I Had to Fight for My Rights While Experiencing a Pregnancy Loss |

Content warning: Pregnancy loss
Mariah Eldridge, a Native American woman, fought for her right to perform a cultural grieving ceremony for her lost baby after doctors initially refused to allow her to take her baby home.
During Mariah’s 17 week prenatal appointment with her midwife, they noticed her baby wasn’t moving. Her midwife sent her to the ER to double check and they confirmed that her baby no longer had a heartbeat. After being admitted to the hospital, Mariah craved a peaceful goodbye for her son. But a discussion with the medical team revealed their initial refusal to let her go home with her baby.
"I went to talk with the doctor and let him know it was my right as an indigenous person to be able to practice how I feel is culturally relevant and healing for me." She also discussed with him the American Indian Religious Freedom Act, which protects the rights of Native Americans to practice their traditional religions through the use of sacred objects, and gives them the freedom to worship through ceremonial tradition. Mariah ultimately won and she and her family held a ceremony for her baby boy based on their family and cultural traditions.
Mariah advocated for what she believed in and what she knew was her right. She wants other people - especially other Indigenous people - to know they can do the same. "My biggest piece of advice if you're in the hospital and want something for yourself or your babies, is to do your own research and learn as much as you can before getting into the situation." She says, “being able to explain your rights means people can't tell you no."
On #BumpDay, we raise awareness and support so that every mom gets the help she needs to deliver a healthy start in life for the baby she loves, regardless of the color of her skin, where she lives or her ability to pay.
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Changing Woman Initiative: cwi-health.org/
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You are such an amazing woman sorry that you had to experience this trauma but such an empowering moment to hear you stood your ground.