My daughter & I! Jan 28th live. We in already?!! Zoom 🏎️ this time. With more notice in person next time! So excited! Your 21 day challenges did so much perminant change. Breath work so hard but wow ^^^ emotion release w/o thoughts just pure emotion volcanoing out. Much love 💕 Mist Mgmt/Paula 🌷
This is so me! I tried to control every aspect of my life in order to give myself a false sense of security. It all stemmed from abandonment issues in my childhood. I’ve only recently been able to live in the moment after doing a lot of inner work & finally recognized why I’ve boxed myself in all my life!
@@chesneydennis7108 listening to coaches such as Aaron & Matt Schaffer. Read self-help books & received counselling using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Also practice yoga.
"Anxiety is excitement being filtered through a negative judgement." OMG I'm putting that up on my wall and framing it! xD LOVE THIS - You've got another sub! ❤
You've been a massive part in my recovery. I really appreciate what you do and the help and support you put out to the world. Learning to let go really is starting to change my life. I'm grateful to have found your work so thank you 😊
This is maybe the most powerful video you have ever made! Nice work. I love that you use the term higher power. I just got 2 years sober and that’s how I did it, turning my will and life over to the care of a higher power❤
We need a fence. Actually they call it, boundaries. We just don't want it to turn into a wall. We need to protect ourselves. Allow into the fence those we trust. When you share your understanding it's eye opening. My version of control is, doing everything in my power to master something, to secure everyone, to prepare for something then I let go of control of the outcome and let the universe take it's course. In that way I make my ego, the little girl in me, feel secure and at the same time I put my trust fully in the greater force and greater cause. So everything that happens next, was meant to happen.
Exactly. Can you control how your heart beats? Can you control how your blood vessels operate at any level? Your very existence is an infinite intelligence at play. Just surrender it, whatever "it" is. The outcome will always be a pleasant surprise
Aaron, I just wanted to thank you for what you are doing. After watching a few of your videos, I feel like you have changed my life. What you say just resonates with me. I feel so blessed as my energy has changed for the better. I think the last week was an awakening for me. Keep on doing what you're doing. You are amazing. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
I always think about my future but I don't know what will happen we never know. I do believe that the universe will guide me to the right path of my life and I feel so thankful for that
Everytime I come back to watching your videos after a while I’m reminded of how much you helped change my life.Thank you Aaron,I’m in Dallas but I’m joining the event virtually ❤
I respect parents who limit tv/screentime because it's "programming" even don't allow it at home. You gained more creativity from that. There's always something to be grateful about. The other stuff...no. I'm glad you escaped the abuse. Forgive, but don't stay in abusive energies-self respect matters. Love u.
This video makes so much sense. Had to keep pausing it to really take in this wisdom . Stopped half way thru to do deep forgiveness work on mother and sis.. I know I keep attracting mom like bullies as difficult living n work peeps that create the same ugly feelings with core of you don't matter n your voice and needs are of no importance. Wow. Thx
I really appreciate that the other day I was watching your videos and it snap me out of negativity, and i got so much done and raised my vibration. You snap people out of it with your voice, the intention and your content
Aaron that was expansive message, thankyou 💯 please please do a video on the truth bombs you raised about the Dad archetype, I am so happy you went there and thay was channelled. The community needs more of this talk to remove this program and heal this wound. I feel strongly that I found your videos now to watch you in this new world. Your messages now are in resonance with me. Yes, your energy is on another level. Personal stories and vulnerability. Aaron living and winning, keep up the magical enlightment 🦋🙏💙🇦🇺
I loved one thing you pointed out about how when you let go and you forgave your stepmother, then your manager got fired. A realization that I had is that sometimes I will let go and forgive someone and let's say there's a manager in my life that is reflecting the person I forgave, if the only reason I let go and forgave the person is because I believe that in doing that, the manager that is mistreating me will be fired, that is still a form of control and manipulation. It would not be truly letting go and forgiving the person. It's so easy to get stuck in my "spiritual ego", and trick myself into thinking that I am letting go of control, when in reality I'm just trying to control the situation in a more subtle and sneakier way, without even realizing that I'm doing it. Even calling my ego a spiritual ego is egotistical in and of itself. Ego is ego and that's that. Also, I realized that people who are in the "spiritual community" are still sheeple. They are not truly thinking for themselves, they are still letting allowing others to think for them.
I feel this energy and have believed this to be love all my life. But this energy comes today. I go. My whole nervous system runs amok. Feeling physically unwell. Luckily, I don't feel this way about everyone. Totally relearned. What love is. My story about love is very similar to yours. My father had mental problems. My mother codependent nice women. Met new man when I was 9 years old. Covert narc. He was in our life for 18 years. My mother was totally controlled in that relationship. Me and my brother with her.
i was searching topics and ur videos comes up and only few of your videos changed my mind set i needed this so much thank you so much that you exist much love from south Asia.
