I said “blue cheese” in a gremlin voice while at a salad bar and a girl near me giggled and said me “that was cute.” And I have been riding that high ever since. That was probably 5 years ago.
Last compliment I received completely unsolicited was about 15 years ago when an older girl told me I had beautiful eyes Over half my life I've had to squeeze every last drop of motivation out of that cause there's been nothing else since.
Do women not understand that they don't compliment us? Why is it they act surprised to learn that they don't because she should be able to realize that if she's not doing it, other women aren't either? Or is it because they compliment the small amount of Chads, that they did their part in complimenting men. Most men get nothing but criticisms, like what she said about his shoes. It's like a woman can always find at least one thing she doesn't like about a man and even if that's the only thing, that's all she'll focus on. Ladies, we wear shoes to protect our feet, not as a fashion statement. I remember hearing a woman who had been a matchmaker saying that her clients from hell were all women. After dates she'd have to ask why they weren't attracted to the man she'd set them up with and she'd get such stupid reasons as "he wore a brown belt with black shoes". You mean every other thing about that man could have been good but because of that one reason you're going to throw him away and spend another few years still looking? Or because you couldn't give a legitimate reason other than there just wasn't a spark, you have to criticize his shoes? Ladies, why do you think more and more men aren't bothering to even date anymore?
And then there's the dodgy compliments. She likes the things you buy for her, how you help her, etc. Or even objectifying comments about various body parts. If it's not ok to compliment her on her secondary characteristics then it's not ok towards men either.
Old dude here. I said that to a guy once a couple of years ago who worked in an auto parts store, if that wasn't you, I hope he took the encouragement the same way.
About a decade ago an old woman in line at the bank told me I was a very handsome young man. I was never handsome and I’m no longer young, but I still remember
Once in a great while a girl says I'm cute, and it melts me. In high school, two girls learned it was my birthday, got a sheet of line paper, drew me a birthday card, and gave it to me. NOBODY ELSE outside of my family has ever put in that much effort for me. I still have that birthday card. It means a lot.
Last compliment was about 15 years ago. A girl complimented my hair and how soft it was. Every since that day I liked how my hair looks and never doubted it.
One time in 2015 I was in a voice channel with a few randoms, and the girl told me that my voice wasn't annoying, unlike a few others she'd recently been talking with. I'm still living off of that one.
36 year old man here and I have been trying to think though this whole video of a single compliment I've gotten in my whole life but i got nothing lol straight facts
You tried so hard, but you pointed out one of the biggest issues men face that feminists refuse to acknowledge that effect the mental health of so many men....
Weird how she's talking shit to the guy about crowd work. Ironically, the person doing the crowd work is the comedian. I'm guessing she didn't know that.
It's hard for a brother out there, sometimes. I like how you want to compliment them or encourage their self-esteem, but they just make it even harder. That's what dudes are taught growing up. Gotta be all stoic and thick-skinned. Can't show emotions. It's messed up. But, it's our own fault, dads start the s--t, and we just perpetuate it because we're told that's how it's supposed to be. What can I say? Dudes suck.
I said “blue cheese” in a gremlin voice while at a salad bar and a girl near me giggled and said me “that was cute.” And I have been riding that high ever since. That was probably 5 years ago.
lmao, real
Last compliment I received completely unsolicited was about 15 years ago when an older girl told me I had beautiful eyes
Over half my life I've had to squeeze every last drop of motivation out of that cause there's been nothing else since.
Hey man. I like your avatar. Hang in there bro.
Do women not understand that they don't compliment us? Why is it they act surprised to learn that they don't because she should be able to realize that if she's not doing it, other women aren't either? Or is it because they compliment the small amount of Chads, that they did their part in complimenting men. Most men get nothing but criticisms, like what she said about his shoes. It's like a woman can always find at least one thing she doesn't like about a man and even if that's the only thing, that's all she'll focus on. Ladies, we wear shoes to protect our feet, not as a fashion statement. I remember hearing a woman who had been a matchmaker saying that her clients from hell were all women. After dates she'd have to ask why they weren't attracted to the man she'd set them up with and she'd get such stupid reasons as "he wore a brown belt with black shoes". You mean every other thing about that man could have been good but because of that one reason you're going to throw him away and spend another few years still looking? Or because you couldn't give a legitimate reason other than there just wasn't a spark, you have to criticize his shoes?
