunil Год назад

      @@Butterfly-q2dstop assuming she follows everything to a T just bc she has a hijab on you’re weird

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Год назад

      Algerien men the worst though you it's literally really hard to find that type of man there I'm from Algeria btw and the men are all shitholes

  • @alisonvaleria26
    @alisonvaleria26 Год назад +11

    Wow I was literally talking about this w my mom but I hadn’t seen it as providing for the feminine but providing for my mom that I get blessed for. For an example. I did my moms laundry bc she is working too hard and too many hours. I have more days off and decided to take on a big load of laundry. And throughout the journey from getting the bags to the laundromat I got helped by a man to take my laundry there. Then I get blessed w extra fruits from a deli store. Then the lady working at the laundromat blessed me by helping me fold the clothes because she saw how much I had. Literally blessed and blessed and blessed. But now that you mention it. It makes sense. Blessing the divine feminine. Wow

  • @mahnoor_546
    @mahnoor_546 Год назад +29

    Her interpretation of taking care of a mother is just so beautiful 🥺💗love you ALOTT lizz

  • @Aprilla667
    @Aprilla667 Год назад +114

    Liz, you are like a wake up call for me! I love every single one of your videos and I completely agree with your quote "You're not asking for too much. You're just asking the wrong person." You are amazing!

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад +1

      I do not like liz.Her channel should be banned by youtube for misleading people.

    • @Aprilla667
      @Aprilla667 Год назад +5

      @@Tom-px9hd you should be banned.

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад

      @@Aprilla667 I am helping you from not getting manipulated and saving from disaster.

    • @Tom-px9hd
      @Tom-px9hd Год назад

      @@Aprilla667 I always feel like liz is manipulating emotionally weak women and taking advantage of it.

    • @Aprilla667
      @Aprilla667 Год назад +3

      @@Tom-px9hd that's what men are doing.

  • @horeacore
    @horeacore Год назад +9

    i know unhealed men will not like this and even some other ppl might not enjoy and will cal her harsh, but this is the most calm and down to earth way she handed us the information

  • @kaushik5165
    @kaushik5165 23 дня назад +2

    this women understands the men, more than men themselves

  • @dinaemad8591
    @dinaemad8591 Год назад +47

    When she said why it's normal for single mom to provide for five children but not normal for one man to provide for his wife, wow 🤯

    • @JustABoy98
      @JustABoy98 Год назад +5

      Cause kids are not adults and need help and both husband and wife are adults and should help each other? It's that simple , why an adult women isn't even capable of having adult life lmao ?

    • @eveline_2877
      @eveline_2877 Год назад +12

      @@JustABoy98Not you asking this while there's more women working than men and it's a normal thing to see women do all the housework and also work

    • @JustABoy98
      @JustABoy98 Год назад

      @@eveline_2877 I never said they don't? I replied to the commentor on how comparing providing for kids is way different then providing for wife/husband aswell as children.

    • @bratesta
      @bratesta Год назад +1

      @@JustABoy98For the same reason lots of men don’t cook, clean, do their own laundry and ect. Each gender has their own roles even in the Bible. A man is a provider and a woman is a homemaker

    • @leonardaedits3742
      @leonardaedits3742 Год назад +1

      I dont understand her point no one ever said its normal...

  • @schwarzekatzee
    @schwarzekatzee Год назад +7

    i love that mindset; you say what you want to get what you want but we’ll stay respectful.
    i went on a first date two days ago, lost my ring and he afforded (without me saying that i like getting spoiled) to buy me a new ring someday. but i’ll definitely look forward getting a new ring from him😋

  • @kaushik5165
    @kaushik5165 23 дня назад +11

    im a man, and i assure you that she is 100 percent right.

  • @emilypenate2598
    @emilypenate2598 Час назад

    Great content and to the point! One thing I will add is to always pour into yourself, buy yourself flowers, nice things, things you like etc and take care of your belongings. This way he will know what you like/interests and will know what/how to make you happy.

  • @DanielMaia
    @DanielMaia Год назад +49

    liz, please make a video about how to get out of a toxic environment, specially narcisistic parents or emotional abusers etc. i know you already talked about it a few times but it would help so many people if you talk to us about things that we can do to deal with this problems! thank u for your amazing content as allways

    • @thepointlesswords290
      @thepointlesswords290 Год назад +6

      To deal with narcissists Be calm when the conflict is happening. This is the first step. Because if they see people being not affected by their dramas they lose power. And also maintain a straight face and emotionally detach from the narcissist. This works for me.