Am same, I secretly think I’ve to do every last thing by myself, always. This also sounds like my kundalini awakening and it loosening, dissolving, pockets of trauma in my body where all sorts of childhood abuse memories are stored. Am same stockholm syndrome wise or have been, attaching to legit dangerous people or men. Doh. Love your content Aaron, love ya.
I have recently discovered I struggle hard core with this now that I'm in a relationship. I'm 22 and he's my first bc my mother NEVER let me be around boys. EVER!!! So while I'm not boy crazy I'm freaking horrified half the time when I'm with him and especially when I'm not. I just have this constant feeling of dread bc I don't know what he's doing or why he's not talking to me. I remember always feeling like I needed to be secretive about stuff bc my mom made me so freaking nervous. I'm trying to overcome this. This video helps.
You’re an inspiration first and foremost to yourself. I’m proud of you and I know you don’t need my validation of saying that, but I am. Well done man! ❤
This is so weird (or not) I'v not really seen many of your videos on my 1st page for a long time, and just when I've been feeling low this pops up. Thanks Aaron 👍
Resonated so much and really powerful Aaron. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge and bringing in your own personal experiences that we can relate to and understand is so beneficial. Letting go of control and surrendering to source is the only way to ascend.
This is pretty amazing! I truly love to feel the comfort of connection your videos bring. I find myself in the "twilight zone" watching you! You are the confirmation that all the "weird" and "unnatural" or even "satanic" ideals I carried in silence for fear of judgment are not only real but bearing fruit! I love the normalcy your content expresses in a world where very few embody this level of understanding! Thank you @AaronDoughty44 and thank you spirit! 434 ❤
The best speech ever you couldn't explain it better.. 👍👑 I've been listening to you for a couple of years and some made me laugh to tears when you mimicked chasing and begging to get a little part in someone else's film 🤣🤣
anyone joining me in Austin on January 28th!? (p.s. there's a zoom options as well ) ➡ www.aarondoughty.com/events
Would love to take a trip down
My daughter & I! Jan 28th live.
We in already?!!
Zoom 🏎️ this time.
With more notice in person next time! So excited! Your 21 day challenges did so much perminant change. Breath work so hard but wow ^^^ emotion release w/o thoughts just pure emotion volcanoing out.
Much love 💕
Mist Mgmt/Paula 🌷
Thanks Thor 👍
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Of course he knows what's up, especially today, being Thor's day and all😊
Yeah, no offence 😂😅.......he really looks like Chris Hemsworth.
Haha 😂
This man has changed the direction my life I am eternally grateful
The hardest part is recognizing and getting passed how simple it is.
Honestly needed this. I just let go of somebody who I placed so much importance on. Feeling fresh and lighter already!
This is so me! I tried to control every aspect of my life in order to give myself a false sense of security. It all stemmed from abandonment issues in my childhood. I’ve only recently been able to live in the moment after doing a lot of inner work & finally recognized why I’ve boxed myself in all my life!
I know it’s been a year, but what did you do that helped??
@@chesneydennis7108 listening to coaches such as Aaron & Matt Schaffer. Read self-help books & received counselling using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Also practice yoga.
Made a decision to turn my will & life over to the care of god ✨💫🙌
Exactly! Was just discussing this before this video popped up on my phone.
Me to my friend
That point you made about the masculine “dad” energy in relation to trusting the universe was phenomenal. Thank you! Opened up my eyes a bit
Yes, always trying to control the situation/perfectionism… Equals stress and anxiety !! 🤷🏻♀️
Absolutely am done with it it has led to greats of stress , anxiety and poverty ! Am done with controlling
Holy mother of God!!! This is my current issue!!!!!! I do not trust LIFE itself.
Let go of control,safety box& stepping into unknown magic!!
"Anxiety is excitement being filtered through a negative judgement."
OMG I'm putting that up on my wall and framing it! xD
LOVE THIS - You've got another sub! ❤
@Aarodoughty You forgot to spell his name right, but good try.
Creating massive value for your followers all the time Aaron
You've been a massive part in my recovery. I really appreciate what you do and the help and support you put out to the world. Learning to let go really is starting to change my life. I'm grateful to have found your work so thank you 😊
This is maybe the most powerful video you have ever made! Nice work. I love that you use the term higher power. I just got 2 years sober and that’s how I did it, turning my will and life over to the care of a higher power❤
It really is certainly one of them
Yes you said it, let go and surrender to a power greater than yourself.
TRULY…. Your energy is AMAZING…. New stop what you are doing!
We need a fence. Actually they call it, boundaries. We just don't want it to turn into a wall. We need to protect ourselves. Allow into the fence those we trust.
