When a Narcissist Breaks up With You: Understanding the Impact and Moving Forward
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- Опубликовано: 19 мар 2023
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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.
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Podcast - anchor.fm/rawmotivations
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Mine discarded me immediately after I exposed him. It felt like a brutal sucker punch in the gut with no warning.
You have validated me so much and I thank you so much. I was emotionally abused for 2 years, cheated on, I would in turn reactive abuse being told it was my fault and he ended up leaving me bc I “emotionally abused HIM” for yelling asking him to help me around the house
You probably left a river of tears, but you got help and are now empowering others. God bless you. I found the biggest narc and did not know what I was dealing with, until saw pattern and I found your videos - thank you for helping me heal from all the love bombing I was and still am reeling from even after many discards. I have recently broken it off in so many words and he finished it bc they have to be the one to discard. im not allowed a shred of telling him his remarks are hurtful without him going for jugular.
Gaslit me, said I was toxic, dumped me…even though we were supposed to get massages she found the new supply in a couple weeks. In other words she already has the new person.
They break up with people then go crawling back to them!! 😂 Many people are educated about the disorder now.
YES they sure do, always!
Yep!! That’s what my ex did to me. Broke off the engagement a few months later came crawling and begging to come back. Foolishly, I let him. Took 7 months to see he really hadn’t changed and was the same as always, emotionally cheating on me. I ended it 5 months ago and now he is repeating the begging to come back. 😣Thanks to what I have learned from Ben, I realized he is a narcissist and being with him would just end in a vicious cycle. No, thank you! 🤨🤪
I'm going through the discard phase and it hurts so much I just want to be happy and out of this situation. Help
As hard as it may seem now, you will get through this and eventually the pain will all subside and you will feel completely indifferent to the narcissist
Years ago, I let my energy neutralize it, pass over me like a wave a couple of times after he did things. I thought about friends I knew from high school days their histories with self harm and moved any sharp objects out of the room to a hiding place, randomly to come across years later. Have to love yourself more and just ignore hoovers if they come back. Eventually they find someone with more money to annoy/someone else to do this cycle to. Can't control the minions feeding them information however. Live your best life. I made myself busy so I couldn't have time to think about narc or had other things to focus on (grad school, game etc). Eventually make attempts to rebuild and move on. Having family for support emotionally was helpful, if you have at least one person who believes the crap you went through it helps.
One thing that kind of makes us feel better is knowing that we aren’t alone.
I’m in the discarded stage myself. We were together for a year and a half , and I did absolutely everything for this woman ( money , rent , utilities, everything down to buying the clothes on her back ,) and I just got threw away like I was nothing.
Now the hoovering and deflecting has started. She wants to work on getting back together , but nothing was her fault , and everything was on me.
Right now I’m actually being ignored and going through the silent treatment because I wouldn’t give her money for rent where she’s staying after she moved out on me. The things that these people will do if you allow them.
Stand strong , and go no contact asap. Nothing will ever get better with a narcissist. I found that out myself.
Wish the best for you
You WILL get through this. It hurts. But you will come to be certain you deserve so much more.
Thank you, Ben, so much for explaining what is happening to me and helping me get more clarity in all of this craziness!
Of course we can move through a narcissistic break up ..
You get this right every time!!! Thank you ❤
Glad you think so!
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True ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️
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Women are narcs too dude! Eesh
Yup they are