    • @Butterfly-q2d
      @Butterfly-q2d Год назад

      Save money and get a new place to live

  • @aliencreative9360
    @aliencreative9360 Год назад +22

    liz is the only youtuber i wouldnt mind watching 10 ads back to back for. and i also never skip her sponsored better help ad NEVAAA ❤ i just love hearing this woman talk 😂

  • @strawberry-bunny
    @strawberry-bunny Год назад +13

    I didn’t even receive a birthday present from him this year, and my dumb self was thinking about taking him out for dinner in a nice place and buying him tickets for riding super expensive cars+open bar… you’re saving my dumb ass tbh

  • @neweelle
    @neweelle 2 месяца назад

    "You want to attract? You have to receive" wow, I never thought about it this way. Thank you for this insight

  • @seharkayy
    @seharkayy Год назад +30

    I used to believe as an independent working woman i shouldn't be asking a man to provide because if household chores should be split into 50/50 then both should be providing for each other too but you opened my eyes OMG A man should still have the provider mentality even if he's doing household chores too and his woman is independent career-oriented woman. Thanks Liz! ❤️

    • @Altair-El-Haddad
      @Altair-El-Haddad Год назад +3

      Total BS. A man should provide 100% and the wife's station is the kitchen.

    • @laclochard
      @laclochard Год назад +1

      Girly we live in a Patriarchy, and 50/50 doesn't exist, men exploit women all the time. So doing 50/50 with a man is not 'equality', they are still exploiting you.

    • @PedroMarcia-bv4iz
      @PedroMarcia-bv4iz Год назад +7

      @@laclochard how are you particularly exploited?

    • @Altair-El-Haddad
      @Altair-El-Haddad Год назад

      ​@@laclochardyes we live in a patriarchal society, as we should.

    • @victoryan4008
      @victoryan4008 Год назад +2

      Fucken hell... people nowadays just have no chill.

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Год назад +15

    My childhood story relates to Liz so much that’s why I listen and follow everything she says, I want it for myself I’m not hiding it anymore don’t care a “boss” gotta say. Thanks so much for this video 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @kennedyjordan144
    @kennedyjordan144 Год назад +6

    She’s dropping precious precious jewels

  • @tyrrany_reigns1
    @tyrrany_reigns1 22 дня назад +1

    12:50 is so right! my 1st husband was a drug addict. my 2nd husband thought "okay as long as i don't abuse drugs and I work a little I'll be great in her eyes" and he was for a long time till I got tired of babying him and decided i wanted a provider man (who he pretended to be in the beginning). Liz has been a goddess send in my journey to improving myself. I see her and know that I can have better. I'm holding out for my provider man.

  • @nhimsothavotey4962
    @nhimsothavotey4962 Год назад +6

    I love the confidence you have, coaching relationship tips and give no f even if your partner learn your strategies through this video 😅

  • @jannnvv
    @jannnvv Год назад +7

    she's totally a role model for me .....lots of love to you ! more power to you girl !

  • @illjustcallyoumine4924
    @illjustcallyoumine4924 Год назад +25

    I think this is my favorite video of yours yet, it's so insightful and you touched on numerous very important topics and gave us so many crucial tips ! Thank you so much, Liz! 💗

  • @myname5668
    @myname5668 2 месяца назад +1

    honestly liz is such a pretty soul.

  • @ayoshix
    @ayoshix Год назад +66

    I cannot put in words how thankful and grateful I am for all of your videos!! you helped me to get my shit together and finally be the best version of myself ❤

    • @Mlopesfornow
      @Mlopesfornow Год назад +1

      @@rustam900this isn’t Liz it’s a bot pretending to be her

    • @rustam900
      @rustam900 Год назад

      @@Mlopesfornow you mabey right

    • @salaahkhayr2398
      @salaahkhayr2398 Год назад

      Blame feminists for your problem then

  • @juk245
    @juk245 Год назад +6

    He is taking care of u coz u are pretty
    Now a days everything is related to being pretty

  • @allaboutnee
    @allaboutnee Год назад +6

    Our big sissy who knows our problems and help us with all she has ✨️

  • @JenniferAndersson-wk4cy
    @JenniferAndersson-wk4cy Год назад +3

    Never stop with what you are doing❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I watch you all the time and without your videos I would not survive

  • @mongmong1747
    @mongmong1747 Год назад +6

    I really love your channel. You always explain the things so well with examples and in a humoristic way. And althought, you're helping people. Love you. ❤

  • @Arynavantgarde
    @Arynavantgarde Год назад +9

    Makes me feel so much better that you had your first boyfriend when you were 19. I am 18 and still have not dated at all and I thought I was severely behind. But my standards are so high that I’m 100% willing to wait at the same time.

    • @yeuruuerueeheue
      @yeuruuerueeheue Год назад +2

      I had my first when I was 19 till 22 and let me tell you it was a fucking mess. DONT SETTLE