My 14 year old sister decided that she was going to be… “extra” and this video is extremely helpful. Thanks, now we can get her right. In no way should a 14 year old be talking to or trying to meet a 18 year old or an adult. Honestly I said trash the phone but I’ve been told to “stay in my lane”.
Is it possible to use my iPhone and just set it up to where they can’t see my screen? & I can just turn it off and on… buying a whole new phone is ridiculous just for this
Question... for mirroring you said make sure to be using the same account on both devices but my kids phone has his account. And mine has mine. How would I do this?
Lol because this is straight up fraud. It's not parental control. Apple doesn't have this function. You just fool Apple account that you have two devices
Has all this technology, internet and smartphones really made our world better or made us smarter? I'm ready To go back to the eighties when we didn't have all this cr@p.
Same. It has made a bunch of zombie addicts out of us. Phone addiction is a real problem that is hurting everyone by destroying real world interaction. Not to mention how social media has fueled the lust for fame and clout that has everyone doing everything for attention. It’s a very serious problem.
Thank you so much for this! I know many disagree with monitoring kids' screen activity, but it actually saved my kid's life. I'd really appreciate it if you could help me with some troubleshooting issues: 1. Why do we need Family Sharing to mirror? Can't we just set up message forwarding between 2 devices with same apple id w/o Family Sharing? 2. Why do we toggle off message on the icloud of 2nd device? 3. The second device won't let me checkmark the phone number, just the email in send & receive. When I try to checkmark the phone number, it keeps saying: "waiting for activation" 4. In my child's phone, the text message forwarding option sometimes disappears from the settings. I tried toggling imessage on and off but it doesn't change anything. 5. Also, why might there be a huge delay (a few days to a week) in the 2nd device receiving the messages? THANK YOU.
The family sharing part is just to manage the device. So you can approve app installs and set time limits, it's independent of the mirroring. The reason you toggle off icloud is so if a message is deleted on the child's device, that delete won't come through to the mirrored device. if it's syncing with icloud it will delete in both places. I'm not sure on #3. I have not encountered that issue. Maybe do a factory reset on the mirroring device and start over? On 4, your child might be disabling it? There shouldn't be a delay. It should be instant. So maybe check again after you reset the mirroring device and see if it's still an issue.
It will not let you mirror without setting up two-factor auth. But when you do that don't the codes get sent to the monitored phone? Please let me know how to fix this?
I love your channel and your content. Very helpful, thank you! Some of us are tied to Apple devices for specific reasons, so we don't really need to hear how unfortunate iPhones are for teens. We know there are pros/cons, but thank you for making this so easy and well explained!
If you go to Content and Privacy Restrictions and turn it on, you can actually select "don't allow" for installing, deleting and in-app purchases. So if you've taken away an app that's already been downloaded, as long as this feature is turned on, they can't re-install apps. I also always require a password and my screen time password locks their account, so they can't make adjustments.
When people ask me about locking down iPhones, I tell them step 1 - replace it with an android and then you'll have an easier time locking it down. I'm not an iPhone fan. They are more secure out of the box, but you can make an android device even more secure than iPhone in the end.
As a teen I would just jailbreak the Android iPhones can be jailbromen as well but I’d have to wait for a jailbreak for latest update However once your child is old enough to jailbreak there phone it’s probably time for you to lift the restrictions anyway
I get the “no privacy” comments on here but personally I love these features since I use them for my grandmother’s phone. She doesn’t know how a lot of things work and I just want to keep her safe online. It is actually a very helpful tool. In he past she has purchased things accidentally and she has filled out personal information on sketchy websites, this keeps her safe. I can only imagine the same goes for some children. (especially
"Older" grandparents/parents are pretty much an older versions of 10 year olds. They are so trusting and naive that you have to put up safety guards to keep them safe from themselves. It's one thing to tell them about the dangers out there but if they don't care, they will do it anyway.
I think that every family and kid is unique and there should be no universal rules. However, children only are given the amount of privacy necessary for their safety. No more no less. Some kids need a lot more supervision than others. But all kids need supervision period
@@chiyohh'm turning 13 and the only reason I have this is bc I got into a fight with friends! I was crying but the reason why is bc confrontation scare me and that is BECUAS OF MY PARENTS! They are good parents but they don't know how deep they hurt me sometimes. I just want these controls removed completely bc they are an inconvenience whenever I make a new account. I know how to be safe on the internet. If it wasn't for my aunt I wouldn't even be able to download apps and would have time limit.
So how does my phone work with all of this? I get the extra phone and how it’s great for seeing exactly what my child is texting, but I don’t want to carry around 2 phones with me at all times. Can I also use my own phone to at least make changes to downtime and limit apps, contacts, etc? If so, how do I setup the family sharing on my phone? The video seems to just show the child’s phone and the junk phone. Can you please give instructions with 3 phones? I also noticed that you were using the nice phone (child phone) to add an account and that there were already several accounts on the phone. Is my child’s phone supposed to be the hub for all the accounts, or were you implying that the nice phone in that segment of the video was now the parent phone?
Could I please offer an alternative to this? You don't need to take away your child's privacy to keep them out of trouble. Just talk with them about dangers and ask them about their friends and make sure they aren't hanging out with the wrong crowd, but there's no reason to spy on them. The only thing you're doing by spying on them is teaching them to resent you. With a child and parent relationship, the key is good communication, not a parent spying on them.
Finally a good parent that cares about their privacy cause if you add screen time to your kids phone. 1- we bypass it every time 2- Your kids will never trust you and will lie to you 24’7 3- Strict parents create sneaky kids 4- when I was 15 I had a job and still couldn’t text my friends past 8:00 wtf at that point I just bought a phone (parents never found out)
THANK YOU! My parents only put the app on bc I "chat all day" THATS JUST ME TALKING TO MY FRIENDS NORMALLY! IT DOESNT STOP ME FROM STUDYING OR SMT! They want me to be more social and they say this.
My question is: when setting up the mirroring, I understand the adult account needs to be logged into both phones. Once you’re done, do you sign out and then sign in the kid and voila? Or do you stay logged in????
If you’re desperate about not letting them re download an app. You can actually remove access to the entire App Store. They can’t re download a previously approved app if they can’t access the store at all.