When you share your understanding it's eye opening. My version of control is, doing everything in my power to master something, to secure everyone, to prepare for something then I let go of control of the outcome and let the universe take it's course. In that way I make my ego, the little girl in me, feel secure and at the same time I put my trust fully in the greater force and greater cause. So everything that happens next, was meant to happen.
Perfect timing ❤
Exactly. Can you control how your heart beats? Can you control how your blood vessels operate at any level? Your very existence is an infinite intelligence at play. Just surrender it, whatever "it" is. The outcome will always be a pleasant surprise
I felt this one in my bones. Thank you Aaron
Aaron, I just wanted to thank you for what you are doing. After watching a few of your videos, I feel like you have changed my life. What you say just resonates with me. I feel so blessed as my energy has changed for the better. I think the last week was an awakening for me. Keep on doing what you're doing. You are amazing. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
He has for me to he creates massive value and deserves everything he has
I always think about my future but I don't know what will happen we never know. I do believe that the universe will guide me to the right path of my life and I feel so thankful for that
You are incredible!
Fantastic Video! My father passed away 2 months ago, I think I needed this video. I need to forgive
Everytime I come back to watching your videos after a while I’m reminded of how much you helped change my life.Thank you Aaron,I’m in Dallas but I’m joining the event virtually ❤
I respect parents who limit tv/screentime because it's "programming" even don't allow it at home. You gained more creativity from that. There's always something to be grateful about. The other stuff...no. I'm glad you escaped the abuse. Forgive, but don't stay in abusive energies-self respect matters. Love u.
This is VERY important information. Thank you!
Such a gift Aaron ... this is truth... Carla
God bless you, this paradoxical epiphany is saving me
Allow fear do it anyway, I m good in either way!!
Loving your new videos. You are on a whole other level. Speaking truth 💯
This video makes so much sense. Had to keep pausing it to really take in this wisdom . Stopped half way thru to do deep forgiveness work on mother and sis.. I know I keep attracting mom like bullies as difficult living n work peeps that create the same ugly feelings with core of you don't matter n your voice and needs are of no importance. Wow. Thx
I really appreciate that the other day I was watching your videos and it snap me out of negativity, and i got so much done and raised my vibration. You snap people out of it with your voice, the intention and your content
Yes!!!
Practically described my 12 Step experience. Thanks Aaron, I love your passionate energy💕
Thank you for sharing experience! Watching your videos, my life have became simple and calm.
You’re actually the best self/help and energy RUclipsr I know… I’ve watched so many videos for 3 years but I always end up coming back here❤
I believed I could manage everything, but it turns out that it only leads to stress and anxiety for me. I really need this! Thank you for this
Aaron that was expansive message, thankyou 💯 please please do a video on the truth bombs you raised about the Dad archetype, I am so happy you went there and thay was channelled. The community needs more of this talk to remove this program and heal this wound. I feel strongly that I found your videos now to watch you in this new world. Your messages now are in resonance with me. Yes, your energy is on another level. Personal stories and vulnerability. Aaron living and winning, keep up the magical enlightment 🦋🙏💙🇦🇺
So grateful for this video
I needed this! Life changing stuff.
I loved one thing you pointed out about how when you let go and you forgave your stepmother, then your manager got fired. A realization that I had is that sometimes I will let go and forgive someone and let's say there's a manager in my life that is reflecting the person I forgave, if the only reason I let go and forgave the person is because I believe that in doing that, the manager that is mistreating me will be fired, that is still a form of control and manipulation. It would not be truly letting go and forgiving the person.
It's so easy to get stuck in my "spiritual ego", and trick myself into thinking that I am letting go of control, when in reality I'm just trying to control the situation in a more subtle and sneakier way, without even realizing that I'm doing it. Even calling my ego a spiritual ego is egotistical in and of itself. Ego is ego and that's that.
Also, I realized that people who are in the "spiritual community" are still sheeple. They are not truly thinking for themselves, they are still letting allowing others to think for them.
I feel this energy and have believed this to be love all my life. But this energy comes today. I go. My whole nervous system runs amok. Feeling physically unwell. Luckily, I don't feel this way about everyone. Totally relearned. What love is. My story about love is very similar to yours. My father had mental problems. My mother codependent nice women. Met new man when I was 9 years old. Covert narc. He was in our life for 18 years. My mother was totally controlled in that relationship. Me and my brother with her.
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️...
Wishing you all the success in the live events this year. It's so inspiring to see you do this. I cannot wait for more event listings.
The part where you said there was something comforting in the abuse & it’s called Stockholme syndrome.. I needed that 😅🙏🏼
I started my own YoutTube channel 1 month ago and I am trying to let go of the outcome and just enjoy the process of making videos !
Thank you 😍👌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️...
i was searching topics and ur videos comes up and only few of your videos changed my mind set i needed this so much thank you so much that you exist much love from south Asia.