Ladies, why do you think more and more men aren't bothering to even date anymore?
And then there's the dodgy compliments.
She likes the things you buy for her, how you help her, etc.
Or even objectifying comments about various body parts.
If it's not ok to compliment her on her secondary characteristics then it's not ok towards men either.
Best compliment I get is when they don't look away when I make eye-contact for a second.
A bartender once told me she liked my shirt. It's a little small, and starting to show some wear and tear, I still wear it to this day.
Best compliment I got was “you have a voice perfect for radio” from an old dude. Now I take voice acting lessons 🥲
I got a similar one but it was about my face. Perfect face for radio, me! 😊😊😊
😮 Wait.
Old dude here. I said that to a guy once a couple of years ago who worked in an auto parts store, if that wasn't you, I hope he took the encouragement the same way.
About a decade ago an old woman in line at the bank told me I was a very handsome young man. I was never handsome and I’m no longer young, but I still remember
at least your vision is perfect :)
@ I wish, my right eye is going
@ bahhh im sure some weed will fix that glaucoma ;)
@ If weed fixed this I’d have 30/30 vision by now lol
@@LaBarata12 well you never know until you keep trying ;)
hey, pretty girls will sleep with the pot smoker for some free tokes ;)
Once in a great while a girl says I'm cute, and it melts me. In high school, two girls learned it was my birthday, got a sheet of line paper, drew me a birthday card, and gave it to me. NOBODY ELSE outside of my family has ever put in that much effort for me. I still have that birthday card. It means a lot.
Last compliment was about 15 years ago. A girl complimented my hair and how soft it was. Every since that day I liked how my hair looks and never doubted it.
A girl once told me it was the biggest one she ever saw.
My wife said she lied.....
Wow.
Nothing like some "support" at home, yeah?
the constant laugher from the crowd made me smile..
The best compliments I got is when the girl thought I'd give her some money. 😂
One time in 2015 I was in a voice channel with a few randoms, and the girl told me that my voice wasn't annoying, unlike a few others she'd recently been talking with. I'm still living off of that one.
Yeah I couldn’t tell you either 😂
36 year old man here and I have been trying to think though this whole video of a single compliment I've gotten in my whole life but i got nothing lol straight facts
You tried so hard, but you pointed out one of the biggest issues men face that feminists refuse to acknowledge that effect the mental health of so many men....
Have you tried before ?
She tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn’t even matter…
hot dang im genuinely trying to remember compliments and im drawing a .... oh no... what is it when you draw something, i cant even rememberrrr
Excellent. This appears to be a talented professional, in my opinion . This is the first time I’ve seen or heard anything about her. Instant fan.
Same!
So now comedy for women is insulting men? 😒
this girl is so bad i forgot what compliments ive ever recieved..
okay she's pretty funny. I don't say that about too many comedians these days.
Steve Hofstetter sent me here. Pity I live too far away to actually see any shows.
I had a woman tell me "you taste good"😊
But do you taste good without A1 sauce? That's the true test for quality.
@turinturambar347 she preferred whip cream and choc-o-lit
1:50 pretty funny ngl
If a woman complements a man, she wants something.
It could also be pity, or they believe that by being good to others, good things might come to them, like karma.
Weird how she's talking shit to the guy about crowd work. Ironically, the person doing the crowd work is the comedian. I'm guessing she didn't know that.
This video would have been a lot better if she said something funny.
They liked my dimples.
screeching harpy on stage demands people laugh or else lmao..
Seems the algorithm doesn't want me to watch this video. :(
I’m so attracted to this woman 😍😂
It's hard for a brother out there, sometimes. I like how you want to compliment them or encourage their self-esteem, but they just make it even harder. That's what dudes are taught growing up. Gotta be all stoic and thick-skinned. Can't show emotions. It's messed up. But, it's our own fault, dads start the s--t, and we just perpetuate it because we're told that's how it's supposed to be. What can I say? Dudes suck.
Sigh.. go to sleep