My parents use this as a punishment. They will turn off my screen time until 11:59 and it will turn back on at 12. they also take away my communication limit and i cant text anyone except the people in my family. I failed a class with a 69 (not for the whole year) and i've had these restrictions for 3 months. I'm 16. I get wanting to discipline your kids but I feel like this isnt the way to go. same thing with teenagers still having this on their phone. give them some freedom, trust them a little bit.
My parents overreacted to me crying in an online argument with my friends bc of a reason they caused and put the app on me and deleted all my socials. I got em back a few days later but still
Glad my parents were never like this but I got a phone on my sister account and I think she be in my business. So needed to investigate before I confront her. Thanks for the tips.
I went through my 13 year old phone and discovered all her friends are smoking pot, eating edibles, caping, researching eating disorders, cutting themselves and poly relationships. 😳
@@JmeUconnsuperfan lmaooooooo i told my mom personally i was into poly so she didnt need to reach. If i was suicidal i could come to her. But some kids simply dont feel comfortable doing so.
The iPhone SE (gen2) still gets iOS updates and is a very nice phone. Note that iPhone SE (gen1) is now end of life. I use the SE gen2 personally and its based on the iPhone 6S and its a great phone. I particularly like that its small size and long battery life and that I get all the iOS updates. The new iPhone SE (gen3) is also a good choice and has a larger screen and is also more affordable than a standard iPhone. It has the same exact OS but just not all the hardware bells and whistles of other more expensive iPhones.
I myself using 5s from end of 2013, same reason as you are. It does the same as larger and more expensive phones, but smaller and easier getting into the pockets. Just a battery started to die much faster. It doesn't get updates, so no unexpected bug will come to the phone.
I’m having an issue. In the beginning you show setting up a family account but then the phones have to be signed into the same iCloud ID to turn on mirroring. How do I have her signed into her account and have mirroring? Otherwise she has access to controls?
Parents that do these types of things are the reason why kids grow up to hate them especially if you’re already an adult and your parent turns your internet off, put trackers on you etc.
I know the "cool-parent" approach is "I don't hide things from my kids-they're gonna hear about it anyway!" Except one psychologist after another tells you it's bad for kids to experience most of what the internet and social media are offering. Cool-parents are usually just lazy, ignorant parents who will never realize the damage they allowed to happen. But at least they're cool.
Conversations are not supposed to be monitored between the opposing parent and child when you are divorced, and some people use these devices for the wrong reasons …. Esp when you have a controlling ex Which is awful
Great video . All I did and was much less work was sign into my daughters iTunes account on a second phone. I didn’t need to go through all that extra process. I have access to EVERYTHING on her phone through the monitoring iPhone 7. I see her messages, call logs , emails , photos, notes, calendars, apps, …. Literally EVERYTHING. Also, she is not allowed to be on social media. THERE IS NOTHING SOCIAL ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA.
@@Mary-zb6df because ppl around me who had strict parents and over protected parents dont always end well. You think you helping the child but sometimes it can backfire later on
This information was somewhat helpful. All due respect, it’s difficult to say you want to help all parents, but them talk negatively about a device that is a big player in the market that’s also known to have better protection against hackers than android devices. That is a plus for Apple. My wife and I have Apple devices and family sharing, so it makes sense to get our 12 y.o. An iPhone. This video is outdated with iOS15 now available which addresses many of the issues you mentioned as of (I assume) iOS13, since you mentioned this in an example. Screen time can be managed, app downloads can be prevented altogether, share location can be enabled, settings can be protected by a code and of course the first line of defense is always going to be good communication and trust with your child. Thanks for the tip on the mirroring. I can see how that would work for text.
This video was created with iOS 15 already out. All of what I said is still valid. Parents can choose whichever device they prefer, but for the most comprehensive parental controls available, the child's device should be Android. I only talk negatively about it due to the limitations in the operating system to monitor the device. Apple can do much better here. Having said that. I completely agree with you. Good communication is an absolute must when trying to protect your kids on technology.
@@FamilyTech Sorry but that is simply not true and as you stated yourself you are NOT a really an apple user, and that speaks volumes. Five deadly venomz comment spot on. Its naive to think that Android has a monopoly over this issue compared to Apple.
I just want to say this to parents everywhere watching this. By doing this, your taking something from your child that they love and that can bring them joy, Apple realizes this in the fact that they respect peoples privacy just like parents expect children to respect them, it’s without question.
I get the respect the privacy aspect. However, they are under the authority of the guardian until they are old enough to move on their own. Having children with so much access without some type of limitation is a scary idea. The things that are just a few types and taps away are endless and not always beneficial to them
👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 *I woke up one morning and found out I have been deactivated,I was freaking out because it’s has never happen to me and this is the source of my income I felt very depressed on how I can get it back I sent a lot of mails and no response,until I met above name I payed him to work on it and within 30 minutes I got two message on my email stating am reactivated and now am back to work.🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸*
Young kids are not entitled to privacy while accessing the world at large on their devices ! It’s like letting them raid your drinks and cigarettes cabinet and respecting their privacy! OMG or giving them the ok to just go out at night should they wish to… The whole point of privacy is not to take away what kids enjoy but to protect them from themselves and those that mean them harm which inevitably will take away something that they “enjoy”! But that is secondary to the protection offered them by their GUARDIAN aka parent! You privacy zealots have no common sense!
Limited to no privacy when I am responsible for my kids well being. It's possible to give them some privacy and also maintain some level of control just in case.
Hello. Question: I got a bit confused as you first mentioned you do not suggest signing in to the monitored device with my iCloud but then when you get to the steps of mirroring the monitored/monitoring phone, you mention to make sure that the iCloud accounts are the same on both phones. Can you please clarify? Thanks!
You as the parent don’t want to have your iCloud acct logged into your child phone because your messages Pictures etc will be accessible to your child. You sign them up with their own iCloud acct and have that secondary phone signed into that same iCloud acct so they can mirror one another
@@FamilyTech so then there is no way to monitor more than one child? Do you recommend Bark to monitor messages (mirroring) and the family sharing to lock them out of apps they cant use and set time limits? Can we also use a tablet device rather than another iphone?