I needed this today coz I have been controlling and forcing things lately
Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏻❤️much needed ☺️
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️•••
I needed this
Aaron! THANK YOU
Thank you, Aaron, you're so good!
Am same, I secretly think I’ve to do every last thing by myself, always. This also sounds like my kundalini awakening and it loosening, dissolving, pockets of trauma in my body where all sorts of childhood abuse memories are stored. Am same stockholm syndrome wise or have been, attaching to legit dangerous people or men. Doh. Love your content Aaron, love ya.
Wow, this came at a perfect time for me. Thank you!
I have recently discovered I struggle hard core with this now that I'm in a relationship. I'm 22 and he's my first bc my mother NEVER let me be around boys. EVER!!! So while I'm not boy crazy I'm freaking horrified half the time when I'm with him and especially when I'm not. I just have this constant feeling of dread bc I don't know what he's doing or why he's not talking to me. I remember always feeling like I needed to be secretive about stuff bc my mom made me so freaking nervous. I'm trying to overcome this. This video helps.
Thanks Aaron ♥️
One of your best videos yet❤
Johnny on the spot. Just when I need it the most, there it is. The video for exactly what I been going thru. Much appreciated is an understatement.
I can understand exactly what you are saying ❤
Your video was very helpful, thank you !
So true!🎉
Wow, best video yet. So helpful, thank you!!!
🙏
Just what I needed to hear... releasing control...
God bless you Aaron 🌹
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️...
Thank you. You make so much sense ❤
This is awesome. It feels like we are in the same room.
Your videos are a great help with me going through my divorce.
So evolved so much over the years ! Always love listening to you !
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️...
You’re an inspiration first and foremost to yourself. I’m proud of you and I know you don’t need my validation of saying that, but I am.
Well done man! ❤
Hey Aaron!...Way to go! Your best video so far! Huge fan! You speak my language...Lots of❤ and best wishes for your future endeavours.Namaste!
I surrender to my higher power.
Love and respect Aaron
I needed this! Thank you 🤗
You are amazing, Aaron! Thank you for this! ❤
This video actually made me cry a bit! Thank you so much for sharing, it is super helpful for me 💜
I resonate soooo much with this
Totally! TY for sharing this.
Thank you! I felt better after watching it. This video comes at the best time
Great breakdown I’ve had these thoughts all week.
You are so right with everything you say in this video, it resonates with me a lot. Thank you x
Never disappoints 🙌🏽 Keep it going brother!
Thank You Brother Blessings to you and Great King 🤴🏻 Solomon Great Luck 🍀 to you and everyone so it is Thank You Father❤️🦁👑
powerful video aaron. the last five minutes are truly life changing. thank you so much! ❤🕊
Awesome insight, thanks!
Embrace uncertainty!!
Jump into unknown!!
Thank you 💕 so so much!!
I live in Austin. I’ll so be there 🙌
Thanksss 😍 brace encertainty.enjoyed this
I loVe this title 😂😂😂❤ thank you Earth Angel
ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴛʜᴏᴍᴀꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ ʜɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴀ ᴘʀᴏꜰɪᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴄʀʏᴘᴛᴏ ɪɴᴠᴇꜱᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɢᴜɪᴅᴇ, ᴛʜᴀɴᴋꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛ'ꜱ✍️•••
This is so weird (or not) I'v not really seen many of your videos on my 1st page for a long time, and just when I've been feeling low this pops up. Thanks Aaron 👍
Resonated so much and really powerful Aaron. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge and bringing in your own personal experiences that we can relate to and understand is so beneficial. Letting go of control and surrendering to source is the only way to ascend.
Fruit and meat is powerful its hard to find someone who will let there complete ego and listen to what you want i totally understand lvciddd
Awesome video! Love this content.. please continue to have more vids like this one please ❤
This is pretty amazing! I truly love to feel the comfort of connection your videos bring. I find myself in the "twilight zone" watching you! You are the confirmation that all the "weird" and "unnatural" or even "satanic" ideals I carried in silence for fear of judgment are not only real but bearing fruit! I love the normalcy your content expresses in a world where very few embody this level of understanding! Thank you @AaronDoughty44 and thank you spirit! 434 ❤
I can't thank you enough. Especially for sharing about the divorce and attachment. I also have an ex step mom just like yours.
Aaron I really appreciate your videos. Your energy is powerful and penetrating. Thank you for this sacred work your doing ❤
Wow great. Thanks for this video it's really helps me to understand something.
thankyou so much
The best speech ever you couldn't explain it better.. 👍👑 I've been listening to you for a couple of years and some made me laugh to tears when you mimicked chasing and begging to get a little part in someone else's film 🤣🤣
Hello from the Austin area!