You don’t need a different iphone. Your internet provider can show you search history even after it’s been deleted. All messages, even deleted ones, are available upon request from phone provider. Snapchat and TikTok will provide you with complete logs of who your child has been in contact with, messages, and every video they view. If they’re very young I’d check this without their knowledge. If they’re later teens I’d let them know you could find this all out if you wanted to but give some privacy
You can't take back the approval of an app that you previously approved, but you CAN put a 1min time limit on the app so that they can't access the app. :)
Great advice, thank you. All these children on here talking about what a parent should do. Wait til you have your own and then make the necessary decisions based on your experiences with your kids. As a First Responder, 911 Dispatcher I know all the dangers and crazies out there. There is nothing wrong with monitoring a minor who is so naïve and susceptible to the lies and traps people set up for them out there. If you make your child aware of the dangers, have an open dialogue, set up some ground rules, and let them know that you will be monitoring from time to time, there should be no trust issues on either side.
@@basedcompletionist1685 it’s invasion until you find out your child snuck someone into your house while you are at work then all that goes out the window!!
@@apexanomalies626 if you just wanted a child to control it, not having had it and if you didn't want any children or/and not pay extra bills, then not having done it, which is very simple, there are MILLIONS of methods
Thanks for the advice, my question is that I am using iPhone already do I still need to get another iPhone for the screen monitoring or I can use my own iPhone? Because I am planning of getting an iPhone for our teenager Son. Thx 🙏🏽
Honestly, any teen living in 2022 would know their technology much better than the parent. I’m sure they’d find a way to do what they do. In fact, these teens are so tech savvy they would probably be able to have full access to their phone while cleverly masking the changes so the parent doesn’t see them.
Perhaps this is correct... however my teen will have to climb over me to get to it. I'm not going to make it easier for her, As a previous poster mentioned each child is different. As I said to my kids, I'm going to be here for you - in the capacity that you personally need. If you cannot wake up on time to get to school then I will be here to help make that happen. If you are able to get to school on time then I'm here to support that as well.
@@jkfiore2144 My grandson is quite tech smart which makes it hard. he is in special needs and that's why i need to set up a phone i bought him correctly. I already got duped when we let him have GTA 5 ! there is way to many adult games out there that poise a real danger for trusting children.
I appreciate your in-depth and practical videos. I'm a Mac user, but we've always had android phones. We just got our oldest an iPhone because it's what the cool kids have. We're trying Bark, but even with Bark and screen time, we don't have near the controls and information that we have with Family Link. If Apple would at least make an Android app that would allow parents to manage screen time and family sharing from an Android phone, that would be helpful. For now I have to physically go to my MacBook to approve app installs, seems like Apple could make this a lot more practical for real parents, not just everybody who has only/all iPhones.
Hi - I'm in a similar boat. Do you use family time to allow and block certain apps and Bark to mirror the messages? I agree android is so much better at this, but same situation that teens don't fit in without an iphone! Did you create them separate accounts or log into yours?
@@erinsenel5363 I use Bark to monitor social and message activity, and also I use the schedule within Bark to block certain apps at certain times of the day. I use Apple Screen Time to block some apps before/after certain hours, and to limit time spent on certain apps. There's some overlap, it's not a great setup, and it's much more of a pain to adjust compared with Google Family Link. I do value the monitoring that Bark does. I remain really annoyed with Apple that the clunky Screen Time interface is deeply embedded in Mac OS and iOS, I think it's ridiculous that there's no Android app to administer the settings, or at LEAST a browser-based access option.
I am an Android user but we were forced to get the iPhone as you said it is the cool thing for kids nowadays I got an iPod to mirror everything my son does on the other hand with the screen time you can block any apps and pretty much make the phone useless at certain time. You can add or remove all the apps that are going to be working after a certain time example my son phone doesn't work from 10:30 p.m. to 7:05 Monday through Friday on those times I meant - night the only functions on the phone that are available to use are the phone to make a phone call and iMessage and iMessage I have it mirrored to the iPod so I can see everything he types and if he wants to be on the phone through the night be my guest at 8:00 a.m. on summertime and 5:30 a.m. during the school year he needs to be up and running like any other human being he's 17. He has three and a half hours daily for Snapchat two and a half hours daily for tick tock and 1 hour of Instagram using his words Snapchat is a texting app just like you would use to text your friends to , TikTok it's pure gossip funny videos wasting time and people can send you bad videos, and Instagram is used to stalk people if you will I hope it helps.
If you no longer want them to be able to use an app you once allowed, you can actually remove the app from their allowed apps in the parental controls.
Currently all my daughter can do is call, text, and FaceTime specific contacts on her phone 11, and that’s it. It can be done. It’s one of the reasons I chose the iOS device.
@@stephanieparrott7440 trust me its always way they can bypass this (once they care enough to) This might work when their like 8.... But an 8 year old most likely care to do nothing to crazy anyway
great channel and very useful contents, many thanks for your efforts, may i ask when setting up the mirroring device you mentioned that it has to use the same Apple ID Account (child one), but does it need the same SIM card and number ? i.e. i have to set up the two devices one after the other using same Apple ID, SIM card then do the recommended setting changes ?
A kid is a kid and that’s part of being a parent. And that’s why these kids this generation is fed up they have no parents give a shxxt about what their kids doing. when they 18 then they can do what they want but as long as a parent is providing for that kid then that’s how it is simple as that.
Okay I set up my parental controls just like you said in the video. However I cannot find the option for text message forwarding in my 13yo’s phone. I’m on the same screen as mine in settings but there is no option. Do I need to adjust a parental control to make this appear and then change it back?
Also, the iMessage is blurred out where I cannot toggle from my 13yo phone. Is this a communication limit control problem? I need help! Trying to screen mirror from her iPhone 14 to my old iphone. I think it’s an iPhone 6. Is this model too old?
If I mirror their iphone, can Bark monitor the mirrored phone in real time if it is home and on the home wifi? Would that get around the delay when they are out of the house, not on home wifi?
Great video. I'm in the IT field and my niece (she's an adult) needed to track her daughters activities. Sending her your video saved me from writing a long email. Comprehensive and to the point.
To the point???? Couldn’t have gone in more circles than a merry go round, I don’t think yanks have it in them to make a RUclips vid that’s to the point, can’t make bank if u don’t go on & on & on n on!! 😂
@@Sonicboomthy3 until your an adult your “business” is your parents business as well because they have legal guardianship over you and are responsible for you.
@@switcheezyI personally have no problem with them seeing what I’m viewing as long as they don’t constantly stalk me and block my ability to download apps like my parents do, but of course the kids who are stupid and don’t know what tf they are doing online are gonna get all the freedom and the kids like me with straight A+ are gonna be constantly stalked😭
@@maxcamp6 If they read the messages then that is a problem, but other things like looking at their photo gallery, seeing their apps, etc is not a problem. Depending on how much the parent trusts their child, reading messages might be necessary. Parents who read the messages and think they are protecting their kids are so wrong because I know someone who doesn't have a phone so they use their moms to talk to irl friends meaning their mom probably readings the messages, the people they text on that phone are probably informed of that, meaning they know what they can say and cant say. As soon as they meet up with their friend in real life, they do inappropriate things together without their parents knowing. Reading the messages does not do anything to prevent that.
I’m confused. You mentioned not using the same Apple ID as your child but when you showed how to set up mirroring for kids over 13, you said to make sure both phones are on the same iCloud. Isn’t that the same Apple ID?
just found this video , can you tell me if my kid finds the settings for mirrored and turn it off? version told me that even if I use family sharing on the kids phone they can just delete the app or change settings or turn it off ? i just wanted to know who they communicate with , stop them from listening to the death metal music, and videos and what websites they use thank you for any advice.
You can see everything they search by contacting your internet service provider. Your phone company can show you deleted messages as well. Restrict the Spotify and Apple Music in the app.
Thanks to this my parents can see whatever I do
🤣🤣 that’s good to many bad influences in this world. They just want the best for you.
Yeah it sucks
@@heather7314
Hardly
Parents who care that their kids are not stolen by creepy bad people will be applauded someday by you. Be grateful that you have parents who care ❤️
@@rachelczumaya2806
That’s not caring, thats fucking stalking
My 14 year old sister decided that she was going to be… “extra” and this video is extremely helpful. Thanks, now we can get her right. In no way should a 14 year old be talking to or trying to meet a 18 year old or an adult. Honestly I said trash the phone but I’ve been told to “stay in my lane”.
Sister is young and dumb! She’ll be thanking yall in 5 years instead of crying over her mistakes like most 20 year old girls lmfao
Is it possible to use my iPhone and just set it up to where they can’t see my screen? & I can just turn it off and on… buying a whole new phone is ridiculous just for this
There is not a "text message forwarding" option on my sons iphone 13. Help! Thanks great videos!
Question... for mirroring you said make sure to be using the same account on both devices but my kids phone has his account. And mine has mine. How would I do this?
Lol because this is straight up fraud. It's not parental control. Apple doesn't have this function. You just fool Apple account that you have two devices
Thx for the attempt. It's very good for kids under 13 but doesnt work for over 13s.
Has all this technology, internet and smartphones really made our world better or made us smarter?
I'm ready To go back to the eighties when we didn't have all this cr@p.
Same. It has made a bunch of zombie addicts out of us. Phone addiction is a real problem that is hurting everyone by destroying real world interaction. Not to mention how social media has fueled the lust for fame and clout that has everyone doing everything for attention. It’s a very serious problem.
Thank you so much for this! I know many disagree with monitoring kids' screen activity, but it actually saved my kid's life. I'd really appreciate it if you could help me with some troubleshooting issues: 1. Why do we need Family Sharing to mirror? Can't we just set up message forwarding between 2 devices with same apple id w/o Family Sharing? 2. Why do we toggle off message on the icloud of 2nd device? 3. The second device won't let me checkmark the phone number, just the email in send & receive. When I try to checkmark the phone number, it keeps saying: "waiting for activation" 4. In my child's phone, the text message forwarding option sometimes disappears from the settings. I tried toggling imessage on and off but it doesn't change anything. 5. Also, why might there be a huge delay (a few days to a week) in the 2nd device receiving the messages? THANK YOU.
The family sharing part is just to manage the device. So you can approve app installs and set time limits, it's independent of the mirroring.
The reason you toggle off icloud is so if a message is deleted on the child's device, that delete won't come through to the mirrored device. if it's syncing with icloud it will delete in both places.
I'm not sure on #3. I have not encountered that issue. Maybe do a factory reset on the mirroring device and start over?
On 4, your child might be disabling it?
There shouldn't be a delay. It should be instant. So maybe check again after you reset the mirroring device and see if it's still an issue.
How did it save their life?
A moment of silence for all the teenager's lives that are made miserable by this lady
my poor brother
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
It will not let you mirror without setting up two-factor auth. But when you do that don't the codes get sent to the monitored phone? Please let me know how to fix this?
I love your channel and your content. Very helpful, thank you! Some of us are tied to Apple devices for specific reasons, so we don't really need to hear how unfortunate iPhones are for teens. We know there are pros/cons, but thank you for making this so easy and well explained!
Do a video with the different features if you set it up for kids under 13 and kids over 13
If you go to Content and Privacy Restrictions and turn it on, you can actually select "don't allow" for installing, deleting and in-app purchases. So if you've taken away an app that's already been downloaded, as long as this feature is turned on, they can't re-install apps. I also always require a password and my screen time password locks their account, so they can't make adjustments.
This is very helpful information. Thank you.
you can also put a limit on that app of use 1 minute that stops it from functioning
I need more info from you!! I didn’t fully understand the instructions
Almost 4mins until she give information worth your time! OMG!!!!
Does the mirroring work for iMessages only, or non iPhone text messages as well. (The green ones)
Not sure but it should work
Can you use a macbook as the monitor device rather than iphone?
My question is can this mirroring work on I touch or iPad? Or does it have to be on a iPhone?
Im looking for a tutorial on how to get rid of the controls,
Same 💀
Notice how she said KIDS. I’m almost 20 years old and I just found out my parents broke into my phone and started monitoring it
at that point just buy a new phone for yourself bruh
@@julia-qk5hmthey use your Google account not your phone
Can I use an iPad as a secondary device?
When people ask me about locking down iPhones, I tell them step 1 - replace it with an android and then you'll have an easier time locking it down. I'm not an iPhone fan. They are more secure out of the box, but you can make an android device even more secure than iPhone in the end.
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Androids are horrible for monitoring teens it allows them to change their parental settings at 13 whereas iOS does not it doesn’t matter the age.
As a teen I would just jailbreak the Android
iPhones can be jailbromen as well but I’d have to wait for a jailbreak for latest update
However once your child is old enough to jailbreak there phone it’s probably time for you to lift the restrictions anyway
Do you already have a video for how a parent with an iPhone can monitor a child on android?
I get the “no privacy” comments on here but personally I love these features since I use them for my grandmother’s phone. She doesn’t know how a lot of things work and I just want to keep her safe online. It is actually a very helpful tool. In he past she has purchased things accidentally and she has filled out personal information on sketchy websites, this keeps her safe. I can only imagine the same goes for some children. (especially
Wtf your grandmother is a grown women she can do what she wants
"Older" grandparents/parents are pretty much an older versions of 10 year olds. They are so trusting and naive that you have to put up safety guards to keep them safe from themselves. It's one thing to tell them about the dangers out there but if they don't care, they will do it anyway.
wondering if video creator made bots to comment this because I’ve seen this exact comment on another one of her videos
@@bushkunacy9092 thats slightly creepy but no I’m not a bot
how do you change a child account change to adult if they turn 14? and how to change their individual password?
I think that every family and kid is unique and there should be no universal rules. However, children only are given the amount of privacy necessary for their safety. No more no less. Some kids need a lot more supervision than others. But all kids need supervision period
Nah their parents do
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Agreed
Agree
Thanks to people like this we have no privacy when some of us are the age were we need it but have “over protective parents”
My parents added this and I’m 17 I COULDNT SVEN COOK ON THE STOVE UNTIL I WAS 15
@@chiyohh'm turning 13 and the only reason I have this is bc I got into a fight with friends! I was crying but the reason why is bc confrontation scare me and that is BECUAS OF MY PARENTS! They are good parents but they don't know how deep they hurt me sometimes. I just want these controls removed completely bc they are an inconvenience whenever I make a new account. I know how to be safe on the internet. If it wasn't for my aunt I wouldn't even be able to download apps and would have time limit.
“why does no one love me”
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
does an ipod or ipad work as a secondary device?
Giving your kids a challenge is always good lol they will figure out a way around this
i found the easiest method, just restart the phone if its a 3rd party app the phone first focuses on system apps and you can delete it
You can’t hide from the cloud.
@@ashleyjordan8345 I most certainly can and do🤣
@@Dagamochujekno it’s not. It’s a system feature. It’s not an app😂
How do I connect my kids call and messages on her tablet to enable her call when I am away
So how does my phone work with all of this? I get the extra phone and how it’s great for seeing exactly what my child is texting, but I don’t want to carry around 2 phones with me at all times. Can I also use my own phone to at least make changes to downtime and limit apps, contacts, etc? If so, how do I setup the family sharing on my phone? The video seems to just show the child’s phone and the junk phone.
Can you please give instructions with 3 phones?
I also noticed that you were using the nice phone (child phone) to add an account and that there were already several accounts on the phone. Is my child’s phone supposed to be the hub for all the accounts, or were you implying that the nice phone in that segment of the video was now the parent phone?
give ur kid some privacy. that’s all i can say❤
I’m looking for a way to access an app on another phone. Is there a way to do that
Could I please offer an alternative to this? You don't need to take away your child's privacy to keep them out of trouble. Just talk with them about dangers and ask them about their friends and make sure they aren't hanging out with the wrong crowd, but there's no reason to spy on them. The only thing you're doing by spying on them is teaching them to resent you. With a child and parent relationship, the key is good communication, not a parent spying on them.
Finally a good parent that cares about their privacy cause if you add screen time to your kids phone.
1- we bypass it every time
2- Your kids will never trust you and will lie to you 24’7
3- Strict parents create sneaky kids
4- when I was 15 I had a job and still couldn’t text my friends past 8:00 wtf at that point I just bought a phone (parents never found out)
THANK YOU! My parents only put the app on bc I "chat all day" THATS JUST ME TALKING TO MY FRIENDS NORMALLY! IT DOESNT STOP ME FROM STUDYING OR SMT! They want me to be more social and they say this.
@@chiyohhCan you tell me how to bypass it?
@@CheetixGlitch diabale the vpn
My question is: when setting up the mirroring, I understand the adult account needs to be logged into both phones. Once you’re done, do you sign out and then sign in the kid and voila? Or do you stay logged in????
Hello. Thank you for all you help. My daughters phone doesn’t have text message forwarding. How can fix this?
There's nothing u can do to fix it
U can’t check texted messages
What is the difference if my kid is invited with his own apple number or I register him?
If you’re desperate about not letting them re download an app. You can actually remove access to the entire App Store.
They can’t re download a previously approved app if they can’t access the store at all.
Until they find out what an APK is
I am lost Can someone please explain to me the monitor device is the parent device and the monitor ring is the child phone? Thank
My parents use this as a punishment. They will turn off my screen time until 11:59 and it will turn back on at 12. they also take away my communication limit and i cant text anyone except the people in my family. I failed a class with a 69 (not for the whole year) and i've had these restrictions for 3 months. I'm 16. I get wanting to discipline your kids but I feel like this isnt the way to go. same thing with teenagers still having this on their phone. give them some freedom, trust them a little bit.
omg same they use this as i punishment and now it’s summer break💀still no social media
These parents suck btw wanna know how to bypass it?
Lmao I’m 17 and I just bought my own phone 💀
My parents overreacted to me crying in an online argument with my friends bc of a reason they caused and put the app on me and deleted all my socials. I got em back a few days later but still
@@CheetixGlitch my parents wouldn’t even let me have socials 💀
I wouldn’t go below an iPhone 11 so that you can set up passkeys if you want to, adding a physical element
Glad my parents were never like this but I got a phone on my sister account and I think she be in my business. So needed to investigate before I confront her. Thanks for the tips.
I went through my 13 year old phone and discovered all her friends are smoking pot, eating edibles, caping, researching eating disorders, cutting themselves and poly relationships. 😳
@@JmeUconnsuperfan lmaooooooo i told my mom personally i was into poly so she didnt need to reach. If i was suicidal i could come to her. But some kids simply dont feel comfortable doing so.
@@JmeUconnsuperfan I’m so sorry. I hope they grow out of it.
@@JmeUconnsuperfan theres nothing wrong with being polynamorus
@@JmeUconnsuperfan that happened
Can I manage the kid's iPhone from a Macbook?
The iPhone SE (gen2) still gets iOS updates and is a very nice phone. Note that iPhone SE (gen1) is now end of life. I use the SE gen2 personally and its based on the iPhone 6S and its a great phone. I particularly like that its small size and long battery life and that I get all the iOS updates. The new iPhone SE (gen3) is also a good choice and has a larger screen and is also more affordable than a standard iPhone. It has the same exact OS but just not all the hardware bells and whistles of other more expensive iPhones.
I myself using 5s from end of 2013, same reason as you are. It does the same as larger and more expensive phones, but smaller and easier getting into the pockets. Just a battery started to die much faster. It doesn't get updates, so no unexpected bug will come to the phone.
Hi, I didnt understand how you got the same iCloud account in both devices? could you please help me? thank you
Thanks for telling me how parents do this. So now I can prevent my parents from doing this
That’s what I’m here for lmfao
haha that's what i'm here for too
My parents added it and I had enough when I was 16 so I just bought my own by having a candy business at high school
I’m having an issue. In the beginning you show setting up a family account but then the phones have to be signed into the same iCloud ID to turn on mirroring. How do I have her signed into her account and have mirroring? Otherwise she has access to controls?
Parents that do these types of things are the reason why kids grow up to hate them especially if you’re already an adult and your parent turns your internet off, put trackers on you etc.
I know the "cool-parent" approach is "I don't hide things from my kids-they're gonna hear about it anyway!" Except one psychologist after another tells you it's bad for kids to experience most of what the internet and social media are offering. Cool-parents are usually just lazy, ignorant parents who will never realize the damage they allowed to happen. But at least they're cool.
There has to be a balance between freedom and boundaries
So why are you here?
👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
I just purchased my 10 yr old daughter an iPhone XR for this upcoming Christmas, nd this is helpful for sure
Conversations are not supposed to be monitored between the opposing parent and child when you are divorced, and some people use these devices for the wrong reasons …. Esp when you have a controlling ex Which is awful
can I just use my iPhone that I already use as my phone, for the monitoring device?
good job you just made kids not trust their parents even more🎉🎉🎉
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Will they be able to see that I've put this on his phone If he already has stuff on it. I really don't want him to know I did it.
Great video . All I did and was much less work was sign into my daughters iTunes account on a second phone. I didn’t need to go through all that extra process. I have access to EVERYTHING on her phone through the monitoring iPhone 7. I see her messages, call logs , emails , photos, notes, calendars, apps, …. Literally EVERYTHING.
Also, she is not allowed to be on social media. THERE IS NOTHING SOCIAL ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA.
iTunes or iCloud account? Which did you sign into?
Yeah but when she gets older she will be smart enough to bypass this when she care enough to have privacy these kids aren't dumb 😂
you say that now but when your children send you for a walk you will not see it like that 😂
@@densincomprehend8879 you say that now but when your children send you for a walk you will not see it like that 😂
@@Mary-zb6df because ppl around me who had strict parents and over protected parents dont always end well.
You think you helping the child but sometimes it can backfire later on
What if we have different phone carriers?
Great video, is it possible setting a 2 hours usage per day? I mean without setting a downtime, just two hours within the whole day
Bruh
unless itsa young child.... just no
2 hours !!!?
3 hours
As a parent, this is to low for the child, give em at least 5 hours
So you need the same iCloud account on both devices?
Why would you read your kids text messages!? 😭
That’s how u get in a nursing home 💀
Responsibility of being a parent you have no idea the amount of predators out there posing to be a child themselves
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
in order to do this would i need the mirroring iphone to also be connected to cell service?
This information was somewhat helpful. All due respect, it’s difficult to say you want to help all parents, but them talk negatively about a device that is a big player in the market that’s also known to have better protection against hackers than android devices. That is a plus for Apple. My wife and I have Apple devices and family sharing, so it makes sense to get our 12 y.o. An iPhone. This video is outdated with iOS15 now available which addresses many of the issues you mentioned as of (I assume) iOS13, since you mentioned this in an example. Screen time can be managed, app downloads can be prevented altogether, share location can be enabled, settings can be protected by a code and of course the first line of defense is always going to be good communication and trust with your child. Thanks for the tip on the mirroring. I can see how that would work for text.
This video was created with iOS 15 already out. All of what I said is still valid. Parents can choose whichever device they prefer, but for the most comprehensive parental controls available, the child's device should be Android. I only talk negatively about it due to the limitations in the operating system to monitor the device. Apple can do much better here.
Having said that. I completely agree with you. Good communication is an absolute must when trying to protect your kids on technology.
@@FamilyTech Sorry but that is simply not true and as you stated yourself you are NOT a really an apple user, and that speaks volumes. Five deadly venomz comment spot on. Its naive to think that Android has a monopoly over this issue compared to Apple.
I'm wondering if Family Sharing changes when children turn 13? My daughter is 12 and turns 13 in April.
I just want to say this to parents everywhere watching this. By doing this, your taking something from your child that they love and that can bring them joy, Apple realizes this in the fact that they respect peoples privacy just like parents expect children to respect them, it’s without question.
I get the respect the privacy aspect. However, they are under the authority of the guardian until they are old enough to move on their own. Having children with so much access without some type of limitation is a scary idea. The things that are just a few types and taps away are endless and not always beneficial to them
Yes! This is soooo true!
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Young kids are not entitled to privacy while accessing the world at large on their devices ! It’s like letting them raid your drinks and cigarettes cabinet and respecting their privacy! OMG or giving them the ok to just go out at night should they wish to…
The whole point of privacy is not to take away what kids enjoy but to protect them from themselves and those that mean them harm which inevitably will take away something that they “enjoy”! But that is secondary to the protection offered them by their GUARDIAN aka parent!
You privacy zealots have no common sense!
Limited to no privacy when I am responsible for my kids well being. It's possible to give them some privacy and also maintain some level of control just in case.
The sons iPhone could be the iPhone I use or does it need to be a second iPhone with no phone service?
Hello. Question: I got a bit confused as you first mentioned you do not suggest signing in to the monitored device with my iCloud but then when you get to the steps of mirroring the monitored/monitoring phone, you mention to make sure that the iCloud accounts are the same on both phones. Can you please clarify? Thanks!
Yes, it needs to be the CHILD's icloud account on both their phone and the monitoring phone.
@@FamilyTech Great, thank you very much for the update. Take Care!
You as the parent don’t want to have your iCloud acct logged into your child phone because your messages Pictures etc will be accessible to your child.
You sign them up with their own iCloud acct and have that secondary phone signed into that same iCloud acct so they can mirror one another
@@FamilyTech so then there is no way to monitor more than one child? Do you recommend Bark to monitor messages (mirroring) and the family sharing to lock them out of apps they cant use and set time limits? Can we also use a tablet device rather than another iphone?
@@FamilyTech how do you do this if the child is over 13 years old and they have their own apple id? any help, is greatly appreciated!
Did I misunderstand, if I have three children I need to get addition 3 more phone to control theirs?
You don’t need a different iphone. Your internet provider can show you search history even after it’s been deleted. All messages, even deleted ones, are available upon request from phone provider. Snapchat and TikTok will provide you with complete logs of who your child has been in contact with, messages, and every video they view. If they’re very young I’d check this without their knowledge. If they’re later teens I’d let them know you could find this all out if you wanted to but give some privacy
i bet this has tons of dislikes but since the button is gone we can’t see how bad it is
yea probably like 1 million dislikes
Can I just use my Iphone to do mirroring for my chid's iPhone?
No. It has to be their own apple ID, or they would get your texts as well
You can't take back the approval of an app that you previously approved, but you CAN put a 1min time limit on the app so that they can't access the app. :)
THANK YOU !!! thats awesome. it's hard to research a app when you have a 12 year old asking for it over and over again.
I don’t have the text message forwarding on my iPhone 13.. do I have to toggle something on to see that option?
Great advice, thank you. All these children on here talking about what a parent should do. Wait til you have your own and then make the necessary decisions based on your experiences with your kids. As a First Responder, 911 Dispatcher I know all the dangers and crazies out there. There is nothing wrong with monitoring a minor who is so naïve and susceptible to the lies and traps people set up for them out there. If you make your child aware of the dangers, have an open dialogue, set up some ground rules, and let them know that you will be monitoring from time to time, there should be no trust issues on either side.
Yeah we are telling you how to treat us. We are the perspective
Do I create a child account on my phone or on the one I'm giving my kid?
If they are over 13,create it on their phone, under 13 create it on yours.
Thank you, most helpful. Not sure why ppl have to leave rude comments.
Because it’s an invasion of privacy. Kids/teens need to be respected and trusted the same as adults.
@@basedcompletionist1685 it’s invasion until you find out your child snuck someone into your house while you are at work then all that goes out the window!!
@@basedcompletionist1685 Every kid/teen like you think that but sorry that's not the real world lol
@@apexanomalies626 if you just wanted a child to control it, not having had it and if you didn't want any children or/and not pay extra bills, then not having done it, which is very simple, there are MILLIONS of methods
@@TheBuilderPro2025 your comment was feedback. Telling her shes wrong for making a simple video in a nasty tone using unnecessary language is rude
Thanks for the advice, my question is that I am using iPhone already do I still need to get another iPhone for the screen monitoring or I can use my own iPhone? Because I am planning of getting an iPhone for our teenager Son. Thx 🙏🏽
You cannot monitor with your own phone. You would need a 3rd
@@FamilyTech Wow 😯 that’s too much
Honestly, any teen living in 2022 would know their technology much better than the parent. I’m sure they’d find a way to do what they do. In fact, these teens are so tech savvy they would probably be able to have full access to their phone while cleverly masking the changes so the parent doesn’t see them.
Perhaps this is correct... however my teen will have to climb over me to get to it. I'm not going to make it easier for her, As a previous poster mentioned each child is different.
As I said to my kids, I'm going to be here for you - in the capacity that you personally need. If you cannot wake up on time to get to school then I will be here to help make that happen. If you are able to get to school on time then I'm here to support that as well.
im 14 and i installed macos onto my old microsoft laptop, and my dad who has a job in coding said i wouldnt be able to do it 💀
@@jkfiore2144 My grandson is quite tech smart which makes it hard. he is in special needs and that's why i need to set up a phone i bought him correctly. I already got duped when we let him have GTA 5 ! there is way to many adult games out there that poise a real danger for trusting children.
Would I need to stay logged on their iCloud account in order for my child’s msg to fwd to my phone?
I appreciate your in-depth and practical videos. I'm a Mac user, but we've always had android phones. We just got our oldest an iPhone because it's what the cool kids have. We're trying Bark, but even with Bark and screen time, we don't have near the controls and information that we have with Family Link. If Apple would at least make an Android app that would allow parents to manage screen time and family sharing from an Android phone, that would be helpful. For now I have to physically go to my MacBook to approve app installs, seems like Apple could make this a lot more practical for real parents, not just everybody who has only/all iPhones.
Hi - I'm in a similar boat. Do you use family time to allow and block certain apps and Bark to mirror the messages? I agree android is so much better at this, but same situation that teens don't fit in without an iphone! Did you create them separate accounts or log into yours?
@@erinsenel5363 I use Bark to monitor social and message activity, and also I use the schedule within Bark to block certain apps at certain times of the day. I use Apple Screen Time to block some apps before/after certain hours, and to limit time spent on certain apps. There's some overlap, it's not a great setup, and it's much more of a pain to adjust compared with Google Family Link. I do value the monitoring that Bark does. I remain really annoyed with Apple that the clunky Screen Time interface is deeply embedded in Mac OS and iOS, I think it's ridiculous that there's no Android app to administer the settings, or at LEAST a browser-based access option.
@@FrankPiacitelli And there is this giltch that I discovered that on settings you can change the timezone
I am an Android user but we were forced to get the iPhone as you said it is the cool thing for kids nowadays I got an iPod to mirror everything my son does on the other hand with the screen time you can block any apps and pretty much make the phone useless at certain time. You can add or remove all the apps that are going to be working after a certain time example my son phone doesn't work from 10:30 p.m. to 7:05 Monday through Friday on those times I meant - night the only functions on the phone that are available to use are the phone to make a phone call and iMessage and iMessage I have it mirrored to the iPod so I can see everything he types and if he wants to be on the phone through the night be my guest at 8:00 a.m. on summertime and 5:30 a.m. during the school year he needs to be up and running like any other human being he's 17. He has three and a half hours daily for Snapchat two and a half hours daily for tick tock and 1 hour of Instagram using his words Snapchat is a texting app just like you would use to text your friends to , TikTok it's pure gossip funny videos wasting time and people can send you bad videos, and Instagram is used to stalk people if you will I hope it helps.
One other question - does the monitoring device have to be an iPhone? Does it work if the second device is an iPad?
it has to be an iphone
@@blacknova5939 Any idea why it a would have to be an iPhone? iPads have iMessage ability. I thought I read elsewhere you can use either.
It does not have to be a iPhone if your going to use a iPad make sure you get one that can still receive updates
If you no longer want them to be able to use an app you once allowed, you can actually remove the app from their allowed apps in the parental controls.
Currently all my daughter can do is call, text, and FaceTime specific contacts on her phone 11, and that’s it. It can be done. It’s one of the reasons I chose the iOS device.
@@stephanieparrott7440 whats wrong with you
@@stephanieparrott7440 trust me its always way they can bypass this
(once they care enough to)
This might work when their like 8....
But an 8 year old most likely care to do nothing to crazy anyway
@@anthonyacevedo-nolfi285 what’s wrong with you???
@@stephanieparrott7440 seek help
Do I have to have a separate phone line added for the second "clone" phone?
No, it can work on wifi
I’d hate to be this mom’s kid 💀
same bruh
Yeah must be a living nightmare
Well they are children, so it doesn't matter how you feel.
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
Can you use an iPad instead of a seconded iPhone?
great channel and very useful contents, many thanks for your efforts, may i ask when setting up the mirroring device you mentioned that it has to use the same Apple ID Account (child one), but does it need the same SIM card and number ? i.e. i have to set up the two devices one after the other using same Apple ID, SIM card then do the recommended setting changes ?
The monitoring device does not need a Sim card. It can work on wifi
Does one sign out after setting up mirroring so that the child can login under their Apple ID?
Sign out of where?
Alternative title:how to get your kids to resent you
I do not care.. When you grown you can do what you like😂
A kid is a kid and that’s part of being a parent. And that’s why these kids this generation is fed up they have no parents give a shxxt about what their kids doing. when they 18 then they can do what they want but as long as a parent is providing for that kid then that’s how it is simple as that.
Resent or be killed or locked up following idiots. They’re kids they’ll be okay
Title: how to keep your children from being exploited because kids are ignorant
😄 how delinquents want to hide things and don't like to be exposed
Okay I set up my parental controls just like you said in the video. However I cannot find the option for text message forwarding in my 13yo’s phone. I’m on the same screen as mine in settings but there is no option. Do I need to adjust a parental control to make this appear and then change it back?
Also, the iMessage is blurred out where I cannot toggle from my 13yo phone. Is this a communication limit control problem? I need help! Trying to screen mirror from her iPhone 14 to my old iphone. I think it’s an iPhone 6. Is this model too old?
So your restricting privacy great 🤓🤓
Can the mirroring be done on an iPad for a child iPhone? I only have one IPhone and can’t buy another asap.
yes, you can mirror with the ipad.
my gringa please blur out your kids names, this is so dangerous. loved the vid
GRINGA LMFAO
If I mirror their iphone, can Bark monitor the mirrored phone in real time if it is home and on the home wifi? Would that get around the delay when they are out of the house, not on home wifi?
Great video. I'm in the IT field and my niece (she's an adult) needed to track her daughters activities. Sending her your video saved me from writing a long email. Comprehensive and to the point.
Horrible choice👎
To the point???? Couldn’t have gone in more circles than a merry go round, I don’t think yanks have it in them to make a RUclips vid that’s to the point, can’t make bank if u don’t go on & on & on n on!! 😂
@@Flathead_NirvanaMore idiots. Keep stuffing your face with Mac n cheese and playing video games. Details about tech is too much for you.
These parents are desperate to see what their kids are talking about and see what they are looking at😂😭
As they should be
Like god it's our business you don't need to worry about ittt
@@Sonicboomthy3 until your an adult your “business” is your parents business as well because they have legal guardianship over you and are responsible for you.
@@switcheezyI personally have no problem with them seeing what I’m viewing as long as they don’t constantly stalk me and block my ability to download apps like my parents do, but of course the kids who are stupid and don’t know what tf they are doing online are gonna get all the freedom and the kids like me with straight A+ are gonna be constantly stalked😭
if you are doing this to your child you are a terrible parent
For what? Protecting them?
@@boiledeggsk no. for reading through all their messages, destroying their trust and privacy in the process. what’s being protected here?
@@maxcamp6 If they read the messages then that is a problem, but other things like looking at their photo gallery, seeing their apps, etc is not a problem.
Depending on how much the parent trusts their child, reading messages might be necessary.
Parents who read the messages and think they are protecting their kids are so wrong because I know someone who doesn't have a phone so they use their moms to talk to irl friends meaning their mom probably readings the messages, the people they text on that phone are probably informed of that, meaning they know what they can say and cant say. As soon as they meet up with their friend in real life, they do inappropriate things together without their parents knowing. Reading the messages does not do anything to prevent that.
@@boiledeggsk if you cannot trust your child with messages do not let them use it at all
@@maxcamp6 Well that's kinda dumb. Sometimes kids need their phone for important things.
May I suggest as I do to All how to videos is to get to the point faster.
Y’all are controlling and weird… just learn to trust your kid
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
I’m confused. You mentioned not using the same Apple ID as your child but when you showed how to set up mirroring for kids over 13, you said to make sure both phones are on the same iCloud. Isn’t that the same Apple ID?
Umm put yourself in your child’s shoes. This is literally unethical. This will ruin your relationship with your kids.
No, what will ruin the relationship is that little MF continuing to watch/be exposed to, porn on a phone that I pay for.
Can you do how to undo it
Fell bad for the 15 year old
are you on pc? I can tell you how to turn it off!
@@jackjd41 I am on Mac laptop
just found this video , can you tell me if my kid finds the settings for mirrored and turn it off? version told me that even if I use family sharing on the kids phone they can just delete the app or change settings or turn it off ? i just wanted to know who they communicate with , stop them from listening to the death metal music, and videos and what websites they use thank you for any advice.
You can see everything they search by contacting your internet service provider. Your phone company can show you deleted messages as well. Restrict the Spotify and Apple Music in the app.
alternate title: How to build a bad relationship with your kids
Using this to turn off my parental controls